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After more than 30 years in the media, Marguerite Blais, Quebec minister responsible for seniors,knows that seniors’issues are not the most popular of topics. She says keeping her program on the reality of aging running in 1979 — something she managed to do for 6 years — was a real challenge.“Nobody wanted to hear about that,” she recalls. “It would have been good then to adapt society to aging. They thought 2000 was far away, but it was not.” Now in her ministerial role that she says fits “like a glove”,Blais is determined to give seniors the attention they deserve. Last August, in an unprecedented gesture of genuine respect, Blais brought the government to seniors across the province in a series of public consultations on seniors’ living conditions. From last Au- WOW! WOW! WHAT A DEAL TO gust to November, accompanied by retired McGill RIDEAU CARLETON RACEWAY & SLOTS social work professor Sheila Goldbloom and Dr. Ré- jean Hébert, dean of the Faculty of Medicine of the Ottawa Université de Sherbrooke, Blais asked people in 26 Ontario cities to express their needs and concerns. The response was positive, with over 4,000 expressing • Weekly Departures their views. Groups working on behalf of seniors pre- every Saturday sented 267 briefs,and 3,375 calls and emails were received. th Photo: Kristine Berey • First departure April 12 The completed report on the consultations, Pré- Marguerite Blais, Quebec minister parons l’avenir avec nos ainés, (soon to be translated) • Slot Machines from 1 cent to $5 responsible for seniors confirms what many already knew — seniors want to Receive $15 casino package remain independent and do not wish to be segregated gent issues, including more funding for home support, • Transport by Deluxe or discriminated against. When they do need care, they help for caregivers, better training for staff and im- • $23 pp want to retain their dignity and the right to a decent proving the food at long term care centres. Next year, Motor Coach quality of life. an action plan to combat abuse and neglect will be re- Sheila Goldbloom is satisfied that seniors were heard. leased and both private and public senior residences • Weekly draw for free trips “The results of the consultationare reflected in the budget.” will need certification by January 2009. As well, a cam- • Great Restaurant & On March 19, when Blais unveiled the government’s paign has been launched to combat ageism, in French Live entertainment response to the report, she announced several immedi- on television and in English on the radio, acknowledging ate and long-term measures that addressed the most ur- Cont. on p. 4 Claire 514-979-6277

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Model train enthusiasts will want to mark the week- end of April 19th in their agenda because one of the 2545 Cavendish 514 982-2517 biggest model train shows in Quebec is back at Sun Youth for the third year in a row. The show was originally started in 1990 and held at various locations including Marché Bonsecours and the Montreal (Blue Bonnets) Hippodrome. Since 2006, the event has been back in the Sun Youth gymnasium where it all started 18 years ago. Photo: Hugh Rowland - BMRCM I recently had the chance to speak to the person re- Great attention goes into making the model sponsible for creating this event. His name is Ivan Dow and he has been an enthusiast for many years. For Mr. trains as detailed as possible: the real thing Dow, model railroading is a great hobby because it in- (left) vs. the model (right). volves multiple aspects, such as electronics, architecture, be able to operate some of the layouts presented and landscaping and design. It also involves some history learn about the technical aspects of model railroading since layouts are often created with a specific era in with the many clinics and demonstrations offered. mind. Mr. Dow will once again be present at the model It’s all happening at Sun Youth Organization (4251 Fulfilling Needs Senior Residence Fulfilling Needs train show exhibiting his “Thomas the Tank” layout. St-Urbain, between Rachel and Marie-Anne) on Sat- at Every Stage The show’s organizer, the British Model Railway Club urday, April 19 from 10 to 5 and Sunday, April 20 from • Retirement lifestyle of distinction & quality • Round-the-clock of Montreal, will exhibit a four-square-meter modular 10 to 3. Admission $8 adults, $6 seniors, $4 children layout created by its team of nearly 30 Canadian and under 18, free for children under 6. Since parking caregiving by full nursing staff • Quality service • Luxurious British expatriate enthusiasts. Sun Youth has worked around Sun Youth can be problematic, free parking will accommodations • Recreational programs • At-home atmosphere closely with BMRCM’s David Tozer over the past sev- be available at Home Depot (on Beaubien, between eral months to set up this event. He notes that it offers Park Avenue and St-Laurent Boulevard) with a free Visit us today! collectors a chance to discover hard-to-find items and shuttle service to Sun Youth. 4432 St. Catherine St. West, Westmount competitive prices by bringing together multiple ven- For more information about this fundraiser please dors under one roof. There will also be activities orga- contact Mr. David Tozer at 514-245-7691 or at 5 1 4 9 3 5 - 1 2 1 2 ww w. p lac ek ens ing ton .c om nized for children, teens, adults and seniors. Guests will [email protected]. A DIVISION OF FAIRWAY MANAGEMENT CORP.

