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A publication of the Sisters of St. Joseph Brentwood, New York1 We Believe... Featured in this issue From the president 4 that we create the future As we move with the Spirit STRANGERS NO LONGER 5 FocusingFocusing in giving full expression to our giftedness as women in the Church CSJ SCHOOLS 6 Sharing equally in its mission— WINTER 2014 VOL. 4, NO. 1 AT St. Joseph VILLA 7 In living a life that is simple Focusing is published twice yearly in Fall/Winter and Spring/Summer Making A Difference prayerful by the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph, Brentwood NY. Ministry to Women and Girls courageous and CENTRAL OFFICE OUR JOURNEY 8 St. Joseph’s Convent compassionate— 1725 Brentwood Road CSJ Sponsored Ministries 9 in proclaiming with prophetic voice Brentwood, NY 11717

the Gospel to all people— LEADERSHIP LIAISON REASON TO CELEBRATE 10 in strengthening our corporateness Kathleen McKinney, CSJ Patricia Mahoney, CSJ as women in community— A WHOLE NEW WAY 12 EDITORS in demonstrating our belief Mary Ryan, CSJ in the dignity of the human person Patricia Manning, CSJ ST. ANNE’S GARDENS 13 and the call to secure this dignity GRAPHIC DESIGN for all women and men— Patricia Manning, CSJ IN BRENTWOOD; IN THE Neighborhood 14 in expressing our solidarity CONTRIBUTORS Catherine Atkins, CSJ MUSIC MINISTRY 15 with the poor and oppressed. Kathleen Carberry, CSJ Rosalie Carven, CSJ IN FAITH AND HOPE Mary Ann Cashin, CSJ 16 Maura Costello, CSJ MARY LOUIS RENOVATION WE ACCEPT Marion Defeis, CSJ Catherine Fitzgibbon, CSJ 18 THE CHALLENGES Joan Gallagher, CSJ WELCOME AND FAREWELL Angela Gannon, CSJ Heather Ganz, CSJ THESE BELIEFS IMPLY. GALA 2014 Helen Kearney, CSJ 19 Sisters of St. Joseph • Brentwood, NY Mary McConnell, CSJ Teresa Fitzgerald, Suzanne Michelle, Associate — Vision Statement Patricia Monahan, Co-Minister Founder’s Day in Brooklyn 20 CSJ, who directs the Linda Pero, CSJ nonprofit organiza- Rita Piro, Co-Minister The Learning Connection 21 James R. Rennert, Dir. CSJ Advancement tion Hour Children Elaine Roulet, CSJ in Queens, New York, Mary Ross, CSJ Associates 22 Chapter Directions Kathy Schaetzle, CSJ dedicated to trans- JoAnn Vitiello, Co-Minister Rose Viceconte, CSJ forming the lives of Recognitions, PUBLICATIONS, 23 st Janelle Hyppolite, Student St. Joseph HS women offenders and their children, was honored October 16, with As Sisters of St. Joseph living in the 21 Century, we be- Sabbath TIME lieve in the power, presence and love of God working PHOTOGRAPHERS the 2014 Opus Prize for faith-based humanitarian work. Tesa said Johanna Flores, HWWRP the $1 million award will provide desperately needed housing for the through an evolving universe and in God’s self-commu- Kerry Handal, CSJ Thoughts From the Garden24 nication through Jesus Christ. As women of the Church, Karan Kaelin, CSJ women and children Hour Children serves. Here Mike Herzog, chair Marie Mackey, CSJ we recommit ourselves to Jesus’ mission as we move Robert Napolitano, Co-Minister of Gonzaga’s Opus Prize Steering Committee, greets Tesa on her with the Spirit to bring about God’s reign and seek to Annie Fernandez, Co-Minister Cover Photo: Students from Fontbonne Hall Acad- arrival October 13, at Gonzaga University in Spokane WA for the Loretta Miles promote justice, to live lives of non-violence and to emy, St. Joseph HS and Academia Maria Reina join Opus Prize week of events culminating with the Opus Prize awards respond to the needs of our time. Eileen Crinnion & Colleen Cluess-Angeletti Sisters Rosemarie Figlia, (l. to r.) Kerry Handal, Ja- Sacred Heart Academy Students ceremony. net Kinney and JoAnn Squitieri (far right) watching www.brentwoodcsj.org the sun set near St. Joseph’s Villa in Hampton Bays.

