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Tracee Dundas, Fashion Week NOLA M. Larry Richard, Iberia Parish President

Grace H. Mayfield, Hamilton AA Jamie Porter James Stories to Warm Your Heart! P.L.A.C.E.S. of the South March / April 2016 2 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine

The Southern View a magazine focusing on P. L. A. C. E. S. of the South In this issue

M. Larry Richard, Iberia Parish President. . 6

Faces of RSVP Volunteers .37

March Fashion Madness! . 10 A Tale of Motherhood, Chapter I .20 Jefferson Award Winner for Public Service .22 A Tribute to Jamie Porter James .23

A New Facebook Page for Women .35

Cover: “Stories to Warm Your Heart”; Fashion Week NOLA, {Photo Hamilton Academy of the Arts . 12 of Tracee Dundas by Eduardo Benitez}; New Leadership in Iberia An Excerpt from “Divine Justice” .28 Parish; Over 3 decades, Hamilton Academy of the Arts; A Young Mother’s life ends violently in a Domestic Violence act. My Journey into Emotional Intelligence .31 Cover photo by Susannah Johnson Malbreaux Head Start/Early Head Start; Easter Pageant & Parade .34 In every issue

Black History Word Search . 4 What’s Going On! . 4 Strong, Black Man! 14 A Few April Black History Facts . 4 “The Vote” .21 Links to “Live Interviews” . 19 Elected Official Spotlight, Patrick Lewis .30 R. A. P. (Rhythm, Arts & Poetry) . 36 Southerner’s Tips for Good Health . 33 It’s Just F.Y.I. . 37 Domestic Violence: Know the Signs, Ask for Help. . 8 In the Spotlight . 38 - 39 Speaking Out & Standing Up Against Sexual Abuse .25 TSV’s Business Directory . 40 4A's Sisters Club, A Lupus Support Group .26 PUBLISHERS “A Series on Poverty” .32 Susannah Johnson Malbreaux; Nedra Breaux Epps, Sharon Minix Glover

EDITORS Life Insurance Offers Peace of Mind .24 Nedra Breaux Epps & Nicole Malbreaux

WRITERS Susannah J. Malbreaux & Nedra B. Epps The Strength of our Community . 5 From the Pulpit: John 4:20-24 ~ True Worshippers .16 GRAPHICS / LAYOUT / DESIGN / PHOTOGRAPHY Altar Service Awards .18 Susannah J. Malbreaux

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March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 3 A Few April Black History Facts April 4, 1968 - Dr. Martin Luther King What’s Going On! assassinated. April 5, 1951 - Washington, D.C. Municipal Court of Appeals outlawed segregation in Calendar of Events in Southwest Louisiana! restaurants. April 6, 1909 - Matthew A. Henson reaches the North Pole, 45 minutes before APRIL 2016 MAY 2016 Commandeer Peary. 8th~Carl Sonnier’s Installation as Pastor 8th~Jeremy Benoit: The Mother's Day April 7, 1885 - Granville T. Woods patents of The St. Peter Baptist Church, Lafa- Stevie Wonder Jazz Night Experience, apparatus for transmission of messages by yette ,La 7:00p.m. at 503 N. Washing- 7pm; Brass Room Jazz Lounge, $25.00 electricity. per person. April 14, 1775 - First abolitionist society in ton St. 14th~2nd Saturday ArtWalk; Held the U.S. is founded in Philadelphia. 10th~Bernadette Castille Ovarian Can- second Saturday of every month. April 15, 1964 - Sidney Poitier becomes cer Awareness Tea and Hat Social; Location: Downtown, Lafayette. first Black to win Academy Award for Best 3:00pm at Ramada Lafayette Confer- Hours: 6 p.m. - 9 p.m. Actor for Lilies of the Field. ence Center, Lafayette, La. Tickets $15 in advance/ $20 at door 24th~Lafayette Next Town Hall Series; April 17, 1983 - Alice Walker wins Pulitzer Community Development & Economy. Prize for fiction for The Color Purple. 19th~Lyrically Inclined feat. Smoov Ras, 6:00pm-8:00pm, Clifton Chenier Center April 18, 1864 - More than 200 Black Black Café, 518 S Pierce St. Suite 100 Union troops massacred by Confederate Lafayette La; Doors Open at 6:30pm, 28th~Janet Jackson: Unbreakable World forces at Ft. Pillow, Tennessee. Show Starts @ 7:00pm; $5 to sit, $3 to Tour, 7pm Cajundome, POSTPONED! April 19, 1972 - Stationed in Germany, spit. Every Thursday in May ~ Community Major Gen. Frederic E. Davidson becomes 25th~Progressives' Breakfast , 7am, Action Awareness Month; SMILE CAA presents “A Series on Poverty, see page first Black to lead an army division. Black Café, 518 S Pierce St. Suite 28 for more information. April 21, 1966 - Pct. Milton L. Olive III 100 Lafayette, La. awarded the Medal of Honor posthumously for valor in Vietnam. April 23, 1895 - Clatonia Joaquin Dorticus Black History Word Search patents photographic print wash. Challenging The Mind! April 26, 1888 - Sarah Boone patents iron- R K E C P P Z M D A D Y W W N ing board. April 27, 1968 - Vincent Porter becomes O E C T O U I T M W R R M L O first African American certified in plastic surgery. B L T T A C N E F A J N J G I April 28, 1839 - Cinque leads mutiny off A D U S H G N D M L Q O C C T the coast of Long Island, NY. April 30 1952 - Dr. Louis T. Wright M S C E U D E I I J S T T O A A honored by American Cancer Society for his A M L H M B R L B T E N C N N Printable contributions to cancer research. V L G E L P I M E U E I O S I Page! E W N K F U Q L D D I L A T M BLACK HISTORY WORD LIST X T E I Y V O T I N G C T I O S X X A D P H S K F Q D T T N AMENDMENTS BIPARTISAN CLINTON K X E M A L E A Q C E Z A U Z COATTAILS CONSTITUTION DELEGATE DEMOCRACY DUCK FILIBUSTER N A S I T R A P I B U O I T G LAME MICHELLE NOMINATION

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D E M O C R A C Y Q U A S O B PRESIDENT PRIMARY PUNDIT V N F O E L B M A E R P E N Y ANSWERS IN NEXT ISSUE 4 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine The Strength of our Community Lies Within the Walls of these Structures! Photos By Susannah Johnson Malbreaux ~ Article By Nedra Epps Breaux The Strength of our Community Lies Within the Walls of these Structures ... that strength is the rev- erence and devotion for God and the love of God in the hearts of the people within these structures. A building is just an empty shell without the life-giving activity of the people within it. A person is also just an empty shell without the Life-giver - Jesus Christ - living within and moving through that person by the power of the Holy Spirit. The bible speaks of those who have a "form of godliness but denying the power thereof" (2 Timothy 3:5a NKJV). It also speaks of a God who is "able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think, according to the power that works in us," (Ephesians 3:20 NKJV). That power —that life-giving activity —is the demonstration of the love of God that has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5 NKJV). So, as children of God, we have no excuse for being un- loving. Without that love there is no real strength within these or any other walls. Anything else is a "form of godliness" and without power. The love of God is the only characteristic or quality in the bible that is described as "NEVER failing" (1 Corinthians 13:8 NKJV). If we are going to stop the systems which make up our community from failing, then we have to receive and activate that life-giving, unfailing force—the unconditional love of God. It is our community's greatest strength. END

St. Anthony Catholic Church St. Edward Catholic Church Lafayette, La. New Iberia, La.

Holy Ghost Catholic Church Progressive Baptist Church Opelousas, La. Lafayette, La.