April 2008 5 THE SENIOR TIMES Editorial Ivan M. Cons Financial Services U.S. Iraqi war deserters Investments, Tax Planning, Retirement Strategies merit sanctuary Tel: (514) 336-6211 Some 40 years ago, then Prime Minis- cupation. Fax: (514) 336-6117 ter Pierre Elliott Trudeau opposed the With a civil war raging, at least 90,000 U.S. war in Vietnam and, like many Iraqis killed – possibly many more – and Email: [email protected] Canadians, was openly sympathetic to more than 4,000 U.S. military dead, is it the thousands of young Americans not legitimate for soldiers to reject the IF YOU OWN LIFE INSURANCE, who crossed the border into Canada to effort and renege on their contracts on CHANCES ARE YOU’RE PAYING TOO MUCH! evade the draft. Trudeau said at the moral grounds? Canadian courts, in dis- time, “Those who make the conscien- missing refugee claims in two cases, have tious judgment that they must not par- set aside the issue of the war’s legality. 10 Year Term Rates (Renewable, Convertible) ticipate in this war… have my complete Justice Anne Mactavish of the Federal standard rates sympathy, and indeed our political ap- Court wrote in the case of Jeremy Hinz- proach has been to give them access to man in 2006 that the legality of the war male non-smoker Canada. Canada should be a refuge “is not before the court and no finding AGE $250,000 $500,000 $1,000,000 from militarism.” has made in this regard.” The Supreme 50 $45.63 $84.15 $163.80 Those were heady days and the Viet- Court of Canada has refused to hear ap- 60 $121.05 $225.00 $443.70 nam War had galvanized the young peals in Hinzman’s case and that of de- around the world into a spirit of revolt. serter Brandon Hughey. His lawyer, 70 $347.00 $617.00 $1,192.50 Canada then received from 50,000 to Jeffry House, noted that in 1995 the Fed- 100,000 Americans, draft dodgers and eral Court granted refugee status to a de- female non-smoker deserters alike. The draft is no more, but serter from Saddam Hussein’s invasion AGE $250,000 $500,000 $1,000,000 similar issues of conscientious objection of Kuwait, accepting the argument he 50 $34.65 $58.05 $111.60 to an illegal war have now come to the should not be compelled to take part in fore with the arrival of an estimated 150 an illegal war. The difference, of course, 60 $85.95 $155.83 $306.67 American soldiers in Canada in search is that deserters returning to the U.S. 70 $231.88 $397.50 $780.83 of asylum. The question is, should those face court martial, dishonourable dis- * all rates are monthly **for those that qualify, preferred rates may be available who have signed up for service in the charges and possible jail terms of five U.S. Armed Forces and gone AWOL be years or so, while an Iraqi deserter forced AT THESE RATES CAN YOU granted refuge? to return home would have faced torture AFFORD NOT TO BE INSURED? Many who first supported the U.S. in- and death. vasion accepted the fact that the war was Former prime minister Jean Chrétien For personalized service, call 514-336-6211 illegal but believed in the trumped-up wisely led a government that refused to evidence that Saddam Hussein was participate in the U.S.-led invasion and stockpiling Weapons of Mass Destruc- subsequent occupation. In so doing he tion. The world now knows this was a signaled Canada’s unease with the justi- fabrication. Others believed the U.S. as fication, moral underpinning, and dy- sole superpower was being the world’s namics of what is now a bloody TAXIS police officer in ridding the Iraqis of quagmire. As such, we regret that the their murderous tyrant, Saddam. But Harper government is so supportive of knowing now how badly the post-inva- U.S. policy that it will not emulate sion was mismanaged, it is perfectly rea- Trudeau’s example in showing the moral sonable on a moral level that those who and political courage – and progressive have seen the horror of it all and are leadership – to challenge it, by offering being asked to redeploy for a third and refuge to U.S. draft evaders and war re- fourth tour of duty can legitimately re- sisters on moral grounds. They deserved fuse to take part in an illegal war and oc- it then, they deserve it now. 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With special readings of Friday, May 2 at 8:00pm, the Lakeshore GOLD The Vagina Monologues by Ginette Reno, Concert Band presents its annual gala, Tara Spencer-Nairn, Eva Avila, Kim highlighting music from Scandinavia D¹Eon, Sophie Grégoire, Patsy Gallant, and featuring Montreal pianist Derek Nat Lauzon, Marie-Josée Turcotte, Yaple-Schobert and the KLM Royal DIAMOND 514-273-6331 Geneviève Saint-Germain. Dutch Airlines Band. $15, seniors & stu- Free admission. 333 Viger W. dents $10. Oscar Peterson Concert Hall, Info: 514-315-8900 or galeriemx.com 7141 Sherbrooke W. Info: 514-428-0636 6 April 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES OPINION A diﬀerent kind of seder Michael Carin at a sumptuous feast. Rather they sit on a bare floor in ragged clothes and partake of icy bread. As they tell the The vast majority of Jews in Montreal, like the vast terrible story, they reconstruct, in infinitesimal micro- majority of Jews all over the world, are preparing to cosm, the plight of the six million. They do it to celebrate Passover. For two consecutive nights they remember in a symbolic way the immeasurable horror will gather at the seder table to recount the Exodus of the Holocaust. story. As they observe one of the most fundamental After the murder of the six million, infers the new traditions in the Jewish calendar, they will exalt God Haggadah, it is unacceptable to go on as before. The for the role He played in the deliverance of Israel enormity of the crime commited against the Jews de- from slavery in ancient Egypt. mands nothing less than a fundamental alteration of A small minority of Jews, however, will be gathering custom. It requires, in the service of fitting remem- for a very different kind of seder. These are the Jews brance, reformation among the Jewish people. who declare: “If the exodus from Egypt occurred, then Such reformation is not only appropriate, but in- it means that God intervened in the world. If the story creasingly necessary. Everywhere in the world is true, He took it upon himself to hurl plagues upon Holocaust denial is a growth industry. How can the the Egyptians and part the seas for the Hebrews. Well, Jews send a message to history and create a beacon if he could involve himself directly in the affairs of hu- powerful enough to remind all of posterity that the manity in ancient times, then why not in modern Holocaust happened? times? Why not at Auschwitz?” They can do it by radically updating a basic component The answer for these Jews, of course, is that there of Jewish ritual. This is the message of the Holocaust were never any plagues hurled nor seas parted. The Ex- Haggadah, and eternal intent of the Holocaust seder. odus story is literature. God did not act at Auschwitz Michael Carin is author of The Future Jew and may be because“God” is and always has been a human-created reached through the website www.thefuturejew.com. idea. 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Fax: 450-474-6207 Although every caution is taken by Publications Newborn Inc. to monitor advertising in the THE SENIOR TIMES, claims made by advertisers are not necessarily endorsed by Publications Newborn Inc. 8 April 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES Grandparents and special needs kids Easy Tax Consultants Gisele Rucker Mobile income tax preparation service , Grandparents want the best for everyone in their fami- Kevin Arsenault President ly, but especially their grandkids. Abby Kleinberg- Tel 514-487-1515 Bassel is a Special Needs Consultant who welcomes questions from concerned grandparents, whose Fax 514-487-4046 grandkids are displaying developmental problems. [email protected] “Usually grandparents have heard about me from 5925 Monkland Ave, Suite S1 other people who know about my work,” she says. “They’re referred by their doctor, or friends, or they’re just taking a stab in the dark. They call me and say, ‘I have a grandchild and I’m concerned because…’ and they might name Global Developmental Delay, Down’s Syndrome, Autism, Pervasive Developmental Disorder, or Asperger’s Syndrome,” Kleinberg-Bassel explains. “The bottom line is they are worried.” Home & office security systems Grandparents call because they see that something Medeco-Abloy is wrong and their own children (the parents of the Mailboxes, Master key systems, Grills child) do not want to or cannot deal with the pro - Residential, commercial blem. Either the parents are unaware that anything Sales, installation, service Abby Kleinberg-Bassel is amiss or are unable to face the idea that something 6010 Sherbrooke St. W. (bet. Hampton & Belgrave) might be wrong. 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If the parents haven’t making gains in the child’s development,” she says. Q grocery and clothes shopping been told, I may advise the grandparents, but it does “The reality is that the earlier a problem is identified, Q daily activities and company have to be the parent who contacts me to provide the sooner appropriate services can be put into place to Q more assistance upon request services for the child. I ask them if there has been a ensure your grandchild makes progress. The public sys- Door-to-door transportation to all your appointments diagnosis of the child and then we talk about the tem can assess the child, but the waiting period can be Call for appointment Hinda Bilenco services I can provide.” excessive — from six months to three years. If they do (514) 956-9267 Therapeutic services range from assessment, diagno- not want to wait so long, they can obtain private as- sis and treatment in the areas of Speech, Occupational, sessments and services for their grandchild.” and Physiotherapy, to Psychological services for assess- Abby Kleinberg-Bassel can be contacted at 514-313- ment, behavioural programs, or one-on-one educators. 2010 or 514-748-2193. Hearing diff iculties?? Kleinberg-Bassel provides support for the family and helps them obtain the government services they are OPEN HOUSE entitled to. “When grandparents want to help, they need to know how to help,” she says. “For instance, if May 2, 3 from 10:30 am to 4 pm the child’s parents are willing, grandparents can come Prese nting the latetest tetech nolognology inin : to the meetings and observe the sessions. They can Amplified phoneses choose to participate monetarily or by providing emo- Alzheimer Groupe (A.G.I.) 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I believe me cabin fever and severe managed to find a room in the lovely old that Mother Nature keeps sending the My Way snow rage! Windsor Hotel. We had a lot of fun to- world strong messages to stop destroy- I kept thinking about gether with other good-natured storm ing our planet. It’s hard to blame the Ursula Feist Hans Christian Andersen’s victims. The same happened during the government for the winter wonderland sad fairy tale about the ice storm of 1998. Why does it all seem that overstayed its welcome this year. poor little matchgirl trying so much worse now and no fun at all? We can’t even let off too much steam at to sell matches in the bitter For the elderly the winter months pres- the city administration for the slow Returning from my winter break I cold, dressed in rags, with no shoes, no ent serious problems. Inadequate public snow removal. However, their outra- could hardly find my front door. gloves, hungry, frightened and watching transportation, long line-ups in the ERs, geous idea to impose an additional tax Mountains of snow had hidden it from a fat family behind a lit window, carving and the frustration, isolation, and gene- for this essential service is unaccept- view. I quickly recognized that I must a roasted goose stuffed with prunes and ral lack of courtesy and respect doesn’t able. Last year we had practically no plan my agenda according to the apples. The next morning she was found contribute to a feeling of well-being. snow and it should all balance out! weather report and prepare myself to be frozen to death, but with a smile on her I fervently hope that by the end of May face. I did not have a smile on my face the snow will have melted, that there will PAUL D. 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12 April 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES Real Estate Why people are dying to have a mortgage ESTATE AND MOVING SALES House Content Clearance While working on your income tax return you will no doubt encounter the nefariously wee word “fee.” Ronda 514-236-4159 The Word Nerd Originally, under feudal law, this word referred to an estate held on condition of homage and service to your Howard Richler lord, who retained full ownership of the land. So although we might not be happy to pay a tax on services, we can take heart that the essence of the word was To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin, nothing is cer- transformed as we moved from feudalism to capital- tain, except death, taxes and a mortgage. ism. Originally, “fee” only referred to something owed This thought comes to me during the spring of our to a superior as an obligation, whereas in the post-feu- discontent — tax season, coinciding with the arrival of dal period the word is more associated with choices The Senior Times real estate issue. The etymologically available in the marketplace. minded will have noticed that at least two of the three If you are exuding saline sweat and tears to earn the blights itemized above involve the departed. “Mort- salary income tax is based on, you are etymologically gage” literally means “death pledge” as it marries the correct. In Roman times, salt was so highly valued that GROUPE NEWTON Old French mort (death) and gage (pledge). The de- soldiers were allowed a sum of money to buy salt, since pressing idea underlining this word is that if the mort- salt was not easy to obtain and served the purpose of gagor fails to repay the loan, the property pledged as maintaining as well enhancing the savour of food. Later Jennifer Gaudo security is lost or “dead” to him or her. this money, called salarium, came to refer to the stipend I’m sorry to be the bearer of such cause for angst to paid to the soldiers. Hence, if you are indeed earning Affiliated Real Estate Agent mortgage holders, but to mitigate the pain of the word your salary, you are “worth your salt.” Royal LePage Groupe Newton “tax,” I thought I might be able to eviscerate its sting If you are working your heine off to increase your pur- by an etymological deconstruction of terms connected chasing power and fill coffers with goods and services to taxation. taxes, take note of the original rapacious and disorderly Tel: 514-481-0241 During the Middle Ages in England, taxes were exacted meaning of the word“purchase.”The“pur”part is a vari- Cell: 514-445-4488 from underlings by the upper echelons of society. ant of the innocuous French pour (for), but the “chase” Among these servile dues were the merchet — a fine paid element relates to hunting or wresting by force — in other [email protected] for marriage, the heriot — seizure of a family’s prime words, obtaining an object by whatever means necessary. beast on the death of the tenant, and the compulsory use In Old French, an enfant de porchas did not refer to an of the lord’s mill for grinding the family corn. adopted or“purchased”child but to an illegitimate one. Not surprisingly “tax” as a verb took on the sense of So, I hope this etymological perspective serves as a re- SOUTH FLORIDA Seniors “to take to task” by the 16th century and “to burden or minder to file your return byApril 30th,and you need not prosecute” in the following century. “Income tax” was feel guilty if you have attempted to lower your tax burden. 6 miles to the Beaches first introduced as a war tax in England from 1709 and Economist John Maynard Keynes claimed “the avoidance Wynmoor adult 55+ Condominium Community occasioned this naive comment some years later: “The of taxes is the only pursuit that still carries any reward.” dedicated to individuals who enjoy active existing income tax should not be retained a moment Howard Richler’s latest book is Can I Have a Word after it is dispensed with.”Yeah, right! With You? He can be reached at [email protected]. lifestyle, clubs, sports, facilities, cultural events, & its friendly small town atmosphere. Theatre, Tennis Courts, Fitness Center, Main & Walking Pools, Clubhouse, Billiard Room, Business Center, Bike Paths, Walking Paths, Transportation Fleet, 18-hole Executive Golf. Wynmoor is located in Broward County South Florida. Studio, One & Two Bedroom Condos Starting at $45,000-$239,000 CHERYL STEIN Resident & Realtor 954.675.3700 www.WynmoorRealtor.com [email protected] SELLING REAL ESTATE SOUTH FLORIDA SINCE 1984 WYNMOOR REAL ESTATE. Ben G. Schachter, Lic. Real Estate Broker"

