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HOW TO REACH US - BY PHONE 860-442-8062 • BY FAX 860-443-4175 • BY EMAIL [email protected] • BY MAIL: 28 CHANNING STREET, NEW LONDON, CT 06320 A Jewish teen’s perspective Annual Meeting and emissary farewell By Mimi Perl, Editor By Mitchell Shapiro-Albert, Special to the Leader The Farewell Dinner for the As I walked out of Congregation Beth El on the evening Young Emissaries and the Fed- of June 22, following a wonderful dinner thrown in honor eration’s Annual Meeting, both of our two fantastic emissaries Guy Carmi and Tal Gilboa, I held on Thursday, June 22 found myself in a deeply sentimental mood. Saying goodbye were both a resounding suc- cess. Both events were held at hard to ignore. Guy and Tal, as amazing as they are, are a part Congregation Beth El in New toof somethinganyone for mucha long greater. time can Getting have this to know effect, them but thisI found year it London. through the Jewish Federation’s Jewish Community High The Farewell Dinner for School Program, held at Temple Emanu-El, and our BBYO Emissaries Tal and Guy at 6:00 Youth Group, I realized that as happy as I was to have made PM was attended by 89 people two invaluable friends, I was prouder still to simply be a part including the four families that of the community of Jews that we have here on the coast and hosted Tal and Guy during the Farewell Dinner for Emissaries Tal Gilboa and Guy Carmi held at the outlying areas of Eastern CT. year, many of their site men- Congregation Beth El and a program of the JFEC. Host parents That’s not always an easy thing to do for many more rea- tors, and friends of all ages. Fol- Jonathan and Armi Rowe roasts Tal during proceedings on June sons than I have time to discuss here. For starters, it isn’t lowing the dinner catered by 22. See additional photos on page 9. Photo by I. Bruce Levine. easy to have pride in anything when you’re a teenager, let Dona and Kenn Casey, Tal and ing was called to order by Board President Romana Primus in alone religion. In fact, it’s usually the age where teens try Guy’s host families got their the Sanctuary. Nominating committee chair Sarah Rogovin pre- to distance themselves from establishment and authority chance to roast their charges. - as much as humanly possible, which unfortunately means Tal’s host families were the tendance. Romana Primus then presented her report about the pushing away family and religion, albeit to varying extents Rowes and the Zettlers; Guy’s, sentedFederation a slate over of directorsthe past year. and officers for election by those in at depending on the child. Secondly, and perhaps more impor- were the Wolf’s and the Sack- Jerry Fischer then presented a new award created by the Fed- tantly, is that today’s day and age doesn’t exactly seem all etts. eration to honor six individuals in our community who have been A bit after 7:00 PM, the Jew- jewish teen CONT. ON PG 10 ish Federation’s Annual Meet- ANNUAL MEETING CONT. ON PG 15 President’s Annual Report Exec. Director’s Report ROMANA STROCHLITZ PRIMUS JEROME E. FISCHER This has been a year of overwhelming The political turmoil that is roiling our events abroad and at home. The Syrian cri- us all. However, the ongoing, small but sig- history; the climate crisis has placed thirty country, Europe, and the Middle East affects- sismillion has people created in the danger largest of refugeestarvation; flow acts in fect our community directly. They need to of terrorism have created global anxiety. nificantbe spelled changes out clearly. in eastern Connecticut af The elections in the United States, Eng- The Jewish communities in eastern Con- land, France, and Turkey have changed the necticut were built like many other com- shape of world politics. We can only guess at their long-term consequences. pogroms and seeking a better life, landed Temple Israel Even in the face of anxiety and uncertainty, our Jewish com- munities.on the shores Refugees of our country, from Europe, fanned out, fleeing and often became mer- munity has persevered. Our year started by welcoming Temple to open Emanu-El’s new Rabbi, Marc Ekstrand, and our new Young Emis- in eastern CT became farmers. Temple Israel located at 74 saries, Guy Carmi and Tal Gilboa. All three have proven wonder- chants,So it then was professionals, for Colchester, and Danielson, significant New entrepreneurs. London, Norwich, Many Park Street in New London, ful additions to our community. and Willimantic. And, until the opening of Staples & the Crystal next door to Ocean Beach, will We hope that Rabbi Ekstrand will be here for many more Mall, Jewish merchants were the heart of downtown New Lon- be opening for its 92nd summer years. As President of JFEC, I particularly appreciate his teach- don. on Friday evening, June 30 at ing at the Jewish Community High School and his participation Our community changed and grew somewhat with the es- 8:00 PM. There will be Satur- in community events. We look forward to his leadership as we tablishment of the Naval Underwater Systems Center (NUSC), day morning services on July 1 confront our community’s challenges. beginning a 9:00 AM. Follow- Guy and Tal are returning to Israel soon. They had a remark- group of scientists who swelled the ranks of our congregations, ing the Shabbat morning ser- able year and we are thankful for their hard and expert work. andSolomon then Schechterwith the remarkable Academy, and expansion our Hebrew of Pfizer. Schools. We gainedCoupled a vices there will be a Kiddush. They worked with our youth at the region’s Religious Schools, with the massive resettlement of over 300 Jews from the former All are welcome. Solomon Schechter Academy, Jewish Community High School, Soviet Union, our community was diverse, energized, and rich in Should you have any ques- and Youth Groups. They spoke to students at public schools and tions about the schedule or at meetings of service clubs. They participated in Hillel at both Then things changed. First came chain stores, displacing the volunteering to help with the Connecticut and Mitchell Colleges. both human and financial resources. - Kiddush, please contact Sol JFEC has not only continued its programs; it has improved portunities for future growth of the Jewish community declined Glater at 860-443-1987 or them. independents. Then Pfizer down-sized significantly. The op Mike Sherb at 860-691-0622. president’s report CONT. ON PG 8 significantly. exec. director’s report CONT. ON PG 6 2 THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017 Israeli tech: self driving cars Committee for the Equality of Women at Har- Mention & Menschen vard (CEWH), an organization of alumnae ac- By ISRAEL21c Staff tively working on women’s issues at Harvard General Motors NADINE LIPMAN from 1993–2013, when the CEWH dissolved Israel displayed a [email protected] and became part of ANHW. Open to all graduates prototype of GM’s - new Chevrolet Bolt graduate, graduate, or professional degrees, the EV electric autono- Welcome to the World Noah Daniel Burger ofANHW Radcliffe addresses or Harvard topics from of interest any school, to women under mous vehicle at a Sheena Elyse Morrell through events, special speakers, networking, high-tech recruiting Grandparents , and social meetings, and other functions. There are conference at the Esther and Les Morrell Great-Grandparents , no dues to be a member, and there are active Tel Aviv Fairgrounds Jeanette and Herb Bello The Chevy Bolt EV test autonomous vehicle all formerly of New London and now residing chapters in the Boston area, New York City, and last week, as a shin- has Israeli tech inside. Photo by Steve Fecht in Delray Beach, Florida, are proud to welcome Washington, D.C. area. ing example of the for General Motors two new additions to their families: Grand- For information, go to the Web site: www. accomplishments of son was born April 26, 2017 harvardwomensig.com its research-and-development center in Herzliya. Noah Daniel, to Daughter and Son-in-Law Norwich’s Rona and Martin Rutchik are so The futuristic car’s advanced array of sensors and data pro- Megan Morrell of Boynton Beach, Florida. pleased and proud to share the news of their cessors was developed at the Herzliya center, which was estab- Benjamin Burger Big Sister Sophia Lynn will be celebrating her granddaughter Helena Wren Padial’s Bat 3rd Birthday on July 5. Granddaughter in shaping GM autonomous vehicles’ systems for active safety, Sheena Elyse, was born on May 10, 2017 to Daughter maternal great-grandmother Helen Silver lives lishedsmart in sensing, 2008. The vision, Israeli signal R&D processing, center plays machine a significant learning, part Sarah Morrell of Philadelphia, PA. Mitzvahin Palisades, in Suffern, NY. She isNY. the Helena, daughter named of Alyssafor her Rutchik Padial, who grew up in Norwich and The display coincided with GM’s July 13 announcement that Welcome to the World was a student at The Williams School, and Paul sensorit has completed fusion, artificial production intelligence of 130 Chevroletand cognition. Bolt EV test vehi- Dayna Beth Bendor Padial who grew up in Rockland County. Her cles at its Orion Assembly Plant in Michigan. The vehicles will Karla and Dan Bendor of Waterford are brother Jamie will look forward to his Bar Mitz- join the more than 50 current-generation self-driving Bolt EVs pleased to announce the birth of their grand- vah in two years! Helena is an Honors Student daughter, Dayna Beth on April 28. She is the and an accomplished dancer and theatrical Arizona; and metro Detroit. daughter of Sarah and David Bendor of West singer. Recently she took the lead in “Once Upon alreadyOther deployed major carmakers in testing fleets with innovationin San Francisco; centers Scottsdale, in Israel Hartford. Dayna was welcomed home, with a Mattress,” had a solo role in “The Nutcrack- include Mercedes Benz, BMW, Porsche, Ford, Renault, Honda, varying degrees of enthusiasm, by brothers Eli, er” and won an audition to open the Rockland Volkswagen and Volvo. In addition, Israeli companies such as 7 and Wesley, 4. County Farm Team season with an acapella Star Mobileye are developing many core components of automated of New London Spangled Banner! Her mitzvot include Volun- vehicles for carmakers including Nissan. Mel and Iris Yoselevsky are happy to announce the engagement of their teer at the Esplanade Retirement Living Center daughter Marcie to Dr. Gavin Friedman, both and Shoe Collection for the underprivileged. Candle Lighting for Eastern CT area of NYC. Marcie works as a consultant to Jewish Recently she was recognized by her school fac- ulty for quietly mentoring two special needs Friday, June 30 • 8:07 pm organizations in the US and Israel, and Gavin, whose family lives outside of Philadelphia, is students. Friday, July 7 • 8:05 pm a psychiatrist in private practice in New York. Dr. Elyse R. Park, daughter of Dr. Bernard Friday, July 14 • 8:02 pm They are planning a late autumn wedding. G. Park of Lisbon, formerly of Colchester, was Gabriella (Gaby) Schlesinger of New Lon- honored at an awards ceremony held last week Friday, July 21 • 7:57 pm don was re-elected to the Board and Steering at the Westin Boston Waterfront Hotel. The an- Committee of the Alumnae/Alumni Network nual event recognizes “100 amazing individuals for Harvard Women (ANHW), a national and international Shared Interest Group under the research and patient care.” The program is auspices of the Harvard Alumni Association. whosponsored are changing by Mass how General we fight Hospital cancer in throughBoston. Before being part of the founding group of Elyse is an associate professor in the depart- ANHW, Gaby served as past co-president and National Award Winner of the Council of Jewish of Jewish Federations as the Outstanding MENTION CONT. ON PAGE 13 Small Cities Jewish newspaper. Published every other Friday for the dissemination of Jew- continuous Steering Committee member of the ish news and views by the Jewish Federation of Eastern Connecticut, 28 Channing Street, New London, CT 06320, 860-442-8062. Managing Editor...... Mimi Perl Layout Editor...... Forrest Sklar Social Editor...... Nadine Lipman President ...... 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Printing: Chronicle Printing Co., 1 Chronicle Rd., Willimantic, CT 06226 Postmaster: Send address changes to Jewish Leader, 28 Channing St., New London, CT 06320 THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017 3 Youth group trip to Providence Place By Gabrielle Zettler and The Eighth Grade Class Special to the Leader On Sunday, June 11, the Junior Youth Group of East- ern Connecticut took a trip to Providence Place mall in Rhode Island. This is the end of the year group trip, which meant a lot to the eighth grad- ers, who will be moving onto BBYO next year. This was not only the eighth graders last trip, it was Tal and Guy’s as well and we went out with a bang!
