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Call our offices for Any letter received by Dimensions will be assumed for publication. All letters must include signature, address advertising rates and and phone number. We reserve the right to edit letters as information! we feel necessary. The writers name will be withheld if so requested. Page 4 • Dimensions "Dec.'95/Jan, '96 The I^ews From Around the Region, the Country & the World PFLAG Responds to cast responsibility to their communities would cave in to pressure to censor Attacks by Right from the Christian Broadcasting Net Tulsa, OK - Parents, Families and work." Friends ofLesbians and Gays(FFK AG), KHOV, the CBS affiliate in Houston, has met with harsh attacks on its Project and KHTV,a Houston indepen Open Mind television advertisements dent station, who had accepted the ini in Tulsa, and in Houston, tial advertising buys, also pulled the Texas. Project Open Mind challenges advertisements from their schedules anti-gay hate speech and addresses its after receiving the letter from CBN. harmful impact on lesbian and gay The spots never aired on either station. Americans, their families and friends At the time of this release,TCI Cable of and society atlarge. The ads show scenes Oklahoma has also put the ads "on of Rev. Pat Robertson, Jerry Falwell hold." and others speaking vehemently against Mitzi Henderson said, "We are con homosexuality. These clips are inter demning hate speech. Project Open spersed with shots of gay and lesbian Mind was created to challenge all hate bashings and inferences that this hate speech that is currently being spoken by speech has a direct connection to the those who consider themselves moral high rate of lesbian/gay teen suicides. leaders in our society, and to show the In a letter addressed to all television potential tragic consequences of such general managers in Project Open anti-gay rhetoric. America needs to Mind's target cities of Tulsa, Atlanta hold its leaders accountable to a higher and Houston, Pat Robertson's Chris standard of tolerance and acceptance of tian Broadcasting Network (CBN) their fellow human beings. The ads are threatened to "seek judicial redress" a wake-up call to tolerant, fairminded against all stations airing the television Americans that this kind of hate speech advertisements, "to the maximum ex in their communities is harmful to their tent permitted by law,including injunc- lesbian and gay family members and tive relief and monetary damages." neighbors. When Tulsa NB C affiliate station KJRH "The religious and political leaders fea consulted its attorneys and decided to tured in the television advertisements air the ads, CBN then issued a memo to are unfortunately only representatives the station that said"we hereby demand of those who bring insidious anti-gay rhetoric into our culture every day or that you immediately air a retraction political gain. There is no justifiable and public apology to Pat Robertson context for the demonizing and and CBN." KJRH discontinued its marginalization of gays and lesbians, airing of the ads, citing its concern about the "creative content" of the ads. or any group of American citizens. "This is censorship, pure and simple," PFLAG says it will continue to try to said PFLAG President Mitzi Henderson. find stations in these and other cities "We are saddened and angered that who will air the ads. television stations who have a broad- Dec.'95/Jan.'96 • Dimensions • Page 5 Task Force Applauds therefore be used in the most ethical ways and precautions must be taken to Research But Warns ensure that the studies are not used of Consequences against any individuals or groups." Washington, DC — Biology may In the past. Right Wing organizations influence sexual orientation according have claimed that homosexuality is not to a recently released study. The study, genetically based and some groups based on DNA analysis of gay brothers, therefore encouraged "reparative contributes to a growing pool of re therapy" to "cure" gay people of their "abnormal behavior." However, upon search that suggests some biological release of the LeVay brain study four link between