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14 April 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES Gladys celebrates her 100th Gladys Bold Hatton was born to Eng- lishman William Bold and Quebecer Nellie Rivet on April 3, 1908. As a young woman she worked for the T. Eaton Co. and married Jimmy Dou- glas Hatton, a handsome and courteous salesman whom she met while buying her first car. After Jimmy died, Gladys traveled with her cousin throughout Canada, the US and Eu- rope, with a special place in her heart for Newfoundland’s harbour. Gladys has had a lot of happy times — she cherishes her memories and has no regrets. She has resided at the Happy 100th birthday from everyone at Westhill Residence since October 2002. Westhill! Photo: Scott Philip Jewish Public Library events Tuesday, April 8 Wednesday,April at 7:30pm, New 16at7:30pm, Ger- York-based politi- man author Gila cal satirist and TV Lustiger will speak commentator about her book Andy Borowitz The Inventory. will entertain you Introduced by with cutting edge Trudis Gold- content. Spon- smith-Reber, sored by the Miriam Schachter Vineberg Department of German Studies, McGill. Foundation. Free admission. Reception to follow. Co-sponsored by Monday, April 14 at 7:30pm, Professor the Montreal Goethe-Institut and the Paul Yachnin will speak on Going Public, Consulate General of the Federal Re- Becoming Human: Shakespeare and Shy- public of Germany. $5 JPL members and lock. $5 JPL members and students, $10 students, $10 others. others. Introduced by Esther Frank, De- All events at: 5151 Côte Ste-Catherine partment of Jewish Studies, McGill. Spon- Road. Info: 514-345-2627 ext. 3017 or sored by the Helen Bassell Endowment. jewishpubliclibrary.org

