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But have national and longtime Berks County resident. as of Feb. 19 Jewish Community Campaign $110,708 Page 2 SHALOM November 2013 Federation News Computer progress — campaign ending By Paul L. Landry In advance of that change, I want When this issue of the Shalom are supporting the Federation’s work, As I mentioned in to let you all know that we are certain appears, we will be entering the last two which is to run programs that support my September column, that not everything with the new version months of the 2013 Jewish Community Jewish life in Berks County, Israel and we are implementing of the information is correct. We don’t Campaign. If you have not yet made your worldwide. new computer software know specifically what isn’t correct, but gift to this year’s campaign, I hope you By giving to the Campaign, you to hold contact and gift whenever you do this kind of conversion will take this opportunity to do so. See support people through programs information for our local error creeps in. the Campaign ad on page 13, where you that provide social services here in Jewish community. So we need your indulgence and will find the information you need to make Berks County, Israel and around the We use that information to send all of help. If something mailed to you is your gift. Gifts of all sizes are important world; Jewish religious education; our mailings, both programmatic and inaccurate in any way, please forgive us and welcome! disaster relief; Jewish themed cultural fundraising. We are nearly complete with and let us know. We anticipate that we Please know that when you make offerings and more. Literally hundreds the movement of information and will be will be finding and correcting inaccurate your gift to the Federation’s Annual of your friends and neighbors benefit starting to use the new software for our information for months to come. Your Jewish Community Campaign, you from these programs — so please be mailings during November. help will greatly shorten that period. are not supporting the Federation. You generous! Mazel Tov to Gabriella Michelson Making progress at Yemin Orde It has been an the things I did. eventful year for The trip started in Prague in the Czech Gabriella Michelson, Republic. My group and I spent three a daughter of Rabbi days there visiting various synagogues Brian ahd Holly and cemeteries. That was not my favorite Michelson. part of the trip, but I learned a lot. Soon The Wyomissing after we traveled across the border to High School student Poland where we spent the rest of the participated in the first week. We were doing the same North American things that we were doing in Prague. Lots Federation of Temple and lots of synagogues and cemeteries. Youth (NFTY) Israel One day we did something that very few program last summer. people in the world get to experience; In December she will be traveling to we visited Auschwitz. That was a very San Diego to attend the Union for Reform difficult day, but thanks to the incredible Judaism Biennial as part of NFTY. The people I had around me, I made it Biennial is the largest Jewish gathering in through. After the week had passed, it North America. She will join other teens was time to go to Israel. in grades 9-12 who are active in Jewish With only two of our eight counselors, life or NFTY for exclusive workshops and 63 of us got on a flight that would fly programs focused on developing teen us to Amsterdam then to Ben-Gurion leadership skills. Airport. When I first arrived in Israel Gabriella’s trip to Israel and her at 3:00 in the morning, I could not yet participation at the Biennial were made understand the overwhelming joy that possible in part by an award from I would get from traveling around this the Educational Committee of Jewish wonderful place. Just a few short days Susan Weijel, Yemin Orde staff member, shows Vic Hammel the progress being made on the dormitory being Federation of Reading’s Student Camp after arriving, we packed our hiking remodeled with funds raised by the Reading Jewish Community. Vic was at Yemin Orde as part of a board and Education Awards program. bags and headed off to the desert. of directors mission. Tammy Mitgang, Federation President will visit Yemin Orde in November to officially She wrote a letter to the Federation For four days and nights, my fellow dedicate the dormitory. regarding the Israel trip: group members and I embarked on an unforgettable journey hiking through the With 40 percent of Yemin Orde’s who have suffered trauma from isolation Dear Federation, Negev. On this hike I was physically, village in Israel burned to the ground, and neglect. Thank you so much for the scholarship mentally, and emotionally ripped and including a house built with support from Yemin Orde Youth Village and Meir that allowed me to have this incredible put back together. I consider those four Reading’s Jewish community, we can be Panim, a program that helps to feed journey. My Israel experience was the days the most difficult yet rewarding and proud of the progress being made to our thousands of needy children and their best experience I have ever had in my memorable days of my life. new “home,” Abraham Lincoln House. families throughout Israel, are two life. When I left on July 3, 2013, it was just After the hiking was over we continued Under its roof, teens from Ethiopia, the partnerships supported in Israel by the a trip to see my friends, have a good time, around Israel learning about everything former Soviet Union, Brazil and France Reading Jewish Community. Your tax- and visit Israel. By the time I returned to that was possible to learn about the land will be starting a new life. deductible gift may be made to Jewish JFK five weeks later I realized just how of Israel. It is truly amazing to think that Yemin Orde Youth Village provides Federation of Reading’s “Israel Now” wrong I was. I learned so much about we fit all of that into five weeks. I could a home, a family and a future to more Fund. For more information – call Paul myself and about the people with whom not be more grateful to the Federation than 500 children from around the world Landry at 610-921-0624. I lived for so long. Never in my life did I for supporting me on going on this trip. imagine having the chance to do half of Gabriella Michelson Something new for our trophy case