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 5 M. Larry Richard, Iberia Parish President By Susannah Johnson Malbreaux In addition, he served and/or past 4-5 years trying to recap things chaired Public Works and Public that were started that were not Health, Public Safety, Finance, and completed. He’d like to move for- Railroad Tax Committee commit- ward and get those tasks completed. tees, as well as serving on the Execu- He does not see any challenges that tive Committee. In addition to chair- can’t be resolved. Finances are ing the committees indicated, Rich- down, and the funds that they were ard also chaired the Hurricane Advi- receiving last year are down. He sory Ad-hoc Committee. The Hur- foresees finances getting better in ricane Advisory Committee looked the next year. Putting the freeze on at different coastal concerns, which spending no doubt is a challenge, es- M. Larry Richard was elected is a major concern in Iberia Parish. If pecially coming in as a new adminis- as the 1st African American to serve Iberia Parish is to continue to be a trator. as Iberia Parish President. Mr. Rich- safe place for residents and business- Currently he has hired only three ard was elected into office on Octo- es as well, it’s important to look at people. Richard is still building and ber 24, 2015 and was sworn in on coastal concerns and coastal protec- observing employees. He is not the January 11, 2016. tion. type of manager/business owner that Richard has been married to Kim Budgeting will just go in and tell folks they are Jolivette for 33 years. They are the As previously stated, Richard was fired. For the most part, folks still proud parents of two children, Tyler sworn into office on January 11th; have a job. He said, “Everyone and Morgan Ann. He is a veteran of and on January 12th had his first works, for the most part, toward the US Army, a member of the 101st Council meeting. Richard and the retirement and/or bettering them- Airborne Division family, and a U.S. Parish Council made a decision to selves; everyone that's working.” Army Signal Corp Graduate. He also put a freeze on spending. The freeze His message to the employees is, received The Army Commendation was put on everything, excluding re- “You have a job; but it’s up to you to Medal. Richard retired from Mara- occurring expenses and capital out- keep your job.” thon Oil Company, Supplier Diversi- lay projects. Richard looks at run- Richard has been evaluating em- ty Consultant in 2002. He had over ning the office as a business, stating, ployees for the past seven weeks, 20 years’ experience in Corporate “We have to spend money, but and stated, “There will be some America and the Oil and Gas Indus- we’re very aware of what we’re moving around, no doubt about it.” try. Since 1999, Richard has owned spending these dollars on right But before he does any shifting of LR&A, Inc. which includes three divi- now.” The fund balances are cur- jobs, he has to understand the mon- sions: Construction Materials, Traffic rently being reviewed; and he plans ey. Richard believes in letting em- Control, and Printing & Marketing, to present a proposed budget to the ployees know they are doing a good and has provided goods and services council in about three weeks. Hav- job as he continued, saying, “For me, to companies throughout the coun- ing served on the council for twelve it’s about serving the people.” The try. years has afforded him the oppor- employees of Parish government Prior to being elected as Parish tunity to work with many of the may not be elected, but they serve President, Richard served on the council members. However, there the people of Iberia Parish. As long Parish Council for 12 consecutive are nine new council members com- as they understand that, and speak years after he took office in 2000. ing on board. He feels he has a real- to the people of Iberia Parish with He was Chairman of the council ly good council and feels that things the respect that they need and do twice and Vice Chair 3 times. He can only get better as they move for- their jobs, I’m going to give them also chaired many different commit- ward. He continued, “We just made kudos. But, if it ever changes to tees including serving on the Nation- seven weeks on February 29th, and where they are not, there will be no al Association of County Officials as we have accomplished much, in my kudos. well as serving on its steering com- opinion, and have done very well as It’s about teamwork and respect. mittee. The experience he gained an administration and as a council.” He believes the employees are doing on the Iberia Parish Council definite- Challenges of Iberia Parish a very good job. There’s a lot of in- ly helped him to transition to Parish Some of the challenges in the frastructure building that needs to President. administration are going back of the CONTINUED ON PAGE 7 6 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine M. Larry Richard CONTINUED populated areas in Iberia parish. They have people who, on a regular day and with a certain tide, can’t walk around in their back yards. With over 74, happen, not roads and bridges, but 000 people in the parish the needs are different throughout each parish, as foundations for the various depart- well as the needs of the people. Its different things that need to be done ments. He added, “We’re going to throughout Iberia parish. Richard indicated that he is really looking forward get there.” to satisfying the needs of the people. He’s up for the challenge. On the Campaign Trail Transition Team – Top Priorities Richard feels he had an unbelieva- The transition team that he put together (several committees) will be ble campaign team. He expressed working on various assignments; some will continue working with him his thanks to not only his team, but throughout his term. One team has already gone out into the parish and the residents of Iberia Parish in gen- begun interviewing certain people; this process is complete. One team will eral, humbly expressing, “This was a be looking at Regional opportunities for the parish. Industrial development, good race, I really enjoyed it. I ran a economic growth and community involvement teams will continue working clean campaign. It’s a campaign to throughout his term. Richard has a list of priorities. He’s already spoken to remember. When I started the cam- his CAO about working on a five year master plan. Richard indicated, “We paign, it was about keeping God first. have a lot of work to do.” His directors are putting in a lot of hours, as he We prayed and talked before every is. He is very blessed with the three people he brought on board and meeting. It’s a gift from God. The blessed with the directors he kept on board. He continued, saying, “We only reason I’m here is because of have good people employed. With where we are right now, I think we can God.” only get better.” He and the team will be looking at the existing master plan Successes in Iberia to see what has been accomplished, what needs to be accomplished, and Drainage issues are coming to- what can we add to the plan. One of the things he would like to do is meet gether quick; they have been able to and complete the plan, then get the plan on the parish’s website. This will work with property owners, public give new businesses and new people planning to move to Iberia Parish an works and the legal department. opportunity to see what Iberia is doing and what they are planning to do. Attorney Andy Shealy has been Existing residents will also have an opportunity to view the plan. working with Richard almost on a There are challenges with bringing new businesses to the area, especially daily basis. They have really put with the low line areas. That’s why building the infrastructure and building some things together, and it’s work- the protection is important. The one constant that could affect Iberia par- ing very well. ish is being close to the coast. He referenced the challenges like San Anto- One of the projects that’s been nio and New Orleans that are under water. Hence, he does not let the in the making for the last six years, challenges concern him. He stated, “You just have to figure out how to the straightening of Hwy 88 (on the protect us and protect the businesses and market Iberia parish.” backside of the airport), is being ex- pedited. They’ve been able to put all Closing Comments the appropriate departments togeth- To contact the Iberia Parish Government office, call 337.365.8246. If er. They’ve met, thus far, with the there are things you can do to help Iberia parish or have any areas of con- Secretary of Transportation, Dr. cern, just give us a call. Richard stated, "I would love to sit and talk to the Shawn Wilson, LED and many oth- people of Iberia on whatever concerns you may have and try to work to- ers. The project was forecasted to wards solving the concerns be completed in about three years; and/or issues. Iberia is a however they’re trying to expedite it unique parish. It’s a great to be completed in 30 months, if parish. I look forward to possible 24 months. Richard said, marketing this parish and “We’re doing very well.” making it the parish that all of There is serious flooding in cer- the people of Iberia parish tain areas of Iberia parish; it depends want." how the south wind comes in. END

Hence, when Richard speaks of For more information about coastal concerns; it’s not just about Iberia Parish, visit their web- the levees. If they don’t protect the site: http:// coast, the erosion will continue to iberiaparishgovernment.com/ come farther and farther into the

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 7 Domestic Violence: Know the Signs, Ask for Help This article is in Remembrance of Jamie Porter James, a victim of Domestic Violence on February 27, 2016 One in four women have experienced domestic violence in their lifetime, there- fore, it is safe to say that most people know someone who has experienced such abuse, whether it is themselves, a family member, a coworker or a neighbor. Oftentimes when people think about domestic violence, they think of black eyes and bruises, however, domestic violence does not always come with physical proof and rarely enters a new relationship full blown. Many abusive partners seem to be “perfect” in the beginning of a new romance. Controlling and abusive behaviors don’t always appear overnight, but rather can emerge and intensify as the relation- ship continues to develop. Domestic violence makes a different mark across every relationship, but con- trolling behaviors are always present and there are warning signs you may notice. If you’re beginning to feel as if your partner or a loved one’s partner is becoming abusive- that alone may be a red flag. Intuition should not be ignored. Survivors of domestic violence often say their instincts told them something was wrong early on in the relationship. Here are a few more red flags to look for:  Wants to move too quickly into the relationship,  Is very jealous and possessive,  Monitors your whereabouts, activities or spending,  Criticizes you or puts you down; most commonly tells you that you are “crazy,” “stupid” and/or “fat,” or that no one would ever want or love you,  Says one thing and does another,  Takes no responsibility for their behavior and/or blames others,  Has a history of battering,  Grew up in an abusive or violent home,  Insists that you stop spending time with your friends or family

There's not a "type" of person that domestic violence prefers; it can happen to anyone. Rich, poor, highly- educated or high-risk, anyone can become a victim. Abuse, whether physical or psychological, is a repetitive pattern of behaviors that are designed to maintain power and control. Abusers don’t “play fair” they use fear, guilt, shame, intimidation and even economic repercussions to maintain control. Over time, these behaviors can change the victim into someone they no longer recognize.

Faith House is here to empower victims to recognize the problem and move forward. We offer the following free services to anyone who needs help. 24-hour crisis line (1-888-411-1333)  Emergency Shelter  Family Justice Center of Acadiana (210 West Main St, Lafayette, LA)  Domestic violence counseling  Legal assistance  Safety planning and lethality assessment

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8 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine Domestic Violence: Know the Signs, Ask for Help, CONTINUED By Michelle Izzo-Voss, Faith House Leaving isn't easy. It takes courage and sometimes a bit of planning. Violence can escalate when someone tries to leave; here are some things to keep in mind before you leave:  Keep any evidence of physical abuse, such as pictures of injuries.  Keep a journal of all violent incidences, noting dates, events and threats made, if possible. Keep your journal in a safe place.  Know where you can go to get help. Tell someone what is happening to you.  If you are injured, go to a doctor or an emergency room and report what happened to you. Ask that they doc- ument your visit.  Plan with your children and identify a safe place for them, like a room with a lock or a friend’s house where they can go for help. Reassure them that their job is to stay safe, not to protect you.  Contact your local shelter and find out about laws and other resources available to you before you have to use them during a crisis. WomensLaw.org has state-by-state legal information.  Acquire job skills or take courses at a community college if you can. Try to set money aside or ask friends or family members to hold money for you. Once you do make the decision to leave, Faith House has a new option for Acadiana survivors. A place where domestic abuse victims can go for more than just immediate help, The Family Justice Center of Acadiana located at 210 W. Main Street in Lafayette. The Center provides a place to plan and act. You can meet an advocate, get safety information, speak with police, receive civil legal help, and get information on shelters, all under one roof. Faith House is here to help. It's never too early or late to reach out. Know the warning signs and let us help you take the next steps. With us, you are never alone. If you need help call our 24-hour crisis hotline at 1-888-411-1333. END

A horrific Domestic Violence act ended the lives of Jamie Porter James and her mother, Adeline Porter Etienne, St. Martinville, LA on Saturday, February 27, 2016. May The Rest in Peace!

