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Done And Over With BY LARRY GORDON Yochanan Gordon 15 World Of Real Estate Israel Squeeze Play Anessa V. Cohen 24 Who would have thought in the New York Times and MindBiz that the Olympics, the other leading newspapers Esther Mann, LMSW 34 upcoming political conven- since Vladimir Putin set his tions, and a little war between military sights on his neigh- New Guy On The Block Russia and Georgia (in the boring state of Georgia. Hannah Reich Berman 46 former Soviet Union) would I scour some of these have been a boon for Israel newspapers just about every P

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Minister Olmert and his co- what’s going on in Israel. g e conspirators, both here in the Usually, as you know, the s Campers at the one and only Simcha Day Camp in Far Rockaway enjoying U.S. and in Israel, have only the annual Simcha carnival (L–R): Yehuda Weiss, Moishe Frishman, been allowed minimal space Continued on Page 10 Yitzchak Wolnerman, Dovid Nitekman, and Uri Ash. RETURN TO TBILISI: KIRUV HEARD IN THE BAGEL STORE IN OCCUPIED GEORGIA Meet Mike Huckabee BY RABBI Sefer Torah in memory of BY LARRY GORDON YAIR HOFFMAN Michael Cooper, a’h. See Page 45 With the developing politi- He looks straight ahead cal situation in Georgia, how is without wincing or fidgeting the Jewish community faring and says, “It would be a mis- in that country and in its capi- take for Israel to surrender tal city of Tbilisi? The Five even an inch of territory.” This Towns Jewish Times contacted is not some unreasonable, At the Kidmat Zion neighborhood the staff members of the Vaad radical opinion from some (with the separation fence in the LeHatzolas Nidchei Yisroel rightist website or personality. background), Daniel Luria (R) from working on the ground in Judaism lives on in Georgia, This is what I was hearing in a the Jerusalem Reclamation Project Tbilisi. We spoke with both the formerly a state of the Soviet Union. face-to-face conversation with and Assemblyman Dov Hikind with Chief Rabbi, who heads the former Republican candidate Governor Huckabee. Vaad operations in Georgia, as Continued on Page 14 and once front-runner (for a Continued on Page 6

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i individuals. They are Yeshiva closed this week, it was a CANDLE LIGHTING Jewish-Polish youths, most of them in their twenties, with their certificates of World News (theyeshivaworld miracle that the right person August 22 – 7:23 PM completion at the Shavei Israel seminar in Jerusalem. .com) and Vos Iz Neias? was there to ensure that the August 29 – 7:13 PM They come from various cities in Poland, including Krakow, Lodz, Lublin, Przemysl, Wroclaw, Zawiercie, and Warsaw. See Page 38 Continued on Page 18 Continued on Page 8 2 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 3 4 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 5 HEARD IN THE BAGEL STORE Neck, N.Y. Dov Hikind, Continued from Front Cover Shani’s husband and activist New York State assembly- while, anyway) for his party’s man, also accompanied the nomination to be President of four on the trip to Israel. the United States—Governor Huckabee is smooth and Mike Huckabee. relaxed; he speaks in a matter- I met with Governor of-fact fashion and with con- Huckabee in the King David viction. Now as a private citi- Lounge of El Al Airlines at zen—no longer the candidate JFK Airport last Sunday and no longer governor of afternoon, about two hours Arkansas—he travels alone prior to his leaving for a and without anyone even rec- whirlwind two-day trip to ognizing him, despite the fact Israel. The meeting and the that he was touted as the pos- trip to Israel were arranged sible future of America in by the office of Ateret countless publications and on Kohanim–The Jerusalem TV screens around the world. Reclamation Project and its But, of course, that was director, Shani Hikind, months ago. along with board members Now he was off to Israel, At the Kidmat Zion neighborhood (with the Temple Mount in the background), Assemblyman Dov Hikind (at right), Drs. Joe Frager of Queens partly because of his associa- Governor Mike Huckabee (center) and Dr. Joseph Frager, chairman of the Jerusalem Reclamation Project. and Paul Brody of Great tion with the Jerusalem Reclamation Project after appearing as guest speaker at the organization’s annual dinner, in Manhattan last June. Mr. Huckabee is hard- ly a novice when it comes to visiting Israel, as is the case with so many other political personalities professing closeness and support for the State of Israel. This week’s visit was the gover- nor’s tenth. His first was as an 18-year-old student, he says, in July 1973, just a few months prior to the outbreak of the Yom Kippur War. “I don’t know what my parents were thinking at the time,” Mr. Huckabee says, “but I spent the summer there with a friend from school and it was one of my most wonder- ful experiences.” Frankly, I was both intrigued and amazed by some of Huckabee’s state- ments, and I asked him whether or not he would have been able to maintain these positions through the general election and in office—primarily on the issue of Israeli withdrawal from territory from which everyone involved (the Israelis more than most) seems to agree they should withdraw from. “I see the idea of Israel giving up land as Israel surrendering secu- rity, and a sovereign country just does not do that today,” he said. On the subject of last week’s proposal that Israel award 93 percent of Judea and Samaria to a new Palestinian state, Governor Huckabee said he was amazed at the proposal but also pleased that the deal was turned down by the PA presi- dent, Mahmoud Abbas. Shifting to the subject of the Israeli idea that Abbas pres- ents Israel with what might be a final opportunity for peace with a Palestinian leader for some time to come, Mr. Huckabee added that he 6 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES

thought the Abbas leadership left a from so many other Americans, but great deal to be desired, and that there are the issues that make political is indeed a great vacuum at the top in leaders take note. the Palestinian Authority leadership Of course, Christian support for infrastructure. Israel is based on their interpreta- Assemblyman Hikind—who, along tion of the prophets, which requires with his wife Shani, Dr. Frager, and that the Jewish People experience a Dr. Brody of JRP, is chaperoning mass ingathering to the Land of Governor Huckabee on the trip—said Israel prior to the “reappearance of that he was looking forward to “walk- the messiah” in whom the Christians ing the streets of Jerusalem with a believe. Still, some maintain that

Mike Huckabee states unequivocally that his interest in and closeness to Israel transcends any religious considerations.

great friend like Mike Huckabee.” their motivation for supporting Indeed, prior to getting involved in Israel should not be the focus, par- politics—eventually becoming gover- ticularly at a time when Israel can nor of Arkansas and then a candidate use all the support it can possibly for president—Mike Huckabee main- find. Many in Israel and even here in tained an active career as a popular the American Jewish community are preacher and leader of a church com- split over the issue of Christian sup- munity and motivational speaker in port for Israel. It was clear, though, his home state. As for so many other that around the small table in the Christians in the United States and first-class lounge at El Al, the their leaders, their support for the nuances or motivations of Mr. Jewish people, the State of Israel, and Huckabee’s support for Israel was things like an undivided Jerusalem are not just what sets them apart Continued on Page 11

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 7 Cheese Yoel. It would also have caused a loss Continued from Front Cover of some 50–80 jobs in Ogdensburg. Thirdly, it would have affected plant continue to supply the upstate dairy farmers significantly in Orthodox Jewish market with chalav that Ahava is a major purchaser of Yisrael product. locally produced milk. Arthur J. Sciorra, the city manager of The City of Ogdensburg, New York Ogdensburg, New York, experienced is located in Northern New York on the kosher food firsthand when he dormed St. Lawrence River border with in a home with two yeshiva students Canada. It has a port and an interna- while he pursued his graduate studies. tional airport. Ogdensburg is home to “I basically only ate kosher for two years approximately 12,000 people, accord- of my life, and I remember the Sabbath ing to the 2000 census report. meals and Pesach Seders,” Mr. Sciorra Mr. Sciorra, the city manager, acted

The city is committed to making sure that the plant stays open.

told the Five Towns Jewish Times. resolutely and responsibly by acquiring The Ahava Cheese plant known as the Ahava kosher cheese plant. This the “St. Lawrence Food Corp.” went move, in essence, saved the company into Chapter Eleven bankruptcy protec- because the city is committed to mak- tion in April of this year, and owes cred- ing sure that the plant stays open. “We itors somewhere between $11 million also need a specialized niche market and $50 million. “The creditors were for this cheese, because there is no way planning to sell the plant machinery for that a small plant in upstate New York five cents on the dollar to recoup their would be able to compete with such investment,” reported the city manager. industry giants as Kraft Cheese. The Signature Bank of New York is seeking kosher market provides the perfect some $11 million. niche market so that this plant could Such a move would have caused a survive. “Chalav Yisrael cheese prices significant price hike in the chalav are quite high as is, with a 108-slice Yisrael cheese market, affecting block of cheese reaching some $19 per prices from Far Rockaway to Kiryas block. “Prices are higher than they

8 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES have ever been, and the market could Cedarhurst. It is evident from here not have tolerated the closing of one of that municipal tax liens always super- the three major chalav Yisrael suppli- sede private liens of any sort and can ers,” said a shopper at the Brach’s be acted upon with extreme swiftness supermarket in Lawrence. if need be. That is why in 99 percent of Higher prices for chalav Yisrael cases lenders escrow for real estate would affect all kosher consumers of taxes to avoid the precise scenario that other products too. For example, most occurred here.” Paradigm Funding is a pizza stores exclusively use chalav nationally recognized real estate lend- Yisrael cheese in their pizzas. “The ing firm. price per pound of wholesale chalav Although the banks lost out on this Yisrael cheese for pizza is about $3.55 one, the people in the city of now. Although we do not use Ahava, it Ogdensburg clearly gained. There are has always been about $0.50 less per still numerous hurdles that must be pound than their competition,” overcome to ensure that things will explained Izzy Nakar, manager of work out best for all parties involved. Jerusalem Kosher Pizza on Central “The city, of course, is not in the busi- Avenue in Lawrence. ness of producing chalav Yisrael The Ahava plant is located at 30 Main cheese, or any cheese, for that matter,” Street in Ogdensburg. The city is now explained Mr. Sciorra. Some sort of the owner of record of the land, the rental arrangement will have to be building, and the highly sophisticated worked out between the city and Ahava machinery in the plant itself. The cheese or whatever entity will continue run- product is still being delivered, the dairy ning the plant. In the meantime, the farmers are selling their milk, and the cit- city of Ogdensburg is loaning the plant izens of Ogdensburg employed at the to Mr. Banayan. O plant still have their jobs. The kosher supervisions are also still in place. How did the city acquire ownership of the plant when there were big, expe- rienced, banks trying to foreclose? “We WHAT’S YOUR OPINION? utilized what is known as a tax lien for- feiture. The company owed approxi- mately $60,000 in taxes. I merely filed WE WANT TO KNOW! the papers on behalf of the city,” explained Mr. Sciorra. “The essential E-MAIL US AT issue at play here is that a city, any city, can move much faster than a bank [email protected] when it comes to filing papers and foreclosing,” said Michael Edery, owner of Paradigm Funding based in

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 9 FROM THE EDITOR between Israel and the Palestinians FEATURES Continued from Front Cover that has long ago dried up. It was only a bit more than a week reports are negative or at best critical ago that Ms. Rice said that, despite the Around The Five Towns 35 P.O. BOX 690 LAWRENCE, NY 11559 of whatever it is that Israeli official- difficulties, she believed that an agree- 516-984-0079 dom is up to. Today, however, we are ment between the parties and a peace Ask The Sensei [email protected] [email protected] in an unusual period, as we face the agreement that calls for the creation of Warren Levi 55 end of one governing administration a Palestinian state was still possible. LARRY GORDON ESTA J. GORDON Publisher/Editor Managing Editor here in the U.S. and the demise of Mr. That was until Mr. Putin ordered Book Review YOSSI GORDON, YOCHANAN GORDON Olmert’s very underwhelming political the engines started on his tanks and Fern Sidman 50 Sales Managers career in Israel. warplanes and headed them in the CHANA ROCHEL ROSS Olmert’s political as well as legal direction of Gori. All of a sudden Ms. Classified Ads 64 Editorial Assistant problems have not stopped him from Rice seems to have forgotten where SIDI BARON pursuing what apparently is his pas- Ramallah and even Jerusalem are. Oh, Five Towns Simcha YAKOV SERLE Ira Thomas Creations 70 JERRY MARKOVITZ Sales Representatives Halachic Musings SHMUEL GERBER MICHELE JUSTIC Rabbi Yair Hoffman 17 Chief Copy Editor Copy Editor Oh my, Mr. Putin decided to go CONTRIBUTING EDITORS Insights On The Torah Irwin H. Benjamin, Hannah Reich Berman Anessa V. Cohen, Rabbi Aryeh Z. Ginzberg Rabbi Yanki Tauber 22 Toby Klein Greenwald, Michele Herenstein and try to steal a country. Oops! Chevrah Lomdei Mishnah 33 Rabbi Yair Hoffman, Miriam Horowitz Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky Letters To The Editor 23 Shmuel Katz, Phyllis J. Lubin, Esther Mann Rochelle Miller, Martin Mushell, Naomi Ross Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow, Eli Shapiro, Ari Sher sionate desire for “peace” or at least a my—she must have thought—while Luach 19 MICHAL WEINSTEIN, BINYAMIN RHODES final and most likely vain attempt at she was pushing and cajoling two of DOV GORDON some personal glory as he makes the the weakest leaders in the world to do MindBiz Staff Graphic Artists transition from his high-profile posi- things that are not in either of their Esther Mann, LMSW 34 IVAN NORMAN, IRA THOMAS tion as Israel’s leader to trying to nego- people’s interests, Mr. Putin decided to Staff Photographers tiate a plea agreement that keeps him go and try to steal a country. Oops! Mother’s Musings FRANKEL & CO. out of jail. Not only that, but while Mr. Putin Phyllis J. Lubin 16 Design & Production The curious thing about this was reminding the world of what it TALIYE CORLEY process is that Olmert’s demise as used to be like in the old Soviet Union Real Estate Art Director prime minister, his serious legal days—when they routinely flexed their Anessa V. Cohen 24 SUZETTE LEE problems, and his lack of popularity military muscle in various parts of the Assistant Art Director at home has not stopped President world—the media seemed to have That’s The Way It Is! The Five Towns Jewish Times is an independent weekly news- Bush or his emissary, Secretary Rice, momentarily forgotten all about Israel Hannah Reich Berman 46 paper. Opinions expressed by writers and columnists are not necessarily those of the editor or publisher. We are not from trying to squeeze the last drops responsible for the kashrus or hashgachah of any product or of diplomacy out of a process Continued on Page 12 establishment advertised in the Five Towns Jewish Times.

10 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES HEARD IN THE BAGEL STORE decision-making process of his Continued from Page 7 administration if Mr. McCain wins the presidency in November. not an issue. Asked about why even the Bush Mike Huckabee states unequivo- administration has as the linchpin cally that his interest in and close- of its policy toward Israel the need ness to Israel transcends in a signifi- to withdraw from territory, Mr. cant way any religious considera- Huckabee looks straight at his tions. “Listen,” he says, “Israel is the interviewer and says, “Foreign poli- only true democratic state in the cy has been wrong before.” About Middle East and a country whose cit- his campaign for the presidency and izens share the values and priorities how he was a front-runner for a of American citizens. We can under- short time, he says he feels that it stand and relate to one another; we was because he was right on target share many priorities and have many on so many issues. Governor common interests.” Huckabee says that he felt that the In the aftermath of his campaign people in the heartland of America for the Republican nomination, Mr. were able to relate to the themes Huckabee has signed on with the that were sounded in his campaign. Fox News Network as a commenta- “I may have been the first of the tor to cover the political convention candidates to talk forcefully about that will get under way next week. our need for energy independence, Despite his move into journalism and I was the first to say that the (Huckabee has written a number of way things were going, our economy books on various subjects), he is was in trouble,” he said. still mentioned as a possible selec- While Governor Huckabee was in tion to run as the vice-presidential Israel for only two days this week, candidate in Senator John McCain’s there’s no doubt that what he saw campaign. reinforced his previous feelings and However that scenario plays itself will also have a lasting impact on out in the coming weeks, there is him and any influence he may have definitely a very good chance that on the next Republican administra- Mike Huckabee will end up serving tion. Clearly he’s a close friend of in some capacity in a future McCain Israel and the Jewish People as well administration. And that’s an addi- as a rising star on the American tional reason why contacts at the political landscape. These days—as grassroots level are so very impor- always, I suppose—that’s an impor- tant. Of course, it remains to be seen tant combination. O if that happens and how Mr. Huckabee’s warm feelings toward Comments for Larry Gordon are welcome at Israel will have an impact on the [email protected].

