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big day DAD’SWhat’s expected of the father of the bride? By Melissa Erickson guest list and the catering contract as pri- More Content Now mary roles while mom and bride take things like colors, dress and flowers. Whatever the wedding runs smoothly when division of labor, having Dad be involved everyone knows what their respon- will help him feel more a part of the whole sibilities are, but just what is the thing.” father of the bride’s job? A“A dad doesn’t have to be more than a Some work, some play walking ATM, but he can be more involved On the wedding day, dads can help with in ... It is good for dads to recognize that the many ways. wedding and reception are more about the “Welcoming guests to a wedding luncheon bride and her mother and their wishes and or dinner is a good role. Supervising deco- dreams, but he can still be involved in many rating crews, making sure family members ways,” said Wayne Parker, About.com’s are there on time and keeping contractors fatherhood expert and a father of five. like caterers to their contractual obligations There’s no right or wrong way to approach are all common things fathers of the bride father-of-the-bride duties, said Kasey Sko- do on the wedding day,” Parker said. bel-Conyers, owner and principal designer, While dad is a solid presence on the big Bliss Wedding & Events, Cleveland, Ohio. day, he shouldn’t be running errands or “The best thing to do is ask him if he doing the heavy lifting but enjoying the day wants to be involved and in what things with his family, said Skobel-Conyers, who he’d like to participate. It’s also good to find suggested “he might want to be sure he has out what dad’s priorities for the wedding a moment with his daughter before they are — specific menu items, a particular head out to the ceremony.” beer/wine/cocktail to offer on the bar or a “Remember that this can be an exciting favorite band/sound for the reception,” said and equally as emotion-filled day for the Skobel-Conyers. father of the bride as the mother of the bride Fathers usually want to meet with a and bride, so if dad needs a minute to collect to discuss budgeting and himself or needs a minute to speak a last few expectations and may attend the menu words of wisdom to the bride, please allow tasting and entertainment meetings if these him to do so,” Parker said. are priorities on dad’s list, she said. Giving a toast is a main duty for the father “One of the biggest regrets I hear from of the bride. fathers of the bride is that they went deeper “The best toasts are not too long (five into their savings or into debt for the wed- minutes or less is best), heartfelt, a little ding than anyone planned,” Parker said. sentimental and a little funny,” Skobel-Co- “Besides a budget, it is good for the bride nyers said. and her parents to have a work plan that “Stay away from any inappropriate humor assigns the key roles to a person. Maybe dad that might be embarrassing for the bride gets assigned the wedding announcement and groom,” Parker said. “Take some time BRIDE | 2017 | 5 to think and prepare the toast in advance • “Through the Years,” Kenny Rogers and then, if you can, memorize it so that it • “Always Be Your Baby,” Natalie Grant flows well. It will be a part of the event that • “How Sweet It Is To Be Loved by You,” everyone will remember, whether it is done James Taylor well or poorly.” • “The Way You Look Tonight,” Frank Sinatra • “Unforgettable,” performed by Natalie For a simple slow first dance, “a rehearsal Cole is probably not necessary, unless dancing is • “Lullabye (Goodnight, My Angel),” Billy awkward for them,” Skobel-Conyers said. Joel Not great dancers? “Choose some music • “My Father’s Eyes,” performed by Eric that can use simple steps like a waltz or a Clapton foxtrot. If they are good dancers, feel free to go for it! Lots of dads and brides today are doing choreographed dances so if you know someone who could help with that, it makes a big hit at the wedding or reception,” Parker said. Here are Parker’s top 10 father-daughter wedding dance songs: • “Butterfly Kisses,” Bob Carlisle • “When Angels Fly,” performed by Tony Ransom & The Heavenly Light Orchestra • “I Loved Her First,” Heartland BIGSTOCK.COM

