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Major Credit Store Hours Cover photo Cards Honored 9:00 - 5:30 Cover photo for Btfde and HOP Groom section was provided by Marc«I 2828 Ponce deieon Blvd., Coral Gables 445-3679 Studios, Miami, Additional photos by Marcel appear on other pages in this section. Page 2A I Miami, Florida / THE VOICE / Friday, February 25, 1977 Love is... By FATHER JAMES REYNOLDS Director, Archdiocesan Family Life Bureau "Sacrifice is usually difficult and irksome; only love can make it easy and perfect love can make it a joy!"...The Old Marriage Ritual. Perhaps you saw the magazine cartoon in which a husband and wife are lying in bed, about to go to sleep. The husband has a smug look on his face. The wife is rolled over on her side, facing away from him, saying her prayers. "Dear God," she says, "Please give Mr. Perfect one tiny flaw!" Maybe this is the big problem for all of us in the mystery of marriage. We are Mr. and Mrs. Perfect. Like the young girl who had just finished eighth grade, who walked into a bank and presented the teller with a check she had received for a graduation present. "I would like this cashed," she said. The teller examined the check carefully, then asked, "Can you identify your- self?" Puzzled, the girl reached into her handbag and took out a small mirror. She studied it for a moment, smiled, and said to the teller, "Yes, it's me all right!" THAT FOR us is the beginning of honesty. We need to identify ourselves. We need to look at ourselves, study ourselves, and be honest with ourselves about what we see. In marriage if you are honest about it, there is only one conclusion you can draw: "Yes, it's me all right, and I've got to change." There are no exceptions. No married partner is so close to God that he or she cannot draw closer. Seeing yourself as perfect in every way is a sure sign of estrangement from God and estrangement from your spouse. The Christian family is based on the sacrament of marriage. Each of the sacraments is a participation—a special way of taking part—in the mystery of Christ Jesus who came "that we might have life and have it more abundantly." Marriage and family life find their source, their inspiration and their final hope in him who is the author and giver of life. The mystery of Christ Jesus present in the ... sacrificing. Vatican II reminds us. "By the joys and sacrifices sacrament of marriage is the bond of love which that may later arise. The total and faithful of their vocation and through their faithful love, unites Christ with his Church in a life-giving commitment of married love is well expressed in married people will become witnesses of the union. "Husbands should love their wives as the traditional marriage promise enshrined in the mystery of that love which the Lord revealed to Christ loved the Church and sacrificed himself for ritual—"for better, for worse, for richer, for the world by his dying and his- rising up to life her to maker her holy"— (Ephesians 5,25). The poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us again." daily living of Christian marriage and family part." FINALLY, there is a wonderful story about life—with all the joys and the sufferings of human The glory of Christian married love is that it the late Fritz Kreisler, the magnificent violinist, a existence—mirrors the life-giving convenant of rises above every contingent circumstance and convert to the Faith. Most people do not know love between Christ and his Church. Christ's gift finds its strength in the total and unconditional that through all his professional life, this great of himself to his Church brought about the death commitment of the spouses to each other. In turn, artist hated to practice.He loved to perform, but of the Lord and his resurrection through the this commitment finds its true model and in- hated to practice. Mrs. Kreisler, concerned about power of the Father. The gift of husband and wife spiration in the covenant relationship between his career,' was constantly urging him to practice to each other and to their family brings about God and his people. more. He would offer excuses and she would ...to make it work their own death to selfishness and sinfulness with Christian marriage as a sacrament is par- knock them down. It became a way of life in their the greater participation in the life of the ticipation in the paschal mystery of Christ, which ^marriage. In the twilight of his brilliant career, a Resurrected Lord. calls for a continual dying of self in order that we huge testimonial banquet was arranged for him. The love of God for his people is also a faith- might rise with him in the newness of life. People came from all over the world to pay him ful love. No matter how many times his people Through their daily lives of self-sacrificing love homage. Some of the speakers described him as forget him, no matter how often Israel commits Christian spouses thus know from their own "the world's greatest musician." Kreisler was idolatry and rejects its God, Yahweh always experience the joy of Paul: "All I want is Christ beaming under this avalanche of praise. Turning remains faithful to his commitment of total self- and the power of his resurrection..." to his wife, he said, "Did you ever hear such giving. The faithful love of God for his people In our present day, we sometimes question praise?" With perfect seriousness, she retorted, thus becomes the model of the love between the capacity of human love. We wonder if it can "Just think of what they would have said if you husband and wife, just as the marital convenant unify two persons and engage them in a life of had practiced!" itself reveals the mystery of God's love for total fidelity. We are uncertain as to whether God in his goodness is offering us the gift of mankind. parental love is strong enough to support the new life through the experience of living the LOVE IN marriage and the family models child in his developing process. mystery of Christian marriage. Constantly, he is the covenated love of God for his people, Christ The faith commitment of the Church in the calling us to do better, to change for the better. for his Church. The total commitment of husband sacrament of marriage and the experience of Constantly he is saying to you. "Think of how and wife to one another is primarily a promise and many Christian families are powerful assurances much better your marriage might be if only you a gift independent of the chaging circumstances that love is capable of conquering all. For, as had practiced and honestly worked at it!" Miami, Florida I THE VOICE / Friday, February 25, 1977 / Page 3 A Engagement encounter

(Carl and Joyce Divinji, who authored the following article, are team members in the Engagement and Marriage Encounter Movements and are members of St. Augustine parish, Coral Gables.) The Engagement Encounter Movement is relatively new to the Archdiocese of Miami. It is an outgrowth of the Marriage Encounter. Like Carl and I, the couples and priests who join together in giving the Engagement Encounter have all made Marriage Encounters. After making our Marriage Encounter, we found ourselves saying, "I. sure wish someone had told us about some of these things before we were married. It sure would have made it a lot easier." Across the country a lot of couples were saying the same thing. About two years ago, some couples in the Archdiocese began the program modeled after a number of similar programs which grew up around the country. BASICALLY, the Engaged Encounter is an attempt to stress the importance of communications in marriage. The technique used is one of "Dialogue." No newly married could deny that communication is important in marriage. Very often though, people fail to realize that there is a difference between knowing that communication is important, and knowing how to com- municate. We have come to think of our marriage as a kit, which for us, came without many instructions for assembly. Engagement Encounter is one way of trying to provide some directions for the kit. It differs from other Pre-Cana programs in that it in- volves the couples in discussion between themselves through the use of the "dialogue" tool. Rather than a series of talks about important topics that are a part of marriage, such as money, sex and sexuality, in-laws, the role of religion in marriage, and so many other important things, the engaged couples are given presentations on these questions and then asked to discuss them with each other during the course of the program. The couples are encouraged to be open and honest in their discussions which involve only the two of them, and to share their "feelings" as well as their thoughts and ideas. For some this is a new experience, and the Encounter tries to set an atmosphere conducive to meaningful dialogue between the couples. ' BEFORE THE couple can really come to the point where they feel confident in sharing their feeling about such difficult subiects, they must each have confidence in (Continued on Page 5)

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Page 4 A / Miami, Florida / THE VOICE / Friday, February 25, 1977 . •stresses communication (Continued from Page 4) themselves and each other, so that no subject is something that "we'll talk about later, after we're married". The program stresses the necessity of sharing and that which cannot be discussed before the marriage will only be more difficult after marriage. In speaking to couples during and after the Encounter program, Carl and I have heard such things as "we've never really thought about what it is going to be like to be married, only about getting married." Also, "we really thought if we didn't discuss some things, they would go away." Most couples find themselves talking about things that had not come into their relationship before the Encounter. For some it is the first time they have focused on their entire lives together, rather than just completing the wedding plans. Currently Engaged Encounters are offered on a fairly regular basis in three areas of the. Archdiocese: West Palm Beach, North Broward and South Dade. These pograms, however, are not restricted to people who live in those areas. The best way to gain information about the dates and places of the programs is for the interested couples to work through their local parish priest. He is able to make a reservation for them. It is important that the couples work closely with their parish priest, because even though the Encounter deals with most of the basic material needed in a pre-marriage course, it is still important for the couple to plan their ceremony with their own priest, as well as fill out the necessary forms required by the Church. THE COUPLES and priests presenting the Engaged Encounter program are all in hopes of removing some of the (Continued on Page 16)

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Miami, Florida I THE VOICE I Friday, February 25, 1977/ Page 5 A M.E.—marriage 'discovery'

(Pat and Carol Farrell, ENCOUNTER SCHEDULE authors of the following article, FORENGAGED are the executive team in South Encounters for engaged Florida for the Marriage En- couples are scheduled begin- counter Movement, and ning March 6 in several members of Visitation parish.) locations of the Archdiocese. Sessions will be held on There are a lot of bumper March 6 in West Palm Beach, stickers on cars these days that on March 20 and May 1 at St. proclaim "I'm single and I love Helen parish, Fort Lauderdale; it." And we hope they do. But and on June 5 in St. Clement we think that those of us who parish, Fort Lauderdale. are married and find joy and Additional information contentment there should get may be obtained by contacting our act together and come out John and Linda Sanford in with a message that says, West Palm Beach at 845-1916; "We're married and we love it!" Father James Fetscher at St. You are about to make the Louis parish, 238-7562 or switch from single to married. Father James Murtaugh at St. How can you make sure that Malachy parish, Tamarac, 721- you are going to love it, that 3044. your love will be vital and ever- The one-day Encounters growing and escape the blight includes celebration of Mass that touches so many and meals. marriages these days? develop a greater appreciation WHATEVER success we of their life together. That and many other couples have applies to newlyweds and attained is undoubtedly due to grandparents alike. a mature commitment to the principles of Christian Until you have the op- marriage. In less formal terms, portunity to experience this we're just saying we believe in wonderful weekend, there are love, that it should last all the certain values and practices days of our lives, and that with which we believe will insure the God's help, it will. success of your marriage. But belief is one thing, and We'd like to share three of LEATHER them with you. First, no couple the living it out is quite another can possibly make a go of their and much more difficult step. marriage unless they share the In order to make that belief a value and vision of marriage as WORLD living reality, we need the example and support and an unshakeable, unbreakable With That Great Smell of Genuine Leather encouragement of other couples commitment for life. What you who share these values. For envision, what you see, is what many of us, all of that is you get—on all levels of life. So provided through the ex- why not the best? perience of the Marriage En- SECOND, set a priority counter weekend and its follow- on time for deep com- up program of renewal. munication on a daily basis. Not just to solve problems but Marriage Encounter is, to keep in touch with your initially, a weekend together, feelings and the growing in away from home, children, job your lives. As we heard and all the other distractions someone comment recently on and tensions of everyday life. this point, "If you haven't seen Pinseal leather billfold (The term encounter is taken is hand fitted with a 14 me today, you haven't seen karat gold bar for from the Spanish "encuentro" me." engraving your name. which more nearly has the meaning of "discovery" rather Finally, remember -that than meeting or confrontation.) love is a decision. It's not just It is a unique opportunity for that wonderfully romantic married couples to pause and fuzzy feeling. It's an anchor of sincerely consider the most steel—it's in the will. Love is a ATTACHES important area of their commitment in friendship that LUGGAGE lives...their marriage. The says your needs are just as HANDBAGS emphasis in on communication, important to. me as my needs FINE GIFTS especially the communication are. 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When you think of leather, think of Encounter to become aware of their own feelings about various aspects of their Build a marriage. The second step, expressing these feelings to great each other is achieved through a technique called dialogue. LesttlterWorld 199 EAST FLAGLER Marriage Encounter is for future. DOWNTOWN MIAMI CORAL GABLES Corner 2nd Avenue 235 S.E. 1st Street all couples with a desire to Take stock in America. 339 Miracle Mile deepen their relationship and Buy US. Savings Bonds. 377-9084 358-0581 446-7888 Page 6 A / Miami, Florida / THE VOICE / Friday, February 25, 1977 Encounter weekend was our turning point (The authors of the following warmth and sensitivity in John that article, John and Cathy SciarriUo,are made me fall in love with him. Today veteran members of the Marriage I know that in assuring ourselves Encounter movement and are that we had a good marriage we coordinators of Family Life in St. didn't allow ourselves to strive for James parish, North Miami.) more. The weekend that Cathy and I This is what we are trying to do expericed four years ago was the now to work toward that great turning point in our marriage. marriage that our Father intended us Our marriage encounter to have. We see our Sacrament now weekend was a rich and unique as much more than a one-time experience that gave us the op- blessing. It's something real in our portunity to look deeply into our- lives, alive and growing every day. selves and our marriage. To see that Just knowing this has brought us a romance and hand-holding is not just new closeness, even more wonderful for teenagers and newly weds. than in our dating days. The em- By Sunday night we had phasis has shifted back to us, and the rekindled the love and brought alive joy we find in each other today is the romance that had made our early indescribable. years of marriage so close and ex- On our weekend, Cathy and I citing. Our marriage had always learned a new technique of com- been a good one, although there were munication that has brought the times when we did take each other for excitement back into our marriage. granted. Most of our times and We were given a gift to take home energy went into our children and we with us. A gift that shows us the seemed to hfiive little time left over beauty in each other, our children for each other at the end of the day. and all those around us. Our goals John and I considered our and values are very different, and we marriage to be one of the better ones often find ourselves reevaluating around. We didn't have separate daily what we find to be important. nights out, and our main focus was Our time together is quality time our children. It wasn't until our and the emphasis that we put on our marriage encounter weekend that we relationship allows us to give a fuller discovered how little time we had and richer love to our children as taken to get to know each other. their parents, instead of individually For the first time in 13 years I as their mother or their father! Our could see so clearly the qualities of (Continued on Page 16)

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In some cases, ab- non-Catholic minister, agreement to have child baptized by non- many couples have come to my solute bans have been lifted, and other rulings have been relaxed. Catholic minister, or educated in non-Catholic reliqion office seeking help in restoring Here, at a quick glance, is a capsule presentation of what has and What has not chaged: a relationship which in the what hasn't changed in Catholic marriage laws. -Dispensation still needed for mixed marriage. beginning was "made in What has changed: -Catholic party to mixed marriage still has obligation and must prom- -A just rather than a serious cause necessary for a dispensation ise to "do all in his or her power" to have children baptized and brouqht heaven." I do not like to write to enter a mixed marriage. up in the Catholic faith. articles about unhappiness. It -Bishops are able to dispense from the Catholic form for marriage if -Form of marriage. Must take place before pastor of place or his is so much more satisfying to there is a serious reason. Thus possible to have a non-Catholic minister delegate and two witnesses. write happy stories, but maybe officiate. -All canonical impediments remain. this story will help you write -No promise required of non-Catholic party to a mixed marriage. -Marriage for life. -Nuptial Mass permitted if non-Catholic party to a mixed marriage -Marriage between one man and one woman. your own happy story. is baptized. -Sacramental consummated marriage cannot be dissolved. Jean and Bob were married three years when I first saw real lover. We fulfilled them. Jean began the in- everything you have read about terview: "When I first met Bob in 'Better Homes and Gardens.' I thought he was the brightest, There was candy in "every most self-assured person I'd dish." ever seen. His values were Jean broke in: "I felt so established, and he knew how secure. Bob had a good job and to stand up for them. I we were moving up in the respected him. Oh Lord! I world. Bob was so like my practically worshipped him! I father..." saw our marriage as being one "Your father, you bet, but of those 'happy ever after' I couldn't keep up with it. I stories. We agreed on almost couldn't afford the life we were everything (or at least I tried to leading with all the parties, the We know agree). His opinions always friends, the long hours at work seemed so right. He was my to make the 'bucks' to have the it's the most ideal mate, and I was deter- parties. I started living like a mined that I'd be his. We'd married single. There just important always agree, always be happy. wasn't any time for Jean and We'd avoid all the things my myself, and she didn't seem to day of parents had warned me about. want any time for us. I started I'd make sure of that. I was to- get frustrated. As long as the sure that I could do it." romance was there, it was great your life . . . Bob broke in at this point but you can burn out. You and said: "I looked at marriage know, I began to feel that I was from the intellectual side. In a flop. I guess I got bored with college, I had researched the the life I was leading. Look, idea of marriage. I had con- Father, I don't like the dog and ceptualized everything from the I don't like my job and I don't and we 'II sociological, psychological and like Jean..." philosophical necessity of "Bob began to act dif- marriage to the plain fact of ferently about this time." Jean treat it what was best for me. I'd said. "He was always so distant established a set of criteria that or he was kept late at the job. accordingly. my future mate would need to Something was always coming meet, and I knew what would up. He didn't seem to care be expected of her to generate about me any more. You know At the Biscayne Holiday Inn happiness. what? I started not to care we would consider it a "When I saw Jean, she about him. What's gone wrong pleasure to be able to assist seemed to fulfill the 'IBM —do with our marriage?" you in planning your not fold, bend or mutilate' What went wrong? The wedding reception. Feel criteria. Furthermore, I wedding was beautiful with assured we will do our developed this 'something' for cake and champagne, flowers utmost to make it a her. I could not get her out of and rice. What went wrong? memorable occasion. We feel my mind and what she did to Not long ago we used to speak we are large enough to have my mind—WOW! I wanted about "rice Christians." These the know-how... yet, small her." were people who became enough to give it our Bob took a breath and Christians because the personal attention. Yes, Jean looked at him in that missionary would give them we 're aware that it's the most strange way which seemed to rice. This was to make their important day of your life say: "Your computer broke lives better, and for a time it ... and we'll treat it down, brother." did. 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Page 10 A Miami, Florida / THE VOICE / Friday, February 25, 1977 ...watch early for danger signs (Continued from Page 10) richer or poorer, sickness and and relate on a base of reality, health, for better or worse, but not on a base of self-deceit, had only heard the romantic outworn and meaningless words of health, richer and traditions or a book of romantic better. Marriage brings sayings or even the latest sex together two people and themanual. glamour and excitement does What happened to the wear off and the words, "I love marriage of Bob and Jean? you" become "he is a good What happened to that dream provider" and "she is a good did not materialize or that mother to the children." Bob became the nightmare after and Jean saw himself and three years? The reality of herself as loving, patient and unexpected shortcomings, good and the other as becoming bickering, misunderstandings selfish, unkind and became more and more evident unreasonable. They had worked and left these two people at making a good marriage. frustrated, confused, They had worked hard and had belligerent and disappointed. accomplished what the world The story of two beautiful holds up as the ideal for people, who maybe needed the marriage—all of the "best" three years to come to the things of life. When their awareness of reality and maybe friends heard that they were on now were ready to look ahead the verge of separating, they with new hope. Marriage is an couldn't believe it. They had interpersonal relationship worked so hard that they forgot which demands open and ando. Jean said it all when she about each other as individuals. ability to respect and care and What Bob and Jean had ended our last meeting with: respond to another person. It is"The world gave us a fantastic done was lose sight of, or had no longer "I" but "we." not yet discovered, the first and unreal idea of Bob and Jean have grown marriage...maybe that was requirement of a workable in the last six months and feel we save marriage which must be to live good...but it was not a good they still have more growing to foundation for us to build our relationship. It was like eating marriages A LITTLE PLANNING 'cotton candy.' I wish I had GOES A LONG WAY known three years ago what I Budget experts recom- sulting the supermarket ads, know now. But if I had would I mend planning shopping ex- you can then plan menus in- have understood? The cake and For most brides it's the most important day in cursions in advance, as well ascorporating the bargains champagne the flowers and rice her life. And at The Exotic Gardens we've menus. Once-a-week shopping you've checked, adding any were so important." She looked saved brides more than money. is less wasteful than frequent needed items to your shopping at Bob and her look seemed to Once there was a bride who asked her trips to the supermarket, and list, say, "Maybe the computer was lets you take advantage of the right." friend to make her bridal bouquet. Her friend weekly shopping specials of- By careful planning you (Dear Friends: as you made her a beautiful one. Also a highly edible fered in your local paper. can thus make food dollars goknow, you are about to enter one. On the day of the wedding the dog Once you've planned the further, save shopping time as into a union which is most lunched en it and the bride (near hysteria) ran week's shopping after con- well. sacred and most serious...) into Exotic and asked for an instant (yet beautiful) bouquet. She got it. Then there was the marriage of the scuba divers, a couple who shared an aquatic passion. How to keep the bridal bouquet together under water was only a minor problem. We solved it with waterproof tape. And lest you think that Exotic is expensive, this wedding only cost $40. Over the years we've had Japanese weddings where the flowers had to look like they were growing out of rocks, yacht weddings where the yacht was bedecked with flowers that trailed into the water and even a Christmas wedding with bouquets of holly. One of our favorites was a double wedding where the minister married the wrong couples. But the flowers were right. With all the frenzy and excitement of a wedding, it's nice to know that there s someone you can count on to keep his head. We've been saving marriages since 1914.