genetics and sexual orien tation. The National Gay and Lesbian years ago.Rev. Lou Sheldon,an anti-gay activist with the Traditional Values Task Force (NGLTF) welcomes stud Coalition, insinuated that if homosexu ies into the complexities ofhuman sexu ality. Regardless of the scientific ori ality were proven to be biologically gins of homosexuality, however, based, he believed medicine and sci NGLTF calls for an end to discrimina ence should seek to genetically alter lesbian, gay and bisexual people. tion based on sexual orientation. Dean Hamer,a molecular biologist with "We know that the Right Wing will use the National Cancer Institute, reports any research results against lesbian, that the study found a hereditary predis gay and bisexual civil rights, because position to homosexuality in some men. theirs is not a movement based on seek Hamer suggested that the genetic mate ing the truth but on perpetuating big rial in one segment of the X chromo otry," Barrett said."Our movement,on some may increase the probability of the other hand, wants to end discrimi homosexuality in some men. nation against gay,lesbian and bisexual "The Hamer study is an important addi people,regardless of how or why sexual tion to the growing body of evidence orientations vary." 1 indicating a biological basis for homo For further information about the scien sexuality in some people," said Beth tific and ethical questions surrounding Barrett, NGLTF spokesperson."And it biological research,contact the National shows that homosexuality is anaturally Organization of Gay and Lesbian Sci occurring and common variation among entists and Technical Professionals, humans — a fact that gay, lesbian and (818) 791-7689. bisexual people have known all along." "Regardless of the origins of homo Walls of Silence sexuality, however, discrimination based on sexual orientation is always Denver,CO - In November the Denver wrong and must end,"Barrett said."This School Board heard arguments for and against plans to display an informa is especially true to avoid potential ge tional poster in the district's 10 high netic engineering if science should ever schools. The poster advises lesbian/ discover a gene responsible for homo gay and questioning youth that they sexuality." may contact the Gay, Lesbian and Bi "Studies of human sexuality are not sexual Community Services Center of conducted in political and social vacu Colorado. Students would be provided ums," Barrett noted,"The results must with additional assistance from school Page 6 • Dimensions "Dec.'95/Jan. '96 counselors. cus on the Family, said: "The poster's In most classrooms across the nation, intent is clear: It is meant to promote an informational vacuum deprives and same-sex romance among teens." degrades lesbian and gay youth. Text Both the district's director of student books either ignore or demean homo services, John Leslie, and superinten sexuality. Teachers seldom challenge dent, Irv Moskowitz seem supportive. homophobic harassment. Students are Moskowitz told parents he understood left to fears rather than facts, torment "the horrors" gay students often face in instead of tolerance. Testifying before silence. "We will be on guard," he told the Denver School Board, one parent parents of gay children, "You've cer described this climate as a "wall of tainly touched us." silence." Encourage Denver to take the first step However, according to the "Rocky toward educational equity and a cur Mountain News," several parents have riculum that is fair, accurate and di criticized the poster's message as "an verse. Write to: All Members, Denver intrusion on families," an assault on Board of Education, 900 Grant Street, the "true authority of parents," and "an Denver, CO 80203, tel. 303-764-3211, improper role for the district." fax 303-764-3216. Copy your corre The staunchest opposition has come spondence to: Letters to the Editor, from Focus on the Family, a "Rocky Mountain News,"400W. Colfax Colorado-based group of the Christian Avenue, Denver, CO 80204, fax Right. In a letter to school board mem 303-892-2568, send your e-mail to: bers, James Dobson, president of Fo letters® denver-rmn.com.