trip was the lunch at Dave and Buster‘sThe first followed part by of an our arcade great The eighth graders got to welcome some newcomers and en- Top row from left to right: Trevor Fornara, Annalise McCaffrey, joy the day with the oldcomers and, for us, that is something spe- Hunter Rock, Jared Linder, Anna Greenwald. Bottom row: Andy filledwas delicious. with fun andAfter games. lunch, The we cial. The eighth graders, Regan Kaye, Jack Haynes, Talia Masson, Dezjot lunchhad a full was hour buffet to spend style play and- it Hannah Linder, Amanda Rowe, and Gabrielle Zettler, will never ing a bunch of games and win- forget the amazing memories we’ve made at youth group! Election bonfire - If you are not yet active in youth group, junior or BBYO, you of the arcade. Then we got to don’t know what you’re missing. It’s never too late. You’ll be wel- Yachad BBYO ningcash in points our points at different at the shop parts comed with open arms. By Trevor Fornara, special to the Leader prizes. The elections for the new board of our local chapter of BBYO andEveryone get lots walked of different over tofun - the movie theater, where we all got popcorn, a drink, and werehad work held to this do. past We beganThursday the election,around the with firepit the help at Annalise of our Asso Mc- our choice of candy. About half ciateCaffrey’s Regional house. Director, It was Jennifer nice to Kruzansky,catch up with with everyone, each candidate but we of the group went to see “Won- Since 1919 Southeastern Connecticut’s Oldest and Most Respected Jewelers reading a speech and handing out copies of their platform. All der Woman” and half went to Diamonds Watches Crystal members of our chapter were invited to participate, and once we see “Pirates of the Caribbean: Fine Contemporary & Antique Jewelry Dead Men Tell No Tales.” Both Custom Jewelry Design Expert Jewelry & Watch Repair - of the movies were action Estate Jewelry Bought & Sold allnalise’s finished third voting, year onthe the results board, were and in! her second year as N’siah. packed and full of excitement. TheThe S’gan N’siah (Vice (President) President isof AnnaliseProgramming) McCaffrey. is Hunter This Rock,will be who An The people who saw “Wonder 44726 Woman” were particularly ex- position than last year. The Moreh (Vice President of Member- cited to see Gal Gadot, an Is- 262 Boston Post Road • Utopia Centre isship) going is to Andy start Dezjot, his second the Shaliachyear on the (Vice board President but in a of different Jewish raeli actress, playing the title Waterford, CT • (860) 442-4391 Heritage) is Jared Linder and Anna Greenwald is the Gizborit role. Monday - Thursday 10:00-6:00 Friday 10:00-7:00 Saturday 10:00-4:00 - The fun didn’t stop there! kir (Secretary) is me, Trevor Fornara, and I, too, am joining the We all went to Dairy Queen (Treasurer), all beginning their first year on the board. The Maz for delicious ice cream. We sat - around and ate while talking boardtant role for to the play first to time. ensure that Yachad BBYO functions correctly. with each other as the after- TheEach N’siah of the (President) different ispositions the leader on ofthe our board chapter, has a whovery imporworks noon was winding down. Then with each of the other board members to make sure they reach Marcia got us up to take some their goals and helps us to unify. The S’gan (VP of Programming) group pictures, as she always organizes activities and events for us to do as a chapter. The Moreh (VP of Membership) guides those interested in joining happiness and fun! our chapter through the registration process and is responsible does.As The eighth day graders,was filled we’re with for the lion’s share of recruitment even though we all are respon- looking forward to being ac- sible to recruit at least one new member each year. The Shaliach tive in BBYO, taking more re- (VP of Jewish Heritage) is in charge of organizing events focused sponsibility for the events and on Jewish holidays and traditions. The Gizborit (Treasurer) is in Jewish content, but we will charge of monitoring our chapters funds and fundraising. The also miss the fun that we’ve Chuck and Romana Primus, Owners Mazkir (Secretary) writes articles for the Jewish Leader, runs had over the past four years our social media pages, and makes sure the board can easily in the Junior Youth Group. We communicate with each other and with our members. will miss the pumpkin pick- The six of us on the newly elected board have pledged to ing event in the fall and the serve our roles and to help our chapter and community. If we do limousine scavenger hunt that our jobs right, (which, of course, we will) you’ll see us in action we’ve done at various times in throughout the next year. The six of us have already become re- the year with all of the friends ally good friends through BBYO this year and we are really look- we’ve made over the years, (al- ing forward to working together and growing our chapter even though rumor has it we might Come in! We’d like to meet you! more. Thanks to the Jewish community for all their help and get to do these events with support. BBYO, as well.) 475 Broad St., New London CT • 860-443-CITY 4 THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017 Cost $47/$50. Lunch on your own at Parthenon Diner. Stuff you need to know Senior Offerings about our trips Reservations are necessary for all events. When making your res- Our ticket policy requires ervation, let us know if you need a ride. Reservations can be that a $25 deposit accompany made by calling Beth at 860-444-6333x112. If Beth is your reservation. These depos- not available, leave a voice mail message, she’ll check them the its MUST go through Beth. Just following business day. writing down your name will Summer BBQ’s - Please join us on Monday July 10 at Beth El at 12:30 and cepted. Please make sure your Tuesday July 11 at Beth Jacob at 12:30 for a Hot dog/Hamburg- nophone longer number be sufficient is provided or acso er BBQ. Reservations required by Thursday, July 6 at 10:00 AM. we can call you with a pickup There will be a luncheon on Tuesday August 15 at Beth El time for the event. for a Chicken BBQ for both Clubs. Reservations are required by Also, if you are a senior and Thursday, August 10 at 10:00 AM. you do not attend the Kosher The July and August luncheons are TVCCA sponsored meals, Hot Lunches and would like so there is a suggested donation of $3 per person. Transporta- tion will be provided from Beth Jacob for the August BBQ if you upcoming trips, etc., please let Beth know when making your reservation. tocall be us notified with yourvia e-mail e-mail of any ad- dress and we will keep you Upcoming Trips informed. Payment in full is required Wednesday, July 12, “West Side Story” at Ivoryton Play- three (3) weeks prior to the house. Cost $47/$50. Lunch on your own at Luigi’s. SOLD OUT Wednesday, August 16, “Saturday Night Fever: The Musi- - cal” at Ivoryton Playhouse. Cost $47/$50. Lunch on your own event.ther by You mail will or be a phone notified call. that If at Parthenon Diner. SOLD OUT yourthere finalis no paymentresponse, is then due, your ei Wednesday, August 30, “Baggage” at Newport Playhouse. ticket will be forfeited. If at the Cost $59/$62. All inclusive. SOLD OUT Wednesday, September 13, “Oklahoma” at Goodspeed. Cost last moment, you are unable to attend a performance, the $63/$66. Lunch on your own at Zhangs/Pizza Works. SOLD responsibility for your ticket OUT rests with you. If we have a Wednesday, October 11, “Rags” at Goodspeed. Welcome to Cabaret at Beth Jacob the new world! Fresh from Ellis Island, a young mother and her wait list we will be happy to By Faye Ringel, special to the Leader son search for lost family and a sense of home as the 20th cen- make a call. Because we have Come to the Cabaret! Not the show with Liza Minelli, but tury beckons. The streets of Manhattan’s Lower East Side may already paid for your ticket an evening of great songs and good company at Beth Jacob on not be paved with gold, but they echo with the music of oppor- we are unable to refund your Thursday August 3 at 6:30 pm when Norwich’s Chelsea Players tunity, optimism and hope. A ravishing score by the songwriters money or put it toward an- present Live from the Stage Door Canteen: Songs of the World War of Wicked and Annie colors a sweeping saga of America’s im- other show. This policy will be II Homefront migrant past. Celebrate our rich roots in Goodspeed’s new ad- The show has a cast of nine women, veterans of previous Chel- aptation of a neglected masterpiece of the musical theatre. Cost sea Players eventsas a benefit and community for the synagogue. theater throughout Eastern Policyfirmly enforced. change Connecticut. Faye Ringel is musical director, and she and Roz Etra $63/$66. Lunch on your own at Luigi’s. A trip MUST have at least will provide the piano accompaniment for over twenty songs Wednesday, October 25, “The Crazy Time” at Newport 4 persons per car to happen. of the World War II era, which was also the Golden Age of the Playhouse. This is a play about men trying to understand If there is an outing in which Big Bands: Glenn Miller, Harry James, Benny Goodman. Songs will women and how they never will. Miles Gladstone, a man in his you are interested, make sure include “Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy of Company B” and other hits you get to go by asking a few woman half his age. Six months later his new wife leaves him, friends to join us. Our policy made famous by Vera Lynn, and of course Kate Smith’s patriotic mid-fifties, has left his wife of thirty years and marries a young has always been “the more the songs, most notably “God Bless America.” Other Irving Berlin looking better than ever wants to buy his modern apartment for merrier”. of the Andrews Sisters, “Bluebirds Over the White Cliffs of Dover” tunes include the title song, “Stage Door Canteen” and “Give Me his business partner has screwed him, and his first wife, who is Most transportation will be Your Tired, Your Poor,” his setting of Emma Lazarus’s sonnet in- by van, as our numbers don’t scribed on the Statue of Liberty. hergo back and herto her. extremely He’s shocked young boyfriend.that she’s notStruck interested. by his first The wife’s play allow for a bus. For this rea- Uniting the songs is a narrative of the important roles women fabulousends with appearance Miles, his partnerand new who vivacious screwed attitude, him, andMiles the offers young to son, if you are handicapped, or played during World War II, from the home to the factory to the must have a front seat, please armed forces. Faye Ringel co-wrote the show with Diane Gavidia, $59/$62. All