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Monthly publication for the Catholic Diocese of Sioux Falls October 2017 PriestlyPriestly ministryministry throughthrough thethe Bishop Paul We are blessed with the gift of life... Swain have the courage built on the grace of baptism ctober is Respect Life and the teachings of Christ to treat others O with respect and therefore witness the call of month and dedicated to Mary, Christ: what you do for the least of my chil- dren you do for me. We can control our own the mother of God and the responses and actions. mother of Life. Rightly we This attack on life from courts, politicians, begin with prayer for the un- media, education professionals and so many born and advocacy for the end other persons and institutions seems over- whelming. We might be tempted to throw of abortion. We begin with up our hands and conclude there is no hope. the obvious principle that un- Personal stories can bring perspective. less there is fi rst life, no other Especially needing our respect, patience and rights or opportunities will witness are the children. They are ever vul- nerable yet beautiful signs of hope. exist. I was moved by an account carried by the in- We also pray for and seek to accompany ternet source Aleteia and reported by Cerinth mothers who have or are facing tough deci- Gardiner under the title “Father shares 10 sions in diffi cult times. Programs like the most important things he learned after losing Mother Teresa Fund and Project Rachel offer his 3-year old son.” support and listening ears. It recalls a Facebook entry by Richard Pringle Respect life also includes respecting the from England who wrote after suddenly disabled, those in their last days and all those losing his son Hughie to a fast moving brain vulnerable who our secular culture margin- hemorrhage. This grieving father offered alizes and demeans as unproductive or not these suggestions for expressing love in a worthy. world when all life is fragile which he said he learned in retrospect and which he would now Among the high profi le respect life realities apply to his other children. These “things” in is racism which some call the original sin of some ways can apply to all relationships with our country. It is a subtle but real presence those who are important to us and to how we not only in the distant past but today. Native relate to others. Americans have suffered from both direct discrimination and subtle disrespect from His suggestions to parents: the beginnings of our state. Sadly it contin- ues today. The United States Conference of “1. You can never ever kiss and love too Catholic Bishops is preparing to address the much. sin of racism in a more intense way. “2. You always have time. Stop what you’re Respect life also ought to include all those in doing and play, even if it’s for a minute. Noth- the years in between conception and natural ing’s that important that it can’t wait. death for those who face so many challenges economically, socially, educationally, medi- “3. Take as many photos and record as many cally. In other words, respect for life includes videos as humanly possible. One day that us all. might be all you have. We search for some context to put all this into “4. Don’t spend money, spend time. You think perspective. In some ways it comes down to what you spend matters? It doesn’t. What you each of us personally as disciples of Christ. do matters. Jump in puddles, go for walks. Whatever are government policies, media Swim in the sea, build a camp and have fun. focus or contradicting group actions, it comes That’s all they want. I can’t remember what down to what is in our heart and whether we 2 October 2017 - The Bishop’s Bulletin we bought Hughie; I can only remember what kiss goodnight. To have breakfast with. To we did. walk to school. To take to the university. To Schedule watch get married. You are blessed. Never October “5. Sing. Sing songs together. My happiest forget that.” 1 10:30 Mass and commemoration memories are of Hughie sitting on my shoul- of St. Therese Parish 100th ders or sitting next to me in the car singing The reporter concluded; “This list is so anniversary, Sioux Falls our favorite songs. Memories are created in much more than just a reminder to parents to music. cherish their kids in case the worst happens: 2-3 Performance Audit, Charter it’s a reminder that kids grow up in a fl ash – for the Protection of Children “6. Cherish the simplest of things. Night although it may not seem like it when we’re and Young Persons, Catholic times, bedtimes, reading stories. Dinners in the midst of tantrums and bedlam. We Pastoral Center, Sioux Falls together. Lazy Sunday’s. Cherish the simplest need to appreciate the experience of parent- 7 4:00 Stational Mass, Cathedral of of times. They are what I miss the most. ing and never forget how blessed we truly Saint Joseph, Sioux Falls Don’t let those special times pass you un- are...If by chance my own little angels start 8 1:30 Confi rmation, St. Thomas noticed. misbehaving I’ll look at the list and embrace More, Brookings the fact they’re still around to misbehave.” 