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Left to Right: Kimono and Blue Rose, Striped Kimono Striped Landscape, She is an Angel, February Memories Nancy Snipper

Myrna Brooks Bercovitch is an NDG artist who ex- She is presently teaching collage at Henri Bradet Cen- with kids and adults. We use my own garden to get the cels in experimentation. She crosses over all forms of tre in NDG, but her soft spot for The Cummings plants and flowers. I grow the ones that leave dyes — expressing visual images. She is a printmaker, Jewish Centre for Seniors still remains strong. begonias, delphiniums, irises — and I also incude painter, watercolourist, and pastelist. Her collage and “I ran the art program there for three years. I loved the weeds. It’s so much fun.” mixed media pieces are presently on show in Agora doing it because the people there learned so much. It Indeed, this grandmother of five keeps branching Gallery in Soho, New York City. was a great way to connect to so many who have always out. She’s presently taking classical ballet dance lessons “I’m thrilled that New York is going to display my wanted to express themselves through art. As an ani- at Studio Biz four times a week — she’s been dancing work for a year. It wasn’t my first choice,”she says,“but mator there, my idea was to introduce them to various since 1972. Nothing holds this spirited artist down. I couldn’t get a gallery here to show my collages — I art forms, develop their curiosity and stimulate their She’s even created stage and set designs for choreogra- was trying for three years. Curators told me my work imagination. They explored sculpture, jewelry-making, phers. Now she’s ‘dancing’ her way to the Montreal was ‘too New York,’ whatever that means, but I took stained glass, and painting.” Museum of Fine Arts with her pastel workshops. Still their advice, and went (via email) south of the border.” She did this with ease, for she’s an eclectic artist. Her finding time to create mixed media illustrations for Her mixed media work on trees was recently shown at pastels of flowers are as inspiring as her watercolours Shoshanna Bret Anisman’s children’s book, titled ‘My Montreal’s Café Volver, and her art has also been that lyrically portray women draped in kimonos. Her Grandma Doesn’t Wear a Helmet’,Myrna has just writ- shown at the Georges Laoun Gallery (formerly the beautiful faces reflect the pensive thoughts of women ten her own book on the creative process. It’s Montreal Museum of Fine Art store). who seem to rise out of antiquity. Pompeii and Athens surprising she finds alone time to paint for herself, but Myrna was a long time associate at Gallery Shore on come to mind. she’s had a lifetime of experience doing that.“From the Monkland and at the Saidye Bronfman Centre where Myrna has also taken her printmaking talents to she headed the children’s and teens’ art department. others with her fossil graphs.“I select the plants. I do it Continued on p. 22

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20 April 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES Butterﬂy watching at the Botanical Gardens

Kristine Berey will respond more to common names Through Veilleux’s presentation, visitors like Clipper, Wood nymph, Owl butterfly come to realize the profound interdepend- It’s hard to believe they’re bugs and and the Great eggfly bolina. ence of all living things and the importance even harder to believe that without Young and not so young visitor can mar- of preserving biodiversity.“When the chil- them we’re lost. Flamboyant, enchant- vel that the lowly moth who uses dren understand which plants the ing, mysterious and delightful, some the moon to navigate, is also butterflies need to survive, with a wingspan greater than a man’s a butterfly — nocturnal they realize they need to open palms,they live out theirshortand and every bit as lovely. protect plants too,” glorious life in an artificial universe — “Butterflies are am- Veilleux says. “First right here,in the land of sleet and snow. bassadors,” says comes respect, then This year’s Butterflies are Free exhibit, Pierre Veilleux, one the urge to protect.” in its 11th year at the Botanical Garden of the Garden’s Cobra Moth of Montreal, will feature for the first technicians. He ex- time over 90 species of butterflies native plains that while to Africa, Central America and Asia. people fear what Until April 27, visitors can see about they do not know, 2,000 butterflies at any given time, with the sheer beauty and up to 100 newly hatched butterflies re- fragility of these leased each day. winged creatures awak- “In a natural environment, you would ens their curiosity regarding never see so many butterflies or so many other insects as well. “Butterflies species all at once,” says the Garden’s create a reconciliation between the communications officer François Ouel- human and insect world.” let. In his two trips to Costa Rica, he Veilleux’s job is not easy. He must re- came across only two such exotic crea- ceive and maintain the cocoons, carefully tures. “This environment is man-made, packed and transported in temperature- but it’s spectacular.” controlled conditions, and see them Displaying countless iridescent hues, through their life-cycle, releasing an al- the butterflies emerge from their tem- lotted number every day. Owl butterflies porary tombs — their cocoons — He guides groups of schoolchildren Berey Kristine Photos: gathering the strength to fulfill their through the greenhouse, pointing out mission to survive as a species. which plants the butterflies feed on. He They reveal their secrets — that breath- must also replenish these as needed, • Private residence takingly beautiful markings on their keeping “backup” plants ready.“Some of for seniors wings are not purely aesthetic, but also the plants may be beautiful, but they weapons of self-defense, warning poten- may be sterile. The butterflies know the • Bilingual team tial predators of the butterflies’ toxicity. difference.” Or that their attraction to orange slices The insects in the display were purchased is not fuelled by hunger only; some from several butterfly breeding farms that • Personalized care species lay their eggs, destined to begin provide economic support to communi- the cycle again, on fruit. ties while offering protection to wildlife. • In front of a park Their Latin names are impressive: One such supplier, “Kipepeo” in Kenya is with view of river Caligo eurilochus, Morpho helenor, Ideop- maintaining a forest of over 40,000 sis juventa... but a child’s imagination hectares with over 250 butterfly species. Tel 514.752.0728 • We accommodate 10332 Belvedere St, Pierrefonds mobile seniors [email protected] with Alzheimer’s Safe and Secure Home for the Elderly www.residencedubelvedere.com