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Miami, Florida / THE VOICE / Friday, February 25, 1977 / Page 11 A Should you rent or buy? Should you rent or financial burden, then you spend. reliable builders. the things you can think of should you buy—that is the must begin apartment DEPENDING ON your • Make sure your real no matter how unimportant question. hunting. circumstances, you should estate broker is a "realtor." they may seem. Then go over The answer comes from Either way you must be be able to buy a home • Buy the maximum this list with your future the dictates of your income most cautious in selecting costing two and one half home you can afford. partner and determine just and the permanence of your your "first" residence. times your annual income. • Get the best financing what you are looking for. job. Here are a few Knowing how much you terms. IF YOU ARE fairly suggestions you should want to spend on a home and • Know the existing When you have agreed on certain you will be living in consider before the home or what your monthly public facilities, tax rates your needs then check with the area then buying a home apartment hunt begins. payments should be, you can and planned improvements someone who is familiar with may be more practical than First, we'll take a look at begin your search for the in the area of your choice. the rents in the district you renting. But if you haven't buying. right place. • Get the long-range are considering. decided where you will be Before purchasing an Use these guidelines facts and outlook for the permanently located or if the existing home or a new one before purchasing a new neighborhood. This will be You should see who down payment on a house you should determine how home: your guide to determine the your neighbors will be. Will will be too much of a much you can afford to • Be sure to deal with resale value of the home. they mind if you have friends • Know the zoning laws in or if you use your record for the neighborhood. player? Medical exam necessary, • In existing homes Do you want an im- check heating and plumbing pressive place or are you systems, condition of roof satisfied with less elegant valuable before nuptials and siding, and electric surroundings? wiring. They are the most Consider the cost. Find By FRANK J. HILDNER, fluids. Syphilis is detected other. By requesting a expensive to repair. out what facilities or utilities M.D. usually only by a blood test. complete physical • Ask questions. are included in the rent. Hardly any human That test, if positive, in- examination and assuring What kind of kitchen experience unites fantasy dicates the person may have total body health, they have On the other hand, equipment will there be. If and reality as well as contracted it at some time in the opportunity to bring an should you choose to rent the apartment is furnished, preparation for marriage. the past and may need extra chance for success and you must also take care in is a damage deposit required. Once all the formality and treatment. happiness to their marriage. selecting. Don't look for YOU WILL usually excitement are finished, Health problems are generalities like is it at- need a bedroom, bath, living responsibilities of the new THE TEST frequently handled more easily before tractive, comfortable and so room and kitchen. But if partnership are present becomes negative if marriage than in the time of on. Begin with particulars: either of you has, a hobby, immediately. It doesn't take adequate treatment is in- adjustment immediately how many rooms will you such as photography or art, one long to feel the pressure. stituted quickly. Since other afterward. This fact cannot need, is it near a bus line, etc. you may want an extra But it is easy for the conditions (such as the flu or be over-emphasized. MAKE A LIST of all room. prospective bride and groom mononucleosis) may in- to lose sight of what really terfere and cause the test matters when social for syphilis to be positive, a pressures occupy almost single positive test is always every hour of the day. To repeated. Further similar protect you from this type of test are then performed to situation, the state of eliminate all possibilities of Florida requires that written error. proof of a physician's examination be presented Obviously, this series of before a license to marry is events may be prolonged and granted. 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Page 12.A Miami Florida | THE VO*CE / Friday, February 25,1977, The faces Why the banns? of love The announcements of joy and thanksgiving, which Love is smiling when marriage will be taken care of also is the ideal of marriage. you've just had your hair done by the parish priest in the and he asks—When are you bride's parish. Banns should The banns have a two-fold going to have your hair done? also be announced in the parish purpose: calling upon the larger Love is ironing a shirt 10 of the groom, either by parish family to rejoice with minutes before you both have arrangement of the priest or the two of its members, who are to leave for work. couple. about to establish their own Banns are announced three home, and to pray for God's Love is when he eats the times, usually immediately blessings to be bestowed on the toast no matter how it turns preceding the event. couple; as well as their out. It is fitting that the banns historical significance of in- Love is when he asks to are proclaimed at the Sunday suring that the couple are free look at the wedding pictures to marry. again because you looked so Mass, which is a celebration of pretty. Love is when he tells you the coffee's good. Love is when he says you look beautiful just after you've tumbled out of bed. Love is not keeping secrets. Love is making him feel important. Wedding plans include early trip to rectory Before you finish reading this article the source of the unity of Christ and his more than 200 marriages will have been members in the Church, and since it is the contracted. During the same time more than expression of both divine and human love, the 50 will have ended in divorce, separation, wedding ceremony normally takes place annulment, or desertion. within the celebration of the Mass. Because Why this alarmingly high rate of failing the rite of marriage now offers many options marriages? All the experts agree the chief in the selection of prayers, Scripture 'r* ft reason for failure in marriages is the absence readings, blessings, and so forth, it requires, of proper and adequate preparation. careful planning involving you and the priest The best possible preparation for and the parish organist. marriage is to have grown up in a happy Once the priest has set the date and the home where father and mother accepted their time for the wedding he will recommend responsibilities with joyful confidence in that you attend pre-marriage instructions. <£> God's loving care and divine assistance. The importance of these conferences cannot For the past several years we have been be over stressed for explaining and up-dating approaching marriage with the attitude that so many points relative to happiness and "Fine Food and Gracious Dining responsibilities are quite simple and require success in your new vocation. Without Extravagance" little more than common sense. And yet, to Next comes the paper work. Catholics attain success in marriage, both as a partner will be asked to produce a recent (not older ALL YOU CARE TO EAT", and as a parent, one must be competent in the than six months) copy of baptismal records. art of human relations, knowledgeable in They can be obtained by calling or writing the physical health and care, understanding of parish where the Baptism took place. Also adult and juvenile problems, concerned the dates of First Communion and Con- Your wedding reception about the techniques of homemaking and the firmation from the parishes where these earning of a living, and many other ac- sacraments were received must be collected. in a Smorgasbord restaurant?? complishments. There is also a questionnaire for the Like most young couples preparing for such a momentous | Towards this end, this diocese has bride-to-be and the groom-to-be which is occasion, you will give thought to all facets of the big day itself. established a series of pre-marriage in- designed to discover any possible im- One of the highlights of that special day will surely be the structions for engaged couples. Because your pediments which would require a dispen- wedding reception. Family and friends will gather with the happy marriage is one of the most important events sation and also to determine the freedom of couple to partake of good and plentiful food. This custom is no in your life it is only fitting that some time be both parties to be married in Church. Most doubt as old as the marriage ceremony itself. Many varieties of spent on preparation for the new vocation you often the parents also add, the weight of their food should be made available —• and certainly it should be I are about to enter. testimony concerning the freedom to marry served on the basis of all they care to eat — good and plentiful' You have the ring! You're engaged to be and the proper dispositions of their son or food! These words are synonymous with the Sweden House married! O happy day! What day?...and what daughter. Smorgasbord. In investigating the Sweden House facilities, you time? Which church and which hall? These The marriage license must be applied for will discover the Sweden House Reception goes beyond good I are practical questions • from the Marriage License Bureau, of the food. Our punch bowl arrangements are delightful and wedding Normally the wedding takes place in the County Court House, in the county where the cakes a specialty of our bakery. The biggest surprise to you will church of the bride, unless she is not of the bride resides. You must apply together. There I be cost. In keeping with the theme "fine food and gracious j Catholic faith, then the wedding takes place is a five-day waiting period and the license is dining without extravagance", wedding receptions fall well within in the church of the Catholic groom. good for 60 days. It will not be issued without the area of sensible price. Call the Sweden House for additional Byzantine or Greek Catholic rite males the results of a blood test. I information. P. S. Our congratulations and warmest wishes to present special situations which must be Finally, there is the rehearsal, where all each of you on this your most joyous day! discussed with the priest helping you make the details of your own wedding ceremony are your arrangements. carefully worked out with the officiating Since the Eucharist is both the sign and priest.

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They SANKANERIUM 10 years have opted for a one individual swift and communicate through their FT. LAUDERDALE, FLORIDA 33301 double-ring ceremony, Mary, spontaneous thoughts about evocative power and convey after accepting this gift and the other; stir memories of a latent meaning. Such drawing it further onto the shared tears and common symbols transform the third finger left hand, will laughter; recall moments the horizons of an individual's probably reciprocate and partners hurt each other and life, alter one's scale of give a similar wedding band times they made love. values, reorient loyalties. We to her spouse. These rings may apprehend them not simply The rings signify, of likewise serve as a source of by the mind but by the course, that Mary and her courage and strength when imagination, the heart, or partner are now husband and temptation or adveristy better, by the whole man. wife, married, joined legally places the original com- In Fr. Dulles' words, and spiritually. mitment under strain. "they suggest attitudes and But those nuptial bands For example: A courses of action; they in- normally bear a deeper husband away at length tensify confidence and meaning and communicate, from home, weary after devotion." especially to the wearers, tension-filled days, At Christmas we seek to much more than the discouraged by business grasp and communicate a mere external fact of frustration, lonely and truth which is essentially marriage. vulnerable, is tempted by an beyond our comprehension— They should and usually obvious invitation. He feels the mystery of a divine God do symbolize all kinds of weak and finds the offer very taking on human flesh. inner qualities, attitudes and ' attractive, but a glance at or To help us appreciate feelings. touch of his ring changes the that sublime event the The rings say in effect: picture and carries him Church through the cen- through that temporary JIIIIIHMIUMIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIUIItllllllll turies has developed certain crisis. symbols (e.g. the crib, Another illustration: candles, a star) which we An exhausted wife, struggles associate with Jesus' coming DESIGNER-MANUFACTURER to cope with her cancer- into our midst. In fact, we ridden, dying husband. His sometimes even speak of this constant changing, im- Incarnation in the language FINE perative day and night of marriage, wondering over requests test the woman's the love which prompted JEWELRY endurance. She, too, fingers God to wed our humanity. her wedding band and in a. Those symbols, like the silent, mysterious way finds nuptial rings, communicate there power to continue. much more to us than the The nuptial rings as cold fact that a marriage has WATTY & SON signs (I am married) do not taken place. They stir within deeply touch our inner our total being feeling and selves; however, as symbols attitudes provoke consciovfs (I love, care, am committed) and unconscious reactions, 1225 East Las Olas Blvd. they can evoke a variety of drive home the great im- •, = Fort Lauderdale, Florida strong conscious and un- plications of that wedding | Helio Cabrera 305/463-5668 conscious reactions within which began at Nazareth and SuHHIIIIIIIIIIimilinilllllllllllHIIIIIIIIIHIIIIIIIIIMIIHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIUI continued in Bethlehem. Miami, Florida I THE VOIGE / Friday, February 25,1977 / Page 15 A Encounter turning point (Cti(Continuedd frof m PPage 7) family still has its squabbles and our children as unique individuals The bride (or her family) usually pays for: short comings, but the difference is in with feelings that we care about and — Invitations, announcements, and enclosure the giving. want to share. cards. Cathy and I have learned how to John and I have been married 17 — Wedding dress, veil, accesories, and trousseau. give of ourselves to each other, rather years and we have four children, two — Bouquets for maid of honor, bridesmaids, flower than giving up or giving in. We see of them teenagers. There's a real girl. value and true joy in bringing our — Flowers for the church and reception. family together in love and closeness. — Engagement and wedding photographs. Communication Our marriage and family life is — Rental fee (if any) for the church. not something we take lightly. We — Fees for the sexton, organist, and soloist. stressed know that we have to work at — Rental of aisle carpet, marquee, or other (Continued from Page 5) creating unity and oneness. John and equipment. I see our Sacrament of Matrimony as — Transportation of bridal party to church and rocks along the road to a lifetime of marriage for the a calling from God, that we answer in reception. Engaged Couples. We have realized that in many cases we our daily year to loving one another. — Reception, including food, beverages, music, can only plant seeds of thought and awareness which may be As a calling from God, that we decorations, and professional services (unless the of help to them sometime in the future. answer in our daily "yes" to loving groom's family offers to assume some of this cost). We have had couples ask us "what if a couple decides one another. As a child I was taught — Groom's wedding ring (if it's a double-ring not to get married after they have made an Engaged En- that a sacrament is an outward sign ceremony). counter." We can only say that in some cases we hope that instituted by Christ to give grace. — Wedding gift for the groom. happens. John and I really work at being a — Gifts for bride's attendants. The program is designed to help couples take a good sacramental couple, and grace is — Lodging (if necessary) for out-of-town look at what a lifetime commitment to each other really something that's very real in our bridesmaids. means. If after the Encounter they feel they are not ready for lives. The kind of grace that lets us — Bride's personal stationery.. such a commitment, it is a good thing for them to decide not concentrate on the good qualities in The groom (or his family) usually pays for: to marry. In fact, we like to think of this as God's gift to both each other and our family. — Bride's engagement and wedding rings. of them. Now since John and I began a • — Marria*ge license. We as a couple have found our own Marriage Encounter concentrated effort to make our — Clergyman's fee. to be a priceless gift to our marriage. We sincerely hope that relationship as husband and wife — Bride's flowers, including going-away corsage the newly married couples who have experienced Engaged number one on our priority list, we and bouquet (optional, see below). Encounter will also find the experience to be a great blessing have found a closeness and joy that — Boutonnieres for the men of the wedding party. in their new life together. we never experienced before. — Corsages for mothers. — Gloves, ties, or ascots for men of the wedding party. — Wedding gift for the bride. ENERGY-SAVING Wait until hot foods are room allows heat to escape. And put — Complete wedding trip. 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Pager 16 ftKfiamf, Florida /THE VOICE / Friday, February 25/1977 Pope: marriage Plan early is gift from God for trip Time and money are two Pope Paul VI, calling the traditional marital morality "a important factors to consider gift of God," has urged couples neither to grow discouraged when planning a honeymoon. nor to rebel should they fail to live up to it. While the two of you will "All progress in the moral life," he observed, begins make a decision on where to from a basic realization of one's weakness. go and how long to stay, it is From a "radical realization of one's weakness begins all the groom's responsibility to progress in the moral life," he observed. make all the arrangements Marital chastity, he said, is achieved "little by little." for the trip. He asserted, however, that the "demands of conjugal Hotel and air travel moral life which the Church recalls"—a clear reference to the reservations should be made norms of his 1968 encyclical against contraception—are early. Many hotels will "neither unbearable nor unworkable." require a deposit on special And he warned against a false dilemma that would make honeymoon package trips, a couple choose between "sensuality" and abandonment of and will issue, a receipt for the sacraments, on the one hand, and a wrecked marriage, on this deposit. Take the receipt the other. along to make sure it is Pope Paul raised his appeal for courage during a talk to anxiety nor fear should ever be found in souls of goodwill." properly credited to your bill a pilgrim age of the Equipes Notre Dame—literally, Teams He called the achievement of conjugal chastity "a work at the end of your stay. of Our Lady. of liberation." This movement, now active in 25 countries of the worlds The Pope said: Pick up plane tickets bands from four to seven couples into "teams" to help one "To realize that one has not yet conquered his inner well in advance of the another find a spirituality of marriage. liberty, that one is still subject to the spur of his tendencies, wedding day, and check The Pope pictured the happy home as a figure of the love to discover oneself almost incapable of respecting at the immediately to make sure of God and a foretaste of its enjoyment: moment the moral law in so fundamental a domain, naturally that everything is in order. "A man and a woman who love each other, the smile of a arouses distress. Be sure to take the bulk child, the peace of a home—here is a wordless but astound- "But it is the decisive moment when the Christian, in his of money in travelers checks, ingly persuasive sermon in which every man can already disarray, rather than abandon himself to sterile and not cash. Keep some small discern, as if shining through, the reflection of another love, destructive revolt, humbly attains the bewildering discovery bills along for tips, and if and its infinite appeal." of man before God, a sinner before the love of Christ the possible, change about $10 He cited Second Vatican Council's words on the Savior. into the currency of the Christian family in the Constitution on the Church: "By its "From this radical awareness begins all progress in the country you are visiting example and its witness it accuses the world of sin and moral life." before you leave. enlightens those who seek the truth." He urged recourse to Christ in prayer and the If you are going outside Conscience, the Pope said, must be at once "respected, sacraments. territorial United States, educated and shaped." This should be accomplished, he said, "With the strength of Christ you can, and therefore you check to see what proof of "in an atmosphere of confidence, not of anxiety." must, achieve great things. Ponder his word, take hold of his citizenship you'll need- He continued: grace in prayer and in the sacraments of Penance and the visas, passports, or simple "When the husband and wife try, patiently and hum- Eucharist, strengthen one another in giving witness, simply proof of citizenship such as bly—without letting themselves be discouraged by failure— and discreetly, to your faith." birth certificate. to live in truth the deep demands of a sanctified love of whose existence moral rules are there to remind them, then moral rules are no longer cast off as a shackle but recognized as a powerful help." He said that it is worth shouting aloud that "neither Let George do it!

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Page 18 A Miami, Florida 7 THE VOICE / Friday, February 25, 1977 1 Bride's Groom's prayer prayer I I • Father, my heart is filled with a • Heavenly Father, on this my happiness so wonderful. I am almost wedding day, I sense as never before afraid. This is my weddind day. I pray Your sacred presence. It seems like the that the beautiful joy of this morning first glorious Sabbath in Paradise, when may never grow dim with tears of regret all was good and beautiful, when the for the step I am about to take. Rather universe lay at Your feet in reverent awe, may its memories become sweet and when the first man and the first woman tender with each passing anniversary. listened to Your voice in their pristine joy You have sent me one who seems all and innocence. worthy of my deepest regard. Grant unto Behold the woman You gave me as me the power to keep him ever true and my companion for this life's journey loving as now. May I prove indeed a kneels trustfully at my side. I thank You helpmate, a sweetheart, a friend, a for joining our paths, and for granting us steadfast guiding star among all the the privilege of sharing Your power in temptations that beset this impulsive perpetuating the work of Your Hands. heart of mine. I know that she is Your gift to me, Give me skill to make home the best and I vow in my deepest soul to love her, loved place of all. Help me to make its treasure her, and keep her with un- light gleam brighter than any glow that swering fidelity until my dying breath. would dim its radiance. Let me, I pray, May the love which knits our souls meet the little misunderstanings and together today never lose its ardor, its cares of life more bravely. charm, its sweetness, and may spiritual Be with me as I start my mission of wisdom and maturer understanding ever womanhood, and stay my path from strengthen our holy bond as the days roll failure all the way. Walk with me even by. unto the end of the journey. In joy and sorrow, in triumph and • Father, bless my wedding day, failure, I will stand by her side, not as her hallow my marriage night, sanctify my lord and master, but as a devoted friend motherhood if You see fit to grant me and protector sharing with her lovingly that privilege. And when all my youthful all I have and hold. I will build her a charms are gone, and cares and lessons home, enduring, beautiful, peaceful: She have left their traces, let physical shall be my queen, my comfort, the pride fascination give way to the greatest of my life. charm of companionship. Over this home we will write the And so may we walk hand in hand Holy Name of Jesus. Grant, O Heavenly down the highway of the valley of the Father, that charm of this beautiful Cana shadow which we hope to lighten with the day may abide in it forever, and that sunshine of good and happy lives. Jesus and his blessed Mother may be our • Father, this is my prayer. constant guests. DELIGHTED TO BE PART OF SOME OF THE HAPPIEST MOMENTS OF YOUR LIFE.