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 11 FROM THE EDITOR organization only represent the possibly be the man to achieve the the Middle East in a cloud of dust. The Continued from Page 10 Palestinians who reside on the West breakthrough needed to bring peace new project is bringing Putin of Russia Bank and in Jerusalem and that the to Israel and her neighbors? I believe and Saakashvili of Georgia together— and the urgent need for Middle East terrorist Hamas organization is in con- that sense dictates that Washington two other guys who can’t stand each peace. All of a sudden, one could not trol of over a million Arabs in the Gaza ease up on the pressure and forget other but whom the U.S. hopes to find any coverage about what was until Strip. About this the Times writes, “A about getting anything done there bring together in peace. O a few days prior—according to the way must be found to help turn Hamas until after the next administration is Comments for Larry Gordon are welcome at extent of the reporting—one of the into a legitimate and acceptable nego- comfortable in office. After all, we [email protected]. most important stories in the world tiating partner.” want to get this right, and if that (aside from Michael Phelps being such Well, maybe Israel can engage means waiting another year or two, an excellent swimmer). Hamas in talks so that Abbas and then so be it. It’s easy to get the feeling that Fatah become irrelevant. Perhaps it I know that Bush and Rice as well when there is any foreign-policy dis- makes more sense to have a new and as Olmert are legacy-shopping right And you will perish traction and there is literally no improved Hamas take over the West now and are in the desperate hunt room in the international-news sec- Bank, too, if in fact they can some- for a foreign-policy accomplishment quickly from off the tions of the papers to report on how how be reconstituted into an accept- that they can display to the world. good land which G-d Israel is abusing innocent Arabs, ele- able peace partner, as the Times sug- But you can rest assured it’s not ments in the Times hierarchy must gests. After all, how many peace going to happen in Israel—even gives you. And you be editorially hyperventilating. partners does Israel need—three, though Israelis, as usual, would love shall place these Fortunately, for them, they broke maybe more? to be accommodating to whoever their silence this past Monday in a I find it even more interesting needs to be accommodated. In fact, words of Mine lead editorial entitled “Perils of an that—after so many other presidents Ms. Rice recently declared that she (Devarim 11:17-18) Israeli Tradition.” have failed in this area—the Times wanted an agreement sewn up In the piece, they described and writes that President Bush “could between Abbas and Olmert before Also after you are exiled, explained what they feel should hap- bring some luster to his disastrous the UN General Assembly meets in pen between now and when Mr. legacy if he truly engaged in the September in New York. That’s an you must distinguish your- Olmert leaves the political stage in (Middle East) peace effort.” I was ambitious and unrealistic goal but, selves with the mitzvot: put September (though there are doubts intrigued most of all by those few what kind of peace can a prime min- on tefillin, make mezuzos, whether he will go quietly) and the words. Obviously, Middle East peace ister deliver while under criminal end of the Bush administration in is a sensitive and difficult thing to indictment anyway? so that these will not be January 2009. How do intelligent achieve. Why would anyone want or And then Putin sent his planes over new to you when you people like those who editorialize for even trust a president who has Tbilisi and as a result Israel got the New York Times come up with the presided over one disaster after squeezed out of the papers for over a return.Thus [the prophet] idea that two politically wounded another—according to the Times— week. Did the president and Ms. Rice says (Yirmiyah 31:20): and unpopular leaders like Olmert with such a nearly impossible task come to the realization that there may “Establish for yourself and Abbas can conclude a peace deal as getting an agreement signed and be a new opportunity here? Maybe between them when no one really solidified between Israelis and there is no hope of producing anything signs.” takes them seriously? Palestinians? substantive between Olmert and Yes, the Times does point out that How can a president who messed Abbas. But now there is a new foreign- (Sifri; Rashi) there is a small technical problem up the Iraq as well as the policy opportunity here that might inasmuch as Mr. Abbas and his Fatah Afghanistan and Pakistan projects help their legacy but would also leave

12 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 13 Kiruv In Georgia church and by the Muslims—how do Continued from Front Cover they have so much mesirus nefesh for Torah, and millions never even consid- well as with the sh’lichim themselves. ered conversion or to succumb to the The Vaad LeHatzolas Nidchei Yisroel pressure? The answer is that they has the backing of the gedolei Yisrael, could never even fathom another and their programs in Georgia have lifestyle other than the Torah way of been visited by Rav Matisyahu life. The same can be said about our Salomon, the Novominsker Rebbe, Rav sh’lichim; they cannot even fathom any Feivel Cohen, and Rav Moshe Shapiro, way of life other than kiruv.” shlita. Much of the work that has been After the invasion by Russia, and done has, in fact, been destroyed. the near destruction of the city of Avimelech Rozenblat, one of the Gori, most of the sh’lichim evacuated Vaad’s sh’lichim, told us about what is the country and went to Israel. happening in the city of Gori, which Thousands of Jewish residents of lies some 60 kilometers from Tbilisi Georgia also made the trip to Israel. (and which is the birthplace of Joseph On Tuesday, however, the Vaad’s Stalin): “There was a Jewish communi- sh’lichim made the extraordinary deci- ty in Gori and we had kiruv efforts sion to return to Tbilisi. there. A building was being purchased Children in the country of Georgia celebrating and observing their religious Jewish heritage. “They did not wish to remain in so that we could build a new mikveh in Israel while watching their country- Gori. Now that Russia had bombed men suffer,” said Rabbi Baruch Lovett, Gori, 99 percent of the Jewish resi- munity leaders traveled to Georgia cantly, and the demand for kosher the executive director of the Vaad dents of Gori have fled to Tbilisi. under the auspices of the Vaad meat grew. Rabbi Levin himself LeHatzolas Nidchei Yisroel central Many are being cared for by the Vaad. LeHatzolas Nidchei Yisroel to promote learned shechitah from Avrohom Tzvi headquarters in Brooklyn. Rabbi Aryeh This is one of the reasons that we have Torah education. Indeed, the Georgian Malkin. “He was a tremendous tzaddik Levin, the Chief Rabbi of Georgia, returned here. Now, however, we can- Chief Rabbi himself, Rabbi Ariel who gave selflessly of himself for elaborated: “They left when they saw not continue the mikveh project. But it Levin, was himself the beneficiary of Yiddishkeit.” that there was no longer a danger in is our hope that the project will contin- these early kiruv efforts. “I became a The founder of the Vaad LeHotzalas Tbilisi. Even though there are political ue when Jewish life returns to Gori.” ba’al teshuvah at the age of nineteen,” Nidchei Yisroel, Rabbi Mordechai problems—and it appears from the lat- Most commercial airlines, of Rabbi Levin related. He began his Neustadt, was heavily involved in est reports that the Russians are not course, no longer fly to Georgia. There studies under Rabbi Moshe Eisemann these kiruv efforts himself. At the leaving—our sh’lichim could not wait is, however, a Georgian airline that is of Baltimore, who had come to recent Sinai Academy dinner, Rabbi to get back on the plane.” still flying. Avimelech and Yulia Georgia. Rabbi Aviezer Wallstone and Aryeh Katzin, dean of Sinai Academy Why, indeed, have the sh’lichim Rozenblat were on this flight Tuesday. Rabbi Mordechai Aurbach from in Brooklyn, described how Rabbi returned to the lion’s den? “I have an “Understandably, our flight was almost Toronto continued his education. Neustadt once smuggled four pairs of explanation of this based upon Jewish empty,” explained Rabbi Rozenblat. Married at 26, he and his wife began tefillin into Communist Russia. “But history,” continued the Chief Rabbi. The history of kiruv efforts in their kiruv efforts by placing signs in why do you need four pairs?” asked the “How could it be that Jews—who Georgia is truly amazing. Even during shuls indicating that whoever wished Communist customs official. Rabbi throughout their history have been the apogee of Communist rule, brave to learn Torah could come join their persecuted for so many years by the yeshiva students, rabbanim, and com- sessions. Kiruv efforts grew signifi- Continued on Page 21

14 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES surprised if I were to come across it. form of preparation to learn the laws We have to realize that we created of the Beis HaMikdash and how the Done And Over With the need to fast. The Temple was kohanim conducted their daily obliga- destroyed because of our sins. And if tions in and around the Beis BY YOCHANAN GORDON from the end of one occasion to the you think that you were not involved, I HaMikdash specifically during this start of another is not good. As wait- would say to think again for“Every gen- time, but being that it is obligatory and Prior to the holidays (or any other ing too long at a train station makes eration that does not rebuild the expected of us to rebuild the Temple in meaningful juncture throughout the one more susceptible to being robbed, Temple is responsible for its destruc- our days, we should learn the laws of year), there certainly is no shortage of just waiting around can rob us of our tion,” as Rambam writes in Hilchos the Temple on a daily basis as our bid articles and speeches to help us in time—and once time is taken, it is Beis HaBechirah. towards actually achieving that goal. preparing morally and mentally to never returned. On that note, what is In my article titled “Change” This will also enable us to recite the make the most of that time. However, our approach to having recently twice (August 8, 5TJT), I mentioned the korbanos every day before davening perhaps more important than being fasted and mourned over the siege of advice of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, with more concentration and really prepared coming in, we really have to Jerusalem and the destruction of the o.b.m., to learn the halachos of Beis bring to life how the Jews lived during know how to carry on with our lives those days. after these spiritual rendezvous have Now, we really have to focus on passed by. showing G-d that after sitting on the I used to be a pretty serious sports floor lamenting all the tragedies that fan. I say “used to” because I find befell our people during these weeks that lately I have been tuned out to People often treat fasting the same throughout our history, we have an what is really going on. From time to interest in moving on. We have to time out of curiosity I will check the way they would overcoming a prove in our own lives that we’ve had Mets homepage to see how they did enough sadness and mourning and the night before and how the stand- that it is not a necessary component ings look in general. However, during hurdle of some sort. toward making us focus on things that the years when sports played a pivotal really matter and make a difference in role in my life, it was kind of sadden- life. Because if not, then we may have ing when the baseball season would survived the fast, but its message has end in September. Being a Mets fan Temple in a three-week period which HaBechirah to become more familiar not yet seeped in. meant that the end of the season began with the seventeenth of with the Beis HaMikdash. We need to When we complete the Pesach came, more times than not, at the Tammuz and ended with the ninth of review what it means to us as a peo- Seder and say “Next year in end of the regular season. This meant Av? ple—not only on a practical level, but Jerusalem,” is it said with any measure having to wait longer for any poten- People often treat fasting the same as an edifice which acted as the heart of excitement? Or is it said tiredly, as tial victories, which made matters way they would overcoming a hurdle of the people. The Beis HaMikdash we are on our way to bed for the night? kind of dull. or a momentous achievement of some was the place where Heaven met After reading about the backbreaking Needless to say, it is never con- sort. There used to be a popular Earth; it was indeed Heaven on Earth. slave labor that our ancestors endured structive to let valuable time pass by. bumper sticker, “This car climbed How could we expect to have feelings over a period of 210 years with Indeed, all time is valuable and there Mount Washington.” I have yet to see for something that we know nothing insights, stories, and commentary last- are ways to utilize our time in a most one that reads “I survived Yom Kippur,” about? constructive manner. Just waiting but I cannot say I would be all that Not only would it be an effective Continued on Page 20

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 15 came forward with their own stories to share with me. One of my obstetri- Another Mother’s Musings cians had an autistic child and was empathizing with me; another of my friends had a developmentally out by the nurse to be on the safe side. was reassured constantly that the baby delayed sister and was sharing her Memories What started out as merely feeling was “fine,” I was finally able to breathe past with me. The list goes on and on. BY PHYLLIS J. LUBIN “wrong” turned into a two-day stay in the easy. I went home, unsure of my own I remember thinking that these peo- hospital. I had something called tachy- health, but more confident that the ple—these parents and siblings— The summer is a difficult time to be cardia, a fast heart rate. Apparently my baby was “fine.” don’t look any different. They don’t expecting, as the heat and humidity heart rate never went below 120, even The last weeks of camp went look like they have a special-needs make things a tad tougher on the body. while completely at rest. Evidently it was smoothly, while I drank my water and child or sibling! Shouldn’t they? I Being nine months pregnant in the much higher when I was first brought in. played hooky from my afternoon job a never would have guessed it! summer while working as a lifeguard I had various doctors, nurses, and med- couple of days a week. Thinking back to that time, it seems makes things even a bit trickier. ical interns swarming by my hospital bed I actually gave birth to Yosef like it was yesterday, yet it also seems like It was the summer of 2000 and my trying to diagnose the problem. Binyamin Lubin on the last day of it was a lifetime ago. A lifetime has family was a bit nervous for me to be Interestingly enough, while there was camp, August 23, 2000. We were so passed since August 23, 2000. A lifetime working outside in the sun all day while concern for my heart and my well-being, relieved and excited! After three sis- of surgeries, hospitalizations, procedures, having to teach little ones to swim. In I was constantly reassured that the ters we finally had a brother for schools, therapies, early intervention, addition, I had just returned to work at baby’s heart rate was completely normal Naftali, my eldest son—an adorable CPSEs, CSEs, trips to places I had never a law firm in November 1999, and I and stable and that my tachycardia was baby boy with brown hair and a cute gone before. And great discoveries along wasn’t sure my office was prepared for not affecting the baby at all! After a bat- chubby face! the way: new friends, new thoughts, new me to be missing the entire summer. tery of tests, I was finally discharged After we were left by ourselves to ideas, new perspectives on life. But I loved my camp job, so we com- from the hospital with no real medical make a few phone calls to my parents I’m remembering back to some- promised: swim instruction in the a.m. conclusion other than dehydration. and in-laws and some close friends, thing one of my “new friends” said oh and law in the p.m. I thought it was I returned to camp on strict instruc- the doctor returned with some shock- so many years ago when Yussie was the perfect mix—as soon as I felt too tions to stay hydrated. ing news: she had “concerns” that this only a few weeks old: “We are lucky hot at the pool, it was time to go to my To be honest, from the moment it baby had Down syndrome. with our children. Our children have air-conditioned office. And I really was determined that I was expecting “How dare she give us such news the ‘Cadillac of disabilities.’” Not never had an opportunity to be that at the age of 35 I was scared. That when we are so happy!” I remember something that will confuse other hot, since I spent most of my morning magical age when the higher inci- thinking. “What is she talking people or doctors; in one glance you staying wet in the cool pools. That is, dence of trisomy 21 appears loomed about…slanted eyes…Naftali had know our children are “special.” And until the end of July when I just woke over my head. We opted against an the same eyes at birth…” I said to my yet we still have to fight to defend our up one morning feeling “wrong.” I pro- amniocentesis since we felt that it husband. And so our disbelief con- children’s rights to be “normal.” To ceeded on to camp thinking that the wouldn’t alter our actions, and with tinued until our pediatrician con- not be ostracized from other kids or “wrong” feeling would pass. any invasive testing there is a higher firmed our fears that night and ignorant adults. Unfortunately it didn’t. After an hour incidence of miscarriage. referred us to the cardiologist. For We are blessed to be living in a time of at the pool, I told the head lifeguard (my And so, instead, I feared “the out- not only was our beautiful child enlightenment. “Special needs” children friend since childhood) that I didn’t feel come” for almost nine months! At that doomed with a developmental delay, are more accepted by the mainstream well and that I thought I should go point, though, when I was “feeling he had a heart defect, as well. home. She suggested that I get checked wrong” in the hospital that July, and I Then, somehow, many people Continued on Page 20

16 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES When A Nightmare Becomes A Nightmare

Halachic Musings Berurah) that one only performs this both codify hatavas chalom as norma- fearing G-d is to fear nothing else BY RABBI YAIR HOFFMAN “hatavas chalom” ceremony when tive halachah. It is interesting to note, but G-d. one has a disturbing dream and is however, that both the Rif and the Perhaps this, then, is the answer The origin of the word nightmare anxious about it. In other words, if Rambam leave out this halachah to our elusive Rambam and Rif. The is rather interesting. The “mare” has the dream does not bother, upset, or entirely. If rectifying a dream is Klausenberger Rebbe writes that the nothing to do with a female horse. disturb the person, there is no need pikuach nefesh, then why would the Rambam purposefully obscured the Rather, according to the Oxford or mitzvah to perform the ceremony. Rif and Rambam leave out this impor- sections of the Talmud that might English Dictionary, it comes from However, if one is indeed anxious tant halachah? appear to the uneducated Egyptian Old English maere. In 1300, the about it, it seems that performing a The fact is that Chazal tell us that Jew as superstitious. He explains word nigt-mare referred to an evil that the Mishneh Torah was written spirit or goblin that would rest on the in the socio-religious milieu of a sleeper’s chest and cause a feeling of The one who had the dream should Jewish society steeped in the super- suffocation. By the 19th century, stitions of the surrounding Egyptian “nightmare” was used to describe a gentile populace. Perhaps we can bad dream in general. describe the dream and they should apply this reasoning here. Including Nightmares are a common response the section on hatavas chalom might to a traumatic event, whether we are cause the reader to rationalize that aware of them or not. Nightmares are attempt to interpret the dream it is proper to be scared of dreams also one symptom of post-traumatic and nightmares. This in turn may stress disorder. Nightmares can be positively, or reframe the dream. cause him or her to fear things other intense, and they can become frequent than Hashem. Since yiras and repetitive. Shamayim, fear of Heaven, is a fun- Is this something that one should damental of Judaism, the Rambam just accept and live with, or is there hatavas chalom is in fact mandatory. most dreams are nonsense and of no might have decided to leave out this something that can be done? What is It is described as having a pikuach consequence. Indeed, King Solomon section. (The same rationale can be the view of all this in the eyes of Jewish nefesh aspect to it by the poskim (see writes in Koheles (5:2), “For a dream applied to the Rif’s omission of this law? There is a fascinating passage in Knesses HaGedolah on Orach comes from too much concern, and section.) The Talmud included it, the Talmud (Berachos 55b) where Chayim ch. 288; see also the Eliyahu foolish talk from many words.” The however, because the socio-religious Rabbi Pedas cites a ruling in the name Rabba, Orach Chayim, ch. 220, para. Aruch HaShulchan writes (O.C. climate was vastly superior to that of of Rav Yochanan: If one has had a bad 1). The idea of rectifying a bad 220:4) that a person should try to the Rambam’s. dream, he should rectify it in front of dream is so important that it is even pay no heed to bad dreams and Notwithstanding all of the above, three people. permitted to perform the ceremony nightmares. Rather, he suggests that if one is undergoing anxiety on It seems from the commentaries on Shabbos, according to most a person place his faith in Hashem account of nightmares and bad to the Shulchan Aruch (See Drisha poskim. (There is an opinion that it and fear nothing else but Hashem. dreams then, as stated earlier, one is to Orach Chayim 220, the P’ri is forbidden on Shabbos—see Tzitz We also find that the author of the obligated in performing the hatavas Megadim in his Eishel Avraham com- Eliezer Vol. XIII No. 36.) Shev Shmaitsah writes in his intro- mentary No. 1, and the Mishnah The Rosh and the Shulchan Aruch duction that the highest level of Continued on Page 19