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Amazingly, Fisher balancing their ambition against love, pride and dis- and especially Weisz appointment. The emotional depth doesn’t last until Poor Emily Banks clearly drew the short straw playing bring such infectious the saccharine ending, but there’s enough here to for- Will’s college sweetheart, who exists only to look pretty, enthusiasm to their give some clumsy storytelling, and ultimately make be inconstant, and get Will started on his story. The parts that Reynolds is a worthwhile movie. film’s complete disinterest in her character goes a long better playing off them. A romantic comedy needs a gimmick and Definitely, way to explain why the first quarter is such a drudge. It’s only once they show up that you begin to see why Maybe is definitely a romantic comedy. While unlucky- But just as you’re tuning out, Rachel Weisz shows up someone thought he might work out as a leading man. in-love advertising executive Will Hayes (Ryan as Summer, breathing fresh life into the story as a jour- The striking byproduct to splitting this love story into Reynolds) goes through a divorce, he gets caught up in nalist covering Will’s political candidate boss. Romance three is that, unlike most in this genre, these characters telling his young daughter (Abigail Breslin) the story takes a back seat as Will’s political ambition is played are free to fall in and out of each others’ lives.When Will of the three great loves of his life, as part of a game to against Summer’s need to establish herself apart from tells Summer that he’s not sure their relationship can see if she can identify which one wound up becoming the men in her life. Further complications come from survive her scathing article about his boss, we can’t be her mother (and, by extension, divorcing her Dad). Will’s longtime friend, the would’ve-could’ve- sure that there’s some miraculous third act event com- Three love stories for the price of one. should’ve of his life, April (Isla Fisher). It’s slow out of ing to save them. Not that we’re spared the overamped, The film lives or dies on the charm of its leading the gate, but the film does start building the sense of barely believable resolution that is this genre’s stock in ladies and they each get only a handful of scenes to in- intrigue it set out for. trade, but by that point we care enough about Will and gratiate themselves before making way for the next. From the start, the greatest hurdle for Definitely, his mystery soulmate to be warmed just the same. Gayline is a call away Ravel at Atwater Since 1976 Gayline has been there to listen to people Author Edeet Ravel reads excerpts of “A Wall of Light”, with questions about their sexual orientation, or who Art for Art’s Sake the third work of her trilogy about the Israeli-Pales- just need to talk. This year, the “Silk” or Sexual Infor- Contemporary dance at Sandro 303 tinian conflict, Wednesday, April 9 at 12:30 pm in the mation Leads to Knowledge project seeks to raise Studio 303 presents Vernissage-danse #138: Big Apple, Atwater Library, 1200 Atwater Avenue at Tupper awareness among Quebec students and seniors re- part of their annual contemporary dance festival in which (métro Atwater). garding sexual health, orientation and diversity. The artists get together from New York, Philadelphia and Info: 514-935-7344 or [email protected] free confidential help-line operates every evening Montreal. The show will highlight three American from 7-11pm at 514-866-5090. artists participating with New York City’s Performance Mix Festival, presented by Karen Bernard’s New Dance Irish documentary Whistful thinking Alliance. The show is April 12 at 8:30pm at Studio 303, St. Thomas More Parish holds its Annual Card Party 372 St. Catherine W., 3rd floor,#303.Admission $12, $10 seeks descendants & Military Whist at 978 Moffat (corner Bannantyne) in VIPs and students, on sale at the door or online. Do you have family who survived the tragic wreck of Verdun, Wednesday, April 16 at 12 pm. $5. Info: 514-393-3771 or studio303.ca the brig Hannah in 1849? A documentary about Irish Famine refugees to Canada in the 19th Century is Piano at McGill looking for descendants of those who survived the The Ladies’ Morning Musical Club will be present- sinking of the Hannah and settled in the province ing Viennese-born pianist Till Fellner April 27. He will of Quebec. interpret Mozart, Schumann, Adès and Ravel. $35 gen- On April 29, 1849 the Hannah, sailing from Newry (Ul- eral, $15 students under 26. 3:30pm at Pollack Hall, ster province) to Quebec under the command of 555 Sherbrooke W. Info: 514-932-6796 or lmmc.ca Captain Curry Shaw, hit an iceberg and sank in the Gulf of St. Lawrence. At least 180 passengers were Photographer talks technique travelling on this boat, mostly Irish emigrants coming The Montreal Camera Club presents Photography as from the Forkhill area. Some died on the same iceberg Visual Expression April 14, an evening seminar with that wrecked the boat, but miraculously, at least 120 Canadian photographer Richard Martin. There will be survived 24 hours on the ice before being picked up by Lose up to 30 lbs. in 30 days. discussions on the process of seeing and making pho- a passing ship. 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Musical stories of that The younger trumpeter, Christian Scott, a couple of flood are told by two jazz musicians from the Cres- decades Blanchard’s junior, leads a smaller group, with cent City — trumpeters and composers both — in sonorities that are more contemporary. However, the their most recent CD releases. mood in Anthem (Concord Jazz) is equally reflective. For his Tale of God’s Will: A Requiem for Katrina (Blue The twelve pieces featured have titles that directly ref- Note Records), Terence Blanchard, the elder of the two erence the flood, like“Katrina’s Eyes,”and the title cut trumpeters, was awarded a Grammy for Best Large Jazz appearing in two versions, “Anthem (Antediluvian Ensemble Album. With Blanchard, the rhythms are Adaptation)” and “Anthem (Post Diluvial Adapta- recognizably New Orleans, starting with the march-like tion)” — the first having a kind of ominous forebod- drum beat that opens the suite of pieces, announcing ing vamp that launches the quiet storm of melody and the requiem that this project presents. The title of the rhythm, and the latter featuring a lyrical commentary disc asks listeners to consider the storm as part of God’s by rapper Brother J of X-Clan on the human struggle plan — how else to explain the destruction and loss of that was brought into relief by the storm and its after- life and home for so many? This must have been the math. Through it all, Scott’s keening horn (he plays reasoning behind the music, much as it is in the Old trumpet, cornet, flugelhorn and slide trumpet) is a Testament story. Blanchard’s trumpet voice is com- lyrical, compelling voice addressing the drama that is pelling in its nuance as it dominates the varied textures both social and cosmic. He and his quartet (horn, of the compositions, some of which originally ap- drums, bass, and guitar) offer jazz with a contempo- peared in Spike Lee’s documentary film “When the rary urban beat, but with lyrical content that main- Levees Broke.”Blanchard, one of the young lions from tains a thread with tradition. Tales of destruction by flood are retold in nearly Wynton Marsalis’ generation, has scored many a film in It is fitting that the trumpet is featured in these al- every culture, wherein the event is endowed with recent years and knows how to create mood and mean- most religious musical mediations. Considered by an- mythical qualities, an act of God that forces reflec- ing with sounds. Here his sextet (trumpet, saxophone, cient people as the sound of the voice of God and used tion on its victims. The devastating storm that piano, bass, drums and percussion) is augmented in as a heraldic instrument to announce divine interven- flooded New Orleans is no longer news, but its after- several pieces by the lush, yet subtle strings of The tions, it is strikes a deep, resonating chord in the effects are still real to the survivors who are trying to Northwest Sinfonia. human soul.

