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20TH ANNUAL DAY MAY 22!

RETIREMENT QUESTIONS IN THIS ISSUE: The answers are “Richmond,” “no definite plans yet,” and “I hope not.” For the past President’s Message p 3 year and a half I have kept an informal, mental scorecard of the questions people Executive Director p 4 have asked me about my upcoming retire- Generations Campaign p 5 ment. These are the answers to what have CBA Community p 7 been, by far, the most frequently asked Mitzvah Day p 9 Martin P. Beifield, Jr. questions. Sophia and Nathan Gumenick Senior Rabbi B’nei Mitzvah p 10 “Where are you going to live after you CBA Community p 12 retire?” We have grown very fond of Richmond these past eighteen years. We have Religious School p 14 accepted that we will never be “Richmonders” in the classical sense of the word – born Sisterhood & Brotherhood p 17 and raised, but in this way we are typical of how Richmond has changed and continues Donations p 18 to change. As adults we have lived here longer than any other place. In a few years it will be the longest we have lived in any one place for our entire lives. It’s comfortable. Museum & Archives p 21 It’s pretty. The weather is wonderful, especially compared to Buffalo where Ina grew up. Community Calendar p 23 There are lots of interesting things to do. But most important it is filled with wonderful people many of whom we are privileged to call friends. It is, simply, home and we

Retirement Questions...Continues on Page 2 2 Retirement Questions...Continued from page 1 everybody. We hope and expect to find ing for the Holy Days this year when the retirement that works best for us. we will spend them with our family in are not thinking of leaving home. It is a phase of life both of us are Philadelphia. We want to give you and That our son, Adam, lives here, is an looking forward to. I know a few Rabbi Nagel a chance to get to know added bonus of incalculable value. things. I do not plan on getting each other.

another job. Ina and I do plan to “What are you going to do when you spend more time in visiting We want to give Rabbi Nagel an retire?” This question has often been our grandchildren. We will do things, opportunity to establish himself as accompanied by advice. I’ve been some together and some singly, we your new rabbi, and as the senior advised to get another job because haven’t been able to do for forty years. rabbi of our distinguished congrega- men are used to getting up and going And eventually we’ll see all of you, tion. I know it will not be the same for out every day. I’ve been told that a too. you. It won’t be the same for Ina and busy, structured day is essential to me, either. I’m confident that we’ll all my well-being. I’ve been told that “Rabbi, is this your last High Holy adjust and be happy with what comes unless I keep busy I will get in Ina’s Days? or Chanukah? or Shabbat din- next. You will get used to and come to way since she is used to me being ner? or”…you get the idea. Well, I appreciate and respect a new voice, out all the time. I’ve also been told to surely hope not! I plan to have many, a new face, new ideas, new opinions, pick up new hobbies, relax and watch many more holidays, Shabbats, etc. It and new directions. And I will get television, sit around the house and is correct, though, that I won’t have used to sitting in the pews, watching read, putter in the garden, and travel any more of them as a working rabbi, and listening as you do. Beth Ahabah around the world. The advice may as the senior rabbi of Beth Ahabah. will continue to be our , be contradictory but it has all been And this is my last rabbi’s message and we look forward to seeing it flour- well-intentioned. What I’ve learned is for B’Yachad. Ina and I will be scarce ish under new leadership. that people are different and no one for a while around the Temple, includ- approach to retirement works for

Congratulations to Beth Ahabah!

Beth Ahabah was one of eleven Richmond-area Jewish organizations chosen to participate in the Harold Grinspoon Foundation’s “Life and Legacy” program, managed locally by the Richmond Jewish Foundation.

The program, which will begin this summer, provides training and marketing support to build legacy giving and strengthen our endowment. Watch for more information, coming this summer.

REMEMBER CONGREGATION BETH AHABAH IN YOUR ESTATE PLANNING

If Congregation Beth Ahabah makes a difference in your life, we graciously ask that you think of Beth Ahabah when deciding your estate plans. A bequest or legacy in your will is a wonderful way to express your appreciation to the temple.

Thank you for thinking of Congregation Beth Ahabah. To discuss your plans, please contact Executive Director, Russell M. Finer, at 804.358.6757 ext. 302 or [email protected]. 3

WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CHANGE AND TRANSITION? by Katie Roeper, President the transition planning will involve as office hours through the beginning of many congregants as possible, the core June. Services during the latter part of What’s the difference between change Transition Team is being led by Robert June will be lay-led. We are also plan- and transition? Change suggests that Freed, with the support of Katy Yoffy, ning a number of events to honor Rabbi something is different—the state of Julie Mullian, Beth Rosenthal, Brian Beifield and Rabbi Gallop. being that exchanges one entity for Meyer, Chuck Rothenberg, Cullen another. Transition is the process by Seltzer, Heather LaMont and Erin Sunday afternoon, May 15th which we move from “A” to “B.” It Calloway. Farewell Family Cook-out/Picnic in manifests as an evolutionary devel- honor of Rabbi Beifield and Rabbi opment; progression; advancement. Additionally, clergy, professional, Gallop Change is the difference between the and lay leadership want to be as 12:00 noon, immediately following origin and the destination; Transition is comprehensive as possible in our Religious School in the Beth Ahabah the journey. transition planning. In order to Breezeway prepare, Beth Ahabah invited Rabbi (Thank you to the Brotherhood for Both are of equal importance and to Samuel Joseph to Richmond to facilitate hosting this event.) be successful, both are not without a Transition Retreat for congregational thought. The changes occurring at Beth leadership. On March 13th, members of Friday night, May 27th Ahabah have been prompted by months the Board, Trustees and Past Presidents Shabbat Service and Special Oneg in and in some cases, years of thought joined the Transition Team for a day honor of Rabbi Gallop and discussion. But the “return on of learning. Rabbi Joseph, a renowned Special Presentation by Family investment” is dependent not only on expert in Synagogue transition and Connection the decisions made around the change professor of at the but also on the strategic plan for transi- Hebrew Union College in Cincinnati, Friday night, June 3rd tion. There is great value in identifying shared insights with leadership about Shabbat Service and Special Oneg in and acknowledging these changes, challenges some congregations face honor of Rabbi Beifield understanding their impact, and when changing clergy and the impor- Service to include the music of three exploring our transition plans. I’d like tance of planning. Studies show that cantors and our adult choir as well as to begin, with this article, to focus on successful Rabbinic transitions depend reflections by three visiting our change in Rabbis and the related on careful planning and intentional transition. support. The Retreat offered leader- Saturday evening, June 4th ship the opportunity to discuss roles Cocktail reception in honor of Rabbi Change: Rabbi Beifield will retire and and responsibilities, communication, Beifield Rabbi Nagel will begin serving as the culture change, and the idea of success- 5:00 – 7:00 pm at the Dominion Club. next Sophia and Nathan Gumenick ful change management. (There will be a charge of $25 per per- Senior Rabbi. son to attend this event. Many thanks Communication is key to ensure that to Babs Jackson, Linda Ferguson, and Change: Rabbi Gallop has accepted a each of us, as congregants, knows how Katy Yoffy for chairing Rabbi Beifield’s position as the Senior Rabbi at Temple to engage in and support the transi- Retirement Weekend Celebration.) Beth El in Monroe, N.Y. In the com- tion process. To that end, the following ing year, Beth Ahabah will be led by a information may be helpful to better The Transition Team is coordinating single clergy. understand what is planned over the opportunities for Rabbi Nagel to meet coming months. Additionally, we are with Beth Ahabah committees and con- Transition: A Transition Team of lay developing an FAQ (frequently asked gregational groups. There will also be leadership is in place to ensure that we questions) document that will be lots of social opportunities for congre- are thoughtful as we say good-bye to posted on our website in the “News” gants to get to know Rabbi Scott Nagel, both of our beloved Rabbis, leaving in section, under the “Rabbi Search.” his wife, Rabbi Randi Nagel, and their June, and as we welcome Rabbi Nagel three wonderful boys, Daniel, Lev, and his family into our congregational Both Rabbi Beifield and Rabbi Gallop What’s the difference...Continues on Page 20 community, beginning in July. While will lead services and have regular 4 A MESSAGE FROM THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR... help keep our synagogue operations charges by cash, check, bank debit, run smoothly. As you are well aware, or credit card. Your support and expenses come along regularly— generosity is greatly appreciated. payroll, utilities, insurance premiums, school supplies, office supplies, and To the many of you who have paid facility maintenance. your accounts in full, we say “thank you” for doing so and remind you that Russell M. Finer, FSA Why I am stating the obvious? Well, I this is a great time for you, if you are Executive Director am making an appeal for your timely financially able to do so, to consider payment of your congregational making an additional contribution to Please remember that the obligations. Please review your most Beth Ahabah. congregation’s fiscal year ends on recent statement and at least make May 31, 2016. a payment for the items marked I offer all of you and your entire “currently due.” Your commitments families a wish that the new fiscal Among my responsibilities (as and contributions are our largest year will be a year of fulfillment, good outlined in my last column) is the sources of income. You are welcome health, and happiness. monitoring of income and expense to to make payments for operational Russell M. Finer, FSA

“WE ARE SHOMRIM – has charge of all arrangements A NOTE FROM THE GUARDIANS OF THE DEAD” pertaining to burials in the TRANSITION COMMITTEE... congregational cemetery. Dear Congregants, In an effort to assist congregants and their families, funeral pre-planning is As Katie Roeper informed you in offered. As has been said before, the her recent letter, the Transition time of bereavement is not the time Committee has begun planning to to make many of the decisions which give every congregant at least one survivors must face. Preparation of opportunity to meet Rabbi Nagel a will is usually the first step to help and his family in a small-group relieve anxiety and anguish. Advance setting. Rabbi Nagel is interested purchase of cemetery plots is another in meeting as many members as important step. possible to establish relationships, learn about you and your family, and The Hebrew Cemetery Company has There are many other ways to pre- listen to suggestions about how he charge of the cemetery, including its plan and you are encouraged to call can best serve his new congregation. care and maintenance, sale of lots me here at the synagogue to request To accomplish these goals, we are and plots, and all general interment a copy of a guide to a few key items planning different events for different matters, subject to the approval of its which will help your survivors make groups of our members, in different Board of Directors. It adopts rules the necessary arrangements. If you locations. and regulations which are binding decide that you would like to have on members of the congregation one of these forms, I encourage you To reach our goals, we need your and their family. It may amend its to complete it and keep it in a well help. rules and regulations which become identified location. effective upon approval of the Board. First, we need you to sign up for Russell M. Finer, BethAhabahConnect, complete the The committee, appointed by the Executive Ditrector information requested and, President of the Congregation, also A Note from the Transition Committee...Continues on Page 5 5

A Note from the Transition Committee...Continued from Page 4 most importantly, upload a picture of yourself. This information will help us identify congregants with common interests and identify the demographics of the congregation 1 MONEY to plan events around the city. Your photo will aid Rabbi Nagel in learning RAISE ENOUGH MONEY TO our names. BethAhabahConnect ASSURE WE CAN BUILD OUR NEW BUILDING also has uses beyond the transition. Your joining and contributing your information is the first step in our DRAWINGS HVAC ability to learn your interests. We 2 will use this information to plan for SALO TO FAST TRACK CREATE THE HEATING those interests, to talk with various FLOORPLAN AND AIR TO BE AND READY FOR 2016 members, and to enhance and ELEVATIONS HIGH HOLY DAYS. encourage communication within our sacred community in a meaningful 3 GET APPROVALS way. YES NO ARCHITECTURAL REVIEW COMMITTEE YES NO BETH AHABAH BOARD Second, we need you to host an YES NO GENERATIONS COMMITTEE YES NO CAR: COMMISSION OF ARCHITECTURAL REVIEW event in your home or in a facility in YES NO FAN DISTRICT ASSOCIATION the complex in which you live. The YES NO WEST AVENUE ASSOCIATION different events we are considering ONCE APPROVED include lunches, wine and cheese 4 gatherings, cookouts/BBQs, possibly COST ESTIMATES including a Havdalah service if the BATHROOM FIXTURES, FLOORING MATERIALS, INTERIOR COLORS, event is held on a Saturday in the WOOD FLOOR OR STONE...? late afternoon. If you are willing to IT ALL HAS TO FIT THE BUDGET host an event, please email me at [email protected] or call me at 5 804.330.5528, extension 223. If you CONTRACT call and get my voicemail, please DO CONSTRUCTION DRAWINGS THEN HIRE leave your contact information and CONTRACTOR the best time to contact you.

