June 05, 2009 | Volume VII, Issue 10 | LGBT Life in Maryland

Lesbian Police Warn Bars on Actress to Outdoor Smoking By Steve Charing Receive ‘Out Only a handful of patrons were seat- ed around the oval-shaped bar in Leon’s, the venerable Mount Vernon tavern, at 7:30 p.m. on the balmy for Equality Saturday night of May 30. But the two people who next entered the bar were not regular customers. They were uniformed police officers who Award’ sought out the manager and issued a warning that beginning 4:00 a.m. on May 31, any individual hanging out within 100 feet of the bar’s out- In recognition of her dedication to full lgbt door entrance will be subject to a equality, award-winning actress Cynthia citation. Nixon will be the special guest of Equal- “It’s the law,” one of the of- ity Maryland and will receive the “Out ficers told Vernon Brewer, a long- for Equality Award” at the organization’s time Leon’s bartender and now the Night Out for Equality Gala on June 7. manager. “We are cracking down on The event will take place at the Grand area prostitutes and drug dealers in Ballroom of the Marriott Bethesda North the area,” one of the policemen said. Hotel and Conference Center in Bethes- Indeed, management at The Drink- da. Ms. Nixon will be honored along with ery and Jays on Read were also in- other allies and elected officials, who have formed that night. helped advance the cause for equality in “Our customers are not pros- Maryland. titutes or drug dealers,” Brewer There will also be several individu- protested. “They only go out for a als who will receive the “Ally for Equality smoke. They have a drink waiting Award” including former Congressman inside.” But the police insisted that Wayne Gilchrist, and the ‘Advocate for these unsavory characters tend to Equality’ award will be presented to Del- mingle with the customers inside, egate Joseline Pena-Melnyk (District 21, and therefore, they are cracking Anne Arundel and Prince George’s). down on those congregating outside “Equality Maryland continues to pur- the bar’s entrance. sue equality under the law for all mem- “This doesn’t make any sense,” bers of the lgbt community,” said Board Brewer told OUTloud. “Where are President Scott Davenport. “Events like they supposed to go? If they have

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Publisher California Quake Mike Chase [email protected] The court decision was a setback, but it will make Executive Editor Jim Becker us focus on a better strategy. [email protected] Sales Mary Taylor, Director By Steve Charing were permitted to retain their status, [email protected] the disappointing, but not necessarily Managing Editor As recently as 10 surprising court decision, prompted an Steve Charing years ago, few angry backlash from marriage equality Leather Editor thought that “gay advocates. Rodney Burger marriage” would ever The ruling highlighted the fact that Writers be at the forefront of the judicial system, while helpful in many campaign strategist for none other than Jeffrey Clagett Josh Aterovis a national dialogue. cases, cannot totally be counted on to John McCain, comes to mind. His sister Chuck Duncan Rickie Green At the time, the lgbt community and al- make same-sex marriage a reality. This is a lesbian. Eva Hersh MD Marty Hoegg lies were reeling from the failed effort to energy generated from the decision will This would be a violation of the apho- Doug Ireland Jay Loane allow openly gay and lesbians to serve be channeled in California to appeal to rism, don’t let the rights of a minority be P.S. Lorio Jim Lucio Meredith Moise Sandy Rawls in the Armed Forces. We were trying to the voters again and essentially reverse put up for a popular vote. But that may Ben Ryland MIA - Alexander St. John nudge a bill through Congress that would the outcome of Prop 8. be the best route to take in the long run. Nate Sweeney Larry Walker provide anti-discrimination protections in That’s the correct strategy. In California, for example, we cannot Graphics the workplace for gays and lesbians. And Hopefully with better leadership of this change the minds of the justices, but we Hannah-Love Shibley, Director we were attempting to enact legislation at effort it will be successful. A new coalition can change the voters’ minds if an effec- [email protected] the state and local levels to protect the needs to come in and work with clergy of tive strategy is crafted and executed. And Carol Baker gay and lesbian community from discrimi- all religions to alleviate concerns and to that could reverse the results; after all, we Bryan Sullivan nation in employment, housing and public emphasize that civil marriage is what is only lost by 4.5 points back in November. Photographers accommodations. being sought—not religious blessings. To underscore this strategy, a bunch Skip Koritzer That was our agenda a decade ago. These leaders should reach out more of lgbt advocacy groups including the Harry Lowinger It all changed on May 17, 2004, when aggressively to the African-American ACLU are urging others to refrain from fil- National Advertising the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachu- community to highlight the similarities be- ing federal lawsuits because as they see Rivendell Media 908-232-2021 setts ruled in Goodridge v. Department of tween the civil rights movement and what it, the Supreme Court does not have the Public Health that the state constitution gays and lesbians are seeking. make-up at this time to rule favorably on Web Services couldn’t limit marriage to heterosexual And why not take advantage of the a same-sex marriage case. Drew Saine [email protected] couples. The issue of same-sex marriage many PFLAG chapters in California to al- There are others, however, who be- was all-of-a-sudden thrust near the top of low representatives speak to senior citi- lieve that going to court is our best course Distribution/Circulation Jay Loane the national debate when conservative re- zen groups and educate them on the true of action. Lawyers Theodore Olson and [email protected] ligious groups and others went ballistic. meaning of family values? More than any David Boies—adversaries in the Bush v. Ballot initiatives in 11 states to ban other demographic, seniors accounted Gore case following the bungled 2000 Baltimore OUTloud gay marriage popped up like spring dan- for the largest percentage of those who Florida vote—are leading the way. P.O. Box 3640, Baltimore, MD 21214 delions. All passed. Many believe that supported Prop. 8. A blogger on LGBTRainbowLinks- 410-244-6780 the controversy generated enough evan- It’s far more expedient to file a suit in FOCUS.com supports this approach by www.baltimoreoutloud.com gelical voters in Ohio to tip the election to a court and hope that the judge or panel writing, “Either you go full steam ahead George W. Bush in 2004. of judges issues a favorable decision. in war or just sit on the sidelines and lick Additional Information Accordingly, gay activists were unpre- The judicial system is supposed to be your wounds. That’s the trouble with ‘our Baltimore OUTloud is published every other Friday by Pride pared for this war compared to the more our safety net. But what if that fails, then society’ when it comes to the ‘LGBT lead- Media, Ltd. in Baltimore, Maryland. Readers’ comments organized and better funded religious what? ers’ and time to put up or shut up, they fall and unsolicited materials are welcomed and may be sent to: [email protected]. | Pride Media offices right. Our side depended largely—but We need to go back to the funda- to the wayside like a bunch of weak little are located at 1120 N. Charles Street, 4R, Baltimore, 21201. not entirely—on having the courts rem- mental process of building grass-root mice.” | All materials appearing in this newspaper are the property edy what has been seen as violation of support and having dialogues with key But he adds, “You want gay marriage, of Pride Media, Ltd. and may not be reproduced without the equal protection clause in many of the groups that are persuadable. Let’s take you want equal rights, then be prepared the written permission of the editor. states’ constitutions as well as the 14th that approach, even if it requires a few to get down in the trenches and get dirty. Amendment of the U.S. Constitution. years, and allow the issue to be decided Take the battle where it should have gone Fast-forward to the recent California by the legislatures, if not the voters, per before.” Supreme Court ruling by a 6-1 vote that se. Elected officials, more often than not, And that battle is taking it to the peo- disheartened the lgbt community and follow the will of the people. ple, which is the best strategy. File the supporters by upholding the iniquitous The work is made easier when more suits in the courts anyway, but win the Proposition 8 outcome that resulted from and more gay folks come out. You would people over, too. ©2009 - All Rights Reserved Chairman of the Board Jim Becker the November 2008 ballot measure. Al- be surprised as to how many people sup- President Jim Williams though the approximate 18,000 couples port our efforts who would ordinarily not Steve Charing’s OUTspoken blog is at Vice President Lee Mooney who married prior to the election result side with us. Steve Schmidt, the chief www.SteveCharing.blogspot.com  q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com news Equality Maryland Executive Director Announces Resignation National Search to be Undertaken to Select Replacement

Equality Maryland announced today the resignation of Kate Ru- nyon as its Executive Director. “My time with Equality Maryland working on behalf of the state’s lesbian, gay, bisexual, and trans- gender community has been very rewarding. This is an exciting time in the lgbt movement and I feel fortunate and proud to have directed Equality Maryland’s efforts during the last legislative session and in the months surrounding it,” Ms. Runyon said. “We very much regret that Kate is stepping down at this time,” said Equality Maryland Inc.’s Board President, Scott Dav- enport. “We will miss her warmth and energy, and are sorry our constituents will not benefit from the many gifts she has to offer.” Mr. Dave Toth, Equality Maryland Foundation’s current Board President, has agreed to take on day-to-day manage- ment of the organization. “While I too am saddened by Kate’s resignation, I look forward to working with everyone involved at Equality Maryland in continuing to move the organization and our community forward.” A Board Search Committee will be formed to conduct a na- tional search for a new Executive Director. Those interested may email application materials (current resume, at least three refer- ences and cover letter) to Mr. Scott Davenport, at EDSearch@ equalitymaryland.org with “ED Application” in the subject line. Ms. Runyon’s resignation is effective June 12, 2009. Dance Artist Amber to Headline Pride Block Party