A special thank you to Herb Schneider, who added his 1961-62 bowling trophy to the JCC’s collection. He was awarded this trophy for his high single game 215. He also received a 1958-59 team trophy: Herb Schneider captain. Members P. Wasserman, E. Daniels, J. Schmeizer, S. Horowitz and L. Bloom. Gabriella Michelson hiking in the Negev November 2013 SHALOM Page 3 OctoberPage 4 2012 SHALOMSHALOM NovemberPage 2013 3 From the President’s Desk Looking forward to a great New Year DON’T MISS OUT By Alvin Katz in need. Providing food, assistance with visit, among other sites, Yemin Orde, and Be sure to pick up the October ChairmanTap code expenses and many other aspects of getting Meir Panim, which we support through I want to take this those less fortunate back on their feet. your contributions. Yemin Orde is a youth Berks County Living By Tammy K. 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In what direction would we now head fought to liberate Jerusalem had come to “Like Dreamers” shows time and again only assumed, their voices the ones we Federationif we were wise? Is change necessary? mission that battle from to very Israel different social andbegins some of the dangerous Oct. impulses 21 at the end up wishing we’d heard more of). But Is it still possible? It is those sorts of political backgrounds; they went on, in heart of the settlement movement. But other Jews — motivated not by hatred or questionsA joint that mission lie at the composed heart of Yossi of chairedsome cases, by Michael to found and GushSusan Emunim Fromm andand Berks— and County here iswill where be joining Klein the Halevi’s group purposedisregard and of Arabs, heightened but by love appreciation of Israel — communityKlein Halevi’s members new book, from “Like the Dreamers: Reading Victorin other and cases, Dena to Hammel. become theIn addition mainstays to ongenius the mission. truly shines — the book shows anddisagreed. connection The Jewishto Jewish state identity. had always areaThe andStory the of Lehigh the Israeli Valley Paratroopers will leave for Mitgang,of the peace Jayne Kleinman,camp. Seeing Cultural the Center two equallyThe Readingcompellingly Jewish the community powerful moral has beenMission a story participants of acquiring will visitland Reading’s and then IsraelWho UnitedOct. 21. Jerusalem and Divided a programsides through director the andloves Mark and losses,Goldstein, the bene܁tedand Zionist from commitments teaming with of the both seasoned the Israelbuilding onNow it. That projects was the story — twoof Tel important Nation.”For the Klein Reading Halevi, community, long among it Israel’s is the Executivetriumphs andDirector failures of Jewish of those Federation who were of mission-goerssettlers and the frompeace the camp. Allentown On the areamost humanitarianAviv and Petah efforts Tikva. thatIt was both the savestory ܁rstmost thoughtful, mission penetrating,the Federation honest and has ledin theat the Lehigh core Valley of these will movementsstaff the mission. affords anddivisive Lehigh issue Valley faced Federation’sby a highly divided “well- andof Karmiel, change built lives on land — captured Yemin Orde in the Youth morecompassionate than 15 years. writers, A goal has of nowFederation written us Rabbia three Briandimensional Michelson understanding from oiled”state, Yossimission Klein process. Halevi gets us to admire, Village in the CarmelContinued Mountains on and Page Meir 6 Presidenthis magnum Tammy opus. Mitgang Many and books Federation in one, Congregationof what has unfolded Oheb Sholom here in anda way Rabbi that “Mark Goldstein and his staff have Panim’s new nutrition center in Kiryat leadership,“Like Dreamers” the Reading is, on the mission surface, is co-the Yosefno other Lipsker, book, of Chabad-Lubavitch which I’m aware, ever of created over the years a network of Gat, where the community will dedicate story of seven paratroopers who liberated has before. An infinitely more important resources and processes that have the kitchen that was made possible bene܁ted our community — newbies, thanks to the Reading community’s if you will, when it comes to mission funding efforts. SHALOM planning. And, we are neighbors. The The dedication will be a big thank you AA newspapernewspaper servingserving thethe JewishJewish communitycommunity ofof Reading,Reading, Pennsylvania,Pennsylvania, mission project is just the start of future to our community and a proud moment. andand publishedpublished monthly,monthly, SeptemberSeptember throughthrough June,June, underunder thethe JewishJewish joint efforts,” Mitgang said. With two out of every ܁ve children in FederationFederation ofof Reading.Reading. FundedFunded byby thethe ReadingReading UnitedUnited JewishJewish Campaign.Campaign. There are many details that need Israel living below the poverty line, to be addressed when moving a group Meir Panim’s network of soup kitchens, GeneralGeneral Offices:Offices: 11001100 