The congregation was totally 6 involved and invaluable in helping BUILD the search committee choose Rabbi DEPENDING ON WHEN APPROVALS ARE COMPLETED, Nagel and helping Rabbi Nagel AND TIME OF YEAR, CONSTRUCTION SHOULD choose us. Now we need your help TAKE ABOUT 6 TO 8 MONTHS to make his integration into our Beth Ahabah community complete and successful. So please sign up We are making great progress with the Generations Campaign thanks to many generous for BethAhabahConnect, volunteer congregants! While we finish the fundraising we have already begun to work with the to host an event, and attend at least architect, Salo Levinas, to create floorplans and elevations. We are also working on parallel one event to avail yourself of the tracks to upgrade the HVAC in time for High Holy Days and begin to have conversations with opportunity to meet our new rabbi. some of the approval groups. We hope to have plans to show the congregation at the Annual Meeting on May 13th. Thank you to everyone who has made a donation. And to those with We thank you for your help. your pledge card still sitting on your desk, we need your help to reach the finish line. It will Robert Freed & take each and every one of us to make our dream real. Let’s do it together! The Transition Committee 6

VOTE MAY 13

Dear Congregants: Congregation Beth Ahabah

At the request of Katie Roeper, President of Congregation Beth Ahabah, the Leadership Development Committee has met and developed a slate of nominees for our Officers, Board of Managers and Trustees for the 2016-17 year. We are pleased to submit these names to you for consideration at our Annual Meeting on Friday, May 13, 2016.

For a 1 year term ending in 2017: President: Katie Roeper First Vice President: Larry Salzman Second Vice President: Charley Scher Treasurer: Lee Katz The Confirmation Class of 2016

For a 2 year term ending in 2018: requests the honor of your presence Board of Managers: at their Confirmation Service Lisa Kaplan (2nd term) Larry Salomon (2nd term) on Friday evening, the 20th of May Jim Weinberg (2nd term) Judy Malloy (2nd term) Daniel Beal Julie Mullian (1st term) Robert Boswell For a 4 year term ending in 2020: Eric Brenner Trustees: Jimmy Yoffy Dylan Conley As our bylaws state, nominations for the various officers Matthew Cook and Board of Managers may also be made by written peti- tion of at least 75 members in good standing, accompanied Jack Godin by a written statement from the candidate so nominated of Alexander Jacobs his or her willingness to serve in that position. Petitions Mackenna Kerwood must be received at the Temple office thirty days prior to the Annual Meeting. Madison McCabe Emily Mendelson I would like to thank Lisa Kaplan, Martin Miller, Brian Meyer, Adam Strauchler, Charley Scher and Dan Neuwirth Megan Miller for serving on the Leadership Development Committee. Ana Mullian

Respectfully submitted, Lyndsay Nelson Owen Scher Chuck Rothenberg, Chairman 2015-2016 Leadership Development Committee [email protected] 7:30 PM Service Oneg Shabbat Immediately Following 7

CBA MEMBERS IN THE monwealth. Jim recently received the JEWISH IDENTITY AND NEWS: Extra Mile Award by the National THE JEWISH FUTURE Community Action Foundation in Herbert Heltzer Washington, D.C. The national award By Rabbi Martin P. Beifield, Jr. Congratulations to Herb Heltzer, who is presented to the individual who was named 2015 Richmond Times is consistently first to answer the One might have thought that Dispatch (RTD) Correspondant of the call and help the Community Action America’s first Jewish presidential Year at the RTD’s annual Correspon- Network achieve its legislative and candidate would inspire lots of dant of the Year celebration in March. political objectives. commentary about his involvement Herb’s letter, originally published on in Jewish life, but there’s barely been September 16, was selected for the Jim has served on the Temple’s Board a peep. Maybe it is because Bernie honor from a group of 10 finalists. of Managers and was the executive Sanders, unlike most of the other director of the Beth Ahabah Museum candidates, rarely talks about religion In his letter, Herb argued that & Archives for two years. or God. Maybe it is because he doesn’t September 17—Constitution Day, fit neatly into the image of what most the date in 1787 the document was people think of when they think signed—deserves as much renown as CBA COMMUNITY about . the 4th of July, and identifies James Madison as the essential force leading Early in the campaign Diane Rehm, to that date. a talk show host on NPR, bizarrely asked Sanders about his Israeli He wrote: “From all we know of citizenship. I don’t want to speculate James Madison, he would not be where that might have come from. much distressed that his country’s Constitution is not commemorated During a town hall meeting in New with hot dogs and beer. He would Hampshire this winter, Sanders was be troubled, however, were he to asked about his spirituality. I thought his response was interesting: “So my discover that his countrymen failed IN SYMPATHY TO THE FAMILIES spirituality is that we are all in this to remember the purpose of the OF…. together and that when children go Constitution— to preserve the ideals Helen Wren hungry, when veterans sleep out on of the Republic and advance ‘liberty mother of Matt (Linda) Wren the street, it impacts me. That’s my of conscience,’ which he believed to Howard Greenspan very strong spiritual feelings.” When be the birthright of all its citizens.” father of Susan (Neil) Cohen the subject of religion usually arises, Harvey Urbach Sanders doesn’t shy away from being An avid student of American history brother of John Urbach (Cheryl Jewish but he usually makes clear in general and American Jewish Krueger) that his Jewish identity is connected history in particular, Herb is an Nathan Weiss to his New York, secular Jewish, avid supporter of the Beth Ahabah father of Joshua ( Randi) Weiss and socialist background. In New Museum & Archives, having served Harry L. Cohn Hampshire, rather than repeating his on the Board of Trustees for many father of Wendy (David) Miller typical response and owning his non- years and authored numerous articles brother-in-law of Dina Boettcher spiritual Jewish identity, he expressed for its Generations publications. A. Robert Marks a significant sense of spirituality, husband of Helen Marks and one with no clear connection to Sue Goldstein . Personally I think he was James Schuyler mother of Ira (Maureen) Goldstein trying to appeal to “religious” voters. Kudos to Jim Schuyler, the execu- Elizabeth Ranly I was disappointed but not surprised tive director of Virginia Community daughter of Don Ranly (Barbara that he didn’t own his secularism. Action Partnership, an organization Boyan) of 31 private nonprofit and public anti-poverty agencies in the com- Jewish Identity...Continues on Page 8 8

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More recently Anderson Cooper asked Sanders about Call for Entries his Jewish identity and this time Sanders gave a totally congregation beth ahabah different kind of answer. Nothing about spirituality this time. Saying he was proud to be Jewish (no surprise there) he went on to explain that was “an essential part of who I am.” This prompted a fascinating response from Charles Krauthammer, the nationally Photo Contest syndicated commentator, which I encourage you to read in its entirety. Here is the link: https://www. washingtonpost.com/opinions/the-holocaust-and-the- jewish-identity/2016/03/10/0cfe842c-e702-11e5-b0fd- 073d5930a7b7_story.html “My Jewish Connection” Grab your camera and capture an image that Krauthammer’s op-ed piece is an insightful observation depicts your Jewish connection. about American Jewish identity, not just about Sanders’ Prizes will be awarded! identity. He explains three ways American Jews tend to identify. One is through religious practice. He cites Get creative, and most of all, have some fun. The contest is open to all ages. (Ideas, just to name former Senator, and Orthodox , Joseph Lieberman a few: lighting the candles at home; as an example. I don’t know if Krauthammer thinks baking challah together; family shabbat dinner; that only Orthodox Jews fall into this category – he’d be outings with Temple classmates; volunteering at wrong about that – but he’s right about the “type.” Beth Ahabah.)