A popular artist among the lgbt commu- far. Her next set of singles like “Sexual nity, Dutch-German singer Marie-Claire (Di Da Di)” (1999), “Love One Another” “Amber” Cremers will take the stage at (2000) and “Above The Clouds”(2000) Baltimore’s Pride celebration on June 20. were very well received. Amber, along with other acts, will perform Amber’s career remained on track, during the high-energy block party that and in 2008 she released the new version follows the Pride Parade. She will also of the smash single, “This is Your Night.” appear at Capital Pride in D.C. a week The Pride Parade begins at 4:00 earlier. p.m. on Saturday, June 20 from Monu- Amber’s music career took off when ment and Charles Streets and is kicked one of her demos, “This Is Your Night” off by the fun-filled High Heels Race. Fol- Druid Hill Park begins at 11:00 a.m. and gained interest by Tommy Boy Records. lowing a procession of marchers, floats lasts until 5:00 p.m. Booths from a wide Soon after its release as a single, it be- and vehicles representing myriad organi- range of organizations and businesses came one of the most successful popular zations and lgbt-friendly businesses, the are there to present information or sell songs of 1996 and 1997. block party, at the intersection of Eager services and products to the community. A full-length album soon followed. and Charles Streets, takes over and lasts Live entertainment will keep the festival It included hit songs such as “Colour through most of the evening. Music from festive. of Love” and “One More Night” (1997). artists like Amber will keep the Pride-go- For both the block party and the festi- Amber’s self-titled sophomore album gar- ers dancing to the pulsating beats. val there is an ample amount of food and nered the most mainstream attention thus On Sunday, June 21, the festival in beverages available.  q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com news briefs

Scholarship Center, 7246 Cradlerock Way, Columbia, packages. The proceeds from the auction MD 21045 at 7:30 p.m. will be used to fund the chapter’s scholar- Presentation and Silent The scholarship will be awarded to a ship program. deserving student who is gay, lesbian, bi- An in-home private concert by Tom Auction to Highlight sexual, transgendered or an ally. For the Goss will be among the items auctioned. first time, the chapter opened eligibility The items were donated by individuals PFLAG Meeting to students throughout the state of Mary- and local businesses. Gay singer/musician/composer Tom Goss land. Delegate Elizabeth Bobo (District Goss, who was featured in Baltimore will provide the entertainment during the 12B) will present the $1,000 scholarship. OUTloud in April, will have copies of his Howard County chapter of PFLAG’s 3rd A silent auction will also take place latest CD, “Back to Love” on sale. All annual scholarship award presentation that will include such items as certificates meetings are free, confidential and open and silent auction to be held on June 9. to restaurants and theater performances, to everyone. It will take place at Owen Brown Interfaith arts and crafts items, and a variety of gift

Change Coming for Obama Nominates Don’t Ask Don’t Tell? Lesbian for U.S.

Adm. Mike Mullen, the nation’s top Attorney military official says that if the “don’t ask, don’t tell” law changes, he will President Obama announced his nomina- advise President Barack Obama on tion of 50 year-old Jenny Durkan as U.S. how to integrate openly gay and les- Attorney for the federal district in Seattle. bian military members into military Durkan formerly served as legal operations, and the Pentagon will counsel to Washington Governor Chris- comply. tine Gregoire, and currently is a Seattle The chairman of the Joint attorney. Chiefs of Staff is working to provide The part about this choice that’s President Obama with an objective good for the lgbt community, Durkan is assessment of what impact, if any, the first openly lesbian U.S. Attorney to repealing the Don’t Ask Don’t Tell be nominated. Durkan has a partner, and policy would bring to the military. the couple raises two children. Some concerns center around Durkan still has to be confirmed by the fact the military is already the U.S. Senate Judiciary Committee. stretched thin as the U.S. is current- —GayAgenda.com ly engaged in two wars overseas. President Obama has stated he wants to repeal the rule and allow Linda Goldman at GLCCB gay and lesbian service men and women to serve openly but he has Author Linda Goldman will be holding taken a cautious approach to the is- a discussion and book signing at the sue. –GayAgenda.com GLCCB, 241 W. Chase Street in Baltimore on Saturday, June 6 at 2:00 p.m. Her book, Coming Out, Coming In: Nurturing the Well-Being and Inclusion of Gay Youth in Mainstream Society, describes the process of “coming in” to a welcoming and nurturing family, from both the teen’s and the parents’ perspec- tive. Linda Goldman draws on her per- sonal and professional experience as a school guidance counselor, child and adolescent therapist, parent and a mem- ber of the national group PFLAG to build a common language and a new paradigm of additional resources provided in the for understanding sexual orientation and book, parents, school administrators gender identity as a part of mainstream and educators, community groups and culture. counselors will find the tools needed Through the information, exercises, to facilitate nurturing and safe environ- anecdotes and extensive bibliography ments for our lgbt youth.  q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com news Transgender Forum Develops a Winning Strategy

By Alexandra Saine chronic unemployment for transgender individuals and even homelessness. Equality Maryland’s Transgender Forum held Friday, Additionally, lethargic legislators should be target- May 29, was a “call to action” bringing a new ray of hope ed for education and outreach. Indeed, a bill to provide to an otherwise despondent Maryland transgender com- protections on the basis of gender identity and expres- munity. The forum, and another to be held in PG County, sion failed to even come to a vote in the Senate Judi- is Equality Maryland’s outreach effort to garner vast cial proceedings Committee during the 2009 General community allies in its plan to ensure no fuss legislation Assembly. next year. A strong, positive, community presence is required The forum established a framework for a solid plan at both the legislative and local community levels to win of action for grassroots committees and coalitions to allies. Negative public misconceptions about transgen- take, to increase public awareness and understanding der people- perpetuated by media sensationalism- can concerning transgender individuals and the discrimina- be quelled through lobbying and letter writing to officials tions they face, and the economic urgency of providing and media to shine a positive light on the community. equal protections state-wide that their lesbian, gay, and Many participants felt that increased transgender bisexual allies share. community involvement could be gained by Equality Representatives of several lgbt advocacy and trans- Maryland’s extending education that would teach the gender support groups participated in the forum, includ- mechanics of the legislative process to help individuals ing Trans-United, Team Trans, Stonewall Democrats, gain a better understanding of the steps they can take in Maryland Black Family Alliance (MBFA), Pride in Faith the way of lobbying and connecting with elected officials. (PIF), Marylanders of Color Collective, Gender Learn- The formation of a centralized information resource was ing Advocacy Support System of Baltimore (G.L.A.S.S. proposed that could increase transgender numbers be- Inc.), and Gender Identity Group of Baltimore (GIG). In hind community outreach and lobbying efforts. all, 30 people attended but no elected officials. Leading the forum was lgbt activist and civil rights Winning the Minds and Hearts of the People attorney Mindy Daniels, who is heading up Equality Equality Maryland was on track with many of the

Maryland’s six-month outreach and education project. recommendations, having pre-established committees Photo: Courtesy Max Rulz Primary on its agenda is to gather allies within and out- in which forum participants can become actively in- Participants at the forum side of the lgbt community to assist this year’s lobby- volved. In the economical outreach spectrum, a Health ing efforts through grassroots efforts that will increase Care committee will address discrimination in health empathy and support. awareness and understanding of the transgender com- care organizations and clinics, while Baltimore Transi- Addressing another forum consensus, a new Politi- munity and issues to the populace and legislators alike. tion Housing will garner supporters for housing provided cal Watch committee will keep abreast of apathetic poli- Participants in the forum split into discussion groups to low-income transgender people. ticians and opposition as a way to focus on the bill.. to tackle specific issues, such as the housing and health In the outreach arena, a speakers bureau will help The forum demonstrated that Equality Maryland care agenda, and formulate plans of action for each. A educate and broaden public awareness and understand- does not abide by the popular misconception that leg- consensus among the focus groups was that lobbying ing at a local level, such as within schools, churches and islators do not vote on controversial issues during an must occur sooner. And paramount in both lobbying and government agencies, regarding what it is to be trans- election year. On the contrary, Mindy Daniel’s message outreach efforts is to show legislation and public sup- gendered and the discrimination many in the trans com- to legislators: “We’re going to be there, we are always porters why equal protection for transgender individu- munity face. A Stories committee documenting the per- going to be there. We’re not going away.” als is urgent from an economic perspective. The bottom sonal experiences of transgender individuals, through line—discrimination in the workplace—can result in video and written testimonials will attempt to gain public Alexandra Saine is web editor for Baltimore OUTloud.  q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com news New Community-Focused LGBT Website to Launch in July

ORLANDO, FL—A fresh, new and differ- “I’m very excited about the upcom- ent website for the gay community, Rain- ing launch of the website,” says Michael bowpulse.com, will launch July 8, 2009. Hancock, Founder and CEO. “Currently, The site will differ from all the others, as there is no other single site that all mem- it will be community-based, focusing on bers of the community around the county the social aspects of the gay community can visit and feel as if they belong. When and will feature news, shopping, travel, I was soliciting feedback about the idea social networking, and tips on ways of of a site, members of every aspect of our bringing all the members of the commu- community expressed the need for such a nity together. site, and were also excited that someone In preparation of the opening, repre- finally was going to make such a site a sentatives of the site will be promoting the reality.” opening during the Gay Days Weekend Hancock’s business partner is lo- activities throughout the Orlando area on cated in Glen Burnie, MD, adding a local June 5-7, 2009. flavor to the site. No other site currently encompasses Rainbowpulse.com is launching its all the members of the community. So- homepage on June 5 for Gay Days Week- cial Networking sections will allow all the end and will give a sneak-peak of what members of the community to come to- to expect when the site goes fully live on gether, and provides for the organization 07-08-09. of local clubs to help further the involve- For Further Information: www.rain- ment of all members of the community. bowpulse.com or call 1-877-85PULSE.  q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com church directory

The United Methodist Churches in Baltimore City Gay?Gay? Lesbian?Lesbian? Catholic?Catholic? Welcome You All Are Welcome Reconciling and welcoming congregations where St. Bernadette you will be warmly welcomed are: Roman Catholic Bethesda Church ~ 6300 Harford Road www.bethmethumc.com Church Faith Community Church ~ 5315 Harford Road Our Weekend Mass Schedule: www.faithcommunityumc.org SATURDAY Grace Church ~ 5407 N Charles St (at Northern Parkway) 5:30 p.m. - Church www.graceunitedmethodist.org SUNDAY Mt Vernon Place Church (at the Monument) [email protected] 9:00 a.m.,10:45 a.m., 12:15 p.m. - Church St John’s Church ~ Baltimore City 2640 St Paul Street Contact Ann McDonald, Pastoral Life Director 410-969-2785 www.stjohnsbaltimore.org 801 Stevenson Road - Severn, MD 21144-2299 West Baltimore Church ~ 5130 Greenwich Avenue 410-969-2783 www.westbaltimoreumc.org www.stbernadette.org

