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september 2017/elul-tishrei 5777 a publication of United jewish federation of Volume 19, Number 6 Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien Forgiveness for Failings in A Note from Federation’s Interim Director Friendships A New Year Filled with Joseph and Julia Macy Memorial Lecture Opportunities at CAS Dear Friends, mission and strongly believe Rabbi Saul J. Berman, Holidays, will be “Forgiveness For those of you who don’t that if we work together, Fed- an Orthodox teacher and for Failings in Friendships.” know me, my name is Diane eration will continue to serve thinker who has made contri- “We are delighted to Sloyer and I have recently as the community convener butions to the role of social be able to host one of the begun serving as the interim we so desperately need and ethics in synagogue life and major figures in the Jewish executive director for United deserve. So, why do I believe to the understanding of the community for an important Jewish Federation of Greater and why do I care? applicability of Jewish law to program,” said Michael Feld- Stamford, New Canaan and ‹‹ Need knows no borders contemporary society, will stein, who is helping to coor- Darien. Twenty-three years Your donation to Feder- be the featured speaker at a dinate the event. “We are also ago, my family moved to ation provides care for Jews pre-Rosh Hashanah lecture very proud to have the family Stamford (wow – time flies!) in 70 countries. Through at Congregation Agudath of Joseph and Julia Macy, well- and I worked at UJF as the Diane Sloyer our partner agencies we Sholom on Tuesday, Septem- Rabbi Saul Berman known philanthropists from director of leadership devel- help hundreds of thou- ber 12, at 7:30 pm. His topic, our local area, dedicate this opment. More recently, I served as the sands of destitute Jews in Europe, which will focus on the obligation of lecture in their memory.” executive director of the Federation in the former Soviet Union, and many forgiving individuals before the High See “Friendships” on page 2 Rockland County for more than seven other places in desperate need of years. I’m proud and excited to be back the lifeline we provide. home, and to work with all of you to Israel’s success, in so many areas of Israeli Company Produces Water strategically guide UJF and the local innovation and technology, is a source Jewish community. of great pride for all of us. Nonetheless, As a community, we make a differ- as is often the case, economic gains are from Air ence in the lives of countless people. not distributed equally. Through our By Andrew Tobin On June 19, the South Florida Federation works to repair the world partners, we offer support to a myriad (JTA) – Large parts of Florida are suf- city of Miami Gardens announced it and to keep Jewish life thriving, and of social programs that make a real fering from severe drought, and hurricane was launching a pilot program with we could not do it without support difference, including support to pro- season threatens to make things worse. the company to address its water from people like you. Fourteen years vide job training for new immigrants Enter Water-Gen, an Israeli company problems – the first U.S. city to do ago I endowed my “Lion” gift* and I and intervention programs for at-risk whose technology captures humidity to so. “As representatives responsible continue to be a proud donor today. I youth so they can lead productive lives. extract drinking water from the air. See “Water” on page 18 have always believed in the Federation See “Opportunities” on page 2

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Ribbon Cutting Opens 2017 Back to School Shop With the support of more than 175 community volunteers, nearly 250 disadvantaged Stamford public school children “shopped” free of charge for new clothing and school supplies at the third annual Back to School Shop event held at Davenport Ridge Elementary School. A ribbon cutting ceremony, led by event co-founders Meryl Japha and Jane Levene, with area dignitaries and other supporters, kicked off the event. See article on page 5. L-r, first row: Meryl Japha, co-founder, Back to School Shop; Jane Levene, co-founder, Back to School Shop; and Earl Kim, superintendent, Stamford public schools. Second row: Ricky Arbron, president, United Jewish Federation; Dr. Tamu Lucero, assistant superintendent of schools; Randall Skigen, deputy mayor; and Geoff Alswanger, president, Stamford Board of Education. Third row: Mike Pisseri, principal, Davenport Ridge Elementary School; Meira Rosenberg, Stamford author; Sonya Van Norden, Community Action Agency of Western Connecticut; and Andy George, Stamford Board of Education. (Photo by Beth Shepherd Peters) 2 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2017 UJF President’s Message Dear Friends: partner organizations as well Three years ago, Federation made people, no matter what the political, By the time you receive this as members at large of the significant changes to its allocation economic or social environment. I am issue of The New Jewish Voice, community, was created to process and by-laws, incorporating a proud donor and equally proud to summer will be coming to a better understand the needs some changes to address concerns be serving as your president. I thank close and the Jewish holidays of our Jewish community. It of our donors and partner agencies. you for this opportunity. I cannot do it will be upon us. As we enter is important to note that the At that time, we also committed to alone! I need and value your input and this period of reflection, we presidents come to at least revisit and review the changes after a assistance, so please join a committee, at Federation are fortunate one meeting each year, and three-year period to review what was make a gift to our annual campaign that Diane Sloyer has come may designate a representa- working, and what perhaps was not. and be part of our moving forward. To- on board as our interim exec- tive on their behalf for the That review has begun and I plan to gether we can really make a difference. utive director. Diane and her Ricky Arbron, other meetings. report back to you upon its conclu- As the world around us struggles family have been cherished UJF president I recently returned from sion. As we work toward the High with complex and life-altering issues, I members of the community a conference where Terry Holidays, we will search for ways we hope we all find the strength to make for more than 23 years, and we are Jones, the founder of Kayak.com, can each improve next year. I hope an impact. Wishing you and your fam- grateful she has joined our team and was a keynote speaker. He spoke that you will join our campaign and ilies a peaceful, healthy and joy-filled hit the ground running. Her strong about change and disruption, and be part of the bigger solution. New Year. Federation background makes her well emphasized that one cannot be afraid Jewish Federations play an active Shanah tovah, suited to help us navigate the strategic of change, but should welcome it. role in supporting and protecting our Ricky Arbron thinking and planning that is necessary at this time. Diane has been on a “listening tour” Opportunities Continued from page 1 of our community, and I have been ‹‹ We build global peoplehood and our common tradition and build Year. I look forward to working with speaking with many of you as well, to nurture Jewish life Jewish peoplehood. each of you and, together as a com- gain insight into your thoughts about In addition to caring for those in ‹‹ We mobilize in the face of emer- munity, to implementing our shared Federation. Our goal is to share your need, we nurture Jewish life today and gencies values of tzedakah and tikkun olam. We thoughts with our board members, strengthen it for the future. Because Federation is able to respond quickly are better together. have further discussions and take ap- we believe that cost should not be and effectively when disaster strikes. We Wishing you and your family a peace- propriate actions, as required. Now in a barrier to Jewish identity, we fund are here today, as we have been in the ful, healthy and joy-filled New Year. its third year, UJF’s Advisory Council, schools, camps, preschool programs, past, in case there is an emergency – in Shanah tovah! composed of the presidents of all of our Israel trips like Birthright and MASA, Israel, globally, or in our own backyard. Diane Sloyer international service experiences and The month of Elul arrives with the Interim Executive Director Jewish leadership programs. Your gift traditional blasts of the shofar each [email protected] helps support programs both locally morning, reminding us of the need for *“Lion” gift – a minimum gift of $5,000 CANDLE and internationally that strengthen introspection as we approach the New or more per year to the Annual Campaign. LIGHTING TIMES August 18...... 7:30 pm Friendships Continued from page 1 August 25...... 7:20 pm Born in Hungary and a survivor of the Their two daughters are Toby Schaf- of Judaic Studies at Stern College for Holocaust, Joseph Macy built a business fer, who lives in Stamford, CT, and Bar- Women of Yeshiva University. Under Sept. 1...... 7:08 pm in the United States, and supported bara Friedman, who lives in Englewood, his leadership, it grew into the largest Sept. 8...... 6:57 pm many Jewish causes, including his syna- NJ. They also have many grandchildren undergraduate Department of Jewish Sept. 15...... 6:45 pm gogue, Ahavath Achim, in Fairfield, CT, and great-grandchildren. Studies in the United States. He cur- Sept. 20...... 6:36 pm and the Orthodox Union. “He had a Rabbi Berman was ordained at Ye- rently teaches courses there. passion for life, and possessed an intense shiva University, from which he also From 1984-1990, Rabbi Berman was Sept. 21....after 7:33 pm love and devotion to his family and to received his B.A. and his M.H.L. He the senior rabbi of Lincoln Square Syn- Sept. 22...... 6:33 pm the larger Jewish community,” said Rabbi completed a degree in law at New York agogue in Manhattan. He also serves Sept. 29...... 6:21 pm Daniel Cohen, spiritual leader of CAS. University and an M.A. in political as an adjunct professor at Columbia Oct. 4...... 6:33 pm “Julia Macy, his partner in everything science at the University of California University School of Law, where he that her husband did, was an active and at Berkeley. teaches a seminar in Jewish law. In Oct. 5...... after 7:10 pm much loved member of the Fairfield Rabbi Berman was an early leader in 1997, Rabbi Berman became director Oct. 6...... 6:09 pm Jewish community in her own right.” the Soviet Jewry movement, and a par- of Edah, an organization devoted to ticipant in the Civil Rights movement. the invigoration of modern Orthodox He was present at the demonstrations ideology and religious life. in Selma, AL, in 1965. From 1969-1971, Rabbi Berman is a contributor to t f Rabbi Berman was the spiritual leader the Encyclopedia Judaica and is the Rosh Hashanah Gree ings rom of Young Israel of Brookline, MA, where author of numerous articles, which Judith Roll, Chef/Owner he organized the Torah Community have been published in journals such Project, a study-centered activist setting as Tradition, Judaism, Journal of Jewish for students and young adults in the Studies and others. Boston area. The lecture is free and open to the In 1971, Rabbi Berman was ap- entire community. 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september 2017 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 3 COMMUNITY NEWS A Message from the JCRC Director By Lauren Steinberg ty’s interest in building community and deeply Zionist and looking to support Israel, even Since its inception in April, the Jewish relationships with our neighbors. as we express diverse views on political solutions. Community Relations Council, the public It’s important to stand together with We seek to care for the strangers and less fortunate affairs arm of the United Jewish Federation our peers. But as the sage Hillel stated in among us. We strive to ensure safety and security of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and “Ethics of Our Fathers,” “If I am not for for ourselves and our children in a troubled world. Darien, has been hard at work getting to myself, who am I? If I am only for myself, We recognize the importance of remembering our know our neighbors. The JCRC is made up what am I?”As we embark on our mission people’s history, learning from it and enabling others of volunteers from the area and is chaired of forging alliances and representing the to learn from it. We work to ensure that antisemitism by Peter Lilienthal, of Stamford. We have community, we must first ask: Who are we, is unacceptable today and that no one is hurt by met with priests and ministers, and spent the Stamford, New Canaan and Darien racism or bigotry. We are committed to supporting Lauren Steinberg time at a mosque. We have discussed social Jewish communities? What do we stand for? our communal institutions and aiding the State of justice work organizations that provide And, what can we accomplish together? Israel and Jews abroad. shelter, food, job placements and youth services. We In forming the JCRC, we in the Federation Through programs for our agencies and for the have been in and out of government offices meeting community have begun to answer those questions public on Jewish communal security, Israel education our public officials. Throughout these meetings, the together. We are a community that prides ourselves and advocacy, interfaith partnerships, Holocaust conversation has centered on the Jewish communi- on our acceptance and welcoming of others. We are remembrance and social justice, the JCRC and Fed- eration have been working to act on these important causes. We are eager to work with you – the entire Solving the Mystery community – and to hear from you on how we can be more engaged and better involved. And we want to know how you want to be involved, as well. Please Tracking and Recovering Art Stolen by the Nazis contact me any time with your ideas. I look forward By Susan Sabreen and Sharyn Sarner The speakers come to the story from two very to making an impact together. Have you ever thought about how you would get different angles. One family owned an art business back your family’s art if it had been stolen by the with detailed records about all the art that was stolen, Nazis? The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield while the other had a personal art collection, without County will answer that question at a presentation such records– which meant that the heirs’ first task Deadlines for by two women, Marianne Rosenberg and Alice de in recovering any of their art was simply to find out Picciotto, who are actively involved in finding and and document what they had owned. recovering their families’ looted property, and who The Rosenberg family articles say it’s an extraordinarily difficult effort. To learn Marianne Rosenberg is the granddaughter of the The deadlines for the next three issues of The about the challenges that these two families have art dealer Paul Rosenberg. His gallery, at 21 rue la New Jewish Voice are: encountered, join the Jewish Historical Society on Boétie in Paris, flourished in the 1920s and 1930s, Monday, August 28...... October Sunday, September 24, at the Bruce Museum, 1 Mu- and became known as one of the most important Monday, September 25...... November seum Dr., Greenwich. Complimentary refreshments sources of 19th and 20th-century French paintings, Monday, October 30...... December/Chanukah will be available at 10:30 am and the presentation placing works in museums in both Europe and the Send New Jewish Voice article submissions to will begin at 11 am. The program is free and open United States. Paul exclusively represented numerous Sandy Golove at [email protected] marked “Stamford to the public. However, seating is limited, and artists, including Georges Braque, Marie Laurencin, Voice” in the subject line. Expect an acknowledge- for that reason reservations are recommended to Fernand Léger, Henri Matisse and Pablo Picasso, ment; please re-send if you do not receive one. guarantee a seat. See “Mystery” on page 4