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By Melissa Erickson More Content Now Prep and prime o matter whether you’re doing your “In order to keep makeup looking great from day makeup yourself or hiring a glam into the night on the wedding day, I recommend Nsquad, you’ll need some tips and using the proper primers underneath your foun- tricks to keep your hair and face looking and dation and setting sprays. We work with Airbrush feeling beautiful throughout your wedding Foundation and I love to use the Smashbox day. Here is some expert advice: Photo Finish primer underneath, and the Urban Decay All Nighter setting spray to finish.” – Amanda Perry, chief executive officer and Stay firm master stylist with Lou Stevens Glam Squad, @ loustevensglamsquad “First thing, you need a clean face that has been gently exfoliated with microdermabra- sion – that helps to remove that top dead Stay fresh layer of skin, cleans out the pores and stim- “My secret to long-wearing bridal makeup is to ulates circulation in the face, which gives a avoid eye creams, primers and heavy moisturizers nice healthy glow. ... Stay hydrated and get a that will break down makeup and cause it to fade. good night sleep the night before. Try not to Choose a foundation with the words ‘long wear’ on get stressed out with all the wedding planning, the package. For eyes, waterproof mascara and which could cause an awful breakout. In the eyeliner is a must to avoid the ‘bride of Franken- event that happens, a little shot of cortisone stein’ look that comes with too many tears. Finally, right into the blemish will bring any inflam- I mist my brides with Urban Decay’s All Nighter mation down within 24 hours. I can’t tell you setting spray to further ensure the makeup will how many emergency cortisone injections I’ve remain matte and fresh for the duration of the done over the years for brides!” wedding.” – Registered nurse Nichole Starr, owner, Skin – David Maderich, celebrity makeup artist, Deep Med Spa, Boston, Massachusetts @davidmaderich BRIDE | 2017 | 7 Long-lasting hair or combed, all the way to the scalp. Any unteased hair between the scalp and the end A bride’s hair has to contend with a variety of the tease will fall flat. of issues, including long days that stretch • Before you shimmy on the dance floor, you into evening, weather challenges and must suitably shimmy your veil out of your issues. Celebrity hairstylist and men’s groomer hair. Foremost, don’t just pull the veil straight Kristan Serafino (@serafinosays) offers the out from the hairstyle as this will certainly following pro styling tips for long-lasting disturb the style and cause fly-away hair at the bridal hair: least. Gently and gradually shimmy the veil/ • Dry shampoo is the mandatory touch-up hair clip from side to side until it naturally hair saver. This virtually translucent spray slides out. Immediately follow this procedure absorbs moisture, conceals greasy roots and is with a light spritz of hairspray to lay the hair delicately scented. For bridal hair worn down: back down to its original style. Lightly spray the roots at the crown and down • Grooms: No matter how great a cut, hair the part line to absorb moisture and bring needs to be styled for memorable occasions. volume back to the hair. Simply spray, flip, That requires a styling product that restores tousle and return to the dance floor with fresh the hair’s natural moisture balance without hair. For bridal hair pinned up: Lightly spray leaving it looking greasy. The purpose of using only along the nape and not into the updo a styling product isn’t only to hold a cut/style hairstyle. The dry shampoo will adhere to the in place, but to leave the hair with a touch wispy hair along the nape to absorb oils and of shine that reflects the angles of light. The moisture without a powdery residue. camera will pick up the variations of light • Whether your updo is a chignon, French reflection, making the hair seem lustrous twist, beehive or even a bun, to lock in the and healthy in the memorable pictures in the volume it is necessary to tease the hair cor- wedding album. rectly. Each section of hair should be brushed, 8 | BRIDE | 2017 MIXITUP How to create a cohesive bridal party look

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By Melissa Erickson one dress style, mismatched looks play with More Content Now different fabrics, styles and colors, letting the ladies embrace a theme for a cohesive look. trend that is fun, frugal and fash- “The mix-and-match trend started to ionable, mismatched emerge years ago, but it is only now becom- can highlight each woman’s ing universal within bridal ,” said Lori Ashape and sense of style. Lohsen, divisional merchandise manager, While some bridal parties opt for choosing bridesmaids, David’s Bridal. “Brides are Diamond Limousine Service

