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WWoommee n’sn’s RReevviieeww ooff BBooookkss Volume 36, Issue 3 Mothers , D aughters , anD PriDe May / June 2019 E ditor ’ s L EttEr C ontEnts Dear Readers: 4 UNSETTLED Territory of Light By Yuko Tsushima Reviewed by Domenica Ruta Motherhood is a complicated element of identity. It is bound up in national 6 THE SERPENT UNDER’T My Sister, the Serial Killer By Oyinkan politics as the vehicle through which Braithwaite white supremacy is maintained, in the Reviewed by Kait Heacock reliable “wedge” issue of abortion rights, and how the wage gap is com - 7 POSTER GIRL WITH NO POSTER puted and understood, just to name a No Walls and the Recurring Dream: A Memoir By Ani DiFranco few of the most obvious issues. Moth - Reviewed by Hannah Wallace erhood also animates our personal 9 THIS MORNING, THE CARDINAL landscapes: we all have mothers, even The Accidentals By Minrose Gwin if we didn’t know them—and the ab - Reviewed by Margaret Randall sence of a mother is as powerful as the presence of one. If we did know our mothers, we wit - nessed whether they were fulfilled, respected, loving, oppressed, weak, harsh, perfect, or tragic. 11 JUST A NUMBER Elderhood: Redefining Aging, Transforming How did they navigate amid the invisible barriers of misogyny and patriarchy? Medicine, Reimagining Life By Louise Aronson When I became a mother, at thirty-four, I was single, always worried about money, and Reviewed by Karen Houppert living in a sixth floor walk-up in New York’s East Village. As exciting and stressful as that 13 STARK RAVING MAD time was for me, I felt a peace that I think came from being in harmony with society’s Banshee By Rachel DeWoskin; Choke Box By Christina Milletti expectations, which, for people with uteruses, is to procreate before you exit your thirties (but Reviewed by Katharine Coldiron not in your teens). Mission accomplished. I felt a new sense of authority as an adult conferred upon me. It felt a bit unearned—I wasn’t so different than I had been the year before—but 15 A LITTLE LIFE also very real. I had this person to take care of, no matter what, and it profoundly changed My Brilliant Friends: Our Lives in Feminism By Nancy K. Miller how I moved through the world. I was tethered, in the sense of a burden and a connection. Reviewed by Valerie Miner Many of the pieces in this issue intersect with the material realities of having a female reproductive system: that is, the ability to give life or not give life, and how either trajectory 17 REVELATIONS How I Tried to be a Good Person By Ulli Lust; affects one’s life. The Farm imagines a not-so-distant world in which the wealthy pay for the Hot Comb By Ebony Flowers struggling to procreate for them; Territory of Light limns the isolation of being a single parent. Reviewed by Tahneer Oksman Meanwhile, Sarah Dougher’s essay Old Mom complicates the motherhood-means-fitting-in narrative that I felt so profoundly. A queer-identified musician and scholar who is in her 19 PAIN Please Read This Leaflet Carefully By Karen Havelin fifties and has two young children, Dougher’s social experience of motherhood is one of Reviewed by Kira von Eichel being misread and misunderstood—something she makes peace with in the course of 21 BRAIN TRUST What Not: A Prophetic Comedy By Rose Macaulay parenting and in her lyrical piece. Reviewed by Rachel Hill May contains Mother’s Day, and thus I’m lifting up motherhood as one of the themes of this issue, but June brings Pride (oh—and Father’s Day). The intersections of the LGBTQ+ 22 POETRY By Vicki Reitenauer and the feminist movements are myriad and powerful and, in the current incarnations, 23 LIBERATION FROM STUPIDITY amplify each other in wonderful ways. If feminism is the liberation of the individual from How to Be Less Stupid About Race: On Racism, White gendered scripts, then the non-binary influence of contemporary gay rights is in great Supremacy, and the Racial Divide By Crystal M. Fleming alignment with that goal. It reminds me of the power of yes/and to counter either/or . So, is Reviewed by Anastasia Higginbotham motherhood isolating or fulfilling? Are mothers loved or disrespected? Yes! And … 25 FIRST PERSON PLURAL Bough Down By Karen Green; Jennifer Baumgardner Frail Sister By Karen Green Reviewed by Noelle McManus New