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6 watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com Our Thanksgiving centerpiece was about 12 more pounds of written by fellow changemakers in turkey than we actually needed, a theirdifference, own lives. detailed in profiles contributors testament to the American dream. In Tampa Bay, we begin with In a credit to Harris, it also tasted Rep. Michele Rayner, who earlier incredible – since in our attempts Tatiana to Build Bake Better we followed openly LGBTQ woman elected Quiroga is her brine-and-roast recipe that tothis the year Florida became Legislature. the first Black,Next the Director of went viral before the holiday. up is Larry Biddle of the Plus Family Equity and Thank you, Madam Vice President. Project, which distributed nearly Diversity for Family We also whipped up a number $55,000 in grants to worthy Equality. She is a proud mother, of side dishes and desserts, the real wife and LGBTQ advocate in Central tampa bay stars of Thanksgiving. My husband Innovative entertainment Florida. Page 17 and I spent hours in the kitchen takesLGBTQ center nonprofits. stage in our list, just bureau chief’s as it did throughout 2020. Artists of our favorites to keep us fed into John Gascot, Chad Mize and Cam Greg Stemm earlytogether, December. finishing a wide variety Parker each found ways to help lives in Gulfport, It was a bit of normalcy in a others through their work, as Fla., and has worked Ryan year that’s been anything but kind did fan favorite drag performer as a freelance to the status quo, but even more Daphne Ferraro and Kayden writer for several Williams-Jent enjoyable than the meal was the Rodriguez, co-founder of the local publications. He is a founding TB bureau chief making of it. It reminded me how inaugural Tampa Bay Transgender member of St. Pete Pride and active [email protected] lucky we are to have our health, our politically in Tampa Bay. Page 19 Desk home and our happiness, a feeling Even with all of its connecting with family and friends challenges, 2020 Sabrina Ambra, Nathan Bruemmer, afterwards.that was only amplified by virtually Scottie Campbell, Miguel Fuller, ike most things in our new That contentment carried into has remained a Divine Grace, Holly Kapherr Alejos, normal, the end of 2020 has been unique. my December birthday, where Jason Leclerc, Melody Maia Monet, in lieu of in-person celebrations remarkable year. Jerick Mediavilla, Greg Stemm, While October, November and December have loved ones shared their well wishes Dr. Steve yacovelli, Michael wanzie Llong been my favorite months of the year, this one in virtually and Amazon delivered Film Festival. their gifts. Not everyone has that In a year that largely kept us particular tried its best to change that. opportunity, something that’s apart, Chris Jones and Loralei photography four-year wedding anniversary becoming clearer every day. Matisse helped our community times, like during Halloween. The knowing the country had taken its Moving into 2021, I’m working safely come together via Come Brian Becnel, Nick Cardello, globalIt was pandemic difficult rightfully not to let kept it at not to take that for granted – OUT St. Pete. Each person’s impact Bruce Hardin, Jamarqus Mosley, responsible, in-person celebrations correction. especially after Florida hit its grim is detailed along with that of Chris Stephenson, Lee Vandergrift at bay this year – easily the best firstIn steps electing in a notlong-overdue only the most course milestone of one million COVID-19 Karla Bello, who after her private part, candy aside – and it stung a pro-LGBTQ presidential ticket cases Dec. 1. The pandemic isn’t mistreatment by Pinellas County bit. I love a costume, but wearing in U.S. history but the nation’s over just because we’re over it. distribution one at home on a Zoom call didn’t Even with all of its challenges, officials publicly demanded change. pack the same punch. 2020 has remained a remarkable continues in our news coverage. That fight for a better future LVNLIF2 Distributing, Ken Carraway, Like a lot of folks in the LGBTQ much-neededfirst female vice win. president It gave usin plenty year. As a community we’ve found In Tampa Bay, the cities of Vanessa Maresca-Cruz community, I’ve always loved toKamala be grateful Harris, for we on finally Thanksgiving, had a new ways to stay connected with St. Petersburg and Tampa each Halloween. It gives so many of which out of necessity also looked one another through tragedy receive 100% in the Human us the opportunity to outwardly different this year. and triumph. Rights Campaign’s municipal Instead of visiting family early That’s why in this issue we equality index as Balance CONTENTS of WATERMARK are protected by federal we want to be, praised by a world in the day and ending the evening present the 20 Most Remarkable Tampa Bay raises funds for those copyright law and may not be reproduced in whole or part without the permission of the publisher. thatreflect often whomever shuns us or for whatever doing in a turkey-induced coma with People of 2020 – 10 in Tampa Bay in need. In Central Florida, the and 10 others in Central Florida – city of Orlando launches an HIV Unsolicited article submissions will not be returned exactly that. friends, my husband and I bucked unless accompanied by a self-addressed, stamped many of whom I’ve been fortunate community survey. Thankfully whatever loss I was tradition to enjoy dinner for two. envelope. 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In selecting who to feature Cam Parker and St. Petersburg’s on the covers of our remarkable issue, we went with two inspiring and Chad Mize — who used contributors and passionate voices in Florida theirDaphne talents Ferraro, to help John us Gascot feel in 2020 — U.S Rep. Val Demings connected in a year where so much on our Central Florida cover and was detached. Tatiana state Rep. Michele Rayner on our Activists who continued the Quiroga is Tampa Bay cover. important work needed to be done the Director of Demings began the year as in the community. Individuals Family Equity and a standout among the seven like Eryn Harris, who organized Diversity for Family impeachment managers who Equality. She is a proud mother, argued the case against President Daniel Downer, who through wife and LGBTQ advocate in Central Donald Trump during his trial in hisFlagler organization County’s Brosfirst Pridein Convo March; Florida. Page 17 the Senate. She showed the country supported efforts helping both Editor’s and the world what we here in the transgender community Central Florida have known for Greg Stemm years. She takes her job seriously Hermida, who helped organize lives in Gulfport, and she comes to work prepared. aand “Mask Black the Lives People” Matter; team Bobby which Fla., and has worked Along with her impressive as a freelance Jeremy Williams showing at the impeachment writer for several hearings, Demings also stood up 2020 was a very local publications. He is a founding Editor-In-chief member of St. Pete Pride and active [email protected] introducing a bill in the House to difficult year, but politically in Tampa Bay. Page 19 removeas an LGBTQ the ban ally on and blood activist, donations Desk from gay and bisexual men. selecting these Rayner made history in Sabrina Ambra, Nathan Bruemmer, Tampa Bay during the 2020 20 remarkable Scottie Campbell, Miguel Fuller, ecember has always been my election season when she became Divine Grace, Holly Kapherr Alejos, people from it Jason Leclerc, Melody Maia Monet, favorite time of the year. Even with the end woman elected to the Florida was the easiest Jerick Mediavilla, Greg Stemm, of the school year and my birthday both the first Black, openly LGBTQ Dr. Steve yacovelli, Michael wanzie decision for us to Dhappening in June, this month was the one I looked TampaLegislature. Bay as Prior a civil to runningrights attorney for forward to most when I was growing up and that andpolitical an advocate office, Rayner for social served change. make. photography The state of Florida is about to love has only grown in me as I grew. see what Tampa Bay has gotten made more than 3,000 masks Brian Becnel, Nick Cardello, As a big guy, my internal community who have shown to see already. Rayner is someone Bruce Hardin, Jamarqus Mosley, temperature runs fairly hot so a themselves to go above and beyond Rodriguez, who co-founded the Chris Stephenson, Lee Vandergrift for people in Orlando; Kayden cooler month is always preferable in the name of equality, have made Floridians to feel heard, safe and to inaugural Tampa Bay Transgender who will stand with and fight for all to me rather than a sweltering a historical contribution to the have an equal seat at the table. summer month. I also love all movement or have been unsung Demings and Rayner are joined called for change in Pinellas County Film Festival; and Karla Bello, who distribution things Christmas. I know it is by 18 other amazing people who after law enforcement mistreated have shown in 2020 how truly her because she is transgender. sacrilegious as a gay man to say people. In this latest issue, we have LVNLIF2 Distributing, Ken Carraway, that I don’t really care about namedheroes inour the 20 fight Most for Remarkable LGBTQ remarkable they are. Vanessa Maresca-Cruz Halloween, but aside from the People of 2020 — 10 in Central Individuals like The Center LGBTQ business owners like scary movies and the candy, Florida and 10 in Tampa Bay — Orlando’s Joel Morales and Haos on Church’s Blue Star, Gecko the spooky season just isn’t who we believe have shown these One Orlando Alliance’s Felipe CPA Firm’s Leah James and State of my cup of tea. qualities during what has been the not only their skills in business but CONTENTS of WATERMARK are protected by federal Gratitude’s Chris Bilyk who showed copyright law and may not be reproduced in whole As I started working here, this their passion for this community. 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Congratulations to by many fine advertisers, we cannot accept People of the Year. racial equality and a presidential important during a pandemic. all of our remarkable people and responsibility for claims made by advertisers. to help nonprofits was even more Publication of the name or photograph of any This yearly list is our way of election that had the largest voter Artists and performers — like thank you for your tireless work in Orlando’s MrMs Adrien, Tampa’s a truly remarkable year. person or organization in articles, advertising, or recognizing those in our local turnout in U.S. history. listing in WATERMARK is not to be construed as any indication of the sexual orientation of such persons or members of such organizations. watermark staff WATERMARK is published every second Orlando Office Thursday. Subscription rate is $55 (1st class) and $26 (standard mail). Editor-in-Chief: Sales Director: 1300 N. 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The Center Orlando selected as part of FDA blood study Jeremy Williams

