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On Sadomasochism: Taxonomies and Language
Nicole Eitmann On Sadomasochism: Taxonomies and Language Governments try to regulate sadomasochistic activities (S/M). Curiously, though, no common definition of S/M exists and there is a dearth of statistically valid social science research on who engages in S/M or how participants define the practice. This makes it hard to answer even the most basic questions shaping state laws and policies with respect to S/M. This paper begins to develop a richer definition of sadomasochistic activities based on the reported common practices of those engaging in S/M. The larger question it asks, though, is why so little effort has been made by social scientists in general and sex researchers in particular to understand the practice and those who participate in it. As many social sci- entists correctly observe, sadomasochism has its “basis in the culture of the larger society.”1 Rethinking sadomasochism in this way may shed some light on the present age. A DEFINITIONAL QUAGMIRE In Montana, sadomasochistic abuse includes the depiction of a per- son clad in undergarments or in a revealing or bizarre costume.2 In Illinois, it is illegal to distribute or sell obscene material—defined in part as “sado- masochistic sexual acts, whether normal or perverted, actual or simu- lated.”3 The lack of a clear definition of what constitutes S/M is one major difficulty in developing appropriate policies with respect to S/M activities. Clearly, S/M means different things to different people, and there is a wide range of possible S/M activities—from light spanking or -
Workbook Please Visit the Last Page
SUPER SEX S.U.P.E.R Sex is an acronym created by Shan Boodram over ten years ago to discuss the various elements that are crucial to a healthy and happy intimate life. Set your terms Use protection Pleasure Emotionally wise Responsible By combining traditional sex education, psychology and everyone’s right to individualism S.U.P.E.R Sex works as a base for anyone seeking to understand their own sexuality plus intimate needs and how those things can interact with others in a healthy, optimal way. For more information about Shan and the primary resources used to create this workbook please visit the last page Set Your Terms Let’s discuss boundaries, expectations, needs, wants, setting/ framing and intent Love Languages (circle two) Gifts Acts of Service Physical Touch Words of affirmation Quality Time Sex Language (circle two) Mental - a mental connection is necessary to create a satisfactory physical connection Direct - straight to the point is how you like it Cat - you have to be the one to approach someone, you prefer to initiate intimacy on your time and terms Sensual - the stage has to be set: laundry folded, place smelling clean, music playing, candles burning! You like all of the senses to be engaged before sexual intimacy occurs Negotiator - sex itself isn’t very motivating for you BUT if you know it can be used as a bargaining chip to achieve something you do want, they you are incentivized Kinsey Scale (circle one to represent your action and star one to represent your fantasy) X - asexual 0 - strictly heterosexual 1 - Mostly heterosexual and incidentally homosexual 2 - Heterosexual and more than incidentally homosexual 3 - Bisexual 4 - Homosexual and more than incidentally heterosexual 5 - Homosexual and incidentally heterosexual 6 - strictly homosexual Boundaries 1. -
Wignall, Liam (2018) Kinky Sexual Subcultures and Virtual Leisure Spaces. Doctoral Thesis, University of Sunderland
Wignall, Liam (2018) Kinky Sexual Subcultures and Virtual Leisure Spaces. Doctoral thesis, University of Sunderland. Downloaded from: http://sure.sunderland.ac.uk/id/eprint/8825/ Usage guidelines Please refer to the usage guidelines at http://sure.sunderland.ac.uk/policies.html or alternatively contact [email protected]. Kinky Sexual Subcultures and Virtual Leisure Spaces Liam Wignall A thesis submitted in partial fulfilment of the requirements of the University of Sunderland for the degree of Doctor of Philosophy February 2018 i | P a g e Abstract This study seeks to understand what kink is, exploring this question using narratives and experiences of gay and