toc12.23.16 | Volume 33 | Issue 33

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• TEXAS NEWS 8 Counseling helps resolutions work 8 Women’s March on Austin takes shape 9 Remembering Karen Estes

• LIFE+STYLE 14 Dezi 5’s road to being out-and-proud 14 16 Round up of holiday movies

• ON THE COVER Cover design by Kevin Thomas

Employment departments Discrimination Lawyer 16 6 The Gay Agenda 21 Calendar /DZ2IÀFHRI 8 News 24 Cassie Nova Rob Wiley, P.C. 13 Community Voices 25 Scene 14 Life+Style 28 MarketPlace

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GLBT Chamber seeks Business borhood, where a majority of the district’s votes are cast. Excellence Award nominations — David Taffet The North Texas GLBT Chamber of Commerce is seeking nominations for its 2016 Business Excel- Taylor Dayne and Cece Peniston lence Awards. The Business Excellence Awards signed for Metro Ball recognize the accomplishments of outstanding Dance-music icons Taylor Dayne and Cece businesses, individuals and organizations that have Peniston, along with American Idol favorite David had a positive impact on the North Texas GLBT Hernandez, will headline for the 12th annual Metro community. Ball. Nominations, which may come from anyone in Metro Ball, the main fundraiser for the Greg Doll- the community, are open from now until Monday, gener Memorial AIDS Fund, will be held on June 2 Jan. 30, and can be submitted at at S4 on Cedar Springs Road. In addition to musi- GLBTChamber.org. Awards will be given in several cal talent, the event features surprise guests, a DJ- categories including Business of the Year, Emerg- dance party, and an art and gifts silent auction. ing Leader, Extra Mile–Community Service, Mem- Over the past two decades, MetroBall has ber Service, Corporate Ally and Supplier Diversity raised more than $500,000 and assisted more Champion. than 3,000 people with HIV/AIDS. GDMAF partners Business Excellence Awards will be presented at with other HIV agencies to provide emergency fi- the Celebration of Excellence Dinner on Friday, April nancial assistance to people living with HIV/AIDS. 28. More details about the dinner will follow. Dayne has enjoyed Top 10 hits over three — David Taffet decades, selling a combined 75 million singles and albums along the way. With the release of her first Omar Narvaez running two albums, 1988’s Tell It to My Heart and 1989’s Can’t Fight Fate, Dayne racked up three number 1 for Dallas City Council singles: “Tell It to My Heart,” “Love Will Lead You Lambda Legal community educator and for- Back” and “Prove Your Love to Me.” On Broadway, mer Stonewall Democrats President Omar Nar- she starred in Elton John’s Aida. vaez is running for Dallas City Council District 6. Peniston’s first single, “Finally,” thrust her into the He is challenging three-term incumbent Monica international spotlight and she has continued her Alonzo. If she wins, this would be her final term in success ever since. She continued to achieve Bill- office due to term limits. Narvaez currently serves board Top Ten Pop chart status with singles includ- on the Dallas County Schools board. ing: “We Got A Love Thang,” “Keep On Walkin,” While it’s unusual for a candidate to unseat an “I’m Not Over You” and “Lifetime To Love.” Her nu- incumbent on Dallas City Council, Councilman merous awards include: Billboard Best New Artist Scott Griggs won his seat against incumbent and Best New Song of The Year; ASCAP Song of Dave Neumann. The Year, Pop Songwriter of The Year, and Most In a break from council tradition, District 14 Performed Song of The Year; Annual Winter Music Councilman Philip Kingston endorsed Narvaez. In Conference’s Best New Dance Artist, Best Dance a Facebook post, Kingston wrote, “I endorse Artist Solo and Best 12" Dance Record. Omar Narvaez for D6. Please send me Omar. I David Hernandez gained national attention with want to work with him.” his powerful voice and affable personality as an Kingston wrote that he was endorsing him as American Idol finalist. He began acting and singing a private citizen and in his official capacity as city at age six, starring in musicals and performing with councilman, which, he said, are about the same various theatre companies throughout Arizona. As thing. Alonzo supports the tollroad in the Trinity a teenager David began writing original music and River. Kingston and Narvaez opposed it. recording his material. President Barack Obama in- District 6 includes most of West Dallas but also vited him to sing at the Inaugural Kick-Off Celebra- includes The Design District and two small tion ball in 2008. wedges into North Dallas: South of I-635 from I- Tickets are $30 in advance. 35 to Marsh Lane and the Bachman Lake neigh- — David Taffet

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12.23.16 • dallasvoice 5 Peter A. Schulte Attorney at Law Former Dallas County Prosecutor, Police Officer The Gay aGenda

Have an event coming up? Email your will hold a Christmas Eve Service to celebrate information to Managing Editor Tammye Nash at the Living Spirit, featuring music guests [email protected] or Senior Staff Writer Andrew Tinker, harpist Geoffrey Ricketts and David Taffet at [email protected] by an ensemble led by Lainey Bernstein, plus a Wednesday at 5 p.m. for that week’s issue. message from Dr. Petra Weldes and the  %"&+ Rev. Karen Fry. For information call &(&*!% ) • Weekly: Lambda Weekly every Sunday at 972-866-9988, email [email protected] !,!#
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Christmas eve services at 9 p.m. and 11 p.m. at 908 Pennsylvania Ave., Fort Worth.

• Dec. 24: Christmas at Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Dallas Christmas eve service at 7 p.m. at 1017 S. Elm #105, Carrollton.

• Dec. 24: Christmas at the Episcopal Church St. Thomas Christmas eve service at 8 p.m. and morning service at 10 a.m. at 6525 Inwood Road.

• Dec. 24: Christmas at Agape MCC Christmas eve at 7 p.m. at 4615 E California Parkway, Fort Worth.

• Dec. 24: Christmas at Promise UCC Christmas eve at 7 p.m. at 2527 W. Colorado Blvd.

• Dec. 24: Christmas at Cathedral of Hope Christmas eve at 7 p.m., bilingual at 9 p.m. and candlelight at 11 p.m. Christmas Day at 10 a.m. at 5910 Cedar Springs Road.

• Dec. 24: TAG Christmas Party Tyler Area Gays host their annual Christmas Party from 7 p.m.-midnight at a private residence. Bring snacks and spirits. For location and other information email [email protected].