RLANDO | The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) is funding a study to look into its own Memory Opolicy which currently bans men who have Quilt: sex with men (MSM) from donating blood. The policy Community was established in the 1980’s during the height of the members unravel AIDS pandemic. The pilot study — called Assessing Donor Variability one of the Central And New Concepts in Eligibility (ADVANCE) — will help Florida AIDS the FDA determine if a donor history questionnaire quilts that will be based on individual risk would be as effective as displayed during time-based deferral in reducing the risk of HIV in the Quilt Tour 2020. blood supply. Current policy states that MSM can donate (Screenshot from only after a three-month period has passed since last CFHPC’s Facebook) having sex with another man. The study will be conducted by Vitalant and happen in a vacuum; especially in OneBlood, the two largest community-based blood Orlando which consistently ranks centers in the U.S., and the American Red Cross and will be done in partnership with LGBTQ community centers Health Assessment new HIV cases. in the country. in the“It istop important five cities to in involve the U.S. all for of our community in this effort, not next steps that would be needed to modify the donor City of Orlando launches HIV just those working in HIV care,” history“The questionnaire,” findings of this saysstudy Susan will help Forbes, determine senior the Rodriguez said. vice president of corporate communications & public Community Assessment Survey Participating organizations displaying the quilts are Hope & supports the use of the additional questions it could Jeremy Williams Central Florida’s Quilt Tour Help (4122 Metric Dr.) and Harmony meanrelations gay for and OneBlood. bisexual men “If the who scientific present evidence to donate 2020 will take locally-created Healthcare (1400 Orlando Ave., would be assessed based upon their own individual risk quilts which represent individuals #205) in Winter Park; the Orange for HIV infection and not according to when their last RLANDO | The City of who have passed from HIV/AIDS County Department of Health sexual contact with another man occurred.” Orlando is working with local and display them in a safe and (6101 Lake Ellenor Dr.), the LGBT+ The study, which is expected to take about a year to Ohealth organizations to better socially-distanced manner at each of Center Orlando (946 N. Mills Ave.), complete, will be conducted at eight locations in the understand the needs of those living the participating organizations. OIC/AHF (1707 N. Mills Ave.), U.S., with the LGBT+ Center Orlando being one of them. with HIV in Central Florida. “We know the importance of Miracle of Love (741 W. Colonial “The blood centers reached out to us personally to The HIV Community Assessment the quilt as a symbol of love and Dr.), Stafford House (711 Seminole see if we would like to work with them on the study,” Survey was launched online Dec. respect,” Gabriella Rodriguez, Ave.), Aspire Health (100 Columbia says Dr. George Wallace, The Center Orlando’s executive 1 — World AIDS Day — and looks executive director of QLatinX and St.), OUAC (507 E. Michigan St. in director. “We are helping coordinate outreach to the to help create programs and junior co-chair of CFHPC, said in a Orlando) and Alianza (11602 Lake LGBTQ+ community to create awareness about the educational materials that will statement. “It was crucial for us to Underhill Rd., Ste 106) in Orlando; and Peer Support Space (880 M.L.K. policies that discriminate against gay and bisexual HIV community. community, we couldn’t let 2020 Jr. Blvd.) and the LGBT+ Center menstudy are and outdated potential and participants stigmatizing can and be identified.I hope that The The reflectQuestions the needs on theof Central anonymous Florida’s takefind athis way away to share from them us.” with the Kissimmee (17 W. Monument Ave.) Center Orlando can play even a small role in getting survey range from inquiring about Rodriguez, who is also a case in Kissimmee. these changed.” the participant’s knowledge on manager for OUAC and works OUAC recently had its services To be eligible to participate in the ADVANCE study Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) with the communities affected incorporated into the existing you must be a gay or bisexual man between the ages and non-occupational Post Exposure by the Pulse tragedy, organized services of The Center Orlando. of 18-30, interested in donating blood and have had Prophylaxis (nPEP) to trust of health the Quilt Tour 2020 as a way to The CFHPC is a community sex with at least one man in the three months before care professionals and knowing your bring the community together planning body that advises on the joining the study. own HIV status. from a distance. allocation of federal funds for Ryan “Potential participants will complete a short survey In an effort to promote the The quilts will be on display in White Parts A & B and provides HIV to assess if they meet the study inclusion criteria. If the assessment survey, as well as a way a manner so that they are visible prevention planning. CFHPC serves to remember and honor those who from the street and may be observed Orange, Osceola, Seminole, Lake and the study will enroll the participants into the study and have passed away due to HIV/AIDS, safely from a distance Dec. 4-31 at Brevard Counties. obtainpotential informed participants consent,” are qualified,Forbes says. staff conducting a dozen organizations across Central 12 agencies — both HIV health care Florida, led by the Central Florida related and non-HIV health care To participate in the City of Orlando’s HIV The study will begin enrolling participants soon at ADVANCEstudy.org. HIV Planning Council (CFHPC) and related. The inclusion of non-HIV Community Assessment Survey, go to Orlando. the Orlando United Assistance gov/HIV-Survey. Center (OUAC), have come together purposely, CFHPC stated in a press to create the Quilt Tour 2020. release,specific organizationsas it shows HIV was does done not

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St. Pete, Tampa receive 100% in HRC’s Municipal Equality Index Ryan Williams-Jent

AMPA BAY | The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) released the results of its ninth annual Municipal TEquality Index (MEI) Dec. 3, in which the cities of St. Petersburg and Tampa received perfect scores. The MEI is the only nationwide assessment of LGBTQ equality, scoring how inclusive municipalities are for those who live and work in the cities rated. Of the 506 scored in GIVING BACK: 2020, a record-breaking 94 earned perfect scores for their Balance Tampa Bay nondiscrimination laws, practices, services and public board members and positions on equality. volunteers at the 10th annual Party that our local leaders across the nation are standing up 4 Presents Dec. for “Theequality results – even of this as they year’s faced MEI headwinds show definitive from evidencestate 5. PHOTO COURTESY governments or the Trump-Pence administration,” HRC President Alphonso David said in a statement. BALANCE TAMPA BAY “There is no question that the Trump administration made every effort to attack laws aimed to protect LGBTQ “It really just made my heart people, and our cities have responded with inclusivity and happy,” BTB Special Events innovative public policy,” he continued. “Although there Coordinator Gabe Alves-Tomko adds. is newfound optimism sweeping the country with the ‘Tis the Season “We had to be super creative. The incoming Biden-Harris administration, there is still work experience overall was incredible; to be done and ground to make up.” people were wearing masks The 2020 MEI featured two new issue briefs for Balance Tampa Bay unwraps 10th while maintaining social distance, understanding the times that we are of addressing systemic racism through municipal action. annual Party 4 Presents all living in.” Thepolicymakers second detailed to review. the TheSupreme first detailed Court’s landmarkthe importance More than 800 toys have been Ryan Williams-Jent rapport with each of these charities received as of Dec. 7, with more LGBTQ workers are protected by federal civil rights law. and have experience working with expected in the coming weeks. BTB’s Despiteruling on such workplace progress, equality HRC noted this year, that which“it is imperative confirmed Amazon Wish List will accept items that local governments continue enacting comprehensive T. PETERSBURG | Balance he explains. “We are excited to work until Dec. 12 to ensure gifts arrive nondiscrimination protections.” Tampa Bay (BTB) held its withthem them to efficiently again.” distribute toys,” before Christmas. “Adopting the measures outlined in the MEI will not S10th annual Party 4 Presents The event was sponsored by “We’ve had donations coming only help cultivate more united and safe communities,” Dec. 5 at the Empath Partners in Raymond James and mirrored from Amazon not just from people David explained, “but it will foster economic growth by Care (EPIC) St. Pete campus, a EPIC’s socially-distanced, drive-in who live in Florida but from people signaling to residents, visitors and outside investors that socially-distanced holiday toy drive fundraisers launched earlier this who live in other states, in Georgia their region is welcoming to all.” year. Fields estimates that 35 cars and farther up North,” Alves-Tomko Of the 18 Florida cities HRC evaluated, six including BTB was founded in 2011 says. “It’s really amazing to see the St. Petersburg and Tampa received perfect scores. tobenefiting promote local LGBTQ-inclusive charities. lot, with more than 100 people – community coming together for This year marks the seventh consecutive 100% for fellowship, fun and philanthropy allfilled of whomthe locale’s adhered spacious to COVID-19 parking such a good cause.” St. Petersburg. throughout Tampa Bay. It has safety precautions – dropping off BTB’s work will continue “Getting to a perfect score several years ago was quite traditionally done so through hundreds of toys and cash donations even after the holiday season. service events and socials like across the four hours. Alves-Tomko stresses that “we have ‘new day’ in St. Pete,” St. Petersburg Mayor Rick Kriseman Party 4 Presents. Audiences also enjoyed live many other opportunities to impact says.celebratory “Keeping for that us in score, that iteven was as the the first criteria illustration has evolved, of the entertainment and a screening of the community. If people want to has taken much focus and commitment, not just because Empath Health, which offers a wide the cult classic comedy “Santa Claus get involved, Balance is the perfect we want to earn the score, but because we always want arrayThis of year’sservices beneficiaries for those facing include Conquers the Martians” from their place to do it.” to do right by our community. It is my hope that a perfect illnesses throughout Tampa Bay vehicles. In addition to donated “That’s our whole mission,” Fields score will always be St. Pete’s goal.” and which EPIC is a member, as toys, more than $3,000 has also adds. “We are constantly looking for Tampa Mayor Jane Castor also celebrated Tampa’s well as Champions for Children and been raised for the charities via volunteers and for outreach into the 100%. “Tampa is proud to be an inclusive city where we the Tampa Bay Party Project. The Facebook, with donations welcome community. Please contact us!” celebrate our diversity every day,” she shared. “Our LGBTQ former focuses on preventing child until Dec. 12. community is part of Tampa’s colorful fabric, and we are abuse and neglect while the latter “It was a real challenge because For more information about Balance Tampa Bay, works to ensure every child feels of COVID but we moved forward,” including donation or volunteer opportunities, progress we have made in the past year to further justice loved and valued. email [email protected] or visit andhonored equity.” to see our HRC score rise in reflection to the BTB President Jason Fields overall was the real highlight – we BalanceTampaBay.org. Learn more about hadFields performances reflects. “The and fellowship decorations, Empath Health, Champions for Children and the To view the HRC’s full report and each city’s scorecard, visit because of the unique populations all of the volunteers had lights Tampa Bay Party Project at EmpathHealth.org, HRC.org/MEI. theysays theserve, beneficiaries both during were the holidayschosen on and people were dropping off CFCTB.org and TampaBayPartyProject.org. and throughout the year. “We have a presents. It was fun and light.”