inclusive. mention this when you make a Chelsea lover,Wednesday, all living togetherNovember and 8, trying“The Game’s to figure Afoot” out women. at Ivoryton Cost your reservation. We will at- performed in 1999. Diane is visiting Norwich for a few weeks Playhouse. A murderously funny thriller set in William Gillette’s tempt to accommodate your this summer, leading to plans to revive Connecticut Castle – The danger and hilarity are non-stop in this needs, but vans have a limited Players founder. Their first versionLive from of the the cabaret Stage Door was with a new cast, for new audiences. Cast members have glittering whodunit. Come join us for this wild and wacky ride! number of front seats. Please Canteen been taking shortened versions of the show to area senior resi- work with us on this!! dences and nursing homes. A performance at the Prime 82 is al- Beth’s Schedule ready sold out. This performance in Beth Jacob’s air-conditioned Please call Beth at 860- Social Hall provides an opportunity for a larger audience to enjoy 'PXKTQPOGPVCNN[(TKGPFN[.CPFUECRKPICTRI Landscaping 444-6333, Monday, Tuesday the fully-staged and costumed cabaret. or Thursday from 9:00 AM to Just like the real Stage Door Canteen run during World War II 2TQRGTV[/CPCIGOGPV& 2:00 PM for all reservations by the American Theater Wing, (and recently mentioned on the or questions regarding senior Tony Awards broadcast), the Beth Jacob performance will serve 4155)+5'4/#0 services. We MUST call in our meal counts the week be- Tickets are $15. Reservations are highly recommended, and fore the luncheon, so PLEASE softshould drinks, be paid coffee, by check, tea and payable light refreshments. to Chelsea Players and sent to TQUUIKUGTOCP"IOCKNEQO make your reservation by the Faye Ringel 6 Taylor Drive Norwich CT 06360. Thursday morning prior to the For further information, please contact Faye at 860-887-5497 KHL to ensure your spot and or by email at [email protected]. enough food. THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017 5 “He didn’t even take my mon- Yenta made a clucking noise, “You should have made a res- ey.” On the sidewalk I had the ervation in advance online. You’ll have to wait for hours. You By feeling that someone was should have listened to your wife.” watching me from behind the I shrugged without looking at the phone, and tipped an imagi- shops drawn curtains, but my nary hat to my wife. “Of course you’re right.” Artie wife pulled me away. “Look at As the day went on the Yenta system continued to amaze, nav- igating me around the city as my own personal assistant. Don’t Dean said. I checked my emails, an- get me wrong. I appreciated the help, yet the comments took get- thisswered thing. a brief It’s magnificent,” message from I ting used to. - Yenta: “You’re walking so slowly. Do your feet hurt? Why didn’t Yenta sage to my son, with blazing you bring your comfortable shoes? Italian loafers look nice, but thespeed office, and andaccuracy. sent a It’s text almost mes a man your age has to be more practical. Why can’t you be more A few weeks ago, while exploring Amsterdam’s gracious ca- as if it knows what I want to like your brother?” nals, I managed to lose my cell phone. As anyone who has done say. I managed a groan between clenched teeth. Yenta: “Oh, yes, such a bonehead deed I immediately lamented my mistake. “Can we go back to the and tonight wear the blue blazer with the red tie, it’ll distract How could I have been so careless? Will I lose all my pictures? apartment now? I’d like to from your paunch.” What about my contacts? freshen up before we go to I pictured throwing my new phone into the nearest canal, How will I get around the city without google maps to navi- services,” my wife said, taking then thought better of it. I had no idea how to navigate back to gate? my arm. my apartment without my Yenta GPS. I was soon lost. “Wouldn’t you like a snack?” Finally, the week was over. The trip a success albeit more I turned down a narrow alley near the Portuguese Synagogue, said a voice with a Yiddish stressful than I’d expected. a 500 year old Sephardic congregation which traces its roots to accent emanating from the On the way to the airport I had the Uber driver stop at the Jews escaping the Spanish Inquisition. I wandered past a tiny phone. My wife’s grip on my little cell phone shop where I’d gotten my new Yenta. “I hope electronics store nestled between a cheese shop and a kiosk sell- arm tightened. “Actually I am a you’ll visit again soon,” Yenta said, and next time stay a little lon- ing tulip bulbs. bit hungry,” my wife said. ger, you’re always in a rush.” I walked up to the young attendant “Rare Books, Computers, Rented Cell Phones, English Spo- “Yeah, me too,” I said. and nearly threw my Yenta on the counter. ken,” read the sign. “Then take a left at the end “Where’s the old man studying Talmud who was here last “What luck,” murmured my wife and nudged me towards the week?” door. “See what they can do.” Initially I protested, for I still had café before the canal on Pring- The young man’s jaw fell open. “Grandpa? But he hasn’t vague hopes that the phone would reappear. ofesgraft. the street,Order the enter herring. the first It’s worked here for years. The store was closed last week. He picked “You’re on vacation. We need a phone. Besides, one of the kids to die for. Tell them Yenta sent up my Yenta. “I’ve never seen this model before.” might call. This is not the time to be frugal.” you. Now go. You’ll feel better.” I paid out the 125 Euros with a sense of relief. As helpful as I nodded and entered the shop, the scent of decaying books I hesitated. “You can thank my Yenta assistant had been, sometimes it’s better not knowing me later,” said Yenta. your shortcomings. The shopkeeper, a diminutive man well in to his seventies, re- My wife and I exchanged “Try to patch things up with your brother, Mr. Bigshot,” Yenta and herring filling my nostrils. glances. “What’ll they think of squiggly print. “That’s not Dutch, is it?” I said with my best tour- next?” I said, placing the phone “Is that all? 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I know what you need,” he said with an forget me, like you do every- my hands and was about to run from the shop when I thought I exotic Middle Eastern accent, that I couldn’t place. thing,” said Yenta. heard the old man chuckling, the odor of smoked herring rising He turned away for a moment, reached up on a shelf, rum- I swallowed hard. mysteriously from the young attendant. maged around in a cardboard box and plucked out a leather-clad “Do what Yenta tells you,” iPhone. “There you go, our latest model, best operating system, my wife said, clearly amused. not even in the stores yet.” “Ask for a table near the win- dow, it’s too noisy here,” Yenta &DOOXVWRGD\IRU\RXUIUHH set into the case. “I’ll take it,” I said, and let out a low whistle. “We said. 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“Tracee Reiser Day” in the City EXEC. DIRECTOR CONT. FROM PAGE 1 M’89of New officially London. declared June 8 General Dynamics returned to the production and employ- Reiser is Connecticut Col- ment levels of its heyday, and some new Jewish families and lege’s associate dean of com- individuals moved to the area. And General Dynamics did pick munity learning, associate di- rector of the Holleran Center for Community Action and uprobust some General of the Dynamics.drop off in United Way donations (still down by Public Policy, and director of 50%), but the Pfizer diminution was not restored by the now community partnerships. of the Jewish population. As was discovered by the Pew survey, Passero made the declara- And then there are the significant changes in the orientation Jewish identity. tion at a Connecticut College l-r: New London Mayor Michael Passero, Connecticut College Secularism has a long tradition in Jewish life in America, and event honoring Reiser, who President Katherine Bergeron, and honoree Tracee Reiser. significantly fewer Jews feel that belief in God is a key aspect of will retire June 30. most U.S. Jews seem to recognize this: 62% say being Jewish is “Tracee Reiser is a native work, she has secured grants and gifts from a wide variety of mainly a matter of ancestry and culture, while just 15% say it is of New London and has lived public and private sources. mainly a matter of religion. Even among Jews by religion, more the majority of her life in her As a citizen activist in New London, Reiser is active in Rotary than half (55%) say being Jewish is mainly a matter of ancestry beloved city, contributing to all International. She is past president of the Rotary Club of New and culture, and two-thirds say it is not necessary to believe in aspects of its diverse commu- London, former treasurer of the Women’s Center of Southeast- God to be Jewish. [Pew Research Center, Religion & Public Life, nity,” Passero said. “In her role ern CT and a former co-chair of the SECT Task Force on Racial Oct 1, 2013] as director of community part- Ethnic Balance in Schools. It was the SECT task force that created We need to devise ways to help Jews identify with their Jew- nerships, she has led a team of and implemented New London’s Regional Multicultural Magnet ish community without demanding religious practices and - procedures that hold little meaning for them. This is easier to gether the world of the College Dr. Martin Luther King Service Award. achieve in large cities like New York, Atlanta, San Francisco staffand the and worlds students, of New weaving London to School.Connecticut In 2008, College she was President the first staff Katherine recipient Bergeron of the recalledCollege’s where there they can choose from synagogues, Jewish Commu- and New London County into a that when she came to the College in 2014, Reiser gave her a pa- nity Centers, and chavurot or other informal ways to identify as single caring community guid- perweight in the shape of a whale—the symbol of New London. Jews. In smaller communities critical mass does not make such ed by social justice.” “She wanted me to put it on my desk to remind me where I multi-institutional options possible. During her 25 years at the was, and to welcome me to her home,” Bergeron said. While there is fellowship in communal worship, the number College, Reiser has created and “Tracee, who belongs to both the College and the city, never implemented a wide range of seemed to see a divide. She is all about building connections.” Erev Shabbat or Shabbat morning is no longer automatic. Syna- innovative teaching and learn- The event began with a dance performance by Bennie Dover of worshippers has declined significantly. Attracting a minyan on- ing experiences