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ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 4 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2017 UConn Judaic Studies’ Fall Friendship Day and Walk Family Fun with Friendship Circle Offerings By Faygie Levy By Rebecca Isenstein November 9, Rev. Dr. Blaine Edele, Back to school is right around The Center for Judaic and Middle pastor of Union Memorial Church in the corner, which means the annual Eastern Studies at UConn-Stamford Stamford, will present “The Parting of Friendship Day and Walk isn’t far is getting ready for its fall semester, the Ways: How Judaism and Christianity behind. On Sunday, October 1, at beginning with its biannual Lunch and Went Their Separate Ways.” 12:30 pm, it will kick off at Westhill Learn Series. The series will commence Lectures in the series are spon- High School. Community members on Thursday, September 28, at noon, sored by local community members, are encouraged to gather up their with “The Politics of Jewish Emancipa- including Nina and Norman Lotstein family and friends, lace up their tion 1780-1918” by Dr. David Sorkin, and Maria Jacobson, and the Jacobson sneakers and join this Fairfield professor of modern Jewish history at Endowment Fund. County tradition. Yale University. In addition to its Lunch and Learn The afternoon event, sponsored On Thursday, October 26, Dr. Series, the Center is preparing for by Friendship Circle of Fairfield Yehuda Mirsky, professor of near east- its annual Louis J. Kuriansky confer- County, brings together people from ern and Judaic studies at Brandeis ence, “The Legacy of Justice Louis D. throughout the Greater Stamford University, makes his first appear- Brandeis and Why He Matters Today.” community to show their support ance in the series with “Rabbi A.I. The keynote speaker will be Dr. Jeffrey for children and teens with special Kook, Founder of the Chief Rab- Rosen of the George Washington Uni- needs and their families. The walk also binate: An Orthodox Revolutionary versity Law School and the National raises funds for Friendship Circle’s and His Lasting Impact.” Mirsky’s Constitution Center. The lecture will year-round programming for people areas of expertise include Jewish take place on Wednesday, October with special needs. Look out for this friendly mascot at thought, Israel and Zionism, study 18, at 7 pm. “One of the things I love most about Friendship Day 2017. of religion and political thought. He To register for the 2017 Fall Lunch Friendship Day is that it is something has written on politics, theology and and Learn Series, the annual confer- families and friends can do together. While Friendship Day and Walk is culture for a number of publications, ence, or for more information about There is literally something for every intended to be a fun, festive commu- including The New Republic and these or other programs of the Center member of the family regardless of nal event, Friendship Circle Director The Economist. for Judaic and Middle Eastern Studies, their age,” says Friendship Circle’s Malya Shmotkin says it also serves a UConn-Stamford’s Dr. Beth Gins- contact the Center at stamfordjudaic- Chanie Kamman. “Plus, when you powerful purpose. “When hundreds berg, professor of political science, [email protected] or 203-251-9525. participate in Friendship Day – of people come together to show will present the third lecture, “From The Center for Judaic and Middle Eastern whether it be through your donation their support for individuals with Moses to Joseph (Lieberman): The Studies at UConn is a recipient agency of or attendance – you are sending a special needs, it shines a light for History of Jewish Participation in the United Jewish Federation of Greater message that individuals of all ages them and their families,” Shmotkin the Political Process” on Thursday, Stamford, New Canaan and Darien, and and abilities are an important part says. “It reminds them that they are November 2. is also supported by donations from the of our community.” not alone, and that they have a whole Closing the series on Thursday, community. There will be myriad events during community behind them that wants the afternoon, including crafts, car- them to succeed.” nival booths and inflatable rides. To learn more about the event, to Jewish War Veterans Keep There will also be music and free donate, or to register, visit www.Friend- food. New for 2017 will be a visit shipDayCT.com or e-mail Malya@ by the Friendship Circle mascot. FriendshipCT.com. Members Informed Nicknamed “The Circle,” the mas- The Friendship Circle is a recipient agency People may be unaware that the Citizen of the Year Award and Schol- cot will be available for photo ops of United Jewish Federation of Greater Department of Defense has decided arship Program. throughout the day. Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. to open up the military exchange The Post meets monthly from Sep- on-line shopping benefit to all tember through June at the Stamford honorably discharged veterans. All Jewish Community Center, 1035 New- members of the Fred Robbins Post field Ave., Stamford. Meetings start at Mystery Continued from page 3 #142, Jewish War Veterans, receive 9:30 am and will be held on September whom he represented for more than Minister Neville Chamberlain signed information just like this when they 10, October 1, November 5, December two decades. In June 1940, the family the Munich Agreement that gave the attend regular meetings. 3, January 7, February 4, March 4, fled Paris and relocated to New York. Sudetenland to Adolf Hitler, the family In addition to keeping members April 8, May 6 and June 3. Members More than 400 works located in Paris had to flee, leaving its possessions, both up to date on current issues that are welcome to come early to enjoy and in two other locations in the South- business and personal, behind. Those affect veterans, each meeting is bagels and lox. west of France, as well as the Rosenberg possessions, including artworks, were highlighted by guest speakers who For more information, contact the gallery archives, were stolen by the Na- confiscated by the Nazis in the days and cover a wide range of topics. Also, Fred Robbins Post at stamfordjwv@ zis. The family remains dedicated to the months following the family’s flight. De as part of its community outreach, gmail.com. The group can also be recovery of the Rosenberg looted art. Picciotto has recently begun her quest the Post sponsors local Boy Scout found on Facebook at Jewish War Vet- The Petschek family to identify, locate and recover the fam- Troop 15 and the annual Stamford erans – Fred Robbins Post 142. Alice de Picciotto is a descendant of ily’s confiscated personal possessions. Czech Jewish industrialist and philan- For additional information, and to thropist Ignaz Petschek, who died in guarantee a seat because space is limit- 1934. His family had large holdings ed, call the Jewish Historical Society at of coal mines and coal companies 203-321-1373, ext. 150, or e-mail info@ throughout the former Austro-Hun- jhsfc-ct.org. garian empire, but they lived mainly The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield in Aussig, Czechoslovakia, in the area County is a recipient agency of United known as the Sudetenland. In Sep- Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New tember 1938, when Britain’s Prime Canaan and Darien.

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For questions and information on current or future services: www.jseniors.org • 203-365-6400 • [email protected] september 2017 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 5 Disadvantaged Elementary Students Enjoy Shopping Spree By Charlesanna Ecker pair of sneakers. “I’m gonna Back to School Shop held its have cool shoes!” enthused a third annual event on July 30 at 6-year-old boy. Davenport Ridge Elementary New this year, Stamford author School in Stamford. Nearly 250 Meira Rosenberg was on hand to children from the Stamford pub- sign copies of her recently pub- lic elementary schools were able lished children’s book, “Indiana to “shop” free of charge for brand Bamboo.” “It was a joy to meet new outfits, school supplies and so many terrific young readers books with the support of more as well as several budding young than 175 volunteers from the authors,” said Rosenberg. community. While the children were busy The day began with a ribbon “shopping,” their parents and cutting ceremony to open the guardians visited the Japha Family 2017 Back to School Shop. Mer- Resource Center where nearly 20 yl Japha and Jane Levene, who local organizations, including the founded and co-chair the event, American Red Cross, Boys and A child watched Stamford author Meira Rosenberg led the ceremony with area digni- Girls Club of Stamford, Schoke autograph a copy of her book. (Photo by Beth Shepherd taries and other supporters. Japha Jewish Family Service, and the Peters. Names of children withheld on request.) welcomed the guests, expressing city of Stamford’s Departments of pride that Back to School Shop A shopper showed off his new sneakers. Health and Social Services, pro- has been able to more than (Photo by Erma Benedetto) vided information about access double the size of the program to community services. in the two short years since the inaugural event. After completing their shopping, the children Levene spoke of the importance of the event to the were escorted back to their parents and guardians, economically disadvantaged children in Stamford, and were able to show off their new clothing and saying, “It is our hope that this program will help to school supplies. give them the enthusiasm and confidence they need Rabbi Jay Tel Rav of Temple Sinai, volunteering to focus on learning.” as a personal shopper for his third year, said, “Bring- Ricky Arbron, UJF president, expressed pride in ing smiles to the faces of these families reminds me UJF’s role in helping Back to School Shop get off the of Rabbi Lawrence Kushner’s teaching that every ground, and Earl Kim, superintendent of the Stam- one of us is, from time to time, a messenger of the ford public schools, remarked that “the outpouring Almighty in disguise with a mission in front of us. I of support for this program is incredible!” am grateful to the organizers of the Back to School At the conclusion of the ribbon cutting cere- Shop for making it impossibly easy to fulfill these Two volunteers helped a shopper find the perfect coat at mony, the Back to School Shop opened its doors mitzvahs – they mean as much to us volunteers as the third annual Back to School Shop event. (Photo by to participants. The children checked in, met a to the students.” Elaine Osowski) “personal shopper” and began to make their way through the shop, stopping to select a winter coat, try on new school clothes, pick out a backpack, and, most exciting for many, choose their new

