MARK H. BUTLER Professor, School of Family Life Brigham Young University JFSB 2093, Provo, UT 84602 // [email protected] // (801) 422 8786 January 7, 2021

Education & Academic Positions

Professor School of Family Life, Brigham Young University (BYU) September 1, 2009 – Present

Associate Professor School of Family Life, Marriage & Family Therapy Graduate Programs, BYU September 1, 2002 – August 31, 2009

Assistant Professor School of Family Life, Marriage & Family Therapy Graduate Programs, BYU January 1, 1996 – August 31, 2002

Ph.D. Texas Tech University, 1996, Marriage & Family Therapy Chair, Karen S. Wampler, Ph.D. Dissertation: Effects of Couple Exposure to Direct and Indirect Therapy Styles in Marital Therapy on Therapist-Couple Struggle, Cooperation, and Responsibility M.S. Brigham Young University, 1990, Marriage & Family Therapy Chair, James M. Harper, Ph.D. Thesis: Family Cohesion and Parent-Child Parallel Interaction in Home- Schooling and Public-Schooling Families B.A. Brigham Young University, 1986, Magna Cum Laude, Political Science Related studies in Family Science and Psychology.

1 Scholarship

1. RESEARCH INTERESTS Recovery From Addictive Desire and Behavior substance addictions and sexual compulsions; multidimensional approach to recovery— desire for recovery, individual will and work for recovery (affective, cognitive, and behavioral interventions), relationships in recovery, grace for recovery Mediation Process and Structure in Healing Relationships mediation process and structure in marital, family, clinical, and metaphysical systems; triadic process, couple-responsible therapy—enactments, inductive process, accommodation; healing versus harmful triangulation in relationships; promotion of relationship, neutrality, and couple/family responsibility; couple-deity triangulation Attachment-Focused Healing From Marital Infidelity models for attachment repair and healing following marital infidelity; forgiveness process in clinical perspective; Spirituality in Clinical Perspective and Practice spiritual beliefs and practices and their relation to change processes and behavior in marriages, families, and therapy

2. GRANTS College of Family, Home, and Social Sciences ($1,000) (2014). Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. Funding awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler, secondary investigator R. B. Seedall, and secondary investigator Justin P. Zamora for residual study activities following completion of data collection and closing down of study. Family Studies Center ($13,950) (2012-2013). Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. Continuing funding awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler, co-principal investigator J. M. Harper, and co-investigator J. P. Zamora. Family Studies Center ($4,000) (2009-2011). Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. Continuing funding awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler and J. W. Ballard co-investigator and co-author. Family Studies Center ($5,000) (2009-2010). Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. Continuing funding awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler and J. W. Ballard co-investigator and co-author. Family Studies Center ($5,000) (2007-2008). Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. Awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler and C. B. Mitchell co- investigator and co-author. Family Studies Center ($5,000) (2007-2008). Treatment acceptability of therapist

2 accommodation vs. facilitated disclosure of an infidelity secret in couple therapy. Awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler and M. K. Amott co-investigator and co- author. Office of Graduate Studies Mentoring Grant ($5,000) (2005-2006). Clinical comparisons of marital trust among therapy couples struggling with Internet pornography or other presenting problems. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler & S. T. Zitzman. College of Family, Home, & Social Sciences ($1,260) (2004-2005). Effectiveness of the proxy voice intervention in enactments in promoting couple softening. Awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler. Family Studies Center ($6,000) (2003-2004). Couples in recovery: A qualitative study of a couple therapy approach to recovery work for sexual compulsions. Awarded to co- principal investigators M. H. Butler & S. T. Zitzman. Religious Studies Center ($2,150) (2001-2002). The relationship between intrinsic and extrinsic religiosity of spouses and marital adjustment. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler, A. S. Brimhall, & B. C. Gardner. Family Studies Center ($2,245) (2000-2001). Forgiveness and family therapy. Awarded to co- principal investigators M. H. Butler & M. H. Bird. Family Studies Center ($3,250) (1999-2000). Acceptability of forgiveness as a focus of treatment: Effects of therapist “languaging.” Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler & S. K. Dahlin. Camilla Eyring Kimball Endowment ($2,950) (1998-1999). Acceptability of forgiveness as a focus of treatment: Effects of therapist “languaging.” Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler & S. K. Dahlin. Religious Studies Center ($2,000) (1997-1998). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler, B. C. Gardner, & M. H. Bird. Camilla Eyring Kimball Endowment ($3,000) (1996-1997). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Awarded to co-principal investigators, M. H. Butler, B. C. Gardner, & M. H. Bird.

3. JOURNAL PUBLICATIONS (PEER-REVIEWED*—PUBLISHED, IN PRESS,

SUBMITTED) *(JURIED/SCHOLARLY REVIEW) (STUDENT AUTHORS UNDERLINED, INDICATING THESIS OR OTHER PUBLICATION UNDERTAKEN UP TO 2-YRS POST-GRADUATION)

Butler, M. H., Gossner, J. D., & Fife, S. T. (2021) Partners taking turns leaning in and leaning out: Trusting in the healing arc of attachment dynamics following betrayal. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. Manuscript submitted for publication. Butler, M. H., Gossner, J. D., Barham, C. C., & Hansen-Bethea, M. C., & Crawford, M. D. (in press). Discerning motivational interviewing through a spiritual lens—Discovering a Christian MI archetype and native MI language. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. doi: 10.1111/JMFT.12472 (ISSN)1752-0606 Accepted November 5, 2020)

3 Leonhardt, N. D., Spencer, T. J., Butler, M. H., Theobald, A. C. (2019 Online). Sexual media and sexual quality: Aims, distinctions, and reflexivity—Response to commentaries. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 48(8), 2291–2303. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-019- 01551-7 Butler, M. H., Spencer, T. J., & Seedall, R. B. (2019 Online). Reshaping couple configurations that get in the way of relationship repair and healing. Family Process, x(x), 1–19. Advance online publication. doi:10.1111/famp.12475 Butler, M. H. (2019). Procreative well-being and pornography—analyzing the script. Public health implications revealed through an ethological lens. Marriage & Family Review, 55(6), 544-583. https://doi.org/10.1080/01494929.2019.1588187 Butler, M. H., & Spencer, T. J.* (2018 Online, 2019 Print). A circumplex model of couple configurations in relational trauma context: An example of practice-based model development. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 45(3), 494–507. doi:10.1111/jmft.12346 (* denotes a co- primary author, footnoted) Leonhardt, N. D., Spencer, T. J., Butler, M. H., Theobald, A. C. (2018). An organizational framework for sexual media’s influence on sexual quality. Archives Of Sexual Behavior, 1-17. Advance online publication. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-018-1209-4 Meloy-Miller, K. C.*, Butler, M. H.*, Seedall, R. B., & Spencer, T. J. (2018). Anger can help: Clinical representation of three pathways of anger. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 46(1), 44-66. http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/01926187.2018.1428130 (* equal authors, footnoted) (See Annotation) Butler, M. H.*, Meloy-Miller, K. C.*, Seedall, R. B., & Dicus, J. L. (2018). Anger can help: A transactional model and three pathways of the experience and expression of anger. Family Process, 57(3), 817-835. doi: 10.1111/famp.12311 (* equal authors, footnoted) Butler, M. H.*, Pereyra, S. A.*, Draper, T. W., Leonhardt, N. D., & Skinner, K. B. (2017). Pornography use and loneliness: A bi-directional recursive model and pilot investigation. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 44(2), 127-137. https://doi.org/10.1080/0092623X. 2017.1321601 (* equal authors, footnoted) Butler, M. H., & Smith, G. L. (2016). The adolescent brain and the atonement [of Christ]: Meant for each other. Part 2. The rescue. The Religious Educator, 17(2), 163-199. Butler, M. H., Smith, G. L., & Jensen, B., (2016). The adolescent brain and the atonement [of Christ]: Meant for each other. Part 1: The dilemma. The Religious Educator, 17(1), 159- 185. Seedall, R. B.*, Butler, M. H.*, Zamora, J. P., & Yang, C. (2016). Attachment change in the beginning stages of therapy: Examining change trajectories for avoidance and anxiety. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 42(2), 217-230. doi:10.1111/jmft.12146 (* equal authors, footnoted) Butler, M. H., Meloy, K. C., & Call, M. L. (2015). Dismantling powerlessness in addiction: Empowering recovery through rehabilitating behavioral learning. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 22(1), 26-58. doi:10.1080/10720162.2014.993778 Butler, M. H., Call, M. L., Meloy, K. C., & Zitzman, S. T. (2014). Deconstructing mechanisms

4 of powerlessness for clients seeking recovery: Learning to be powerless over addiction. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 21(2), 92- 113. doi:10.1080/10720162.2014.895461 Seedall, R. B.*, Butler, M. H.*, & Elledge, J. S. (2014). Does religious motivation influence conceptualization and acceptability of forgiveness as a therapeutic intervention. American Journal of Family Therapy, 42(2),127-140. doi:10.1080/01926187.2013.772868 (* equal authors, footnoted) Butler, M. H., & Call, M. L. (2014). God’s motivational interview with Moses. Religious Educator, 15(1), 123-143. Butler, M. H.*, Hall, L. G.*, & Yorgason, J. B. (2013). The paradoxical relation of the expression of offense to forgiving: A survey of therapists’ conceptualizations. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 41(5), 415-436. doi:10.1080/01926187.2012. 755389 (* equal authors, footnoted) Butler, M. H., Harper, J. M., Call, M. L., & Bird, M. H. (2013). Examining claims of family process differences ensuing from the choice to home-school. Education and Urban Society, 1-23. doi:10.1177/0013124513494777 Butler, M. H., & Zamora, J. P. (2013). Ethical and legal concerns for MFTs in the context of clergy-collaborative care: Is what I share really confidential? American Journal of Family Therapy, 41(2), 85-109. Butler, M. H.*, Brimhall, A. S.*, & Harper, J. M. (2011). A primer on the evolution of therapeutic engagement in MFT: Understanding and resolving the dialectic tension of alliance and neutrality. Part 2—Recommendations: Dynamic neutrality through multipartiality and enactments. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 39(3), 193- 213. (* equal authors, authors agreement, not footnoted) Butler, M. H.*, Harper, J. M.*, & Mitchell, C. B.* (2011). A comparison of attachment outcomes in enactment-based vs. therapist-centered therapy process modalities in couple therapy. Family Process, 50(2), 203-220. (* equal authors, footnoted) Brimhall, A. S.*, & Butler, M. H.* (2011). A primer on the evolution of therapeutic engagement in MFT: Understanding and resolving the dialectic tension of alliance and neutrality. Part 1—Retrospective: The evolution of neutrality. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 39(1), 28-47. (* equal authors, authors agreement, not footnoted) Butler, M. H., Rodriguez, M. K. A., Olsen, S. O., & Feinauer, L. L. (2010). Infidelity secrets in couple therapy: Therapists’ views on the collision of competing ethics around relationship-relevant secrets. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 17(2), 82-105. Gardner, B. C., & Butler, M. H. (2009). Enacting relationships in MFT: The empirical, theoretical, and clinical case for incorporating enactments as common factors in the best practice model. Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, 8(4), 306-324. Butler, M. H.*, & Zitzman, S. T.* (2009). Wives’ experience of husbands’ pornography use and concomitant deception as an attachment threat in the adult pair-bond relationship. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 16(3), 210-240. https://doi.org/10.1080/10720160903202679 (* equal authors, footnoted) (See Annotation)

