ISSN: 0029-7739 $ 1.00 per copy BSERVER OOfficial Newspaper of the Catholic Diocese of Rockford Volume 83 | No. 18 http://observer.rockforddiocese.org FRIDAY APRIL 13, 2018 ’s Exhorts: ‘Rejoice and Be Glad’

VATICAN CITY (CNS)—"Rejoice and Be Glad," ' new ap- et us ask the Holy Spirit to pour out upon us a fervent longing to be saints for ostolic exhortation on "the call to holi- ness in the modern world," was released ‘LGod’s greater glory, and let us encourage one another in this effort. ‘ April 9. The document, called "Gaudete et — Pope Francis in “Guadete et Exsultate” (“Rejoice and Be Glad”) Exsultate" in Latin, was presented at a Vatican news conference by Angelo De Donatis, the papal vicar for the Diocese of . Joining the archbishop was Gianni Va- lente, an Italian journalist working for Fides, the news agency of the Congrega- tion for the Evangelization of Peoples, and Paola Bignardi, an educator and past president of Italian Catholic Action. The title of the is the phrase used in Matthew 5:12, the end of the Beatitudes, which reads: “Re- joice and be glad for your reward will be great in heaven.” USCCB president praises pope for ‘powerful words’ WASHINGTON (CNS)—The presi- dent of the U.S. Conference of Catho- lic said he is grateful to Pope (CNS/Cindy Wooden, photo/Paul Haring) Francis for “his powerful, straightfor- Pope Francis speaks at his general audience in St. Peter’s Square at the Vatican April 4. ward words” in “” — that is ‘to be holy, as He is holy’ (1 All Christians are called to be saints, exhortation, which he signed March 19, (“Rejoice and Be Glad”). “Pope Francis is very clear,” said Car- Pet 1:15). not “plastic statues of saints,” the pope the feast of St. Joseph. dinal Daniel N. DiNardo of Galveston- “The mission entrusted to each of us wrote, but real people who make time Pope Francis is calling each Christian Houston. “He is doing his duty as the in the waters of baptism was simple — for prayer and who show loving care for to “acknowledge and be open to what vicar of Christ, by strongly urging each by God’s grace and power, we are called others in the simplest gestures. God wants them to be,” Cardinal Di- and every Christian to freely, and with- to become saints,” the cardinal added in “Do not be afraid of holiness. It will Nardo said. out any qualifications, acknowledge and a statement April 9, the day the Vatican take away none of your energy, vitality Watch for the full text of “Rejoice and Be be open to what God wants them to be released the document. or joy,” the pope said in his apostolic Glad” April 27 in The Observer. DCCW Learns about Generational Impact on the Church By Penny Wiegert ish, here, April 7 for a day-long n The Silent Generation: those Many young people are not well Editor meeting and to examine how the born 1927-1945 catechized and remain unaffiliated faith has been practiced and im- n Baby Boomers: 1946-1964 with religious groups, she said, but ROCKFORD—How to pass on pacted over time, beginning with n Gen X: 1965-1980 “there is great hope” for the future. the Catholic faith, and how to add the “Silent Generation.” n “The teens I see in the classroom and retain members in church orga- Millennials: 1981-1995 n nizations and ministries were two Keynote speaker Sandy Blevins Gen Z: 1996-present are very educated,” she said. “They of the questions being examined at presented a portrait of each genera- After Blevins, a theology teacher are very aware of the world around the Diocesan Council of Catholic tion and how popular culture and at Boylan Central Catholic High them and they want more. They love Women’s Biennial Convention. society has influenced each one’s School, outlined generational views, confession and they love adoration Women from parish organiza- view and practice (or lack of prac- she summarized how parishes might … they do!” she said. (Observer photo/Penny Wiegert) tions throughout the Diocese of tice) of the Catholic faith. prepare to best use the gifts and tal- “There is hope. We just need to Sandy Blevins Rockford traveled to St. James Par- Highlighted were: ents of those coming of age. Continued on page 3

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Bishop Malloy ...... 2 Foot Doctor’s Idea Passion Play a First Headliners...... 3 Becomes Holy For Genoa Parish Diocesan...... 4-5 Thursday Event at page 5 Around the Diocese ...... 6 Carpenter’s Place Nation/World ...... 7 40 Years of Life Dr. Kelly John (in white coat) Our Catholic View ...... 8-9 A poster (right) shows some of checks the shoe size of one of 1st Way Life Center’s babies at For the Record ...... 10 the guests during the inaugural Media/Arts...... 11 foot clinic. its 40th anniversary gala. Forever Family ...... 12 page 4 Forever Family, page 12 2 | FRIDAY APRIL 13, 2018 | The Observer Easter: Our Entry into the History The Observer (ISSN 0029- 7739), is published weekly, And Mystery of the Resurrection except fi ve times a year by the Diocese of Rockford, 555 Colman Center Dr., P.O. he ceremonies of Holy The pope’s observation was And then at the Easter vigil, Box 7044, Rockford, IL 61125 Week and Easter Sunday lately given further credence. as we gather in the dark and Phone: 815/399-4300; Fax may be over, but they The site venerated as the tomb hold candles of light, we join the 815/399-6225. remain the heart of our of Jesus was recently excavated pious women at the tomb in their Periodical postage paid at TCatholic faith. They recount for us for restorative purposes. 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They feared they would not be has risen indeed!” — required an Offi cial information on the poli- This is why we cannot close cies, activities, and positions sharing, no able to enter because the tomb intelligence that was superior to ourselves off in our private world, of the Diocese of Rockford is ecclesial had been sealed with a large rock. that of human beings. ... within our group, but instead released only in the pages of or civil Instead, it was open, and a voice It is so important in our time to The Observer, or in state- we are called to safeguard the from within told them that Jesus rediscover brotherhood as it was ments from the Diocesan community common good and to take care was not there but had Risen. experienced by the early Christian Offi ce of Communications and can be Publications. The words “He has Risen” are communities; to rediscover how of our brothers and sisters, in formed. uttered for the fi rst time. to make room for Jesus who never particular those who are weakest The Observer uses recycled paper and is recyclable. The Evangelists tell us that divides and always unites. and most marginalized. this fi rst announcement was There cannot be true Only fraternity can guarantee Our Mission is the mission made by angels, that is, by a lasting peace, can overcome of the Church itself — to communion and