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Obama certifies start in New York DADT REPEAL by Chuck Colbert page 6 The marriage-equality movement enjoyed a burst of new energy July 24, as jubilant same-sex couples across New York state be- gan marrying under a new law that took ef- fect at midnight. “Today we celebrate our families, our equal- ity, and how far we have come as a commu- nity,” said Kevin Cathcart, executive director of Lambda Legal, a national advocacy orga- nization, in a statement. New York City Council Speaker Christine C. Quinn, who is openly gay, told NBC Nightly News, “Today those families were told they matter and that the state of New York cares about them as much as anyone else.” POINT From Niagara Falls to Albany to New York FOUNDATION City hundreds of gay and lesbians applied for GALA marriage licenses. The first couple to marry under the new law page 34 was Kitty Lambert, 54, and Cheryle Rudd, 53, of Buffalo, who exchange vows in a religious ceremony at Niagara Falls—shortly after mid- night. In New York City alone, 823 couples were granted marriage licenses with many of those couples expected to marry right away. City clerks’ offices opened in all five boroughs as judges were on hand to officiate and to waiver the state’s mandatory 24-hour waiting period between licensure and wedding cer- emony. By day’s end, city officials said 659 couples had picked up their licenses. The first couple to marry legally in the city was Phyllis Siegel, 76, and Connie Kopelov, IFTI NASIM 84. The Chelsea couple has been together for DIES 23 years. Even the mayor got into the act Sunday page 13 Mayor Bloomberg officiates at the marriage ceremony of two of his aides, John Feinblatt and Jonathan Mintz, July 24. Photo by Edward Reed Turn to page 5 Lakeview crime: The numbers By ERICA DEMAREST “The crime rate has been fairly steady and kind of on through the end of June. While the change is minute a downward trend for the past several years,” said Com- (only 0.1 percent), it does mark a decrease in reported In the wake of several recent violent crimes in Boys- mander Kathleen Boehmer of the 23rd Police District, crimes. town, many residents are adamant that crime is on the which includes Boystown and most of Lakeview. “Sometimes it’s more of a perception issue than it rise in the neighborhood. Hundreds have gathered at With the exception of a spike in 2008 (which cor- is an actual crime issue,” said Max Bever of Alderman community meetings demanding solutions, and some related to a citywide crime increase), crime rates in the Tunney’s office. “With the advent of the Internet and even claim this summer’s incidents are the worst 23rd District have dropped every year since 2006. That media attention, sometimes there can be more atten- they’ve ever seen. year, there were 3,629 reported crimes in the district. tion paid… and then there’s a perception that there’s To get a better picture of Lakeview crime trends, the By 2010, the number had declined more than 8 percent been a huge spike in crime.” DAVE KOZ Windy City Times examined citywide and district-by- to 3,326. On July 3, a Boystown resident filmed a rowdy late- INTERVIEW district Chicago Police Department crime data going So far, 2011 crime rates look like they’ll follow a simi- night altercation that led to a stabbing, and posted page 29 back to 2006. While some media outlets have claimed lar trend. Between January and June 2010, there were the video on YouTube. The third violent attack in three there’s been an increase in crime in the neighborhood, 1,508 crimes reported in the 23rd District. This year’s our findings suggest otherwise. numbers are remarkably similar, with 1,506 crimes Turn to page 10 2 July 27, 2011 WINDY CITY TIMES CHICAGO SKY – MAKING IT BETTER
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The nal party Pubert interviews at Encompass Owl City’s in Indiana. Adam Young. page 25 page 14 Find Nightspots on www.WindyCityQueercast.com 4 July 27, 2011 WINDY CITY TIMES guaranteed by the state constitution. ONLINE AT Garden State Equality also held a rally July 24 at a New Jersey park closest to New York, with a WINDYCITYMEDIAGROUP.COM N.Y. marriage view of the Manhattan skyline across the Hudson NATIONAL NEWS River. In Maryland, where a marriage equality bill passed the state House but failed to pass the equality spurs Senate in March, Gov. Martin O’Malley seems now to be following the example of Cuomo, saying he will take a more active role in pushing for mar- riage equality next session. on other states Cuomo, whom Wolfson called the “indispens- —GOP Gov. Rick Perry able champion” of the New York bill, had worked (left) supports gay by Dana Rudolph closely with marriage equality advocates and marriage in N.Y. Keen News Service sent the initial version of the marriage bill to the legislature. He then met with legislative —Gay San Diego man Hundreds of same-sex couples married in New leaders to work out a final version of the bill stoned to death York July 24, the first day they could legally do that addressed some lawmakers’ concerns about so. additional protections for religious groups and —Pop-up gay museum Just as the 1969 Stonewall Riots in New York the charities and educational institutions they in New York City City provided a lift to the nascent movement for operate. equal rights for gays across the country, same- O’Malley announced July 22 that he would sex weddings in the Empire State appears to be sponsor marriage equality legislation in the giving a boost to marriage-equality efforts out- 2012 legislative session. He tasked his director ballot to approve marriage equality. The state side its borders. of legislative affairs, Joseph Bryce, with coordi- Title Board, on July 20, approved language for Activists in at least two states (Maine and nating efforts among a broad coalition of LGBT, such a question. Supporters of marriage equality Colorado) are pushing for 2012 ballot measures civil rights, and faith-based groups, as well as must now collect 86,105 signatures in order to to seek marriage equality there, a lawsuit has people across the state. place it on the ballot. been launched in New Jersey for full marriage O’Malley said at a press conference that the Similar measures could also appear in Califor- rights, and in Maryland, a Democratic governor law provides equal protection and the free exer- nia and Oregon. is prepared to follow the example of New York Gov. Martin O’Malley. cise of religion to all, adding, “other states have An exception to the trend comes in Minne- Gov. Andrew Cuomo in leading the state legisla- found a way to protect both of these fundamen- sota, where the legislature has approved a ballot ture to marriage