2 3 Strangers No Longer: A Love Story FROM THE PRESIDENT Rosalie Carven, CSJ “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” This well-known quote has never been traced to a place or date but its author is Margaret Mead, the cultural anthropologist. I dare say that the reality it praises – making a difference – was written into stories of Sisters of St. Joseph long before Margaret Mead was born. One chapter in the story of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Brentwood, NY (CSJs) is Dear Sisters, Associates and Friends, about making a difference in the lives of immigrants coming to the U.S. Call it a “love story” (inclusive love) and make the title of the chapter read: Strangers No All of us, gifted with life from our loving and generous Longer. God, share in the life of all creation. We are intimately I can add a brief footnote to that chapter, telling you what I have experienced in connected to one another and to all life on our planet. the past fifty years. Imagine a young woman who grows up in a fairly homoge- Because of this interconnectedness we, as humans, have neous neighborhood, enters a fairly homogeneous congregation but is eventually a responsibility to sustain and enhance all that God has awakened to a diversity she hardly knew existed. Her new perspective slowly created. Deep within our being, there is an innate desire emerges out of several different “mission assignments.” One was to a parish to make a difference in the lives of others. We invite where racial integration was taking place, and across the nation as a whole, the Sisters Kathy Britt, Rosalie Carven you to see how so many of our sisters, associates and movement for civil rights was also appearing. CSJs were in the midst of that effort. and Nancy Fackner show support for companions have made a difference by their service, Another assignment was to an “almost” rural parish where migrant farmers toiled immigrants. care and presence to the women in our sponsored under the miserable conditions that Florida and California farmworkers were educational ministries, to parishioners, our elder neigh- already organizing to change. CSJs were in the midst of that effort. Then I shared a mission assignment where two CSJs helped me understand that discrimination bors and to those who are misunderstood, underserved against women put society’s benefits out of reach for them. How could I ever and unwelcomed. Our congregation’s mission of bearing have outgrown discrimination on my own or embraced “Love of God and neigh- God’s healing, reconciling and all-inclusive love wherever bor without distinction” without Sisters of St. Joseph at my side? there is need impels us to be a life-giving presence for the sake of our earth, our youth, the aged and The days of “being assigned” to a parish or a particular service are long gone. infirmed and those currently or formerly incarcerated. We stand with others to call attention to unjust So call it good fortune – or a blessing – that I found a “mission” that built on my systems that oppress or exclude all who have been given life by the same loving Creator. experience of being with people on the margins. This happened when I took a position as Refugee Resettlement Coordinator with the Diocese of Rockville As you read the articles in this issue you will see the energy, hope and joy that come from being neigh- Centre. I ask you to imagine the horrors of displacement visited on people in bor to so many longing for knowledge, companionship and the respect and dignity that was intended the most inhumane ways but also to hold on to the unwavering conviction that for all creation. Through accounts of shared learning experiences, celebrations, and the awareness of a compassionate embrace will help people survive and grow again with human the fragility of all life we can be inspired to find ways of making a difference wherever we find our- dignity. Then you will understand refugees and the resettlement process. Every selves. You can get current information on our ministries, news, and events on our web www.csjbrent- small detail of rebuilding lives - and you know what that entails - has made a dif- wood.org. We invite you to share in our daily prayer posted on this site as a way of joining in our ference in the lives of immigrants I helped. But even more transforming was the mission. difference it made in me. For years, CSJs have walked at the side of those who are misunderstood, under- The energy to live out our mission comes from a commitment to prayer and contemplation so that served and unwelcomed. No one retires from that. Now my action on behalf of we can be attentive to where the Spirit is leading us. With your support and prayers and with all who immigrants happens at my computer, over the phone, in my congressperson’s accompany us, the mission of the Sisters of St. Joseph will continue into the future, making a difference office or at meetings and events with other immigrant advocates. But every CSJ where there is the greatest need. We are grateful to Sister Rose Viceconte for her twenty years of ser- is also in the midst of that effort, creating an unseen but effective community of vice to advance our mission and we welcome Jim Rennert who will continue in her footsteps to help advocates. I help support their participation with resources and suggestions for action. us sustain our mission. We thank all of you and promise to pray for you and all of your intentions. On behalf of all Sisters of St. Joseph, I recently accepted an award from Long Island Jobs With Justice which recognized me as one of five women who make a difference for immigrants on Long Island. I couldn’t resist telling the audience what all Sisters of St. Joseph say of themselves: “We are pygmies standing on the Sister Helen Kearney, CSJ shoulders of giants.” Truly, it is in the shadow of every Sister of St. Joseph who has gone before us, that we all find our own commitment to justice for immigrants.

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studentsSTUDENTS Linda Pero, CSJ B BISHOP KEARNEY HIGH SCHOOL MAMAKINGKING AA K Thanksgiving Drive “ oming? Going? Down for the Day?” These words were DIFFERENCEDIFFERENCE spoken hundreds of times over the last 50+ years at CSt. Joseph Villa, Hampton Bays, originally purchased as a vacation house for the Sisters. Located as it is on Shinnecock Bay, it offers beautiful vistas, magnificent sunrises, a place of peaceful serenity and, of course, home-cooked meals. Over the years, the Villa invited mothers and relatives of the Sisters to join them on vacation. Recently, it opened its doors to many retreat, parish and school groups. In particular, two women’s Matt Talbot groups have come twice a year for their retreats. The peaceful surroundings and the freedom they have A SACRED HEART ACADEMY SH Traffic Free Super Bowl to enjoy the grounds provide these women with time to pray, reflect and meet with each other. Our charism of hospitality and welcoming is certainly evident to all who come here and SACRED HEART ACADEMY they are very grateful for the opportunity to share their time S A Nails and Sharing H at Sacred Heart Convent with us. A highlight of our year is when the students from our six high schools give a week of service to the Sisters on vacation. While the girls come from different schools, including Maria Reina in Puerto Rico, they instantly feel the connection of being in a CSJ school. These CSJ Leaders bring what they have learned about the charism of inclusive love, unity and reconciliation and put it Human Traffing Event into action by becoming “reliefers.” Working side by side with the Sisters, they help make beds, fix meals, assist the Sisters in the pool, take active roles in the liturgy and, most especially, bring a spirit of youthful joy and enthusiasm. While giving a manicure or assisting with an art project, the girls and the THE MARY LOUIS ACADEMY TM Sisters share their life stories. #BringBackOurGirls LA March for Climate Change The girls all agree that they come away from this week with a much deeper appreciation of who the Sisters are and what ACADEMIA MARIA REINA they have done and this will have a lasting impression on them. AMR Special Olympics We hope to continue to provide our tradition of hospitality and welcoming for many years to come at our Villa home.

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Students from various CSJ Schools prepare for a new set of vacationers at the Villa. S. Preenika Dabrera (r.) leads the girls