• Dec. 25: Christmas

• Dec. 26: Charitable Mondays A portion of sales will go to Shared Housing Center. Tell server you are participating from 3-7 p.m. at Savor Gastropub, 2000 Woodall Rodgers Freeway, Klyde Warren Park.

• Dec. 31: New Year’s Eve For those looking for an LGBT-friendly church holding Christmas Eve services, check our Gay Agenda listings. And for our Jewish readers, check the listings Find your party and party safely. for information on Congregation Beth El Binah’s traditional Jewish Christmas Eve dinner at Royal China, followed by a movie.

• Dec. 31: Once in a Blue Moon dance New Year’s Eve party for women from hold a New Year’s Day Bowl Burning Culture holds the 12th Annual MLK • Jan. 21: Women’s March on Austin 7 p.m.-midnight at DanceMasters Ballroom Ceremony from 11:15 a.m.-12:30 p.m. at Symposium from 7-9 p.m. at Dallas City The Women’s March on Austin, a sister event located at 10675 East Northwest Highway, CSLDallas, 4801 Spring Valley Road, Ste. 115. Performance Hall, 2520 Flora St. The theme for to the Women’s March on Washington, is Suite 2600B. $25. A bowl burning ceremony is intended to help this year’s event is “MLK’s Legacy: Issues of taking place in D.C. from noon-6 p.m. participants become clear in their intentions Social Justice in the 21st Century,” and it will at the Texas State Capitol, • Dec. 31: Masques at Midnight and then release old habits that stand in the focus on ensuring equality under the law and 1100 Congress Ave., Austin. Formal gala and awards evening hosted by way of accomplishing them. For information civil rights for all citizens. Keynote speakers Tarrant County Pride, including presentation call 972-866-9988, email [email protected] or will be Jelani Cobb and Alicia Garza. FEBRUARY of the Spirit of Pride Awards, from visit CSLDallas.org. To register or for more information call • Feb. 25: Dash for the Beads 7 p.m.-1 a.m. at DFW Airport Marriott South, 214-871-2440 or visit DallasInstitute.org. 5K and 10K run, 1K walk and festival at Kidd 4151 Centreport Drive, Fort Worth. Tickets • Jan. 12: Little Black Dress Party Springs Park, 711 W. Canty St. range from $125-$1,600. For information visit The FashionCited preview party that benefits • Jan. 17: Stonewall elections Facebook.com/TCGPWA.org. Legal Hospice of Texas from 7-9:30 p.m. at Stonewall officer elections at 7 p.m. MARCH Goodson Acura, 4801 Lemmon Ave. Tickets at Sue Ellen’s, 3014 Throckmorton St. • March 20: Advocacy Day in Austin JANUARY are $25 at the door, and include food, drinks Speak to your legislators. GALA North Texas • Happy New Year and music. For information call 214-521-6622 • Jan 20: Protest at the Inauguration will sponsor buses to Austin. Texas State or email [email protected]. Protest on Inauguration Day Against War, Capitol, 1100 Congress Ave., Austin. • Jan. 1: Bowl Burning Ceremony Racism and Inequality from 7 a.m.-5 p.m. at CSLDallas, a center for spiritual living that • Jan. 16: 12th Annual MLK Symposium Freedom Plaza, 14th St NW & Pennsylvania teaches “science of the mind” spirituality, will The Dallas Institute of Humanities and Ave NW, Washington, D.C.

12.23.16 • dallasvoice 7 Putting the government on notice

Women’s March on Austin, along not intend to allow the rights and privileges for tial grassroots response to the election in Novem- ances there to entertain the marchers who get all marginalized communities we have fought so ber,” Fiero said. “It is a broad group, covering all there first as they wait on the rest of the crowd to with marches in D.C. and around the hard for to be pushed back. ethnicities and beliefs. And our goal is to make reach the site. globe, intend to send a message on “The guiding principle for the marches,” she this event as inclusive as possible, as beneficial as “When everyone has made it back, we’ll have added, “came from Hillary Clinton’s words: possible to as many different people as possible. a rally, with six to eight speakers telling the sto- equal rights as Trump takes office ‘Women’s rights are human rights.’” “It all arose out of a group of women frustrated ries of why we’re concerned about potential set- And although the events are called women’s with the outcome of the election, but it is open to backs under this administration,” Fiero said. Tammye nash | Managing Editor marches, Fiero stressed that the marches are open all. It is intended for and open to anyone who is “They’ll also be there to give people information [email protected] to all people, and that organizers would love to concerned about the rights of all marginalized and ideas on what they can do after the march to have more input and participation from other mi- people in this country.” push the movement forward and keep our mes- Organizers are expecting between 10,000 and nority communities — especially the LGBT com- Fiero said Austin march organizers are “meet- sage in the forefront.” 15,000 people to converge on the Texas State munity. ing as often as possible and handling the logistics Travel to Austin from various cities around the Capitol on Saturday, Jan. 21 for the 2017 Women’s Fiero said that while the idea started as a na- and fundraising” to stage the event. “The city of state for the march is being coordinated online March on Austin. tional march in Washington, D.C., “not every- Austin has worked so well with us. Everything through CrowdTrip.com. Cost from Dallas is The event is “a sister march” to the national body can go to D.C. So we wanted to have is lined up and ready to go there [in terms of per- about $31. To find the information, enter the Women’s March on Washington, D.C., being held something here, in our own state capital, to send mits] for the marches. The people at the Capitol search parameters, starting with a leave-from- the same day to support the rights of women and that same message not just to D.C., but to the po- are also working with us, and everything is on Dallas date of Jan. 21. other minorities as the country’s liberal and pro- litical leaders right here in Texas.” track.” For information on the Women’s March on gressive populations brace themselves for the The 86th Texas Legislature, still under Repub- Fiero said marchers in Austin will gather on Austin, visit MarchOnAustin.com or email Fiero presidency of Donald Trump. The marches in lican control, convenes on Jan. 8. Numerous anti- the grounds of the State Capitol, on the south side at [email protected]. D.C. and Austin — and cities in at least 41 U.S. LGBT bills have already been pre-filed, and Lt. of the property, facing Congress Avenue. The For information on the March on Washington, states and 15 foreign countries — take place the Gov. Dan Patrick has said that passing an anti- march begins at noon and participants will including charters to D.C. from different regions, day after Trump’s inauguration. transgender “bathroom bill” similar to North moved down Congress across 6th Street to La visit WomensMarch.com. The site includes links “We’re doing this to send a message to the in- Carolina’s notorious and costly HB 2, is one of his Vaca, then turn back across 11th Street and on to to information on travel, and to sites with infor- coming administration to let them know we are priorities in this legislative session. the Capitol grounds. mation on all the sister marches planned around here, we have a strong voice. We want them to Organizers of the Austin march — and others She said it should take about an hour and a the country, including a second Texas march know we are strong and we are watching,” said around the country and beyond — are “just a half for the march to return to the Capitol planned for Jan. 21 in Brownsville, at 11 a.m. at Austin march organizer Melissa Fiero. “We do group of people who came together out of an ini- grounds, and that there will be music perform- Linear Park. •