April 2008 23 THE SENIOR TIMES Île-Ste-Hélène and Au Diable Vert yield hidden treasures the La Poudrière theater), which served briefly as an This hobby farm is great for all ages. There’s endless internment camp during WWII. hiking (ask for the trail to the Japanese waterfall), and The old Barracks are authentic and worth visiting a splendid herd of highland cattle that live outdoors (everyday from 10 am to 5 pm). year-round. Now, your strolling has whetted your appetite. Or, During the day there’s soup and sandwiches in the maybe you want to be properly fortified before setting main lodge, as well as beer and wine which you can take out. The Hélène-de-Champlain restaurant fits the bill: on their magnificent large terrace. On a clear night, it’s grand, spacious, with a reasonably priced menu (I had a like being front row centre in a planetarium. Check out tasty fish of the day, with soup and coffee for $19). In www.audiablevert.qc.ca, or call 450-538-5639. Gener- 1967, this was the pavilion of honour for Man and His ally, double occupancy for an apartment runs to $150 World. The dining room features a baronial chimney per night, or a cabin at $125 per night for four people, and a hushed, relaxed atmosphere rarely found in noisy with more bodies at the divided rate. Julie says, “We’re city bistros, and there’s a fine model ship collection. happy to offer a special this Spring:‘Discover Green’ — Closed Tuesdays, the restaurant is open other weekdays it’ll be a pay-2-nights-stay-3, or pay-3-nights-stay-4 and from 11:30 am to 2:30 pm and from 5:30 pm to 9:30 pm. have a 3rd person stay free for the mountain view suites, John Fretz If you take your car, however, less than two hours Sunday to Thursday starting April 1.” away is the Eastern Townships’ best-kept secret for an And it won’t hurt to mention the Senior Times. It’s gorgeous out.You’ve got some free time and don’t outdoor holiday: Au Diable Vert, a working farm want to spend an hour driving on busy roads. Try perched on a mountainside in Glen Sutton, 16 km out- peaceful, calm Île-Ste-Hélène, as fresh as a bouquet side Sutton, accessible via Cowansville. Or you can exit of spring flowers. Autoroute 10 at Farnham, and take the exquisite high- Step off at Metro Jean-Drapeau on the Yellow Line, way 104 through rolling hills as a prelude to what you’ll and you are immediately immersed in the broad sweep experience — Quebec’s version of Gloccamorra. of the island’s sloping downs, a flanking rugged hill- The dreamy 16 km winding road takes you to the side, and a vale with pristine waterfalls — man-made, Missisquoi River valley. Au Diable Vert is just a stretch but as pretty as any travel poster. further towards Glen Sutton. The turnoff to the farm Walking is the best way to discover, or rediscover, this rises steeply through spruce woods and suddenly opens local treasure. Montreal’s magnificent harbour from here onto a beautiful farm in an alpine meadow with a vista seems magically distant, with the cityscape relegated to of Vermont’s Green Mountains and Mount Owl’s Head over yonder, as remote as le train-train quotidien. hovering over Lake Memphramagog. It’s fun seeing Buckminster Fuller’s Geodesic Dome Au Diable Vert is the genius of an enterprising young again (if you remember, it was immolated in 1976). couple, Julie and Jeremy. They’ve orchestrated spectac- Crossing a bridge over a lagoon, you’ll come upon the ular views for private campsites, several cabins, two tree impressive fortress-like architecture of the natatorium. houses, and prospector tents, with lots of pasture and This strategic island in the St. Lawrence, with St. woodsy privacy for each site. At the farmhouse, you can Mary’s Current thrusting along the shore, was an offi- rent one of three lovely two-bedroom apartments, all cers’ headquarters during the Rebellions of 1837 and with magnificent views and equipped with wood-

1838. The garrison included an arsenal (now safer as burning stoves and IKEA-style kitchens. Photos: John Fretz On the road with Jack and Mike Byron Toben pers. Military analyst Daniel Ellsberg, plagued by conscience, photocopied Long ago but not so far away, two boys reams of classified Pentagon documents of Quebec extraction were born in proving misrepresentation and coverups Massachusetts. in the Vietnam war. The media, fearful One, the writer Jack Kerouac (1922) is of legal action over security breaches, the most famous Quebecois-American. declined to print them, until Senator The other, Mike Gravel (1930) an- Gravel, then conducting an anti-military nounced on March 26 that he is running draft extension filibuster, read them into for the office of President of the USA on the Congressional Record, making them the Libertarian ticket, having secured no public, and eventually, safe for the media delegates in the Democratic primaries. to expose. The resulting furor sparked a Like Jack, Mike spent some time in the mass civil movement and finally, the U.S. military, attended Columbia University withdrawal from Vietnam. At 77, Mike in New York and went “on the road.” Gravel is continuing his campaign for Jack’s trip led to San Francisco, in a President on a mini-budget. Ralph search for enlightenment. Mike’s trip Nader, 74, is again throwing his hat in veered north, to Alaska, where he be- the ring, this time as an independent. came speaker of the state’s House and Texas representative Ron Paul, 72, con- later a two term Democratic Senator in tinues as a Republican candidate. Washington, D.C. He also became the All three of these septuagenarians in- reader of the most crucial spoken word clude an anti-war, people-involvement event in Senate history, the Pentagon Pa- thrust to their campaigns, differing on social issues. The Internet has increased exposure for Mike Gravel (as it did for Support group for women 75 + Howard Dean last time around). On The NDG Senior Citizens’ Council is YouTube, he stars in the short segments offering a support group for people who “Rock” and “Fire”, which mix Zen are having difficulty adapting to changes metaphor with the needs of the times. related to the aging process. Some of This trio of 70+ guys prove that 70 is these changes may be due to isolation, the new 50. Although none will be deteriorating health, and/or the loss of a elected, they remind America to listen to loved one. This group is an opportunity its presidents, just not the current one. for women 75 and over to learn new George Washington advised the nation ways of coping. These sessions will take to beware of foreign entanglements, place weekly at the Montreal West and Eisenhower warned against the mil- United Church for 10 weeks. Trans- itary-industrial establishment. These portation is available. experienced folk may spark a paradigm Info: 514-487-1311. shift in the electorate for years to come. 24 April 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES Caregiving with dignity, respect, and attention to language Languageforchildrenshouldnotbeused other person. There are cakes and goodies and specially chosen for adults, regardless of any cognitive ways to keep a person’s gifts for their loved one.Comfortable slip- deficiency.Adultswithcareneedsshould Let’s talk body covered while provid- pers, a warm shawl or wrap, costume jew- be treated with dignity at all times.This ing the needed care. If the elry, or an activity appropriate to that includes the use of proper language: about it individual is feeling un- individual are just some ideas. A CD with • Diapers – this is a word used to de- comfortable they may be- old time familiar music, a DVD of old scribe a product designed for infants Bonnie Sandler, S.W. come agitated and thus sitcoms such as ‘I Love Lucy’ or special and children who are not yet toilet combative. Using special- musicals can be enjoyed by all. trained. I cringe when I hear this word companions or caregivers is preferable. ized clothing that covers parts of the These are just a couple of tips for pre- used around older adults. When dealing • Activities – toys are for children. Al- person yet allows for full bathing /show- serving your loved one’s dignity and hon- with individuals with incontinence is- though there are toys for adults it would ering will calm the person and preserve ouring them with celebrations of special sues we should not use the word diapers. be best to refer to these by their specific his dignity. Even properly placed towels dates.As a caregiver you will discover dif- Protective underwear, added under gar- names ex: puzzle and not toy. can be used. ferent ways you can adapt your caregiving ments are just some examples of terms Bathing is another area where we have Celebrations – Birthdays, anniversaries to ensure the dignity of your loved one. that are dignified and respectful. to be sensitive to a person’s dignity. and special occasions need not be ignored Comments and questions can be sent to • Babysitters – are sitters for babies. This Many individuals who require assistance because your loved one is no longer able [email protected] and may be term should not be used for adults who with bathing and or dressing are un- to remember these special dates. Families used in future articles. are unable to be alone. Using words like comfortable being naked in front of an- can continue to honor these times with Knowledge is power – so stand up for your housing rights! If you are living in an apartment or a this situation, payment must be in cash, If you believe the landlord is not being rooming house, you have the right to money order or certified cheque. honest, you should offer any proof you be treated according to the law and can, including your own testimony with dignity. Therefore, it is imperative Frequent late payment of rent about any conflicts between you and the that you know your housing rights. The landlord must prove this is a seri- landlord. If the landlord has another Under what circumstances can my ous problem (inconvenience, bank apartment that will be empty when your landlord evict me? charges, inability to pay bills). lease ends, the landlord must repossess Under Quebec law, tenants have “the Repossession of the apartment for the that one instead. At the hearing you may right to remain in the premises”. This landlord, a parent, child, (or another rel- request that, if the Rental Board grants means your landlord can only evict you ative if the landlord is supporting that the repossession, the landlord be or- on many different issues, including hous- in cases where the law allows for evic- relative.) dered to reimburse your moving costs. ing rights. Our services are free and action, and only after the Rental Board has If you have a 12 month lease (or any Note: If your spouse dies and the lease cessible, no appointment necessary. We ordered the eviction. The most common lease with a term of more than six was in his or her name, you will become welcome your call at (514) 738-2036 or situations are: months or a lease with an indeterminate the lessee if you notify the landlord we will be happy to see you in person at term), the landlord must send you the within two months of the death. 4735 Cote St. Catherine (in front of the Non-payment of rent notice of repossession at least six months Project Genesis offers free information metro, on the corner of Victoria street). If you fall more than 3 weeks behind before your lease renewal date. If your in your rent, the landlord can apply to lease is for a term of six months or less the Rental Board for eviction. To avoid (the landlord must send you the notice this, you must pay the rent plus the costs 1-2 months before your lease renewal ($32 to $57) and any interest, before the date. If you disagree with the reposses- Rental Board issues the decision. Make sion, you need only ignore the notice. sure you have proof of payment, and The landlord must then file an applica- make sure that the landlord cancels the tion with the Rental Board for permis- Rental Board case. If necessary, you can sion to go ahead with the repossession. pay the rent at the time of the Rental At the Rental Board hearing the land- Board hearing, with the Régisseur lord must prove s/he is in good faith, (Commissioner) serving as a witness. In and not simply trying to get rid of you.