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66 7 Our Journey: Making A Difference Making a Difference: CSJ Office for Sponsored Educational Ministries ur Journey, Inc. was begun in July 2005 by S. Elaine Roulet and four women who were formerly incarcerated at Bedford Hills Angela Gannon, CSJ OCorrectional Facility. S. Elaine, recently retired as Chaplain at the prison, now saw the need for a spiritual thrust in their lives. Elaine he CSJ Office for Sponsored Educational Ministries contacted Brother Tom Grady and Dr. Frank Macchiarola (President of opened in September 2013 so that the particu- St. Francis College) to ask if Our Journey, Inc. could use space at the Col- lar needs of our six high schools and the Learn- lege the third Saturday of each month to provide a spiritual renewal for T ing Connection could be addressed. As Coordinator for formerly incarcerated women. Brother Tom and Dr. Macchiarola readily this effort, I began to focus on mission effectiveness as a agreed and Our Journey, Inc. has been going strong for almost 10 years. common thread which would shape the services offered The relationship between St. Francis College and Our Journey has been primarily to the Boards of Trustees, the leadership devel- an experience in cooperation and caring dedication by the Staff there, opment of our administrators through a performance ap- especially by the Security staff at the front desk. We are able to use the praisal process, and the revision of the By-Laws governing beautiful Chapel and classrooms for our retreat graciously offered by the our sponsored ministries. It was our hope that all that we Administration and Staff. Our Journey, Inc. provides the women with cof- fee and donuts for breakfast upon arrival and a pizza lunch. did would indeed make a difference in fostering the mis- sion, vision, and values of each ministry and the Sisters of Each month, approximately 30 women come to the College where they St. Joseph. pray, meditate and have workshops on topics relevant to formerly incar- A Performance Appraisal Process was designed for the cerated women. Some of these topics include: family problems, rear- S. Angela Gannon (r.) gathers with administrators and ing children, job-hunting, housing issues and emotional topics like guilt, evaluation of our Presidents, Vice-President, and Principals. staffs from the CSJ sponsored schools at St. Joseph Villa mothering and self-esteem. We have also added a thrift shop where the Seven administrators participated last spring; others will in Hampton Bays. women receive clothing and household items at no cost. Teresa Sefchek, be scheduled in the second year of their employment. Us- a volunteer, helps Elaine and the women by gathering items for donation ing SurveyMonkey as our online service, each participant and transporting them to St. Francis College. completed a Self-Evaluation and was then appraised by Twice a year the women are invited to an overnight retreat facilitated by her total faculty and Board of Trustees as well as a sample Sisters Elaine and Marion Defeis. In May it is held in the Renewal Center representation of students, parents, and alumnae. The in Brentwood and in October in the Mariondale Retreat Center in Os- comprehensiveness of the process provided each admin- sining. istrator with the data needed to then complete her own In Brentwood, the women enjoy the lovely grounds and the time allot- Professional Growth Plan for the year. ted for prayer and reflection. On Sunday Morning many respond to the In September, a CSJ Board of Trustees’ Convocation took invitation to attend Mass with our Sisters in the Sacred Heart Chapel. S. Elaine Roulet with place so that particular concerns and needs could be CSJ student at the Villa The women appreciate the opportunity to leave the noise and confusion addressed. All sponsored educational ministries were of city life to experience the peace and quiet that Brentwood provides. represented including Academia Maria Reina. Keynote presentations highlighted the responsibilities associated Our Journey, Inc. through grants helps the women in difficult financial situations by paying emergency utility bills, rent or medical bills. We have also helped S. Marion Defeis facilitates with these Boards and the revision of the By-Laws of our bury the dead: indigent women with no family or resources to help with a Renewal Center Retreat schools. Participants had the opportunity to meet with funeral service and burial. We have been fortunate to receive a grant from Dr. one another, share ideas and resources, and look forward At a meeting of CSJ school administrators in Chicago on Scholl’s (yes, the shoe company) which has provided Our Journey with money to future collaboration. The Boards of Trustees are key November 6, S. Angela (center) conducts a session with to buy gift cards to DWS shoe store for each woman to receive a $50 gift partners as we move forward in providing young women some of the Brentwood CSJ administrators: S. Kathleen card for new shoes. with an excellent education in the tradition of the Sisters McKinney, Mary Ann Spicijaric, Sisters Joanne Forker, Our Journey, Inc. has given formerly incarcerated women hope, respect and of St. Joseph. Judy Burchyns, Jeanne Ross and Joan Gallagher. dignity during a time of extreme turmoil in this critical time of their lives. A Do these events make a difference for those who par- definite emphasis has been on the spiritual growth of the women, no matter ticipate? Without hesitation, the response is a clear YES! what their religion. Our prayer is: While not reaching vast numbers, each program is highly Be Still and Know that I AM God rated for providing time for prayer, professional develop- Be Still and Know that I AM ment, networking possibilities, and mission awareness. Af- Be Still and Know ter all is said and done, isn’t it really all about the mission? Be Still Be