equality. tal beliefs.” question that seeks to ban marriage of same- discrimination, and Republican senators provid- With the addition of New York, the percentage In addition, in Maine, Equality Maine Execu- sex couples under the state constitution. It is ed the winning margin.” He called the biparti- of same-sex couples living in states that allow tive Director Betsy Smith said in a statement already banned under state law. The same could san vote “a major shift in the national political them to marry has now more than doubled— June 28 that the “victory in New York generates happen in North Carolina, where the legislature calculus for both parties” that “points the way from 6.9 percent to 14.3 percent, according to wind in the sails of the national movement to is considering bills for such a ballot measure. to more victories.” an analysis of the U.S. Census Bureau’s 2009 win marriage, and more specifically, of our ef- Cuomo, in a press conference after he signed The New York legislature was also the first to American Community Survey by the Williams In- forts here in Maine.” the marriage equality bill, called New York “a pass a marriage bill without first passing civil stitute of UCLA. Equality Maine and Gay and Lesbian Advocates beacon for social justice,” noting that the move- unions or domestic partnerships, Wolfson said. Also, the percentage of the U.S. population and Defenders announced June 30 that they are ments for equally for women, for protection of In New Jersey, which allows same-sex couples living in a state that allows same-sex couples to taking steps to place a citizen’s initiative on the workers, for preservation of the environment, to enter civil unions, but not marriages, Steven marry has more than doubled, from 5.1 to 11.4 November 2012 ballot, asking Maine voters to and for equality of gays each have roots in New Goldstein, the chair of the LGBT advocacy orga- percent, according to Census 2010 and the Wil- approve a law giving same-sex couples the right York. nization Garden State Equality, said in a state- liams Institute. to marry. The move comes after a referendum in “New York,” he said, “made a powerful state- ment June 24 that “the victory in New York, and “Having New York end marriage discrimination November 2009 overturned a marriage-equality ment, not just for the people of New York, but its choice of marriage equality over civil union is a turning point for the country,” said Evan law passed by the legislature and signed by Gov. the people all across this nation.” inequality, set the stage for our continuing fight Wolfson, executive director of the national Free- John Baldacci in May 2009. ©2011 by Keen News Service. All rights re- for marriage for same-sex couples in New York’s dom to Marry group, in an essay on the group’s Colorado may also see a question on its 2012 served. Web site June 27, three days after New York Gov- sister state just a mile away.” ernor Cuomo signed a marriage equality bill into Four days after the New York bill became law, law. “The world watches New York, and, as New Garden State Equality and Lambda Legal, a na- Yorkers say, if we can make it here, we’ll make it tional LGBT legal group, filed a lawsuit in a New Anti-gay allegations Officials collecting anywhere.” Jersey Superior Court in Trenton on behalf of Wolfson noted that passage of the bill in New seven same-sex couples. They argue that the in Minn. school case school supplies State Sen. Heather Steans, state Rep. Kelly York was the first time a legislative chamber state’s existing civil union laws do not provide In Minnesota, the National Center for Les- Cassidy and Ald. Harry Osterman are collect- with a Republican majority—the state Senate— the couples with full equality—an equality the bian Rights (NCLR), the Southern Poverty Law ing school supplies for low-income children in had “voted to advance a bill to end marriage state Supreme Court said, in October 2006, is Center (SPLC) and the law firm Faegre & Ben- son, LLP, filed a federal lawsuit challenging the neighborhood. The fourth annual “Spon- what they call “the pervasive anti-gay harass- sor-a-student” is a partnership with Care for ment in schools within the Anoka-Hennepin Real-Edgewater’s food and clothing pantry, School District” in addition to the district’s and other local non-profits to provide school “gag policy” that prevents teachers from dis- supplies for children in Rogers Park, Edgewa- cussing LGBT-related issues, according to a ter and Uptown. wood blinds designer screen shades press release. 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The school stopped the stu- place 7-9 p.m. dents from participating as a same-sex couple FREE In-Home Appointment Vida/SIDA and Lambda Legal are sponsoring at a school assembly. The matter was even- the event. Email [email protected] or tually resolved, with the students allowed to [email protected] for more information. 800.245.7790 participate. www.DraperyConnection.com Ext. 10 Ask for Greg Greg’s Web Page WINDY CITY TIMES July 27, 2011 5 NEW YORK from cover five plus the nation’s capital. With New York now among the marriage-equality fold, the number of night. On the lawn of Gracie Mansion, his of- Americans living same-sex marriage states more ficial residence, Mayor Michael R. Bloomberg of- than doubles—from 16 million to 35 million ficiated the wedding of his chief policy adviser, people. John Feinblatt, 60, and Jonathan Mintz, 47, the New York’s Marriage Equality Act is unique city’s commissioner for consumer affairs. insofar as it has the most extensive religious Notwithstanding the initial rush of same-sex exemptions of any gay-marriage law so far en- marriages, other couples are waiting for the just acted. For example, the law makes explicit that the right time. One couple is Philip Trzynka, 52, no member of the clergy is required to marry a and Brett Henry, 52, of New York City. same-sex couple. Trzynka hails from Fort Wayne, Ind., and is an In addition, the Marriage Equality Act and ordained minister of word and sacrament in the other New York law exempt religious organiza- Evangelical Lutheran Church in America. He cur- tions and “benevolent orders,” like the Knights rently serves as pastor of Trinity Lower East Side of Columbus, from non-discrimination require- Lutheran. ments of public accommodations, for instance, Henry grew up outside of Chicago in the sub- commercial banquet halls. urb of Glen Ellyn and works in sales for Federal As lawmakers in Albany, the state capital, Express. debated marriage equality, media gave exten- The couple met in September 2000 at the Gay sive coverage to church opposition to it and to and Lesbian Community Center in New York City. detractors’ insistence on