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 9 March Fashion Madness! By Tracee Dundas, Executive Director For guys “March Madness” means one thing and it has nothing to do with fashion. But for New Orleans fashionis- tas of it takes on a completely different definition. For the last five seasons for one week in March, New Orleans fash- ion aficionados have strap on their sti- lettos to experience southern fashion at its best as New Orleans Fashion Week rocked the runway March 13-19 with its amazing lineup of designers. NOFW is not for the tame-hearted. It’s an opportunity to enjoy full access to some of the regions (and beyond) most talented designers under one roof, as well as getting some serious retail therapy in the chic Style Lounge, a marketplace filled with jewelry, accessories, artisans and beauty experts. For one week the city is filled with intense energy of fashion madness where everyone from design- ers, to models, to glam squad and fashion photographers is obsessed with fashions. But it goes beyond that, as NOFW introduced this year a business PHOTO BY LUCAS BARRIOS component to the lineup. In partnership with Stay Local and hosted at The Designer Romey Roe (Lafayette, LA) Outlet Collection at Riverwalk Mall; the goal of the Designer2Boutique Fashion aesthetic – Romantic and modern Expo is to grow the southern apparel market by providing designers and artisans an opportunity to present their fashions to buyers and boutique owners with the objective of forging relationships that lead to wholesale orders and strengthen New Orleans’ retail economy. “As the Gulf Coast film, tourism and entrepreneurial sectors have achieved new heights; it stands to reason that the fashion industry can and should do the same” said New Orleans Fashion Week Founder and Crea- tive Director. “The growing strength of our regional fashion industry is be- coming more evident and I’m thrilled New Orleans Fashion Week is a sta- ple of what the industry has to offer!” Recognizing the common thread between designers and boutiques, NOFW has become the catalyst and driving force that unites fashion profes- sionals bringing a new level of creative consciousness to the regional indus- try. Fashion is an important contributor to the New Orleans culture and must be celebrated in conjunction with the city’s legendary cuisine, music, art, and film. It was a jam-packed week, which is why New Orleans Fashion Week has become to fashion enthusiast what the final four is to basketball fans. It’s the ultimate fashion experience.

PHOTO BY EDUARDO BENITZ1 Designer Adriana Moore Fashion aesthetic – Bold and exotic Tracee Dundas, Founder & Executive Director~ New Orleans Fashion Week http://www.fashionweeknola.com/ CONTINUED ON PAGE 11 10 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine March Fashion Madness, Continued On the Catwalk ~ New Orleans Fashion Week Rocks...

PHOTO LUCAS BARRIOS PHOTO LUCAS BARRIOS PHOTO LUCAS BARRIOS Designer Romey Roe, Lafayette, La. Designer Megan Kowal Designer John Delgadillo Fashion aesthetic – Romantic and modern Fashion aesthetic – Sexy and fantasy

PHOTO LUCAS BARRIOS PHOTO LUCAS BARRIOS PHOTO LUCAS BARRIOS Designers Raoul Blanco & Fleur de Paris Designer Adriana Moore Designers Raoul Blanco & Fleur de Paris Fashion aesthetic – Color and feminine Fashion aesthetic – Bold and exotic Fashion aesthetic – Color and feminine

FASHION. CONNECT. IMPRESS. ~ FASHION. CONNECT. IMPRESS.

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 11 Hamilton Academy of the Arts By Susannah Johnson Malbreaux segment on civil rights. They have a lot of segregation at that time, had an opportunity to perform Nina 1970-1971. These experiences were Simone’s “Strange Fruit”, which deals her inspiration. She felt there need- with lynching. They deal with the ed to be a place where Black kids slave plantation, like picking cotton; could learn dance. “There would there are even scenes that deal with not be a distinction; they could just rape. Of course, Hamilton takes be good in the arts. She wanted to time to explain the details of such teach the spirit of excellence that challenging and emotional scenes. transcended race. That was just Some of Hamilton’s dancers have about being an excellent performer. gone on to become professional Giving your best; doing your best; dancers and choreographers. Hamil- and being able to compete against Grace Hamilton Mayfield, Owner of Hamilton AA ton talked about how videos miscon- anyone in the world”. strue professional dancers. The re- Grace Hamilton was born in the In 1981, Hamilton Academy of ality shows on BET/VH1/Lifetime small town of Opelousas, LA in the Arts opened in Lafayette, LA. show dancers over-exposing them- 1960. The reference to 1960 is key, Around 1988, Hamilton opened an- selves; there is a look that is not because ballet for African Americans other academy in Opelousas. About across the board for all of our com- was not an option at that. One of 4,000 students have attended Hamil- munity. She spoke of one dancer the things that Grace’s parents did, ton Academy of the Arts since its that feels pigeon toed her. When along with other parents in the com- inception, 34 years ago. she’d go before a producer or direc- munity, was to seek out dancers Hamilton has two tracks, the Pre tor, they’re looking at her as her from Baton Rouge and New Orleans -professional track and the Recrea- forte. This unfortunately, stereo- to come to Opelousas to teach the tional track. The recreational track types dancers. young girls different styles of dance. is the track that is a general curricu- Hamilton prides herself in being It was a process because it was hard lum; it is a curriculum Hamilton professional. She spends painstaking to find someone who was willing to worked on for many years. This hours and hours looking at thou- travel the distance on a consistent track is a graded- structured curricu- sands of costumes for her dancers. basis. When Grace was about 5 or 6 lum that takes the dancer from pre- She wants to make sure that when years old, she did have an instructor school through high school. The she’s looking at costumes for a class, for a few years, but unfortunately, goal of this track is for the dancer to she takes each dancer into consider- that person was no longer able to learn the curriculum so they are able ation. She is assured that the cos- continue driving to Opelousas. to transition to the Professional cur- tumes flatter each of the dancers, However, a school was found in riculum. In the Recreational dance, even the dancers that are heavily Opelousas, Hebert Dance Center. they have the classical ballet, tap, jazz endowed. She wants each dancer to The parents approached the school and hip-hop. Once the dancer tran- feel that they are amazing, they are and asked if they would be willing to sitions in to the Pre-Professional, the awesome, and they look good, espe- teach little African American girls Performance Company, they get into cially when they’re on stage. dance, but the clientele of the school more workshops. The Pre- For the last 20 years, Hamilton had a fit. However, the owner was Professional is more intense dancing. has been offering piano, voice, kara- very proactive, indicating the she The classes are more specialized; the te, cheerleading and tumbling. These would teach the little girls, but they dancers get an opportunity to com- are recreational components. had to take classes separately from pete in community performances. the white kids. The recitals were Preparing for a performance includes even scheduled on different days. up to 100 hours of practice. Since The African American girls did not the dancers are rehearsing for so interact with the White girls. Grace many hours, Hamilton will hold a was able to study classical ballet, tap sleepover for the dancers. She is and jazz. intense with these dancers because As Grace got older, she began they are presenting a story about a attending civil rights meetings orga- culture and history. They have to nized by Father A. J McKnight at understand the emotions of the Holy Ghost Church. There was still CONTINUED ON PAGE 13 12 story. Hamilton has organized a March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine Hamilton AA! Continued Hamilton prepares the dancers for com- peting. She lets them know that each competition is different. Every judge and what they see are different. A dancer may lace 1st place in one com- petition, they may place 3rd or they may not even place in another competition with the same rou- tine. Hamilton tells the dancers, “You go in and do your best and be your best and no matter what the outcome; be professional with the other danc- ers, smile and just enjoy yourself in this experi- ence”. She teaches them self-esteem. The skills that the dancers have learned have assisted them in their personal lives; some of her students have gone on to be- come nurses, doctors and lawyers. Former students share with her how Hamilton has assisted them in their profes- sional careers. In college, Hamilton attended the University of Southwestern Louisiana (USL) where she first majored in busi- ness administration. Her dad told her that she’d been dancing all her life and that she was not going to major in dance. Both her parents were schoolteachers, so they wanted her to major in education, but Hamilton wasn’t inter- ested in that. Hamilton decided to go into the business field, which was very helpful; she learned how to read finan- cial statements, advertising and marketing, economics and statistics. Her dream was to own her own business; she knew these skills would assist her greatly. Hamilton referenced artists who have opened studios 30 years ago are closed because they did not understand the business side of it. As she travels taking her students to competitions, she’s observant of the lack of studios, even in the larger cities. It’s a challenge operating a dance studio. Hamilton has students from many of the surrounding parishes, St. Martin, St. Landry, Iberia and Acadia. Her academy also attracts students from Baton Rouge and Lake Charles. Her students have the opportunity to compete, not only at Hamilton Academy of the Arts, but internationally. Students are as young as three years old. These preschoolers, 3 to 5 years old, are her Twinkle Bears. Students 6 to 7 years old are the Twinkle Stars. Hamilton laughs, “From there, they go up to age 65; there is no cutoff”. Her young students are like sponges; just ready to absorb all she has to teach them. Starting at an early age give them a solid foundation to keep building on. Hamilton stated, “I feel one of the things that’s really important that somehow we’re missing in this generation is that we don’t teach our kids to sit with themselves and figure out their life purpose. If a child has an interest in something very, very early on; that stays with them. We don’t teach parents to nurture that, to pay attention to that”. Hamilton knew early on that dance was her life purpose. She wasn’t sure what the path was, but she knew it was her purpose. “Everyone has a particular purpose”, says Hamilton. Figure out what that is and then step boldly into that purpose; you may waiver, you may not have the answers, but if you align with that God given purpose all the proper components of your life must show up. She has allowed famous people to through her studio over time, she has aligned herself with them her whole career and she did not waiver. Everything that she has needed to support this journey has shown up in her life. She just had to be prepared. Closing comments: If you’re interested in enrolling your child, just visit our website: www.HamiltonAcademyoftheArts.com. You can register online; you can also order your dancewear, dance shoes and dance bag. Then just show up with your entire family. We have karate, piano, voice, cheerleading and tumbling; we have lots of things available for the entire family. Hamilton Academy of the Arts is located at 417 Hobson St, Lafa- yette, LA; Phone 337. 235.8651. END