5 Butler, M. H., Harper, J. M., & Seedall, R. B. (2009). Facilitated disclosure vs. clinical accommodation of infidelity secrets: An early pivot point in couple therapy. Part 1: Couple relationship ethics, pragmatics, and attachment. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 35(1), 125-143. Butler, M. H., Seedall, R. B., & Harper, J. M. (2008). Facilitated disclosure vs. clinical accommodation of infidelity secrets: An early pivot point in couple therapy. Part 2: Therapy ethics, pragmatics, and protocol. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 36(4), 265-283. Butler, M. H., Davis, S. D., & Seedall, R. B. (2008). Common pitfalls of beginning therapists utilizing enactments. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 34(3), 329-352. Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., & Seedall, R. B. (2008). En-gendering the couple-deity relationship: Clinical implications of power and process. Contemporary Family Therapy, 30(3), 152-166. Seedall, R. B., & Butler, M. H. (2008). The attachment relationship in recovery from addiction. Part 2: Substantive enactment interventions. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 15(1), 77-96. Bird, M. H., Butler, M. H., & Fife, S. T. (2007). The process of couple healing following infidelity: A qualitative study. Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, 6(4), 1-25. https://doi.org/10.1300/J398v06n04_01 Brimhall, A. S., & Butler, M. H. (2007). Intrinsic vs. extrinsic religious motivation and the marital relationship. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 35(3), 235-249. Butler, M. H.*, Andersson, L. G.*, & Seedall, R. B.* (2006). Couples’ experience of enactments and softening in marital therapy. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 34(4), 301-315. (* equal authors, footnoted) (See Annotation) Seedall, R. B., & Butler, M. H. (2006). The effect of proxy voice intervention on couple softening in the context of enactments. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 32(4), 421-437. Butler, M. H., & Seedall, R. B. (2006). The attachment relationship in recovery from addiction. Part 1: Relationship mediation. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 13(2-3), 289-315. Zitzman, S. T., & Butler, M. H. (2005). Attachment, addiction, and recovery: Conjoint marital therapy for recovery from a sexual addiction. Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity, 12(4), 311-337. Davis, S. D., & Butler, M. H. (2004). Enacting relationships in marriage and family therapy: A conceptual and operational definition of an enactment. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 30(3), 319-333. Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2003). Adapting enactments to couple reactivity: Five developmental stages. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 29(3), 311-327. Butler, M. H., Dahlin, S. K., & Fife, S. T. (2002). “Languaging” factors affecting clients’ acceptance of forgiveness intervention in marital therapy. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 28(3), 285-298. Butler, M. H., Stout, J. S., & Gardner, B. C. (2002). Prayer as a conflict resolution ritual:

6 Clinical implications of religious couples’ report of relationship softening, healing perspective, and change responsibility. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 30(1), 19-37. Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2001). Ethics and the ideal helping relationship: Response to Hill and Mamalakis. Family Relations, 50(3), 209-214. Woolley, S. R., Butler, M. H., & Wampler, K. S. (2000). Unraveling change in therapy: Three different process research methodologies. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 28(4), 311-327. Butler, M. H., & Bird, M. H. (2000). Narrative and interactional process for preventing harmful struggle in therapy: An integrative empirical model. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 26(2), 123-142. Butler, M. H., & Wampler, K. S. (1999). A meta-analytic update of research on the Couple Communication program. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 27(3), 223-237. Butler, M. H., & Wampler, K. S. (1999). Couple-responsible therapy process: Positive proximal outcomes. Family Process, 38(1), 27-54. (Winner of the 1999 American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Outstanding Research Publication Award.) Butler, M. H., Gardner, B. C.*, & Bird, M. H.* (1998). Not just a time-out: Change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Family Process, 37(4), 451-478. (* undergraduate student co-authors). Scott, J. P., & Butler, M. H. (1997). Subjective well-being of rural adults 75 years of age or older: A longitudinal evaluation. Family and Consumer Sciences Research Journal, 25(3), 251-268. Butler, M. H., & Harper, J. M. (1994). The divine triangle: God in the marital system of religious couples. Family Process, 33(3), 277-286. Larson, J. H., Butler, M. H., Wilson, S., Medora, N., & Allgood, S. (1994). The effects of gender on career decision problems in young adults. Journal of Counseling and Development, 73 (September/October), 79-84. Butler, M. H. (1987). Effects of the transition to parenthood on the marital subsystem of the family. Family Perspective, 21(2), 147-162.

4. BOOKS, CHAPTERS, OTHER PUBLICATIONS (PEER OR EDITOR-REVIEWED*) *SCHOLARLY REVIEW

Butler, S. D., & Butler, M. H. (2020). The adolescent brain and the atonement of Christ: Meant for each other. Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. (Manuscript submitted for publication.) Butler, M. H., Whiting, J. B., & Hilton, D. J. (2019). Anger [pathways. Transactional anger pathways—Functions and risks]. In J. J. Ponzetti, Jr. (Ed.), Macmillan encyclopedia of intimate and family relationships: An interdisciplinary approach (pp. 31–35). New York, NY: Macmillan Reference USA. Seedall, R. B., & Butler, M. H. (2017). Enactments. In J. Carlson & S. Dermer (Eds.), The SAGE encyclopedia of marriage, family, and couples counseling (pp. 539-543).

7 Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage. doi: 10.4135/9781483369532.n167 Butler, M. H., & Butler, S. D. (2005). Healing wounds of infidelity. In C. H. Hart, L. D. Newell, E. Walton, & D. C. Dollahite (Eds.) Helping and healing our families. Principles and practices inspired by “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” (pp. 109-116). Salt Lake City, UT: Deseret Book. (Republished) Butler, M. H., & Bergin, A. E. (2003). Love and intimacy in family, kinship, friendship, and community. BYU Studies, 42(2), 138-170. (Republished from Butler, M. H., & Bergin, A. E. (2002). Marriage, family, and community vs. alienation and isolation. In A. E. Bergin, Eternal values and personal growth: A guide on your journey to spiritual, emotional, and social wellness (pp. 215-240). Provo, UT: BYU Studies.) Harper, J. M., & Butler, M. H. (2000). Repentance, forgiveness, and progression in marriages and families. In D. C. Dollahite (Ed.) Strengthening our families: An in-depth look at the Proclamation on the Family (pp. 154-166). Salt Lake City, UT: Bookcraft.

5. BOOKS, CHAPTERS, ARTICLES, REVIEWS, OTHER PUBLICATIONS (NON PEER-REVIEWED) Butler, M. H., Boyd, H. R., & Cash, K. (2020, September 18). Don’t let a pornography boom disrupt human attachment. Deseret News [online]. Retrieved from https://www.deseret.com/opinion/2020/9/18/21440005/guest-opinion-pornography- boom-human-attachment-isolation-covid-19-pandemic Butler, M. H. (2020, April 29). Living well with depression—My personal journey. Public Square Magazine [online]. Retrieved from https://publicsquaremag.org/editorials/living- well-with-depression-my-personal-journey/ Butler, M. H., Gossner, J. D., Boyd, H. R., Hilton, D. J., & Haupt, J. D. (2020, January 3). What is online porn teaching our children? MercatorNet [online]. Retrieved from https://www.mercatornet.com/mobile/view/what-is-online-porn-teaching-our-children Butler, M. H., & Herring, H. R. (2019, March 25). When religious couples pray. Institute for Family Studies [online]. Retrieved from https://ifstudies.org/blog/when-religious- couples-pray Butler, M. H. (2018, July 3). Is pornography use increasing loneliness, particularly for young people? Institute for Family Studies [online]. Retrieved from https://ifstudies.org/blog/is- pornography-use-increasing-loneliness-particularly-for-young-people Boyd, H., & Butler, M. H. (2018, June 4). Pornography may not cause school shootings, but the science shows it’s hurting teens an awful lot. Washington Examiner [online edition]. Retrieved from https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/op-eds/porn-may-not- cause-school-shootings-but-the-science-shows-its-hurting-teens-an-awful-lot Butler, M. H., & Smith, G. L. (2018). Navigating the teen years: The adolescent brain and Christ’s atonement. Family Connections BYU School of Family Life Alumni Magazine, Winter, 23-28. LeBaron, A., Lott, M., Remington, J., & Butler, M. H. (2017). Reconceiving the self in systems: How systems processes positively transform relationships. Stance: Studies on the Family, Fall 2017, 35-51. (Mentored Student Publication, SFL 336, Fall 2016)

8 Butler, M. H. (2010). Spiritual exodus: A Latter-day Saint guide to recovery from behavioral addiction. Provo, UT: BYU Academic Press. This textbook presents a self-help and therapy protocol for recovery from behavioral addiction, geared to an LDS audience. Its primary focus is recovery from pornography and sexual addiction/compulsivity. The Spiritual Exodus curriculum represents a culmination of 15 years clinical specialization, clinical training, scholarship, research, teaching, and presentations in this marriage and family therapy specialization. Brimhall, A. S., Butler, M. H., & Duncan, S. F. (2008, July). Making prayer happen at home. In Forever Families, 52. Retrieved from https://foreverfamilies.byu.edu/pages/making -prayer-happen OR https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/foreverfamiles/52 [written by A. S. Brimhall, based on M. H. Butler published scholarship, edited by M. H. Butler & S. F. Duncan] Brimhall, A. S., & Butler, M. H. (2008, July). Benefits of couple prayer. In Forever Families, 5. Retrieved from https://foreverfamilies.byu.edu/pages/benefits-of-couple-prayer OR https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/foreverfamiles/5 [Written by A. S. Brimhall, based on M. H. Butler published scholarship, edited by M. H. Butler & S. F. Duncan] Butler, M. H. (2005). Revitalizing recovery following relapse. In M. D. Chamberlain, D. D. Gray, & R. C. Reid (Eds.), Confronting pornography: A guide to prevention and recovery for individuals, loved ones, and leaders (pp. 288-300). Salt Lake City, UT: Deseret Book. Butler, M. H. (2005). Seasons of intimacy: Lifespan developmental perspective. In T. B. Duncan (Comp.), Gospel perspective for family theories: Discerning between truth and error (pp. 133-144). Provo, UT: Brigham Young University Academic Press. Butler, M. H. (2003, August). Spiritual exodus: Recovery from addiction. Marriage and Families, 18-27. Provo, UT: School of Family Life, Brigham Young University. Bergin, A. E., & Butler, M. H. (2002). Faithful love and intimacy vs. self-focus and infidelity. In A. E. Bergin, Eternal values and personal growth: A guide on your journey to spiritual, emotional, and social wellness (pp. 185-214). Provo, UT: BYU Studies. Butler, M. H., & Bergin, A. E. (2002). Marriage, family, and community vs. alienation and isolation. In A. E. Bergin, Eternal values and personal growth: A guide on your journey to spiritual, emotional, and social wellness (pp. 215-240). Provo, UT: BYU Studies.

6. OTHER PUBLICATIONS (NON PEER-REVIEWED)—CURRICULA, ONLINE ITEMS, REPUBLISHED ITEMS Thevenin, S., Palmer, A. D., & Gunnerson, L. (2017). Attachment polarity: Their style, yours, and how to heal together. Stance: Studies on the Family, Fall 2017, 52-74. (Mentored Student Publication, SFL 336, Fall 2016) Butler, M. H. (2013). Spiritual exodus: Recovery from addiction. Retrieved from http://overcome.byu.edu/Recovery_from_Addiction.pdf (Website sponsored by Brigham Young University.) Butler, M. H. (2013). Rescuing relationships. [Article for BYU Women’s Services publication on recovery from pornography addiction.]

9 (Republished) Butler, M. H. (2006, January). Spiritual exodus: Recovery from addiction. Retrieved from http://providentliving.org/content/display/ 0,11666,6271-1-3237- 1,00.html (Website sponsored by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, LDS Family Services.)

7. TEACHING/CLINICAL PSYCHOEDUCATION MANUSCRIPTS

Butler, M. H. (2002). Seasons of intimacy. Unpublished manuscript, Brigham, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1994). The power of positive: Promoting substance abuse prevention and recovery through education and treatment. The Family Therapy Newsletter, 1(1), 1-ff. Lubbock, TX: Author.