bisexual men who engage in kink in the UK. In doing so, contemporary understandings of the gay kinky subcultures in the UK are provided. It discusses the role of the internet for these subcultures, highlighting the use of socio-sexual networking sites. It also recognises the existence of kink dabblers who engage in kink activities, but do not immerse themselves in kink communities. A qualitative analysis is used consisting of semi-structured in-depth interviews with 15 individuals who identify as part of a kink subculture and 15 individuals who do not. Participants were recruited through a mixture of kinky and non-kinky socio-sexual networking sites across the UK. Complimenting this, the author attended kink events throughout the UK and conducted participant observations. The study draws on subcultural theory, the leisure perspective and social constructionism to conceptualise how kink is practiced and understood by the participants. It is one of the first to address the gap in the knowledge of individuals who practice kink activities but who do so as a form of casual leisure, akin to other hobbies, as well as giving due attention to the increasing presence and importance of socio-sexual networking sites and the Internet more broadly for kink subcultures. -
Sexual Arousal, Orgasm and Pleasure, As Much As Possible Using a Prospective, Laboratory Paradigm
AN INVESTIGATION OF SELECTED TRADITIONAL ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT SEXUAL AROUSAL, ORGASM AND PLEASURE LAUREL Q. P. PATERSON B.A. Department of Psychology McGill University Montréal, Québec, Canada April 2013 A thesis submitted to McGill University in partial fulfillment of the requirements of the degree of Doctor of Philosophy Laurel Q. P. Paterson (2013) ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS I would like to express my gratitude to the many people who have helped me complete this thesis. First and foremost, I would like to thank my supervisor, Dr. Irv Binik, for his invaluable guidance and support throughout my PhD, and for his enthusiasm about bringing the study of orgasm back into the laboratory. I have been fortunate to share my laboratory with a wonderful group of researchers and friends: my fellow graduate students, Seth Davis, Melissa Farmer, Alina Kao, Tuuli Kukkonen, Marie-Andrée Lahaie, and Sabina Sarin; our dedicated research coordinators, Natalie Cartright, Marie Faaborg-Andersen, Jackie Huberman, Caroline Maykut, and Louise Overington; and my research assistants Ayelet Germanski, Ellie Shuo Jin, Natalie Stratton, and Lindsay Sycz. These bright women and man have stimulated research ideas, pushed me to overcome logistical obstacles, and made the laboratory a fun place to work. I will forever be grateful for the friendship and support of my classmates, Crystal Holly, Ilana Kronick, and Julie Mercier. Finally, I would like to thank my family and Peter for their unwavering support and encouragement. Throughout my graduate studies, I have been supported by generous research scholarships from the Canadian Institutes of Health Research (CIHR), McGill University Faculty of Graduate Studies, McGill University Health Centre Research Institute, Fonds de recherche du Québec – Santé (FRSQ), and the Natural Sciences and Engineering Research Council (NSERC). -
Common BDSM Terminology
Common BDSM Terminology Common Terminology: • BDSM – Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. • SSC – Safe, Sane, Consensual • RACK – Risk Aware Consensual Kink • PRICK – Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink • Scene – Both the BDSM Community as a whole and a play interaction. • “Thud” – Sensation produced when struck with broad/heavy/soft toys – e.g .floggers, big paddles. • “Sting” – Sensation produced when struck with thin/light/hard toys – e.g. cane or single tail. • Dungeon – a (public or private) play space. • DM (Dungeon Monitor) – Public playspace lifeguard. • Squick – Something that viscerally turns you off. The sound of your parents fucking on the kitchen table. • BBW – Big Beautiful Woman • Sub Frenzy – The desire to try everything when one is new to the scene. • Subspace – An altered state often resulting from endorphins released through sensation/impact play. • Sub Drop/Top Drop – Temporary depression sometimes experienced (hours or days) after intense play. Safeword – a word or phrase used to pause or stop play. • Stop!