9-12 Clergy Days, Arrowhead “7. Always kiss those you love goodbye and Cedar Shore, Oacoma if you forget, go back and kiss them. You The wisdom in these thoughts brought forth 14 4:00 Stational Mass, Cathedral of never know if it’s the last time you’ll get the from grieving is worthy in recognizing the Saint Joseph, Sioux Falls chance. value of children of any age and any rela- 5:30 Legacy Beer and Wine Event tionships we are privileged to share. and Broom Tree Auction, “8. Make boring things fun. Shopping trips, Ramkota, Sioux Falls car journeys, walking to the shops. Be silly, “At that time the disciples approached Jesus 15 11:00 Installation of Acolytes tell jokes, laugh, smile and enjoy yourselves. and said, ‘who is the greatest in the kingdom for Permanent Diaconate, They’re only chores if you treat them like of heaven?’ He called a little child over, Cathedral of Saint Joseph, that. Life is too short not to have fun. placed it in their midst and said, ‘Amen, I Sioux Falls say to you, unless you turn and become like 3:00 Rosary Rally, McEneaney Field “9. Keep a journal. Write down everything children, you will not enter the kingdom at O’Gorman High School, your little ones do that lights up your world. of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like The funny things they say, the cute things this child is the greatest in the kingdom of Sioux Falls they do. We only started doing this after we heaven. And whoever receives one child 17 12:00 Pray at Planned Parenthood lost Hughie. We wanted to remember every- such as this in my name receives me.’” (Mt 18 12:00 White Mass, Cathedral of thing. Now we do it for Hettie (daughter) 18:1-5) Saint Joseph, Sioux Falls and will for Hennie (new born son). You’ll 7:00 Confi rmation; St, Ann, have these memories written down forever Amen. Humboldt and St. Patrick, and when you’re older you can look back and Montrose in Montrose cherish every moment. We are blessed with the gift of life ourselves 20 6:00 Attend Cathedral Satires & and with the gift of the lives of others. May Spires, Cathedral of Saint “10. If you have your children with you. To we never forget that. Joseph, Sioux Falls 21 4:00 Pray Holy Mass at the Diocesan Youth Conference, Swiftel Center, Brookings 24 12:00 Diocesan Investment Committee Meeting, Catholic Pastoral Center, Sioux Falls 5:15 Operation Andrew Mass and Dinner, St. Thomas Newman Center, Vermillion 26 12:00 Finance Council meeting; Catholic Pastoral Center, Sioux Falls 5:30 Operation Andrew Mass Offi cials and Dinner, Pius XII Newman The Most Reverend Paul J. Swain, Bishop of Sioux Falls has: Center, Brookings 28 4:00 Stational Mass, Cathedral of Relegated the Farmer Catholic Church in Farmer, SD to profane but Saint Joseph, Sioux Falls not sordid use and may no longer be used for divine worship without 5:00 Dinner with Equestrian Order permission of the Holy Sepulchre of and has appointed: Jerusalem in honor of Our Lady of Palestine, Cathedral Heather Eichholz as Director of the Diocesan Marriage Tribunal as well as to serve Parish Hall, Sioux Falls as Tribunal Judge and Defender of the Bond November 1 6:30 Solemnity of All Saints Mass, Respectfully submitted, Cathedral of Saint Joseph, Mr. Matthew K. Althoff Sioux Falls Chancellor October 2017 - The Bishop’s Bulletin 3 Fr. Michael We love our families, honor our friends...and we smile... Griffin through the door, we were faced with a M y best friend married a lovely slightly uncomfortable situation, they spoke woman who was born and raised Czech and a little English, and I spoke no in the Czech Republic. So every Czech at all. year they make a trip there so she can see her parents, which is I smiled and they smiled and I walked over nice; and so her parents can see to the electric kettle and the mother walked over, opened the cabinet and pulled out a cup their grandchildren, which is non- and then instant coffee (which is the káva negotiable.