exemptions to protect In 2006, they celebrated two religious commit- religious liberties. ment ceremonies, one in Glen Ellyn, the other in Trzynka voiced frustration over the media. their Manhattan home parish on Oct. 7, 2006. “Much of the news coverage made it feel as At the time, “We decided it was important to though religious people were against [same- us that our family and friends were able to pub- sex] marriage—period!” he said, adding, the licly hear about our commitment to each other media gave the impression, moreover, that “‘the and were able to show their support for our rela- Philip Trzynka and Brett Henry with son Joey and Otis, their dog who died a few months ago. The church’” wanted religious exemptions “so that tionship,” Rev. Trzynka said. couple plans an October wedding in New York City. Photo courtesy of the couple. it did not have to support gay marriage in any “We wanted to try to accommodate all of our way.” friends and family who wanted to show their safeguards that legal recognition of the state Gov. Andrew Cuomo, who championed the bill, Trzynka knew differently, he said, referring support. I think, like most couples, we wanted can give our family,” he said, adding, now with signed the measure into law, which required a to his own denomination and pastors’ support our families and our church to give us a sign of New York’s support, “We feel home.” 30-day waiting period before taking effect. of marriage equality, as well as that of Episco- support and acceptance of who we are and the The couple has tentative plans to celebrate The legislative victory gave new life to same- pal priests, United Church of Christ pastors and family we were creating,” he added. civil marriage this coming Oct. 7—five years to sex marriage advocates after attempts to enact Presbyterian clergy. In 2008, the couple adopted a then-8-year- the date of their religious commitment ceremo- gay marriage fizzled in Maryland and Rhode Is- Partly out of frustration, he said, “I decided to old son. ny. land. put out a sign in front of our church, saying that “Our reason for wanting a civil ceremony in New York is the third state to legalize gay The win in New York is indeed a big prize. The here at Trinity Lower East Side Lutheran Parish, New York is the same as it was when we had our marriage by legislative action. The other two are state, the nation’s third most populous, joins the pastor—me—would perform free LGBT mar- religious ceremonies. We want to give our family New Hampshire and Vermont. five other states—Connecticut, Iowa, Massa- riages for the coming year.” the opportunity to receive a sign of support and On June 15, New York’s Democratic-held As- chusetts, New Hampshire and Vermont—and the Apparently, “It got a lot of buzz,” Trzynka acceptance from the state in which we live and sembly voted 80—63 in favor of the gay mar- District of Columbia in allowing gays to wed. said. “I hope it caused people to hear again that have grown to love,” Trzynka explained. riage bill. On June 24, the Republican-led Sen- Altogether, New York’s population of 19 mil- many religious people believe God loves to bless “Of course, we also desire the protections and ate passed it by a vote of 33—29. Immediately, lion is greater than the combined total of those such marriages.”
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APARENTIVFCOM s ,'"4 APARENTIVFCOM s 6 July 27, 2011 WINDY CITY TIMES LGBT military personnel, hailed the announce- ment. “In 60 days, my life and the lives of thou- Officials discuss DADT dies for sands of other gay and lesbian troops changes,” HIV/AIDS strategy said OutServe co-director “JD Smith.” “I cannot BY STEVEN CHAITMAN be more proud to be able to serve during this time.” It has already been one year since President good Sept. 20 Lesbian U.S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin, D-Wis., said Obama announced the implementation of a people victimized by DADT now deserve an apol- National HIV/AIDS Strategy (NHAS). The ogy. strategy’s long-term goals are to reduce in- BY REX WOCKNER Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell was necessary but it is not “I remember and honor the service of all the cidences of HIV, improve access to health sufficient for ensuring equality in the military,” courageous lesbian and gay members of our care and reduce health disparities across Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, the military gay ban, will be Sarvis said. “It’s critical that gay and lesbian armed forces who have been required to live a the country. fully and permanently dead on Sept. 20. service members have the same avenues for lie so that they can serve our country, or have To check in and meter the progress of the It already can’t be enforced against active-du- recourse as their straight counterparts when it been discharged because of who they are,” Bald- strategy in its first year, the HIV Prevention ty troops, courtesy of the 9th U.S. Circuit Court comes to harassment and discrimination.” win said. “These patriotic Americans deserve our Justice Alliance held a live webinar July 20 of Appeals. SLDN also promised to advocate for legally thanks and our apologies.” consisting of brief presentations from fed- But on July 22, the military’s readiness to married service members to receive the same President Obama issued this statement: eral officials as well as leaders of some of implement Congress’ repeal of DADT was certi- benefits as their straight counterparts, and to “Today, we have taken the final major step to- the most prominent HIV/AIDS-related or- fied by Defense Secretary Leon Panetta; Adm. assist veterans in correcting or upgrading dis- ward ending the discriminatory Don’t Ask, Don’t ganizations in the country, including the Michael Mullen, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of charge paperwork. Tell law that undermines our military readiness AIDS Foundation of Chicago. Although Staff; and President Barack Obama, setting in Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmo- and violates American principles of fairness and there was some praise of the NHAS in year motion a 60-day waiting period until the policy nese called Obama’s certification of repeal “a equality. In accordance with the legislation that one, much of the dialogue focused on areas is history. monumental step not just for those forced to I signed into law last December, I have certified for improvement, especially if the strategy The certification confirms that the armed forc- lie in order to serve but for all Americans who and notified Congress that the requirements for is to meet its goals for 2015. es’ implementation of the repeal and the tran- believe in fairness and equality.” repeal have been met. Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell will Christopher Bates of the Department of end, once and for all, in 60 days—on September Health and Human Services and Gregorio 20, 2011. “As Commander in Chief, I have always been Millet from the Office of National AIDS confident that our dedicated men and women in Policy represented the federal government. uniform would transition to a new policy in an Other speakers included Carole Treston, orderly manner that preserves unit cohesion, re- executive director for the AIDS Alliance cruitment, retention and military effectiveness. of Children, Youth and Families; Venton Today’s action follows extensive training of our Jones, senior program associate for the Na- military personnel and certification by Secretary tional Black Gay Men’s Advocacy Coalition; Panetta and Admiral Mullen that our military is Catharine Hannsens, executive director for ready for repeal. As of September 20th, service the Center for HIV Law and Policy and Da- members will no longer be forced to hide who vid Ernesto Munar, president and CEO of the they are in order to serve our country. Our mili- AIDS Foundation of Chicago. tary will no longer be deprived of the talents and One of the most emphasized points in- skills of patriotic Americans just because they volved establishing better metrics for as- happen to be gay or lesbian. sessing the NHAS. Currently, the metrics are “I want to commend our civilian and military not entirely in place to efficiently measure leadership for moving forward in the careful and progress at all HIV/AIDS service providers deliberate manner that this change requires, es- across the nation. pecially with our nation at war. I want to thank The 12 Cities Project is one way the gov- all our men and women in uniform, including ernment plans to assess the distribution those who are gay or lesbian, for their profes- and scale of federally funded HIV services and bring those practices to the state and President Barack Obama signs the certification stating the statutory requirements for repeal of sionalism and patriotism during this transition. DADT (Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell) have been met, in the Oval Office, July 22, 2011. Pictured, from Every American can be proud that our extraordi- local levels. Its launching marks one of the left, are: Brian Bond, deputy director of the Office of Public Engagement;K athleen Hartnett, as- nary troops and their families, like earlier gener- highlights of the first year, and Chicago is sociate counsel to the president; Secretary of Defense Leon Panetta; Kathryn Ruemmler, counsel ations that have adapted to other changes, will among the dozen cities included. to the President; Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff Admiral Mike Mullen; and Vice President only grow stronger and remain the best fighting However, various webinar attendees ex- Joe Biden. Official White House Photo by Pete Souza force in the world and a reflection of the values pressed their concerns about certain popu- of justice and equality that define us as Ameri- lations with unique economic situations cans.” not being part of the 12 Cities Project, such Panetta issued a statement which said, in as the Southeast. Munar said the project sition to open service will not affect “military Servicemembers United Executive Director Al- part: “All men and women who serve this nation only represents 44 percent of the epidemic. readiness, military effectiveness, unit cohesion, exander Nicholson said: “Today, gay and lesbian in uniform—no matter their race, color, creed, Bates said the project is still in the early and recruiting and retention of the armed forc- service members can and will breathe a huge religion or sexual orientation—do so with great stages and no other cities would be added es,” Panetta said. sigh of relief. While we still must wait 60 days dignity, bravery and dedication. As secretary of in the short term. “The final countdown to repeal begins today,” for this change to formally take effect and for defense, I am committed to promoting an en- In terms of more pressing issues, Mu- said Servicemembers Legal Defense Network the law to officially be off the books, this step is vironment free from personal, social or insti- nar said the debt-ceiling negotiations and nothing short of historic.” Executive Director Aubrey Sarvis, who urged tutional barriers that prevent service members proposed cuts from the “Gang of Six” con- “This is the final nail in the coffin for the dis- Obama to now issue an executive order banning from rising to the highest level of responsibil- gressional conservatives threatens progress anti-gay discrimination and harassment in the criminatory, outdated and harmful Don’t Ask, ity that their talents and capabilities warrant. against HIV/AIDS and that it “could render military. Don’t Tell law,” Nicholson said. They put their lives on the line for America, and the strategy and global AIDS commitment “Signing legislation that allows for repeal of OutServe, the association of actively serving that’s what really matters. Thanks to the profes- impossible to meet.” Treston also empha- sionalism and leadership of the U.S. military, we sized this as a “real threat.” are closer to achieving the goal that is at the One avenue that nearly all speakers Chicago’s Dedicated and foundation of America—equality and dignity for agreed needed to be explored is the en- all.” Comprehensive LGBT Program gagement of allies outside the national A statement from Mullen said: “Certification HIV/AIDS advocacy community. ALEO does not mark the end of our work. 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CBF-11-0007 NSP 9_7x13_5 T.indd 1 5/31/11 10:26 AM 8 July 27, 2011 WINDY CITY TIMES ers were hiding illegal activities by standing in concerns seriously. large groups. “Our major thing is making sure that the Lakeview residents want Rev. Barbara Bolsen, the vice president of pro- neighborhood is secure and safe,” Perlman said. grams for the Night Ministry, said the organiza- “We want to be a good community citizen, and Night Ministry bus out tion’s mobile health bus serves between 25-150 that may mean different things to different peo- homeless and struggling young people in Lakev- ple.” BY KATE SOSIN are unfairly targeting LGBT youth who come to iew two nights a week. Every Tuesday and Thurs- Perlman would not comment on whether or Lakeview for services. day, the bus passes out food, safer-sex supplies, not the bank planned to ban Night Ministry cli- In a move that is shocking many in the LGBT On July 22, some residents began asking their personal hygiene products, bandages, socks and ents from the