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..JANUARf 1995 :- identity politics are often perceived (and IDENTITY POLITICS, indeed, have acted) as political movements in the name of people who are the same, OR WHAT MAKES A rather than movements in the name of people who have been/ are being treated as if LESBIAN? they were the same and lesser. For example, by Catherine Gutwin out of the latter formula came a feminist movement (and I like to think that in the case There's a scene in Go Fish where a gang of of this is starting to change) that abduct Daria and interrogate her took as universal a white, middle-class about the purity of her sexuality. "What female constituency, saying, "all women are makes you a lesbian?" they ask. like us. There is something essential that What makes a lesbian? It's a question binds us together as women ." What is that we've all run up against at one time or essence? There isn't one. Whatever can be another. Instead of 'lesbian', substitute proposed as essentially female, male, Native, 'woman', 'poor person', 'physically­ lesbian, gay, disabled, francophone, poor, fat, challenged person', 'mentally-challenged coloured, and so on can never be complete, person', 'gay man', 'African', 'fat person', will always be exclusive, and will always be 'transgendered person', 'Native', disputed. 'francophone', 'bisexual', or any other person Movements or organizations that believe who doesn't fit the mainstream. You now in and base themselves on sameness provoke have the question that any justice movemer:.t the response, "This ain't my revolution, faces in trying to define its constituency. It's honey," and rightly so. There is nothing that an impossible question to answer, and it speaks to us as strongly as our own describes the dilemma faced by identity experience, and if we can't relate it to the politics organizations that are trying to fight we're fighting, then we lose our justify their existence and avoid being motivation. exclusive. Lisa Kahaleole Chang Hall suggests in her Trying to answer the question in its own article "Bitches in Solitude: Identity Politics terms--on the assumption that there is suc.l-) and Lesbian Community" (Sisters, Sexperts, a thing as a "true" lesbian (woman, etc.... )-­ Queers: Beyond the Lesbian Nation. Ed. Arlene is a logistical trap. We fall into it because Stein. New York: Penguin, 1993.218-29) that