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With Amendment 2 in the hands of the em New Mexico town of Taos. The Supreme Court, the boycott of Colo following should give you some ideas rado is off (for the moment) and with for your winter getaway. winter coming on, you arc ready to hit the slopes. Whether it's skiing in Aspen TAOS or partying in Denver, you will want a gay friendly place to stay, and you'll Taos is a town of narrow streets, quiet want to know about local gay attrac courtyards and lots of adobe. In addi tions. Also included here is the North- tion to skiing at Angel Fire, Red River,

t i _ Dec.'95jJan.'96 • Dimeilsions • Page 15 Sipapu and Taos Ski Valley, the area Tiehack/Buttemiilk), to intermediate also offers many other attractions. These (Aspen Highlands and Snowmass), to include the Taos Pueblo, Rancho de expert at Aspen mountain. Aspen is full Taos and countless art galleries. of hotel, but there are two standouts for Taos offers the Ruby Slipper the gay traveler. Hotel Aspen (505-758-0613), a lesbian owned bed (800-527-7369),a gay-friendly hotel in & breakfast with seven rooms. All rooms the heart of Aspen. Rates range from include private baths and private en $69-$295 per night during winter. The trances and some rooms have their own hotel offers some rooms with private fireplaces. They offer a full breakfast Jacuzzis, a heated pool and great views. from December through March and an The Aspen Bed & Breakfast Lodge expanded continental breakfast through (800-36-ASPEN)is a bed and breakfast out the rest of the year. Rates are from with private baths and a large gay & $75-$95 per night for two ($85-$ 105 lesbian clientele. during the Christmas holidays). Aspen doesn't have any gay bars, how ever it is a fairly open community and you will be welcome most anywhere. ASPEN The Aspen Gay and Lesbian commu The Aspen community is very nity recommends The Tippler on Tues gay-friendly and boasts an day and Thursday nights and Club Soda anti-discrimination ordinance that in on Friday and Saturdays. cludes "sexual orientation." Aspen as a If you would like more info on gay Aspen, you can find their on-line site at whole voted resoundingly against http://www.aspenonline.\aspengay or Amendment 2 and welcomes all gay travelers with open arms. The Aspen call the Gay and Lesbian Community at Gay and Lesbian Community Organi the number above. zation (970-925-9249) hosts Gay Ski Week during the first week of February COLORADO SPRINGS every year. This year's Gay Ski Week will be held January 27th-Feb 3rd. The Yes,Colorado Springs does have a very week includes skiing (obviously), par high concentration of religious right ties and lots of other activities. Pack organizations and an anti-gay reputa ages for Gay Ski Week are available by tion, but this is still a tourist town which calling Aspen Reservations at welcomes all kinds. It has a strong gay 800-872-7547. You'11 need to call early community that has become stronger as accommodations in Aspen are hard since the passage of Amendment 2. As one bar owner told me, we don t really to get. There are four ski resorts within easy have the 'bashers' here. What we have reach of Aspen and skiers can get are the 'love your neighbor' types who multiday tickets to all four mountains. won't assault you physically. Just don t The slopes here go from beginner (at listen to their radio shows."

Page 16 • Dimensions "Dec.'95/Jan. '96 Attractions around Colorado Springs with easy access to the slopes and the include the usual outdoor activities as owner of The Great Escape well as Pike's Peak and The Garden of (303-349-1201) bed & breakfast tells the Gods (home of the Red Rocks me the town itself is gay friendly and Amphitheater). Cripple Creek with it's welcoming of everyone. The Great Es mining town atmosphere and low stakes cape offers winter rates of$55-$95 in a gambling is about 40 miles away. beautiful Victorian home. As for places to stay, The Hearthstone Inn(719-473-4413) is a lesbian owned, non-smoking bed & breakfast featuring DENVER 23 rooms (some with working fire A cosmopolitan city with a western places), a full gourmet breakfast and feel, Denver offers lots of gay places to rates ranging from $78-$ 140 per night. stay and gay things to see and do. The The Pikes Peak Paradise Inn Mile High Bed & Breakfast (800-354-0989)is a gay owned bed and (800-513-7827) is 6 blocks from the breakfast about 20 minutes from Colo gay bars and offers great rates of$39-$49 rado Springs with a view of(you guessed continued on page 22 it) Pikes Peak. Rates range from $85-$ 150 per night with a $15 discount if you mention you are gay or lesbian. The Inn is a replica of a Southern Man sion and offers a full breakfast(break fast in bed is available) and even wel GET AWAY TO SAN ANTONIO comes your toy breed dogs or declawed cats if you make prior arrangements. The Painted Lady As for bars, you can visit the Hide & Seek Complex, a 24 year-old gay and lesbian gathering place featuring four different bars with different music and atmospheres and a restaurant under one roof (719-634-9303). If you are look ing for women only, try True Colors (719-637-0773). Visit one of the four most charming cities in the country. For more information about Colorado And stay at one of the most elegant Springs' gay community and events, gay guesthouses in Texas." call the Lesbian & Gay Community Walking distance to The River Walk Center at (719)471-4429. and clubs • Breakfast basket • VCRs • Over 200 movies • Phones with private lines/answering machines • Microwaves • Refrigerators • Coffee makers CRESTED BUTTE Call for reservations or more information. Crested Butte is an old mining town 210-220-1092