8. PROFESSIONAL PRESENTATIONS (STUDENT AUTHORS UNDERLINED, INDICATING THESIS OR OTHER PRESENTATION UP TO 2-YRS POST-GRADUATION)

Gossner, J. D., Fife, S. T., & Butler, M. H. (2020, November) (Accepted but not presented due to COVID-19, conference cancellation). Couple healing from infidelity: A deductive qualitative analysis. Research discussion to be presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Orlando, FL. Gossner, J. D., Butler, M. H., & Fife, S. T. (2020, November) (Accepted but not presented due to COVID-19, conference cancellation). The arc of couple healing following infidelity: Non-parallel healing. Workshop to be presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Orlando, FL. Butler, M. H. (2020, February 21). Enacting couple therapy: Healing relationships. Video recorded therapist training for Family Services (system-wide), The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Salt Lake City, UT. (@ 500 therapists, U.S. and Canada). Spencer, T. J., & Butler, M. H.* (2018, November 16). Bidirectional relationship of pornography use and loneliness. Research discussion presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Louisville, KY. (* Co- author, not presenting.) Leonhardt, N. D., Spencer, T. J.*, Butler, M. H.*, & Theobald, A. C.* (2017, November 9-12). Porn sexpectations: An organizational framework for sexual media’s influence on couple sexual quality. Paper presented at the annual meeting of The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, San Juan, Puerto Rico. (* Co-author, not presenting.) Hansen, M. F., Cox, K. H., Seedall, R. B., & Butler, M. H.* (2017, October). Facilitating therapeutic change moments using enactments. Research discussion presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA. (* Co-author, not presenting.) Spencer, T. J., Butler, M. H. (2016, June 24). Customizing couple therapy: Away with one-size- fits-all approaches. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Family Therapy Academy, Denver, CO. Zamora, J. P., Butler, M. H., Harper, J. M., & Yorgason, J. B. (2013, October 19). The effects of

10 couple-centered and therapist-centered process on dyadic attachment of distressed therapy seeking couples: A multilevel longitudinal analysis. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Portland, OR. Butler, M. H., & Zamora, J. P. (2012, October 9). Healing relationships: Mediating critical couple conversations. Invited presentation at the annual LDS Military Chaplains Conference, sponsored by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H. (2012, October 5). Couple relationship configurations and “the feeling of our infirmities.” Workshop presented at the annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. Zamora, J. P.,* & Butler, M. H.* (2012, October 5). Ethical and legal concerns for therapists in the context of clergy-collaborative care: Is what I share really confidential? Workshop presented at the annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. Call, M. L.,* & Butler, M. H.* (2012, October 5). Empowering the powerless: A conceptual model of how powerlessness is formed and how to overcome it. Poster presented at the annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists (AMCAP). Salt Lake City, UT. (* equal authors) Seedall, R. B.*, Butler, M. H.*, & Elledge, J. S. (2012, October). Does religious motivation influence the conceptualization and acceptability of forgiveness as a therapeutic intervention? Paper presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Phoenix, AZ. (* equal authors) Brown, A. P., Larson, J. H., Busby, D. M., Butler, M. H., & Ostler, C. (2011). The relationship between couples' attachment and the male partner's pornography use. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Fort Worth, TX. Butler, M. H. (2008, October 6). A fighting spirit and a fighting chance: Building motivation for change and empowering change. Invited presentation at the annual LDS Military Chaplains Conference, sponsored by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H. (2007, October 8). Counseling those struggling with behavioral addiction: 1. The defining characteristics and overpowering experience of addiction. 2. Four cornerstones of change. 3. Building motivation for change. Invited presentation at the annual LDS Military Chaplains Conference, sponsored by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Salt Lake City, UT. Hollist, C. S., & Butler, M. H. (2006, November). Sustainable knowledge in family therapy. Paper presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Minneapolis, MN. Davis, S. D., & Butler, M. H. (2006, October). Common pitfalls in enacting relationship change. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Austin, TX.

11 Butler, M. H. (2006, September). Healing wounds of infidelity—By divine design. Invited plenary address at the semi-annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., Brimhall, A. S., Davis, S. D., & Gardner, B. C. (2005, October). Enacting relationship change: A contemporary developmental model. Pre-conference institute at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Kansas City, MO. Butler, M. H. (2004, September). Healing wounds of infidelity: Common clinical paradoxes. Presentation at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA. Andersson, G. A., Butler, M. H., & Seedall, R. B. (2004, September). Couples' experience of enactments in marital therapy. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA. Seedall, R. B., & Butler, M. H. (2004, September). Proxy voice intervention in the context of enactments. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA. Zitzman, S. T., & Butler, M. H. (2004, September). Couple therapy and sexual compulsion: A qualitative study. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA. Butler, M. H. (2003, April). Spiritual exodus: Relationships in recovery. Presentation at the semi-annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H., & Zitzman, S. T. (2003, April). Spiritual exodus: Learning for recovery. Presentation at the semi-annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H. (2002, October). Powerlessness in addiction: Learning to recover. Presentation at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Cincinnati, OH. Brimhall, A. S., Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2001, October). The effects of intrinsic and extrinsic religiosity on marital satisfaction. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Nashville, TN. Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., & Brimhall, A. S. (2001, October). De-mystifying enactments in marital therapy. Roundtable presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Nashville, TN. Brimhall, A. S., Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2001, April). Enacting relationships in therapy: A spiritual intervention? Presentation at the semi-annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2000, November). Relationships in recovery. Pre- conference institute presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Denver, CO. Gardner, B. C., & Butler, M. H. (2000, November). Religious couples’ enactment of the couple- God relationship. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association

12 for Marriage and Family Therapy, Denver, CO. Dahlin, S. K., & Butler, M. H. (1999, November). The therapeutic construction of forgiveness. Poster presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Irvine, CA. Stout, J. S., Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (1999, November). Couple-reported effects of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Poster presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Irvine, CA. Butler, M. H. (1999, October). Structured psychoeducation for recovery from addiction. Presentation at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Chicago, IL. Dahlin, S. K., & Butler, M. H. (1999, October). The languaging of forgiveness and treatment acceptability. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Chicago, IL. Butler, M. H., & Bird, M. H. (1998, November). Preventing client drop-out: Effects of struggle on therapy. Paper presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Milwaukee, WI. Butler, M. H., & Wampler, K. S. (1998, November). Couple Communication training and prevention of marital problems. Poster presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Milwaukee, WI. Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., Topham, G. L., & Zitzman, B. K. (1998, November). En- gendered patterns in religious couples’ use of prayer during marital conflict. Poster presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Milwaukee, WI. Butler, M. H., & Dahlin, S. K. (1998, October). Strengthening spouses’ post-divorce relationship: Four phases. Roundtable presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX. Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., Topham, G. L., & Zitzman, B. K. (1998, October). En-gendered patterns in religious couples’ use of prayer during marital conflict. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX. Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (1997, November). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Paper presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Washington, DC. (Winner of the National Council on Family Relations, Religion and Family Life Section, Annual Conference/Student Paper Competition, (1997, November). Washington, DC.) Woolley, S. R., Butler, M. H., & Wampler, K. S. (1997, November). Unraveling change in therapy: Three different process research methodologies. Paper presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Washington, DC. Butler, M. H., & Wampler, K. S. (1997, September). Couple-responsible therapy: An emerging model for clinical process. Research investigation 1. Couple-responsible versus therapist-responsible therapy process and couples’ perceived responsibility, struggle, and cooperation. Poster session presented at the annual conference of the American

13 Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA. Larson, J. H., Butler, M. H., Wilson, S., Medora, N., & Allgood, S. (1991, February). The effects of gender on career decision problems in young adults. Paper presented at the International Conference on Gender and the Family, Provo, UT.

9. PROFESSIONAL PRESENTATIONS—NON PEER-REVIEWED PROFESSIONAL & COMMUNITY SERVICE PRESENTATIONS (STUDENT AUTHORS UNDERLINED, INDICATING WORKSHOP, PRESENTATION, OR POSTER UP TO 2-YRS POST- GRADUATION) Butler, M. H., & Butler, S. D. (2020 08 17) (Accepted but not presented due to COVID-19, conference cancellation). The adolescent brain and the atonement of Christ—Meant for each other. Presentation at BYU Education Week, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2020, January 12). Joy in the journey—Faith and fortitude. Sustaining a fighting spirit. Invited presentation for the Mt. Mahogany YSA Ward, Alpine, UT YSA Stake, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Pleasant Grove, UT. (.75 hr. 57 participants) Butler, M. H., Butler, S. D., & Gossner, J. D. (2019, August 15). Helping members, spouses, and loved ones who struggle with pornography. Family Services Wellness Workshop (for ecclesiastical leaders, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints), Orem, UT. (1.5 hrs. @ 130 participants) Butler, M. H. (2018, October 21). The intimate conversation of marriage: Fight, flight, or love. BYU Speakers Bureau, BYU Alumni Chapter Invited Presentation, Las Vegas, NV. (1 hr. @ 200 participants) Butler, M. H. (2018, June 15). Marriage—An intimate conversation. Fight, flight, or love. BYU Speakers Bureau, BYU Alumni Chapter Invited Presentation, Des Moines, IA. (1 hr. @ 100 participants) Butler, M. H. (2017, October 11). Grace for recovery—The love of many. Presentation at the Families Facing Risk—Issues Facing Today’s Families, BYU Continuing Education Lecture Series, Provo, UT. (2 hrs., 39 participants) Butler, M. H., Lyman, K., Thayne, R., O’Gwin, S., & Miner, S. (2016, November 18). Ministering workshop: Anxiety and depression. Panel discussion sponsored by LDS Family Services (American Fork) and American Fork, Utah, North Stake, American Fork, UT. (1.5 hrs., 423 participants) Spencer, T. J., Butler, M. H. (2016, April 7). Customizing couple therapy: Away with one-size- fits-all approaches. Poster presented at the annual Fulton Conference for Family, Home, and Social Sciences, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2014, March 1). Seasons of marriage and the healing power of prayer. Invited presentation for the Tulsa and Tulsa East Stakes, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, sponsored by the BYU Alumni Chapter, Tulsa, OK. Butler, M. H. (2013, November 8). Deconstructing powerlessness to empower recovery. Presentation at the Utah Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (UAMFT)

14 Regional Workshop, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H. (2013, August 19). The adolescent brain and the Atonement—Meant for each other. Invited presentation at the Brigham Young University 2013 Campus Education Week, Provo, UT. Worthington-Ku, S., Eaton, H., Erickson, S., Call, M. L., & Butler, M. H. (2013, April 11). “There’s something I need to tell you”: Attachment, timing, and the decision to disclose concealable stigmas. Poster presented at the annual Mary Lou Fulton Mentored Student Research Conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. (undergraduate student co- authors) Call, M. L., & Butler, M. H. (2013, April 11). “I just can’t help myself”: The development of powerlessness in pornography addiction. Poster presented at the annual Mary Lou Fulton Mentored Student Research Conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2013, March 9). The divine design—Relationships in recovery. Presentation at SA Marriage and Family Recovery Introduction to Recovery Couples Retreat. Butler, M. H. (2012, August 13). The adolescent brain and the Atonement—Meant for each other. Presentation at the Brigham Young University 2012 Campus Education Week, Provo, UT. Zamora, J. P., & Butler, M. H. (2012, April 5). Ethical and legal concerns for MFTs in the context of clergy-collaborative care: Is what I share really confidential? Poster presentation at the annual Mary Lou Fulton Mentored Student Research Conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2012, January 18). Helping prevent pornography problems. Invited presentation to Welfare representatives of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Church Office Building, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H. Steffensen, S. C., & Murdock, J. R. (2011, August 31). Dealing with addictions (Episode 61). Radio interview for the program, Mormon Identities (Eric Huntsman, Host, Nathan Campbell, Associate Radio Producer), broadcast on The Mormon Channel. Retrieved from http://mormonchannel.org/programs/mormon-identities-episode- 61?lang=eng#d Butler, M. H. (2011, May 19). Spiritual exodus: Principles and practices in counseling for recovery from behavioral addiction. Invited presentation for LDS Family Services, Provident Living Workshop Series, Orem, UT. Butler, M. H. (2011, April 17). Small and simple spiritual means for resolving marital conflict. Invited presentation for the Young Single Adult Ward, Boise Idaho University 1st Ward, Boise North Stake, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, sponsored by the BYU Alumni Chapter, Boise, ID. Butler, M. H. (2011, April 15). Seasons of marriage—Becoming one. Invited presentation for the BYU Alumni Chapter, Boise, ID. Butler, M. H. (2010, December). Grace for recovery. Invited presentation for the BYU 154th Ward, BYU 2nd Stake, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2010, November 21). Seasons of marriage—The journey of love between our first and second honeymoons. Invited presentation for the BYU Alumni Chapter, Orlando, FL.