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WOMONSPACE NEWS 5 My girlfriend will get raised eyebrows Bisexual women have gifts that we can from other lesbians w hen I make my bisexual bring to the lesbian community. We suffer confession. They will lean forward, and in double discrimination; that from two hushed tones inquire of her if she really is monosexual worlds. We can share that okay with it? They think she must be very experience and bring our passion to the fight liberal-minded, knowing as they do, how for rights. When you welcome us into your bisexuals will bounce from the bed of a gay world you also make welcome again our woman, to the bed of a man, to the bed of lesbian lovers. When w' !z' e male partners, who knows what? Never mind that this and still maintain our contact with the assumption has reduced my sexuality to only women's community, it is a reminder to all sex. The real mistake is making bisexuality of the value there is in a woman-centred synonymous with promiscuity. That is not environment. Our ability to embrace both to say that some bisexual women are not women and men offers another vision of promiscuous. I am sure some are, just as how we all can be together. there surely are promiscuous lesbians and Bisexual women do understand woman­ promiscuous straight women. Promiscuity' identified sexuality. That is our common and sexual identity are not the same thing .' bond with our lesbian sisters. If we begin and distinguishing the difference will help to with our commonalities, both the lesbian and clear some of the misunderstanding. bisexual communities can benefit from an Some lesbians fear that including bisexual alliance. politiCS under the umbrella of gay politics will somehow dilute their fight for gay rights. I do appreciate that gay activists have fought long and hard, and it may seem <', TWO SPIRITED difficult to share the battle and the rewards Charity Laboucan with someone who seemingly will sleep with the enemy. But think about it for a moment. Assimilation, what does it mean? I am Lesbians have suffered discrimination learning about the federal government's because of their sexual identity. Does it make policy of assimilation. The government first sense for the lesbian community to then turn put us on reserves in order to use the around, discriminating against and resources of our land. Reserves were also excluding bisexual women because of their originally intended to accelerate the process sexual identity? What is the spirit of lesbian of our assimilation. Eventually we were politics, if it is not to free ourselves from expected to shed our Native languages, our , discrimination based on sexuality? customs, values and spiritual/ religious Bisexuality brings challenges to gay politiCS beliefs and become assimilated into larger that the gay and lesbian communities must society. Traditional tribal government power be able to embrace in order that they can was replaced by the Western democratic move forward and continue to grow and elective system. After this shift in power we fight. were ruled indirectly through our Band 6 WOMONSPACE NEWS Council. Under the Indian Act, which was heart beats and the singing of my language first adopted by Parliament in 1876, then last in the air. completely revised in 1951, the Band Council I have to integrate into the system, this has limited power. Under Section 81 of the world, this reality, in order to be a part of the Indian Act, Band Council powers are healing and education of my people. But defined-which is basically the power to sometimes I forget the teachings and lessons make bylaws. All Band Council legislation I' ve learned from my elders as I embrace this must adhere to the Indian Act. world of linear time and thought, and The reserve system failed as a means of money and power. I forget sometimes the assimilation mainly because Native people purpose of it all when I ache for the silence were kept separate from society. Keeping us of trees, and the time I have spent in silence together kept uS strong. In 1951 the Crown's with my grandmother. policy of assimilation became a policy of integration. In essence, the goal was still to absorb Native people into the larger system. f cour"" It I. extremely difficult to Ilk<: o""",,1f Assimilation-what does it mean to me? OIn a culture which thlnk5 you are a dI5oe35t. In my blood I feel the weight of age-old Chry5too. In Cherne Moraga and Gloria Anzaldua. oppression. I see my people struggling to ed ... This Bridge Called My Back. 1983 overcome the effects of internal colonialism and to become independent of entrenched paternalism. I see my people struggling to overcome the wrongs and heal and rise up. I am proud to be Native and to be a part of this fight. .. . sometimes I feel I am a warrior in these new times. Sometimes I am angry when I feel we are fighting a losing battle. Would you like to get into Sometimes I wonder where my place is in the Womon~pace Dance~ this world, when I see that man who walks drunk down the street muttering in Cree. for half price or FREE and Sometimes I feel strength surge through me, have the opportunity to knowing I am in a position to learn their rules and beat them at their own game. meet hundred~ of gorgeou~ Sometimes I am scared because when I look womynt' Call the volunteer in the mirror and ask what being an Indian means I cannot see the answer because my coordinator at 455-1573 hair is short and I have no accent and fit no to volunteer for the next stereotype. It's not easy to go boldly alone here in the city-feeling cut off from my Womon~pace dance. people. Hearing silence instead of combined WOMONSPACE NEWS 7 eALEN DAR OF EVENTS

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8 WOMONSPACE NEWS Thursday, January 19 evening, Deni and Marguerite had affirmed ... Butler Decision Queer Academy, 4-29 their love in a holy union ceremony at Humanities, University of Alberta, 4 pm. Metropolitan Community Church. December 9 was the date specially chosen by the Saturday, January 21 couple, because it marked their thirteenth ... Womonspace Dance-Mixed; Men & anniversary together. Women! Bring your gay friends. Bonnie Doon Hall, 9240-93 Street, 8 pm-l am. It was heart-warming to see so many members of the brides' families there in Sunday, January 22 attendance, many of them coming from ... Ani DiFranco at Myer Horowitz Theatre, outside Edmonton. Deni and Marguerite University of Alberta, 8:00 pm. Ticketmaster. have two children, now in their early twenties,