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Beth El Congregation Unitarian Universalist Church of Annapolis We are a Welcoming Congregation, An open, progressive USCJ synagogue. We welcome and celebrate the lives of bisexual, gay, lesbian, and transgender people. 8101 Park Heights Avenue Worship service: 9 and 11am Baltimore, MD 21208 Rev. Dr. Fredric Muir, Pastor  ‡www.bethelbalto.com Francoise Ateto, Director of Religion Education “This is your synagogue.” 333 Dubois Road - Annapolis, MD 21401 (410) 266-8044

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WASHINGTON – The Human Rights tional right to privacy, first articulated in Court, in addition to Justice Ruth Bader Campaign, the nation’s largest lesbian, Griswold, that lays the foundation for fun- Ginsburg. We praise President Obama for gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) damental rights for LGBT people. his commitment to diversity and expand- civil rights organization, hailed President Judge Sotomayor was born in June of ing the number of women on the Court. Obama’s selection of Judge Sonia Soto- 1954 in the Bronx, New York and gradu- Judge Sotomayor clearly possesses the mayor of the U.S. Court of Appeals for ated from Yale Law School in 1979. Judge intellectual rigor and experience required the Second Circuit as the nominee for the Sotomayor began her legal career at the of a Supreme Court Justice and we are opening on the United States Supreme New York County District Attorney’s Of- confident her knowledge and expertise Court created by the retirement of Justice fice where she was an Assistant District will serve our nation well. David Souter. Attorney from 1979 to 1984. In 1984 she HRC defines a fair-minded judge as a “We applaud President Obama for went into private practice with the firm of person who demonstrates: choosing Judge Sonia Sotomayor to be- Pavia & Harcourt in New York City, where --A commitment to full equality under come our nation’s next U.S. Supreme she practiced until 1992. She was nomi- law for gay, lesbian, bisexual and trans- Court Justice,” said Joe Solmonese, nated as a federal judge by President gender Americans; individuals living with president of the Human Rights Cam- George H.W. Bush and confirmed by the HIV and AIDS; women; people with dis- paign. “The U.S. Supreme Court decides Senate in 1992. She was subsequently abilities and racial, ethnic, and religious cases that intimately affect the lives of all nominated by President Bill Clinton to minorities; Americans. We are confident that Judge the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Second --A commitment to the constitu- edies for discrimination and violence; Sotomayor has a demonstrated under- Circuit and confirmed by the Senate in tional right to privacy and individual lib- --A sophisticated understanding standing and commitment to protecting 1998. erty, including the right of two consenting of and commitment to the separation the liberty and equality of all Americans.” Judge Sotomayor’s nomination adults to enter into consensual intimate of church and state and the protection The Human Rights Campaign is en- makes her only the third woman and first relationships; of those citizens with minority religious couraged by Judge Sotomayor’s record of Latina nominated to our nation’s highest --A respect for the constitutional au- views; fair-minded decisions. Judge Sotomayor court. Once confirmed, Judge Sotomayor thority of Congress to promote equality --A respect for state legislatures’ at- has consistently recognized the constitu- will be the second woman on Supreme and civil rights and provide statutory rem- -- continued on page 44  q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com 10 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com news Openly Gay Teacher Honored

By Steve Charing

Tim Whiting may have been the last to know about it, but he was clear- ly the most moved, as he was honored last month by the Baltimore County Chamber of Commerce. The openly gay teacher at Seneca Elementary School was among 213 Baltimore County teach- ers at the 23rd Annual Teachers’ Awards for Excellence in Education Ceremony, which recog- nized outstanding dedi- cation and commitment to children. Photo: Barry Leventhal Nominations for this honor came from school leadership, student involvement, parents, students, colleagues, and com- student activities, and care and concern munity members. All winners received a for children. plaque and stipend. Whiting was select- During the ceremony, Baltimore ed as the Southeast area teacher of the County Public Schools Superintendent year. Dr. Joe A. Hairston said the follow- The awards ceremony took place at ing about Tim Whiting: “Great teaching Martins’ West in front of some 2,500 peo- knows no boundaries, and Tim Whiting is ple including Governor Martin O’Malley. example A. In the short time he’s taught What was interesting was the fact that he in Baltimore County – he is in just his first HELP US SEE YOU had absolutely no idea he was going to year at Seneca Elementary School as receive the award. the school’s general music and chorus “This was a complete surprise,” Whit- teacher – he has built on nearly a decade ing told OUTloud. “My partner knew about of educational experience to make music it for three weeks! The school staff knew instruction come alive. about it. Many of the kids did, too, and “In just a year at Seneca, Tim has OUT THERE! they provided some information for my created an extracurricular music club program bio. They all kept the news from called Soundsations, where students not me,” he said. only play and perform enrichment music Whiting was nominated by one of his on the recorder and xylophones, but the eleven year-old students who recently lost also perform original dance pieces to ac- her father. This loss caused her a great company the music. deal of pain, and she was diagnosed by “At previous teaching posts at schools a professional for depression. To help her in Ohio, Virginia, and Montgomery Coun- deal with her loss, Tim Whiting allowed ty, Maryland, Tim has forged a leadership her to borrow one of his classroom instru- role wherever he has been, continuing ments, which she played tirelessly along his own professional development while with practicing the dances she learned mentoring students from George Mason from him. University, for instance, on understand- Whiting’s guidance helped her cope ing the ‘life of a teacher.’ Additionally, during the difficult times and she felt in- Mr. Whiting has completed training at the spired to nominate him for the award. After Kennedy Center in Washington D.C. on reading the three-page essay his student arts integration and connecting the arts wrote, the Baltimore County Chamber to classroom curriculum.” of Commerce selected his application “I was extraordinarily flattered to re- out of the 4,500 teachers and 213 final- ceive this honor,” said Whiting. “Being a ists. The criteria for the award included -- continued on page 44 11 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com