commitment spread the Gospel through God’s messengers. There is to the common good and social poverty, can extinguish tension contemporary means of a signifi cance in this angelic justice without fraternity and and war, can eradicate corruption communications. presence. Just as the Angel sharing. and crime. Gabriel announced the Incarnation Without fraternal sharing, no May the Angel who tells us: Member of: of the Word, so too a human word ecclesial or civil community “He has risen” help us to live was not adequate to announce the can be formed. There is only an the fraternity and the novelty of Resurrection for the fi rst time. ensemble of individuals moved dialogue and relationships and of A higher being was needed to or grouped together, according concern for the common good. Headliners The Observer | FRIDAY APRIL 13, 2018 | 3 Father Robert Balog Dies April 5 in St. Charles ST. CHARLES—Father St. Mary Parish, McHenry; St. new ministry when he found- Knights of Columbus Coun- Robert A. Balog died in the Bernadette Parish, Rockford; ed a local group of divorced cil 653 in Freeport, and as Pine View Care Center, here and at the Cathedral of St. Pe- and separated Catholics, one State Retreat Chairman for the April 5. He was 74. ter, Rockford. of 20 being formed in the en- Knights. Father Balog was born in Au- From 1983 to 1994, he served tire country. In 1986, he be- Father Balog continued to as- rora, June 4, 1943, to Stephen as Secretary to the Bishop and gan many years of service as sist as needed at diocesan par- J. and Teresa Kabai Balog. Diocesan Master of Ceremo- diocesan director of Phoenix ishes during his retirement. He graduated from Marmion nies. During those years, he Ministry, a ministry specific to Father Balog is predeceased Academy in 1961 and attended also served as administrator divorced and separated Catho- by his parents and brother Ste- St. College (now Uni- of St. Mary Parish in Tampico lics. phen, Jr. versity) in Davenport, Iowa, (September-November, 1983) He later served on the pro- He is survived by his brother Mount St. Bernard Seminary and at St. John the Baptist Par- fessional advisory board of the Ron (Dianne Thomas), sister- and Aquinas Institute of Theol- ish in Johnsburg (August-No- North American Conference in-law Marlene Balog, nephews ogy in Dubuque, Iowa. vember 1994). for Separated and Divorced Greg (Chris) Balog and Rick He was ordained to the He became pastor of St. John Catholics and represented that (Lorie) Balog, several great priesthood by Bishop Arthur J. the Baptist Parish, Johnsburg, organization in 1987 at a Synod nieces and great nephews. He O’Neill at St. Joseph Church, on Nov. 11, 1994, and served of Bishops in Rome. (Observer file photo) also leaves behind many close Aurora, May 28, 1972. there until June 2006 when He also sponsored retreats Father Robert Balog brother priests and friends. After ordination, Father Ba- he became pastor of St. Mary for divorced, separated and the Archdiocese of Chicago for Father Balog’s Mass of Chris- log’s first assignment was as Parish in McHenry where he widowed persons called the his work in the ministry to di- tian Burial was celebrated on parochial vicar for Holy Fam- served until his retirement on Beginning Experience. He vorced Catholics. April 10 at the Cathedral of St. ily Parish in Rockford. He also July 1, 2014. was presented with the Father His additional service has Peter in Rockford. Burial was served as parochial vicar for In 1974 Father Balog began a James Young Award in 1993 by included being chaplain of the at St. Joseph Cemetery, Aurora. DCCW Learns about ... From page 1 than 30 years ago. encounter them in ways they “I didn’t know anything can understand and share our about DCCW. It was Father faith, our stories (with young (William) Regnier who asked people) whenever we get the me to go to the national con- chance.” vention ... and that’s the first I Blevins also shared tips from knew about all the great work Our Sunday Visitor to help done nationally and interna- grandparents pass on the faith. tionally by women,” he said. During the morning busi- He also encouraged them to ness meeting, members heard promote individual member- reports from each of the seven ship in honor of the national deaneries in the diocese, and CCW centennial in 2020. took a vote on bylaw changes. “It was almost 100 years ago Legislative advocacy com- that the U.S. bishops asked the mittee chair Jane Carrell urged women in the church to help (Photo provided) the women to learn about and with relief efforts after World Wonder Lake Parish Hosts Live Stations participate in the April 23 Sex War I and here we are today Ed Sit Out protest against ex- still working, still making a Jesus meets His mother in a youth presentation of live Stations of the Cross at Christ the King Parish during plicit sex education in public difference, still serving others,” . The presentation was produced by Susan Dorwaldt and Father Joel Lopez, parochial administrator. schools. More information, she Msgr. Dzielak. said, can be found on Facebook After the business meeting or at sexedsitout.com. Msgr. Dzielak celebrated Mass Bishop Malloy’s Confirmation, St. Mary Church AURORA — April 21, 10 In his report, DCCW spiritual and installed DCCW officers, Public Schedule AURORA — April 17, 5:30 a.m., Confirmation, St. Nicholas advisor, Msgr. Thomas Dzielak, Cathy Vendemia, president; lauded the women’s efforts. Sharon Schindler, vice presi- p.m., Confirmation, St. Therese Church ROCKFORD — April 13, 10 “I guess it’s no secret that the dent; Carol Linkenheld, secre- a.m., Blessing of New Hospital of Jesus Church ROCKFORD — April 22, 7:30 work done in the church is done tary; Jean Nosek, treasurer. Addition at OSF St. Anthony AURORA — April 19, 10 a.m., a.m., Sunday Mass, Cathedral by women,” he said to much The collection taken up dur- Medical Center Eighth Grade Aurora Catholic of St. Peter laughter. “We want our priests ing the Mass will go to support ELGIN — April 14, 10 a.m., Schools Mass, Aurora Central HUNTLEY — April 22, 2 p.m. to recognize and appreciate Bishop David Malloy’s prison that fact. We want to encourage ministry and to provide mis- Confirmation, St. Mary Church Catholic High School and 4 p.m., Confirmation, St. the priests to support DCCW salettes and religious reading ROCKFORD — April 15, 7:30 ST. CHARLES — April 20, Mary Church and get the word out to the material for the incarcerated. a.m., Sunday Mass, Cathedral 6 p.m., Confirmation for St. SPRING GROVE — April 24, seminarians about the work be- Attendees also shared a lun- of St. Peter Joseph, Elgin, at St. Patrick 5:30 p.m., Confirmation, St. ing done,” Msgr. Dzielak said. cheon and bag raffles with gift He shared his introduction to cards donated by diocesan par- DEKALB — April 15, 1 p.m., Church Peter Church the women’s organization more ish women’s groups.