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watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com 11 12 watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com state, nation+world news Two lesbian women of color named to key roles in Biden White House communication Reimagined SMART Ride staff raises more than $660K Ryan Williams-Jent Chris Johnson of The During the Obama Project. Originally from Florida administration, Jean-Pierre and raised in Guatemala, Tobar is a Washington Blade, was regional political director graduate of the University of Miami rganizers of the 17th annual SMART Ride Courtesy of the and now lives in D.C. with her wife have announced that this year’s reimagined Political Affairs during the Obama and daughter. fundraiser has raised more than $660,000 for National LGBT Media administrationfor the White House and served Office ofin The Biden transition team O HIV/AIDS organizations in Florida. Association various roles in the 2008 and 2012 announced the news about The SMART Ride is the nation’s second largest Obama presidential campaign. Jean-Pierre and Tobar in the AIDS bicycle ride and the only one of its size to donate Born in Martinique and raised in same statement announcing the entirety of funds raised to service organizations. he Biden transition team New York, Jean-Pierre is a graduate Jennifer Psaki, who had announced Nov. 29 two of Columbia University. previously served during the lesbian women of color million since 2003. T Tobar, on the other hand, was Obama administration as State BeneficiariesThe ride has have traditionally received more welcomed than $11.8 hundreds of — Karine Jean-Pierre and Pili communications director for Department spokesperson, would cyclists to complete a 165-mile trek from Miami to Tobar — were selected to serve coalitions for the Biden campaign. be White House press secretary in as key members for the new Key West. It was restructured this year in response to Previously, Tobar was deputy the new administration. COVID-19, encouraging participants to log 165 miles, administration’s White House director for America’s Voice, Jean-Pierre and Tobar aren’t the communications staff, which minutes or other measurable metric for physical where she advocated on behalf activities of their choice Nov. 20-22. of immigrants. a White House communications “It was amazing to see people reimagine their be all-female. Additionally, Tobar has also staff.first openly In the Trumpgay people White to House,work in will for the first-time ever 165,” SMART Ride Founder Glen Weinzimer says. Jean-Pierre served as senior worked as the Hispanic media Judd Deere has been serving adviser to President-elect Joe “We had people riding in San Diego, walking in NYC, director for Senate Minority as White House deputy press riding in Atlanta, cleaning beaches for 165 minutes in Biden and chief of staff to Vice Leader Charles Schumer; national secretary. During the Obama President-elect Kamala Harris Fort Lauderdale, doing 16.5 miles of stand-up paddle director of Hispanic Media and years, Eric Schulz was also White boarding and even volunteering for 16.5 hours, all during the 2020 presidential Western regional press secretary House deputy press secretary and campaign. Previously, Jean-Pierre to raise awareness and funds to combat HIV in our for the Democratic National own backyard.” Committee; communications to conduct an on-camera news Initial totals showed more than $635,000 had been for MoveOn.org and an NBC and director for Congressman Ruben conferencewas the first from openly the gayWhite person House was chief public affairs officer raised by this year’s nearly 700 registered participants. MSNBC Political Analyst. Gallego; and communications director for the Latino Victory Monroe County, Broward House in Wilton Manors, briefing room. CompassSMART Ride Community 17’s beneficiaries Center in includePalm Beach AIDS County, Help in Metro Inclusive Health in Tampa Bay, Miracle of Love in 2017 ban on local LGBTQ ordinances ends in Central Florida and Pridelines in Miami-Dade County. “In a year of so much fear, disappointment, loneliness, uncertainty,The total sicknesswas first andrevealed economic via social despair, media you Nov. shined 22. North Carolina as you always do,” Weinzimer shared. “Hurricanes have tried to stop us, bitter cold weather has tried to derail Wire Report and prompted several large for the Campaign for Southern us, but this was our biggest challenge ever and you corporations and sports teams Equality, said in a news release. came through.” to relocate events to other states Beau Mills, executive director This year’s fundraising total has climbed to $660,000 ALEIGH, N.C. | A 3 1/2-year or reconsider expanding in of the North Carolina Metro in the weeks since and donations will continue to ban on new local ordinances North Carolina. Mayors Coalition, said before the be collected through December. “We’re especially Raimed at protecting LGBTQ As the moratorium ended, ban ended that he wasn’t aware grateful for CAN Community Health. Without their title rights in North Carolina expired leaders of Equality North Carolina of any city planning to pass new sponsorship, this year would have been impossible to Dec. 1, prompting gay rights and the Campaign for Southern ordinances right away. “I am aware produce,” Weinzimer says. groups to urge the passage of such Equality urged North Carolina that cities, some municipalities, are “In the midst of a pandemic, it was heartwarming measures now. residents Dec. 1 to contact certainly looking at it,” Mills told to see people raise so much money,” he continues. Democratic Gov. Roy Cooper leaders of cities and urge them The News & Observer of Raleigh. “Especially when there is a fear on many to ask in agreed to the moratorium in to expand anti-discrimination Although the legislature that this most unusual of times with so many caught in an March 2017 in exchange for laws for the LGBTQ community. convenes in January will still be economic crisis. We have seen that those who have GOP lawmakers agreeing to do The moratorium had barred controlled by Republicans, the the means have been more generous than usual and away with several portions of a new local ordinances related party lacks a veto-proof majority willing to help.” “bathroom bill” that Republicans to private employment, hotels and will have limited options to A reimagined check distribution for this year’s had approved a year earlier. and restaurants. cancel any local ordinances that A key disputed section of House might be passed. Cooper was Bill 2 directed transgender people a new chapter for LGBTQ North reelected in November. The GOP Forbeneficiaries more information is currently about this year’s scheduled reimagined for SMART January. Ride or to to use public bathrooms matching Carolinians,“We can finally one where begin no writing one is has shown little interest in passing donate additional funds, visit TheSMARTRide.org. their biological sex instead of left vulnerable to discrimination statewide protections for the the gender they identify with. based on who they are or who they LGBTQ community. It drew national condemnation love,” Allison Scott, policy director

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MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT BIKTARVY POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF BIKTARVY BIKTARVY may cause serious side effects, including: BIKTARVY may cause serious side effects, including:  Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. If you have  Those in the “Most Important Information About both HIV-1 and HBV, your HBV may suddenly get worse if BIKTARVY” section. you stop taking BIKTARVY. Do not stop taking BIKTARVY  Changes in your immune system. Your immune system without ﬁrst talking to your healthcare provider, as they may get stronger and begin to ﬁght infections. Tell your will need to check your health regularly for several months. healthcare provider if you have any new symptoms after you start taking BIKTARVY. ABOUT BIKTARVY  Kidney problems, including kidney failure. Your healthcare BIKTARVY is a complete, 1-pill, once-a-day prescription provider should do blood and urine tests to check your medicine used to treat HIV-1 in adults and children who kidneys. If you develop new or worse kidney problems, they weigh at least 55 pounds. It can either be used in people who may tell you to stop taking BIKTARVY. have never taken HIV-1 medicines before, or people who are  Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is replacing their current HIV-1 medicines and whose healthcare a serious but rare medical emergency that can lead to death. provider determines they meet certain requirements. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual BIKTARVY does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS. HIV-1 is the virus muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach that causes AIDS. pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, Do NOT take BIKTARVY if you also take a medicine that contains: feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or abnormal heartbeat. CHAD  Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death.  dofetilide Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these LIVING WITH HIV SINCE 2018  rifampin symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, REAL BIKTARVY PATIENT  any other medicines to treat HIV-1 dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain. BEFORE TAKING BIKTARVY  The most common side effects of BIKTARVY in clinical studies were diarrhea (6%), nausea (6%), and headache (5%). Tell your healthcare provider if you: These are not all the possible side effects of BIKTARVY.  Have or have had any kidney or liver problems, including Tell your healthcare provider right away if you have any hepatitis infection. new symptoms while taking BIKTARVY.  Have any other health problems. You are encouraged to report negative side effects of  Are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. It is not known if prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.FDA.gov/medwatch KEEP BIKTARVY can harm your unborn baby. Tell your healthcare or call 1-800-FDA-1088. provider if you become pregnant while taking BIKTARVY. Your healthcare provider will need to do tests to monitor your  Are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do not health before and during treatment with BIKTARVY. breastfeed. HIV-1 can be passed to the baby in breast milk. CREATING. Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines HOW TO TAKE BIKTARVY you take: Take BIKTARVY 1 time each day with or without food. Because HIV doesn’t change who you are.  Keep a list that includes all prescription and over-the-counter GET MORE INFORMATION medicines, antacids, laxatives, vitamins, and herbal supplements, and show it to your healthcare provider  This is only a brief summary of important information about BIKTARVY® is a complete, 1-pill, once-a-day prescription medicine used and pharmacist. BIKTARVY. Talk to your healthcare provider or pharmacist to learn more. to treat HIV-1 in certain adults. BIKTARVY does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS.  BIKTARVY and other medicines may affect each other. Ask your healthcare provider and pharmacist about  Go to BIKTARVY.com or call 1-800-GILEAD-5 Ask your healthcare provider if BIKTARVY is right for you. medicines that interact with BIKTARVY, and ask if it is  If you need help paying for your medicine, visit BIKTARVY.com safe to take BIKTARVY with all your other medicines. for program information. See Chad’s story at BIKTARVY.com. Featured patient compensated by Gilead.

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I would get to eventually On other days, I write allowing myself to get lost of a year has given me the when I have some free time. gratitude lists, spelling out in a good book. Enjoying the Self-care wasn’t trendy or all the things in my life that smell of my favorite candle. and gratitude. This year popular before 2020. As a I’m thankful for. Depending Feeling a runner’s high hasmagnificent taught me gifts to focusof self-care on society, it wasn’t a priority. on my mood, the moon, how when challenging myself to the things I have versus My parents, teachers and my children are behaving or run one more mile. Falling the things I don’t. When professors never taught me what’s for dinner, my lists in love with the grace and times are rough, my spirit about self-care. Even when could be full of small, simple elegance of a full moon is low and my motivation earning my Master’s in things or riddled with and basking in her bliss. is lacking, I remember I am Mental Health Counseling, complexities and existential Sitting on my back porch, not alone and that I need we never completed course work on “self-care.” For some, self-care After months of quarantine, I was reminded that I wasn’t alone. I have a community and it’s beautiful, andis viewed to meet as yourselfish needs and beforegreedy; others. to put yourselfFor me, it’s first bold and diverse. Tatiana Quiroga been critical to my soul, to examples. It varies. I admit, savoring a cool breeze and to be kind to myself, focus my spirit and to my mental at times, I have to dig deep. watching the palm trees on gratitude and seek out health. I’ve learned to My family and I have sway. These moments in and live in those moments purposely seek out activities experienced various forms time can’t be repeated, that spark my soul, ignite that bring me joy, make me of loss during this time but but are easily forgotten or my passion, make me smile Parental Guidance taken for granted. I’m so and bring me joy! In those me a sense of purpose. to be grateful for and eagerly trying to capture and moments, I’ve built hope smile,To distractfill my heart me from and give appreciate.I always find In something the name keep them in my pocket to that 2021 will be better! the headlines, a handful of of self-care, I’ve learned cherish later. Self-care in a COVID year Zoom funerals and our four to pause in moments and As we barrel towards Tatiana Quiroga is the Director seek out ways to live in of Family Equity and Diversity volunteer work, my happy these seconds of time. on 2020 and I must for Family Equality. She is a place.walls, II’m dove on headfirstthe Board into of Family dance parties in acknowledgethe end of the that year, this I reflect proud mother, wife and LGBTQ ell 2020, you’ve Directors for Zebra Coalition our kitchen. Letting go and advocate in Central Florida. been memorable! and Come Out With Pride. hellacious, dumpster fire Almost nine months into greatly impacted by COVID, Wquarantine, my family and I are still ISince knew most that nonprofitsthere was awere lot of work to be done. washing our hands compulsively, At Come Out With Pride, wearing masks, social distancing, we were determined not to cancel Pride and press working remotely and distance on. And, we did just that! learning. It doesn’t feel like much On the morning of Pride In The Streets, our vehicle has changed, nor have we had processional throughout much progress. Instead, the COVID Orlando, I headed to the launch area to help execute numbers are rising, the president is the event. By mid-morning, still refusing to concede and racism the parking lot was packed with various cars, trucks and white supremacy are still very and vans. People dressed much alive. in their best and brightest Pride attire, while still My family and I have slipped into a routine. Our wearing masks, of course. daily grind of schoolwork, Zoom meetings, conference calls and juggling time and workspace. I’ve fallen Music bouncing. The air was victim to sweatpants, sports bras and comfy T-shirts buzzing.Pride flags Pausing flying toso takeproudly. a as my customary work attire. However, in our new deep breath, I stepped back normal, we have found solace in simpler things like for a moment to let it all sink card games, long walks, bike rides and we even went in. I was brought to tears and camping a few weeks ago. Well, we stayed in a rustic overwhelmed by emotions. cabin, but in my book, it still counts. After months of quarantine, While a lot feels like it hasn’t changed in I was reminded that I wasn’t quarantine, I daydream about returning to our alone. I have a community pre-quarantine, pre-COVID lives and it feels foreign and it’s beautiful, bold and and strange. I don’t feel the same. During this time, diverse. This sliver in time I recognize that I’ve changed. Out of survival and became a self-care moment keeping my sanity, I’ve been forced to purposely seek that I cherish and hold onto out self-care. A term that I never paid much attention when time seems to drag. to or thought much about. It felt like something

