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Husband Suicides Wife Suicides Suicide when married (past 17 years) 64098 63343 62433 70000 61453 58192 57639 57593 55452 52483 51623 60000 49545 48409 47000 46000 45000 50000 41143 37168 32852 31921 31754 31300 30224 30064 30000 29869 40000 29491 28562 28188 28045 28000 28000 27603 26936 26076 30000 20000 10000 0 1997 1998 1999 2000 2001 2002 2003 2004 2005 2006 2007 2008 2009 2010 2011 2012 2013 Years DATA FROM NATIONAL CRIME RECORDS BUREAU (MINISTRY OF HOME AFFAIRS) 2.30 Ratio of Married Men:Married Women 2.20 Suicide Ratio- Men:Women 2.17 2.10 2.00 1.98 1.94 1.90 1.91 1.90 1.86 1.92 1.84 1.86 1.80 1.86 1.80 1.79 1.70 1.68 1.64 1.60 1.50 1.43 1.50 1.40 1.44 1.30 1997 1998 1999 2000 2001 2002 2003 2004 2005 2006 2007 2008 2009 2010 2011 2012 2013 ALARMING INCREASE IN RATE OF SUICIDE OF MARRIED MEN SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT THE TEAM EDITORIAL THE LIGHT (Mentors): Swarup Sarkar Save Family Magazine, Second Edition marks the 6th National Meet for D. Srinivas Rao Men’s Rights & Save Indian Family Movement (SIF). It was 2005, when abused Jinesh Zaveri Men of India joined hands and formed, Save Indian Family Movement. The Wasif Ali movement started with a Yahoo Group named “saveindianfamily”. In a short Niladri Das duration of few years, the group added over 10,000 members and also had spread it’s reach with State wise groups and also groups of various countries. Rishi Jain As the time passed, SIF had to change for the changing times and had to become more effective for it’s prime objective. SIF started breathing and living THE CANDLE (Working Committee): for Men and Families who were left battered, abused, depressed by the SALES TEAM widespread Male hatred in the Society. The same hatred gave birth to many Ajay Verma D. and continuously incoming Anti-Male laws and slowly SIF observed that India Manav Mishra had converted into a Gender Based Crime Society. Men’s Rights in India started Bharat Bhaskar taking shape with formation of SIF and soon it was decided that communication platform needs to become more personal. Based on this very DESIGNING TEAM thought, concept of National Meet immerged few years back. Started with Ashish Kumar Goa, continued with Yercaud, Shimla, Kolkata, Nagpur and this time, it is Agra. Vijay Naru Volume II brings to you the Articles of Nationally and Internationally acclaimed bloggers & Men’s Rights Activists. This edition also takes you Rishi Jain through the “Year It Was” for Men’s Rights Activities across India. A quick Manni S snapshot of 10th Foundation Day will take you through a journey of “Oh, I Ritwik Bisaria missed” or déjà vu. Cyril Gupta Save Indian Family Movement also took some huge leaps on Social Anirudha Gupta Support front. We launched “SIF One”, 8882 498 498, a single number Helpline for Men across the World. The Helpline allows anyone in need of help to speak ARTICLES TEAM to over 70 counselors of the movement who are equipped to provide Amit Lakhani emergency first aid. The helpline on an average gets over 250 calls per day. We Ritwik Bisaria also launched, “SIF One App”, an android mobile app on Google Playstore. The Swarup Sarkar Mobile App gives a direct access to SIF’s counselors and even to E-Magazine. Burt Phoenix The app has witnessed over 5000 downloads already. In the End, we would like to Thank You for your Patronage, your time Amit Deshpande and interest in Save Family Magazine. We also wish to thank all our Sponsors Partha Sadhukhan and all those people who are directly or indirectly involved with this Endeavour MRA Prakhyat of ours. FINANCE TEAM Wasif Ali We are alive, We are there, K.C. Ajitabh We walk towards Happiness, TOGETHER! Sattu Jatav Thanks to all NGOs, Groups, Member, Team “Save Family Magazine” Admirers of the Save Indian Family [email protected] Movement Globally. Date: 14th August 2014 Men are Human too Crime has no Gender 1 SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT TABLE OF CONTENTS Editorial …………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. 1 “Save Indian Family” Foundation Day Celebrations 2014 ………………………………….. 3 SIF in Images ……….………………………………………………………………………………………….… 4 Poem Of-By-For Men ……………………………………………………………………………………….. 10 Are Men Fashionable …………………….……………………………………………………….………... 11 Domestic Violence on Men ………………..……………………………………………….……………. 12 Family Story (Hindi) ………………………………………..……………………………….……………….. 15 Why can’t NCW be given Civil Court Status ……………………………………….……………… 16 Its’ all about Alimony Honey ….…………………………………………………………….