start off on the right track. and what’s not and makes plans for the coming to lose weight or saving some money by not shop- don’t set “We help a lot of people just get over the shock year. ping so much, set positive goals and make positive of being told they’re positive,” Grove said, adding “I love resolutions,” she said, but added that resolutions. that counseling can help set the right frame of resolutions don’t work for most people because Make a list of books to read, places to visit, peo- negative goals mind to start the medications and begin to live a they’re negative. ple you want to see or things you want to do. healthy life with HIV. Maybe you’re addicted to Grindr, or you need Getting out and doing more things you want to Another first step is for those newly diagnosed to lose weight, get more exercise, spend less, drink do may be just the remedy for too much drinking. A counseling tune-up may be to learn how to talk to other people about being less — those are all negative things and are the res- When you’re busy, you might not think about just what you need to help HIV-positive, who to tell and when to tell them. olutions that are usually broken. shopping to buy something that makes you feel you start the year right Grove said many Legacy clients come in for just “Therapy can help you work through things better for just a short time. one or maybe a few sessions to get their lives that are not productive in your life,” she said. And when you’re out doing things and meeting daVId TaFFeT | Senior Staff Writer headed back on the right path. Grove said addiction to Grindr has become a people, you might meet someone with similar in- [email protected] “But then life happens,” she said. “A loss. A job common issue and suggests the real issue may be terests rather than hoping that the next hook-up on lost. Different things can bring you back to therapy that you’ve never had love and don’t know how Grindr will somehow be a match. For some of its clients, Legacy Counseling Cen- to get you back on track.” to find it. Just putting the phone down won’t ad- But even if the goal is to sit down and read a ter has become a home base. And Legacy’s Exec- She said Legacy is a safe and supportive place dress the underlying problem. book you’ve been meaning to tackle, you can utive Director Melissa Grove said this is a time of to go. It is certainly isn’t the only choice people in “Many gay men I’ve worked with are dealing proudly check that one off your resolution list and year when she sees a number of clients come back the community have when looking for a therapist with shame,” she said. “Even if you’re out, you continue the year accomplishing other things you for what she calls a little tune-up. It’s a great way she acknowledged. But she urged those looking haven’t necessarily worked through all your want to do. to start a new year with the right frame of mind, elsewhere for counseling to start by getting a re- stuff.” Grove said to ask yourself a couple of questions: she said. ferral and then interview the therapist before mak- Counseling, she said, is one of the many tools Are you happy with the path you’re on? Are you When people are first diagnosed with HIV, ing any commitment. Make sure that person to use to address what’s not working in your life. getting everything out of life that you could? many make Legacy their first stop. Dallas understands HIV and is sensitive to LGBT issues. But she also suggested a better way to think If not, she suggests, a little counseling tune-up County’s health department refers every person it Grove said she takes time every December to about making New Year’s resolutions: Instead of may be just the answer to help you figure out how diagnoses to the agency, just to make sure they evaluate her life, figure out what’s working for her those punitive resolutions like eating fewer snacks to get where you want to be. •

8 dallasvoice.com • 12.23.16 Karenwas an ally before estesthere was a word for it