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 13 Among other things stated, he men- Strong, Black Man! By Marquia Whitehead tioned that slave owners should tar- say that he is a Black man. get the intelligent, strong black men. Society has decided to demoralize Why? He stated that because our the true, Black man. As their black men are phenomenal, just as strength, courageous spirits and phenomenal as our beautiful women. hearts of lions are ignored, they are Black men were created as the out- the bloodlines of our community. line of warriors, strong and intelli- Although they are the main victims gent. As much as Willie Lynch may of hate, they still possess qualities have exhibited hate throughout the that would make many fall in love entire letter, he also showed non- with who they are. Yet, there is not verbal admiration towards the Black man that was created. He was fully He walks through the room. All much discussion about the hard- working, Black man. Instead, society aware that our black men could have women, of all races, stop to stare. come together and take over the He possesses the qualities and quali- has given attention to the usual ste- reotype: pants-sagging, deadbeat fa- plantation, taken their women and fications of someone who could give change the game of slavery. Howev- a speech in front of thousands of ther, woman beating, lazy criminal. This is NOT our black men. Our er, he also knew that using his three- people. He speaks with such elo- word tactic, there was no way any of quence and professionalism that his Black men are great fathers, great husbands, great educators, great en- this could happen. So, he utilized voice demands your attention. His mind control to take over the minds pants fit – properly. His teeth are gineers, great friends and so much more. Where has society gone of the black men, the leader of the perfectly aligned and mustache household, the providers, and the equally lined. His pronunciation and strongholds. In these days, that has enunciation resembles that of a not changed. college professor. He is a great fa- Black men are the main race in- ther and husband. He does not need carcerated and facing brutalities, a “sidepiece” because he realized along with inequalities. A lot of our that only one woman was all he black men feel they are not good needs. He provides in all ways possi- enough. Although they hide behind ble; from moral support to mental various rap songs and “trap” tactics, stimulation to hardworking attrib- they are actually dealing with emo- utes. He speaks two languages – tions surrounding the distrust, fear street and proper grammar, the and envy. Many of them DISTRUST balance that is necessary to survive. those who mean them well, and He loves his mother; yes, he loves trust those who would rather see his mother. He was raised in a loving them fail. Many of them possess home that exhibited God’s love, FEAR, not fear of man, but fear of prayed on a regular basis and them doing better in life. They may encouraged education. However, he fear they are not smart enough or is always hidden because he does not not good enough to obtain that col- illustrate the stereotypical man that wrong? Well, it started a long time ago, a very long time ago. lege degree. Fear is a powerful feel- has been forever showcased to soci- ing that can stop endeavors, stop ety for many years. Do you know On February 17, 2016, I respond- who “he” is? He is that man that you ed to the Willie Lynch Letter, (http:// themisseducated.blogspot.com/2016/02/ passed by and thought he was not dear-willie-lynch.html) a well-known good enough to receive that job. He and harsh letter about ways to con- is that man with the skin full of mela- trol slaves. As various methods were nin, full lips, and broad nose. He is spilled out of his mouth, Lynch men- that man whose hair has a kinky curl tioned that he would utilize three pattern and a smile that blinds you if things in order to maintain power: you look too quickly. He is that distrust, fear and envy. Black man who is not ashamed to CONTINUED ON PAGE 15 14 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine Strong Black Man! CONTINUED businesses and even stop a man from reaching his full potential. Additionally, many of them ENVY one another. They rather look at who has the biggest rims and who exhibits the most money on their social networks. It has gone so far that black men are killing one anoth- er because they envy what the next one has. Well, it’s time to burn the Willie Lynch Letter! The world is yours, Black men, from the moon in the sky to the soil in the ground, it is yours. You have been called and created to lead a multitude of people and rise up from the issues that have been used to stop the potential that was rooted deeply in your souls, the same calling that was actually foreseen by those who tried to enslave Marquia Whitehead your people. Although there are numerous obstacles attempting to stop the full poten- tial that has already been outlined, there is no greater enemy than yourself! Black men…strong, black men, take control and grasp what is yours; but, do so the right way. Educate your brothers, guide your seeds and promote unity in your community. As strong Black women, we also have responsibility to uplift our Black men when they are weak, we are strong. What would have happened if our First Lady, Michelle Obama, did not uplift President Obama? He may have never reached his destiny without a strong, black woman on his side. When they do not un- derstand, Black women promote comprehension. When they see failure, Black women speak life. When they are deterred from the journey, Black women reroutes the compass and get him back on track. The only way to overcome the curse created by society and past generations is to unify the community that has been broken for so many years and encourage our Black men. Brothers, if there was ever a time that you needed to be strong and revive your strength, the time is now. Educated, courageous, strong, intelligent, Black men, we believe in you and speak life into your existence! END Marquia Whitehead is an author, educator, entrepreneur, and owner of “Miss Educated”.

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 15 From The Pulpit John 4:20-24 ~ True Worshippers Now, when you came here this hand. For the Bible says in the morning you came to what we call words of our Lord Jesus Christ, “It is “The Church.” And you came into a more blessed to,” what? “Give than building that we call “The St Peter to receive.” So, there is blessing in Baptist Church.” Many years ago, giving, much more than if you just when we were building this building, come to receive. If you came just to and had finished it, and what my fa- analyze the music, or just to analyze ther decided what could he call the sermon, and if your response is, it? I’m sure many options were pre- well, I’ve heard better, and I’m sure sented. You could call it an auditori- you have, at least in the case of the um, but that has no distinction at sermon, you’ve missed it. all. You could call it the sanctuary, Worship. Do you do it when but that doesn’t make sense because you come? I mean, is that what you God doesn’t live here. But we felt have in mind? Do you prepare your that the best possible name would heart for worship? When you’re Pastor Carl Sonnier be the A Place of Worship, because getting dressed and getting in your when you come here you come for car and proceeding on your way to Let’s bow in prayer. Father, as the primary purpose of worshipping this place on Sunday, is it that your we come now to the study of the God. And you not only come to the heart is eager to worship Word of God, we pray that the Spir- place of worship, but you come to God? Have you ever asked yourself it of God might give us entrance into the fellowship of worship. And that question? Well, you’re going to the truth that we might see and hear when the choir sings, and the musi- have to ask yourself that question in and understand, that we might re- cians play, and the sermon is this series. spond with obedient hearts, for preached, it is not that those are an Now, what is worship? Let me Christ’s sake. Amen. end in themselves; those are but give you a definition, to start with, The conversation is between the stimuli. And their design and inten- now that I’ve gotten your attention, I woman of Samaria and our Lord Je- tion is to cause you to worship hope. What is worship? Very sim- sus Christ. And she says: “Our fa- God. And if you have any less than ple definition, are you ready for thers worshipped in this mountain; that in your mind, you’ve missed the this? Honor paid to a superior be- and Ye say, that in Jerusalem is the point. ing. Honor paid to a superior be- place where men ought to wor- I’m afraid that most people come ing. That’s worship. A very simple ship. Jesus saith unto her, ‘Woman, to church for what they can word to define. It means to give believe Me, the hour cometh when get. There are some people, you homage, honor, reverence, respect, ye shall neither in this mountain, nor know, who just check the church adoration, praise, glory to a superior yet at Jerusalem, worship the Fa- program and see who’s playing being. Frankly, the word in the ther. Ye worship ye know not what: where on a given Sunday and go for Scripture is used indiscriminately; it’s we know what we worship: for sal- what they think will appeal to them, used of people who gave that kind of vation is of the Jews. But the hour or quote-unquote, “Bless them.” If homage to idols. It’s used of people cometh and now is, when the true you come to church for what you who gave that kind of homage to worshippers shall worship the Father can get out of the music, or what material things as well as to the true in spirit and in truth. For the Father you can get out of the sermon; if you God. So, the word in itself is not a seeketh such to worship Him. God come to church for the fact that holy word as such. It only describes is a spirit: and they that worship Him you’d like to get blessed, you’ve honor given to a superior be- must worship Him in spirit and in missed the point. You really have, ing. The common New Testament truth.’” you know. Because we’re here to word, and there are several that The word worship appears in worship God, and that’s giving, not have implied in them the idea of one form or another eight times in getting! We come to offer to Him worship, but the most common one that passage. It is essential that we something, not to receive. Granted, is the word proskuneō, which means understand what our Lord is saying if we offer to Him the praise due His to kiss toward, and it came from that here, and we will, I trust, by the time name, we will receive at His ancient custom of kissing the hand of our series is finished. CONTINUED ON PAGE 17 16 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine From The Pulpit CONTINUED living God in human form, the Lord got the church fine tuned to a sys- Jesus Christ. Verse 1 of John 12: tem, and we’ve got the programs a superior, a person bow down on “Jesus six days before the Passover and the whole shot. We are the the ground, bow his head and kiss came to Bethany, where Lazarus busy ones. We are not the genera- the hand. It also is used to convey was,” who had been dead, whom He tion of the Marys. the idea of bowing down, or pros- raised from the dead. “And there And we are very careful that we trating oneself. And it is the idea they made Him supper; and Martha don’t waste our substance and we that you prostrate yourself before a served: but Lazarus was one of them tend to mark out very carefully, even superior being with a sense of re- that sat at the table with Him. Then what we give God, rather than to spect and awe and reverence and took Mary a pound of ointment of pour out that which is a year’s wag- honor and homage. spikenard, very costly.” How cost- es, and stoop in humility to wipe His And in a Christian context we ly? Probably a year’s wages for just feet with our hair. That’s wor- simply apply that to God. We bow that amount. “And she took it and ship. And rising out of that fragrance before God. We prostrate our- anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped was the essence of a worshipping selves before God. We kiss the His feet with her hair: and the house heart. That’s what God’s af- hand, as it were, as the Psalmist says, was filled with the odor of the oint- ter. True worship is better than “Kiss the Son.” We bow in respect ment.” welfare. True worship is better than and honor before God, paying Him First Corinthians chapter 11 says: religious activity, though it be the glory due His superior character. “The glory of a woman is her good. And welfare is necessary, and Essentially then, worship is giv- hair.” And so, she uses her glory for so is activity, but worship is better. ing. It is giving honor and respect to the lowliest task imaginable. Any- And yet I fear that many of us God and that is why we gather body in that part of the world who don’t even know what worship is. I here. We don’t gather here to give washed people’s feet would have suppose we could compare worship respect to the preacher, or even the been thought of as the most menial with ministry and help to distinguish people who participate in the music, slave. She uses that which is her glo- it a little. We are very ministry ori- although it is fine that we should ry to wash the dusty, dirty feet of ented, aren’t we? We talk about hold one another in respect. At this Jesus. And doesn’t just use water, ministry. We function in minis- point in our experience as Chris- but pours out the costliest fra- try. We’re very busy and active. In tians, all of us fade and we are here grance. Now, that’s the essence of fact, we were talking the other day for one purpose and that is to give worship. Worship is self-humiliating, about why it seems that as our honor to God. And through all that and worship is profuse in its giv- church has grown, and we continue occurs, there is to be the stimulating ing. And you remember that Mary to grow, and 60 or 70 new members of that desire in our hearts to honor and Martha were different. Martha are added to the church every God. So, if you come for what you was always serving and Mary was month and more and more people can get, or if you come to quote- sitting at the feet of Jesus and Jesus keep coming. But it seems as though unquote, “get a blessing,” you’ve said, Mary has chosen the what? The while we’ve been growing numerical- missed it. You have come to give, better part. And Judas said, wait a ly, we have many more people than not get. And worship is a consuming minute, that’s 300 denarii worth of we’ve ever had, we don’t necessarily desire to give to God. And it first ointment and we could have given to have more people here on Sun- begins with the giving of ourselves, the poor. He didn’t really care day. And the answer is inevitably, and then of our heart attitudes, and about the poor; he held the bag and well, you see, they’re so active, then of our possessions. wanted as much as he could get they’ve got home Bible studies, and Let me see if I can’t illustrate a out. But Jesus said, “Let her they’ve got this, and they’ve got that, place in the Scripture of this alone.” Let her alone. It is better to and so, yeah, you know, we’ve got a thought. worship than to give welfare. That’s whole bunch of Marthas. But where Now, in the New Testament, I right. What you give God is infinite- are those would like you to look at John chap- ly more important than what you sitting at ter 12 verse 1. And I want to show give man, any man. That is not to the feet you a similar thought. As the in- say it’s not important to give to men; of Jesus, cense fragrance rose to the nostrils it is to say it is important more so to where are of God, it signified worship. And give to God. And we tend to be so the wor- here we have another fragrant gift pragmatic. We are the generation of shippers? offered in worship. This time, to the the Marthas, aren’t we? I mean, I’ve END March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 17 Congratulations: Altar Service Awards Presented by Bishop J. Douglas Deshotel