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Compiled by Jim Becker Pride events are more important in towns Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs be- like Billerica than they are in cities like lieves as many as 30 people have been Boston with large, visible lgbt communi- killed during the last three months be- ties. “The issues of lgbt people are impor- cause they were—or were perceived to tant in a community like Billerica because be—gay. In a letter to Iraqi Prime Minister in a town like ours we have the opportu- Nouri al-Maliki, the human rights group nity to get to know one another. We get Amnesty International called for “urgent to know our neighbors. We get to under- and concerted action” to end the violence stand each other better. . . We show com- against the gay community, the group re- passion and love for one another, and we ported on its Web site. as a community often come to the aid of A group calling itself “Brigades of each other,” said Reef. Nonetheless, he the Righteous” has posted signs around said that there are problems, and “[n]ot Anti-gay violence, Sadr City listing the names of alleged ho- a week goes by that I don’t get called a mosexuals and threatening to kill them. faggot or a queer while walking on the rhetoric growing in Iraq Since the fall of Saddam Hussein, ho- streets of my town or riding my bicycle on mophobia and the terrorization of lgbt Mass. town of 40,000 the streets of my town.”(Bay Windows - Baghdad, Iraq - There has been grow- people has gott much worse,” human Ethan Jacobs at baywindows.com) ing anti-gay violence in Iraq. On Thurs- rights campaigner Peter Tatchell wrote proclaims gay pride day, May 28, radical Shiite cleric Moqtada on PinkNews.co.uk in February. (365Gay. Latino lgbt pride Sadr called for the “depravity” of homo- com) Billerica, MA - In cities like Boston and sexuality to be eradicated but his spokes- Cambridge issuing proclamations in honor festival Saturday in person later said that the remark should of lgbt Pride events has become routine, not be taken as a fatwa to kill gays. but that wasn’t the case during a Board of Philly Al-Sadr made the call during a semi- Selectmen meeting May 26 in Billerica, a nar of clerics, police and tribal leaders. town of 40,000 40 miles northwest of Bos- Philadelphia, PA - Last year’s inaugural Sadr’s spokesperson said that the cleric’s ton. About 40 people crowded into a hear- Philadelphia Latino Pride Festival will re- call for the eradication of homosexuality ing room at the Town Hall as the board turn to the city Saturday June 6, and or- was not an endorsement of the violence. prepared to vote on two proposals, one to ganizers are determined to stage another “Al-Sadr rejects this type of violence,” issue a proclamation in honor of Billerica successful event that unites lgbt individu- said Sheikh Wadea al-Atabi. “And anyone Pride week, running from June 5-14, and als from the local Latino community and who commits violence [against gays] will a second to allow the town’s Pride com- beyond. The second annual Latino Pride not be considered as being one of us,” mittee to hold a lgbt Freedom Rally June Festival will run from 2-9 p.m. at Fifth and al-Atabi said. “The only remedy to stop 7 on the Billerica Common. Jefferson streets in North Philadelphia. [homosexuality] is through preaching and Openly gay Billerica residents and Brenda Torres, who is organizing the guidance. There is no other way to put an Four to walk across their supporters turned out to make the event with her partner Iris Melendez, co- end to it.” case for both proposals, while others owners of lgbt nightclub Rainbow Eye, Another Shiite leader at the meeting country for homeless spoke out against them, arguing that the said that last year’s event drew about said that homosexuality “is a disaster that town should not take any actions that 2,000 people, who represented all facets has come to the community,” and a tribal lgbt youth condone or condemn homosexuality. The of the lgbt and ally communities. “It was leader from Sadr City, said: “Everybody board voted unanimously to allow the so diverse,” Torres said. “We had people has to work to preserve the morals of Seattle, WA - Early on May 26, Chloe No- Pride committee to use the common, but from so many different age groups and young people from the corrupt phenom- ble, Nicole Tomlin, Jill Hardman and Matt the proposal in favor of the proclamation ethnic backgrounds; it wasn’t just about ena of the West.” Rouse set out across America from down- passed by a narrow 3-2 vote. Latinos or just about young people.” Tor- Last month another Shiite cleric, town Seattle to raise awareness about James Perry Reef, who introduced res expects attendance to be even higher Sattar al-Battat, repeatedly condemned lgbt homeless youth. The four walkers both proposals, told supporters outside this year, fueled by the growing notoriety homosexuality during Friday prayers, chose Seattle as their starting point and Town Hall following the meeting that he of the event. saying Islam prohibits homosexuality. the location of their first Shine - a grass- was inspired to act by the example of gay The festival will feature a variety of Homosexual acts are punishable by up to roots, old-fashioned rally where homeless rights activist and San Francisco City Latino dancers and musicians, as well as seven years in prison in Iraq. The follow- youth and their supporters meet. The Se- Supervisor Harvey Milk, whose life and other entertainment offerings, such as a ing week, the bodies of two gay men were attle Shine began May 23 when speakers tragic assassination was depicted in the jazz band and drag performers. This year found in Baghdad’s Shiite slum of Sadr from YouthCare, Seattle Office for Civil recent Oscar-winning film Milk. “I don’t the event will also focus on cancer preven- City. Several days later, a third man was Rights, Social Justice Movement Advo- know about you, but I’m ready to stand up tion among the lgbt community. Festival- found dead on the outskirts of Sadr City. cates, and homeless youth spoke about the way Harvey Milk did. I’m tired of wait- goers will have access to myriad health By the end of the month, another three issues facing the lgbt homeless youth ing for respect, waiting for rights, waiting information—via brochures and onsite bodies were found and police said four demographic. for tolerance. I think it’s time we take a medical professionals – about breast other men were found tortured but alive. Noble gives Seattle high accolades stand, and I’m very proud that our board and prostate cancer. For more informa- Two of the murders were believed to be when it comes to caring for lgbt home- of selectmen took a stand with us today,” tion about the festival, contact Torres at done by relatives of the men who were less youth. However, she notes that na- said Reef, who sported a Milk pin on his (267) 235-6045 or visit www.myspace. shamed by the cleric’s condemnation of tionwide as many as 1.3 million homeless lapel. com/rainboweye_gaypride. (Philadelphia homosexuality. youth sleep outdoors at night, and over During the meeting Reef said that Gay News - Jen Colletta at epgn.com) The United Nations Office for the 400,000 of those youth are lgbt. Many she 13 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BEYOND THE BELTWAY said have been kicked out of their homes to continue the charade, and she’s reaf- latest attempt was made May 27at the because they are lgbt. Tomlin said lgbt firmed her commitment to transitioning. company’s annual shareholder meeting homeless youth form communities after She recently underwent an oriectomy, in Dallas by two large shareholders—the they find each other in the different cities which involved the surgical removal of New York City Comptroller and New York they pass through. “It’s a human charac- her testicles. Within the next two years, City Pension Funds, and by the lgbt rights teristic to want to fit in and be accepted ... she expects to undergo complete gen- group Human Rights Campaign. If you’ve been hurt so bad by society, why der-reassignment surgery. She is married “ExxonMobil continues to have the rejoin it? They feel the new group they be- and has four sons and one grandson. She dubious distinction of being the only For- long to is better.” identifies as a lesbian and expects to re- tune 50 company that refuses to add sex- The four will be on foot six to nine main married. She said her wife is trying ual orientation and gender identity to their hours a day, or 15 to 20 miles with 50lb.- hard to understand,because she loves non-discrimination policy, and is stuck backpacks. They estimate Pride Walk her. in the ever-shrinking minority of busi- 2009 to take six to nine months to com- Since 1994, Thomas has been a nesses that don’t offer domestic partner plete. Their journey will take them to San member of Local 98, the International benefits,” said Human Rights Campaign Francisco, then east to Boston, Mass. Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union, Foundation President Joe Solmonese. “It New York, and then Washington D.C. based in Philadelphia. Her union has is irresponsible for ExxonMobil to ignore From there they will move southwest to about 4,000 members, most of whom overwhelming shareholder support and New Orleans, La. and end their journey in seem to be close-minded on the subject not to join the majority of companies that Austin, TX. To view video footage of Pride of transgenderism, she said. Patrick B. provide equal protections and benefits to Walk 2009 and the different Shine events Gillespie serves as business manager of all families.” Over the past decade, pro- online, visit www.youtube.com/ser/pera- the Philadelphia Building and Construc- posals to add gender identity and sexual tionshine. (Seattle Gay News - Shaun tion Trades Council, which oversees 52 orientation protections have been voted Knittel at sgn.org) unions in the area, including Local 98. down. This year, 39.3 percent of shares Last week, Gillespie pledged to ensure were voted in favor of the policy, compared a safe, comfortable work environment for to 8.2 percent in 2000. Shareholder sup- Thomas, regardless of the gender she port for the proposal has slowly increased presents to coworkers. “No one has the each year it has been filed. right to harass someone else, for any rea- ExxonMobil is the only company in son,” Gillespie told PGN. “We would not America to have had a written non-dis- want a person like Karen to feel abused. crimination clause that included gays and We wouldn’t stand for any of that. . . I want to have rescinded it. Lesbian, gay, bi and people to understand that our collective transgender workers had been included bargaining is based on fairness and equal in employment policies at Mobil. In De- treatment for everyone.” (Philadelphia cember 1999 when Mobil merged with Gay News - Timothy Cwiek at epgn.com) Exxon and under Exxon’s direction, the policy was abandoned. At the same time, it closed Mobil’s domestic partner ben- efits program to any more employees. A Construction worker’s total of 423 –– 85 percent –– of Fortune 500 companies include sexual orientation hard road from man to in their non-discrimination policies and 176 –– more than 35 percent –– include woman gender identity, including ExxonMobil competitors BP Corp., Chevron Corp., Philadelphia, PA - For 48 year old Karen Dow Chemical, DuPont and Shell Oil. Diane Thomas, a construction worker, (365Gay.com - Jennifer Vanasco) transitioning to the opposite gender hasn’t been an easy road. Twice in her These news notes have been compiled, journey, Thomas reverted back to pre- with permission, from the on line version senting as a male, due in large part to of various newspapers and other web workplace harassment. At one point, she Exxon/Mobil again sites. We thank these publications for al- underwent breast-reduction surgery so lowing us to bring you their news stories. that she could assume her former iden- rejects gay worker Usually the reports have been significant- tity, as Ken. “I was isolated and hassled at ly edited and you can read the full story by work,” she said. “I got death threats. I had protection going to the web site mentioned following guys saying they want to kill me, fight me the item. Comments are strictly the opin- in the parking lot, different goofy stuff.” Dallas, TX - Shareholders at the world’s ions of Jim Becker and not of Baltimore No one acted on those threats, she said, largest oil company continue to reject a Outloud or Pride Media. but it was enough to push her back into proposal to add “sexual orientation” and the closet. “gender identity” to the company’s official Today, Thomas finds it impossible equal employment opportunity policy. 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HELP US SEE YOU OUT THERE! 16 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com people we like Renee Gurovich

By Jay Loane

As the pride celebrations kick off and summer offi- cially begins, though from the temperatures of late one would think it was al- ready here, we venture a little more out of our homes and into the nightlife of Baltimore. One place in particular that is off the beaten track, located on Lombard Street in East Baltimore, is The Port in the Storm. This is where you will find the DJ stylings of Renee Gurovich. During the day, you can find Renee at the Enoch Pratt Library where she has been working for the past 18 years. “My first job was at Eddie’s Market,” she said. When my mother bought the bar, I started as a bartender and would light rock. “It always has a special mean- help out with the DJ duties.” ing in many of the songs. I know that there As she honed her stills with mixing are a lot of songs out there with ‘special’ music, Renee found a new an exciting meanings but for me it is rock.” career. “I recently did a birthday party for I asked Renee, who was born and an 83 year-old woman, and there was an currently lives in Baltimore, if there were Elvis impersonator there. It was such a anywhere in the world that she would riot. I had so much fun doing it and that have her abode. Without hesitation she was the first time I have seen a real life El- replied, “on the ocean. I mean ocean- vis impersonator. I mean, I’ve seen them front.” She added that her favorite vaca- in movies but not in person,” she said tion spot is Ocean City, MD. “I have had laughing. friends that go to the Cayman Islands or When you get the opportunity to talk some exotic spots, and the beaches there with this young woman, you get the feel- may be nice, but I prefer to be closer to ing that you have known her all of your home in case anything were to happen.” life. “I am a fun outgoing person,” she re- There are a few things in her life that marked. “I like to do things with others or she is quite passionate about. First there by myself. I am always willing to try things is her partner, Mina and their two dogs. except for roller coasters or things that Next is her family. There is a brother Mike, make up go upside down.” a sister Nicki and of course her mother As a DJ, Renee’s love of music shines Rita. “We are a very close knit family.” through. “I love ‘Pink.’ She is a remark- If given a new career opportunity, Re- able artist and though she may not be as nee remarked that she would love to have pretty as Paris Hilton or some others, she a farm where rescued animals could live. grew up as an average girl. And I like her “My heart goes out to all of those animals attitude.” out there without a loving home.” Renee’s favorite song is by The Fray Renee’s favorite car is a Jeep Wran- entitled “How to Save a Life.” She offers, gler and if she could have any car in the “I feel like I can compare my life to that world, it would be the new revised Cam- song.” Her favorite type of music is rock – ero. “It’s sporty and I like that.” 17 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com dr. eva What’s the Best Time to

