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Gender Equality and Work–Life Balance Pressure to achieve work–life “balance” has recently become a signifi cant part of the cultural fabric of working life in United States. A very few privi- leged employees tout their ability to fi nd balance between their careers and the rest of their lives, but most employees face considerable organizational and economic constraints that hamper their ability to maintain a reason- able “balance” between paid work and other life aspects—and it is not only women who struggle. Increasingly, men also fi nd it diffi cult to “do it all.” Women have long noted the near impossibility of balancing multiple roles, but it is only recently that men have been encouraged to see themselves beyond their breadwinner selves. Gender Equality and Work–Life Balance describes the work–life practices of men in the United States. The purpose is to increase gender equality at work for all employees. With a focus on leave policy inequalities, this book argues that men experience a phenomenon called the “glass handcuffs,” which prevents them from leaving work to participate fully in their fami- lies, homes, and other life events. It highlights the cultural, institutional, organizational, and occupational conditions which make gender equality in work–life policy usage diffi cult. This social justice book ultimately draws conclusions about how to minimize inequalities at work. Gender Equality and Work–Life Balance is unique as it laces together some theoretical concepts that have little previous association, including entrepreneurialism, leave policy, occupational identity, and the economic necessities of families. This book will therefore be of particular interest to researchers and academics alike in the disciplines of Communication, Gen- der Studies, Human Resource Management, Employment Relations, Sociol- ogy, and Cultural Studies. Sarah Jane Blithe is Assistant Professor of Communication Studies at the University of Nevada, Reno, USA. Routledge Research in Employment Relations Series editors: Rick Delbridge and Edmund Heery Cardiff Business School, UK Aspects of the employment relationship are central to numerous courses at both undergraduate and postgraduate level. Drawing from insights from industrial relations, human resource manage- ment and industrial sociology, this series provides an alternative source of research-based materials and texts, reviewing key developments in employ- ment research. Books published in this series are works of high academic merit, drawn from a wide range of academic studies in the social sciences. For a full list of titles in this series, please visit www.routledge.com 9 Partnership and 14 A Comparison of the Trade Modernisation in Union Merger Process Employment Relations in Britain and Germany Edited by Mark Stuart and Joining forces? 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The Open Access version of this book, available at www.taylorfrancis. com, has been made available under a Creative Commons Attribution-Non Commercial-No Derivatives 4.0 license. Trademark Notice: Product or corporate names may be trademarks or registered trademarks, and are used only for identifi cation and explanation without intent to infringe. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Blithe, Sarah. Gender equality and work-life balance : glass handcuffs and working men in the U.S. / by Sarah Blithe. pages cm. — (Routledge research in employment relations ; 35) Includes bibliographical references and index. 1. Work and family—United States. 2. Work-life balance— United States. 3. Parental leave—United States. 4. Fatherhood— United States. 5. Discrimination in employment—United States. I. Title. HD4904.25.B58 2015 306.3'60973—dc23 2015004562 ISBN: 978-1-138-85677-6 (hbk) ISBN: 978-1-315-71919-1 (ebk) Typeset in Sabon by Apex CoVantage, LLC For Kevin, the love of my life, who is my partner in all things, and our children, Brooklynn and Braxton, who fi ll my life with joy, laughter, and love. Contents Acknowledgments xi 1 Outlining the Glass Handcuffs Phenomenon 1 PART I Contexts for the Glass Handcuffs Phenomenon 2 Organizational Contexts for the Glass Handcuffs Phenomenon 23 3 Situating Leave of Absence Policies 37 4 Perceptions and Meanings of Work–Life Balance and Leaves of Absence for Men 54 PART II Causes for the Glass Handcuffs 5 Macro Discourses of Dedication, Passion, and Commitment 75 6 “But I Was a Programmer before I Was a Dad”: Occupational Uniqueness and Occupational Identity 103 7 “It Is My Responsibility to Find the Right Balance”: Entrepreneurialism as a Constraint 125 8 “It’s Kind of . a Man Thing”: Gender, Economics, and the Impossibility of Leave 140 9 “Who Needs Time Off?” Reframing Leaves of Absence as Unnecessary 160 x Contents PART III Finding the Key: Why Understanding the Glass Handcuffs Matters 10 Conclusions and Implications of the Glass Handcuffs 175 Appendix A: Feminist Standpoint Theory and Researcher Positionality 191 Appendix B: Data Collection and Analysis 197 Index 215 Acknowledgments Thank you to Niko, Kiya, and Kodiak, the very best furry writing buddies. Thank you to my parents, Michael and Jane Coleman, for always sup- porting and encouraging my education—I love you and appreciate you. With gratitude and love for all my family in Colorado, Arizona, and California, particularly my brothers, Mikey and Adam; my nieces; my god- daughters; and family-in-law, especially my sisters-in-law, Stephanie and Kelly, and my parents-in-law, Richard and Dianne Blithe, who consistently amaze me with their love, wisdom, and support. This work would not have been possible without the incredible guidance from my graduate school advisor, Tim Kuhn. I am indebted and grateful for my mentor, Karen Ashcraft, for her remark- ably generous and always fun guidance in teaching, research, and life. I am extremely grateful for the guidance of Catherine Ashcraft, who invited me into exciting research projects that assisted in the development of my research skills and led to the topic of this book. My deepest thanks to the team at Routledge for supporting the develop- ment of this book and to Robert Swanson for the excellent indexing services. I am so very thankful for the men who agreed to give their time to par- ticipate in the interviews for this study. Their words, ideas, successes, and struggles were quite inspiring to me, and I hope I have represented their feelings and experiences well. I am also grateful to the colleagues, teachers, and researchers who read and assisted with various drafts of this project, provided incredible guidance in my writing, offered invaluable perspectives about research, and/or pro- vided general encouragement and support for my research, including Janell Bauer, Jenny Beer, Stephanie Bor, Stephanie Brooks, Stephanie Coleman, Bob Craig, Stan Deetz, Elizabeth Eger, Lisa Flores, Susana Martinez Guillem, Jenna Hanchey, Katie Harris, Gwen Hullman, James Fortney, Michele Jackson, Matt Koschmann, Jennifer Lanterman, Katie Keeran, Jennifer Malkowski, Virginia McCarver, Jamie McDonald, Megan Morrissey, Kristina Ruiz- Mesa, Amy Pason, Jessica Robles, Christy-Dale Sims, Mary Stewart, Karen Tracy, Dani Watkins, and Amy Way.