Her name won’t appear on Back then, AIDS Resource Center was officed in Tanqueray AIDS Ride from Houston to Dallas tion of the property at 2701 Reagan — now the any buildings, though she space on Cedar Springs Road that is now occupied folded. He and Estes then created The Lone Star Health Campus — that was completed last month. by Out of the Closet. After an arsonist burned the Ride Fighting AIDS to fill the fundraising gap “I asked her to please go see the new center, clearly helped build them center’s offices, along with adjacent stores and the when the Tanqueray AIDS Ride collapsed, and telling her how proud she would be of what they Round-Up Saloon, Waybourn said Estes had the they asked Maison to bring ASD in as part of the had accomplished,” Waybourn said. “You should daVId TaFFeT | Senior Staff Writer organization up and running within hours. event. go, I said, because you helped make it happen.” [email protected] “Karen made a call to the Communications Maison said he’d known Estes since before the Estes told him with tears in her eyes, “I don’t Workers of America, who showed up seemingly AIDS crisis and described her as a lot of fun. think I could get past the front door. Too many Former Resource Center co-Executive Director unannounced to install a new phone system in a “One time we got the numbskull idea to study memories, too many memories.” Karen Estes died on Dec. 16 following a brief ill- building one block away [that is now the Nelson- Thai — until we found out how many consonants “No honors will be bestowed upon her,” Way- ness. Tebedo Clinic],” Waybourn said. That meant they have,” he said. Instead they enrolled in a class bourn said, “but clearly we are honored by her Estes was a straight ally of the LGBT, but she clients could call to learn the food pantry survived at El Centro and took Spanish 2. Because El Centro service and sacrifice.” • had been an ally since the 1980s — before the term and how to make donations. is a two-year college, was used to describe the straight people who Estes also helped John Thomas find new prop- the Spanish depart- backed the LGBT community. erty and negotiate the Center’s purchase of 2701 ment only offered up “At times, she was a stronger supporter of the Reagan Street from Dallas Metropolitan Commu- to second level, but he LGBT community than we were,” said her co-ex- nity Church (now known as Cathedral of Hope). and Estes learned that ecutive director, Jamie Shield. When the gay com- She became a Resource Center staff member after different professors munity was focusing all its attention on AIDS, the purchase to help renovate the aging buildings taught different areas Estes pushed DGA to include an LGBT focus in its and repurpose them from a church into offices and of Spanish, so they re- work, he added. a community center. peated Spanish 2 William Waybourn, an early leader of Dallas “The renovation was a major undertaking, and classes a number of Gay Alliance that created what is now known as Karen Estes’ role was not only to manage it, but times. Resource Center, said Estes was never interested also keep costs in line,” Waybourn said. “That Waybourn de- in getting credit for all the work she did for the meant a lot of phone calls to individuals and busi- scribed Estes as a per- community, but her involvement was tremen- nesses for donations of equipment, materials and son who brought dous. money.” stability to the com- “Her name won’t appear on any buildings, He said her voluminous Rolodex of contacts munity. “Her person- though she clearly helped build them,” he said. was extremely valuable. ality brought a Waybourn met Estes in 1985 when he was man- After John Thomas, Resource Center’s first ex- measure of safety and aging DGA President Bill Nelson’s bid for Dallas ecutive director , retired due to his own battle with comfort during the City Council. Estes was working for Nelson’s op- AIDS, the board made a disastrous choice in its se- worst of times,” he ponent. lection of the organization’s next leader. When that said. “Karen Estes “Despite our roles in opposite campaigns, we person resigned, the board turned to Shield and used her grit and her shared late night or early morning meals at the Estes to run the organization as co-executive di- wit to get things neighborhood Dennys,” Waybourn said. rectors. done.” The political rivalry, he said, was never per- AIDS Services Dallas CEO Don Maison recalled And, he added, she sonal. a conversation he had with Estes at the time dur- never asked for credit “Because Bill and Karen both shared a commit- ing which he asked her, “How will that even for everything she ment to neighborhood issues, after the election — work?” did. and Bill’s loss — she hung around as a member of But it worked for almost five years. Shield over- Estes never saw our circle,” Waybourn said. And when Nelson ran saw the programs and Estes took care of facilities the new Resource again in 1987, she was firmly in his camp. and financials. Although the team had been Center that Soon after the election, and a second loss, Nel- tapped to serve as interim directors while the opened in son’s partner Terry Tebedo was diagnosed with board did a national search, the duo worked so May or AIDS. Tebedo, Nelson and Waybourn ran a store well together that after a year the board named the ren- called Crossroads Market on the corner of Cedar them permanent co-EDs. o v a - Springs Road and Throckmorton Street then, and After a few years of working together in one Tebedo had to leave the business due to his illness. cramped office that was too small for even one Nelson left to take care of him. person to operate in efficiently, Maison said dis- “No one asked Karen Estes to help,” Waybourn agreements did arise. Rather than compete against said. “She just showed up one day and went to each other to become sole executive director, work, occupying a desk in the back of the store.” Estes and Schield chose to resign together, giv- And she worked there without being paid. ing the agency a year’s notice. Estes was a contractor, so she ran her business Mike McKay, who was executive direc- from her desk in the store, but worked countless tor of AIDS Outreach Center in Fort hours for Crossroads Market as well as DGA and Worth at the time and later Resource the AIDS Resource Center. Center CEO, worked with Estes as the

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12.23.16 • dallasvoice 13 LifE+STYLE The music power

ofDezman Lehman’s road5 from closeted Pentecostal church kid to out-and-proud pop singer Dezi 5

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magine growing up surrounded by music, but unable to embrace it. Now imagine the same thing, only with your sexual orientation. IThat’s the background Dezman Lehman faced. Although not reared by his mother, she “was still in my life” and the first gifts of music she gave Lehman were CDs of Mary J. Blige and Toni Braxton … not that he could listen to them. “I grew up with my grandmother and it was all gospel,” he says. Lehman had to listen to his beloved R&B in secret, if at all; for a while, he sang at church, but his voice changed and “I was very shy about it. So I joined the band and played the clarinet.” You can’t play a woodwind and sing, so that seemed cut off for him. Similarly, he felt removed from his sexuality. “For a long time, I’d been wanting to be a singer but was afraid to be one because [I thought], ‘No one wants a gay singer.’ There weren’t any to look up to in any pocket of where I grew up. I felt I couldn’t sing anymore.” But sing he does. Earlier this month, Lehman — known profes- sionally as Dezi 5 — won Best Live Act at the 28th annual Dallas Observer Music Awards, finally authenticating a long journey of self-discovery. And therein lies a tale….

s a kid in South Dallas, Lehman felt early on that he didn’t fit in. His grandma encouraged him to play the Apiano, but balked at allowing pop music played in her house. “I was in the closet about being a funk fan … but also about my sexuality,” he jokes. “I had a coming out as a singer [before coming out at gay]!”

Dezi 5 (aka Dezman Lehman) won Best Live Act from the Dallas Observer, validating his long journey from church misfit to legit musical artist. (Photos;Arnold Wayne Jones)