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readers of this publication tied up like a bow, and the the sleigh full of empathy mask on his face was as to those that he chose, I hope it might bring a andthe DemocratsKamala too! flew, with white as the snow. nowAnd there’s pointing a real a fingerleader smileand my to column your face. specifically. And then a concession, The stump of a pot pipe and the country it rose. He Happiest of holidays I barely heard on the roof. he’s not quite there yet, sprang to his limo, gave his to each of you – and now, With prancing and pawing but keep up the pressure team a loud whistle, with with apologies to Clement and a forced little hoof. As it’ll be legal you bet. He all sorts of ideas that make Clarke Moore, author of “A had a broad face and conservatives bristle. Visit from St. Nicholas” – weed all around, down the some aviator glasses, he’s But I heard him exclaim, I present “A Visit from St. chimneyI drew in amy smiling head, St.puffing Biden charming to all, to lads ere he drove out of sight— Biden,” my holiday parody. ‘Twas the night before elections went all I don’t know about you, but 2020 has given me about through the house, with a pandemic raging it’s been as much serious and heavy stuff as I can handle. a real roust. All the vaccines were came with a bound. and to lasses. “Happy Biden to all, and to hung by the chimney He was dressed He was in shape and all a good night!” with care, in hopes that presidential, from his lively, a right jolly old immunity soon would be head to his foot, crushing elf, made me glad that “A Visit from St. Nicholas” was there. The children were Trump and his cronies I voted, in spite of myself. originally published in 1823. Greg Greg Stemm nestled with no virus with ashes and soot. A A wink of his eye and a Stemm is a 37 year resident of dreads, while visions of bundle of health care he twist of his head, soon Pinellas County. He is a founder home schooling danced in gave me to know I had of St Pete Pride and currently their heads. all sorts of goodies in his nothing to dread. sits on the board of the LGBTQ And ma in her mask progressivehad flung on pack. his back, with He spoke not a word, but Resource Center of the Gulfport positive livinG covering her face with no His eyes – how they went straight to his work; Public Library. Greg is an outspoken activist on many issues including gaps, had just settled our twinkled! His dimples, how stopped the virus from HIV/AIDS education. brains without MAGA hats; merry! His record popular spreading, then stopped When out on the lawn votes – what a beautiful a real jerk. A Visit from St. Biden there arose such a clatter, cherry! His electoral win I sprang from my bed to see what was the matter. Yep, it was Donald - he et’s face it, 2020 has couldn’t be fatter. Away been an absolute dumpster from the window for he wanted cash, tore open the shutters and I hit Lpandemic, going through the me some hash. The moon on the face of electionfire. and Living social with unrest the from his porn star in tow, gave facing our nation’s systemic racism a lustre of midday to hush money below. When what has put us all on edge. to my wondering eyes did appear, but Donald himself Fear seems to have ruled the day. So when I sat and Rudy, oh dear. With a crazy Republican inclination was to go dark and heavy. Dec. 1 was down to write my final column of the year, my first so lively and quick, I knew in a moment he must be about my own journey as I prepare to enter my 28th a prick. More rapid than yearWorld as AIDS a long-term Day and survivor. I thought about reflecting more eagles his conspiracies As the New Year approaches I also weighed came, and he whistled, sharing some resolutions, which I always break and shouted, and called about Jan. 2, or pondering what we might hope them by name. will be better in 2021. Because queers joined many “Now, Fraud! Now, others in voting this year, we have ousted the Recounts! Now Socialist absolute worst president in American history and Vixens! It’s Fake News I considered writing about the relief we feel and the on Maddow, on CNN and excitement we hope about what lies ahead. Wolf Blitzen! To the top Since Watermark is featuring Remarkable People of the ballots, to the top in this issue, I even thought about some pretty we must crawl! Now remarkable people in my life that I could write count away, throw away, about, but at this unprecedented holiday season discredit them all!” that all seemed too serious and melancholy. I don’t With warming climates know about you, but 2020 has given me about as much serious and heavy stuff as I can handle. Joe rejoins us to Paris, As the old song goes, “We need a little Christmas stopsthe wild polluting hurricanes the sky. fly, right this very minute.” So I’ve crafted my So up to the White House tongue-in-cheek holiday card to all the faithful

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iconhonoring Andre the Leon 100 Tall, most the influential creators ofLGBTQ+ “Queer people Eye,” Black of the Lives year Matterincludes Toronto 99-year-old violently co-foundertrans WWII Janaya U.S. Navy Khan fighter and actorspilot Robina Jameela Asti, Jamil, comedian Wilson WandaCruz, Keke Sykes, Palmer, fashion Virtual Honoree Induction Ceremony Nov. 21. Others who made this year’s list includeJeremy PopeDonald and Trump’s Joe Mantello. niece, theHonorees psychologist were celebrated and author at Mary the first Trump, 2020 former Out100 baseball player Billy Bean, teen rapper Kidd Kenn and actors Lili Reinhardt, killed Cheyenne Jackson, Jonathan Bennett and Dashaun Wesley. in the U.S., the majority of which were Black and Latinx Wrestler Pat Elliot Page comes Brandi Carlile trans women, Patterson dead at 79 out as transgender memoir coming in April and at Patterson, the WWE lliot Page, whose legend who called himself breakthrough role in rammy winner Brandi P E“Juno” landed him an Oscar Carlile has a memoir passed away Dec. 2 at the age of 79. nomination in 2007, has revealed coming in April. Her is the highest Patterson’sthe “first wrestling gay superstar,” career began he is transgender. Page currently G publisher calls the book an in 1958 in his native Canada before “evocative and piercingly honest” making his WWE debut in 1978, Umbrella Academy,” which was journey through the life that has where a year later he became the recentlystars on Netflix’srenewed hit for series a third “The season. shaped her “very raw art.” Crown number of deaths He shared his truth via social media announced Nov. 19 that Carlile’s Champion. After retiring as a Dec. 1. “I want to share with you book is called “Broken Horses,” at this point of wrestlercompany’s in first1984, Intercontinental Patterson that I am trans, my pronouns are and that Carlile herself will read continued working for WWE behind he/they and my name is Elliot,” he the audio edition. The 39-year-old the year since the scenes and is credited for wrote. Page also asked for patience, singer-songwriter-instrumentali creating the popular Royal Rumble calling his joy real but fragile, st is known for such songs as “The match. Patterson publicly came discussing reports that at least 40 Story” and “The Joke” and for her tracking this out in 2014 during an episode of trans or gender non-conforming album “By the Way, I Forgive You.” the WWE reality series “Legends people have been violently killed in According to Crown, Carlile will data began. House.” Two years later, Patterson 2020. The star promised to continue write about her “dysfunctional chronicled his journey in his using his platform to speak out for but loving family,” her years memoir, “Accepted: How the First LGBTQ rights. of “sleepless tours” and her Gay Superstar Changed WWE.” collaborations with everyone from —Human Rights Campaign Elton John to Tanya Tucker.

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U.S. Rep. Val Demings By U.S. Rep. Mike Quigley hese past four years have been especially stressful for LGBTQ Americans, forced to face prejudice and Tdiscrimination from the very top of our federal government. From health care to trans military service to so-called “religious freedom” efforts, the Trump Administration launched an all-out assault on the civil rights of the LGBTQ community. Yet through it all, our commitment to justice has only deepened. And that resolve is shared by no ally more than my friend, Rep. Val Demings. The attack on Pulse was a watershed all her work on behalf of Central Florida. moment, not only for the LGBTQ And she’s a good friend. It’s why I was so community, but for all Americans. incredibly proud to join Congresswoman As a former police chief and the Demings in introducing the Science in representative whose district includes Blood Donation Act of 2020, which would Pulse, the Congresswoman has enact a strictly evidence based blood championed gun reform efforts. She has donation policy and put an end to the led the push to make the site of the Pulse discriminatory ban once and for all. massacre a national memorial. She has Her advocacy for the LGBTQ fought for the passage of The Equality community makes no member more deserving of this recognition than nondiscrimination law in U.S. history. And Congresswoman Val Demings. While Actshe tohas create taken the up first the causefederal of LGBTQ+ overturning there may no longer be the direct threat the discriminatory ban on blood donations of homophobia and transphobia coming from gay and bisexual men. from the next White House, as an ally As members of the House Intelligence and an advocate, I know that she will Committee, Val and I have spent many long hours together these past few years, continue to advocate for equality for all and I saw up close during those taxing, neveruntil every back American,down from no a fightmatter and who will they challenging months that she’s a tireless love or how they identify, can live openly without fear.

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24 watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com except you can really feel it. It’s like he can hug you with his Felipe Sousa-Lazaballet, words. Even in 2020 through Eryn Harris, Flagler County Zoom, his passion and empathy incoming Board Chair, One is palpable. Pride March organizer When the opportunity opened for a position with the By Randall Bertrand, LGBTQ activist Orlando Alliance City of Orlando as Manager of Collaborative Partnerships, By Robin Maynard-Harris, former Board Chair, focusing on the long term fter graduation, most One Orlando Alliance recovery from the Pulse tragedy he knew this was where he was meant to be and in January 2017 summer, but not Eryn Harris. In June elipe Matos Lazaballet is a he took the role and moved here A2020, justseniors weeks look after forward accepting to a her fun-filled diploma pioneer in the intersectionality of to help continue the healing in our community. Fast forward and amid the nationwide shutdown due to immigrant/LGBTQ rights with an three years and Felipe is now F the Inclusion, Diversity and Equity Senior Specialist for the County LGBTQ+ Pride March. you’d be hard pressed to ever meet another COVID-19,Just 10 days Eryn prior to setup the four-year the first mark ofever the Pulse Flagler attack, incrediblelike this remarkable journey in human! his fight All for of equity Felipe’s and life for the City of Orlando. In this Eryn (17 at the time) began an aggressive social media campaign capacityOffice of Multiculturalhe proposes policy Affairs to promote the event and gather resources. She coordinated with he’s been crushing barriers placed before him recommendations, programs, as a gay immigrant soaking in the knowledge advocates for best practices a broader audience and communicate the message of peace in our on LGBTQ issues, immigrant communitythe local nonprofit through “Find love Yourand acceptance. Peace by Pieces” to help advertise to of those who came before him and advocating and refugee affairs, as well After Eryn planned the march route, she coordinated efforts for those who will come after through a as outreach in the Muslim, with the Flagler Beach Police Department and the Flagler County Brazilian Arab American treacherous but victorious trail of dreams. communities to encourage socially conservative bastion of Flagler County. Measures were I’ve had the privilege of he traveled alone arriving at greater participation in Sherriff’s Office to ensure a safe and peaceful event even in the knowing Felipe as a friend and the immigration desk in Miami city services. colleague for several years now he remembered the important Felipe joined the board of the enactedEryn delegatedby the Sherriff’s tasks to Office members to monitor of the social local LGBTQ+media and support and yet in every conversation advice his mother gave him: One Orlando Alliance in January group,prepare planning for any counterprotestsfor a local DJ to have that mighta sound have system flared available up. in we have, more layers of his “Just remember to say you’re of 2018 and his work ethic, lived Flagler Beach’s Veterans Park where the destination of the support journey are uncovered and going to Disney World”; except experience and insight have march was set to happen. Eryn made sure the local news media continue revealing how when Felipe arrived they tried added incredible value to our was aware of the event to provide coverage of the march. Even the remarkable he truly is. This full to question him in English community-based grassroots, Flagler Beach Fire Department was onsite, hoisting an enormous circle story begins in 2001, as and when that didn’t work, a young middle schooler who Spanish, and when that didn’t On the day of the event, the local health department came couldn’t speak a word of English, work because he only spoke nonprofit.this remarkable If you human,have spent then outrainbow to provide flag some free 90coronavirus feet into the testing air at for the anyone park. that wished who hugged his mother, sister Portuguese he remembered his youmore are than learning five minutes the difference with to participate. Many local political candidates who support the and other loved ones goodbye, mother’s advice and blurted between equality and equity preservation and expansion of LGBTQ+ protections were onsite leaving his poor neighborhood out “Mickey Mouse!” and they because of Felipe’s passion, it talking to members of the community and there were even Flagler smiled and let him through. becomes a part of your every to America for a better life in Those two words and a pathway day thinking. In total, the event was attended by several hundred people inhopes Brazil and and dream boarding of becoming a flight of advocacy would lead Felipe I have had the pleasure of Countyall decked election out in officials their favorite present pride to help attire. people It was register an amazingly to vote. a teacher. To the plane full of from Miami to Washington D.C. learning from and working other passengers, he was an along side Felipe to create lives in the Pulse nightclub shooting just four years prior. Eryn’s excited boy coming to visit to his home here in Orlando, real change in the LGBTQ+ effortssuccessful showed event that and hate a fitting will nevertribute triumph to the people so long who as there lost their is love. Orlando, the reality was that whereto New “Mickey York City Mouse” and finally lives. community and beyond, with Eryn has shown that even during a pandemic, with little time to he was a scared boy coming on Except by the time Felipe the knowledge that there is plan and organize, an event described by some as “life-changing” a tourist visa to stay with his arrived to his new home here, much more work to be done. can occur. The power to promote change is possible for one person, sister for as long as possible. As this was a different Orlando. Felipe has made such an impact One now known, in recent that when I knew it was time times, not for Mickey Mouse for a new Board Chair for LGBTQ+and Eryn Pride exemplifies March, theEryn best used in whather position we should as the be. head of the but for one of the worst mass the organization I have loved mediaIn addition club at Flagler-Palmto Eryn’s planning Coast ofHigh the School first Flagler to build County support for shootings in U.S. history that serving these past four years, he the local effort to add gender Identity protections to the Flagler affected hundreds of LGBTQ+ was the successor that we all County School District’s nondiscrimination policy. She used her folks, mostly people of color knew would take the Alliance to contacts throughout the school to bring students and parents to and from all walks of life. It was the next level. local school board meetings where they could voice their support a different Orlando and one It is you Felipe, that is the for the inclusive language being requested. that needed Felipe in it. One remarkable teacher you aspired Eryn also provides youth insight to the local LGBTQ+ support of the remarkable aspects of to be nearly 20 years ago as you group known as the LGBTQ+ Community of Flagler County where Felipe that I have had the joy of deplaned and fearfully blurted she helps plan events for local LGBTQ+ teens and adults to gather experiencing as I have gotten out “Mickey Mouse.” It is you and share joy and fellowship in an area that can seem quite to know him more and more who embody the word solidarity. resistant to the LGBTQ+ community. is his energy. You don’t leave It is you that makes Orlando Eryn is currently attending Flagler College as a freshman a conversation with Felipe feel like a place to belong and without feeling better than you thrive to so many. It is you, who efforts in lifting the local LGBTQ+ community. It’s no surprise that did going in and it most often shemajoring already in seesmedia a secondand film annual studies, Flagler allowing County her LGBTQ+to continue Pride her ends with the words “Big Hugs” Big Hugs always. March in the future. defines remarkable. We love you.

watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com 25 Chris Bilyk, Founder, Blue Star, Owner, Haos on Church State of Gratitude By Rob Ward, Central Florida entertainer By Andres Acosta Ardila, Coordinator, ’ll never forget the night, many years ago, Contigo Fund when I was a newly out-of-the-closet gay boy, and my then boyfriend dragged me out of the house to Southern Nights (before it was ratitude is often described IRevolution, before it was Southern Nights). as a state of mind and I’m honored to talk smile that instantly lights up any room she’s in. about the man that has taken this state of No matter how busy Blue is, she has a talent for Gmind and created a movement around it. biologicalThere was woman a drag named show Baby on the Blue. dance The floor minute making everyone she talks to feel like they are the and the final entertainer of the night was a most important person in the room every time. Chris Bilyk is a Colombian American and this is what bonded us diminutive in stature, but giant in stage presence. I’m so thankful that I went to Southern Nights Sheshe hitperformed the stage, an I excitingwas floored. and sexyBaby lip-synch Blue was all those years ago, and met the unforgettable I picked him up at his parents’ house in Celebration. The home was to Nine Inch Nails’ “Closer” — complete with (Baby) Blue Star and in truth, togetherbeautiful atand first. the When neighborhood I first met looked Chris welike went the kind to get of coffee picturesque after dripping candle wax — then took the microphone all these years later, setting one imagines when they think of the “wholesome American I’m still impressed crowd in her thick Georgia accent. I’d never seen a (and yes, still a bit and spent the next five minutes entertaining the obsessed). suburb.”here in Orlando. This is where What ultimatelyChris and I caught had our my first attention conversation. was when We he over the rowdy bar crowd. I was impressed and flirtednonchalantly back and shared forth his and story shared of addiction stories of and our recovery.high school In adays suburban perhapsperformer a bit with obsessed. such confidence and total control setting where problems are swept under luxurious rugs and the word Today, I can’t believe Baby Blue — now known addiction is whispered with fear and shame, this man proudly owned as Blue Star — has become one of my closest who he was, where he came from and where he was going. friends. Her fans know that Blue is a trained I’m no stranger to the story of addiction seeing as how my own dancer, an incredible performer, a shrewd recovery plays such a big part in the work I do now. What made Chris businesswoman and a community leader, but the lucky few who get to be a part of her personal which he shared with me his journey. Chris looks at the past that led world know that she’s so much more than that. reallyhim to stand this moment out to me in waslife andthe confidenceinstead of holding and, well, the gratitude pity party with that She’s a champion for homegrown artists, a I held for myself for years Chris was willing to tackle it, own it and used relentless creator and a genuinely caring human that to shape his future for himself and others. being who is always ready to lend a hand, give When he shared the idea behind State of Gratitude — the lifestyle a hug and maybe even bake up a warm plate of brand he had founded of cool, comfortable clothing and accessories delicious southern biscuits to friends in need. Blue — I saw immediately how the experiences of his past shaped his view has a laugh that is infectious and a mischievous of what State of Gratitude should be. Chris takes the grant model of empowerment and uses it to make sure that other individuals that struggle with addiction like he and I do are able to get the help Leah James, Business owner, Gecko CPA Firm Chris is a brilliant businessman and knows how to use his charm necessaryto further histo rebuild goals. I’m their grateful lives and to know fight forhim a and better to havefuture. been able By Carlos Carbonell, Business owner, Echo Interaction Group to hear from him the process of launching State of Gratitude at the beginning of the pandemic, to provide support in the grant-making eah James is pure zen. A behind-the-scenes, which he gave to an individual here in Orlando. I’ve since had the professional, calming center of the community since the early process and better yet to see him succeedpleasure and of speakinggive out his to thisfirst man, grant, Kevin Voelts, and the gratitude and love he displays for life even L foundational years until now, she has given of herself. during this hard time is amazing. days of local LGBTQ activism and nonprofit work. From those That’s what makes State of From being part of the of Orlando’s Audit Board, where she Gratitude a movement and not founding committee of became chairperson. just a lifestyle brand. Chris has Come Out With Pride, Her personal journey has also taken her to created an online community the board of the then become a yogi leader through much training of recovering addicts who are named Metropolitan and work on her practice. Her compassionate grateful for the changes in their Business Association, life and are grateful for their now The Pride the owner of an accounting practice, she infuses and caring work doesn’t end with nonprofits. As past and current struggles Chamber, to currently her client service with empathy. As a client of because, much like Chris, as the One Orlando hers, I can attest to this. Her advice and guidance that is what makes them Alliance board goes beyond that of a business accountant and the amazing people treasurer. She has been more of a friend/mentor who has they are today. has even lent seen me through the ups and downs of business So who is Chris her expertise and the economy for over a decade. Especially Bilyk? He is the creator to government during these times, I — and I’m sure many of a movement that entities like others — would have been worse off navigating reminds all of us to be the City the heavy impact the pandemic has had with grateful and celebrate business owners. every moment that The community is so thankful for Leah and her remarkable, intuitive insight.

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26 watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com Assistance Center, bringing his expertise to organizations Joél Morales, Director of across the county. Mr. Ms Adrian, Central Through the pandemic Operations, LGBT+ Center and closures, Joél never Florida entertainer slowed down. As I write this on Thanksgiving weekend, By Divine Grace, Central Florida entertainer Orlando I am thankful that Joél is part of The Center family. By Dr. George Wallace, Executive Director, Orlando is lucky to have ello, Dolls! such a remarkable person So here’s the deal: Today (It’s November when I wrote LGBT+ Center Orlando this), I had a walkthrough of a new venue with our as 2020 ends, it was indeed “Golden Gals Live!” cast and got to spend a little time with oél Junior Morales is an workingthe year offor The their Center benefit. and So, the Ha little boy I call “Ma’.” Mr. Ms Adrian. outspoken, Puerto Rican, queer advocate. year of Joél Junior Morales. S/He drove me home afterwards and, while we were listening to Here’s to 2021. And he is remarkable. We both relocated showtunes, I thought of how many squeals we have shared over the J last year because of Broadway, Bette Midler and big butts. I lean over to Orlando from Massachusetts, me in 2002 and tell Mr. Ms Adrian, “I wish we had shared space when I was your age, because almost nobody around me ‘got’ it, and I really needed it.” and him in 2011, and I have had the privilege Then I came home and found an email from my editor asking me of working with him since 2019 when he to write this praise and I didn’t hesitate. I am at least 20 years older than the child that plays my mother. returned to The Center in his current role as (That’s how incredible I look! It feels good, but I must really attribute director of operations. much of my unreal fabulosity to all of the youthfulness I have sucked out of this person. But even then ... I look really good.) Often the executive make sure that The Center’s I Love Mr. Ms Adrian with all of my heart. And let me tell you: new initiatives to bridge At not one point have I ever heard a negative word about this gal. most of the credit for good gaps in food security were Ever. Period. director of a nonprofit gets things happening within the happening. And he was Adding additional shame to my own behavior is that I have also organization. I learned early instrumental in ensuring never heard a negative word come out of that gal’s mouth either. in my career to surround that The Center would She’s a damn saint. myself with the best and that be the future home of I wish I could BE this gal. is exactly what I did when the Orlando United Adrian Padron was introduced to me with TVLand Live’s “Golden I hired Joél. So many of The Assistance Center, Gals: Live!” two weeks after I got out of a 6-week stint in a hospital, Center’s recent accolades were where he worked and THE DAY AFTER I buried my mother. Here is this child who’s because of his hard work and immediately following supposed to play my mother while I’m all but convalescing and dedication to our community. the Pulse tragedy. Not wiping the dirt I buried my mother with still fresh. Prior to 2020, Joél has backing away from For any of you familiar with “The Golden Girls,” you already know accomplished so much. From a challenge, he began that Sophia Petrillo and Dorothy Patrello-Zbornak are basically a being a co-founder of QLatinx consulting this year with to being regional chapter Doug Ba’aser says to me, “Trust me! Adrian’s got this!” coordinator of Crime Survivors of Crime Training sisterAnd act. boy So did if one she ofever. the Holy actors CRAP doesn’t did shework, EVER! the whole joke falls flat. for Safety & Justice, he has andthe OfficeTechnical for Victims always been a catalyst for theatrics (just my style) she just kept growing. She kept getting better change. He advocated for the andAn better. accomplished And then Ladybetter. Gaga Her impersonator Dr. Frank N. Furter with ais flair now for an high annual passage of House Bill 7125, favorite. Her Gaga remains legendary. And her Sophia is sublime. which was signed into law But the cherry on this little Cuban cake in late 2019. The new policy improves the probation system, gets Floridian’s back to work atis whatwhich a themagnificent ease of kindness human being and removes barriers to exudesI find him from to be.this It’s person. astonishing victim’s compensation. What a guy! Seriously, Joél and I had a mantra y’all. WHAT A GUY! He going into this year. “2020 just wants everybody is the year of The Center.” to be loved, cared for We probably said it about a and entertained. million times to each other. It has been my While COVID-19 may have honor to basically sidetracked many of our plans, write a fan letter Joél was able to pivot and to a friend who refocus his energy on what earned every the community needs. He was fucking letter. instrumental in the creation of the LGBTQ+ Relief Fund, a collaboration of several LGBTQ I love you, Ma’! organizations. He worked tirelessly to make sure that the most marginalized citizens’ needs were being met during the pandemic. I witnessed him navigate a broken system to Photo by Gabe Marino

watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com 27 28 watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com Bobby Hermida, volunteer/co- Daniel Downer, Founder, organizer, Mask the People Bros in Convo By Yasmin Flasterstein, Co-founder/ Executive Director, By Nicole Elinoff, Prevention Manager, NASTAD Peer Support Space n advocate, accomplice, friend, obby Hermida is one of the most compassionate, resilient and kind people I know. and the ultimate co-collaborator/co-conspirator, He smiles and interacts with anyone that walks ADaniel J.confidant, Downer is proud truly remarkable.member of the Ina Garten fan club Bby in a way that most just don’t care to. He does it because Daniel and I started to really get to assist Orlando area LGBTQ+ community he doesn’t want anyone else to hurt the way he has. know each other in 2016, after a National members who are most in need as a Gay Men’s HIV/AIDS Awareness Day result of the COVID-19 crisis. Bobby is the everyday type of hero conversations feel approachable. He event. From then, the co-conspirator/ that everyone needs to know about. He deeply cares about and loves those he collaborator/ best friendship took off. the launch of Contigo Fund’s ALL Black deeply deserves this recognition and it has never met. It has been an incredible privilege and LivesDaniel Fund, also an playedinitiative a significant that dedicates role in is my honor to tell you about someone Bobby is passionate about many honor to witness Daniel’s professional funding to frontline LGBTQ+ organizing I am so blessed to have as one of my causes and has volunteered repeatedly growth and bear witness to the impact he groups and efforts that are Black LGBTQ+ for mental health, HIV and LGBTQ+ and his work have made, and continue to led in Central Florida to build on the Bobby that the daily interactions we organizations. I am personally make, on the Central Florida community. movement for Black lives — particularly have,best friends. with strangers It is exemplified or loved throughones, are most inspired by how he advocates In 2017, Daniel was selected to those led by and for Black transgender, the most impactful. I have witnessed, for recovery. After many years of participate in the Human Rights gender nonconforming and gender over and over again, Bobby striking tribulation, a trauma sent Bobby to Campaign’s HIV 360 Fellowship, a nonbinary community and sex workers. conversations with strangers that an understandable breaking point. capacity building program for young Both funds have helped LGBTQ+ end with him sharing his contact I watched my friend go down a dark leaders. As a part of his participation, community members tremendously information and continually checking path, and then I watched him get out Daniel received a micro-grant and and have elevated the dialogue on the in on them. He has a gift of using of it. Bobby has been sober two years started The Bros in Convo Initiative. The importance of mutual aid and the critical humor and authenticity to make hard now. That takes a lot and I respect organization was founded in response need of funding for Black LGBTQ+ led him strongly for it. Since then, I have to the rising number of new HIV cases movements in Central Florida (and watched as he repeatedly supports among Black and Brown gay, bisexual beyond). Not only making an impact now, others through their recovery. and queer/same gender loving(GBQ/ but for years to come. What Bobby has overcome is SGL) men ages 18-35 with a vision In one of his most famous quotes, inspiring, what he has accomplished to build community among young Bayard Rustin said, “we need, in despite his obstacles is impressive. Black GBQ/SGL while addressing the every community, a group of angelic health inequities they experience. At troublemakers.” The Central Florida ways to support the wellbeing and the time, Central Florida didn’t have a community is lucky to have Daniel J. Hehappiness is consistently of others. finding During creative the space or an organization like Bros in Downer as one of ours. pandemic, Bobby helped organize and Convo, a space built by and for Black manage a food drive. He also worked and Brown GBQ/SGL men. Three years with a group that created 3,400 masks later and the community that Bros in for individuals needing them. Bobby Convo has helped build and cultivate can always be counted on for any is beautiful and vibrant. Daniel’s work last-minute volunteer need, he already has not only made waves locally, but has a lot on his plate so I really have nationally as well, moving the needle no idea how. When I asked him why on the national dialogue around: health he is doing all of this he replied with equity, community engagement and the “everyone deserves access to importance of lifting and centering the feeling and being safe and voices of community stakeholders. secure.” Bobby Hermida 2020 has been quite a whirlwind, but is undoubtedly one of the consistent comforts has been one of the most Daniel and his leadership. Daniel remarkable people in leads intentionally and centers Central Florida. the community in everything he does, qualities that greatly assisted in his response to everything 2020 has thrown our community’s way (including his Census work and Get Out the Vote activities).

started, Daniel and The BrosWhen in Convo the pandemic Initiative first helped organize Central Florida’s LGBTQ+ Relief Fund, a fund meant to

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30 watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com The Remarkable People Issue Our list of the 10 most remarkable people of 2020 in Tampa Bay

number of COVID-19 cases and deaths. While her team scrambled to adjust to campaigning in our “new normal,” her bold voice declared from her spirit of compassion, we were suspending our campaign to serve those most in need: passing out masks and food and as a hub of information and resources across Hillsborough, Pinellas, Sarasota and Manatee counties. After her historic win in a decided four-way contest that garnered national attention, she continued to show up as she always has to stump for important down-ballot races. She also opened up for then Vice President Joe Biden during a Tampa rally to make the case against bigotry and hatred, helping elect a president that will help our nation build back better by supporting local leaders with shared values. Floridians have lived through a global pandemic disproportionately impacting Black people with lackluster state leadership that favored corporations and partisanship over livelihood, as well as a nationwide reckoning with racism and abuse of state Rep. Michele Rayner excessive (and too frequently) deadly force by law enforcement this year. These simultaneous realities By Maya Brown, Campaign Strategist begged the question for many of “where do we go from here?” Now, folks are demanding that change cannot wait and are looking for leaders with proven inellas County born and raised, Michele Rayner experience to shepherd our communities, state and has taken on some of the most pressing civil rights cases as an to catalyze systemic change. nationRepresentative through difficult, Rayner’s but professional necessary conversations and personal Ppersonal moments and boldly celebrated friends’ joyous accomplishments. Her experience has uniquely prepared her to be a infectiousattorney, spirit ofstood joy and with love bereaved is coupled families with and an unequivocally friends during bold difficult voice that zealous advocate for the residents of House District 70 and the people of the great State of Florida. Her centers inclusion and equity. relentless pursuit of justice and fairness are needed now more than ever to ensure equitable access to Her advocacy matches in words and deeds. quality of life needs like intersectional accessibility The representative often remarks that “how you to affordable healthcare, education, and many others. a tumultuousBeing the first year Black like 2020 woman is indicative to be openly of the queer trust run is how you lead,” and we learned this to be true A known consensus builder, Representative Rayner andso many elected in our to any community office in Florida,have in Representativeespecially during Rayner and the progressive representation we to run for the Florida House of Representatives, the from the spokesperson herself. A month after filing politics to get stuff done. desperately need in government. state shut down to try and mitigate the alarming will prioritize people over partisanship, profits and

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32 watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com well to launch a similar fund in Tampa Bay, and as the research demonstrated clear need, his Kayden Rodriguez, network and enthusiasm generated the founding Board co-founder, tampa bay for the Plus Project+. Critical to its early success was the partnership Larry transgender film festival forged with the Community Foundation of Tampa Bay By Nancy Desmond, Founder, PFLAG Tampa sponsor and grant support t’s truly a pleasure to see (CFTB),partner whichfor the is Plus the Project+.fiscal The credibility of the CFTB Kayden honored as one of Watermark’s coupled with the community’s Remarkable People. Kayden (they/them trust for Larry, and the Ior he/him) is a 26-year-old transmasculine colleagues and friends he assembled to lead the Board, individual who resides in Tampa. assured donors that funds would be well managed and He is currently pursuing a Masters of Social Work while working put to good use. At Larry’s helm, over a domestic violence center, as a prevention team advocate. He facilitates period of two years, the Plus fullthe LGBTQ+time at The Roundtable, Spring of Tampawhich focuses Bay, Hillsborough on advocacy, County’s support certified and Project raised enough in education of LGBTQ+ domestic violence relationships. As an attendee community support to allow of this group, I am incredibly impressed by his organizational abilities the organization to launch its and his sensitivity when it comes to leading members from diverse groups to shed light on a topic that severely affects the LGBTQ+ in early 2020 and make its community, but gets very little attention. first grant application process His LGBTQ+ Violence Education Series merged diverse organizations last summer. communities via Zoom presentations, all within the context of the firstMore grants than to $54,000six deserving in impact of domestic violence. He pulled from his own Roundtable inaugural grants were volunteers to give the presentations, which gave them a raw honesty awarded to local organizations as they related their own real-life experiences. He has a way of Community Tampa Bay, Metro encouraging volunteers to evaluate and showcase their strengths for Inclusive Health, Equality the greater good. This is a hands-on group, due to Kayden’s leadership. Larry Biddle, Board Chair, Florida, Youth Improvement Kayden also serves on the Board of Directors for the Tampa Services, AIDS Service International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival (TIGLFF). As his focus Association of Pinellas and has been to improve TIGLFF’s programming and outreach for both the plus project League of Women Voters of the transgender and young adult communities, he co-founded the Florida, all to support serving Tampa Bay Transgender Film Festival, in partnership with St Pete By Jennifer Yeagley, LGBTQ youth in school and Pride, and in honor of the Transgender Day of Remembrance. I know Vice Chair, The Plus Project community settings, LGBTQ that he is very proud of this effort. elders, and community Kayden is a consistent attendee at PFLAG Tampa, where his own education and awareness to story has been an invaluable help to others, always with a gentle met Larry in 2015, shortly promote voter registration nudge to encourage volunteerism. His own advocacy began when he after I moved to Tampa Bay from San among LGBTQ individuals. was a student at University of Tampa and took on a leadership role To be able to provide with UTampa Pride. He founded Tampa Bay Collegiate Pride, since Francisco. At the time, he was serving as funding support to meet absorbed into Metro Inclusive Health’s 18-25 Ia consultant for Family Resources’ LGBTQ critical needs during a social nights. global pandemic, a tense and Kayden is a powerhouse Youth Homeless Project initiative, with a high-stakes election year, and up-and-comer who is making particular emphasis on establishing an amid the ongoing struggle Tampa proud. He says he plans for LGBTQ communities to be to stay in Tampa Bay and emergency shelter system for transgender heard, seen and supported serve the local LGBTQ+ youth. I was running a social justice in all aspects of community community for life, is an honor Larry, and years to come. organization that worked directly with his colleagues on the Board, If you are looking LGBTQ teens, and we connected on the shared felt deeply. for support in an In addition to Larry being abusive relationship, goal to help LGBTQ teens experience safety, known for his decades-long or want to know stability and self-actualization. work within and in support of how to join The the St. Petersburg and broader LGBTQ+ Roundtable I continued to cross paths Tampa Bay community, he is at the Spring, please with Larry, and his wonderful on our community’s need also known for his kind spirit, email Prevention@ husband David, through researchfor and potential firm to gather interest data in joyful sense of humor and TheSpring.org. various community events establishing a foundation endless energy. You can help your and initiatives, as well as to support organizations It is humbling to call community, learn a our mutual involvement serving the LGBTQ community. Larry a colleague, mentor bit about domestic with Equality Florida. In His background in having and friend. violence and see 2016, Larry partnered with established the Delaware Kayden in action a local foundation and a Valley Legacy Fund poised him for yourself!