Nicholas Malbreaux, Rev. Lambert A. Lien, S.V.D., St. Anthony Catholic Church and Darrelyn Boudreaux Nicholas Malbreaux receives award from Bishop Deshotel, April 13, 2016

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March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 19 By Corrie Gallien, expectant mother A Tale of Motherhood, CHAPTER I was around the corner, I planned a wanted to protect my surprise announcement for my hus- daughter from any instabil- band and our kids during our Christ- ity, so I let her stay with my mas photos. Everyone was excited. parents who had graciously I had a very difficult pregnancy offered to care for her. with my first daughter, and I had The first year of law always hoped that my next pregnan- school was indeed challeng- cy would be less difficult. Unfortu- ing and involved lots of late nately, after the initial two to three night studying. But the most weeks of pregnancy, the severe nau- difficult part of that first sea that engulfed me during my first year was being away from trimester of pregnancy returned. I Surprising Family with “Birth” Announcement my daughter. I was on the had to be hospitalized twice for road to visit her almost every week- My name is Corrie Gallien (soon dehydration since my pregnancy. end, and this cut into my studying I was hoping that the morning to officially be Journet). I am a wife time. So after the first year, I made a to Rodney Journet. I am a mother sickness would pass as the first decision to bring my daughter back trimester rolled into the second and step-mother to a 10-year old girl to Baton Rouge. Despite any chal- and 10- year old boy respectively. trimester, but I still experience lenges we could face, I knew being nausea as I near the halfway (20 We are expecting our third child in away from her was the biggest chal- August. weeks) mark of pregnancy. It cer- lenge of all. tainly has improved, because I have To understand why my family is Being a single mom definitely has such a blessing, you would have to had more good days than bad days. its challenges but it instinctively Now that the second trimester is know our story. When I was 19 forced me to push harder to give my years old and a sophomore in col- here, my belly bump is starting to daughter the best life. My daughter grow. Although this means experi- lege, I found out I was pregnant with motivated me through law school, my daughter. My pregnancy came as encing new challenges like back and, in 2011, when she was five years strains, I am happy that my belly a huge surprise to my family, my old; I received my Juris Doctor and friends and myself. Wanting to give bump has begun to announce my passed the Louisiana State Bar. I pregnancy for me. my child the best future and fearing love to research and write, so I that my schooling may suffer, moti- I am looking forward to the sec- started my career as a law clerk back ond half of my pregnancy. Hopefully, vated me to work harder than ever home in Opelousas, LA. before. I stayed in school and the nausea will end, and I will be able My daughter was eight years old to enjoy the many movements of my worked during my pregnancy. when I reunited with my husband th baby. END Two weeks after my 20 birth- who I had met in high school in the day, I gave birth to a beautiful girl. UL Upward Bound Program. He is a She changed my world in ways veteran, and he also had a then eight- words cannot express. With a year-old son. We had an instant con- strong family support system, I was nection, and got married one year able to complete undergrad in only after our reunion. I was 28 and he three and a half years, with honors. was 30 when we wed. Uncertain of what the future held We knew we wanted another for me, but knowing I wanted to child, so we prayed about it and anx- further my education, I decided that iously looked forward to a pregnan- law school was a good option. I was cy. After the first year of our mar- accepted into LSU Law, but I was riage, and no pregnancy, we began to torn about whether I should take my feel nervousness about our ability to move daughter to Baton Rouge. conceive. I talked to my doctor who Being a first generation college grad- ensured me that our concerns were uate, I had very little idea of what to premature. expect during law school. I had heard December 2015 is when I found of the difficulties of the first year and out I was pregnant. Since Christmas Corrie Gallien, The Beauty of Motherhood 20 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine By James D. Thomas The 24th Amendment established “The Vote” that no poll tax is allowed or failure to pay any other tax shall prevent a “The vote is the most powerful person from voting (1964). This instrument ever devised by man for amendment eliminated some of the breaking down injustice and destroy- Jim Crow laws which were a result ing the terrible walls which imprison of the 15th Amendment. men because they are different from The 26th Amendment stated that other men” - Lyndon B. Johnson, all persons 18 or older shall not be 36th President of the United States. abridged of their right to vote In order to gain an understanding of (1971). This amendment was passed why voting is so important, let’s take in 1971 after 11 unsuccessful at- a look back at the history of voting tempts. The Vietnam War brought rights. up the topic of why 8 year olds Contrary to popular belief, the could fight and die for our country, United States’ Constitution did not yet they were not eligible to vote for originally guarantee citizens the the members of congress who sent “right to vote.” The United States exclude many African Americans them overseas. was created with the understanding whose ancestors were not eligible to The Voting Rights Act of 1965 is that only certain individuals would vote because of slavery. They also probably an act that most people are make the decisions when it came to created a Poll Tax requiring people familiar with and that is most dis- government. There are several to pay a fee in order to be required cussed in history. It was signed into amendments to the U.S. Constitu- to vote. The intention is to stop law by President Lyndon B. Johnson. tion which address the right to vote lower income citizens from having a It applied a nationwide prohibition as well as who actually has this right. voice in government. As you can see, against the denial or abridgment of The 14th Amendment says that all the 15th Amendment did not accom- the right to vote on the literacy tests persons born within the U.S. are citi- plish what it had originally intended. on a nationwide basis. Today, we zens and guaranteed rights and privi- Minorities still did not share equal have so many reasons and options to leges (1868). The 15th Amendment rights when it came to voting in the vote. Plus, registering to vote is very says that no citizen is to be denied United States. easy! You have to be a U.S. citizen, the right to vote based on race, col- The 19th Amendment said that at least 17 years old but 18 years old or, or previous condition of servi- no citizen shall be abridged of their to actually vote, not be under im- tude (1870). This amendment was right to vote based on sex (1920). prisonment for conviction of a felo- intended to give freed slaves the This amendment gave women the ny, and reside in the state and parish same privileges offered to the white right to vote. This is by far one of in which you seek to register. In majority in the United States. States the most important amendments to Louisiana, you can register online at were able to get around this amend- the Constitution when it comes to sos.la.gov, at your local department ment by creating Jim Crow Laws and voting, because it gave the right to of motor vehicles, or by mail. It’s so other barriers to prevent minorities vote to half of the population of the easy!! END from voting. United States. It has not yet been Jim Crow Laws were require- 100 years that women have been Get Involved! ments for individuals to pass in order able to vote. to become eligible to vote. These included such things as literacy tests. Get Registered! These tests excluded under- ABOUT JAMES: Deputy James D. Thomas is a one-year educated Americans from voting. veteran of the Lafayette Parish Sheriff’s Office. This was specifically focused towards As a Case Manager, he serves in the Youth African Americans. Most African Service’s Dept. & oversees 100+ cases. In 2015, James was awarded “Employee of the Year” American’s couldn’t read or write for his outstanding service in Juvenile Law very well and weren’t able to pass Enforcement. Since 2012, James has served as those tests. A Grandfather Clause a member of the Lafayette Democratic Parish Executive Committee (DPEC). When he is not was a requirement which said if your serving the public, James enjoys spending time 2015 ~ Baton Rouge, La. ~ James with Democratic grandfather was eligible to vote, then with family & traveling. Presidential Candidate Hillary Rodham Clinton. you are eligible to vote. This would March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 21 Jefferson Award Winner for Public Service By Susannah Johnson Malbreaux THE JEFFERSON AWARD THE NOMINATION Schools, Communities, Workplaces BY DENISE RENE JOLIVETTE The Jefferson Awards Foundation is I'd like to nominate Shannon committed to tapping into the in- Ozene. Through losing her son to an unde- credible capacity and spirit of Ameri- tected heart condition in 2011, Shannon cans. Our Youth programs, Students Ozene created the Shane Ozene Foundation In Action, LEAD360, and which focuses on Sudden Cardiac Arrest GlobeChangers, support, train and Awareness. Shane Ozene was only 15 years empower youth to be leaders and old when he collapsed during basketball change makers. Our vast network of practice and died. He showed no signs or Denise Jolivette & Shannon Ozene Media Partners honors local unsung symptoms of a heart condition. Shannon was heroes who are the best of their now determined to save as many young lives as she could from Sudden communities. Our Champions and Cardiac Arrest. The foundation provides either free or low cost EKG National Partners are engaging, screening to youth, mostly ages 12-22. They have hosted 4 EKG screen- activating and celebrating their ings in Lafayette, LA and as of now they have detected at least 2 very seri- millions of constituents and employ- ous heart conditions in our youth of the Lafayette area. One required ees. All together, we are building a surgery and the young lady is doing fine now and living a healthy, normal culture of service in the country. life, the other was recommended for an internal defibrillator. The foun- http://www.jeffersonawards.org/ dation also advocates AED (automated external defibrillator) placement in areas where youth congregate. When Shane passed away there was an AED in the gym but it was locked in the office. Soon after Shane's passing, Shannon worked with the Lafayette Parks and Recreation and provided each Parks and Rec gym with and AED. A total of 7 AEDs are now readily available in case a person was to go down due to cardiac distress in these recreation centers. Before Shane passed away, there were none. In the memory of her son Shane, Shannon is determined to prevent as many of these tragedies as she can. Shane's life could have been saved, if he would have had a simple EKG. Also, if an AED was readily accessible when he collapsed, Shane's life could have been spared. She will continue to part- ner with other organizations that share her same vision and provide these heart screenings for our young people. She also was a part of the first board of directors of the civic organiza- Congratulations Shannon! tion, Three Sixty Collective. Three Sixty Collective is focused on commu- nity development and social change in the Lafayette area. She has been on the board for two years and is now serving as Vice President. Her duties include, organizational development, event coordination and volunteer management. Shannon is also presently working on literacy program for the youth. Thanks for your consideration. . Denise Jolivette Shannon is the 1st cousin & God-daughter of Denise. She will travel to Washington, D.C. in June (all expenses paid) to take part in the national Jefferson Awards program. Shannon will have an opportunity to meet other winners from around the country & get valuable infor- mation on how to expand the Shane Ozene Foundation and 360 Sixty Collective to help even more people throughout Acadiana. END https://www.facebook.com/shaneozenefoundation 22 Shane & Shannon Ozene March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine In Loving Remembrance of my dear friend, Jamie Porter James. The lives of Jamie and her mother, Adeline Porter Etienne were tragically and horrifically taken on February 27, 2016 by Jamie’s ex-boyfriend.