8 9 REASOn TO CELEBRATE

100th Birthday S. Rita Josephine Lisante celebrating with friends

September 13, 2014 Liturgy for 50th and 60th Jubilarians

(Front row, l. to r.) Sisters Carole Lessard, Rosalind Picciano, Cath- erine Fitzsgibbon, Pat O’Keefe, Charlotte Shinnick, Joan Petito, Marianne Sennick, Eva Marchese; row 2, Roberta Oberle, Pat Rizzo, Inaugural Mass October 5, 2014 Ruth Anne McHugh, Rose Miriam Pelletier, Margaret Buckley; row 3, Gloria Cruz Espinoza, Margaret Faherty, Alice O’Shaughnessy, Mary Ann Cashin, CSJ Judy Fay, Teresa Fitzgerald; row 4, Mary Walsh, Margaret O’Donnell, he seventh president of St. Joseph’s College, Dr. Jack Filippa Luciano, Helen Dolores Byrne; row 5, Nancy Vendura, Stella Calareso, chose to begin the Inauguration with an Slonski, Peggy Fanning, Maureen Keating, Pat McDonnell, Nancy TInaugural Mass in Sacred Heart Chapel, Brentwood. Edwards, Grace Eidt, Jane Bannon. Together with his wife, Rose, Dr. Calareso acknowledged the almost 100 years that St. Joseph’s College has provided quality education rooted in the Josephite tradition. His goal is to continue to model and promote these core values. In her welcome, S. Helen Kearney also recognized the significant role the Sisters of St. Joseph have played in the mission, founding and expansion of St. Joseph’s College. The sheer beauty of Sacred Heart Chapel, its spirit and sacred tradition, enhanced the joy of the gathered community of Sisters of St Joseph and St. Joseph’s College students, trustees, administrators, faculty, staff, alumni, benefactors and friends. In the entrance hymn, All Are Welcome, we sang of hopes, dreams September 27, 2014 and visions, and the faith and grace that make us one. Our Liturgy for Diamond Jubilarians shared mission was celebrated with gratitude, hope and the promise to be faithful to its ideals. Seventy year Jubilarians (seated l. to r.) Sisters Mary Cecilia Bishop Raymond Chappetto, celebrant, and Father Tom Giannitti, Mary Ann Rogers, Victoria Karp, St. Elizabeth Montgom- Ahern, prayed with us from their rich experience of shared ministry with the Sisters of St. Joseph. Our guests expressed ery, Virginia Crowley; (standing) Muriel Smithwick, Leonard Marie their wonder at the overall beauty of the liturgy. Uplifting Lichinchi, Claudia Bradshaw, Mary Kenneth Lane. First Vows music stirred the joy in each of us. The grace of the dancers September 6, 2014 heightened the praise and gratitude we offered throughout the liturgy. Each of the processional moments symbolized the Heather Ganz receives a unity and continuity of our efforts. Most of all, everyone felt blessing from her parents the welcome that animates our Brentwood home. We joined and Sisters Helen Ke- Bishop Chappetto in a special blessing for Jack and Rose as they arney and Mary Walsh continue to live what we celebrated in this Inaugural Liturgy. In particular, we prayed for their hope for the future and their rejoice with her. imaginative seeing and understanding. Reflecting on this historic and unforgettable day, Dr. Calareso expressed his and Rose’s gratitude for a wonderful celebration. “The opportunity to celebrate at Brentwood with the Sisters Renewal of Vows, of St Joseph was inspirational. We greatly appreciated the hospitality of the Congregation; the extraordinary planning of October 18, 2014 the day to make everything perfect; and the dedication to the Seventy-five year Jubilarians (l. to r.) Sisters Mary Martin, Agnes Director of Formation S. Mary Walsh, College of so many who took the time to participate in this Cecilia McKenna, Margaret de Sales Grob, Muriel Vincent Es- Sisters Virginia Murtha and Preenika special event.” posito, Agnes Alphonse Finamore, Lorna Strachan. Dabrera, President S. Helen Kearney 10 11 making a difference in a whole new way Making A Difference in St. Anne’s Gardens

JoAnn Vitiello, Co-Minister Catherine Atkins, CSJ

ou may have heard the expression, “All good things come from have been a Sister of St. Joseph for almost 50 years. Most of Brooklyn.” Well, that is certainly the case when it comes to the those years (30) were spent as a Registered Dietitian taking YSquitieri family. Aniello and Maria Squitieri, born in Brooklyn I care of our sisters at Maria Regina in Brentwood. After that I and the parents of JoAnn Squitieri, raised a loving daughter whose val- spent 17 months working in the Community Archives. For the ues were steeped in the love of God and neighbor without distinction. past 11 years I have had the joy of serving in the Secretarial It seems to me, that the charism that JoAnn had embedded in her soul Services of our Congregational Offices in Brentwood. In 2007 since childhood, recently found root in the loving support and comfort I moved my 94 year old mother from Bay Ridge, Brooklyn to St. of the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph who “Guess What!” Anne’s Gardens in Brentwood where she could be nearer to espouse and live that same charism. Coincidence, I think not. Called me. to a life lived in close union with God. I believe so. St. Anne’s Gardens was built in 2000 on the sight of what was Sister JoAnn Squitieri was recently welcomed to experience life within St. Anne’s School where our sisters taught for many years. It is St. Anne’s Gardens the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph at a prayer service which a 100 apartment complex for seniors over 60 under Catholic was held on Sunday, January 5, 2014. At that service, Sisters from the Charities and managed by Stanan Management. community with whom she will live, Sisters who have been significant I didn’t know at the time when I moved mom that I would need in her discernment process, other Sisters from the Congregation, and to stay with her and be her full time caregiver, still keeping my her family and friends were all present. The “Celebration of Welcome” ministry at the convent at the same time. I spent the last 7 years was the first step for JoAnn as she continues her process toward full living with mom at St. Anne’s and traveling across the field to membership in the Congregation. In conversation with JoAnn, she work 3 days a week. Mom passed away one month after her recalls how moved her family and friends were as they listened to S. 101st birthday on March 10th 2014. I decided in consultation with Mary Walsh’s accounting of the History of the Sisters of St. Joseph. the community to stay at St. Anne’s after mom’s death. “Not only do all good things come from Brooklyn but all good things come from the Sisters of St. Joseph of Brentwood as well.” Living with the residents at St. Anne’s has been a great experi- ence for me as they have been a great support to me and Since her involvement with the Sisters of St. Joseph, JoAnn has found As all others who have been called to a life encouragement to me during these years. They are so grateful fulfillment in her ministry at Sacred Heart Academy where she works dedicated to God and to the service of God’s to have the presence of a “Sister” and always remind me of that, as an assistant to the Campus Minister. She has also experienced great people, her story is not unique. She can trace but I find that I receive much more from them than I could ever joy in living in community at St. Nicholas of Tolentine Convent and the path, look back and know that God was at give. learning more about the charism of the Sisters of St. Joseph. When the center of her discernment. Through prayer asked if there have been any disappointments she responds: “No, not and an open spirit, she responded to a new and We have three of our CSJ associates living at St. Anne’s: Marie at all. It has been way more gratifying than I had ever expected. I exciting vocation. Gallagher, Norma Dalley and Mary Lou Locke. They always believe I have found my place.” JoAnn brings to the Congregation her own gifts amaze me with their example and the service that they give here and to our CSJ Community, bringing Communion to the Service to people is not new to S. JoAnn. She holds an Associates which include a warm and loving personality sick, singing in the choir at St. Anne’s and just being there for Degree in Psychology, a B.A. Degree in Management and Communica- who is fully prepared for ministry and whose those who need someone. I have become much more aware tions, an MBA in Business Administration and a Post Graduate Degree personal attributes will bring life and vitality to of how lucky we are to have such great women as part of our in Human Resources. JoAnn is also a Pastoral Formation Graduate her community experience. Be careful; she holds Community. Marie has given 14 years of faithful service at Maria from the three-year program in Faith Formation from the Diocese of a black belt in karate and has even sky-dived. Regina. Mary Lou works at St. Joseph Convent as receptionist RVC. She has always viewed herself as a person who provides service The things she enjoys most are spending time and switchboard operator. Norma is into many ministries at St. to people. She began as a customer service representative and retired with friends and family, good relationships, cook- Anne’s Parish. after twenty-six years with Verizon as a training manager. It was after ing and has recently tried her hand at a game of her retirement and the death of her mother that she began to discern golf. Ministry means just doing the things that need to be done at what would be next in her life. JoAnn’s commitment to make a difference in the the moment, checking on a neighbor who has no family, be- ing a “Fire Captain” to help residents get out of the building in Quite accidentally, JoAnn happened upon a brochure inviting inter- lives of those she serves will now be lived out case of emergency, laughing and crying with the residents, being ested persons to the Renewal Center in Brentwood. She picked it up, in her new experiences within the Congrega- there to listen, sharing a meal. I enjoy helping my neighbors with read it, inquired and the rest is history. After taking the 19th Annota- tion of the Sisters of St. Joseph. As the Sisters of computers and all sorts of modern gear and the necessities of tion of St. Ignatius Retreat in September 2011, followed by a twelve- St. Joseph welcomed her, she too welcomes the daily living as needed. Our first sisters taught us that to help the day pilgrimage to the Holy Land, and a three-year program at the Re- challenge of making a difference in a whole new “Dear Neighbor” is most important. I hope in some way to be newal Center which resulted in her commission as a Spiritual Director, way. a sign of God’s love to those at St. Anne’s Gardens as they have JoAnn knew that life had changed and that it was good. She believes So can we all agree that “All good things come been to me. S. Cathy Atkins with Associates Norma Dalley, that God has led her in her journey directly to the Sisters of St. Joseph. from Brooklyn and Brentwood as well?” Marie Gallagher and Mary Lou Locke