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Frank Policastro/Owner (203) 323-0507 48 Crescent Street [email protected] Stamford, CT 06905 www.crescentcleaners.com 6 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2017 bits and pieces it’s our story! By Sandy Golove MAZEL TOV Our community has its own story to tell us. Our stories shape the way we see ourselves. To submit infor- Cheryl Frydman and Gloria Green Where have we been? Where are we going? What is our local personality? What perspective mation to Bits and on the engagement of her daughter and do we offer? How are we different from other places? In order to tell our story, the Jewish Pieces, call 203-912- her granddaughter, Marisa Frydman, Historical Society of Fairfield County is pleased to reintroduce its history column. Irwin 9945, or e-mail me at to Scott Forman. Miller, past president, historian and founding member of the Jewish Historical Society, [email protected]. Jill and Arthur Green on the engage- originated the column as a regular feature in The New Jewish Voice. Because of his MAZEL TOV TO ment of their daughter, Dina Green, to love of history, especially local Jewish history, Larry Ginsberg, a board member of the GROWING FAMILIES Greg Celniker, son of Lisa France and Society, is restoring Miller’s column. This column will highlight a local Jewish historical Juliann and Grant Steve Celniker. figure or event. Stay tuned to see how much you remember and how much more there is Allen on the birth of a daughter, Eliza- Melissa Klein and Gabe Felder on to learn about our story. beth May Allen; grandparents are Meryl their marriage. Allen, and Rae-ann and Scott Allen. Richard Redniss on receiving the Lest We Forget Deb and Steve DeNardo on the birth By Larry Ginsberg which sailed from Belgium directly to Citizen of the Year Award from the city of their grandchildren, Kaitlyn Bree “I am the only Cyprus for internment of the Jewish of Stamford. Galin and Liev Jax DeNardo. man in the history of refugees by the British. Heather and Alex Fraser on the birth Laura and Michael Schwartz on the the U.S. Navy who, In May 1948, Shulman arrived in of a daughter, Coraline Fraser; grand- engagement of their daughter, Danielle in only three years, Israel and, due to David Ben Gurion’s father is Dan Levy and great-grandpar- Schwartz, to Jacob Marshall, son of Nan- rose from the rank insistence, took the Hebrew nom de ents are Maggie and Bernie Levy. cy and William Marshall; grandparents of lieutenant to that guerre Shaul Ben Tzvi and helped Caroline and Benjamin Gruenbaum are Shelly and Harold Schwartz. of admiral.” – Paul organize the Israeli Navy, becoming its on the birth of a daughter; grandpar- Betsy and Mike Stone on the mar- Nahman Shulman, “first” commander. Under Shulman’s ents are Bonnie and Jerry Gruenbaum, riage of their son, Daniel Stone, to aka Shaul Ben Tzvi watch, the Navy was able to protect and Jane and Jerry Hughes. Emma Roth. Meet Stamford Larry Ginsberg the coasts of Israel during the War of Liatte and David Lasher on the birth Luba and Harry Weinroth on their born Paul Shul- Independence. of a daughter, Abigail Rina Lasher. 65th wedding anniversary. man, the father of Israel’s Navy. Shulman as commander of the dated Vivian and Irwin Miller on the MAZEL TOV TO B’NAI MITZVAH Born in 1922, the son of a prominent corvette (the smallest rated warship) birth of a great-granddaughter, Sloane Benjamin Isenstein, son of Rebecca Stamford attorney, Herman Shulman, Wedgewood, and later as commander of Brooke. and Lee Isenstein. and a national president of Hadassah, the Israeli Navy, was involved in four Natania and Dmitry Ostrovsky on James Schiff, son of Kara Schiff. Rebecca Shulman, Paul was both major incidents: the birth of a son. Tehila Shaindel Adest, daughter of a dedicated American patriot and 1. The sinking of the Irgun muni- Cheryl and Jonathan Phair on the Abbi and Meir Adest of Modin, Israel; proud Zionist who supported the tions ship Atalena, possibly preventing birth of a daughter, Eleanor Willow grandparents are Lillian and Sandy establishment of a Jewish state in a second civil war between the Haga- Phair. Shapiro. Palestine as a member of the Mahal nah and the Irgun (Issues continue to Roxana and Chris Prieto on the Brent Schwartz, son of Elizabeth and (foreign volunteers). this date as the left wing Israeli Labor birth of a son. Clifford Ortiz-Schwartz. Shulman, a graduate of the U.S. Movement is descended from the Arlene and Carl Rosen on the birth Tani Smart, son of Michal and James Naval Academy, served during World Haganah while the Likud Movement of their grandson, Tobias Oz Saunders. War II as the deputy commander of is descended from Menachem Begin Smart. Rebecca and Michael Rubin on the the U.S. destroyer Hunt in the Pacif- and the Irgun.), Temple Sinai Adult B’not Mitzvah birth of a daughter; grandparents are ic theater. Following World War II, 2. The sinking of the Egyptian flag Sharon and Burt Rubin. Class – Karen Dern, Ronnie Falkenburg, Shulman returned to Stamford and ship Emir Farouk off Gaza, Helena and Stormy Scott on the birth Leslie Schoen and Shelly Welfeld. worked for an import-export firm in 3. The capture of Ein Gedi near the of a son, Oliver Charles Scott; grand- CONDOLENCES New York City. Dead Sea, and parents are Bracha and Jerry Silber. Family of Norman Epstein. Teddy Kolleck, an agent for the 4. The blockade of the Gaza Strip. Raquel Spilka and Eitan Burstein on Frieda Fogel and Howard, Joseph Haganah and later mayor of Jerusa- Following the War of Independence, the birth of a son, Leon Burstein; and Mark Fogel on the loss of her lem, approached Shulman to help Shulman remained in Israel and, in grandparents are Barbara Smith and husband and their father, Sam Fogel. purchase ships to run the British October 1948, became a naval and Ilan Burstein, and Linda Spilka and David Kaplowitz, Jan Kaplowitz blockade to bring Jewish refugees to maritime advisor to Ben Gurion. Ed Spilka. and Jeff Kaplowitz on the loss of their Palestine. Shulman ran a fake shipping Following his return to civilian Rachel and Joshua Troy on the mother, Mildred Kaplowitz. company that purchased American life, Shulman became an engineer birth of a daughter, Abigail Mae Troy; Marty Michelin on the loss of his ships to pick up Holocaust survivors working in Israel and abroad, and, grandparents are Lenore and Michael wife, Lynne Michelin. from Europe and attempt to route in time, a member of the Board of Cooper, and Catherine and Alan Troy. Tina Notik on the loss of her grand- them to Palestine through the British Governors of the Technion, the Israeli Stacey and Daniel Warshaw on the father, Moses V. Habib. blockade. Perhaps the most famous science institute located in Haifa. birth of a daughter, Dylan Rose War- Gary Okun and Jeffrey Okun on ship Shulman outfitted was the Pan Shulman died of heart disease in shaw; grandparents are Laura Markow- the loss of their father, Bernard Okun. Crescent, re-christened the Atzmaut, Haifa in May 1994. itz and Stewart Casper. Beverly Peterman and Amy Schnei- Janette and Dan Woskow on the der on the loss of her husband and her birth of a son, Xavier Avraham Fan- father, Ira Peterman. wick; grandparents are Leslie and Jeff Gail Rudolph and Martin Stern on New Around Town Fanwick, and Lee Fanwick. the loss of their mother, Ruth Stern. Winifred Osagie, math and science teacher – Bi-Cultural UJF Tribute Cards are a Janet Schneider, Bonnie O’Sullivan, Karen Hannigan and Martha Moss Day School wonderful way to connect on the loss of their mother, Bernice Bi-Cultural Day School has announced the appointment with your family and friends Shulman. of Winifred Osagie to its middle school faculty. A resident of Greenwich, Osagie will teach math and science at the and mark any occasion while Simon Streltsov on the loss of his father, Joseph Streltsov. Stamford school beginning this fall. supporting the extraordinary Susan Swidler on the loss of her A graduate of the University of Port Harcourt, Rivers State in Nigeria, with a bachelor’s of science degree in zoology, work of UJF. To send a tribute, mother, Myra Zolotar. Osagie holds a master’s degree from New York University David Todrin on the loss of his go to www.ujf.org. in environmental conservation education. Her areas of mother, Annette Todrin. expertise include nature education recycling awareness, social-emotional development STEM projects, and curric- ulum development. May you and your family She previously served as a math and science substitute teacher with the Greenwich Board of Education, and as a Winifred Osagie seventh grade environmental and earth science teacher and have a sweet New Year student advisor for the Convent of the Sacred Heart in Greenwich. Osagie is a member of the National Science Teachers Association, USA; the Connecticut Outdoor Environmental Education Association; and the Connecti- cut Science Teachers Association. Rabbi Tzachi Posner, Judaic studies teacher – Bi-Cultural Day School Rabbi Tzachi Posner of New York City has been appointed middle school Judaics studies teacher at Bi-Cultural Day School. A graduate of Brooklyn College with a bachelor’s degree in Judaic studies, Rabbi Posner received smicha – ~ Your most affordable choice ~ rabbinic ordination – in June from Yeshivat Chovevei Torah O Rabbinical School in Riverdale, NY. Thomas is the son of the former owner of He previously taught Judaic studies in the middle school Leo P. Gallagher Funeral Home of East Midwood Hebrew Day School and Hebrew language 453 S S C 06902 at the Zvi Dov Roth Academy High School, both located 2033599999 C 2039125454 855 817 0097 in Brooklyn, NY. W “I am honored to join the Bi-Cultural family, and I look *Not affiliated with Leo P. Gallagher and Son* forward to learning both with and from my students,” says Rabbi Tzachi Posner Rabbi Posner. september 2017 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 7 Bi-Cultural Welcomes Israeli Emissaries By Judie Jacobson spectrum of academic abilities. As it does every fall, the An educational psychologist Bi-Cultural Day School commu- with a master’s degree in psy- nity is once again getting ready chology from Hebrew Univer- to roll out the welcome mat for sity, Ofir also holds a bachelor’s a group of Israeli emissaries degree and teacher’s certificate whose mission is to deepen the in oral Torah and Hebrew lit- connection between the Jewish erature from Yaakov Hertzog state and students at the Stam- College. In addition to his ex- ford school. perience as a middle and high “Even though we’re accus- school teacher, he served as an tomed to welcoming Israeli intern educational psychologist emissaries to our campus every Tal Ambar Sivon Alkobi for the regional council of Gush Ofir and Adi Yarchi year, their imminent arrival is Etzion and at the Ilan Therapy role models in how they live their lives and how they always an exciting time for all of us here at Bi-Cul- Center for Kids and Teens. open their hearts and their homes to the Stamford tural,” says the school’s associate principal, Rabbi Like the Yarchis, Tal Ambar and Sivon Alkobi community. I am inspired and excited to work with Yehuda Jeiger, who oversees the BCDS Israeli em- hope to bring Israeli culture, history and tra- so exceptional a cadre of new staff.” issary program. The reason is simple, says Rabbi dition – and Israeli “ruach” (spirit) – into the Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United Jeiger: “The emissaries’ love for Israel is infectious; BCDS classroom, and strengthen the connection Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and it envelops the entire campus. They bring the beauty between students (and their families) and the Darien. of the Jewish state and a pride in our shared Jewish Jewish state. heritage to the hearts and minds of our students Part of a program called “Banot Sherut,” Bi-Cultural hosts end-of-summer and families.” Ambar and Alkobi have chosen to complete the Shlichim (emissaries) Adi and Ofir Yarchi have second year of their two-year national service by “Barnyard Bash” arrived in Stamford from their home in Jerusalem, volunteering at the Stamford school. The scope Bi-Cultural Day School in Stamford will celebrate their three young children in tow. When the school’s of their responsibilities will include everything the end of summer with a “Barnyard Bash” for young doors open in September, Adi will assume her new from tutoring students in Hebrew language to Jewish families. The annual outdoor event will be held role as BCDS’ third grade Jewish studies teacher coordinating the school’s holiday curriculum to Sunday, August 27, from 3-5 pm, on the campus of while Ofir will be the middle school Jewish studies accompanying eighth-graders on their month- the Stamford school, 2186 High Ridge Rd. Admission teacher. In addition, the couple will be players in long trip to Israel. is free and activities are geared for children to age planning the school’s many Israel-related and Jewish A resident of Petach-Tikvah, Ambar complet- 5, though older siblings are welcome. holiday programs. ed her first year of national service working in a Runaround Farm will be on hand, bringing with The academic and professional backgrounds of youth village, helping new immigrants and at-risk them a petting zoo featuring farm animals for chil- both Yarchis suggest they couldn’t be more pre- children and teens. dren to meet and touch; there will also be pony rides. pared for what lies ahead. Adi holds a bachelor’s A native of New Jersey, Alkobi made aliyah in 2009, Among the other activities are animal-themed arts degree in education, special education and arts settling with her family in Haifa. She completed her and crafts, a bounce house and slide, face painting, from Tel Chai College, and a teacher’s certificate first year of national service in Jerusalem, working balloon animals and more. in special education from the Lifshitz College in a school and in a youth club for at-risk children. Families are invited to bring picnic blankets and of Education. She is currently studying toward Rabbi Jeiger stresses the impact the emissaries chairs, and enjoy the live entertainment, an ice cream her master’s in educational consultancy. She has have on the BCDS family and beyond. truck, and kosher snacks and drinks. experience as an elementary and middle school “The shlichim and banot bring Israel to life both on To RSVP, contact Denise Rafailov at drafailov@ teacher and has worked with children with a broad and off campus,” says Rabbi Jeiger. “And they serve as bcds.org or 203-329-2186, ext. 1310. Hand In Hand