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 17 Give You The World Stories from these sites have attracted report that many advertisers are simply leaders. Continued from Front Cover the attention of newspapers throughout not comfortable dealing with anony- What about Yeshiva World News? New York, including the great gray lady, mous people—and the site owners do That website is run by one person, a (vosizneias.com), also known as VIN the New York Times herself. When the wish to remain anonymous. Flatbush resident who prefers to remain News. Somehow, some way, these two Times reported on the ban on the reli- Shlomo continued, “The Internet is anonymous, as well, but it seems most sites have managed to eclipse virtually gious Jewish concert, the information here to stay and will only get bigger. Is it people already know who he is and he is every other site in cyberspace for this came directly from Vos Iz Neias? (which a problem? Yes. No question. But do you not trying to keep it too secret. “E” is a particular niche. How did they do it? is Yiddish for “What’s news?”). The know how many organizations have hon- bit more discriminating in the news that What makes them unique? Monsey meat scandal that rocked the ored people that have made millions of he sees fit to post. There are more Their ability to ferret out news stories Torah community a few years ago also dollars on the Internet and then gave human-interest stories that are posted is pretty uncanny. A few years ago, many came directly from Vos Iz Neias. these organizations money, and then on that site, too. people who were interested in obtaining Who are the anonymous people they go on and ban the Internet? This is One Jewish media personality noted, Jewish news used to go to Google and behind Vos Iz Neias and Yeshiva World a joke.” From a technology perspective, “I have noticed that Yeshiva World News put in their favorite Jewish keywords: News? What is their underlying philoso- Vos Iz Neias is cutting-edge. Of the four will rarely print the name of an individ- “Israel,” “rabbi,” “Jewish,” “Hasidic,” etc. phy? Vos Iz Neias is run by four men and owners, two invest in technology compa- ual if the information is negative. For This was a means of obtaining news of backed by other investors. Two of the nies. The other two have various other example, in the high-profile cases of Jewish interest from thousands of news- leaders have a strong background in positions, one of them involving editing. abusers, YWN never mentioned the papers across the country and the world technology. Two are Chassidish, while The material that appears on the site names of those being accused. VIN that evaded the radar of the standard the other two would best be described as very often reflects the particular person News will be quicker to point out Jewish newspapers. Somehow, however, Modern Orthodox, but they are difficult who is manning the site at that particu- names.” This statement accurately con- these two websites were able to move to categorize. The two Chassidish own- lar time. Often readers will see traces, veys the philosophical differences way beyond this method. ers are from two different Chassidish allusions, and clues of a Chassidic brand between the two sites. Is their success something that other streams. One of the Chassidish owners of Yinglish, while at other times they will Are there differences in the reader- businesses, no matter what the industry, told the Five Towns Jewish Times, “Vos Iz see highly sophisticated writing. ship that may be discerned from the could emulate? Is there something that Neias is not afraid to say things the way What prompted the idea of starting the comments posted on their sites? may be learned from them? We set out they are. We do not censor the news. Vos site? “It started about two years ago. The Comments at Yeshiva World News reflect to discover what lies behind these sites. Iz Neias tries to cover real newsworthy community is missing a lot of real news a more Litvish readership than VIN The sheer dedication of the people events.” Although Johnny Cochran once that is going on. Many times, for example, News. Those that comment are general- who run these sites plays a central role argued that it is racist to state that a per- things appear in the secular media but ly supportive of the site but will at times in the dissemination of breaking Jewish son’s ethnicity can be determined just by people cannot express their frustration. find fault with the editorship of the site. news affecting the religious Jewish com- hearing their voice, the owner that we Here responses can be posted. The secu- To the credit of both Yeshiva World News munity. They never let five hours pass spoke to was clearly Chassidish. All four lar media distorts information to make and VIN News, they will publish intelli- without updating their sites. (This, of have noms de plume—this one is called the frum world look like meshugayim.” gent comments even when those com- course, has its advantages and disadvan- “Shlomo.” In describing what differenti- Behind the scenes, however, numer- ments reflect negatively on the site. tages. People are ever more attracted to ates Vos Iz Neias from other sites, ous people are supportive of what they Are there other sites that are attempt- the site, yet since so much new informa- Shlomo says, “We come out very strong- are doing. At times highly respected ing to bring news to the religious Jewish tion is added, important stories are ly on child abuse and other things that community leaders have forwarded community? A new site based in Hewlett pushed back and set aside. Also, some- other places would not talk about. The information to this website. They have is up and coming. Keep an eye on it—it times the accuracy of stories is not veri- story of the ‘Ponzi scheme’ was covered.” sent kudos to the owners as well. It has is called matzav.com. O fied to the extent that a print newspaper At this point, Vos Iz Neias is not a been verified that these e-mails and Ben Nathan may be reached at would verify it.) financially viable operation. The owners letters really came from community [email protected].

18 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES Nightmares this point when one embarks upon mentary makes this suggestion. the Knesses HaGedolah and Eliyahu Continued from Page 17 recitation of a hatavas chalom; the It would also seem that there are Rabbah, however, and it is thus per- Shechinah itself is present and thus two effects of the hatavas chalom. mitted on Shabbos.O chalom. It is good to perform the the rectification will most assuredly There is, of course, a mystical The author can be reached at hatavas chalom early in the morning, be more effective. dimension to the ceremony’s effect, [email protected]. on account of the concept of z’rizim There are other details about the but there is also a psychological makdimim l’mitzvos—loosely trans- ceremony, as well. The Magen dimension. It allows for a reframing lated as “those who are on the ball Avraham rules that when one per- of sorts, which will ease the anxiety. perform their mitzvos early.” There is forms the hatavah, he should endeav- This latter dimension is no less another opinion (that of the Drisha or to recall the dream that was important than the first. And it is WHAT’S YOUR OPINION? commentary on the Tur) that states dreamt. The text of the hatavas chalom perhaps the rationale for the opinion WE WANT TO KNOW! the ideal time is at the end of the ceremony is found in most siddurim. of those that permit it to be per- day, as one leaves the synagogue. Those that are rectifying the dream formed on Shabbos. How so? E-MAIL US AT The general consensus, however, is should tell the subject, “Go eat your According to the aforementioned in accordance with the first opinion. bread in joy and drink heartily.” Tzitz Eliezer, although all things are [email protected] Why should the hatavas chalom be The Meiri writes that after the three permitted on Shabbos for pikuach done in front of three people? The friends respond that it was a good nefesh, when life is at stake, this is OR UPLOAD Divrei Malkiel (Responsa Vol. II No. dream, the one who had the dream only true for physical cures; spiritu- YOUR COMMENTS AT 72) explains that the Shechinah does should describe the dream and they al cures are not permitted on not come to rest in a place where should attempt to interpret the dream Shabbos according to the Tzitz www.5tjt.com there are less than three people. It positively, or reframe the dream. It is Eliezer. The psychological dimen- seems that one should be aware of interesting to note that no other com- sion is a physical cure according to

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your minhag 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 19 Done And Over With year when as a family we yet surviving the holiday, but which you found yourself and If there is enough of a push, Continued from Page 15 again read the same story with about living it and wanting to everyone else in attendance the performer may choose to practically the same commen- live it forever. shouting for an encore. Three play another number—but he ing well past midnight, we tary, do we feel amazed that I’m sure most of you have hours of an emotionally has to feel the interest. If not, should certainly come out we are not in Jerusalem, hav- attended a memorable con- charging stellar performance why should he waste his time with a real feeling for redemp- ing asked for it the year cert at some point in your can make you feel like keep- and energy? Imagine sitting tion and freedom. The next before? Well, it is not about lives, the type of concert at ing that scenario alive forever. half asleep, you really want to leave, but halfheartedly you start mumbling, “encore, encore,” sounding as if you were already on your way to something else—chances are you would not change any- thing. To get an encore, you have to really want it. G-d really loves us and He wants to see us happy. He is waiting to give us everything that we need to succeed, and He certainly wants us redeemed so that He once again can rest His glory and splendor over Jerusalem with all of His children together once and for all. But we just have to show Him that we want it and we will not take no for an answer. The countdown to the High Holy Days is beginning. Before you know it we will be blowing the shofar—not to entertain the kids, but as a reminder for some serious introspection. It is another chance to ascend another rung on the ladder towards G-dliness. It is another oppor- tunity to get that much closer to reuniting with our ances- tors and the rebuilding of the Holy Temple speedily in our days, when we will achieve eternal joy without sorrow with the coming of Mashiach and our final redemption. O

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community. We do a service in fact to our community by satis- fying countless chesed hours of many of our youth, and by doing so, the “typical” youth of our community become more caring people. And so, as August 23 nears, I marvel at my young man. He is my “big boy.” He cares so much for his family and friends. And friends he surely has! He will greet almost everyone with a big hug. He helps me wake up his siblings every morning with a cheery “rise and shine,” and he begins almost every day with a big Yussie smile! Happy eighth birthday, Yosef Binyamin Lubin! May you always bring a smile to my face and make a difference with your pure soul in K’lal Yisrael always! O

Phyllis Joy Lubin is an attorney with Rosenfeld & Maidenbaum, LLP, who resides in Cedarhurst with her hus- band Leonard and six children: Naftali, Shoshana, Rivka, Rochel, Yosef, and Lea. She welcomes your questions and comments at [email protected]. 20 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES

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Neustadt answered, “One for Shabbos and one for weekdays.” The customs officer was perplexed: “But that is only two, why four?” Unflustered, Rabbi Neustadt responded, “Well, one set for me, and one for my wife.” Today, there are three shochtim for the entire coun- try of Georgia and two of them are sh’lichim for the Vaad LeHatzolas Nidchei Yisroel. The third shochet also works closely with the Vaad. The Vaad provides him with funds and trans- portation so that he can provide kosher meat for other communities through- out Georgia. “There are now four kosher stores in Tbilisi,” continued Rabbi Levin. “They provide meat not only for Tbilisi, but kosher consumers from across Georgia receive meat orders from these stores.” A Vaad sh’liach continued, “Our efforts are not limited to Tbilisi and Gori. In Azerbaijan, for example, there is a small city called Kuba [not to be con- fused with the Cuba south of the United States], which is mostly Jewish, with many tea houses. Tea houses in Azerbaijan are similar to beer houses in Germany. People sit there and talk from morning to evening drinking tea. We asked, ‘Why can’t our sh’lichim sit there and discuss Torah?’ We did this very successfully.” What is Jewish life like in Georgia? What about kosher food? Vaad sh’lichim receive a container shipment of food products each year before Pesach. “The container has an enor- mous amount of food, both for Pesach and throughout the year. We receive shemurah matzah, wine and grape juice, and chametz food, too. We sell the chametz food and buy it back after Pesach,” explained Rabbi Levin. What about other kosher eating habits? Is there, for example, kosher pizza available in Tbilisi? Rabbi Levin responded, “There is no kosher pizza, but in Georgia there is something very similar available. It is called chatcha- puri. It tastes very similar to pizza, but it is shaped somewhat like a boureka, although it tastes nothing like it. But, if introducing pizza will help our kiruv efforts, it may be a good idea.” O

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spective (Why am I here? What pur- G-dly souls. pose do I serve?) is the point at which The first of these is the grape, whose we cease to be just another animal in defining characteristic is joy. As the G-d’s world and begin to realize our grapevine describes its product in uniqueness as human beings. Yotam’s parable (Shof’tim 9:13), “my This is not to say that the animal wine, which makes joyous G-d and self is to be rejected in favor of the men.” Divine human self. These are our two Joy is revelation. A person ignited by souls, both of which are indispensable joy has the same basic traits he pos- From The Chassidic Masters to a life of fulfillment and purpose. sesses in a non-joyous state—the same Even as we stimulate the Divine in us knowledge and intelligence, the same to rise above the merely animal, we loves, hates, wants, and desires. But in The Seven Kinds must also develop and refine our ani- a state of joy, everything is more pro- mal selves, learning to cultivate the nounced: the mind is keener, the loves constructive aspects of selfhood (e.g., deeper, the hates more vivid, the For the L-rd your G-d is bringing you in us, by partaking of these seven self-confidence, courage, persever- desires more aggressive. Emotions that to a good land … a land of wheat, bar- fruits, which typify the various compo- ance) while weeding out the selfish ordinarily show only a faint intimation ley, grapes, figs, and pomegranates; a nents and modes of human life. and the profane. of their true extent now come out into land of oil-yielding olives and [date] In the Torah, wheat is regarded as the open. In the words of the Talmud, honey. Food And Fodder the mainstay of the human diet, while “When wine enters, the concealed —Devarim 8:8 The Kabbalistic masters tell us that barley is mentioned as a typical animal emerges.” Our Sages tell us that, originally, all each and every one of us has not one, food (cf. Tehillim 104:15 and A joyless life might be complete in trees bore fruit, as will also be the case but two souls: an animal soul, which Melachim 1, 5:8. See also Sotah 14a). every way, yet it is a shallow life: every- in the Era of Mashiach. A fruitless tree embodies our natural, self-oriented Thus, “wheat” represents the endeavor thing is there, but only the barest sur- is a symptom of an imperfect world, instincts; and a G-dly soul, embodying to nourish what is distinctly human in face is showing. Both the G-dly and for the ultimate function of a tree is to our transcendent drives—our desire to us, to feed the Divine aspirations that the animal souls contain vast reser- produce fruit. escape the “I” and relate to that which are the essence of our humanity. voirs of insight and feeling that never If “man is a tree of the field” is greater than ourselves. “Barley” represents the endeavor to see the light of day because there is (Devarim 20:19) and fruit is the tree’s As its name implies, the animal soul nourish and develop our animal soul— nothing to stimulate them. The grape highest achievement, there are seven constitutes that part of ourselves that a task no less crucial to our mission in represents the element of joy in our fruits that crown the human and is common to all living creatures: the life than the cultivation of our G-dly lives—the joy that unleashes these botanical harvest. These are the seven instinct for self-preservation and self- soul. potentials and adds depth, color, and fruits and grains singled out by the perpetuation. But man is more than a intensity to everything we do. Torah as exemplars of the Holy Land’s sophisticated animal. There are quali- Excitement fertility: wheat, barley, grapes, figs, ties that are unique to us as human Wheat and barley, the two grains Involvement pomegranates, olives, and dates. beings—the qualities deriving from among the Seven Kinds, represent the We might be doing something fully The 15th day of the Hebrew month our G-dly soul. The point at which we staples of our inner makeup. Following and completely; we might even be of Shevat is the day designated by the graduate beyond the self and its needs these come five fruits—appetizers and doing it joyously. But are we there? Are Jewish calendar as the New Year for (How do I survive? How do I obtain desserts on our spiritual menu—which we involved? Trees. On this day, we celebrate the food, shelter, money, power, knowl- add flavor and zest to our basic trees of G-d’s world, and the tree with- edge, satisfaction?) to a supra-self per- endeavor of developing our animal and Continued on Page 25

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tle concerned effort of the individu- gamblers, gangsters, candidates for the als, order could be brought to this electric chair, and all kinds of “ist’s” chaos, and “if one can be good, why only because they have been raised on should he be bad?”… neveilos and treifos, R”l. Yet you sleep, I accuse our Orthodoxy, for sleep- but how much longer? ing the sleep of Choni Ha’Maagil, Don’t you know that going to the who slept 70 years. They are com- mikveh every day to purify yourself pletely unaware of what is happen- will be to no avail? Not even all the At-Risk Youth And Kashrus we do not impart honor to any rabbi.] ing around them and how our waters in the world can help, with a Dear Editor, I accuse the very great rabbis, the strongest ramparts are being sheretz-tamei (a carcass of a creeping Why are we losing our kids? Read leaders of our people, because of inter- smashed by our internal foes. They thing), not in your hand, but inside the powerful answer in the words of nal strife. These disputes are not for are unaware that all our holy tradi- of you! And when you daven every the great gaon and tzaddik, Reb the sake of Heaven; if one says some- tions and takanos are being trampled morning and evening, or when you Shraga Feivel Mendlowitz, o.b.m, thing is prohibited the other must say underfoot, that our 3,000-year-old learn your daily shiur or seder, don’t founder of Yeshiva Torah Vodaas it is permissible, if one says something heritage has all but completely dis- you know that the breath that [written in the early 20th century] is contaminated the other must say it appeared. Yet, Orthodoxy sleeps, but emanates from your mouth is the quoted in the paragraphs below. The is pure (viduy Erev Yom Kippur). It is how much longer? … Do you know breath of sin? Because it reeks of importance of ascertaining the impossible to bring order and reliabili- that all of the fortresses of Judaism, neveilos and treifos! Yet you sleep, kashrus standards being used by the ty to the chaotic kashrus situation, which have heretofore protected us but how much longer? mosdos/camps your children attend especially and including the kashrus from destruction, the only one left is When you wash your hands for cannot be stressed enough! They standards of meat and poultry… kashrus, that other mitzvos are bread, or when you make kiddush on should be using products that are of a I accuse the rabbis because of observed very laxly even in Orthodox Shabbos, and your table is bedecked kashrus standard acceptable to all. whose negligence the laws of chalav homes? And now kashrus too is being with all sorts of delicacies, and you say Tomchei Shabbos and Bikur Cholim akum have virtually been forgotten. I smashed!? Yet we sleep, but how with each bite, “in honor of the should also adhere to a kashrus stan- know that there are various heterim much longer?… Shabbos,” you are angering Hashem dard acceptable to all. for this, but they apply only when it Don’t you see what has become of when you break bread. Yet you sleep, NNN is impossible to obtain chalav Yisrael. your youth? Don’t you know that And if I say, “I will not make mention In our situation, however, with a lit- Jewish children have become tramps, Continued on Page 26 of Him nor speak anymore in His Name,” then there will be in my heart a burning fire, shut up in my bones, and I would weary myself to hold it in, but could not… (Yirmiyah 20:9). I use the above prophetic words as a preface to my article concerning kashrus, because this article will not bring honor to me. On the contrary, I will be attacked with ridicule from many sides. But what can I do? A fire is burning within me and hopefully within thousands of Jews like me…a fire which cannot be extinguished. The kashrus question has recently been discussed in the Yiddish press, but only one side of the question, con- cerning unscrupulous purveyors and butchers who sell treifos or question- able products without a reliable hechsher or with a false one. [The press has remained silent, however, concern- ing the second side of the question, about the treifos being sold under rab- binical supervision and under rabbini- cal signs in butcher shops.] The [religious] press is silent about this problem, perhaps because of the honor of the rabbis, or, perhaps, because of other reasons. The honor of the rabbis is dear to me, too. But, the honor of the Torah which is lying in the garbage, and the honor of the truth, which is trodden under foot, is dearer to me. Where there is chillul Hashem, we do not impart honor to a rabbi; I therefore come forward with an accusation… I accuse many rabbis who grant hechsherim, who knowingly or other- wise, or out of neglect, permit non- kosher meat to be processed and sold under their stamp of approval both wholesale and retail; the seller is an unscrupulous person with a Torah sanction… I accuse many rabbis who although they themselves have no part in the hechsherim, nevertheless, know about them and still remain silent. There is a sort of mutual reciprocal agreement to keep quiet and sanction each other including their false hechsherim. Perhaps it’s because they wish to avoid chillul Hashem. [They forget, however, that where there is a chillul Hashem, 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 23 should also be labeled with its final des- want when you move is to lose a beloved tination—living room, children’s bed- pet in the process. Be sure to lock up any room, kitchen, etc. Packing cartons pets so they can’t get loose while the without labeling them will create a moving truck is being loaded and moving-day nightmare from which it unloaded. Keep the pets in an empty will takes you months (if not years) to room that is clearly labeled “Do not recuperate in trying to figure out what enter: pets inside.” Moving Tips! through your house and throw away or is in each of the boxes strewn around As you start to unpack, try to focus on Now that you have found that great donate whatever you can. Not only will your house after the movers leave them. finishing one room first. I always vote for house, the fun begins. It is time to get this make your job easier in the long Make a list of all your utilities and the kitchen. Somehow, if the kitchen is down to preparing all that great stuff that run, but it will save you money. Less to services, such as electric, gas, water, more or less set up, everything moves you own for the move to the new place. move means less to pay the movers. It and telephone, as well as cable, along in a painless fashion. As you How easy or how difficult that will be also means less to unpack and store Internet, newspaper, the gardener, etc. unpack and need a cup of coffee or have really depends on how much stuff you once again in a place to be forgotten. All these services should be canceled to prepare meals, with the kitchen ready have accumulated and how you tackle Unless you are lucky enough to hire at your old address and new services to be used, you can relax and regroup in your preparation for the actual “move.” movers who are going to pack for you, scheduled at your new address. While between unpacking. (By the way, I think I realize what I am going to hear is, this is a Jewish thing, since most author- of course, “The first thing to do is go ities giving you tips for preparation opt from supermarket to supermarket to for setting up a room you can quietly sit find good packing cartons, and then Do you still have boxes of stuff in the in and have a cup of coffee—but I do not post an ad on the Five Towns Shul site see sitting in a room with a cup of coffee asking anyone with extra packing car- and relaxing if the kitchen is not more or tons to call you.” Well, yeah, that is a garage that you haven’t opened since less set up and the kids are yelling that great start, but other than creating a they are hungry and there is nothing in roomful of empty packing cartons, what your last move? the refrigerator, so I changed it.) else have you achieved towards actually Talking about the refrigerator, if possi- getting your stuff ready for the move? ble, turn on the refrigerator and go to the Here are some other handy tips to this is a task that you will want to get a you are at it, do not forget to forward supermarket a day or two before the consider in preparing for the move. head start on as soon as possible to your mail at the post office. movers actually bring all your stuff. Still have clothes that used to fit— ensure a smooth moving day. Start Moving day can be a complete bala- Having a full refrigerator comes in handy three sizes ago—hanging in your closet? packing up those rooms in your house gan! Pack a box with your bed linens and as moving day proceeds and everything is Are there drawers or cabinets in your that you use the least—guest rooms, all your immediate essentials, and have slowly unloaded from the moving truck. present house that are so full of junk storage rooms, the basement and clos- the movers set up your beds first before Welcome to the neighborhood! O that you do not even remember what is ets, etc. Get a room packed as much as anything else is done. When everything in them? Do you still have boxes of stuff possible—do not forget to label the is finished being unloaded into the Anessa Cohen lives in Cedarhurst and is a licensed real-estate broker (Anessa V Cohen Realty) and a in the garage that you haven’t opened boxes accordingly—and then move on house, and you are falling off your feet licensed N.Y.S. mortgage broker (A.C. Action since your last move—how many years to the next room. Use plenty of newspa- among the endless landscape of cartons Mortgage Corp.) with over 20 years of experience, offering full-service residential and commercial ago was that? Yup, it is time to bite the per or bubble wrap for fragile items so and things, you can leave everything for real-estate services in the Five Towns and through- bullet and sit down and go through all of they do not get broken during transit, the next day and fall into your beds to out the tri-state area. She can be reached at 516- 569-5007 or via her website, www.AVCrealty.com. this stuff. Why would you want to move and clearly label the cartons as “frag- get a fresh start the next morning. Readers are encouraged to send questions or com- stuff you don’t want or need? Go ile,” as well. Each box that you pack Do you have pets? The last thing you ments to [email protected].

