TRAIL MIX A limited print edition dedicated to those who support North Star Reach Summer 2018 FROM THE CAMPFIRE OF PATRICK SMITH, DIRECTOR OF CAMPING The Magic of Creating Community Paul Newman once said, “You can leave camp but friends isn’t something I create or control. I simply help camp never really leaves you.” It’s one of my favorite to cultivate the right conditions. Bring together kids quotes because it feels so true. Whether it’s your first who have been cheated out of childhood experiences time or hundredth coming to camp, you feel a sense of by illnesses with volunteers who want make a positive belonging here that can be hard to find anywhere else. impact on those young lives…well, that’s when something magical happens. The first time I went to camp, I was 21. A friend encour- aged me to volunteer at a camp for kids with cancer. I had no idea the experience would change my life. A friend encouraged I’d never been part of such a caring, close-knit me to volunteer at a community. From the kids to the volunteers, everyone camp for kids with One moment we are a group of kids and adults was supported in ways that brought out our best cancer. I had no idea standing under the shade of an old oak and facing the selves. When I went back the next summer, the camp unknown of a week at camp, and the next moment director said, “Welcome home.” That greeting seemed the experience would something has shifted. We’re talking! We’re laughing! just right to me: I felt I was returning to a safe place change my life. We’re sharing stories and connecting in real and where even strangers felt like family. surprising ways. I love this moment when it becomes clear to all of us that we have embarked on an epic Working at camps that serve children with serious Now, you might be thinking, how do I cultivate summer adventure, together. medical conditions has been my life ever since. community? It’s not always easy to see, but here’s one way it is: I lead icebreaker activities. An assignment, Today, as North Star Reach Director of Camping, one earnest or silly, can create a neutral space, a common of the things I love most about my job is creating ground between people and conversations start. What community. Despite what many people think, the three things do we share? How about two truths and a “camp magic” that quickly transforms strangers into lie? Or, hey, what animal would you be? An update on Nora... Many supporters of North Star Reach have We’re happy to report that Nora’s surgery went been thinking about 12-year-old Nora, whose well and that she is healing at home with her story we shared in our spring fundraising parents and siblings. “We are so relieved!” says appeal. Nora attended summer camp at North Connie, her mother. “She is struggling a bit with Star Reach for the first time when she was pain, but she is sleeping well and in good spirits!” ten years old, discovering independence and The first question I asked the newfound friends who shared her experiences The North Star Reach family sends wishes for doctors was, “Do you think as a cardiology patient. Last spring, Nora was Nora’s speedy recovery. We hope to see her well I will be able to go to camp facing her tenth surgery — this one to fuse her enough to join us at camp this year! spine— and was hoping to be well enough to this year?” I hope I can. attend camp this summer. VIEW FROM THE OBSERVATORY Medical volunteer Jacob Bilhartz, MD, examines 9-year-old Avery inside The Observatory this summer during Transplant Camp. At first glance, it’s not obvious that our campers are At each camp, medical volunteers—physicians and and as a child. Nurses see campers throughout the also patients living with serious illnesses like sickle nurses who are sent by medical partners or who day— delivering medications at meals, joining them cell anemia, congenital heart disorders, or chronic are using their vacation time to care for campers— for activities, and checking in during Toes-up-Time liver, kidney and heart disease. Take another look at become a vital part of the camp community. “Seeing (a mid-day rest) and again at bedtime. Along with the campers in the photograph on the front of our the kids outside of the hospital environment having helping maintain the wellness of campers, nurses tend newsletter. While a few scars are visible, it’s hard to fun is invaluable to all the medical volunteers,” says to specialized camper needs, like assisting with a tube imagine that each child has had an organ transplant Medical Director Skip Walton, MD. “Camp is one of the feeding or changing a dressing. and requires intensive medical care, from regular few places they get to see the positive outcomes of blood pressure monitoring to complex their clinical work.” “I felt like I was meant to come to North Star Reach,” immunosuppressant medication regimens. says volunteer Doris Nerderman, BSN, RN, who brings For some, that may mean up to 50 pills a day. 28 years of experience as a camp nurse at the YMCA Camp Belknap in New Hampshire. “I’ve helped with These campers are able to experience “I felt like I reviewing the health histories, worked at multiple summer camp only because their summer camps, volunteered for two family camps, and medical needs are supported by was meant am looking forward to being here this summer for two our team of dedicated medical to come sessions. They’re just kids who want to have fun, like professionals working behind-the- every other kid, and sometimes you forget that they scenes at The Observatory, our state- to North have these big issues.” of-the-art health center. Star Reach.” Volunteer Doris Nerderman, BSN, RN “My favorite thing,” she adds, “is to look down from the “For us, camp season begins in January as upper balcony of the Health Center as the campers we do a rigorous review of medical forms for assemble for meals. From there I can watch the each child applying for camp,” says Health Center interactions between all the kids, the staff and the Director Alyssa Hardy, RN, MSN. “We make sure that we volunteers at one time. From that vantage point, I can have an accurate picture of each child’s medications One of the largest groups of volunteers are nurses. see happiness, smiles, energy, patience, kindness and and health histories. For the 2018 summer season, we Each cabin of eight to 12 kids has a dedicated nurse a whole lot of love. Who wouldn’t want to be a part reviewed over 520 camper applications alone!” who gets to know each camper intimately, as a patient of that?” Program Director Colleen Triezenberg tells us about North Star Reach’s Wabi-Sabi Healing Pot unconventional approach to a The wabi-sabi healing pot is one of our favorite art projects to do with campers. traditional camp arts activity: Wabi-sabi is a Japanese aesthetic that is about recognizing beauty in painting clay flowerpots. imperfection and vulnerability. First, campers choose a terra cotta flower pot and paint the pot however they please. We ask them to represent themselves in some way as they do this— they might include a personal saying, a favorite pattern or color, or a picture of themselves. Once the pots are dry, we go outside—and drop the pots on the cement— crash! Kids have so much fun doing this! Next, campers gather all of their pieces. We go into our art studio and begin the careful process of gluing the pot together. The kids settle down: this part of the project requires a lot of patience and deliberation. While we’re doing this, we have the opportunity to share stories and to talk about the process of healing. They can continue decorating the pot, even painting along the cracks. Each camper has had their own individual journey— and yet they’re able to find ways to heal and feel whole. The project is a lot of fun and results in a treasure to take home after camp— but it’s also a powerful and memorable lesson for kids about resilience. MEET A VOLUNTEER Michael Parker, “Coach” Long before “Coach” created a love song for resources to help guide you. I’ve grown a lot as a North Star Reach, an Elvis Presley-inspired person from that experience. This year, I’ll be a Unit “I Can’t Help Falling in Love with Camp,” he’d Director for the Epilepsy camp. won over the hearts of staff, volunteers and campers. A volunteer for North Star Reach’s What skill do you think camp has helped very first summer session in 2016, he’s been you master? giving generously on many fronts ever since: Creativity. There’s songs, and skits and thinking on the as a program volunteer, a donor, and as the fly to make sure every kid feels involved and included. newest member of North Star Reach’s Young I’m able to channel my inner kid around these kids. Professional Board. Outside of camp, he’s known I didn’t really think of myself as a creative person, but as Michael Parker and he works at the University through camp, it just naturally trickled down to me and of Michigan as a donor prospect management now it trickles into my day-to-day life.