15 Butler, M. H. (2010, November 21). Insights on counseling for recovery from behavioral addictions. Invited presentation/discussion, College Park Stake, Bishops Training Meeting, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, sponsored by the BYU Alumni Chapter, Orlando, FL. Butler, M. H. (2010, November 21). Envisioning recovery from behavioral addiction. Invited presentation for the Young Single Adult Ward, College Park Stake, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, sponsored by the BYU Alumni Chapter, Orlando, FL. Butler, M. H. (2010, September 17). Empowering the powerless--Helping couples in recovery work for the restoration of agency besieged by addiction. Presentation at the Utah Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (UAMFT) Regional Workshop, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2009, November 7). Parenting by the book—“The Good Book.” Pieces of the puzzle. Invited presentation for the BYU Alumni Chapter, Raleigh, NC. Butler, M. H. (2008, November 14). The shield of faith: For the strength of our youth. Invited presentation at American Heritage School, American Fork, UT. Butler, M. H., & Harper, J. M. (2008, October). Telephone interview for an article by G. Cooper (2008, November/December). Clinician’s digest: Infidelity and Disclosure. Psychotherapy Networker, 32(6), 17. Butler, M. H. (2008, July 20). Building motivation for recovery and ministering to covenant relationships in the context of ecclesiastical counseling. Invited presentation/discussion, Alpine Stake, Bishops Training Meeting, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Alpine, UT. Butler, M. H. (2008, May 21). Open forum and Q&A on recovery from behavioral addiction. Invited presentation/discussion, BYU 6th Stake, Bishops Training Meeting, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2007, November 17). The second honeymoon: Finding “the joy of our redemption.” Invited presentation for the BYU Alumni Chapter, Raleigh, NC. Butler, M. H. (2007, November 11). Spiritual understanding of behavioral addiction and of building motivation for change/repentance. Invited presentation, BYU 77th Ward, BYU 14th Stake, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2007, October 24). Organizing covenant relationships to help recovery from behavioral addiction. Invited presentation, BYU 173rd Ward Relief Society, BYU 6th Stake, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2007, April 2). Forgiveness in the context of eternal progression in marriage. Invited presentation at Family Expo, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2007, March 10). By divine design—Grace, agency, and relationships in recovery from addiction. Invited plenary address at the LDS Marriage Network Conference, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2006, November 15). Relationships in recovery: Key principles, practices, and pragmatics in couple-based counseling of church members for recovery from pornography and sexual compulsivity/addiction. Invited presentation, BYU 6th Stake, Bishops Training Meeting, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Provo, UT.

16 Butler, M. H. (2006, October 15). Spiritual exodus: Key principles in counseling church members for recovery from pornography and sexual compulsivity/addiction. Invited presentation, BYU 6th Stake, Bishops Training Meeting, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Provo, UT. Steffensen, S., Butler, M. H., & Anonymous [recovering addict] (2006, August 2). The science of addiction. Interview with Wesley Sims (Executive Producer), Thinking Aloud (radio broadcast), Provo, UT: KBYU-FM Radio. Butler, M. H. (2006, June 13). For the strength of youth: “Train up a child in the way he should go: And when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Invited presentation, Relief Society Quarterly Enrichment Meeting, Vermont 1st Ward, Orem East Stake, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Orem, UT. Bird, M. H., & Butler, M. H. (2006, June 9). Enactments and marital therapy with sexual addiction. Invited presentation at the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health, Argyle, TX. Butler, M. H. (2006, January 25). Spiritual exodus: Key principles in counseling church members for recovery from pornography and sexual compulsivity/addiction. Invited presentation, Lehi East Stake, Bishops Training Meeting, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Lehi, UT. Butler, M. H. (2005, September 19). Pornography: Satan’s counterfeit (television broadcast). Provo, UT: BYU-TV. (Interview for KBYU-TV on recovery from pornography addiction, aired at the end of the program segment (about 8:45-9:00 pm) Butler, M. H. (2005, April 12). Second honeymoon—The joy of our redemption. Invited presentation, Orem 3rd Ward Relief Society, Orem, Utah Stake, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Orem, UT. Butler, M. H. (2005, April). Christ centered healing. Part 1: “Here am I, send me.” Invited presentation at the BYU Women’s Conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2004, November 4). Organizing Covenant Relationships to Sponsor and Support Recovery from Pornography Addiction. Invited presentation, Slate Canyon 13th Ward Relief Society, Provo, Utah Stake, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2004, October 4). Doctrines empowering enduring recovery and guiding relapse response. Invited presentation at the Families Under Fire conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2004, October 4). “I will make an helpmeet for him.” Part 2: Enacting relationships helping recovery from addiction. Invited presentation at the Families Under Fire conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2004, August 29). Spiritual exodus: Key principles in counseling church members for recovery from pornography and sexual compulsivity/addiction. Invited presentation, BYU 19th Stake, Bishops Training Meeting, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2004, April 20). The lost Spirit of discipline: Learning to parent the Lord’s way. Invited presentation, Crescent 19th Ward, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day

17 Saints, Sandy, UT. Butler, M. H. (2003, September 25-26). Spiritual exodus: Comprehensive training for therapists promoting recovery from addictive behavior. Invited two-day seminar for High Country Counseling and Resource Centers, Afton, WY. Butler, M. H. (2003, August 25). Spiritual exodus: Insight and principles from the restored gospel for counseling single church members for recovery from pornography experimentation. Invited presentation, BYU 12th Stake, Bishops Training Meeting, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2002, November 7). Spiritual exodus: Key principles in counseling church members for recovery from pornography and sexual compulsivity/addiction. Invited presentation, Orem Windsor Stake Bishops Training Meeting, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Orem, UT. Butler, M. H. (2002, October). Spiritual exodus: Recovery from addiction. Compelling vision and redeeming virtues perspective. Invited presentation at the Families Under Fire conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2002, October). Spiritual exodus: Recovery from addiction. Restoring agency in recovery through learning strategies. Invited presentation at the Families Under Fire conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2002, August). Second honeymoon: Lifespan perspective on marriage. And “I like that”: Successful change strategies for marriage. Invited presentation, Santaquin 10th Ward (Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints), Santaquin, UT. Butler, M. H. (2002, February). Spiritual exodus: The will and the way. Invited presentation at the Addictions Conference, Breaking free: Shaking off the chains of addiction, sponsored by Women’s Services and Resources, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2001, November). Second honeymoon: Lifespan perspective on marriage. Invited presentation, Alpine 2nd Ward (Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints), Alpine, UT. Butler, M. H. (2001, September). Love, truth, and consequences: Principles for parenting. Invited presentation, Orem 3rd Ward (Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints), Orem, UT. Butler, M. H. (2000, October). Spiritual exodus. Plenary address presented at the semi-annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H. (2000, June 21-27). Marriage and family enrichment lectures. Series of 11 invited marriage enrichment and parenting skills lectures at Aspen Grove Family Camp, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2000, April). Spiritual exodus: A comprehensive model for systemic recovery from addictive/compulsive behavior. Training seminar for LDS Family Services Corporate Training (international), Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H. (1999, November). Marital and family emotional preparedness: Reservoirs of resilience. Invited presentation, Orem 3rd Ward (Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints congregation) Family Preparedness Conference, Orem, UT. Butler, M. H. (1998, November). Four phases for enacting healing interaction in marital

18 therapy. Training seminar for LDS Social Services, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1998, April). Not just talk: Creating (enacting) healing experiences in therapy. Training seminar for LDS Social Services, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1997, May). Strengthening families through the couple-God relationship: A triadic process model. Presentation at the Spring conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. Butler, M. H. (1997, March). Coming unto Christ in our clinical practice: Emulating the divine triangle. Training seminar for LDS Social Services, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1996, November). Invoking healing triangles: Triadic process in clinical perspective. A model for mediation process and structure. Training seminar for LDS Social Services, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H., & Henderson, J. (1994, April 8, 15). Words and feelings to calm the storms. In Butler, M. H., Glenn, E., Woolley, S., Gardner, S., Sigerson, N., & Henderson, J. (presenters; M. H. Butler coordinator), The seasons of marriage: Nurturing intimacy through the years. A community-wide marriage enrichment seminar sponsored by the Lubbock, Texas Stake of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Lubbock, TX. Butler, M. H. (1993, September). Building bridges to help students: parent-teacher teaming. Teacher inservice training, Levelland Independent School District, Levelland, TX. Butler, M. H. (1993, March). Clinical consideration of the couple-God triangle in religious marriages. Marriage and Family Therapy Student Conference, Texas Tech University, Lubbock, TX. Butler, M. H., & Hardy, S. (1992, May). Couple communication. Community presentation sponsored by The Gathering Place, Orem, UT. Butler, M. H., & Hardy, S. (1991, November). Strengthening family bonds to help prevent substance abuse. Community presentation sponsored by The Gathering Place, American Fork, UT. Butler, M. H., & Hardy, S. (1991, September). Strategies and interventions to help prevent substance abuse among our children. Community presentation sponsored by The Gathering Place, American Fork, UT. Butler, M. H. (1991, August). A developmental approach to strategies and interventions to help prevent substance abuse among our children. Community presentation sponsored by The Gathering Place, American Fork, UT. Butler, M. H. (1991, March). The nature and pathology of substance addiction. Community presentation sponsored by The Gathering Place, Orem, UT. Butler, M. H. (1990, September). On prescription drug abuse among women. Community presentation sponsored by The Gathering Place, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1988, March). Grief process over the family life cycle. Graduate Student Conference on Family Therapy, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT.

Teaching

19 10. COURSES TAUGHT (See Vita Annotations for Record of Courses Taught by Year) Current Assignments Theories in Family Perspective, SFL 336 (MFHD 451, MFHD 250) (based on tally from Full Professor Review and student ratings after that, as of Winter 2020 I have taught this course 32 times) Addiction, Recovery, and Healing in Marriage and Family Context, SFL 400 (SFL 395R) Helping Relationships, SFL 401 (SFL 395R)

Previous Assignments Advanced Clinical Practicum in Marriage and Family Therapy, MFT 755R Advanced Clinical Specialization in Marriage and Family Therapy, MFT 753 Spirituality in Clinical Perspective and Practice, MFT 695r Treating Behavioral Addictions in Relationship Context, MFT 695R Pre-Practicum in Marriage and Family Therapy, MFT 555R Beginning Practicum in Marriage and Family Therapy, MFT 655R Intermediate Practicum in Marriage and Family Therapy, MFT 655R Theoretical Foundations of Family Systems, MFT 630 (MFT 563) Parenting, MFHD 303 Critical Inquiry and Research Methods, MFHD 300 Marriage Enhancement, HFL 224 Principles from the Proclamation, SFL 100 (MFHD 395R) Book of Mormon 1, REL-A 121 LDS Marriage and Family, REL-C 234

Other Teaching Doctoral Dissertation in Marriage and Family Therapy, BYU, MFT 799R Master’s Thesis in Marriage and Family Therapy, BYU, MFT 699R Preparation for Marriage, BYU, MFHD 301 (Instructor, 1989) Preparing for the Drug-Free Years, The Gathering Place, Outreach Curriculum (Instructor 1990- 1992) (Certified instructor for a 5-week drug and alcohol seminar for parents and adolescents, designed by Behavioral Research Associates)

11. CURRICULUM & PEDAGOGICAL DEVELOPMENT—ACTIVITIES & MENTORING (See Ongoing Self-Assessment of Teaching and Record of Development Activities)

12. UNDERGRADUATE STUDENT MENTORED PROFESSIONAL ACHIEVEMENTS

J. (Jon) Logan Dicus (2017, August) Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 1, 0, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 0, 0 • Publication Butler, M. H.*, Meloy-Miller, K. C.*, Seedall, R. B., & Dicus, J. L. (2017). Anger can help: A transactional model and three pathways of the experience and expression of anger. Family Process, 1-16. Advance online publication. doi: 10.1111/famp.12311

Travis J. Spencer (2016, December)

20 Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 3, 0, 3 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 3, 0, 2 • Award Utah State University, HDFS Master’s Student Researcher of the Year (2017-2018). (In applying for this award as a first-year Master’s student, Travis listed both current USU scholarship and what he accomplished at BYU.) • Publication Butler, M. H., & Spencer, T. J. (2018). A circumplex model of couple configurations in relational trauma context: An example of practice-based model development. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 1-14. Advance online publication. doi:10.1111/jmft.12346 • Publication Leonhardt, N. D., Spencer, T. J., Butler, M. H., Theobald, A. C. (2018). An organizational framework for sexual media’s influence on sexual quality. Archives Of Sexual Behavior, 1-17. Advance online publication. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-018-1209-4 • Publication Meloy-Miller, K. C.*, Butler, M. H., Seedall, R. B., & Spencer, T. J. (2018). Anger can help: Clinical representation of three pathways of anger. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 46(1), 44-66. http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/01926187.2018.1428130 • Presentation Spencer, T. J., & Butler, M. H. (2018, November 16). Bidirectional relationship of pornography use and loneliness. Research discussion presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Louisville, KY. • Presentation Leonhardt, N. D., Spencer, T. J.*, Butler, M. H.*, & Theobald, A. C.* (2017, November 9-12). Porn sexpectations: An organizational framework for sexual media’s influence on couple sexual quality. Paper presented at the annual meeting of The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, San Juan, Puerto Rico. (* Co- author, not presenting.) • Presentation Spencer, T. J., Butler, M. H. (2016, June 24). Customizing couple therapy: Away with one-size-fits- all approaches. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Family Therapy Academy, Denver, CO.