that develop Jackson Middle School students who participate in ENRICH, an active citizenship, enhance extended learning time program at the College created through a gogue membership has declined significantly, leaving an unsus scholarship and contribute to partnership spearheaded by Reiser. Connecticut Rep. Chris Soto tainablewith the financialJewish community? burden for theClearly, remaining prayer members.services are not the advancing the quality of life in and representatives from New London Public Schools, the Com- best,What or only,should way we to do achieve to enhance that goal.fellowship What and should identification we do to local and global communities. munity Foundation of Eastern Connecticut, Rotary Club of New She helped found the Hol- London, the City of New London and Thames River Innovation We know that critical mass is a key component to success. leran Center for Community Place were also in attendance. reduceThis truth the isfinancial seen in burdens? the success of our community youth pro- Action and Public Policy and gram, Hebrew High and popular JFEC programs like JCC Without the Center for the Comparative Connecticut General Assembly. exec. director’s report CONT. ON PG 10 Study of Race and Ethnicity, Soto“People presented like Tracee Reiser Reiser with only an official grace citationus in this on world behalf once of the in increased student-developed a lifetime,” he said. “Tracee, because of you, people like us are and student-led community doing what we’re doing.” Remember to send in engagement programs and In her remarks, Reiser thanked her campus colleagues and your subscription built numerous partnerships the people of the New London between the College and the region for making the last 25 community. To support this years so meaningful and pro- Energy Saving Windows & Doors! JT’s All Seasons Landscaping Order Factory Direct! Call Joel Tomsky @ 860-271-9549 Vinyl Replacement & Commercial & Residential New Construction Windows Storm Windows & Commercial Aluminum Lawn Care • Fertilizing • Mulching Hedge & Tree Trimming • Spring Cleanup Professional Installation Available Driveway Sealing • Dump Runs • and more! 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Three active Hadassah Associates: Evart Gawendo, Michael Seroussi, Joel Etra Chapter Board members Roz Etra, Lesly Ginsberg, Vicki Co-President of Eastern Connecti- Seroussi, Sue Lorinsky cut Chapter, Karen Bloustine
New Life Member Rabbi Susan Schein, who led the Motzi, with Karen Rosen- berg and Pepi Kahn Green (Left to right, seated) Jane Katzoff, Faye Ringel, Jenny Markiewicz Rabinowitz, daughter of the late Henny Simon, Sheila Horvitz. Standing, Joyce Bachman, President of Connecticut Region, Guest Speaker Gina Barreca, Sheri Rosenthal and Roz Etra
Guest Speaker Gina Barreca signs her most recent book, assisted by Moira Ross
(Left to right, seated) Katie Beit, Eileen Kalla, Kim Fischburg, Gabe Stern, Kath- leen McFadden. Standing, Kenn Fischburg, Evart Gawendo, Lisa Gawendo, Shelley Weiss, Nate Weiss 8 THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017
President’s annual report CONT. FROM PAGE 1 Ties with Israel passing we published a tribute to her and dedicated exceptional, dedicated service. Fostering ties with Israel has been a key goal of the closing convocation of Encountering Survivors to I am pleased to let everyone know that Jerry has the Federation. Sarid Gilboa, Tal’s father, spoke to her memory. We are planning a fall program at East agreed to continue as our Executive Director. He is our campaign leaders. We brought the Israel Sol- Lyme High School, whose students bonded with her unique in the Federation world as the longest con- dier’s Tour of “Stand with Us” to the Coast Guard through the Encountering Survivors program. tinuously serving Director in the same community Academy. The Academy also sent six cadets to Is- in North America. And this year we were proud to rael this past summer on the Military Academies Congregation Beth El be able to see his movie, Harvesting Stones, which Exchange program. Many of us are saddened by the probable sale of premiered last year at our Film Festival to an au- We hosted the chairwoman of our Partner- the Beth El building. We have warm memories of spe- dience of over 600, broadcast on CPTV, with over ship2gether Afula/Gilboa Israel committee, Nava cial times with family and good friends in that build- 15,000 viewers. He has captured an important part Teitler, of Afula, and the Director, Naveh Yogev, ing. Beth El was the largest congregation and building of the Jewish history of our region, and of America, for meetings and presentations. We sent two mis- in eastern Connecticut. It hosted many spectacular and we congratulate him for bringing his labor of sions to Israel. Both missions had exceptional and congregational and community programs. Theodore love to fruition. warm experiences with our partners in Afula/Gil- Bikel gave a concert there, the Broadway play “Golda” To the Board of Directors – you have my deep boa, including home hospitality and visits to the was performed there, concerts of the Afula Music gratitude for your input, support and valuable Women’s Center, the Ethiopian Resettlement Cen- Conservatory and Choir, and Shir b’Emek were given time. I look forward to your active involvement ter, Ha’Emek Hospital, and the WIZO Community there, and the social hall was often bursting beyond as we chart our way through some rough waters Center. capacity for these programs. ahead. Thank you, Rosa Goldblatt and Ron Leeser,
Service to the Jewish and General a summer Kosher Chicken BBQ to the entire region, but critical task. Without your dedicated leader- andFor invited years town our KosherSenior CentersHot Lunch and program churches offered to join forship, chairing the Federation the Campaign, could not a particularlyexist. difficult Community us for a tasty kosher lunch. Well over 300 seniors at- A special thanks also goes to Board member We continued our robust services for the youth, tended. And then many of them would come into the Sema Stein, who, as a volunteer has revived our the elderly, and the needy in our community. Be- sanctuary and learn about Jewish religion and ritual. Friendly Visitor program. Friendly Visitors has cause we are a centralized organization, we can Beth El served the general community as well. Its brought joy to seniors in nursing homes, and a hire the necessary professionals. Thank you Mar- nursery school was famous for its caring and loving warm fellowship to the many volunteers from all cia Reinhard, our Assistant Director, Beth Hubbert, approach to children and was very popular. Its Rab- our congregations. Be sure to read her report as our Senior and Community Services Administra- bis were and are deeply engaged in interfaith and well as all the others in this booklet. tor and Tracy Todd, our Jewish Community High interracial work, and both the Congregation and the Lastly, I want to thank all of you for allowing me School Coordinator, Nickie Padilla, Coordinator of Solomon Schechter Academy did annual walks to the privilege of serving as your president. Our num- our Strochlitz Holocaust Resource Center, and Jen- raise money for hunger programs. bers may be dwindling, but we are strong people. nifer Zettler, PJ Library Coordinator. We are truly And we have a vision, a vision of a Jewish commu- grateful for your dedication. good home from which to serve its members well. Because we are a centralized organization, we WeThis are sad confident but necessary that the sale congregation has prompted will an find hon a- beyond what we can now achieve. The road ahead can serve all the youth and all the elderly. This base est look at the situation of the congregations in our is neither straight nor smooth. But together, we makes possible the critical mass needed to make nity which offers fellowship, options and programs area. I hope it will lead us to formulate a responsible shall build a welcoming, vibrant community that our programs successful. plan towards a cooperative, welcoming and thriving will enrich all our lives. Both our Junior Youth Group and our BBYO Jewish community. I welcome your comments and ideas. You can had a successful year. Our Community Services best reach me through email at romana.primus@ program distributed 35,232 lbs of food to 5,385 gmail.com. people. Our Senior Kosher Hot Lunch program Words of Appreciation May everyone have a healthy and rewarding served 1,466 meals to 80 seniors and Operation Jerry, Marcia, Beth, Mimi, Jeanine, Nickie, Norman, Summer. Cool Down distributed 24 air conditioners to fami- Nancy,My heartfeltTracy, Rachel thanks and goes Jennifer to our for dedicated another year staff of - lies with a medical reason for air conditioning but Chazak v’Amatz, Strength and Courage!! without the resources to purchase a unit. Through support from United Way, the Gemma Moran United Way Labor/Food Center, a FEMA Emergency Food and Shelter grant, and a grant from The Wireless Zone Foundation, we served 388 families in acute crisis situations.
Elie Wiesel and Henny Simon We mourned the deaths of two Holocaust sur- vivors, Elie Wiesel and Henny Simon. Each one of us probably knew Elie from his books and possibly from his visits to our community. Henny served with distinction on JFEC’s board and participated in most of our Holocaust Commemoration pro- grams. We commemorated Elie’s passing with a pro- gram of songs and readings by Cantor Debbie Katchko Gray, with stories told by Henry Savin, and with musical performances by Noah Shafner, by Donneta Hodge and Elsie Johnson of Christ Church, l-r MItchell Shapiro-Albert, Leah Berke, Michael Wolfe and by Nick Evento of All Souls. Sherry Barnes di- and David Kohanski rected our Community Choir and the SSA choir. We also published a special insert to the July 29, 2016 Merle Potchinsky (l) wife of Rav Jeremy Schwartz edition of The Leader. (r.) of Temple Bnai Israel in Willimantic and Roz Henny’s funeral at Ahavath Achim in Colchester Etra of Beth Jacob Synagogue in Norwich. was attended by over 400 people. To mark her THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017 9
Emissary Farewell Dinner & Annual Meeting June 22
Emissary Guy Carmi (c) with host brother Daniel Sackett, mom Ella, Host mom to Emissary Guy Carmi Robin Wolf and host brother Yalley Sackett and friend Greg Stewart. and her son Mike Wolf. Emissary Tal Gilboa with host dad Jona- than Rowe.
Marcia Reinhard and Jerry Fischer bid farewell to Emissaries Guy Carmi and Tal Gilboa.
Host mom and dad to Emissary Tal Gilboa Jenni- Rabbi Marc Ekstrand of Temple fer and Scott Zettler and daughter Gabrielle. Emanu-El in Waterford.
