The Compleat Therapist The Compleat Therapist J e f f r e y A . K o t t l e r Copyright © 2013 International Psychotherapy Institute (1991 Jeffrey Kottler) All Rights Reserved This e-book contains material protected under International and Federal Copyright Laws and Treaties. This e-book is intended for personal use only. Any unauthorized reprint or use of this material is prohibited. No part of this book may be used in any commercial manner without express permission of the author. Scholarly use of quotations must have proper attribution to the published work. This work may not be deconstructed, reverse engineered or reproduced in any other format. Created in the United States of America For information regarding this book, contact the publisher: International Psychotherapy Institute E-Books 301-215-7377 6612 Kennedy Drive Chevy Chase, MD 20815-6504 www.freepsychotherapybooks.org
[email protected] Contents Preface xi The Author xvii 1. How Therapists Can Do Such Different Things and Still Get Similar Results 1 2. The Struggle to Find Things Therapists Can Agree On 24 3. Examining the Variables That Are Common to Most Therapies 43 4. What the Best Therapists Are Like as People 70 5. How Therapists Perceive, Think, Sense, and Process Their Experiences 99 6. What Therapists Actually Do with Clients That Makes a Difference 134 7. How the Joys and Challenges of Therapeutic Work Translate into Effective Therapy 175 ix References 195 Index 211 Preface I have a confession. I have been practicing, teaching, and writ ing about psychotherapy for over fifteen years and I still do not know how and why it really works.