April 2008 25 THE SENIOR TIMES Bialystock, a sad town in Poland walk through the shambles,the say, what to feel, what to think, except: tombs stretching out in their They still hate us. We’re gone from this Times and jagged shapes as far as the eye place, we’re all dead here. What or whom can see. She tells us that the do they hate? Places “neighbours” have stolen as We walk through streets of wooden many grave stones as they houses. She tells us these were once the Barbara Moser could carry to be used as foun- houses of Jews. They are to be torn down dations for the apartments to make way for a new shopping centre. From Vilnius we moved on by train to they have built in the area surrounding This was the site of the fish market. Bia- Bialystock. We were on our way to Bu- the cemetery. lystock is a sad place. There is a heaviness dapest, where we had a plane to catch for The children of these Jews, buried on here. It is everywhere. We have a quiet Israel. We planned to go back through these grounds, cannot look after their dinner at the hotel. We try to pretend we Warsaw and take a train fromWarsaw to parents’ graves. They are the victims of are tourists. But what we have seen is Budapest. Then we would spend two the Nazis and they have no graves. never far from our minds. weeks in Israel. We decided Bialystock She takes us to the site of the synagogue. Why have we come? We have come to would be a good place to spend a day or On one night, the Nazis forced 2,000 Jews bear witness to the dead, to those souls two.Wehad grown up hearing the name into this synagogue. Then, they set fire who died in that torched synagogue. But although we had no family roots there. to it. They tried to climb out of the win- we will not go back to Poland. It is We were interested in seeing another dows. They were pushed back in. Men, enough. It is too much. Holocaust memorial Polish town, one where many Jews had women, and children, burned alive. once lived and flourished. We stood on the site of this synagogue. Bialystock is a town that looks like the It is in an apartment complex. There are heart has been cut out of it. It’s pleasant gardens for children to play. There is a enough. There are cafés and a modern twisted structure, a memorial to the 2,000 hotel right in the middle of town. There who perished here where we are standing. are pretty streets and people living out How can we be standing here so peace- their lives in peace, but the town is too fully? Where are the ashes? Where are the quiet, too calm. Seventy thousand Jews graves? The memorial has some graffiti lived in Bialystock before the Holocaust. on it. No different from Vilnius, we think. There was a town square where they It’s hard to know what to feel. traded, whole neighbourhoods where We walk along the main street. In one they lived, a fish market, a massive syna- of the windows of a tourist shop we see gogue. Now there is a lot of empty space. paintings of Chassidic men counting We took a tour with a young lady who money by candlelight. Men wearing knows all about the Jews who once lived prayer shawls counting gold coins. I here. She is not Jewish but she is interested enter the shop. I ask the man behind the in how our people lived and died in this counter if he understands what he is sell- town. She and her friends do their best to ing. “You Jews caused us trouble for look after the cemetery which is on the hundreds of years. What do you want outskirts of town. There is hardly a grave- from us now?” I leave the store. I am stone that has not been desecrated. We angry, can’t speak, don’t know what to Memorial of the synagogue where 2,000 Jews lost their lives

Old Jewish house Painting of stereotypical Chassid A house in a once Jewish area

Old Jewish house soon to be demolished Jewish cemetery 26 April 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES Graﬃti artist throws you into your imagination

In the Loop Megan Callahan

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He recalls staying with strangers who beautify an alleyway.“Some feel safer walking through a refresher course? took him to their secret spots to paint, decorating that alley. Some stop and get something beyond our NO PROBLEM! abandoned factories and forgotten train tunnels. It is understanding from it,” he says. Becoming a re- Drive into winter safely with not lost on this community that their work is often spectable gallery artist is often frowned upon by graffiti OMEGA DRIVING SCHOOL seen as little more than defacement of other people’s artists, seen as “selling out”.“But it’s a good way to pay Special classes for 55 + the fines when we get caught!” he says. To wrap up our interview I asked Peru what kind of Call Maria Drakoulakos 514-271-8306 message he’s trying to convey through his art. “After www.ecoledeconduiteomega.ca ten years I’ve learned that today’s youth need guidance www.ecoledeconduiteomega.com from the people they look up to. 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Ella-Claire Pinette and her three sons, Benjamin Trepanier, 12, Zachary, 16, and Xavier, 14 (standing behind) all benefit from Generations camp life. Zachary will be a counselor in training this year. Generations has been sponsoring the boys at camp for seven years. "It made them more rounded," says Pinette. "My kids spend as much time outside as they do on their computer. I actually have to look for them and call Ashley Lafrance (Lakeside Academy), Nifa Pascal, Marlee Itovitch and Matthew them to come home." Itovitch (Westmount High) were volunteers.