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Member FDIC. (12/17) 11328 4 | FRIDAY APRIL 13, 2018 | The Observer D iocesan Foot Doctor’s Idea Becomes Holy Thursday Event at Carpenter’s Place

By Sharon Boehlefeld foot care utensils. stations. Features Editor “One gentleman said he’d “We’re looking for volun- never had a pair of new shoes,” teers,” she said. “They say so ROCKFORD—When Dr. said Cathy Barsema, director many times when they leave Kelly John saw a need, she act- of guest services. She and her (the art room) they have (had) ed on it. husband, Al Barsema, estab- a respite from their time on the And so the first foot clinic at lished The Carpenter’s Place in street.” The Carpenter’s Place was of- 2000 as a nonprofit homeless Cathy Barsema said they fered on Holy Thursday, March shelter in Rockford. hope to make the foot clinic a 29. Dr. John gives much of the twice-yearly event. Dr. John admits she was in- credit for organizing the event “I loved it,” said guest Vicki Dr. Brittany Wojnicki (left), a first year podiatry resident at OSF, chats spired by Jesus, who washed to Dr. Brittany Wojnicki, a first Fox. “He was doing my feet, with one of The Carpenter’s Place guests as he soaks his feet before the feet of His disciples on the year podiatry resident at OSF. and it felt so good.” getting his toenails trimmed. first Holy Thursday. She even Dr. Wojnicki’s husband, Dave brought a painting of the scene Wojnicki, also volunteered from her office and propped it for the clinic and brought his on an easel to greet guests at employer into the project. He the clinic. works at Field Fastener in Ma- “At that time, to wash the feet chesney Park. was a servant’s (job),” she said. “Brittany told me about the “He said, ‘I’m your servant. Do idea (last summer),” Dave said. as I did.’ I think that’s the heart “We started raising funds for of our service.” 85 to 87 pairs of shoes” by She is podiatry residency di- challenging units within Field at OSF HealthCare Saint Fastener to help. Anthony Medical Center and an He and several other Field OrthoIllinois podiatric surgeon. Fastener employees volun- Dr. John is also a member teered for the clinic, too. They of Holy Family Parish with also asked Beef-a-Roo, a Rock- her husband, Jeff Haugen, and ford restaurant chain, to do- their children, Ella, a senior at nate lunches for the clinic par- Boylan Central Catholic High ticipants. School, and Iver, an eighth- Shortly after the clinic opened grader at Holy Family School. at 10 a.m. on Holy Thursday, She was joined by OSF po- there were 63 people signed up diatry residents, students and for the service. More signed up several of their family mem- as the clinic progressed. bers, who provided the foot Some guests waited their care, often beginning with a (Observer photos/Sharon Boehlefeld) turns in the dining area, others As Nicki Brissey (front right) talks with Carpenter’s Place guest Vicki Fox, Brissey’s children (at back table) comforting soak, before nail in a nearby art room. Logan, Ailan, Maelle and Annabelle, help unwrap socks and other items for the day’s foot care participants. trimming and shoe sizing. Art instructor Sue Setter, Brissey’s husband, Nicholas, was also helping with other tasks. Volunteer Pastor Rebecca White Newgren After the care, guests re- who volunteers once a week, of Second-First Church in Rockford and Carol Ayars of The Carpenter’s Place staff, stand ready to find new ceived new shoes, socks and was helping guests set up art shoes for the day’s participants. Dr. Kelly John (standing, far right) talks to another guest (seated).

The Triduum Around the Diocese

Father Sylvester Nnaso (left) washes the feet of Mike Faivre At St. Patrick Preschool in St. Charles, Mette Clemente’s 4-year-old on Holy Thursday at St. Charles students gave Jesus a golden crown. All through Lent they practiced Borromeo Parish in Hampshire. works of charity and made little sacrifices. Each day they removed Faivre, 70, was born with cerebral thorns from the crown in their classroom. With all the thorns re- Father Ariel Valencia, parochial vicar, blesses baskets of Easter food palsy. After working in Dixon, he moved their crown turned into a golden crown for the King of Kings. during the Triduum at St. Peter Parish in Geneva. lives at Pine View Care Center in St. Charles.