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Dec.'95/Jan. '96 • Dimensions • Page 19 Whata Woru), What A Worth TRACKING HOLIDAY TRADITIONS BY Nancy Ford Once again, like a straight woman with and me,) rich and poor alike shaped something to prove, the holidays are mistletoe sprigs into boughs and fes right on top of us. tively draped the garlands throughout Time to haul out the holly, string up the their homes. Natalis Soils Invicti and ^ popcorn and, if necessary, start invent Saturnalia(honoring Saturn, the god of ing clever retorts as to why a lovely girl agriculture,) were celebrated annually like you hasn't found herself a husband on the 25th of December as far back as yet. But before you take advantage of 753 BC. That's Before Christ. Get it? that mistletoe dangling over your holi December 25 didn't officially become day pucker portal, you might want to Christmas until more than three centu take a look at this parasitic plant's fam ries after the recorded birth of Christ, ily tree. when the holiday was changed by those According to Charles Panati's Extraor always-alert Christians also interested dinary Origins of Everyday Things, in enjoying an automatic week's vaca mistletoe was a plant of hope,peace and tion at the end of the year. harmony for second-century Druids. As time passed, it became tradition for They derived its namefrom mista,mean pagan guests to embrace their pagan ing"dung," since the evergreen is propa hosts under the mistletoe. (Hi! Merry gated by seeds in birds' excrement. No Natalis Soils Invicti! Come on in! You shit! didn't park behind Stonehenge,did you? The Druids celebrated the advent of They tow.")Twigs of mistletoe outside Winter by burning mistletoe as a sacri a house welcomed weary travelers, not fice to their gods. Evidently, zoning unlike an all-natural neon VACANCY restrictions regarding open fires weren't sign. The plant became so famous as a a problem in Druidania. Sprigs of the symbol of goodwill that enemies who plant were also hung in their homes to met under a mistletoe-laden tree were ensure a year's good fortune and famil required to call a temporary truce, dis ial peace. I'm thinking the Menendez arm themselves and give peace a chance. family could have used a little more All this nearly two thousand years e greenery around their house, and a few fore John met Yoko. Guess it's hard for less ski sweaters. a persons lips to yell "Charge!" when During the pagan Roman festival of they're busy kissing. I'm thinking that Natalis Soils Invicti, the birthday of hanging a little mistletoe around Bosnia Mithras,{the Invincible Sun God to you couldn't hurt.

Page 20 • Dimensions "Dec.'95/Jan, '96 Around the fourth century, the Church first of each year "to return all bor forbade the use of Mistletoe in any rowed farming tools and household form, in attempts to squelch its idola utensils and to pay off outstanding trous associations to the pagan Druids. debts." "We'll have none of that love stuff in Well, bully for them. Keep in mind that our church," we can almost hear these this balancing-of-accounts tradition pre-Inquisitioners insist. As a substi began many, many centuries prior to tute, the Church suggested holly. The the tradition of unbridled holiday credit sharply pointed leaves were to symbol card abuse. Keep in mind,too, that if all ize the thorns in Christ's crown and the of us suddenly paid off all of our out red berries drops of his blood, and thus, standing debts, thousand of phone col became a Nativity tradition. Yep — lectors all over the globe would be blood and thorns — now that's cheery. thrown into the chasm of unemploy For Scandinavians, mistletoe belonged ment.To prevent world-wide economic to Frigga, goddess of love. The custom collapse, I suggest that this is one reso of kissing underthe mistletoe is thought lution that begs to be broken. to be rooted in this romantie associa Regardless of whose traditions you tion. Powerful little plant. Leave it to choose to employ — ancient or un the Scandinavians. One wonders if per tested, pagan or Christian — may your haps those ancient elves might not have holiday season be filled with light and been drying and smoking a little love,and may the New Year bring each pre-Amsterdamian 'toe themselves. of you all the joy you desire. In other Now when your overly-eggnogged boss words, make the Yuletide gay. pulls you under the mistletoe during ® your office party and slobbers, "How about a little Christmas kiss?" Feel free Nancy Ford is a Houston-based come to reply,"No friggin' way man," then dian and frequent contributor to the call your attorney. gay and lesbian press. She accepts gra With or without benefit of mistletoe, tuities. the ancient Babylonians are the folks responsible for the tradition of making Fl Taos Quest iHouse New Year's resolu Romantic Setting tions. Rather than Fireplaces • Hot Tub longing for release Fabulous Breakfast Personalized Attention from theircollective weight problem or WINTER SPECIAL UP TO 50% OFF nicotine addiction, (with restrictions) these upstanding 505-758-0613 ancestors of ours made it a point at the YOU DON'T NEED TO SKI TO LOVE TAOS!