Another form of Jewish identity is through involvement The top three images selected in each division in social action, what Krauthammer calls Tikkun, or as (under 18, and over 18), will be published on the most Jews say it Tikkun Olam. By the way this seems to Congregation Beth Ahabah website, social media be where Sanders belongs though he didn’t own up to and in the newsletter. Submit your best image of that in the interview with Anderson Cooper. what your Jewish connection means to you.

The third way, and the way Sanders identified, is Photos taken from May 1, 2015 to April through the Holocaust. Jews in this category refer to 30, 2016 will be accepted. the Holocaust and the victimization of the Jews as the Enter the contest by going to: primary component of their identification with Judaism https://bethahabah.org/photo-contest-submission/ and the Jewish people. to upload your best photo!

Without trying to diminish the importance of the Holocaust in Jewish and world history, Krauthammer Details: There are two divisions: asserts, correctly I believe, that this third form of Jewish under 18 years of age, and over 18 years of age. identity is a weak foundation on which to base Jewish identity and the Jewish future. Prizes will be gift cards $50 for first, $25 for 2nd and $10 for 3rd in each division, or a bookplate We need to be knowledgeable about the past. We need to recognizing you or a loved one in the High Holy know about Jewish suffering. We need to honor Jewish Day Prayer books. memory. We also need to celebrate the miracle of our people’s existence for thousands of years, the realization By entering you agree to have your images published in selected Beth Ahabah of Jewish national sovereignty in Israel, the wisdom of communications. our sages, the truth of our teachings, and the beauty of For additional information contact Steven Longstaff [email protected] Jewish Identity...Continues on Page 16 9 10 SENIOR BRIDGE B’nei Mitzvah by Rachel C. Schmidt, Senior Bridge Coordinator

A Beth Ahabah Senior Bridge gift!

Hello Rachel and Meryl,

Thank you so much for attending the service. I am so relieved that my dad QUINN GREEN KAYLAH GRACE ROBEN is resting in peace now, as the past May 14, 2016 May 28, 2016 month had been difficult for him. Kaylah Grace Roben will be called to It has meant so much for my father Quinn Green will be called to the the as a on May to have a continued connection to as a Bar Mitzvah on May 14, Torah Bat Mitzvah 28, 2016. She is the daughter of Temple Beth Ahabah which you had 2016. Quinn is the son of Carolyn Debbie and Marc Roben and the provided for him. We thank you so Dean and Lonny Green, and brother older sister of Jayson and Emy much for that! to Galen, Stenzler, Thomas, Knaide and Mannix. He is the grandson Roben. Fondly, of Janet O’Connor and the late Dr. Kaylah is a 7th grade honor student Wendy & David Miller Philip Dean, and the late Shirley Green and the late David Green. at Elizabeth Davis Middle school. Kaylah’s passion is dance. She is Quinn is a 7th grade student in the a member of Michelle’s Xplosives International Baccalaureate program competition team and has been BETH AHABAH TEENS at Moody Middle School. He is on dancing at Dance Xplosion for 10 the Moody Middle School soccer, years. Kaylah is an avid reader and by Brian Strauss, Teen Engagement Specialist basketball and track teams and enjoys spending time with family Beth Ahabah Teens are off to swims for the Dominion Club in the and friends. King’s Dominion! summer. Quinn loves music and plays tenor saxophone in the Middle For her Mitzvah Project Kaylah and Join Beth Ahabah’s teens in going to School Band. He enjoys school, her friends are making kits to give King’s Dominion on Saturday, May sports, family time and playing with to the homeless with necessities and 21st. his dogs Oscar and Max. affirmations to help them feel better All kids in 6th through 12th grades about themselves. are invited to attend! Drop off will be For his Mitzvah Project, he has at Beth Ahabah at 9:30 am and pick- implemented a program in his We are proud of her hard work and up will be at 5:30 pm. school collecting gently used jeans to dedication, and look forward to shar- donate to homeless shelters. ing this very special day with family, If you RSVP by May 6th, the cost is friends and the Congregation of Beth $35 per person. RSVP to Lori Lacy at Quinn’s family is very proud of him, Ahabah. ([email protected]) to attend. and looks forward to celebrating this We also need parents and chaper- simcha with his family, friends and ones to help drive and make sure the congregation. the event is a success. If you are interested in helping, please let Lori know when you RSVP! Mazal Tov! 11 B’nei Mitzvah Religious School Registration for 2016-2017

All students currently enrolled in Religious School will be automatically re-enrolled for the 2016-2017 school year.