14 dallasvoice.com • 12.23.16 Being gay was definitely not an option, either. “I grew up as a black gay man in a Pentecostal church where a minister talked about gay men as fags,” he says. “I was worried that I would be judged as ‘this gay guy.’” (He was even the sub- ject of a gay-conversion-esque intervention “be- cause they ‘found a demon in me.’”) His flamboyance has always made it difficult for him to hide his light under a bushel. One time, he recalls, his grandmother let him go shopping for whatever he wanted. He bought what he thought was “a cute silk shirt, but everyone laughed at me.” In high school, “all of my friends would be making out in the living room and I’d be in the bathroom singing to the I’m Kay Van Wey, an experienced Board soundtrack of Lady Sings the Blues.” Certi$ed Personal Injury Lawyer. If you College opened his eyes to more possibilities. or a loved one has experienced a serious He was awarded a partial music scholarship to accident, life-altering injury, or been Florida A&M to play clarinet, but “being a music harmed by a medical facility, device, or drug, you deserve justice... major, I still had to take fundamentals of voice. – We can help. And my voice teacher told me, ‘You can fucking sing!’” Music ended up being a key that unlocked several doors. After college, Lehman moved back to Dallas but “knew that there was some- A compassionate attorney that speaks our language. thing missing from my life,” Lehman says. “But when I embraced my orientation, I realized: It Call for a private consultation 855-283-4985 | Visit: VanWeyLaw.com just takes power do so whatever you want to do.” He set about forging his future, rather than let- NowNow offeringoffering TATTOOTTAAATTTOO REMOVAL!REMOVVAL!AL! ting it tick by. He put together a jazz band that IntroductoryIntroductory offeroffer 25% OFF would play neo-soul (Jill Scott, Chaka Khan) at Brooklyn; he then got a gig at a now-shuttered venue called Pearl at Commerce, singing Sinatra and The Great American Songbook. But his ac- companist dropped out, and he couldn’t get a gig without live music. He decided it was time to reinvent himself, first by adopting the name Dezi 5. New technologytechnology removesremoves all colorscolors of ink “I found out about this from Erykah Badu — in as fewfew as 4-6 pain freefree treatments.treatments. that the No. 5 means power,” he says, “and I OfferOffer expiresexpires 9/30/16; Not toto bebe combinedcombined with other specialsspecials or prpromotions.omotions needed that power to give it that oomph.” music. “She is so free about who she is — that Dezi 5 was originally a solo act, though he was a call I had to listen to.” would bring a variety of set musicians into the Lehman has imparted this philosophy to the mix and created his version of psychedelic rock Deep Ellum scene, and “they ate it up,” he says. WilliamWilliam A. 214-521-5277 MMoore,oore, inspired by Jim Morrison, Jimi Hendrix and the (The award — plus four other nominations — 2928 Oak LawnLawn AAvenuevenue wwww.advancedskinfitness.comww.advancedskinfitness.com MS OOwnerwner like. But his ultimate aim “was to integrate my supports that conclusion.) But it’s a disappoint- music scene with the LGBT scene.” ment to him that he hasn’t made the same im- At age 26, Lehman renounced his Christianity pact in the gayborhood. and determined to “crucify my insecurities. “I performed at Alexandre’s at Halloween last [After that], I was born again with this new sense year — my debut on Cedar Springs,” he says. “It of spirituality and art and life and humanity and was a good gig — I did pop tunes, David Bowie, the music of the universe,” he says. my thing. But I got on top of the bar and those He’s committed to unifying his love of artistry girls were like, ‘We don’t want your feet where in all forms with his passion for music … and we drink!’” he laughs. like any gay man, he has Lady Gaga and He loves pop and dance music, but says, be- Madonna to thank for it. cause he’s black, “they think I’m gonna be “I watched an interview with Madonna and singing hip-hop or R&B. But all I really want is she said that in the 1980s the artist could not to be known as a Dallas artist, and make timeless flourish without the musician and the musician music. You want things to last. And I stand out could not flourish without the artist,” he recalls. like a motherfucker.” And while he came to Gaga late (he didn’t learn Finally, he’s at a place where he’s comfortable about her until Born This Way, he admits), he was being that. All artists have to be themselves — impressed by her devotion to both fashion and it’s really all they have. •

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the deal, and producing something viable seems That may be the smartest thing about it. more daunting than he imagined. (Now playing in wide release.) This modern-day Muppet-like adventure — rendered in colorful animation with amazing en- Passengers ergy and panache — is the feel-good meta-musi- In the future, colonizing new worlds has be- cal of the year. The audition sequence is come so routine that thousands of people pay jam-packed with hilarious (and occasionally bril- good money to go to sleep for a century and liant) vocal performances, from a cast that in- awake from hibernation on a new planet with a cludes Reese Witherspoon, Taron Egerton, new life. And nothing ever goes wrong… until it Scarlett Johansson and Jennifer Hudson. But as does. Jim Preston (Chris Pratt) awakes from his tuneful and fun as it all is, there’s a sweet-na- pod 90 years too soon — an impossibility, but a tured soul to the film. The characters — from a reality — and with no access to crew and an un- beset mama pig to a sensitive gorilla trying to helpful automated customer-service system (it he year got off to a slow start for the a pig, a bear, an eagle and something called a break away from his family’s criminal past to a seems not too much has changed in the future), movies, with only Deadpool, The Jungle Gonzo — struggled to make their oddly-out- shy elephant with great pipes but debilitating he’s forced to live out his trip alone, with no one TBook and The Lobster resonating much, but dated Vaudeville-style theater a going concern stage fright — are so sharply drawn by director but an android bartender (Michael Sheen) for then things started to look up late summer and each week, despite A-list guest stars to help Garth Jennings, you can’t help but cheer every- company. early fall. Now with the Christmas movie-watch- them wow audiences. But who even knows one on. Jim struggles with whether he should awake ing season in full swing, there are practically what Vaudeville is anymore? Though not a Pixar film — it comes from the another passenger — Aurora Lane (Jennifer dozens of new releases (some of which won’t That’s the dilemma posed to Buster Moon folks responsible for the Despicable Me franchise Lawrence), with whom he has become infatu- debut locally until 2017) to occupy your post- (Matthew McConaughey), a starry-eyed koala — it has the same slick and savvy understanding ated — but of course he does. His sanity de- shopping, post-unwrapping, post-Obama enter- running a once-grand show palace that has of just how far to push a gag while still remain- mands it. But how do you condemn another tainment hours. Some, of course, are better than fallen on hard times, largely because of his ing true to the characters ... even characters who person to a lifetime of near-solitude? others… Broadway Danny Rose-esque inability to pick a shouldn’t exist together in the world. And the se- You’re never quite sure what direction Passen- hit. The keep the bank from foreclosing (echoes lection of songs, including many contemporary gers is headed — will it become a monster movie Sing of Cher’s Burlesque??), he makes a last-ditch at- pop hits from the likes of Ariande Grande, Lady a la Alien, a technology-gone-bad thriller (2001), a On the original Muppet Show, a motley assem- tempt to conduct a singing competition to get Gaga and Carly Rae Jepsen, show a knowing un- blage of anthropomorphized creatures — a frog, butts in the seats … only a typo threatens to tank derstanding of what kids today want to hear. • SCREEN Next Page

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HIT AND MISS | The inane ‘Assassin’s Creed,’ above, fails on every level; meanwhile ‘Passengers,’ opposite, take the sci-fi genre to unexpected places.