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This month, we'll take a look at several themselves still together in their home books for your holiday reading. All are and with two young lesbians moving available through your local women's into their space. bookstore or by mail. For info on order Tliis is a fun book although the ending ing by mail, call Inklings Bookshop leaves you wanting more. (Houston) at (800) 931-3369 or (713) 521-3369. Faint Praise: a Jane Lawless Mystery by Elien Hart Miss Pettibone and Miss McGrow Seal Press, Hardback, $20.95 by Brenda Weathers When a well-known television person Naiad Press,Inc., paperback,$ 10.95 ality meets with an untimely demise, a When a young lesbian couple,Tess and sinister series of events begins to un Ellie, open a bed and breakfast, they fold. The action starts at Minneapolis' discover that the house is already in famed Foshay Tower, but quickly habited by a pair of closeted lovers spreads to entangle the Twin Cities in a from another generation. Miss Gillian web of deceit and fear. Pettibone and Miss Anna McGraw were Jane Lawless, and her irreverent side lovers when touring with an all-girl kick, Cordelia Thorn take on the resi use band during World War II. Their dents of Linden Lofts, each of whom affair was discovered and they were has suspicions connections to the de shipped home,disgraced and disowned ceased. by all who knew them. Faint Praise is a witty and fast-paced Now they are dead and surprised to find book. I highly recommend it. Dec.'95/Jon. '96 • Dimensions • Page 23 and for all. The First Time Ever This is a great thriller. It makes all those Love Stories by Naiad Press Authors revenge fantasies you've ever had pale Naiad Press,Inc., paperback, $ 14.95 From babydyke crushes to blistering in comparison. passion, every lesbian remembers the Found Wanting: moment of revelation when she was Women, Christianity & Sexuality first awakened by another woman's touch. This collection includes stories by Alison R. Webster from Claire McNab, Penny Hayes, Cassell Books, paperback Diane Salvatore, Karin Kallmaker and A serious lesbian/feminist critique of Dorothy Tell. Christian teachings about sexuality. If you like short stories, you'll like this. Found Wanting is an interesting read. A much better book than either The The book focuses mainly on how the Erotic Naiad or The Romantic Naiad Church has idolized a particular hetero story collections. sexual ideal which ignores the experi ence, desires and needs of women. Joining the Tribe: Alison R. Webster is a graduate in The Growing Up Gay & Lesbian in the '90s ology and Religious Studies and knows the Church from the inside-out. A very by Linnea Due interesting book. Anchor Books, paperback, $12.95 This is a truly moving book which tells the tale of gay and lesbian teenagers all over the U.S. From the closeted culture of a Midwestern women's college to the gay teen culture on the west coast, these are the stories of what it is really Books, music and more like to be a lesbian or gay teenager in for the lesbian, gay and this country. feminist communities. Recommended for parents of gay teens, counselors or anyone who has a curious mind.

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Quiet Moments Only during rare qiuet moments, I close my eyes and sit alone. As warm summer breezes gently brush my face, memories of you cross my mind. In my mind, I see your smile. I hear your laughter. In my heart, I feel fragments of the love We once had for each other. Love you now deny. I endlessly wonder How what I thought was love. Ended so bitterly. Your carelessness towards my needs. My anger towards your carelessness. Our time together was so short. I didn't realize, that a person could pass so quickly Through another person's life. As you passed through mine. The emotional whirlwind left behind Engulfs me to this day. As the gentle breezes embrace my face, I remember quiet peaceful times Of sharing each other's lives and loving each other. I miss you. I love you. You have closed me Out of your life forever. The silence left by the void Of not having you in my life. Makes me realize That you are really gone. Sandra A. Meros San Antonio, TX

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w ■- Pb% ::i"^ Ir^) m ik"%: Webster's defines greed as "wanting 2. For Christmas, you expect: more than one needs or deserves" or a. the love of your family and friends "having too strong a desire for food and and not much more. drink; gluttonous." This is the time of b. gifts that are about equal to what you year when both definitions are defi give. nitely at the forefront. Are you greedy? c. lots of expensive gifts from every Answer the following questions to find one.

out. 3. When it comes to food dur 1. During the holidays you: ing the holidays, you: a. buy lots of expensive gifts for every a. don't eat or drink any more than at

one. other times of the year. b. try to be frugal without being stingy b. eat and drink more than usual, but try with time or money. to control it. c. buy the smallest gifts you can get c. overeat and drink too much and pay away with giving. for it later.