lot. community, a group of Lakeview residents is ask- neighbors on “Take Back Boystown” to call MB underwear to those in need. Cerese Depardieu, a community activist, said ing MB Financial bank to close off its parking lot Financial and ask the bank to close off its park- “A lot of them don’t have young adults they that if that happens, crime will only increase. to young people who line up there for services ing lot, located near Halsted and Belmont. can feel safe with or they can trust,” said Bol- “There will be a backlash,” Depardieu said. from the Night Ministry bus. “[Night Ministry] does their thing and departs sen, adding that the van is a non-threatening “Because where will people go?” For 20 years, the Night Ministry, an organiza- the scene taking no responsibility thereafter,” way to offer services. Depardieu argued that services like the Night tion that administers services to homeless youth said one commenter on the page, who appeared “Physical abuse, neglect… all of these things Ministry bus prevent many people from commit- and adults, has done street outreach in Lakev- to be leading efforts to close down the parking come into play when people become homeless,” ting survival crimes. iew. It has spent 10 of those years providing lot. “MB [Financial] also takes no responsibility she said. “Lots of folks are not going to be com- “[The residents] are complaining about [sex] food and other services on the street on front of though it is their private property. Something’s fortable walking into a building and asking for workers on the street, but that’s just going to the MB Financial bank (formerly Corus bank). got to give. We cannot and must not have sex help.” add to the problem,” she said. However, some residents on “Take Back Boys- traffickers, drug dealers, thugs hanging out in According to Bolsen, the Night Ministry has town,” a Facebook page dedicated to addressing that lot.” had a verbal agreement with MB Financial since crime in Lakeview, say that the young people Windy City Times reached out to this com- the bank moved in approximately two years ago. who line up for services outside the bank are menter and others in support repeatedly, but The bus parks on the street while those waiting City won’t support making the neighborhood unsafe. none responded to inquiries. for services line up in a designated section of Hall of Fame The campaign is the latest development since One member of “Take Back Boystown” posted the parking lot. BY KATE SOSIN Lakeview residents started expressing fears multiple photos of people standing in the lot, The bank’s Lakeview branch manager was on that crime in the neighborhood is on the rise. apparently waiting in line for the bus. While vacation and not available for comment. Howev- City officials have announced that the Chi- Those conversations have sparked a debate over some commenting said they saw nothing ille- er, Karen Perlman, chief marketing officer for MB cago Gay and Lesbian Hall of Fame (GLHF) whether or not some tactics for stopping crime gal in the pictures, others argued that loiter- Financial, said her company was taking resident will no longer benefit from city support due to financial constraints. GLHF has historically been funded by community fundraising efforts, not the city. However, in past years, the city do- nated postage, copying, staff support and underwriting to hold the reception at the Chicago Cultural Center. (The event is scheduled for Nov. 8.) “Prior to the election [of Mayor Emanu- el], we knew there were going to be some changes,” said Gary Chichester, a GLHF committee member. However, he said the KENDALL committee had been told to proceed as usual. Chichester said the news left the committee feeling “blindsided.” Chichester estimates the sticker price of aid from the city between $7,000-$10,000, which includes the $3,300 bill to hold the COLLEGE event at the Chicago Cultural Center. That is money the committee will have to raise RANKED NUMBER on its own now. GLHF, which annually inducts Chicago champions of LGBT causes, is typically funded by donations and two fundraisers, both of which were planned for this year. GLHF celebrated its “Pride and Joy” fund- raiser in June and will hold its celebrity- auction fundraiser Sept. 20 at Sidetrack. GLHF also set up a 501(c)(3), Friends of the Gay and Lesbian Hall of Fame, earlier this year in anticipation of possible cuts. Bill Greaves—director of Chicago’s LGBT Advisory Council, which has provided sup- port in past years to GLHF—declined to comment on the news and said that his of- fice would be issuing a statement shortly. 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Or perhaps Rick Garcia, a longtime LGBT activist and it’s our internationally inspired curriculum and global study options that help our former GLHF inductee, said the announce- graduates excel in hospitality, events, tourism and more. If you want a career in this ment is of little significance. growing field, you want to call Kendall your College. “The city has never paid anything for the Hall of Fame,” he said. “I don’t even know OPEN HOUSE why this is an issue. ... This could create Saturday,August 20 controversy where no controversy exists.” 9:30 a.m. – 2 p.m. The outstanding question however, will DiscoverKendallCollege.com be if the Hall of Fame is still even a city 800.639.7753 project. Without support, questions about if GLHF should keep its relationship with the city are growing. Those questions are For additional details, including ORC International’s Research Report, please visit Kendall.edu/about/kendall-ranked-first. 900 N. North Branch not off the table, said Chichester. 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Based on map of Chicago’s 23rd police district from www.lakeviewcitizens.org 12 July 27, 2011 WINDY CITY TIMES winkle and 10th Dist. Cook County Commissioner ed to meet to create a new space for youth to go Bridget Gainer also attended. at night. The Guardian Angels, an organization Lakeview residents, Ozier and Green helped attendees write rules of unarmed citizen patrols, offered to train com- for the evening, which included mutual respect munity members. Citizens committed to working and not making generalizations. Green facilitat- with merchants and gay police officers on pro- LGBT leaders start ed discussions on what residents felt the prob- viding a foot patrol in the neighborhood every lems were, while Ozier helped the room map out night between 11 p.m. and 5 a.m. neighborhood crime hot spots. Attendees also agreed to create a new Fa- brainstorming “I think the one thing we can agree on is that cebook page. The “Take Back Boystown” page, we’re all concerned citizens,” Green said, seem- which galvanized the