24 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES CHASSIDIC MASTERS celebration of the love between the Continued from Page 22 Divine Groom and His bride, Israel, “your mouth is comely; your temple is Involvement means more than like a piece of pomegranate within doing something right, more than your locks” (Shir haShirim, 4:3). As giving it our all. It means that we interpreted by the Talmud, the allego- care, that we are invested in the ry of the pomegranate expresses the task. It means that we are affected truth that “even the empty ones by what we are doing, for the better amongst you are full of good deeds as or for the worse. a pomegranate [is full of seeds].” The fig, the fourth of the Seven The pomegranate is not just a model Kinds, is also the fruit of the Tree of for something that contains many par- Knowledge of Good and Evil—the ticulars. It also addresses the paradox fruit of which Adam and Eve tasted, of how an individual may be empty thereby committing the first sin of and, at the same time, be full of good history. As Chassidic teaching deeds as a pomegranate. explains, knowledge (da’as) implies The pomegranate is a highly com- an intimate involvement with the partmentalized fruit: each of its hun- thing known (as in the verse, “And dreds of seeds is wrapped in its own Adam knew his wife”). Adam’s sin sac of pulp and is separated from its derived from his refusal to reconcile fellows by a tough membrane. In the himself with the notion that there are same way, it is possible for a person certain things from which he must to do good deeds—many good distance himself. He desired to inti- deeds—yet they remain isolated mately know every corner of G-d’s acts, with little or no effect on his world, to become involved with every nature and character. He may pos- one of G-d’s creations—even evil, sess many virtues, but they do not even that which G-d had declared out become him; he may be full of good of bounds to him. deeds, yet he remains morally and Adam’s fig was one of the most spiritually hollow. destructive forces in history. In its If the fig represents our capacity for equally powerful constructive guise, total involvement and identification the fig represents our capacity for a with what we are doing, the pomegran- deep and intimate involvement in our ate is the fig’s antithesis, representing every positive endeavor—an involve- our capacity to overreach and act in a ment which signifies that we are one way that surpasses our internal spiritu- with what we are doing. al state. It is our capacity to do and achieve things that are utterly incom- Deed patible with who and what we are at “Your lips are like a thread of scar- let,” extols Shlomo haMelech in his Continued on Page 31

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 25 LETTERS TO THE EDITOR shrug of the shoulder. have anticipated the day we will iy’H process, not unlike the credit-card Continued from Page 23 And I ask you, “How much longer?” make aliyah. It is wonderful to follow swipes performed by vendors. Why the And I say, “You sleepers, awaken from the true-life experiences of a local fam- government, while claiming to be but how much longer? your slumber!” ily with all the ups and downs it entails against the practice of the hiring of I know that you will reply, “Jacob is Rabbi Yehuda Shain and still come out feeling like this is illegal immigrants, does not make this small and poor.” But look what Jacob’s Kosher Consumers Union the “real deal.” system mandatory is beyond me. brother on East Broadway has accom- Lakewood May you and your family continue The question that needs to be posed plished—how he erected a fortress to see b’rachos and hatzlachah in Eretz to all critics is: “Does your organiza- through the poor laborers, a fortress Aliyah Chronicle Provides Hope HaKodesh and may we all merit to join tion, as one that has criticized the against Judaism, because he has unit- Dear Editor, you as soon as possible. Rubashkins for hiring illegals, comply ed forces. Yet you sleep and do noth- The following letter is directed to Kol tuv, with E-Verify?” I have e-mailed this ing, but how much longer? Shmuel Katz about the “Our Aliyah Nicole Brackman, Ph.D., question to the union, the JTA, all the Gentlemen! Do a little soul- Chronicle” column: Cedarhurst board members of the B’nai B’rith, etc. searching and see how far you have I wanted to let you know how terrif- Their replies have yet to arrive. strayed; remember that our parents ic your column is. I have been follow- Do You E-Verify? Who does the office cleaning at the have sacrificed their lives for kiddush ing it faithfully since before you left on Dear Editor, JTA and who performs the gardening Hashem; they allowed themselves to aliyah. This week’s column regarding Yasher Koach for the illuminating at the home of the president of the be burned in order to uphold our Tishah B’Av as well as the recent article by Ben Nathan regarding the union? Do all the meatpackers that are holy Torah, whereas you are not arrival of your brother was so poignant. Rubashkins (September 8 issue). members of this union use this sys- required to make any sacrifices; with Although my family and I have not There is a very important point to tem? The hypocrisy of these people but a handful you can save the situa- (yet) made aliyah due to life circum- think about and to ask of everyone who is…to be expected. tion and our youth. Yet you sleep, but stances (medical school loans, no complains about Agriprocessors’ Sincerely, how much longer? Hebrew background for my husband, alleged hiring of illegal immigrants. Ari Chitrik Fellow Jews, have you no fear for etc.) it continues to be a deeply and There is a free government program the great and terrible Day of dearly held hope for us. Long before I called “E-Verify” (see www.dhs.gov). Teens And Judaism: What Is Judgment? In that day you will no knew anything about the Torah, I loved Any employer can thus submit the Acceptable? longer be able to come up with Israel (I came the first time as a bat name of an applicant along with his Dear Editor, excuses (“I didn’t know”) or with a mitzvah on a tour) and, ever since, I Social Security Number. It’s a simple I would like to follow up on my pre- vious letter (August 8) and respond to the letters from this past week (August 15). In the first letter the writer (Lea Weiss) makes a number of valid points. She points out that we cannot live behind brick walls and that it’s a part of this galus to be in contact with soci- ety, and embraces an “if you can’t beat them, join them” mentality—that it’s quite impossible to shield yourself or your children’s neshamos from the depraved American culture, and aside from being inevitable is even a part of our community. In the second letter, the writer (Mark Rubin) made it suffi- ciently clear that speaking to girls and having a girlfriend are quite all right and surely not anywhere near the issurim involved with alcohol or drug abuse. In addition, the writer infers from my letter that, from my point of view, all of Modern Orthodoxy, YU, OU, and Young Israel are “at risk.” Then again, that’s not quite right. History, especially Jewish history, has a proven trend of repeating itself. The first letter is sufficient proof that many of us are indeed living in a bubble, and even after the Holocaust still remain unaware of this fact. In explicit contrast to the statement that Jews have always been one with their gentile neighbors and have been part of their culture for millennia, I would like to point out that for thou- sands of years Jews did in fact live in a “box.” A more modern term would be a ghetto. Furthermore, since the time of the destruction of the Second Beis HaMikdash, Jews’ rights have been heavily restricted, if they existed at all. Not to mention the constant pogroms and crusades during which hundreds and thousands of innocent Jewish vic- tims were mercilessly murdered. And because of this, Jews, for the bulk of this galus, had minimal contact with the outside culture and were (by default) capable of blocking out for- eign influences. Only in the 1800s, when Napoleon tore down the ghetto walls, did Jews begin to develop any sort of connec- tion to the outside world. In fact, R’ Shneur Zalman of Liadi actually encouraged the Jews of Russia to fight 26 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES against Napoleon, and explained his position in a let- ter stating: “…should Napoleon be victorious, wealth among the Jews will be abundant…but the hearts of Israel will be separated and distant from their Father in Heaven. But if our master [Czar] Alexander will triumph, though poverty will be abun- dant…the heart of Israel will be bound and joined with their Father in Heaven…” How true were his words, for as the years progressed and Jews began integrating themselves into “real society” new movements and philoso- phies developed. The Haskalah, or Enlightenment, ultimately led to the Reform, whose purpose was to inte- grate completely while retain- ing only a microscopic aspect of Jewish tradition. It wasn’t long before the Ribbono shel Olam sent us a stark reminder that we are His children and will forever remain so. Similar to today, there were tremen- dous amounts of Torah being learned and unbelievable chesed, yet at the same time much assimilation. Returning from a visit to America, R’ Elchonon Wasserman, zt’l, commented about Jewish peo- ple living there that “they know how to make Kiddush, but haven’t a clue how to make Havdalah”—i.e., we know how to elevate by doing chesed, etc., but fail miserably in separating ourselves from the American culture. In regard to the writer’s rationale for exposing chil- dren to “salty language,” I surely don’t need to point out much. I am unsure where the term of “salty language” as a synonym for the poison of nivel peh comes from, but would humbly suggest that we all pick up a Sefer Chofetz Chaim and see what the Chofetz Chaim has to say about this “salty language,” regardless if it is spoken or only heard. If a parent would ever give up in his or her efforts to protect not only their child but themselves from being slowly poisoned to death, they would surely be referred for help; the devastat- ing and poisonous effect of “salty language” on a neshamah is no different. The writer’s claim that a parent’s hashkafah and the hashkafah of their son’s yeshiva cannot create hypocrisy falls awfully short of accuracy. Simply put: if a parent sends their child to a yeshiva that has a particular hashkafah and not only per- mits but encourages certain activities expressly forbid- den by halachah and

Continued on Page 28 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 27 LETTERS TO THE EDITOR games, I find it extremely difficult to of every religious and God-fearing Jew, lined in my previous letter were based Continued from Page 27 believe that everyone is playing Super be they YU, OU, Young Israel, yeshiv- precisely on my experience in the past Mario Brothers. In fact, I am almost ish, chassidish, Litvish, whatever. few years. In reality the fact that I am instructed that way in yeshiva, then certain that that is not the case, but if The outlandish and foolish saying of only 19 should have no impact on the undoubtedly the child is receiving it is, then that point was not intended “I don’t hold of that” has become an points I attempted to make—that it is some severely warped messages— for you. I apologize if anyone felt all-too-familiar term these days. I am not the yeshivas or rebbeim at fault, that “if you can create your own labeled as “at risk” from my previous sure that I am not alone in my belief and that before we go pointing our fin- rules (or “heterim”), then so can I.” letter and sincerely hope that no one that regardless of your religious adjec- gers, we first make sure we correct According to Rav Avigdor Miller, zt’l, was offended. tive, one must in fact “hold of that” some things that are all (I feel) con- there is no such thing as a Judaism Rav Avigdor Miller, in Sing, You and, more importantly, strive to tributing factors to that particular in your home and a different Righteous, explains the misleading improve and desire to do what is prop- issue. The writer asked rhetorically Judaism outside [in Yeshiva]; the notion of the term “Modern er and correct according to halachah. how I can possibly equate movies, TV, Torah is the Torah and halachah is Orthodox.” There is simply no such According to the author of the sec- and video games with drinking and halachah, plain and simple. thing as status quo in following half or ond letter, there is no issur whatsoever drugs. The answer is simply, they are In my humble opinion, having indi- less of the Torah and its halachos. in talking to a girl. It is interesting to all just the lower rungs on the ladder. vidual variations of halachos (which Someone who hails from a more “mod- note that Rav Moshe Feinstein held The difference is how high a person specifically suit a desired lifestyle) ern” background but nevertheless quite the opposite. In Igros Moshe, wants to climb. will certainly create a faulty direc- strives and endeavors to grow in his (Even HaEzer, samach) Rav Moshe has In conclusion, I would like to point tion, and is certainly a form, perhaps relationship with the Al-mighty should a tremendous teshuvah on the subject out another Gemara, which states that subtle, of hypocrisy. not by any means be “Modern of girls and girlfriends. Rav Moshe “one who does an aveirah and then In reference to the use of video Orthodox.” This is essentially the goal explains at length that extensive con- repeats it, it becomes as if it’s mutar in versation with boys/girls not in the his eyes.” Even though we live in a parashah of nissuin is unequivocally depraved society where there is no and completely assur! He even goes so point too low, I honestly believe that it far as to explain that there are many is incumbent upon us to do our utmost poskim who hold that it is an issur or at least desire to distance ourselves d’Oraisa, and even according to those and be mavdil from the American cul- who hold that it is “only” a ture and its negative influences. It is d’Rabbanan, all hold that there is an soon to be Rosh Chodesh Elul, the asmachta from a pasuk. Might I time for examining ourselves, rectify- remind the reader about the Gemara ing our shortcomings, and repentance. in Berachos which states that “kol I may be young and inexperienced, but ha’over al divrei chachamim chayav I think we have a veil of rationales that misah.” So, the writer is quite correct must be lifted. It is evident from the that boys involved with girls are in fact fact that Mashiach still has not arrived nowhere near the severity involved that we all still have work to do. We are with drinking—it is far worse. nowhere near perfect, yet we must all Additionally, the writer made a point strive. Though as Jews we may be stiff- that I am only 19 and perhaps lacking necked, that does not mean we have to in “worldly experience.” Perhaps that is be stone-headed, as well. true, but nevertheless the points out- May we all be zocheh to biyas

28 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES haMashiach bimheira b’yameinu and to s”xc once again live within the protective walls of Yerushalayim. Amen. Harry T. Esen

The New Singles Scene At The Jackson Dear Editor, I enjoyed reading your articles about the “singles” scene at the former Grossingers and Concord Hotels. As the world goes, it’s an era “gone by.” For that matter, so is the Pioneer, Pine View, and others. There is an alternative that the frum community has once again become reacquainted with, and that is the “New Jackson Hotel” in Long Beach, N.Y. It is less than an hour from Midtown Manhattan and 45 minutes or less from Queens or Brooklyn. Since I became manager over a year and a half ago, many changes have been made. Renovations have made the Jackson by the Beach a bou- tique hotel. Our catering for bar mitz- vahs, sheva berachos, and parties has made it once again the “in place” for these simchas. We hosted several shabbatonim for schools and organiza- tions and have become a relaxed place for singles to meet. I invite you to become a part of our new success by sponsoring some sin- gles events and becoming a part of their simchas by helping to arrange sin- gles shabbatonim at the new Jackson by the Beach Hotel, a place that sin- gles can mix and meet—without hav- ing to drive to the mountains. Moshe Robbins, Manager, The New Jackson by the Beach Hotel

And you shall place these words of Mine in your heart and in your soul; and bind them for a sign upon your hand, and they will be as tefillin between your eyes. And you shall teach them your children… (Devarim 11:18-19) Just as it is incumbent upon every Jew to put on tefillin every day, so is there an unequivocal duty which rests upon every individual, from the greatest scholar to the most simple of folk, to set aside a half-hour each day in which to think about the education of his children.

