500 Secrets About Girls Every Guy Should Know!

By Cucan Pemo

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Table of Contents

Introduction...... 4 How to Meet a Great Girl and Get Her to Start Dating You...... 6 What to Do on Your First Date...... 12 Relationship 101 ...... 17 Top 50 Female Relationship Wants and Needs (yes there are at least 50!): ...... 17 What Girls Really Mean When They Say…...... 25 Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?...... 28 Why Do Women Go For “Bad Boys”? ...... 26 How to be a Good “Bad Boy”...... 29 Romance: Making Women’s Fantasies Come True ...... 31 25 Romantic Phrases ……………………………………….……………...……31 50 Romantic Date Ideas With Her …………………………….………………..32 50 Romantic Gestures You Can Do At Home ………………….…………….35 25 Romantic Gestures for her when You’re Out in Public ..…….………..38 Sex: What Turns Women On?...... 40 Answers to common questions men ask about women’s sexuality...... 40 The Art of Seduction: 30 Things You Need to Know...... 41 50 Ways to Spice Up a Dull Sex Life...... 43 What To Do After Sex...... 44 Marriage: What Women Expect and How to Keep Things Interesting ...... 46 What Women Expect From Marriage ...... 46 30 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Interesting...... 48 Common Relationships Problems and How to Deal With Them...... 52 20 Things You Should NEVER Say to a Girl ...... 55 30 Things You Don’t Generally Say—But That She Wants to Hear...... 57 50 Surprising Secrets about Girls That You May Not Know ...... 59 BONUS SECTION! 264 More Things Girls Want Guys To Know All her secret fantasies, hidden fears, what’s she thinking, why is she feeling this way, the dreams she has of the man she will love, all her innermost desires, likes and dislikes...…………………………………………..62 Conclusion ...... 96 Resources ...... 97

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Introduction

Here’s a question for all the guys out there: How many times have you looked at your girlfriend, sister, mother or any other woman and wondered, “What is going on inside her head?!”

It’s no secret that women have a way of confounding men with their mysterious behavior. I’m a woman, and I’d be the first to admit this! Often, women will say things that may be completely unintelligible to guys. Or they’ll be thinking something and expecting their guy to just read their minds. We all know what that leads to, right?

Men and women sometimes seem to be speaking two different languages—and just like with any other language barrier, sometimes you need a translator to step in and help out. Well, that’s exactly what I’m here to do. Dozens—maybe hundreds—of books have already been written on the question of how men and women can learn to communicate better, but none of them tell you all the secrets I am going to give you here.

This is a very unusual and much needed book, because it contains hundreds of specific and proven tips about how to make your relationship with the special woman in your life a healthy, long-lasting and happy one. Most relationship books contain lots of abstract theories about what makes a good relationship. They give you exercises to perform with your partner. But that’s all baloney! Exercises don’t work and theories can’t help you out when all you really need to know is: what is the woman in my life thinking right now? How can I learn to understand her and her feelings?

You need specific advice, and that’s why I have written this book. I have been through it all—all the uncertainty, the fights, the break-ups, the singles scene—and now I’m in a committed and very satisfying relationship with the love of my life. I give advice to thousands of people about how to improve their relationships and become closer to their loved ones. I know firsthand what works between men and women, and I want to pass all that knowledge over to you.

If you’re a single guy and you just can’t understand how to get a date with a great girl, then this book is for you. I will reveal dozens of secrets about what girls are looking for when they are out with their friends and on the singles scene, and what causes them to give a guy a second look—or even a phone number. I’ll give you advice about how to ask a girl out on a date in a way that will make her swoon.

If you’ve already landed a great girl and you want to know how to keep her interested in you, I’ve got you covered! I remember exactly what it was like to be

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at the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend, and I am going to tell you everything you need to know in order to make your gal feel loved, respected and satisfied.

This book contains tips about what kinds of dates she will like, what kinds of gifts you may want to get her, how to know what she means when she says things like, “So, you’re going out with the guys again, huh?” and “Oh, we don’t have to do something for Valentine’s Day.”

I also remember all those not-so-great guys and how they treated me when we started dating, so I’m going to make sure you don’t repeat their mistakes!

And if you’ve been dating the same girl for a while and are thinking about how to take the next step, look no further than this book! I’m going to tell you everything you need to know about what she’s probably feeling and how to get her to commit to you. I’ll explain how to tell if she’s getting antsy about getting a ring, and I’ll give you advice about proposals she will absolutely love and remember fondly forever.

If you have questions about pick-up lines, dating, romance, sex, commitment or marriage, this book has all your answers—500 of them, in fact! This is required reading for every guy who loves a girl, so read on if you want to learn everything about girls a guy could hope to know!

Love and Joy, Cucan Pemo

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How to Meet a Great Girl and Get Her to Start Dating You

I talk to a lot of men who really want to meet a great girl and set off on a rewarding relationship, but they don’t know where to start. I see dozens of sweet, nice, lovely men who have so much energy and affection to give, but they don’t know how to find a girlfriend in the first place. In this section I’m going to give you twenty-five secrets and “instructions” that are guaranteed to help you find a wonderful girl who is just right for you.

1) Exude confidence.

Women immediately go for men who appear independent and self-confident. Men who are secure about who they are look instantly appealing to a single gal. Even if you don’t feel that confident, fake it! Once you see the responses you start getting, you’ll feel as confident as you appear!

2) Be well-groomed.

Women get really turned off by men who are sloppy, messy or dirty. That shows a lack of self-respect and a lack of self-confidence. Get a haircut, shave, brush your teeth, use floss and mouthwash, and slap on that deodorant after you shower!

3) Women tend to be very aroused by pleasant scents, so wear a nice cologne.

If you want a woman to lean in close to you and lay her hand on your, you’d better smell nice! Women have a very sensitive sense of smell, so go out and get a subtle cologne. Don’t douse yourself in it, though! Remember, moderation is key. You want to smell good, not like a perfume factory.

4) Dress well.

Now, I’m not saying that you have to wear expensive clothes. I’m just saying that women tend to like clothing and fashion, and we’re going to notice what you have on. If you look like you’ve just rolled out of bed, if you’re wearing torn jeans and a threadbare tee-shirt, that’s not going to impress us. Iron your shirt, wear a nice pair of shoes, and please don’t wear white socks with black pants!

5) If you’re no Brad Pitt, don’t worry!

Did you know that women are more interested in a man’s sense of confidence than they are in his looks or even his money? Just make sure that you are dressed neatly and are well-groomed, and that you exude charisma and

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confidence. You don’t have to be the most handsome man in the room as long as you feel sure of yourself.

6) Don’t set your sights on a woman who is probably not going to be interested in you.

This is where you have to be realistic. Like I said, women aren’t necessarily attracted to a man based on how handsome he is, but women, like men, are usually attracted to “types”—for example, the tall, dark and handsome type, or the blonde, athletic type. If you are a short, dark-haired man and you see a woman who is surrounded by tall, blonde men, the chances are that you are just not her type.

7) Don’t sit in a corner and expect the women to come to you.

Most men I talk to are afraid of getting rejected—well, don’t be! Women are often really flattered when men come up to them and express interest. But the key here is to be respectful and not to use a cheesy pick-up line (more on this later). The bottom line is, go out and give it a shot. Go talk to a woman who looks appealing to you. Chances are she’ll be glad you came over to chat. And if she isn’t, or if she says no, what have you lost? Not a thing! Remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained!

8) Show that you are polite and thoughtful.

If you’re at a bar, offer to buy the girl a drink. If you’re at a singles mixer event where there’s food, offer to go over to the food table and get her a snack. If you are online at the supermarket, offer to let her go ahead of you, or help her carry her groceries to her car. Do whatever is appropriate to indicate that you’re a nice, gentlemanly guy.

9) Laugh!

Don’t take the whole singles scene so seriously. If you sit in a corner brooding over your next move or worrying about what to say, you’ll come across as unhappy and kind of creepy. Women want to talk to men who look like they are enjoying themselves and have a fun life. Laugh and show those pearly whites!

10) Don’t be too aggressive, because this will turn a woman off.

There is a fine line between “confident man” and “jerk.” Women like it when you are sure of yourself, but we hate it when men act like they are God’s gift. Don’t act too macho or too cocky.

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11) Steer clear of those cheesy pickup lines.

A lot of men tell me that they resort to pickup lines because they just don’t know what else to say to a woman they have just met. Well, if you use a pickup line, chances are that the woman you’re talking to will think that you are unoriginal and a little silly. We would much rather here you say something honest and sincere than resort to a line that’s been used a million times before. A simple, “Hi, I’m John,” or whatever your name is, will go a lot farther towards impressing a girl than, “Hey baby, heaven must be missing an angel.”

12) Don’t be uncouth.

Some guys seem to think it’s hilarious to belch loudly in a restaurant or bar or to talk about bodily functions in public. That is NOT something you should be doing in front of a girl you’ve just met for the first time. Be on your best behavior—women know that boys will be boys, but we’re much more likely to go over and talk to a guy who seems mature.

13) Be a good conversational partner.

Women want to know that you are listening to them and paying attention to what they are saying. Trust me on this! If your eyes glaze over or you turn and look at the leggy beauty who’s standing behind the woman you’re talking to, you’ve just blown your chances. Pay attention and stay engaged in the conversation. Ask questions and respond to any questions she asks you.

14) Awkward pauses at this stage spell disaster.

After you’ve gotten to know someone well, a silence can be a nice thing to share. But when you’ve just met a women, standing there tongue-tied without anything to say can be embarrassing and a big turn-off. A woman will find it unattractive if you appear awkward and tongue-tied. Keep the conversation going by always having a “safety” question to ask. Make it something simple and nonspecific, such as “Where did you go to school?,” “Where do you work?,” “Are you here with friends?,” or even “Did you see that new movie, [some recent flick]?” Just have some comment in your back pocket that you can pull out if you are in dire need for something to say.

15) Give out sincere compliments.

Once you have met a girl and you’re engaged in a conversation, talk about some aspect of her that you find attractive. Of course, be tasteful! Don’t compliment her “rack” or her “booty.” Women love it when you compliment us on our hair, our smiles, our sense of humor, and so on. Be sincere—don’t compliment something that you don’t really find attractive, or the woman

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16) Use her first name.

You know what gets really old? Being called “chick” or “honey” or “sweet lips” or whatever. When you meet a girl, make it a point to listen to her name when she introduces herself, and COMMIT IT TO MEMORY! Then, when you’re talking to her, use her name wherever is appropriate: “So, Jane, can I buy you another drink?” “Wow, you’ve had such an interesting life, Sharon!” This is a really simple and effective way to impress the girl you’re with.

17) Get out of the bar and have fun doing your own hobbies.

If the bar or pickup scene has not been working for you, or if that’s just not your cup of tea, one of the best ways to meet a great gal is simply to enjoy some of the activities you love. Do you love to read? Go to a book reading at your local bookstore. Enjoy coffee? Get a cappuccino and sit and read the Sunday paper at your favorite local café. Do you love baseball? Go to a sporting event with your buddies. This is a great way to meet people who you know like some of the same things as you—you already have something in common. And you know what? Women will probably respond to you better in these scenarios than in a bar because they won’t feel like they’re in a meat market!

18) Don’t stare at the woman you want to talk to.

If you see a woman you find attractive, don’t ogle her! That will only creep her out. Instead, one of the most seductive things you can do is glance at her just for a second or two, then look away. Wait a little bit, then glance over at her again. She will probably catch your eye at some point; if she smiles, go over and say hello. This kind of playful eye contact is much more fun and effective than staring.

19) Women respect men who are honest.

If you just want a one-night stand, it might be wise to get this out in the open before you wind up hurting anyone’s feelings. It’s never a good idea to string a woman along and then drop her later; you’ve got to be upfront and honest from the start.

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20) Don’t lie in order to get a girl to like you or agree to go on a date with you.

If a woman says something that you really disagree with, don’t just nod along because she’s hot or you want to get her phone number. Ultimately, you’ll just ruin things when she finds out you’re not the guy she thought you were. Be honest from the beginning and you’ll assure yourself that you only end up with women who are right for you. That will save you a lot of trouble in the end.

21) Don’t invade a woman’s personal space.

If you want to meet a woman you’ve seen from afar, or if you’ve actually managed to engage her in conversation, the last thing you want to do is get too close and make her feel physically uncomfortable. Some guys think it is sweet or affectionate to rub the arm of a woman they’ve just met, or to stroke their hair or cheek. Well, let me tell you that women don’t respond well to being touched in intimate ways by men they have just met! Be respectful if you want to have a chance with this girl!

22) Women will walk away from a man who is too threatening or desperate.

Make it your goal in the meet-and-greet phase to come across as non- threatening and casual. This is because women immediately get turned off by men who seem to be too pushy or aggressive in trying to get a phone number or asking a girl out on a date. Instead of just rushing in and demanding a woman’s digits, take the time to get to know her. Talk to her for a bit before you ask for her number or email. That will make you seem much more interested and

23) The reason women hesitate to give out their phone numbers is because that would mean giving up control over whether or not you call.

If she doesn’t really want to give out her personal information but seems interested in you, give her your number or email address. Women love to feel that they have control over the situation, and having your contact information gives them that control.

24) Don’t approach every woman as though she has to be “the one.”

Don’t take it all so seriously! Just have fun, and look at the singles scene as a chance to meet some great people who have lots of things in common with you. Looking at it from this perspective will make dating a heck of a lot more

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25) Most women who are looking for a good, healthy relationship aren’t going to go home and sleep with a guy they’ve just met.

Lots of men have this fantasy of meeting a woman in a bar and having sex with her that very night. Well, get with the reality of the situation! Women want to get to know a man before they get serious, so respect that and don’t force anything.

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What to Do on Your First Date

So you’ve met a great girl and you have her number (or maybe she has yours). You think this is going to be a great relationship—the trick is how to get it started on the right foot. The first date counts for a lot, so make sure you make a strong effort to show your date just how much you want to make it a pleasant experience. The following twenty-five tips will help you do just that!

26) If a woman is interested in you and has given you her phone number, she is going to be very eager for your call—so don’t make her wait!

You’ve probably heard girls joke about “waiting by the phone” for a guy to call. Well, obviously women have their own lives and don’t spend all their time sitting around waiting for a man to pick up the phone! But it is true that women tend to devote a lot of energy to thinking about when a man will call or why he hasn’t already called. If you’ve gotten a woman’s number and have told her that you will call, call within a few days at most. Don’t make her wait for weeks and weeks.

27) Your date will know by your date invitation whether or not you paid attention to what she said she likes.

Let’s say that when you first met this girl at a bar, she spent an half-hour talking about how much she loves films. It would be a great idea for you to ask her out to the movies for your first date. If she told you she likes classics, look through your local newspapers to see if there are any revivals playing nearby. By paying attention to what she tells you, you can easily figure out what would make a great and memorable first date.

28) Know that your date will be checking out your appearance, so put some effort into it.

Unless your first date is taking place in a barn—and I hope it’s not—don’t show up in a tee-shirt and grimy old cut-off jeans. Put some thought into your appearance, and pick out a nice outfit that you feel comfortable in. A nice shirt and tie and a clean, pressed pair of pants are a good bet for a casual dinner. If you are in doubt, ask a female friend for advice. Girls have a tendency to scan for information about your character based on the way you dress and how you carry yourself! Yes! Their brains are constantly working that hard during her date with you. So, be sure to make use of her strength to your advantage if you want to capture her heart.

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29) Grooming is important, too!

Not only is your date going to be checking out your clothes, but she’s going to be paying attention to your grooming, too. Cut your nails, shave, brush your teeth, and put on some nice cologne before you head out the door.

30) Pick her up, or at least offer to.

It’s a nice, romantic gesture to offer to pick your date up from her home. She’ll be impressed if you ask.

31) Girls take longer than guys to get ready, so be prepared for a little delay.

If you arrive at your date’s house and she’s still getting ready, just go with the flow. Girls generally tend to take longer to get ready to go out than their male counterparts, so don’t be rude or impatient. Just try and take it in stride. Don’t yell at her to hurry up. If you are really pressed for time, gently remind her that you have reservations, and then offer to call to push them back. She’ll get the hint, and you’ll come off looking like a gentleman.

32) Women tend to be self-conscious about how they look, so compliment her on her appearance.

Now that you know that women tend to spend a longer time than you getting ready, you probably understand that it’s important to compliment your date on how she looks. Pick a feature that she seems proud of or that you really think is attractive, and then say something nice about it: “Your hair really looks beautiful” or “You look fantastic in that dress.” Or, just a simple “You look wonderful tonight” will do the trick nicely.

33) Girls love flowers!

A lot of guys don’t do this anymore, but it’s sweet gesture that will really make your date think you’re a gentleman.

34) Regardless of what you may have heard, chivalry is not dead!

Women still expect and like it when you are romantic and respectful, at least on the first few dates. Opening doors, offering to pick up the check, and pulling out her chair at dinner are all little ways you can show that you’re a real gentleman.

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35) Don’t monopolize the conversation

Don’t do all the talking! Make sure you ask questions and let your date get in on the conversation.

36) Women don’t like hearing you talk about your ex.

Nothing is less of a new relationship killer than talking constantly about your ex-girlfriend. Your date doesn’t want to hear all about your last relationship; she wants you to focus on this one! If things get serious, you’ll probably end up discussing past relationships later on, but your first date is NOT the time or place!

37) Steer clear of any discussions that could make your date feel uncomfortable.

Now may not be the time to go on a rant about religion or politics, even if you feel really passionate about those topics. Unless you have a specific rule, like you don’t want to date someone outside your own religion or with a different political affiliation, these are topics best left for another time.

38) Women are very observant, and they will notice if you aren’t paying full attention to them.

Now don’t freak out your date by constantly staring at her, but don’t look down into your food the whole time or gaze around at all the hot women walking by. Maintain good eye contact with your date to show that you are really into her.

39) Women will pick up on your body language, so watch how you sit and behave.

Glancing at your watch, crossing your arms or fidgeting all give off the sign that you are not into your date and just want to get the heck out of there! Well, if that’s really the case, fine; but if you like this girl, be careful not to accidentally give off physical signs that you just aren’t that into her! Remember, women are very observant and will notice things like this!

40) Women get turned off really quickly when you talk—or even joke— about things that they find offensive.