Jerry Fischer pres- ents l-r Karen Blous- tine, Rabbi Rachel Safman, Myra Gip- stein with Emma Lazarus Award. Not present was Mi- l-r seated: JFEC Staff Beth Hubbert, Tracy Todd chele Snitkin. and Rachel Sheriff; standing is Karen Rosenberg Ron Ward and Cheryl Molina, of Start Fresh Emma Lazarus Award recipients Photos courtesy of Rabbi Ken Alter of Con- gregtaion Ahavath Achim in I. Bruce Levine Colchester. and Joel Etra. 10 THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017
A JEWISH TEEN’S PERSPECTIVE CONT. FROM PAGE 1 that welcoming to the Jewish people. work of a proud Jewish teen doing his part to speak sort of people who are committing these atrocious This past year, for my International Baccalaure- against an encroaching onslaught. acts of villainy. So I began to think about what I can ate English class, we were tasked with writing an Luckily, I’m not alone. I’m aided by the coordina- do to eliminate this risk, and create a more educated enormous research paper on a topic in any number tors and peers in the aforementioned programs, JCHS populace to dispel any undeserved abuse before it of categories. I chose to examine Donald Trump’s and BBYO. Jewish Community High School, which begins. The thought was so obvious, but took Marcia impact on anti-Semitism, which was, to me, both a meets Mondays during the school year, is a place for Reinhard’s suggestion to convince me of it. I began to fascinating and terrifying topic. Between researching teens like me to go and talk about being Jewish with talk to my history teacher about bringing Guy and Tal Trump’s behavior on the campaign trail, his cabinet the Rabbi’s and our Young Emissaries. The emissar- and advisors, and the growing number of anti-Semitic ies prepare programs for the teens to learn about life Things went slowly, since teachers and Assistant incidents in the United States, I was entrenched in a in Israel, while the Rabbi’s create themed classes to intoDirectors Fitch becomefor the first busy time at the in same years. time each year, but feeling of hopelessness. Whether you support Trump I’m very proud to say that the event was coordinated - semester, it was “Judaism in Music,” taught by Rabbis cisions: asking for pledges of allegiance to him while talkMarc about Ekstrand Judaism and in Ken different Alter, where areas weof life. scrutinized This past warmly and welcomingly. They gave a wonderful pre- orcampaigning, not, he seems failing to have to mention raised red the flagsJewish in peoplea few de in modern works (like Regina Spektor’s ‘Samson’) for flawlessly,sentation to and my Tal history and Guy class were about received life in Israel,incredibly and a Holocaust Remembrance Day statement, and ap- their allusions to Jewish stories or themes that co- my peers, only one with any background in Judaism, pointing Steve Bannon and Stephen Miller as Chief incide with Jewish teachings. Our BBYO Youth Group were receptive and attentive. It felt like I had done Strategist and Senior Advisor respectively. On top works much the same way, with programs through- of cemetery desecrations and bomb threats, it was a out the year, planned by our elected board, regard- And I was proud once again, especially of my two dif- hectic transition period to be sure. Even some of his ing holidays or conventions that are coming up. The ferentsome small worlds part that to had try mergedand fight so back seamlessly. the rising tide. proposed policy, like the now infamous Muslim travel teens in these groups help support each other in As proud as I am of that day, it only inspired me to ban, sent shockwaves throughout minority groups. If what boils down to our shared issue: we are a min- do more. In my IB Diploma program, we are respon- the Trump administration is trying to exclude one iscule minority. sible for a Community Action Service (CAS) project group for their religion, who’s to say he’ll stop there? I’m best equipped to speak about my own high that is exactly what it sounds like: a project that we It’s only fair, however, to point out that he does have school, Fitch High School in Groton, which is a very create and grow to aid the community in any way. his own following in Jewish Communities. Those sup- proud and diverse high school. Yet in all my three My hope is that next year, as a Senior, I can bring in years there, I’ve met approximately three people our next Young Emissaries to give a few school-wide who share my beliefs, only one of whom became a discussions to cast the net even further, because we portersthreatening, find these but rather points as to symbolicbe an integral gestures. part Manyof his Bar Mitzvah. I never feel attacked or discriminated do live in unsettling times. This is an unfortunate but indefinablepoint to his personality, inarguable and commitment to interpret to them the aid not and as against, but I can safely say there’s no one within my necessary action to take in our progress as a Jewish support of Israel in Middle Eastern negotiations. Re- school who I feel I could have a discussion regard- people. Individually, this is what I feel will spur my gardless of your view, today’s era marks the begin- ing Judaism. These numbers help explain exactly why growth as a member of the Jewish faith. And I hope ning of another critical point in Jewish history. these programs are so important to the Jewish youth - It was certainly a harrowing journey, but I was around our communities. Without them, we have no nized get together, to try and do their part to sculpt glad to write the essay. As an admittedly liberal Jew- network with whom we can further our beliefs or everyonea more accepting can find aand way, educated be it a small community gesture toor orgawork ish teen, I feel it is important to educate myself on knowledge about our own religion. together for our future. what exactly could be threatening our way of life in However, these numbers also convey what I be- the not-so-distant future. However, I also understand lieve to be the underlying issue with being a Jew to- Mitch Shapiro-Albert is a rising senior at Fitch Se- that what we’re facing now is a frightful and undeni- day, which is that without exposure and discussion, nior High School in Groton, a member of BBYO and at- these decidedly non-Jewish areas become breeding tends the Federation’s Jewish Community High School. paper, my work had really just begun, and that’s the grounds for discrimination and hate, and create the able rise in anti-Semitism. While I had finished the EXEC. DIRECTOR’S REPORT CONT. FROM PAGE 6 Walls, Yom HaShoah, the January adult education se- citing, joyful, and meaningful. Our tradition is not one able things we have in the past year without our ries, Harvest festival, etc. Over 300 people attended of monasticism or isolation, it is one of community Mimi Perl, Marcia the Yom HaAtzmaut program. and shared learning. That is what you have accom- Reinhard, Beth Hubbert, Norm Belanger, Nancy plished, with your teachers and with Guy and Tal this Bartlettdedicated, Jeannine and hardworking Martino staff:, Nickie Padilla, Tracy year. Community and shared learning is what I hope Todd, Jennifer Zettler, Rachel Sheriff, and Mitch programmingOne central couldfacility help that us houses both todifferent achieve stylescritical of you will accomplish next year and in the future. Kline, worshipmass and and to lessen offers the cultural, economic social, burden. and educational Build strong bonds with your fellow Jews, your fel- the Federation and the support of the community. Here is an excerpt of my letter to the students and low Americans, and our Israeli cousins. Continue to Roband Brody, the assupport a volunteer, of the has Officers begun and to organize Board of a graduates from our Jewish Community High School learn and explore. And fulfill the basic values of the Young Professionals Social Group for the Federation; this year: Jewish people. To the graduates, immerse yourselves we are planning a full year of activities for 2017-18. What are the challenges? To make Jewish values in your higher learning, and find Jewish connections Richie Simonson has donated and devoted his part of your everyday life, to build peace among our- and communal support in your new settings. To the legal time and energy to establishing a Jewish Cem- selves and between people. What are the basic Jew- returning students, continue the path you have dedi- etery Association of Eastern Connecticut which ish values? To feed the hungry, to clothe the naked, to cated your Monday nights to. Learn from our Rab- will help us to step in when congregations can no bury the dead, and to love your neighbor as yourself, bis and teachers and each other, and from the Young longer sustain their cemeteries. We used as a model or as Hillel put it in a somewhat negative fashion, Emissaries who join us each year. May you all go from the Cemetery Association in West Hartford. The tran- to not do unto others what is hateful to you...And to strength to strength. sition, which has involved the transfer of the Beth El build strong bonds between Israelis of all stripes and The nature of our community has changed; the im- Cemetery to the Association was made easier with the American Jews, and Americans in general. portance of communal life is still key to our continu- help of Jerry Schwell, Maier Fein, and Len Cohen. You know, from your years in the Jewish Commu- ity and our Jewish identity. We are pleased that Ed Perry has agreed to be the nity High School, that we have a long and rich tradi- new committee chair for the Cemetery Association. tion. Our Rabbis, and other teachers in the communi- path to a common shared space, and means of Jew- We have retained the services of Tammy Pinkerton ty have striven to give you a taste of that tradition. It The essential challenge is that we must find a to oversee that cemetery and retained Ross Giser- is so varied and so deep that you can get lost explor- and the sanctuary. Each Congregation has a core of man to maintain the grounds. ing it, or give up in despair over the endless paths you ishcaring identification and concerned that congregants. goes beyond Together the prayer I believe book I, together with all those mentioned, plus many can choose to explore. we can forge a path to vibrant and sustainable future volunteers and committee members whose names But the one thing I think you have learned from - appear in this Annual Report, take joy in serving the this past year is that learning and exploring in a com- munity and the general community. Jewish and general community and look forward to munal setting, with your fellow students, can be ex- thatWe reflects could our not core have values accomplished and serves all both the our remark com- continuing the work for several years to come! THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017 11