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At left: The group was regaled with a presentation by the Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County on the historical roots of the Stamford Jewish Community. Jewish Historical Society volunteers dressed up as well-known Jewish historical figures from Stamford, and explained how this community came to Chapter Two, a program of United Jewish Federation of be, starting with the earliest Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien, hosted a Jewish settlers in the 1700s. summer garden party and high tea at the home of Stephne Behrend. Participants were given a tour of Behrend’s expertly designed garden, along with tips on how to create a beautiful landscape at their own home, without the need for deer fences. Shown are (l-r) Phyllis Osterman, Naomi Hessel and hostess Stephne Behrend. Reading Partners Do It “By the Book” The Herbert and Sarah M. Gibor Reading Part- ners program is starting its 19th year of service to the Stamford community. The current corps of more than 100 volunteers read in all 13 elemen- tary schools, the YMCA and the Fish Church. The mission is to work with children who are “on the cusp” of reading at grade level and encourage them in their literacy skills. “You’ve been thinking about it; you’ve been hear- ing about it for years; you have the time; you just need a push. Here it is – Reading Partners needs you!” said Marlyn Agatstein, Reading Partners director. Chapter Two, chaired by Sari Jaffe and Sue Frieden, aims “Reading Partners is forming its 2017-2018 cohort for to engage women who are retired and empty nesters in the the school year and is looking for individuals who 1. work of Jewish Federation, while at the same time creating Love to read. 2. Derive satisfaction seeing children friendships and having experiences together. Anyone succeed in reading. 3. Can give an hour each week. interested in getting involved in Chapter Two should Checked all three? Then it’s a match.” contact UJF Vice President Rebekah Raz at rebekah@ujf. Gene Schwartz, 10-year reading partner at Still- org or 203-321-1373, ext.102. Shown (l-r) are Gail Trell, meadow Elementary School adds, “You’re helping Barbara Brafman, Raz and Carol Brewer. kids become better than they are. It’s fun and very satisfying to know you’re helping them and their future.” Reading Partners volunteer Ronny Kaplan hugged a child JFS Community Lecture Reading specialists and teachers select the stu- (name held on request). Save the date: The sixth annual Saul Cohen – dents and each reading partner is assigned two Schoke Jewish Family Service lecture will take place students. On the day a reading partner chooses to process is then repeated. “One-half hour may not on Thursday, November 9, at 7:30 pm. The lecture read, the reading partner goes to the classroom, seem like a lot, but for many children, this is the will feature Bruce Feiler, author of six New York picks up the first student and goes to the media only time in the week that someone is reading with Times best sellers, whose topic will be “The Family center or other quiet space. The teacher may hand them alone, talking with them only, asking them Today: Secrets to Stronger Relationships and Greater the reading partner materials to use, the student questions and showing a personal interest,” said Happiness at Any Age.” The lecture is open to the may bring a book, or the reading partner might Agatstein. “The children become attached to their entire community and will take place at the Ferguson choose a literacy game. After spending one-half partners quickly and there is no stigma attached Library. Call 203-921-4161 or visit www.ctjfs.org for hour together, the reading partner returns to the to having this extra reading time. Quite the con- more information. classroom and picks up the second student. The trary – the other students jump at the opportunity to read with reading partners when the regular student is absent.” Don’t have teaching experience? It’s not neces- sary. Reading Partners will train its volunteers and a reading specialist can answer questions about the latest strategies. During the course of the year, Read- ing Partners holds literacy workshops and sends out newsletters. What if a reading partner runs into a problem student or doesn’t feel like they’re making any progress? At each school, there is a team leader, another reading volunteer who is there to guide and support them. In addition, there are reading specialist liaisons at each school who work with the teachers to identify students and assist with brainstorming. Amy Neer, a Westover kindergarten teacher reports, “The volunteers not only help struggling readers build their reading skills, but they serve as role models and boost students’ self-confidence.” Reading Partners is sponsored by the United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. For more information, contact Marlyn Agatstein, director, at 203-321-1373, ext. 115, or [email protected]. The organization is waiting to hear from new volunteers. september 2017 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 9 Carmel Appoints New Board President Carmel Academy has our board in overseeing our Academy’s excellent reputation and spend much of their time playing announced the selection educational mission and en- dedication to professional develop- sports, engaging in programming and of a new president by its suring our school’s financial ment attracts the best educators in the volunteering their time. They are also Board of Trustees. Jonathan strength,” said Evan Levy, field. The future of Carmel Academy longtime members of Congregation Malkin, a Stamford resident Carmel Academy’s immedi- is bright and I look forward to the Agudath Sholom. and business owner, Carmel ate past president. work ahead.” In 2012, Malkin joined his family parent, board member and a “I have learned an im- “Jon takes leadership of the board to help manage and grow their two member of the larger Jewish mense amount serving as the during a milestone year for our school businesses – SWC Office Furniture in community, took office on finance chair and treasurer – our 20th anniversary,” said Carm- Stamford, and a growing portfolio of July 1. under Evan Levy’s guidance, el’s Head of School Nora Anderson. commercial real estate they own and Malkin and his wife, Kar- and I want to thank him per- “Strong board leadership has been a manage. Prior to joining these busi- en, are parents of three Car- Jonathan Malkin sonally and on behalf of the pillar of Carmel Academy – a guiding nesses, Malkin, a graduate of Brandeis mel Academy students. He entire board,” Malkin said. force that has enabled our founders’ University, had a 15-year career in has been a member of Carmel’s Board “This is an exciting time to be an in- forward-thinking vision to become a finance. He was formerly senior vice of Trustees since 2011, having served tegral part of Carmel Academy’s lead- thriving reality in the world of Jewish president of Cerberus Capital Man- as treasurer, a member of the Board’s ership. We begin this year with one of education. Like Carmel’s past board agement in New York City, where in Executive Committee, and chair of the the largest new early childhood classes presidents, Jon holds a deep dedication addition to leveraged lending activi- School’s Finance Committee. in our school’s history. Our students to our mission and a vision that will con- ties, he also advised the firm’s private “The knowledge and experience continue to win academic awards, and tinue to drive our school’s commitment equity team on financings and assisted Jon gained serving as treasurer and our graduates are attending the finest to educational excellence.” the firm in raising capital for its var- trustee, coupled with his familiarity Jewish and independent high schools Malkin and his family have deep ious funds. Before joining Cerberus, with our educational program as a in the area. This year, we’re poised Stamford roots. They are members Malkin was an executive director in long-time Carmel Academy parent, to raise the bar for our nationally of the Stamford Jewish Community the Leveraged Finance Group of CIBC make him an excellent choice to lead recognized STEAM program. Carmel Center, where they and their children World Markets. Carmel Celebrates 12th Commencement Exercises By Julie Lapin el Academy and change the world for Carmel Academy graduated its class the better. Caring about your Jewish of 2017 on June 14, celebrating the history, heritage, values and commu- school’s 12th commencement exercises. nity is what should propel you to make The student-designed graduation a meaningful life. Please question and ceremony centered around the theme at times disagree – make a mark in “Our Carmel Experience” as the the world! Do what you need to do school’s 26 graduates reflected upon to make ours a compassionate, God what they learned at Carmel, both loving place to live. But do it within inside the classroom and out, and the context of the values of Torah, how the school has shaped and pre- your parents and your teachers.” pared them for their future. Through As part of the ceremony, the gradu- personal writings and songs, in both ates shared in Hebrew excerpts from Hebrew and English, the graduates their year-long project Shorashim, or shared their memories, as well as Roots. The project was modeled after The Carmel Academy class of 2017 posed for a graduation photo prior to their commencement their aspirations for the future based an Israeli initiative that has become exercises. on the foundation they received at a nationwide tradition, where the Carmel Academy. students researched their family’s “The definition of the word journey history and connection with the is ‘the act of traveling from one place Jewish people. to another.’ Our past experiences “In essence, it was a journey of have helped form us into the young self-discovery for each of us,” said grad- men and women that we are today. uate Sofia Jacubowicz. “The project Our future is full of excitement as enabled us to reflect on how we view we move into the next stages of our ourselves within our family’s heritage lives. While we may be moving along and enhanced our understanding of on our journey from Carmel to new Jewish peoplehood.” places, we know that the journey During the ceremony, graduate is what makes us who we are,” said Hannah MacDonald introduced the graduate Chaya Banschick. song “Matanot Ketanot,” or “small Head of School Nora Anderson gifts,” which reflects on the small gifts addressed the graduating class and that people collect as they enter the urged her students to live with op- holy space of Shabbat: “Throughout timism and with a growth mindset: our years at Carmel, the teachers and “Take what you have learned at Carm- See “Carmel” on page 15

ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 10 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2017 A Summer of Friendship, Fun and Leadership By Jennifer Kruzansky Stamford and the Connecticut Valley This past summer, three local teens, Region. Etan was particularly struck Etan Gabay, Sam Essenfeld and Ethan by the international staff and other Essenfeld, took the opportunity to leaders he could learn from: “The envi- develop as leaders at the BBYO Inter- ronment is inspiring because everyone national Leadership Training Confer- is there for the right reason, everyone ence in Pennsylvania. For 19 days, they is motivated to learn and develop learned alongside peers from all over themselves.” In between learning how the globe how to be effective change to facilitate, prioritize, lead a crowd makers in their communities and in and develop public speaking skills, their BBYO chapters. they also enjoyed many Shabbats and For Sam Essenfeld, meeting and fun programming together. learning with teens from Hungary, Ethan Essenfeld commented on the Bulgaria and Russia was a cornerstone social aspect at ILTC, noting “with so moment of his time at ILTC. One fond many new people, you had to learn how moment that he had was realizing the to really put yourself out there and be teens from those countries were more open to meeting everyone.” similar to him than anticipated: “It All three said they are excited to highlighted how Judaism is a global bring many skills back to Stamford network and we all have a common and to Connecticut Valley Region. One thread that links us together.” thing that Ethan says he is most excited On the same theme, Etan Gabay to bring back to his chapter, Leviticus, enjoyed zooming out and seeing BBYO is better teamwork amongst the chapter through the eyes of other regions, board and general members. Going and seeing how it operates outside of See “Summer” on page 15 Jewish High School of Connecticut Graduates

Back row: Matt McGregor, Sam Essenfeld, Jordan Bellin, Ness Low, Ethan Essenfeld and Etan Gabay. Front Row: Shani Katz and Julia Arnowitz.

Mazal tov to the Jewish High School of Connecticut’s Class of 2017. L-r: Leah Voytovich, who will attend the University of Pennsylvania; Alex Frenzel ,who will attend the University of Connecticut; Ilana Krebs, who will attend Nativ for a gap year in Israel and then attend Ithaca College; and Daniel Hanna, who will attend Muhlenberg College.

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books each month to more than 140,000 children, ages six months to eight years old, in North America, PJ Our Way four books every month, giving them more choice on their journey toward being life-long readers while introducing them to Jewish ideas.

Parents can register on the PJ Our Way website (beginning in September), and each child can go on line to view a list of the books available, along with synopses, kid- book, and the book arrives in the mail. Children who are enrolled in PJ Our Way -line book discussions, and become part of the community of PJ Our Way readers. There is no cost to parents. To sign up, go to: www.pjourway.org).

If you have any questions, please call (203)321-1373-653-2668 or [email protected]. september 2017 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 11 Chabad of New Canaan Celebrates Growing Community

L-r: Talmud Torah Award honorees Jerry and Peggy Fensterstock and Claude Bernstein, with Chairs of the Gala Dinner Anne and Jon Liebergall. Carmel Students Earn Top

More than 150 people attended the Chabad of New Canaan Gala Dinner in May at Math Honors Waveny House. The event was chaired by Anne and John Liebergall and Chabad of New Canaan Directors Michal and Rabbi Levi Mendelow. Shown is Rabbi Mendelow addressing the gala dinner attendees.

Five Carmel Academy students received trophies for earning top scores in the nationwide Math Olympiad competition. Carmel Academy upper school students (l-r) Micah Taffet, Ben Levy, Hannah MacDonald, Sophie Citron and Joshua Ament were honored for being the top scorers at Carmel Academy and placing in the highest percentile nationally. The series of challenging math contests, which take place throughout the school year, gives students a chance to think creatively and apply their problem solving skills to various types of math problems, including algebra, geometry, patterns and number theory. Math Olympiad is one of several STEM programs at Carmel that seeks to stimulate the enthusiasm and a love for mathematics, encourage students to develop mathematical flexibility in solving L-r: Michal Mendelow, Lamplight Award honorees Melody and Claude Bernstein, and problems, strengthen their mathematical intuition, foster creativity and ingenuity, and Rabbi Levi Mendelow. provide students with the excitement of meeting challenges.

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Note: You can make this dough A tradition in Stamford is the October 27-28, adding to their typical and tomatoes). in a food processor (halve the recipe). Loaves of Love Mega Challah Bake Shabbat observances. “What better way Challah. Cover the bowl and put it in a warm organized by Chabad of Stamford’s to do so than preparing homemade Of course. place to rise for about 1½ hours or until Jewish Women Connected. This year’s challah bread for families to enjoy and I make the challah. A really large doubled. Punch down the dough, cover event will take place on Thursday, enhance their Shabbat celebrations?” one, using a recipe based on a list of the bowl and let rise again for about October 26, at 7 pm, at the Stam- asked Shemtov. ingredients left by my grandmother. 30 minutes or until doubled. ford Plaza, 2701 Summer St., and is The Loaves of Love Mega Chal- There were no instructions – women Remove the dough to a floured chaired by Elise Klein, Elian Avraham, lah Bake aims to impact at least 720 back then sort of assumed you just surface. Cut dough in 3 or 6 pieces Talia Siscovick and Shelby Hollaway. families with a gift of challah. The knew how to make a challah. The list depending on whether you are making Women from all Jewish communities women attending the event will have also wasn’t very specific in terms of how one large or two smaller loaves. Make in Stamford are invited to be a part the opportunity to make a challah much of anything would be required. long strands out of the pieces. Braid of reaching the goal of uniting 360 for their own family and a challah She didn’t use measuring cups, so she the strands (see instructions below). women to make challah together for a friend. left it as this “8 hands flour; ½ hand Place the braided dough on a lightly this year. The evening is intended to “The energy of being together with sugar.” And so on. greased cookie sheet. Beat the remain- bring together women of all genera- such a large group of local women, It took a while to figure out, but it was ing egg with the teaspoon of water. tions, including mothers, daughters partaking in this unique mitzvah and worth it. She and her sisters had won Brush over the surface of the bread. (high school age and older) and joining together to make, shape and prize money for the family challah recipe! Sprinkle with seeds if desired. Let rise grandmothers. bake together, while offering a special Here it is, worked out in modern again for 30 minutes. “The craze of mega challah bakes prayer, is very powerful and uplifting,” terms, with modern instructions. There Bake for about 35 minutes for large has taken the world by storm, and said Tracy Shevell, who has participat- is no better challah. loaf, 22-25 minutes for smaller ones. the birth of this phenomenon, the ed in all three Loaves of Love Mega Truly. Braiding a round Challah gathering of a large group of women Challah Bakes. Challah 1. Make six long strands of dough. in one room at one time to bake to- Loaves of Love is a division of 2 packages active dry yeast 2. Lay three strands on a floured gether, started right here in Stamford Chabad’s Jewish Women Connect- ½ cup warm water (105-110°F) board parallel to each other in January 2009,” said Leah Shemtov, ed, where women get together to ½ cup sugar 3. Take one of the remaining three co-director of Chabad of Stamford. bake challah and homemade meals 8 to 8 ½ cups all purpose flour strands and weave it into the three On that first occasion, JWC looked to to be delivered to new neighbors, 1 Tbsp. salt parallel strands by placing it over the gather 118 women to partake in the new moms, the sick and anyone 5 large eggs first strand, under the second strand mitzvah. The event succeeded beyond who could benefit from a taste of 3 Tbsp. vegetable oil and under the third strand. their expectations and gathered 215 Shabbat. Loaves of Love also offers 1½ cups lukewarm water (about 4. Take a second remaining strand women. Since then, the Loaves of Love kosher meals for people sitting shiva 100°F) and weave it into the three parallel Mega Challah Bake gathered almost (mourning the loss of a loved one). 1 tsp. water strands by placing it under the first 400 women in October 2013 and 500 Through cooking marathons where Poppy seeds or sesame seeds, strand, over the second strand and over women in December 2015, when participants do everything from optional the third strand. partnered with other Chabad and peeling vegetables to packing up women’s organizations from across and delivering packages, Loaves of JCC Offers Rosh Hashanah Luncheon for Seniors Fairfield County. Love seeks to nourish those in need On Thursday, September 14, from 11:30 am-1 pm, the Jewish Community This year, the Loaves of Love in the Stamford community. Center will host its annual Rosh Hashanah luncheon, provided by the Brown, Mega Challah Bake is scheduled to To be part of the Loaves of Love Krinsky and Stern families in memory of Sandra Stern and Irene Krinsky. take place in collaboration with the Mega Challah Bake as a captain or The luncheon is free to all seniors. Guests will enjoy a festive kosher holiday International Shabbos Project, which participant, or to get more information, meal and hear the blowing of the shofar. started in Johannesburg, South Afri- contact Taly Farber at 203-3CHABAD, RSVPs are required no later than Friday, September 8, and can be made by ca. The Shabbos Project encourages e-mail [email protected] contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. Jews from all walks of life “To Keep It or visit www.StamfordChabad.org.

שנה טובה ומתוקה

Wishing You a Healthy, Happy, Peaceful New Year

Elayne and James Schoke Jewish Family Service of Fairfield County Serving Greater Stamford, Westport, Bridgeport and Upper Fairfield County Phone: 203-921-4161 • www.ctjfs.org

Rosh Hashanah Grtings from september 2017 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 15 JCC’s Teaching Students How to Respond to Anti-Israel Sentiment For high school juniors and seniors, responding to negative sentiment about Israel can be daunt- ing. This year’s “Speak Up for Israel” program at the Jewish Community Center of Stamford will once again bring together teens from across the At right: Speak Up for community to help equip them with the tools Israel participants necessary to engage in an educated dialogue in attended the AIPAC support of Israel. Policy Conference Facilitated by Yael Stolarsky, the JCC’s Israeli in Washington, shlichah (emissary), Speak Up for Israel seeks DC, in March. The to help students who are soon to enter college program, offered learn about Israel and acquire the knowledge and through the JCC confidence to respond to questions. of Stamford, seeks Experts in the field – from organizations such as AI- to help high school PAC, CAMERA, Israel Action Network, StandWithUs, juniors and seniors ADL and more – will lead educational sessions. learn how to respond There is no cost to enroll. Students will meet for to negative sentiment eight sessions throughout the school year and attend about Israel. the AIPAC conference in March at no charge. Space is limited. For more information, contact Stolarsky at 203-487-0961 or [email protected]. The Jewish Community Center is a recipient agency of the United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. JHSC Welcomes its Largest Ninth Grade Class By David Giver The Jewish High School of Connecticut will wel- come the largest ninth grade class since the school opened. More than 25 students will join the upper- classmen for the fall semester of 2017. “The community has started to realize the phe- nomenal opportunities that JHSC offers, and this class is a reflection of the success of our graduates as well as the reputation of our academics,” said Rabbi Elisha Paul, head of school. “We are thrilled with the enthusiasm of our ap- May the year 5778 plicant pool, and the character and commitment of our students,” remarked Geoffrey Erickson, bring peace and harmony The congregation of president of the JHSC Board of Trustees. “JHSC has a unique approach to education that to the community of Stamford Temple Sinai in Stamford both inspires and caters to the individual skills, pas- wishes its friends, neighbors sions and aspirations of each student. The school, and the family of Israel located in a science and technology building, creates and the entire community a ‘google-like environment.’ It is this environment of collaboration and innovation that inspires and a peaceful drives our school curriculum and spirit,” said Rabbi Paul. “We are forging a new kind of high school, & and students are responding enthusiastically.” JHSC is a community Jewish High school, serving healthy students from grade nine-12. Students hail from a New Year large swath of Connecticut and New York. For more about JHSC, contact the school at 203- 5778. 957-0850, or www.jhsct.org. The Jewish High School of Connecticut is a recipient Risa Raich, Marshall Kurland, 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford, Connecticut agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, President Chief Executive Officer New Canaan and Darien. 203-322-1649 www.templesinaistamford.org