Nathan D. Leonhardt (2016, August) Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 2, 0, 1 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 2, 0, 1 • Publication Leonhardt, N. D., Spencer, T. J., Butler, M. H., Theobald, A. C. (2018). An organizational framework for sexual media’s influence on sexual quality. Archives Of Sexual Behavior, 1-17. Advance online publication. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-018-1209-4 • Publication Butler, M. H., Pereyra, S. A., Draper, T. W., Leonhardt, N. D., & Skinner, K. B. (2017). Pornography use and loneliness: A bi-directional recursive model and pilot investigation. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 44(2), 127-137. https://doi.org/10.1080/0092623X.2017.1321601 • Presentation Leonhardt, N. D., Spencer, T. J., Butler, M. H., & Theobald, A. C. (2017, November 9-12). Porn sexpectations: An organizational framework for sexual media’s influence on couple sexual quality. Paper presented at the annual meeting of The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, San Juan, Puerto Rico. (* Co- author, not presenting.)

Brittany Jensen (2016, June) Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 1, 0, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 0, 0 • Publication Butler, M. H., Smith, G. L., & Jensen, B., (2016). The adolescent brain and the atonement: Meant for each other. Part 1: The dilemma. The Religious Educator, 17(1), 159-185.

Genevieve L. Smith (2014, April) Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 3, 0, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 2, 0, 0 • Publication Butler, M. H., & Smith, G. L. (2018). Navigating the teen years: The adolescent brain and Christ’s atonement. Family Connections BYU School of Family Life Alumni Magazine, Winter, 23-28. • Publication Butler, M. H., & Smith, G. L. (2016). The adolescent brain and the atonement: Meant for each other. Part 2. The rescue. The Religious Educator, 17(2), 163-199. • Publication Butler, M. H., Smith, G. L., & Jensen, B., (2016). The adolescent brain and the atonement: Meant for each other. Part 1: The dilemma. The Religious Educator, 17(1), 159-185.

21 1 13. GRADUATE STUDENT MENTORED PROFESSIONAL ACHIEVEMENTS (See Note) (Start and Graduation Dates Obtained from Graduate School)

Samuel A. Pereyra (Aug 2013 – Jun 2016) Thesis: Pornography use and loneliness: Assessing correlations using three associative models. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 1, 0, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 0, 0 • Publication Butler, M. H., Pereyra, S. A., Draper, T. W., Leonhardt, N. D., & Skinner, K. B. (2017). Pornography use and loneliness: A bi-directional recursive model and pilot investigation. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 44(2), 127-137. https://doi.org/10.1080/0092623X.2017.1321601 (* equal authors, footnoted)

Kierea C. Meloy (Aug 2012 – Jun 2014) Thesis: Constructive vs. destructive anger: A model and three pathways of the expression of anger. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 4, 0, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 4, 0, 0 • Placement Provo Canyon School (for Girls), Springville, Utah (2014). • Publication Meloy-Miller, K. C., Butler, M. H., Seedall, R. B., & Spencer, T. J. (2018). Anger can help: Clinical representation of three pathways of anger. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 46(1), 44-66. http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/01926187.2018.1428130 • Publication Butler, M. H., Meloy-Miller, K. C., Seedall, R. B., & Dicus, J. L. (2017). Anger can help: A transactional model and three pathways of the experience and expression of anger. Family Process, 1-16. Advance online publication. doi: 10.1111/famp.12311 • Publication Butler, M. H., Meloy, K. C., & Call, M. L. (2015). Dismantling powerlessness in addiction: Empowering recovery through rehabilitating behavioral learning. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 22(1), 26-58. doi:10.1080/10720162.2014.993778 • Publication Butler, M. H., Call, M. L., Meloy, K. C., & Zitzman, S. T. (2014). Deconstructing mechanisms of powerlessness for clients seeking recovery: Learning to be powerless over addiction. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 21(2), 92-113. doi:10.1080/10720162.2014.895461

Matthew L. Call (Aug 2011 – Aug 2013) Thesis: The relationship between romantic relationship initiation practices of single LDS emerging adults and change in attachment working models with implications for practice. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest - ff) 4, 0, 3 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 4, 0, 3 • Placement Cedar Ridge Academy, Roosevelt, Utah (2014). The Journey Counseling Centers, Ephraim, Utah (2014). • Publication Butler, M. H., Meloy, K. C., & Call, M. L. (2015). Dismantling powerlessness in addiction: Empowering recovery through rehabilitating behavioral learning. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 22(1), 26-58. doi:10.1080/10720162.2014.993778 • Publication Butler, M. H., Call, M. L., Meloy, K. C., & Zitzman, S. T. (2014). Deconstructing mechanisms of powerlessness for clients seeking recovery: Learning to be powerless over addiction. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 21(2), 92-113. doi:10.1080/10720162.2014.895461 • Publication Butler, M. H., & Call, M. L. (2014). God’s motivational interview with Moses. Religious Educator, 15(1), 123-142. • Publication Butler, M. H., Harper, J. M., Call, M. L., & Bird, M. H. (2013). Examining claims of family process differences ensuing from the choice to home-school. Education and Urban Society, 1-23. doi:10.1177/0013124513494777

1 Listed as mentored student achievements are scholarly collaborations that were both initiated prior to graduation and completed within 2 years post-graduation; also included are co-authored thesis and dissertation publications (regardless of publication date).

22 • Presentation Call, M. L., & Butler, M. H. (2013, April 11). “I just can’t help myself”: The development of powerlessness in pornography addiction. Poster presented at the annual Mary Lou Fulton Mentored Student Research Conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. • Presentation Worthington-Ku, S., Eaton, H., Erickson, S., Call, M. L., & Butler, M. H. (2013, April 11). “There’s something I need to tell you”: Attachment, timing, and the decision to disclose concealable stigmas. Poster presented at the annual Mary Lou Fulton Mentored Student Research Conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. (three undergraduate student co-authors) • Presentation Call, M. L.* & Butler, M. H.* (2012, October 5). Empowering the powerless: A conceptual model of how powerlessness is formed and how to overcome it. Poster presented at the annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists (AMCAP). Salt Lake City, UT. (* equal authors

Miranda S. Goldie, M.S. (Aug 2010 – Dec 2013) Thesis: Infidelity and forgiveness: Therapists’ views on reconciliation and restoration of trust following disclosure of infidelity. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 0, 0, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 0, 0, 0 • Placement Missionary, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Justin P. Zamora, M.S. (Apr 2010 – Apr 2013) Thesis: The effects of couple-centered and therapist-centered process on dyadic attachment of distressed therapy seeking couples: A multilevel longitudinal analysis. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 2, 1, 4 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 1, 4 • Placement Ph.D. Program, Counseling Psychology, Special Education, Brigham Young University (2013). • Placement Director Cooperativo del Centro de Éxito Estudiantil (Cooperative Director of the Student Success Center). Universidad Privada Juan Mejía Baca, Chiclayo, Lambayeque, Peru (2013). • Scholarship Fritz B. Burns Foundation Scholarship, BYU CPSE Program, David O. McKay School of Education ($3,066) (2014). Awarded/qualified for largely on the basis of scholarly work related to Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy, under my auspices, as a Master’s student in the BYU MFT program (Justin P. Zamora, personal communication, May 21, 2013). • Grant Family Studies Center ($13,950) (2012-2013). Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. Continuing funding awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler, co-principal investigator J. M. Harper, and co-investigator J. P. Zamora. • Publication Seedall, R. B., Butler, M. H., Zamora, J. P., & Yang, C. (2015). Attachment change in the beginning stages of therapy: Examining change trajectories for avoidance and anxiety. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. Advance online publication. doi:10.1111/jmft.12146 • Publication Butler, M. H., & Zamora, J. P. (2013). Ethical and legal concerns for MFTs in the context of clergy- collaborative care: Is what I share really confidential? The American Journal of Family Therapy, 41(2), 85-109. • Presentation Zamora, J. P., Butler, M. H., Harper, J. M., & Yorgason, J. B. (2013, October). Couple-centered and therapist-centered process and attachment. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Portland, OR. • Presentation Butler, M. H., & Zamora, J. P. (2012, October 9). Healing relationships: Mediating critical couple conversations. Invited presentation at the annual LDS Military Chaplains Conference, sponsored by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Salt Lake City, UT. • Presentation Zamora, J. P., & Butler, M. H. (2012, October 5). Ethical and legal concerns for therapists in the context of clergy-collaborative care: Is what I share really confidential? Workshop presented at the annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. • Presentation Zamora, J. P., & Butler, M. H. (2012, April 5). Ethical and legal concerns for MFTs in the context of clergy-collaborative care: Is what I share really confidential? Poster presentation at the annual Mary Lou Fulton Mentored Student Research Conference, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT.Carol S. Kim, M.S. (Aug 2009 - Aug 2011) Thesis: Division of labor and marital quality in Russia. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – 2013) 0, 0, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 0, 0, 0

23 • Placement Asian American Recovery Services (AARS), Clinician, San Jose, California (2011).

James W. Ballard, M.S. (Aug 2008 - Aug 2013) Thesis: Couples’ experience of attachment-related change in context of couple-centered, enactment-based therapy process and therapist-centered therapy process: A qualitative study. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 0, 2, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 0, 2, 0 • Grant Family Studies Center ($4,000) (2009-2011). Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. Continuing funding awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler and J. W. Ballard co-investigator and co-author. • Grant Family Studies Center ($5,000) (2009-2010). Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. Continuing funding awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler and J. W. Ballard co-investigator and co-author.

Mary-Kathryn Amott, M.S. (Aug 2006 - Apr 2009) Thesis: Infidelity secrets in couple therapy: Therapists’ views of the treatment acceptability of accommodation vs. facilitated disclosure. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – 2013) 1, 1, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 1, 0 • Placement Placed with LDS Family Services, Marriage and Family Therapist, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania (2009). • Grant Family Studies Center ($5,000) (2007-2008). Treatment acceptability of therapist accommodation vs. facilitated disclosure of an infidelity secret in couple therapy. Awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler and M. K. Amott co-investigator and co-author. • Publication Butler, M. H., Rodriguez, M. A., Roper, S. O., & Feinauer, L. L. (2010). Infidelity secrets in couple therapy: Therapists' views on the collision of competing ethics around relationship-relevant secrets. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 17, 82-105. (Master’s thesis product)

Carianne B. Mitchell, M.S. (Aug 2006 - Aug 2008) Thesis: Enactments, attachment, and outcome in marital therapy: A pilot study. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 1, 1, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 1, 0 • Placement Placed with LDS Family Services (2008). Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (part-time), Provo, UT. • Grant Family Studies Center ($5,000) (2007-2008). Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. Awarded to principal investigator M. H. Butler and C. B. Mitchell co-investigator and co-author. • Scholarship Edward and Joan Quinn Endowment ($3,000) (2007). For support of Enactments and couples’ secure attachment: An empirical investigation of enactments as an effective change mechanism in couple therapy. • Publication Butler, M. H., Harper, J. M., & Mitchell, C. B. (2011). A comparison of attachment outcomes in enactment-based vs. therapist-centered therapy process modalities in couple therapy. Family Process, 50(2), 203- 220. (* equal authors) (Master’s thesis product)

Laura G. Hall, M.S. (Aug 2005 - Dec 2010) Thesis: The relation of the expression of offense to forgiving. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 1, 0, 0 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 0, 0 • Placement In service as a homemaker (2010). • Publication Butler, M. H., Hall, L. G., & Yorgason, J. B. (2013). The paradoxical relation of the expression of offense to forgiving: A survey of therapists’ conceptualizations. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 41(5), 415-436. doi:10.1080/01926187.2012. 755389 (* equal authors) (Master’s thesis product)

Ryan B. Seedall, M.S. (Aug 2002 – Dec 2004) Thesis: The effect of proxy voice intervention on couple softening in the context of