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Miami, Florida i THE VOICE I Friday, February 25, 1977 / Page 19 A Recommended reading for engaged couples "What They Ask About New York, N.Y. Marriage" by Raymond Bosler, "The Courage to Be 1975, Ave Maria Press, Notre Married" by Jonathan Dame, Ind. Hanaghan, 1974, Abbey Press, "Together for Life" by St. Meinrad, Ind. Father Joseph Champlin, 1970, "The Art of Staying in Ave Maria Press, Notre Dame, Love" by Father John Powell, Ind. S.J., 1974, Argus Books, Niles, "Talking It Over" by John 111. M. Drescher, 1975, Herald "Marriage: A Discovery Press, Scottsdale, Pa. Together" by Jack Quesnell, "Partnership: Marriage 1974, Fides, Notre Dame, Ind. and the Committed Life" by "Between Husband and Edward R. Dufresne, 1975, Wife" by Victor Salz, 1972, Paulist Press, Paramus, N.J. Paulist Press, Paramus, N.J. "Why Marriage?" by Edward E. Ford, 1974, Argus, (List compiled by Msgr. Niles, 111. James T. McHugh, director of "The Marriage En- Committee for Pro-Life Ac- counter" by Father Chuck tivities, National Conference of Gallagher, 1975, Doubleday, Catholic Bishops.) Hectic wedding? Make honeymoon relaxed After hectic marriage couple to take several weekend trips New York City, or a camping trip to the couple to use traveler's checks, preparations and the tensions of the during the first four or six weeks of northern California, both parties and take only as much luggage as wedding day itself, wise newlyweds marriage, instead of the traditional should be equally enthusiastic about they can carry by themselves. take a honeymoon designed for one or two week trip to some distant the choice of honeymoon. THE HONEYMOON is a time relaxation. place. This method is less costly and After they select what kind of for the two of them to get to know While a 21-day European tour to less tiring. honeymoon and where they will go, and adjust to each other. In order to •seven countries would make an THE BRIDE and groom should the public library will come in handy achieve this necessary harmony they exciting and memorable vacation, be realistic about costs, and what with books to read on their choice. must be open and honest with each long wedding trips usually offer little they can afford. An expensive once- They might like to send for free other, as well as considerate of each rest for the travelers. in-a-lifetime fling may not be worth travel brochures, which frequently other's feelings. They should going into debt or taking out a high- help in planning. A travel agent wiU especially avoid getting overly tired A QUIET and calm honeymoon interest rate loan. Even though they provide invaluable assistance. His by too much traveling, sightseeing, in some place of privacy contributes budget the honeymoon beforehand, service is usually offered free of or activity. Fatigue could cause them to the joy of the couple's first hours they should be aware that the trip charge to the couple, because the to get on each other's nerves. together, and is the prelude to the will probably cost more than they hotels and airlines pay the agent's Wherever they spend their tone of their future home life. expected. - fee. honeymoon the new husband and The closer to home the better, at Whether the couple decides upon Other helpful hints, regardless of wife should always strive to make it a least for the first few days of a Caribbean cruise, sightseeing in their mode of transportation, are for time of love and sharing. marriage. In this way the two will catch their breath after the wedding rush. One possibility is for the couple to spend their wedding night in their own new apartment of home, since they would be more comfortable in familiar surroundings. Another suggestion is for the SMITH AND COMPANY Professional Combo Music-All types. All occasions. Wedding receptions our specialty. Sensible prices. Chuck Smith (305) 981-3704. •»••»»••»»• Co/wpleTE BRIDAL SERVICE ! , Start here with THE RING, our glad, wide choice of styles.... , We're also custom Dressmakers, Formalwear Rental Specialists, Florists, Printers of Invitations, Announcements, Matchbooks . and Napkins, Photographers... And come see > our new Glass Engraving Machine. We do monogrammed champagne and highball glasses - for guests to take home as souvernirs or for you to keep in loving memory!

• The EVERYTHING People Se Habla Espafiol " t\flt* 1313 North State Rd. 7 (441) Hollywood * 961-6177 ^••••••••»••••••••»»••» Page 20 A I Miami, Florida I THE VOICE / Friday, February 25,1977 BUDGET to get most out of your income Whether you earn $100 a week or $l;000 a week, a good budget is the key to getting the most out of the money you have. Yet many people shy away from keeping a budget because they think it restricts them. Just the opposite is true according to the National Foundation for Consumer Credit, Inc. If you want the freedom to spend your money where it gives you and your family the greatest amount of pleasure, a solid budget is the answer. A REALISTIC budget shows you specifically how much money you earn, how much money you are spending, and how much more you can afford to spend. It lets you know when you should borrow or use your credit, and when you should pay cash. A simple system starts with the monthly amount of family income after taxes, then accounts for the amount spent on shelter, food and clothing, and the amount of current monthly payments. A complete budget also considers all regular ex- penditures—insurance premiums, telephone and other utilities, transportation—and savings. Intelligent use of credit can add a lot more to living. But before committing yourself and your family to numerous debts, a determination should be made of the amount of credit you can afford based on the money you earn, your Something current obligations, and financial obligations for the future. MANY PEOPLE use credit to purchase some goods even if they have cash in hand. They may wish to keep a borrowed on your "rainy day fund" for emergencies, or they may just like the good feeling that comes from money in reserve. When figuring up how much credit a family can afford, the National Foundation for Consumer Credit suggests two wedding day. general rules: 1) Most families are on safe ground when they spend 20 percent or less of their annual income on credit accounts. For instance, if your income is $8,000 per year, you can probably afford $1,600 in credit purchases. 2) Another measure of credit capacity is based on one- third of the family's annual "discretionary income." Add the amount you spend for food, clothing, and shelter each year, then subtract this amount from annual take home pay. THIS IS YOUR "discretionary income," money over which you have more choice in spending. If your take home pay is $8,000, and the cost of food, clothing and shelter is $5,900, then $2,100 is "discretionary." Of that amount, one-third, or approximately $700 is a safe credit limit. Whatever your decision on credit buying, the National Foundation has proposed a list of Do's and Don'ts on the wise use of credit. Do shop as carefully when you use credit as when you use cash. Do get a written statement of all terms and conditions of a credit transaction. Know exactly what you are paying for the credit. Do evaluate each use of credit to make certain that the extra cost is offset by the advantages in that specific situation. A snow white, chauffeur-driven. Rolls Roycc. DO REPORT at once to creditors if you find that To sweep you off in style to your wedding and rev eption. because of unexpected circumstance you are unable to make It's yours free, with our compliments? when payments. vou choose vonr diamond ring from our dazzling collection. Do use credit only as a pre-planned part of total money management. Do protect your credit reputation. Do save first from the top of the paycheck, so that later you can save on credit costs. Don't use credit to buy things you do not really need. DON'T LET the availability of credit lead you into habits of extravagance. Don't make commitments for monthly payments which exceed the money you are sure you will have available to make those payments. Don't fail to make payments promptly and regularly; don't let your account become delinquent. i 00 Don't use credit unless you feel that immediate From 395 possession of what you acquire through its use is worth the additional cost. Don't enter into a credit transaction with any business or financial organization unless you know that it is reliable. DON'T PANIC if you get into trouble. There are a SNOW'S JEWELERS number of Consumer Credit Counseling Services operated under a plan by the National Foundation for Consumer 219 Miracle Mile, Coral Gables, Florida 33134, Phone 443-7448 Credit, Inc., and supported by funds donated by local business firms. They are designed to help those in credit 1436 West 49th Street (K-Mart Plaza), Hialeah, Phone 822-7842 difficulty. *Subjecl to availability and limitations. "Diamond weight approximate Miami, Florida / THE VOICE I Friday, February 25,1977 / Page 21 A Love at first sight 'doubtful9* Still believe in love at first sight? "In the second, or value stage, your future mate can function in If so, enjoy that lovely notion while for example, one reason why couples marriage as you'd like. This appears you can. A psychology professor in who find they share similar values not to have been of serious con- New London, Conn., is closing in on develop stronger feelings about sequence in years past, or today in it with the heavy guns of behavioral themselves is that when an in- relatively pimitive society, because research —four years of studying two dividual encounters another who roles were very much in- groups of nearly 200 college-campus holds similar values, he gains sup- stitutionalized, and little variation couples. port for the conclusion that his own was expected. Dr. Bernard I. Murstein finds values are correct; his views are But the scene has changed in little support for the magical moment given social validation," he said. much of modern America; roles have as the basis of a meaningful court- "Further, many values are occasionally turned against tradition. ship. That isn't to say that the intensely personal and are so linked Dr. Murstein found this in his heavenly music and blinding lights at to the self-concept that rejection of research. the sight of HER across the room these values is experienced as can't happen. Physical attraction can rejection of self. Dr. Murstein's stress on be dazzling. "PROVIDING we have a clarification of roles does not justify But it is to say that it is not reasonably positive self-image, we in his mind couples living with each enough to build a marriage on and tend to be attracted to those persons other before marriage. often works against a proper court- whom we perceive as validating it. ship, according to Dr. Murstein, who We may also note that persons who Dr. Murstein's conclusions is a specialist in courtship progress— have similar values are likely to about similarity of values and other or to treat his work without the engage in similar activities and, thus, attributes drawing people together dignity it deserves—in "mating reward each other by validating each also expanded to the area of sex habits" of Americans. other's commitment to the activity," drive. It was found, he related, that In an interview, Dr. Murstein, he said. individuals of similar strength of sex himself happily married for 16 years In other words, if a person is at drive would tend to pair. (his wife is chairman of the Con- steps in the chronological peace with himself, likes who he is necticut college French-Italian progression of courtship. and finds himself fulfilling ideals he In a document summarizing language programs) and the father of THE FIRST, or stimulus stage, has set for himself, he will seek out research in this area, Dr. Murstein two teenage daughters, explained his is the initial encounter of a couple- someone he thinks is similar. "Most noted that differences in a couple's sex studies and theories of how couples that time during which they are people's ideals, whether for their drive are not confined to the sexual choose each other. drawn together. The second, value, spouse or themselves, tend to area, but can affect other aspects of "We really make almost un- involves a comparison of points of coalesce," Dr. Murstein said. their relationship. bearable demands of marriage view on a variety of concerns —from THE THIRD stage in the SVR (Reprinted from MARRIAGE today," he said. "Given the mobility religion to politics. The third, role, theory —role—involves deciding if Magazine) of our population, the instability of involves deepening the appreciation friendships and the general tran- each has for the other's anticipated sitory nature of society, marriage has role in marriage—can they function become increasingly important as a in compatible roles? sort of emotional haven from stress." 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Miami, Florida I THE VOICE /Friday, February 25, 1977 / Page 23 A Marriage as Sacrament and vocation eca hold a spell over man b use they mankind. It is part of God's alliance marriage means that the relationship By FR. THOMAS FOUDY speak to him of a power beyond the with his people and communicates which already unites each Christian Professor of Theology purely visible or tangible. Here, we and makes present the love and to Christ now operates through their St. Vincent de Paul Seminary already have in a general sense our salvation that come to us from God. own marriage— it is in their own notion of sacrament—a visible ex- "Come then, my love, my In that sense marriage is very much a specific relationship of reciprocal pression of an invisible reality. natural sacrament. belonging that they belong to Christ. lovely one, come. My dove, Similarly there are certain high hiding in the clefts of the rocks, What is the role of Christ in this THE 'COMMUNITY of love' of points in a person's experience, or what is specifically Christian in marriage becomes a form of com- in the coverts of the cliff. Show certain key moments in human life me your face, let me hear your marriage? As has already been point- munion with Christ. Since it is in that are truly sacraments —birth, edout this is not only one of the their own relationship of reciprocal voice; for your voice is sweet eating, marriage, sickness and and your face is beautiful." key moments of life but is also the belonging that they share in the risen death —and these are endowed with essential teaching of the Old life of Christ they give the sacrament Song of Songs 2:14. rites and celebrations that enhance Testament where marriage was seen to each other, they are ministers of their importance and emphasize their as an opportunity offered by God the sacrament; a specifically transcendence. These rites and to man who in accepting it and its Christian sacrament. Strange sentiments to be ap- celebrations have been seen as pearing in that Book of books' responsibilities could become They not only participate in the bringing the divine life to man and genuinely the image of God. life of Christ they should also reflect "Wives should regard their this life. In other words they become husbands as they regard the a sacrament, the sacrament of the Lord —In the same way unity and presence of Christ. husbands must love their wives Through this representative function as they love their own bodies; they make Christ and Church present for a man to love his wife is for and actual. Because of this married him to love himself. —This people should present to their mystery has many im- children and to the world an un- plications; but I am saying it mistakeable image of the love be- applies to Christ and the tween Christ and his Church. This Church." they do through their daily fidelity to the indissoluble love to which they Eph. 5:22-33. have committed themselves. It's amazing that St. Paul couldn't find any other example or The richness of the notion of model to explain the mystery of marriage as a sacrament is Christ and the Church. inexhaustible. As a community of love it is a "Love is uniquely expressed process of growth into a unity of life and perfected through the through which the parties redeem, marital act. The actions within heal and perfect each other. Its marriage by which the couple sacramental nature also means that are intimately and chastely '. every facet and aspect of marriage united are noble and worthy assumes a supernatural dimension. ones. Expressed in a manner This is true above all of love. Human - which is truly human, these love becomes divine love, creative actions signify and promote | love, redemptive and healing love. that mutual self-giving by " Divine and creative in that its force which the spouses enrich each and vitality come from God and other with a joyful and thankful I reflect the dynamism of the divine will." % nature; redemptive and healing in Church in Modern World: 47. | that it shares in the love by which An unusual subject for the ""Christ loves and redeems the Church. Bishops at Vatican II to be speaking taking the ordinary actions of man CHRIST did not come to about! and lifting them up into the sphere of destroy but to fulfil. He did not This love finds expression in the Is it because the relationship, the divine. In these basic sacraments create entirely new religious signs varied opportunities of married or the love between husband and wife, is or moments of existence where man but rather he built upon the already family life. It is incarnated in bodily itself a mystery that it is used to realizes the potential of his biological existing natural sacraments. His and material gestures; for a Christian explain all other mysteries? nature he also experience his links greatest gift is the Church which is couple their sexual life naturally In the opening chapters of with God and because of his constant his saving, redemptive, victorious belongs in the sacramental exchange Genesis we hear marriage being awareness of this he makes present in presence in the world. It is Christ of love. described as a vocation of man and the world the reality of God. Not only present in a visible way to save, to This love is a compassionate woman to complement each other, to does he participate in the divine but unite, to heal us. In this sense it can love and so is essentially open to be co-creators with God and in being he reflects the divine. be called the primordial sacrament. suffering. It is their daily fidelity and mutual love in Christ which will such to be the image of God. When MARRIAGE, certainly a high The Church actualizes the the Prophets want to explain the love overcome any selfishness there may point in a person's experience, is in saving power of Christ in the basic be. of God for his people the only the human order a natural situations of human existence; the example they give is the love of a sacrament. This is so because it is not traditional seven sacraments are the In the great "Yes" of marriage husband for his wife: marriage is there is a mortgaging of one's future, l only the expression of a loving union particular application of the life of ' seen by them as a prism of the love of between husband and wife but is a Christ to the particular human needs. a pledge to share one's life with God for man. In the eighth chapter of sign of the loving and gracious union They are the different ways we share another, there is a leap into the the Book of Tobit we hear Tobias and of God with mankind. This may or participate in the risen, redemp- unknown, a total letting go, there is Sarah on their wedding night asking sound too hasty a conclusion until tive life of Christ. Sacraments are not an irreversible declaration of trust in God for peace and protection. One one reflects on it for a moment. things, nor magic, for this would oneself and in the other. In this could go on and on quoting from both We cannot separate authentic presuppose that man was a robot. "Yes" is found true Christian scriptural and historical sources love from God because this love is Rather they are a specific par- freedom. where people are mystified by the based in its ultimate depths precisely ticipation in the mystery of Christ, mystery of love and marriage. upon man's orientation to God. actions of Christ encountered by Finally the marriage ceremony There are basic realities of life Because of its origin from and man. where the "Yes" is uttered is the such as freedom, love, friendship orientation to, one can say that, this The specific signification of initiation into the sacrament. The which can only be adequately ex- love is also sustained by God. marriage is that in it the spouses are sacrament is an on-going, ever pressed through signs and images. Finally, this love signifies a unity introduced in a particular and present reality. As long as husband Isn't the handshake, or the kiss a with mankind as a whole. From the original manner into the mystery of and wife live, their relationship is good example? Not only do the signs foregoing remarks on love it can be salvation since they participate in it always the sacrament of Christ and make the realities they signify concluded that married love is not an precisely as husband and wife. his Church. Marriage is the ac- present but they also refer back exclusive "we" set apart from the By baptism the Christian tualization of one's baptismal beyond them. The same can be said "all." already has a relationship with potential; it is the application of of rites and ceremonies. From the Unfortunately, married love Christ, i.e. he is part of the one's baptismal pledge to a concrete earliest times, anything which could be so exclusive that it might be relationship that unites Christ and situation. Baptism makes marriage a touches man deeply becomes "egoism" —a contradiction because it the Church. Those who marry as Christian sacrament. surrounded with different rites and is the act in which the "we" is baptized believers, i.e. in the Lord, This is why the authors of ceremonies which reveal the mystery constituted which opens itself share in a special manner in the bond Genesis, of the Song of Songs, it is of life and its connection with a lovingly to the "all," i.e. new life, and which makes of Christ and the why St. Paul and the Fathers of deeper reaiit3^. Such also is the case a readiness, a promise, a task to love Church 'one body. Their marriage is Vatican II, would in wonderment of with the mysteries of nature —fire, mankind. Married love is a state in a particular manifestation of this marriage refer to it as the air, earth and vvaier; they seem to which we achieve union with relationship; ior them the fact oi Tremendous Mvsterv. Page 24 A t Miami, rtorida / THE VOICE / Friday, (-'ebruary 25, 1S77 Flowers add meaning to every wedding The young bride of ancient flowers or even sheaves of grain boutonniers and corsages. He Rome wore a garland of orange mixed with flowers to sym- may also want a special going blossoms in her hair and carried bolize the season and the mood away corsage for the bride. This stalks of wheat, other grains or of the wedding. small corsage can be included in •a basket of fruit to her wedding. The bride who carries a the bride's bouquet. She simply The flowers were symbolic of bouquet or basket of flowers at removes it before throwing the love in full bloom and fertility a country wedding may rest of her bouquet. while the grain or fruit decorate her hair or her represented a bountiful harvest headpiece with a garland of The bride's family usually for the bride and groom. blossoms like her sisters of pays for the flowers used for During the Renaissance, ancient Rome. decorating the church or the bride also carried sheaves of The more formal bride may reception area. Floral cen- grain along with flowers. By carry a larger bouquet or terpieces may be given to the the 80th century, however, the cascade of orchids, roses or guest after the wedding tradition remained for the bride other flowers arranged with reception. to carry only flowers. baby's breath, ferns, lace, net Flowers can be used to Today's bride carries and ribbon. Her attendants will enhance any room or any area. flowers as a symbol of love. 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Miami, Horida/ THE VOICE I Friday, February 25,1977 I Page 25 A proceso en El el dorse y Por el P. JORGE GARCIA amor. Es a trav6s de esos La sacramentalidad del El comienzo de una carrera momentos dificiles que el matrimonio no es una noci6n que no constituye toda la carrera. Sacramento Uega a un nivel mas profundo de unidad y firmeza. Es el am arse siempre haya estado clara en la Como tampoco el Bautismo es la mentalidad popular. meta del cristiano, ni la asi que el misterio cristiano de la Preguntemos a cualquier Comuni6n es el final de nuestra muerte y la resurrecci6n de cat61ico por qu6 es el matrimonio uni6n con Dios. Cristo en ellos, se hace una un sacramento, y las respuestas El matrimonio es un proceso realidad presente. ciertamente se centraran en la que tambien es proceso Casarse, lo puede hacer ceremonia, en el hecho de que se sacramental. Y es proceso en el cualquiera. Cualquiera puede celebra en una iglesia, delante de darse..en el amarsc.en el en- mantener el matrimonio por unos un sacerdote, o en el simple tregarse mutuamente. dias, semanas y hasta meses. detalle de que la novia lleva un Es proceso en el sufrir mutuo Muchos soportan el matrimonio traje bianco. y en el servirse mutuo. En todo por afios, pero son pocos los que Pero veamos que nos dice la eso el amor de Dios se hace viven el matrimonio como Iglesia sobre este sacramento: presente a los esposos. sacramento. En primer lugar nos pide leer Cada uno de ellos a travel del Los que asi lo viven, saben el libro del Genesis, en la Biblia compafiero, experimenta y entra por experie.ncia propia el pues alii se dice que...el hombre en contacto con el amor de Dios, crecimiento, la apertura y la dejard su hogar para unirse a su encarnado en el amor de los verdadera libertad que esto esposa y hacerse una sola carne c6nyuges. requiere. Tambi6n saben la con ella...(Gen. 2-24). Porque Dios Padre, nuestro alegria maravillosa que da vivir La meta del matrimonio es Padre, se comunica con nosotros este Sacramento conscientes de por tanto LA UNIDAD eiitre - a travel de signos materiales, en la presencia de Dios, con la marido y mujer. Unidad que el matrimonio el SIGNO de su misma visi6n de Cristo y en la lleva a la procreaci6n y la vida. amor es el amor de cada uno de unidad del Espiritu. Asi, el hombre y la mujer los esposos para el otro. Si os vais a casar, gastad "creados a imagen de Dios", Pero tambi6n hemos de tener menos energias en los crean vida nueva, como Dios. en cuenta que en todo ese proceso preparativos de la boda y mas Es particular de este sacramental, hay momentos entusiasmo en prepararos Sacramento del Matrimonio el especiales, momentos que los vosotros, ya que vosotros sois el "La noche de su boda, Tobias dijo a que son los mismos contrayentes griegos llamaban "kairoi'— Sacramento del matrimonio, Sara: Somos descendientes de un quienes se lo dan uno al otro. momentos de Dios, en los cuales dado y entregado por cada uno al Todos los presentes, incluido el el amor de Dios se hace presente otro. pueblo de santos, y no podemos sacerdote son testigos. de modo particular. Recibidlo mutuamente con Los contrayentes son los que Para la mayoria de los conciencia de lo que haceis: unirnos como paganos que no conocen hacen el Sacramento presente, y cristianos e"stos son los momentos ser&s una sola carne y un solo a Dios... si yo me caso... no es para 16 hacen a trav6s de las promesas de crisis y de prueba: malen- espiritu, imagen de Dios creador, de amor, fidelidad y respeto tendidos, infidelidades, en- dando vida a hogares donde los satisfacer mis pasiones, sino solamente mutuo, que ambos aceptan y se fermedad, muerte, frustraci6n... hijos podran crecer porque dan libremente. Es precis am en te en estos vosotros mismos serels vida para fundar una familia en la que se Pero no debemos pensar que momentos en los cuales Dios pide nueva, vida de Dios. la boda realiza el Sacramento ya a los esposos que se abran a Su El Padre Jorge Garcia curs6 bendiga el nombre de Yave estudios en la Universidad Catolica de para siempre. La boda es solo el amor, con su decisi6n libre de America y en la Unidn Teoldgica de para siempre*** comienzo, el principio de todo un seguir amandose y respetandose Berkely, California eseribiendo su tesis sobre la sacramentalidad en Karl proceso de vida...todo un proceso muriendo un poquito el uno para Rahner. Actualmente sirve en la de crecimiento, de fidelidad y de el otro. parroquia de SI. Augustine, Coral Gables. (Libro de Tobias, 8,5) La alegria de dor vida a otros —jMe parece que estoy tener tambi&i en cuenta la salud la del consejero. encinta! de los hijos. que van a venir, en Los principios anteriores dan —iFormidable! especial si uno de los primeros es la respuesta a la pregunta: £Hay Y loco de alegrfa torn a a su anormal. Consultad al medico. que aspirar a una familia esposa y la abraza con ternura. —Economia y vivienda. En numerosa? Hay familias Que pi Unos anos mas tarde: la miseria y en el amon- numerosas "salvajes", en que los —Otro hijo, jqu6 fastidio! tonamiento, la vida familiar se hijos nacen al azar del instinto, Son muchos los que a la hora El no dice nada, abraza a su degrada. Pero alguna pequefia sin reflexidn ni cuidado de la de casarse piensan, quizas, esposa y piensa en las com- dificultad no es raz6n suficiente educaci6n. No es un ejemplo hacerlo en la Iglesia requiere plicaciones que el nuevo hijo para rehusar los hijos. imitable, ni mucho menos. Ni la tener mucho dinero para llenar el acarreara: el apartamento que —Educacl6n. Lo mas im- Iglesia, con sano juicio, ni la lugar de flores y musica y poder queda chico, los cinco hijos que portante no es la procreaci6n, sin Moral, apoyan este tipo de lucir un bello vestido bianco y ya nacieron...la economia... la educaci6n, porque el alma vale familia. numerosas acompaflantes... En estas dos caras de la mis que el cuerpo. Conviene Tampoco es partidaria del Pero en realidad es posible misma moneda encontramos traer al mundo tantos ninos como hijo unico, en un hogar cerrado y celebrar un bellisimo representado el problem a que se puedan educar dignamente. Si egoista. matrimonio cristiano sin nada de viven tantos matrimonios hoy vienen para perder la vida Esta por la familia en que se eso. Sin flores, ni da mas ni dia. eterna, mejor es que no hubieran observe la Ley de Dios, que es musica ni invitados. iCuantos hijos? nacido. tambien ley de la naturaleza. En De hecho las exigencias qu«- La consigna que dio el —Vuestro amor. Aunque las unos casos se tratard de un hijo tiene la Iglesia para los c Creador fue: Multiplicaos. Pero Pueden sobrevenir imprevistos, razones precedentes no solo, en otros dos, cinco o diez. quieren recibir el sacramento del eso no incluye necesariamente por ejemplo, unos gemelos. justifiquen cierta regulaci6n de Los casos son distintos y nadie matrimonio son de otro tipo. Lo una multiplicaci6n alocada, sin Tengamos confianza en la la prole, no dej&s de consultar puede juzgarlos, a no ser los que exige ante todo es un claro tener en cuenta criterio alguno. Providencia. tambi6n vuestro amor. Una vida esposos mismos, Dios y la Iglesia entendimiento, por parte de la Hay que aceptar los acon- 3. Razdn. Reflexionad con sexual normal, con nuevo em- en su nombre. pareja, de lo que ese Sacramento tecimientos tal como se sinceridad sobre los motivos barazao, ayuda a veces a superar presentan, reflexionar sobre ellos serios de un mayor o menor una crisis entre esposos o a evitar y preguntarse: "En esta niimero de hijos. Los motivos graves tentaciones y pecados. situaci6n (enfermedad, pobreza, son: Practicamente, despues de cada 3 - DAY SERVICE! vivienda...), ique' es lo m£s —La salud, en particular de embarazo, tratad juntos la > WEDDING • INVITACIONES razonable? iCual es la voluntad la madre'. 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Page 26, A / Miami, Florida /THE VOICE /Friday, February 25,1977 JUNTOS PARA Dio» «***» SIEMPRE Por el PADRE TODD con respecto a la grandeza de la institucionalizado esa uni6n como De todo lo expuesto hasta ORESTES HEVIA, J.C.D. comunidad matrimonial. En lugar de su encuentro con ellos. aqui se desprende: El tratar de enclaustrar en palabras de Ulpiano: "El unos cuantos renglones la matrimonio es la uni6n del • Los novios necesitan antes de profundidad de conceptos que hombre y la mujer que retiene llegar al altar ciertos requisites caracterizan al matrimonio, la una unidad indivisible de vida." Elcuerpo humanos indispensables para riqueza emotiva que lo vitaliza, y Y Modestino lo describia como que la gracia divina fructifique, la responsabilidad inquebran- "uni6n de hombre y mujer y - como son: amor sincero, con- table que lo anima seria com- comunicacibn de consorcio de es arpa fiado, franco y purificado; parable a la tarea de escribir un todo lo referente a la vida." Dios madurez de juicio para juzgar las curso complete de medidina en mismo inspird en un ambiente probabilidades del futuro con los cuarenta lecciones. Esto no pagano estas expresiones tan del alma datos que ofrece el presente; obstante, decir algo es ganancia sublimes. dignidad personal para cumplir mientras que es perdida el no En ellas se vislumbran las promesas y para evitar prometer decirlo. palabras del Genesis; "came de lo que no se puede cumplir; Estamos viviendo momentos mi came y hueso de mis huesos," conocimiento y formaci6n mental en que una de las instituciones con que Adan expreso su union y espiritual para poder entender mas antiguas de la sociedad y con Eva, o las palabras de Cristo lo que se quiere, antes de que- mas sagrada de la Iglesia, el en el evangelio de San Mateo 19*5- rer Uevarlo a cabo. matrimonio, se ve sacudido y 6. "Por eso dejara el hombre a su amenazado por ondas de padre y su madre, y unirse ha con • La solemnidad, que la Iglesia inestabilidad, abandono y su mujer, y seran dos una sola le da a las nupcias estan dirigidas divorcio. came, Lo que Dios, pues, ha a realzar la importancia de la Que esto acaezca en unido no lo desuna el hombre." consagracidn de si mismos que la La sexualidad humana no es pareja hace con Cristo y la sociedades despojadas de valores Igualmente San Juan ni una tara, ni un pecado. En el cristianos es algo doloroso Crisdstomo afirma enfa- Iglesia. Estas festividades ex- matrimonio, es la expresion ternas no son sin embargo ins- aunque concebible; pero que ticamente que el matrimonio no carnal de una realidad pase en sociedades con siglos de es un mero instrumento para trumentos para satisfacer la espiritual: el amor que impulsa vanidad, ni tampoco son un tradici6n cristiana, es lamen- poseer una mujer, ni un con- al hombre y a la mujer, el uno table. Yo personalmente atribuyo cubinato formalizado, ni una concurso de belleza, de coreo- hacia el otro. Esta sexualidad es grafia o de modas. Quien se la susodicha vulnerabilidad uni6n cualquiera, sino la uni6n vivida diferentemente por los dos matrimonial de hoy, a intrinseca de dos en un solo guiara por estos motivos esta y marca profundamente todo su firmando la sentencia de muerte ignorancia, a la falta de madurez cuerpo. Y la Providencia Divina - ser. No tiene el mismo sentido espiritual, moral y emocional. se asegurti que esta doctrina a la espiritualidad del para los casados que para los matrimonio, basandolo en lo Ya las voces de renombrados sagrada permaneciera como solteros. juristas en el fenecido imperio pensar fehaciente en la Iglesia y pasajero y fugaz. en los miembros 11amados a esta El acto conyugal no es el romano se alzaron para unico niedio ofrecido a los espo- • El matrimonio no es una despertar la conciencia popular union santa y en consecuencia hablo por mediacion de los Pa- sos para testimoniarse su amor graduaci6n sino un comienzo. El dres del Concilio Vaticano II y profundizar su uni6n. Exis- tiempo de noviazgo fue un que en la Constituci6n Pastoral te tambien la ternura: esas mil aprendizaje, un tiempo de teoria de la Iglesia proclamaron: pequenas naderias, que van de la ahora en cambio comienza la "Fundada por el Creador y en sonrisa al beso, de la caricia al ejecucidn practica. Entonces fue posesi6n de sus propias leyes, la regalo, de la mirada cmocionada tiempo de siembra ahora es a la palabra gent.il...que vuelven tiempo de crecimiento y cosecha. de la Iglesia intima comunidad conyugal de a dar alas al amor y vicnen a vida y amor esta establecida El tiempo y momento de la sobre la alianza de los cdnyuges, iluminar la monotonia de la vida graduacidn debe conicidir con la significa y a lo que compromete. Sacramento, o puede en- cotidiana. La ternura es una de separaci6n temporal que produce Es por ello que lo primero caminarles a las Charlas Pre- es decir, sobre su consentimiento personal e irrevocable. Asi, del las multiples formas del arte de la muerte. Por eso serfa casi una que se debe hacer al fijar fecha Cana o al Movimiento de amar: brota del corazon, es uno blasfemia el decir de una pareja de boda es acudir a la parroquia y CAMINO del Matrimnnio que se acto humano, por el cual los esposos se dan y se reciben de los secretos de la felicidad. de diez anos de casados que se hablar con el sacerdote, con ocupa de dar a los novios tal La emocion amorosa es aman tanto como en el dia de su preferencia la parroquia de la preparacidn. mutuamente, nace, aun ante la sociedad, una instituci6n con- buena en si: es el envoltorio boda. Eso seria afirmar que ese esposa, por lo menos dos meses apasionante que rodea a la unidn amor se ha esterilizado, no ha antes de la fecha fijada. Con todo esto listo la pareja firmada por la ley divina." puede ya planear la ceremonia de carnal. Hay una "ciencia" que producido y que por consiguiente El sacerdote entrevistara por El matrimonio cristiano es permite al hombre y a la mujer esta a punto de desaparecer. - separado a los novios, para su boda, la c'ual no necesita de por tanto no sdlo una institucidn gran pompa sino de profundo conocer una total plenitud carnal. (El Padre Hevia es doctor en constatar la mptivaci6n, sentido cristiano. natural para que los esposos Ignorarla deliberadamentc, es derecho candnico por la Universidad preparaci6n y libertad de cada procreen, eduquen la prole, se Cat61ica de America y actualmente privarse de grandes alegrias e ir irabaja en el Tribunal de casos uno. Tambien exigira el cer- iQue pasa en matrimonios amen y se den mutua ayuda; sino a veces al encuentro de catas- matrimoniales de la Archididcesis). "cado de bautismo—de cada mixtos? que es tambien un signo, un trofes. "Vuestro cuerpo es el .o, donde encontrara tambien En el caso de un matrimonio sacramento, causa de la gracia arpa de vuestra alma, dice el datos sobre recepci6n de otros en que los dos novios no son que supone, recoge, sana, levanta poeta libanes Kalil Gibran, de IMPRENTA sacramentos— confirmaci6n, cat61icos, la Iglesia exige y engrandece la institucidn vosotros depende hacer musica comunidn... una dispensaci6n del obispo local natural. dulce o sonidos confusos". "MARESMA" Los nombres de la pareja y la declaraci6n, por parte del Es el signo de la uni6n de PRE5TIGIQ * EKPEPIENCI* • SERiEDAD apareceran durante cierto catolico, de que no perdera su fe y Cristo con la Iglesia. Por ello al El amor de los esposos es el que da su profundo sentido a la 70 N. W. 22 Ave. - Miami, Fla. tiempo en el boletin parroquial que educara sus hijos en la fe contraer matrimonio, los novios A MED'* CU*DR»i DE FL*.GLER STREET para que la comunidad cristiana catolica. 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Page 28 A/ Miami, Honda /THE VOICE / Friday, February 25,1977 ^VOICB FEBRUARY 25, 1977 PRICE 25c VOL XVIII No. 51 This week Pope appeals for help to poor during this Lent VATICAN CITY-(NC)- Pope Paul VI has appealed to Catholics around the world to help the poor, sick and hungry during Lent both by personal actions and by contributions to the Church for aid to the poor. In a lenten message released here to the universal Church, Pope Paul noted that 10 years have passed since the publication of the encyclical Seminole Tribal Fair attracted thousands of Indians Populorum Progressio, On the throughout the United States to Hollywood for the Development of Peoples, in event. Photos and article on page 12. which he discussed social, I cultural and economic inequalities among nations and urged the rich nations of the world to help poor ones. "TODAY, as the liturgical season of Lent begins, we would like to renew that solemn appeal," Pope Paul said. "Our gaze and our heart as pastor of St. Agatha groundbreaking all continue to be overwhelmed seemed to get everyone by the immense multitude of New Penance rite into the act. Photos on those whom all the world's page 2. , societies leave by the wayside, wounded in body and soul, in effect on Sunday stripped of their human WASHINGTON-(NC)- the use of Scripture and in the dignity, wihout bread, without Liturgists hope Catholics will prayer texts for the act of a voice, defenseless, alone in use the new form of Penance sorrow" in the new rite, Father their distress!" that goes into effect Feb. 27 Krosnicki said, The Pope's message for more frequently and more The new rite begins with Lent was released through Cor fruitfully than the old form. reception of the penitent in Unum, the Vatican agency he A liturgist here who helped which "the priest welcomes him established in 1971 to coor- prepare for the introduction of warmly and greets him with dinate services for Catholic aid the new rite, Divine Word kidness." Priests and penitent and human development Father Thomas A. Krosnicki, then make the Sign of the Cross organizations on a worldwide said that although it is "too and the priest says a few words scale. early to get a good reading, inviting the penitent to trust in Following is the text of the people seem to enjoy the new God. Pope's Lenten message: rite in terms of richness." Then the priest may read a Dear sons and daughters, Father Krosnicki is scriptural text "which Here we are in Lent! Listen associate director of the proclaims God's mercy and to us for a moment, Lent is a secretariat of the National calls man to conversion." period for receiving God's Conference of Catholic Bishops' Several passages are favor. The liturgy speaks of Committee on the Liturgy. suggested. Lent as the "acceptable time" HE SAID those who The penitent then con- for us to prepare to celebrate worked on the rite hope that fesses his sins, and the priest worthily the paschal mystery. people "will find it a more gives him "suitable counsel," South Florida Vietnamese observed their New Year last weekend It is a period which is of course fruitful way of celebrating the urges him to be sorry, reminds beginning with Mass in St. Raymond Church. See additional austere, but it is fruitful and it sacrament," and if they do, him that through this photos, Page 5. already brings a renewal like a "the frequency of celebration sacrament the Christian dies spiritual springtime. We must will bear that out." and rises with Christ and awaken our consciences. We The percentage of U.S. proposes an act of penance must give fresh vigor to our Catholics receiving the which the penitent accepts to sense of duty and to our desire sacrament of Penance monthly make satisfaction for sin and to to respond, in a practical way, dropped from 37 to 17 between (Continued on Page 16) to the demands of a genuine 1963 and 1974, a study done by Christian life. the University of Chicago's NEARLY 10 years ago, National Opinion Research anb our encyclical Populorum Center (NORC) found. Progressio, On the Develop- The NCCB permitted the ment of Peoples, was like a "cry use of the new Rite of Penance of anguish, in the name of the at the beginning of Lent last <©roont" Lord" addressed to the year. It is to become mandatory Christian communities and to on the first Sunday of Lent this BT| Classified 17 all people of good will. y-r, Feb. 27 M 10th Annual Edition Today, as the liturgical Father Krosnicki said WTrn Know Your season of Lent begins, we interest in the new rite is high Wtft Faith 9 would like to renew that solemn in some places, noting that kJ PrT'll^ TV" "22 INSIDE THIS ISSUE! appeal. Our gaze and our heart "250 people turned out in one ^M Spanilh'.'.'.'.'.'78-20 as pastor of all continue to be Washington, D.C., parish" for ^^H Walsh 7 overwhelmed by the immense a meeting explaining the k^H Youth 15 reform. (Continued on Page 16) THERE IS "a richness in Groundbreaking ceremonies at St. new building which will be used as a Agatha parish were held last week. church, parish center and campus Father William L. O'Dea, pastor of St. ministry facility. Guarantying longevity Agatha, was assisted by Msgr. David E. to the church, five-year-olds Wendy Bushey, pastor of St. Brendan parish, in Hebert and ChristopheriHodges (above) turning the first spade of earth for the do their part in building for the future.