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 23 Even During Tough Times, Life Insurance Offers Peace of Mind

Protecting the Stay-at-Home Spouse When married couples have young children, often one spouse stays home while the other works outside the home. While most parents understand the necessity of purchasing a life insurance policy on the income earner, few realize the importance of also insuring the stay-at- home spouse. Being Prepared for the Unexpected What if the stay-at-home spouse suddenly died? The family would be devastated. Friends and family members would initially pitch in to help. But eventually they would return to their regular lives. Before the sur- viving spouse returned to work, a caretaker for the children and home would need to be hired, presenting a potential financial hardship. Had life insurance been purchased on the stay-at-home parent, however, the family’s needs would have been protected. Stephen W. Bartley Measuring the Value of the Stay-at-Home Spouse Despite the importance of the stay-at-home parent, there’s little research to quantify its value. In its 10th annual Mom Salary Survey, Salary.com reported the most popular functions performed by mothers equate to $117,856 per year in salary. It further states the stay-at-home spouse works a 99-hour week, serving as housekeeper, teacher, cook, psychologist and van driver — in short, functioning as a CEO at home. Flexible, Customizable Choices The type of policy you select depends on your needs and budget. Term life insurance provides afford- able coverage for several years. In contrast permanent life insurance provides protection for your entire life (provided premiums are paid) and accumulates cash value tax-deferred. This cash value can be ac- cessed (loans accrue interest and reduce policy’s cash value and death benefit). Plus, riders, available with term and permanent life insurance, enable you to customize your policy to meet and grow with your

changing needs.

The loss of a parent is an emotional hardship for a family; purchasing insurance coverage for a stay-at- home spouse can help ensure that it doesn’t become a financial hardship as well. This educational third-party article is being provided as a courtesy by [Stephen Bartley, Agent]. For additional information on the information or topic (s) discussed, please contact [Stephen Bartley] at [[email protected] or (337) 366-1495].

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24 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine DO TELL! Speaking Out and Standing Up Against Sexual Abuse By Nedra Breaux Epps community organizations, churches, is going on - to tell if abuse is hap- rape crisis centers, government enti- pening - whether it's in their individ- ties, schools, and individuals in coor- ual lives, in the home, or in their dinating events and activities high- community. lighting the fight to stop sexual vio- Marlice was healed from her own lence. Since the 1980's activists have traumatic experience of sexual used April as the month to shine the abuse, and God has literally taken light on sexual assault. But it wasn't her pain and turned it into purpose. until 2001 that the United States first In the areas of her life that Satan observed Sexual Assault Awareness compromised, God transposed them Month nationally. Sexual violence is into a heart of compassion. She rec- an issue that affects a human's life ognizes that it was through the pow- and rights, and is a social justice cri- er of forgiveness and her willingness sis. Therefore, it is critical that peo- to let the act go and release in love ple wake up and express their con- that God has empowered her to Pastor Marlice Young-Dugas cern and compassion regarding this walk out her freedom, healing, and grave injustice being done to these victory. Nedra Epps had the privilege of individuals, and stand up to advocate It takes more than one voice to talking with Pastor Marlice Young- for their rights as humans. help prevent violence. DO TELL is Dugas of Freestyle Fellowship "Prevention is Possible" is the an organization bringing many voices Church about Sexual Assault Aware- theme for this year's Sexual Assault together in unity as one voice to ness Month in April and about DO Awareness Month. There are several help spread this message to the TELL- a movement that was founded ways that you can participate in Sex- community, to the state, to the na- to be a voice of healing for the ual Assault Awareness Month. The tion, and to the world. Silence de- abused. When asked why this aware- 2016 Sexual Assault Awareness stroys us ... nothing can stand in the ness is important, she stated, "The Month (SAAM) campaign materials way of the power of millions of voic- importance of it is that, when you focus on the building blocks of pre- es calling for change ... one voice can publicly advocate for and openly de- vention by communicating how indi- change a room, and if one voice can clare the awareness of something, viduals, communities, and the private change a room, then it can change a prevention is possible. It causes peo- sector can take action to promote city, and if it can change a city, it can ple to become more in tune to their safety, respect, and equality. You can change a state, and if it can change a surroundings. They are more aware. go to their website at http:// state, it can change a nation, and if it They are not blind to the fact that it www.nsvrc.org/saam/2016-campaign can change a nation, it can change happens every day. to find out more. the world. Your voice can change For the one who has been sex- Also, Marlice made a decision the world - President Barak Obama. ually abused, it creates an environ- three years ago to take a more ac- Her Facebook page, DO TELL, ment of encouragement, hope and tive part in bringing awareness to demonstrates that this movement is healing. In this environment the indi- sexual assault in her community. In- gaining momentum. Since its creation vidual is able to see that he or she is spired by God, she founded a move- in 2013 the posts have reached an not the only who has suffered this ment that is called DO TELL. As increasing number of individuals. Go abuse, and is not alone. We must previously stated, it was founded to to the page to join the movement. If debunk the myth that sexual abuse is be voice of healing for the abused. you're serious about spreading the a rare occurrence. As many as one She stated that a voice is needed be- message, out of four girls and one out of six cause many times individuals who contact Marlice: 337-484-3031 or boys will experience some form of have been abused live lives that are email: [email protected]. sexual abuse before the age of eight- so filled with fear, shame and guilt Look for upcoming events in een. that many of them have been si- April. Finally, Marlice's voice can be According to Marlice, Sexual As- lenced by their traumatic experi- heard every Saturday and Sunday sault Awareness Month is a national ence. DO TELL creates an atmos- from 6 am to 9 am on KIEE 88.3 fm campaign that primarily focuses on phere which encourages individuals on the Mo' Love Show. prevention and on actively engaging and families to speak up about what END

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 25 By Nedra Epps Breaux 4A's Sisters Club