(Photos provided) At the Easter Vigil at Blessed Sacrament in North Aurora, members of the Boecker family were fully received into the Church. Founding parishioners Helen and Tony Boecker sponsored their granddaugh- St. James Parish in Belvidere dec- ter-in-law, Carriann Boecker, and great-grandson, Nicholas Boecker. Jack Donovan, Nathan Beck and Abby May took part in living Sta- orated a side altar for the Easter Their grandson Marcus was also received into the church. Helen and tions of the Cross at St. Peter Parish in Geneva. Triduum. Tony’s newborn great grandson also was baptized. D iocesan The Observer | FRIDAY APRIL 13, 2018 | 5 Passion Play a First for Genoa Parish

By Amanda Hudson my family is there, and I have to be News Editor someone else.” Barkey agrees. “By the end of the GENOA—Most of us should be able performance, I’m feeling pretty sad,” to imagine ourselves somewhere in he says. “It is pretty humbling ... at the Jesus’ passion, perhaps as the Roman end of the day, I feel I really did beat soldiers who were doing their job and Christ.” along came Jesus. Even so, he says, “it is a great experi- Michael Barkey and Jerry Mlod- ence. It really makes you think.” zianowski played two of 12 Roman sol- The almost two hour production in- diers in this year’s production of “The cludes parts from all four Gospels. It Mystery of the Passion of Christ.” was written, and has been directed “I’m the one putting in the nails, cru- since 1995 in Canada and in the Rock- cifying Jesus,” Mlodzianowski says. ford Diocese, by Father Zdzislaw Fran- Doing so “started hard, but I’m glad I cis Wawryszuk who became pastor of did it ... It feels weird, especially when St. Catherine of Genoa Parish in Genoa last June. As happened in Father Francis’ other parishes, several St. Catherine parishio- ners stepped forward to volunteer to pro- vide the live passion play free of charge (Observer photos/Amanda Hudson) to parishioners and guests alike. The Parishioners portray Roman soldiers ‘nailing’ Jesus to the cross, while Mary, played by pews were filled on Good Friday, as they Jillian Boeckn, mourns in the shadows (far right). The crucifixion scene offered sounds as had been during two productions offered well as sights to help make it all seem real, even for the actors. on Palm Sunday weekend. This was the director of religious education at her ment. “I would never, ever put myself first year the play was offered in the Fox parish, notes that her husband never out there as a singer,” he says, adding a Valley. acted before. He was recruited by his bit wryly that “the Lord is always ask- The around 40 actors were accompa- friend, Father Francis, for the role. ing you to get out of your comfort zone.” nied by a choir of eight women who sang “He was practicing at home and at Agreeing to God’s requests to stretch between scenes, acapella-. Others work as well,” she says of his six weeks into something new is something Chris worked behind the scenes on publicity of preparation. “He was giving every- highly recommends. He points to “one and souvenirs. Father Francis provided body his lines.” of the best parts of Catholicism” that is the props and much of the adjustable In all of her husband’s contributions never discovered by those who do not costuming from his past productions. to the play, she says simply, “It really get involved in their church communi- Each rehearsal began with prayer, was real. I knew it had to be the Holy ties: “You cross paths and meet people announced the narrator, Jim Kush, at Spirit.” that you would never have met other- the Good Friday production. He then For his part, Chris admits that “my wise,” he says. “I had one person say prayed that prayer, asking God’s bless- eyebrows went up” when he saw the “Hey, it’s a small world, and I said ‘It’s ing on the endeavor. script filled with lines that were his to a big family.’ I think most people under- The play began with the scene from memorize and speak. estimate that ... the Last Supper and moved through Father Francis told us early on, “you “I’m so thankful I said yes ... It was familiar Gospel accounts to a very ef- have an advantage over regular actors,” fective crucifixion scene that somehow he recalls. “If we are meditating on the another encounter with Christ, and transcended the modern church of St. Passion, we will feel it. It’s not pretend- (with) every encounter with Christ, the Catherine’s. ing” like actors would do. better off we are. It’s a great thing.” Although we might be able to picture Even so, it was, he says, an “intimi- One moment of the play stands out for ourselves as soldiers or apostles, odds dating” role, in part because “everyone him. “The most surreal experience was are that few people imagine themselves has a favorite image of Jesus in mind when they lifted me up on the cross,” he in the role of Jesus. Diaconate candidate (and) I knew I wasn’t going to match says. “Even in the rehearsals it was just Christopher Olson somehow managed that ... I just put my trust in the Lord overwhelming.” to do just that, portraying Jesus genu- (and decided that) He will portray him- Each time he says that he thought, inely, without too much or too little dra- self. They’re going to see what he wants “Jesus did this for real. I’m just standing Chris Olson (Jesus) was flanked by Robbie matic flair. to show them. It seemed to work.” in this role ... it’s just overwhelming to Emmens (not seen) and Eliseo Camarena Olson and his wife, Jan, have been He had to trust God even more when think about.” (left) in the crucifixion scene that conclud- parishioners at St. Charles Borromeo he learned that he would sing a song – The entire experience was, Chris con- ed the production. Parish in Hampshire for 15 years. Jan, by himself, without musical accompani- cludes, “quite an honor and a privilege.”

St. Rita Parish Hosts First Filipino-English Stations of the Cross St. Rita Parish in Rockford hosted its first Filipino-English bilingual Stations of the Cross, March 16. Father Adrian O. La- dines, SSS, (left) parochial vicar at St. Rita, and Deacon Jovie Reyes of St. Bridget in Loves Park, led the stations. Men who at- tended carried a life-sized cross through the church. They plan to make it part of (Photos provided) their annual Lent activities. 6 | FRIDAY APRIL 13, 2018 | The Observer Around the Diocese Seventh Going on Now Graders Lead BATAVIA Stations in 6th Car raffle: Knights of Columbus Council 2191 are selling raffle tickets for a 2018 Ford St. Charles or $25,000. Drawing will be June 09. Cost: Seventh grade classes $100 per ticket. Info: www.kc2191.org at St. Patrick School in St. Charles guide their Send Summer schoolmates through the Stations of the Cross. Activities The children portrayed Christ’s journey to Cal- Submit now: It’s nearly time for our annual vary and His burial in Summer Save the Date section. Parishes, the tomb. This is a yearly schools and Catholic organizations should send information about picnics, fiestas, tradition for the sev- retreats, bake sales and other activities enth-grade classes and from Memorial Day through Labor Day. is directed by the junior Information must arrive in our office by April high religion teacher 16. See submission information below, left. Celeste Phelan. Christo- pher Haviland plays the guard and Zion Aggrey Save the Date portrays Jesus. April 23-28 AURORA (Photo provided) Iconography workshop: 9 a.m.