• SCREEN, From Previous Page some lovely special effects (it’s one of the best art-directed films of the year) that, until the end, you can’t wholly predict. It’s wonderful to be stir-crazy-in-space mystery (Moon), a problem- along for the ride. solving survival tale (The Martian), a moody se- (Now playing in wide release.) crets-of-the-universe thriller (Sunshine) … or something else, from Planet of the Apes to Event Assassin’s Creed Horizon? So many possibilities, which makes it There’s always something a bit unsettling all the more refreshing that director Mortem Tyl- about seeing A-list actors in crappy B-movies. dum (The Imitation Game) and screenwriter Jon It’s one thing for Robert Downey Jr. to lead an Spaihts (Prometheus, Doctor Strange) have put to- all-star cast in big-budget summer tentpole fran- gether something entirely unexpected: A roman- chise; it’s another to see Michael Fassbender and tic comedy-drama laden with complicated Marion Cotillard — who paired up last Christ- morality. mas for Macbeth — slum it in the painfully- Near-future sci-fi traditionally addresses ethi- scripted, sluggishly-paced, inanely preposterous cal dilemmas, but usually in a cursory way boondoggle that is Assassin’s Creed. (For the (cloning, for instance, in The 5th Day), but Passen- record, I didn’t like their Macbeth, also from direc- gers doesn’t dismiss it like a side dish but makes tor Justin Kurzel, but it had pedigree.) it the main course: How far would you go to Unlike Passengers, whose premise is fantastical combat your own loneliness? Does your sanity but which sticks close to the emotional truth of trump someone else’s life? If Jim’s pod could the characters, Assassin’s Creed presents a stupid malfunction, is there something bigger at work? premise, dumbly executed and impossible to And it tells this story with humor and a lot of connect with. (It starts with an informational chemistry among the actors. (Pratt gets two butt- scroll, which hasn’t been anything but lame since shot scenes — totally value-added filmmaking.) Star Wars.) In 1492, a group called The Assassins In just three years, Pratt has gone from the secretly protected mankind from the efforts of loveable goofball on Parks & Rec to the top The Knights Templar. The Templars seek the leg- buffed-out movie star of the decade, and Passen- endary Apple of Eden, which contains a gers continues his trajectory as the approachable- roadmap to mankind’s violent nature; control but-sexy hero. The success of this film depends the Apple, and you end warfare (while simulta- on your willingness to empathize with all of his neously depriving all humans of freewill). decisions (from trying to re-hibernate himself to An assassin named Aguilar (Fassbender) was debating the rightness of his choice). And the last known person in possession of the Lawrence needs to seem worth his efforts, which Apple; now 500 years later, his direct descendant she does. Sheen, though, almost steals the show Cal (Fassbender again) has in his DNA the with his scenes as Arthur the automaton. “memories” of his exploits. A Templar scientist I won’t ruin the third-act development and (Cotillard) hooks him up to a machine to extract how it impacts the story. Suffice it to say the ro- those memories, find the present-day resting mance escalates, plateaus and resolves amid place of the Apple and enslave mankind for her

18 dallasvoice.com • 12.23.16 father (Jeremy Irons). Even if you accept the idea with a straight face, it’s muddled and as pure a McGuffin as ever there was one. It plays not as a grand mis- sion but as Dan Brown Lite: A quest that feels pointless and silly, derived in a convoluted way. (If they just wanna know where the Apple is, why start at the beginning of Aguilar’s mission, and not just cut to the chase?) In that way, and many others, Assassin’s Creed feels like a video game (it is, though I didn’t know it until the end credits), and like many games-turned-feature- films, it’s witless and “safe” (tons of violence, but not too much blood — we need that PG-13 rat- ing to bring in the teen boys!). You’ll see more harrowing action and fighting on American Hor- ror Story or The Walking Dead; you’ll feel the grit of Medieval adventure more profoundly in Game of Thrones. If TV does this stuff, and does it better, why venture out to the theater? To their credit, Fassbender, Cotillard, Charlotte Rampling, Brendan Gleason and Michael Ken- neth Williams do their best to invest seriousness Fences ton), a late-middle-aged garbage collector and everyone, even his best friend Bono (Stephen into the idiocy; Irons has been slumming it in August Wilson’s Pittsburgh Cycle is one of the his aspirations for personal advancement, but McKinley Henderson). overwrought sand-and-sandal epics for years, most monumental achievements in modern the- also a good life for his son Cory (Jovan Adepo). Fences as a play is set almost entirely in the from Dungeons & Dragons to Eragon to The Bor- ater: Ten plays, written over 20 years (the last just Troy had a shot at a baseball career, but segrega- backyard of the Maxsons’ tract house in Pitts- gias — he’s adept by now at purring bad dia- before Wilson’s death in 2005), each set in a dif- tion and troubles with the law kept him illiterate burgh; the problem with the movie, which logue like a pro. But they can’t rescue a ferent decade of the 20th century, each reflecting and bitter, and he won’t let Cory pursue his Washington also directs, is that it barely breaks HIT AND MISS | The inane ‘Assassin’s Creed,’ above, fails on every level; meanwhile ‘Passengers,’ plodding, predictable movie like this, one where something meaningful about the black experi- dreams of a college football career. That creates a free of its stage roots. Washington — who, along opposite, take the sci-fi genre to unexpected places. everyone walks on breezeless roofs when they ence, from jazz to Jim Crow to business and poli- rift between father and son, exacerbated by ten- with Davis, won a Tony for his performance in are supposed to be in hiding. You feel every tics. The most acclaimed of these, Fences, was sion with Troy’s devoted second wife (Viola the 2010 Broadway production — seems wed- some lovely special effects (it’s one of the best minute of this murky, dull fiasco. written in the 1980s but set in the 1950s. Davis), his son from a prior relationship (Russell art-directed films of the year) that, until the end, (Now playing in wide release.) It dealt with Troy Maxson (Denzel Washing- Hornsby) and even a mistress Troy hides from • SCREEN Next Page you can’t wholly predict. It’s wonderful to be stir-crazy-in-space mystery (Moon), a problem- along for the ride. solving survival tale (The Martian), a moody se- (Now playing in wide release.) crets-of-the-universe thriller (Sunshine) … or something else, from Planet of the Apes to Event Assassin’s Creed Horizon? So many possibilities, which makes it There’s always something a bit unsettling all the more refreshing that director Mortem Tyl- about seeing A-list actors in crappy B-movies. dum (The Imitation Game) and screenwriter Jon It’s one thing for Robert Downey Jr. to lead an Spaihts (Prometheus, Doctor Strange) have put to- all-star cast in big-budget summer tentpole fran- gether something entirely unexpected: A roman- chise; it’s another to see Michael Fassbender and tic comedy-drama laden with complicated Marion Cotillard — who paired up last Christ- morality. mas for Macbeth — slum it in the painfully- Near-future sci-fi traditionally addresses ethi- scripted, sluggishly-paced, inanely preposterous cal dilemmas, but usually in a cursory way boondoggle that is Assassin’s Creed. (For the (cloning, for instance, in The 5th Day), but Passen- record, I didn’t like their Macbeth, also from direc- gers doesn’t dismiss it like a side dish but makes tor Justin Kurzel, but it had pedigree.) it the main course: How far would you go to Unlike Passengers, whose premise is fantastical combat your own loneliness? Does your sanity but which sticks close to the emotional truth of trump someone else’s life? If Jim’s pod could the characters, Assassin’s Creed presents a stupid malfunction, is there something bigger at work? premise, dumbly executed and impossible to And it tells this story with humor and a lot of connect with. (It starts with an informational chemistry among the actors. (Pratt gets two butt- scroll, which hasn’t been anything but lame since shot scenes — totally value-added filmmaking.) Star Wars.) In 1492, a group called The Assassins In just three years, Pratt has gone from the secretly protected mankind from the efforts of loveable goofball on Parks & Rec to the top The Knights Templar. The Templars seek the leg- buffed-out movie star of the decade, and Passen- endary Apple of Eden, which contains a gers continues his trajectory as the approachable- roadmap to mankind’s violent nature; control but-sexy hero. The success of this film depends the Apple, and you end warfare (while simulta- on your willingness to empathize with all of his neously depriving all humans of freewill). decisions (from trying to re-hibernate himself to An assassin named Aguilar (Fassbender) was debating the rightness of his choice). And the last known person in possession of the Lawrence needs to seem worth his efforts, which Apple; now 500 years later, his direct descendant she does. Sheen, though, almost steals the show Cal (Fassbender again) has in his DNA the with his scenes as Arthur the automaton. “memories” of his exploits. A Templar scientist I won’t ruin the third-act development and (Cotillard) hooks him up to a machine to extract how it impacts the story. Suffice it to say the ro- those memories, find the present-day resting mance escalates, plateaus and resolves amid place of the Apple and enslave mankind for her