Nedra Epps had the awesome although there are medicines that Maxine Navarre privilege of interviewing Brenda An- extend life span. Individuals can drus of the 4A's Sisters Club - a Lu- live a normal life with proper treat- pus Education and Support Organiza- ment. tion. The organization was founded The illness affects each individual in 2011 and was named for Brenda differently. Some patients have mild and her three sisters. symptoms, and some have severe, The organization came about be- even life-threatening, symptoms. cause three of the sisters' biological "Lupus affects any number of organs mom passed away with Lupus. Then in the body", Brenda stated, "for ex- their dad remarried and had a daugh- ample, kidney, liver, spleen, lungs, ter a year later. This daughter's thyroid and heart." She has seen in- mom - their stepmom - also passed dividuals with dry mouth and dry away with Lupus. As a result this ra- eyes or painful and swollen joints. re occurrence which happened in The age of onset of Lupus varies. their family, the daughters decided Brenda has seen children as young as Shelly Sonnier Terrence to raise awareness of Lupus in our four years old in their support community. The four sisters who groups. founded the organization are, from Brenda said that the most visible oldest to youngest—Gail Lee, Bren- symptom of Lupus is the butterfly da Andrus, Martha Weatherford, rash on the face or hands, specifically Anazia Andrus Sam. over the bridge of the nose or on Lupus does not only affect a cer- both cheeks. It is so named because tain demographic. It affects men, it resembles the shape of a butterfly. women, young and old. Lupus is a There are also other identifying chronic autoimmune disease that can symptoms such joint pain, fever, fa- damage any part of the body. The tigue, hair loss, gastrointestinal prob- immune system cannot tell the dif- lems, and sensitivity to the sun. ference between these foreign in- Since its founding year, the club vaders and your body’s healthy tis- has been meeting the 3rd Thursday sues ("auto" means "self") and cre- of each month at the M. L. King mul- ates auto-antibodies that attack and ticultural center located at 309 Cora destroy healthy tissue. These auto- St. in Lafayette. The meetings are Clementine LeBlanc antibodies cause inflammation, pain, not only for individuals with Lupus and damage in various parts of the and their family members. Anyone body. There is no cure for Lupus, who wants to be educated is more CONTINUED ON PAGE 27 than welcome to attend. 26 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine 4A's Sisters Club, Continued The Club provides these individuals with the opportunity to share their stories and to be among others who share their illness. Patients and family members are educated about the illness and about the daily challenges of a person affected with this disease. They are given educational literature from the National Lupus Founda- tion. The group also provides videos that allow them to see the real life stories of individuals living and dying with Lupus. They are given assignments, such as reading or other activities, to keep their minds engaged and to offset depression. Each year the Club sponsors a huge fundraising event, although they do smaller events throughout the year. The purpose of each fundraising event is to raise funds to give to individual Lupus patients. The funds can be used by the patient in what- ever way they choose - medicine, living expenses, or personal use. The first event was a New Years Eve Bash in 2011. They have sponsored other activities as well, such as a Po-boy sale, a Brunch, a Tea and other events to raise funds. The organ- Brenda Andrus, 4A's Sisters Club ization also hosts events to honor their volunteers for the work they do through- out the year. 4A's Sister Club also attends workshops and other events in Baton Rouge and New Orleans to network and gather more information and education about this illness. They have networked with Mrs. Henrietta Jackson of the Baton Rouge Lupus Foundation as well as other organizations throughout the state. They are also preparing to expand their networking efforts and event hosting into Texas. The response to the organization has been very positive. Patients and their families have said that this organiza- tion has been needed for a long time. They enjoy being with the other Lupus patients. They also appreciate that there are people who care about them other than physicians and those who are just doing their jobs. Finally, they express appreciation about being listened to as they share their challenges, trials, and testimonies. Coming soon, the organization will be doing live remotes on Acadiana Open Channel. The broadcast will be titled "NO About Lupus" and will begin airing in April. Look for more information on Brenda's Facebook page. For more information, contact Brenda Andrus at 337-258-1666 or Gail Lee 337-280-6485. For your information: World Lupus Day is May 10th. END

May 16th is National Lupus Day. Look for more information on Brenda's Facebook page regarding these events as well.

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 27 An Excerpt from “Divine Justice” The Southern View Magazine is pleased to present this excerpt from the book, Divine Justice, by Dianne Alexander. It is the story of her near death experience with serial killer, Derrick Todd Lee, as well as a lesson on the power of forgiveness. Her book can be found at amazon.com, barnesandnoble.com, and pendi- umpublishing.com. Also, contact her for speaking engagements at [email protected] or on her Facebook page.

Chapter Eleven ~ Derrick Todd Lee The Evil That Lurked Within An evil force found its way from St. Francisville, LA. to Baton Rouge, LA. and across the Atchafalaya Basin to the small towns of Breaux Bridge and Grand Coteau, La. Along its dark and conniving journey stretching across Inter- state 10, many senseless lives were claimed. Who could have imagined that this unpredictable entity would bring de- struction to so many families… unknown to one another? This demon spirit masked itself as an ordinary human being with an innocent appearance. It spoke calmly, dressed neatly, and its appearance was unremarkable … nothing to suggest anything out of the ordinary. In my case, he was a person claiming to be lost. As I look back over my encounter with Derrick Todd Lee, I realized he was not physically lost, but was spiritually lost. Somewhere along his life’s journey, he allowed the devil to control his mind, body, and soul. His disruptive behav- ior from the past revealed demonic training in action. According to www.trutv.com, Lee was no stranger to law en- forcement. His arrest and related incidents go as far back as 1992 – 2000. In November 1992, he was arrested for illegal entry and burglary of a Zachary residence. In January 1993, he was arrested for breaking into the home of a seventy-year old man that he beat with a stick and robbed. In July 1993, Lee was sentenced to one year in prison for burglary. In September 1995, he was arrested for a peeping incident and resisting arrest. During the same month, Lee was arrested for stealing from a Salvation Army Thrift Store. In December1999, he received a suspended sen- tence on a misdemeanor stalking charge. In January 2000, he was accused of attempted first-degree murder after severely kicking and stomping his girlfriend, Cassandra Green, at a bar after an argument over Lee's advances toward another woman. His unruly behavior escalated into a whirlwind which took him to another level. Instead of the petty crimes which led him in and out of jail like a revolving door, he decided to become a roaring loin seeking whom he may devour… just like SATAN. He had no inclination that the devil was using him just to set him up. In the end, he had to pay for the murderous crimes he committed. I and the women Derrick Lee killed did absolutely nothing to him to deserve such a cruel and violent attack upon our lives. Our families were deeply wounded by Derrick Todd Lee’s actions. What did he gain… because he also wounded his own family in the process. I heard a Minster preach that God gives us free will. The minister took it a step further and said, if we take a closer at the words “free will”, the only free will we have is to serve God or Satan. If we choose to do whatever we want, we are still serving Satan. When we serve God, we choose His will over ours. Derrick Todd Lee chose to do whatever he wanted...steal, kill, and destroy. This is the devil’s plan for all man- kind. I praise God because He is still on the throne and is in control. What the devil meant for bad, God turned it around for good…for me, my family, and the families of the other women who have gone to be with the Lord. Jus- tice prevailed. Within unpleasant situations there is always a lesson to learn. I can’t speak for anyone else, but I have learned many lessons from this horrifying event. For one, I’ve learned to live each day with a purpose and enjoy every minute of it. As strange as it may seem, I am consciously aware of eve- ry detail of my day, because I am constantly waiting, listening, and watching for a movement of God. He moves in mysterious ways…ways unimaginable to us. When the next day shows up, if God wills it, I purpose myself to enjoy it as though it is my last day on earth and let go of the day gone by. I refuse to let anyone rob me of the abundant life in Christ Jesus that God has promised me…especially Derrick Todd Lee. I’ve also learned how to forgive. I sincerely, whole-heartedly forgive this man for what he has done to me. The Lord taught me an important lesson about forgiveness. I knew I had to forgive this man whose mission was to rape and kill me. The Bible clearly says that if we don’t forgive others, God will not forgive us for our wrongs. Therefore, I said “Lord, I forgive Derrick Todd Lee. For I know, Lord, that if I don’t forgive him, you will not forgive me”. The Lord’s response was…”Do you sincerely forgive him?". The word “sincerely” caused me to pause. I searched my heart and found out I really wanted to forgive him. However, I was concerned about the memo- ries of the brutal attack revisiting me, and whether or not I could get pass CONTINUED ON PAGE 29 28 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine Excerpt, Divine Justice CONTINUED that barrier. I didn’t want to be plagued with resentment. I discovered the truth within myself. I would be angry all over again. That was an awesome revelation for me. Now I knew what I needed to do. I went down on my knees, and I asked God to help me to forgive Derrick Todd Lee with a sincere heart…and He did. I harbor no anger or resentment toward Todd Lee. I feel sad for him. The destruction he caused in the life of others ultimately found its way back to him. My arms were bound to my side as he straddled across my chest to deliver the first blow to my head. Now he is bound behind prison walls, staring at the iron bars before him with no one to call on but the Lord Jesus…just like I did, and I pray that he does. There’s hope for him and salvation for his soul. God hates sin, but loves the sinner. God is “LOVE”. He for- gives every kind of sin, if we repent. The only sin He will not forgive is blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. In other words, He does not forgive one who disrespects or ridicules the Holy Spirit. He says, for whoever calls upon the name of The Lord shall be saved (Romans 10:13). That’s God’s promise, not mine. His word is alive and very ac- tive in the earth. The family of Derrick Todd Lee was present at the trials. Many questions stirred up within me. I couldn’t begin to imagine what was going through the mind of Lee’s mother. I wondered if she thought her son was falsely accused. No parent wants to believe the worst of their children. In fact, sometimes we refuse to see the truth regarding our children’s actions. My husband said he heard one of Lee’s family members say, “She’s lying”…referring to me as I was testifying. Oliver mentioned to me that the remark angered him, and he responded with an unpleasant comment. I’m happy he contained himself during the court proceedings; otherwise, he would have been removed from the courtroom. The pain and anger of the victim’s families filled the atmosphere of the courtroom. Comments were made from different family members. One of the family member said “Derrick Todd Lee should have been grateful that law enforcements got to him first”. Another one said “All I need is a five minutes with him”. When I testified that Lee’s attempt to rape me was unsuccessful because he could not achieve an erection, a man in the courtroom found it amusing. He laughed and added a comment. The judge summoned him out of the courtroom. It was difficult for me, my family, and the families of the other women to contain our emotions and verbal expressions without getting reprimanded by the judge presiding over the case. As difficult as it was, only the Lord knew what our thoughts were and how our hearts screamed for revenge. I’m sure that didn’t please God. Noth- ing could have eased the pain and anguish that scarred the hearts of these families left to grieve for their loved ones. I wondered if closure would ever come to all of us affected by this tragedy. I recall Assistant DA, Chester Cedars, saying to me that families never truly get closure for the brutal death of a loved one. I’ve come to realize that the only closure I know is the peace of mind that comes with knowing that The Southwest Louisiana Serial Killer, Derrick Todd Lee would be caught, convicted, and sentenced…ending his killing spree. As for the rest of us affected by the evil whirlwind that swept through our lives, we must press forward, remembering the innocent victims that were taken away from the ones who loved them dearly. May the Lord continue to keep each and every one of us as we press towards the mark of the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus (Philippians 3:14). We must con- tinue to run our race until God calls us home, then, we will see our loved ones again. END Developmental Editing by Nedra Epps of Vision Heirs Publishing And Consulting.