must not lose faith. Monday, Closing events Possibility findwe begin possibilities.” our journey Harry, to you the By Geoff Hausmann By Tammy Stoner Pinkerton United States of America, and When it comes to a real estate closing there we will be given new possi- are a lot of emotions and stress, but this article I don’t want to be a rabbi bilities. Now we must light the will discuss some events I have experienced candles, and begin to observe over the last 20 years: I could almost imagine Grandpa Harry, in 1905 at age 15, run- the Sabbath.” -- The Buyer was B. Joe Smith and the Seller ning home after a day of studying at the yeshiva in his Polish And the heavens began to was L. Joe Smith with both refers to themselves hometown with the elderly rabbis contemplating the numbers. roar, and the rain began to as Joe Smith and there was no relation between Rabbi Moshe began to speak. “God said you must rest on the pour, as the family lit the Shab- the two. Of course the purchase and sales was written selling seventh day.” The seventh day the Sabbath was designed to rest, bat candles in observation of the property from Joe Smith to Joe Smith. The entire transaction to remember the awe of God. It’s a time to pray. A time to take the seventh day of rest. was confusing and of course we get to the closing table with B. note of the miracles of life. The magic of the Sabbath... the magic Harry had been born in Smith (the buyer) selling to L. Smith (the Seller). The closing was of the seventh day.” 1889 into the age of reason. delayed two weeks as the mortgage company had to reprocess Numbers, Harry mumbled. What do these old men know? There were days when we the paperwork. [Names have been changed]. They have a number for everything. They say on day seven you didn’t have to understand it -- I was closing on a property on 9/11. For some reason the should rest, eighteen is the number for life, on the eighth day a all. It was okay to not know money could not be funded that day. The closing was delayed bris is performed on a baby boy. We must count the numbers of what it was we didn’t know. three weeks. prayers, the number of tzitzit on a prayer shawl. It takes 10 to We didn’t need an explanation have a minyan to pray. They have a number for everything. to understand everything, and utilities after the inspections without informing anyone. When These rabbis they look to the moon and stars to explain the science didn’t provide an an- -- The Seller wanted to save money so he turned off all the- world and God. They practice in the mystics. They believe God swer to every question. ify everything still worked. The Seller was required to get the creates the world. They say God decides it all. God. The answer is the Buyer went for his final walk through, he was unable to ver in God, not in science. There were days weekend). In the end, the Seller paid three times in expenses As he proceeded home, his mother and younger sister Sarah when the mysteries utilities turned back on (which took five days as it went over the were busy setting the table preparing for the Sabbath meal. They of the universe were -- The rumor was that the deceased husband had stored gold had their weekly ritual. They would light the candles, smell the accepted. Just be- comparedin the attic to in the case few of dollarsa rainy heday. saved At closing turning time, off the familyutilities. did spices, say the prayers and eat the meal. It was their routine and cause we didn’t un- not want to leave it behind so decided to go into the attic to try it happened every week. derstand something The rules and ritual were the same week after week. Sarah family members fell through the ceiling. Not only did they not didn’t mean it didn’t to find it. Everyone thought it was a good idea until one of the table on Friday evening in observation of the Sabbath. exist. buyer $1,500. Two years later, the new owners have told me that theHarry only girl called with Sarah five brothers aside. Sarah knew don’t her taskyou wasthink to this help religion set the they did look, but no gold was ever found. There were days when the find the gold, they had to pay to repair the ceiling. They gave the has too many rules? Too many prescribed ways of being? Too -- The nice couple decided to make a video or two and store mysteries of the universe were it in the back of a closet on the top shelf. The new owners found accepted. Just because we happened to the voice of reason? Why do we have to have all the tapes and were not sure what was on them so they decided didn’t understand something muchof these stuff rules that asked just 15doesn’t year oldmake Harry? sense Sarah,for science. just a Sarahfew years what to watch them. The situation got worse when I was given the didn’t mean it didn’t exist. younger than Harry responded. “I don’t know Harry, it is a lot of tapes to get them back to the Sellers. There were days when the rules. I don’t understand them either. It’s just the way it is.” -- After inspections the buyer continued to ask for additional wise rabbis studying the kab- Just prior to their observation of the Sabbath meal, he told his repairs. The Sellers were in a situation that they needed to sell balah, the ancient teachings of mother, Mom I have been thinking... I don’t want to be a rabbi. and their emotions got the best of them. Not only did the sellers Judaism, studied the numbers, I know that every generation for thirteen generations before remove the entire wood pile, but also removed every face plate and gave them meaning. The me have been rabbis. I know that is what I am supposed to do. I cover throughout the home. At the closing table, both the Buyers know that’s what the tradition says to do, but Mom, I don’t want ancient religious mystics of Ju- to be a rabbi. I don’t believe. I believe in science. I believe in rea- daism taught us many lessons, son. Show me the proof. conference rooms. and meaning to the numbers and Sellers had to be seated in different rooms. The poor closing God says pray all of the time. What about making a living? attorney-- It was had the to night constantly before climb the closing a flight and of stairswe got to the the word different that lessonsif we stopped that gave and significancepaid atten- What about the fact that the czar is killing all of the Jews forcing the Seller had passed away. The attorneys earned their money tion. the next day by getting the judge of probate involved immedi- Perhaps in our world today, people die? ately. It was determined that the signed purchase and sales con- it would help if we return to us offGod. our What land? does What God about know? suffering It’s all random Mom? acts.Where Itis justGod hapas our- tract was enough evidence that it was his full intention to sell the the ancient mystics for an ex- pens. If you want to keep your meat clean, you clean the meat property so it closed two hours late with all the proceeds going planation of forces that seem- properly, it doesn’t take a prayer. Who cares if you eat milk and into an escrow for the estate. ingly make no sense. meat on the same plate? It just doesn’t matter. -- Within the last week of a closing, the mortgage company will Mom, I don’t expect you to understand. You are old. You are re-pull the credit. In this case, the mortgage company found out Tammy Stoner Pinkerton is nearly 40 years old, and you are of another generation. Times that the Buyer had decided to purchase four big screen TVs for a social worker who coaches - the new home on his credit card. The Buyer did not have enough individuals and families in the tion. We have new technology. We have science. money for the closing costs until Dad came to the rescue. development of special events haveMom changed replied, Mom. “Harry, It’s different God gives today. us problems We are ofso a thatnew wegenera can -- The day before the closing the Seller informs me that he designed to touch, move and wanted to cancel the sale as the apartment he was living in is be- inspire. She creatively writes, ing sold. His attorney explained the amount of money he would researches, and organizes in- Allison S. Glickman, LPC, LLC be out if he cancelled the sale and luckily, convinced him to con- formation into personalized let- tinue with the sale. Licensed Professional Counselor ters, dramatic skits, and unique -- The worst situation happened to me on Valentine’s Day. 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ON PG 13 12 THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017 Kotel decision stirs huge controversy across diaspora HERZOG SPEAKS OUT PARTNERSHIP 2GETHER ISSUES STATEMENT
By Gil Hoffman, Jerusalem Post By Lori Klinghoffer, Dalia Yosef & Jack Smorgon Normally mild-mannered opposition leader Isaac Herzog ad- Chairs of the Board of Governors Partnership Committee & Chairs of the Partnership Global Council the government’s Western Wall decision, pleading with them to Dear Hevarim, visedstop being Diaspora polite. Jewish leaders Tuesday (June 27) to fight against We are writing to you as leaders in Partnership2Gether – Israeli and Diaspora chairs who en- Herzog spoke at an emergency session of the Knesset Caucus deavor every day to strengthen the Jewish people by creating living bridges between Israel and on Strengthening the Jewish World with Jewish Agency chair- overseas Jewish communities. We know how much time, energy and resources our entire Partner- man Natan Sharansky, American Jewish leaders spoke, and 25 ship Family invests in making the Jewish world more united and inclusive. We are writing to you Knesset members from across the political spectrum but no out of tremendous concern and anger over the developments of the past 48 hours. ultra-orthodox legislators. The meeting was organized by the On Sunday, June 25, the Israeli government adopted a decision submitted by Minister of the chairman of the committee, Zionist Union MK Nachman Shai. Interior Aryeh Deri (Shas) and Minister of Health Yaakov Litzman (United Torah Judaism) to sus- pend implementation of its January 2016 decision adopting a plan based on a proposal by who“I feelbelieve disgraced there shouldand offended be equality by the government’s decision,” prayer space in the southern part of the Western Wall and place it under the control of a commit- Herzogfor all. It said. is time “I offerto work my to apologies, change the together with many Israelis Chairmantee composed of the of Executiverepresentatives Natan ofSharansky the Reform to significantlyand Conservative expand movements and upgrade and the several egalitarian other course, which could undermine the organizations and chaired by the Chairman of the Executive. Additionally, the Ministerial Commit- strength of Israel.”Emergency Knesset tee on Legislation approved a bill that would withdraw official recognition from conversions meeting on Western Wall crisis not conducted under the auspices of the Chief Rabbinate. Deputy Minister in the Prime Min- We are gravely concerned that both of Sunday’s government decisions are liable to cause signif- - icant, long-term damage to Israel-Diaspora relations and should thus be reversed. In short, work- ther, saying: “This is a battle for Is- ing against everything that we in P2G strive to achieve on behalf of the Jewish people. ister’srael’s soul, Office I’m Michael proud to Oren stand went with fur US We are gravely concerned that there is a strong sense among many Diaspora Jews that their Jewish leaders, and we will win.” modes of religious practice are not recognized by the country’s establishment is a source of grow- Union for Reform Judaism presi- ing anger and frustration, leading to alienation, particularly among the younger generation, and a dent Rabbi Rick Jacobs said the prayer reduction of the support of Israel. As a result of these steps, we are concerned that Israel will be area near Robinson’s Arch that is cur- weakened without the support and advocacy on its behalf from world Jewry. rently used for egalitarian prayer was not a solution, calling it We thought you would be interested in reading the response released by the Chairman of the “second-class” and vowing that the non-Orthodox would not be Executive Natan Sharansky: second-class Jews. “As Chairman of The Jewish Agency for Israel, and on behalf of our partners, I must express my New chairman of the Jewish Agency Board of Governors Mi- deep disappointment at today’s decision by the Government of Israel to suspend the implementa- chael Siegal promised that Diaspora Jewish leaders “won’t let this issue go away” and would make sure Israel would remain “welcoming for all Jews for all time.” tionformula of its that own would decision transform to establish the Western a dignified Wall space into, forin his egalitarian own words, prayer ‘one at wall the forWestern one people.’ Wall. “Five“After yearsfour years ago, theof intense Prime Ministernegotiations, asked we me reached to lead a a solution joint effort that wasto bring accepted about by a allworkable major event in a prayer shawl and asked the MKs: “How can I get the denominations and was then adopted by the government and embraced by the world’s Jewish WomenThe head of the of Wall Women to believe of the youWall anymore?” Anat Hoffman addressed the communities. The only MK who attempted to defend Prime Minister Benja- min Netanyahu was Likud MK Avraham Neguise. When he said the Wall was not a political issue, opposition MKs led by Yesh “Today’s“The Jewish decision Agency signifies nevertheless a retreat remains from that staunchly agreement committed and will maketo that our work work and to tobring the Israelprin- Atid’s Aliza Lavie heckled him, and said the problem was Netan- andciple the of oneJewish wall world for one closer people.” together increasingly more difficult. yahu’s fault, because he broke an agreement reached between This is not business as usual. The leadership of The Jewish Agency cancelled a scheduled din- US religious streams and Haredi (ultra-Orthodox) representa- ner with Prime Minister Netanyahu and during the course of the emergency meeting, the Board tives. unanimously adopted what will undoubtedly be a historic resolution. (see appendix) Lavie later led the MKs and Jewish leaders in the hymn about As leaders in the Jewish world, we ask that you please join us in denouncing the govern- Jewish unity “hineh mah tov umah nayim.” ment decision. - Regional Cooperation Minister Tzachi Hanegbi, who Netanya- sands of steering committee members, program participants, your colleagues and friends, etc. Be hu appointed to resolve the Western Wall dispute, told the event as proactive as possible. As a first As step, a next please step, forward we are this organizing email to youra petition P2G family, which including you yourself our thou will that he saw himself as “Tom Cruise in Mission Impossible.” But be able to sign and encourage others to join in as well. he ended on a note of understanding. We know that there is no confusion. We know that we stand united as one Jewish people – Is- raelis supporting overseas Jewry and overseas Jewry supporting the Israeli people. But we cannot and“There don’t lose are hope.” always changes and clarifications that can be 2TOGETHER CONT. ON PG 13 made,”ARZA he said. “It’s OUTRAGEDnot the end of this fight. Everything BY is open, KOTEL AND CONVERSION DECISIONS Two Attempts to Disenfranchise Non-Orthodox Jews the ultra-Orthodox minority in Israel at the expense Wall for One People.” of Jewish unity and pluralism, undermine religious Unfortunately, the compromise (that included the By Rabbi John Rosover, ARZA Board Chair & freedom in the State of Israel, and open a schism be- ultra-Orthodox Administrator of the Western Wall Rabbi Josh Weinberg, ARZA President tween Israel and world Jewry. Plaza) was rejected by other religious extremists, On June 25, the Israeli cabinet capitulated to ex- ARZA and the Reform Jewish movement cel- who opposed any proposal that legitimates non-Or- tremist pressure and froze its agreed-upon plan to ebrated the January 2016 agreement that promised thodox Judaism. In the days following the agreement, develop an egalitarian worship space at the West- investing in and constructing an egalitarian prayer ern Wall (Ha-Kotel Ha-Ma’aravi). On the same day, it space at Robinson’s Arch, just south of the existing the Chief Rabbinate littered Jerusalem with placards advanced a bill that would grant the ultra-Orthodox Western Wall plaza, that would be equal in size and extremistcalling for officialsthe “liberation” and the ofpublicly the Kotel funded from Officethe “de of- Chief Rabbinate exclusive control over conversions in monic” machinations of liberal Jews, and threatened Israel. This was a milestone for compromise and unity; in a coalition crisis for the government. ARZA condemns both of these outrageous actions significancePrime Minister to Netanyahu’s the traditional words, Kotel it endorsed prayer space. “One which, if allowed to stand, will cement the power of ARZA CONT. ON PG 13 THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017 13
ARZA EXPRESSES OUTRAGE AT DECISIONS CONT. FROM PAGE 12 Prime Minister Netanyahu and his ruling co- government’s action against the Kotel compro- rael remains one of the few remaining places where Jews cannot alition government’s succumbing to ultra-Or- mise and the conversion bill will drive Jews— express their religious freedom. For the sake of Zion, we cannot thodox pressure by halting the implementation especially the younger generation—away from remain silent; even in the face of this betrayal, we remain com- of the Western Wall compromise is a tragic sell- Israel. We will continue to express our Zionist mitted in love to building Israel based on our people’s ideals of ing-out and betrayal of non-Orthodox Jews for love for Israel by working for an Israel that re- freedom, inclusion, and democracy. the sake of political expedience, as vocal critics on the right and left have maintained. free from religious coercion. ARZA is part of an international network of like-minded, pro- Reneging on the Kotel compromise is an flectsWe the call vibrant upon tapestry the Israeli of Jewish government expression, and gressive Jewish voices, working in unison to build a better Israel. abandonment of the principle of klal yisrael Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu to resume (Jewish unity) and a denial of the legitimacy of their commitment to establishing a Kotel for 2TOGETHER CONT. FROM PAGE12 the majority of American Jews’ religious expres- all, and to reject the conversion bill that would stand idle as decisions so blatantly tear at the inner fabric of the sion. hand more unfettered powered to the ultra- Jewish people. It is also a rejection of Zionism itself, which Orthodox political parties and Chief Rabbin- Make your voice heard. We thank you and will continue to communicate with you on is premised on the idea of collective Jewish peo- ate. We call upon synagogues in every religious this grave matter. plehood as expressed by the Jewish state. These stream, Federations, and all Jews to demand two decisions give preference to one extremist that Israel enact measures to be open and in- APPENDIX I: interpretation of Judaism over that of the ma- clusive to all forms of Jewish expression in the jority, exacerbating a disturbing antidemocratic face of antidemocratic forces from within the The Jewish Agency for Israel movement in Israel where religious freedom is government and society at large. The Board of Governors endangered. Israel must remain true to its founding Zi- Jerusalem Tammuz 5777 Resolution Resolution Some commentators have called these bills onist vision expressed in its Declaration of Whereas the Jewish Agency for Israel, representing world the trigger for American Jewry to abandon Is- Independence: “[Israel] will ensure complete Jewry through its constituent members, the World Zionist Or- rael. As the voice of Reform Zionism in America, equality of social and political rights to all its in- ganization, the Jewish Federations of North America and Keren we refuse this option: In fact, the reason for our habitants irrespective of religion, race or sex; it Hayesod, is gathered in Jerusalem to celebrate the 50th anniver- outrage is precisely because of our movement’s will guarantee freedom of religion, conscience, - deep and unending commitment to Israel. We language, education and culture.” ern Wall and the founding of the Zionist movement in Basel 120 fear that the extremist ideology expressed in the It is a sad irony that in the 21st century, Is- saryyears of ago; the andreunification of Jerusalem, the liberation of the West Whereas the Jewish Agency for Israel throughout its history MENTION CONT. FROM PAGE 2 has been the organization responsible for bringing olim to the State of Israel and connecting Israel and world Jewry; and ment of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, share about his grandchildren – Jennifer Push- the proposed conversion bill that would cement the and a clinical research director at Mass. Gen- ner recently graduated from Newton (MA) Whereas Chief Rabbinate’s monopoly on conversion has the devastating eral. She is a 1984 graduate of Bacon Academy south High School and will attend Middlebury potential to permanently exclude hundreds of thousands of Is- in Colchester, and resides with her husband College; Adam Pushner recently celebrated is raelis from being a part of the Jewish people; and Mark, son Simon, and daughter Zoe, in Need- Bonnie Push- we deplore yesterday’s decision by Government of ham, MA. ner recently competed in the Youth National Whereas Israel which contradicts the agreement reached with the Jew- Grandparents Dana and Marty Kline of Wa- rowingBar Mitzvah Championships in Fairfield, in CT; Sarasota, and FL. ish Agency and other parties to establish the Kotel as a unifying terford shared their nachas at dinyan the other Didja know that Jerry Fischer, who has symbol for Jews around the world, as stated: ‘ONE WALL FOR night! Seth Kline, son of Rich and Caren Kline, served as the executive director of JFEC for 33 ; and celebrated his Bar Mitzvah. Along with older years, is the longest serving director of a Fed- ONE PEOPLE’ Whereas the Government of Israel’s decisions have a deep brother Noah, the family resides in Lafayette, eration in the entire USA? Pretty impressive! potential to divide the Jewish people and to undermine the Zi- Georgia. Granddaughter Jessy Kline, daughter Speaking of the JFEC, we saw many of the onist vision and dream of Herzl, Ben-Gurion, and Jabotinsky to Andy Kline and Cheryl Rothenberg, graduat- establish Israel as a national home for the entire Jewish people; ed from high school and will be attending Wash- Festival and they were excellent. Co-chairs Fay and ington University in St. Louis, MO. Jessy, older Clymerfilms this and year Arlene during Dressler, the International as well as their Film Whereas we declare that we cannot and must not allow this sister Sami and their parents live in Bethesda, committee should be commended for a job to happen and we are committed to mobilizing our constituen- MD well-done. As an aside, the actress in the The cies for their continued support of the people and state of Is- Aleah Rosenberg, daughter of Rabbi Ari Wedding Plan won the Israeli equivalent of the rael; Rosenberg and granddaughter of Rabbi Aaron Oscar for that role; some 10,000 women travel Therefore, be it resolved that and Karen Rosenberg sang the National An- each year from all corners of the world to the We call upon each Member of the Knesset and all elected pub- them with her synagogue choir at the Mets/ center of Ukraine at Rabbi Nachman’s grave - Cubs game at Citi Field recently. It was a real (as portrayed in the same movie) to pray: for gerous and damaging steps are halted; and blast, according to Aaron, especially with his health, for a husband, for children, for meaning We will continue to build a broad coalition of Israelis, togeth- Cubs winning 14 to 3. in their lives, and sometimes for nothing in par- lic officials to take all necessary action to ensure that these dan er with partners from around the world, who care passionately A really nice article appeared in the New Lon- ticular. Then, we recently watched a show on about keeping our people united and who are committed to the don Day about recent East Lyme High School JLTV about the capture of Eichman and learned unity of the Jewish people; and graduate Daniel Sackett, son of Ella and Kelly that there had been an exhibit at the Museum We call upon the Government of Israel to understand the Sackett. As a dual Israel-US citizen, he is going of the Jewish People back in 2012 featuring in- gravity of its steps and reverse its course of action accordingly. to Israel to enter a program to prepare him to terviews and items connected with it. enter the Israeli Army. Here is the link: Check out the Museum for other exhibits at Natan Sharansky, Chair of the Executive Charles HOrowitz Ratner, Chair of the Board http://www.theday.com/ http://www.bh.org.il/ Michael Siegal, Chair Elect of the Board local/20170601/east-lyme-senior-who- And of course, memories of sitting upstairs blossomed-in-high-school-prepares-for- in the Women’s Balcony on Federal St at Con- move-to-israel gregation Ahavath Chesed....good thing we CLOSING EVENTS CONT. FROM PAGE 11 David Pushner of New London has news to hadn’t seen the movie then! ing this very old building a lot more valuable. This sale was the