/No! - If you’re a beginner (or playing with a beginner), keep it simple, no means no, stop means stop. • Safeword!/Red! – Stop now! Something is seriously wrong. DMs/bystanders requested to help. • Yellow/Mercy – I can’t take much more, need a break, please check in. • Green – I’m having a good time, please continue! • Beige – I’m so bored I’m thinking about what color to paint the ceiling. Roles: • Top/Bottom – Enjoy physical play (bondage, flogging, whipping, etc.) • Sadist/Masochist – Enjoy inflicting/receiving pain (intense physical sensation). • Dom/Sub – Enjoy mental power exchange (following orders, serving, etc.) • Master/Slave – Enjoy long term owner/property relationship. -
Slut Life Ideas Disclaimer: This Are Just Some Ideas Addressed to the Maker of the Slut Life Cyoa. He Decides Whether to Add
Slut Life Ideas Disclaimer: This are just some ideas addressed to the maker of the Slut Life Cyoa. He decides whether to add them to it or not. He may edit them the way he want, my descriptions are probably to long anyway. As I am not a native Speaker (Still decent hopefully) I apologize if my English is not 100% perfect. I would appreciate some feedback, criticism and correction (If I understood something wrong) I may post an updated list in the futur Fixes (Trying to balance the Prices): -Shared Amenities are purchased not as a whole, but for 2 Points each -Fresh Food option should cost less, or have higher budged (compared to Personal Chef) Maybe the update could be unlimited food -Nude option gives points (about 5) otherwise its kind of pointless -Personal Stylist is kind of expensive to me, 10 Points seems more appropriate -Massage chair option seems extremely overpriced, I would suggest a price at around 5-10 Points -Isolation tank is also pretty pricey for just one hour use (May just not my thing though) -Point difference between Tyrone and Everybody options is really big (If Tyrone involves you being the Prisons Cum dumpster) -Arm binder gives way to less, keeping in mind that you would not be able to use most of the entertainment and would struggle with basic everyday tasks 20 points seems better to me -Bitch suit is the least balanced option in my opinion, Limiting all movement and use of pretty much everything (cant even eat with fresh food chosen) Sleep in Bondage with upgrades gives 3 more points and is limited to the time sleeping. -
BDSM: Safer Kinky
BDSM SAFER KINKY SEX If sexually explicit information about BDSM activities might offend you, then this information is not for you. 1 BDSM Etiquette BDSM etiquette is about respect and communication: RESPECT: Negotiate all the limits and terms (including ‘safe’ words and signals) of a scene before you start to play. A ‘safe’ word (or signal) is used in BDSM play to stop the scene immediately. Some people use green, yellow, and red. These systems are there to protect everyone involved. Respect the limits and feelings of other players (and your own) at all times. COMMUNICATION: Discuss interests, pleasures, perceived needs, physical limitations, past experiences, health needs, and STI status with your partner(s). If you are unsure of a sexual or BDSM activity, then hold off until someone experienced teaches you the safety aspects. Discussion builds intimacy. You and your partner(s) will have more fun! BDSM Risk Reduction Responsible BDSM has always been about practicing safety, so it’s important to understand the risks involved in BDSM play, and how to minimize them. BDSM activities have generally been classed as low risk for HIV transmission. This booklet contains practical guidelines and This means that only a small number of people advice on the prevention of Human Immuno- are likely to have contracted HIV, or passed on deficiency Virus (HIV), Hepatitis C (HCV), and HIV, while practising BDSM. HIV is not the only other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) sexually transmitted infection (STI), and there are within bondage and discipline, dominance and other possible dangers associated with some submission, and sadomasochism (BDSM) play. -
Escaping from Handcuffs and Zip Ties