24 enactments. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 10, 1, 3 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 3, 1, 2 • Placement Ph.D. Program, Marriage and Family Therapy, Texas Tech University (2006). • Placement Placed in employment at High Country Counseling and Resource Centers (2004), Kemmerer, WY. • Grant College of Family, Home, and Social Sciences (Graduate Studies) Graduate Research Mentoring Grant (2003). Effectiveness of the proxy voice intervention on client softening in couple enactment interventions. $4,000. Awarded to R. B. Seedall. • Scholarship Recipient of the Sant Scholarship (2002-2003). • Publication Seedall, R. B., Butler, M. H., Zamora, J. P., & Yang, C. (2015). Attachment change in the beginning stages of therapy: Examining change trajectories for avoidance and anxiety. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. Advance online publication. doi:10.1111/jmft.12146 • Publication Seedall, R. B., Butler, M. H., & Elledge, J. S. (2014). Does religious motivation influence conceptualization and acceptability of forgiveness as a therapeutic intervention. American Journal of Family Therapy, 42(2),127-140. doi:10.1080/01926187.2013.772868 • Publication Butler, M. H., Harper, J. M., & Seedall, R. B. (2009). Facilitated disclosure vs. clinical accommodation of infidelity secrets: An early pivot point in couple therapy. Part 1: Couple relationship ethics, pragmatics, and attachment. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 35(1), 125-143. • Publication Butler, M. H., Seedall, R. B., & Harper, J. M. (2008). Facilitated disclosure vs. clinical accommodation of infidelity secrets: An early pivot point in couple therapy. Part 2: Therapy ethics, pragmatics, and protocol. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 36(4), 265-283. • Publication Butler, M. H., Davis, S. D., & Seedall, R. B. (2008). Common pitfalls of beginning therapists utilizing enactments. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 34(3), 329-352. • Publication Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., & Seedall, R. B. (2008). En-gendering the couple-deity relationship: Clinical implications of power and process. Contemporary Family Therapy, 30(3), 152-166. • Publication Seedall, R. B., & Butler, M. H. (2008). The attachment relationship in recovery from addiction. Part 2: Substantive enactment interventions. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 15(1), 77-96. • Publication Seedall, R. B., & Butler, M. H. (2006). The effect of proxy voice intervention on couple softening in the context of enactments. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 32, 421-437. (Master’s thesis product) • Publication Butler, M. H., & Seedall, R. B. (2006). The attachment relationship in recovery from addiction. Part 1: Relationship mediation. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 13, 289- 315 • Publication Butler, M. H., Andersson, L. G., & Seedall, R. B. (2006). Couples’ experience of enactments and softening in marital therapy. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 34(4), 301-315. • Presentation Andersson, G. A., Butler, M. H., & Seedall, R. B. (2004, September). Couples' experience of enactments in marital therapy. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA. • Presentation Seedall, R. B., & Butler, M. H. (2004, September). Proxy voice intervention in the context of enactments. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA.

Spencer T. Zitzman, M.S., Ph.D. (Aug 2001 - Aug 2004, Aug 2003 – Dec 2007) Dissertation: Pornography viewing as attachment trauma in pair-bond relationships—A theoretical model of mechanisms. Thesis: Couples sharing recovery from a husband’s addiction to pornography: A qualitative study. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 3, 2, 2 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 2, 2, 2 • Placement Placed with LDS Family Services, Marriage and Family Therapist (full-time staff), Ohio (2005). • Placement Placed in Ph.D. Program, Marriage & Family Therapy, Brigham Young University (2003). • Grant Office of Graduate Studies Mentoring Grant ($5,000) (2005-2006). Clinical comparisons of marital trust among therapy couples struggling with Internet pornography or other presenting problems. Awarded to co- principal investigators M. H. Butler & S. T. Zitzman. • Grant Family Studies Center (2003). Couples in recovery: A qualitative study of a couple therapy approach to recovery work for sexual compulsions. $6,000. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler & S. T. Zitzman. • Scholarship Recipient of the Stahmann Scholarship (2002-2003).

25 • Publication Butler, M. H., Call, M. L., Meloy, K. C., & Zitzman, S. T. (2014). Deconstructing mechanisms of powerlessness for clients seeking recovery: Learning to be powerless over addiction. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 21(2), 92-113. doi:10.1080/10720162.2014.895461 • Publication Butler, M. H., & Zitzman, S. T. (2009). Wives’ experience of husbands’ pornography use and concomitant deception as an attachment threat in the adult pair-bond relationship. Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, 16(3), 210-240. • Publication Zitzman, S. T., & Butler, M. H. (2005). Attachment, addiction, and recovery: Conjoint marital therapy for recovery from a sexual addiction. Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity, 12, 311-337. (Master’s thesis product) • Presentation Zitzman, S. T., & Butler, M. H. (2004, September). Couple therapy and sexual compulsion: A qualitative study. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA. • Presentation Butler, M. H., & Zitzman, S. T. (2003, April). Spiritual Exodus: Learning for Recovery. Presentation at the semi-annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT.

Ann-Charlotte Andersson, M.S. (Aug 2001 - Apr 2004) Thesis: Couples’ experiences of enactments and softening in marital therapy. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 1, 0, 1 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 0, 1 • Placement Placed in employment at Red Rock Canyon School (2004), St. George, UT. • Publication Butler, M. H., Andersson, L. G., & Seedall, R. B. (2006). Couples’ experience of enactments and softening in marital therapy. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 34(4), 301-315. (Master’s thesis product) • Presentation Andersson, G. A., Butler, M. H., & Seedall, R. B. (2004, September). Couples' experience of enactments in marital therapy. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Atlanta, GA.

Andrew S. Brimhall, M.S. (Aug 2000 - Aug 2002) Assistant Professor, University of Missouri Thesis: Religious motivation: Intrinsic vs. extrinsic religiosity and the marital relationship. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 3, 1, 4 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 1, 3 • Placement Placed in Ph.D. Program, Marriage & Family Therapy, Texas Tech University (2002). • Grant Religious Studies Center (2001). The relationship between intrinsic and extrinsic religiosity of spouses and marital adjustment. $2,150. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler, A. S. Brimhall, & B. C. Gardner. • Publication Brimhall, A. S., & Butler, M. H. (2007). Intrinsic vs. extrinsic religious motivation and the marital relationship. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 35(3), 235-249. (Master’s thesis product) • Presentation Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., & Brimhall, A. S. (2001, October). De-mystifying enactments in marital therapy. Roundtable presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Nashville, TN. • Presentation Brimhall, A. S., Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2001, October). The effects of intrinsic and extrinsic religiosity on marital satisfaction. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Nashville, TN. • Presentation Brimhall, A. S., Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2001, April). Enacting relationships in therapy: A spiritual intervention? Presentation at the semi-annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT.

Sean D. Davis, M.S. (Aug 2000 - Aug 2002) Assistant Professor, Alliant University Thesis: Common pitfalls of beginning marriage and family therapists utilizing enactments. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 2, 0, 2 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 2, 0, 0 • Placement Placed in Ph.D. Program, Marriage & Family Therapy, Virginia Tech University (2002). • Publication Butler, M. H., Davis, S. D., & Seedall, R. B. (2008). Common pitfalls of beginning therapists utilizing enactments. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 34(3), 329-352. (Master’s thesis product) • Publication Davis, S. D., & Butler, M. H. (2004). Enacting relationships in marriage and family therapy: A conceptual and operational definition of an enactment. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 30(3), 319-333.

26 Brandt C. Gardner, M.S. (Aug 1999 - Aug 2001) Assistant Professor, Oklahoma State University Thesis: Gender distinctions in religious couples’ enactments of the couple-deity relationship: Clinical implications. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 6, 3, 10 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 5, 3, 9 • Placement Placed in Ph.D. Program, Marriage & Family Therapy, Texas Tech University (2001). Awarded the Nancy Jenks Arnold Scholarship (2001-2004). • Grant Religious Studies Center (2001). The relationship between intrinsic and extrinsic religiosity of spouses and marital adjustment. $2,150. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler, A. S. Brimhall, & B. C. Gardner. • Grant Religious Studies Center (1997). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. $2,000. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler, B. C. Gardner, & M. H. Bird. • Grant Camilla Eyring Kimball Endowment (1996). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. $3,000. Awarded to co-principal investigators, M. H. Butler, B. C. Gardner, & M. H. Bird. • Recognition Winner of the National Council on Family Relations, Religion and Family Life Section, Annual Conference New Professional/Student Paper Competition (1997, November), Washington, DC. For Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (1997, November). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. • Publication Gardner, B. C., & Butler, M. H. (2009). Enacting relationships in MFT: The empirical, theoretical, and clinical case for incorporating enactments as common factors in the best practice model. Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, 8(4), 306-324. • Publication Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., & Seedall, R. B. (2008). En-gendering the couple-deity relationship: Clinical implications of power and process. Contemporary Family Therapy, 30(3), 152-166. (Master’s thesis product) • Publication Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2003). Adapting enactments to couple reactivity: Five developmental stages. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 29(3), 311-327. • Publication Butler, M. H., Stout, J. S., & Gardner, B. C. (2002). Prayer as a conflict resolution ritual: Clinical implications of religious couples’ report of relationship softening, healing perspective, and change responsibility. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 30(1), 19-37. • Publication Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2001). Ethics and the ideal helping relationship: Response to Hill and Mamalakis. Family Relations, 50(3), 209-214. • Publication Butler, M. H., Gardner, B. C., & Bird, M. H. (1998). Not just a time-out: Change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Family Process, 37(4), 451-478. • Presentation Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., & Brimhall, A. S. (2001, October). De-mystifying enactments in marital therapy. Roundtable presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Nashville, TN. • Presentation Brimhall, A. S., Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2001, October). The effects of intrinsic and extrinsic religiosity on marital satisfaction. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Nashville, TN. • Presentation Brimhall, A. S., Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2001, April). Enacting relationships in therapy: A spiritual intervention? Presentation at the semi-annual conference of the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists, Salt Lake City, UT. • Presentation Gardner, B. C., & Butler, M. H. (2000, November). Religious couples’ enactment of the couple-God relationship. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Denver, CO. • Presentation Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2000, November). Relationships in recovery. Pre- conference institute presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Denver, CO. • Presentation Stout, J. S., Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (1999, November). Couple-reported effects of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Poster presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Irvine, CA. • Presentation Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., Topham, G. L., & Zitzman, B. K. (1998, November). En-gendered patterns in religious couples’ use of prayer during marital conflict. Poster presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Milwaukee, WI. • Presentation Gardner, B. C., Butler, M. H., Topham, G. L., & Zitzman, B. K. (1998, October). En-gendered patterns in religious couples’ use of prayer during marital conflict. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX. • Presentation Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (1997, November). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Paper presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Washington, DC.

27 Mark H. Bird, M.S. (Aug 1998 - Aug 2001) Thesis: Helping couples heal: The aftermath of affairs. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 4, 3, 5 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 3, 3, 2 • Placement Placed in Ph.D. Program, Marriage & Family Therapy, Virginia Tech University (2002). • Grant Family Studies Center (2000). Forgiveness and family therapy. $2,245. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler & M. H. Bird. • Grant Religious Studies Center (1997). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. $2,000. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler, B. C. Gardner, & M. H. Bird. • Grant Camilla Eyring Kimball Endowment (1996). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. $3,000. Awarded to co-principal investigators, M. H. Butler, B. C. Gardner, & M. H. Bird. • Recognition Winner of the National Council on Family Relations, Religion and Family Life Section, Annual Conference New Professional/Student Paper Competition, (1997, November). Washington, DC. For Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (1997, November). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. • Publication Bird, M. H., Butler, M. H., & Fife, S. T. (2007). The process of couple healing following infidelity: A qualitative study. Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, 6(4), 1-25. (Master’s thesis product) • Publication Butler, M. H., & Bird, M. H. (2000). Narrative and interactional process for preventing harmful struggle in therapy: An integrative empirical model. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 26, 123-142. • Publication Butler, M. H., Gardner, B. C., & Bird, M. H. (1998). Not just a time-out: Change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Family Process, 37(4), 451-478. • Seminar Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (2000, November). Relationships in recovery. Pre- conference institute presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Denver, CO. • Presentation Butler, M. H., & Bird, M. H. (1998, November). Preventing client drop-out: Effects of struggle on therapy. Paper presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Milwaukee, WI. • Presentation Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (1997, November). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Paper presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Washington, DC.