BerkshireBerkshire Blvd.,Blvd., SuiteSuite 125125 of more than 50 people across Israel. restaurants and feeding centers, ensure Wyomissing,Wyomissing, PAPA 1961019610 Jewish Federation of North America’s warm, nutritious meals for thousands of Phone:Phone: 610-921-0624610-921-0624 FAX:FAX: 610-929-0886610-929-0886 Missions Department and its staff in children and families every day. WebWeb site:site: www.ReadingJewishCommunity.orgwww.ReadingJewishCommunity.org Israel along with Kenes Tours will further At Yemin Orde, the group is anxious to ensure that each and every day of the see ܁rsthand the progress that has been Jewish Federation of Reading Jewish Federation of Reading mission is maximized. made at the village since the wild܁res Chairman: Alvin Katz Chairman: Alvin Katz Federation missions are travel devastated it in 2010. President: Tammy K. Mitgang President: Tammy K. Mitgang experiences unlike any other. Along The group is honored that Chaim Peri, Communications Director: Mark Nemirow, Editor Communications Director: Mark Nemirow, Editor with visits to historic and sacred sites, beloved educator and director of Yemin Proofreaders: Esther Strauss & Federation staff Proofreaders: Federation staff museums and popular tourist destinations, Orde for 30 years, will personally be hosting Member: American Jewish Press Association Member: American Jewish Press Association Federation missions provide exclusive, the group during a tour and lunch. The opinions expressed in Shalom are of the writers and not the Jewish Federation of Reading The opinions expressed in Shalom are of the writers and not the Jewish Federation of Reading insider access to residents, community Young people from the village will join Deadline for the November issue is Oct. 5 leaders, area experts, and political the group for the tour and share their Deadline for the December issue is Nov. 5 personalities and provide a sense of experiences. November 2013 SHALOM Page 5 Leadership Gifts Eisin ‘wows’ gathering at 2014 Campaign kickoff

Members of the Berks County Jewish as a former international media adviser Israel safer in the short run but could and collaborative programs with local Community gathered Oct. 7 at the magically to the Israeli prime minister, Eisin cause serious problems in the longer synagogues, Jewish organizations and transformed Jewish Cultural Center to kick extended her discussion to include the term if even more radical governments the broader non-Jewish community off the 2014 Jewish Community Campaign. implications to the U.S. and the world as came to power in Arab countries. are made possible through community Those attending enjoyed cocktails and Syria continues to slip deeper into civil The annual Leadership Gifts event support. hors d’oeuvres and a wonderful dinner war, Egypt remains in flux and waves of kicks-off the 2014 Annual Campaign that Jewish Federation of Reading is a provided by Boscov’s A-La-Carte Catering, refugees are fleeing into Jordan, Turkey supports the work of Jewish Federation 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization that followed by an interesting and informative and Lebanon. Her brilliant summary laid of Reading here at home, in Israel and depends on the support of the Jewish presentation by Miri Eisin. out the complexity of the region with around the world. Locally, programs community to offer its services, programs Weaving together her in depth passion, understanding and clarity. such as Lakin Early Education Center and activities. knowledge of the IDF (as a colonel and Her counterintuitive conclusion was (JCC Preschool), Jewish Family Service, We need your support! You help to former Deputy Head of the Combat that the current situation weakened Jewish Cultural Center, Holocaust Library shape our Jewish community! You make Intelligence Corps) with her experience Israel’s enemies and therefore made and Resource Center, Shalom newspaper a difference!

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Ed Lakin Speaker Miri Eisin at the podium Page 8 SHALOM November 2013 JEWISH HOLIDAY CALENDAR 5774 5775 5776 2013 2014 2015 Rosh Hashanah Wednesday, Sept. 4 (at sundown) Wednesday, Sept. 24 (at sundown) Sunday, Sept. 13 (at sundown) Thursday-Friday, Sept. 5-6 Thursday-Friday, Sept. 25-26 Monday-Tuesday, Sept. 14-15 ______

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Shavuot Tues., June 3 (eve) - Thurs., June 5 Sat., May 23 (eve) - Mon., May 25 Sat., June 11 (eve) - Mon., June 13 ______Tisha B’Av Tues., Aug. 5 Sun., July 26 Sun., Aug. 14 GORDIS Continued from Page 4 smothering the most passionate Zionist Bin-Nun. And in an article in Nekudah, man asks Bin-Nun “What went wrong?” War of Independence. Why then should impulses still remaining? Can it do so the settler’s publication, Bin-Nun had The rabbi’s response was chilling: “We the land taken in 1967 be any different, now? What Israel should do now is a advocated a policy of “no annexation didn’t listen to the moral arguments of especially in places that Jews had lived question that “Like Dreamers” wisely and no withdrawal,” and instead, dividing the Left,” he replied. in as late as the 1930s and 1940s until never addresses directly. But there the West Bank into Jewish and Arab If there is any line in the book in which rabid Arab violence forced them to flee? are hints. Of the seven paratroopers cantons. The Jewish areas would vote in a character speaks for Klein Halevi, that Could Israel have stymied the impulse Klein Halevi follows, he seems most Israeli elections, and the Arab cantons in is the one. More important to him than the to return to those places in 1968 without spiritually connected