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 29 Elected Official Spotlight By Susannah Johnson Malbreaux Dear Citizens of Lafayette City-Parish Council District 3: Serving as your Council representative over the past three months has been very rewarding and I look forward to continued engagement with the community as we work together to address the needs of our District! I would like to take this opportunity to encourage you all to reach out to my office if ever I could be of assistance to you. I can be reached via telephone at (337) 291-8803 and via e-mail at [email protected]. If I am not available, then my Council staff will be happy to put you in contact with me and/or personally assist you. In an effort to keep the lines of communication open with my constituents, I will be hosting a series of town hall/informational meetings with various neighborhoods over the next few months. The first meeting with be held with the residents of the Royal Town Gardens subdivision at 6:00 p.m. on Wednesday, April 20, 2016 at the Lafayette Parish Sheriff’s Office Public Safety Complex (located at 1825 West Willow Street). I’ll be sure to keep you posted on the dates and times of future town hall/informational meetings as those are scheduled. Sincerely, Pat Lewis 1ST TOWN HALL MEETING ~ WED., APRIL 20, 2016 Council Member, District 3 LAFAYETTE PARISH SHERIFF’S OFFICE PUBLIC SAFETY COMPLEX Congrats Country Cuisine 30 Year Anniversary!

30 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine My Journey into Emotional Intelligence I, Frankie Lee Brooks, was born at Opelousas General Hospital and raised in Eunice, LA in a single parent home until the age of ten. Growing up in a single parent home was not my ideal child- hood. Also, being the oldest child, I had to adapt at a very young age. Becoming the man of the house wasn’t my ideal cir- cumstance either. I could never understand why, when my mom got stressed, she would drink until she became drunk. Not knowing the personal struggles my mom was going through when we were younger; the only thing I saw was her coping mechanism which was getting drunk. I knew who my father was; but he wasn’t in my life like he should have been. So my mother was all I had to look up to as my hero. Some people find it hard to Frankie Brooks & his Mother, Lillie Brooks deal with their own emotions, so that taught me how to neglect my own emotions. Looking back, I also realize that our parents' habits can become our own. I realized not wanting to face my emotional wounds would keep me in a rebellious state of mind. For example, turning to drugs and alcohol, etc. is how some people cope with emotional wounds from their child- hood. I ran from my problems, which was how I coped with mine. Learning implies the love of understanding; so therefore, I became eager to learn the effects of my mother’s behavior as an adult. As I got older it became clearer that running from my problems was not helping; so I start- ed investing my time educating myself on self-knowledge. I was still lost in a whirlwind until in early 2015 I walked into a Barnes and Nobles store, and the book Emotional Intelligence by Dr. David Walton caught my at- tention. This book summed up my emotions, my lack of emotional intelligence, and how I was not dealing with them correctly in ways I had never thought. It's far more productive to put indecision aside; meet a problem head- on; and take action, rather than let it control your thoughts. My journey into emotional intelligence has been filled with anger, sadness, feelings of abandonment, love, and finally, understanding. I realize that my mother’s problems do not have to become mine; and it’s up to me to break the curse before it affects the next generation. It’s a journey I walk daily. It’s a jour- ney that sometimes I fail. But with my new awareness, I have the tools to get up, look up, and never give up. END

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 31 32 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine Southerner’s Tips for Good Health! By Susannah Johnson Malbreaux

Heart Healthy ~ Sautéed Chicken {with onions, bell peppers and special seasonings} over Whole Wheat Angel Hair Pasta; Boiled Asparagus and Fried Okra [When you want to splurge]. To avoid/reduce salt, use an array of special seasonings to taste!

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March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 33 SMILE CAA Head Start/Early Head Start Easter Pageant and Parade

“A Minion Reasons to SMILE” The Easter Pageant/Parade started over 20 years ago in an effort to help the Head Start/Early Head Start chil- dren with something to enhance their self-esteem; something where they can be honored with. There are a lot of pageants and parades that the African American children don’t have an opportunity to participate in. They wanted to create something where the children would be able to participate in and be recognized. In the past, when the governor had an Easter Egg Hunt, the children would attend. This was discontinued by Gov. Mike Foster; when Jindal came into office, he kept the hunts going for a short period of time. This year, the pageant was held at the Martin Luther King Center in Lafayette on Friday, March 18th. The children are taught how to walk and present themselves. Every year there’s a different theme; this year the theme was “A Minion Reasons to Smile”. The Minions were part of the decorations. The children are present- ed during the pageant titled accordingly: The Emperor & Empress; The King & Queen and the Prince & Princess. Each Head Start/Early Head Start Center has their court. The child in each parish that sells the most are the Emperor and Empress. The parents of the children who sells the most are the Big Emperor & Empress. There were about 50 participants in the pageant. Entertainment was provided by Hamilton Academy of the Arts. The parade rolled downtown St. Martinville on the Saturday, March 19th. The parade continues to grow. Tour buses that come to the area are excited to see the parade annually. CONTINUED ON PAGE 35

34 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine EASTER PAGEANT AND PARADE CONTINUED A New Facebook Page for Women

“The Thoughts of Women” Welcome to my group!! This group was created for a project in my E-publishing English Course; but, I have de- cided to go a step further. It can also help my research. Plus, I feel it will be a great avenue for us women to just empower one another and "let it all out," without having to worry about MEN (lol)!!!! I just ask that everyone keeps it respectful and actually empower one another. I will be posting all types of discussions and would like your honest opinion about them. Also, you all can post as you like! Sometimes, it may even be advice that someone needs or just need shoulders to cry on. In times like this, we all need this type of group. Above all, please be sure to invite ALL women that you may know or who may need this support group!!!! Much Love, Kia (Marquia Whitehead) aka “Miss Educated”

The Southern View Magazine will begin sharing positive and inspiring posts from “The Thoughts of Women” Facebook page! With you permission of course. SJM

Posted by Marquia Whitehead, Wed, April 6, 2016 Good Morning, Blessed Ladies! I posted this previously on my busi- ness page, but I feel the need to post this today. Remember that your life could be 10 times worse right now! Do not blame yourself for past mistakes or continue to beat yourself up about things you cannot change! I believe the Serenity Pray- ers says it well... "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change!" You cannot change the past, so stop living in it!! Do you now and change your mindset! # IAmME # MissEducated

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 35 R.A.P. RHYTHM, ARTS & POETRY Russell J. Malbreaux, II is a Freelance Digital Artist. Russell is from Carencro, LA and currently resides in Austin, TX. He studied and graduated from the Art Institute in Hou- ston, TX. Russell has been drawing since the age of 2 years old. His talent were recognized early in life from his drawings and sketches of Mac trucks, Malcolm X and characters like Dragon Ball Z. His work can be v i e w e d a t h t t p s : / / www.artstation.com/artist/ russelljm2

36 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine For Your

It’s Just F.Y.I. Information! RSVP Retired & Senior Volunteer Program Remembering Mr. Lloyd L. Foote, March 21, 1918 - March 12, 2016. Faces of RSVP Volunteers

Doris & Lester Matthew

Lloyd was educated by the Lafayette Parish School System and retired from the same school system after 50 plus years of service. He graduated from Southern University Baton Rouge, with a B.S. degree in Agriculture in 1939. He later returned to Southern, after serving in the Army, to complete his studies in Mathematics. After teaching several years at Paul Breaux High School, he obtained a Masters of Arts degree in Education Administration from Texas Southern University, Houston, Texas. He also did additional Helen Comeaux studies at Northwestern University in Chicago, Illinois. Lloyd taught Algebra and Geometry at Paul Breaux High School for many years. He loved teaching and developed a special relationship with all of his students. He served as assistant principal at PBHS from 1959 to 1961. He was the principal of Youngsville Negro Elementary from 1961 to 1962. He served as the prin- cipal of Paul Breaux High School from 1962 to 1970. He then worked at Lafayette Parish School Board as the Head Start and Food Service Director before retiring. Lloyd pledged Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Alpha Sigma chapter in 1937 while a student at Southern. He was a life member of the organization. He held several offices within the Opelousas Alumni Chapter. He was an advisor for the undergraduate chapter at UL in Lafayette, and was named Kappa Man of the Year in 1992 - 1993. Lloyd was also a life member of the Southern Doretha & Felix Johnson University Alumni Association. Lloyd served in the U.S. Army from 1942 - 1945. He was in France and Belgium during World War II as a supply sergeant for the Red Ball Express. He often said his greatest accomplishment during the war was teaching his men how to write their names so that they could receive their pay. He told many stories about the military which were history lessons. Anyone who knew him heard his stories!! Lloyd accepted Christ at an early age and was a lifetime member of Trinity C.M.E. Church. Having grown up in Trinity, he held many offices. He was a Sunday school teacher and superintendent for many years. He served on the Steward, Trustee and Usher Boards. He loved his church, his church members but most of all the God he served. In 1951, Lloyd married Evelyn G. Parker. They were married for 60 years Edresta Jolivette and to this union one daughter was born, Deborah Althea. To Volunteer, call 337.234.3272 Ext 251

March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine www.thesouthernview.wordpress.com 37 In the Spotlight! A glimpse of past events...

February 13, 2016 Hamilton Academy of the Arts ~ Practice Makes Perfect! Lafayette, LA

March 18, 2016 Head Start/Early Head Start Pageant ~ “A Minion Reasons to SMILE” Lafayette, LA

38 March / April 2016 The Southern View Magazine March 6, 2016 National Association of University Women ~ Awards Banquet, Lafayette, La

March 17, 2016 ~ SMILE RSVP {Retired & Senior Volunteer Program} Recognition Luncheon, Lafayette, LA

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