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ullying has become a hot-button issue in our society, and for good reason. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, one out of three U.S. students reports being bullied Bat school. Children who are bullied are more likely to struggle with depression and anxiety, and their academic performance may also suffer. On the flip side, it’s been shown that children who bully others are more likely to engage in criminal activity as adults and be abusive toward their spouses and children. All these statistics drive home the point that the earlier we address bullying, the better. Many schools have implemented social-emotional and anti-bullying curriculum. Home is the other place Caitlin Flynn is a lifestyle and where you can teach these lessons and give your child strategies for coping and communicating. entertainment writer at bustle.com. This year, address bullying with the help of strong, age-appropriate storytelling. This curated list Before moving to Seattle, she worked at features eight books that address the issue in a thoughtful and empathetic manner and offer an excellent Random House Children’s Books way to start the important conversation about bullying with your child. in New York City.
Llama Llama and Marlene, Marlene, Spaghetti in a Hot Confessions of the Bully Goat Queen of Mean Dog Bun a Former Bully By Anna Dewdney (Ages: 3–5) By Jane Lynch & Lara Embry By Maria Dismondy (Ages: 3–7) By Trudy Ludwig (Ages: 6–9) Llama Llama loves learning, but (Ages: 3–7) Lucy embraces her uniqueness, When Katie is caught teasing Gilroy Goat’s incessant taunting Marlene is small but fierce, and especially her curly hair and a classmate one too many begins to make school miserable she uses her powers for evil rather appreciation for unusual food times, she meets with the for him and his friends. Gilroy than good. Her classmates cannot combinations. Her grandfather school counselor, principal calls them names, kicks dirt escape her incessant bullying and encourages her to be her own and her parents. Asked to look and mocks students who are unkind words. They aren’t safe on person and tells her, “We’re inside herself for answers about struggling. When Llama Llama the playground, in class or in the all different. What a boring why she bullies, Katie begins a tells a teacher what’s going on, halls of school. Finally one brave world it would be if we were journal and reflects on the ways Gilroy Goat is forced to take peer, Freddy, asks her why she has exactly alike.” Unfortunately, her her behavior has hurt her peers a long time-out. After having to be so mean. classmate Ralph makes fun of her and even herself. Katie’s diary time to reflect on his behavior, Marlene’s classmates take away for being unique, even after she entries are interspersed with Gilroy is given another chance her power by refusing to be afraid begins to cry. facts and advice about how to to play, and this time he treats of her. It forces her to realize When Ralph gets stuck on top handle bullying. The unique his classmates with respect that ruling the halls of school of the monkey bars during recess, perspective offers insight into and compassion. Llama Llama by being a bully is isolating, the tables are turned, and Lucy what drives kids to mistreat offers him a second chance at not empowering. She reforms has to make a choice about what their classmates and how being friends, and Gilroy gladly her ways, and everyone is way kind of person to be. In the end, authority figures can help accepts. happier — including Marlene. everyone learns a lesson. them reform. >> parentmap.com/learning ParentMap Learning 2015 • 7 bullying
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Wonder Because of Stargirl Thirteen By R.J. Palacio (Ages: 8–12) Mr. Terupt By Jerry Spinelli Reasons Why Ten-year-old Auggie was born By Rob Buyea (Ages: 8–12) (Ages: 12 and older) By Jay Asher (Ages: 12 and older) with a severe facial deformity that Fifth-grade teacher Mr. Terupt has When formerly homeschooled When Clay receives a mysterious causes young children to scream a knack for connecting with all his Stargirl enters high school as a package of cassette tapes, he’s in fear and older children to students, from the prankster to the sophomore, her classmates are shocked to hear the voice of his mock him as a “freak.” After being mean girl to the bullied. Without fascinated by her. She is whimsical, classmate and crush, Hannah, homeschooled, Auggie enters being preachy, he gets them to free-spirited and unapologetically who committed suicide two weeks fifth grade at a private school think about their actions and how nonconformist. Stargirl does earlier. She’s sent recordings to in New York City. While some their behavior affects those around things like serenade everyone on 13 peers explaining how their students welcome him, others are them. Told from the alternating their birthdays — complete with a actions contributed to her spiral of outwardly cruel or, worse, pretend perspectives of seven of Mr. ukulele. Although she enjoys a brief despair and ultimately her decision to be his friend and mock him Terupt’s students, we slowly gain stint of popularity, it doesn’t take to end her life. Clay listens to behind his back. insight into their backgrounds and long for her peers to turn on her. Hannah’s words as she describes Told from multiple their family lives. The book is narrated by Leo, the emotional toll of unrelenting perspectives, Wonder is a When an accident leaves Mr. who has strong feelings for gossip and cruel rumors from thoughtful look at how to handle Terupt in a coma, his students Stargirl, but ultimately isn’t brave merciless classmates. But he’s bullying with both courage and come together to support each enough to risk the reaction of their confused — he adored Hannah resilience. It also sends a positive other. While they have listened classmates. Thirty years later, he and never did anything to hurt her. message about standing by your to him throughout the year, they still thinks of her and is filled with As Clay finishes listening to the friends even when doing so may finally take his words to heart and regret. He made the mistake of recording, he learns that she has a make you “uncool” in the eyes of adjust their behaviors in ways that going along with the crowd, but special message for him. It turns your classmates. would make their teacher proud. he learned from it, and so do we. out, kindness matters. n EXPLORE NEW WORLDS book your field trip today! TOURS | WORKSHOPS | CURRICULUM GUIDES
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