to Rabbi Yoel Jordanian. Even Bin-Nun acknowledged position we take is his hope that we might that this was a far from perfect solution, come to realize that there are powerful but as Klein Halevi then writes for Bin- moral, Zionist and strategic insights on Nun, “there [is] no perfect justice in this both sides of this painful divide. If Bin- Perfectly Paired. world.” Nun believes that the settlers’ greatest Does Klein Halevi mean to endorse failure was not hearing the moral insights something along the canton approach? of the left, Klein Halevi insists that what He never says. His purpose in this book ails our entire country is our inability to is entirely other: He aims to teach us listen to the other and to learn. In “Like a complex and fascinating history, and Dreamers,” we have a history. We have to introduce us to seven fascinating, a great yarn, brilliantly told. And we are frustrating, passionate men who reflect exposed to Klein Halevi as a teacher of the wide diversity of Israel’s complex great moral weight, begging us to realize society. But there is one lesson he that if we truly wish to preserve this little definitely does want to teach. In May state of ours, there is nothing we can do 1996, with the peace process seemingly more important than beginning to hear marching forward and the future of the and to grow from those whose views are “It’s so easy to make “Don’t wait! There are new friends (and settlements very much in doubt, a young most challenging to our own. friends here.” so much fun) waiting for you, too!” -Ruth -Hilde 2013 Interfaith While Hilde and Ruth have been friends for more than 40 years, they say that there are lots of new friendships waiting for you at The Highlands! Kristallnacht Here, you have the best of all worlds: great friendships, comfort and convenience, superior service and peace of mind. From a variety of observance

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But we cannot Kesher Zion Synagogue strengthen my students by having faith in keep telling our own stories, but we’ll also ignore that the heart of the Chanukah “I keep mitzvot them, in their ability to learn, and in our be looking at “emunah” in texts from Torah story is the very human achievement and I would describe ability to discover together how best to to Maimonides to Modern Hebrew poetry. of the Maccabees’ victory over their myself as a ‘datiyah’ help them learn.” My biggest take-away from our first meeting oppressive and much more powerful [a religious woman],” A man sitting near me in the circle lit up was a deep desire to dig into the whole foes. God was certainly important to explained Esther, one and took his turn, “My name is Gadi and notion of how “emunah ba’adam” (faith in the Maccabees, and yet God appears of the 40 or so Israelis for me emunah means faith in humanity humanity) might fit into my own Jewish life. nowhere in the Chanukah story. in the circle of chairs. as well, though I always thought that was Israel seems to me to be the best place Unlike the Passover story, in which God We were introducing because I was raised on a very secular to be to contemplate the achievements took us out of Egypt with a strong hand and ourselves on the first kibbutz. No one ever talked about God, we human beings are capable of when an outstretched arm, the story of Chanukah evening of a weekly bet or believed in God, but my parents made we have faith in our own, and one is a story of people taking liberation in their midrash — a “house of learning” — meant aliyah and helped establish the kibbutz another’s, dreams and capabilities. own hands. They may (or may not) have to bring together adults from across the because they believed in the power of As the kibbutznik in our bet midrash had faith in God, but the Maccabees’ victory religious-secular spectrum here in Tel Aviv. their own hands to change the world.” emphasized, this whole country was built could never have been gained without faith Our learning together in the weeks and As more and more people added by people determined to change their in themselves and each other. months to come will focus on the many their own stories, I found myself world for the better. The modern story of the establishment different meanings and facets of “emunah” completely entranced by the stories of However, while “emunah ba’adam” of the state of Israel and the more ancient (faith or belief). This first evening we had faith (and doubt) these Israelis shared. is central to the Zionist dream, we also story of the victory of the Macabees both been asked to tell everyone our name and Here were people who had never met celebrate this faith in humanity as we invite us to think about what role “emunah a one- or two-sentence story about an act one another before who had voluntarily prepare for Chanukah. The rabbis in our ba’adam” — faith in human potential — of faith (however we defined it). come together to learn with and from Talmud wanted to de-emphasize the might have in our own lives, and the lives “However,” Esther continued, “when one another about this potentially Maccabees military victory and focus on of our families and community. What I think about emunah, what resonates deeply intimate topic. the oil that miraculously burned for eight might we be able to achieve if we were most deeply for me is actually my faith In the three months that I will be here in days. My own tendency has also been able to strengthen our faith, belief, and in humanity. I teach autistic children and Tel Aviv, I am very much looking forward to to focus on the universal theme of finding trust in the best in another? Connecting Chanukah and Thanksgiving By Rabbi