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MAKING A DIFFERENCE IN BRENTWOOD AND IN THE “NEIGHBORHOOD” MUSIC MINISTRY: MAKING A DIFFERENCE

Mary McConnell, CSJ Mary Ross, CSJ JoAnn Vitiello, Co-Minister am an Administrative Law ctober 3, 2014 marked the 35th Anniversary of Pope John Paul II’s visit to the Judge for the Department of U.S. and even closer to home, “Youth in Concert,” at Madison Square Garden. I Corrections and Community That defining moment in the lives of many youth in the New York metropolitan Service. This is the only type of O area is particularly remembered by the St. Martha’s Folk Group, Uniondale. judge a religious is permitted to become. Religious are not The St. Martha’s Folk Group began in 1970 under the direction of S. Elizabeth Myles, allowed to be elected to any Parish Youth Minister. The group was made up of sixty teenage parishioners. From 1970 political position, or be in any to 2000, the folk group provided liturgical song each week at the 10:30am celebration position where they could be of the Eucharist. Standing room only was not uncommon as many parishioners enjoyed St. Martha’s Folk Group (35 years elected to a political position. I the vitality and song of these young musicians. later) taken on Sunday, Sept. 14, have worked in the criminal justice system for many years. I Almost four decades later, S. Elizabeth Myles was contacted by a representative of RGTV, 2014 at the taping of the docu- started out volunteering in women’s prisons and working in mentary, “Defining Moments of Providence House with ex-offenders. I moved on to be an at- requesting that the folk group be a part of a documentary highlighting the defining mo- Madison Square Garden.” S. Eliza- torney doing indigent defense work. I then became a Commis- ments of Madison Square Garden of which, according to the producer of the documen- sioner of Parole for New York State and given the awesome tary, Pope John Paul II’s visit is paramount. beth Myles first row, far right. responsibility of determining which inmates eligible for parole S. Febronia Loewenstein and S. Mary McConnell On Sunday, September 14, 2014, exactly thirty-five years later, twenty-eight original in New York State were worthy of release and did not pose a members of the folk group gathered at the parish hall of St. Martha’s Church to be threat to society. taped for the documentary. Included in the taping were three songs performed by the s novices we were reminded of this truth. Being a judge does not fall easily within the charism of the group and five individual interviews one of which one was with Elizabeth. “The young think they are holy but they are Sisters of St. Joseph unless you think of a judge as a decision In her interview, Elizabeth recalls, “When the Pope arrived Madison Square Garden was not. The middle aged neither think they are maker. As decision makers, we Sisters of St. Joseph have been A charged with energy. Everyone was cheering and chanting. For me it was an experience holy nor are they holy. The old don’t think that they dividing up the city and meeting the needs where we found of the young church being alive. Youth in Concert was an opportunity to connect young are holy but they are holy.” Living in Brentwood now them since our inception. And the way we provide service to the community is based on the decisions we make, after people with other young people who were committed to their faith. The Pope gave the with the young of 50, 60, 70 years ago I have finally discerning the needs of our times. My ministry involves work opportunity for all of us to do that. The message of ‘Look to Christ,’ was our recurring grasped the meaning of that statement. How blest I with parolees, people who have spent time in prison convicted theme as our group followed up with prayer and song for many years.” am to live with the beautiful, young, enthusiastic sisters of a crime and released to community supervision. They must The visit of the Pope was only one of the defining moments for this young group. Their I met when I, too, was young. Living in Brentwood is report to a parole officer and have a number of conditions weekly practice sessions, their prayer together, the Sunday liturgy, the recording of a they must adhere to. My ministry involves making decisions living in the Corridor of Heaven. Like the disciples record, “Blest Be The Lord,” the annual play and all of the personal relationships, including about these parolees when they violate the conditions of marriage within the group, are fondly recalled at a reunion which takes place in Union- on the road to Emmaus, each day there are new parole and/or commit a new crime. It is then my responsibil- dale every two years. Folk group members who are now adult men and women bring glimpses of God’s incredible loving presence. We ity to weigh the nature of the violation against any mitigating recognize Jesus in the joy and pain of our daily life and factors to determine what, if any, sanctions I will give to the their children to the reunion in order to share the memories of the moments of their lives which have given them direction and faith so intense that they have made it a mis- we experience God’s joy as our walker, or cane, or parolee The options include release, programs (including pro- grams in prison and boot camp type programs) or incarcera- sion to pass it on to their children. Being a part of the church at such a young age and wheel chair becomes our way to do real ministry for tion. experiencing the love of God made a difference in their lives. each other. Without realizing it, we have matured. We A majority of the people I see are long time drug addicts and Today, at Sacred Heard Convent in North Merrick, S. Elizabeth leads a prayer group of now live and love the person God created and loves. they are very difficult to help unless they are ready for help or young women, all former members of the folk group. The group discusses topics relevant There is no competition…no desire to be or seem to have reached rock bottom. As a judge I have the freedom to to their present life circumstances, prays together and provides spiritual and emotional be another. We reverence each other as Gift of God restore a parolee to a drug program which I do with frequen- support for one another. They discuss how important it was for them to receive in- to us, each living to the best of her ability the truth cy with an admonition that this is your chance and you will struction and support in those young years. No one would dispute that “Sister Liz,” as of her Now…diminished but still captured by the likely not get another. I also see people convicted of violent she is fondly known, played an instrumental role in their spiritual formation. They agree crimes or their violation involves violence and must determine abiding love and presence of God. Each living what is that being part of a group associated with their church has created an impermeable whether these people pose a threat to society. real holiness - loving others as we have been loved by bond between each of them and Christ, the model and purpose of their existence. The In all cases I see parolees are represented by attorneys whose experience of being part of the St. Martha’s Folk Group made a difference in the lives God. This is what it means to be old…to know that responsibility it is to advocate on behalf of their clients. I take of these young people. The amazing thing about this group is that they continue to be a holiness is not about me but about my life lived each this ministry very seriously because every day, what I decide part of each other’s lives through Face Book and the celebration of both joyful and sor- day in the Heart of God. affects a person’s freedom or return to incarceration and cer- rowful events. Today four decades later, Sister Liz receives Christmas cards from each of tainly understand the gospel mandate in that regard. these families and has been there for them throughout their journeys. It is the greatest gift of one’s life to know that you have made a difference. 14 15 The Renovated Mary Louis Convent Becomes a Treasured Resource for the Academy