(Rabbi Shalom DovBer of Lubavitch)

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 29 30 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES INSIGHTS ON THE TORAH Continued from Page 25 the present moment. The pomegranate is hypocrisy in its noblest form: the refusal to reconcile oneself to one’s spiritual and moral sta- tion as defined by the present state of one’s character; the insistence on act- ing better and more G-dly than we are.

Struggle For most of us, life is synonymous with struggle. We struggle to forge an identity under the heavy shadow of parental and peer influence; we strug- gle to find a partner in life, and then we struggle to preserve our marriage; we struggle to raise our children, and then struggle in our relationship with them as adults; we struggle to earn a living, and then struggle with our guilt over our good fortune; and underlying it all is the perpetual struggle between our animal and G-dly selves, between our self-oriented instincts and our aspiration to transcend the self and touch the Divine. The olive in us is that part of our- selves that thrives on struggle, that rev- els in it, that would no more escape it than escape life itself. Just like an olive, say our Sages, which yields its oil only when pressed, so, too, do we yield what is best in us only when pressed between the millstones of life and the counterforces of a divided self.

Perfection As the fig is countered by the pome- granate, so, too, is the olive in us con- trasted by our seventh fruit, the date, which represents our capacity for peace, tranquility, and perfection. While it is true that we’re best when we’re pressed, it is equally true that there are potentials in our soul that well forth only when we are complete- ly at peace with ourselves—only when we have achieved a balance and har- mony among the diverse components of our souls. Thus the Psalmist sings: “The tzaddik (perfectly righteous person) shall bloom as the date palm” (Tehillim 92:13). The Zohar explains that there is a certain species of date palm that bears fruit only after 70 years. The human character comprises 7 basic attributes, each consisting of 10 subcategories; thus, the tzaddik’s blooming after 70 years is the fruit of absolute tranquility— the product of a soul whose every aspect and nuance of character has been refined and brought into har- mony with oneself, one’s fellow, and one’s G-d. While the olive and date describe two very different spiritual person- alities, they both exist within every man. For even in the midst of our most ardent struggles, we can always find comfort and fortitude in the tranquil perfection that resides at the core of our souls. And even in our most tranquil moments, we can always find the challenge that will provoke us to yet greater achievement. O

Based on the teachings of the Lubavitcher Rebbe; adapted by Yanki Tauber. Courtesy of MeaningfulLife.com. 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 31 tune just as one blesses on good? issues which are beyond his ability The answer he received came as to comprehend—that is not the quite a surprise: “I’m terribly sorry,” point of this Mishnah. R’ Yannai explained the poor man. “I’m afraid means to highlight the fact that that I, too, will be unable to help you. there is a common yet flawed atti- You see, I have no way of knowing tude adopted by many people; they what Chazal meant when they obli- behold a particular situation and gated one to bless on misfortune. For assume that it is “good” or “bad.” how could I know? I have never expe- This is the aspect which is beyond a Mishnas Chayim On The Parashah rienced a bad day in my life! Hashem person’s grasp: accurately identify- has showered me with only goodness; ing what is truly good or bad. Of I don’t even know what misfortune course we cannot properly explain The Age-Old Question looks like!” why such and such happens to one It appears that this tzaddik’s key to person or the other; without seeing Last week, we discussed the obli- rebbe answered him. “I’ll tell you the success was his attitude. Instead of the full picture, we can’t even deter- gation mentioned in the Mishnah in truth: I cannot answer you properly. determining that his circumstances mine if it’s good or bad! Berachos to view misfortune and suc- This issue has eluded me for many were “bad,” he saw them for what How many people have become cess in the same light: “One blesses years as well. they truly were: acts of the Merciful rich and famous, only to use their on the bad, just as he blesses on the “One thing I could tell you, One, precisely calculated for his ulti- newfound wealth to buy a private jet, good” (Berachos 9:5). We also noted though,” the rebbe continued. “In my mate benefit. take flying lessons, and end up dying that the fulfillment of this ideal is no town, there lives a certain pauper, The big picture and fatherly love. a premature, violent death when they simple matter for most people. At the who is actually a tremendous tzaddik. A similar sentiment can be found in crash their plane into the sea? Was same time, the fact that it is not easy He doesn’t have a penny to his name; the Mishnah in Avos (4:14): “R’ Yannai their affluence to their benefit, or to does not exempt us from striving for he goes around barefoot and must said: The following issue is not in our their detriment? this level. sleep at night on the benches of the hands: the peace of the wicked, nor By the same token, who knows In fact, there is a well-known story local shul. Despite this, he is con- the suffering of the righteous.” what untold suffering a person is which illustrates the earnest quest of stantly happy. I don’t know how he Most commentators understand the spared when he does not acquire one individual to comprehend and ful- does it, but somehow, despite his Mishnah’s statement as a type of something he had set his heart on? fill this very teaching of Chazal. abject poverty, he manages to serve acknowledgment of mortal man’s finite He may be frustrated at the moment A real stumper. A disciple Hashem with great joy, always prais- scope of comprehension. Certain for missing the bus, for example, but approached his rebbe and asked him ing and singing to Him. things are simply hidden (in this when he later learns of the horrible about the Mishnah in Berachos. “How “Obviously, this pauper has mas- world) from an individual’s intellectual accident that occurred, he realizes is it humanly possible,” he wondered, tered the Mishnah in Berachos. If reach, such as the age-old issue of that his “misfortune” helped him to “to reach such a level? How can a des- you want to know the true meaning “why bad things happen to good peo- stay alive. titute person, on the verge of starva- of Chazal’s statement, and the way to ple” and vice-versa. Of course, in these illustrations, the tion and lacking the barest necessities fulfill it, search out this tzaddik and The Chassid Ya’avetz in his com- underlying plan behind the events of life, bless Hashem with the same ask him.” mentary to Tehillim, however, takes played itself out in relatively swift, degree of gratitude and happiness as a And so the talmid went straight to a somewhat nuanced approach to R’ clear terms. Even if the situation is not multimillionaire whose luxurious the poor man with the radiant expres- Yannai’s statement. While it is true immediately clarified, however, Chazal house is laden with plenty?” sion. The talmid posed the question to that man’s grasp is limited—and “That’s a very good question,” the him: How does one bless on bad for- there are certain philosophical Continued on Page 39

32 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 33 this was not her first episode like that. reason, you were a scapegoat for her, Well, I nearly fainted when I heard which is a role no one wants to play. this. She went on to tell me that Tova Then there is Tova to consider. It had suffered for years with severe sounds as though she was and is a very depression, and I think she assumed ill woman, who most likely has been that I must have known all about this. drug-resistant and fighting a daily bat- Obviously I didn’t. tle most of her life to stay afloat. What I realized was that all this time People who have never experienced Dear Esther, I could never figure out what she my sister-in-law was very sick and that depression can’t even come close to Last week you wrote a column about had against me. Certainly I never felt I my brother was protecting her privacy understanding what an awful experi- a woman and her relationships with had anything she could be jealous of. and protecting her in general. Well, ence it can be. It is overwhelming and her husband and brother. As I read it, She had a loving husband, good chil- this answered many of my questions, can even change an individual’s char- it touched onto a very painful situation dren, and a seemingly full life. But she and I do feel awful for my brother and acter in all the wrong ways. My bless- that I’m going through, which involves definitely had it in for me. I was con- his family. But the question still ings go out to her and I hope that she my brother. stantly hurt and confused. Even worse, remains, why is my brother shutting can find the proper treatment mode to I had two siblings. Unfortunately, my brother, who is really a very sweet me out? Maybe I could be helpful to enable her to enjoy good mental health my sister died young, and so it was and nice guy, seemed to go along with them. And why would he allow his sick some day soon. only my brother and myself who her shenanigans. wife to hurt me? And then there is your brother to were left. There is a pretty big age Anyway, over the years our families Clearly, he is trying to keep all of consider, one of the greatest victims of gap between us, so I can’t honestly ultimately drifted apart, to the point this a big secret. I suppose it’s his all. It seems clear that he is a very good say we were always incredibly close. where my brother has totally stopped right. But I’m wondering if I can call man and an extremely devoted hus- But we did get along; we liked each calling me. We never see each other him up and tell him I know what’s band. He has not only stuck by his wife other, and I think there was always a except at family simchas. And when I been going on all these years, and tell all these years, which could not have mutual respect. do see my brother, he’s cordial but him that I understand and that I’m been easy for him, but he has also A little more background: I never quickly movies away from me, as if he’s there for him. Selfishly, I still want done his best to respect her wishes and really understood my sister-in-law. Her afraid that I might want something my brother back. I miss him terribly cover for her. Mental illness is so behavior always seemed a bit erratic to from him. My children and husband, and feel very lonely when it comes to much harder to deal with when one me and she was particularly unkind to at this point, think that my brother and family, since our parents are no feels the need to cover it up and pres- me and my children. I always tried to sister-in-law are awful people and want longer alive. How can I approach him ent to the world that everything is nor- be nice to her and to bring our families nothing to do with them. They’ve seen and not scare him off or make him mal. Maybe that was a choice that closer together, but not only did she how my sister-in-law can abuse me, angry at me? your brother and sister-in-law decided never respond to my invitations in a and they despise her for it. Lonely on together so that they or their chil- positive way, there were times when Not too long ago I bumped into a Dear Lonely, dren would not be unfairly judged by she treated me so downright poorly, I woman I know who was a childhood This is a sad story and there are so outsiders. Maybe it was just too was shocked. For instance, when she friend of my sister-in-law, and she many characters in it to feel sorry for. embarrassing for your sister-in-law to made her daughter a bas mitzvah party asked me how “Tova” is doing. My Yes, it must have been very hard for share with others. Whatever the rea- some years ago, she seated me with my response was something like, “How you all of these years, bearing the soning for their behavior, your brother children at a children’s table instead of should she be doing?” At that time she brunt of your sister-in-law’s unbal- has been walking a very tight rope for with the adults. I was absolutely morti- told me that Tova had recently had a anced behavior. Surely it felt painful, a very long time. fied. This is typical of some of the nervous breakdown and had been hos- embarrassing, and confusing for you moves she has made. pitalized for quite some time, and that and your entire family. For whatever Continued on Page 39

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Torah to the Hungarian Jewish com- to be fed through a “Kangaroo” feed- munity, and we are so grateful for ing tube to the beach, or for a picnic, that,” said Mr. Zoltan. For more or for a sleepaway, is no simple mat- information, please contact Hineni ter. It is, in fact, a major logistical at 212-496-1660. O challenge. But at Aleh, every child deserves the fun and excitement of Aleh “Dreams Come True” being a child, especially for children Eight Sifrei Torah Stolen In Queens rabbi of the Hungarian city of Szeged Summer Camps! whose everyday existence is a strug- A Queens Jewish Center is in shock (the rebbetzin’s birthplace) will be Aleh helps makes dreams come gle. Seeing children play in the sand, this week after several sifrei Torah and the honored guest. true for Israel’s most severely dis- splash in the waves, enjoy a barbe- silver items were apparently stolen. “There is a great excitement in abled children. Activities include cue, and pet the farm animals; seeing Someone broke into the center and Budapest in anticipation of this most swimming, the beach, clown shows, children with smiles on their lips and stole eight of the nine Torah’s and the historic event. After 60 years, field days, and fun fairs—a real laughter in their eyes—Aleh takes silver crowns and pointers, the NYPD Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis will be dream come true for the most severe- pride in knowing they have succeed- said. returning to the land of her birth to ly disabled children in Israel. Taking The thief gained access to the keys impart the timeless wisdom of the a wheelchair-bound child who needs Continued on Page 38 that open the gate to the Aron Kodesh and were able to disarm the alarm, police said. “I can’t imagine anyone willing to buy these stolen Torah’s. If they read the words that are contained in these books, they’ll know that’s a terrible thing they’ve done,” Bernie Newman, honorary president of the Jewish Center of Kew Gardens Hills said. The center is asking that whoever took the items just do the right thing and bring the items back. “Just return the items, that’s all we want,” Alan Gerard of the Jewish Center said. “Just return the items, I don’t care who you are or where you go, just return the items.” The items are reportedly worth about $500,000. (TheYeshivaWorld.com) O

Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis Returns To Hungary By Fern Sidman Hineni, the internationally renowned Torah outreach organiza- tion, has announced that its founder and president, Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis, will be making a historic trip to her native Hungary to partici- pate in a most special program spon- sored by the Hungarian Jewish com- munity. On Monday evening, September 15, Rebbetzin Jungreis will speak at the Urania Theater, an opulent hall that is considered a venue of grandeur in Budapest. Juszaz Zoltan, the managing director of the Hungarian Jewish community, will be co-sponsoring this event along with both the American and Israeli ambassadors to Hungary. Jews from throughout the length and breadth of Hungary will be bused in to the nation’s capital to attend the rebbetzin’s address, and the chief

Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 35 36 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 37 AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Poland, but experts suggest there (referred to as Marranos by historians) faith gathering is not intended to Continued from Page 35 may be tens of thousands of other in Spain, Portugal, and South America; convey any endorsement—by Rabbi Jews in Poland who to this day are the Subbotnik Jews of Russia; the Weinreb or the UOJCA—of any par- ed in making dreams come true. For either hiding their identities or are Jewish community of Kaifeng in China; ticular candidate or policy position of more information, or to sponsor a simply unaware of their family her- descendants of Jews living in Poland; the DNC. project please contact Shlomo at the itage. In some instances, due to and others. O In connection with the DNC’s Aleh Foundation office at 5317 13th their experiences during the announcement, Rabbi Weinreb stat- Avenue, Brooklyn, NY 11219, 718- Holocaust and under Communism, OU Events ed: “I am honored to participate in 851-4596, or 800-317-ALEH. O some Polish Jews chose to sever all Keynote Speaker At Democratic the Democratic Convention’s inter- connection with Judaism and to Convention Interfaith Gathering. faith gathering because this gather- Shavei Holds Seminar For 22 hide it from their children and The Democratic National ing is, in my view, the Democratic Young Polish Jews In Jerusalem grandchildren, who are only now Convention Committee has Party’s ‘endorsement’ of the critical Twenty-two Polish youths who beginning to discover the truth. In announced that Rabbi Tzvi Hersh role religious faiths play in American recently discovered their Jewish roots other cases, where Jewish children Weinreb, executive vice-president of life. Moreover, as it relates to my role completed a special seminar, the first were adopted by Polish Catholic the Union of Orthodox Jewish representing the Jewish community, of its kind, organized on their behalf by families or institutions during the Congregations of America, will be it is a historic statement about the Shavei Israel in Jerusalem. The three- Holocaust, the adoptees or their one of four keynote speakers from role Jews and Judaism play in week program was held entirely in descendants have begun to uncover diverse faiths at an interfaith gath- American life—with a degree of lib- Polish, and participants traveled their Jewish roots. In recent years, a ering on the eve of the Democratic erty and autonomy unknown to our throughout Israel, studied Hebrew, growing number of such people, Party’s nominating convention in ancestors in any other country.” and learned about Jewish history, cul- known as the “hidden Jews of Denver. Further information about the ture, and religion. Poland,” have started to return to The interfaith gathering will take UOJCA’s public policy views and According to Michael Freund, Judaism and to the Jewish people, place on Sunday, August 24 in the advocacy may be found at founder and chairman of “Shavei with many contemplating aliyah. Wells Fargo Theatre of the www.ou.org/public_affairs. Further Israel,” a number of the participants Shavei Israel currently has two Convention Center. information about the DNCC inter- have decided to remain in Israel and full-time emissaries in Poland: Rabbi The Union of Orthodox Jewish faith gathering may be found at continue their studies, while others Boaz Pash, who serves as Chief Rabbi Congregations of America (a.k.a. “the www.demconvention.com/interfaith. are going back to Poland with the hope of Krakow, and Rabbi Yitzhak Orthodox Union”) is the nation’s First National Conference For of playing a more active role in the Rapoport, who is the rabbi of largest Orthodox Jewish umbrella Synagogue Administrators. Regist- Jewish community. “In light of the pos- Wroclaw (formerly Breslau). organization, representing nearly ration is now under way for the itive feedback that we received from Shavei Israel (www.shavei.org) is a 1,000 synagogues throughout the Orthodox Union’s first national syna- the participants, we plan to continue non-profit organization founded by United States and sponsoring a host gogue executive director’s conference, organizing similar seminars next year Michael Freund, who immigrated to of communal programs and services. which will be held November 10-11 as well, in the hope that it will lead to Israel from the United States, with the Rabbi Weinreb has served as the at Congregation Keter Torah in a strengthening of Jewish life in aim of strengthening the ties between organization’s executive vice-presi- Teaneck, N.J. It is expected that Poland and ensure that the younger the State of Israel and the descendants dent since 2002. administrators from synagogues across generation of Polish Jews remains con- of Jews around the world. The organiza- The UOJCA is a non-partisan, North America will attend. nected to their Jewish heritage,” tion is currently active in nine countries charitable, educational, and advocacy The conference, a program of Freund said. and provides assistance to a variety of organization which does not endorse the Pepa and Rabbi Joseph Today, there are approximately different communities such as the Bnei candidates for political office. Rabbi 4,000 Jews registered as living in Menashe of India; the Bnei Anousim Weinreb’s participation in the inter- Continued on Page 40

38 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES MINDBIZ that you’re not expecting him to be Continued from Page 34 inviting you over anytime soon and, as I said, not expecting anything that I would encourage you to keep what might cause him to stress out, he will you know to yourself. Sometimes all probably come to cherish these someone feels they have left is their phone conversations with you. For dignity, but once “found out” it feels now, I think this is the best you can like even that is being taken from hope for, with the knowledge that them. Allow your brother and sister-in- things may turn around, particularly law their belief that their secret is still if Tova does ultimately get the help something they own. Furthermore, as that works for her. much as you miss your brother now, if It’s so important for all of us to you were to share with him what you understand that what we believe know, it could be the final straw that based on what we see and even what pushes him away from you forever. His we experience is not necessarily what loyalty to his wife will prevail, as it is really going on. So often there is a should. But at least you now know that complex story playing out behind the your brother did not pull away from scenes, but we instinctively make the you because of anything you did—and situations about ourselves. Your story for all you know, he thinks you are the is a good example for us all to consid- most amazing person. er before we pass judgment or feel My advice to you would be to carry neglected or hurt. It’s usually not on with zero expectations from your about us. brother and, of course, from your sis- Esther ter-in-law. However, there is no rea- Esther Mann, LMSW, has a private practice in son you can’t call him at work once a Lawrence. Esther is a psychotherapist and life week just to check in, with a “quick coach and can be reached at 516-314-2295 or [email protected]. She works with individu- hello” that sounds safe and caring. als, couples, premarital couples, and families. You can certainly let him know that you miss hearing his voice and that you think about him and love him. No invitations, no personal ques- tions; just keep it light. Talk about your children, ask about his children, work, community—the usual safe conversations that most people enjoy. My guess is that once he realizes that there aren’t any ulterior motives and