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LOST BOY | Dev Patel plays an adult looking for what happened to his family in the lump-in-your- throat drama ‘Lion.’

served by a constricting visual style and too- talky exposition. Rather than worry about what it doesn’t do, however, better to bask in what it does so well. (Opens Christmas Day at the West Village’s Mag- nolia Theater.) Lion Saroo (Sunny Pawar) is a 5-year-old boy living a hard but amazingly happy life in the provinces of India, with a caring brother and devoted terview with co-star Megan Mullally online at SCREEN, From Previous Page PLAN YOUR ViEWiNG • mother. Then he’s accidentally lost in Calcutta, Our directory of movie openings DallasVoice.com). forced to find his way on the streets — taken in ded to Wilson’s construct; the screenplay is even and eventually adopted by an Australian couple Note: Some films received limited releases in New Dec. 25 credited to Wilson, who died more than a decade who look after him as their own. Saroo lives a York and Los Angeles to qualify for the Academy Fences (Magnolia); Lion (Angelika). ago. That leads to an infuriatingly uncinematic good life, but 20 years later, as a young man Awards, but roll out later in North Texas. The local experience, whose scenes feel moved only be- (Dev Patel) he yearns to find out what happened release dates are listed. Jan. 6 grudgingly for the camera. to his biological family. He sets out on a journey Hidden Figures (wide release); A Monster It also means that the actors play it more like to rediscover his past and give meaning to his Already opened Calls (wide release); Live by Night (wide re- work for stage than film. Washington isn’t the future. Sing (wide release); Assassin’s Creed (wide lease). best director of himself, although as a toweringly Based on Saroo Brierley’s own memoir, this release); Passengers (wide release; read our in- talented actor, he manages to go big without beautiful and emotionally satisfying motion pic- terview with stars Jennifer Lawrence and Chris Jan. 13 going home. Davis, though, connects viscerally. ture never fails to leave a lump in your throat. Pratt only at DallasVoice.com); Collateral Beauty Patriots Day (wide release); Silence (wide re- There’s a forcefulness to her, a low center of With great performances by Patel, Pawar and (wide release); Rogue One: A Star Wars Story lease); 20th Century Women (limited release). gravity that grounds every word. Her laughter Nicole Kidman as Saroo’s adoptive mother, it’s (wide release). and her tears resonant, and the late-arriving con- harrowing and hopeful — like the holiday sea- Beyond flict becomes her moment to outshine Washing- son itself. • Dec. 23 Julieta (Jan. 20); Paterson (Jan. 20); Toni ton (much in the way Rose outshines Troy). This (Opens Christmas Day at the Angelika Mocking- Why Him? (wide release, pictured; read our in- Erdmann (Jan. 27). is a tour-de-force showcase for actors, under- bird Station.)

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For about a decade now, the week after Monday 12.26 Christmas has been a great time to feel like a kid again ... or, if you have kids, share the Eat, drink and be Mary with ‘Meatball Seance’ magic of the circus with them. The Lone Star Circus’ annual holiday spectacular — this We’ve written about actor/performance artist John Michael Colgin in the past year called La Fete — returns, thanks to the — he played the title role in Gilligan’s Fire Island and has explored his own Dallas Children’s Theater. From hand- bad habits in several solo shows. But the death of his mom left him feeling a balancing to quick-change acts to juggling, a little lost — especially her meatball recipe, which he wants to recreate to dog act and the comedy of ringmaster B.J. impress a new boyfriend. You can help him channel his mom (and just get a Cleveland, it’s a whimsical and delightful post-Christmas laugh) at a workshop staging of his newest one-man show, family outing. Meatball Seance, at the Margo Jones Theatre. It’s a pay-what-you-can show, a “happening” and after, a Cowboys watching party. DEETS: Rosewood Center for Family Arts, 3928 Skillman St. $22–$48. DCT.org. DEETS: Margo Jones Theatre, 1121 First Ave. 7 p.m. MargoJonesTheatre.com.