Brian Michelson these two holidays, we can see that miracle happened there. I love to their desperate prayers for help and they Reform Congregation Oheb Sholom there is something wonderful about this show the religious school students the are provided with a miracle. A great deal is coincidence. Israeli dreidel I have where the “Shin” is The Pilgrims, as the Maccabees being made of the fact On Chanukah, we celebrate the miracle replaced by a “Pey” for Nes Gadol haya before them, were shaken by the that Thanksgiving and of the oil that should have lasted only one Po — a great miracle happened here. overwhelming odds they faced going into Chanukah overlap this day but lasted for eight. We light our candles However, with Thanksgiving and that winter in Massachusetts. However, year. Thanksgiving is and, as Rabbi Hillel taught, we bring more Chanukah overlapping, it may be more they had faith, and at least as the popular as late as it can be holiness into the world by remembering the appropriate for us to use our Israeli dreidels. story goes, they were provided with a and Chanukah is the miracle and adding new candles, new light, After the Greeks trashed the Temple miracle that helped them survive. earliest it can be. It will to our menorah each day. in Jerusalem the Maccabees could Let us celebrate this miracle and the be thousands of years One of the most beloved symbols have said, “There is not enough oil for miracles we may witness in our daily until this concurrence of this holiday is the dreidel that re-consecrate the Temple, why bother, lives. We have many things for which of holidays occurs again. I have heard has the four Hebrew letters, “Nun”, matters are hopeless!” But they didn’t. to be grateful. May we sit down at our people half jokingly talk about latkes and “Gimel”,” Hey”, and “Shin.” These The Maccabees faced down the “what Thanksgiving tables, pull out our dreidels turkey together as these holidays mix. letters are an acronym of the phrase, ifs” and the “God forbids” of their troubled and remember, not only did a great However, I think if we really consider Nes Gadol hayah Sham — a great times with the confidence born within miracle happen “there,” but “here,” as well. Bringing light to a troubled world By Rabbi Yosef Lipsker What happened back then? The Greeks didn’t realize they were longing for. each of us. Just as the number of Chabad Center of Berks County wanted to drive the Jewish people away So every year on Chanukah we do candles increase night by night — In addition to the from the Torah and their special connection something special to symbolize our more light dispelling the darkness, blessing that we make to G-d. The Greeks did not object to attempts to increase spirituality in this goodness excelling over evil — so also on the lighting of the the Torah as a philosophy. In fact, as society and make the world a better we are empowered to use our talents Chanukah candles philosophers themselves, they embraced place. Technically it would be enough to and strengths to their maximum potential (“... that we are what the Torah had to offer. They were upset light one candle each night to fulfill the to be a candle dispelling darkness. Just sanctified with G-d’s that the Jewish people were in touch with commandment of the Chanukah lights. Yet, as we light the candles at a window or a commandments in that the Torah’s divine element. They were upset instead of lighting one candle each night, doorway, to shine outwards, to be seen He commanded us to that we had a spiritual connection. we light one on the first night, and then add by others, so also each of us in our lives light the Chanukah This same struggle is happening one more candle every night of Chanukah, should be like candles to shine outwards, candle”), there is a today. Society is relentlessly trying to until we have eight shining lights. examples of positive action to others. unique second blessing. Since the focus impose its base values on our lives, We will not allow the world to close Chana and I wish you a bright and of Chanukah is its miracles, the Rabbis secularizing us and replacing our Jewish down the Holy Temple that exists within happy Chanukah! established a blessing solely dedicated to awareness. Unlike in the time of the remembering the miracles of Chanukah. Greeks, our lives are not at stake, and we This is the blessing of She’asah Nissim, “… are not forced to act one way or another. that You made miracles for our forefathers But that makes the challenges we face in those days, in these times!” What? as a nation that much greater, because The miracles were performed in these it doesn’t seem as if anyone is trying to times as well? I don’t recall my Chanukah strip us of our spiritual connection. candles staying lit for eight days. What Every single day I meet and talk to this blessing is really teaching us is that people who have lost their faith. I meet through fulfilling the commandments of people who have turned their backs on their each holiday, we are able to recreate the religion and heritage, who with a little bit of same spiritual environment that existed encouragement, and a little bit of learning during the original event — now. come running back for the connection they LOCAL CONGREGATIONS AND SERVICE TIMES REFORM CONGREGATION OHEB SHOLOM (610) 375-6034 Friday, Nov. 1: Shabbat, 6 p.m. Friday, Nov. 15, Family Shabbat and Dinner, 6 p.m. Fridays, Nov 8, 22 and 29, 7:45 p.m.; Saturday, Nov. 16: Tot Shabbat, 10 a.m. CHABAD CENTER OF BERKS COUNTY (610) 921-0881 Saturday mornings: 9:30 a.m.; Friday evenings: 6:30 p.m. KESHER ZION SYNAGOGUE (610) 374-1763 Weekly services Saturdays: 9:30 a.m.; Tuesdays, 