Escaping from Handcuffs and Zip Ties Hiatt type 2010 handcuffs. Circa 1990s Dutch police handcuffs Hiatt type 104 "Darby" handcuffs and key. Circa 1950s Handcuffs are restraint devices designed to secure an individual's wrists close together. They comprise two parts, linked together by a chain , a hinge , or rigid bar. Each half has a rotating arm which engages with a ratchet that prevents it from being opened once closed around a person's wrist. Without the key, the handcuffs cannot be removed and so the handcuffed person is unable to move his or her wrists more than a few centimetres/inches apart, making many tasks difficult or impossible. This is usually done to prevent suspected criminals from escaping police custody . There are three main types of contemporary metal handcuffs: chain (cuffs are held together by a short chain), hinged (since hinged handcuffs permit less movement than a chain cuff, they are generally considered to be more secure), and rigid solid bar handcuffs. While bulkier to carry, rigid handcuffs permit several variations in cuffing. Hiatts Speedcuffs are rigid handcuffs used by most police forces in the United Kingdom. Both rigid and hinged cuffs can be used one-handed to apply pain-compliance/control techniques that are not workable with the chain type of cuff. Various accessories are available to improve the security or increase the rigidity of handcuffs, including boxes that fit over the chain or hinge and can themselves be locked with a padlock . In 1933 the Royal Canadian Mounted Police used a type called "Mitten Handcuffs" to prevent criminals from being able to grab an object like the officer's gun. -
Kinky Sex: When Did BDSM Become So Wildly Popular? by Carl Frankel, Alternet Posted on June 2, 2010, Printed on June 7, 2010
Kinky Sex: When Did BDSM Become So Wildly Popular? By Carl Frankel, AlterNet Posted on June 2, 2010, Printed on June 7, 2010 http://www.alternet.org/story/147084/ It’s just another day at The Armory in San Francisco: A bound and naked woman is laid out on a stylish serving table. Elegantly-dressed people of both sexes gather around—enjoying the view, apparently—and take turns having their way with her. Various devices are deployed— dildos, floggers, electrical stimulators. She says “Thank you, sir” and “Thank you, madam” frequently. Welcome to "The Upper Floor," a high-definition Internet reality show where, website copy states, “real submissive women and real submissive men become house slaves to be dominated, trained, punished, spanked, whipped, and fucked … Inspired by the legendary French BDSM erotic novel The Story of O, The Upper Floor illustrates real lifestyle BDSM as it is lived by 24/7 slaves and Masters, complete with … explicit sex in bondage, punishment, erotic humiliation, and more.” The Upper Floor is a project of Kink.com, a thriving pornography business that was founded by Peter Acworth, a British-born entrepreneur and lifelong aficionado of BDSM (for Bondage, Domination, Submission—or Sadism—and Masochism). Kink.com sells subscriptions to websites with names like Hogtied.com, SexandSubmission.com and, yes, TheUpperFloor.com. Acworth often attends these, er, corporate events. “He’s the master of the house,” says colleague John Sander. Only in Satan’s City by the Bay, right? Not exactly. Acworth was recently invited to speak at a summit on innovation convened by the ever-so-respectable The Economist. -
Escape Handcuffs and Zip Ties
ESCAPING HANDCUFFS AND ZIP TIES Hiatt type 2010 handcuffs. Circa 1990s Dutch police handcuffsHiatt type 104 "Darby" handcuffs and key. Circa 1950s Handcuffs are restraint devices designed to secure an individual's wrists close together. They comprise two parts, linked together by a chain, a hinge, or rigid bar. Each half has a rotating arm which engages with a ratchet that prevents it from being opened once closed around a person's wrist. Without the key, the handcuffs cannot be removed and so the handcuffed person is unable to move his or her wrists more than a few centimetres/inches apart, making many tasks difficult or impossible. This is usually done to prevent suspected criminals from escaping police custody. Styles Handcuffs which were worn during trials by the accused in the assassination of President Lincoln. There are three main types