Classrooms and a work area were carved out of the large Community Room where the Sisters once enjoyed their entertainment and offices were formed out of a few bedrooms just above this area. Much more extensive renovations have taken place during 2014 and in September a whole new design of the convent first floor has allowed the vision of the Sisters of the Mary Louis Convent to be carried on today. The main central parlor welcomes guests and visitors who are capti- The pioneer Sisters of TMLA included (standing l. to r.) James Cecilia, Jean vated by the original grand staircase and fireplace, the latter still bearing Catherine, Mary Odran, Grace Teresa, Regina Celeste, Eustochium, Miriam the carved CSJ seal. On other side of the parlor are two spaces which Fidelis, (front) Superior Francis Geronimo and Principal Mary Angelica. make the entire area perfect for meetings and performances. The TMLA With them is Rev. Roger Munson, CP. Service Homerooms have their almost daily meetings in this space. These homerooms provide students with an invaluable and unique op- Rita Piro, Co-Minister portunity to work closely throughout the year with other students and hen the pioneer Sisters of The Mary Louis Academy Convent faculty committed to issues concerning our health, environment and first entered their new home at 86-44 Edgerton Boulevard social justice, long time concerns of the Sisters of St. Joseph. Since the Win Jamaica Estates in April 1936, they were undoubtedly program’s inception, members of service homerooms have participated quite taken aback by what they saw. As Sisters Francis Geronimo, Mary in workshops and conferences at the United Nations, volunteered at a Eustochium, Regina Celeste, Jean Catherine, James Cecilia, Mary Odran, local soup kitchen, hosted a Fair Trade Christmas Bazaar, and created an Grace Teresa, Mary Angelica, and Miriam Fidelis surveyed their surround- internationally-recognized and acclaimed anti-cyber-bullying initiative. ings, they surely must have wondered how they would survive just one night at this location. The original convent refectory now houses the multi-award winning TMLA Robotics Program and a separate part of the old community The once glorious mansion known as Rose Crest, formerly owned by room now serves with two classrooms and a Math lab under the direc- the Adikes Family of Jamaica and Flushing, was in a dilapidated state and tion of S. Linda Pero. extensive repairs were needed throughout the house. The Sisters would later recall that the electric stove was in such poor condition that they Once the busy hub of food and drink, the convent’s original kitchen now would have to set several pots of water on the stovetop before leaving welcomes the Baking/Cooking Club as well as the cultural clubs who for Mass at Immaculate Conception Church across the street and hope prepare various ethnic dishes. The Italian Society, under the direction that the water would have come to a boil for cooking by the time they of Mr. Nicholas Maurantonio with assistance from S. Margaret Secour returned. The Sisters quickly got to work and by June had not only estab- Anella, prepares delectable Italian dishes weekly in the newly updated lished another warm and welcoming Josephite community, but were also kitchen. ready to announce the opening of their newest instructional endeavor, The rear sun parlor, which once opened to the patio complete with The Mary Louis Academy Private High School for Girls. working fountain, now houses the Advanced Painting classes, where Seventeen young ladies began classes in the parlor of the Sisters’ convent TMLA Art students enjoy and use the wonderful natural light. that September, followed in February by additional young ladies for a total Finally, the chapel, the first addition to the original mansion building and of 47 members of TMLA’s first class of freshwomen. Within months a opened on January 1, 1937, has been lovingly refurbished with all original chapel and a classroom were added on either side of the original building pieces including the statues of Joseph and Mary which were taken from and by September 1938 the main school building was complete for the the Church of St. Malachy in Rockaway Park after it was closed and education of 800 girls. brought to the new chapel at TMLA. It is believed that these statues are At its peak during the baby boomer years of Catholic education, it well over 100 years old. housed nearly 55 sisters. Superiors included Sisters Francis Geronimo, Over the past 76 years since the establishment of The Mary Louis Acad- Mary Lumina, Mary Immaculata, Naomi, Rose of Lima, Joan Killen, St. Je- emy Convent, 20,000 young women have carried forth the charism and rome and Mary McConnell.In 2011 the last four Sisters living in the Mary mission of the Sisters of St. Joseph with many more ready to continue Louis convent moved to other houses and the convent was closed. Dur- the tradition. ing the last three years changes have taken place in the old convent that continue and develop the mission of the original 9 Sisters of St. Joseph who lived there and the many others who followed. 16 1717 welcome to Gala 2014