and they presented a toast to II our parents, January 29 and 30 the brides." Friends and family members ... The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the . sh~red stories about the couple. Deni joked a Desert at the Princess Theatre. Sunday at lot, but she shyly screened kisses behind her 7:00 pm, Monday at 9:30 pm. cowboy hat. The first dance looked traditional enough February Events from a distance, with Deni in her western tuxedo and Marguerite in a stunning cream Thursday, February 2 wedding gown. Then the women from the ... Womonspace Dro~In. Refreshments and ~ 9930-106 Street, 7:30-9 pm. wedding party joined them on the floor. We witnessed some fine two-stepping, like Sunday, February 5 you'd see at any wedding dance at a hall in ... Womonspace News Newsletter Meeting, the country, only there were no men Boystown, noon. Deadline for submissions dancing. Marguerite's daughter danced with for March issue. Topic: Partner Abuse. her grandmother, Deni danced with her mother, and Marguerite paired with Oeni's grandmother. In a little while, the men joined in, and the party was in full swing. I feel fortunate to have witnessed this JUST MARRIED event. It is the first same-sex wedding I have Lindy Pratch attended, and it has left me with a joyous feeling. The celebration consolidated a sense Women dancing with other women is not of family for the participants, and gave hope an unusual occurrence at the Riverdale Hall. for the future. Not only the future for Deni At tables nearby, however, there were males and Marguerite--may it be a long and happy of all ages, from a small child to elderly men. life together-but also the future for lesbians Soon, the men joined the women on the in our society. There is a place for us in this dance floor. The occasion was the wedding world, if we have the courage to take it. reception of two women. Earlier in the WOMONSPACE NEWS 9 Policies, both of which specifically POLICE LIAISON include sexual orientation as a protected Noreen Marshall ground; • selecting and acquiring for the police In 1992, the Edmonton Police Service and library videos, books, and other the gay and lesbian community of materials on the lesbian and gay Edmonton formed a Liaison Committee to community; promote a positive atmosphere of • working with the police, Edmonton understanding and mutual respect that more Parks and Recreation, and the Glenora effectively meets the needs of our Community League to resolve conflicts community by addressing the underlying arising over use of city parks; issues that result in misunderstanding, • resolving reported cases of mistrust, and apprehension. inappropriate police reaction to The Edmonton Police Service is members of the gay and lesbian committed to the fair and equitable community; treatment of all citizens including lesbians, • contacting and liaising with police gay men, bisexuals, transsexuals, services, gay or lesbian police officers transvestites and transgenderists without and liaison committees in Winnipeg, bias, discrimination or harassment. Toronto, and Otta"V'a; and The focus of the Committee is to: • making a presentation to the provincial • promote effective two-way Review Panel on the Alberta Human communication; Rights Commission and the Individual • promote two-way education and Rights Protection Act. awareness; The Liaison Committee held a Town Hall • identify and resolve crime and safety meeting in November of 1994. It was very concerns; and well attended by lesbians and gays. Over the • increase police awareness of gay past year, much of the committee's efforts culture and diverse lifestyles. have been directed at sensitizing members of It is critical that problems and the Edmonton Police Force to the reality of community concerns be identified and the gay and lesbian community. Many brought forward to the Committee so that suggestions from the audience focused on they be resolved as quickly as possible. what the community now needs to do. Over the past year, the Committee has If you are the victim of a hate crime, tackled a number of tasks including; domestic violence or any other matter • developing a pilot course for the police requiring police assistance, you should call on awareness of gay and lesbian culture the usual police phone numbers in your and conducting a training session for telephone book. more than twenty senior officers; If you are not satisfied that the treatment • reviewing the Edmonton Police Service you receive is appropriate or if you have a Harassment and Employment Equity complaint against a police officer, you should 10 WOMONSPACE NEWS call 424-7248, pager: 293. Please leave your name and telephone number and a police Barbara member of the Liaison Committee will return L.I·D. your call. Service is available 24 hours. All calls will be treated in confidence by gay­ I brought my coffee to the table positive officers. and sot down under the Michigan sun If you require support or assistance in Tits in the breeze, totally relaxed approaching the Police Service, please call Til I sow her. Liz Massiah at 489-7998 or Murray Billett at 482-7421. She was learning a line dance Community members of the Liaison A Rash of breast as her denim Committee have also assisted lesbian and gay shirt caressed her body police officers in forming a discussion/ The music stopped and so support group. In addition to Edmonton did she - I remembered to breathe. police officers, the group includes members of the RCMP.1f you are a gay or lesbian The music started again - the whole officer or if you know one who might be number right through - and so interested in the group, please call Murray did she. or Liz at the numbers above. Again, She was with 200 womyn confidentiality is assured. But she was dancing alone.