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Appointments The Chancery announces that Archbishop Coleman F. Carroll has made the following appointments, effective on the dates indicated: THE REVEREND MONSIGNOR* JOSEPH H. O'SHEA—to Vicar Econome, St. Sebastian Church, Fort Lauderdale, effective as of March 1, 1977. THE REVEREND ANTHONY MULDERRY- to Chaplain of Court No. 623 of the Catholic Daughters of America, Key West, effective immediately, while retaining other assignment. THE REVEREND ROBERT PALMER-to Assistant Pastor, St. Benedict Church, Hialeah, ef- fective as of March 1, 1977, while retaining other assignment. THE REVEREND JOHN F. FINK-to Assistant Pastor, St. Joseph Church, Stuart, effective as of Can do—with the 7.2 million supply of cardboard wrappers (left) for the Lenten Operation Rice March 1,^1977. rice bowls completely depleted, Catholic Relief Bowl. Last year's campaign raised $5 million to Services has rushed production of 500,000 can help feed the world's hungry. THE REVEREND JOSE ZUBIETA, O.F.M.-to Assistant Pastor, St. Raymond Church, Miami, ef- fective as of March 1, 1977. THE REVEREND RAFAEL ESCALA-to 'Operation Rice Bowl'for Lent Assistant Pastor, Our Lady of the Lakes Church, Catholic churches in the Archdiocese ceptance of "Operation Rice Bowl" in Miami Lakes, effective immediately. of Miami will give special attention to the more than 130 dioceses encouraged the THE REVEREND VALENTIN GONZALEZ-to problems of world hunger throughput American Bishops to again urge the Assistant Pastor, St. John the Apostle Church, Lent this year. program this year. Anyone wishing to Hialeah, effective immediately. A program of Lenten prayer, fasting support "Operation Rice Bowl" should and almsgiving known as "Operation contribute during the Lenten season at The Chancery announces that upon nomination by Rice Bowl" will be encouraged in the your local Catholic Church. the Very Reverend Harry A. Cassel, O.S.A., Prior Diocese. "The ljiishops of the United States Provincial of the Augustinian Fathers in Villanova, Last year, the bishops of the United outlined a program of pastoral action," Pennsylvania, Archbishop Carroll has made the States adopted "Operation Rice Bowl" as said Msgr. John W. Glorie, Appeal following appointment, effective as of Feb. 16, 1977: a special form of sacrifice and prayer in Director, "when they urged both im- THE REVEREND JOSEPH M. CAC- connection with the 41st International mediate concern and long range action to CIOTTOTO, O.S.A. —to Assistant Pastor, Eucharist Congress in Philadelphia. meet the growing problem of world Resurrection Church, Dania. hunger. This appeal is an integral part of The success and generous ac- that program." Parishes plan special Lenten programs Special Lenten Renewal p.m., Tuesday, March 1 in the opportunities to visit Germany Maine to Florida and to Ohio, Bernadette School and their programs have been scheduled parish hall, 565 NW 131 St. and Israel where he par- will conduct a parish renewal parents as well as youth in many parishes in Dade and Coordinators will be Father ticipated in an ecumenical mission at ST. BERNADETTE enrolled in the Faith Broward Counties during Gerard LaCerra, M. Th.; study program with Christians, Church, 7450 Stirling Rd., Development Program (CCD) March. Father George Duffy, assistant Jews, and Muslems. Hollywood, beginning March are invited to participate. A five week program in pastor; and Adele Gonzalez, NOW ASSOCIATE 12. ON MARCH 14 can- Values-Education will begin on Parish Religious Education retreat director of Our Lady of On that Saturday, Father didates for confirmation and Sunday, Feb. 27 in ST. JAMES Director. Sessions will con- Florida Retreat House, North LaFrance, who formerly was their parents will further their parish, NW Seventh Ave. and clude with a social at 9:30 p.m. Palm Beach, he formerly held ! heard by two million listeners understanding of this 131st and will be incorporated Babysitting services will be that same position at the on a "Dial A Sermon" Sacrament when Father into Sunday Liturgies. provided for families with Cardinal Spellman Retreat telephone program in New LaFrance will preach on "Call Parishioners of all ages will children by the youth group. House in Riverdale, New York. York, will preach at all the to Discipleship." A para- be encouraged by priests, CCD AT. ST. LOUIS parish, Masses. He will also be heard at liturgical celebration will follow teachers and Sisters, to reflect 7270 SW 120 St., a Scripture Theme of the lectures will all the Sunday Masses, March in the church. upon Joasic value questions scholar who is a member of the be The Words of Men and the 13. Weekday schedules with present in today's life Congregation of the Passion Word of God, The 'Gospel' and two sessions are not yet High School students will situations and let the Gospel will present a series of five the Four Gospels, Something arranged. each receive a cross speak to them. Included in the lectures beginning at 7:30 p.m., Old, Something New: The two At 9 a.m., March 12 a welcoming them to the adult topics for reflection will be Monday, Feb. 28 and con- Testaments, Jesus the Jew, special children's Liturgy has Christian community, Father Home / Possessions; Jobs / tinuing on Mondays through Jesus the Christ, and Sacred been scheduled for those who James A. 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Miami, Florida I THE VOICE / Friday, February 25,1977 / Page 3 New Rite is on opportunity to experience God's mercy By REV. FELIPE J. order. enlarge upon them, may select ESTEVEZ The celebration of the the texts of readings or prayers, Professor of Theology Sacrament of penance depends and may choose a place more St. Vincent de Paul Seminary on how well the penitent is suitable for the cele- The New Rite of Penance prepared before the actual bration..." (The Rite of Penance invites all of us to a change of celebration of the ritual, and No. 40). attitudes and manner. The one of the best ways to prepare In the same spirit, the Faithfully serving Miami Church calls for a better well is by promoting Church offers three options or for over fifty years. theological understanding of penitential services in our rites to celebrate the Sacrament this Sacrament, new practical homes, parishes, schools, etc. of penance. Besides the rite for attitudes and a special ability The book giving the new rite individual penitents with which to communicate to the young provides several different we are familiar already, there is and the future generations the penitential ceremonies in also a rite of several penitents value and practice of this connection with the different with individual confession and absolution. But if occasional circumstances and grave INCREASINGLY pastoral needs arise there is also available another option: the rite for reconciliation of penitents with general con- PREFERRED fession and absolution. The bishop is called to participate in deciding whether or not there is a need for this option and his When fine funeral service is needed more and approval is needed when it is celebrated. more thoughtful families are calling Van Orsdel The true implementation Funeral Chapels. 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Miami, Florida/ THE VOICE /today, February 25, N77 / Page 5 'Fraud/ or just double standard?