community to response to ingly guiding the room away from divides that crime, has drawn heat from some who say that solutions to crime have been growing in the community for weeks. conversations on it are racist. Residents have “There are people who are not LGBT youth also complained that the page became a place By KATE SOSIN who are preying on this community,” Ozier said. for people to vent without actually contributing “They’re taking advantage of the situation.” solutions. In the midst of a heat wave so intense that A few residents said that they felt that large The new page, named “Boystown Community public officials recommended people stay home, groups of loiterers were part of the problem. Collaboration,” will be created to spread infor- more than 65 LGBT leaders and Lakeview resi- John Cunningham, a Lakeview resident who has mation on community events and resources. dents packed into the 23 District police com- been active in organizing residents around crime Spirits seemed high as the meeting wrapped munity room July 20 to brainstorm solutions to issues, said that he was worried that loiterers up. Several participants commented on the di- neighborhood crime. easily hid illegal activity by standing in large versity of organizations and people sitting at The event was the first amicable gathering in groups. the table. recent weeks attended by residents in the com- Several attendees also expressed the need “I cannot imagine being in a better place than munity, many of whom had expressed concern for safe places for young people to go at night, this right now,” Ozier said. “This is amazing.” that anti-crime efforts were targeting already while one person suggested that assault survi- A follow-up meeting is tentatively scheduled marginalized queer youth. While previous con- vors needed more support in healing. for Aug. 17. Windy City Times will update when versations between youth and residents had In the end, the group decided on two immedi- details become available. unraveled into screaming matches on Facebook ate undertakings. Youth-service providers decid- and at community meetings, most seemed to walk away July 20 not just pleased, but ready Keith Green helped lead the meeting. Photo with solutions. by Tim Carroll Alicia Ozier, executive director of HIV advo- cacy organization at Taskforce Prevention and residents and youth work together on solutions. Attendees at Community Services, and Keith Green, director The meeting drew representatives from com- the July 23 of federal affairs at AIDS Foundation Chicago, munity groups citywide, including Affinity Com- vigil. steered the meeting. munity Services, the Illinois Safe Schools Al- Photo by “My main goal for this meeting it so be happy liance, Amigas Latinas, ALMA (Association of Andrew Davis in the success of finding two solutions,” said Latino Men for Action) Chicago, Center on Hal- Ozier at the start of the meeting. sted, the LGBTQ Host Home Program, Equality Ozier promised those solutions at a July 6 Illinois, Project VIDA, the Chicago Department CAPS (Community Alternative Policing Strategy) of Public Health, Broadway Youth Center, Vida/ meeting, after fears of an influx of crime turned SIDA, The Civil Rights Agenda, Haymarket Cen- relations between residents and queer youth of ter and the Chicago Gay Officers Action League. color hostile. Ozier said her organization, which Representatives on behalf of 44th Ward Ald. Tom serves queer youth of color, was prepared to help Tunney, Cook County Board President Toni Preck- Church in Harvey, said, “You all have come Churches hold here tonight because deep in your heart [and] EUROPEAN LUXURY WITHIN REACH anti-violence vigil deep in your soul, you are proud to be gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender. You are on Halsted strip proud to love one another. You are proud be- By ANDREW DAVIS cause you have stood up over and over again to say, ‘I am who I am. I will be who I will be. In light of recent events that have occurred I will make a difference. ... We will not accept in Lakeview (specifically, Boystown), a coali- violence against those we love.’” tion of religious and other community lead- Another person who attended was 46th ers as well as local residents for the “Faith Ward Ald. James Cappleman, one of two Response for Peace,” an anti-violence vigil openly gay members of Chicago’s city council. that took place the evening of July 23 in the “I’m just so honored to be among this crowd 7-Eleven parking lot at the corner of Roscoe of peaceful people,” he said. “The city coun- and Halsted. cil is committed to peace and we want to do In the midst of bar-hoppers walking down everything we can to work with you. I’m here the North Halsted strip (the event started at to stand here with you and honor all those 10:30 p.m.), dozens of people held candles people who were victims of hate. As a former or lilies while various individuals spoke, sang, Franciscan friar, I stand up against hate in all prayed or offered meditations. forms.” “We found it necessary to come together Attendees also sang songs such as “We in a visible and communal way to pray for Shall Overcome” (led by Alicia Ozier of Task- peace and reconciliation amongst all in this force Prevention & Community Services) and community and on all sides of the issue,” said recited the Lord’s Prayer as they touched the the Rev. Fran Holliday of All Saints Episcopal shoulders of those next to them. EUROLUXE Church to the gathering. “This event is not Brent Holman-Gomez, who attends Berry about pointing fingers or placing blame; it United Methodist Church, told Windy City is not about name-calling. It’s about health, Times that “people of various faith back- INTERIORS peace and reconciliation.” grounds decided to come together to do Rev. Rudra Vilius Dundzila was the event’s something about the violence in Boystown.” prayer leader. “Coming from different religious When asked about the timing of the event traditions, the faith communities of Lakeview (occurring a few weeks after a stabbing inci- all share a common belief in what the Rev. dent that galvanized the community), Gomez Martin Luther King called the beloved com- said, “We just felt that it would be an on- 3066 N. LINCOLN AVE. munity,” he told the crowd. “It is a world of going need because it’s a behavioral issue. love. His was a vision of an integrated soci- There needs to be healing and we’re here to CHICAGO ety—all races; rich and poor; young and old. provide a space for that healing.” To this, we add queer and bi and straight and As for the possibility of future vigils/ral- all genders.” lies, Gomez told WCT. “We’ve talked about it. Among others who spoke were TJ Williams We’ve talked about the fact