7:30 p.m. Friday Evening Service – Please call for service information Babysitting available upon request with one week’s notice CONGREGATION SHOMREI HABRITH November 2013 SHALOM Page 11 Community News Elmarzouky to be honored The Jewish Federation of Reading four local senior will join the rest of the Berks County citizen centers. community in celebrating Steve The Federation Elmarzouky, area restaurateur and is a supporter of founder of the Islamic Center of Reading. that event. PageThe  Federation and Alvernia University He is a winner March 2010 co-sponsored Elmarzouky’s nomination of the NAACPShalom as Outstanding Philanthropist honored Image Award, by the Berks Regional Chapter of the an Alvernia Association of Fundraising Professionals. Communityboard member News He will receive his award at a breakfast and volunteers ceremony Nov. 15 in the Green Valley his time as a Obituaries Country Club. chaplain for the Reading Police Department Elmarzouky organizes the annual and as a clergyman at Berks County Lucy Suzanne Knoblauch L. (Sulman) Moyer. He is also survived People First event, in which community Prison. He is a member of many interfaith Zeidman, 96, Wyomissing. by his daughters, Aileen D., widow volunteers feed the less fortunate at organizations and has a long history of Surviving are a son, Bruce F., of Neal H. Endy, of Pennside, and E. his Queen City Family Restaurant and working closely with the Jewish community. husband of Geraldine L. Zeidman, of Roxanne, wife of Les Walker, of Batavia Shillington; a brother, Harry Knoblauch, Ohio; sons, Stan B. , husband of Kristine Lecture to focus on Bernstein husband of Edith Knoblauch, of Reading; K. Moyer, of Sinking Spring and Jay a sister, Ruth Balis of Wyomissing; and H., husband of Margaret R. Moyer, of Commonwealth Speaker and musician engaging presentations mix scholarship several nieces and nephews. Muhlenberg Township. Other survivors Karl Middleman’s presentation “Leonard with showmanship and are noted for --- Break time areat Gratz grandchildren: Brett A. Endy, Chad Bernstein: American Idol, American reframing the classical music experience Irene S. Zeidman, 62, Wyomissing. M. Endy and Elizabeth K. Moyer; and Idealist” will be held Thursday, Nov. 7, in a bold, revelatory way. In addition to She is survivedGratz by her brother goes Bruce to great-grandchildren, the movies Carson N., Logan from 1 to 2:30 p.m. at the JCC. There being a CommonwealthImages fromSpeaker, Karl F., husband of Geraldine L. Zeidman C., Ardyn N. and Ava L. Endy Gratz Jewish Community High Like the old days ol movie serials, is no admission fee but reservations are Middleman teaches at Temple University of Shillington. --- School’s Reading branch has started students will get to see a new chapter required. Call 610-921-0624 to reserve. and is the YeminFounder and Orde Artistic Director --- Shirley Robinson of B’nai B’rith a new feature. each week until the film is concluded. The lecture and discussion offers of the PhiladelphiaArea resident Classical and recent Symphony. college Robert Berger, 54, Reading. Apartments. Survived by her Friendship During break time students will have Popcorn will be served. an opportunity to learn about the Thisgraduate presentation Jessica Flamholzis a program sent us of He was the former spouse of Lea Circle friends. the opportunity to finish seeing some PROGRAMMING NOTE: Gratz Maestro’s life. Middleman will share his the Pennsylvaniathese pictures Humanities from her recent Council, visit Berger, Reading. He is survived by --- of the films that were used to trigger will be closed Sunday, Dec. 1, but impressions and present audio and visual sponsoredto Yemin in part Orde, by an a Israeligrant villagefrom the two daughters, Molly R. Berger, State Louis Malamud, 95, formerly discussion in their Media Messages- please join us at RCOS that day for a excerpts of America’s greatest and most Pennsylvaniafor children Historical and youth and supported Museum College, and Bethany S. Berger, of Temple. He is survived by a son, Video Values class. community menorah lighting. exuberant musical hero. Middleman’s Commission. by our Federation. Reading; and one brother, Dr. Barry M. Mitchel, husband of Laura Malamud, Berger, husband of Kathleen A. 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Best wishes to our Berks County daughters Erica and Margo. Congratulations to Judy Sager and *** athletes competing in the 2010 Maccabi *** Addie Dunitz on the engagement of their Mazel Tov to the Bluestone Family: Games: Mazel tov to Mr. &Shalom Mrs. Donald daughterNewspaper and granddaughter (Joan Rachel to Friedman) To David and Marianna on their new Emily & Jared Baksic, swimming Abramson and Lillian Abramson on Chris McBee, both of Norman, Okla. 5” (2 col.) x 7” daughter and to grandparents Eric and Andrew Blickle, basketball the birth of Morgan Taylor Abramson Marissa. Matthew Eisenberg, swimming to Bradley and Jaime Abramson, Questions? *** Hannah and Alexis Glassmire, Philadelphia. ContactUntil next Jodi time: Gibble, Shalom! 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Members of the community gathered at the Manor at Market Square in Reading for a Friendship Circle Rosh Hashanah celebration. Jewish Family Service would like to thank Paul Schwartz for blowing the shofar to conclude the service. We would also like to thank Laine Heisler, Steph Brok, Ed Kazin, and Paul Schwartz for helping us serve the Rosh Hashanah meal. Thank you to Manor at Market Square for hosting and co-sponsoring our event. Also, thank you to Boscovs A La Carte for providing servers for our meal and making it a special holiday celebration!