During the past month the people of the enables fraudulent claims for food stamps And to the extent that there are invalid Archdiocese of Miami, together with many that much easier. cases receiving aid, this is a symptom of the concerned citizens, have contributed food, "In view of the present situation where inconsistent agencies and attitudes and law clothing and monetary assistance for the double standards are applied it is not dif- enforcement the migrants live and work relief of farmworkers who have been ficult to see how allegations of fraud and job under. unemployed since the freeze. refusal could exist. If the efforts being made What we would like to ask of those State and federal governments came to to uncover, fraud were channeled into people who are so hysterical about "fraud" the aid of these workers in supplying food eliminating the double standards applied to now, is what are they doing about the fraud stamps, unemployment assistance and unemployed farmworkers, then causes of some crew leaders and growers who other services. Allegations of fraud are now rather than symptoms would be treated and pocket Social Security deductions or exploit heard regarding food stamps, and refusal the rights of all individuals concerned would workers by the old "company store" on the part of the farmworker to take jobs be protected." method of credit for overpriced com- offered through the Florida State Employ- Practically any other worker in modities? Why is so little attention paid to ment Service as well as jobs offered by America, in the event of some disaster that the bona fide farmworkers under the growers. left him jobless, would simply start normal poor working conditions the rest of collecting unemployment as a routine the year? Msgr. John McMahon, director of the matter. His real employer or employers and Farmworkers, growers and govern- Archdiocese Rural Life Bureau, com- his paperwork would automatically be in ment representatives (especially federal) menting on the allegations, said: order. should sit down and work out a com- "We should be aware that unlike other But as usual, the migrants are the prehensive set of labor laws and regulations workers farmworkers are not eligible for exception. Many of his employers, crew that would be geared to agriculture, rather unemployment compensation except by leaders or growers, don't keep the paper- than the present labor laws which are special federal proclamation such as in work the law requires and many won't piecemeal or are applicable more to factory time of a disaster. Different standards are cooperate when asked to give a list of who situations than to agriculture. Then applied to unemployed farmworkers as are has worked for them. unemployment, Social Security, retirement applied to other umemployed workers So some of the so-called "fraudulent" and other worker benefits that other regarding choice of work, wage and cases are actually deserving people who Americans already have would not be at working conditions. To single out a specific just can't produce the paperwork to prove loose ends when disaster strikes. segment of the unemployed work force as their status. For many farmworkers, living from refusing jobs outside their skill area is Furthermore, Gov. Askew's week to week in rented shacks, no stable unfair and unjust The inability under our Emergency Office is saying that the family conditions, no retirement or hope for present system to monitor farmworkers allegations of fraud are highly exaggerated. the future, their whole lives are a disaster. Meditation for First Sunday in Lent alone shall you adore.'" the way. He puts his whole life in the By REV. MR. CLARENCE PODGORSKI Then the devil led him to service of the Father, thereby giving St. Vincent de Paul Seminary Jerusalem, set him on the parapet of his ministry its effectiveness. Format of the Series the Temple, and said to him, "If you As we begin Lent, we should are the Son of God, throw yourself take an honest look at our own Each reflection, which can be used by an individual- down from here..." Jesus said to him Christian life. We can easily com- or by a group such as the family or fellow parishioners in reply "It also says, 'You shall not promise our dedication to Christ and is divided into five parts: put the Lord your God to the test.'" others. In imitation of Jesus, Lent SCRIPTURE: This is a portion of Scripture taken (Lk. 4.1-13) can become our 40 days in the desert from one of the three readings of that Sunday's liturgy. THEME: if we set aside time to reflect, pray, We should make ourselves open to what the Word of Jesus goes alone to the desert for and do penance to revitalize our life God has to say to us as individuals. prayerful communion with the in Christ .Our re-experience of sharing THEME:The Theme develops ideas containedin Father before beginning his ministry. in Christ's resurrection at Easter will the Scripture passage. While reading the theme we He leaves the distractions and be that much more glorious if we do should start looking for specific applications to our own comforts of life to unite himself with so. life and situation. the Father's will. SUMMARY: SUMMARY: This is a sentence summary of each It is in the stillness of the desert, Jesus sought " solitude to of the paragraphs of the Theme. If this is used by a that Jesus receives the strength to dedicate himself completely to the group, it would be helpful to discuss what each of the begin his difficult ministry. will of the Father. sentences is saying. The temptations of Jesus are to Jesus, as true man, is tempted to QUESTIONS: The questions are to aid us in human popularity, power and glory. see things which will be advantages making applications to our personal lives and our Jesus is asked to turn stones into to him personally. specific situations. When we allow ourselves to be bread. He is asked to give what He rejects any personal ad- confronted by the Word of God, we must also place our people immediately want instead of vantages so that his ministry will lives under it's judgment. The Word calls us to giving them the divine ideals which lead other straight to the Father. something about our attitudes, values, behavior, also carry suffering. He is offered The distractions of life cause us concerns, etc. Since we are on pilgrimage to the Father, earthly power. to compromise our dedication to we are in constant need of reform to become more and But, Jesus has come to defeat Christ and his will. more like Christ. the tyranny of pride and darkness QUESTIONS: PRAYER: The prayer gives expression to our which holds sway over man and the How can pride and selfishness desire to make the Word of God a part of our lives and world. He is given an opportunity to enter into our good works? asks the Father to help us live the Word. make a spectacular impression on the What are some of the things that people of Jerusalem. But the way can keep us from making a total Jesus chooses is the way of humility dedication to Christ and his will? First Sunday of Lent answered him, "Scripture has it, 'Not and suffering which will lead to the What ways can we find during on bread alone shall man live.'" victory of the cross. Lent of following Christ into the SCRIPTURE: Then the devil took him up In this description of the desert for reflection and prayer? Jesus full of the Holy Spirit, higher and showed him all the temptations of Jesus, we see that his PRAYER: returned from the Jordan and was led kingdoms of the world in a single way is one of total dedication and Father you have sent your Son by the Spirit into the desert for 40 instant. He said to him, "I will give service to the will of the Father. He as the perfect example of what man days, where he was tempted by the you all this power and the glory of will not compromise this dedication should be. Help us during this devil. During that time he ate these kingdoms; postrate yourself in by seeking his own glory, fame, or Lenten season to find the way of nothing and at the end of it he was homage before me, and it shall all be power. more fully following the example of hungry. The devil said to him, "If yours." In reply, Jesus said to him, Jesus' whole life and ministry Jesus in our daily life, We ask this you are the Son of God command this "Scripture has it. "You shall do clearly point straight to the Father through our redeemer and model, stone to turn into bread." Jesus homage to the Lord your God; him without any deviation or obstacles in Jesus Christ, your Son. Amen. Page 61 Miami; Florida (THE VOICE I Friday, February 25, 1977 By Msgr. James J. Walsh Avoid pseudo-penance during Lent l responsibility for our neighbor's welfare. The disciplining ourselves in order to build up will i more we are willing to accept the duty given by power, and thus avoid future sin. It is an act of God of being our brother's keeper, the more we faith and love directed against our self-indulgent The new rite of Reconciliation / Penance will be impelled to sacrifice for him. And this nature, but it is also directed toward a closer becomes mandatory just as we enter into the demands a special kind of motive, if it is to be union with Christ in His redeeming work. season of Lent. This seems a fitting time, because worthwhile. If we think of penance more as an op- Lent is all about the love of God and the sin- There is an enormous amount of pseudo- portunity to serve Christ in others, we won't be fulness of man. And so is the rite of Recon- penance which is useless spiritually and even inclined to think negatively of the act of renun- ciliation. displeasing to God. In the Gospels, Jesus ignored ciation. The one is a holy season whereinthe follower the penances of the pharisees as without value. This makes sense when we keep in mind that of Christ takes stock of his past fidelity and in- The men who painted their cheeks to appear to be Christianity is not merely a religion of self denial. fidelity and seeks to repair the damage in order to fasting and prayed on street corners and lowered Self denial indeed must always be present in our deepen his union with the Lord. The other is a their eyes from the contemplation of heaven long spirituar make-up, but not as an end in itself. It Sacrament given us by the Lord whereby our sins enough to gauge the impression they were making must be looked on as the means of enabling us to are forgiven and we are reconciled to God and to on others, "already had their reward," according fulfill our Christian vocation. others. to Christ. There have always been gloomy schools of Just now, some thoughts on. Lent: Today whoever gives up smoking or drinking spirituality in the past centuries whose primary A few years ago there was some confusion or gets involved in the problems of his neighbor concern was a life of rigid renunciation, where one about the Church's attitude towards the per- and lacks in all this the inner attitude necessary sought to outdo the other in mortification, and formance of penance. It seems better understood for genuine penance stands with the pharisees. where, joyless men and woman waited stoically to now that while the Church did make changes in When is our renunciation worthwhile? When die and be rewarded by God. fast and abstinence, she by no means did away it indicates that we are undergoing a change of This is not true Christian renunciation. This with the necessity of doing penance. heart—a change in attitude toward sin—a change type of frigid sacrifice never could have inspired However, thfere still seems to be a need to in generosity toward God, treating sin as a, the saints, as actually they were inspired shed some light on renunciation. Perhaps more of rejection of Christ, being truly sorry for it. throughout the centuries to give their all for a reminder than a teaching. People still ask Penance is genuine when we look on what we Jesus. There has to be a motive, a driving interior themselves this question: what kind of penance are doing as an attempt to be truly converted to motive which seeks to bring about a change of should I do? the Lord. When we try to think His thoughts a heart and mind in ourselves and in others. Perhaps part of the answer to this may be little more closely and will what He wills a little Once this is grasped,- the field of penance found in determining what we enjoy most? In this more firmly. opens up in so broad an expanse that we may area we can find a vast field of penance well within When penance is right it is more than an wonder why we ever asked at the beginning of the our strength bolstered by the Lord's grace. effort to appease God, who has been offended by holy season—what can I do for Lent? Nowadays we are becoming more aware of our us. It is more than a private, persistent means of By Fr. John Dietzen ] How should we regard priest who 'left,' wed?\

that promise; in that case, he but God is the judge of that. hasn't let us in on his plans for could marry and remain in As for continuing your the date of the end of the world. perfectly good standing in the relationship with him, it can Whether it is 100 or Church as a layman. never be anything but right to 100,000 years away, we don't Without his telling you, be a friend to anyone—a know. The Bible, at best, only there's hardly any way you can thoughtful and honest friend. speaks of situations which will Q. We recently received know what his status is now, Try to understand, and have be present before the end of the word that a close friend who is a since these matters are the courage to be and say to world. Even then, it is usually priest is planning to marry. naturally handled very him what you believe is best for hard to discover what the This disturbed me greatly privately. If you are a close him, and for the others you Scripture writers, really mean. because I believed that the friend, ask him. I think it is must think of. However, those who priests who did this were not only fair that you should know, parade around with signs good priests anyway, and I as it inevitably affects your declaring "The end is near" do always thought he was a good feelings toward him. Q. When will the world have a point. Neither Scripture priest. Whatever the answer is, it end? Does the Church teach nor the Church is concerned I What is his status in the doesn't mean he was not a good anything about it? with satisfying our idle Church now? What should be priest. If he did abandon his A. The thousands of false curiosity, but rather with our attitude toward him? Can promise of celibacy without a predictions which have excited reminding us that the day we we in good conscience retain his dispensation, he possibly cut the world at one time or another leave this earth, not the day it friendship? corners and neglected prayer a ought to convince us, even if burns up, is the end of the A. Many Catholics still do lot more than he should have, nothing else does, that God world for you and me. not realize that it is possible for a priest to be released from his promise not to marry. Unlike marriage, whose nature and permanence are established by Prayi^ol thm faithml\ c God himself, the celibacy of the priesthood is something the -.*•,. Church could change, and has changed in various ways FIRST SUNDAY OF LENT its leaders and people may experience repentance of heart through the centuries. February 27,1977 and be reconverted to full life in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, Jesus established the Celebrant: Lent is the fitting time for a deeper awareness of we pray: priesthood to serve his people our weaknesses and of the pain of others. Let us pray PEOPLE: Lord, have mercy. in various ways, but he never together that we may depend more fully on God's grace for LECTOR: Like Jesus, may we learn obedience and the true made it his absolute rule that the well being of others and ourselves. love of the Father through the daily suffering we endure, we they could not be married. In Response: Lord, have mercy. pray: fact, married priests have been LECTOR: That the New rite of Penance / Reconciliation PEOPLE: Lord, have mercy. common in some parts of the may be a leaven in the Church for the full experience of the LECTOR: May the spirit of true charity influence all of our world since the beginning of forgiveness of sins and the conversion of heart which the good works in Lent, especially our support of the Arch- Christianity. Lord offers His people, we pray: bishops' Charities Drive, we pray: If a priest simply ignores PEOPLE: Lord, have mercy. PEOPLE: Lord, have mercy. the solemn promise he has LECTOR: That we may more faithfully heed the promptings Celebrant: Father, in your love for your children, you gave us made to remain unmarried, it of the Holy Spirit, the new law written upon our hearts, we your only Son to be our Lord and Redeemer. Grant us the would be wrong. It is entirely pray: generosity to love you with all our hearts and our neighbors possible fo him, however, to ask PEOPLE: Lord, have mercy. as ourselves. We ask this in the name of Jesus, the Lord. for and receive a release from LECTOR: That in this Lenten observance, the Church and Amen.