-5 p.m.; St. George Byzantine , 720 Rural St. Leader: Phil Zimmeman. Icons:“Yakhrom Mother of God” (also called “Mt. Carmel“) or “St. Clare of Assisi.” Icon writing and What’s Up presentations each day. Register by April 16. Cost: $300 includes materials. Info: 630/851- 4002 or 630/631-4039 — $8 in advance, $10 at the door; $1 includes breakfast, lunch and materials. Mon April 16 for four raffle auction tickets. Info: Fran Info: www.sjnstcharles.org, 630/377-2797 April 25 ROCKFORD Early deadline for April 27 What’s Up Kaminski, 815/732-6655; parish center, SOUTH ELGIN 815/732-7383 CWL open house: 3:30-6 p.m.; 5065 Bent (for events April 30-May 6 and Summer Women’s pro-life luncheon: 11 a.m.- Tree Court. Catholic Women’s League Save the Date) ROCKFORD 1 p.m.; St. Charles Country Club, 1250 spring membership open house. Hostess: Graduate open house: 5-7 p.m.; Rock Country Club Road. Proceeds for Corbella Lorrie Blacker. For members and potential Tue April 17 Valley College Health Sciences Center, Clinic. Lunch, songs, prizes, silent auction members. Info: Nancy Gough, 815/398-7796, 3301 N. Mulford Road. Sponsor: OSF and testimonies. Reservations due [email protected] HUNTLEY HealthCare Saint Anthony College of April 13. 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Rockford, IL 61125. nationalcatholicsingles.com/ 630/232-0124 Nation/World The Observer | FRIDAY APRIL 13, 2018 | 7 Fountain Will News in Brief Continue to Help On Easter, Salvadorans bury priest Rome’s Needy assassinated during Holy Week VATICAN CITY (CNS)— LOLOTIQUE, El Salvador (CNS)—On Easter, Catholic Church of- Tourists throw a coin over their ficials laid to rest a 36-year-old priest violently killed during Holy shoulder into Rome’s Trevi Week — the latest victim of an Fountain hoping to return to unending wave of violence. Of- Rome one day, and the money ficials held the April 1 funeral scooped out of the fountain Mass for Father Walter Vasquez each week offers more concrete Jimenez, a priest of the Diocese hope to the city’s poor. of Santiago de Maria in eastern Rome’s city council extended El Salvador, in his native Lolo- (CNS photo/Gregory A. Shemitz) an agreement March 29 with Jose Velazquez, left, Greg Darr, Maryknoll Brother John Blazo and Lori tique, a picturesque town with Alpert look at a display of historical items after attending Mass April 2 Caritas Rome to entrust it with indigenous roots. Surrounded (CNS photo/Rhina Guidos) A group from St. Bonaventure at the Maryknoll Society Center in Maryknoll, N.Y. the tourists’ coins to provide by the sounds of drums and Parish in the department of food and shelter to the city’s marimbas, with a circle full of poor and needy. Usulutan, El Salvador, wear T- flower petals on the floor in According to Caritas Roma, shirts with a photo of slain Father Mass Marks Maryknoll front of the altar at Lolotique’s an estimated 1.4 million euros Walter Vasquez Jimenez before ($1.7 million) worth of coins Holy Trinity Church, Father his funeral. ‘Sending’ Centennial were tossed into the famed Vasquez’s casket was surround- fountain in 2016. ed by his mother, friends, parishioners, the country’s only cardi- MARYKNOLL, N.Y. Asia, Africa and Latin Amer- After 20 years, the city coun- nal and four bishops. Thousands packed into the town square to (CNS)—One hundred years ica. cil was considering canceling remember the priest. Father Vasquez was headed to celebrate a after receiving Vatican ap- Maryknoll, properly known its agreement and instead using Holy Thursday Mass in the department of San Miguel March 29, proval to begin missionary as the Catholic Foreign Mission the money to help fund vari- hours after renewing his vows as a priest at a chrism Mass, when work in China, the Maryknoll Society of America, was estab- ous projects in the financially a group of heavily armed men wearing masks stopped the car he lished in 1911 by the bishops Fathers and Brothers recalled strapped city. and parishioners were traveling in. The passengers were robbed the “original inspiration and of the United States to recruit, at gunpoint and the priest was fatally shot. holy stubbornness” of the soci- train, send and support Ameri- ety’s founders during a celebra- can missioners overseas. Mexican government stops caravan of tory centennial Mass April 2 in Father Finch recounted the migrants after critical Trump tweets Maryknoll. “epic journey to Asia” made by Father Raymond J. Finch, Bishop (then-Father) James E. MEXICO CITY (CNS)—A caravan of Central American migrants Maryknoll superior general, Walsh in 1918. traveling through Mexico was stopped after its push to the U.S. was the main celebrant of the At the time, mission ter- border set off a barrage of criticism from U.S. President Donald Mass at the Queen of Apostles ritories were assigned by the Trump. The caravan of more than 1,000 migrants was winding Chapel at the Maryknoll Soci- Vatican Congregation for its way through the Isthmus of Tehuantepec in southern Oaxaca ety Center. the Propagation of the Faith. state April 2 when the Mexican government announced it would Flags of many of the 47 coun- Bishop Walsh had to negotiate move to break up the mass movement of people through the tries where Maryknoll mis- with other mission groups to country. In a joint statement, the interior and foreign relations sioners have served were at- cede areas of responsibility to ministries said the migrants — mostly from Guatemala, Hon- tached to pillars in the chapel Maryknoll before seeking Vati- duras and El Salvador — would be subject to “administrative as a reminder of the organiza- can approval. The process took tion’s efforts to evangelize and seven years and was concluded procedures.” Most would be given 10 days to leave the country, strengthen the local church in in April 1918. though they could ask for extensions, while those considered (CNS photo/Cindy Wooden) “vulnerable” such as pregnant women and the infirm could re- A tourist throws a coin over his ceive humanitarian visas, media outlets reported. “Under no cir- Some Worry about Brexit Impact shoulder into Rome’s Trevi Foun- cumstances does the government of Mexico promote irregular tain in 2016. migration,” the statement said. On Good Friday Agreement DUBLIN (CNS)—April 10 marks the 20th anniversary of the historic Good Friday Agreement, which brought Coming April 27! peace to Northern Ireland. 