Start HIV Meds? Part one of a 2 part article Dear Dr. Eva, from recommendations to start treatment The more that I as soon as a person is diagnosed, read, the more to recommendations to wait to start that it seems that treatment until there is clearly some untreated HIV damage to a person’s immune system. infection is no good. There is also a financial issue, both on If you were infected, the personal level and from a larger would you wait until public health perspective: the earlier your CD4 dropped, or start treatment treatment is started, the greater the now, regardless of CD4? I am not asking cost, to the individual and to the medical about the government’s guidelines, but system as a whole. your own feeling. Recently an additional, Thank You, epidemiologic perspective has been A Reader discussed, based on the concept of community viral load. This viewpoints Dear Reader, out that since HIV is transmitted much This is a question that many HIV experts less often by individuals whose viral have been asked in recent months. It is loads are undetectable, we could greatly a hot topic right now because several reduce new cases of HIV by treating new studies have been published with every person who is infected with HIV findings that suggest it may be better to from the moment they are diagnosed. start HIV medicines earlier. Although this makes total sense from a In case you are not as much of an rational point of view, there are problems HIV expert as the person asking the with it because people (surprise!) are not question, here is some basic background completely rational. on HIV: This theory would work if everybody CD4 cells are the type of white who was offered treatment accepted blood cells attacked by the HIV virus. As treatment and if everybody who accepted HIV disease progresses, the CD4 count treatment took their medication correctly. falls. A normal CD4 count is over 500. Unfortunately, that is not what really There may be damage to the immune happens. For the individual patient, the system when CD4 counts are between basic issues are: 500 and 350. There is definitely damage • Will it help me to start HIV medicine to the immune system by the time CD4 before I feel sick? counts are between 350 and 200. AIDS • Will it help me to start HIV medicine is diagnosed if the CD4 count falls under when my CD4 count is still normal 200. (over 500)? When to start HIV medication • If I start HIV medicine earlier, will I is a personal question. It has to be be more likely to get viral resistance, answered individually by every person and fail treatment (medicines become with HIV in consultation with their health ineffective)? professionals. Before I tell you what my • If I start HIV medicine earlier, could own personal answer would be if I got side effects of the medicine cause infected, let me provide some context for more harm than the benefit I would get the question. from starting early? In the 25 years since the first HIV Answers will be in the next issue. medicine (AZT) became available in the Dr. Eva mid-1980s, ideas about the best way to take care of patients with HIV have Dr. Eva Hersh is Chief Medical Officer changed many times. One of the most at Chase Brexton Health Services. Send controversial and changeable topics has your comments and questions to her by been when antiretroviral medicines (anti- email at publisher@ baltimoreoutloud. HIV medicines) should be started. The com, or by surface mail to Eva Hersh pendulum has been swinging back and MD, Chase Brexton Health Services, forth on this topic from the beginning, 1001 Cathedral St., Baltimore, MD 21201 18 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com editorial thinking outloud The Journey that is Pride PFLAG Pride in Action As we approach the parades, parties and of HIV/AIDS that continues to rip through festivals that have defined Pride around our community and our friends and fami- By Jody M. Huckaby the world, the meaning of Pride is as dif- lies. The inaction on the part of Govern- Executive Director, PFLAG ferent as the people who celebrate it. For ment officials during the early stages was some it’s a chance to party and have a disheartening if not downright criminal. Pride season is upon us, and now more than ever we have reason to celebrate good time. Others see it as an opportuni- But we can be proud of all segments our pride in our families, our allies, our communities and ourselves. Today more ty to bring out gay, lesbian, bisexual, and of our community for its response to car- than ever, there are many tremendous opportunities for us to advance equality, and transgender folks along with their friends ing for the ill and pushing hard for the we’ve seen equality moving forward in America at a faster pace. and supporters to share in a sense of funding to eradicate this disease. We still Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) remains on the community. And others, still, view Pride need to alter behavior, though, as the bat- front lines of this momentum, supporting families, educating communities and ad- through a historical lens and its role in the tle to conquer this dreadful disease has vocating for full equality in every region of the country. gay rights movement. yet to be won. While PFLAG may be best known for our participation in hundreds of Pride Indeed, Gay Pride celebrations have A step forward, a step backward, parades every year, we are so much more than supportive parents and family mem- been staged since 1970. That bers. We are the only national organization that brings together straight and lgbt landmark parade in New York people in a com- mon voice at the City marked the one-year an- “Over the years, our grassroots local level in hundreds niversary of the Stonewall riots of communities across America, to in which a rag-tag collection of community has witnessed an support families, educate communi- bar patrons at Greenwich Vil- ties and advocate for lgbt equality. Of lage’s Stonewall Inn stood up incredible amount of shining course, for most of our chapters, it is against continual police harass- victories mixed in with during Pride sea- son that our work ment and shouted, “Enough is shines most brightly. enough!” heartbreaking defeats.” As our hun- dreds of PFLAG This year’s events in Balti- chapters across the nation gear up more come 40 years after that to participate in their Pride parades multi-day uprising in June 1969. Many another step forward. That has been the and community celebrations, all of lgbt historians and activists credit Stone- pattern for all struggles for civil rights. It’s us at PFLAG reflect on the victories wall as the beginning of the end of op- a slow but steady journey to attain equal- our community has achieved in a short pression towards lgbt people. ity. At Baltimore OUTloud, we are proud time span. The battle has waged on. of all the accomplishments we as a com- Within the last thirty days, Maine Over the years, our community has munity have amassed over 40 years. has become the fifth state in the witnessed an incredible amount of shin- We are also proud that as a newspa- union to extend marriage equality to lesbian and gay couples, with New Hampshire ing victories mixed in with heartbreaking per, we have been able to rise from the and New York showing potential to join these states. Last month the House of Rep- defeats. We benefited from a number of ashes—literally—and continue our ser- resentatives passed the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act, also significant court decisions that went our vice of providing news coverage of our known as the Matthew Shepard Act. A version of the bill has been introduced in the way. Forward thinking people in state leg- community. Senate, and we are hopeful that this year we will see federal hate crimes legislation islatures and corporate boardrooms saw A fire that decimated OUTloud’s of- that protects lgbt people become a reality. the economic, social and yes, political fice and infrastructure just about a year Unfortunately our community has seen some setbacks as well. Only last sum- downside of discrimination and took con- ago, would have been a reason to simply mer the California Supreme Court ruled that our lesbian and gay family members crete steps to remedy it. fold. But the partners of Pride Media— have the right to marriage equality. Later that year Proposition 8 ended that dream Hardly a week goes by nowadays OUTloud’s parent company—were de- – and also held roughly 18,000 marriages in legal limbo. While the Court sadly ruled whereby some state or local government termined to keep the paper afloat despite this month to uphold the legality of Prop. 8, it did rule that those who were married or corporation has taken steps to bring us the loss of office records and equipment. last year must remain legally recognized. PFLAG and our allies will continue to closer to equality—our ultimate goal. But more than anything else, the loyal push for full marriage equality in California – and in all states. Nonetheless, we encountered a writers and staff made sacrifices to enable This month PFLAG members everywhere have a chance to have fun celebrat- plethora of roadblocks in trying to change OUTloud to recover and continue its op- ing our achievements and Pride, as well as displaying all of the amazing hard work the mindset of those who see humanity erations. Now we feel we have turned the we do every day for equality! only through the rearview mirror. The Cal- corner by publishing an excellent product ifornia Supreme Court ruling that upheld to help inform the lgbt community and our Prop. 8 is the most recent example. We supporters in Baltimore and beyond. lost numerous other times in courtrooms, There are many reasons to celebrate state houses, and at the ballot box. We Pride. Whichever one you prefer, come out have been besmirched during presiden- and enjoy the company of your brothers tial campaigns and denounced from the and sisters in this long struggle for justice pulpits. But proudly we dusted ourselves and equality. But do think of those in pre- off and persevered. vious generations who started the journey No setback, however, has been as and helped make this all possible. stunning and devastating as the scourge Happy Pride! 19 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com thinking outloud PRIDE…What Does it Mean to You?

By Thomas Powers

As warmer weather ap- proaches, so does the cele- bration of PRIDE festivals in cities all across the country. For many of us, this annual display of unity, pageantry and flamboyance is chance for us to connect to others in “the family”, and to meet up with old friends and per- haps make a few new ones as well. But I ask you, what does PRIDE really mean to you, other than in the aspect of the social event? There are as many defi- nitions of “pride” in the dic- tionary, as there are colors in the rainbow flag. Accord- ing to The American Heri- tage College Dictionary, here are just a few: 1) a sense of one’s own dignity or value; self respect; 2) pleasure or satisfaction taken in an “Our dignity, values and achievement, possession, or an association; 3) arrogant or disdainful conduct or treatment; haughtiness; 4) an achievements often go unnoticed, excessively high opinion of oneself; conceit; and 5) a flamboyant or impressive group. and are overshadowed by Indeed, we can see evidence of each of these char- sequins, leather and outlandish acteristics and how they manifest within our community. What is unfortunate, however, is that the aspects that are behavior.” most publicized to the rest of the population (arrogance, conceit, flamboyance), are the very things that increase we advance our acceptance in the mainstream, when we our barriers to acceptance in mainstream America. don’t fully understand and accept the many facets that Our dignity, values and achievements often go un- exist in our own lifestyle? noticed, and are overshadowed by sequins, leather and PRIDE is not a “cause” that you sign up for, to wave outlandish behavior. Our focus should not be on what a flag for, or to push an agenda for. It’s something much makes us different from the rest, but what makes us more personal than that. It begins with acceptance of the same. The “in your face” approach to inclusion only yourself and the responsibility for your own actions. Our serves to our detriment. If we want acceptance of our community is like a big, colorful puzzle, and each of us viewpoint, we must be ready to give acceptance to the is a piece. Together, we create the picture of who we are counterpoint and foster communication. It is only through and what we represent as a group. Apart, we create a this understanding that we may be seen as quality hu- lack of understanding, chaos and fear. man beings that have something unique to offer to the If we are to be accepted fully as equals, we must all fabric of American culture. individually seek to grow beyond the usual stereotypes, If the lgbt community took a different approach, and show that we can truly offer value to society overall. more educational than confrontational, in my opinion, a We can be good neighbors, co-workers, bosses, busi- greater acceptance would be achieved. It is basic human ness owners, family members, and friends to all, not just nature to be afraid and shun the things that are unfamil- to those who are like us. iar to us. As we achieve understanding of these things, Take a moment to do some self-reflection. What we become more comfortable with them, and therefore does PRIDE really mean to you? Are you willing to con- more accepting. fidently and boldly stride ahead to achieve your rightful There are a lot of misconceptions about us that keep place in society, without alienating those around you, many people afraid to accept us. For that matter, many regardless of their viewpoint? Give it a try, and perhaps of these same misconceptions promote our own little someday soon equality will finally be ours to enjoy. “cliques” within our community as well. How, then, can Happy PRIDE to one and all! 20 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com on the screen From the Heavens to Hell