that there’s an of New York City’s Riverside Church and Chi- ongoing need. One gathering is not to solve 773-270-0030 cago’s Trinity United Church of Christ, who anything.” passionately called for unity. The Rev. Rodney More photos are can be seen at http:// www.euroluxeinteriors.com Reinhart, rector of St. Clement’s Episcopal www.WindyCityMediaGroup.com. WINDY CITY TIMES July 27, 2011 13 In 1986, he founded Sangat Chicago, a South Asian LGBT organization that takes its name from Gay activist Ifti Nasim dies the Sanskrit word for togetherness. “If you are a Muslim and a gay, you are a minority within a BY ERICA DEMAREST arranged marriage—a common practice in the minority,” Nasim said. He frequently spoke out predominantly Muslim country. against war, homophobia and social injustice in Iftikhar “Ifti” Nasim, a Pakistani-born poet, ra- “I did not want to live a double life,” Nasim Pakistan and other Muslim countries. dio host and gay activist, died July 22 at the age told the Chicago Tribune in 2001. He had known With a penchant for ostentatious jewelry, fur of 64 following a sudden illness. he was gay since he was a teenager and had al- coats and drag get-ups, Nasim was anything but Best known for his award-winning poetry and ready had several sexual experiences with other a wallflower. The combination of his dramatic en- over-the-top style, Nasim maintained a vivid men—always under a pseudonym. “I did not sembles and uninhibited honesty drew attention presence in Chicago’s LGBT scene for the past 35 want to leave a wife at home and go out and everywhere he went, and it wasn’t always posi- years. He founded Sangat Chicago, a South Asian pick up guys. I thought that was a dishonest tive. While eating in a Rogers Park restaurant in LGBT organization, and was inducted into the way of living.” March 2001, Nasim was reportedly attacked by a Chicago Gay and Lesbian Hall of Fame in 1996. Hoping to escape the marriage, Nasim—who Muslim man who called Nasim an “abomination” “In a world where race, racial identity, sexual had recently earned a law degree from Punjab and threatened him with a knife. identity and immigration status all matter,” University in Lahore—convinced his father to “[Nasim] would show up to an event or a said Kareem Khubchandani, 28, who considered fund a three-month trip to the United States meeting—to anything—wearing a fur coat and Nasim a friend, mentor and role model, “[Nasim] to further his law studies. “I read an article in a sequined beret,” Khubchandani said. “He’d would always talk about the changes he had Life magazine, which said that the United States make an impression before he’d even speak up. made, and then make me really aware of the was the place for gays to be in,” Nasim told the And I think that was part of his way of making fact that things aren’t perfect, things have to be Thaindian News in 2008. an impact, of getting people to see him and pay done, things don’t happen on their own.” He soon relocated to Detroit and enrolled at attention to him, by making a spectacle and be- Nasim, who identified as gay and Muslim, be- Wayne State University. The months turned into ing glamorous and being amazing well before he gan his career as an LGBT activist in the United years and, in 1974, Nasim moved to Chicago. He even spoke up.” States in 1974, the year he moved to Chicago. instantly fell in love with the city and its thriv- Once the AIDS epidemic began in the 1980s, In addition to working on behalf of immigrants, ing disco scene. Nasim used his considerable flair to educate Muslims, South Asians and eventually AIDS vic- “At first I was afraid to go into a gay bar,” he people about HIV/AIDS prevention. In addition, tims, he frequently wrote and performed poetry. told the Chicago Tribune, “but I went in. They he regularly hosted a weekly radio show called Nasim saw two collections published in his life- were the nicest people on the planet Earth. I Radio Sargam, and his books of poetry have be- time: Narman (1994) and Myrmecophile (2010). said, ‘What the heck? Why haven’t I been here come part of the curriculum at Santa Clara Uni- His work is considered the only poetry to ex- before?’ It was a non-stop party. I loved it.” versity and Truman College. press gay longings and desires in the Urdu lan- It wasn’t all fun and games, though. Nasim said “The LGBT community in Chicago—not just guage; it has garnered both enthusiastic praise he witnessed hate crimes and robberies at the the South Asian and Muslim communities—has and hateful criticism, and even earned Nasim hands of homophobic people. “I couldn’t believe greatly benefited from his activism,” Khubchan- several death threats through the years. Despite my ears and eyes,” he said. “What had happened dani said. any controversy surrounding the books, many to the Life magazine story? But the gay liberation Nasim is survived by his partner of 28 years. young Pakistanis considered them inspirational; movement was on, and I joined.” Nasim was buried July 23 in the Rosehill Cem- Narman was responsible for inspiring the nar- When he wasn’t working full-time selling cars etery, 5800 N. Ravenswood Ave., following Mus- mani, or honest poetry, movement in the coun- at Loeber Motors (Nasim was known for driving a lim traditions. try. gold Mercedes) or writing poetry in English, Urdu See more about Nasim on the Chicago Gay His- The son of a journalist, Nasim was born in and Punjabi, Nasim worked assiduously as an ac- tory website at http://www.chicagogayhistory. Lyallpu (now Faisalabad), Pakistan, Sept. 15, tivist. He focused his energy primarily on Muslim, com/biography.html?id=714. 1946. He grew up poor and often worked odd immigrant and South Asian queer communities, Ifti Nasim. Photo by Hal Baim jobs to help support the family. When he was 21 and worked to help those who were persecuted in years old, Nasim’s parents pushed him toward an other countries gain asylum in America.