i, Florida / THE VOICE / Friday, February 25,1977 / Page 7 'Network1 a spouting whale of a film 'Network" is a slightly over them. There are nine brothel it has become. good enough for us to believe demented but whomping, triple-cheked scenes. But the film makes many they will ignite a totally jaded, spouting whale of a film*, and "Network" is, of course, a connections beyond the issue of cynical mass audience. Lumet's seeing it makes you understand satire about television. Not so whether money or schlock or direction is exhilarating, one how it felt when Heinz much about its content It's not art or reality dominates the master stroke after another, a discovered ketchup, or Arm- another "Boob Tube" or "Mary tube. It gets into business and stinging top-of-form triumph to strong put his foot on the moon Hartman"), but about the (vaguely) religion. It gets into follow his "Serpico" and "Dog without sinking through. people who run it and their the messes of the modern Day Afternoon." Acting? Well, How good is "Network?" conflicting philosophies and world: alienation, violence, there ought to be a half-dozen Well, it's the first movie to chemistries. The film is the superficiality, young vs. old, Oscar nominations, surely for engage all the adult sen- impassioned creation of two outs vs. ins, men vs. women. Dunaway, Holden, Finch and sibilities—I mean, to think, men whose careers were born in Briefly, "Network" begins ultimate TV exploitation of Straight, possibly also Duvall feel, care, roar with anger or TV during the "golden" with the breakdown of a vet- sickness and misery. The and Ned Beatty. delight—at least since "Nash- 1950's — writer Paddy eran network newscaster (the scheme works and Finch ville" and 1974 films like "The Chayefsky and director Sidney late Peter Finch). He's being becomes part of a wacky pop The language in "Net- Conversation," "Duddy Lumet; basically, these aging, fired for declining ratings and news show, a journalist's work" approaches that in the Kravitz" and "Harry and gifted Golden Agers are goes bananas on-the-air, nightmare of what TV news White House tapes. Most peo- Tonto." It's better than all of assaulting the Killing of their threatening loudly to commit would be like if only ratings ple don't talk that way, even them. To give you an idea, I put Dream. Their anger is like suicide and finally going into counted. if they do in Manhattan, and check marks on my notes to Everest. They think TV is the four-letter paroxysms of rage Other angles develop. some viewers will be upset. In remind me of specially in- world's "most awesome force," about the world's psychoses Despite their differences, addition, while the Chayefsky- teresting moments in a film. and they care like crazy. and hypocrisies. Two ambitious Dunaway and Holden have a Lumet ideas are exciting, For a good flick, there might be "Network" is not the execs, ratings-oriented Faye May-December affair which nobody can make statements a dozen single-checks. A couple literal truth about TV, but the Dunaway and profit-oriented allows a coterie of brilliant about TV (much less human times a season, there might be essential truth. It nails the Robert Duvall, decide to scenes, including the most worth and the function of moral some double-checks. Triple industry mercilessly to the promote Finch as the Mad movingly adult confrontation prophecy) without provoking checks are unprecedented (since wall. It's the first work of adult Moral Prophet of the Air- between philandering husband maybe "Citizen Kane"). My some disagreement. popular art to suggest, with waves, over the objection of and abandoned wife (Beatrice At times I flinched, at notes for "Network" look like any sophistication, the contrast idealistic veteran news exec Straight) in several generations an army of chickens wandered times L disagreed. But I between TV's power and the William Holden. It's the of movies. It leads to a climax haven't ljeen so stimulated at a where Holden can tell off movie since I dropped hot barricuda Dunaway as "TV chocolate on my lap during incarnate...if I stay with you "The Return of Zorro." 'Show Boat' still a classic I'll be destroyed, like By J. HERBERT BLAIS Man River" is accepted as an everything TV touches...is "Show Boat," the 1927 American folk song. reduced to the common rubble musical by Jerome Kern and Zev Buf man's current of banality." Another Dunaway Oscar Hammerstein II, based production, starring George S. programming idea is the Mao on the novel by Edna Ferber, Irving as the kingpin, Captain Tse-Tung Hour," featuring the opened Tuesday night at the Andy; Laurence Guittard as activities of a radical left Miami Beach Theater of the the handsome Ravenal, Judith "liberation army." That show Performing Arts for five days McCauley as the loveliest of also becomes a hit, and there is and will reopen on Monday for Magnolias, and Julie Wilson a dazzlingly mad scene where a three-week run at the Parker as a statuesque, tragic Julie, the leader, his Patty Hearst- Playhouse in Fort Lauderdale. rolls colorfully along through type associate and a very tough A historical play, covering multiple scenes and splendid Communist gal haggle with bits of show business from the wardrobe. Virginia Sandifur network attorneys over leadins, 1880's to the 1920's, "Show and Harvey Evans punch it full contracts and residuals. Boat" also made theatrical of sparkle, as the comic relief. All this may not suggest history. Not just in its capacity But, despite the swift pace greatness to you, but Chayef- Broadway and road runs, its given to the period piece by sky's writing is knockout. The two movies and countless Director Donald Driver, "Show spoof level is only a notch community productions... Boat" is long. Thoroughly above realism. The long-ago It gave American theater without sexual innuendo or creator of "Marty" provides new dimensions. A musical even a hint of violence, the more than one-liners, indeed, a play with artistic entity, evening is romantic and Sesame Street at Night?, a whole series of crackling dramatic truth, authentic nostalgic. But the two acts and 30-minute nighttime spe- speeches reflecting the characterizations, effective 13 scenes extend nearly three cial for adults will feature viewpoints of heroes and fools Lena Home and "Grover" alike. Finch's paranoid on- atmosphere and a logical story hours. along with excerpts of the line, it made the previous You might not notice the camera ravings may be the best first 1,000 programs on of all, since they have to be So soft, so comfortable decade of Broadway musicals length, though. You might Thursday, March 10, at and at the same time, look frothy and foolish. purely enjoy humming along 6:30 p.m., over PBS- "Show Boat" is a veritable with "Only Make Believe" and Channel 2. as tastefully smart as classic. Kern's score is a cor- "Why Do I Love You?" and nucopia of musical riches. "Can't Help Lovin' Dat Man." they are soft and comfortable. The Andre Hammerstein's dialog and On the way home, you'll BEST TV ^ lyrics reach heights of poetry remember "You Are Love," CHARTERS by Bally of Switzer- and dramatic eloquence. The and "After the Ball." 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11 made 1 into one w&mk By FATHER JOHN J. CASTELOT In the Book of Hosea, God is presented as speaking to his formerly faithless bride, Israel, as follows: "I will espouse you to me forever: I will espouse you in right and justice, / in love and in mercy; / I will espouse you in fidelity, / and you shall know the LORD" (Hos 2, 21- 22). When you think about it, using the marital relationship to express the convenant bond between Yahweh and his people is rather bold, but, perhaps for this very reason, quite forceful. It tells us a great deal about that bond as a warm, interpersonal, intimate relationship, rather than In this woodcut by Paul Gustave Dore, Jacob labors as just a cold, legalistic arrangement Laban's shepherd as Rachel draws water from a well like other covenants of the day. And it tells us something about marriage as viewed by the biblical authors. SOME BOOKSdo, in fact, make the covenant sound like a lifeless 2,23-24). Even though this was the ordinarily she would not have been one can call it a corrective, by the contract drawn up and notarized in ideal and remained so for a long far past the age of puberty. While we later (Pauline) author of Ephesians. an attorney's office; and many while, polygamy was practiced know nothing about the ceremony, In the tradition of the earlier passages give a similar impression of without question at least until after we do know that the subsequent prophets he compares the union of marriage. One must put all the data the Exile. So generally accepted was festivities lasted a week. man and wife to that of Christ and together to get a true picture. it that, while Hosea pictured Yahweh If this sounds rather cold and his Church. This passage set the tone Marriage among God's people as the 'husband' of Israel, Ezekiel did businesslike, there are also in- for the Christian attitude to the was a private affair; it was neither not hesitate to picture him as married dications that marriage involved marriage bond, an indissoluble union public nor religious. Consequently to two sisters, symbols of the two deep love, too. The girl's wishes were of love and mutual giving, a living the Law says little, about it directly, kingdoms (Ez. 23). often consulted (Gn. 24,58), and sign of Christ's unique and unfailing except in its regulations about whom WHILE POLIGAMYmay have Jacob loved Rachel so much that he love for his Body, the Church: a priest may or may not marry (Lv. been a practical arrangement from agreed to serve her brother for an "...Husbands, love your wives, 21,7,13). It tells us nothing about the some points of view, it led to all sorts additional seven years if he could as Christ loved the church. He gave legal age for marriage, the wedding of family problems: envy, squabbles, have her—after he had been duped himself up for her to make her holy, ceremony, and other items of obvious hatred, even violence. Many Old into marrying her ill-favored elder purifying her in the bath of water by interest. It does, however, consider Testament stories bear this out. sister (Gn. 29,15-30). Abraham and the power of the world...Husbands peripheral matters, those with Concubinage, too, seems to have Sarah, Samuel and Hannah, and should love their wives as they do strictly legal implications, like been quite common, and the legal many others were deeply in love. And their own bodies. He who loves his divorce and remarriage (Dt. 24, 1-4), complications arising from this the whole book known as the Song of wife loves himself. Observe that no being hoodwinked into marrying a situation were very involved. Songs is a rapturous celebration of one ever hates his own flesh; no, he non-virgin, rape, adultery, and the Normally the parties who frankly erotic love. nourishes it and takes care of it as like (Dt. 22,13-23,1). arranged the marriage were the The New Testament really adds Christ cares for the church —for we Monogamy was held up as the fathers of the couple, or the girl's little to the data of the Old. Jesus are members of his body. 'For this ideal by the Yahwist author of Gene- brothers if her father was dead. A treats the subject directly only in reason a man shall leave his /father sis 2. After Adam's ecstatic ex- payment known as the 'mohar' was connection with the question of and mother, / and shall cling, to his clamation: "This one, at last, is bone made to the bride's parents. The divorce, and then reaffirms the ideal wife, and the two shall be made into of my bone and flesh of my flesh; transaction doesn't seem to have expressed in Gn 2,23-24. Paul seems one' (Gn. 2, 24). This is a great This one shall be called 'woman,' for been anything so crude as 'buying' to take a less than enthusiastic view foreshadowing; I mean that it refers out of 'her man' this one has been the girl, although it may well have of marriage in 1 Cor. 7, but what he to Christ and the Church. In any taken," the writer comments: "That been the vestige of an even more wrote has to be carefully weighed case, each one should love his wife as is why a man leaves his father and ancient custom which was in fact a against the whole context of that he loves himself, the wife for her part mother and clings to his wife, and the purchase. We are not told how old the letter. showing respect for her husband" two of them become one body" (Gn. bride usually was, but it seems that A CORRECTIVE is supplied, if (Eph 5, 25-26, 28-33). Miami, florida / THE VOICE / Friday, february 25,1977 / Page 9 : .,..,••;.-..•..• • ...:V --.;;• ,••'••: .•:••;, • ,- j;;?_'-r MARRIAGE KN0W By WENDY SOMERVILLE WALL When God had created the world the covenant parallel is e Y0UR and all the good and beautiful things Christ's 1 lise, hov on it, he created man to till and care way beyond a ^..tual com: for and enjoy the earth and, because support. He has told his i FAITfl } "it is not good for the man to be no matter what we do as alone," (Gn. 2,18). So he created a will love us and seek our partner for man—woman. him. As long as some\ Since that time, when God gave wedded partner, no matte: the first couple his own likeness, he other has done, retains an has continued giving a significance to nourishing love, the covens their union beyond any other parallel is justified. the Scriptures draw: The covenant of MARRIAGE IS love between a man and a woman is a sacrament where the persoi sacred sign of the covenant of love it is also the administrator between God and his people, between is not done to us; we do Christ and his church. selves, just as Christ free ONE WONDERS why Christ and freely made a covenan today's make noble demands chose so abused an institution as church. Yet a surprising m marriage to signify so perfect a couples seem only vaguely i promise as his. Perhaps because he their role as ministers. The did not speak of contract but rite of marriage which mon covenant; he did not mean law but emphasizes the covenant the love. Perhaps Christ made marriage a opens the marriage ceremo sacrament to insure that the great deal of couple participa covenant he selected to be a sign of couples who wish this invc his own fidelity would endure. Thus should be welcomed. Those each marrying couple is given the timid should be encouraged grace to meet and overcome hard- it is an excellent way for tl ships and sufferings, to remain faith- their priest to fully explo ful, and therefore forever be living understanding of the sacran witnesses of Christ's love. their serious preparation foi Even though today more and There is no better wa; more couples do not remain faithful nounce that the couple th< and break the promise they have are the ministers of the sa made to one another, there is no they share than to have then threat to the covenant parallel Christ and verbally make their vo\ has drawn. As long as one man and another in a manner as obv: one woman care for each other in conscious and active as posf such a way that they accept stand with backs to fam responsibility for one another's joy, friends, beneath a priest am The breaking off bread By FATHER JOSEPH M. CHAMPLIN have, instead, a brownish reserve in the tabernacle a difficulties in developing food. The eucharistii, ead, A dozen women in Holy color and more substance, quantity of the traditional breads which were suitable. even though unleavened and Family parish belong to a while still retaining a circular white wafers to care for the Patient preaching and traditional in form, should volunteer group we call the shape and unleavened overflow of communicants teaching plus a gentle ap- therefore be made in such a "altar bread bakers." Each character. and to provide for those proach giving to objectors way that the priest can break week according to a schedule EACH LOAF of this persons who strongly object the alternative described it and distribute the parts to developed and supervised by bread is about one-half inch to this innovation. By above gradually dissolved at least some of the faithful. the rectory housekeeper, thick and approximately six simply waiting until near the most of the hostility. When the number of com- Lena Crisafulle, one of these inches in diameter. We break end of the Communion Equally patient ex- municants is large or other ladies bakes enough bread to it during the Lamb of God procedure, they normally perimentation with various pastoral needs require it, carry us through the Sunday into about 25-30 pieces for receive the thin hosts recipes and methods has led small hosts may be used. liturgies and for the days distribution to com- because we have by then us to the current, generally The gesture of the breaking which follow. municants. The number of exhausted the supply of acceptable product. of the bread, as the eucharist These loaves are not, loaves used depends on the "brown" altar breads. OUR EFFORTS in this was called in apostolic times, however, the thin, white, particular Mass and the The present practice area stemmed from the will more clearly show the perfectly round hosts expected number of wor- now meets with fairly broad following directive from the eucharist as a sign of unity customary for many years in shipers (two for 7:00; three based approval in the parish. revised Roman Missal: and charity, since the one most Catholic churches. for 8:30 five or six for 9:45 At the beginning five years "The nature of the sign bread is being distributed Prepared according to the and 11:15). ago, on the contrary, we demands that the material among the members of one recipe used in a midwest In addition, we oc- encountered significant for the eucharistic family" (No. 283). Benedictine monastery, they casionally consecrate and opposition and met with celebration appear as actual These new altar breads, Page ID I Miami, Horida / THE VOICE / Friday, February 25,1977 Why a sacrament? in inaudible voices does not underline another, administered by one By FATHER ALFRED McBRIDE, that this man and this woman are another. At the same time the O. PRAEM. making a sacrament with one sacrament has a social significance Certain moments in life are so serious that rallel is evident. imparting not only grace and they cannot be left to routine behavior. There are -rise, howf , goes responsibility to the witnesses. At a some human events too great to consign to a .itual comm. .aent of wedding, all are enriched by the passing glance. Peak moments in everyone's life told his people that evidence of Christ's love which the have so much depth, wonder and multitudes of we do as sinners, he couple's willingness to accept one meanings about them that they make the word seek our return to another suggests. And. they are sacred come almost spontaneously to the lips. as somewhere one challenged by an obligation to do all Such major moments are the birth of a child, no matter what the in their power to foster the love the the wedding«of two lovers, the death of a human retains an open and couple have for one another. being. Clearly there are other deep moments in the covenant parallel WHEN THE FACT of the life, but few can match the consistency of this couple's marrying themselves is trinity of peak and depth experiences so prevalent 3E IS the only really understood, it would seem to in life. s the person receiving make the sacrament of marriage linistrator, Marriage more at home in our contemporary THE SACRAMENTS of the Church are is; we do it to our- cultural setting than it has been in closely linked with such peak and depth ex- Hhrist freely sought any previous age. Most modern periences. The sacraments of Baptism, a covenant with hip marriages are not undertaken to matrimony and the funeral Mass, surround, satisfy the aims of state or church or hallow, celebrate and focus the veritably family or for a woman to have a male automatic reverence that accompanies birth, protector and the man to have marriage and death. It is the sacrament that aids someone maintain his home. Young us to call forth and affirm the presence of Christ in couples today most often speak of these moments. It is the sacramental event that arrying in terms of their mutual helps us be aware that Christ is the very depth and ce (psychological satisfaction, a meaning of being born, marrying and dying. It is fulfillment of their personhood. They the sacramental rite that brings'to the front of our seek a partner as a life companion, a awareness the presence of the holy in the midst of communicative helpmate who will en- such wonders as birth and marriage and the courage them to be their best selves pledge of Easter and eternal life. ids and who, in turn, they will sustain rprising number of Barely 20 years ago, the women's magazines y vaguely aware of with effort and sacrifice. They stress the maintenance of an individuality asked the question, 'Can this marriage be listers. The current saved?" Their answer was always yes. Today, which more clearly that is compatible with and supports shared goals in a shared life. those same magazine ask, "Should this marriage svenant theme, also be saved?" Sadly, their answer is all too often no. ige ceremony to a Indeed it seems that many In a culture that favors the throwaway > the lie participation and contemporary couples make more disposable and planned obsolesence regarding h this involvement noble demands on marriage than the things, there is the growing application of this led. Those who are social factors influencing an earlier principle to persons. What presumably works well encouraged because generation. With so much emphasis for the economy (buy something new today — ; way for them and on personal needs and self- throw away your old things) should also work well fully explore their fulfillment, however, there is greater for people (throw away your old spouse—try a : the sacrament and danger on the selfishness that leads new one). paration for it. to marriage failure. But, in the HAVING LOST a sense of permanence in better way to an- mutual search for potential, there is couple themselves the physical order, it was only a matter of time also greater hope for the im- before we began to lose a feeling for durability in s of the sacrament provement of marriage as a valued ;o have them visibly the personal order. A recent news clipping showed and exciting contribution to society. a woman sporting her seventh husband. She ke their vow to one nnt. anod foT The outcome is worth the risk. nner as obvious and tt disposed of six persons and is now consuming the because *it «v» a»»» j When a thoughtfuli hard. seventh. Such people no longer take their vows :tive as possible. To fff CBfl to be CLlOtlC He Created working marriage succeeds and "until death do us part," but rather "until ;ks to family and . * , persevers, it gloriously reflects the a f growth, boredom, or the urge to throwaway do a priest and repeat partner JOT ttt an "W OtU Ufl, unselfish and enduring love of Christ. us part." Part of the charm of weddings is the public affirmation of enduring love by the spouses. What they whispered to each other in the romance and joy of their pre:marital getting to know each other, is now tentatively, nervously, but truly proclaimed before their relatives and friends. The mature and experienced witnesses know the id at Mass troubles that lie ahead, but they are nonetheless touched. The youthful, unmarried onlookers see the dream of romance fulfilled, and are affected ic ead, then, are not really so much among brothers, it must 5). deeply in their own way. 3ned and an innovation as a always be made in the These altar breads do , should restoration of what was done traditional form." make it clearer that Holy This brief public exposure of love's af- a such a in the early Christian cen- "THE NECESSITY for Communion is eating the firmations, its durability and the acceptance of an break turies. the sign to be genuine ap- Lord's Body. They also the sacrifice implied is caught by the sacramental parts to The Missal nevertheless plies more to the color, taste better remind us of St. rite of matrimony. The readings and prayers faithful. cautions parish leaders: and texture of the bread than Paul's words to the introduce the texts about God's covenant with of com- "Care must be taken that the to its shape. Out of reverence Corinthians: "Because the people, his everlasting love, his refusal to seek a or other elements be kept in good for the sacrament, every care loaf of bread is one, we, divorce from his people. Just as Christ has ab- juire it, condition, so that the wine and attention should be used many though we are, are one solutely wedded himself to the Church, with no be used. does not sour or the bread in preparing the altar bread. body, for we all partake of thought of ever going back on his promises, so breaking spoil or become too hard to It should be easy to break the one.loaf." (1 Cor. 10,17). should this couple understand the vows thev t«k

Alligator wrestling included Rubin Billy (above), Ross ' '' Kananga (top right) winner of the event with 99 points, andr >: Jim Oavis (right) of Fort Lauderdale and a physical education teacher at Driftwood Middle School, Hollywood. d f^.. ~i -.if*,;-* 6th Seminole Tribal Fair