Carmel Continued from page 9 administrators have given us these matanot ketanot, small gifts, that we cherish today and will carry with us always. As we continue to grow, we will be able to L’SHANAH TOVAH draw from these gifts to become the people we are from שנה טובה ומתוקה meant to be.” Wishing You a Healthy, Happy, Peaceful In what has become a Carmel Academy tradition, New Year after the students received their diplomas, the entire faculty joined the new graduates on stage to bless the class as they embark on the next stage of their lives. Elayne and James Schoke Jewish Family Service of Fairfield County Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of United Jewish Serving Greater Stamford, Westport, Bridgeport and Upper Fairfield County Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. Phone: 203-921-4161 • www.ctjfs.org Summer Continued from page 10 off on that, Sam says he realized that being a leader means more than standing in the front of the room and that there are many ways to motivate and lead from the middle. Etan says he is excited to bring back his skills in facilitation and to help bring regional Jewish programming from good to great. For more information on BBYO summer pro- grams, contact [email protected]. Jennifer Kruzansky is the BBYO associate regional www.jhsfc-ct.org director. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 16 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2017 Jewish Historical Society Announces National History Day Winners By Joan Kranz before and during the war, and to understand why her family history and sharing a story that not too What do Helmuth James von Moltke, a German von Moltke felt a need to take a stand against Hitler many people may have been aware of. lawyer during World War ll, and Mordechai An- and the Nazi Party. Staples High School junior James Gikas of West- ielewicz, the principal leader of the armed Jewish Faulkner was the first in her school to have ever port is the recipient of the JHSFC Fairfield County resistance in the Warsaw Ghetto, have in common? competed in National History Day. Her efforts earned Special Connecticut National History Day Prize. In Both are considered heroes who paid with their lives her not only the JHSFC Special State Prize for the his award-winning Senior Individual Performance, and who are the subjects of the winning entries in outstanding entry that best incorporates Jewish his- “Let Us Not Go Like Sheep to the Slaughter: The the 2017 Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County tory, heritage and/or a Jewish personality, but also Jewish Resistance Movement During the Holocaust,” Connecticut National History Day Contest. two national awards at the University of Maryland. Gikas personified Mordechai Anielewicz, leader of Claire Faulkner, a senior at the Journalism and One prize was for the Senior Outstanding Entry in the Jewish Combat Organization, which was consid- Media Academy Magnet High School in Hartford, World War II History; the other was for the Senior ered instrumental in engineering the Warsaw Ghetto created a documentary about von Moltke, who is a Outstanding Connecticut Entry. Uprising. While visiting the United States Holocaust distant relative. Her research helped her gain a per- Faulkner’s experience enabled her to improve her Memorial Museum, Gikas noted that he was especially spective on what it was like to be a German citizen video production skills while learning more about captivated by the tragic, largely unheard stories of Jewish resistance to the Nazis during the Holocaust. Using his performance skills and research, Gikas wrote and presented the efforts made by the resis- tance, “however tragic or ineffective they may have seemed [they] served as a beacon of hope, giving Jews across Nazi-occupied Europe the will to survive.” In addition to his experience performing, Gi- kas has been called an accomplished violinist. He spent the summer at the Boston University Tangle- wood Institute, which is recognized nationally as a premier summer training program for aspiring May you be young musicians. Both prize winning entries can be viewed at the Diana and Barry Gould inscribed in the Have a Happy & Healthy New Year! JHSFC Archives. Complete details are available on Book of Life the Jewish Historical Society website, jhsfc-ct.org. for good health, The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County is a May this New Year recipient agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater May the new year be a time of peace, and prosperity. Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. peace & joy for you be the start and all those you love. Marsha Kaiser Shendell & Family of only the J H sweetest things! Edith Samers & Edward Smith

May you have a sweet, May the New Year happy and healthy New Year! bring you

peace, health, Claire Faulkner and joy!

Meryl and David Gordon David & Lorraine Kweskin

May the new year Wishing everyone be the start a happy, healthy of only the and sweet sweetest things! New Year! Ellen & Richard Weber James Gikas Cheryl Bader, Stephen, and Family Rachel, Daniel and Evan Goldblum Evidence of Babylonian May the sound of Destruction of May peace, the shofar bring peace and happiness, and good health to us all! Jerusalem Unearthed good health By JNS staff be with you (JNS.org) – In the week leading up to the Jewish throughout the fast of Tisha B’Av, which mourns the destruction of both Jewish Temples in Jerusalem, evidence of New Year. the city’s destruction by the Babylonians during the BARBARA & LARRY MILLER AND FAMILY First Temple era has been discovered in excavations Nancy, Gadi, Michael and Bari Mimoun conducted by the Israel Antiquities Authority. The excavations, funded by the City of David Foundation (Elad), focused on the City of David’s eastern slope and unearthed buildings covered with Wishing everyone layers of collapsed stone, believed to be more than a happy, healthy SHANA 2,600 years old. Archaeologists also found various and sweet items in between the collapsed structures, including TOVA burned wood, grape seeds, pottery, fish scales, bones New Year! and rare artifacts. Rabbi Moshe & Leah The discoveries convey the affluence of Jerusalem Tzemach, Mussie, Shternie, thousands of years ago, and serve as proof of the Advertising Levi, Yisroel, Shaina, Rivka & holy city’s destruction by Babylonians, the IAA said Representative Gavriel Shemtov on July 26. See Unearthed” on page 23 september 2017 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 17 Schoke JFS and Partners Continue Their Tradition Kosher Food Provided for Holidays and Year-Round By Rebekah Kanefsky On Tuesday, September 19, Goldblum will organize Once again, Schoke Jewish Family Service will the donated items, as well as packing the gift bags. A continue its tradition of coordinating the collection High Holidays bag may include items such as apples and distribution of kosher food to individuals and and honey, fruits and vegetables, soup, chicken, families who are in need of assistance during the challah, grape juice and an apple dessert. JFS has High Holidays. Under a program chaired by Risa gathered the names and addresses of those in need Goldblum, local kosher restaurants and communi- of assistance, and will coordinate the distribution of ty partners donated food that is used to create gift the kosher food bags. baskets that include traditional holiday food items. Keeping a kosher home has been called a chal- In 2016, the food items and decorative bags were lenge for those experiencing financial hardships. donated from local restaurants, including Soosh, During hard times, families who want to keep kosher Six Thirteen and Beldotti Bakery, along with local may require some assistance. The generosity of the community partners such as Chabad of Stamford. In Greater Stamford community makes it possible for 2017, individuals and/or families, primarily in the JFS to reach out to more families and individuals Stamford area, will receive similar gift bags of food than it has assisted in the past. for the holidays. Rosh Hashanah food gift bags See “JFS” on page 21

CHABAD OF CHAVURAT AYTZ CHAYIM CONGREGATION NEW CANAAN (Orthodox) (Unaffiliated) AGUDATH SHOLOM (Orthodox) 203-972-7708 (Services held at Westhill High School) 301 Strawberry Hill Ave. | 203-358-2200 NewCanaanJewish.org 125 Roxbury Road, Stamford www.agudathsholom.org www.chavurah.org Rosh Hashanah Services held Rosh Hashanah at the New Canaan Nature Center President: Ed Smith (203) 322-6676 Friday, September 22 144 Oenoke Ridge, New Canaan Rosh Hashanah 4:00 pm at Atria (77 Third Street) Thursday, September 21 Wednesday, September 20: Services at 8 pm with Shofar Blowing. Led by Friday, September 22 Thursday, September 21: Services at 10 am Rabbi Daniel Cohen of Congregation Agudath Sholom. Services: 8:45am Yom Kippur Children’s Program: 10:30am Friday, September 29 Shofar: 11:15am Kol Nidre: 8:00 pm TEMPLE SINAI (Reform) 458 Lakeside Dr. | 203-322-1649 Yom Kippur Saturday, September 30 www.templesinaistamford.org Services held at New Canaan High School Morning Service: 10:00 am 11 Farm Road, New Canaan Afternoon Service: 5:00 pm Selichot Saturday, September 16 Friday, September 29 Yizkor Service: 5:30 pm Closing Service; Break the Fast: 7:30 pm A program and service with Sinai’s Ruach Kol Nidrei/Evening Services: 6:30pm Musical Group and the clergy: 7:30 pm September 30 A quiet contemplative evening including Saturday, Morning Services: 9:00am time for changing the Torah mantles and Yizkor Memorial Service: 11:45am ending with dessert. All are welcome for Mincha and Neilah Closing Service: 4:45pm this introduction to the Holy Days. Shofar Sounding and Break the Fast: 7:18pm Thursday, September 21 CHABAD STAMFORD TEMPLE BETH EL Children’s Services (Pre-K and Younger): 1:00 pm (Conservative Egalitarian) (Orthodox) Tashlich Service - The Stamford Museum 350 Roxbury Road | 203-322-6901, ext. 300 770 High Ridge Rd. & Nature Center: 2:00 pm (203) 3-CHABAD (203) 324-2223) www.tbe.org Friday, September 22 www.chabadstamfdord.org Selichot Second Day Rosh Hashanah worship ser- Saturday, September 16 at 9:00 pm Rosh Hashanah vices: 8:30-10am. A joint service with Temple Beth El, Stamford; Wednesday, September 20 Join us for a creative and contemplative Congregation Beth El, Norwalk; and the Con- Mincha and Maariv: 6:30 pm High Holy Day experience, followed by a servative Synagogue of Westport will be held Thursday, September 21 festive luncheon. at the Conservative Synagogue of Westport, Shacharit: 9:00 am Please contact the temple office 30 Hillspoint Road, Westport. Tashlich and Mincha: 6:15 pm 203-322-1649 for information regarding 2nd Day Rosh Hashanah - Friday, Sept. 22 our second day Rosh Hashanah service. Maariv: 7:30 pm Free of charge for those that have not attend- Friday, September 22 ed 2nd Day Rosh Hashanah in the past. Shacharit: 9:00 am YOUNG ISRAEL OF STAMFORD Special guest ticket required. Must call in (Orthodox) Mincha and Maariv: 6:30 pm advance for ticket 203-322-6901, ext. 300. 69 Oaklawn Avenue | 203-348-3955 | Yom Kippur Main service: 8:45 am-1:15 pm www.yistamford.org Friday, September 29 Children’s and Family programming: Mincha: 3:30 pm 10:30 am– 1:00 pm Please call for information. Fast begins: 6:21 pm Yom Kippur Kol Nidrei: 6:30 pm Saturday, September 30 Saturday, September 30 Mincha: 4:30 pm Shacharit: 9:00 am Yizkor: 5:45 pm Torah reading & Yizkor: 11:00am Neilah: 6:15 pm Mincha & Neilah: 5:15 pm Blessing of the babies: 7:20 pm Shofar, Maariv and Break Fast: 7:18 pm Shofar: 7:24 pm ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 18 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2017 A Trove of Nazi-era Objects in Argentina By JTA Staff a record of this magnitude a discovery BUENOS AIRES, Argentina (JTA) of original Nazis objects, and we have – A cache of 75 original Nazi objects started a collaborative process to search discovered in June by the Argentine the route of the objects to Argentina.” Federal Police has been evaluated as According to El Haibe, who also “unprecedented” and “the biggest” serves as the chief of the Protection of discovery of its type. The objects, dis- Cultural Heritage department of the covered in a hidden room of a house in federal police, only a very high level of the northern part of the city, included Nazi officer had access to this quality equipment used for Nazi medical ex- and quantity of objects, and apparently periments during the Holocaust. They tried to save the objects when the Nazi were analyzed a week ago at Interpol regime was failing. headquarters in Lyon, France, Federal On June 19, the Argentine Jewish Police Commissioner Marcelo El Haibe political umbrella DAIA displayed told JTA on June 19. some of the objects at its headquarters The police found a bust relief of in the AMIA Jewish center here. The Adolf Hitler, medical devices marked AMIA building was destroyed in a 1994 with swastikas used to measure head terrorist bombing and rebuilt in 1999. and body size, Nazi puzzles for chil- DAIA President Ariel Cohen Sabban dren and knives, among other objects. praised the police for their work in mak- Among the objects discovered was a Some of the Nazi-era objects discovered by Argentine police. (Photo by Leonardo ing the discovery. “From this building, magnifying glass attached to a photo Kremenchuzky/DAIA) we spoke several times about the lack of Hitler using the magnifying glass. of security in this country, but today “We checked some marks and char- photo,” El Haibe, a member of Inter- from Germany, Israel and United it’s time to recognize the good work acteristics, and it is the same object pol who accompanied the pieces to States were surprised by the globally done by the police and the Security that Hitler holds in his hands in the Lyon, told JTA. “Interpol colleagues unprecedented discovery. No one has See “Objects” on page 19

