2020 | 5781 1 It Is a Fearful Thing to Love ❦ What Death Can Touch
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2020 | 5781 1 It is a fearful thing to love ❦ what death can touch. A fearful thing to love, hope, to dream: to be – to be, and oh! to lose. A thing for fools this, and a holy thing, a holy thing to love. For your life has lived in me, your laugh once lifted me, your word was gift to me. To remember this brings painful joy. ‘Tis a human thing, love, a holy thing, to love what death has touched. —Chaim Stern At Yizkor, our sacred hour of remembrance, we recall our loved ones ❦ who are no longer sitting beside us. We yearn to hear their voices once more, to complete an unfinished conversation, to share another meal or milestone. Even in our pain, we know that deep sadness is a reflection of deep love. Even in our pain, we know we were blessed – to have had a love so big for as long, or as unfairly short – as we did. Our tradition very intentionally offers fixed times for communal remembrance. Each of us may call someone different to mind, but we are united in memory. May the memories of our cherished family, friends and fellow congregants inspire us to “endow our fleeting days with abiding worth” and to make our life a blessing to those who will come after us. It is a fearful thing to love what death can touch. But a Holy thing, to love. And to Remember. —Rabbi Angela Warnick Buchdahl 2 3 To the Departed ❦ ToThe the departed Departed whom we now remember have entered into the peace of life eternal. 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Devora Salamon, Rifka Salamon, Yehuda Moscou, Ruthsue Moscou Salamon, Joseph Abramsky, Hugh remembered by Alan and Deborah Annex Malanaphy, Jr., Michael Malanaphy, Rose and Ingrid Wiener, loving wife, mother, and Alfred Chianese grandmother remembered by Kathy Malanaphy Abramsky, remembered by Michael and Marcia Appel Philip Abramsky, and Family Shulem Schneider, Mary Grenier Schneider Jonathan Parker Abramson, beloved son; Muriel remembered by Ellen Armitage Abramson Shapiro, beloved mother; Manville H. Abramson, beloved father; Gertrude Parker, Sol and Edith Landsman, Miriam and Alex beloved mother; Abel Parker, beloved father; Redein, Muriel and Harold Aronson, Julie Elizabeth Davis, beloved Kronowitz, Judith Sonett remembered by remembered by Daniel, Jessica, Jordan, and Patricia and Alan Barrett Abramson Benjamin Aronson Florence and Harry Ackerman, Eva and Muriel Polen Benjamin Bindler, Norman Bindler remembered by Jeff and Shari Aronson remembered by Shirley Roth, Samuel B. Roth, Frieda Caryl and Herbert Ackerman Kaufman, Joseph Roth, Frieda Roth, Helene In loving memory of James Ackley, Fannie Bernstein, Marion B. Aronson, Robert Unrode, Samuel Unrode, Mindy Unrode Haber Aronson, Arnold H. Aronson remembered by Diane Ackley remembered by Sheila and Dave Aronson Alan M. Ades, Bertha Fink, Elsie Brauer Ades, Walter, Rose, and Jeffrey Alan Astor Emanuel Taub, Edna Taub remembered by Bonnie Ellen Astor remembered by Joan Taub Ades Bhagwan Ghansham Aswani Leonard Kamsky, Getta Sebastian remembered by Haresh Bhagwan Aswani remembered by Katherine and Paul S. Adler 5 Robert Auerbach, Jean and Nathan Auerbach, Robert L. Barbanell, 6/30/1930-8/30/2017. Ronald Mednick Treasured husband, father, grandfather and remembered by Joyce Auerbach, Kendra brother. Remembered with Love. Auerbach Mednick and Joshua Mednick remembered by The Barbanell Family: Betsy, Ed, Melissa, Zach and Calvin Arthur H. 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