To add First Steps or Midweek, or HART WHITMAN ISSACOFF HANNAH SILVERMAN to withdraw from Religious School, June 4, 2016 June 11, 2016 please contact Ramona Brand at [email protected] or visit the Hart Whitman Isaacoff will be called Hannah Silverman will be called to Temple website www.bethahabah.org. to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on June June 4, 2016. He is the son of Dana 11, 2016. Hannah is the daughter of The first day of Sunday School will be Isaacoff and Raphael Seligmann, Deborah Jonas and Joel Silverman. September 11, 2016. and younger brother of Niccolo Seligmann. Hannah is an honor student in the 7th grade at The Steward School Hart is an “A” student in the 7th where she plays volleyball and grade at Seven Hills School for Boys. soccer. She also enjoys cooking, ice New Scholarship Fund In addition to boating, swimming, skating and roller coasters. One of Established for the Barbara Dungeons and Dragons, and being her favorite Jewish experiences has and William B. Thalhimer, Jr. an Anime aficionado, he is study- been attending Camp Louise the past Religious School! ing to be a classical ballet dancer, 3 summers. is a second degree black belt in Tae In memory of Elaine Schein and in Kwon Do,and acts in numerous For Hannah’s Mitzvah Project, she is honor of her lifelong commitment to amateur and professional theater organizing a collection of new and teaching as well as her passion for productions throughout Richmond. gently-used sports equipment and learning, Mark and Joshua Schein He is an avid reader and an aspiring school supplies for the Richmond have established the Manga artist. Hart intends to Downtown YMCA, which services Elaine L. Schein Religious School dedicate his life to the arts and the communities of Fox, Woodville Education Scholarship Fund “to provide tuition assistance to thereby help to uplift the human and Oak Grove Elementary Schools. families of Beth Ahabah who spirit. At the beginning of the school cannot meet the full tuition for their year, she volunteered at Oak Grove child(ren) to attend Beth Ahabah’s For his Mitzvah Project and in keep- Elementary School and was really Religious School, to participate in ing with his love of the arts, Hart sad and disappointed to find out that Beth Ahabah’s Religious School collaborated with a group of Haitian there is not a gym at the school. So activities, or to attend Beth students every week for several the kids have to have their gym class Ahabah’s mid-week Hebrew months over Skype. Working with outside or in their classroom. classes.” Haitian Partners, his mission was It is Mark and Josh’s hope that to help the students improve their We are very proud of Hannah and this Fund will be augmented with English and connect with the world are excited to share this special day contributions by the friends of the by cooperating to write an original with family, friends and the Beth song that will be performed by their family of Elaine Schein of blessed Ahabah community. memory. school’s choir and our Ruach Cha- dash. The congregation thanks Mark and Josh for their caring, concern and We are very proud of Hart and look generosity. forward to sharing his special day with him and his friends and family. 12 CBA LIFE: A VISIT TO PHILADELPHIA In March, thirty-one 6th and 7th grade Religious School students, their parents teachers and chaperones traveled to the “City of Brotherly Love” to visit the National Museum of American , the Liberty Bell and more! Read all about their trip on page 14.

Visiting Congregation Mikveh Israel, a Sephardic Orthodox synagogue in the heart of old Philadelphia, just a few blocks away from Independence Hall.

Purim in Philadelphia! 13 CBA LIFE:

Visiting The Liberty Bell Center

Sampling Philly’s famed cheesesteaks at Sonny’s

A care package of delicious, hot Philly pretzels; a surprise gift from Jane Heffron’s aunt and uncle. 14 BARBARA & WILLIAM B. THALHIMER, JR. RELIGIOUS SCHOOL by Ramona Brand, Religious School Director exhibits followed Jewish American synagogue members who gave us history from the landing of the first an impromptu tour and spoke to the Jews in America in 1654 through students about the history of Mikveh present day. Special exhibits on Early Israel and about Sephardic practice, Jewish America, westward travelers, which we learned was much changed and passing through the immigration from 1740. We also learned how tests at Ellis Island were favorites! Leonard Nimoy created Dr. Spock’s Jonah Ratner made a very moving famous “Live Long and Prosper” hand Ramona Brand Barbara & William B. Thalhimer, Jr. video on What Religious Freedom gesture and saying. We learned that it Religious School Director Means to Me. This video is archived at came from the ancient priestly bless- the NMAMH. We also learned about ing and saw a chair in their Sanctuary several very important contributions beautifully carved with the priestly Jewish American History of our Congregation to American hands. Comes Alive in the City of Jewish history! Brotherly Love The National Constitution Center was A few blocks away we found Sonny’s our last stop. This highly engaging Thirty-one 6th and 7th graders, Cheesesteaks and dined on this Phila- museum had students and parents parent chaperones and teachers delphia favorite. Then off to Benjamin making connections between the experienced a fantastic way to learn Franklin’s print shop and landmarks history of the Jewish people in history up close and personal with of his first neighborhood. The stu- America and the impact of America’s a trip to Philadelphia. This trip was dents were quite intrigued with both development of the Constitution and the culmination of the 7th grade the printing presses and the inter- what it means to us as citizens and as study of American Jewish history esting sanitation situation in 1700s Jews. We then departed Philadelphia and took place over the weekend of Philly (the Franklin’s well was located for home. This exciting trip furthered March 18th – 20th. The travelers a mere few yards from the privy!) The our students’ understanding of the journeyed by bus to Temple Beth kids made the connections between growth and development of the Jewish David in Gladwyne, Pennsylvania, the ideals of a free press and how American people and the American where we were warmly welcomed by that assisted Jews to live a more free Jewish impact on the social, cultural Susan Levey, the education director at and open life in America. Then to the and governmental development of the Beth David and Michael Perice, their Liberty Bell and a quick visit to the United States. youth advisor. We attended a lively, Visitor’s Center. The day ended with musical Shabbat and heard a speaker bowling, pizza and camaraderie at Special thanks to Harlan Loebman from Coalition Against Hunger give Wynnewood Lanes. The kids still had and Madeline Paul, our 7th grade a thoughtful talk about the needs of energy to hold a talent show back at teachers, Josh Jeffries, our 6th grade people in the Philadelphia area who Beth David in the late evening. Judaics teacher, Alex Berger, Mark experience food insecurity. After the Schein, Mary Jacobs, Lara Lavelle, oneg our students settled into their On Sunday, Harlan Loebman (one of and Marty Conn for chaperoning the new “home” for the weekend and the 7th grade teachers) led a thought- trip. We especially thank Susan Levey prepared for the night. ful discussion about what the kids and Congregation Beth David for had experienced thus far and how it their hospitality and making this trip Saturday was a whirlwind day begin- related to the Jewish American possible. We set out to learn about ning with a visit to the National experience past and present. Then our past and made new friends for the Museum of American Jewish History. off to downtown Philly again to present and future. Jane Heffron’s uncle and aunt met us Congregation Mikveh Israel, a at the museum with a wonderful sur- Sephardic Orthodox synagogue in prise of fresh Philly pretzels complete heart of old Philadelphia, just a few with mustard. These didn’t last too blocks away from Independence Hall. We were greeted by one of the long! In the museum the interactive Religious School continues on page 13 15