Don’t talk about your stash of dope or that time you hit a cat with your car. If you offend her on the first date, you can bet that there won’t be a second date!

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41) Don’t get too physical right away.

If you’re at a movie or walking through the park, and you feel comfortable with your date, it may be nice to take her hand gently. But don’t grope her bottom or try to jam your tongue in her mouth on a first date! Women hate that kind of brute forwardness, so keep it buttoned up!

42) Women hate posturing and phoniness.

Don’t project an aura of something you are not. If you’re a nice guy, don’t try to act like a macho dude, even if you think that’s what girls want. You’ll just come across as a phony.

43) Show her that you care—women like to be asked questions that pertain to their interests and lives.

For instance, ask her about a book she’s been reading recently. Ask what her favorite hobbies are. Ask what kinds of food she likes, or what her favorite movie is. If you are stumped for conversation, a good fail-safe is to ask about her family, where she grew up or where she went to school.

44) Regardless of what you may have heard, women still expect you to pay for dinner—or at least offer to pay.

I know that a lot of women these days proclaim to be feminists and don’t like to be treated differently, but when it comes to dating, women tend to be a little old-fashioned sometimes. At least offer to pay, and then see how your date reacts. If she stubbornly refuses to let you pay for her, offer to split the bill. If she seems to be okay with you paying, pick up the tab. It makes you look chivalrous and makes her feel taken care of.

45) Women pay attention to what you do (or don’t do) at the end of the date, too.

It’s not just first impressions that count. What you do at the end of the date is going to leave a lasting impression as well as what you did at the beginning. When you get up to leave—whether you’re at a restaurant or a movie or whatever—try and be chivalrous. Get up and help her out of her chair, get her coat and help her into it, open the door on the way out, and so on. Your date will really appreciate your thoughtfulness.

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46) If the date went well—and if it did, you’ll feel it—your girl is probably going to want a goodnight kiss.

Yes, the first-date goodnight kiss can be a nice way to end things, but you need to make sure that’s what she wants. If she lingers at her door or touches your arm or smiles at you while staring into your eyes, you’re good to go! Just make it a nice sweet kiss and not a full-on tongue-swapping session.

47) If it doesn’t seem like she wants a kiss, don’t force it.

Sometimes girls are shy, or maybe the date just wasn’t that great and she doesn’t want a kiss. If this is the case, you’re better off just avoiding the issue, otherwise she might get annoyed. If she’s not smiling or not making any physical contact, or if she seems eager to get back home and is checking her watch, just let things alone and don’t try to force a kiss.

48) Don’t expect sex.

Most women won’t want to sleep with you on the first date. Don’t get your hopes up. Enough said.

49) If you say you will call, don’t take your sweet time.

Women tend to run home from a date and check their messages to see if you’ve called or emailed. Now, I’m not saying you should call right after you leave the restaurant; but if you like the women and you want to keep seeing her, don’t play it cool. Call the next day to say how much you enjoyed the time you spent together. Don’t wait a week to show how “macho” you are, because that will just make your date incredibly angry and hurt.

50) Women are just as eager to get things going as men.

Know that when you call after the first date, she will probably be expecting you to ask her out on another date, so be prepared and have a few options in mind.

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Relationship 101

Now that we’ve talked about meeting a girl and what to do (and what to avoid) on the first date, it’s time to talk about what to expect from your fledgling relationship.

Once things get off the ground and you go on your second, third, and fourth dates, you can consider yourself “in a relationship.” But, as you probably know, women and men tend to have very different ideas about what constitutes a relationship. That can lead to a lot of potential disagreement—and who wants that??

Moreover, women have a lot of misconceptions about what men want, and men have a lot of misconceptions about what they think women want. This section is meant to clear up a lot of that confusion!

Remember, guys tend to be a lot more easy-going, but women scrutinize every little detail. Therefore, if you want things to go along smoothly, it’s important to be sensitive to what she wants in a relationship. Read on to learn what women want—and need!

Top 50 Female Relationship Wants and Needs (yes there are at least 50!):

51) Women want someone who is a good listener.

This is perhaps one of the most important needs a women has when she gets into a relationship. If a man does not want to listen to her or does not seem interested in what she has to say, the relationship is not going to be a healthy or happy one.

52) Women want a man who will listen and respond without the woman having to ask for him to listen and respond.

Now this goes along with the previous “want.” Not only do women like it when a man take the time to really listen to her, but they love it when a man does so without being asked. So next time it seems like your girlfriend or spouse is troubled or wants to have a conversation, don’t wait until she sits you down for a talk. Go to her and ask her if she needs to get anything off her chest.

53) Women want someone who is a good conversationalist.

It’s important that you don’t just sit there and let your girlfriend or wife talk AT you. You’ve got to respond, nod, offer your opinion, and show that you are

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actively listening and considering what she is saying. Remember, a conversation involves two people who participate in equal measure.

54) Women want someone who is open when it comes to his feelings and emotions.

Women themselves tend to be in touch with their emotions, and they want men who are able to do the same. Don’t be afraid to show her your true inner feelings, even if you aren’t used to doing so.

55) Women want someone who is honest.

Lying is a real turn-off, from small lies like how much money you make at work to big lies like adultery or how many times you’ve already been married. Just be honest, guys; your girl will respect you for it.

56) Women want someone to share their dreams and hopes with.

Women love being able to talk about what they want in life, and it is important to them to be in a relationship with someone who is able to share those ambitions. Be a supporter of your girlfriend’s or wife’s dreams.

57) A woman wants a man who has his own hopes and dreams.

Attractive men are the ones who have ambitions in life and are working to attain them.

58) Women want someone to discuss their fears with.

Women often see men as protectors, and they like to know that their man is someone who can help them overcome their fears.

59) Women want a man who is willing to talk about problems in order to solve them.

Women know that problems don’t solve themselves; you’ve got to address them. Therefore, they want to be in relationships with men who share a similar view and who understand that sometimes it is necessary to talk things out rather than ignoring them.

60) Women want men who are willing to say they are wrong.

Men tend to refuse to take blame for anything and may deny that they are wrong, even when the evidence is right there for all to see. That is so

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frustrating to women. Just fess up—everyone, even men, makes mistakes from time to time!

61) Women want a man who demonstrates his commitment to the relationship.

Men shouldn’t have to give up their own lives, but they should be willing to stay home some Friday nights to spend time with their girlfriend or wife instead of going out with the guys all the time. Women need men to demonstrate their commitment to the relationship and who aren’t always out doing other things.

62) Women want someone who is willing to be monogamous.

At the very beginning of a relationship, both women and men may not yet be ready to stop seeing other people. But as the relationship progresses step by step, women start wanting monogamy, so you’ve got to make sure you’re both on the same page. If she thinks you’re being monogamous and then finds out that you’re dating three other women, there will be hell to pay!

63) Women want a man who values fidelity and loyalty.

Again, women tend to view men as protectors, and so they want a man who will make them feel secure. A man who is disloyal or who cheats destroys that sense of trust and security.

64) Women want men who are moral and ethical.

A man who does things that are illegal or borderline inappropriate is not a good candidate for a lasting relationship.

65) Women want someone who thinks beyond today and has hopes about the future of the relationship.

A man who never plans ahead and won’t commit to a weekend away or a standing Saturday night date is not a good candidate for a long-term relationship. If a women feels that a man does not want to think about their future together, she will likely want to get out of the relationship.

66) Women want someone who is honest with himself and who is secure.

If a man is constantly questioning himself or worried about who he is or whether he’s good enough, that’s a real turn-off. Remember, one of the number-one qualities of attractive men is confidence!

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67) A woman wants a man who is able to focus completely on her at important moments.

That means turning off the TV during sex and not looking around at other women when you’re out at dinner.

68) Women like men who can be fun and playful, and who aren’t just serious and businesslike all the time.

Don’t be afraid to be silly and show her how fun and creative you are.

69) Women like men who show their affection.

Don’t be afraid to say “I love you” or to hold her hand in public.

70) Women want someone who is ambitious and going somewhere in his career.

That doesn’t mean you have to be rich or a CEO. All it means is that you should have career goals and be actively working to attain them. Men who don’t know what they want out of their lives or careers are not very attractive to most women.

71) Women want to be financially secure.

Again, this doesn’t mean you need to be a millionaire. But you do need to be financially secure yourself and not overwhelmed by debt or an extravagant buyer who spends more than he earns.

72) Women want a man who is generous, but not a spendthrift.

Women love to get gifts from time to time, and they enjoy being with a man who is able to appreciate the finer things in life. At the same time, they don’t want a man to throw away his money on useless things.

73) Women don’t want men who are unnecessarily tight-fisted.

Women don’t like men who are cheap. They want a man who knows when to spend and when to save.

74) Women want men who are sometimes impulsive and surprising.

A man who plans everything out is a dull husband or boyfriend. A man who surprises his girl from time to time with gifts, a fun date, or even by bringing home a rented video unexpectedly, is considered a great catch.

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75) Women want men who have their own lives, too.

Contrary to what you may think, women like to have some time alone, and they value men who have their own friends and have a life outside the relationship, too.

76) Women need men who are responsible.

A man who behaves more like a child is not good husband or boyfriend material.

77) Women want men who they can trust.

Guys who constantly betray trust or who lie, even about small things, are not the kind of guys who make it in long-term relationships with great women.

78) Women want men who are on the same page in terms of what they want in their common future.

For example, if you want children and she doesn’t, that’s a problem. Women like to know that their man has similar hopes and dreams.

79) Women don’t want men who are dependent or needy.

Show that you have your own interests, hobbies and friends, and pursue them actively.

80) Women want someone is good to their friends and family.

Women love it when a guy is polite to strangers, nice to their friends, and makes an effort to be courteous and respectful of their family.

81) Women need men who show them they are special.

Little things count: bringing home a single rose for no particular reason, cooking dinner for her one night, or just telling her how great she is all show her how much you care and value the relationship.

82) Women want romance, not just sex.

Men sometimes think sex equals romance, but women need to be wooed a little bit more. Men who light candles, buy roses, or start things off with a lot of gentle kissing are more likely to win over a girl’s heart.

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83) Women love it when men help out around the house.

Guys who pitch in to clean up, do the dishes, and help with the laundry are considered great catches.

84) Women like it when guys take an equal role in planning out dates and special occasions.

Why should women have to be the ones to say they want to go out for Valentine’s Day or to go away for a romantic weekend? Women love it when their guys make the suggestions.

85) Women want men who share some interests.

You don’t have to have everything in common, but show your woman that you appreciate what she is into. For example, if she likes museums, ask her to go with you to a museum one weekend.

86) Women want men who speak up if they are upset.

Men have a reputation for being stoic and silent, and women really find it touching when a man speaks up about his feelings.

87) Women love witty men.

Laughing is an aphrodisiac, so it’s no wonder women need to be in relationships with men who make them laugh.

88) Women want men who can appreciate their creativity and imagination.

Women love to create something out of nothing! It is a wonderful ability given to them by nature. Give your woman the opportunity to do up the house, decorate a room, recycle unused or old items, or plan an exciting holiday. If you can learn to appreciate her creativity, intelligence and imagination and find ways to make it known to her, she’ll love you for it! The same old thing gets tiring. Men who can come up with new ways to surprise their lovers are, too, greatly appreciated by their women.

89) Women want men who present themselves well.

Appearance isn’t everything, but a relationship goes much more smoothly when a women isn’t constantly criticizing a man about what he’s wearing or how he looks.

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90) Women really love men who remember anniversaries, birthdays, etc.

Men tend not to be so good with remembering special occasions, but these kinds of dates are important to women.

91) Women need men who are willing to spend time with their friends and family.

You may not want to hang out with your girlfriend’s pals or with her parents, but it’s important to her that you get to know the people that are important to her.

92) Women want men who share the remote control.

It may sound funny, but it’s true—women need to be in relationship with men who are willing to share things around the house.

93) Women want men who remember to put the toilet seat down.

Enough said!

94) Women want a man who will do thoughtful things without being asked.

She’ll love it if you help her put the groceries away or put gas in the car without having to be reminded.

95) Every woman wants a man who laughs at her jokes.

Show her how funny you think she is!

96) A woman wants a man who takes care of himself.

Go to the gym, shave, eat well, and show that you respect your body and mind just as much as you respect your girl!

97) Women want men who behave themselves in public.

That means not belching, scratching yourself, or getting drunk every time you go out for a nice dinner.

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98) Women need men who show how much they care and think about them.

Stay in contact even when you are apart by sending emails or making phone calls.

99) Women want men who like to just be at home together, but who also enjoy a fun night out.

It’s important to feel comfortable hanging out together indoors when no one else is around and out in public.

100) Women need men who really and truly care about them.

If you don’t love the woman you’re with, you’re not doing anyone any favors! Your woman craves more for your time and presence than for your expensive gifts, especially during those special days or events!

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What Women Really Mean When They Say….

You probably know that women aren’t 100% truthful 100% of the time. Okay, but do you know how to tell when your girlfriend or spouse is telling the truth—and when she’s fibbing?

Sometimes it can be hard to tell, usually because your girl is probably lying in order to be nice to you. It’s not like she’s telling you a falsehood in order to put one over on you or to trick you; most of the time, women tell little white lies that are meant to make you feel better or to prevent a big argument.

That said, don’t you want to know the truth? After all, one of the easiest and quickest ways to show your girl that you really care is to demonstrate that you understand her needs, even when she’s not telling you directly what they are.

In this section we’ll go over some common lies that women tell men, and what they really mean. Once you understand the real meaning, you can prove to your girl that you know what she really needs and wants, even if she doesn’t say it—or even if she says the exact opposite! And that, my friends, is going to really win her over!

100) Okay, I’m wrong, you’re right.

A lot of times women will just get exhausted by their boyfriend or husband’s stubbornness, and they’ll just say this to avoid further confrontation. She probably still thinks that she’s right and you’re the one who’s wrong—and maybe she has a point. Would it kill you to listen to her? Probably not. Remember, a happy relationship is all about compromise. Both of you can’t win all the time, but you should always make an effort to at least listen to the other’s point of view.

101) I’m a sports nut.

Okay, some women do love sports, but they are few and far between. If your woman says this to you, she’s probably being nice so you’ll bring her along for guys’ night at the local sports bar or so she can spend more time with you on the couch watching the baseball game. Realize that she’s probably exaggerating in order to keep you interested in her, and don’t push her to spend all your free time doing sports-related activities.

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102) Don’t worry, I don’t mind cleaning the house.

One of the oldest female stereotypes is that women are supposed to do the housework. Wrong! Women don’t like cleaning up after you, and your girlfriend or wife isn’t your mother. She may be telling you she doesn’t mind in order to avoid a fight or because she’s just super nice, but I can promise you she also wouldn’t mind if it you pitched in and helped her out!

103) Oh yeah, I really enjoy spending time with your friends.

Whether or not she likes your friends, she probably doesn’t want to spend a ton of time with them. Let’s face it, she’d rather have you all to herself, and if you’re like most guys, you probably act differently when you’re with the guys than you act when you’re with her. Don’t force her to hang out with your friends all the time, and respect that she’s not “one of the guys.” So respect her feelings and don’t bring the guys over to your place all the time.

104) Do you think that girl over there is pretty? If you say yes, I won’t get angry.

Don’t fall for it! This is a line girls use to try and get you to tell them how pretty they are. So the only acceptable answer to this is: “No one is as beautiful to me as you.”

105) Your family is great! Sure, we can go to their house again next weekend.

Maybe your girlfriend really does like your family, but that doesn’t mean she wants to spend all her time with them. Learn to separate your relationship from your family life. Compromise so that you spend some family holidays with her family, and some with yours.

106) I love you just the way you are and wouldn’t change you a bit!

Let’s face it: most women are nurturers, and they like giving you advice and helping you change in a positive direction. They enjoy helping you shop for new clothes and might even get offended if you do something drastic, like shave your head, without talking to them about it first.

107) I want your honest opinion: do I look bad in this outfit?

Again, it’s a trap! She’s just asking for your reassurance, so give it to her. If, however, you REALLY think a particular outfit is unflattering, tell her she looks great, but you think she would look even better in something else—and then ask her to wear that little black dress of hers that drives you wild.

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108) Let’s be friends first.

If a woman tells you this, she doesn’t feel attracted to you in a sexual way, but she probably really likes you and thinks you’re a good person. It can’t hurt to be her friend, as many great relationships grow out of friendships. Sexual attraction IS something that can develop over time.

109) I want us to stay friends.

If you’re breaking up and she tells you she wants to stay friends, it’s probably her way of easing the blow and letting you know that, although things didn’t work out, she thinks you’re a great guy.

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Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?

One of the most common questions I hear from guys is, “Why do women like bad boys so much?”

Well, I hate to tell you this, but there IS something very attractive about those macho bad boys. Even the smartest, most self-confident women may find themselves getting a little hot under the collar when they see a brawny guy on the back of a motorcycle dressed in black leather.

Or maybe the “bad boy” in question looks like your average nice guy, but he happens to be the kind of person who likes random “hook-ups,” doesn’t call women back, hits on your best friend and leaves town without so much as a note or a good-bye.

Given how these bad boys act, why is it that women still find them attractive?

This section should give all the guys out there some clues into this mysterious aspect of women’s behavior!

Why Do Women Go For “Bad Boys”?

110) Women don’t feel as bad cheating on or lying to a guy who is probably cheating on them in the first place.

111) Women tend to enjoy complaining about them to their girlfriends.

112) Women who have low self-esteem may gravitate to bad boys because they treat her the way she feels she deserves to be treated.

113) It’s hard to feel really emotionally invested in a guy you know is a jerk, so you won’t feel as bad when he dumps you—and you know he’s going to dump you if you don’t do it first.

114) Bad boys are confident—and remember, confidence is the number-one reason why women are attracted to men!

115) Bad boys tend to be really exciting in bed.

116) If a bad boy likes you, it raises your self-esteem.

117) Women like “the chase,” and bad boys are rather elusive.

118) A bad boy may bring out a woman’s nurturing tendency. She might want to “mother” him because his life seems chaotic.

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119) Being with a bad boy fulfills a fantasy that most women have at some point in their lives.

120) A woman who has problems with intimacy may be with a bad boy so she won’t have to get close to him.