By Chuck Duncan Besides Lohman’s performance, what I really enjoyed about the film was the Two new movies opened recently and music score, which had a real old school while the titles may have made a great 70s horror film sound to it, and the bril- double feature on a marquee, the films liant sound design for the film particularly themselves couldn’t be more different. the creaking gate that signaled the arrival The one similarity is that they are both of the “lamia” to the almost deafening great and should be on a summer must- sounds of the séance. And it’s been quite see list. some time since we’ve had a new hor- If you’re a fan of the old Sam Raimi ror icon – Jason, Michael Myers, Freddy Evil Dead series of films, then you must Kruger have been around for years – but see Raimi’s latest, Drag Me to Hell. The Raimi delivers a new villain in the form story is pretty straightforward – a young of – not the demon! - Mrs. Ganush, the bank officer vying for a vacant assistant gypsy. manager position is told she needs to This really is one person you do not make the hard decisions in order to win want to mess around with! Drag Me To the job over a newer, ass-kissing em- Hell is a scary, gory, funny rollercoaster ployee. When Christine (Alison Lohman) ride of a movie and if you’ve been disap- is approached by a haggard, old woman pointed with remakes like Friday the 13th (with a dead eye) about extending her then this is the movie you’ll want to see. loan (which is already two payments Don’t make me sic a lamia on you! Drag past due), she knows she can be nice Me To Hell is (surprisingly) rated PG-13 to the woman but decides her career is for sequences of horror violence, terror, more important and turns the old lady disturbing images and language. down. Unfortunately for Christine, the old From the depths of Hell to going sky woman is a gypsy who knows how to re- high, Pixar’s newest animated film Up is ally work a curse and sics a demon on but another classic from the animation her. Christine and her skeptic boyfriend company. The story follows Carl Freder- (Justin Long) try to find a way to reverse ickson (voiced by Edward Asner) as he many live action films can ever hope to the curse and seek forgiveness but when finds himself evicted from his home so a have. The film opens with a very young Christine discovers the old lady has died, developer can make way for a new high Carl befriending Ellie and a montage set all hell breaks loose. rise district. only to music shows us their lives as they It’s been a while since Raimi has di- Carl does not want to give up his grow and eventually marry. This part of rected a horror film (he’s been plenty tied home, so he decides to attach hundreds the film has some of the most heartbreak- up over the last few years with the Spider- of helium-filled balloons to it in order to ing moments that many children won’t un- Man films), but it’s nice to see he has not fulfill a promise he once made – to go to derstand but is sure to tug at the hearts lost his touch when it comes to blending South America. Unfortunately, Carl finds of the adults. In fact there are many mo- horror and comedy. The Evil Dead films himself stuck with a young scout who had ments in the film that are sure to bring a were over-the-top in terms of camera been trying to assist the old man to win tear to your eye, and for an animated film movement, gore and laughs and every- his last badge, but a storm carries the to evoke that kind of emotion it has to be thing that made those films cult classics house nearly to their destination before considered very special. is on display in his new film (albeit with a Carl can deposit the boy back where he The team at Pixar really know how to much, much larger budget). belongs. tell a story and create truly three dimen- The film has plenty of jump-out-of- In South America, they stumble upon sional characters (even if they don’t look your-seat moments, but there are many a large colorful bird (which the boy names like the average human), and they spend laugh-out-loud bits as well...sometimes Kevin) and discover the bird is being time actually developing an engrossing coming at the same time as one of the tracked by a long forgotten adventurer, story instead of just coming up with a con- The added bonus of 3D brings more horrific moments. Alison Lohman is a new Charles Muntz, who had been humiliated cept and throwing it up on screen to make depth to the film instead of things fly- breed of horror heroine; one who knows when no one believed the skeleton he had a quick buck. The last Disney animated ing out of the screen, but the film really something is coming for her and tries to brought back decades earlier belonged to film that was hailed as a masterpiece, doesn’t need the gimmick to keep you do everything she can to stop it. But she’s a real living creature. Carl and Russell de- WALL-E, did manage to bring some hu- involved in the story (I found myself dis- also one of the most physical heroines as cide they must help save Kevin and with manistic qualities to its robotic characters tractedly waiting for things to fly out that well, as Christine is assaulted continu- the help of Muntz’ dog Doug (who can but for me, Up is simply a masterpiece never came). Animated films may not be ously by the demon. “talk” thanks to a specially designed col- of emotion, from laugh-out-loud funny to for everyone, but great storytelling should I don’t know how much of the stunt- lar), they try to outwit Muntz and his dog- heartbreakingly sad and finally leaving be for any movie buff and for that alone I work Lohman actually did, but her char- gie minions. you with a satisfied feeling when it’s all can’t recommend Up enough. Up is rated acter takes a licking and keeps on ticking. Up has more heart and soul than over. PG for some peril and action. 21 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com

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If you don’t know what you looking for, but dating can also help you want out of it, how can you build a healthy figure out what you want. Learn from your one? I suppose you could just luck out, mistakes and make better choices next but that’s sort of like walking into your lo- time. Start making your list and get shop- cal Safeway and throwing things random- ping! Until next time...Happy Dating! ly into your basket and hoping you need * * * * them. Have a bad dating story? Share yours Are you looking for a long-term re- with me. After my Ten Rules of Gay Dat- lationship or are you just dating casu- ing, I’ll be doing a short series of bad dat- ally? Whichever it is, you might want to ing experiences, and how they could have make sure your date is looking for the turned out differently. If you have a story same thing. If you’re just having a good to share, email me at singleblacksheep@ time and he’s picking out china patterns, joshaterovis.com. 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By JeffRey Clagett At 7:30 I made my rounds looking for fellow Planet X’erz (fan club members) Do you like The B-52’s? I have found but ending up finding out there was an people either love them or hate them. I opening act, which shocked me. Have say to each his own, but they have guided they always had an opening band? I think my musical directions since 1979. The B’z they were called 088 and they were from came back to Baltimore on May 13 and LA. They came on at 8 p.m. By then Rams worked me up into a frenzy at Rams Head Head Live had filled up and people. It was Live. Our tickets stated the show started so hot and people were getting pushy. at 7 p.m. I have seen this tour for their lat- The band sounded great BUT neither my est CD, FunPlex tour in DC & for All Saints brother or myself understood a word the Day in New York. For both of those shows lead singer sang... but they played their I showed up 10 minutes late after the asses off. Especially the keyboard player. show started.... based on the time on the Out of control ! ticket. I was determined to see the whole During the breakdown and set up my show this time. My brother (a B convert) brother and I took turns to go smoke and and I were second in line at 6:30 p.m. we both had to literally force people aside show. from a friend was when I asked him what When they opened the door at 7:00 to get to our spaces. Everyone thought At one point I thought Cindy was go- he thought he loudly slurred the word p.m. we had a plan. David would buy wa- we were dissing them. General admission ing to fall off stage because she was so SWEET ! ter for us to last the entirety of the whole for ya’ ! At one point in the middle of the close to the edge. I could be wrong but it The other topic was that...and this show and I went and bought the lunchbox, show a photographer banged into me and did look like she has lost a bit of weight. is really funny...in the middle of the song which is fabu. I had wondered whether it I had to go into the personal space issue Touring will do that to you. Been there Fred forgot the words to Love Shack. The would be tiny like the retro lunchboxes with him. We had words but it was over done that. At one point she looked right band kept playing and playing and every- or the size of a real one but it is in the as soon as it started and we shared the at me and I blew her a kiss that she re- one was looking at each other...what do middle...a must have if you can swing the space. Why fight a losing battle and ruin turned...I thought I would spontaneously we do? Kate and Cindy finally fell out and $35. As the vendor waited on me a rather my ecstasy of a night w/ The Wonderful combust. She posed all night to the point were hanging off Fred’s shoulder howl- posh lady just knocked me out of the way World of The B’z ! I just had to control how we were screaming with laughter with ing with laughter. Fred’s facial expres- and demanded to be waited on then and wild I was dancing...though I do have to each new position. And the best part is sions were just so humble but hilarious at there. I laughed so hard when the ven- add fans in our area practically danced all she got the joke...and she knew how to the same time. Personally I love screw- dor gave her the same snotty attitude she night but more about that later. I felt like I WORK it! ups and to screw up LOVE SHACK was was trying to carry off. He actually told was in a meditative mosh pit. Keith changed guitars more times solid gold. In the end the song went off her to wait her damn turn! Lovin’ it - Lovin The B’z came on at 9:00 p.m. I have than I change my hair color! LOL! Fred had perfectly...BUT instead of Cindy shout- it ! I didn’t even see the key chains but the to tell you Cindy has always been my a cool T-shirt that had an arrow pointing ing the “Tin Roof Rusted” part she saun- tote was pretty funny but I had spent $50 fav but as a whole the band itself is pure down towards his person but he tucked in tered to the front of the stage and put up on the lunchbox & water. magic....and I was beyond excited. They the front to reveal a huge peace sign belt. four fingers and counting them down and In my opinion the price of the show were my heroes. Cindy blew me away and He also had monitor earpieces...that were BAM...the entire audience blew the roof was peanuts if you dig their scene. I am that is simply a generalization shared by black w/ little rhinestones...LOVED IT! off…and Rams Head roof wasn’t rusted... always going to shows and had to chill many. It appeared to me that she cut a Kate had a shoulder less black mini until tonight! because of money being tight but believe few inches off her hair. The bottom of her dress w/ pink swirl patterned sleeves that I finally got home at midnight and am me....$45 for a show that will rock the hair had loose curls. That is secondary re- were very Pucci. She did not have the writing this in case I forget it all by tomor- foundations of the concert hall is a good ally...she had a black patent leather front corset on tonight. Kinda’ surprised me. I row. At the beginning of the night Fred’s investment. I just think the key is to evalu- zippered mini dress w/ red pattern leather think Kate may have been a bit taxed to- microphone cut out for a couple of sec- ate your investment and start saving up accents. Her ta-taz looked like they were night. She looked great, sounded great, onds and he was not happy but it came for what you want. gonna’ bust out of the dress. but her energy level seemed a bit low...but right back on so on with the show. At the I digress...What we didn’t know is that I kept hoping there wouldn’t be a I shouldn’t compare her to Cindy because end of the show Keith tossed out guitar for $10 we would get in 15 minutes before wardrobe malfunction. She had on glitter Cindy was practically doing cartwheels. picks and one landed on my T-shirt and they opened the door so my front row goal eye make-up, Egyptian like eyeliner, and I always thought Kate was the fashion fell to the ground and I just got out of the was shot to hell. Nevertheless we made it humongous false eyelashes playing up trend setting chickadee of the band but way because it was a free for all. I actually to the second row of diehards. You can’t the sex kitten stereotype all night long... Cindy couldn’t be beat in this show...I began to panic because I was knocked beat that...EYE CONTACT...what a won- this was not the Cindy I saw in the past hate to make comparisons but I saw what over by over-zealous fans but my brother derful thing. People immediately bonded shows...ever ! She acknowledged fans in I saw...and after the show Cindy was the caught me. I bought him the ticket for his and we all decided we would save each the entire complex, which is so cool. The topic amongst my friends. As people were birthday because he LOVES FunPlex and other’s place if anyone went to the pow- whole band let the fans upstairs know pouring out I saw so many people from has Time Capsule. der room or get a cocktail. they were glad to see they came to their the past & present. My favorite line was -- continued on page 44 31 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com unboxed w/ ajar Over being “Over it” By Larry L. Walker ing or growing. After my 30th birthday I began doing a lot of introspection, as well It has become a trend as taking a retrospective look at my life. among us in the “Hip I pulled out the old journals and noticed Hop” generation that things hadn’t always been this way to invalidate those for me. I looked over my entries as if I things that do not fit were reading about some character that nicely into our indi- I had never known. For weeks I sat in my vidual little worlds. For instance, I have room, reading over the life of this coura- noticed with myself and those around me geous young man who wasn’t afraid to that whenever we disagree or have a dif- ask questions. A man who, though young ference of opinion, as opposed to asking in age, was familiar with his voice, his questions to gain an understanding of the feelings, and not afraid to speak, even other person’s views, we merely reply, “ scream in some instances. He was not Pay it” or “I’m over it.” afraid to deal. 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Tourists and the general population outside of Baltimore already think that it’s like the Wild West here in Charm City. Partly to blame for the false impressions of Baltimore is the poor view of the city when approaching by train, The Wire and probably the mere fact that good news is not “fit to print.” Now, if John Marsh can help it, people will start thinking we have a beach here, too, something much easier for the Chamber of Com- merce to promote than a row of crack houses, that’s for sure. John Marsh, together with partners Christopher Styles and Michelle Geczy have just launched a new T-shirt line under the brand name Charm City Surf Company. I met with John and am happy to report that Surf’s Up in Baltimore!