Jennifer S. Elledge, M.S. (Aug 1997 - Dec 2002) Thesis: Acceptability of forgiveness intervention as a function of intrinsic versus extrinsic religiosity. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 0, 0, 1 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 0, 1 • Placement In service as a homemaker (2002). • PublicationButler, M. H., Seedall, R. B., & Elledge, J. S. (in press). Does religious motivation influence the conceptualization and acceptability of forgiveness as a therapeutic intervention? The American Journal of Family Therapy. (* equal authors) (Master’s thesis product) • Presentation Seedall, R. B., Butler, M. H., & Elledge, J. S. (2012, October). Does religious motivation influence the conceptualization and acceptability of forgiveness as a therapeutic intervention? Paper presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Phoenix, AZ. (* equal authors)

Samuel K. Dahlin, M.S. (Aug 1997 - Dec 1999) Thesis: Languaging of forgiveness and treatment acceptability. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 1, 2, 3 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 2, 3 • Placement Placed in Ph.D. Program, Marriage & Family Therapy, Brigham Young University (1999). • Placement Placed in employment as a Marriage & Family Therapist Intern and Adolescent Program Director at The Gathering Place (1999), Orem, UT. • Grant Family Studies Center (1999). Acceptability of forgiveness as a focus of treatment: Effects of therapist “languaging.” $3,250. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler, & S. K. Dahlin. • Scholarship Recipient of the Sant Scholarship (1999-2000). • Grant Camilla Eyring Kimball Endowment (1998). Acceptability of forgiveness as a focus of treatment: Effects of therapist “languaging.” $2,950. Awarded to co-principal investigators M. H. Butler, & S. K. Dahlin. • Publication Butler, M. H., Dahlin, S. K., & Fife, S. T. (2002). “Languaging” factors affecting clients’ acceptance

28 of forgiveness intervention in marital therapy. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 28(3), 285-298. (Master’s thesis product) • Presentation Dahlin, S. K., & Butler, M. H. (1999, November). The therapeutic construction of forgiveness. Poster presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Irvine, CA. • Presentation Dahlin, S. K., & Butler, M. H. (1999, October). The “languaging” of forgiveness and treatment acceptability. Poster presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Chicago, IL. • Presentation Butler, M. H., & Dahlin, S. K. (1998, October). Strengthening spouses’ post-divorce relationship: 4 phases. Roundtable presented at the annual conference of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Dallas, TX.

Julie A. Stout, M.S. (Aug 1996 - Aug 1999) Thesis: Religious couples’ reported effects of prayer in conflict situations. Career Collaborations—Publications, Grants, Presentations (Earliest – ff) 1, 0, 1 Mentored Student Achievements—Publications, Grants, Presentations 1, 0, 1 • Placement Placed in employment at Sandy Counseling (1999), Sandy, UT. • Publication Butler, M. H., Stout, J. S., & Gardner, B. C. (2002). Prayer as a conflict resolution ritual: Clinical implications of religious couples’ report of relationship softening, healing perspective, and change responsibility. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 30(1), 19-37. (Master’s thesis product) • Presentation Stout, J. S., Butler, M. H., & Gardner, B. C. (1999, November). Couple-reported effects of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations. Poster presented at the annual conference of the National Council on Family Relations, Irvine, CA.

14. RESEARCH MENTORING—GRADUATE AND UNDERGRADUATE (REPRESENTATIVE RESEARCH EXAMPLE) Enactments and Couples’ Attachment: An Empirical Investigation of Enactments as an Effective Change Mechanism in Couple Therapy (2007-2012)

Research Administrators Matt Brown Brooke Arrington (Grad) Sarah Williamson Kristen Jensen Cari Mitchell Victoria Scott Rebecca Boyd James Ballard Lisa Hansen Chris Dominguez Justin Zamora Sarah June Carroll Nicole Lawrence Dwayne Horton Rebecca Boyd Participating Therapists Sergio Pereya Alison Brand (MFT Master’s and Matt Call Kameron Welsch Doctoral Students) Ashlee Sloan David Kader Cari Mitchell Brent Black Ben Irwin Matt Kahler Data Verification Team Chad Olson (UG) Rob Clawson Therapy Session Ari Bond Chelsea Bennet Observational Coders Emily Powers James Ballard (UG) Chrissy Lawler Abigail Fisher Miscellaneous Faith Torres Karyann Parkinson Administrative/Clerical Jessica Cromar Rebecca Ellingson Assistants (UG) Marietta Malnar Giles Peterson Chris Anderson

29 15. CHAIR ADVISING AND GRADUATE STUDENT COMMITTEE SERVICE Chair Advisor and Committee Member, 1996 – ff, M.S., Ph.D., School of Family Life.

M.S. Chair M.S. Committee Samuel A. Pereyra (Aug 2013 – Aug 2016) Marc Deluca (Chaplain) (2014) Kierea C. Meloy (Aug 2012 – Aug 2014) Charity Kemp (2013) Matthew L. Call (Aug 2011- Aug 2013) Tabitha Webster (2013) Miranda M. Goldie (Aug 2010 – Dec 2013) Darin Knapp (2013) Justin P. Zamora (Apr 2010 - Apr 2013) Andy Brown (2011) Carol S. Kim (Aug 2009 - Aug 2011) Faith Torres (2009) James W. Ballard (Aug 2008 – Aug 2013) Sarah Williamson (2009) Mary-Kathryn Amott (Aug 2006 - Apr 2009) Jessica Cromar (2008) Carianne B. Mitchell (Aug 2006 - Aug 2008) Ami Frost (2006) Laura G. Hall (Aug 2005 - Dec 2010) Cameron Mount (2006) Ryan B. Seedall (Aug 2002 - Dec 2004) Ryan Anderson (2005) Spencer T. Zitzman (Aug 2001 - Aug 2004) Anthony Alonzo (2005) G. Ann-Charlotte Andersson (Aug 2001 - Apr 2004) Stephanie Falke (2004) Andrew S. Brimhall (Aug 2000 - Aug 2002) Kristina Zeidner (2004) Sean D. Davis (Aug 2000 - Aug 2002) Shayne Anderson (2002) Brandt C. Gardner (Aug 1999 - Aug 2001) Sarrah Finney (1998) Mark H. Bird (Aug 1998 - Aug 2001) Jennifer S. Elledge (Aug 1997 - Dec 2002) Ph.D. Committee Samuel K. Dahlin (Aug 1997 - Dec 1999) Joe Chelladurai (2018) Julie A. Stout (Aug 1996 - Aug 1999) Carly Larsen (2013) Eddy Callahan (2005) Ph.D. Chair Robert Stoll (2004) Spencer T. Zitzman (Aug 2003 - Dec 2007) Shoba Vinson (2002) Kenneth Newell (2001) Kevin Skinner (2001) Richard Meeves (1999) Anne Tingle (1996) Alan Springer (1996)

Citizenship/Service

16. PROFESSIONAL ORGANIZATIONS SERVICE Member, Editorial Board (2013–2020, Sep 1). The American Journal of Family Therapy. Len Sperry, M.D. Ph.D., Editor (2015–2020); Richard Sauber, Ph.D., Editor (1976-2014). Member, Editorial Board (2008-ff). Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy. Jeffry Larson, Ph.D., Editor (2008-2011), Volker Thomas, Ph.D., Editor (2012-ff). Member, Board of Advisory Editors (2000-2012). Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. Fred

30 Piercy, Ph.D., Editor (2010-2012); Ron Chenail, Ph.D., Editor (2005-2009); Karen Wampler, Ph.D., Editor (2001-2004); Froma Walsh, Ph.D., Editor (2000). Reviewer, Ad Hoc (2013-ff). Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. Fred Piercy, Ph.D., Editor (2010-ff). Reviewer, Ad Hoc (2012-ff). Contemporary Family Therapy. D. Russell Crane, Ph.D., Editor (2012-ff). Reviewer, Ad Hoc (2007). Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology. James E. Maddux, Ph.D., Editor. Reviewer, Ad Hoc (2000-2002). Conference Presentation Proposals. American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Reviewer, Ad Hoc (1999 - 2000). Family Relations. Jeffrey W. Dwyer, Ph.D., Editor. Reviewer, Ad Hoc (1999). Conference Presentation Proposals. National Council on Family Relations, Family Therapy Section. Reviewer, Ad Hoc (1998-1999). Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. Froma Walsh, Ph.D., Editor. Reviewer, Ad Hoc (1998). Conference Presentation Proposals. National Council on Family Relations, Religion and Family Life Section.

17. UNIVERSITY SERVICE—COMMITTEES CURRENT SERVICE (2019) Member, School of Family Life Integrative Writing Program Committee (2019–2021–ff). Member, School of Family Life Public Scholarship Development Committee (2019–ff). Provide careful scholarly reviews of student public scholarship on sensitive topics. Develop student-centered public scholarship initiatives and resources; facilitate faculty public scholarship initiatives, develop support resources. (moderate time commitment) BYU Honors Program, School of Family Life Representative, Coordinator (2019–2021–ff). Coordinate Honors Program student senior theses, chair/mentor selection, committee membership. Serve on each senior thesis committee as the Honors Program representative. (moderate time commitment) Chair, School of Family Life Self-Study Committee (for University Academic Review) (2018– 2019). Coordinate the preparation of all elements of the School of Family Life self-study for the University Academic Review. (significant time commitment)

PAST SERVICE Chair, School of Family Life Rank and Status Committee (SFL R&S) (2016). The Rank and Status committee reviews and analyzes the rank and status portfolios of faculty who are candidates for rank advancement, CFS, or CFS candidacy (third year review), prepares a detailed analysis and evaluation of each candidate's scholarship, teaching, and citizenship record, and submits their report to the director of the SFL for the entire faculty to review and also to be placed in the candidate's binder as it moves forward through the review process. (significant time commitment) Chair, School of Family Life Performance Annual Review Committee (Faculty) (SFL PAR)

31 (2016). The PAR committee reviews Performance Annual Review reports and documents for each SFL faculty remember, scores faculty performance using the SFL PAR rubric, and submits a report for each faculty member to the SFL director. (significant time commitment) Member, School of Family Life Rank and Status Committee (SFL R&S) (2012-ff). (Chris Porter, Chair). The Rank and Status committee reviews and analyzes the rank and status portfolios of faculty who are candidates for rank advancement, CFS, or CFS candidacy (third year review), prepares a detailed analysis and evaluation of each candidate's scholarship, teaching, and citizenship record, and submits their report to the director of the SFL for the entire faculty to review and also to be placed in the candidate's binder as it moves forward through the review process. (significant time commitment) Member, School of Family Life Performance Annual Review Committee (Faculty) (SFL PAR) (2012-ff). (Chris Porter, Chair). The PAR committee reviews Performance Annual Review reports and documents for each SFL faculty remember, scores faculty performance using the SFL PAR rubric, and submits a report for each faculty member to the SFL director. (significant time commitment) Member, Religious Education LDS Military Chaplain Graduate Training Program Admissions Committee (2014) (FBO Marriage and Family Therapy Program). (minimal time commitment) Member, University Academic Unit Review Committee (UARC) (2009-2013). UARC was charged with providing comprehensive internal/university-level reviews of all academic units (departments) on campus on a seven-year rotation. In the committee of the whole, all members reviewed all internal review drafts prepared by committee subgroups. In committee subgroups, members gathered data directly from departments in two full days of interviews and wrote the unit internal review draft. My own (subgroup) interview and report-writing assignments included the following units: Department of Instructional Psychology and Technology, Department of Church History and Doctrine. (significant time commitment) Member, Annual Marriage and Family Therapy Program Development Committee (1996-2013). The MFT Program Development Committee (an MFT committee of the whole) is charged with program curriculum development, including development and assessment of core learning objectives for the MFT graduate programs. My subcommittee responsibilities have included: MFT Liaison to the Chaplain Training Program and MFT Clinical Externships Coordinator. (very significant time commitment) Member, Annual Marriage and Family Therapy Graduate Student Admissions Committee (1996- 2013). The MFT Graduate Student Admissions Committee (an MFT committee of the whole) annually reviews approximately 65 applications for admission to the MFT graduate programs, conducts interviews for approximately 30 prospective graduate students, and participates in admissions decision-making. (moderate time commitment) Member, Annual Marriage and Family Therapy Student Evaluation Committee (1996-2013). The MFT Student Evaluations Committee (an MFT committee of the whole) evaluates all MFT M.S. and Ph.D. students semi-annually in terms of academic and clinical