121) If a guy who doesn’t seem to be that romantic does something romantic, it’s even more special than if a sweet, loving, caring guy does it.

122) Bad boys are impulsive, and that is exciting.

123) A bad boy won’t be needy or dependent on you.

124) Some women like to try and “rescue” bad boys.

125) The relationship is often purely physical, and that can be fun for a woman.

126) It may be appealing NOT to be emotionally attached to someone, for once!

127) Since lots of women seem to like bad boys, a woman may date one as a way to show off.

128) If a women is scared of being monogamous or getting married, dating someone who is “ungettable” is an easy way out.

129) Some women think nice guys are boring because they aren’t impulsive and don’t have any surprises up their sleeves (of course this isn’t true!).

And now here are some great ways to show a woman that, even though you’re a nice guy, you’ve got some exciting “bad boy” qualities, too!

How to be a Good “Bad Boy”

130) Be impulsive. Do things that she isn’t expecting.

131) Don’t suffocate her by always being around or sending 20 emails a day.

132) Enact role-playing games where you talk to her as though you were a “bad boy.”

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133) Spice things up in bed—do things you don’t usually do.

134) Rent or borrow a motorcycle and go for a ride.

135) Make a “booty call”—call her up at night and ask if you can come over for some fun. (Make sure she knows you’re not being a jerk, though— tell her what you’re up to if you think she might misinterpret your actions.)

136) Don’t let your girlfriend or wife walk all over you. Stand up for yourself.

137) Be assertive. Demonstrate that you know what you want.

138) Do something daring and out of character—go rock-climbing or scuba- diving, for instance.

139) Don’t act like a door-mat. If your girl is always making you do things for her, without doing anything in return, say no.

140) Don’t act needy and dependent. Go out and do your own things with other friends from time to time.

141) Shake things up by wearing something out of the ordinary. If your girl makes fun of your khaki pants, try showing up in leather pants!

142) Ask your girl to please YOU in bed.

143) Ask your girl to do favors for you in return for the favors you do for her.

144) Don’t be afraid to speak your mind without worrying about what she’ll think.

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Romance: Making Women’s Fantasies Come True

One of the biggest questions men have is why women are so into romance and what sorts of romantic things they can to do show their significant others that they care. Well, this section is all about the little details that can bring romance into your love life on a daily basis, as well as grand gestures that will make your wife or girlfriend swoon with happiness! Here are 150 romantic gestures, ideas, moments and phrases that women love to see, do and hear!

25 Romantic Phrases:

145) “You make me so happy.”

146) “I want to spend my life with you.”

147) “You are incredibly beautiful.”

148) “I love spending time with you.”

149) “The moment I met you was the best moment of my life.”

150) “I feel so good when I’m around you.”

151) “Making you happy is the most important thing to me.”

152) “When you smile it warms me up.”

153) “You’re such a fun person to be with.”

154) “You light up the room when you walk in.”

155) “I don’t want to be with anyone except you.”

156) “You have changed my life.”

157) “You are my angel.”

158) “I dream about you all the time.”

159) “You are so special to me.”

160) “I care so much about you.”

161) “You make me a better person.”

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162) “I need you in my life.”

163) “I just want to keep you safe.”

164) “Every other woman I see pales in comparison to you.”

165) “I want to grow old with you.”

166) “You opened up a new world to me.”

167) “There is no one else but you.”

168) “You are my heart and soul.”

169) “I love you.”

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170) Pack a picnic lunch and eat it in the park.

171) Take a walk down the main street of your town or city.

172) Spend a day at the beach.

173) Drive to a nice hotel for the night.

174) Camp out in the backyard in the summer.

175) Have a movie marathon: rent several movies with a “theme” and make popcorn.

176) Draw a bath and have a soapy indoor date!

177) Have an Italian themed dinner in your home. Order pizza or make spaghetti, play romantic Italian music and serve a nice red wine.

178) Go on a hot-air balloon ride.

179) Take a weekend in the country.

180) Have a Japanese dinner theme night. Buy some paper lanterns, make a seating area on the floor and serve sushi and sake.

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181) Plan a romantic dinner, then go shopping. It can actually be fun and quite romantic if you do it together!

182) Get dressed up and go dancing—the old-fashioned kind of dancing!

183) If you live near a body of water, go on a boat ride.

184) Park the car in a darkened lot and act like teenagers again!

185) Go to the top of a tall building and look out and enjoy the view together.

186) Take a short train ride to one of the surrounding towns and explore it together.

187) Go to an open-air food market and taste the delicacies together.

188) If you’re both athletic, plan a bike ride through scenic countryside.

189) Go to a local amusement park and act like kids again—eat cotton candy, play arcade games, and scream on the roller coasters.

190) Go to an art museum and hold hands as you stroll through the galleries.

191) Get in the car and drive for an hour in any direction, without consulting a map. Then, wherever you end up, get out and explore.

192) Go to a baseball game and cheer loudly for your favorite team.

193) Buy tickets to see her favorite musician in concert.

194) See if your local coffee house has any musical events, and stop by after dinner one night.

195) Go to the park and play Frisbee or catch.

196) Rent a limo and take a romantic tour en route to dinner—or just drive around for an hour!

197) If you or she has a dog, go for a long, romantic walk with Fido.

198) When the circus comes to town, take advantage of it. It will be a night to remember, and you’ll both be energized when you get

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home!

199) Go to a beach—at night!

200) Go to a retro soda-hop joint and enjoy milkshakes and old- fashioned burgers.

201) “Kidnap” your lover as she is leaving work and whisk her off for the night or weekend. Make sure to have some of her clothes and personal things packed so she doesn’t need to go home first.

202) Go to a kiddie establishment (like an arcade, a low-key pizza parlor or Chuck E. Cheese) and enjoy the fun and silly atmosphere.

203) Take a romantic horse and carriage ride, and bring a bottle of champagne to open during the ride.

204) Go miniature golfing. It’s fun and low-key, so you’ll both laugh a lot, and that’s a big

205) If you’re both interested in real estate, or if you’re thinking about buying a house in the near future, go to open houses together.

206) Take your lover to a beautiful flower shop and tell her to pick out whatever she wants.

207) After it rains and the sun comes out, take your lover outside and tell her to help you find a rainbow.

208) Get your camera out and spend the day taking pictures of the two of you kissing in various locations.

209) Go to a pet store and either play with the cuddly creatures or even bring one home!

210) Gather up some old bread and go to the duck pond to feed the birds.

211) Sit outside and watch the sun go down.

212) Visit your lover’s childhood home and town.

213) Go apple-picking and make your own cider together.

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214) Sing your favorite romantic songs to each other at a karaoke bar.

215) Volunteer at a soup kitchen or homeless shelter together.

216) Ask her to be your date to your best friend’s wedding.

217) Decorate your Christmas tree together, or put up decorations for any other holiday—Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, New Year’s Eve, even Halloween!

218) Read the Sunday newspaper together in your pajamas and over two cups of coffee, and do the crossword puzzle.

219) Build a roaring fire and watch it together.

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220) Make breakfast in bed.

221) Bring home a single rose.

222) Leave a note on your lover’s pillow in the morning before you go to work.

223) Draw a bath and light candles, then invite your lover into the bath.

224) Sneak up, give her a kiss, and whisk her off to the bedroom when she’s doing something mundane, like cooking, washing the dishes, or vacuuming.

225) If your lover is going away on a business trip, write a little note for her to read on the plane.

226) Give her a nice, long massage.

227) Cook dinner as a surprise for your lover.

228) After dinner, take your coffee or wine outside, under the stars.

229) Write a poem for your lover. Even if it’s cheesy, she’ll appreciate the effort and sentiment.

230) Put together a book of photos from trips you have taken.

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231) Pick a TV show and make it “your” show. Make a point to watch it together every week.

232) If you have a digitial camera and digital photos, consider making a “couple’s website” that features pictures of the two of you for all the world to see!

233) Make chocolate covered strawberries together in the afternoon, let them chill in the fridge and then eat them together later!

234) Set up a little karaoke studio in your own home—play some favorite tunes and sing along!

235) Write “I love you” on a fogged up bathroom mirror; she’ll see it next time she gets out of the shower.

236) What’s your lover’s favorite board game? After you find out, buy it or get it out of the closet and make a night of it.

237) Get out your camera and have fun taking playing photographer. Take fun and sexy pictures of each other. Use a digital camera if you have one so you can see the results immediately.

238) After dinner, make her go and relax somewhere else while you clean up in the kitchen. Then deliver a handwritten invitation asking her to come down to the living room for coffee and dessert.

239) Learn how to say “I love you” in another language.

240) Even if you live with your lover, send her Valentine’s Day card or birthday cards through the postal system. It will be a nice surprise when she goes to get the mail.

241) Spend a whole morning snuggling under the covers. Don’t get up to answer the phone or watch TV!

242) Get a little silly! Thumb-wrestle or tickle her.

243) Have a dinner party with some close friends, and when they leave you’ll be especially glad to be alone with her.

244) Bake cookies or a cake together.

245) Put on some romantic music and slow-dance.

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246) Launder the sheets and pillows, make the bed, and then mess it up!

247) Read through some trashy magazines and laugh over them together.

248) Make a picnic on the living room floor. Spread out a blanket, lay out plates and food, open a bottle of wine, and enjoy!

249) Ask her to pick out a couple of her favorite CDs. Then listen to them together.

250) Get out a book of poetry and read your favorites aloud.

251) Get dressed up in fancy attire for a candlelight dinner in your own kitchen.

252) Take out the garbage—before she asks you to! Trust me, it’s romantic!

253) Watch the nightly news together.

254) Rake the leaves, and then take turns jumping in the piles like kids.

255) Get out your camcorder and make fun home video.

256) Call your girlfriend or wife’s parents or grandparents on the phone just to say hello and tell them how much she means to you.

257) Roast marshmallows in your fireplace.

258) Make ice cream sundaes—and don’t forget to have lots of whipped cream on hand for later!

259) Take a nap together on a lazy Sunday afternoon.

260) Mail her a romantic card for no special reason—just because.

261) If she’s in her own apartment, or even just in another part of the house, call her just to tell her that you miss her and are thinking about her.

262) Make a fun event out of doing the laundry or washes the dishes together. Turn the radio on really loud, and dance around and sing while you clean.

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263) If it’s snowing, make a snowman, complete with a carrot nose and a scarf, or make snow angels. Afterwards, get out of those wet clothes and make her a cup of hot chocolate with marshmallows.

264) Play card games together.

265) Go for a walk together at night, in the dark.

266) Do a jigsaw puzzle together and promise each other you won’t quit until the whole thing’s done.

267) Give her a foot rub.

268) Have a pillow fight.

269) Make it a point to go to sleep early one night—turn off the TV, unplug the phone, and turn off your email. Just focus on each other and hold her while you drift off.

25 Romantic Gestures for her when You’re Out in Public:

270) When you’re alone in an elevator, sneak a long, passionate kiss.

271) Hold her hand when you’re crossing the street.

272) Stroke her hair.

273) If you’re in a CD or record store, ask the store manager to play your special song over the music system.

274) Open the door for her.

275) Buy her a rose at a flower shop.

276) When you’re in the middle of a crowded store or standing on the sidewalk waiting for the light to change, whisper into her ear: “You’re beautiful.”

277) Sit down on a bench together and watch the passersby.

278) Sneak little kisses when she’s not expecting it.

279) Rub her neck.

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280) If you’re sitting down in a restaurant, pull out her chair for her.

281) If she says she’s thirsty, slip off to a convenience store without telling her what you’re doing and buy her a bottle of water.

282) Help her into her coat.

283) Give her a bite of your dinner off of your own fork.

284) Ask her to taste your wine, and then hold your wine glass to her lips.

285) If you hear a romantic song playing over the sound system in a store or other public place, stop and ask her to listen to it with you. You could even start dancing to it!

286) Give her a hug.

287) Let her pick the movie, and don’t complain about it being a “chic flick!”

288) If you’re browsing in a bookstore, pick out a book of romantic poems and show her one that says how you feel about her.

289) Offer to hold her bag if she goes off to the ladies’ room.

290) If you’re in a car, lean over and give her a long kiss at every stoplight.

291) Carve your initials into a bench or tree.

292) Put your arm around her shoulders as you’re walking side by side.

293) If you bump into someone you know, introduce your lover as “My beautiful girlfriend” or “My beautiful wife.”

294) Don’t be afraid to tell her that you love her in public; if someone overhears you, they’ll probably think it’s very sweet.

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Sex: What Turns Women On?

One of the biggest differences between men and women is how they feel about sex, and how they actually go about the love-making process. For men, sex is typically quick and all about penetration and orgasm, while women need more cuddling and foreplay before actual intercourse. To use a particularly apt metaphor, men are like microwaves and women are like ovens. An oven has to warm up gradually, and a microwave can zap something from cold to hot in a few seconds.

If you really want to make your over happy and satisfied, it’s time to learn about what women really think, feel and expect from love-making. It’s also time to put your own satisfaction second, at least some of the time, and to make sure that your lover is getting what she wants and needs.

Remember, sex is a very important part of any relationships. It’s a chance for the two of you to connect closely on a physical level, and if you can’t, then you can bet that your emotional connection is going to suffer. So read through this section carefully—it will teach you everything you need to know about what turns women on, and what turns them off.

Answers to common questions men ask about women’s sexuality:

295) Yes, some women are turned on by pornography, but generally not as many nor as much as men. The reason for this is that men are stimulated by visuals, while women are generally stimulated more by other senses.

296) Yes, women masturbate—but not as frequently as men.

297) Yes, women have sexual fantasies. But whereas men tend to fantasize about other women, including strangers, women tend to fantasize about people they know, especially their current sexual partner.

298) Yes, women enjoy being adventurous in bed, too. Society used to repress women’s sexual creativity, but thankfully that is coming to an end.

299) No, women don’t stop wanting sex after they get married or get into a deeply committed relationship. In fact, a woman’s sex drive increases as she gets older and she becomes better educated about her body’s needs.

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300) Women tend to wait for the man to make the first move. If she’s not starting something up, it’s not necessarily that she doesn’t want to get physical. She’s probably just not as comfortable being the first one to act.

301) Women will generally speak up if they don’t want you to get physical. If you make your move and she responds by pressing up to you and doesn’t say no, you’re good to go. But if she stiffens or says she wants you to stop, stop right away!

302) On a similar note, some women may consent to sex before they are ready, because they are scared the man will leave if they don’t. If you feel any resistant, don’t push her. It will make the sex better when she’s really ready for it.

303) Before a sexual encounter, make sure you are clean, well-groomed and neatly dressed. Chances are a woman will not be as attracted to you if you look sloppy.

304) Women do not equate sex with love the same way men tend to. If she doesn’t want to have sex with you right away, it’s NOT a rejection of you. It’s just that she does not feel ready to move on to that step right now.

305) Set the mood earlier in the day by sending her an email or making a phone call telling her what you want to do to her later that night. It will get her thinking about it all day.

306) As I said before, women may not respond as immediately to pornography as men, because they are less visually stimulated than men. But watching an erotic movie or reading an erotic book just may do the trick.

307) Women love a long hot bath, and it will be even more erotic if you soap her up and wash her hair.

308) Women need affection before sex—start by showing her that you like her before you make love to her.

309) Try eating some foods that are known to have aphrodisiac qualities. For instance, serve oysters, food that’s spiced with cayenne pepper, celery, or a sweet, juicy peach.

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310) Chocolate is also a very romantic food. Start off the night with a sensual pot of chocolate fondue—and as things get more intense, you can even dribble some on yourself!

311) Don’t just let her feed herself—hold a strawberry to her mouth and let her chew, dribbling the juice all over your fingers. Then let her lick it off.

312) Women need to be kissed and hugged before you start getting more physically serious. Always start off a love-making session with “making out.”

313) Women crave intimacy as part of sex—make her feel close to you by talking to her, touching her, and sharing your thoughts.

314) Giving your lover a long, relaxing massage can be a great prelude to sex because it shows that your focus is on her.

315) Women actually get sexually aroused as a result of displays of affection and intimacy, and not as much from actual physical stimulation.

316) Women also need some foreplay before intercourse begins. Don’t get right to the main event; lead up to it slowly.

317) Setting the scene can help make things progress more smoothly. If you try to make love in a dirty room with all the lights on, that can be a turn-off. Before the big night, clean up, vacuum, light some scented candles, dim the lights, and play some soft music.

318) Pretend you’re both back in high school and spend an hour “necking” in the back of your car when you get home from dinner before heading into the house.

319) Bring her flowers. You could even sprinkle flower petals on the bed for an extra-special touch. Never underestimate the power of romantic gestures.

So now you’ve set the scene and it’s time for the main event. But what if your sex life has been rather unfulfilling of late? Well, don’t fret. There are plenty of things you can do to bring the spark back into your love-making.

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30 Ways to Spice Up a Dull Sex Life

Men tend to have a lot of sexual fantasies that women don’t generally share. For example, women tend not to want to have sex on the hood of a car or to get it on with their best friends! So don’t push your girlfriend or wife into trying something she really has no interest in or that is purely appealing to you and not to her. The following is a list of passionate tips that she will surely appreciate!

320) One of the best ways to seduce a woman is to think about having sex—without having sex. Spend a whole night doing things that lead up to sex, but don’t actual progress to intercourse. It will drive her wild!

321) Try “talking dirty.” Women tend to be very stimulated by the spoken word, so this is often very effective. The best way to do this is to just tell her what you want to do to her, and tell her what you want her to do to you. Be creative and don’t hold back!

322) Touch parts of her body where she’s not used to being touched in a sexual way. The novelty of it will drive her crazy. Touch the palm of her hands, the backs of her knees, the soles of her feet, and anything else you can think of.

323) Don’t rush things. That is the quickest way to kill the mood for a woman.

324) Ask her to tell you what she wants you to do. That shows her you want to make her feel good.

325) Tie a blindfold over her eyes. This will increase the sensations.

326) Bring food into the bedroom. Feeding her juicy fruits or putting whipped cream on her body will really fire things up.

327) Do some role-playing. Pretend to be strangers in a bar, or pretend that you’re the handyman and she’s the lonely wife. Have fun creating different scenarios.

328) Try different positions. If you’re used to being on top, ask her to try it for a change. Just feeling the difference can be a huge turn-on for both of you.