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The Third Commandment is Ethically Speaking follow the commandment without understood to include not only the their jobs becoming an obstacle worship owed to God, but also a by Father to living out their faith as fully as rest from our normal routine and Kenneth possible. work. Wasilewski Implicit in this is also the simple It is easy to focus on that first Diocesan Ethicist recognition that human beings are part while forgetting the second. [email protected] made for things beyond what work But it reminds us that Sunday is can offer or provide. to be a different day than other days of the week. Nevertheless, by and large, Sunday has become It is meant to be a day set apart, and this is to be just another day of the week. Given this reality, reflected with how we spend the whole of the day Christians are confronted with several dilemmas. insofar as possible. First, defining what constitutes “work” is Beyond attending Mass, we should ensure that sometimes difficult. we’re attending to our spiritual and physical needs, Second, Sundays are sometimes the only day of including our need for leisure and rest. We may the week that we can do certain necessary chores. not think of pursuing leisure as fulfilling God’s Third, many people have jobs which require work command, especially as Americans where it is on Sunday. something that we may feel we need to earn, or How are we to deal with these realities and still something reserved for when all our work is done. be faithful to living the Third Commandment well? But the Catechism of the Catholic Church We’ll look at the first dilemma here and the others reminds us that leisure is a good and necessary in a future column. (CNS photo/Karen Callaway, Chicago Catholic) thing to live a balanced, healthy and holy life (see In this context, it is perhaps best to try to Cardinal Blase J. Cupich of Chicago blesses a sick CCC 2184, 2185). While there may be times and understand “work” in contrast to “recreation.” child at Lurie Children’s Hospital last Christmas. circumstances where there is legitimate or even When we think of “work” we might think in terms Anointing a sick person with the oil of healing urgent need to work on Sundays, the catechism of a job, but we might also be tempted to think and peace petitions God to strengthen, comfort, also cautions us to be on guard lest these situations encourage and even heal the person. become habitual or the norm. generally of physical activity. The commandment wants to protect us from Food for Thought Reserving Sunday as a day of rest and leisure has grown increasingly difficult given our modern our normal “work” routine or the kind of tasks context. Activities that even a few years ago would which simply spend our time and energy without On the Sacraments: never be scheduled on a Sunday are done routinely offering any true refreshment in the process, and today, further crowding already overburdened furthermore, don’t need to be done on the Lord’s Anointing the Sick schedules. Stores being open seven days a week day. Physical activity, even strenuous physical activity, The sacrament of anointing of the sick — even 24 hours a day, seven days a week — have become not only common, but somewhat expected. is not what the commandment is forbidding, — sometimes called the sacrament of Other businesses frequently offer at least some however. the sick — continues the healing work of service on Sundays. For some, Sunday may be a day to engage in Jesus. Naturally, there are still a few hold outs — strenuous activities (like exercise or yard work) as The sacrament is appropriate for any- including some famous holdouts like “Chick-fil-A” forms of recreation. As such, they can offer a person the opportunity to recharge and feel refreshed, one whose health is seriously imperiled and “Hobby Lobby” — both of which are Christian- run businesses trying to honor the commandment which really gets to the heart of the word itself: “re- by sickness or advanced age. by refusing to open on Sunday. This is done not creation.” The legitimate need for human beings to Continuing an audience series on the only because of the owner’s faith, but as a simple be active is part of what the commandment seeks to sacraments Feb. 26, 2014, Pope Francis justice to their employees — wanting them, protect. As such, it reminds busy people like us of looked to the parable of the good Samari- especially those who are Christians, to be able to something all too easily forgotten. tan in Luke’s Gospel to explore the “mys- tery” that shines through the anointing of the sick. Scripture Reflection for April 15, 3rd Sunday of Easter In the parable, the good Samari- tan pours oil and wine on the victim’s wounds and then takes him to an inn Peace, Unexpectedly to care for him and entrusts him to the By Kevin Perrotta for a heart transplant, a woman is reaching out to innkeeper’s care. Catholic News Service an attorney because her husband is threatening to Oil in the story “makes us think of that divorce her, a friend ... but do I need to compose a which is blessed by the bishop each year f you ever watched “Wait Until Dark,” it’s hard list? at the Holy Thursday Chrism Mass, pre- to forget the scene in which thuggish, knife- We’re familiar with the problems that rob us wielding Alan Arkin suddenly springs toward cisely in view of the anointing of the sick,” of peace. Some are in our circumstances, others blind, alone-in-her-kitchen-at-night Audrey are inside us — regrets over how we raised our Pope Francis told the crowd gathered at IHepburn. St. Peter’s Square. What a moment! One reviewer called it “a terrific children, guilt over ... but there I go again, making The wine “is a sign of Christ’s love and jolt.” For the way it reliably induces screams in the an unnecessary list. grace, which flow from the gift of His audience, my wife deems With such obstacles, can we experience peace? life for us and are expressed in all their it the perfect preteen girls’ Today’s readings point toward the removal of the sleepover movie. biggest obstacle. Jesus is “the expiation of our sins,” richness in the sacramental life of the The scene comes to mind the second reading tells us. “Repent, therefore, and Church,” the pope added. when I hear today’s Gospel. be converted, that your sins may be wiped away,” Finally, the innkeeper represents the On Easter evening, the St. Peter says in the first reading. (How far is the Church, the Christian community, Pope disciples were in a room, nearest confessional?) Francis explained. “It is us,” he said, “to talking. All at once, “while But what about the things that are not going to be whom each day the Lord entrusts those they were still speaking,” changed right away, or ever, or that it is too late to Jesus “stood in their midst.” change? In anxiety or sorrow, in sickness or need, is who are afflicted in body and spirit, so They were “terrified and thought that they were that we might lavish all of His mercy and seeing a ghost.” St. Luke doesn’t say they screamed, peace possible? salvation upon them without measure.” but I bet they did. Peace is in Jesus. And Jesus is able to be with Don’t hesitate to call a priest to admin- The irony is that Jesus’ first words to them were us despite any obstacle, as he showed by being suddenly, terrifyingly, really present with His ister the sacrament to the ill or elderly, “Peace be with you.” Peace was not what they felt! Maybe there’s an entry into the Gospel here for disciples that Easter evening. Pope Francis urged. us. When we hear, “Peace be with you,” do we feel After they recovered from their shock, they were “It is Jesus Himself who comes to relieve peace? I know, peace is more than a feeling. But it is “incredulous for joy.” the sick person, to give him strength, to something we can feel. And we certainly know the give him hope, to help him; and also to feeling of not being at peace. Reflection questions: In some unexpected way, forgive his sins,” he said. The reasons we’re not at peace are various: a boy Jesus wants to reveal Himself to you. Are you in our parish is in the intensive care unit waiting willing to respond? Our Catholic View The Observer | FRIDAY APRIL 13, 2018 | 9 Di erent View CNS/Harley Schwandron Sweet Spots And Sacri ces