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A LETTER FROM OUR chaperones and 6th and 7th graders 7TH GRADE: VISIT TO HOST SUSAN LEVEY, changed for the Shabbat service. As THE VIRGINIA HOLOCAUST CONGREGATION BETH DAVID it turned out, we didn’t need to do a MUSEUM thing, except to learn through observa- Sunday, May 15 Dear Families, tion. Through Ramona’s guidance, these students appropriately and Parent chaperones and drivers are It is 6:30 last Shabbat (March 18th) respectfully participated joyfully in the needed. Please contact Ramona Brand and Michael Perice and I are so excited service and speaker on Hunger. They at [email protected] to volun- to welcome our weekend guests. We were so “in awe” of how we took care of teer. hear the roaring of the bus bearing them, yet the takeaway message for the down on Vaughan Lane, unusual, as weekend for me was the exact reverse. we are used to the comings and goings of just the usual carpools. This week- On Saturday evening at 11:30 p.m., the RELIGIOUS SCHOOL 26 students were having a talent show. end will be different for us. The bus CLOSING PROGRAM & rattles down the lane, welcoming in They were hanging out, spending time AWARDS PRESENTATIONS Shabbat in what will be a very different together after touring Philadelphia, manner. bowling at Wynnewood Lanes, and were just plain exhausted. Michael SUNDAY, MAY 22 Almost nine months ago, Ramona slept over as the staff member Friday Brand, Director of Education at evening and I was staff Saturday night. Congregation Beth Ahabah in Checking the place as usual, every- Richmond, Virginia needed a thing was perfect, the cheeriness in Congregation to host her teens for a the Youth Lounge made me almost feel spring weekend I responded that we like I didn’t want to intrude. I asked would make it happen and a conversa- the mixed group of teens in jammies if tion began. Keep in mind that when they were ok and the chaperones and they were free to come up, Pennsylva- one group encouraged me to stay and nia schools were involved in one spring vote on the talent show. Me- I had to 9:15 am break or another. Breaks always are a check to see if anyone was behind me, Students to class as usual but yes, they were talking to “ME!” On conflict, but energy, excitement, Ruach 9:30 am remain the same from trip planner cloud nine for being included in some- Mitzvah Day Activities to trip planner! I saw Ramona at the thing that normally is rather “off-lim- Biennial in Orlando and our details its”, I was the one who felt welcomed by became even more collaborative as we our guests. And by the way, they never 11:15 am looked at ways that the Beth David missed a “Thank You”. Closing Program with Award could welcome Beth Ahabah. After Presentations such an uplifting Scholar in Residence Thank You Congregation Beth Ahabah in the Goldburg Auditorium experience that addressed including for the wisdom to drive down Vaughan and welcoming aspects throughout our Lane. Parents and Congregants membership, Michael and I knew that we would bring the Beth Ahabah group With Love, are invited to attend! to the WRJ Shabbat service and that Susan warmth and kindness would lead as the connectors.

Our guests rolled in after being stuck in a little traffic on the highway, with smiles and nothing but gratitude, gra- ciousness and welcoming. The adults, 16

Jewish Identity...Continued from Page 8 YOM HASHOAH REMEMBRANCE our rituals and ceremonies. The Yom HaShoah, also known as Holocaust Remembrance Day, occurs on the 27th richest and most meaningful identity of Nisan. Shoah, which means catastrophe or utter destruction in Hebrew, is one which incorporates all of these refers to the atrocities that were committed against the Jewish people during facets of Jewish life. World War II. This is a memorial day for those who died in the Shoah. The Shoah is also known as the Holocaust, from a Greek word meaning “sacrifice In an essay written in 1982 Rabbi by fire.” David Hartman, the founder of the Shalom Hartman Institute in This year, Beth Ahabah will observe Yom HaShoah with a musical program , made a similar plea. Even on April 29 and at Shabbat services on May 6. The Richmond community will though he was writing specifically remember the victims of the Shoah at the Virginia Holocaust Museum, 2000 E. about Israelis and how they Cary Street, on Sunday, May 1st from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m. understand the rebirth of Israel, his words have a larger significance. I Remember: A Poem for Yom HaShoah (Here is a link to Hartman’s full by Stacey Zisook Robinson essay: http://hartman.org.il/ Blogs_View.asp?Article_Id=394&Cat_ I remember the absence of sound, Id=414&Cat_Type=Blogs) He asks deeper than silence whether Auschwitz or Sinai should and more lonely, “be the orienting category shaping like the moment just before Creation, our understanding of the rebirth all stretch and of the State of Israel?” The former attenuated, waiting, focuses on the suffering of the Jews; except there was no time the latter focuses on the Jewish to measure covenant, entered into at Sinai, which eternity, challenges Jews to build “a moral so waiting was and just society which mirrors the Now. kingdom of God in history.” He wrote, “Auschwitz, like all Jewish suffering I wait for God to of the past, must be absorbed and say my name, understood within the normative so that I will come to be. framework of Sinai. We will mourn forever because of the memory of So that I will Auschwitz. We will build a healthy once again remember new society because of the memory of the scent of blue Sinai.” and the feel of sand between my toes, We may frame the question of what and how my hand fit should form the basis of American against the gentle curve of Jewish identity in the very same way, your face. and I suggest the answer should also I will once again remember be the same. all that was taken.

And so I wait, in this absence of sound, Waiting for God to remember my name.

http://www.reformjudaism.org/blog/2015/04/16/i-remember-poem-yom-hashoah 17 WOMEN OF the 225th anniversary of our Con- Beth Ahabah WRJ is at a cross roads. REFORM gregation’s founding, Purim Shpiel, While dues membership has and assistance with Religious School remained constant over the past few JUDAISM holiday activities such as Sukkot and years, the lack of participation in (Sisterhood) Hanukkah. planning and attending activities as well as a lack of potential leaders by Beryl Holzbach, President Thank you to those “few but mighty” is a concern. While your financial who volunteered their time and contributions are always appreciated, It’s hard to believe that two years expertise to ensure these programs please consider giving Beth Ahabah have passed since I was asked to were planned, organized and execut- WRJ a gift of your time and talents. serve as President of Beth Ahabah’s ed. A special “thank you” to Lori Women of . I want Bekenstein for spearheading our The future of Beth Ahabah WRJ to thank all of you who have finan- Hanukkah college outreach program depends on all of us. cially supported Sisterhood during which sent gift cards to over 30 kids! this time. Your membership and Thank you to Laura Davidson, Sandy Thank you. donations enabled us to gift each of Corbett, Meg Marshak, Sharla Meyer, our B’nai Mitzvah students Shabbat Jane Brown, Leslie Seiler, Linda Fer- Shalom! Candlesticks and our Confirmands guson, Rebecca Eichelbaum, Marilyn -Beryl Bibles. We also provided financial Flax and Ramona Brand for your ser- support for many other functions vice to the Beth Ahabah WRJ board. such as the picnic commemorating