For Adrian and Natalie Bercovici, the mom and pop of Generations, this first Fundraising Breakfast to be broadcast via live radio, on Q92 and 940 Montreal, has been a huge step forward, raising $83,000 to send 400 Sun Youth's Sid Stevens was on hand with his volunteer kids to camp. Last year's breakfast raised $60,000. Freda Kopyto and Lieutenant Gordon Watson and The all-you-can-eat buffet serving 1400 guests from Commander Marc St.-Cyr from Station 1. 6–10am was donated courtesy of the host, Buffet La Stanza. Tickets were sold for $9 and money was also Moe Zemel has been volunteering with Generations for raised through raffles and an auction. One of the auc- To help send a kid six years. "I want to give back to the community," he says. tion items was dinner for 4 at 40 West with Dennis to camp this summer, He also volunteers at the Jewish General Hospital in the Trudeau. Another was dinner for 2 with Aaron, Tasso snack bar and at the Cummings Centre as a cashier. and Suzanne at Trattoria Tasso. call Generations at 514-933-8585.

Camelia Varga, Kathleen Juteau, and Josée Labrecque-Mercier are teachers and teacher’s helpers from Peter Hall School for students who are intellectually and physically challenged. Generations kids enjoy their breakfasts at Buffet La Stanza. 28 April 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES My family in Havana

Barbara Moser In the past I have collected cash from my friends here and given it out to people hand to hand along with I have kept a secret from many of you for the past clothing and toys. This time, I concentrated on cloth- three years — I have another family. They are in Ha- ing and toys. vana, Cuba, and I have just returned from my 5th The community is also a meeting place for seniors who visit with them. eat breakfast at the synagogue as well as a snack in the Almost hidden from view in Old Havana at 357 Acosta evening after services. One day I bought ice cream for St., corner Picota, is the Adath Israel Synagogue, the only everyone at the evening services. It cost me $24 to serve Orthodox Jewish community in Cuba. Most Jewish vis- a big portion of strawberry or chocolate ice cream to over itors to Havana don’t realize there are three synagogues 60 people — a good investment in bonding! Camila, 18, Jessica, 13 and Laura, 14: in Havana, housing three distinct Jewish communities Speaking of bonding, while we in North American my girls in Havana! Conservative, Sephardic and Orthodox. Jewish communities suffer from assimilation through The main Jewish community centre, located in the intermarriage, Cubans who marry Jews are converting Conservative synagogue in Vedado, serves the largest to Judaism in record numbers and enjoying the feeling community. It includes a Sunday School and its leaders that a close-knit community brings for their chidren are responsible for youth programs and arranging visas and their extended families. So when you help “a Jew” for Cuban Jews wishing to emigrate to Israel or take trips in Cuba, you are helping many others who are not Jew- to Israel such as March of the Living, sponsored by the ish. With the Jewish population of Cuba at 900, it’s Joint Distribution Committee. They are also well con- difficult not to intermarry! nected with Jewish communities in the US and Canada, The average monthly salary in Cuba is approximately in particular the Canadian Jewish Congress. $12, and for pensioners it is closer to $8. From this, peo- My favorite community is the Adath Israel, or as it is ple are expected to pay 50 cents for a bar of soap, $1.20 known in Spanish, the Communidad Religiosa Hebrea for toothpaste,$3 for shampoo,and for clothes,the prices Adath Israel de Cuba.Yakob andYamilet,a young married are similar to Canadian prices. So you can imagine how couple who are leaders of the community —Yakob refers much my friends appreciate a new piece of clothing, to himself on documents as the treasurer, shohet (ritual shoes, toys, soap, shampoo, or costume jewellery. slaughterer of Kosher meat) and cantor — have always Since 1990, Jews have been allowed to practice their welcomed me as family and allowed me to distribute faith and their culture openly. They do so with a joy and much-needed cash donations and clothing,toiletries,and enthusiasm I have never seen in countries where Jews toys directly to their members. This way I know exactly have always had this right. Holidays are celebrated with who is receiving what I have brought. passion and pride. On Purim, as is the custom, the chil- Over the times I have visited, I’ve learned shoe sizes and dren of the congregation dressed up in costume and special needs for clothing and medication.Each time I visit, were treated to a clown and puppet show. These are or- ItrytoimprovethewayIgiveoutwhatIhavebrought.This dinary occurrences for our children and grandchildren, time,I contributed $100 towards a Purim Party (Purim is but to see the rapturous looks on the faces of these chil- a Jewish holiday celebrated in March) and with Yamilet’s dren is to understand how much this community help,prepared 150-200 gift bags,each with a piece of cloth- means to them. Ready to dance ing or underwear or toiletries for more than 60 children. Continued on page 30

Melissa’s a Purim princess!

Yamilet Salazar, Yakob Hernandez, Barbara Moser, Alberto Barrocas, Alberto Toruncha, and Isidoro Baly

Watching the puppet show Purim partners April 2008 29 THE SENIOR TIMES • small toy cars (nearly new or new) Helping out the family • new socks, underwear and bras Continued from page 29 • sneakers and sandals for all ages, new or nearly new My friends have asked me why I go back so often. Per- • t-shirts, shorts and skirts (only light summer wear) haps if you look at my pictures, you’ll understand. Or for all ages, new or nearly new perhaps you’ll have to see for yourself. The next time • colognes, costume jewellery, sewing supplies, tooth- you’re planning a trip to Varadero, change your plans brushes, toothpaste, & dental floss (ask your dentist) to include Havana. It’s a city full of culture and beauty. • samples of medication from your doctor — in short Here you’ll meet real people and begin to understand supply are blood pressure medication, syringes, and how they live. Try to bring more than a few small toi- pain medications. letries for the maids. Below is a list of what you could If you have collected these items but can’t make it to bring and distribute at the Adath Israel and to other Havana yourself, please bring them to The Senior Times Cubans you meet or befriend outside your hotels. at 4077 Decarie Blvd. (corner NDG Ave.) or call us at Next issue, I’ll provide more information on the cul- 514-484-5033. I’ll be sure to take them on my next trip tural activities and sights Havana has to offer. and they’ll go directly to the hands of people who need What to bring: and deserve our support. • small toys including hair bands & ponytail holders Contact Adath Israel at [email protected]

Liana is wearing her new dress with a matching dress for her dolly

Ready to make an entrance!

Purim cat Ready for 200 Purim guests! Sarah speaks perfect English and makes beautiful dolls at the Adath Purim piñata

Purim clown at Adath Jennifer wearing her new jean jacket! 30 April 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES For Mr. Penfield, it was more than a poem. during nted r ead in hi s m emory It was a lo ve le tter he wa his commemorative service. en a nd w ill always be a very orating the loss of a loved one has always be celebration, Commem rry on their memo ry through a hether y ou wou ld like to ca you personal a ct. W g, we ple dge to accompany a mon ument, a memory medallion or an engravin to love. in the plan ning of this ode ous moment at a time. Honouring life, one preci

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