329) Try having sex in new locations within your house: the shower, the kitchen table, the living room floor….

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330) Experiment with having sex outdoors (discreetly, of course)! For example, if you have a secluded deck, spread out a blanket there. If you both enjoy camping, try making love out under the stars. Women usually find this very romantic.

331) Ask her to take the lead. Tell her she can do whatever she wants to turn you on.

332) Consider purchasing a vibrator for her. A lot of men are threatened by this, but it’s a simple tool that can make sex a lot more enjoyable for both of you!

333) Run a bath for two, filling it with scented oil or bath suds. Light candles and place them around the tub. Kissing and touching each other in the bath can be very sensual.

334) Keep your eyes open while kissing and making love. Staring deep into her eyes will make the emotional connection that much more intense.

335) Take a long time to undress her. Start with her shoes and socks, then slowly unbutton her shirt, and so on. Don’t rush it.

336) Play energetic music while you’re getting hot and heavy. Having a steady rhythm in the background can help you two stay in sync.

337) Encourage her to moan and be as loud as she wants. Letting go vocally can help you let go of all your other inhibitions, too.

338) If she’s not really in the mood, hold off for a few days and don’t force her. Waiting makes it even more intense when you do finally do it—it gives you both a sense of delayed gratification.

339) Tell her you’re not going to stop until she has an orgasm and is fully satisfied. Then ask her to help you get her to that point by giving you directions and showing you exactly what makes her feel great.

What To Do After Sex

Now this is a big area of contention between men and women. Men tend to fall asleep or just totally “crash” right after ejaculation, while women may feel even more tender and connected to their man. If you turn away from your lover and fall asleep right away, you can bet she’ll feel pretty rejected and lonely. So

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340) Make it a point to spend a few minutes after sex cuddling your lover. Hold her and tell her how much she means to you and how wonderful it feels to make love with her.

341) Help her clean off by going to the bathroom and soaking a soft washcloth in warm water. Then lightly rub it over her body, concentrating on…well, you probably know where!

342) Sex is a real workout! Cool her down by getting her a cold glass of water from the kitchen.

343) If you’re both sleepy, rearrange the sheets and tuck her in beside you. Spoon her and hold her while you both drift off together.

344) If you’ve made love in the morning or afternoon, tell her to stay put and get her a morning cup of coffee or a midday snack of fruit or tea.

345) Run a bath for the two of you so you can “decompress” in the warm water.

346) Kiss her eyelids, her nose, her cheeks and her forehead.

347) Go get her robe and help her into it.

348) Ask her if she wants another turn! Unlike men, women can have many orgasms in a row, and right after having sex is a time when she is already very turned on. Consider going down on her or helping her orgasm in another way.

349) Tell her again how much you love her!

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Marriage: What Women Expect and How to Keep Things Interesting

If you’re in a long-term relationship or a marriage, chances are that things have gotten a little routine. Well, it happens to us all, and don’t fret—there are ways to bring the spark back into your relationship, whether you’re talking about sex or dinner plans or weekends. First you’ve got to know what women expect out of their long-term relationships. After all, what may seem “boring” to you might signal “stable” and “secure” to her! So let’s begin by looking at some of the most important and commonly held expectations women have when it comes to marriage and husbands.

What Women Expect From Marriage

350) Stability—women want someone they can count on to come home every night and who isn’t out gallivanting all over town. Crashing at your pal’s place without telling her is likely to really hurt her feelings.

351) Communication—women need a man who is willing to discuss marital problems openly and honestly and who won’t keep things all bottled up. They also want a man who takes the time to call home if he’s going to be late or send an email during the day just to say he’s thinking of her.

352) Presence—your being there when she needs you is a very important factor. If she’s upset or busy or things around the house are getting too hectic, it’s important for you to stick around and help her rather than going out to golf with the guys. Ignoring her problems or taking care of your own needs first all the time can lead to a lot of resentment—and hey, it’s your house and your relationship, too!

353) Help around the house—on a similar note, women shouldn’t have to do all the household work, even if society has typically said so. Your wife will be very grateful and appreciative if you help her out around the house without her having to ask you first. Take out the garbage, wash some dishes, run the vacuum cleaner in the living room, or give the kids a bath. Taking on some of the chores will show her how much you respect her and tell her that you don’t expect her to do everything for you.

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354) Romance—yes, even in a long marriage, women expect romance! Don’t forget to do sweet things for her, like bringing home the occasional bunch of flowers, giving her cards on her birthday, taking her out for nice dinners once in a while, drawing her a bubble bath, and so on.

355) A great sex life—that’s right, guys. Women don’t just stop wanting sex after they get married, contrary to popular belief. In fact, women’s libidos actually increase as they get toward middle age. A common reason why married couples stop having sex is that things get into a rut, and boring sex is not as appealing as hot sex. By following the rules above for spicing up your love life you can give your wife the exciting sex life she craves—and that’s good news for you, too! Also keep in mind that helping out with the chores is likely to get her “in the mood” because she’ll have more free time to spend with you….

356) Support—women need a man who will patiently listen to and actively support their dreams. If you are constantly criticizing your wife’s ambitions or keeping her from pursuing her dreams, that creates a stress in the marriage that is hard to repair.

357) Financial security—let’s face it: even women who aren’t necessarily concerned with “having it all” want men who are going to be good providers. Spending lots of money on unnecessary items or extravagant luxuries is not a good way to keep a marriage healthy and strong. Make your wife part of your financial considerations and decisions, and make sure that you are both on the same page when it comes to major purchases, or even minor daily expenses that accumulate over time. She will appreciate your taking her ideas and feelings about your family’s finances into consideration.

358) Interest in her friends and family—if you are in it for the long haul, it’s inevitable that you are going to meet the other people in her life who are important to her. Make nice with her friends and family, even if you don’t really like them very much. These people are going to be around for a long time, and it’s worth your while to get on their good side.

359) Time alone with you—if you’ve got kids or jobs or both, chances are you don’t have much quality time to devote just to each other. Make it a point on occasion to get a babysitter or come home from work early and have some “alone time.” Go to a hotel or get away

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for the weekend. Go out to a nice dinner or to a movie. Go out on dates, even if you’re no longer dating!

Now that you know what women want out of a long-term relationship, let’s talk about some little ways you can meet those expectations on a daily basis. These ideas include thoughtful gestures and sensual tips to ensure that your life together is never dull or too predictable!

30 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Interesting

360) Start each morning with a twenty-second kiss—no exceptions!

361) Don’t fall into the “sex without kisses” trap. Make kissing part of your sexual routine.

362) Book a hotel room for one night, even if the hotel is located right in your home town. Driving someone else for the night and ordering room service will relax you both and inject some excitement into your ordinary daily routine.

363) Follow your instincts. If you’re driving down the highway at night and you both start feeling a little amorous, pull off the road into a rest stop and get busy in the backseat.

364) Decide to have a “naked” day where you do all your daily errands around the house in the buff. Chances are, you won’t get very many of those errands done!

365) If you both just don’t feel like cooking, don’t go through the motions of making a home-cooked meal. Order pizza or bring home Chinese takeout and sip some beers.

366) Don’t feel that every single sexual encounter has to be long, and romantic. Spicing things up with a quickie every now and then is the key to keeping your sex life exciting and variable.

367) You don’t have to have sex in the bedroom! Experiment with new locations. She’ll love the change of scenery.

368) If you’re in the habit of eating dinner out of Tupperware standing over the kitchen counter, change things up by having a formal dinner, even if you’re only serving leftovers! Light candles, set out the good china, use nice silverware and linen napkins—the whole nine yards.

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369) Don’t buy household appliances for her birthday—unless she really wants them. Surprise her with thoughtful gifts like a certificate to a day spa or a luxurious present she will treasure for a long, long time, like a cashmere blanket. These gifts show her that you think it is important for her to pamper herself, just the way she has taken care of you.

370) Don’t get locked into the habit of having sex at the same time every time you do it. If you’re used to making love after dinner, try having a sexy encounter in the middle of a lazy Sunday afternoon.

371) Show her that you respect her emotions and pay attention to her feelings. If she is aggravated over something or is visibly upset, don’t ignore those emotions, even though you may want to. Approach her and ask if she wants to talk to you about what is bothering her.

372) If she calls and says she’s going to be late for dinner, why not surprise her by having a meal ready for her by the time she gets home? You can either order takeout and put it out on nice plates or else cook a nice homey meal.

373) Be considerate of her time. Don’t be late without calling, and if you’ve set aside time for a special date, don’t break that commitment if you can help it.

374) Ask your wife where she fantasizes about vacationing, and for your next anniversary, plan a trip there.

375) Too often, married couples stop laughing with each other as much as they used to. So bring the fun into your marriage in silly ways. Go to a goofball comedy movie. Buy tickets to the circus and buy cotton candy, then feed it to your wife. Play Twister or get out a water slide and set it up in your backyard. Act like a kid again, and you’ll rekindle all that energy and laughter you used to have in your marriage.

376) Don’t wait for her to ask for your help. Most women are very good at multitasking and also shoulder a huge portion of the burden when it comes to the household. They can take on a lot of responsibility and get it all done without complaining outright, while men (sorry guys, but it’s true!) tend to be more single-minded and can’t juggle as many tasks at once. Well, make her life a little easier if you can by pitching in, even a little. Do it before she asks and she’ll be that much more appreciate and thrilled by your

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actions. She’ll also be much more likely to have more free time to spend with you.

377) Get the TV out of the bedroom. A TV can be deadly to a hot sex life and can get in the way of good conversation, too. If you have a TV, keep it in the living room or another public part of the house.

378) Get genuinely interested in your wife’s hobbies and ask her if you can get involved in some of them. If she loves art, make a date with her to visit a local studio or art gallery. If she loves jogging, make it a morning ritual to go running with her. Show her that you are deeply interested in the things she loves to do.

379) If you and your wife have kids or you’re both extremely busy, she may be feeling frustrated about not having enough time to spend on herself. If this is true, one of the nicest things you can do for her is to give her the gift of time. Take the kids away for a day or give her a weekend away at a nearby hotel. Even something as simple as offering to take care of things at home while she goes to get her hair done can show her how much you care about her.

380) Try to avoid activities that involve both you being passive and facing in the same direction. For example, watching TV requires you to sit side by side, not facing one another, and doesn’t require any activity whatsoever. That means there’s no real opportunity for serious connection to take place. To keep your relationship interesting, take it out of the house and do activities that you can really engage in together. Play tennis or go bike-riding, perhaps.

381) Both you and she need to maintain strong friendships outside the marriage. Having separate friends and separate interests helps you both retain a sense of self, and that individuality can really spark up your marriage.

382) When you come home at the end of the day, set aside time—at least ten minutes if not longer—to just talk to each other and reconnect. If you’re tired and just want to relax, why not pour two glasses of wine and sit out on the porch or in your living room chatting instead of turning on the TV and zoning out?

383) Don’t expect her to do all the housework. So many women feel taken advantage of because of the societal bias that says women should do the laundry, wash the dishes, wash the floors, etc. Help her out with the chores, guys—she’ll really notice this one!

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384) If you have shared interests, use that to your advantage and make common activities out of them. For instance, if you’re both supporting the same political candidate, get involved in his campaign. You can go around your town knocking on doors together, for example. The shared challenge you both face will bring y you together.

385) Understand that women are far more likely than men to feel responsible for the needs of everyone around them, from you to the kids to her parents to her work colleagues to her friends. Pitch in and help with the children as much as you can. Offer to help her out if she appears stressed out.

386) Set up a weekly date night when the two of you can spend some quality time together, no fail, no excuses. Don’t schedule work appointments for this time, and don’t score tickets to the game with your buddies. Keep this time “sacred” and pick a new and fun date each week. This means you and she will always have something fun to look forward to.

387) Get in touch with your senses by taking cooking classes together or going to a wine-tasting.

388) Buy new sheets to make things more interesting in the bedroom. Then spoon her or cuddle her as you are both drifting off to sleep.

389) No matter what else is going on in your life, spend time alone with each other whenever you can, and don’t forget to tell her that you love her.

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Common Relationships Problems and How to Deal With Them

390) Problem: She feels she is doing the lion’s share of the housework.

Solution: Set up a schedule or system so that each of you knows exactly what is expected of you in terms of household chores. For example, perhaps you’re in charge of collecting the recycling and taking out the garbage, and she is in charge of the laundry and the kitchen. If there really is just too much to do, it may be worth your while to pay for a maid service to come clean your house on a weekly or monthly basis.

391) Problem: She wants to get closer before you have sex, and you just want to get right into the deed.

Solution: Women, as I’ve already said, tend to need intimacy as a way to get aroused, while men prefer to get straight to it. Well, one easy way to reconcile this difference is to talk to her about why you want to skip to the main course. If you’re like most men, sex is a way for you to feel close to your lover—intercourse itself is a very intimate act. Explain this to your girl. Chances are, merely opening up to her is going to get her to melt a little.

392) Problem: You want to hang out with your friends or go golfing, but she doesn’t want you to.

Solution: Remember that having separate interests and friends is important to a healthy marriage. Encourage your wife to go out with her friends, too. Remind her that she should explore her interests and maintain her own hobbies. Be sure to tell her, also, that at the end of the day you don’t want to be with anyone but her. Make a promise to meet up at the end of the day to talk about what you’ve both been up to.

393) Problem: Your sex life is in a rut.

Solution: Ignoring the problem or—even worse—seeking sex outside the marriage is not a way to fix it. You’ve got to talk about the routine you’ve gotten into and make a commitment to getting out of the rut. Use the sex tips in this guide to help spice things up. You’ll be feeling like teenagers in no time.

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394) Problem: You know each other so well it’s gotten dull.

Solution: Make it a point to explore outside interests separately, so that you both have lots to tell each other about when you’re together. Cultivating new hobbies together can also be a great way out of this problem, because you’ll both enjoy learning things together.

395) Problem: You fight all the time.

Solution: Take a deep breath and evaluate the sorts of things you are fighting about. If she’s made about a little details, like who left the sock on the floor or the dirty dish in the sink, try to remember that it doesn’t have to escalate into a huge blow-out. Apologize and then remember to clean up after yourself better in future. Or, you can gently remind her that a singe sock or dish is not worth getting so worked up over. Tell her that you want to take care of the rest of the cleaning and that you want her to go relax and take a bath.

If you’re constantly having bigger fights about larger problems in the marriage—like lack of trust, communication, or intimacy—you might want to consider seeing a couples’ counselor. This will allow you to air your grievances in a safe way, with an objective third party who can help you assess precisely what is wrong and how to fix it.

396) Problem: You don’t have enough time to spend with one another.

Solution: If you are really committed, you need to make time, and it CAN be done. We all spend time doing things we don’t really need to do, and by identifying these unnecessary activities we can free up time for the more important things in life. For example, if you watch TV every weeknight for an hour, that’s five hours per week of wasted time. Turn off the TV and get your girl out of the house. Go for coffee and conversation, or take a walk around the block. Or maybe you spend a lot of time online, checking email and surfing the internet. Well, just turn off your computer and interact with her face-to-face!

397) Problem: You don’t have much to say to one another.

Solution: This is one of those subjects that inevitably comes up for most long-term relationships. What happens when you run out of things to talk about? Well, as long as you both pursue your own hobbies and interests you should always have plenty to discuss. So

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go out, take part in fun activities—both as a couple and on your own—and stay active.

398) Problem: She is not getting satisfied in the bedroom.

Solution: Most of us know that it is biologically harder for a woman to reach sexual climax than it is for a man, and this is an often contentious part of long relationships—especially when the sex has gotten less exciting. But one of the huge benefits of being with someone for a long time is that you become very comfortable together, and you feel free to discuss things that might otherwise be embarrassing. Talk frankly with your lover about what feels good for her, and what you could do to make her feel even better. Read books on sexual techniques together and feel free to experiment. You could even set aside a night that is all about her—tell her you’re not interested in your own orgasm, you’re only interested in understanding what turns her on.

399) Problem: You (or she) is feeling the seven-year itch—or seven- month itch, or seven-week itch….

Solution: Oftentimes we start looking around at other people when we are dissatisfied with the quality of our own relationship. But remember, relationship problems can be fixed. And even more important, keep in mind that ALL relationships, even the best, strongest ones, have problems at some point. Try out the techniques in this book and give it all your best shot. When your own relationship kicks back into high gear, you’ll probably find yourself paying a lot more attention to your girl.

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20 Things You Should NEVER Say to a Girl

You probably know the feeling: a word or sentence has just come out of your mouth and your girlfriend or wife is looking at you like you have three heads. And you just know that no amount of apologizing is going to make up for it this time!

Well, wouldn’t it be nice to know ahead of time what you should avoid saying in order to keep her happy? This list of things you should never say to your girl will help save you a lot of trouble by letting you know exactly what phrases are bound to make her see red.

400) “It must be that time of the month.”

401) “Yes, that dress actually does make you look fat.”

402) “Your friend is so pretty!”

403) “You look tired.”

404) “She’s a supermodel, of course she’s hot.”

405) “Hey, what about you, me, and your best girlfriend?”

406) “Don’t you have enough shoes?”

407) “You’re wrong.”

408) “You’re going shopping again?”

409) “You remind me of my mother.”

410) “I don’t like your friends.”

411) “I thought you already got a manicure last week.”

412) “I know you want to go out for a nice dinner, but I’d rather order pizza and watch the game with the guys.”

413) “I want to see other people.”

414) “We’re not lost, I know exactly where I am. Now what road is this…?”

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415) “That was such a chick flick.”

416) “I don’t like your cooking.”

417) “Well why can’t you just leave the toilet seat up when you’re done?”

418) “Wanna watch some porn?”

419) “Cleaning up is your job.”

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30 Things You Don’t Generally Say—But That She Wants to Hear

420) “Do you want to talk about it?”

421) “I’m going to the store—do you want anything?”

422) “You did the dishes last night—it’s my turn.”

423) “What turns you on?”

424) “What can I do to make our sex life better?”

425) “Here, you decide what to watch.”

426) “Do you want to go shopping this weekend?”

427) “You look beautiful.”

428) “I’m cooking tonight—what do you want for dinner?”

429) “I want to spend the rest of my life with you.”

430) “You’re my best friend.”

431) “I’m scared.”