MEN OF REFORM JUDAISM latkes at 18 years’ worth of Brotherhood picnics, Shabbat by David Feibish, President dinners and Jewish Holiday events. His stomach must have a touch of iron lining and for that too, our Brotherhood is most grateful. As Beth Ahabah Brotherhood awarded you THANK YOU RABBI BEIFIELD!! Life Membership at the 2015 Brotherhood Shabbat, you are forever welcome at any and all our events. Because this bulletin will be the last for the Beth Ahabah calendar year, and I am the last Brotherhood President Mazel Tov to you (and Ina) on your retirement. standing at the time of Rabbi Beifield’s retirement: On YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY behalf of all Brotherhood Past Presidents, Officers and Please note: Board Members during Rabbi Beifield’s 18-year tenure, I Brotherhood is sponsoring with Religious School a Farewell want to emphatically say THANK YOU ! Cookout for Rabbis Beifield and Gallop on the Beth Ahabah campus, May 15th, 2016, at the end of Religious School. Over the years Rabbi Beifield has been invaluable to All are invited. Brotherhood in many ways. He’s provided help and guidance to us in preparing Brotherhood Shabbat services, During the early summer, Brotherhood is going to offer a educational brunch programs and relevant advice on all Squirrels Baseball Event. Watch for and read your Temple matters Judaism. Generally, if we needed Rabbi Beifield, emails for details and sign-up information. he did not hesitate to help or get us grounded with honest, prescient advice and helpful suggestions. Rabbi Beifield Brotherhood welcomes all men who are members of Beth has also been a good sport being active in games or fun at Ahabah to become active in any way and to any extent you our picnics and events. are comfortable. Volunteering for a Brotherhood activity helps to serve our entire Congregation, making us a His willingness to support us is most evident by dutifully stronger community. ingesting his share of Brotherhood-sponsored bagels, lox, cream cheese, hot dogs, burgers, grilled chicken, pizza and -David ([email protected]) 18 DONATIONS Minnie Rankin Herb Kasoff Karen Olshansky Bonnie & Ron Kasoff TEMPLE FUND Katherine S. Cohn Samuel Goldstein IN HONOR OF: Wendy & David Miller Maureen & Ira Goldstein Judy Markowitz’ speedy recovery Nathan Zell, my father Linda & Irvin Seeman Myrna Norman THE RABBI’S Lesley Greenberg’s speedy recovery Samuel J. Michael, my father PHILANTHROPIC FUND Katie & Ken Roeper Sherlee Michael Ginsberg IN HONOR OF: Babs Jackson’s speedy recovery Charles Stephen Kamsky The babynaming of Lily Zbell Ken & Katie Roeper Linda & Irvin Seeman Miriam & John LeBlanc Edith Brenner’s speedy recovery Charles P. Weinberg IN APPRECIATION: Ken & Katie Roeper Reba G. Weinberg Rissa & Michael Ratner IN MEMORY OF: Sondra E. Weinberg Marc Axel Dr. Harold Goodman Jay & Marilyn Weinberg IN MEMORY OF: Susan & Bill Bergman Algese Tarasi Aaron Weiner & Aron Janie & Maurice Schwartz Katie & Ken Roeper Silverstein Terry Schultz Julius Koziol Bernice W. Slipow Vicki & Eric White Judith & Ike Koziol Joyce Scher Goodman, Allen & Donnelly Carola Thalhimer Norman Scher Linda & Irvin Seeman Jack A. Thalhimer Anne & Charley Scher Myrna Norman Helen Wren Harold Goodman Sylvia Lerner Ken & Katie Roeper David & Ruby Jo Hiller Ellen & Brian Glass Harvey Urbach Nathan Weiss Larry & Elizabeth Blumberg, The Bekenstein Family Debra H. Kirk my parents Nathan Weiss Susan B. Hapala The Bekenstein Family CANTOR GOLDMAN MUSIC FUND Brian Blumberg, my brother Mildred Steingold IN HONOR OF: Susan B. Hapala Katy & Jimmy Yoffy Ken, Sarah Jane, Cast & Crew of Evelyn Rogers Lewis I. Held 2016 Purim Shpiel Charles Rogers Minnie C. 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marriage record books, and other What’s the difference... Continued from Page 3 wedding related accessories, such and Ari. Every congregant will have as bride’s Bibles. Please consider an opportunity to meet Rabbi Nagel sending in copies of your family’s in a small group setting. To accom- marriage invitations, announcements, plish this, we are organizing volun- or licenses to add to our fabulous teers to sponsor a coffee, dessert, or research files at the Museum & wine and cheese event at home or in Archives. the community. To volunteer, please contact Robert Freed at (804) 330- 5528 x 223 or [email protected] A GEM FROM THE ARCHIVES As we think about this change in clergy, we are well guided by our Rabbi Michelbacher, the first Rabbi of vision. Certainly “inspiration” and An Italian Ketubah, circa 1723 Congregation Beth Ahabah, recorded “community” are the “destination” the ketubot for the marriages that he and were core to the selection of our The summer months are noted as an performed between 1846 and 1859 new Rabbi. But the transition, “the ideal wedding season, and with that in a record book that is housed in the journey” is equally as important. I in mind, our treasure for this time of Museum & Archives. It has text in look forward to us traveling this road year is an elaborate and centuries-old German, English, Hebrew and together. ketubah. The ketubah is an important Aramaic and often has the signatures ceremonial and legal document. of the witnesses, Rabbi, and the Beth Ahabah: Traditional ketubot set out in detail stamp of the early congregation. Inspiring Jewish Lives – Building the husband’s responsibilities to his Sacred Community. wife and the sum of money he guar- antees as compensation in the event of a divorce. That tends to sound more akin to a modern-day pre-nuptial contract than a loving expression of a family union. The ketubah is a Introducing BethAhabahConnect! contract that was given to the bride for safekeeping, as it is forbidden for a man to live for a single day with his wife without it.

The pictured ketubah comes from Italy and dates to 1723. It is hand- written and illuminated with the signs of the zodiac. The text in part signifies a contract between Benjamin Chaim, son of David Romavili and Rachel, daughter of David Castilita. It details the payments to be made in Scudi, coins, garments, jewelry, and metal.