OUTLoud: Tell me about the new line tag line “Make Waves”—we don’t have of t-shirts and Charm City Surf Com- any but, we think our clothes will gener- pany. ate a few. JM: I’ve always loved pop art. All of my paintings were inspired by simple graph- OL: What is it that people want in a T- ics and pop culture. I went through Speed shirt and how did you come up with Racer phases, Wonder Woman phases, the vibe and designs for this line? 70’s television icons, that kind of stuff. JM: I think people want two things –1) And I want that type of vibe to eventu- does the shirt FEEL good and 2) does ally come through with Charm City Surf the shirt make ME feel good. So, first we Co. That’s the beauty of it… CCSC can wanted to pick shirts that felt really good, be ANYTHING. We are going to design really soft cotton. Man, I want sheets things that we think look good and things made out of our shirts! We really want to that people will want to wear – something stray away from anything cliché – you’ll with a bit of attitude. never see a CCSC design with the word “hon” in it – that’s lame. OL: Is this your first T-shirt line? How did it come about? OL: And the design concepts? JM: Yea, this is the first time I’ve at- JM: We want to create designs that reso- tempted to translate designs to clothing, nate with people. Apocalypse Now was a but it was just a natural progression for huge influence on our logo design. That me that I try this. And it’s not just me de- scene where Colonel Kilgore takes that signing this stuff. I’ve surrounded myself Vietcong beach just so that Corporal with some really talented designers. My Lance can surf… that’s an amazing scene. partner Chris and my friend Micah are so He tells his guys, “You either surf or you talented. Sometimes I just point and say, fight!” and I think that resonated with me. “F___ yea!” That’s super duper cool!” Life is a lot like that; you can either play

What do you call that, like potty-mouthed or work. Our other designs are going to Photo: Courtesy of John Marsh art direction? I do a lot of that. be based on the music we’re listening JOHN MARSH doesn’t like the word “hon.” to, what’s pissing us off, what makes us erally, we are a welcoming people - semi- OL: Surfing is the last thing I imagine laugh, or what we think looks cool – it’s as “You’ll never see a CCSC southerners but there’s also a latent at- when I think of Baltimore? Why did simple as that. We want people to have a design with the word “hon” titude here. You can almost smell it. you decide on the name Charm City bit of an attitude when they wear CCSC Surf Co.? stuff. Like in Saturday Night Fever when in it – that’s lame.” Shine Collective’s Jamie Campbell is ex- JM: When you hear “surf company” Travolta went out to go “strut” – I wish he cited about the new line and says, – your expectations are kinda managed - was wearing our shirt in that scene! they can be unisex. The master plan is to “The designs are just flat out good like we’re not going to be harvesting stem do guys, girls and kids shirts. I love see- and I’m thrilled he’s asked us to carry cells or building bridges. We’re going to OL: Are your shirts unisex in appeal? ing a little kid with a bad-ass T-shirt on. the CCSC shirts first. “Apocalypse Now” make cool hoodies. What were your thoughts regarding a meets surf with a nod to Baltimore is on Baltimore really is a bit of a surf male and female appeal? OL: Did you grow up in Baltimore? point and his decision to work with graph- town...minus the waves...and the sand. JM: Right now we are just doing guys JM: I’ve lived here in B-town since I grad- ic designer Chris Styles is a winner.” We like to have a good time – there’s a shirts. Sweeping generality here, but girls uated from college. Not to age myself but Shine is a great supporter of local art- bar on almost every corner. Where surf- are a little crazy/particular about the cut that was the early 90’s, so yea, this is kind ists and their works and will be debuting ers have their beaches, we have our of a shirt and how it fits, etc. So, we have of home to me. I want to capture the gritti- the CCSC line on Friday June 5th from 6- neighborhoods. Surfers are generally laid to really find great shirts for the ladies. ness of Baltimore in some of the designs 10pm. They are located at: 1007A W. 36th back, and so are we. We came up with the Our guys shirts are cut a bit snug so yea, – the attitude that you can get here. Gen- St. in Hampden. 39 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com 40 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com

