Family Ministries Resource Book 2021
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Unity in Community is for pastors and ministry leaders in their work with families in and out of the church. We 2021 hope the resources found in this volume will help develop RESOURCE healthier families, which invariably result in healthier churches that can reach the world with power and joy to BOOK help hasten the coming of Jesus Christ. Sermons • Who Will Go? • Barriers To Family Wellness • Grandparents’ Legacy Children’s Stories • Fayeza’s Story • Who created the Dinosaurs? • Forgiveness Story Seminars • What Every Person Needs to Know Before Getting Married COMMUNITY IN UNITY • The Church as the Body of Christ: Supporting Families in Crisis • The Biblical Purpose of Grandparenting • How to Improve the Mental Health of Your Children Leadership Resources • Involving Children in Service Develops Good Character • Ministering to a Bereaved Spouse • Ministering to Grieving Children: Jesus’ Experience of Grief and Restoration Leadership Resources for Greater Cultural and Racial Understanding • Parenting Children for Christian Interracial Friendships • Get off the bank • Love Is an Action Word • The Gospel Defeats Racism • Why It Is Not Enough to Say ‘I Am Not A Racist’ And more! Articles, Resources recommendations, and Family Ministries Implementation Materials. This resource also includes free presentations of the seminars and handouts. To download them please visit: BOOK RESOURCE 2021 FAMILY.ADVENTIST.ORG/2021RB I WILL GO WITH MY FAMILY: OLIVER DEPARTMENT OF FAMILY MINISTRIES GENERAL CONFERENCE OF SEVENTH-DAY ADVENTISTS 12501 Old Columbia Pike, Silver Spring, Maryland 20904, USA UNITY IN 301.680.6175 office [email protected] family.adventist.org COMMUNITY /AdventistFamilyMinistries @WE_Oliver WILLIE AND ELAINE OLIVER I WILL GO WITH MY FAMILY: UNITY IN COMMUNITY WILLIE AND ELAINE OLIVER AUDREY ANDERSSON, ALINA BALTAZAR, GARY BLANCHARD, JEFFREY BROWN, MAY-ELLEN COLÓN, CLAUDIO AND PAMELA CONSUEGRA, KAYLE B. de WAAL, NATALIE DORLAND, LARRY EVANS, L. ANN HAMEL, BERNIE HOLFORD, KAREN HOLFORD, DAWN JACOBSON-VENN, S. JOSEPH KIDDER, LINDA KOH, STEPHANIE MOLINA, MICHAEL ROHM, ELLA SMITH SIMMONS, BENJAMIN STREIT Copyright © 2020 by Review and Herald® Publishing Association Published by Review and Herald® Publishing Association Printed in the United States of America All rights reserved Editors: Willie and Elaine Oliver Managing Editor: Dawn Jacobson-Venn Editorial Assistant: Karen Miranda Design and Formatting: Daniel Taipe Cover design resource: Joseph Van Os / via Getty Images The authors assume full responsability for the accuracy of all facts and quotations as cited in this book. Contributors: Audrey Andersson, Alina Baltazar, Gary Blanchard, Jeffrey Brown, May-Ellen Colón, Claudio and Pamela Consuegra, Kayle B. de Waal, Natalie Dorland, Larry Evans, L. Ann Hamel, Bernie Holford, Karen Holford, Dawn Jacobson-Venn, S. Joseph Kidder, Linda Koh, Stephanie Molina, Michael Rohm, Ella Smith Simmons, Benjamin Streit Other Family Ministries Resource Books in this series: Reaching Families for Jesus: Making Disciples Reaching Families for Jesus: Strengthening Disciples Reaching Families for Jesus: Discipleship and Service Reaching Families for Jesus: Growing Disciples Reach the World: Healthy Families for Eternity Revival and Reformation: Building Family Memories Revival and Reformation: Families Reaching Up Revival and Reformation: Families Reaching Out Revival and Reformation: Families Reaching Across Available at: family.adventist.org/resourcebook Unless otherwise noted, Scripture is taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Department of Family Ministries General Conference of Seventh-day Adventists 12501 Old Columbia Pike Silver Spring, MD 20904, USA [email protected] family.adventist.org All rights reserved. The handouts in this book may be used and reproduced in local church printed matter without permission from the publisher. It may not, however, be used or reproduced in other books or publications without prior permission from the copyright holder. Reprinting the content as a whole or for giveaway or resale is expressly prohibited. ISBN # 978-0-8280-2878-3 SEPTEMBER 2020 TABLE OF CONTENTSCONTENTS Preface .....................................................................................................................................................................................V How to Use This Resource Book ................................................................................................................ VII SERMON IDEAS Who Will Go? Willie and Elaine Oliver ................................................................................................................................................ 10 Barriers To Family Wellness Linda Koh ............................................................................................................................................................................ 18 Grandparents’ Legacy Claudio and Pamela Consuegra................................................................................................................................. 25 CHILDREN’S STORIES Fayeza’s Story Michael Rohm .................................................................................................................................................................. 37 Who created the Dinosaurs? Benjamin Streit and Stephanie Molina .................................................................................................................. 39 Forgiveness Story Dawn Jacobson-Venn .................................................................................................................................................... 42 SEMINARS What Every Person Needs to Know Before Getting Married Willie and Elaine Oliver ................................................................................................................................................ 45 The Church as the Body of Christ: Supporting Families in Crisis L. Ann Hamel ..................................................................................................................................................................... 54 The Biblical Purpose of Grandparenting Claudio and Pamela Consuegra................................................................................................................................. 63 How to Improve the Mental Health of Your Children Alina Baltazar .................................................................................................................................................................... 74 LEADERSHIP RESOURCES Involving Children in Service Develops Good Character May-Ellen Colón ............................................................................................................................................................... 88 Ministering to a Bereaved Spouse Audrey Andersson .......................................................................................................................................................... 92 Ministering to Grieving Children: Jesus’ Experience of Grief and Restoration S. Joseph Kidder, Natalie Dorland ........................................................................................................................... 95 LEADERSHIP RESOURCES FOR GREATER CULTURAL AND RACIAL UNDERSTANDING Parenting Children for Christian Interracial Friendships Willie and Elaine Oliver ..............................................................................................................................................102 Get off the bank Jeffrey Brown .................................................................................................................................................................107 Love Is an Action Word Ella Smith Simmons ......................................................................................................................................................109 The Gospel Defeats Racism Kayle B. de Waal ............................................................................................................................................................114 Why It Is Not Enough to Say ‘I Am Not A Racist’ Bernie Holford ................................................................................................................................................................118 REPRINTED ARTICLES Men? Victims of Domestic Violence? Willie Oliver .....................................................................................................................................................................121 Kindness and Compassion Go a Long Way Willie and Elaine Oliver ..............................................................................................................................................124 Your Marriage Can Survive COVID Willie and Elaine Oliver ..............................................................................................................................................126 Raising Contentment Karen Holford ..................................................................................................................................................................130 My Kind of Church Larry Evans ......................................................................................................................................................................133 Cure for Hezekitis Gary Blanchard ...............................................................................................................................................................138