MISHNAS CHAYIM Continued from Page 32 instruct us not to be disheartened. At the right time, all will be revealed; but for now, we must try to put our faith in Hashem, and rest assured in the knowledge that everything He does is for our ultimate benefit. Our parashah imparts this idea to us. “As a father chastises his son, so does Hashem chastise you” (Devarim 8:5). A caring parent must at times act toward his child in a way that the child doesn’t enjoy. Nor, at the time, does the child fully appreciate or understand why he is being treated in such a manner. One thing, howev- er, is clear: the truly loving parent is acting for the child’s ultimate well- being. A child may not like or under- stand why he must be pricked by a painful, scary needle; but this vacci- nation may save his life. The Chofetz Chaim (Shem Olam) reminds us that Hashem loves a per- son even more than that individual loves himself. As such, all that our Father in Heaven does—whether or not we initially perceive the benefit— is unquestionably in our best interests. As such, whatever He sends us is cer- tainly worthy of blessing. O

Kindly take a moment to study Mishnas Chayim in the merit of Leeba bas Avrohom, a’h, a fellow Jew who passed away with no relatives to arrange Torah study on behalf of her neshamah. Mishnas Chayim is brought to you by Chevrah Lomdei Mishnah, a network of Torah scholars dedicated to bringing the merits of Mishnah study to the greater Jewish public. Encompassing Mishnah, Gemara, and a variety of other servic- es, Chevrah Lomdei Mishnah primarily assists mourners interested in acquiring the merit of Torah study for their loved ones. They can be contacted at 732–364–7029 or at www.society formishnahstudy.org. 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 39 AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS 13 different bungalow colonies, Continued from Page 38 hotels, and vacation homes to par- ticipate in a free, informative work- Karasick Department of Synagogue shop given by Legacies during the Services of the OU, will be an Nine Days. “Preserving Your opportunity for two days of net- Family’s History—Forever” was the working and professional develop- topic, and various methods of docu- ment seminars, with the discus- menting and preserving family lega- sions dealing with the challenges cies were explored. Attendees were and the role of synagogue executive also given a handout which outlined directors. According to OU director general and specific questions to ask of synagogue services Rabbi Bini a loved one when one is ready to Maryles, the conference is “aimed write, record, or video their own at empowering executive directors family history. and providing them with a host of Preserving your legacies—your his- resources aimed at further enhanc- tory, stories, values, and accomplish- ing their ability to administer their ments—will give pride to your children synagogue.” and grandchildren when they hear The conference will focus on topics about their special ancestors. including safety and security, commu- Unfortunately, too many stories get nication, time management, adminis- lost if they are not documented. It also tration, marketing, and fundraising. helps bond them to previous genera- There will be sessions on: tions, transmit our mesorah, and gives “Communication: Dealing with Rabbi our offspring direction in life and role and Board”; “How to Take Your Shul models to follow. From Good to Great”; “Conflict- A DVD video showed how profes- Management,” and “Safety and sionals at Legacies can make this Security.” OU executive vice-president daunting task a simple one, through Rabbi Tzvi Hersh Weinreb will serve as a video legacy, writing your mem- dinner speaker on the opening day of oirs, photo montages, and genealogy the conference. searches. Legacies has free tools on The conference fee is $250 includ- their website, www.legacies ing meals, with an early registration video.com, for all to access, so you fee of $225 for those signing up by can start recording your legacies August 29. For further information, today. If you would like Legacies to contact 212-613-8266 or synagogue@ give this informative and important ou.org. O workshop to your community or shul throughout the year, please contact Legacies Workshops Legacies at 1-877-8 LEGACIES. O In The Catskills Hundreds of women gathered in Continued on Page 42

40 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 41 AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Steven served as a managing standing support of microcre- president, who has retired (FSU) and in 20 other coun- Continued from Page 40 director for Deutsche Bank dit, he received a Fulbright from the board of trustees tries, www.istok.ru is and has Private Wealth Management. Award at the United Nations after 30 years of service. been their main link to Steven Rockefeller Joins Over the past 12 years for dedicated service to pover- The board voted unani- Judaism and to their own Park Avenue Bank Steven has partnered with a ty alleviation. Steven received mously to dedicate the com- identity since September Park Avenue Bank has host of organizations commit- his master’s of public and pri- munity room in honor of Mr. 1999. No other Russian lan- announced the appointment ted to providing the poor with vate management from Yale Kamen at its June 11, 2008 guage website offers a similar of Steven C. Rockefeller Jr. as proper access to a broad array University and his B.A. from meeting, as he was the per- “with you we stand.” director of institutional servic- of financial services. Steven Fairfield University. son most instrumental in Today, these survivors of es and special advisor to the currently serves on the devel- The Park Avenue Bank is a making possible the beauti- atheistic communism are fac- board of directors. Prior to opment committee for full-service community bank ful, full-service center of ing a new and greater danger: joining Park Avenue Bank, Grameen Foundation and has dedicated to service and indi- community activities that a great majority of FSU Steven has served as a private served as its chair for three vidual attention to their cus- the library has become provincial cities have no consultant to a number of years. His current focus for tomers. The nature of the bank today. Naming this space for Jewish teachers, no Jewish emerging companies in a vari- Grameen Foundation is tech- gives flexibility to accommo- him is a fitting recognition resources, and no Jewish life. ety of industries, including nical support and fundraising date their customers on a more of his more than three If we remain silent these chil- banking, real estate, renew- for Esperanza International in personal basis. Headquartered decades of unwavering com- dren will be lost to Judaism. able energy, lenticular print- the Dominican Republic, a at 460 Park Avenue in New mitment and dedicated serv- Creating school classes is not ing, and transdermal drug fast-track microcredit and York City, the Park Avenue ice to both the library and feasible on account of the delivery. Preceding his work health-services program. In Bank has branch locations in the Baldwin community. small numbers of students. with early stage private equity, recognition of Steven’s long- Manhattan and Brooklyn. For Mr. Kamen is president/ Benjamin Disraeli more information please call CEO of Kamen & Co. Group (1804–81), England’s only 212-755-4600 or visit Services, a print and digital Jewish prime minister said, www.parkavenuebank.com. O media appraisal and broker- “Upon the education of the age firm in New York people of this country, the fate Baldwin Public Library (www.KAMENGROUP.com). of this country depends.” Names Kamen The library is located at 2385 For over 70 years, the Community Room Grand Avenue in Baldwin. O Communist regime succeeded The Baldwin Public in depriving generations of Library is proud to Istochnik: Reaching Soviet Jews of their wisdom, culture, announce that its communi- Jews Across The World religion, and heritage. Jewish ty room will be named The For millions of isolated children were orphaned from Kevin B. Kamen Community Jewish children and families that most basic human right— Room to honor its outgoing in the former Soviet Union their identity. Restoring a

42 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES Jewish ID to Jewish children spread over an area that exceeds 8,492,000 square miles is a daunting task. It takes vision, manpower, dedication, sacrifice, and finances. The only practical solution is class- room teaching by live long-distance videoconferencing. The Russian- speaking teachers in Israel see and address their children by their names in a live teaching interaction two-three times weekly. Videoconferencing allows people in different locations to see and talk to each other. In addition to formal teaching, this technology allows for guest speakers and experts, multi- school collaboration, interviews, and community events. Two-way video is almost like being there. The audiovisu- al interaction impact on children is fascinating and enhances understand- ing plus connectivity. Videoconferenc- ing costs a fraction of regular educa- tion. The return on investment ratio and its cost effectiveness is extremely high, as more people can be touched in scores of distant places. Mr. Sol Goldschmidt of Zurich, manager of Istochnik, is a retired entrepreneur. The father of Rav Pinchas Goldschmidt, chief rabbi of Pesach 2008: Bobruisk-Belarus

In a city of the former Soviet Union, a Jewish family sat around the table and held their breaths. Newly exposed to Yiddishkeit, the Seder was the focal point of this recently discovered festival. And the moment for which the boy waited all evening had finally arrived. He had stolen the afiko- man and demanded its ransom. Never in their wildest imagina- tions could the boy’s family fathom what their son would request. Unlike other boys his age, he was not interested in a book or game; not even a shiny new bike. His demand: to be able to attend Jewish classes. What was it that brought this child, new to appreciate his Jewish identity, to thirst for more? What is the cause of the metamorphosis taking place in hundreds of Jewish homes throughout the FSU? The answer: the boy attended the Istochnik classes—a unique, revolutionizing approach to out- reach, never been seen before. O

Moscow, has taken modern technology and turned it into a Divine opportuni- ty. “Outreach to the spiritually neglect- ed children of the FSU has never been easier, cheaper, quicker, and more effective,” Mr. Goldschmidt proclaims. “And the results have been beyond our wildest expectations!” The parents and children alike are raving about the out- standing lessons and quality changes of their lives. The teacher sits at home in Israel and the supervised children sit in a classroom some 3,000 to 8,500 kilometers away. Treats and prizes are

Continued on Page 44 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 43 part and parcel of the lessons. As an added incentive, the teachers prepare games and fun charts. The lessons are exciting; the children responsive. They are trying hard to implement the learn- ing in their lives. Istochnik—which is Russian for “mekor [mayim chaim]” or “Source [of Living Waters],” to which Torah is compared—features personalities such as Rav Akiva Tatz of Ohr Sameach, London; Rav Y. Roll from Encounter, Baltimore; Rav Shmuel Dishon of Yad Yisroel, Brooklyn, and high-profile businessmen. Only a few months into this pro- gram, Istochnik’s classes have been directly responsible for some impor- tant developments. In addition to the afikoman ransom, boys have gone to yeshiva, and many b’risos milah for adults and teens have taken place. Most of the students participate in the Kabbolas Shabbas and Shabbos seudah. In Vitebsk, each week, they help the elderly prepare for Shabbos and bring them the Shabbos meals from the community kitchen. The Jewish survival of thousands of children is at stake and every saved Jewish child will forever bear testimo- ny and gratitude to you. Visit www.istok.ru/vc to see the films and for donation information.

Priority-1 Hosts Inaugural Legislative Breakfast On Wednesday, August 13, Priority-1 hosted its inaugural legislative breakfast at the Lawrence Country Club. This event educated legislators about youth who are “at risk” of dropping out of high school and ultimately becoming alien- ated from their families and their com- munities, and helped raise support and awareness about the challenges facing “at risk” youth through effective public policy and legislation. In addition, com- munal, civic, and religious leaders, community philanthropists, and elected officials attended in order to pay tribute to elected officials who recognize the invaluable role that Priority-1 has played in ensuring the social rehabilita- tion and eventual success of numerous young people within the wider Jewish community. The breakfast, which was coordinat- ed by the Friedlander Group, paid trib- ute to numerous individuals who have helped to ensure the continued suc- cess of Priority-1. William E. Rapfogel, CEO of the Metropolitan Council on Jewish Poverty, served as the master of ceremonies at the event. Priority-1 founder Rabbi Shaya Cohen opened the event by addressing and welcoming all the attendants. Elected officials were presented with awards to acknowledge their ded- ication to the ideals of Priority-1. Michael Tobman, principal at Hudson TG, presented the State Leadership Award to New York State Comptroller Thomas P. DiNapoli. New York State Senate Majority Leader Dean G. Skelos received the Legislative Leadership Award from Rabbi Simcha Lefkowitz, executive director of Lifetech learning center. Nassau County Executive Thomas R. Suozzi was given the Nassau County Leadership Award by Priority-1 board president David Devor. The National 44 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES Leadership Award was pre- sented to Congressman Steve Israel by Rabbi Yitzchok Knobel, rosh yeshiva of Yeshiva Gedolah of the Five Towns. The Priority-1 Appreciation Award was given to Assemblyman Felix Ortiz, Chairman of the New York State Assembly Committee on Alcoholism and Drug Abuse. Barry Wilansky, the executive director of the Tempo Group was presented the Pioneer in Crisis Intervention Award by Rabbi Shaya Cohen. Remarks at the breakfast were delivered by Nassau County Comptroller Howard S. Weitzman. Greetings were delivered by County Legislator Judi Bosworth, County Legislator Roger H. Corbin, County Legislator David Denenberg, County Legislator David Mejias, and County Legislator Jeffrey Toback. Rabbi Shaya Cohen expressed his feelings about the success of the breakfast: “I was gratified by the sense of passion and eagerness all the participants at the breakfast showed to the issues of youth ‘at risk.’ After seeing the sin- cerity of the feelings from the elected officials to every par- ticipant at the breakfast, I can only begin to imagine the advancements that will come forth as a result of this event. Founded in 1987, Priority-1 offers a number of programs that address the personal issues facing troubled teenagers and enables them to turn their lives around, so they can successful- ly complete their education and become productive mem- bers of society. For more infor- mation on Priority-1 call 718- 436-5555, or visit www .Priority-1.org. O

A Precious Legacy: Sefer Torah Dedicated In Loving Memory Of Michael Cooper By Rochelle Maruch Miller On a picture-perfect sum- mer day, under sun-drenched skies, several hundred of Michael Cooper’s family members and friends partici- pated in a hachnasas sefer Torah at Congregation Anshei Chesed l’ilui nishmas the beloved Hewlett resident. “Michael Cooper was an incredibly honest and ethical person,” recalls Steven Savitsky, Michael’s close friend and neighbor. “As a friend, you had total confi- dence and trust when you dealt with him. We were friends forever; for many, many years and in many cir- cumstances. The hachnasas sefer Torah was a fitting trib- ute to Michael’s memory. He was an extraordinary person

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Ice-cream parlors offer a flavor of had better be good! the month; frozen-yogurt shops have a The newest diagnosis around flavor of the day; and some restaurants town—probably around the planet—is offer both a dessert of the month and spinal stenosis. This is phenomenal for a soup du jour. All of this means that one reason: it’s the discovery of a con- the proprietor or, more likely, the man- dition that has probably been around ager of the establishment has to come since the dawn of man. Anyone who up with something new and different walks on two feet can develop spinal

Perfect! He has something to tell the patient, and there’s no way to prove that the stenosis is not causing the pain.

every 24 hours or every 7 days or, at stenosis. And what’s even more signifi- the very least, every 30 or 31 days. And cant is that this “new guy on the block” it has to be good! (the spinal stenosis diagnosis) gets to Doctors do something like that, hang around much longer than a too, but it’s not a flavor, it’s a diagno- month. It should be good for years, sis. And it’s done with more ease maybe even forever. since it’s not necessary to get cre- To patients and doctors alike, a ative. But, like the flavor of ice cream diagnosis—preferably one for which and the taste of desserts and soups, it there is a cure—means absolutely

46 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES everything. Getting a diagnosis at least Any doctor—who is a true human- narrowing of the spinal cord, causes with it. No surgery for me, thank you offers a reason for the pain. The best- itarian by most (but not all) stan- pinching of the sciatic nerve. And this very much.” The miracle “cure” here case scenario is being diagnosed with dards—wants to help his patients. can lead to persistent pain, limping, is the mention of the word surgery. something that has a quick and simple But not all doctors are created equal. and sometimes a lack of feeling in the It looks as if the new guy on the cure. But, barring that, the next best A good doctor has to be a good detec- lower extremities. Spinal stenosis may block will be here for a while. O thing is for a sufferer to learn that he tive. And while a physician who asks be congenital or acquired. has something specific—that would the right questions has a reasonably The congenital type is relatively Hannah Berman lives in Woodmere and is a licensed real-estate broker associated with be anything that has a name. Hearing good chance of getting to the root of rare and usually shows up at an early Marjorie Hausman Realty. She can be reached at that name is an “ah ha” moment. the problem, that’s not always age. The stenosis that’s more com- [email protected] or 516-902-3733. As people age, aches and pains may enough. There are times when noth- mon is the one that develops as peo- be occasional companions. For the less ing seems to make sense, in which ple age. And it does seem to be the fortunate they may be frequent ones. case both the doctor and the patient latest rage. It’s a puzzling condition This is a mixed bag. Pains can be are out of luck. And nobody is that can be neither predicted nor If you should say in sharp, dull, throbbing, or burning, to happy—with the probable exception prevented. It doesn’t distinguish by your heart: These name but a few varieties. The duration of the pharmaceutical companies sex, race, or ethnicity. Nor is it asso- is also varied. Some pains come and who make pain-relief medications, ciated with any particular occupation nations are more go, while others hang around for a pain patches, and those icy-hot packs or specific body type. Perfect! What numerous than I; how while. This holds true for even well- that are so popular today. doctor could ask for anything more? can I dispossess toned seniors and even middle-aged Living in an era of X-rays, CAT He has something to tell the patient, people who are in good shape (a group scans, and MRIs has saved doctors and there’s no way to prove that the them? You shall not to which I do not belong). countless moments of frustration. stenosis is not causing the pain. be afraid of them Spinal stenosis seems to be today’s These diagnostic tools give physicians As with most medical conditions, most popular diagnosis for symptoms something to hang their collective hats there are degrees, ranging from mild (Devarim 7:17-18) of cramping, pain, or numbness in (or stethoscopes) on. to severe. This is important. Once a When you understand that the legs, back, hips, neck, or shoul- Acknowledging that medicine is a patient learns that his stenosis is ders. It’s picked up by means of X-ray, noble profession, this is not meant to mild, he’s thrilled. While the pain the nations are more MRI, and clinical findings. What’s denigrate the medical doctors who doesn’t diminish with the knowledge, numerous than you, and not always clear, however, is whether conduct the clinical exam. Nor is this he will decide that he just has to live that you, with your own the stenosis is the definitive cause of a criticism of the radiologists who with the problem. That works fairly power, cannot defeat them the patient’s pain. Usually the doctor interpret test results. Above all, it is well, because, once someone has a giving the physical exam knows what not a trivialization of the painful and reason for the pain, he immediately but are totally dependent he’s talking about. The same rule debilitating symptoms that may be feels better. If, however, the doctor on G-d’s help, then you applies to the radiologist who evalu- associated with spinal stenosis. There says that the stenosis is severe, and if need not fear them. But if ate the test results. So we now know is, however, one oddity that can’t be the pain is truly intolerable—and you begin to believe that that a good many people do in fact ignored. It does seem somewhat what sciatic nerve pain isn’t?—he have spinal stenosis. The trouble is bizarre that so many people who com- might take it a step further and think you can defeat them on that no one can prove with 100 per- plain of pain in any of the aforemen- about having invasive treatment. But your own, then you indeed cent certainty that the stenosis is tioned areas receive the same answer: for most people it usually doesn’t go have great cause for fear. what’s causing the pain. However, for Ah-ha, there it is! I see it clearly: you beyond the thinking stage. More some folks, even an uncertain diag- have spinal stenosis. often it results in, “Okay, I know what (Maasei Hashem) nosis is better than none. The condition, which is due to a it is, and yes, it hurts a lot, but I’ll live