Photos and article Ross won would probably just nendoh, Six Nation Con- By FRANK HALL about cover the cost of the federation. Onida. Similar stitches required for the bite. dances were performed during Over 2,000 Indians from Ross who owns an alligator the four day fair. more than 20 tribes throughout farm in Jamaica, has quite a Rodeo events featured the United States gathered at few scars already, including 123 bareback brahma bull, calf the Seminole Reservation in stitches he received from a roping, bulldogging, team Hollywood for the sixth annual stunt he did for the James roping, and barrel racing tribal fair and rodeo. Bond movie "Live and Let Die" (girls). The competition was for "It is a time for all Indian of walking across the backs of Indians only. people to get together," ex- alligators. Mixed with all the events plains Judybill Osceola, The fair included a Miss and the colorful costumes of the manager of Seminole Arts and Seminole Princess contest in Indians, the aroma of Indian Crafts Enterprise. which Sandra K. McClellan specialties like pumpkin bread, "MANY Indians are not from Big Cypress was crowned "Seminole" burgers, and fry familiar with each other and 1977-78 winner by last year's bread permeated the grounds. what their tribal areas are like. Princess, Gloria Wilson. If all the activity seemed When Navaho from Arizona FOLLOWING the too much for fair-goers, there came here they were surprised Princess competition, was plenty of room on the to see so many plants and trees traditional Indian dances were grass-swept grounds to simply growing," says Judybill. "The performed by Robert Soto, sit, relax and watch thousands fair is also a good way to Apache; Thomas Sporn, of years of traditions and provide better communications Seminole; and Gerald Shen- history walk by. betweens tribes." In addition, the tribal fair and rodeo is a good source of income for the Indian people and assists in developing and creating programs for Indians. One of the highlight events of the four-day fair was the alligator wrestling com- petition. Ross Kananga from Jamaica took first place with 99 points. Ross believed to be the only man in the world who wrestles crocociles, thrilled the audience when he selected a mean crocodile for the com- petition. Shortly into the match, Ross was bitten but continued on to win the contest. ALLIGATOR wrestler Jim Davis, who is also* a physical education teacher at Driftwood Apache Robert Soto in fancy dance dress performed Middle School, Hollywood, Miss Seminole Princess Sandra McClellan is for viewers. noted that the prize money congratulated by Howie Tommie, chief of the Seminole Page 12 / Miami. Florida/THE VOICE I Friday, February 25,1977 party on March 12 at the Miami ST. HUGH Women's Guild, Shores Country Club. For reser- Coconut Grove, will sponsor a vations call 758-2310 or 696-9939. "Southern Hospitality" fashion show and luncheon on Saturday, Feb. 26 at It's a Date the Key Biscayne Hotel, Key MIAMI BEACH KC meets at 8 Biscayne. Broward County p.m. in St. Patrick's Hall. Programs Palm Beach County for the next few months will be OUR LADY OF PERPETUAL LAUDERDALE SINGLES ST. THOMAS MORE Madonna discussed. HELP parish will welcome members Club will sponsor a party at 8:30 Guild meets after the 8:30 a.m. Mass of the Blue Army of Our Lady of p.m., Saturday, Feb. 26 in St. on Friday, March 4 at the K. of C. ST. DOMINIC parish will Fatima for a meeting at 7:30 p.m., Gregory parish hall, Plantation. Hall, 3314 Old Dixie Hwy., Boynton sponsor a Spring dance on Saturday, Monday, Feb. 28 in the hall, 13250 ST. BARTHOLOMEW Young Beach. A continental breakfast will Feb. 26 at 9 p.m. in the parish hall, NW 28 Ave., Opa Locka. at Heart Club will attend a dinner be served. A special program is 5909 NW Seventh St. and show at the Sea Ranch, Fort planned. All women of the parish are BLESSED TRINITY parish, Lauderdale, on Sunday, Feb. 27. urged to attend. SACRED HEART Women's Miami Springs, is sponsoring a Club, Homestead, will sponsor a Day carnival today (Friday) through ST. BERNARD parish festival Dade County of Reflection, Tuesday, March 1 at 9 Sunday, Feb. 27 on the grounds at is in progress today (Friday) through a.m. in Patrina Hall. Reservations 4020 Curtiss Pkwy, Rides, variety Sunday on the grounds at 8275 must be made no later than Feb. 28 booths, games, and refreshments will Sunset Strip, Sunrise. Amusements, OUR LADY OF THE LAKES by calling 247-6218. be provided. rides, games, variety booths, and parish carnival opens Thurday, refreshments will be available. March 3 and continues through March 6 on the grounds at 15801 NW NATIVITY Women's Guild has 67 Ave., Miami Lakes. Rides, elected Mrs. Donald Eurillo as novelty booths, refreshments and a HOW president. Other officers who will also spaghetti dinner will be featured. be installed during luncheon at noon, Tuesday, March 8 at the Kapok Tree HOLY FAMILY Women's Club Inn, Fort Lauderdale, are Mrs. Julius will meet at 8 p.m., Tuesday, March 1 LENT Volpe, vice president; Mrs. Albert in the parish hall. A special Lenten Means, recording secretary; Mrs. program featuring a demonstration Kenneth Stibler, corresponding of the new rite of penance will be secretary; and Mrs. Edgar Julian, presented. THE HOLY FATHER'S MISSION AID TO THE ORIENTAL CHURCH treasurer. The Guild will sponsor a With the season of Lent, comes the question, Day of Reflection on Feb. 28 at .9 "How can I best keep Lent?" The answer is we a.m. in the parish hall. For in- DIVORCED WOMEN'S CLUB must make sacrifices on our own and nothing is formation call 989-2247. REAL a sacrifice unless it .hurts. What will be your meets Friday, March 4 in the CHARITY Religious Educational .Trailer on the sacrifice? . . . Just think of the missionaries in ST. JEROME Women's Club MEANS our 18 emerging countries who keep Lent all grounds of St. James parish, NW SACRIFICE will sponsor' a luncheon and card Fifth Ave. and 131st St. year long. Sacrifice something big this year. party at 12:30 p.m., Tuesday, March When helping others hurts a bit, you know 1 in the parish hall, 2533 SW Ninth LITTLE FLOWER Fifty Plus you've made a sacrifice Ave., Fort Lauderdale. Club, Coral Gables, will sponsor a card and games party at 2 p.m.. • In India, our priests and Sisters subsist on ST. BONIFACE Woman's Club, Sunday, Feb. 27 in the school ounces of rice each day so they can share what meets at 8 p.m., Wednesday, March 2 cafeteria Refreshments will be FEED they have with lepers and orphans. $10 will feed in the parish hall, 8451 Johnson St., served. THE a family for several weeks at least. $50 will feed Pembroke Pines. HUNGRY five families. $100, ten families . . . Only $975 ST. MICHAEL Council of gives a priest a two-acre 'model farm' to raise ST. SEBASTIAN Council of Catholic Women will sponsor a card his own food and teach his parishioners how to Catholic Women will observe a party, Monday, Feb. 28 at 8 p.m. in raise more food. Archbishop Mar Gregorios will Corporate Communion during the 8 the school cafetorium. Refreshments write to thank you. a.m. Mass on Friday, March 4. A will be served. Both English and D Enable a girl to become a Sister. For $12.50 breakfast and business meeting will Spanish-speaking are invited. TRAIN A a month, $150 a year, $300 altogether, you follow in the parish hall, Fort Tickets are available at the rectory can pay in full for her two-year training, have Lauderdale. A tape recording by office or at the door. SISTER Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen will be a Sister 'of your own.' featured. VILLA MARIA Auxiliary will • For only $14 a month ($168 a year) you can sponsor its annual St. Patrick's Day HELP make sure that an abandoned child has food, A clothing, a blanket and love . . . We'll send you CHILD MASS for Disneyworld Area ROME • PAPAL AUDIENCE • JERUSALEM • BETHLEHEM • FATIMA • ASSISI a photo of the boy or girl you 'adopt'. Holy Family Catholic Church URINC 1977 • Our priests will offer promptly the Masses you request. Do you wish to remember some- From route 192 take 1-4 East to MASSES •CATholic TRAVEI CENTER FOR one you love this Lent? Your Mass offerings are SR 535 North. 3 minutes to AMMICA'S IUDINO OPIUTOK OF CATHOLIC INTIMST TOURS Mass. Sat 6 p.m., Sun 8 a.m. again offers you tho Shrinks of Europe and LENT usually the only income our priests overseas Hotel Royal Plaza, Lake Buena the Holy Land plus a vary |oyful vacation. receive. 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Oakland Park Blvd and Plan- Seventh Ave. and 129 St.; and NE Fifth Ave. and POMPANO BEACH-The Spring meeting tation United Methodist, 1001 NW 70th Ave. at 125 St. as well as at various intersections and at of the North Broward Deanery of the Miami 10 a.m.; and at Piney Grove First Baptist, 1100 churches in the area. ACCW begins at 8:30 a.m. on Tuesday, March 1 NW Fourth St. at 7:30 p.m. Colombian Squires Circle No. 1364, and at St. Gabriel Church. Two ACCW members were recently named members of the North Dade Catholic Young Coffee and registration will be followed by a board members of Church Women United of Adults Club will also assist in the campaign. business session at 9:15 a.m. Greater Fort Lauderdale. Cathy Fisher of St. Others wishing to volunteer should call 893-2271. The Children's Crusade for Prayer program Maurice parish and Carol Zeglen, St. Clement will be presented by Mrs. Carmen Monaco, parish, will be co-chairmen of Ecumenical coordinator. Mass will follow at 11:15 a.m. Development. Retreat in Lantana Luncheon will be served at the Sea Garden Restaurant where the Annual Valiant Woman LANTANA—Lenten Retreats for Women award will be presented. Pre~Cana conferences are scheduled during March at the Cenacle Retreat House. MIAMI LAKES —Pre-Cana Conferences Sessions will be held on the weekends of St. Rose Lent series will be conducted at Our Lady of the Lakes March 4-6, March 11-13, and March 18-20. parish center, 15801 NW 67 Ave. on March 9, 16 For reservations and complete information A series of Lenten lectures will be presented and 23 at 8 p.m. call or write Sister Muriel Brown, R.C, at the in St. Rose of Lima Church, Miami Shores, by Couples planning to be married within the retreat house or phone 582-2534. Father Daniel Madden, O.P. associate professor next six months are required to attend pre-Cana of Religious Studies at Barry College, beginning courses in preparation for marriage. Sunday, Feb. 27. Married couples will discuss the practical Alcohol abuse retreat The Dominican priest will preach the homily aspects of matrimony, communication, finances, at all the Sunday Masses between Feb. 27 and etc. on March 16. On March 23 the guest lecturer KENDALL—A Serenity Retreat for anyone March 27. In addition he will conduct an in-depth will be Father Todd Hevia of the Archdiocesan whose life has been affected by the abuse of study of the Gospel of St. Luke explaining its Matrimonial Tribunal who will speak on the alcohol is scheduled at the Dominican Retreat historicity, its authenticity and accuracy at 7:30 Sacramentality of Marriage. House, 7275 SW 124 St. from March 4-6. p.m. on Monday evenings. A question and answer Participating parishes are advised to notice "Quest for Honesty" will be theme of the period will follow each lecture. the host parish of the number of couples who will session conducted by Father Fred Lawrence, be attending. S.R., Stirling, N.J., who has worked in the field of alcoholism for the past 24 years. Serra clubs to dine The retreats are non-denominational and in 'Tootsie Roll' drive no way associated with Alcoholics Anonymous or Combined Serra Clubs of Miami, Fort AL-Anon. Lauderdale, Palm Beach, and Indian River The annual "Tootsie Roll" campaign to aid Space is limited and early reservation should County will honor Serra International Director, mentally retarded will be conducted by Marian be made by calling 852-3112 or the retreat house, John A. Donahue on Wednesday, March 23 at Council KC on March 4,5, and 6 with proceeds 238-2711. 6:30 p.m. at the Hotel Hilton, Fort Lauderdale. All Serrans and their wives are invited to attend the reception and dinner. Reservations close on March 3.

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Page 14 / Miami, Florida I THE VOICE / Friday, February 25,1977 Hottest racquet in town at Curley

By FRANK HALL last year before graduating.) A combination of knee pain and Voice Features Editor BLAINE and his dad play parental encouragement to Blaine Willenborg, Being the number one a lot of father-son tourneys and compete in a less combative United States No. one tennis player in the United "he plays a nice game" ac- sport led Cory to a sport which player in doubles and States in doubles for 16 and cording to Blaine. "It's good has already provided him with third in singles, is under doesn't seem to make because I know he understands the opportunity of attending defending his Florida Blaine Willenborg uptight. me," Blaine continues. Duke University on a tennis State Champion title But, he's had some past ex- After high school, the scholarship., this year. perience in capturing titles. junior is definitely going to RIGHT NOW, Cory isn't Blaine, a 17-year-old junior college and would like to play too sure if he sees tennis in the at Archbishop Curley High some pro tennis but not set his future as a career or just a School and a graduate of St. life on it. Blaine also runs cross hobby but he is adamant in Rose of Lima School, North country for Curley and enjoys wanting a good academic Miami, also holds the rank of going to basketball games. education. Since his father is a being third in the Nation in Cory Wald^nan spends doctor, Cory has considered the singles. Previously, the per- about four hours a day on the possibility of medicine as a sonable and talented junior courts and almost all day career. held the number one position in Saturday and Sunday. Curley's tennis team the Nation for singles and Homework and studying are stands a good chance of taking doubles in the 12 to 14 year age done in the evenings and during the number one spot in Florida bracket. homeroom periods at school. this year with both Blaine and PLAYING with a good team helps and the Curley tennis team has just been ranked 11th in the country by the National Prep Sports Network which also listed Curley's Cory Waldman, among the top 60 players in America. One unusual aspect of the Horsing around with team's success is the in- coach Tony formation from coach Tony De DeFillippo breaks Fillippo that Curley doesn't some of the tension have its own tennis courts. of National com- That means that much of De petition for Cory Fillippo's time is spent Waldman (left) and arranging for use of courts and

Blaine Willenborg. ..-«-"-"'• making sure his team has a .place for practice. It also means the team is a little handicapped in that there are only two home matches and 17-away matches. To understand how im- portant courts are, consider that Blaine spends at least two hours a day during the winter and four hours a day in the summer practicing. Weekends, he tries to play about four hours each day. "I started playing when I Cory Waldman has been listed among the top 60 high was about nine years old," school tennis players in the country by the National Blaine reveals. "My dad kind of Prep Sports Network. pointed out that tennis was A member of Beth Torah Cory. Coach DeFillippo also something that a person could Synagogue, North Miami notes that the team finished play all his life in contrast to Beach, Cory selected Curley seventh last year "but expects other sports like football. because of its high academic to do better this year because There's no dead end. He doesn't standing and good tennis team. the team is basically the same Interested in so ft ball push me and that's kind of The 17-year-old senior has been but with much more ex- obvious since I have four playing tennis for six years and perience." brothers and only one plays has an older brother, Alan, in Time will tell, but Curley's for young adults? tennis. Two of my brothers Arizona State on a tennis tennis team right now is cer- were national champs in scholarship. Anyone interested in March 5, at St. Thomas soccer." tainly worth watching. fielding a young adult softball What started Cory off as a CARMELITE BROTHERS team should contact the (Blaine's sister, Nancy, tennis player was an injury to Join them in Prayer & Action Department of Youth Ac- Youth Corner however, was the number one his knee during a football game. in the service of Ow Lady tennis player for Curley's team WrttB to: tivities by Monday, Feb. 27, raufi wfcor by calling (Dade 757-6241, Cvm«M(BradMnaftlM Aquinas, Fort Lauderdale. What does it take to be a Holy Eucharist (Broward) 522-5157, (Palm Participants are encouraged to 2000 North WtfeStra* Beach) 833-1951. PARISH SERVICE Fort Wayiw, Indiana 46808 get as many pledges as possible Little Brother of the Good (219)743-5230 for this most important event. Shepherd? We have oper- ABCD Dance-a-Thon is STATION GUIDE Additional pledge sheets can be Complete Car Service ated Camillus House, only one week away, Saturday, obtained from the DYA office. HELP WANTED Miami, Florida for the By past IS Years, Feeding, The Society Clothing and sheltering of Thousands of poor men. Sf. Vihcejit dePaul ST. JAMES WRITE: BROTHER MATHIAS Donate your P.p. BOX 3» usable discarded Furniture; Rugs, JOHN'S ALBUQUERQUE, Appliances, Bedding, NEW MEXICO 87103 ' Clothing, Shoes, and Miscel- 37 years same ROAD MECHANIC laneous items today. SERVICE ON ownership- • WEST PALM BEACH "' management. DUTY GULF SERVICE 845-0562 who has been 538 - 24 St. No. Phone: 681-9133 __ 7134 Abbot Avenue caring for Christ's 2560 Westgate Ave. -, PHONE: John Pastorella, Prop. --Any article you may *Ish t«W 866-3131 Miami Beach. Florida 33141 N.W. 7th Ave. & 125th Street poor and needy for Sixty Years. jdonata wHI b« gladly pickaiihuit' ,