I do not want to scare you. The majority of closings happen The Jewish Leader’s independent journalism onlywithout tragedy any in issues this fire. especially if you have a good real estate depends on donations from readers like you. If agent. you haven’t given to the annual appeal this year, Do you have a questions about real estate? Advice/responses please consider giving now. 443-4400, [email protected] will be made by: Geoff Hausmann, RE/MAX on the Bay, 860- 14 THE JEWISH LEADER, JUNE 30, 2017 ALAN SPARGO WARREN Gabriel Seed ordained Old Saybrook - Alan David MILLER Rabbi David Seed and wife Lori of Toronto, Canada, Spargo, 83, longtime resident of Chandler, Ariz. - Warren are proud to announce the ordination on Thursday, Old Saybrook, died June 8, 2017, at Apple Rehabilitation in Old Say- Miller, former local attorney June 15 of their son Gabriel Seed, grandson of Mimi and member of the New Lon- and Milt Seed of New London. brook. Loving husband of Barbara don City Council, passed away Gabe Kretzmer Seed is a graduate of the Tanen- surraounded by his family on baum Community Hebrew Academy of Toronto and (Belgrade) Spargo, Al was born in New Haven, son of the late William Thursday, June 22, 2017 in Columbia University in the City of New York, where Chandler. he majored in United States History. He also received J. and Elizabeth (Dugan) Spargo. Al graduated from West Haven High Born in Massachusetts to
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Obituaries School, received his BA degree the late Jeannette and Joseph Seminary - JTS where he focused on Talmud and Mi- Miller, he graduated from the drash. As a student, Gabe served as the Religious Life from the University of New Haven, his MBA from Rens- selaer Institute and his JD from Quinnipiac College. He University of Massachusetts Coordinator on the student executive board of Colum- and Harvard Law School. He bia/Barnard Hillel. He has interned at The Abraham went on to work for Southern New England Telephone Joshua Heschel School in New York and Co for over 30 years, retiring in 1990. It was at that point he at- Bais Abraham Congregation in St. Louis, tended law school, taught and opened his law practice. He was MO, and has also served as a High Holiday very active in the Old Saybrook community, serving on the Board of Education and Zoning Board of Appeals. Al is also survived by his children, Elizabeth Spargo of Hud- ba’alco-founder tefilah ofand the ba’al Zemirot keriyah Database, at shuls anin son, Mass., Jeanne Chatot of Vermont, Kathryn Spargo of Ivory- Austin,editable TX, online and database Teaneck, for NJ. zemirot, Gabe is thelit- ton, Cara Spargo of Wallingford and Alan Spargo Jr. of Westport. urgy, and other Jewish songs. Al was also step-father to Michael Steamer of Dallas, Texas and In the summer of 2016, Gabe completed Barry (Kathleen) Steamer of East Lyme, as well as three grand- children and a great-granddaughter born on June 5th. (chaplaincy) at New York-Presbyterian/ Private services were held. Interment was at Cypress Cem- hisThe first Allen unit Hospital. of Clinical In July, Pastoral he will Education begin a etery, Old Saybrook. Arrangements were by Robinson, Wright & CPE residency at Mount Sinai Beth Israel Weymer Funeral Home, Centerbrook. To leave a condolence or Hospital in Manhattan, preparing for a career to serve the Ortho- dox community, klal yisrael, and beyond through pastoral care served five years as a captain- and teaching Torah. Gabe and his wife Nina live in Riverdale, NY. share a memory of Al please visit www.rwwfh.com. LAWRENCE RODENSKY inter the his Staff service, Judge he moved Advocate’s to New London - Lawrence Marie Burke, of Milton, Mass.; a officeConnecticut of the toU.S. become Air Force. a part Af- Rodensky, age 92, of New daughter, Robin Rodensky and Byles-MacDougall London, died Sunday, June 18, her husband, Stephen Severn, Smith, Miller and Papp before Funeral Service, Inc 2017, at the Lawrence + Me- of Arlington, Va.; grandchil- ner in the law firm of Rakosky, (860) 442-0343 morial Hospital in New Lon- dren, Stephanie Severn Wilcox be known as Miller and Phil- (888) 736-7036 don. (wife of Andrew Wilcox) of Ra- forminglips. At the his urgingown firm, of his later sons, to He was born in Groton on leigh, N.C., Michael Rodensky he and his wife moved to Ari- Daniel W. Byles Oct. 2, 1924, the son of Reu- of Brookline, Mass. and Caitlin zona where he became an as- Reid B. Burdick ben and Mary Rodensky. He Rodensky of Milton, Mass.; a sociate professor at Arizona John D. MacDougall was the beloved husband of sister, Sarah Rodensky Silver- Summit Law School in Phoenix Rivienne Ofengand Rodensky, stein of New London; and doz- Byles Memorial Home Byles-Groton Memorial Home who predeceased him on Jan. ens of nieces and nephews. Warren leaves his wife of 99 Huntington Street 310 Thames Street New London, Conn. 06320 Groton, Conn. 06340 12, 2012. The funeral service was for50 five years, years. Reisa; and his sons, He is survived by a son, June 20 at the Thomas L. Nei- Ethan and Abbott. Donald Rodensky and his wife, lan & Sons Funeral Home, New He was predeceased by his London. 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However, famous 1968 Olympics Black Power Salute, professional football - - ishleges people; Jewish as towns such, itand officially cities privilegesover Arab Jewishtowns tion in the United States raised, during the singing of America’s national anthem. Colin immigrationand cities. To to be Israel, an Israeli and, anti-Zionistless officially, is privito be justis an as accepted affirmative demo ac- playersKaepernick, and then other quarterback athletes sat of or the knelt, San Francisco sometimes 49ers with and a the fist an Israeli who rejects this privileging. Whether cratic tool for reversing or not this was necessary in the past, they feel discrimination, Zionism that Zionism is no longer defensible. This was can be thought of as a firstand peopleathlete of to color.” protest, explained: “I am not going to stand up to made very clear to me in a recent article by one similar democratic tool show pride in a flag for a country that oppresses black people- of Haaretz’s more moderate writers, Anshel on behalf of the Jewish people. Will the State of Israel always privilege Jewish immigration? Israel’s flag has recently also come under fire. In a column en I don’t know. For now, just 70 years after the titled “It’s no longer my flag,” Haaretz’s Gideon Levy says: “Since Pfeffer.of Michael Steinhardt and Marvin Hier to light founding of the country, the policy does not it began flying in the territories, this flag has become the flag traditionalIn his article, torches Pfeffer on Mt. Herzlcriticizes this pastthe Yom choices seem excessive. ofif someoneapartheid.” could Levy explain writes to that me “it what can’t that be means—butmy flag because it is cerit is- Ha’Atzmaut (he feels that these choices rep- What is usually taken for granted in both thetainly flag not of democratic.”a ‘Jewish and democratic’ state that may be Jewish— resent old-style Israeli reliance on diaspora the United States and in Israel is the ability of Setting aside Levy’s puzzling remark about Jewishness (par citizens to criticize their government, including for the course in Israel’s intellectual newspaper), Levy’s remark its symbols. Every now and then we should re- - moneyclause toand one political of the influence, paragraphs which reads according as fol- member (and protest against!) the very many ing much wider traction in Israeli society. While it is tempting to tolows: Pfeffer “Whatever Israel youno longer may think needs). of Zionism.” The opening The countries where to speak out against one’s gov- thatdismiss Israel’s the extremistflag is not Levya flag (his of democracy writing inevitably is, unfortunately, boils down gain to implication of these few words is breathtaking. ernment is to risk torture and death. the claim that Israel was created in sin and has continued to sin It is no longer politically correct in mainstream As long as NFL players are not barred from grievously against the Palestinian people), even moderate left- Israeli leftist circles to assume that all of one’s protesting during the singing of the national an- ists are now criticizing a founding principle of Israel: Zionism. readers are Zionists. them, as long as Gideon Levy can write against - Squaring Zionism with democracy is no easy onism is not democratic. task, especially since Israeli Jews have not re- others of the rightness of their positions—and Israel’sBefore flag going does further, not represent an explanation democracy, is in order:they say, Zionism because views Zi ally decided how they view Israeli Arabs (as Israel’swe in turn flag, can then be hopeful they may because hope of to that. convince integrally part of Israeli society? as a minority Happy Fourth of July! HANKIN OBIT CONT. FROM PAGE 14 CONT. FROM PAGE 1 Experiment Station. There, among other things, he conducted ANNUAL MEETING research on methods of food analysis, studies on psychotropic working for over a year with the resettlement in the New Lon- After the meeting was ad- bacteria in foods, studies on microbial nutrition and metabolism don area of refugees from the Middle East and Africa. The Emma journed the over 100 people and developed a new test for lead poisoning in children. Lazarus Award was presented to Start Fresh leaders Cheryl Mo- in attendance were invited to As Head of the Department of Analytical Chemistry, he super- lina and Ron Ward. Members of the Jewish community who have vised scientists and technicians who analyzed foods, feeds, and worked in several capacities with the resettlement of the three minute video presentation by fertilizers for adulterants and compliance with state regulations families are Karen Bloustine, Myra Gipstein, Rabbi Rachel Saf- theTal andSocial Guy Hall of their for a year, brief a five-des- and U.S. Pure Food and Drug Laws, as well as conducting original man, and Michele Snitkin. sert reception and a chance to - Jerry Fischer, JFEC Executive Director then presented his in- schmooze with friends as well letins over 250 original research papers and chapters in refer- sights about all that goes on in Israel and how it impacts us here as the Emissaries. Please check research.ence books. He He has was published active in in many scientific civic journals organizations. and station bul in Eastern CT and our reactions to the issues that continue to out page 9 for pictures of the For 17 years serving on the Hamden Inlands-Wetlands Com- plague Israel. Farewell Dinner and the An- mission (12 years as chairman), 3 years on the Hamden Retire- Finally, Emissaries Tal Gilboa and Guy Carmi presented their nual Meeting. ment Commissions, 9 years on the Hamden Library Board (7 as chairman), on the Board of Directors of the Greater New Haven report on the Federation’s website. United Way, Past President of the Greater New Haven ARC, Past report recapping a very active year. You will find their complete President of the Connecticut ARC, past vice president of the In- stitute for Learning in Retirement (ILR) and Board of the Charl- Remember to send ton Hill Condo Association. in your subscription... 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