Weddings Anniversaries Birthdays School Formals Graduations Special Occasions Website: www.diamondlimoks.com E-Mail: [email protected] (620) 430-1274 BRIDE | 2017 | 9 getting creative and taking risks to capture a “Dresses in the same length make for a unique look for their special day. The trend cohesive look, but mixing lengths can let is also great for bridesmaids because they the bridal party feel more comfortable and have more of a say when choosing their still look great if the styles fit into the same dress and can usually opt for one that is theme,” Lohsen said. comfortable for them.” Color with care With so many variables and options, though, there are plenty of ways this look Color can add cohesion or disconnect. can go wrong and end up appearing dis- Choose carefully, especially because not jointed. To head fashionably forward, here everyone sees color the same way. are some tips from Lohsen. “The bride can start by picking a color and adding varying shades of the color,” Lohsen Seek commonality said. For example, choose light purple, Just like mixing patterns, a similar design medium purple and dark purple. Another component can bring the dresses together. option is to pick “a color story with various “Brides can mix and match endlessly as colors in the same saturation,” such as pas- long as there is a common piece that ties the tels, jewel tones or dusty hues, Lohsen said. party together. Flowers can work wonders “The mix-and-match trend allows for the when tying an eclectic bridal party together. best of both worlds for the bride and her It also helps if the styles all have the same bridesmaids. The bride should stay true to aesthetic – for example, all soft and flowy her wedding vision, but allow her bridal dresses or all sleek and modern styles,” party to pick a style that also their Lohsen said. personalities and flatters their body types. Long and short She should not be afraid to try new ideas so she can achieve a truly Pinterest-worthy Mixed hem lengths can work. wedding,” Lohsen said.

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By Melissa Erickson More Content Now Tips emarriage is on the rise especially Many older women among Americans gravitate toward 55 and older, that offer Raccording to the Pew coverage or support Research Center. Brides and pair them with doing a redo of the “I supportive undergar- do” may find choosing a ments to smooth and wedding challeng- enhance curves. ing, even if they know “Steer clear of low they want a dress that’s backs that aren’t as drastically different than compatible with the one they wore the first and Spanx,” Conley time. said. The bridal industry isn’t Like most brides, aimed solely at younger encore brides opt brides. Mature brides to wear one of will find their options the hundreds of are almost endless, from shades of ivory gowns to form-fitting or champagne, dresses, said Jennette the experts Kruszka, spokeswoman, agreed. Kleinfeld Manhattan. “To make “Most wedding dresses the most are ageless and when of their it’s your wedding day, shopping it doesn’t matter about experience, dressing for your age,” brides Kruszka said. should be prepared With age comes for their bridal shopping appointments. Kleinfeld wisdom, and that suggests setting a budget which includes , includes fashion sense. headpieces, alterations and accessories. We “Encore brides (aka also suggest you limit your entourage to a small second brides) have the group of close friends and family whose opinions benefit of life experience you value and have your best interest at heart,” to understand what Kruszka said. details and styles make The most important thing is that the bride them look and feel their “no matter their age, should feel empowered to best,” said Lori Conley, wear a dress that makes them feel beautiful and special,” Conley said. divisional merchandise PHOTOS: DAVID’S BRIDAL manager for bridal, linge- rie and , David’s BRIDE | 2017 | 11 Bridal. “We see older brides shopping across all wants to feel like a bride but doesn’t want the brands we offer since it truly comes down to look like a cupcake,” Conley said. “The to their fashion preference. There are those straighter allows for an air of sophisti- that look for simplicity, perhaps because of a cation and fits a wide array of body types. If low-key or destination wedding locale, while she doesn’t want to opt for a gown, a beautiful there are those who want to take advantage tea-length dress or even an elegant of being the center of attention and opt for a are great alternatives.” princess-worthy ball gown. It’s all about the attitude, not the age.” Choices are endless There are really no rules or guidelines to follow when it comes to an encore dress. “It doesn’t matter of your age or how many times you tied the knot,” said Kruszka. Some choose to go the traditional route, but many second-time brides are opting for something more on trend. “Two-piece and short rompers are very popular for the nontraditional bride looking to make a statement. They are also perfect for all the wedding occasions such as showers, rehearsal dinners and reception looks,” Kruszka said. “Sheath or collapsed A-line gowns are a great compromise for the bride who still