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Third part of a series wouldn’t be an issue.” Once they had made the decision to have a on LGBT surrogacy baby through IVF and had met with Kaplan, the BY Charlsie Dewey couple had to face the issues of legal documents and insurance coverage. Ashley Hemphill has always known that she “The first thing we needed to do, because we would have a family that included children. are not married, is we had to get our own lawyers From left: Landon, age 2, Ashley Hemphill, Pam Netzky and Brody, age 4. Photo courtesy of Once she realized she was not going to be in a and have legal documents drawn up to ensure Hemphill heterosexual relationship, she said it never oc- that all of the parameters of how we were going Several shots were necessary to prepare for round there were a number that looked good on curred to her that children might not be a part to raise this child and allowing the child to be the pregnancy, but the first cycle was a success. the surface, but after getting the genetic testing of that future. adopted would be handled as soon as the baby Hemphill found out that she was pregnant after back would not have made it through the full Today, Hemphill and her partner Pam Netzky, was born. This would ensure that if anything the first IVF cycle. She then said she hadan- pregnancy.” who live in Chicago, have experienced two suc- happened between Netzky and I, that because other series of shots, 72 shots to be exact, for In the end, Hemphill did get pregnant during cessful in vitro fertilization (IVF) procedures we did this together, the original intent would more than two months. The couple had their son the following cycle and delivered the pair’s sec- with the help of Fertility Centers of Illinois (FCI) be there so we would both be able to raise the Brody in 2006. ond baby boy, Landon, in 2009. and aParent IVF. child. In Illinois, the birth mother is actually the After a year had gone by Hemphill and Netz- Even with the challenges, Hemphill recom- “We had a couple of straight friends who had legal parent. So even though biologically they ky began the process for a second pregnancy. mends IVF to other couples struggling to have a used Dr. Brian Kaplan [physician at FCI] when were Netzky’s children I was legally the mother During the initial IVF cycle they had chosen to baby. they were having some fertility issues and high- so I had to let Netzky adopt her own children.” freeze Netzky’s eggs for a future pregnancy. She noted, “When you think about all the ly recommended him,” Ashley said. “From the Hemphill also worked with her insurance com- Hemphill said that after the first time had people who are at FCI not for the reasons that moment we met him, it was truly love. He makes pany to get the approval for the procedures. been so easy, getting pregnant so quickly, the we are, because we are a same-sex couple, but you feel comfortable and he is just the sweetest Kaplan explained that insurance can be a couple hadn’t really considered that the second because they truly have tried for years to get man. I can’t say enough good things about him, trickier issue for a same-sex couple, having to time might not go as smoothly. pregnant and just haven’t been able to and truthfully.” prove that they have been trying unsuccessfully “They actually did testing at the lab for a they’ve tried cycle after cycle. For us, you have Hemphill and Netzky decided that they would to get pregnant for a certain period of time. number of genetic issues, and we are really to keep it in perspective, which is, we’ve been use Netzky’s eggs, but that Hemphill would carry Still, he said that his organization works with happy that they did because with this second so lucky.” the baby. the couples to help them make their case for “I guess I felt, having been adopted, I am very special approval from their insurance. clear on the reality that it doesn’t matter that Just like any other IVF couple that might be water, and we had scrub machines that took you are biologically related to have this feel- using someone else’s eggs or a carrier, Hemphill Storms affect out the rest.” ing of family and this is your parent, and love, and Netzky also had to go through a list of re- Unlike neighboring Whole Foods, which ex- but Netzky wasn’t adopted. I felt like it would HBHC, Center quired screenings, including medical history and perienced more severe flood damage on its allow her to feel closer to the baby, because By ERICA DEMAREST psychological testing, to qualify for the proce- main floor and was forced to open two hours even though she wasn’t giving birth, she would dure. late, the Center on Halsted opened on time know that it was her’s. I knew that for me that The Center on Halsted and the Howard Brown Health Center were among dozens of buildings and conducted its services as normal on Sat- to incur storm damage July 23, but neither urday. organization foresees lasting service cuts, of- Although Howard Brown Health Center man- E ficials say. aged to escape flooding, it was forced to re- H main closed July 23 due to power outages. No T Severe thunderstorms whipped through Chi-
cago shortly after midnight July 23, dumping medication or vaccines were lost, as refrigera- E as much as seven inches of rain in some of the tion temperatures remained within acceptable B GENERATION areas of the city. The National Weather Service ranges, said Magda Houlberg, vice president issued flash-flood warnings, and as many as and chief clinical officer. 74,000 ComEd customers were without power “We’ve added appointments this week to TO FIND A VACCINE TO at some point. accommodate our patients that could not be The Center on Halsted experienced roof seen over the weekend and are personally fol- flooding that damaged third floor storage lowing up to ensure they get the care and at- rooms, said CEO Tico Valle, who was called tention they need,” Houlberg said. in at 4:30 a.m. to assess damage. Although Barring more severe weather, neither orga- PREVENT nization anticipates any further closures or the Center’s theater was dotted with puddles, nothing there was ruined. delays. “We were able to deal with it on our own,” HIV Valle said. “We actually had to mop up a lot of PASSAGES stitute of Chicago Raymond Hudd Millinery Award, c/o School of the Art Institute of Chi- Raymond Hudd cago, Office of Development, 37 South Wa- Raymond Hudd (nee Huddlestun), a well- bash Ave., Suite 818, Chicago, Ill., 60603. FIND OUT HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE AT known millinery designer known as “The Mad- hatter of the Midwest” passed away peace- www.bethegeneration.nih.gov fully July 20, 2011, in Muskegon, Mich., at the age of 86. Hudd attended the School of the Art In- stitute and worked as a window designer for Wieboldt’s before finding his true calling as a millinery designer. Over his 50-year career, he designed more than 500 hats for Phyllis Diller. In 2002, the Chicago History Museum held a retrospective of Hudd’s career and work; the museum retains more than 100 of his creations. He is survived by one brother, Ivan Hud- dleston of Moreno Valley, Calif.; many nieces, nephews, and dear friends. Undated photo of Raymond Hudd. A memorial service is being planned. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Art In- WINDY CITY TIMES July 27, 2011 15 a GAYin the Beef ‘n Brandy Special events manager Restaurant and Bar LIFE Shaun J. Rajah Text and PHOTOS CHOW BY Ross Forman DOWN TOWN 2IBS s 3EAFOOD s 3ALADS s 3TIR &RY