Miami, Florida! THE VOICE /Friday, February 25,1977 / Page. 15 New Penance rite in effect on Sunday (Continued from Page 1) amend his life. peace. new." He stressed that "the celebrations, the penitents and religious education THE PRIEST then asks "The emphasis" in the option is the penitent's, not the gather beforehand for a prayer teachers. the penitent to express his reformed rite, Father Krosnicki confessor's." The penitent by a priest, Scripture readings, The rite of Penance was sorrow. The penitent may do so said, "is not placed as much on decides to retain or remove the a homily, an examination of revised, Father Krosnicki said, in his own words or by using the confessor as judge, though screen in the confessional room, conscience and general con- because the Second Vatican any of several recommended obviously he still is, but as an or to use the traditional con- fession of sinfulness. Individual Council's Constitution on the prayers. instrument of healing and fessional box. confession of sins to a priest, Liturgy ordered such revision reconciliation." "Those turned off by the who gives a penance and ab- so that the rite and formulas The priest then extends his solution, follows. After those right hand or both hands over SOME discussions of the anonymity or the psychological "give more luminous ex- new rite have focused on its difficulty of entering the who wish to receive the pression to both the nature air* the penitent and says the words sacrament have gone to con- of absolution, concluding permission for the establish- confessional box may find this effect of the sacrament." ment of small confessional, or more useful and helpful fession, all gather for con- "...and I absolve you from cluding prayers. your sins in the name of the reconciliation, rooms, where the spiritually," Father Krosnicki Publication of the revised Father, and of the Son, and of priest and penitent may sit said. "In general, I think we've rite "makes it clear that the the Holy Spirit." The penitent together without a screen "It is expected that this spent more time preparing Church still teaches that sin answers, "Amen." between them. right would take longer than clergy and people for this exists," Father Krosnicki said. - The priest says, "Give "There were always cir- the older one," he said. "Some revised rite than for any other," But, he added, "the liturgical thanks to the Lord, for he is cumstances in which face-to- see this as a problem where' Father Krosnicki said. He document does not solve the good." The penitent answers, face confession was practiced," there are large numbers. Then noted that the NCCB Liturgy question of what is sin and the "His mercy endures forever." as in battlefield situations or they have the alternative of Committee secretariat issued a kinds of sin." The priest concludes the rite when a person came to the common preparation followed study test, and that dioceses The priest noted: with a short dismissal prayer, rectory to see a priest, Father by individual confession and prepared their own materials, "Problems are not solved by telling the penitent to go in Krosnicki noted. "But for the absolution." including films and videotapes giving us new rites. That ritual to make provision for it is IN COMMUNAL in some cases, and held study depends on how they are days for clergy, Religious, laity celebrated." Pope asks for help Cut your current Federal income tax... to poor during Lent ... and have more money for your retire- (Continued from Page 1) ment, too. Apostle Paul: "it is more celebrations and to proclaim to multitude of those whom all the blessed to give than to receive" world's societies leave by the the world the joyous good news If you're working and not covered by a pen- (Acts 20:35). We exhort you of salvation. And we bless you wayside, wounded in body and all, dear sons and daughters, to sion program, there may be a tax-deferred soul, stripped of their human in the name of the Father and of way for you to build your own retirement purify your hearts in order to the Son and of the Holy Spirit. dignity, without break, without welcome the coming Easter fund. a voice, defenceless, alone in Amen. their distress! With a Metropolitan Individual Retirement ^r- Of course we find it hard to R. JAY Annuity, you can defer Federal income share our possessions in order KRAEER FUNERAL HOME taxes each year on up to 15% of your income to contribute to the disap- or $1,500, whichever is less, by putting this pearance of the inequalities of a Fort Lauderdale Pompano Beach Sample Road Deerfield Beach Margate 565-5591 941-4111 946-2900 399-5544 972-7340 income to work to set up your own retire- world that has grown unjust. ment fund. Yet statements of principles are R. Jay Kraeer, Funeral Director not enough. That is why it is Think about that! If you qualify, you can necessary and salutary for us to purchase your own retirement annuity with remember that we are stewards FUNERAL HOMES money you deduct on your income tax of God's gifts, and that "during FT. LAUDERDALE Lent, penance should not be return. You won't be subject to tax until years from now after retirement, when your only internal and individual but DAN H. FAIRCHILD-L.F.D. also external and social" 2WN.FKDKKALHWY. ESTABLISHED 1930 3501 W. BRUWARD BLVD. tax bracket probably will be lower. (Second Vatican Council, 763-4488 581-6100 Constitution on the Sacred So if you're ncit scheduled to get a pension, Liturgy Sacrosanctum Con- call me and we'll arrange one. cilium, 110). JEROME M. BRODSKY WE ASK you to go out to MICHAEL SINGER meet poor Lazarus, in his FUNERAL HOME, INC. Sales Representatives hunger and misery. 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D6nde esta' la donada por las parroquias y otros trabajadores migratorios de este tales acusaciones. justicia," pregunta. grupos." pueblo de Immokalee se Entre ellas la del Padre Rodeado de periddicos que A los que dudan sobre la aglomeran en las filas que Jeremiah Singleton, ad- narran las dificultades de los necesidad material de los prometen ayuda federal para su ministrador de la Misidn de Ntra. trabajadores en Immokalee y trabajadores, el Padre Singleton escasez. Senora de Guadalupe en otros lugares del sur de la les responde rotundamente: Apenas han empezado a ver Immokalee. Florida, el Padre Singleton alabd "Basta con comprobar las que la ayuda sera efectiva, "La gente cree demasiado la ayuda proporcionada por las cuentas de esta gente," dice. "No cuando ya la prensa habla de fa'cilmente todo lo negativo de los parroquias de la Archidi6cesis tienen ni un c6ntimo en ei banco, pobres y los que no tienen poder," durante la helada. 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PHOENIX, Arizona—(NO— Sacerdofe condenado La Hna. Clare Dunn, electa como 1 dem6crata a la camara de En el mundo representantes del estado de Paulo VI, que los Ham6 personas de la oposicibn politica, por 'peligroso social Arizona, ha propuesto una ley de "juguetes.... que la familia usandouna ley marcial que alega ayuda a muchachas menores de humana debiera desechar por necesitar para acabar con las El sacerdote salesiano, don especifica todavia mas: el edad embarazadas; apoy6 otras inutiles y costosos". La locura de guerrillas marxistas. Entre las Stefano Javorsky, parroco de religioso ha proyectado peliculas propuestas para que el congreso los armamentos, agreg6, se debe denuncias de los obispos: el Muran (Checoslovaquia), ha sido a los j6venes, les ha distribuido de Estados Unidos restaure la a "hombres que no aman al terror en los campos fuerza a las condenado a dos anos de revistas y les ha grabado cintas protecci6n legal a los ninos por prbjimo, que han olvidado que familias a abandonar tierras y privacibn de libertad, que deberd magnetofdnicas con el objetivo, nacer (despues de un fallo de la son hermanos como hijos de casa, a veces pueblos enteros, descontar en un "grupo de bien preciso, de aumentar el Corte Suprema en 1973, que Dios". En todo su pontificado el para caer en mayor desamparo; reeducacWn". El motivo: haber numero de "laicos religiosos facilita el aborto provocado). La Papa ha condenado la carrera los guardias emplean metodos exhortado a los jbvenes de su activistas". Por todos estos monja propone establecer cen- armamentista entre las naciones. inhumanos, como la tortura, parroquia a escuchar Radio motivos el juzgado regional ha tros de maternidad para Al recibir en enero el cuando interrogan a detenidos Vaticano. Lo ha hecho poblico el considerado el comportamiento menores, cuya asistencia las vicepresidente de Estados por simple sospecha, algunos son periddico Pravda, precisando del religioso Javorsky como disuada de la idea de abortar por Unidos, Walter Mondale, en- ejecutados sin previo juicio; los que en la condena pronunciada peligroso socialmente. la falta de recrusos. "Y hay comid los esfuerzos iniciales del soldados han tornado capillas por el juzgado de Korice, se millones de dblares disponibles Presidente Jimmy Carter para rurales para cuarteles, arrestan para el aborto. iPor qu6 no acelerar el desarme. a lideres de acci6n catblica, y se gastar tambien en salvar vidas quedan con las tierras a veces, inocente?", dijo Sor Clara. DURANGO, Mexico—(NO— agregaron. Prelado Romano Mons. Antonio L6pez, obispo de Durango, inaugurb un seminario WASHINGTON—(NO— La regional sobre el metodo natural SANTA MARIA, Brasil— psic61oga Dra. Judianne Densen- de Hmitaci6n de los hijos 11amado (NO—Para ajustarse al visito Cuba <3erber, quien dirige en Nueva "Billings," en honor de los racionamiento de gasolina York un instituto contra esposos medicos australianos que decretado por el gobierno, el Mons. Maximino Romero de productive maltratos a los nifios, ha iniciado lo han probado en amplios obispo de Santa Maria Mons. Lema, arzobispo titular de Cit- Mons. Romero de Lema aqui un movimiento.para que el estudios. Un grupo de medicos, Jos6 Ivo Lorscheiter renunci6 al tanova y Secretario de la estuvo tambien en Matanzas, en congreso legisle contra "la sacerdotes, monjas y seglares automdvil y visita a caballo sus Sagrada Congregacibn para el cuya catedral presidid una pornografia infantil, una explicaron sus beneficios, frente 42 parroquias, "lo cualno es nada Clero, acogiendo la invitacibn concelebraci6n eucaristica. En desgracia nacional que usa a los a los m6todos de control ar- nuevo," record6. Su di6cesis de que le dirigib la Conferencia Camaguey, habW a los respon- ninos (en algunos casos desde los tificial. Los obispos mexicanos medio mill6n de cat61icos y 11,600 Episcopal Cubana, ha estado en sables del apostolado laical, y - tres aflos) para mostrar per- reconocen el rapido aumento de millas cuadradas queda en el dicho pais del 6 al 30 de enero, celebrd una Misa en la parroquia versiones sexuales". Muchos son la poblacibn—de 20 millones en pafs gaucho, el tiene 49 anos y para dar los ejercicios de la' Caridad. En Cienfuegos- escapados del hogar, o hijos de los anos cuarenta a mas de 60 jinetea a gusto. espirituales anuales al clero de la Santa Clara, presidio una familias pobres, y entre ellos hay millones ahora—pero advierten Isla solemne liturgia eucaristica en la muchachos victimas de que toda Iimitaci6n de la familia WASHINGTON—(NO — Dirigib tres tandas con-catedral, y tuvo un coloquio homosexuales, y nifias en- debe procurarse por m6todos Para suceder a Mons. James sucesivas: la primer a, en La con los representantes de las tregadas a la prostituci6n. La naturales, aprobados por' la Rausch, nombrado obispo de Habana, con la participacibn de comunidades parroquiales de la psicdloga considera que mas de Igelsia. Phoenix, Arizona, la junta ad- unos cincuenta sacerdotes; la ciudad. En Pinar del Rio, un mill6n de menores de edad son ministrativa de la U.S. Catholic segunda, en Santiago, en el presidib la apertura de las abusados sexualmente en este MANAGUA—(NO—Los Conference escogi6 como santuario nacional de Nuestra sesiones del segundo Consejo de pais. obispos de Nicaragua pidieron al secretario general al sacerdote Senora de la Caridad del Cobre, pastoral. gobierno del Gen. Anastasio dominico de 45 aflos, P. Thomas con una asistencia algo mas Aparte de algunos contactos CIUDAD DEL VATICANO— Somoza que termine con la ola de Kelly, quien ya venfa ejerciendo numerosa; y la ultima, de nuevo con diversas personalidades de la (NO—La carrera de ar- terror, incluso la tortura, que ha la vice-secretaria desde 1971. en La Habana, a un grupo de mds capital y visitas de cardcter mamentos refleja una men- desatado su Guardia Nacional de 35 sacerdotes. Tambien los vario, estuvo en los dos talidad infantil segun el Papa contra familias campesinas y WASHINGTON—(NO — Ordinarios diocesanos se han monasterios de clausura que hay Entre los signos positivos unido a sus colaboradores, en la en la capital: elde las Catalinas y sefialados por un informe de la reflexibn y en la plegaria. el de las Carmelitas, y celebr6 la Comisi6n de Derechos Civiles El prelado dirigib tambien Eucaristfa en los populares Iran al Sfnodo estan la mayor participaci6n de jornadas de espiritualidad para santuarios de Regla, la Caridad y las minorias raciales en la las religiosas, tanto en la capital Santa Barbara, asf como en la politica y la administracidn, como en Santiago, y hablb a los - parroquia de Gines. de obispos junto con la participaci6n seminaristas, que se disponian a Le acompan6 en su visita el El Episcopado belga ha Senegal y Mauritania ha elegido creciente de mujeres. Pidi6, con marchar a la regibn agricola de sacerdote Jos6 Manuel Sanchez elegido a su primado, cardenal como delegado para la citada todo, que se pong a mas atencion Gtlines para un mes.de trabajo Caro. Leo Jozef Suenens, arzobispo de asamblea del Sfnodo, al cardenal a los derechos civicos de la Malinas-Bruselas, para que le Haycinthe Thiandoum, arzobispo minoria hispana, que considera represente en la prbxima de Dakar, y como sustituto Mons. llega a los 16 millones ya, y se Asamblea General del Sinodo de Francois Dione, obispo de Thies. eviten violaciones de estos Cuaresma en Fill los Obispos, convocada por el Los obispos de Alemania derechos en esfuerzos por Papa para el 30 de septiembre. Oriental, en su ultima reunibn detener la ola de inmigrantes Como sustitufo ha sido designado indocumentados. Sefialb otros Universitarios cat61icos de oportunidad de celebrar la celebrada en Berlin Este, han problemas de desempleo, bajos j>FIU podran dedicar todos los dias Eucaristia en el Campus, los dias Mons. Joseph Heusche, obispo de designado para representarles en Hasselt. ingresos, falta de escuelas y de un rato a prepararse para la 1,3,8 y 10 de marzo, en el aula 315 la Asamblea Sinodal a Mons. vivienda adecuada para las Pascua. Durante esta cuaresma, de la University House, a las Joachim Meiner, obispo auxiliar minorias. la capellania catolica ofrecera la 12:30 (medio-dia). La Conferencia Episcopal de de Erfurt-Meiningen. Page 18 /Miami, Florida / THE VOICE I Friday, February 25,1977 Es tiempo de convertirse Por EL CARDENAL puedo contemplarlo simplemente formo parte del mismo pueblo? mi que tiene que camoiarr sera que mi oraci6n tiene que ser EDUARDO F. PIRONO desde la orilla, levantando el iNo hay algo en mi que me hace 4N o sera que a partir de esta mas profunda? iNo sera que tengo que limpiar m^s mi Cuaresma es el punto de dedo acusasor y sefialando: "esto responsable de esta situacion de cuaresma tengo que ser mas es por tal motivo, por tal otro, pecado que esta viviendo el sincero, mas leal? 4N0 sera que corazdn para poder ver a Dios? partida para la busqueda del iNo sera que tengo que ser Seftor. Cuaresma significa que depende de fulano, depende de mundo , la sociedad, nuestra tengo que ser mas servicial y mengano." patria? iNo estoy ensuciando en abierto? iNo sera que tengo que de verdad mas pobre, manso y .tenemos que morir, que tenemos misericordioso? que cambiar, que tenemos que iY yo, qu6? iAcaso no soy cierta rnanera, el rostro de comprometer mas mi fe en lo encontrarnos con el Sefior, y miembrode la misma familia, no nuestra Iglesia? iNo hay algo en cotidiano de mi entrega? iNo Yo, que todos los dias al abrir •* sde El abrirnos a nuestros •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• ermanos. los peribdicos siento erizada mi piel por la violencia que se da en Y, iqu6 es convertirse? el mundo, ique he hecho para que Darse cuenta que algo no anda; haya una paz verdadera, nacida darse cuenta que nuestra men- de la justicia y fruto del amor? talidad tiene que cambiar, que Cuaresma iNo hay algo en mi que con- nuestro coraz6n tiene que vertir? Yo, que me he sentido tan madurar, que nuestra voluntad particularmente cobijado por el tiene que hacerse fuerte en la • Una llamada que llega a todos los rin- 4 Senor, guardado en sus manos; fidelidad. Que algo en nosotros yo, que he sido llamado para tiene que volverse mas lucido, cones, a todos los hogares, a la puerta del 4 poderoso y del que mendiga, a la puerta de servir al Senor en la plenitud del mas transparente, mas filial, amor, ivivo realmente en esta mas fraterno. los de "aqui" y de los de "alia" a la puerta de los que ven y de los clegos, a la puerta generosidad de la entrega? iNo Llega ya la celebraci6n del hay mucha mediocridad en mi? misterio de la muerte y de la de los que le esperan, a la puerta hasta de los sordos, de los que nunca parecen ofr su iNo vivo demasiado super- resurreccWn de Jesus. Llega una ficialmente mi cristianismo? exigencia de Jesus para el llamada porque el ruido de la cludad, del cambio. consumo, del materialismo y de sus La conversi6n supone tener Pascua tendra significado propios egoismos les impiden escuchar y conciencia de que algo debe para nosotros si hemos decidido palpar su proximidad y su llamada. cambiar en nosotros. Me lo esta convertirnos. Pero £s'e dar£ en pidiendo Dios, me lo estan nosotros la conversi6n? exigiendo los hermanos, lo esta Esta depende siempre de dos I Una llamada actual, precisa, concreta; necesitando el mundo que me factores: arrancarnos de un una llamada que nos compromete, que nos rode a. estado que debe cambiar y en- cuestiona, que nos exige un replan- contrarnos con el Cristo que teamiento profundo, dlnamico y sereno de Todo el mundo habla hoy de cotidianamente se nos revela y se toda nuestra existencia, de todo nuestro la urgencia del cambio, de la nos comunica. hacer y no hacer en y por el mundo. necesidad de nuevas estructuras Pensemos, por ejemplo, a la justas, para que se instate el luz del sermon de la montafla, si reino de la verdad, de la justicia y del amor. Pero no tendremos somos para el mundo ver- • Una llamada que ahora, en Cuaresma daderamente luz y si somos estructuras verdaderamente denuneia nuestras situaciones humanas estables, justas, si los hombres verdaderamente sal; si nuestra individuales y coleetivas de in- oraci6n es aut6ntica; si nuestra no nos hacemos justos por una comunicaeion, dispersion y ruptura con los conversidn bien honda, radical y justicia es mayor que la de los hermanos; nuestras situaciones de falta escribas y fariseos. rapida. Cuaresma nos impone un : de amor, de injusticla, de intranslgencia, llamado a la conversi6n; esta Pensemos, a la luz de las intolerancia y rechazo del hermano, de los bienaventuranzas evangelicas, si 4 conversion, ademas de la toma demas, de todos, que en esencia, sean ... estoy • de conciencia de nuestra culpa, verdaderamente somos pobres, quienes sean, son iguales a nosotros en esa si tenemos un corazon manso y 4 es una biisqueda del Senor ver- identificaci6n real y definitiva que es dadero y cercano a nosotros. misericordioso, si sabemos Cristo que nos identifica. asumir el dolor con los que lloran, "Busco tu rostro, Senor..." si sabemos repartir la paz a los a la Durante todo el tiempo de hombres que la necesitan, si cuaresma, repetiremos esta asumimos la persecucidn por la • Una llamada que nos anuncia un expresi6n de la Sagrada justicia. iPor qu6 no nos "tiempo propiclo", una necesidad radical puerta Escritura: "Busco tu rostro, examinamos a la luz de las y urgente de comunicaci6n, y conciliacibn Sefior..." El cristiano, a tra- bienaventuranzas evangelicas? en la paz, en el amor y en el encuentro con ves de los acontecimientos Pascua significara algo para los otros buscando en todos esa iden- humanamente absurdos y nosotros si nos convertimos, y la tificacidn cristiana que nos une. dolorosos; a trave's de los conversibn supone una toma de hombres con los cuales convive; conciencia muy sincera, muy llamo..." a trav6s de su propia fragilidad; honda, muy serena tambien, de • Una llamada que nos libera, que nos a traves del dolor y de la nuestra situaci6n de pecado. llena de jubilo, que nos abre el camino de esperanza, del sufrimiento y de la iHay algo en mi que tiene que la esperanza. alegria, vive buscando el rostro cambiar? iAlgo de lo cual yo soy del Senor hasta que lo encuentra responsable? iEsta pasando dice el Senor definitiva mente en la luz del algo en nuestra sociedad? iEsta Padre. La conversidn es una pasando algo en el mundo? Yo no busqueda del Senor. 4L0 he en- . contrado en mi vida? iC6mo lo he buscado? iC6mo lo encuentro? iBusco al Sefior exclusivamente siempre es tiempo... cuando vengo al templo y grito: Uno nunca sabe lo que va a "Sefior, Sefior"? iO trato de pasar cuando sale a la calle a ...para vivir el evangelio atacan la Iglesia Cat61ica como instituci6n terminan formando descubrirlo en este hombre, en comprar un "sandwich cubano." esta mujer, con los cuales me Hace varios dias esperaba mi otras instituciones. No somos islas. El cristianismo se vive en encuentro durante la Jornada, turno frente al mostrador en una que quizas necesitan de mi conocida cafeteria de la Calle 8. comunidad. Sin embargo, quisiera palabra, de mi presencia, de mi De momento entrb un seftor comprension? repartiendo unas hojitas subrayar que admiro la tituladas "iSalvaci6n 0 Por el Padre Jose P. Nickse dedicaci6n y celo apost61ico de iHe tratado de descubrir al religi6n?" Le entregd una a cada los miembros de algunas sectas Sefior en los acontecimientos de marchante y con gran nuestra salvacibn. Lo que Bautismo nos incorporamos a su religiosas. Lo que no implica que la vida que a veces me golpean vehemencia les insistid que la equivale a una negacibn del Cuerpo. En cada sacramento nos yo comparta sus orientaciones y_ mucho? iHe tratado de descubrir leyeran. Tambi6n puso una en mi concepto de Iglesia como unimos mas a Cristo en nuestro posiciones. Ellos con su celo nos que alii esta el Sefior? iCreo mano (e pesar de estar yo vestido comunidad de fe y Cuerpo corazdn. La Iglesia Cat61ica por recuerdan a los cat61icbs verdaderamente que no cae un de cura). Mistico de Cristo. casi dos mil afios ha proclamado nuestraobligaci6n de vivir y solo cabello de mi cabeza sin el Por cortesia, y no sin cierta Por lo general estas hojitas a Cristo como la Luz del mundo ensenar el evangelio. permiso del Padre que estS en los curiosidad, empec6 a leer la contienen lo que yo llamo una en la vigilia Pascual. Que esta Cuaresma que cielos? iTengo capacidad, a la hojita mientras esperaba mi - teologia de "ten-cent." Y quisiera iQu6 hay malos catdlicos? comienza renueve nuestro luz de mi fe, para descubrir que sandwich. El texto incluia su aclarar algunos de los errores Es verdad, como tambie'n hay compromiso cristiano y nos el Sefior va pasando hoy en la condena del catolicismo romano. mas comunes que pululan en el hombres malos y buenos en todas convierta en cat61icos activos y historia y que me grita: Pero lo que mas me sorprendi6 y mundo de estos panfleticos. las religiones, palses y culturas entregados Uevando la luz de "necesito de ti"? iTengo alarm6 fue el concepto paranoico Primeramente que queda del mundo. iO acaso podemos Cristo a un mundo que vive en capacidad para eso? que presentaba de la religidn. En claroque los cat61icos aceptamos olvidar la condici6n humana? tinieblas. iPor qu6 no aprovecho esta- otras palabras, la religibn, segiin a Cristo como nuestro Salvador. La Iglesia es familia, es jQue el Sefior siempre les cuaresma para una conversi6n Creemos que a trave's del comunidad de fe. Aiin los que bendiga! muy honda, muy profunda, muy el escrito, es un obstaculo a gozosa, muy definitiva? Miami, Florida I THE VOICE /Friday; February 25,1977 / Page 19 PERIODICO CATOLICO Redac-rion, P.O. Box 38-1059 ARCHIUIOCESIS DE MIAMI VOZ Miami. Fla. 331:18, Tel. 758-0543 'Sal gam os a I encuentro del pobre- Queridos hijos e hijas: misma liturgia nos la describe espiritual semejante a la modos practicos a las exigencias Senor dirigiamos a Is Ha llegado la cuaresma y os como "tiempo favorable" para primavera. de una verdadera vida cristiana. comunidades cristianas y a todos pedimos que nos escucheis preparar la celebraci6n del Despertemos nuestras Nuestra enciclica de hace 10 los hombres de buena voluntad. siquiera un momento. misterio pascual. Es un tiempo conciencias. Demos un fresco afios sobre el Desarrollo de los Hoy, al comenzar la epoca La cuaresma es tiempo para de austeridad, pero fructifero, y vigor a nuestro sentido del deber Pueblos, era como un grito de litiirgica de la cuaresma, recibir el favor de Dios. La nos trae una renovacitin y nuestro deseo de responder en angustia que en el nombre del AAensaje de Pablo VI para la Folklore y colorido cuaresma en la fiesta seminole' queremos repetir aquella solemne llamada. Nuestra mirada y nuestro Unos 2,000 indios americanos coraz6n de pastor, continua de unas 20 tribus esparcidas por sintiendo la abrumaci6n y peso toda la nacibn se dieron cita el fin de las inmensas multitudes que de semana pasado en la Reser- las sociedades del mundo ignoran vaci6n Seminola de Hollywood. y dejan de lado; multitudes Juntos celebraron su sexta fiesta heridas en alma y cuerpo, tribal que incluy6 un rodeo. Orgullosa de su herencia una despojadas de su dignidad La fiesta se proponia ofrecer mujer India ostenta el atuendo humana, sin respiro, sin voz, sin una oportunidad para mayor caracterfstico mientras posa defensa y solas en su des- comunicacibn entre las tribus, delante de la tlenda de consuelo. segun explicb Judybill Osceola, campafia conoclda por los Claro que nos resulta dificil que dirige un negocio de ar- indios como el "tepee". A la compartir nuestras posesiones tesania india. "Muchas de las izquierda Jim Davis luchando para contribuir a la desaparici6n tribus no se conocen ni saben de con un caiman. de las desigualdades de este sus costumbres," dice. mundo, donde crece la injusticia, Ademas del buen rato pasado pero las buenas intepciones no juntos, la feria proporciona una bastan. fuente de economia y la opor- Es necesario y saludable tunidad de fomentar programas para nosotros recordar que de ayuda para los indios. somos administradores de los Uno de los momentos dones de Dios y que durante la cumbres de la fiesta fue la cuaresma, la penitencia no ha de competici6n de lucha libre con los ser s61o interna y personal, sino caimanes. El campe6n Ross que ha de ser tambien externa y ^ Kananga, de Jamaica, continub social. (Vaticano II: Constituci6n 4 su batalla con el reptil a pesar de sobre la Segunda Liturgia No. f recibir un buen mordisco. 110). El joven Jim Davis (en la En esta cuaresma, os • foto), profesor de educacibn pedimos que salgais al encuentro • fisica en Driftwood Middle del pobre Lazaro, de su hambre y • School, Hollywood, demostrb su miseria. Haceos vecino suyo como dominar al cocodrilo para que el pueda reconocer en sujetando sus mandibulas entre vuestros ojos, los ojos de Cristo la barbilla y el pecho. que le recibe. Para que reconozca No faltaron las danzas en vuestras manos, las manos del tribales con ostentaci6n de color Sefior que comparte con 61 sus y fantasia india y para terminar dones. Responded con los participates eligieron a generosidad a las 11amadas de Sandra K. McLellan, de Big caridad hechas en vuestras Cypress, reina india 1977-78. iglesias locales para aliviar a los desposeidos, y compartir vuestro *»•-•"•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• progreso con los que estan privados de el. Os recordamos las mismas palabras de Jesus que nos narra Cubano ordenado diacono el jueves San Pablo: "Es mejor dar que. recibir." '•*• J El seminarista Sergio Garcia buscaban. Menos mal que yo ya sando hace anos," dice. "De Os exhortamos a todos a Mir6 fue ordenado diacono el me habia escondido," coment6. estudiante en el Colegio de Belen, purificar el corazbn para mejor jueves por el Arzobispo de Miami Por un tiempo en Miami, el ya lo pensaba, aunque sin estar celebrar la Pascua y mejor Edward McCarthy, en el joven cubano ayud6 en el seguro. Me dijeron que esperara. proclamar al mundo la buena Seminario Mayor de Boymton programa de ninos refugiados "Decidi terminar los estudios noticia de la salvaci6n. Beach. cubanos y fue entonces que se y ejercer la medicina. Ademas Nacido en La Habana hace 39 interesb por los problemas creo que mis conocimientos me