Thanksgiving and Chanukah — together at last! By Joanie G. Friedman It is not a surprise, not really. For how A rare occurrence many years have you heard the jokes The last time Thanksgiving and about our holidays? We are early. We Chanukah overlapped was 1888, or at are late. We are never on time! least the last time since Thanksgiving For 53 years our family celebrated was declared a federal holiday by every holiday together. The reason is President Abraham Lincoln, and the simple: we all lived close by. What a next time may have Jews lighting wonderful time it was. Yes! We took it all their candles from spaceships 79,043 for granted. One day there was a rude years from now, by one calculation. awakening and the family moved. One Read more: www.wjla.com/ went here and the other went there. articles/2013/10/thanksgivukkah- Well, in the beginning, it was fine. We rare-convergence-of-thanksgiving- still were together for most holidays, even and-hanukkah-95022. with the young ones. For some reason, html#ixzz2hMkBp5vI school began and restrictions were placed on getting together. Too much homework, too little times for vacation days. So what happens this year? I hear Five years ago, because of asthma- friends complaining “Oy! The holidays are related problems, we decided to spend so close!” I have the biggest smile — and winters in Florida. Our children, however, you know why. My family will have a legal were still in Pennsylvania. They managed celebration this year! We will begin the to come down for the Thanksgiving night before Thanksgiving, and celebrate weekend and that was fabulous. Uh, oh. for the beginning of the real eight nights. Do you see a problem on the horizon? Maybe even the turkey will have blue stars Isn’t another holiday slowly creeping up? of David all around the platter. How about The first year, we celebrated Chanukah little round slices of red potatoes for coins? the night before they went home. And then How about dreidles around the cranberry we realized we would do this every year. sauce? Maybe … well maybe, I will think Thanksgiving is on Thursday, the rest of of more things, too! the week is devoted to Chanukah! We Naturally I will write everything down, hung decorations and played spinning the so the next time this happens we will dreidle. We exchanged presents and (don’t be prepared. What a wonderful time it tell anyone!) the night before they left the will be! children lit menorahs. It took a while to select (If you are looking for a recipe for their favorites. They were allowed to choose Grandma Mary’s Tzimmes, write to me!) from our 39 — displayed on all the upper Contact Joanie G Friedman window sills throughout the family room. It contributes to newspapers in the U.S. was the next best thing to give us Chanukah and Canada, and her “Decorating Diary” memories to last all year. Naturally we have appears weekly in the Reading Eagle. She plenty of Chanukah pictures giving plenty may be reached at joaniedecorating@ of memories of all the fun. comcast.net. November 2013 SHALOM Page 13 Page 14 SHALOM November 2013 Local student headed to D.C. JoJo Ure, a organizations to bring 400 student sophomore at leaders from across the country to the Wyomissing High School, nation’s capital for Israel advocacy was selected to attend and political activism training. Through AIPAC’s Schusterman AIPAC’s Schusterman Advocacy Institute Advocacy Institute High School Summit, AIPAC identifies High School Summit in and mentors high school students Washington Nov. 3-5. committed to strengthening the U.S.- She is a daughter of Israel relationship through the American Bruce J. Ure Jr. and Janine Schneider-Ure, political process. Wyomissing. JoJo will be representing BBYO Student participants hear about the at this year’s gathering. Jewish Federation issues affecting the U.S.-Israel alliance of Reading supported JoJo’s recognition form top experts, members of Congress in this exclusive and special leadership and policymakers, learn advance written development opportunity with an award and verbal advocacy techniques; develop from the Educational Committee of Jewish skills critical to political organizing, Federation of Reading. lobbying, and campaign work, while Each year the American Israel Public networking with some of the highest Affairs Committee partners with select performing high school students in the Jewish day schools, synagogues, country. national youth groups and teen leadership Mazel Tov, JoJo! During a day off from teaching English in Kiryat Omanim, Rebecca Maidansky and fellow volunteers of Ramala went on a trip to Latrun. We hiked to Neve Shalom and visited a structure built for the Jews and Arabs of the village to worship together in peace. Maidansky named teaching fellow Mazel Tov to Rebecca Maidansky, is a recent graduate of University of daughter of Drs. Igor and Nora Maidansky, Pittsburgh. Cumru Township, on her acceptance as Her teaching fellowship is funded a teaching fellow through the Israel Way in part by MASA and an award from Oranim Project. the Educational Committee of Jewish She is teaching in a school in Ramala Federation of Reading’s Student Camp during her 10-month assignment. She and Education Award program. On the move with Mama Doni

Mama Doni and her band perform at the Rockin Mama Doni Celebration Oct. 20 at Reform Congregation Oheb Sholom. The band’s spirited performance kept the children in the audience on their feet. Mama Doni hung out afterwards to greet the children and sign CDs, posters and her namesake cookbook. Each child got to take home a free CD and poster. The program was funded by Strategic Planning funds allocated from families with children living at home, baby boomers and seniors advisory councils. ‘When Comedy Went to School’