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B Y STEVEN GENACK

E. F. Schumacher said, “Any intelli- gent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius—and a lot of courage— to move in the opposite direction.” Moshe Rabbeinu took this approach much earlier, as we see in the first verse of Parashas Eikev (Devarim 7:12), which says, “And it will be because you will heed these ordinances and keep them and perform that the L-rd, your G-d, will keep for you the covenant and the kind- ness that He swore to your forefathers.” In this verse, Moshe encapsulates all of Jewish history and provides perspec- tive and understanding in how we can hasten the Mashiach and triumph in all our military battles. Moshe urges us to be enthused with the new but remem- ber the old. Victory is possible if our actions permit G-d to remember the everlasting covenant with Avraham. We must realize that Yaakov’s essence was symbolic of grasping, yearning, fighting, deceit, and warfare. Yaakov fought his whole life to remain standing. He fought in the womb, in the dark of the night, and upfront with his kin. If we grasp the sacrifice and valor exhibited by the avos and continue the tradition of fighting against the evil incli- nation, bad thoughts, and our unworthy enemies, Mashiach will arrive. We couldn’t be deemed “Yisrael” if not for Yaakov, but we won’t receive G-d’s kindness if we fail to guard the commandments. All battles that con- front us will be easily won so long as G-d is the general. He wants to be our general, but we must live up to our bargain. This is the reality that Moshe is conveying to B’nei Yisrael in a direct, upfront, and succinct message. It takes a lot of courage to present such basic and simple words to a nation that is used to turning away. Moshe, however, takes the risk. He adds another book to the Torah in order to give B’nei Yisrael a perfect review. Moshe took no chances. He deliv- ered reality. He spoke to us as our leader who always sacrificed for us and served as our sole advocate throughout our travels in the desert. His sincerity couldn’t be questioned. He was our messenger who only want- ed us to succeed. He wanted us to enter the land easily, with no resist- ance. He was our father and always looked out for our best interests. It would be foolish not to heed his words that have been delivered to us on a silver platter. Moshe is merely saying to be grateful for the sacrifice of the avos and, at a minimum, guard the commandments. It’s easy and it guarantees military victory—which we certainly now need. O

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5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 49 ruefully observes, “The events of July 5, to Staten Island. 2020 made 9/11 look like child’s play.” Throughout it all, Yisroel and Leah Back To The Future After listening to a report on an never entertain the notion of relinquish- emergency radio indicating that an ing their faith and determination to sur- BOOK REVIEW ings, From Central Park to Sinai: How I electromagnetic bomb detonated high vive. Having packed his tallis, tefillin, sid- B Y FERN SIDMAN Found My Jewish Soul (2000), his per- above the earth’s surface has destroyed dur, and Chumash, Yisroel prays three sonal memoirs and recollections of his telecommunications for thousands of times a day, beseeching Hashem for “In the End of Days, after the journey to Orthodox Judaism, and miles, the Neubergers decide to head mercy while he and Leah offer succor to Children of Israel have returned to their Worldstorm: Finding Meaning and off to New Jersey to locate their chil- each other with timely divrei Torah. What land, the children of Ishmael and the Direction Amidst Today’s World Crisis dren and search for an escape route to follows is nothing short of miraculous. children of Esau will unite to attack (2003), a history book that applies Torah Eretz Yisrael, where they could be Feeling the Hand of Hashem every step Jerusalem. They will form a world coali- reasoning to our current global situation. reunited with their other children and of the way, Yisroel and Leah meet up with tion against the tiny nation of Israel. But While 2020 Vision is a novel and thus bask in the safety of the place on this their children from Lakeville (Lakewood something will go wrong with their plan. a departure from his non-fiction books, earth where the Shechinah (G-d’s pres- to us laymen) along with a formidable The religious beliefs of the children of this action-packed tale retains a keen eye ence) dwells. With the roads immersed chevrah of frum Jews. Together they Ishmael and the children of Esau will on the very real and often grim geopoliti- in gridlock and supplies of gas scarce, negotiate a strategic plan for survival. clash, and the two nations will collide cal realities of our times. There is no the Neubergers employ some ingenu- Beset by a multitude of serious dan- and destroy each other. That is what is question that this book can be termed a ity and utilize their only viable means gers, challenges, and difficulties, they referred to as the War of Gog and Magog. hybrid of sorts, combining compelling fic- of transportation, their trusty bicycles, meet extraordinary people, sent by Following this cataclysmic conflict, the tion with true-to-life biographical flash- to get them where they need to be. Hashem to assist them on the path to Final Redemption of the Jewish people backs that provide the reader with an inti- Turning to each other for comfort redemption. Uncle Phil and Aunt will occur with the coming of Messiah, mate look into the psyche of the protago- and solace during this arduous, if not Bessie play a critical role in the story, the son of King David” (Malbim [Rabbi nist. While enjoying this fast-paced page impossible, trek, Yisroel queries his while other characters, including right- Meir Leib ben Yechiel Michel, 1808- turner, readers should be cautioned to wife. “Leah, how will we survive?” eous gentiles, also offer guidance and 1879] on Yechezkel, 32:17). fasten their proverbial seatbelts, because Leah’s rejoinder is clear. “We will sur- assistance in this heart-stopping drama. With this prescient insight, author it’s going to be a bumpy ride. vive, G-d will save us. You will see.” The reader cannot help but marvel Roy (Yisroel) S. Neuberger begins weav- This apocalyptic sojourn begins on This unshakable faith and trust in at the sheer eloquence and graphic ing a tale predicated on the hallmarks of Sunday, July 5, 2020. It is a leisurely Hashem serves as the catalyst and depiction of the events leading up to Jewish tradition: faith and trust in summer day and Yisroel and his wife driving force for their journey through the coming of Mashiach. This chilling Hashem and the yearning for the Final Leah are enjoying the simple pleasures of the dense darkness to the light at the account of the dawn of the Messianic Redemption. In an apocalyptic tale of life at their Long Island home. But this end of the tunnel. On their road to era is not for the faint-hearted or those faith and redemption, Neuberger’s was to be the last day on this earth that reunification with their children and who suffer from ideological myopia. recently released novel, 2020 Vision the Neubergers—or anyone else—would then on to safety, the Neubergers con- Many of us have pondered what events (Feldheim, 328 pages), represents an experience a semblance of normalcy. front a seemingly endless litany of har- would look like when Mashiach authentic testament to the strength and Quite suddenly the world is caught in the rowing and life-threatening scenarios, comes, yet Mr. Neuberger takes this to resolve of the human spirit in the face of deadly grip of a global nuclear attack, amongst them being almost crushed a whole new level. He offers us a horrific adversities and tribulations. Yet, planned and coordinated by terrorist to death by commercial airliners, an unique perspective on our daily rela- the resounding theme of faith and trust sleeper cells. The world outside their attack by a band of hooligans, and an tionship with Hashem and gives new in Hashem and adherence to tenets of window “turned white” and their “house encounter with an unscrupulous mis- definition to our collective role in our Torah against all odds have been hall- shook violently” while the sounds of creant who is the only person that can final destiny. marks of Mr. Neuberger’s previous writ- booms punctuated the air. As the author transport them by boat from Brooklyn A must-read! Five stars! O

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 45 who loved the community.” Indeed, it was Steven’s wife, Genie, who convinced Michael and Sheryl Cooper to move to the Five Towns from Kew Gardens Hills 22 years ago. Upon hearing that the Coopers’ air conditioner in their previous home was in need of repair, Genie advised Sheryl not to have it fixed because there was a house for sale across the street from the Savitskys. The rest is history. Together with their beautiful children, Michael and Sheryl moved to Hewlett and became one of Congregation Anshei Chesed’s founding families. Formerly known as Congregation Toras Chaim, the shul became a focal point of Michael’s life. “From the very first, we both felt the friendship and warmth of this unique kehillah and its rav and rebbetzin,” Sheryl explains. “We immediately became immersed in the life of the shul and felt that we were part of the ‘South Shore family.’ Michael became a mainstay of the early minyan and in the early years joined the rav’s Shabbos afternoon Gemara shiur. The shul became a major part of Michael’s life and a source of much of his humor. Michael felt a tremendous achrayus to make sure that the shul always had a minyan. “Michael was irrepressible when he had a joke to tell. I would see that spe- cial twinkle in his eye and knew that nothing I could say or do would restrain him. He just felt that it was his obligation to share his simchas ha’chay- im with everyone around him. Very often, I would watch Michael in shul and marvel at how comfortable and at home he seemed there. He would have a smile and a joke for everyone and it seemed to me as if many men approached him regularly just to see him smile and hear his latest funny anecdote.” Steven Soep, who is president of Congregation Anshei Chesed, recalled Michael’s serene presence: “He was an amazing man who made everyone feel special. Michael was quiet and pleas- ant and his absence is very palpable. I look at his seat in shul and it’s still his. He possessed a quiet strength. Michael would walk into a room and make everyone feel truly special.” Michael and Sheryl grew up togeth- er in Kew Gardens Hills; they met at the Young Israel and were married on Lag B’Omer at the ages of 20 and 19, respectively. Michael graduated from CCNY in 1966 with a degree in electri- cal engineering. He spent 18 years as Vice President of Engineering and Product Development at the Knogo Corporation and more recently was Vice President and Chief Operating Officer of CGM Corporation. An extremely honest individual, Michael’s moral compass and his behavior were a kiddush Hashem in his business endeavors, where everyone knew that he was a Torah-observant Jew. “Michael was an extremely intelli- gent and insightful person, known for his sense of humor and his ‘seiver

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5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 55 AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS yan and went to play tennis, when he ting tribute to her beloved husband’s Rambam in the early 1990s? Continued from Page 51 collapsed on the tennis court. memory, Sheryl consulted with several A. Obviously, starting Rambam was people, in particular her son Jonathan much harder because it was truly a and his wife Lauren, and her daughter new school. We had to start from Abby and her husband Yaron, as well scratch, with no infrastructure, teach- as Genie and Steve. “We looked at ers, computers, or books, and limited every possible option trying to find the financial resources. Starting Shalhevet perfect vehicle to honor Michael’s is a much simpler process because it’s memory. The minute that I thought of really just an extension of our existing having a sefer Torah written to be used program, not a new school. We have an by the shul, I instinctively knew that it existing building that we’ve been using was the right thing to do, and my chil- for years, we’re bringing our best dren and advisors heartily concurred. teachers from across the Machon to My dear son-in-law, Yaron, did a mag- teach the Shalhevet girls, we have nificent job of tending to every detail computers, programs, everything. So, of having the sefer Torah written with for example, we have a unique reli- the same level of kavod that he always gious Zionism curriculum at both showed to Michael and to me, as well, Rambam and HAFTR; that will be and I cannot begin to express my transported over to Shalhevet, as well. appreciation to him for all his efforts. We have a unique science competition We feel that this donation unites two mentoring program run by Rivki of the elements that were very dear to Isseroff at Rambam and HAFTR; she’ll Michael and creates a lasting com- now mentor the Shalhevet girls as A Sefer Torah was dedicated in memory of Mr. Michael Cooper, a’h, memoration of his love of Torah and well. Believe me, it’s much different at Congregation Anshei Chesed. his devotion to Congregation Anshei starting a school from scratch than Chesed. simply adding a new program, which at panim yafos,’ says Sheryl. “He had “His greatest joy in life was spend- I am very certain that Michael the opening will have 15 girls, to an golden hands and was able to use his ing time with our eleven grandchil- would have heartily approved of this existing school of 600+ students. engineering background to fix any- dren. Michael was most comfortable project and that it will truly provide an That being said, it’s still very excit- thing. All of our neighbors knew that sitting on the floor with one or more of aliyah for his neshamah. O ing, because Shalhevet represents he was available at any time to help. our grandchildren on his lap. He was a something new in Torah education for His was the expertise behind many of most unpretentious person who was Shalhevet Ready To Open women. We have a hashkafah that the science-fair projects for kids who able to make anyone and everyone his An Interview With Rabbi Zev Meir emphasizes serious Torah learning, lived on Daub Avenue. friend. When it came to his grandchil- Friedman, Rosh HaYeshiva, Machon academic excellence, a heartfelt com- “Michael loved playing tennis. He dren, his patience knew no bounds. HaTorah mitment to Eretz Yisrael, and activism was part of a rotating group of men When we would go to Israel to visit our Q. Machon HaTorah’s third division, on behalf of Jewish causes, and it’s that played tennis together for over 25 daughter and her family, he would the all-girls’ Midreshet Shalhevet– offered in a warm, nurturing environ- years. Michael passed away quite sud- spend countless hours playing with Shalhevet High School for Girls, will be ment. We celebrate diversity, the denly on the morning of November 2, them in the park or adjusting their commencing classes in a few weeks. notion that every girl is unique, every- 2006 doing what he loved. He had fin- bicycles.” Can you describe the feeling and how one counts, not that there’s only one ished davening with the morning min- Reflecting on what would be a fit- does it compare, say, to when you began mold to which every girl has to con-

56 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES form or else she’s somehow an out- onships—the Intel competition, the sider. We want an environment where Siemens-Westinghouse competition— the girls are smiling throughout the almost every year. There will be fun school day, because school is both and inspirational shabbatonim; for enriching and enjoyable. And B’H, we example, the first shabbaton is going to have been able to accomplish this— be spent at my summer cottage in New just look at our graduates. Hampshire, where the girls will experi- What are some of the unique pro- ence the beginning of fall foliage and grams at Shalhevet? be able to get a unique perspective on Just look at the things going on at mah rabu ma’asecha Hashem. Oh, and Rambam and HAFTR, the other two by the way, at Shalhevet we teach both divisions of the Machon, and you’ll get Spanish and Arabic, because they’re a good sense of the kinds of things that the second languages of the U.S. and the girls at Shalhevet will be experi- Israel. I tell you, Shalhevet will be encing. Our limudei kodesh program is much more than just a school; it will centered on the recognition that our be an unforgettable experience. girls want to have a meaningful Torah Who are the teachers? educational program, one that It’s obviously impossible to list them enhances their appreciation of Torah all, but Rabbi Steven Moskowitz, through substantive knowledge and whom we call the “Cholent Rebbe” understanding. We’re going to have a because of his Friday cholent/tzedakah unique program where the Shalhevet programs at HAFTR, will be teaching girls spend time with women whom we Torah SheB’al Peh. Rabbi Gidon view as true role models—women who Rothstein, who supervises the limudei are able to effectively synthesize their kodesh curriculum across the Machon, lives as Torah-observant Jews with the will be teaching Tanach. Mrs. Rachel demands of the modern world, people Gerstley will be running the beit like Dr. Deborah Dienstag, who is a midrash program. I’ve mentioned Rivki mother of four and a practicing pedia- Isseroff, our science coordinator. trician in Lawrence, or Mrs. Aliza Rabbi Yotav Eliach, the Machon prin- Cinamon, who is a mother of four and cipal, will be teaching Zionism from a a practicing attorney at a major Torah perspective. Mr. Michael Kelly Manhattan law firm. from Rambam will be teaching alge- There will be special “lunch and bra; Mrs. Shaindy Hammer will be the learn” programs with distinguished, PhysEd instructor. I could go on and thoughtful women in our community, on; it’s a truly outstanding group. like Mrs. Esther Wien. I’ve talked Were there challenges along the way? about our science mentoring program. Of course, but that’s to be expect- Our students win major national and international science champi- Continued on Page 58

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ed. We had planned on having Dr. Rivka Blau join us at the beginning of the year, but unfortunately, due to personal circumstances, she won’t be able to, although we still hope to have her join us at some point. When she informed us of her decision, we immediately notified the Shalhevet parent body, and we were very grati- fied by the strong message of support that we received back from them. That’s one of the advantages of a small school environment; we can stay in close contact with our parents, and they feel free to reach out to us as well. So, when there are important developments, we make sure that they’re informed immediately, and that they hear facts, not rumors. On the other hand, the advantage of being part of a big program is that we have an abundance of administra- tive resources to fill any unexpected contingency that may arise. So, on the administrative side, we have Ms. Renee Hochhauser, a longtime educa- tor and assistant principal at HANC, who will serve as Shalhevet’s senior administrator. We have Mrs. Gail Elsant, our director of programming, who comes to us from SKA and Shevach. Andrea Schulman, our director of student activities, and Mrs. Chani Schwartz, our mechanechet, will provide the kind of youthful energy to the program that we so want. Of course, we also have Morah Mindy—Mrs. Mindy Suss- man—who will oversee Shalhevet’s office. So Shalhevet has a deep administrative team in addition to its team of outstanding educators. And who are the girls coming to Shalhevet? The girls are absolutely amazing. They’re bright, independent, and strong-willed—yet respectful, with wonderful midot. They come to us from a variety of different programs— Shulamith, Bnot Shulamith, HALB, HAFTR, HANC, North Shore, Prospect Park—and different commu- nities. They represent the kind of girls that we want, the kind who will go on to become models for others, indeed, for our entire community. They’re the true stars in this story; we’re just the coaches, helping them along the way to achieve their life goals. O

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58 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES Olim Come To Israel, Delegates Stay Abroad