432) “I think we should stop and get directions.”

433) “I know you said nothing’s wrong, but I can tell that something’s wrong. Can I help?”

434) “I’m sorry.”

435) “How would you like me to run you a nice, hot bubble bath?”

436) “Did you get a haircut? It looks great!”

437) “Cindy Crawford? She’s not as beautiful as you.”

438) “You’re going to be a great mother.”

439) “Let’s just concentrate on you tonight….”

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440) “Let’s go out dancing.”

441) “I don’t want anybody else.”

442) “I’m really looking forward to meeting your parents.”

443) “Let’s cuddle.”

444) “It’s my turn to take the garbage out.”

445) “Do you ever think about our future?”

446) “Do you want a massage?”

447) “Happy anniversary” (bonus if you say it first)

448) “You’re right.”

449) “I love you.”

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450) Girls do enjoy sex just as much as guys.

451) If we spend a lot of time getting ready it’s because we’re naturally self-conscious.

452) We don’t like fighting either.

453) Girls sometimes like porn.

454) We like sports occasionally—just not every single night

455) Girls talk to their friends about their boyfriends, but we don’t want you to talk to your friends about our intimate lives

456) We know we’re mercurial—we just can’t help it

457) Sometimes we like pizza and beer

458) We consider it cheating if you do anything with another girl that you don’t feel comfortable talking about

459) Girls flirt a lot, but for reasons other than getting laid. It’s just in our nature!

460) We like gifts, but we don’t want you to feel like you have to buy our love.

461) We’re not always in control of our emotions

462) Girls like surprises, but don’t whisk away for a romantic weekend without letting us pack a suitcase first

463) We may not enjoy watching sports all the time, but we admire your athleticism

464) We’re not all neat-freaks (we just may not be as comfortable with messiness as you are)

465) We like to be alone with you, not with you and ten of your closest frat brothers

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466) If we pick on you, it’s probably because we feel insecure ourselves

467) We may cry more than you, but we’re strong emotionally when we need to be

468) We gossips, but we don’t like it when guys gossip

469) Not all girls automatically want to become wives and have babies

470) You don’t have to be macho; just let us know that you want to protect us

471) We get tired of shopping, too, sometimes

472) We may buy a lot, but we’re really good at budgeting (well, most of us are)

473) Anniversaries are a big deal to us

474) We probably have more secrets than you

475) We often turn up late, but if you make us wait we’ll go ballistic

476) Girls love to see a guy who has a good relationship with his family

477) We like men who groom themselves nicely

478) When we’re really angry, sometimes all it takes to make it go away is a sincere apology

479) We love to laugh; a relationship shouldn’t be all serious

480) We may forgive, but we rarely forget

481) We don’t criticize to be mean; it’s our way of showing that we care

482) We actually don’t like cooking all the time

483) Girls say they want macho men, but unless you’re sensitive, too, the relationship won’t last

484) We think it’s sweet when men cry

485) We don’t expect you to pay for everything

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486) We don’t mind hearing a little about your ex-girlfriend, so long as the story doesn’t make you look bad

487) Money isn’t everything

488) Size does matter, but not as much as what you do with it

489) We like men who pay attention to how they are dressed

490) We’d like to hold the remote control every now and then

491) We like alone time with our friends, too

492) Sometimes we cry just because it feels good, not because we’re sad

493) If you blame our mood swings on PMS we’ll freak out, but yes, PMS is an emotional rollercoaster

494) Sex makes us sleepy too

495) Yes, we’re probably talking to our friends about you—but we usually don’t reveal all the juicy details

496) Women don’t have pillow-fights in their underwear, so just let go of that fantasy, okay?

497) Girls can have trouble committing to a relationship, too

498) We want you to tell us if you’re upset about something

499) We want to know that you need us just as much as we need you

500) We are very good in transferring our feelings about external environment and objects to you! So if you dress smart, it tells us you can take care of yourself. If you are athletic, it tells us you have discipline and will likely be a disease-free husband! If you wash your own socks, it tells us you will likely be a responsible partner!

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BONUS SECTION!

264 More Things Girls Want Guys To Know – In a Nutshell, all her secret fantasies, hidden fears, what’s she thinking, why is she feeling this way, the dreams she has of the man she will love, all her innermost desires, likes and dislikes which she has been wanting to tell you so badly but doesn’t really know how to say it or when to say it, it’s all right here - unedited and uncensored!

1) “I want you to flirt with me and only me! Says things or do something which tells me I am the only one you want in your heart!”

2) “If you spotted me wanting something I would love to have in the shop, I would love you to treat me to that little gift even if I didn’t ask.”

3) “I get very pissed and turned off when my man doesn’t seem to want to talk! I talk so as to feel close to my mate, and I like to talk about my feelings and emotions. If he doesn’t know how to say the right thing it’s ok. I just wish he would just simply listen, because if he does that I would feel he’s taking me more seriously.”

4) “I am more emotional about everything, thus I want to discuss and talk about my feelings and emotions. It may not solve the troubles and problems I feel I’m facing, but, at least I can vent it off, and let go of the steam. I’m attracted to those who can listen to me.”

5) “I like to hear my man say ‘I miss you’. I like to know he’s thinking of me all the time, so a simple message, or a simple note like that would turn me on.”

6) “I don’t like him to be so mysterious and quiet when he looks troubled. I cannot read his mind. It would be better if he can say something, I can share his burden.”

7) “I love you to remember all of our special days – first date, first kiss, wedding, etc. etc. Tell me that you remember it all.”

8) “I love him to ask me what will make me happy now! It shows he cares, he’s serious about me, and I’m wanted! I find him so cool and attractive when he’s willing to do anything and everything that will make me happy now!” #9 “I love to be touched. Every now and then give me a hug, and I’ll know that you are here for me.”

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9) “I feel close to him when he goes behind me, wraps his arms round me and whispers into my ears, and then the kisses come. It sends a tingling up my spines and I simply love that feeling!”

10) “My love for him grows when he does things that are so unexpected! Such as taking over the little chores when I’m feeling unwell, sending my research books back to the library when I forgot about it all, and buying home my favorite sweet dessert when I didn’t ask for it!”

11) “It’s the little things that counts! I do not want him to plan any dates that are too extravagant or give me gifts that are too expensive. I’m not really impressed with all these. But I’m attracted to him when he can just put down his papers or work just to be with me, be there for me or even listen to me. I want his heart, not his person.”

12) “I want to be your special some one. Tell me and convince me that I am!”

13) “I want to feel I’m desired, and be wooed over and over again, no matter where we are in this relationship. I love attention all the time, even if you don’t feel like giving attention to me, do something, however small the gestures are, to make me feel close to you.”

14) “When you worry about me and anything regarding my life, I know you have me in your heart.”

15) “What girls really like, even after marriage, is romance!”

16) “Guys seem to resist talking about their feelings about the relationship. But what I simply need to know is if you will only say ‘You are the only one in my heart!’ That’s it. He doesn’t even have to think really hard what to say if he doesn’t know or if he doesn’t want to, this is all I need to hear.”

17) “I think we girls emphasize a lot on timeline. I need commitment from you, and I need to know that I’m right to have chosen you, I don’t want to waste time with you if this relationship is not going to work out. So, please tell me first if you are not serious into a long term commitment. Don’t waste my time and don’t waste mine. Don’t keep me waiting for your answer, and don’t make me keep guessing whether you are real”

18) “Tell me and do things which tell me I’m your Number One! - The loveliest, sexiest, most capable, most attractive – I just need to know, don’t ask me why. It’s what you do everyday and what you say every moment that counts, it need not be exaggerated, even if I can get a hint that I’m on your most wanted list I’ll feel satisfied!”

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19) “My ideal man would be caring, honest, committed, and would love me till the day I die.”

20) “I lose interest instantly when I start hearing from you how much money you have earned, how much was spent on this and that, and so on. I’m uninterested in your money, and I definitely won’t fall for some one who appears to be so calculative! A man who is gentle with animals and children is a big turn-on. When he’s willing to take time to pay attention to them, I’ll be there with him!”

21) “If I spotted my own photo in my man’s wallet, and he even made it into a photo card with some cute designs round it, I would be secretly pleased and flattered that I’ve a special place in his heart, even if I may never let him know!”

22) “Just because a guy captures my heart, he shouldn’t get so comfortable with this relationship that he gives up dating and romancing me anymore! I would feel like I’ve become a used book on his dusty bookshelf!”

23) “Today on my birthday I expected another hand-made card from him. But, to my surprise he created a powerpoint with heart-warming music in the background! It doesn’t cost a penny to do this, but it definitely is time consuming to make all these! Wow, I just felt that I’m falling in love with him all over again.”

24) “I love to get surprises from him! Or anything that he does out of the ordinary…”

25) “I like the guy who will pamper me and only me forever!”

26) “I think he’s romantic when he gives me his precious time, time he would not even give to his parents!”

27) “I’m attracted to him when he presented me with his artist’s sketch of me using pencil. I’m thinking ‘well, no other men would waste time on this!’ It’s now my treasured possession. He really put his whole heart into doing it.”

28) “I love hugs or simply a light touch, whether it’s to show his encouragement, his affection, his support, or even his passion for me.”

29) “I cannot tolerate a guy who talks too much and does not know when and how to stop, even when hints are given! If he’s more concerned with how he’s doing than how I’m doing, it’s a big, big turnoff!”

30) “I’m turned off when a not-so-confident guy try to woo me. It will all show up in his eyes, his manners, his speech, his attitude, his habits and his behaviors. I prefer to be with a more cheery and confident guy, who knows what he wants and what he’s doing. Such a guy has more magnetism than those who don’t!”

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31) “I’m attracted to the guy who’s more daring, more adventurous – some one who’s not afraid to try new things and challenges. A gentleman would be good, but if he watches his manners and treats me too nicely and too extremely I’m not attracted to him. Basically I’m a very quiet girl, and I think life would be very boring and monotonous if my mate is also some one who is quiet and unadventurous. There’s just something missing right here. So, that guy who can simply stir my emotions and feelings, and challenges me to new ways of thinking and doing things is likely the one who can win me over.”

32) “I like my mate to say exactly what he wants and mean it up front. If you are not pleased nor if you are angry about something, don’t vent and expect me to know what is wrong. I can’t do mind reading too!”

33) “I like my mate to call me his bribe even if we are married! I can just get this feeling that he’s loving me every day!”

34) “He begins to expect me to give in to his demands and do whatever he wants me to do after our marriage. I don’t like the idea that he’s now treating me like his “wife”, I’m not proud of it anymore. It would be so nice if he can still treat me like his girlfriend! You know, I simply like the feeling that he doesn’t really know everything about me and he’s constantly wooing me.”

35) “If I seem quiet, not in my usual self, and with a little worry look on my face, I would like you to come up and just ask me what is it all about and what you can do, without even needing me to ask you to do it.”

36) “I’ll like my mate to praise me for something good I have done, whether it’s the new dish I’m making, or whether it’s a bright idea I’ve some out with.”

37) “If you mean no, says no. Don’t beat about the bush, or try to please me by saying things which you do not really mean. I can detect that in your voice, your eyes, and your body language. I’m not impressed with that.”

38) “I love him to show me appreciation for what I have done for him. Even better, compliment me whenever he can.”

39) “Don’t criticize me if I have done something wrong. Try to make me see your point, or the benefits of doing things using other ways instead of mine. Don’t make me do something just because you feel it’s the right way and the only way. Many times I will not believe it’s the only way.”

40) “I don’t really understand him. He just keeps doing things which piss me. But still, I want to be with him more than with other guys. I guessed it’s all because of the challenges, the unpredictable attitude and behavior, and the desire to

500 Secrets About Girls Every Guy Should Know! wanting to know him better, to crack the secret codes to get to know this person thoroughly, that draws me to him. And, he doesn’t seem to care! It’s really weird, the more he doesn’t seem to care, the more I want him to be around and to care!”

41) “I like you to pamper me without my realizing that I’m too demanding.”

42) “I’m most turned off when you cannot decide what to do and where to go for our date, or even appear indecisive! Come on, you are a man! I want to know I can depend on you, that you can make the right and best decisions for all of us here. But, you are the sweetest if you make your decisions only after finding out what my needs are, what I like, and what turns me on. Yah I know you are not a mind reader or a psychic, at least, you try and you make an effort!”

43) “When both us communicate, I want you to be involved as well. I don’t want you to just consent with what I say just to please me. Please, if you do it I’ll feel there’s something very wrong with me and I don’t like feeling that way! Cut all those pretenses. If you are not happy, say so. If you are happy, let me know. I prefer you to be honest, truthful and straightforward, with tact!”

44) “I am not a man, and I will never be! I will forever be different from you, and think in a different way from you, and you will never be a woman too! If you want me, accept me for who I am. If you desire to be with me, accept me for who I am! It is your acceptance of me for who I am that I can and will do my very best to make this relationship work. But if you cannot accept me for who I am, and expect me to change (to what you want me to be), then sooner or later I will break down, and our relationship will too break down!”

45) “Let me have a life of my own, and trust me! If I do not want to be with you I will go away. So for as long as I am with you, trust me that I like you, that I too want to be with you! Yes, I will be very playful outside at times, life is a long journey with many experiences to be experienced and learnt. When I have learnt all I can, when I have experienced enough, I will eventually come home.”

46) “I always believe in this saying ‘Absence makes the heart grows fonder.’ I will miss you if you do not cling to me like a sticky glue!”

47) “I will never grow tired of hearing my man says ‘I love you!’ He’s best when he can come out with many different, fun, and creative ways of telling me that he loves me!”

48) “I like the way my man feed me with his stick of fish balls; I’ll have one piece, and he’ll finish the other piece. There’s a message here. It tells me something, that he’s interested in me!”

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49) “I like him to be a real man, one who is able to speak up for me when I’m being bullied, protect me from dangers, save me from embarrassing situation, and provide me shelters when I need it.”

50) “I’m attracted to the man who can also be a good father. Such a man needs to be considerate, caring, and responsible.”

51) “I’m attracted to my man because of the way he treats his pet puppy. He loves him, takes good care of him, walks him every day and gives him good food. Doesn’t it say something about his character? He’s such a loving and caring person. Well, such a man is hard to find!”

52) “I’m attracted to the man who can be sensitive to my needs. I’m a rather sensitive and possessive person, so if he wants me he has to know that I need him to call me every evening, even if it’s just to say hi. Don’t ask me why, but if he wants me and loves me, he has to know my needs and wants. It just gives me a peace of mind if he can just call, or even text a message. It’s not time consuming or difficult isn’t it? If he has the heart he will do it.”

53) “I would fall in love with the man who is willing to share life together with me!”

54) “I love excitement, entertainment, and fun! So, share with me all the challenges, excitement, gossips and changes that are occurring in your workplace or your life. You need not have to tell me everything if you do not want to. But I like to feel I’m involved, that you like me listening to you, that you tell me because you value my opinions and feedback, and that you value my presence!

55) “Make me feel important. It’s actually easy to accomplish this if you want to attract me. Ask me about my interests, my likes and dislikes. Ask me to participate in your project. Ask me to give a little helping hand and show that you trust me and have confidence in me. Pamper me at times. All these would make me feel I’m the most important person in your life.”

56) “Who will I be attracted to if I’m in a room of many men? Well, it all depends. If all men are fighting to talk loudly and noisily at the same time, I think I’ll be attracted to the one man who sits quietly at a corner and deep in thought. Why? Because he stands out. That’s why. Unknowingly, he has ignited in me a curiosity about him, a need to kill my curiosity, a desire to know more about him. I’ll have my attention on him instead.”

57) “I’m attracted to my man because he didn’t try so hard to woo me!”

58) “I think I will fall for you if you can just let me talk myself into liking you. You cannot make another person like you, that’s one of the basic truth in life. But basically, I’m attracted to the man who can still be himself, like an indestructible

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mountain, whether he knows I like him or not. For this person, there’s something about him which other guys lack, a mystique, like an indestructible diamond.”

59) “I’m turned off instantly by the guy who loses all his confidence, becomes like a cry baby, and even thinks that the world has come to the end, when I tell him I do not like him. Come on, you are a guy, please. Surely you would not have given up so easily!”

60) “I think the guy who woos me has to be very, very, very thick skinned if he wants to win me over. Hey, I do not wish to appear I’m easily attainable too! That would have given him an easy ride isn’t it?”

61) “My mum used to tell me that if there’s a guy interested in me I have to be aware that I do not give in to him too easily. Too bad, guys, but you really have to make a sincere effort and preserve to show me that you are the right man for me. I always believe if any thing is too easily available and attainable, it’ll lose its value instantly too! So, do not blame me if at times I sounded harsh, cold, and unfeeling. As a girl, I want to make sure I take the right step in choosing you.”

62) “My man knows how I would like him to behave and he gives it to me! That attracts me to him. I never know I’m so sensitive to touches and hugs until I meet him. He knows I have a certain liking for him, and one day he just takes his chances and gives me kisses from behind my back on my necks and ears. That literally blows me away! There’s another guy who’s interested in me, but he’s very reserved and too quiet, too gentlemanly. Indeed, I must say he’ll make a good husband, but he doesn’t turn me on, and there’s really no chemistry. So to this day, that first guy is still the one I want because he’s the only one who knows what I want!”

63) “If I say I do not need help, what I really want is I need some help! The guy who most attracts me is the guy who can help me solve my problems even without my asking for it, and he is so cool he asks and expects nothing in return. For such a guy, I would fall in love with him!”

64) “I hated it when my man just came home, dumped his laptop bag on the sofa, and went into the room without even popping into the kitchen and asked me how my day was, or gave a hug. Even if he’s dead tired he can just come in and say hi, at least, he should care enough to let me know his presence!”

65) “Many times, I just want my man to listen to me and what I have to say. He needs not have to understand what’s going on or providing any help if he’s incapable of doing so. In many cases, I only love his being present, that’s all. Sometimes he can get so caught up in trying to come out with a solution to my troubles and problems that he irritates me without knowing and realizing it! He’ll end up siding with the colleague whom I’m not on good terms with, making me

500 Secrets About Girls Every Guy Should Know! feel as if I’m in the wrong or making the wrong judgment. Hey, I want you to make me feel I’m right even if in reality it’s not! So, without knowing the truth in reality, I would prefer you to just shut up and listen.”