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OUT FOR EQUALITY AWARD are the police going to do—ticket people “I’m not out to the students because they • Ultraviolet...very low energy -- continued from cover outside the bars during Pride?” Brewer are too young to understand sexual ori- • Private Idaho...high energy asked. entation,” he explained. “There have been • Give Me Back My Man....rocked the the Night Out For Equality Gala help us The police emphatically deny that no problems associated with my sexual house raise crucial funds for our work while cel- they are targeting gay establishments. orientation at Seneca. In fact, I think my • Funplex...high energy ebrating our success and engaging our “This is part of an overall crackdown colleagues like me more because I am • Strobe Light...high energy supporters for the struggles ahead. We on crime in the area,” Baltimore Police gay!” • Quiche Lorriane...low energy are proud and excited to have such a dis- spokesman Officer Troy Harris told OUT- • Juliet of the Spirits...high energy (Al- tinguished slate of guests and honorees.” loud. “We will use the enforcement of this CONCERT REVIEW though I missed Kate’s echo) A skilled and accomplished actress existing law [100-foot distance require- -- continued from page 30 • Roam...very high energy while still in her teens, Cynthia Nixon’s ment] as a tool in this effort. All bars and • Party Gone Out Of bounds…high career was built on appearances in criti- clubs in the area, regardless of the sexual Tracy and the drummer kicked major energy cally lauded stage productions like Hurly orientation of the patrons, will need to ass. Maybe I was to excited but I didn’t • Love In The Year 3000...very low Burly and The Real Thing. She also had comply.” see a keyboard player not that I was look- energy memorable roles in film and television Officer Harris added that there will ing for one. Along with Keith the major • Hot Corner...high energy productions like Amadeus (1984) and be a greater police presence, and even strength for a good musician is to be tight • Channel Z...high energy Robert Altman’s Tanner 88 (HBO, 1988). those who aren’t near bar entrances but with your set. To be that tight takes com- • Love Shack.…incredible energy but so In 1998, Ms. Nixon achieved wide- are suspected of prostitution activities mitment and it was obvious the show... many people didn’t realize what hap- spread fame as the brash yet vulner- and drug dealing will be approached by a incredible collaboration of profession- pened it was rather funny. They thought able lawyer Miranda Hobbes in Sex and the police. als with a great sense of humor. I also it was part of the show. The B’z did add the City (HBO, 1998-2005) and its 2008 Brewer is concerned that the threat have to add there were times it was hard a new psycho riff to Love Shack that theatrical feature. Nixon’s performance, to ticket the outdoor smokers will hurt his to hear Fred, Kate or Cindy because the was great. which skillfully balanced the show’s business. “We don’t have a smoking deck whole place was singing along the well- Encores: broad humor and the more dramatic arcs like other bars,” he points out. “The peo- known songs with them. That’s great and • Planet Claire...high energy of her character’s story lines, earned her ple have to smoke outside.” everything but it is so hard to hear your- • Keep This Party Going On....surpris- a wealth of awards, including two Screen The statewide smoking ban imposed self if your a singer so it’s a double-edged ingly low energy Actors Guild Awards and an Emmy in on restaurants and bars took effect Feb- sword...hence the monitor ear pieces. • Rock Lobster...people went totally nuts 2004. She also received four Golden ruary 2008. But the 100-foot requirement From my conversations there were a Globe Award nominations. had been seldom enforced up until now. lot of people who had never seen them but Well.....that’s my version of this rockin’ Over the past number of years, When asked if the police issued citations knew Love Shack. Didn’t even know about show. Eighteen song set ! WOW ! Out of Cynthia Nixon, has become a leader in the next evening during Leon’s popular FunPlex. I call them Cosmic Things. Then all the many B’z shows I have attended I the journey towards full equality for lgbt happy hour, Vernon Brewer said there there were the hard-core fans...loved my have to say this was probably the best. Americans and our families. Recently, weren’t any such incidents. “We posted T-shirt & buttons and knew every song. I My feet are throbbing. My ears are ringing she participated in the “Love, Peace and signs to warn our customers. They stayed call us the 52 girlz. and I am about to pass out...... I have to Marriage Equality” rally in New York City inside.” Ok...the audience reactions I ob- end this email by saying I am grateful that where she announced her engagement to served and I checked out the energy from The B’z have touched my life ever since I her girlfriend, Christine Marinoni. She told SUPREME COURT CHOICE the audience for each song : saw them sing Rock Lobster on American the crowd that she would walk down the -- continued from page 08 • Pump...high energy Bandstand. aisle with Marinoni as soon as same-sex • Mesopatamia...high energy Meet Me Tonight in Dreamland...... marriage becomes legal in New York. tempts to address discrimination and “We are thrilled to have Cynthia Nix- violence based on sexual orientation, on as our guest at the Gala,” said Equality disability, race, ethnicity and other fac- Maryland Executive Director Kate Run- tors through carefully crafted legisla- yon. “She has been a strong voice for the tion that meets the requirements of the freedom to marry, and it gives us the op- Constitution. portunity to honor her courage and pas- The Human Rights Campaign is sion. I know that our members and guests America’s largest civil rights organization will be thrilled and inspired by her mes- working to achieve lesbian, gay, bisexual sage of equality for all Americans.” and transgender equality. By inspiring For more information about the Night and engaging all Americans, HRC strives Out for Equality, visit EqualityMaryland. to end discrimination against LGBT citi- org. zens and realize a nation that achieves fundamental fairness and equality for all. LEON’S -- continued from cover GAY TEACHER HONORED -- continued from page 10 and it makes our customers vulnerable to possible attacks and muggings. Plus we young teacher and sitting in the same au- have a good rapport with our neighbors. dience with those with so much talent is We don’t want to disrupt them by walking so amazing. up and down the block constantly.” Tim Whiting, 28, lives with his partner Some patrons called it “harass- of nearly three years, Barry Leventhal, in ment” against the gay community. And Canton. He is out to the teachers and with Pride celebrations just ahead, “what staff at the school as well as the parents. 45 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD June 05, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com LEATHER LINE

By Rodney Burger end to his IML interview. International Mr. Leather 2008 Gary Iriza asked him about it during the interview and noted that it Mr. Texas Leather was on the right. “I usually wear it on the 2009 Jeffrey Payne right,” John said, “But I’ve learned that I was selected Inter- shouldn’t limit myself. I can switch sides.” national Mr. Leather He added that he wears his leather cuff 2009 from a group of often as an outward sign that he is a 54 contestants at the 31st annual IML held leatherman. over the Memorial Day Weekend in Chi- I asked him if this was his first IML. cago. Mr. Leather Ottawa 2009 Brendan It wasn’t. He had been there twice be- McGovern was selected First Runner-up fore and said that he felt that having been and Mr. Atlanta Eagle 2009 Alan Penrod there before prepared him for what to ex- was 2nd runner-up. The International pect. “Having been to IML before, I didn’t Mr. Bootblack 2009 title was awarded to feel that need to stay out until 4a.m. and Bootblack Toronto 2009 Greg McDowell. try to take it all in. Besides no one wants I am also thrilled to report that our three to see a yawning titleholder on stage.” Baltimore contestants all made the top I wanted to know if there was one IML twenty: Kip Hollar, Mid-Atlantic Leather moment that stood out for him. For John 2009 (#10), John Harris, Mr. D.C. Eagle it was the ritual of receiving his IML con- 2009 (15th), and Rik Newton-Treadway, testant medallion. He almost got goose Mr. Maryland Leather 2009 (#17). (You bumps as he described it. All the former may recall an earlier column regarding IMLs in attendance touched each medal four Baltimore men headed to IML. Mike as it was handed down. The contestants Mitchell has resigned as Mr. Club XS stood in a circle and were asked to con- Leather 2009 for personal reasons and centrate on the medal in his hand and He was asked if he were to bake a cake is the busy month. He will be judging Mr. did not compete in Chicago, as planned.) send it a thought, allowing his spirit to for President Obama what would it be. He & Ms. Capital Pride Leather on June 5th Unfortunately due to a family obli- pass into the medallion. quickly described in detail with lots of in- at 10p.m. at Cobalt (17th & R St. NW) gation I could not be there either- but I Then each contestant took the medal nuendo that it would be a “dark chocolate and there is D.C. Pride. He is also think- did the next best thing! I picked up the in his hand and passed it to the contes- brownie with a creamy white filling.” ing about NY Pride on June 28th. For a phone and had the incredible Mr. D.C. tant next to him. It was clearly a touch- As he was walking off stage he was future fundraiser he has noticed that the Eagle 2009 John Harris come over and ing moment for him. He said that it really panic-stricken as he feared that his an- D.C. Eagle currently does not sell t-shirts tell me all about it. God I love this job! It made him feel that he was a part of some- swer may have unintentionally seem to or any promotional items. was like ordering a pizza-but instead of thing that was historic and important. It have racial overtones and that the men of He is looking into creating something Papa John’s I got Daddy John! Less then was male bonding at its best. This spirit Onyx may be waiting in the wings! that could be sold as a fundraiser, and he a week after his outstanding performance of brotherhood continued throughout the I had to ask about our new IML. John is working on making the Mr. D.C. Eagle in the “windy city” and still proudly wear- weekend. At one point backstage a con- said that he first met Jeffery Payne at 2010 Contest in November the best that it ing his IML Class of 2009 t-shirt, the testant asked if anyone had a black leath- CLAW (Cleveland Leather Awareness can be. handsome Mr. D. C. Eagle 2009 sat down er tie. Three ties were quickly in the air. Weekend) and that Jeff was one of the Just a few blocks from the D.C. Eagle in my Lauraville living room to answer my I had wondered if the economy had first people to come up and talk to him. is the Morrison Clarke Hotel. I recently list of questions. an impact on this year’s IML; after all it John was impressed. “He is going to be a had the honor of joining Mr. D. C. Eagle I wanted to start at the beginning and I can be a very expense event to attend. good representative for the Leather Com- 2008 Alex Holmes and his Highwaymen asked him how he became involved in the John quickly answered, “No!” He had munity,” John said. “He is one of those Club brothers and sisters there for a small Leather Community. He said that when he asked one of the vendors at the huge people who you just want to hug and you but very elegant dinner party in honor of first came out (He had been married and leather mart that very question. The ven- know that you will get a hug back.” the anniversary of the Highwaymen TNT has two children.), he would go to places dor told him that although sales may have As for the 1st Runner-up, John de- (Trash N Travel). This fun loving group of like the Hippo and Grand Central- but as been off a little bit, he was pleasantly sur- scribed Brandan as this incredible 24 leather folk started in 1978 and rather then a 6”3’, 220-pound man he did not seem to prised that it was not down as much as he year-old who will truly help bridge the gap identifying as a motorcycle club (MC) they fit in. had anticipated. to the next generation, especially at a became the Highwaymen TNT. They de- “I felt like there were judging eyes I had to ask about the on stage ques- time when the average age of the Leather scribe themselves as a “fun trashy group on me for not being so slim and trim, so tion (and, of course, we talked about Miss Community is getting older. John says, who loves to travel.” (They also do lots of I put on 501’s, a black t-shirt, and boots California). The question is asked during “You have to bring the young people in! wonderful charity work in the D.C. area.) and tried the D.C. Eagle.” He smiled as the “Pecs and Personality” part of the When you see a young person in a har- Happy Anniversary Highwaymen TNT! he added, “From the minute I walked in contest. This fun question usually comes ness and leather shorts go up and talk to I am very much looking forward to re- I was treated warmly.” I asked him what from something on the contestant’s ap- him about it. Ask him how it makes him turning to the Morrison Clarke Hotel on the his first piece of leather was and what it plication. John had thought that since he feel and if he knows what it means. If the 4th of July Weekend for the 10th Anniver- meant to him. He laughed and said that it had written that he was a nurse, he would young man has on a harness and white sary of the D.C. Boys of Leather. You can was funny that I would ask. get a medical related question. sneakers, tell him he looks hot-but that be there, too. Check out d.c.boysofleather. 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