Dear Friends of the Sisters of St. Joseph, It is an honor and a privilege to introduce myself as the new Director of Mission Advancement for the Sisters of St. Joseph. As you know, S. Rose Viceconte is retiring at the end of this year. I can only pray that I come close to serving you as effectively and as graciously as she has done for the past 20 years! I come to you with a varied career background, the last of which was 15 years as the Province Director of Development for the Cenacle Sisters in the United States. I have been married to my wife Maureen S. Rose Viceconte is recognized for 20 for 36 years, and we have a daughter Jacqueline who graced us last years as Director of Development by year with our first grandchild Lucas. S. Helen Kearney at the Gala. I will work vigorously to advance the mission and ministries of the Sisters. But only with your help. In this magazine you will read about the remarkable work that the Sisters do for justice and peace, the environment, woman and girls, and so much more. They can’t do it alone. They can’t do it without your help. , I will be telling you about all the And so, in future issues of Focusing ways that you can partner with the Sisters of St. Joseph to advance the incredible work they do. Thank you for all you have done for the Sisters. Thank you for wel- coming me. And, thank you for walking this journey with us. Sincerely, Jim Rennert and S. Pat Turley

James R. Rennert, CFRE Director of Mission Advancement

Helen Moss receives the CSJ award from S. Helen Kearney. S. Rose Viceconte and Jim Rennert (seated) and Nadine Veletanga S. Helen Kearney, S. Kerry Handal, MC Wendy Walsh and Sisters Eugenia Calabrese and Pat Ma- honey

1818 19 Founder’s Day at Saint Joseph High School CSJ Sponsored Ministry: THE Learning Connection Janelle Hyppolite, St. Joseph HS ’16 ESL students he CSJ Learning Connection, celebrating its and teach- n Friday October 17, 2014, St. Joseph High School 20th year, is an independent community-based celebrated the Sisters of St. Joseph Founder’s Day ers from the organization, affiliated with the Brentwood Pub- which dates back to 1650 in Le Puy, France. This T Learning O lic School District and the Brentwood Public Library, celebration gives us an opportunity to come to know the Connection CSJ mission more deeply and to recognize significant years which aims to serve the educational needs of women program of service of the SJHS faculty and staff. in the Brentwood area. This year several CSJ Sisters from different ministries came to speak to the students about what they do helping us to realize that the work of Sisters reaches further than school walls. Following our sessions with the Sisters we gathered as a school community at St. Boniface Church for a Founder’s Day prayer service. At this time we were joined by the fam- ily and friends of S. Nora Ashe, CSJ, a beloved U.S. History teacher who passed away one year ago. Director of Formation S. Mary Walsh speaks about her When asked how the day was planned, Principal S. Joan Gal- ministry. lagher replied that while it had been a dream it became a re- ality when Mrs. Greaves, SJHS Math teacher, noted it would be important for the students to know of all the work the Sisters do beyond education in school. We needed a day when students could learn about what Sisters do, directly from the Sisters. Mrs. Greaves, S. Rosemarie Baglivio and S. Pat Lucas formed the committee that put this day together. Congratulations to New Citizens Letters of invitation to more than forty Sisters in various ministries were sent out. The Sisters were honored to be invited. All were happy to come and others were disap- pointed that they could not participate in the day. After listening to CSJ Sisters passionately telling us about their work, it was appropriate to celebrate and honor S. Nora who was a passionate educator. Because S. Nora The St. Joseph HS community joined in prayer with sadly passed away on October 14, 2013 our memorial was S. Nora Ashe’s family and friends at St. Boniface Church. perfectly aligned with Founder’s Day. Following the prayer service at St. Boniface, family, friends, Sisters and colleagues of S. Nora gathered back at SJHS and dedicated the Technol- ogy Lab in her honor. S. Nora was a master teacher who S. Marie Ross (l.) and her class on graduation day, knew well how to integrate technology into her students’ June 1, 2014. learning. Now with her watchful eye all SJHS students can continue to use technology in responsible ways to enhance their learning. The day ended with a festive luncheon where S. Nora’s family, friends, Sisters and colleagues continued to celebrate her extraordinary life and share their favorite memories of her. I personally enjoyed Founder’s Day and I thought it was a great success. I was happy to know that the Catholic Church was still very much alive due to the work of the Sisters and all those who are helped by their work. To know that there are women out there who risk their lives so that others can Principal S. Joan Gallagher (l.) welcomed all while guest live better is very inspiring and empowering. I believe that speaker S. Theresa Scanlon praised the life of S. Nora Founder’s Day shows us examples of empowered women Assistant Director S. Mary Theresa Donlon, so that we can aspire to be greater and to achieve so much Ashe. Helen Moss and Director of The Learning Con- more than one can ever imagine. nection, S. Kathleen Carberry 20 21 Sabbath Time: A Reflection on Silence Associate Large Group Day Pat Monahan, Associate Maura Costello, CSJ ’ve just returned from my morning walk around “the bend” t 9:30 am on November 1, and meandered across the lawn which had been a cow 2014 the atmosphere in the Ipasture when I was in elementary school at the Academy of ASJ Rec Hall was alive with St. Joseph in the late 40’s. I unpacked my camp chair and settled A under the shade of a mighty spruce facing a distant stand of chatter and excitement in anticipation heritage pines. A refreshing breeze stirred the branches and of the day’s activities. Associates and brushed against my face. Starlings swooped tree to tree; squir- Sisters began the Welcome Ceremo- rels scampered about gathering nuts and seeds; billowing clouds ny for our potential Associates who floated gracefully across an azure blue sky. I drifted off into were to begin their journey toward the peace of the moment losing track of time and place... into commitment in April 2015. Each one silence. spoke of her/his life and connection Here on these grounds I look upon nature as my friend. I grew with the CSJs. up with these trees through the cycle of seasons, through the decades of life’s unfolding. When close friends meet there is no need of words. Silence enhances presence one with the other… and mutual indwelling occurs. Nature activates the Spirit within me. In silence I feel an intimacy to all things and to the Divine. As Miester Eckhart reminds us, “Nothing in the universe Potential Associates with the support of their sponsors, standing behind them, resembles God more than silence.” begin the program towards commitment that will take place in April 2015. (Earth Matters offers Sabbath Time the fourth Sunday of every (Front row standing l. to r.) Sheila Wilkinson, Mary Lou Locke, Mary Doolan, RECOGNITIONS month from 1:15-2:45 pm. Join us at the Ecology Center, bring a Mary Della Vecchia, Anne Cajigas, Frank Brancato, Jo’Anne Brancato, Christina folding chair, a bag lunch, and let the Spirit do the rest.) Bopp. On September 25, 2014, Mary Ann Ambrose, CSJ received the “ Service to Youth Award “ at the As a follow-up to the Convocation with Ilia Delio in June, S. Maureen Wild Bishop’s Dinner for Scouting. New Publications SC called all present to the “Living Cosmology and Emerging Conscious- ness” through a vibrant, experiential ritual, accompanied by visuals of our Patricia Hudson, CSJ was awarded “Best in Show” Congregation’s and other gifted persons, and personal sharing of God’s for her watercolor painting, Evening Song. It was pre- sented by The Rockaway Artists Alliance Gallery at Fort presence in her life. Narrating this were Pat Monahan, a dear friend of Elizabeth A. Johnson, Maureen, and S. Susan Wilcox. The “time line” of evolution as evidenced Tilden. Sister used the Sum-i: P’oMo ancient Chinese painting techniques. CSJ Ask the Beasts: Dar- in the spiral of creation created a sense of awe and a realization of the win and the God of Love, place of human development in the cosmos. Catherine M Kugler, CSJ received an Associate Bloomsbury Publishing Co., S. Helen Kearney joined us for the twentieth anniversary prayer for Asso- Degree of Science in Respiratory Therapy from the 2014. ciate Patricia DeGregoria Scola and for S. Eileen Clifford who have jour- River Valley Community College in Claremont, N.H. She neyed with the Associates for 20 years. is registered by The National Board of Respiratory Care Maria Pascuzzi, CSJ Paul: Windows on His and is licensed in Vermont and N.H. Thoughts and His World Anselm Academic, 2014.