I have no business singing high C. The second a hymn starts, I can tell by the notes whether the song’s range is in my comfort zone. Solidly alto, I am happiest singing F, G and A above middle C. But B thins out, C stretches Faith at Home and D screeches. (I don’t even attempt E — leave that to the by Laura Kelly sopranos.) Fanucci Yet when I’m tempted to sit out a song, I remind myself: This is Mass, not the opera. Catholic News Service When we worship, it’s not a performance but a time for praise of God. We gather as the body of Christ: sopranos, altos, tenors and basses — but also the tone-deaf and tuneless. So I try not to stop singing, even when my voice isn’t strong enough. We all have a sweet spot, but we don’t get to stay there. We’re singing the whole song together. Same for our callings. Clinging Correctly to Jesus Life at home brings its own sweet spots. We each have daily tasks we don’t mind and chores we detest. But we know we “Stop holding onto me,” Person in the Pew That path, you might say, says Jesus to an ecstatic is the all-in love that Christ are working toward the whole — the good of the household. So we scrub the crusty pans, fi le the taxes or drag the garbage Mary Magdalene in St. by Amanda demonstrated throughout John’s Gospel account His life. Love of a cans down to the curb, not only because it needs to be done but Hudson because we love the people we serve. of the happenings after News Editor shallow depth eventually Jesus’ resurrection. The Observer evaporates. That gradual Certain stages of parenting feel like sweet spots, too. I have Honoring her loving joy loss of love can happen friends who revel in the teenage years and friends who wish for [email protected] at fi nding Him alive, Jesus whether it is love of another smaller, simpler days. Some parents adore babies while others likely gave that command person, of the Church or of enjoy having young adults launched. with kindness, gently pushing Mary Jesus, His Father and their Spirit. But we don’t get to pick and choose. All the years must be Magdalene out to arm’s length as she strove Love needs to run deep in order to lived through (and loved through). All the day’s tasks must get to temper her barely-controlled enthusiasm. withstand the challenges that inevitably done, even if we want to play to our strengths. We have to pitch He does the same with us today. come in spiritual journeys, which after all in together. Hopefully we all have had moments here are tied into the ups and downs of life itself. We’re singing the whole song here. and there over the years when Jesus felt near Such love is sacrifi cial — a practice of And it’s not just the business of raising children. Caregiving to us in an almost tangible way. Or perhaps self-sacrifi ce that builds strength, fortitude, can be a calling that’s unplanned or unwanted. Marriage is far we’ve experienced a circumstance that we perseverance and the ability to do what we from smooth sailing in every season. suddenly are certain is not circumstantial but don’t want to do and to go where we don’t Family life, friendships, assuredly was God-directed for our benefi t. want to go — simply in order to do God’s professional work, parish ertain stages of In heaven, we’ll be blessed with having will. life — any vocation where a known, uninterrupted connection to the Although Lent is a natural time to we deal with humans (spoiler Cparenting feel like God who loves us beyond all imagining. practice the sacrifi ces inherent to giving alert: all callings) requires us sweet spots, too. But here on earth, Jesus tells us in varying something up or to doing something extra, to move from our sweet spot ways not to hold onto experiences that such practices are useful for our spiritual into unfamiliar territory. might be called touches of God. lives any time of the year. Whatever we Adult children often feel unprepared to care for aging We hear for example from saints who tell can do without attracting attention that will parents. Blended families navigate the delicate balance us that serving God is more of a day-to-day, boost our deliberate actions to show our between biological parents and stepparents. But we sacrifi ce often ordinary walk rather than a series love for Jesus is helpful. out of love for the ones we serve. of mountaintop moments. Such peaks are That might include something as simple Which means we don’t always get to stick to our sweet spot. meant to help us keep going, reminding us as ordering something on the menu we Too often vocation gets narrowed to just one thing: the with clarity that being with God in heaven don’t particularly want — just to take a step magical point “where your deep gladness and the world’s is worth a lifetime of sacrifi ces and eff orts back from our attachment to favorite foods deep hunger meet” (according to a well-known defi nition by to grow in holiness. and make a bit more room for God inside. Frederick Buechner). But we must take care to not lose sight Or we may decide that now is the time Instead, most of us fi nd that our lives, relationships and of that heavenly goal, because our earthly to tackle a “biggie” — like beginning the work are a muddy mix of duties and delights, limits and moments of happiness and satisfaction in work of forgiving someone who continues circumstances, gifts and responsibilities. faith and in life can be a tempting substitute. to be a huge thorn in our side. God calls to each person within the circumstances of his or A quest for religious experiences can turn Either approach can help us learn to her life, with the gifts each has been given for the good of the into something of an addiction, for example. make it a priority to serve the Lord instead community, beyond the limits of our comforts or desires, for There are folks who bounce from church of ourselves. the service of others. to church, seeking to be fed sweet treats It sounds like a contradiction to say that On any given day, I can face the tasks of my callings the each week, such as incredible music and we need to cling to Jesus through thick and same way I start a new hymn. I might want to stick to what social connections. As soon as they hear of thin, without holding tightly onto Him. But feels smooth, but the greater good lies in the beauty of the something that sounds better, off they go. we can be certain that when she released her whole. Some might fi nd themselves going to grip, Mary Magdalene did not forget Jesus As St. Paul wrote, “We should grow in every way into Him retreat after retreat in a similar quest. Still or love Him any less. Letting go, she was who is the head, Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and others become enamored with particular able to follow His instructions. By doing held together by every supporting ligament, with the proper personalities within their religious realm. what He wanted instead of what she wanted, functioning of each part, brings about the body’s growth and In all that it is terribly easy to lose sight Mary Magdalene became someone who at builds itself up in love” (Eph 4:15-16). of the goal of heaven and the narrow path times is called “the apostle to the Apostles.” Where we feel weak, others may be strong. At church and at leading there. We can follow her lead. home, we’re singing the whole song together.