Water Continued from page 1 for the quality of life and safety of yond Florida and the United States. our communities, preparedness and Earlier this year, the company signed readiness to counter crises is manda- deals, together worth $150 million, tory,” Mayor Oliver Gilbert III said at to produce drinking water in India a City Hall news conference. “Water and Vietnam, two countries that Gen’s pilot will enable us to measure have long faced shortages. About 1.2 its use for clean drinking water if billion people, nearly one-fifth of the needed for hurricane relief and any world’s population, live in areas of other emergency water situation that water scarcity, according to the United may arise.” Nations Department of Economic and During the last weeks of June, Social Affairs. Miami Gardens will use a midsized Owned by Russian-Israeli entrepre- Water-Gen generator to produce neur and billionaire Michael Mirilas- drinking water for its residents. Wa- hvili, the vice president of the World ter-Gen officials said they hope the Jewish Congress, Water-Gen has Jewish pilot leads to contracts with Miami friends in high places. Prime Minister Gardens and other parts of Florida. Benjamin Netanyahu mentioned it The company’s largest generator in an interview last December with yields as much as 825 gallons of water CBS’s “60 Minutes” about Israel’s per day for only 10 cents a gallon, high-tech prowess. In March, Har- mostly in energy costs, according to Miami Gardens Mayor Oliver Gilbert III, second from left, Water-Gen USA President vard Law professor Alan Dershowitz the company. Yehuda Kaploun and Lior Haiat, consul general to Israel in Miami, toasted Water-Gen demonstrated the technology on stage “Miami Gardens is our first sig- in Miami Gardens, FL, on June 20. (Photo courtesy of Mendy Studio) at the American Israel Public Affairs nificant pilot program in a U.S. Committee’s annual policy conference city,” Water-Gen USA President creases have strained available sources. from June through November. in Washington, DC. Yehuda Kaploun said Monday. “We Because of the drought, Miami-Dade Miami-Dade County Mayor Carlos He touted the technology as a way to are ideally positioned to enable County, where Miami Gardens in Gimenez said he sees Water-Gen’s counter worldwide water scarcity and communities to tap into a clean and located, has put restrictions on water potential to help the state. “I con- the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions safe drinking water source with a use, including banning residents from gratulate Mayor Gilbert and the City movement against Israel. “There is no refreshing taste.” watering outdoors between 10 am of Miami Gardens for its leadership weapon more powerful in the fight Florida gets much of its drinking and 4 pm. in allowing for the demonstration against BDS than for Israel to develop water from the Floridian Aquifer and In addition, Florida is bracing for of water generation technology that technologies that the world cannot the Biscayne Aquifer, as well as from hurricanes, which hit the state harder could be a game-changer,” he said live without,” he told the crowd. “You surface water from Lake Okeechobee than any other and can cause water June 19. cannot boycott products that you can’t and other lakes, but population in- contamination. Hurricane season runs Water-Gen’s ambitions extend be- live without.”

(203)321-1373 september 2017 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 19 Ethiopian Rosh Hashanah Blends Unique Customs with a Yearning for Jerusalem By Adam Abrams Due to the small size of Malessa’s village in JNS.org comparison to other Jewish Ethiopian townships, Despite relative isolation from their Jewish not many “kessim” – elder religious leaders with brethren around the world for millennia, Ethiopian knowledge of oral Jewish law and the equivalent of Jews have coveted the same dream of celebrating rabbis – resided in her home village. This “would Rosh Hashanah “next year in Jerusalem.” Though make my childhood memories of Rosh Hashanah unique, the Jewish New Year festivities in Ethiopia less vivid than of those who grew up with many bear many similarities to the holiday’s observance kessim in their villages,” Malessa told JNS.org in in the broader Diaspora. Ethiopian-accented Hebrew. Limor Malessa and five of her siblings were The Ethiopian villagers were entirely dependent born and raised in a small Ethiopian village near on the verbally disseminated wisdom of the elders, the Jewish community of Gondar. She left the who were the only people in the village capable of village at age 13 and traveled to Ethiopia’s capital reading Jewish texts written in the ancient Ge’ez of Addis Ababa, along with her parents and five dialect. “The kessim would instruct everyone in the siblings, in anticipation of emigrating to Israel – Ethiopian Jews were greeted by family members as they arrived villages on how to prepare for the holiday… Villages the “promised land” that Ethiopian Jews longed at Israel’s Ben Gurion Airport, as part of an aliyah flight that had more of the religious leaders would have a to return to for thousands of years, unaware that arranged by the Jewish Agency for Israel and sponsored by much deeper understanding of the holiday and its the holy temple in Jerusalem had long since been the International Christian Embassy Jerusalem, in June laws,” Malessa said. destroyed. (Gaps in access to modern technology 2017. (Photo by Miriam Alster/Flash90) In Amharic, which is rooted in the Ge’ez dialect and and their distance from other Jewish communi- is the official language of Ethiopia, Rosh Hashanah ties meant many Ethiopian Jews, up until about is called “Brenha Serkan,” which essentially means 20 years ago, lacked some basic knowledge about the Mossad conducted a massive clandestine airlift “the rising of the dawn,” said Malessa. In keeping with major episodes in Jewish history.) operation, dubbed “Operation Solomon,” which saw the meaning of holiday’s name, the kessim “would In 1991, at age 15, the aliyah for Malessa and her some 14,000 Ethiopian Jews secretly airlifted out of rise before dawn on the holy day, to begin the first family officially began when Israel’s Mossad intelli- Ethiopia aboard 35 non-stop flights to Israel in 36 prayer service of the day before sunrise,” she said. gence agency privately smuggled the family out of hours. Malessa has now lived in Israel for more than In Ethiopia, Rosh Hashanah was – and still Ethiopia’s capital city to the Jewish homeland by 30 years, building a family of eight children in the is – observed during the course of one day, in way of Italy. city of Ashdod and becoming thoroughly integrated contrast to the two days observed in the rest of The family arrived in Israel just a month before into Israeli society. See “Ethiopia” on page 23

Objects Continued from page 18 Ministry,” he said. “These objects are an irrefutable security issues” must be worked out. gating this hypothesis right now,” he said. “But for testimony to the Nazi horror and that Argentina was In June 2016, a collector from Argentina paid sure this did not belong to a low-level Nazi follower. a refuge” for the Nazis. $680,000 for a pair of Nazi-owned underpants and This belongs to a very high-level Nazi official who Before receiving an award from DAIA, Security other memorabilia. “It’s impossible that one collector brought them to Argentina.” Minister Patricia Bullrich spoke to more than 200 would have this invaluable amount of original Nazi Argentina was a refuge for Nazis like Mengele after attendees crowded in a small room where a sample objects,” DAIA vice president Alberto Indij told JTA. World War II. Adolf Eichmann was captured in the of the objects were on display. She said her ministry “These [objects] likely belonged directly to Hitler northern area of Buenos Aires in 1960, and another has asked the judge in charge of investigating the or Joseph Mengele. Someone escaped with all this war criminal, Erich Priebke, also lived there. A video discovery that all of the objects be donated to the objects. There isn’t a person that bought all this. about the Interpol evaluation, dubbed Operation Holocaust Museum of Buenos Aires, “so that all No, these were Nazi officers trying to hide and save Near East since many objects of Asian historical sig- Argentinians and also visitors who come to Buenos these objects.” nificance also were discovered during the raids, was Aires can see this shocking collection.” The magnifying glass and accompanying photo released on June 19 by the Argentine Federal Police. Among the attendees were Germany Embassy of Hitler were not put on public display, but Indij The objects were found on June 9 following a officials, judges, intellectuals and businessmen, as saw them at Interpol headquarters and confirmed nine-month police investigation. They are in the well as the Jewish philanthropists Eduardo Elsztain their existence to JTA. custody of the justice who is tasked with investigating and Marcelo Mindlin, who was named recently the Mengele, a doctor who performed experiments the find, who has put a gag order on most aspects president of the Holocaust Museum of Buenos on Jewish prisoners, lived in Argentina for a decade of the case. One suspect identified by the police is Aires. “This collection is a great responsibility; we after the war in the same area of Buenos Aires where not in Argentina. There are Argentine and non-Ar- will prepare our site to receive this contribution,” the Nazi medical tools were discovered. El Haibe said gentine suspects being investigated, but no further Mindlin told JTA. “There will be a lot of fanatics there could be some link between Mengele and the details have been provided. Argentina has had an that will want to enter, there will be people trying recently discovered tools. “There are strong coinci- anti-discrimination law on the books since 1988 that to steal objects,” he added, noting that “huge dences of tools, practices, locations; we are investi- covers the possession and sale of such objects.

ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 20 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2017 What did Israel’s Ancient Kings Wear? Textile Discovery Provides “Hints” By Adam Abrams and cooked them in water,” Ben-Yosef said. “They JNS.org added some chemicals to this mixture and then put A newly published study may lend unprecedented the fleece into the water and boiled it, sometimes for insights into the wardrobe of Israel’s ancient kings. several days, until there was a chemical bond between The study – headed by Tel Aviv University’s Dr. Erez the dyestuff of the plants and the wool.” Ben-Yosef and Dr. Naama Sukenik of the Israel An- This process resulted in the fibers being dyed tiquities Authority, in collaboration with Bar-Ilan with “something that is very strong and resistant to University – uncovered textiles colored with ancient washing,” because the dyes are bonded with the wool plant dyes in Israel’s southern Timna Valley. The itself. The strength of the chemical bond enabled textiles were used during the time of Kings David the bright colors of the 3,000-year-old samples to be and Solomon. “If we want to know what these kings well-preserved. wore, the only hints are in these textiles discovered Further, Ben-Yosef said the findings “are part in Timna,” Ben-Yosef told JNS.org. of the very interesting question about King Sol- The findings in the Timna Valley are the earliest omon’s mines – which were operated in the 10th evidence of advanced plant-based dyeing technology century [B.C.E.] during the time of the united used in Israel and indicate that a complex biblical Israelite monarchy – and if Jerusalem really had society, with an advanced ruling elite, dwelled in the control of the southern part of the country and valley some 3,000 years ago – contradicting previous One of the textiles dyed with a red-and-blue pattern that the copper mines in the area. This new evidence understandings that a simple society dwelled in the was discovered in southern Israel’s Timna Valley. Israeli shows a connection between the area of Jerusalem area. The study was published recently in the PLOS researchers say the textiles were used during the time of Kings and the south.” ONE journal. David and Solomon. (Photo by Dr. Naama Sukenik/Israel Researchers deduced from the textile discovery The excavations began in 2013 and recovered Antiquities Authority) that the elites who operated the furnaces in the mines dozens of pieces of 3,000-year-old textiles, which had advanced knowledge about how to turn stone were well-preserved due to the extremely arid cli- included wool, linen and goat hair, and range from into copper, and “were part of a complex society with mate in Israel’s southern desert region. “I think it “coarse and rough tent remains to very simple cloth- a ruling class who wore very fine clothing during the should be emphasized that Timna is a very unique ing,” Ben-Yosef said. time of Solomon and David,” Ben-Yosef said. case,” Ben-Yosef said. “Even in the desert region of Some of the textiles, which date back to the early The fact that inhabitants of the desert-based Israel, the preservation of organic materials there Iron Age (12th-10th centuries B.C.E.), are adorned Timna Valley had access to these fabrics and dyeing is unique. Other sites in the Negev like Avdat and with a red-and-blue band pattern. Two types of Med- technology proves they had connections to other Mitzpe Ramon are still not dry enough for this kind iterranean plants were used to create this coloration regions, including Judea and the areas around of preservation.” using “a very sophisticated and complex dyeing Jerusalem, during the biblical reign of Kings David He added, “Timna is almost the only place where technology,” Ben-Yosef said. and Solomon. “The bible states that, at the time, the researchers find organic remains – including textiles, The specially colored textile is the earliest evidence region (Timna and the rest of southern Israel) was leather, animal skin and thousands of seeds for all of of such dyeing technology in the entire Levant region. part of the Kingdom of Edom, but it was controlled the seven plant species of the Holy Land.” Previous samples of dyed textiles had been discov- by Jerusalem,” said Ben-Yosef. “So now we can see Due to the unique conditions in the Timna Valley, ered, but they were dyed using simple techniques physical evidence of connections between this re- the researchers were able to study the remains in that were not resistant to washing, such as smearing gion of Edom, far in the south, to the area around laboratories and acquire additional insights regard- pigments on cloth. “They took these plants, which Jerusalem, through the trading of textiles for copper ing the findings. Materials used to weave the textiles were actually cultivated especially for this industry, between the two regions.”

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No giant, a young baseball champ and spoilers here, but Jacob eventually an endearing boy in a pumpkin patch realizes that he’s part of many teams: are among the stars of five new books his family, friends, his people and for kids published just in time for Little League. the High Holidays. This year’s crop This relatable, deftly told story taps includes new stories by two children’s into the reality facing many American book writers, David A. Adler and Eric Jewish families today – the conflicts A. Kimmel, who have entertained and between Jewish holidays and the informed decades of young readers. secular calendar of school, sports, Three of the books are set during recitals and other activities. The story the holidays – Rosh Hashanah, the “Big Sam: A Rosh Hashanah Tall Tale” is, of course, inspired by the Jewish Jewish New Year; Yom Kippur, the (Photo by Apples and Honey Press) baseball legend Sandy Koufax, who Day of Atonement; and Sukkot, the sat out the opening game of the 1965 seven-day fall harvest festival. Two holiday, two bald eagles caution World Series because it was Yom others are uplifting, kid-centered the giant that he’s caused an awful Kippur. In his author’s note, Adler stories about good deeds and repair- lot of damage to the environment introduces the Hall of Fame pitcher ing the world – themes that reflect – flattening hills and threatening to his young readers. the spirit of the holidays as a time habitats. In the spirit of the holiday, “Yom Kippur Short-stop” (Photo by Apples “The Best Sukkot Pumpkin Ever” by for reflection as well as renewing Big Sam considers his misdeeds and and Honey Press) Laya Steinberg; illustrations by commitments to do better in the sets about to make things right. When Colleen Madden (Kar-Ben; ages 4-9) year ahead. he’s finally ready to dig in to the huge Over the course of the next few Micah can hardly contain his “Big Sam: A Rosh Hashanah Tall Tale” challah, Big Sam welcomes in Rosh days, Jacob does just that. Will he enthusiasm for picking pumpkins by Eric A. Kimmel; illustrated by Jim Hashanah with his American tall-tale go to the game or spend the day at See “Books” on page 22 Starr (Apples & Honey Press; ages 3-8) pals – Paul Bunyan and Slue Foot Sue Samson the Giant, known as “Big among them. Sam” to his friends, sets out to make “Yom Kippur Shortstop” by David A. 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ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 22 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ SEPTEMBER 2017 VOICES AND VIEWS Responding to Gordis on Israel Argue for Jewish Pluralism, but Don’t Punish Israelis By Rabbi Mark S. Golub every aspect of Israeli life and know that whatever profound dis- But American Jewish leaders should Once again, Daniel Gordis to every Jewish community in agreements they may have with the never suggest to their communities that distinguishes himself as need. Unfortunately, there way American Jewry is being treated, Israel – and the Israeli people – merit one of world Jewry’s most will be American Jews who they would never support American one iota less emotional and financial thoughtful thinkers with his will use Gordis’ article as a Jews distancing themselves from Israel. partnership. brilliant article in the Times justification for not support- We may fight the Orthodox Rabbin- It is ironic that the suggestion that of Israel (“Israelis don’t care ing Jewish Federations and ate and its stranglehold on aspects of American Jews use the power of the that you’re insulted: An open other Jewish agencies that Israeli life. We may not abandon the purse to pressure Israel to adopt a letter to American Jews” – July sustain Israeli and Jewish life. Israeli people! given policy is exactly what most of 3, 2017). Zionism is a political phi- Many Israelis have spoken about the us condemn in the BDS Movement, With respect to the Israe- losophy; but Israel is not a Israeli political system and the fact that which also seeks to use financial power li-Palestinian conflict, Gordis Rabbi Mark S. political abstraction. Israel small parties wield disproportionate (divestments, boycotts and sanctions) summarizes the American Golub is flesh and blood. power because they are necessary to to influence Israeli policy. American Jewish responsibility to Israel in suc- American Jews must understand they maintain the governing coalition. Jews must not resort to our own form cinct words: “Your job, more than are not in partnership with an abstract This political system, however, is of financial “divestment.” anything else, is to help us stay safe “State” of Israel – nor with any particular what the Israeli people are so far will- What leverage, then, do American and alive…” Gordis differentiates Israeli government. American Jews are ing to tolerate. Until the Israeli people Jews have if they can’t use the power between the limitation on American in partnership with the people of Israel change it, the Israeli government in of the purse? Jewry’s right to try to influence Israeli – men, women and children. power will be forced to make conces- The only appropriate leverage Amer- defense policy and its absolute right This does not mean that American sions to small parties that sustain their ican Jewry rightly has is the power of to exert influence on Jewish personal Jews should accept Israeli social and coalition. The Netanyahu government the argument. In the long run, it is the status and observance in the Jewish religious policy without expressing was caught on the horns of this politi- Jewish righteousness of the argument state – a state created for all of the their strong dissent. cal dilemma. Like all prime ministers that must persuade the Israeli people Jewish people. Since my first trip to Israel in 1970, before him, Netanyahu’s goal is to to take action. My only point of disagreement with I have argued there should be a third continue to lead the government just Finally, the way in which the prob- Gordis’ argument concerns his en- section at the Western Wall. I have been as every American president tries to lem of Orthodox monopoly in Israel is couraging American Jews to withhold a public supporter of Anat Hoffman hold on to the reins of power. portrayed by Jewish leadership impacts financial support for the state of Israel and Women of the Wall, and the right Netanyahu faced one of two re- American Jews who have never visited and Israeli institutions. of women to pray at the Kotel. Non-Or- alities: to either follow through on Israel in ways that are neither fair nor Gordis encourages American Jews to thodox Jews should have a place at the his promise on the Sharansky com- honest to Israeli life. Reading Gordis’ punish the prime minister for backing most important Jewish symbol in the promise of an egalitarian section of essay, many non-Orthodox American out of the Kotel deal by using the power world, if not the holiest. the Western Wall and bring down his Jews will imagine Israel as a place where of the purse. But this position limits his So, of course, American Jewish lead- government, or to negate his promise non-Orthodox Jews will feel uncomfort- stated principle – “Your job, more than ers have every right to join in a larger and maintain his government. He able should they visit. anything else, is to help us stay safe American Jewish protest of any Israeli chose the former – as would most Every American and Israeli Jewish and alive” – to the Israeli-Palestinian policy that delegitimizes non-Orthodox politicians throughout history. leader must make clear that when a conflict alone. streams of Jewish life. Might we wish that he had made the non-Orthodox Jew goes to Israel, that Instead, his profound articulation But there is one line they may not opposite choice? Whether one likes or Jew will enjoy a wonderful experience of Jewish responsibility should apply to cross. dislikes Netanyahu, his decision in this throughout the Jewish state without They may never make Israeli policy a instance is totally understandable in ever experiencing a moment of dis- rationale for American Jews to distance the world of realpolitik. comfort. The New Jewish Voice themselves from the state of Israel and I applaud any American Jewish This is the larger reality which must

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