Speaker S. Maureen Wild SC, pres- Kathleen Sullivan, CSJ received an award at the Teresa Fitzgerald, CSJ was awarded the Opus Prize, ents the “time line” of evolution 125th Anniversary of St. Francis Xavier School. It was in an annual gift awarded to an individual or organization symbolized by candles. gratitude and praise for her many years of service as a whose faith based,entrepreneurial leadership helps people teacher and administrator and much more! in need to transform their lives.

A scholarship in honor of Peggy Ford, CSJ (RIP) has Patricia DeGregoria Scola (photo left) receives a been named at St. Mchael’s School, Brooklyn in recogni- certificate for twenty years as an Associate tion of the years of her service to the parish. while S. Eileen Clifford (l. in photo right) receives her commendation. Associate The Sisters of St. Joseph Convent, Brentwood donated Marie Bevilacqua congratulates Eileen. to Mercy First for the support of immigrant children.

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THOUGHTS FROM THE GARDEN came from within its body. The caterpillar was no longer – its Heather Ganz,CSJ skin crumpled at the top of its new chrysalis like yesterday’s flower became a cucumber. A seed became a plant. laundry wrinkled and tossed to the side. Twice, also, we wit- Sunlight became my salad. This all happened at the garden nessed a brand new butterfly emerge then waited as its wings Atoday, and yesterday, and it will probably happen again dried and it prepared to fly. We cheered as it lifted off on its tomorrow. Thousands of miraculous transformations are happen- first flight. ing every moment; we are surrounded by them. Watching these great transformations happen were akin Most of these transformations happen so slowly that we don’t to watching a new life being born, and it is no wonder that notice them happening. They occur before our very eyes, but we caterpillars and butterflies have provided inspiration for prayer, can’t quite see them. When I leave the garden at night to a stem art, poetry, and music for generations. Through the lifespan of of green tomatoes and return in the morning to a stem of red these beautiful lives, we learn a bit about the transformations ones, I am charmed by the transformation that happened without that are happening both around and within us. The chrysalis my observing. My tongue, too, is delighted by the burst of sweet- looks like it is constant, steady, nearly unchanging until the last ness of my first ripe tomato each morning. When I plant seeds in day when it becomes almost translucent. We know, however, the rich soil and days later see their first stretchings toward the that what entered the chrysalis is entirely different from what sun, I am enchanted. Somehow, all of a sudden and yet with infini- emerges. Those infinitesimal changes give birth to something tesimal slowness, transformation happens. entirely new. Another miraculous transformation is happening in the Honey As I observe these transformations around me, I am encour- House at this moment. Hanging on a parsley stem by a perfectly aged to look within. What tiny changes are happening within placed, silky thin strand, is a chrysalis. S. Mary Lou Buser and I me? Am I willing to let go of myself – my ideas, thoughts, discovered the tiny black speck of a caterpillar weeks ago and beliefs, desires - to enter into the chrysalis of transforma- have been minding it and its three siblings ever since. When we tion? Am I willing to risk everything I’ve known myself to be harvested their parsley abode, we recognized that our lives were to become more fully who I am? I wonder, too, how we might intertwined. We were now responsible for these little lives. We do this as a community, allowing the slow work of God to watched as the tiny black specks matured into big, juicy caterpillars transform our lives together. After all, thousands of miraculous with clearly defined stripes of brilliant colors. Twice we noticed transformations are occurring at every moment; we are sur- waves moving through the caterpillar that caused its whole body rounded by them, and they are within us. to pulse. As we observed, we saw it wrap itself in something that Oh look… a butterfly! 24