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watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com 33 bringing “Daphne and Friends: A Socially Distant Drag Show” Daphne Ferraro, right into the homes and hearts of many people. show director, enigma Over the next 31 weeks, she provided income and By Jarrod Ketzler, Friend entertainment for numerous people around the country during what will surely be aphne has always been an remembered as one of the extremely nurturing and giving craziest and scariest times in history. Her number one person. I’ve been blessed by her reason was to provide income Dpresence and friendship for over half my life. for her sisters, fellow drag entertainers who were unable It is exciting that she never stops surprising to work, and to provide me and the people she encounters – and so some normalcy for the uncertain future. it was no surprise when she went above and It is safe to say that she beyond for her community this year. helped achieve that for people. Over the course of the There are certain words While all those things are show’s 31 streaming weeks, that come to mind when you important and make her who she ended up raising more she is, I am here to talk about than $15,000 to send to the I would describe her as tall, another word that comes to entertainers. Daphne also creative,first think hilarious, of her. For beautiful, example, reached countless souls who heartwarming and witty. exactly what Daphne has been were lonely or just needed “a mind:the posterselflessness. child forThis since is night out.” Chad Mize, owner, the pandemic began She showed an amazing in March 2020. amount of support for her mize gallery I believe the community while never COVID shutdown making nor taking one single By Andrea Pawlisz, Tampa Bay artist was announced dollar for herself. Little known on a Tuesday, fact, there were weeks that had Mize is exceptional in and by were light on tips and Daphne Friday of was adding her personal any year. As a longtime friend, colleague that week, money to make sure everyone and employee of his, I have seen all facets Daphne made a decent amount. went live Her worry for her Cof this exceptional human being. for the community was a thing of 2020 started as a normal year, smashing attendance records at the beauty. She quickly jumped time to action to do whatever she January and February openings of MIZE Gallery. Then came COVID, first and as all progressive thinkers do, Chad worked outside the box. could to help those in need. He live streamed openings on multiple social media platforms each Whether that was a need month for buyers and browsers to look 24/7. He designed all of the for money for bills or being promotional materials for each of his shows and promoted it further cooped up at home and with an online gallery for each exhibit. needing some laughter Art sales increased, allowing local and national artists represented and entertainment, to earn money, even during this tough time. There have been 26 she was there. exhibits in 2020, one without commission, promoting 287 artists. Daphne often goes Chad does not always participate in the shows, but does have above and beyond merchandise available in the gallery, as it consistently sells. Among what is expected of her. them are various art pieces, enamel pins, mini murals, masks, T-shirts, I could not be prouder and more. He works by commission for private individuals and that this person is my businesses and has completed more than a dozen murals in 2020, like best friend. I could at Cycle Brewing, The Saint and Bodega to name a few. He is on the go on all day, but I’m Shine Mural Festival team and participated in Gasparilla, Carmada, only allowed to talk Rock the Vote and held the only area Pride show in 2020 with “Don’t about 2020! Ask, Do Tell.” Thank you, Daphne He also designed a shirt for the Straz Center, put his Mr. Sun logo Ferraro, for being on an area bus and organized the program to cover electrical boxes a source of good throughout St. Petersburg with art by local artists, including his own. in this world and MIZE Gallery is my gallery and my art is shown there with making it a more enthusiasm. His partner Dan opened Uptown Eats next door and his beautiful place!

completing the trifecta of gifts, art and food. colleagueChad always Reneata works Griffin harder opened than Neat anyone Neat I Neathave onever the met. other He side, is an egoless leader and gives back, making himself available to all. He is true to his motto: Make Time. Chad loves St. Pete and has made it the art town that it is today. I am proud to call him my friend.

34 watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com Tampa Bay LGBT Chamber and Tampa Downtown this Cam Parker, year, where Cam was the Creative Director. We were an tampa bay Artist all ages group from different backgrounds but we were all By Jasmin Walters, Tampa Bay artist drawing and painting together. All of us were welcome absolutely love Cam Parker, and motivated by this project who made me want to enjoy life of the reasons I call Cam my soulthat signifiedcharger. unity, just one Cam, I appreciate Ihis contagious smile in one sitting in the you for being just who simply from a photograph. I first saw you were created to be: swimming pool with the martini glass in his freaking fabulous! hand, water splashing everywhere. It felt like You are so humble and Chris Jones and vibrant with the smoothest balance. You are the spark of To my surprise he was an amazing artist right the city! I can’t wait to dance Loralei Matisse, 2020 herea party in Tampa.and I wanted to find out who he was. in front of another mural or watch you paint another truck! Co-Chairs, come out st pete I met him about two months of sadness or inequality into Cam is a blessing I’m later, while he was doing something positive. grateful I didn’t miss. By Brian Longstreth, former Board Member, a live painting at an event I had the pleasure of Come Out St Pete put on by a local production volunteering for the Black company Dos Cocos Locos. Lives Matter/ I immediately purchased LGBTQ Pride ome OUT St Pete (COSP) is tickets to attend saw him at street this huge canvas painting, mural where I completely fangirled! that was Under the leadership of co-chairs Chris He spun toward me, said hosted CJones andfinishing Loralei a Matisse,busy and the challenging organization year. “Hey, babes” and it was like we by the were old friends. His energy was able to not only move forward with their surpassed what I felt when traditional events, adjusting them for COVID-19,

He was so real, so grounded but to also add new ones. Iand first warm. saw him I am in so a gratefulphoto. On May 22, COSP organized a Harvey Milk Day proclamation to know a creative like him – from the City of St. Petersburg which was presented virtually. On welcoming and supportive, June 27th, the organization worked with the Carter G. Woodson courageous and encouraging. African American Museum and Project No Labels to create a virtual Just full of love. vigil for Black Lives Matter on Shore Drive adjacent to Vinoy Park. It His art literally makes me was an emotionally-draining event to honor the lives of transgender burst into song. His creations people who had lost their lives to violence and for George Floyd create feelings, excitement among others. and draw you in. He makes you want to celebrate with Fine Art Gallery hosted a virtual art show and selected this year’s him, feel his vibrations and to commemorativeIn the months art leading piece. up Loralei to October’s also led events, the changes COSP andto the Woodfield annual include you in a world of his Miss COSP contest at Enigma, turning it in to an all-inclusive Come own design. Which is the most As You Are virtual event, adding a full Royal Court with Drag King, inspirational aspect of our Nonbinary and Transgender categories. friendship; he always makes On National Coming Out Day, socially-distanced volunteers me feel included. To me, Cam is not just an artist who creates and sells art. OUTunfurled Cruise COSP’s Around. 375-foot It showcased rainbow rainbow-adorned flag. Chris then took vehicles the lead cruising on He brings the energy! He’s an changesthrough downtownto the traditional St. Pete, parade the Grand and festival, Central creating District andthe firstGulfport. Come artist who has the capability to The festival moved off the sidewalks and into several businesses emote joy, love and messages in the Grand Central area including long time favorites and new from his soul into whatever businesses. Chris was able to forge new partnerships with the St. Pete he’s working on. That was true even with with Equality Florida and the Carter G. Woodson African American everything that has happened OperaMuseum Company on Get Outand The Spitfire Vote Theater, campaigns. while Loralei worked closely this year. Cam shows COSP also gave back to the community in many forms, including continued support to what he supporting the JuneTeenth celebration at the Carter G. Woodson believes and his community. museum, the Progressive Pride Mural intersection at 25th & Central Using his platform to Avenue in the Grand Central District of St Pete, and new board consciously express how we member John Gascot’s Diversity in Arts project for youth. all feel or have felt at one The board of COSP felt it was critical to be visible and OUT, point, he’s helped evolve even in the middle of a health crisis. Chris and Loralei showed hardened hearts and feelings remarkable drive and courage to pull off these safe events in these challenging times.

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36 watermark Your LGBTQ life. December 10 - 22, 2020 // Issue 27.25 watermarkonline.com Karla Bello, tampa bay activist By Rook Ringer, Civil Rights Attorney hen a friend sent me a message that a transgender woman was being held in a men’s jail, I thought it was a mistake. As far as I had ever seen, Pinellas County, especially the WSt. Petersburg area, was a very LGBTQ-friendly place to be. The entire story seemed suspect to me. Why would However, think about how you would feel after 11 the police go to a person’s house to arrest them for days of the kind of treatment she faced, where the guards failure to appear for court on two red-light camera openly mocked her health concerns and refused to even violations? I’ve known people who have had far worse show the tiniest shred of common decency and refer to pending charges and the police really didn’t seem to care her as “her.” It would not take very long to make even unless they happened to cross paths with them. Then most hardened people suicidal. I found out that she was being held on bail of only $513. Many people would be utterly destroyed by this I arranged to meet her the next day. Even though I’m kind of treatment, and Karla has by no means been left a lawyer, I wasn’t yet her lawyer, so I had to meet her on unscathed. After helping to get her out of jail, she became civilian terms, electronically. I spoke to Karla for quite not just my client, but a friend. I’ve seen her grow this some time, who at that point had been there for about year as she’s sought accountability from that frightened 11 days. She was as defeated and depressed as any and defeated victim of the Pinellas County Sheriff’s person could be. Often, people (including the Pinellas County Sheriff’s Her strength reminds us that while we cannot undo Departmentthe damage doneto a fierce to us, advocate we can grab for transgenderonto that hurt rights. and as if anyone should spend that amount of time in jail for turn it into something beautiful and powerful. The Office’sher extremely attorney) minor make offenses. light of Much it being less “only” the fact 11 thatdays, she greatest heroes are not those who have never been had been thrown to the wolves in the men’s jail, where knocked down or defeated, but those who wiped the as a transgender woman she was in severe danger, both blood from their lips and refused to let it be the end of from other inmates and from the severe withdrawal complications that she faced from their refusal to allow much as she inspires me. her any access to her medications. their fight. That’s Karla, and she should inspire you as

John Gascot, founder, Diversity Arts By Ron Diana, Husband ohn and I moved to St. Pete six years ago to start a new life, where he hit the ground running and quickly took to the arts J community. In no time he made a place for himself among the area’s most well-known artists. As a curator he creates opportunities for artists and Grant from Creative Pinellas. He also executed two makers to show and sell their work. He is a leader in the public art projects and is set to start a new one arts community, always striving to promote diversity in December. and challenge social injustice through his paintings. His His “Diversity in Democracy” mural, located at commitment to community goes beyond the arts. He 565 Central Ave. in St. Pete, was commissioned by the was the Equality Florida Silent Auction Chair for four League of Women Voters. Its purpose is to encourage years, with last year raising $30,000. Recently he joined the LGBTQ community to vote and be an active the Board of Directors for Come OUT St. Pete where his participant in our Democratic system. John wanted goal is to expand its arts and youth programming. to take the idea a step further and celebrate diversity beyond our own community including a rainbow of 2016, where he continues making a difference. He gender identities, ethnicities and ages. In addition, he feelsJohn passionate founded abouthis nonprofit empowering Diversity disenfranchised Arts in created a spot for St. Pete residents and visitors to insert youth and groups with self-esteem so that they are themselves and become a part of the mural, a nod to equipped to deal with such situations should they arise. inclusion and representation. Diversity Arts aims to support underserved youth and John already has his eyes set on 2021. Fundraising communities by providing safe environments, guidance efforts are in the planning stage to help expand and materials for creative self-discovery, expression and Diversity Arts’ programming to reach and impact more sociocultural interaction. underserved youth and groups. He has been selected 2020 and COVID barely slowed John’s artistic to create a mural and large canvas for the Toronto and community-focused efforts. This year he was Blue Jays Spring training center – and as always, the recipient of an Individual Artist Grant from the he will continue to challenge sociocultural issues St. Petersburg Arts Alliance and an Emerging Artist with his art.