…………… 22 Trivial Disputes become Molestation Cases ….………………………………………………….. 25 Women’s reservation in Parliament …….……………………………………..…………………….26 Response to WCD Nirbhaya OSCC ……………………………………………………………………. 27 Holy Work – Burning Husband ………………………………………………………………………... 29 Miss-Use of Indian Law …………………………………….……………………………………………... 30 Our Patrons ……………………………………………………………………………………………………… 31 Weekly Meetings …………………………………………………………………………………………….. 34 Cover Page (Photo): Depicts that 64098 Married men, under clutches of bad marriage are forced to commit suicide (1 married man every 8.19 minutes). The Ring held by weights shows the way men are forced and tied down to bad marriages while the faces at the bottom of page represent the Victim in Red and the thoughtful Save Indian Family Movement, always available as a Patient supporter. Inside Cover: Graph on top illustrates the date available from National Crime Records Bureau (Ministry of Home Affairs). The data lays down the pictorial representation of the data of Husband and Wife suicide in India thus clearly showing how Husband Suicide has been ever increasing for last 17 years. The bottom Graph shows the ratio of Husband and Wife suicide which has reached from 1.36 Husband Suicide per wife in 1996 to whooping 2.17 Husband Suicide per wife in 2013. Men are Human too 2 Crime has no Gender SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT 10th Foundation Day – The Journey through Pictures Clockwise from Top Left: SIF Foundation day dias graced by Hon’ble (retd.) Justice Shiv Narayan Dhingra, Shri Suhaib Ilyasi; Slide inviting for National meet; Presenting Memento to Hon’ble (retd.) Justice Shiv Narayan Dhingra; Shri Suhaib Ilyasi delivering his Key Note; SIF’s starting success in 2006 Men are Human too Crime has no Gender 3 SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT SIF IN IMAGES Clockwise from Top Left: Gujarat Chapter covered by DD; Doordarshan @ Ahmedabad; IrBM protest by SIF Karnataka; Father’s Day at Orphanage by SIF Chennai; SIF Karnataka meets with Shri Akhilesh Yadav for Men’s Rights Men are Human too 4 Crime has no Gender SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT SIF IN IMAGES Clockwise from Top Left: Child Rights Press Conference by SIF Chennai; Father’s Day at India Gate, Delhi; Hunger Strike & Super Dad at SIF Hyderabad; SIF Hyderabad Warriors spread Men’s Rights @ Marathon; Delhi mourns Husband Suicides – Candle March to Police Headquarter Men are Human too Crime has no Gender 5 SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT SIF IN IMAGES Clockwise from Top Left: Indore Chapter Launch; Indore Legal Seminar – over 200 Participants; Jaipur starts Weekly Meetings; DAMAN Kanpur protests Husband Suicide; Jaipur Chapter launches SIF One. Men are Human too 6 Crime has no Gender SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT SIF IN IMAGES Clockwise from Top Left: DAMAN-Kanpur launches SIF One; Men’s Rights Maharally reaches Khardung-la top; (Retd.) Justice AK Ganguly, Chief Guest at Kolkata Father’s Day; Kolkata team celebrates Men’s Day; Maharally, the message it carried from Kerala to Ladakh (a world record) Men are Human too Crime has no Gender 7 SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT SIF IN IMAGES Clockwise from Top Left: Lucknow showcases Husband Suicide; Cold waves can’t make Lucknow loose it’s heat; Mumbai team gets Yes Bank award for best documentary; Nagpur Chapter starts it’s Weekly Meetings; Mumbai Chapter makes Mumbai Marathon remember Men’s Rights Men are Human too 8 Crime has no Gender SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT SIF & MRA (Pune) IN IMAGES Clockwise from Top Left: Launch of SIF One at Nagpur; MRA Pune celebrates International Men’s Day; United Kingdom’s Marital Justice, 1st Conference; United Kingdom (Marital Justice) talks to MAA TV; MRA Pune takes Hon’ble Supreme Court Judgment to Police Station. Men are Human too Crime has no Gender 9 SAVE FAMILY MAGAZINE VOLUME II www.saveindianfamily.in SAVE FAMILY FOUNDATION SAVE INDIAN FAMILY MOVEMENT POEM OF MEN, BY MEN, FOR MEN ठ क ठाक ठ क करदगे हम अब खुद कौन कहता है दू हा जलाया जाता नह ं, ठ क ठाक ठ क करदगे हम सब कुछ NCRB ये अपराध गनाता नह 08882 498 498 पर कॉल करके हमसे पूछ कौन कहता है बहू सास को डरती नह , झूठे इ ज़म से करते है कैसे युध NCW यह सच को छुपा त रह जब ग़लती नह क तो डरने क बात नह कुछ पोल स वक ल क परेशानी से मलेगी अब छूट कौन कहता है झूठा बला कार केस आता , ठ क ठाक ठ क करदगे हम अब खुद नह ठ क ठाक ठ क करदगे हम सब कुछ वो अँधा है जो ये सच देख पाता नह .ं 498a करने वाल को हवालात ले जाएँगे अब हम कौन कहता है लड़क बला कार