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Hell, we even had a gallon of Spunk lube that came the 17 queens that came out and performed with a dispenser. I’m sure the bottom that won that will for free out of the kindness in their hearts. I stay well-lubed all year. love you. Cassie Nova I posted on Facebook and advertised at the shows This week, I talked to my cousin who is a that I wanted everyone to wear a onesie; I was thor- small-town Texas sheriff. We have been close Happy Holidays, bitches! You be you oughly surprised at how many people came out sport- most of his life (I think I am six or seven years ing the coolest in sleepwear. I was a yeti, we had a few older). He called to Hello world, and Happy Holidays. I hope you are all green Grinches, Minions, snowmen, Eeyore, polar talk about his 15- enjoying this festive time of year. My December got off bears and even the bunny costume from A Christmas year-old stepson. to a wonderful start. A few years ago I was put in Story. It was awesome. (The crew at JR.’s even His wife told me a charge of a fundraiser for Sam Houston Elementary. dressed in onesies and looked adorable. They will give few years ago that They have a Secret Santa program that we donate to. me shit forever for making them dress up but I think they think their son Imagine, a Monday night drag show to raise money for secretly they loved it, too.) It meant a lot to me that not is gay. She asked, the children to have a great Christmas. only did so many people come out to support our if it turns out he’s We call it Cassie’s Freakmas show and my friend cause and help out one of the poorest schools in the gay, what should Chad and myself spend weeks before asking local district, but that they came out decked out and full of we do? How businesses for donations to be raffled off at our show. the holiday spirit. should we handle And boy did our community come through! We had gift We were already on track to raise more than we did it? I told them to cards from just about every restaurant in the area, gift last year but then I was presented with a check for just let him know baskets and all kinds of cool stuff for our raffle. We $5,000 from the fabulous Mark Cuban. I love that man. that he is loved and that y’all will be there for auctioned off Stars tickets, a Jeremy Michael Calhoun We raised a total of $7,265 — not too shabby for a him. Let him know that his home is his home bow tie, a GoBone — seriously, so many cool prizes. Monday night. Speaking of, thank you to every one of and just because he’s gay that will not change, neither will your love for him. He called to say that their son came out to them that night. He did exactly like I said and told the boy he was loved and being gay doesn’t change anything. But he also told the kid about how hard things got for me when my family found out I was gay, and that com- ing out in high school will not be easy, espe- Michelle Obama says: “When they go low, we go cially in Texas. As he was telling me this, I choked up. high.” Email your son back and say, “I am sorry you He asked if I had any advice to pass on. I told them feel that way, I love you and I will be here when you to tell him to be careful — just because you see a lot of need me.” Your son will come around in time. He prob- gay acceptance on TV does not mean you will get the ably feels his mom needs him right now more that you same treatment in your town. I don’t want to tell him to do. A mother’s guilt can be relentless. hide who is, but maybe tone down the “gay” for safety My advice where your wife is concerned, is to do reasons. I also said to have the “sex talk” with him. He like Cassie Nova says: “Give that bitch a flaming bag might not be able to get pregnant, but STIs and HIV of dog poo for Christmas!” Seriously, there sounds like are still something he should worry about. If he’s hav- there is plenty of hurt to go around. Stay strong and ing sex, tell him it needs to be safe sex. Making sure give it some time. Hopefully your son will realize you he has access to condoms doesn’t mean you approve need each other regardless of his mother. Good luck, of him having sex but it does let him protect himself if it Cassie. does happen. I hope you all have a wonderful and holiday. Re- It truly is a different world we live in. I can’t imagine member to love more, bitch less and be fabulous! coming out to an accepting family at 15. I reminded my Merry Christmas! XOXO! Cassie Nova. cousin that his parents were the first people in our fam- If you have a question of comment, email it to ily to make me feel loved after my big “outing.” He [email protected]. learned to accept people from his mom and dad and now applies it to his life. I am very proud of him. I’m on a roll, let’s help someone else. Dear Cassie, I am a gay man that came out a little browse submit later in life. I was married with a wife and kids but al- • • ways knew I was gay. Once my kids were grown and For a more complete Commu- To submit an item for inclusion out of the house, I filed for a divorce. I wanted to di- nity Calendar online, visit in the Community Calendar, visit vorce my wife years before, not just because I was gay Tinyurl.com/dvevents. Tinyurl.com/dvsubmit. but because she is just awful. A complete bitch. It took a lot for me to come to terms with who I am and accept and love myself enough to leave her. Our divorce was brutal and once she found out I had come this week’s solution out, her dislike for me turned to venomous hate. My son and I always had a great relationship until recently. Last week he sent me an email stating that for him to be healthy, he could no longer be part of my life. I am heartbroken and don’t know what to do. I know this is his mother’s doing. Do you have any advice on how I should handle this? Thank you, J.J. Dear J.J., First off I want to say congratulations on living your truth and finding the strength to come out. I feel I was very luck not to have had to struggle or question my sexuality such that I ended up married to a woman so I can’t imagine your inner struggle. I know you had to make a lot of tough decisions. Divorce is never easy, even on grown kids. When my parents divorced, even though I was very young, I felt like I was stuck in the middle, both sides wanting me to side with them. It’s awful. It sounds like it can be just as rough for an adult. My advice where your son is concerned is to do like

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Making the SCENE the week of Dec. 23–30: • Cedar Springs Tap House: Geeks Who Drink Trivia at 7 p.m. on Tuesday. • Club Changes: The Divine Miss Divas Show at 10 p.m. on Friday. • Dallas Eagle: DJ Benson on Saturday. Line dance lessons with Yoshi at 7 p.m. on Thursday. • Hidden Door: Congratulations on celebrating your 37th Anniversary. • JR.’s Bar & Grill: Opens at 7 p.m. on Christmas Day. Cassie’s Freak Show with Fantasha, Mulan, Rocky and Marrissah on Monday. • Liquid Zoo: Cher-E-Oke with Wayne Smith at 9:30 p.m. on Wednesday, Friday and Saturday. • Pekers: Ugly Christmas Sweater Karaoke at 9:45 p.m. on Saturday. • Rainbow Lounge: Christmas Eve Pajama Party on Saturday. Best Christmas Pajamas Contest on Saturday. • Round-Up Saloon: Christmas Eve Howdy Hour at 8 p.m. Country music til late and high energy music til later. • Sue Ellen’s: Opens at 7 p.m. on Sunday. T&A Karaoke on Monday. Tuesday Tease on Tuesday. Open Mic with Kathy & Bella on Wednesday. • The Rose Room: Christmas Eve with Kelexis, Cassie, Jenna, Krystal, Layla, Asia and Kira on Saturday. • Two Corks and a Bottle: Show Tune Night from 7-10 p.m. on Wednesday. • Woody’s Sports & Video Bar: Detroit at Dallas on Sunday at 7:30 p.m. • Scene Photographers: Kat Haygood and Chad Mantooth He said yes! Newly-engaged on The Strip 12.23.16 • dallasvoice 25 Looking lovely on The Strip

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