A faint smile was all that gave away her pleasure That and every single movement very man should own at leaet one dress­ of her body. Eand so should lesbians. Jane Adam5 Spahr. 1988. She was more than dancing this womon. quoted In leigh W. Rutledge. The Gay Decades. 1992 She was off in her own world Enjoying her body's sensuality Her shirt and skirt clung and relaxed from her as she moved Pure sensuality The music stopped and so did she I remembered to breathe. Classifieds Roommate Wanted Downtown House, $250 (incl. utilities) plus DO. Marlene or Berni. 428-9454.

WOMONSPACE NEWS 11 negatives; personal letters, diaries and NEW ARCHIVAL papers; films, Videotapes and audiotapes; artworks, buttons, t-shirts and other COLLECTION memorabilia. With these donated items the Gay and The past few years have seen a dramatic Lesbian Archives of Edmonton plans to increase in the activity and awareness of the · organize an exhibit during PrideWeek 1995. gay and lesbian community in Edmonton. After the exhibit, all items will be donated to Landmark events such as the election of the City of Edmonton Archives which has openly gay and lesbian city councillors, the agreed to house the collection. Future access Delwin Vriend court challenge, along with to these materials will be processed through the impact of the AIDS epidemic, have . the Gay and Lesbian Community Centre of focused attention on a segment of Edmonton (GLCCE). Edmonton's population which has become If you have questions or information increasingly visible, vocal and organized. about individuals or groups that may have It is important that records of these events collections, please write to the address be preserved. It is doubly important that below. You can also help by making these materials be gathered and placed in a monetary contributions that will help pay for single location where they can be easily postage, storage materials and exhibit costs. accessed and protected. This is the goal of Cheques should be made to the Gay and the Gay and Lesbian Archives of Edmonton. Lesbian Community Centre of Edmonton. Individuals and groups in Edmonton and Please specify that your contribution should surrounding areas are called upon to donate go for the care and maintenance of the Gay historical records and memorabilia that will and Lesbian Archives collection. give present and future generations a glimpse of the rich and vibrant history of this Gay and Lesbian Archives of Edmonton city's gay and lesbian community. Archival materials can include: records of organiza­ Box 1852 Edmonton AB T5K 2P2 tions, active or defunct, operating in or call Allen MacDonald at (403) 488-5469. Edmonton and surrounding area; posters, books and periodicals; photographs, slides and

1') WOMONSPACE NEWS Same-Sex Unions in Premodern Europe by BETWEEN THE John Boswell, 1994

COVERS New For Children: At the Edmonton Public One Dad, Two Dads, Brown Dad, Blue Dads by Library Johnny Valentine, 1994 Two Moms, the Zark, and Me by Johnny Lindy Pratch Valentine, 1993 New Fiction: How Would You FeellfYour Dad Was Gay? by Flashpoint by Katherine V. Forrest, 1994 Ann Heron and Meredith Maran, 1994 My Sweet Untraceable You by Sandra Scoppettone, 1994 Art and Lies: A Piece for Three Voices and a "1t'5 th05e two new girl5 on the block. Harold. 50mething about the way they walk. by Jeanette Winterson, 1994 Bawd 50mething about the way they talk .. . Ghost Motel by Jackie Manthome, 1994 ~omething about the way they look ... at each other ... Harold. I could 5Wear they're The Case of the Good-For-Nothing Girlfriend by L.obane5el" Mabel Maney, 1994 Holly Hughe5, Loul5e to Harold. The Penguin Book of Lesbian Short Stories, 1993 -The Well of Hornlne55," In Don 5hewey. ed., Out Front, 1988 Lavender Mansions: 40 Contemporary Lesbian and Gay Short Stories, 1994 The Last Generation: Prose and Poetry by Cherrie Moraga, 1993