Page 26 • Dimensions •Dec. '95/Jan. '96 4. You expect to get your way: learn to ask for what you want every a. sometimes. once in awhile. b. about half of the time. c. all the time. 41-56 points You strike a happy balance. Although 5. When you don't get your you give generously to those whom you way, you: love, you also expect them to give in a. get on with life. retum. You are good a compromise and b. try to compromise without giving in understanding when situations arise that too often. prevent you from getting what you want. c. pout and throw a fit. 57-72 points 6. When there is only one piece Greed is your middle name. You want of your favorite cake left and everything for yourself and get upset someone else wants it, you: when you don't get exactly what you a. let them have it. want. You need to learn the fine art of b. offer to share it. compromise. Giving is a two-way street. c. hide it so you can have the whole If you always take and never give,even thing for yourself. tually people will stop giving you any thing. qp Scoring Give yourself points as follows: 4 points for each "A" answer. 8 points for each "B"answer. 12 points for each "C" answer.

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Dec. '95/Jan. '96 • Dimensions • Page 27 Horosscope What's in the stars for you this month?

ARIES CAATCER DECEMBER: Pay attention to your DECEMBER: Your routine at work own needs before you tend to everyone could be dragging you down.Be sure to else's or you'll finish out the year feel get out and enjoy holiday preparations ing cranky and exhausted. Be sure to and the social activities of the season. make plans well ahead of time to avoid This will help relieve the stress you've last minute mixups.JANUARY: News been feeling on the job. JANUARY: or gossip you hear may not be reliable. The recognition you've been seeking at Keep in touch with those who can keep work comes your way and makes you the story straight. Money and personal feel great — but, don't spend your problems that have been plaguing you money before you get it! lately take a turn for the better. LEO TAURUS DECEMBER: You may feel torn be DECEMBER:A friend may need your tween obligations and fun. Everyone support, but don't get so involved that seems to want a piece of you right now. you make her problems yours. Try to Don't feel put upon, enjoy the lime wrap up holiday preparations by the light. Be careful with a new romance— 14th since your energy levels won't be it may not be all that you expected. nearly as high for the remainder of the JANUARY:Holiday spending has put month. JANUARY: Your ambitions you in a bind and you might have to cut haven't diminished, they may just be back on expenses and travel plans this headed in the wrong direction. Reas month. Focus on home and family sess your financial and career goals to matters. get you back on track. VIRGO GrEMII$l DECEMBER: An old love may resur DECEMBER: You may have a ten face, but don't be fooled. You have dency to make play too much like work grown while she remains rooted to the during this holiday season. Even if you past. Put your emotional ties to her are feeling swamped,give yourselftime behind you and move on with your life. to relax and enjoy the season. JANU JANUARY: It's a good idea to avoid ARY: All the extra effort you've put either borrowing or lending money this into your job could start to pay off. month. A change of direction could be Keep social activities to a minimum, in the works—be flexible but sensible. family interests should come first right now. LIBRA DECEMBER: An unusually heavy workload in addition to all the holiday

Page 28• Dimensions •Dec.'95/Jan. '96 activities can keep you really busy. A AQUARIUIS sense of humor will help you get DECEMBER: You could get so in through. Watch your finances carefully volved in other people's needs that you as you may run into problems after the forget your own.Friends and family are 14th. JANUARY: Money matters get especially demanding right now, but back on track early this month. Turn on you must remember that you can't be the charm and you can attract love and all things to all people. JANUARY: good fortune. Enjoy social events. Don't be so anxious to make a break in a current relationship. You may regret SCORPIO it later on. You could be torn between DECEMBER: Avoid eavesdropping work and pleasure.If you handle it right and prying — you may hear something you could find yourself with a raise or you don't want to hear. Don't lend promotion. money or valuables to a friend, pay back could be a problem. Your serious mood lifts Just in time for Christmas PISCES festivities - enjoy! JANUARY: Don't DECEMBER: Don't encourage an base all your plans on one financial acquaintance who's been flirting with deal. Spread yourself out for protection you. Be nice, but don't give in — both and security. Pay attention to details, of you could end up being embarrassed. both on the job and at home. Be careful with your money since your gift list may grow at the last minute. SAGrTTARIUS JANUARY: You may not see eye to DECEMBER: You may have been so eye with a higher-up on the job. A wrapped in work and home affairs that compromise is possible if you set your you haven't had time to socialize. Get mind to it. Romance may pop up where out now and take advantage of all the you least expect it. social activities surrounding the holi days. JANUARY: Turn on the charm and you might just attract Ms. Wonder- full An optimistic mood colors the whole month and brings you good luck at work.

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