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By Melissa Erickson added. More Content Now “Color is one of the hottest trends,” Conley said. “Brides are moving beyond the rom sweeping princess gowns to traditional white and ivory and favoring unexpected modern silhouettes, more bold color choices. Pinks and blushes covered-up to sexy, today’s wed- are the most popular as they lend them- ding gowns follow no rules. selves beautifully to the romantic rustic “There seem to be endless vibe of many of today’s weddings. For the Foptions for brides today in terms of what most fashionable of brides, smoky blues they can select for their wedding day look,” and greys are a sophisticated option.” said Lori Conley, divisional merchandise Brides are looking sexier than ever. manager for bridal, and flower girl, “Plunging necklines are everywhere! David’s Bridal. “While classic gowns will They can be truly seductive when they’re always have a place in the industry, there finishing off a slinky sheath or can be is most definitely an emergence of gowns tamer when topping off a more traditional with more and simplicity. The rules ball gown,” Conley said. “Additionally, low of old are being reinterpreted with brides backs continue to be a big hit with brides. opting to wear short dresses, separates or Whether adorned with lace or subtly sheer, even for their walk down the they ensure that a bride makes a statement aisle.” from all angles. For the really dramatic And there’s no clear favorite, said brides, that feature sheer panels Jennette Kruszka, spokeswoman, Klein- are the ultimate in sexy.” feld Manhattan, whose “customers from Also popular are dramatic . around the world desire all styles from Whether they be layer upon layer of volu- classic lace ball gowns to sexy fit-and-flare minous ruffles or soft ethereal cascades, dresses.” these skirts pack drama and movement when a bride walks down the aisle, Conley Trends said. Some of the hottest trends this year A more adventurous bride may “ditch “include off-the-shoulder necklines with the veil and make an entrance with a classic silhouettes,” Kruszka said. Also hooded from Mark Zunino’s runway popular are “soft fabrics and unstructured or sparkle down the runway with body bodies of flowing sheath dresses. Sparkle jewelry from Pnina Tornai,” Kruszka said. is reinvented every , and this season Also upping the allure factor are illusion the beading patterns are more intricate netting and “subtle yet sexy illusion cut- and subtle. This season short rompers and outs at the side seam as well as plunging jumpsuits also made a scene – perfect for necklines with illusion netting to the belly the or after-party,” she button,” Kruszka said. BRIDE | 2017 | 15 Toppers enced by the trends shown on the runways. Brides are embracing the option of cov- “For the past few years, designers have ering up the shoulders, and the accessories been presenting sexy nude-illusion evening department is experiencing a big interest wear styles which you have begun to see in tops, boleros and capelets. walking down the wedding aisles on real “Jeweled are the perfect way to brides,” Kruszka said. add an accessory to a simple, less-embel- “Brides have instant access to what’s new lished dress. Capes/boleros can also create in fashion via the web and social media two looks in one. The bride can wear the sites such as Instagram. Because of this cape for the ceremony and remove it for they are taking more risks and looking for the reception,” Kruszka said. their wedding day looks to be an extension “Toppers are a fantastic way to trans- of their personal style,” Conley said. form the look of a gown, whether it is for One thing to keep in mind: Most of the added coverage for the whole day or just dresses brides see on the runway typically to change up your look from the ceremony don’t hit bridal stores until four months to the reception. Winter brides are loving later, Kruszka said. faux fur wraps for a bit of glam, while “If a bride sees a dress on social media dainty lace capelets are a favorite for brides during the runway shows, she should looking for a vintage touch,” Conley said. follow that particular designer and learn when their next trunk show is. The dresses Get the designer look travel while in production, and at a trunk While it typically takes a few seasons for show you will typically see the latest sam- high- to “trickle down” to ples from the newest collection,” she said. bridal design, brides are certainly influ-