New Non-Fiction: Conduct Unbecoming: Gays and Lesbians in the U.S. Military by Randy Shilts, 1993 Coming Out of the Blue: British Police Officers Talk About Their Lives in "The Job" as Lesbians, Gays and Bisexuals by Marc E. Burke, 1993 Created Equal: Why Gay Rights Matter to America by Michael Nave and Robert Dawidoff, 1994

WOMONSPACE NEWS 13 my nature and my duty / It is the HEATHER BISHOP womanhood in me." The choir was also great accompanying In Harmony with EVM Heather with "Sheik Shaboom", an Sheelagh imaginative song with an infectious beat. The album's title track is a warm, mellow Heather Bishop has just released a country song that anyone who's craved to smooth, tight new album and legions of her be back home can relate to. "Waitin' for you fans heard some of the best tracks at an Mama" is more intense, an energetic rock/ Edmonton concert on November 26. country piece about a desperate need for an Daydream Me Home is a well-produced absent lover. disc that illuminates Heather's eclectic song Daydream Me Home is an uncomplicated writing and singing ability. Its songs cover a album that focuses on love, honesty and range styles, from "Waitin' for you Mama", strength of spirit. Heather speaks and sings with its rocky guitar riffs, and the jazzy openly of her lesbianism in a way that "Dream Line Special", through to "The directly addresses society's homophobia. Galaxy I Lighten Up", a Pythonesque-like And so this concert was a shot in the arm for poke at those who drive us crazy and the . all who are angered by the Rosanne Skokes rest of us who tend to take life just a little too . and narrow-minded Tories (and some seriously. Then there's the hilarious "If you Liberals) of the world. Leave me Darlin"', a tribute to this age of co­ Thanks to Heather and Edmonton Vocal dependent relationships ("If only I could Minority for a great perf 'rMance, and Tom read your mind II' d know how I feel ... If Hutchinson of the Garneau Theatre who you leave me darlin', can I come too?"). provided free space for this concert. Heather's fans were given a special treat at this concert when she was joined by Edmonton Vocal Minority for some songs. The choir's presence was perfectly balanced against Heather's lead vocals, and EVM' 8 background vocals and harmonies delighted the audience. In particular, Kim Baryluk's "Warrior" was powerfully presented. A feminist song that draws on Native tradition, "Warrior" speaks of loss of innocence, the constructive . use of anger, and the mobilization of political power. Heather sang this anthem Gloria Stelnem, Revolution from Within, 1992 with passion, as did the choir ... "I can and will fight I I can and will a warrior bel It is

14 WOMONSPACE NEWS BOOK ROUNDUP! Ever find yourself wondering where you got that copy of Lesbian Nation that's sitting on your bookshelf? Well, check again and see if it belongs to the Womonspace library. Lesbian Nation, and the other books listed below, have all taken an extended leave from the library and it's time for them to come home. You can return your borrowed books at the next W omonspace dance, drop-in or general meeting.

Rich Rewards Lesbian Nation: The Feminist Solution The Ruins of Isis Old Tales Sudden Death The Demeter Flower Amateur City Kindred Spirit: Anthology of Gays and Daughters of Copper Woman Lesbians Daughters of a Coral Dawn Trash Dreams and Swords Clenched Fists, Burning Crosses Lesbian Passion Say Jesus and Come toMe The Well of Loneliness Orlando: A Biography Rocking the Cradle: Lesbian Mothers: The Coming Out Stories A Challenge in Family Living .4 Woman's Touch: An Anthology of Lesbian The Art of Sensual Massage Eroticism and Sensuality Herland Lesbian Nuns: Breaking Silence Anna's Country Ripening: An Almanac of Lesbian Lore Loving Someone Gay and Vision Tottie: A Tale of the Sixties Shoulder to Shoulder: A Documentary Give Me Your Good Ear Mrs. Porter's Letter Lesbians, Women and Society The Burnton Widows Gay: What You Should Know About Inland Passage Homosexuality Desert of the Heart

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