B Y DANNY ADINO ABABA sue business ventures, using the con- executive vice-president of the various missions in the past 70 years, tacts they have made during the time London-based European Council of this phenomenon is marginal and Most in Israel can recall with per- they were stationed. And these are not Jewish Communities. consists of a few dozen who have fect clarity the comedy skit put on by junior delegates stationed in remote “Orni is a lieutenant-colonel in the breached the trust between them and HaGashash Hahiver in which two of regions, but rather senior emissaries military reserves, Israel’s most Israeli the agency.” the trio portray delegates sent to the who have represented the Jewish (delegate) as far as potential olim are The Jewish Agency for Israel offered United States to encourage immigra- Agency in some of the largest Jewish concerned,” a source in the Jewish the following: “Out of the tens of thou- tion to Israel when they themselves communities around the world. Agency said. “His decision to remain sands of emissaries working for the have been in New York for 30 years One of them is Michael there instead of setting a personal Jewish Agency, we know of very few and have no plans of returning. Landsberg, who until two and a half example has severely damaged their former emissaries staying overseas for Some of the Jewish Agency’s top years ago served as the head of the faith in the agency.” Orni said in work, studies, or traveling. The agency envoys, it seems, have taken that skit North American aliyah delegation. response that “it is unfit to go on a places hundreds of emissaries every to heart, choosing to remain abroad Others who held the post before Zionist mission and stay for business. year, who are carefully selected in an after the completion of their terms Landsberg went on to take various I am glad I don’t belong to that cate- intensive screening process and serve rather than coming back to Israel, now key positions in Israel, like Yossi gory. I would not have returned to in Jewish communities worldwide. home to thousands of people those Kochik who served in the Finance Europe for business, because it They work to encourage aliyah, in giv- very envoys persuaded to make aliyah. Ministry and was the director-gener- seems unethical to me.” ing Zionist-Jewish education and in The Jewish Agency has about 200 al of the Prime Minister’s Office Other names on the list include the strengthening the ties between the delegates stationed throughout under Ehud Barak. former Philadelphia delegate and the Diaspora Jewry and the State of Israel. countries such as America, Russia, Landsberg, however, opted to former delegation chief on the Russian Upon the completion of their mission, South Africa, Chile, and Argentina. remain in the U.S. and currently city of Samara mission, who decided to all the delegates return to Israel and In order to become an aliyah emis- resides in Livingston, New Jersey. stay there for personal reasons, as has many of them continue to contribute sary (shliach aliyah), one is required Landberg responded to our inquiry by the agency’s emissary in Russia’s to the country.” (YNetNews) O to undergo an intensive screening saying he lives in both countries. “I do Yekaterinaburg. process and demonstrate flawless not wish to respond on or share my pri- Amos Hermon, chairman of the knowledge of the history of Zionism vate life with you,” he said. department for Jewish Zionist and the Jewish nation. Lieutenant-Colonel (Res.) Tomer Education at the Jewish Agency is not And their task is far from simple: Orni, served as the agency’s senior surprised by the data: “We consider WHAT’S YOUR OPINION? The agency’s emissaries’ role is to per- delegate to the UK, and oversaw the this phenomenon, of the agency’s suade as many Jews as possible to agency’s operations across most of emissaries remaining in the countries WE WANT TO KNOW! make aliyah and serve as mediators Western Europe, with the exception they served in, as very serious. This is between the Jewish communities and of France, Belgium, and a slap in the face of the Zionist, edu- the State of Israel. Switzerland. Orni returned to Israel cational mission for which they were E-MAIL US AT But with all due respect to Zionism, after ending his term and headed a trained and dispatched. “However, I at least 10 delegates have decided to team that established a new college; estimate that out of the thousands of [email protected] stay overseas after completing their only to return to Britain a year later, Jewish Agency and Zionist allotted terms, often choosing to pur- after receiving an offer to serve as Organization emissaries leaving for

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 59 to pornography when bochurim would Melamed, one of the leaders of the The Internet Inclination talk about it in yeshiva. In the ‘alef religious-Zionist community, has shiur’ such things were never men- come out with a passionate appeal for B Y TZVI FISHMAN among the first to warn about the spiri- tioned, but in the lower shiurim, regu- rabbis, educators, and parents to take tual dangers of the Internet. When he lar bochurim were brazen enough to action to put out the fires that are Two years ago, I wrote an article claimed that the growing number of quietly, and not so quietly, discuss spreading though our learning institu- entitled, “Where Are the Rabbis?” yeshiva dropouts was being caused by their adventures in the world of tions and homes. calling on the nation’s rabbis to lead addiction to the Internet, many educa- pornography. Being a nice sweet boy, “We can no longer hide from this the fight against Internet pornogra- tors turned a deaf ear. The elder and a good kid, at one point I was problem,” he declares. “We must wage phy. I am pleased to announce that Kabbalist, however, continued his warn- entrusted with a password that could a war against the sitra achra (evil incli- slowly, but surely, they are awakening ings, explaining that a person brings a enable me to access websites beyond nation) attacking our communities.” to the challenge. terrible impurity upon himself by view- my Internet settings, and on one occa- Part of this war, the rabbi writes, is With summer vacation upon us, a ing immodest images and severs his con- sion, overcome by a lust I had never to equip every home with an Internet group of rabbis from the religious- filter, such as the encompassing new Zionist community have circulated a Israeli Internet Service Provider, letter calling on parents to install anti- Rimon: “This must be done immedi- pornography filters on all home com- ately, without any postponement, in puters. They write: A person brings a terrible impurity order to guard the purity of our chil- “All year long, the Internet is a dren.” If parents are lax in their lawless and wide open wilderness upon himself...making Torah responsibility, then children must that entraps countless victims, our demand this of their mothers and own children, damaging their pre- learning and prayer into dry, fathers. “All of the rabbis and teach- cious souls. Vacations are times of ers in yeshivot and ulpanot must exert even greater danger, when the abun- joyless matters. all of their influence on students and dance of free time lures teenagers parents in this pressing matter.” If into the easy traps of the Internet. this step isn’t taken, he warns, all of The mantra, ‘It won’t happen to my the spiritual and intellectual progress child,’ is a vain and dangerous nection to everything holy, making Torah possessed (nor to that magnitude), I of the school year will be wiped out excuse for not taking the proper learning and prayer into dry, joyless mat- used that loophole to see what would by the pitfalls of unsupervised measures to look out for the wellbe- ters that can’t compete with the bewitch- later become an obsessive addiction.” Internet viewing during summer ing of our loved ones.” ing “highs” of Internet addiction. The confession goes on to detail his vacation. (Arutz Sheva) O Speaking from their experience as A frightening true confession, horrifying descent into the world of rabbis and educators, the writers of the recently posted on the forum of our Internet porn. Because I have contact Tzvi Fishman was awarded the Israel Ministry of letter maintain that parents who don’t jewishsexuality.com website, that deals with lots of yeshiva students who have Education Prize for Jewish Culture and Creativity. Before making aliyah to Israel in provide suitable filters for their home with Internet pornography, graphically succumbed to the same temptations, I 1984, he was a successful Hollywood screen- computers are infringing several seri- portrays the tragedy that is spreading know that his story is not an isolated writer. He has co-authored 4 books with Rabbi ous commandments of the Torah. like a plague throughout the yeshiva tale that can be dismissed as some David Samson, based on the teachings of Rabbis A. Y. Kook and T. Y. Kook. His other books They also warn parents to be sure that world, not to mention our homes. crazy exception to the rule. include: The Kuzari For Young Readers and the cell phones of their children are The anonymous entry begins: “As a This week, in the Shabbat bulletin Tuvia in the Promised Land. His new book, Secret of the Brit, is scheduled to be published not open to free Internet access. normal bochur, a ‘good kid’, going to Komemiyut, which is distributed all shortly. Excerpts can be found at www.jewishsex- Rabbi Leon Levi from Bnei Brak was yeshivish yeshivas, I was first exposed over Israel, Rabbi Zalman Baruch uality.com.

60 August 22, 2008 5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES A Murderer Absolved In The New York Times

BY GILEAD INI ist Samir Kuntar, and the name the findings of an Israeli court. disappearance of his wife” and “plead- Sharon Tate with those of Danny Most sober observers would dis- ed not guilty” to charges that he killed Imagine opening up a newspaper and Haran and his 4-year-old daughter agree. We might believe people should her. In 2004, a headline announced, reading the following four paragraphs: Einat, then the passage matches, be presumed innocent until proven “Jury finds Scott Peterson Guilty of In late 1969, the American news almost word for word, the language of guilty in a court of law, but not that Wife’s Murder.” The following year, media carried graphic reports of a gang, a July 16 story about Kuntar published they should be considered innocent Peterson was described in the Times dispatched by its charismatic leader, in the New York Times. The piece casts even after being proven guilty. as “the fertilizer salesman for whom Charles Manson, brutally murdering doubt on the veracity of the Israeli Still, maybe the press, as profession- the murder of his wife seemed prefer- Sharon Tate and several others in her court decision finding Kuntar to be al skeptics and critics, see things dif- able to the slow dissolution of mar- home in the Santa Monica mountains. guilty of murder, concluding that ferently. If the New York Times has a riage.” Unlike with Kuntar, “whatever But at his 1970 trial, Mr. Manson “whatever the truth, the kidnapping of policy of placing a suspect’s denial and the truth” was not seen as applying to insisted he neither killed anyone nor a child clouds Mr. Kuntar’s supposed a court’s ruling on equal footing, then the Peterson verdict. ordered anyone to be killed. And again in heroism.” A highlighted “pull quote” this Kuntar article, even if disagree- And of course, although Charles a 1987 interview, he asserted that he’s invites readers to ask whether the man able, would not be unusual. Manson has insisted that he is “a “never killed anyone,” describing himself is “a child’s killer or a courageous But it turns out the piece is both petty car thief” who has “never killed as a petty car thief who has merely “bur- fighter against Israel.” disagreeable and unusual, an inex- anyone,” he was convicted in court glarized a grocery store, stole some nick- What new “evidence” caused the cusable departure from the Times’s of multiple counts of murder. The els and dimes, busted open a stamp Times reporter, Craig S. Smith, to cast typical treatment of convicted New York Times now refers to him as machine, stole a few automobiles, and doubt on the verdict? Smith explains killers. In May 1986, the newspaper “the serial killer Charles Manson,” cashed a couple checks.” that recently declassified court docu- reported that Richard Ramirez, a who perpetrated “the Charles A number of witnesses testified ments published in the Israeli press suspect in multiple murders, plead- Manson killings.” No buts, no against Manson at his trial, and he was reveal—and here is the bombshell that ed not guilty. In September 1989, it maybes, no whatevers. found guilty of first-degree murder. potentially exculpates the accused child carried the news that Ramirez was For the man who murdered a little Whatever the truth, the theft of killer—Kuntar claimed he didn’t do it. convicted of the crimes. The news- girl while on a mission for a automobiles clouds respect for Mr. Never mind the witnesses, the evi- paper immediately accepted the ver- Palestinian terrorist organization, Manson’s supposed leadership skills. dence, and the deliberation. Never dict as fact. A November 1989 report though, the New York Times and Craig If this revisionist account sounds mind that Kuntar initially admitted to described Ramirez as the man “who S. Smith—despite having reported in absurd—it repackages America’s most the killings, a point raised in the killed 13 people in…attacks that ter- the past that Kuntar did indeed perpe- infamous serial killer as a thief who Israeli press report but not men- rorized Southern California,” and trate the killings—now have a different might not actually be responsible for tioned in the New York Times. Never another story dubbed him “the Los standard. On July 16, the day journal- murder—that’s because it is. No seri- mind the girl’s brain tissue found on Angeles murderer called the ‘night ists and the general public marked ous newspaper would print such a the butt of his rifle. Smith apparently stalker.’” Still in August 2006, he Kuntar’s release from prison by recall- thing. Certainly, the respected New deems the denial by Kuntar, a mem- was described as “the serial killer ing his savagery, the New York Times York Times would not—at least, not ber of the Palestine Liberation Front Richard Ramirez.” absolved him. O about this particular killer. terror organization who had just infil- Likewise, in 2003, the newspaper The author is a senior Research Analyst for But if we replace the name Charles trated Israel with a Kalashnikov noted that suspect Scott Peterson CAMERA committee for Accuracy in Middle Manson with that of Lebanese terror- assault rifle, to be just as credible as “disavow[ed] any connection to the East Reporting in America)

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Hewlett — Col. MIC, 4br, 2bth, 2fpl, full deck, wood flr, Lg. den. Walk to all. CEDARHURST: NU House, CH ...... $729K Col.LR,FDR, Kosher Eik, Den,4BR.3BTHS. Bsmt...... …$3,200 5 TOWN HOMES 516-322-3555 5 TOWN HOMES 516-569-5710 Far Rockaway — Lg. Hse Rental: 4br, 2bth, bsmt., hi-ceilings, NU bths, W\D. Far Rockaway, Beach 3rd — newly Call 516-322-3555 renovated, new kitchen, 4 BR, 2.5 bths, big yard, driveway, access to private Cedarhurst — House Rental; kit, den, beach ...... $2,500 Call 516-672-4416 3br., 2.5 bth. bsmt ...... $2,400 5 TOWN HOMES 516-569-5710 Yerushalayim – Rechavia/Shaarei Chesed Spacious 2 BR apt, newly renovated, Far Rockaway — Walk-in Apt on Beach available for weekly rental. 9. Newly renovated. Close to syna- Please call 845-517-4222 ext. 15 gogues ...... $675 including all Cedarhurst — House Rental LR/FDR, Call 646-342-4030 or 718-350-6303 den, 3br, 2.5bth, Fin. Bsmt . . . . . $2,300 Call 516-322-3555 Far Rockaway — 2 Huge Office Spaces. 6,000 and 2,500 Sq Ft. 2nd Floor. Near Ced. — 3+ br apt, 1.5 bth, lg FDR, new Subway & LIRR. Build to Suit. Can be EIK, on quiet street, walk to all . . $2,200 N Wdm. — house rental. Hi-ranch in divided. Owner 917-359-9776 MIC. 4 br, CAC, den, on quiet street. 5 TOWN HOMES 516-569-5710 Cedarhurst: Office rental: Executive 2 Bths, Fully Web wired, 1,250 sq. ft., Miami Alexander Hotel — Short or long CAC. 5TGR 516-322-3555 term rental. 2 BR, 2 bths, luxury, Shabbos elevator, swimming pool, bal- cony, parking, beachfront. Lawrence — 18 Berkley Place Call Zeev Kolman 212-245-1715 Center hall col., 4 BR, 3 bths, stunning or 917-287-5858 cul-de-sac, best location. $4K monthly Call Irene 516-652-7099 Far Rockaway — Apartment available. Brand new construction. Furnished or Woodmere/Cedarhurst — 1 BR avail- unfurnished. 3 BR, 2bths. Cleaning and able. Secure buildings, updated EIK, laundry services available. Perfect for Shabbos elevator close to all and train the elderly. Call Sherri 516-569-5450 station. Call Sherri 516-297-7995 Far Rockaway—apt for rent. 4 BR, new Far Rockaway — 1 BR and 2 BR construction. Near all. New appliances. apartments. some balconies. New ...... $2,500 kitchens, lots of closets, 24 hr doorman, Call 516-445-4048, ask for Barry. security cameras. Close to White Shul, House for rent. Den, LR, DR, kitchen, Shor Yoshuv and train. 3 BR, 1.5 bths, balcony, driveway and Call Sherri 516-297-7995 garage, completely renovated, Beach 9 area. Call 718-846-7736 or 718-350-6303 Heart of Far Rockaway — Brand new construction. 3/4 bedrooms, 2 full baths 2 bedrooms, plenty closets DR/LR, new central air, laundry hook up, parking. kitchen, fireplace, bathroom, Jacuzzi, No Rental Fee. backyard, near LIRR, South Shore Call Avromy, 347-752-0948 Yeshiva, and Young Israel of Hewlett $1,600, not including utilities. Weissman Realty Group, LLC Call 516-476-2013 516-791-6100

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5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 67 Avnet Baseball Photos By Ira Thomas Creations

AVNET COUNTRY DAY SCHOOL WOODMERE CAMPUS FINAL SOFTBALL STANDINGS OF THE SEASON

W L T Place Tito’s Tigers 17 1 0 1st Fitwize Six Packs 12 4 2 2nd Apple Bank Benjamins 7 10 1 3rd Swim and Scuba Aquamen 6 11 1 4th Sharmel Caterers Heavyweights 5 11 2 5th Gourmet Glatt Meatballs 4 14 0 6th First-Round Playoff Matchups 1st round: Tito’s Tigers vs. Gourmet Glatt Meatballs 2nd round: Fitwize Six Packs vs. Sharmel Caterers Heavyweights 3rd round: Apple Bank Benjamins vs. Swim and Scuba Aquamen Net League (Harim) W L T Place Binyomin Katz’s Team 2 11 2 4 1st Mojo Richter’s Team 1 10 3 4 2nd Barak Klammer’s Team 3 3 11 3 3rd* Shlomo Friedman’s Team 4 3 11 3 3rd* *tied First-Round Matchups: Team 2 vs team 4 Team 1 vs team 3 Net League (G’vaot) W L T Place Aharon Quint’s Team 1 13 4 0 1st Zach Kessler’s Team 4 11 5 1 2nd Ethan Jermone’s Team 5 9 7 1 3rd Mordechai Katz’s Team 2 8 8 1 4th Zachary Frenkel’s Team 6 5 12 0 5th Ariel Fein’s Team 3 3 13 1 6th First-Round Matchups: Team 1 vs team 3 Team 4 vs team 6 Team 5 vs team 2

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Avnet Crazy Hat Day Photos By Gideon Glass

Avnet Country Day School is winding down another successful summer with the always popular “Hat Day.” Groups wore hats with such themes as blocks, funny faces, airplanes, Lady Liberty, and Olympic rings.

5 TOWNS JEWISH TIMES August 22, 2008 69 Five Towns Simcha Gallery Photos By Ira Thomas Creations

Adina Rossman of Baltimore wedded Elie Katz of Brooklyn at Congregation Beth Tefilah in Baltimore on Tuesday, August 19. Music was by Zemer Orchestra.

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