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Deaths Parish offices may forward death and wedding information using forms at http://observer.rockforddiocese.org/contact-us. You AURORA—St. Joseph: Delores may also request death and wedding postcards by calling 815/399- Harris, 94, March 20; Albert F. 4300, ext. 383. We encourage you to send the information as soon as Felton, 90, March 25; you receive it. Thank you. St. Therese of Jesus Parish: Jose Olvera, 86, March 6; Amalia Tor- “Dick” Ely, 80, March 24. others to believe the Good News. res, 80, March 20; Courtesy of www.priestsforlife.org BATAVIA—Holy Cross: Kath- Mass Meditation ryn D. Kohoe, 95, Feb. 21; Bob Stewardship Moment Watts, 84, March 8; Sunday, April 15 (3rd Sunday of Easter): The disciples in today’s Service in Christ’s name: Christ FREEPORT—St. Thomas Aqui- Gospel came to know Jesus in Robert Bierk, 85, March 28; told us that we are to be commit- nas: the breaking of the bread. When ted to service in His name. Why is ST. CHARLES—St. Patrick: we share what we have with those this? Simply because Christ has no Richard Rabbitt, 92, Dec. 17,2017; who are in need, we, too, will dis- Marjorie Rabbitt, 92, Jan. 1; Mari- cover Jesus in our midst. one else on earth but those com- lyn Duhaime, 94, March 3; Philip mitted to God to do God’s work. Holota, 75, March 13; Clifford Courtesy of Sharon Hueckel We are chosen. We are appointed. Johnson, 81, March 13; Audrey We are responsible. And this will Heath, 80, March 15; Margaret Re- Life Moment be true for as long as we live. We gelbrugge, 96, March 20; are called to do for others what Pray: That the witness of the par- others do for us. SPRING GROVE—St. Peter: ish community to the risen Christ Mary Giaimo, 86, March 20; may echo into our neighborhoods, Courtesy of Parish Publications WALTON— St. Mary: Richard schools and work places, inviting “Stewardship” newsletter

Rock Falls Students Mark Holy Week Ember Lopez (below left) introduces the Di- vine Mercy Chaplet to fellow students at St. Andrew School in Rock Falls on Tuesday of Holy Week. Fourth- and fifth-grade students perform living stations on Wednesday for students and parishioners. Pontius Pilate (Cooper Spears) con- demns Jesus (Jaxon Sub- lett) to death. (Photos provided) If you or someone you know has been the victim of sexual abuse by an employee or mem- ber of the clergy of the Rockford Diocese, report the matter to law enforcement in the county in which the conduct occurred and then please call the hot-line number: 815/293-7540.

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FAMILY 40 Years of Life CORNER 1st Way at a glance Morning 1st Way Life Center 714 Fairview Ave. O ering Johnsburg, IL 60051 815/385-2999 O Jesus, through the 1stwaymchenry.com Immaculate Heart of Services Mary,  Con dential pregnancy I o er you my prayers, testing (Observer photos/Dan Szpekowski)  Counseling works, joys and Among supporters at the 1st Way Life Center 40th anniversary dinner were (from left) Paul Dreiske,  Classes in pregnancy, parent- su erings of this day Donna Dreiske, Nate McCormick, Kris McCormick, Becky Prestwich, Tammy Dreiske, Mike Dreiske, and Dee Prestwich. ing, childcare and life skills For all the intentions of  Adoption information your Sacred heart,  Ultrasounds In union with the Holy 1st Way Supporters Mark Anniversary with Gala  Maternity and baby supplies  Moms’ group meetings Sacri ce of the Mass BY PATRICIA SZPEKOWSKI throughout the world, Observer Correspondent S t a For the salvation of Judy Cocks, director souls, the reparation hen I came to 1st Way Life Center, I fell into the Dr. Richard Persino, MD, medi- of sins, the reunion of caring arms of this local shelter program,” said a cal director all Christians, 1st Way client. “I was in a really rough spot and felt Val Bischof, RN, nurse manager, sonographer And in particular for the warm and welcomed.” These words from one of 1st Way Life Center’s Jan Doyle, clinical director intentions of the Holy Marti Marshall, RN, sonogra- clients were part of a video shown to more than 250 guests attending the Father this month. ‘W pher Pathway to Hope banquet in Crystal Lake on April 6. Amen. Statistics — from “Catholic The event, underwritten by anonymous methods  299 women were served in Household Blessings and donors, was a gala event celebrating the to reach the past year Prayers,” USCCB organization’s 40 years of standing for life women  65% were single in McHenry County. and girls  62% were unemployed “God has blessed us to help women from who are  7% did not have a high the moment we began at St. Mary’s Church abortion school diploma in McHenry in 1978,” said Connie Freund, minded.  69 babies were born to who was 1st Way’s director for 35 years. Statistics clients in 2017 Since retiring from the position fi ve show that Marriage on Tap years ago, she says she is pleased “to be a 80 percent Financial support April 22, 5:30-9 p.m., volunteer on call and provide training for of women  Pathway to Hope banquet new volunteers.” choose  Individual donors Mauh-Nah-Tee-See While the dinner was funded by Country Club, 5151 Founding members and volunteers of the life after a donor, attendees had a chance  Business donations Guilford Road, Rockford organization since it opened as Birthright seeing to make their own contributions.  Tithing from local churches of McHenry were honored in the video their baby  Baby Bottle Boomerang What: 6 p.m. dinner, which highlighted the past, present and on an  Mother’s Day  ower sales 7 p.m. talk. Msgr. Daniel future of 1st Way. ultrasound.  Grants limited to speci c Deutsch, pastor, St. Bridget Director Judy Cocks thanked everyone. To provide free services to women in projects in Loves Park and diocesan “This is a big year for us and a signifi cant McHenry County, 1st Way Life Center  Quilt ra e Vicar for Clergy and moment in our history,” she said. “God receives monetary support from churches, RelIgious, will talk about is ever present with us. 1st Way has had organizations, individuals and businesses. Knights of Columbus sup- “Mysterious Marriage.” over 13,000 meetings with women and “We are a Christian company supporting porters Cost: $25 per couple girls in the past 30 years. Now, more than unapologetic ministries,” said Mike  Father McCormick Coun- Includes pasta bar, chicken ever, we must become more relevant in the Dreiske, CEO of a family-owned moving cil 3880, St. Thomas the and salad, cash bar. community and optimize our outreach and company in McHenry. He and his wife, Apostle, Crystal Lake Advance ticket purchase services for women.” Tammy, are parents of seven children,  St. Mary Council 11666, St. required. “We must evaluate what works and what ranging in age from 7 to 16. Mary, Huntley Info: St. Bridget, Loves doesn’t,” she said. “Our goal is to intercept “1st Way Life Center is a signifi cant,  Park; St. Rita and Holy Sacred Heart Council 14376, women seeking abortion and provide them solid Christian organization that supports Sacred Heart, Marengo Family, Rockford; https:// with love, care and education. We still are the sanctity of life,” he said. marriageontaprockford.  Queen of the Most Holy Ro- missing women who think they have no Attendees received a Precious Feet pin wordpress.com; 815/282- sary Council 12302, St. Peter, other option.” which indicated the exact size and shape of 6642 Spring Grove Cocks said 1st Way will be using new a 10-week unborn baby’s feet.

The Church is a spiritual family and the family is the domestic Church. ... We could say that the family and the parish are the two places where the communion of love, which fi nds its ultimate source in God, takes place. ‘— Pope Francis ’