A crowd gathers at the Fox East theatre for “When Comedy Went to School.” Seated, from left, are Carol Gerber and Helaine Schiffman. Standing in the background are Bernie Gerber and Mickey Roeberg. In the foreground are Linda Roeberg, Elaine Levine and Jerry Levine. More than 120 people attended the screening. Special thanks to Don Fox for donating the use of his theater and the Rubin Family Educational Fund for underwriting the cost of the film. November 2013 SHALOM Page 15 Thanksgiving 2013

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A slower life © 2013, Bernard Mann / Legacy Crosswords Across Down By Anne Seltzer and talk to us and I got my picture taken with 1. THE STRONGEST HEAT IS IN THE 1. Former Cold War adversary Alan and I spent her! We had a great conversation, and Alan _____ PART OF THE OVEN 2. Nickname for Francisco a long weekend in was excited to learn that Cheryl’s nephew 6. The term for dairy-intolerance begins 3. Untainted, in Spanish Charleston for his had played for the Philadelphia Eagles. with ____ 4. Course, or the real thing, in money birthday. We visited We also went to the Charleston Tea 10. “I’LL HAVE ANOTHER SERVING matters, abbr. there last October also, Plantation, which is the only operating tea OF ____ SLAW, PLEASE.” 5. POTABLE SUCCOT AND and both of us pretty plantation in this country. We toured the 14. APPLE-_____ THANKSGIVING HAVE IN COMMON much fell in love with grounds to see how tea is propagated, 15. SHOUT ‘HAPPY TURKEY!” INTO 6. Rents out, in long-term arrangement it. There is a certain planted, harvested, dried and oxidized. A CANYON & YOU’LL HEAR AN ____ 7. “IF YOU ___-__ AGAIN, YOU WON’T old charm, yet a very Did you know that all tea leaves are 16. “I smell _ ___!” HAVE DESSERT.” (2 words) vibrant modern feel, originally created equal? The difference 17. _____ IS YOUNG COD, AT TIMES 8. “I LOVE ____ CAKE, BUT I’LL LEAVE about the city. It is a of whether it becomes black, oolong, or EATEN IN LIEU OF TURKEY IT TILL TOMORROW.” abbr. center of education with two colleges, lots green tea is in the oxidation method. 18. “EVERYONE! WE’LL BE EATING 9. Set a structure on fire, as in arson of culture, amazing restaurants, rich history It was a wonderful trip, and I want to __ __ AROUND SIX!” (2 word guess) 10. Donkeys may pull them. and literally minutes from a beach. And did share the recipe for the bourbon bread 19. At disasters, teams go out for ____ 11. “WELL, YOU KIDS CAN MISS I mention that they have an active bridge pudding. and then recov. 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Continued from Page 5 also that the students are genuinely On a wider note, thereWYOM haveISSIN G justice| REA andDIN HolocaustG remembrance today. silence is not the reason why survivors interested in hearing their stories. I know been many recentSIN KdevelopmentsING SPRING | in M UIH amLE NheartenedBERG | to E hearXETE thatR three additional are invited in. Instead, that factor is my students were genuinely interested in Holocaust education in Berks County schools in Berks County will be offering present because of the immense respect hearing Hilde’s story and many still talk and the surrounding areas. Within these courses for their students. students have for these individuals and about it now, several weeks later. the past month I have met with61 two0.8 98.77Though00 the fourth quarter of the individuals who are in the process school year has begun, there are still of developing a Holocaust course to many additional opportunities that  be offered at their local high school. remain. I just spoke to an undergraduate  One gentleman was from Lancaster ethics class at Penn State Berks County. The other, Gerry Evans, is a regarding the ethical/moral implications teacher at Hamburg High School. I of the Holocaust. I found the students  have been in contact with two other to be receptive and inquisitive and local teachers, Pete Ruckelshaus at have been asked to deliver a similar  Twin Valley and Jim Konecke at Wilson program in the classes that the same  High School. Pete has resurrected a professor also teaches at Reading Area course on Holocaust Literature at Twin Community College.  Valley, and its first offering is during As mentioned above, Kim Yashek, the current fourth quarter. He is very daughter of the late local Holocaust excited about offering this course to survivor Richard Yashek, is speaking at  his students and has even lined up Twin Valley, Hamburg and Fleetwood.  several guest speakers including Rabbi Right now Albright College is hosting Brian Michelson, Kim Yashek and Hilde an exhibit titled, “Stories Among Us: Gernsheimer. Washington State Connections to the Jim Konecke is teaching at Wilson Holocaust, Lessons in Genocide.” The Central Junior High but will be moving up exhibit includes the stories of five Holocaust to Wilson High School at the beginning survivors and one liberator and has of next school year. He will be offering a received good reviews. It is definitely course on Nazi Germany. His students worth a visit! It will be at Albright’s Gingrich will be studying this period of German Library through May 10. history in depth, including a study of the *** rise of anti-Semitism, the initial period of Jennifer Goss teaches social studies the Holocaust and the Final Solution. The in the Fleetwood School District and latter part of the course will look at post-war specializes in Holocaust education. Plan for your Bar/Bat Mitzvah & Wedding Guests!

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