This ketubah was the gift of Rabbi and Mrs. Ariel Goldburg. The Museum & Archives has many ketubot, Rabbi’s 21 BETH AHABAH MUSEUM & ARCHIVES

Making Scholarly Concepts into challenges, however, when we try is shown what life in his town would Interesting Exhibits to convert one of these scholarly con- be like had he never been born. Sup- Nothing must be lost in translation cepts into an exhibit that will educate pose we looked at a group of Jewish by David Farris, Director and entertain our visitors. achievements and imagined what life here in Richmond would be like today I have just returned from the 2016 Museum professionals tell us that if they had not occurred? Maybe I will meeting of the Council of American the written labels that generally suggest this to my Board of Trustees. Jewish Museums (CAJM), one of the accompany exhibit objects, pictures, I am open to suggestions, if anyone two professional organizations that etc. must be written in simple, clear reading this has any ideas. Don’t our Museum & Archives supports language that can be understood mention this to anyone on my board - (the other being the Southern Jewish by anyone with an eighth grade I want to surprise them. Historical Society which was founded education. Some even say that the by Beth Ahabah’s Saul Viener, OBM). appropriate grade level is even lower, In the meantime, visit us and see Beth Ahabah is active in the man- such as the fifth grade level. On top how well we have told the stories of agement of both organizations, I am of that, professional museum studies Richmond’s Jews during the Civil War proud to say, as our members Leah have shown that the average visitor years, shown what happened to many Sievers and Bonnie Eisenman serve spends only four or five seconds in of the Soviet Jews who came here on their boards, Leah for CAJM, and front of each object or picture. Given twenty or more years ago, reviewed Bonnie for the SJHS. these realities, the museum experi- the life of a Richmond lady who ence sounds like historically-oriented became a celebrated song lyricist, and CAJM’s membership consists of 80 speed dating. We can, however, ignite told stories of the contributions Jews Jewish museums in the United States sparks that make our visitors want have made to Virginia since the year and several other countries. Individu- more information. 1585 when the first Jew came here on als with an interest in the field are a ship from England with Sir Walter also welcomed as members. Without There is an idea bouncing around Raleigh. exception the conference attendees in my head that was suggested by are well-educated, sharp, and cre- something that was said in one of the We are at 1109 West Franklin, just ative. They network, schmooze, and sessions. The writings about the east of the Sanctuary. Our regular learn from each other. The presenta- contributions of Jews are many, and hours are 10-3, but we are closed on tions and round table discussions cover almost all areas of human Fridays and Saturdays. Come and are invariably of the highest order experience. Maybe looking at these bring your visitors. scholastically, and are frequently achievements in another way would the source of good ideas for future be interesting. Most of us remember exhibits or programs. This presents the Jimmy Stewart movie in which he

BETH AHABAH Museum Hours: MUSEUM & ARCHIVES 10 am to 3 pm Sunday - Thursday 1109 W. Franklin Street 804.353.2668 | [email protected] The Museum & Archives is located next door to the Temple office on Franklin Street. Currently on Exhibit in the Galleries: David Farris, Director • The Other Side of the Curtain: Please call in advance to make an Soviet Jews Create New Lives in appointment to work in the Archives, Richmond, Virginia for group tours; if you have visitors who • That You’ll Remember Me: require special treatment; or if you need to Jewish Voices of the Civil War visit outside of our usual working hours. • Commonwealth & Community: We will do our best to accommodate you. Jewish Virginia 1585 to the Present 22 CAMP SABABA For all Rising Kindergarten - 6th Grade Jewish Students Counselor in Training (CIT) Program for Rising 7th & 8th Grade Jewish Students

Looking for a fun way for your kids to explore their Jewish roots this summer? Come to Camp Sababa! For the last five years, kids from all over Richmond have enjoyed the fun way of getting connected to Judaism through singing, dancing, nature, crafts, drama, and special themes like Jewish Time Travel, Hiking Through Israel, and Color Wars. Our special Israeli Madrichim bring modern Israel to our campers. Make sure your child is in on the action!

THIS YEAR’S THEME IS: I’M JEWISH FROM HEAD TO TOE Sababa is Hebrew slang for “cool,” and Camp Sababa is the coolest way for your children to make new friends over the summer and have fun in a Jewish environment!

For whom? For ALL rising Kindergarten – 6th grade Jewish students Counselor in Training Program for rising 7th grade and up Jewish students

When? Monday-Friday, August 15 - 19, 2016 from 9am-2pm

Where? Congregation Or Ami, 9400 Huguenot Rd, Richmond, VA 23235

Goals? TO HAVE FUN through outdoor activities, music, crafts, games, etc. To meet Jewish students from around Richmond and make new friends from Israel

Staff? Education Directors and teachers from the participating schools and teen madrichim

Cost? $100 for all 5 days final Registration Deadline July 15, 2016 $35 for the CIT Program

For more information, contact your Education Director or Sara Rosenbaum at the Federation office at 545-8629 or [email protected].

This program is sponsored by the Richmond Council for 23 CBA COMMUNITY CALENDAR FOR MAY & JUNE 2016

MAY 2016 JUNE 2016

Sunday, May 1 Religious School 9:15 AM Saturday, June 4 Bar Mitzvah of Hart Isaacoff 10:30 AM Monday, May 2 Confirmation Rehearsal 6:15 PM Friday, June 10 Shabbat Service 7:30 PM Wednesday, May 4 Midweek Hebrew 5:30 PM Saturday, June 11 Friday, May 6 Yom HaShoah Service with Adult Choir 7:30 PM Bat Mitzvah of Hannah Silverman 10:30 AM Erev Shavuot Study Session 7:30 PM Wednesday, May 11 Midweek Hebrew 5:30 PM Friday, June 17 Monday, May 9 Confirmation Rehearsal 7:00 PM Oneg Shabbat 6:00 PM Shabbat Service in the Gumenick Chapel 6:30 PM Friday, May 13 Annual Meeting Congregational Dinner 6:00 PM Friday, June 24 Installation Shabbat Service and Presentation of the Oneg Shabbat 6:00 PM Lewis Held Scholarship Award 7:30 PM Shabbat Service in the Gumenick Chapel 6:30 PM

Saturday, May 14 Bar Mitzvah of Quinn Green 10:30 AM

Sunday, May 15 Religious School 9:15 AM B’Yachad Friday, May 20 ConfirmationShabbat 7:30 PM The deadline for the July/August issue Sunday, May 22 The last day of Religious School 9:15 AM is Friday, May 20 Mitzvah Day 9:30 AM Religious School Closing Program for all students, parents For more information about advertising in and congregants in the Goldburg Auditorium 11:15 AM the bulletin, contact Russ Finer in the Temple office, 804.358.6757. Friday, May 27 Please send editorial submissions and camera Shabbat Service with tribute to Rabbi Gallop 7:30 PM ready ads to [email protected] Saturday, May 28 Bat Mitzvah of Kaylah Roben 10:30 AM

Friday, June 3 Shabbat Service with tribute to Rabbi Beifield 7:30 PM

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