York City, April 2019 26 ARMED Tentacle By Rita Indiana, Translated by Achy Obejas Reviewed by Rachel Hill 28 MY SO-CALLED DYSTOPIAN LIFE The Farm By Joanne Ramos Reviewed by Katherine Ouellette 30 SAY MY NAME, SAY MY NAME Oksana, Behave! By Maria Kuznetsova Reviewed by Lorraine Berry 31 LISTEN UP OLD MOM An essay by Sarah Dougher © 2019 Wellesley Centers for Women and Old City Publishing, Inc., a member of the Old City Publishing Group. Published by Old City Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. ISSN 0738-1433 On the cover: The Except as permitted under national laws or under the photocopy license described below, no part of this cover illustration is also publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, the cover of Hot Comb , photocopying or otherwise, or stored in a retrieval system of any nature, without advance written permission of the publisher. by Ebony Flowers, a Drawn & Quarterly Rights and Permissions /Reprints of Individual Articles This publication and each of the articles con - graphic novel following tained herein are protected by copyright. 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Printed with postconsumer content. review. 2 Wome n’s Review of Books Vol. 36, No. 3, May/June 2019 Wome n’s Review of Books Editor in Chief: Jennifer Baumgardner Executive Editor: Layli Maparyan Women’s Review of Books Office : 628 North Second Street, Editor: Margaret Barlow Philadelphia, PA 19123, USA Poetry Editor: Robin Becker Phone: +1-215-925-4390 Photography Editor: Ellen Feldman Fax: +1-215-925-4371 Graphic Novel Editor: Tahneer Oksman [email protected] Editorial Assistant: Noelle McManus www.wcwonline.org/womensreview Advertising and Subscriptions : Ian Mellanby, Old City Publishing, Inc . [email protected] +1-215-925-4390 • www.oldcitypublishing.com L EttErs to thE E ditor Dear Jennifer: I contacted you many months ago now to pitch myself as a reviewer for the Women’s Review of Books . Lord, how I wish we could have a long dinner together and I could tell you all that was set in motion by those couple of emails. As I said then, I am 64 and have never been married. I have made my way in two professions and pretty much eschewed the whole Women’s Movement. I will admit that I initially felt the WRB was an angry platform ... but I made myself read through and I ended up feeling that I was terribly lucky compared to what other women have experienced. Then, in the September-October issue, you had me at Rachel Carson. She and others, like Adelle Davis, were my heroes. I also realized that I was part of a Wave! I was the first woman in my county to be a part of the horticulture community. I think about growing up in the early sixties, being a hippie, and how conflicted I was about doing the “right” thing, whether it was getting married or just being a human being. Back then, I felt my options were limited; I just knew there was an apron and diapers waiting for me. Recently, a man was very rude to me at the State Fair—he thought that I had cut in line and even threw food at me. I went after him with a sun umbrella. I just snapped. I knew that I could be arrested and I did not care. Shortly after that, I watched the TV series Dietland , in which men who have been legally cleared of harassment fall through the skies to splat on the pavement. I loved the concept of men being afraid and constantly wonder what it will take to change the ingrained attitudes men have toward women. As I have become occupied with women’s status as human beings, my thoughts surprise me. My memories of dealing with inequality and unwanted behavior seems more real now than it did “back then,” when it was happening. The sting, now, is fully felt. I even got my first tattoo. Just before my brother was deployed to Vietnam in 1971, he sent me a message—”Keep the Faith”—which is now tattooed on the inside of my forearm. My apologies for this being rather long but something has awakened in me—after years of avoiding feminism, now it is on my radar and my mind won’t let it go. Mary Kay Bravard Women’s Review of Books , Volume 36, Number 3 AMERICAN POETRY REVIEW (ISSN 0738-1433) (USPS 025-289) Published bimonthly by Old City Publishing, Inc., 628 North Second St., Philadelphia, PA 19123, USA. Periodicals Postage Paid at Philadelphia, PA and additional mailing offices.