32 performance. (minimal time commitment) Chair, School of Family Life Student Grievance Committee (2008-2009). The committee was charged with handling student grievances, which, as committee chair, I directed using mediation process. (minimal time commitment) Member, School of Family Life Rank & Status Committee (R&S) and Performance Annual Review Committee (Faculty, PAR) (2006-2008) (Jim Harper, Chair). Committee member responsibilities included rank and status reviews and also reviewing and scoring the annual Faculty Profile documentation for each faculty in the School of Family Life. This review and report is the basis of the peer Performance Annual Review for all faculty in the School of Family Life and for preparing an advice report for the Director of the School of Family Life. (significant time commitment) Member, Marriage and Family Therapy Faculty Search Adjunct Committee (2006-2007). Committee member responsibilities consisted of reviewing, discussing, and recommending faculty applicants for interviewing for MFT positions. (minimal time commitment) Member, Marriage and Family Therapy Department Faculty Search Committee (2005-2006). Committee member responsibilities included interviewing applicants and evaluation of applications for three tenure-track MFT faculty positions. (moderate time commitment) Member, School of Family Life Rank and Status Committee (SFL R&S) and Performance Annual Review Development Committee (Faculty, PAR) (2003-2006) (Tom Holman, Chair). Committee member responsibilities included rigorous evaluation of Rank and Status binders for candidates, peer reviews of teaching, and composition of committee recommendation letters. Also, participated in the development of the first Performance Annual Review document for the SFL. (significant time commitment) Co-Chair, School of Family Life, SFL 100 (Strengthening Marriages & Families: Proclamation Principles & Scholarship) Curriculum Development Committee (1998-2000). The committee was co-chaired by Dr. David Dollahite and myself and charged with development of the class curriculum for SFL 100, envisioned as a major course for SFL majors and non-majors, and a potential future General Education course. (significant time commitment) Member, School of Family Life Faculty Search Committee (1998-1999). The committee was charged with reviewing applications and offering recommendations to the Department for hiring into four faculty positions. In addition to these regular duties, I acted as a liaison to the MFT faculty concerning the hiring process. (moderate time commitment) Member, Family Sciences Undergraduate Curriculum Committee (1997). The committee was charged with reviewing the undergraduate curriculum for the purpose of developing profiles of the curriculum associated with each course and eliminating redundancy across courses and variability within courses. (moderate time commitment)

18. UNIVERSITY PROFESSIONAL SERVICE—PRESENTATIONS, PUBLICATIONS, INTERVIEWS, ARTICLES

33 Earliest - 2013 University service presentations to professionals, church leaders, and lay audiences on recovery from behavioral addiction, marriage and family enrichment, marriage and family therapy, and research design and issues: n = 13.

Butler, M. H. (2009-2011, 2014, 2015, 2018). BYU Speakers Bureau. Members of the BYU Speakers Bureau are invited annually to an appointment to fulfill public speaking engagements for BYU Community Relations. BYU Advancement Vice President Kevin J. Worthen extended the (original) invitation to participate in the BYU Speakers Bureau, administered through the BYU Public Affairs and Guest Relations office. Service is for one academic year, by invitation, and participation is voluntary. (moderate time commitment) Butler, M. H. (2012, October 25). Spirituality in the BYU academy. Video recorded interview on behalf of the Center for Teaching and Learning, BYU, Alan Wilkins (Principal). Butler, M. H., & Gantt, E. (2012, May 4). Combining religious faith and academic excellence. Invited presentation at the Brigham Young University 2012 New Faculty Seminar, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2012, March 5). A rationale for theistic accommodation in therapy practice. Invited lecture in P. S. Richards, Spiritual Values and Methods in Psychotherapy, Counseling Psychology and Special Education 656, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H., & Merrill, C. B. (2009, May 8). Spirituality and scholarship in BYU teaching. Discussion group facilitator, New Faculty Spring Seminar, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2004, February 26). Understanding powerlessness in addiction: A learning model. Invited Grand Rounds presentation for the Comprehensive Clinic, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (2000, February). Process research: Why, what, how? Invited lecture in S. Olsen, Experimental Design, MFHD 602, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1998, November). Lifespan and developmental perspective on human intimacy. Invited lecture in A. E. Bergin, LDS Perspectives and Psychology, Psychology 353, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1997, November). Human intimacy: Values and development. Invited lecture in A. E. Bergin, LDS Perspectives and Psychology, Psychology 353, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1997, October). Personal marriage and family therapy model. Invited lecture in J. M. Harper, Advanced Theories in Marriage and Family Therapy, MFHD 751, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1997, June 6). Family therapy considerations bearing on the treatment of psychiatric problems. Invited lecture in P. Ellinger, Psychiatric Nursing, Nursing 384, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT. Butler, M. H. (1995, March). Family culture among members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints: A matter of faith. Invited presentation in E. Anderson, undergraduate

34 course on multicultural family forms, Texas Tech University, Lubbock, TX. Butler, M. H. (1994, March). Family culture among members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints: A matter of faith. Invited presentation in E. Anderson, undergraduate course on multicultural family forms, Texas Tech University, Lubbock, TX.

19. UNIVERSITY SERVICE—AD HOC Reviewer, ORCA Student Mentoring Grants (2011). Reviewer, ORCA Student Mentoring Grants (@ 2009).

20. COMMUNITY SERVICE—PRO BONO MARRIAGE & FAMILY THERAPY 1996 – ff Marriage and Family Therapy Services, Private Practice and Pro Bono Services Provider. Upon referrals from local ecclesiastical leaders and former clients, I provide marital and family therapy, specializing in couple recovery from behavioral addictions and healing following attachment injuries—primarily behavioral addictions and/or infidelity. 1996 – 1999 LDS Social Services, Contract Provider, Marriage and Family Therapy. Upon referrals from LDS Social Services, I provided specialized marital therapy primarily for recovery from behavioral addictions.

21. COMMUNITY SERVICE—VOLUNTEER SERVICE 1976 – ff Lay Church Service, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. 1981 – 1983 Missionary, Japan Okayama Mission, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.

Interview. Butler, M. H. – Dallas, K. (2016, February 14). Prayer plays key role in relationship challenges. Deseret News, 5(26), pp. P5, P9.

Professional/Clinical Recognition and Experience

22. POSITIONS HELD 2009 – ff Professor, Brigham Young University, School of Family Life 2002 – 2009 Associate Professor, Brigham Young University, School of Family Life, Marriage and Family Therapy Graduate Programs 1996 – 2002 Assistant Professor, Brigham Young University, School of Family Life, Marriage and Family Therapy Graduate Programs 1994 – 1995 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (AAMFT Internship), Child and Adolescent Unit, Lubbock Regional Mental Health and Mental Retardation. Provision of in-home and at-school family/network therapy services to parents and their children in coordination with an interdisciplinary team (psychiatrist, case managers, school psychologist,

35 teachers). 1992 – 1993 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (Doctoral Student), Family Therapy Clinic, Texas Tech University. Marital and family therapy (250 hours). Supervised by Richard Wampler, Ph.D., Julie Serovich, Ph.D., and Ed Glenn, Ph.D., AAMFT Approved Supervisors. 1992 – 1993 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, The Family Center, Levelland, Texas. Outpatient marital and family therapy for addictive behavior, sexual abuse trauma, and marital relations. 1990 – 1992 Marriage and Family Therapist Intern (Pre-Licensure)/Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (Following Licensure), The Gathering Place, Orem, Utah. Outpatient marital and family therapy for addictive behavior, sexual abuse trauma, marital relations, and parent-child relations (over 1500 hours). Supervised by James M. Harper, Ph.D. and Leslie Feinauer, Ph.D., AAMFT Approved Supervisors (1000 hours). 1983 – 1990 Various other professional positions held 1983-1990. Itemized listing and description of positions available upon request.

23. PROFESSIONAL & ACADEMIC AWARDS AND HONORS 2019 School of Family Life Teaching Award. Presented “For Outstanding Contributions in Teaching.” 1999 Winner of the 1999 American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Outstanding Research Publication Award, for Butler, M. H., & Wampler, K. S. (1999). Couple- responsible therapy process: Positive proximal outcomes. Family Process, 38(1), 27-54. 1997 Winner of the National Council on Family Relations, Religion and Family Life Section, Annual Conference New Professional/Student Paper Competition, November, 1997, Washington, DC. For Butler, M. H., Bird, M. H., & Gardner, B. G. (1997). Not just a time out: The change dynamics of prayer for religious couples in conflict situations.

Student Achievement Award, Texas Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Mary Staudt Goodyear Fellowship, Texas Tech University Graduate, Magna Cum Laude, Brigham Young University (B.A.) Trustee’s Scholarship, Brigham Young University Phi Kappa Phi National Honor Society Valedictorian, George Washington Senior High School National Honor Society National Forensic League

24. CLINICAL CREDENTIALS & TRAINING Motivational Interviewing Training. Miller, William R. [Co-Founder] (2019, November 1). Motivational Interviewing. 14th Annual BYU School of Social Work Conference, Provo, UT. (1 Day) Motivational Interviewing Training. Fulop, Michael (2017, April 19–21). Introduction to Motivational Interviewing. World Forestry Center, Portland, OR. (3 Days)

36 Adolescent Drug Use Prevention Training. Preparing for the Drug-Free Years [Institutional Author]. (1991). Preparing for the Drug-Free Years. Training Seminar, Portland, OR. (3–5 Days)

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Utah, 1992–2020. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Texas, 1993–1996. Clinical Member, American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, 1993–2018. Approved Supervisor, American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, 1998–2014.

25. CLINICAL EXPERIENCE 1988 – 2020 Clinical marriage and family therapy training, experience, and practice, both within the university training setting and in the community at large. Estimated 5,000 – 10,000 hours experience. 1994 – 1995 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (AAMFT Internship), Child and Adolescent Unit, Lubbock Regional Mental Health and Mental Retardation. Provision of in-home and at-school family/network therapy services to parents and their children in coordination with an interdisciplinary team (psychiatrist, case managers, school psychologist, teachers). 1992 – 1993 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (Doctoral Student), Family Therapy Clinic, Texas Tech University. Marital and family therapy (250 hours). Supervised by Richard Wampler, Ph.D., Julie Serovich, Ph.D., and Ed Glenn, Ph.D., AAMFT Approved Supervisors. 1992 – 1993 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, The Family Center, Levelland, Texas. Outpatient marital and family therapy for addictive behavior, sexual abuse trauma, and marital relations. 1990 – 1992 Marriage and Family Therapist Intern (Pre-Licensure), The Gathering Place, Orem, Utah. Outpatient marital and family therapy for addictive behavior, sexual abuse trauma, marital relations, and parent-child relations (over 1500 hours). Supervised by James M. Harper, Ph.D. and Leslie Feinauer, Ph.D., AAMFT Approved Supervisors (1000 hours). 1988 – 1990 Marriage and Family Therapy Student-Therapist (Master’s Student), Brigham Young University, Provo, Utah. Marital, pre-marital, family, multigenerational, divorce adjustment, and individual therapy (500 hours). Supervised by MFT faculty, AAMFT Approved Supervisors.

26. SUPERVISION EXPERIENCE 1997 – 2013 Marriage and Family Therapy Approved Supervisor. Comprehensive Clinic, Brigham Young University. Supervision of Master’s and Doctoral Marriage and Family Therapy students in clinical practicums. 1996 – 1997 Marriage and Family Therapy Supervisor in Training. Comprehensive Clinic, Brigham Young University. Supervision of Master’s and Doctoral Marriage and Family Therapy students in clinical practicums. 1994 – 1996 Marriage and Family Therapy Supervisor in Training. Family Therapy

37 Clinic, Texas Tech University. Supervision of second-year MFT student (65 hours) in clinical practicum. Supervision of supervision by Richard Wampler, Ph.D., AAMFT Approved Supervisor (20 hours).

27. PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT ACTIVITIES (See Vita Annotations for Complete List) 2001 Training in Emotionally Focused Therapy by Susan S. Johnson, original co-founder. Ottawa, Canada (1 week). 1990 – 1992 University of Utah Drug and Alcohol Conference (2x) 1990 – 1992 Preparing for the Drug Free Years (target audience: adolescents)

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