66) “I like you to make me feel I’m making the right decisions, the right judgment, having the right sentiments and feelings. In short, don’t make me look and feel bad. Side with me, even if you feel like I’m in the wrong!”

67) “Sometimes I want you to help, sometimes I do not really want you to help, as when you do you often end up saying the wrongs things, can’t get what I really mean, or misinterpreted . If you are not sure, just appear interested, listen and relax. This is all I ask of you”

68) “The guy who can attract me be some one who is too quiet and reserved. Being quiet and nice will not make me fall for him, except that I will draw the conclusion that he will be a nice guy, a nice friend, that’s all. It’s what he does that tells me more of his character, and is more convincing. For example if he keeps a pet and lovingly hugs his pet, I know he’s a caring and loving person. If he brings me out sailing and shows me he loves the sun, water and sea, I know he’s an outgoing person who is always cheery, and fun to be with! If he does volunteer work and invites me to assist him in coaching some intellectually disabled kids in swimming, I know he’s a compassionate man with a good heart!”

69) “I will be attracted to the guy who does things differently!”

70) “My man keeps putting romance off to the weekends. Every day for five days of the week he just comes home, eat, and sleep, and shoot off for work early in the morning the next day. Why can’t he be the way he is when he’s dating me? I would love him to be romantic seven days a week! Is it a difficult thing to do? What I want is only a few minutes of his attention!”

71) “I love your cuddling and snuggling! I like the feelings of closeness and togetherness, but It’s not only about the feelings, it’s because you show that you want it too and that you take time off your busy schedule for it. That’s important to me!”

72) “I like him to talk to me at breakfast, not at me!”

73) “I lost confidence in him when he keeps forgetting our anniversaries and even my birthday!”

74) “I do not need expensive gifts from you to make me happy. If you can just text me or write me the following passionate words I’ll be on clouds nine! ‘You are my soulmate!’, ‘You are the best.’, ‘Grow old with me.’”

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75) “I like the way he is so eager to see me, to hear from me, to touch me, to say sweet words to me, during the time when he’s dating me. If only he will continue to win my love and affection all over again and again even after we are married! You know, I’ll never be tired of it!”

76) “For my man to keep me by his side, he needs to show me that he needs me!”

77) “After a fight with my man, we stay away from each other to avoid further fights and arguments. I may look cold, unfeeling, and arrogant, but secretly I still care about him, I still miss him a lot, even if I do not show it on my face or even say it out loud. I’m disappointed with myself too for failing to resolve any misunderstandings we may have. I do feel bad about the fighting too.”

78) “I love the little gestures my husband give to show his consideration and care for him, such as giving up his seat for him on the train, walking me home before leaving for somewhere else). You know, such a man is so rare nowadays. Many men just take women for granted after they won her over.”

79) “How to say it? I’m attracted to the guy who is strong willed, yet gentle and considerate, at the same time. Such guys are hard to come by!”

80) “When a guy treats me like a lady, I cannot help but be attracted to him. It turns me off when a guy is hesitant about opening the door for me or walking me to the door. He’s the best when he makes an effort, and expects nothing in return. How should I put it? This guy is not just trying to do something for me, rather, he’s trying to be someone to me. He’s different from other guys, and I can sense his inner strength. He’s mature and he’s unafraid.”

81) “All that I have found up to now is someone who did something for me just to please me, in expectation of getting something in return, that I would return their call, that I should show that I’m happy to be with them or see them. But this guy (now her husband) is different! I turned him down a year ago. But he preserves, and now I know that he’s the only one who truly loves me as he doesn’t want anything from me!”

82) “I’ll turn him away if he’s rushing things and moving too fast. I like to go slowly, checking him out, knowing more about him and his character before we go steady. If he starts calling every day after our first date, he’ll make me think that he’s desperate, or he has got nothing better to do! And I definitely wouldn’t want to be with a desperate man.”

83) “If any guy wants to capture my heart he has to uncover me as I really am, not as they merely believe or hope that I am.”

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84) “I rejected him because he tries too hard to please. The whole thing is just so deliberate! “

85) “He doesn’t try to make an impression. He doesn’t want anything from me. And thus I don’t feel to pressure to response or act in any deliberate way. It’s comfortable being with him. He appears close to me, yet has an air of detachment. He’s just so cool. I can’t help but fall for such a guy!”

86) “He has such an interesting life, is heavily involved in sports, and has a strong belief in his passion. I’m attracted to him because I know that he’s complete and he’s not demanding. He lives life to the fullness, and is free from the need to control me and my life, yet at the same time he wants to be close to me and takes time to share with me all the interesting things about him and his life.”

87) “I’m not too crazy about skinny, tall, and gentlemanly guy. I don’t go after guys with bulky muscles and big biceps too. But I’ll fall for the guy who possesses physical strength, good determination and gentleness, all at the same time.”

88) “It’s important that my man has good physical strength. No it doesn’t that he has to have well defined and big muscles, but that he has to have all the good virtues such as perseverance, strong willed and brave. I’ll feel safe with such a guy as I know that he’ll protect me from dangers!”

89) “The guy I want mustn’t behave like a woman just to please me or attract me!”

90) “What I like about my man is his I-don’t-care attitude! He seems to be able to get away from every thing. The ironical part is, the more he doesn’t care, the more I’m drawn to him!”

91) “There’s an air of detachment in him. He can keep his life and have a relationship! I wish I have half of his attitude, I cannot help but put relationship first! I hope, if he ever gets a chance to read this, that he’ll understand why I crave for his attention and affection at those seemingly untimely hours.”

92) “My man doesn’t seem to care how other people would feel. But I care. And I cannot stop caring and being aware of how other people feel.”

93) “Adventure racing is his passion. It’s just in his blood from his childhood. I fell in love with him for what adventure racing has molded him and for the character he is. But it’s his extreme involvement in that activity that is challenging our relationship right now. He can just leave me and our children unsupported

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emotionally and financially and go for his races. He doesn’t seem to worry, and he keeps it inside of him. One thing is for sure, I’m still attracted to him!”

94) “He’s the only one who will respect and love the people I love – my friends, my family, my working colleagues, and even my pet!”

95) “I fall for him because of his character, and for who he is. He has such a positive outlook in life, does what he feels is right without hesitation, and can just dump things when he feels like it, with no cares, no worries, no further explanations.”

96) “I find you so sweet when you give me that hand-made card decorated with the flowers we planted in our garden! And, you gave it to me on the day when it was no special occasion.”

97) “I fell in love with him when every time he sees me he says ‘Every time I see you, I fall in love with you over and over again!’”

98) “He makes me feel so special when he makes it a point to spend time alone with me, while our kids are with our parents.”

99) “The most special gift I receive is what he creates himself – a CD full of my favorite songs! You know, I have the know-how to create it myself, but he moves me because of the time and effort he puts into it.”

100) “I love it when you says you are receiving your bonus this week and you are going to give both of us a treat!”

101) “Girly things or gifts are not out of date! I may show that I do not fancy jewelries and pendant nowadays. But my heart is moved when he gives me a beautiful heart pendant.”

102) “I would love to be with the guy who can keep his promise. My ex- boyfriends are those types who keep their promises when they are wooing me, and after we have gone steady they forget all about it. They start to treat me like nothing, and they even thought I wouldn’t mind if they can just break a promise or two. Please, if you break a promise once that’s it. It tells something about you, that you are not really serious.”

103) “If he knows I’m sick and even takes leave from his work just to accompany me to the clinic, I know I can’t help but fall for this man.”

104) “Even if we are married, I would like my man to ask me (without my asking or reminding him) to go for a stroll hand-in-hand, whether it’s on the beach or in

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the garden (and just us alone!). It’s not boring for me. Girls like their guys to just be around.”

105) “I’ll love my guy to hide love notes for me to discover – in my books, laptop, inside the fridge, under my pillow, in my hands before I wake up!”

106) “If you are in debt or facing some problems, I would like you to know I’ll stick with you all the way, and if there’s anything I can do to help please let me know. You may be so engrossed in solving your own problems that many times I’ll feel neglected, left out, unworthy, or even useless. Don’t forget we girls tend to feel more, are emotional and sentimental. I’ll be even more moody, lethargic, and miserable if you are unhappy. So, pushing me away is not for my own good if that’s what you are thinking, nor are you saving me from any troubles or problems. I want to be involved, and I want to share the burden with you! Make me feel capable of doing it. Make me feel I’m not totally useless!”

107) “There are many things I can do to be involved. I’m not being bossy. But let me do something for you, even if you feel you can handle it. I like to feel I’m being appreciated. I like to know that you like me to be around for you.”

108) “Ask for my opinions. Ask for my help. Two brains are better than one. Don’t keep to yourself, and don’t vent your anger and frustrations. I cannot read what is going on in your mind. Even if I can’t do anything to help (if it’s beyond my knowledge or means), I like to know that you appreciate my presence, my being there for you. If not, you’ll make me feel I’m not needed or wanted. As a girl I don’t like to feel this way!”

109) “I’m turned off by the guy who keeps saying he cannot make it in his job, that he’s not good in anything, that he’s not earning enough. Please, that doesn’t make you very modest. On the contrary it does show you haven’t learn to love yourself, and one who doesn’t know how to love oneself cannot love others too! Before I left him, I told him: ‘Learn to love yourself first, before trying to find a mate.’”

110) “Don’t tell me that you want to be with me while at the same time you join a dating service. That’s not a sensible thing to do. I know you may like to get to know more friends and pals, but, it does tell other girls you are available, and, as a girl myself, even though I do not mind you mixing around with other people, I like to feel and know that I’m the most important person in your heart!”

111) “I like to be with the guy who will respect a woman, and who thinks we women have equal rights. I find such a guy very attractive, one who believes in women and what women can do, or even speak up for women!”

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112) “I like the fact that guys aren’t petty and even if they get mad with their male friends, they’ll make up the next day and still remain buddies and best friends. But, guys, we are not your buddies, we’ll stay mad with you forever if you’ll want to make up without even apologizing. I think girls are more petty, and I definitely am. If I feel that I’m right I want my love interest to acknowledge it, and even if I’m wrong I don’t like my mate to make it so obvious that I’m wrong. As I have just said, we are not guys and we cannot think and behave like guys do. So, to please us and to pacify us you cannot behave as if nothing has gone wrong and that everything that has happened can be forgotten easily. What you can best do, I think, is acknowledge that something has gone wrong, don’t pretend that it can be easily forgotten for we’ll get very hurt. Acknowledge girls’ feelings and ability of being able to stay mad for as long as they want, and try to pacify them by giving them what they want. It makes things worse when a guy just stays away without even saying anything, as it’ll show that he does not care. It’s better if you can just say: ‘Look, honey, I know you are mad with me, and you are still mad at this moment. I’ll stay away from you for the next few days until you feel better.”

113) “I like the guy with an attitude, who looks and behaves very cool and coldly, but whose heart is very warm, generous, and gracious! If such a guy comes along I’ll definitely fall for him!”

114) “My guy is quite plump! Why do I fall for him? I guess he’s a lot more honest, trustworthy, and caring than those handsome ones. Do you think I’ll feel secure with those handsome guys? I wouldn’t! Such guys usually have a long waiting list of girls waiting for them and I definitely wouldn’t want to be in the queue. Security and commitment is very important to me. If you know you are not going to be committed or serious about this relationship, stay away from me. I don’t want to get dumped by you one day.”

115) “We girls tend to think a lot, a lot, unlike guys. We can’t help it. We often think about how other people are looking at us, whether they like us doing things in certain ways, whether they prefer us dressing in that way, and so on and so forth. So, it would seem like we tend to question and nag a lot. So, please be understanding and be patient with me if you want to be with me. Many times, I would need a lot of confirmation and answers from you just to convince me. You’ll have to bear with me, and accept me for the way I am if you want me to be your mate!”

116) “As the guy I love has to constantly work overseas, I need him to give me a call every evening. It’s not that I’m possessive, and I don’t want to admit I am! But I need to feel secure, that he’s still there, remembering me and thinking about me.”

117) “I like the fact that guys are not emotional. They don’t get jealous of other men easily. And they don’t gossip about their male friends. But, women tend to

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get jealous very easily, and they love to gossip about other people to their female friends.”

118) “What I like most about my man is his self discipline to reach for his personal goals no matter the difficulties or obstacles (whether it comes from family or work), while at the same time he’s attentive, caring and kind to me and our children.”

119) “I love hugs by a pair of strong arms and hands, it gives me a sense of security and forever!”

120) “The man who can attract me will be the one who knows how to make me happy. And he has to make the effort to find out, not what he thinks or believes will make me happy, but what exactly will make me happy. It moves me when I see him trying and failing, but keeps trying anyway simply because he believes I’m the one he wants to be with all his life.”

121) “If you want me, stop talking about your past relationships. And don’t ever give a hint of anything that has to do with your past relationships. I love to feel I’m number one in your heart.”

122) “If you promise me a date tonight be sure you keep your promise unless it’s really a life-and-death matter that you have to cancel the appointment. Perhaps guys do not really feel there is anything wrong with canceling an appointment but it matters a lot to girls, like me. If there is any reason that you need to cancel the appointment or date, try to involve me. Say if your mother has a fall and you need to rush back, ask me if I can come over to help, more often than not I’ll be most willing to get myself involved! So don’t treat me as you would treat a guy, I’m not a guy and certainly I cannot behave or think like one.”

123) “I’m turned off by the guy who turns up for our date not well groomed or smelling good. So, please check yourself before you come!”

124) “If you stink, don’t ever think of coming near me.”

125) “The guy who can attract me is the one who knows how to make me feel important about myself. Hey, doesn’t every one likes to feel important about themselves? I may be very selfish here, but, if you can make me feel important I would think you are some one special. However, if you keep talking about yourself and your achievement, blah, blah, blah, I be turned off instantly.”

126) “It’s the thought that counts! My man baked a cake the other day and I was thinking ‘wow, this can’t be happening. I mean, only women would do all these kitchen things.’ And he was so sweet that he told me he did it for me! It was not very tasty, but who cares! I just love his thoughtfulness.”

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127) “He doesn’t like to be disturbed when he’s reading his papers. But in order that I would not feel lonely or left out, he read his papers while curling up besides me! I think that’s very thoughtful of him!”

128) “If you are too talkative, it shows you are arrogant.”

129) “I have chosen him because he’s with me and helps me not by doing something, but by being someone.”

130) “If you show me that your interests are merely sexual, that you only care about your needs and wants, especially the sexual ones, sorry, but I have to turn you away.”

131) “What turns me on is that he makes the effort to try to get to know me, the real me, and to get connected with me first, before he advances any further. This is good, as it shows that he respects me, that he allows time for me to get to know him first.”

132) “I like my man to stay fit and healthy, visit the gym often, and even encourage me to exercise with him on a regular basis. It shows that he cares to look good for me as well as for himself”

133) “He wrote me a love song, sang it into a cassette with his guitar, and though it’s not very good, but I love the effort he’s making!”

134) “I do not like the macho guy without a heart!”

135) “Show me you are loving, compassionate, considerate, kind person, and knows how to turn me on, and I’ll fall for you. What the point of having a handsome face, beautiful body, well defined and bulky muscles, when you make me cook your favorite dish even when I’m sick, or appears cold and uninterested to what I’m saying.”

136) “I’m turned off when you are too easy to get. Come on, give me some challenges, and let me know you are a treasure hard to come by, and you’ll have my whole attention.”

137) “If you want to attract the love of your life, think of yourself as the product in those brilliant sales copy, make yourself scarce, tell me what’s in it for me if I choose you over hundreds and hundreds of others out there, find a way to tell me that you are unique, that if I didn’t want you, some one else will, and I’ll be at the losing end. There, if you can do it, you’ll capture my heart!”

138) “I’m turned off my guys who keep bragging about themselves.”

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139) “One guy caught my attention. After the party, he just grabbed a mop and started to clean the floor! Tell me, which guys would even care to do that! I’m secretly thinking to myself: ‘wow, this guy’s different. Any girl who has him is indeed lucky!’”

140) “You cannot be too overly nice! There’s this guy who’s wooing me and he’s too nice to me; I have a secret name for him - Mr Okay. He’s always doing things my way, taking care not to offend me, so much so that I just get this gut feeling that life would be very, very boring, monotonous, and unchallenging with him around! In the end, I leave him.”

141) “Nowadays women are more independent. But, still, as a woman, I like being chased, and I like to give you a hard time. I’m not trying to be funny, difficult or what, but life’s exciting to get to know each other this way!”

142) “I get very nervous and anxious when I cannot get you on the phone, especially when you are not available during the time when you have promised you’ll call, so I will call and call until I can get through to you. If you want me, you’ll have to accept me for who I am and what I’ll be going through for a simple matter like this. Being able to get you is something I deem important.”

143) “I must confess, I’m someone who needs constant attention and reassurance. If you want to capture my heart and win me over, you’ll have to understand the kind of person I am, for I do not wish to hurt you, neither do I want to get hurt.”

144) “I would love you to call me up and tell me that you love me whenever you can. I’m literally jumping up and down for joy whenever the phone rings and I just get this gut feeling that it’s you on the other line (even though you may not see me and the joy and bliss on my face!). The sweetest words I love to hear from you are ‘I miss you!’, and I would put down everything I’m doing just to be there with you, for you, and talking to you for hours on the phone, with no other cares and worries! Why? Because I put you first before anything else in my life! I love you. I put my relationship with you my first priority in life ever since I get to know you, ever since we fall in love!”

145) “Like all girls, I put love first. To have an intimate and successful relationship with the love of our life is our greatest, biggest, proudest achievements in life! If my man loves me, I’ll be the envy of all of my girlfriends! As for men, I think we are number 2, and their work and career is their number 1. Does this explain the difference between men and women?”

146) “Whatever I do, whether I get frustrated, disappointment, confused, angered, unreasonable, in your eyes, all I want is more connection and intimacy with you.”

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147) “Even when I’m attending to our children at home, and busy with all the day to day chores in the house, all of my thoughts and mind are constantly on you, and wondering how you are doing outside, whether you are safe and happy in whatever you are doing at that moment.”