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CONGRATULATIONS Abbie Rolf and Ellis Aldridge announced their engagement Dec. 1. Punky’s Bar and Grill celebrates its fifth anniversary Dec. 15. SMART Ride 17 participants raised more than $660,000 for HIV/AIDS organizations in Florida, including Metro Inclusive Health in Tampa Bay. Read more on p. 13.

CONDOLENCES Community helping hand 1 2 Terra Winthrop died Nov. 27. She will be missed. 3 POSTPONEMENTS COMMUNITY CAUSE: Arthur Boyle organizes Tampa Pride, originally scheduled to return after a 2020 1 an outreach Dec. 8 with Project Pride to fill 100 bags for hiatus March 27, 2021, has been postponed until the homeless in Sarasota. PHOTO COURTESY PROJECT PRIDE SRQ May 22, 2021. Read more at WatermarkOnline.com. HOLLY-DAZE: Holly Voss Events has rescheduled its holiday-themed O’Connor becomes a human Christmas “Drive ‘N Drag Saves Christmas” until Feb. 23-24, 2021. 2 tree Dec. 7 on the Miguel Read more at WatermarkOnline.com. & Holly Show. PHOTO COURTESY M&H SHOW

ELF-HELP: Tampa LOCAL BIRTHDAYS Mayor Jane Castor 4 5 3 enlists Christmas Town elves from Busch Gardens Tampa Bay actor Spencer Meyers, Largo pharmacist to decorate City Hall Dec. 4. Eric Hutton, Tampa Bay entertainer Veronica Vixen aka PHOTO COURTESY JANE CASTOR Vincent Bailey-Santamarina, Tampa Bay dancer Fernando RACE TO SAFE: (L-R) Deputy Mayor Dr. Kanika Chonqui (Dec. 10); Tampa Bay Bulldog softballer Les 4 Tomalin, Pinellas Co. Commissioner Rene Flowers, Croy, Christian minister Chancey Martinez Colon (Dec. Mayor Rick Kriseman and City 11); Philanthropist Ed Lally, Former state representative Councilmember Darden Rice announce St. Petersburg’s latest Jennifer Webb, Sarasota realtor Jim Jablonski, St. Pete plans to combat COVID-19 Dec. 7 at City Hall. PHOTO Twirler Jose Luis Perez (Dec. 12); Enigma security staple COURTESY RICK KRISEMAN

Gregory Collins (Dec. 13); Bradenton MAC makeup artist LARGO LOVE: Largo Joey Killmeyer (Dec. 14); Former Tampa MCC Pastor Community Center staff 5 welcomes Commissioner Rev. Phyllis Hunt, St. Petersburg outdoor lover Dan Michael Smith (3 from L) and Santa Dec. 5 during the 2020 Barrett, Clearwater softball stud Gregory Toth (Dec. 15); Largo Santa Paws. PHOTO COURTESY MICHAEL SMITH Tampa Bay lawyer David Schauer, Pastor at St. Andrews UCC Sarasota Paul Werner, Acclaimed author Rob TIS THE SEASON: Balance Tampa Bay board Sanders (Dec. 16); Executive Chef of Sarasota’s Sage SRQ 6 and volunteers (L-R) Cam Smith, Jason Fields, Christopher Covelli, truck driver Bobby Coffey-Loy (Dec. Nathan Lance, Mark Warden and Marc Retzlaff unwrap the 17); St. Petersburg sculptor Mark Aeling, Spectrum News 10th annual Party 4 Presents 6 anchor Trevor Ellerbroek-Pettiford, Honey Pot owner Dec. 5 at EPIC St. Pete. PHOTO COURTESY BALANCE TAMPA BAY Stephen Moss (Dec. 18); IBEX puppetmaster Heather BRADLEY’S BROS: Henson, Beauty & the Burg host Cindy Stovall (Dec. Bradley Nelson (3rd from L) and Bradley’s on 7th 19); St. Petersburg caterer Steve Gallo, Watermark Art 7 staff share their festive welcome Director Dylan Todd, Florist to the stars Jacob McCall, to guests Dec. 3. PHOTO COURTESY BRADLEY’S ON 7th Woodfield Fine Art owner Jim Woodfield, Project No ROYAL T: (L-R) Vincent Labels’ Rosita Carazo, St. Petersburg loan officer Steven Bailey-Santamarina, Tiffany T. Hunter, Robertson (Dec. 20); Tampa Bay entertainer Kathryn 8 Matthew Steele, Star Hayes, Monica Moore and Aaron Nevets, Tampa Bay realtor Gabe Alves-Tomko (Dec. 21); Bailey-Santamarina celebrate Academic tutor Cynthia Wurner (Dec. 22). a successful 2020 Sunshine State All American Goddess, At Large & Gent Pageant Dec. 6 at Hamburger Mary’s Clearwater. PHOTO COURTESY POLK PRIDE 7 8

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AUDITIONS Orlando Gay Chorus (OGC) announced that it will hold open auditions for its next season Jan. 6 at the First United Church of Christ in Orlando. OGC is looking for singers, dancers, fundraisers, supporters and more. 2021 events will include performing at the Wayne Densch Performing Arts Center for a 70’s-themed show and at Dr. Phillips Center’s Frontyard Festival for OGC’s spring show “One Nation: Indivisible.” To sign up or for more 2 information, visit OrlandoGayChorus.org/Audition. EVENTS Equality Florida is hosting the Orlando Virtual Safe & Healthy Schools Equality Connection online Dec. 10 from 6-7 p.m. The Safe & Healthy Schools program is a new Equality Florida partnership with Step Up for Students and the organization’s expanded support for young people in foster care. The event will feature Ian Siljestrom, Equality Florida Associate Director of Safe & Healthy Schools; 1 3 Tatiana Quiroga, Director of Family Equity and Diversity for Family Equality; and more. The Zoom event is free and you can RSVP at the link located at Equality Florida’s Facebook event page. “The Golden Gals - A Christmas Musical” — starring Ginger Minj, Gidget Galore, Divine Grace, MrMs Adrien and Doug Ba’aser — plays at HAOS on Church in Orlando Dec. 11, 12, 19 and 20. Get your tickets at TVLandLive.com. “Wanzie’s 1970’s Christmas Eve Radio Hour” has two performances — one at 2 p.m. and one at 7 p.m. — Dec. 20 at The Abbey in Orlando. Tickets are available at 4 5 6 WanzieChristmas.Eventbrite.com. LOCAL BIRTHDAYS Orlando comic and actor Jeff Jones, Hope & Help’s Community Helpers: Holiday Ballet: Joshua Myers, Mitzi Morris’ alter ego Kevin Kreigel (Dec. Members of GOALcfl Watermark Editor-in-Chief 10); onePULSE Foundation’s Mark Cady, Central Florida 1 and the LGBT+ Center 5 Jeremy Williams (L) and Orlando work to “give back” Melissa Hussein attend the actor and vocalist Zachary Thomas, Royal Caribbean to Central Florida families opening of Orlando Ballet’s holiday International’s David Bain, Central Florida Ford-dealing during Thanksgiving at The tradition, “The Nutcracker,” at the Center Orlando Nov. 24. Photo Dr. Phillips Center in Orlando Dec. bear Fred Berliner (Dec. 11); Massage therapist courtesy GOALcfl’s Facebook 5. Photo by Jeremy Williams Isaac Torres, Orlando Chorus baritone Jamie Decker, Parade Baby Gifts: Watermark Altamonte Springs chiropractor Dr. Bradford Levine (Dec. Representative: Business Manager Kathleen State Rep. Anna V. Sadler (R) and husband, 12); Walt Disney Creative Entertainment Talent Casting 2Eskamani is masked up for 6Keith Sadler, are all smiles Director Mark Catlett-Miller, 4 Corners writer Lawrence the socially-distanced, 68th during their baby shower at the 7 Annual Christmas Parade in Orange County Sportsmen’s W. Caul (Dec. 13); Orlando Weekly publisher Graham Winter Park Dec. 5. Photo Association in Orlando Dec. Jarrett, Come Out With Pride festival director Joyce by Rep. Anna V. Eskamani 5. Photo by Danny Garcia Almeida, Come Out With Pride’s Holly Strout, Orlando Christmas Gals: (L-R) Dance Revolution: Regional Chamber Business Development Manager Ginger Minj, Divine Grace, Philips Ancheta (L) and 3 MrMs Adrien and Gidget 7 Adonus Mabry grab a Greg Mason (Dec. 14); Orange County library’s Ben Galore as The Golden Gals during photo at the Dr. Phillips Center Garcia (Dec. 15); Watermark contributor and entertainer their Christmas Musical at HAOS before performing with the on Church in Orlando Dec. 4. Crawford Jazz Project during Divine Grace, 26 Health’s Brittani Acuff (Dec. 16); OAK Photo by Jeremy Williams FusionFest at Seneff Arts Plaza Central Florida’s Ken Terrell, actress Becky Fisher (Dec. Nov. 28. Photo courtesy HAOS Drinks: Axel Philip Ancheta’s Facebook 17); GayDayS owner Chris Manley (Dec. 19); Orlando Andrews (L) and Kate bartender with flair Tish, Orlando realtor Jeff Ritchie, The Maini toast to the success Celebrity Spotting: 4 District at Mills 50 manager Jamey Harper (Dec. 20); of HAOS on Church, the newest Doug Ba’aser (L, dressed hot spot in downtown Orlando, 8 as Santa Claus) and Leigh Disney darling Rae L’Heureux, Universal Orlando team Dec. 2. Photo courtesy Shannon (as Bette Midler) Kate Maini’s Facebook celebrate the holiday season captain Christian Conde, Orlando’s Hamburger Mary’s safely in downtown Orlando co-founder Tom Schneider (Dec. 21); Pilot Abel Marowitz Dec. 5. Photo courtesy Leigh Shannon’s Facebook (Dec. 22). 8

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