of contemporary metal handcuffs: chain (cuffs are held together by a short chain), hinged (since hinged handcuffs permit less movement than a chain cuff, they are generally considered to be more secure), and rigid solid bar handcuffs. While bulkier to carry, rigid handcuffs permit several variations in cuffing. Hiatts Speedcuffs are rigid handcuffs used by most police forces in the United Kingdom. Both rigid and hinged cuffs can be used one- handed to apply pain-compliance/control techniques that are not workable with the chain type of cuff. Various accessories are available to improve the security or increase the rigidity of handcuffs, including boxes that fit over the chain or hinge and can themselves be locked with a padlock. In 1933 the Royal Canadian Mounted Police used a type called "Mitten Handcuffs" to prevent criminals from being able to grab an object like the officer's gun. -
The Complete Manual of Breathplay
The complete Manual of Breathplay BY DUNTER EDITION S.LECLERC Click for a donation to make the hardcopy possible ISBN: 978-2-9816945-0-8 Publishing date 01-09-2017 rev 3 CHAPITRE 1 Disclaimer The goal of this manual is to provide information; not to encourage or discourage people from doing breathplay. I do not take any responsibility in any practice inspi- red by this manual. This is not a training guide, reference manual or compen- dium. Any of those below mentioned practices can lead to serious injuries, or death. I truly believe you will find this book informative regarding some of the most deadly BDSM practices, and this can help you, or your community, see the dangers in those activities. Word from the Author: Who I am, and why I wrote this book Firstly, I am not a doctor, not a black belt martial practitioner and not, in any- way, a professional at breathplay. Do not take any of this knowledge for the truth; also conduct your own research. I am someone who has lost many friends due to breathplay-related activities. I want to share my knowledge with the goal of saving lives. I did lots of research before giving breathplay classes to provide awareness on the dangers of this practice. I am also someone who has been doing BDSM for a long time; I saw many things as I was travelling, through conventions across Ca- nada and the United States; I learned from many people and through classes on many topics related to this domain. Has an ex military personnel and martial arts enthusiast, I leaned about things that are not that common, and therefore are great to share. -
Department of English Faculty of Cultural Studies University of Sumatera Utara Medan 2017
SADOMASOCHISM IN E. L . JAMES’S FIFTY SHADES OF GREY A THESIS BY DINI ANDIANI REG.NO : 120705036 DEPARTMENT OF ENGLISH FACULTY OF CULTURAL STUDIES UNIVERSITY OF SUMATERA UTARA MEDAN 2017 UNIVERSITAS SUMATERA UTARA SADOMASOCHISM IN E. L .JAMES’S FIFTY SHADES OF GREY A THESIS BY DINI ANDIANI REG. NO. 120705036 DEPARTMENT OF ENGLISH FACULTY OF CULTURAL STUDIES UNIVERSITY OF SUMATERA UTARA MEDAN 2017 i UNIVERSITAS SUMATERA UTARA SADOMASOCHISM IN E. L. JAMES’S FIFTY SHADES OF GREY A THESIS BY DINI ANDIANI REG. NO. 120705036 SUPERVISOR CO-SUPERVISOR Dr. Siti Norma Nasution, M.Hum Dra. Diah Rahayu Pratama, M.Pd NIP. 19541117198003 1 002 NIP. 195612141986012001 Submitted to Faculty of Cultural Studies University of Sumatera Utara Medan in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Sarjana Sastra From Department English. DEPARTMENT OF ENGLISH FACULTY OF CULTURAL STUDIES UNIVERSITY OF SUMATERA UTARA MEDAN 2017 ii UNIVERSITAS SUMATERA UTARA Approved by the Department of English, Faculty of Cultural Studies University of Sumatera Utara (USU) Medan as thesis for The Sarjana Sastra Examination. Head, Secretary, Dr. H. Muhizar Muchtar, M.S. Rahmadsyah Rangkuti, M.A., Ph.D NIP. 19541117198003 1 002 NIP.19750209 200812 1 002 iii UNIVERSITAS SUMATERA UTARA Accepted by the Board of Examiners in partial fulfillment of requirements for the degree of Sarjana Sastra from the Department of English, Faculty of Cultural Studies University of Sumatera Utara, Medan. The examination is held in Department of English Faculty of Cultural Studies University of Sumatera Utara on February 9th, 2017. Dean of Faculty of Cultural Studies University of Sumatera Utara Dr.