148) “I found myself a wonderfully changed woman after I met the love of my life! Before I met him, I was a totally independent person, doing things for myself, and enjoying life for myself. Now that I’m sharing my life with another person, I found that I have totally dumped ‘my-self’! I didn’t really understand why. Now that I reflected on what’s happening, I felt I’m like living life for him; I’m always missing him, wondering what’s he’s doing, how’s he’s doing, whether he’s missing me and thinking about me, whether he’ll be happy to see me later, whether what I’m wearing is going to please him - my whole consciousness is always on him!”

149) “When a woman falls in love with you, be aware that it’s in her nature to keeping thinking about you, to keep missing you. She may not be aware of it; she may not even know it’s going to happen within her before the relationship! And perhaps you never know that you have so much power over a girl in a relationship, but now you do. If a girl seriously falls in love with you, you are going to live in her consciousness for the rest of her life with you. Literally every tiniest, single part of her life has got something to do with you. A dress she spots in the departmental store one day would remind her of her outing with you. A cake given to her by a friend isn’t just a cake – it evokes deep feelings of love and passion for you because you have gotten her a similar cake on her birthday last year! A ring from the phone in her office is going to make her jump, as she would be hoping that the call is from you – yes, that’s how much a girl can love you – as deep as the ocean - her love and feelings for you can’t even be measured!”

150) “There’s really nothing wrong with a girl who seems to be so possessive and obsessive about a relationship with you. It’s in her nature to love in this way, and she needs not have to put in a great deal of effort or time to love you so much. Don’t you feel that you are a lucky man, that you have a girl who truly, seriously, sincerely love you, and not pretend or act as if she really loves you? If she has to put in a great deal of time and effort to show her love for you, that’s very unnatural!”

151) “I don’t think you should say that I love too much, it seems pretty natural for me to love in this way as a woman. Do you call that ‘loving too much’? Then, how much is not too much?”

152) “It’s not that I’m feeling insecure or needy or that I like to nag or whine. I don’t. I’m not a naggy or whiney person, he knows this a long, long time ago even before we go steady. It’s just that I need certain particular responses from

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him in order to feel that I’m loved. I need that reciprocation that’s all. Is it asking too much? If he cannot attend to this inner needs of mine, he’s better off finding other people who would be more suitable for him!

153) “I need to know that when you are reading your papers, I can come behind your back and give you a kiss or a hug and you would respond, or even relate to me in a romantic way. That’s the moment when I’m opening up my heart. It’s not that I don’t believe in your love for me, or that I don’t believe that you love me. I know you do, but when I’m trying to connect with you in an emotional way, and you respond in a cold, distant way or manner, I would feel miserable and frustrated. I just hope you would understand my needs at that moment, that all I’m trying is to express my love for you, many times it’s out of the blue that I do it, and I hope you would be able to switch into your love mode, and reciprocate, even if it means only a few seconds, I’ll be satisfied and happy!”

154) “What does love mean to me as a girl? Perhaps I would put it this way, if I’m unhappy with my work, or something bad happens in my workplace one particular day, or if I’m unsuccessful in any projects I’m doing, I’ll recover pretty fast and would be feeling great again if the man of my life just comes along to lend me a shoulder to cry on, to talk to me, to accompany me, or even better to cheer me up! That’s how important my relationship is in my life! But, if I feel my man is not connecting with me in the way I want it, I would be miserable and hurt all day long, even if on that day I receive news that I’m going to get a promotion or a salary raise, I would not be happy. I just can’t!”

155) “My success in life is determined by how happy I’m with the love of my life!”

156) “I do not think that I’m too needy, desperate, or insecure; but once I have accepted you and chosen you as my mate; it would mean I’m putting you first in all areas of my life; to feel connected with you, and to express my love for you, I will always want to invest time and energy into this relationship by planning and creating special memories in advance. It’s as if when you are involved in a project in your workplace, because you view it as something very important, you’ll put your heart and soul into planning to ensure that it will be a success. Similarly, I’ll want to plan special events and occasions, including our dates and get-togethers in advance, and I’ll love to discuss with you about the plans so that we can have a happy time together!”

157) “If I feel things are not going well in my relationship, I would feel very guilty, hurt or even useless that I’m unable to make the relationship close, strong and lasting! This is how important a happy and harmonious relationship with you is to me!”

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158) “It would seem as like I’m really irritating and bossy when trying to get your attention and time for myself. It’s not because I’m controlling or unreasonable, but it’s all because I want and I need to feel connected to you.”

159) “Men can separate their life from their relationship, and most men know how to get themselves emotionally charged for each of these two components on separate occasions. They don’t seem to connect them together and view them as separate areas. If it’s work they have to focus on now, they’ll give their 100%, and concentrate on getting a good job done. If it’s a problem they have to think about solving for their buddies, they’ll pour their whole heart and soul into resolving the issue, so much so that other concerns (including love and romance) have to step aside first. If it’s love they have to focus on during a particular moment, they’ll also give their 100%, and they can be absolutely romantic! For women it’s different. Once she has accepted a guy into her life, her relationship literally becomes her life! She finds it difficult to separate these two. She’ll have the man of her life in her mind throughout every single minutes of her day! Her thoughts are filled with images of him, during work, during play, in the midst of her meeting, and even during her leisure time!

160) “When we have gone into a relationship with you, whatever it is we do or we say, what we are doing is not about showing you how much we love you, but that you are already our first priority in life!”

161) “When you appear cold, unfeeling, and unresponsive to my trying to relate to you in a loving, romantic, intimate way; my first interpretation would be to think that you do not love me; my second interpretation would be you do not really love me as much as I love you; my third interpretation would be you have some one else in your heart. I have to draw all these conclusions because your pulling away would convince me these are the most probable reasons why you are so distant and cold suddenly. So, whatever my interpretation is, I’ll feel there is something very wrong with me; or that I’m incapable of attracting you and making you happy, and this makes me very frustrated, hurt, disappointment and confused. I want you to be happy, that the last thing I want is to see you frustrated and unhappy yourself too!”

162) “Guys, understand why girls are the way they are when once they have accepted you as their mate or partner. Girls put love and romance first things in their life!”

163) “I do not need your effort or energy to give me your attention. I just need to know, in small gestures, that you appreciate me for who I am – that I’m a girl who puts love first! It’s the little things that counts, and it doesn’t’ have to cost you time, energy or money!”

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164) “If I detect that you are unhappy, and that there is a problem in our relationship, understand that it’s difficult for me to just behave as if every thing is all right. I will want to fix it, and see what both of us can do about it to create a more harmonious relationship.”

165) “I will persist in trying to find out how you are feeling when I suspect that you are not happy. It’s because I want to know if it is because I have done something wrong, or that I have made you angry. Bear in mind, that I put my love first; this is why I persist.”

166) “I’m concerned with the state of my relationship with my boyfriend, this is why I often want to talk about feelings with him, it really has nothing to do with being insecure or what.”

167) “He’s always complaining that I’m too controlling and always telling him how to do things. It’s not fair to jump to conclusions about me in this way! What I only need to hear from him are things like “Baby, you are so sweet to want to spend time with me, but can you let me finish my report first? It’s very important to me.”

168) “If I ask my man what’s bothering him because he seems distant, cold, and unresponsive, I would prefer him to let me know: “Honey, I’m thinking about a project I’m going to do with a client soon. I’ll attend to you as soon as my mind is clear okay?”

169) “When men are focused on something, it’s usually one thing at a time, and it can be said that they are really living in another world while in a particular state of mind. If he’s thinking about soccer, you can be sure that all he’s thinking about is soccer for that period of time, and it would exclude you (as well as other women, and this is good news!)”

170) “If I’m trying to get you to talk, to explain, to elaborate further, to make your feelings known, it’s not because I’m bossy, or controlling, or restrictive, or trying to change you, or trying to fix you, it’s because I’m concern that everything is alright.”

171) “If you feel that your guy is responding in an unloving, unromantic and distant way, it’s useful to think that guys have an inner secret chamber where once in a while they have to go in for their own retreat, to recharge, to live out their own fantasies, or even their dreams. No one else is allowed inside, except himself.”

172) “I’m attracted to the guy who can tell me ‘Tell me, how can I be the Number One boyfriend/husband to YOU?’”

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173) “Women focused on love and on life at the same time. Men focused on love at one time, and the rest is focused on life – work, achievements, success, career, sports.”

174) “When a girl faces problem, she’ll think of the guy she loves – missing him, wishing he is there by her side, wishing he would give her the support she needs right there and then, thinking his image and face would even uplift her! When a guy faces a problem, he’ll think of the problem – the solutions, the people involved, how it’ll affect him and his loved ones, what’s going to happen, etc, etc, etc.”

175) “When you ask me to focus on my work, my life, my projects, my interests, and not to think of you so much, not to love you like the way I do; you are actually wishing that I’m you! – that I can love you like a man. Guess what, I CAN’T. I’m a woman.”

176) “You know, my thoughtfulness, devotion, consistency, and routine, could easily be mistaken by you are as being controlling, insecure, fearful, dependent, and needy.”

177) “I like to feel that I’m able to contribute to creating a loving and passionate relationship with you. This is why I need to feel that I’m doing something, and that I’m doing my part to make things happen. You can say I get my sense of achievement from all these doings, such as wanting to plan in advance for our date this weekend, desiring to go into all the details into making a party a great success, looking forward to discussing with you our trip this coming holiday, and such likes. You get a sense of achievement and success from planning and completing an important project in your work; in a similar fashion, I get my sense of achievement and success if I can contribute to making my relationship with you long lasting!”

178) “I met my boyfriend of 6 years at a friend’s party. He just came over to me and say Hello, and that’s where our conversation started. He wasn’t any more dashing or bold than other guys in the room, but he was very friendly, to me, as well to other guests in the room. He just struck me as kind of different from the rest, and that’s what I liked about him!”

179) “I like to play the hard-to-get game, well, you can say I’m a very cautious and alert girl, but if you want to win me over, you have to play to win! And, it’s just too bad if you give up too soon!”

180) “When a guy approached me, I’m secretly feeling impressed and happy! But, I will not want to show it all on my face or from my body language! Yes, I’m nervous too, just like him I guessed. If he came off as honest, sincere, and friendly, I’ll be attracted to him!”

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181) “For me, there’s really no need to use any magical pickup lines. Just a simple hi or hello, and an interest to know me as a person is sufficient to break the ice. I prefer to be around with a guy who is relaxed, and who makes sure that I’m relaxed too. It’s better if he’s not somebody trying to be anybody.”

182) “If you are friendly, easy-going, and approachable, you’ll make a lot of friends! If you like a girl, it’s really unnecessary to do anything extra or be somebody different, just be in your normal self – the friendly, easy-going, and approachable person you are – and you start off by making friends with her, and getting to know her better. No expectations from her, and no expectations from yourself. And if she’s not responding, forget about her, she’s even not worth being a friend!”

183) “I’m attracted to the guy who is beautiful on the inside; that is very important to me. If he’s beautiful on the inside, he’s beautiful and attractive on the outside. It just shines through – his attitude, his self esteem, his confidence!”

184) “It’s not necessary how he looks or what he is wearing, if he is comfortable and relaxed with what’s he’s wearing, whether it’s a suit or a pair of shorts, he radiates an air of cheerfulness, positiveness, and an irresistible magnetism!”

185) “I think when girls are attracted to his real person, his personality, the looks become attractive! I guess this explains why some girls are attracted to other girls! It’s definitely not because of the looks and physique alone, but it has got something to do with their personality and character. Most of us are attracted to those inner qualities which we wish we possess in ourselves!”

186) “Looks are important, but it’s definitely not the deciding factor for me when it comes to choosing a mate. Years ago I fell in love with a man. There was something in him which attracted me to him – his self confidence, independence, sensitivity, and, his touch! When I did some self-reflection recently, I realized I’m attracted to those inner qualities which he possessed; that which I wished I had in myself. So, guys, do not lose heart if you do not have that handsome good looks or macho body, your character counts! I’ve now been with my boyfriend for 3 years we currently have a great relationship; I must say I’m more attracted to his attitude and how he carries himself.”

187) “Often if the guy who is interested in me preserve in his effort to capture my heart, I tend to believe that he’s really sincere and trustworthy.”

188) “When I like a guy, I would rather he makes the first move, to come up and talk, just being friendly. But, I would play it cool and not act too interested! So, it doesn’t mean I don’t like you, or I’m not interested!”

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189) “The more I’m interested in you, the more I may pretend that I’m not, or that I don’t really care! So, what I really want to see is that you preserve in your effort in winning over my heart!”

190) “What turns me off on a first date is he just keeps talking about himself, his life and his family!”

191) “I wish I didn’t go for our first date. He just smashed my good impression of him. He’s handsome, but he stinks!”

192) “He talks too much of his feelings, and ends up interrupting me. He never bothers to listen. I just can’t imagine going out with such a guy again.”

193) “I just cannot understand why he keeps talking himself and how he feels all night during that dinner. I would rather he discusses a common interest BOTH of us has, talking about a topic BOTH of us would grow and benefit from.”

194) “I’m turned off by the guy who exaggerated his achievements and who he really was. And if he lied one time, that’s it. It would be the last time I would ever go out with him again. To attract me he has got to be honest and true to himself. If he lies one time, there’ll be a second time. And the last thing I want in a relationship is being kept in the dark when he had another woman in his life.”

195) “If I find out something he said that was not true or even not quite right, that’s it. He won’t get a second chance ever again.”

196) “If you realize that a girl puts love first, and how important you are to her, you’ll understand why you’ll never be given a second thought if you lie to her just once!”

197) “Any guy who is too full of himself and who brags about how many girls he has successfully dated in the past, is an instant turnoff.”

198) “The guy who can attract me is the one who doesn’t have unhealthy lifestyle or habits, such as drinking too much or smoking.”

199) “I would want my man to flirt with me and only me!”

200) “To attract me, you shouldn’t be talking about what you think or believe that I want or like! If you are not sure, put on your thinking caps and find out what your girl likes to do or likes to talk about!”

201) “The guy I dated is a bookworm, and there was one time when he asked me if I could accompany him to the library as he was working on his research paper. I suggested that both of us go for a movie I had been longing to see after visiting

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the library, and he agreed. I ended up helping him search for all the books he wanted, and we spent some time in the library working on his paper. When it was nearly time to go for the movie, he suggested going on next Friday’s night. It was such a big disappointment for me. He got what he wanted and I had helped him. From that day onwards, I never wanted to talk to him or go out with him again. I just felt being cheated and lied to.”

202) “If you say you are going to call tonight, call me tonight!”

203) “On your dates with me, I would prefer you show genuine interest in me and my life. Ask me questions and listen to my answers with a keen interest. There’s really no need to offer solutions or your judgment regarding a certain topic. I like having a nice and good conversation together, that’s all.”

204) “What makes me happy is you try to become the man who put in your heart and soul to make me happy, and to let me know that I have your heart.”

205) “Try asking me about my day, before telling me about yours.”

206) “I’m attracted to the guy who is considerate, who makes sure I’m comfortable and relaxed first before attending to his needs.”

207) “I’m completely turned off by the guy who asks me if he should open doors for me! Oh gosh, there are certain things you need not have to ask, and I need not have to tell you. Just do it if you feel it’s appropriate and right. You’ll attract friends and girls if you are just being very polite and still able to be yourself!”

208) “I would love to secretly know that you have the date planned, and that you sincerely want both of us to be happy! No point if you are only doing it to impress me, I want you and myself to be happy too!”

209) “You need not have to sport a know-it-all attitude or to show off your money. If you plan a creative and fun date for both of us I can tell if you are sincerely and seriously interested in me. I’m interested in your effort and heart. Not your money.”

210) “Any date is a nice date if both of us can enjoy ourselves and most importantly, have fun!”

211) “I would be impressed if he does all that a real man does – opening doors for me, pulling out the chair for me at the restaurant, helping me up some rocky and dangerous walkway, picking up things which I have accidentally dropped without me asking him to – in short, a very generous, caring and helpful guy would make a very generous, caring and helpful husband! This is important to me.”

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212) “If he cares to walk me to my door, it shows he’s a caring person.”

213) “All girls still love the simple, small romantic gestures. They are NOT outdated, as what most guys believe: - Bring a flower - Give a handwritten card - Send a handwritten love letter - Give a handmade craft (girls love the challenge of trying to tell and know the person you are from the craft you make for her!) - Hold her hand

214) “If he’s just nice to me, and cruel to a dog, I’ll know that he will not always be nice. And that’s it. He’ll have a lesser chance of winning over my heart.”

215) “I’ll be secretly jealous if he’s nice to another person, especially if it’s a girl; while at the same time, I’ll be impressed and attracted to him, as I like being with the guy who is caring, thoughtful and kind to the people around him!”

216) “I’ll like my mate to be a true gentleman – considerate, kind, thoughtful - not just during our dates, but always and forever.”

217) “If you are punctual for our dates, it tells me that you are dependable, and this is something important to me!”

218) “He doesn’t rush things. He’s patient, but affectionate at the same time. He’s touchy, but respects me. He’s sensitive to my feelings, yet strong at the same time. He’s just such a rare and unique guy who finds the right balance to make me happy.”

219) “Being able to plan and create a romantic date for myself and for my love interest makes me very happy!”

220) “My ex-boyfriend doesn’t like to make plans, not even for our trip for the coming holidays. When I try to get him to discuss and talk about making plans for the upcoming birthday treats for our parents, for a romantic getaway the coming weekend, for a short trip overseas, or even a simple thing such as going out for a movie and dinner the coming Friday, it always seems he doesn’t care a single bit. He just refuses to talk, saying there is no need to think too much about it, and complains that I’m being too inflexible and rigid.”

221) “It’s not because women are too controlling, manipulative or stubborn when they desire to plan something in advance. Many times than not, women love making plans and planning ahead because she cares to make certain events

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happen, and to make them an exciting and meaningful ones to make their loved ones happy.”

222) “It frustrates me when my man doesn’t seem to take an interest in what I’m planning for our dates together. It pains me when he breaks his promise and chooses to stay home instead of going out with me. Guys, wake up, and realize that girls take pride in planning ahead, and it’s a joy for her if you can spare some time to participate in the discussion with her to make whatever she desires a reality.”

223) “It’s definitely not that I’m trying to control my man’s time, but I love the feelings of having something good to look forward to.”

224) “Most guys usually don’t have the urge to ask for help or advice or even seek ways to improve on things, so one day there’s this guy coming along and we have a very nice conversation together. He shows an interest in me. He asks me for my opinions and feedback, and I’m there thinking, ‘wow, this guy is so different from the rest of the guys who are only thinking for themselves!’. He’s the only guy who gets my attention.”

225) “My husband often views my offer to help as being very intrusive and controlling, and many times he hurt my feelings without even realizing it. So, guys, if you want to attract a girl, change your perception and change your ways of looking at things. Many times it’s not that we are controlling or critical, it’s just that we want to be there for you, to be useful, and to help. We are concerned, and we’ll like to know how we can help, that’s all. If you are that rare guy who understands why girls are the ways they are, and can readily accept her offers of help or is all ears to her opinions and feedback, you’ll be able to get her interested in you with effortless effort!”

226) “Women are born to be nurturing and creative beings, which is why they are very sensitive to the feelings of other people. Whatever they do, they do not intend to disapprove of you or your behaviors, they just need to know that you appreciate their being there for you. Try the following. It could help you win over the woman of your dreams, helps you improve on your relationship with a woman, or even save a failing relationship. - Realize that women love to plan, create, and improve on things. - Allow her the space and freedom to contribute her opinions and feedback. Ask “So, what do you think?”, “Any ideas I can make it better?”, “Do you think this is nice?”, “What can we do to solve this problem?” - She’ll be motivated to elaborate more and put on her thinking caps. Do not worry whether she has the time to share your burden or whether you’ll offend her if you don’t accept her suggestions or opinions. Remember that she’ll always find it a JOY to contribute her part! All

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she needs to know is that you appreciate her being around to help and contribute. - If you know this secret of women, you’ll be tapping into her nurturing potential, and if you can react and response in an appropriate way that is comfortable to both of you, you’ll make her fall in love with you!

227) “I’ve been hurt and upset by many, many past relationships. And they all display the same patterns. After I’ve put in all the effort, time, and energy into a plan or project or purpose for myself and for my mate, he always reacts with the same annoyance, impatience, and even irritation. Well, it’s fine if he’s not happy with all the arrangements and plans I have made, but he can just let me know, discuss with me, and I can make all the necessary adjustments and changes so that he’ll be happy. There’s really no need to kick up a big fuss over it, or even show your annoyance and expecting me to know what’s wrong. So, nowadays, whenever my female friend come along and ask me of my opinions of a guy she is interested in, I’ll ask her to check with him if he holds this type of confusing attitude. If he is a man who cannot appreciates why a girl is the way she is, why a girl does things the ways she does, and if he never bothers to understand girls, then, she might as well dump him.”

228) “I think if you really see me as controlling, then I’ll be controlling. If you see me as being commanding and bossy, then I’ll be commanding and bossy. If you see me as being pushy, then I’ll be pushy. There’s really nothing I can do about it. All of these are dependent upon your mind, your interpretation. They do not come from outside; from others. They are created by you, by your own mind. And, it leads to the same result : a ruined relationship.”

229) “What I would like my man to know is that when I plan or suggest something for our relationship, I’m not trying to control him or ordering him to do things my ways (which he often interprets as such!), all I’m trying to is to come out with better ways of doing things, which is why I offer my suggestions and solutions. If he doesn’t like them, it’s fine with me, he can just tell me, and discuss with me, and I’ll respect his decision. But he shouldn’t accuse me of being controlling or commanding when I’m not! It’s NOT even in my consciousness to tell him what to do or demanding him to listen to me. If this goes on, I might as well shut up and be the dumb person in the house. Does he like this to happen?”

230) “To choose a guy over another one, I observe how he reacts and interacts with other people, especially how he treats his parents, his family, the people around me, my pet for example; in this way I get to know his character. If he treats his parents like crap, he’s probably going to treat me in the same way sooner or later, even though he’s very nice to me at this moment.”

231) “What if she rejects you? You’ll have no problem with it if you have trained yourself well to be able to think on a newer and higher level, to change your

500 Secrets About Girls Every Guy Should Know! values and viewpoints to every undesirable event that occur in your life. If she rejects you and it hurts, I assure you it is not the bare fact of that rejection that hurts. The disappointment comes when your mind which adds something to that fact. It itself has not power whatsoever to hurt you in any way; it’s your mental addition that does the hurting. What does your mind add to it? It could be that you might think she looks down on you. It could be that you might think yourself as unattractive and lousy. Or you might think that here is just another instance how unlucky and unwanted you are. So, try this method: see the bare fact, don’t add to it. When your insight has grown, you’ll banish all your shyness and dissolve every disappointments or rejections by not mentally adding to your daily events. One day you’ll come to realize, there are, in fact, no disappointments in life, only events.

232) “Woman loves the attention from the one they love. Most men nowadays are impatient to give them the attention their women are yearning for. You need not have to crack your brains how to give your woman the attention she wants. Just listening to her and her stories is one of the best approaches to grow her love for you. If you are wooing this woman, encourage her to tell you of her hopes and dreams. There is no need to decide whether she is right or wrong in whatever she has to tell you. Just listen. If you are the only man whom can really listen to her and understand her, she’ll want you to be her man!”

233) “What attracts him to me? It’s not easy to make the right choice. All girls dream of getting the guy that they desire. I have to make my choice amongst a few of them! All of them are equally good, handsome looking, having a good career, possessing good habits. It was really hard to choose. Then one day, he (now my husband) popped up at my house with a big surprise for me and my beloved pet dog! He had planned a birthday bash for Milo that night! He is the only one I know who has ever done this for Milo; none of my close friends or family members even bothers about it. I choose him eventually. It’s sweet of him to be so thoughtful and kind. If he’s thoughtful and kind towards my dog, I know he will do the same towards me!” So guys, be nice to her family, friends, neighbors, and even her pets! It makes a big difference in how your girl thinks of you.

234) “Never keep her waiting for you for whatever reasons. Plan in advance so you’ll not be late. Being early tells her that the occasion is important to you, and that you take her seriously. It will tell your woman that her appointment is the number one thing in your mind no matter how busy or occupied you are.”

235) “Some of the best attraction techniques are made on the spur of the moment. So learn to be spontaneous, be generous in giving sincere hugs or physical touches at the right moment. This is what you do, do things which tells her that she is wanted, but do not advance any further than what is necessary. Show her respects, keep an appropriate distance – not too close, and yet not too

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far away; while at the same time give her cues that she is desired. Many girls love it, and most girls are hooked when they met their right guy who can do this with tact!”

236) “If you are fearful of her rejection during your dates with her, or scared of being hurt, just be mindful that women are just as fearful and nervous as you are! After all, women are not angels. If at times your woman seems to be cold, unfeeling, or distancing herself from you, be aware that at times they do certain puzzling things (which most men do not really understand, such as giving cold shoulders, etc.) to protect themselves from being hurt, or even from being rejected by you!

237) “I like to do character reading from the day I know him. It’s not really an intentional act, but I will just make a mental note of his attitudes, how he treats other people, how he behaves when certain things happen. I’ll look into the little things he does and reading bigger things into them, such as if someone accidentally pours a cup of coffee on him I’ll observe how he will react to that little accident. If he’s forgiving towards that person, I’ll know that he’ll make a forgiving husband. If he’s walking on a narrow lane behind a slow moving old lady, I’ll observe if he’s patient enough to follow behind the old woman, or he’ll push her aside and rush in front of her instead. We are going to live under the same roof for the rest of our lives you see. Being having to see each other every day for the rest of our life, I want to know if one day I make a little mistake would he be forgiving, understanding and patient towards me? Or he would be harsh on me?”

238) “If it gets too cold in the movie theatre, he’ll take off his jacket and give it to me. Even if I’m already wearing one, he’ll ask me to cover my legs with it. If I’m hungry, he’ll sneak in some food for me into the movie theatre. I’m thinking ‘That’s very thoughtful of him!’ It’s his thoughtfulness which makes me fall in love with him!”

239) “What girls really want is romance! If you want this girl, give her what she wants. Some guys would freak out whenever they hear this word ‘romance’. You really need not have to crack your brains really hard or spend too much energy, time or money to know what you are doing is right. Many times, being romantic often means giving her the attention she wants. She just needs to feel that she is the number one woman, the sweetest, sexiest, prettiest, most wonderful woman in your heart. If you can find ways to continuously reinforce her beliefs, not only will you be able to attract her, but you’ll be able to keep her by your side for as long as you want! Does it cost a lot to be romantic? Not really: 1) Ask her how her day is 2) Tuck a friendly or love note using different methods and in different ways, telling her she is on your mind. 3) If she has offered her help in any of your projects, send her a note saying “You are the best!”

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4) If she has made you some home made chicken soup, find ways to let her know “You are a wonderful person!”

240) “I have a friend whose boyfriend of 3 years was trying very hard to get her on a date with him, but didn’t really know whether she had any feelings for him or how to ask her out. One day, she received a very unique and pretty photo sticker from him in the letterbox. He had squeezed into a photo booth and captured a silly photo of himself with a dummy doll made out of a piece of cardboard besides him. On the top of the sticker near to the doll’s head he had had drawn an arrow and scribbled in his own handwriting: “Wish you were here with me! Free to come out for dinner tomorrow?” She couldn’t help laughing, but she was hooked, and accepted the date. Today, she still kept that photo sticker. It was her treasured possession. They had been friends for a year and had gotten to know each other in the same church. She never really noticed him much, until that special day when she received the photo sticker.”

241) “A guy I just got to know recently made a ceramic plate for me and it just warmed my heart! He loved pottery and made 3 unique plates with the words “You are special today!”, “Want to go out? Call me ___”, “I like being with you!”. And on certain days he just sent these plates over to me with some home cooked food. When I almost finished eating, the hidden messages appeared! I was really thrilled the first time I received these. I mean, no one really bothers to go this far to make me happy!”

242) “My boyfriend of 5 years knows that I’m a sporty person, and one day he has a t-shirt custom made for me with a picture of 2 cartoon figures playing tennis and these words are embroidered - “You are special!”, with a note asking me out for a tennis date. I never stop loving him as I think he’s very special too! One, he does not give me what he thinks I like; he knows that I like tennis. Two, those words meant a lot to me! It gives me an idea how important I am in his life, and I love knowing it!”

243) “From young I have been observing how unkind and impatient my father is towards my mother. And I remember telling myself I’m not going to be with a guy who is impatient and hot tempered. If you want to attract me, I have to know that you are a very patient, loving and kind person.”

244) “Shows her that you care! For examples: - Teach her how to write a webpage for her favorite pet. - Teach her how to program the VCR. - Teach her how to fish. - Teach her to cook your secret recipe. In short, don’t just offer the solutions. Teach her the solutions, even if it’s not easy to teach. Many other people are too impatient to teach or even show her

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how to do it; most just want to get it over and done with. You can win over her heart if you can be that some one different and special.

245) “If you take other people for granted after 2 hours, what’s is going to happen to me if I’m married to you after 3 years?”

246) “I think we girls like hand-made things, especially if you have made them yourself, I’ll appreciate them! Try to create a simple custom-made puzzle yourself, and hide these messages inside: ‘Ten Things I like about you.’ Give it to the girl you like on her graduation day, and let her piece the puzzles together that night! She’ll squeak with delight when she sees the hidden messages inside!”

247) “Most women are attracted to men who are strong but gentle. By strong I do not necessary mean physical strength, though it still plays an important part. Women love you to be self-reliant, independent, successful in whatever you have set your mind to do, confident of yourself, good self-esteem, with an air of I-don’t- really-care attitude, thus being in control of most situations and events in your life. In short, you are a manly man. It’s an irony, but the above qualities are what make most men appear cold, unfeeling, insensitive, and distanced. So, if you realize that most women love the gentle giant, that is, a manly man who is gentle, sensitive, and knowing how to pamper his woman and make her happy, you’ll know how to create your successful wooing strategy to win over the woman of your dreams.”

248) “Women love men who seem detached and attached at the same time. You seem to be living in a world of your own, and women admire you for your ability to keep your lives AND have a relationship at the same time. You don’t worry much; and seem to keep your feelings inside of you. To become such a ‘man’, you have to be complete in your body, mind and soul. You know how to have a divine life and keep a blissful relationship at the same time. All of these can be achieved if you would learn how to increase and cultivate your magnetic power and never ‘lose’ this important power whilst going into a relationship. If you can preserve your individuality, no matters what happens, you’ll find yourself able to attract and keep a true love, with effortless effort!”

249) “Learn the art and science of character reading, or tarot card reading. Strike up a conversation with the girl of your dreams in this topic. You’ll be surprised to find that most girls are interested in this area. In fact, many girls tend to believe in destiny and fate, and they are often interested to know who their soul mates are, how he will look like, what is his character, their compatibility with the type of guys they like, etc. They may not believe in these arts, but, it does not mean they are not interested to know more (about their future) if someone can give them ‘expert’ guidance and insight!”

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250) “The more seriously a girl wants you, the more you’ll have to wait until after marriage to have sex. Every girl likes her guy to be committed to her, and only her. It’s like a kind of agreement before she will have sex with you. You have to agree not to get intimate with other girls or date other people.”

251) “I’m turned off by the guy who wants sex right away. If I read that kind of intention right from the start during our dates, I’ll run away. I believe that the guy who can wait is the only one who can give true love and create a long lasting relationship with me.”

252) “I like to know that I’m secure, that the man of my dreams is not dating other girls behind my back. I want to feel proud of him, that he is a committed and responsible guy. If he is, I’ll be the envy of all my lady friends!”

253) “Don’t pester me about sex before I’m emotionally ready. If you really want me, and if you really want a honest relationship with me, you have to learn to wait and respect me!”

254) “Girls often want more commitment than what their guys are willing to give. Actually, it’s all about their definition of commitment. For girls, the ways you talk and behave give them important cues whether you are committed to them or not. Don’t ask why. Women put love first. This is what made them women. And don’t forget, they need reassurance every now and then. Many times, it will suffice just to tell them “I love you. You will always be my one and only.” Just saying this simple sentence will put most of them at ease, and stop their probing further or questioning you whether you truly and really love them.”

255) “I usually fight with my boyfriend about commitment. I hate it when he seems to be unusually quiet and withdrawn, and only knows how to say ‘There’s nothing wrong.’, when obviously I can sense that something is very wrong. Whenever he’s like that, I’ll feel very remorseful and frustrated, because it’s my belief that if he’s committed to me he’ll care enough to let me know what’s going on, and why is he like that, and I didn’t like to feel that I’m at fault that he’s behaving in such a cold and distanced manner. It’ll be good if he can tell me something like “Baby, I’m not in a very good mood now. But it has nothing to do with you. Give me some time and after I’ve settled my own issue I’ll come and talk to you ok.” Now, isn’t this better?”

256) “If I’m really serious to go into a relationship or even marriage, I’ll be constantly on the lookout for signs whether my partner is committed to me, or whether he lies.”

257) “Sometimes I wonder what’s the real secret behind those blissfully and happily married couples who can stay with each other for such a long, long time. It’s not easy. But recently I just read about one such couples and their story

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moved me. One was a famous artist paralyzed from the waist down, and the other one was a woman ten years younger than him. They met when she worked as a volunteer and they fell in love. She knew they would never have children. But she fell in love with him anyway, and they had been together for more than ten years. Now, what is their secret? The answer is simply this. He is still the same artist who is passionate about what he is doing for his life. And she is still the same thoughtful, caring and heart warming lady who volunteer to help those in need. They decided they didn’t need a man or woman in their lives to make themselves happy!”

258) “If you want me, ask me how you can commit to me in the way I want it. If you ask me, it shows that you are willing to try, to put in the effort.”

259) “You should be yourself right from the start, and be absolutely clear what you are getting yourself into! Know and understand how girls think and behave, and why they think and behave in the ways they often do. There’s a reason. It’s not accidental, and many times it’s not because they are manipulative or controlling. If you are going to marry a girl, know what you are getting yourself into. To become attached to another person, you have the responsibility to make this relationship with your girl work for both of you. If you give a girl all of your attention and affection during your dates with her, know that she’ll expect you to continue doing the same just as when you are dating and wooing her, even after marriage, because this is what she understands she is going to get from you right from the start.”

260) “If you want a long lasting and blissful relationship with your girl, don’t stop wooing and courting her even after going steady, or marriage. Think that you can only have her for today, and you’ll instantly feel that you have to treasure her and win her over and over again to keep her by your side!”

261) “I’m happily married to my husband of 18 years. Our secrets? Finding and engaging in a meaningful purpose for our life, never stop pursuing our passions. He told me he never saw himself as being attached to me because of our marriage; instead he kept wooing me each and every day, and every time he saw me he’ll find all ways and means to win me over!”

262) “I will want to be with the guy who is sensitive to who I am and what I like. I do not really fancy flowers, but I’ll be impressed if he gives me a bunch of roses just for once in my life!”

263) “A hidden note, a surprise home cooked favorite food or dessert brought all the way from home, a surprise visit; these are what will move my heart! It’s not so much of the objects, but that it lets me know that he’s thinking about me, and what I like! It’s his thoughtfulness that counts. This is one of my most memorable.

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He sent me a bunch of flowers to my office, with a special note scribbled in tiny hand writing on the stems!!!”

264) “Girl’s definition of time is very, very different from guys. Usually girls keep very good track of time; so if you are going to promise her something, and it has to relate to time, make sure you know what you are saying or promising! She takes what you say very seriously. If you say you are going to call in an hour’s time, make sure you don’t call after a couple of hours! If you say you are going to bring the family out on a fishing trip 3 weeks later, make sure you plan and are sincere about making the trip happen! Always bear in mind that her definition of time is very different from yours. You do not see it a big deal if you call a couple of hours later, but to her, it’s a big deal!”

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Conclusion

My aim in this book has been to give all you guys out there some much- needed insight into the way girls think and behave. We’re not really from different planets after all—we just have different ways of looking at the world and approaching the opposite gender. But once you start to see things from the female perspective, it gets easier and easier to learn how to embark on strong, healthy, lasting relationships.

I hope you use these tips wisely and well to meet the woman of your dreams—and keep her around for a long, happy time.

And if you’ve already met the woman of your dreams, I hope you take these secrets and suggestions and turn your relationship into something even more special, resilient, and long-lasting than it was before.

I wish you luck and love!

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