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Centerpieces Say it with(out) can include anything you FLOWERS imagine By Melissa Erickson or give your guests a tag and have them More Content Now write a wish for the bride and groom. You could even put it at everyone’s place with a loral centerpieces can be simple, small clothespin spray-painted to go with classic and traditional, but think- your wedding theme,” Powers suggested. ing outside the box can result in Skip the vases inspired creations that reflect your Fpersonality. For one wedding, Powers used a collec- “Your flowers should reflect you, tion of silver goblets and cups belonging whether it’s the color of flower you choose to the bride’s grandmother. or your tablecloth’s pattern or color,” says “We used all shades of purple flowers Los Angeles-based Lulu Powers, “The because it was the bride’s favorite color, Entertainologist.” “If you like modern with low candles. It was simple and stun- then pick a modern arrangement and ningly beautiful,” Powers said. have that done throughout. Maybe all the For fall weddings, use vegetables or tables reflect a different phase your life.” gourds to put flowers in. More creative ideas from Powers, “For one client who basically wanted author of “Lulu Powers Food to Flowers”: the tablescape to look like a cutting garden, we made a long wood trough that Winter greens we filled with dirt and did the whole table Staying in season is on point and usu- by color,” Powers said. ally helps with the budget. In winter “use Each individual flower was held with a all the beautiful greens with pinecones. water pick and in the middle was an herb Write different quotes you love and have garden. them coming out of each of the pinecones “It’s just different and definitely a con- BRIDE | 2017 | 19 versation starter,” she said. various-sized glass vases and silver stands filled with different kinds of treats. Forget the flowers Decorate with gold foil-covered chocolate Centerpieces don’t have to be floral. coins all around the candy jars and dishes, Candles look beautiful and add romance. Powers said. “Save every clear glass bottle you have (or A healthier alternative is a crudite order online) and use to put candles in tablescape, with raw vegetables cut in dif- and fill your table. Use higher and lower ferent lengths or sizes. Use metal cookie candles. The glow is amazing,” Powers cutters to trim vegetables into floral said. shapes and skewer them on long sticks, Fruit, branches, books and objets d’art covering the stick with a scallion, Powers are creative alternative centerpieces. said. “You could do an edible tablescape with Let guests stroll down memory lane grapes, strawberries, nuts, whole walnuts with a tablescape of pictures from the with crackers, branches of kumquats, bride’s and groom’s childhoods in silver pomegranates – which can be messy and gold frames in between magnolia when cut open but look fabulous – dried branches down the table, Powers said. fruit, breads, cheeses, boards of meat. It’s Complete your look with table cover- so fun. Another one is a tablescape with ings. Since tablecloths can be expensive all edible fruits of the season, whether it to rent, consider high-end hand-painted be peaches, pears, persimmons … use an paper or simply use quality gift , abundance and make your table look full,” Powers said. Use it as a runner all down Powers said. the table over a white cloth, keeping it in For a sweet centerpiece of candy use place with double-sided tape.

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By Melissa Erickson Presence” and “Parenting without Power More Content Now Struggles.” Be OK with feelings n the past second were often discreet, low-key events, but today While the bride and groom may be over people tend to celebrate remarriage the moon about their impending nuptials, with great enthusiasm. If the big day there’s no guarantee that their children Iinvolves two adults with children, there’s feel the same way. Not only is it completely even more reason to make the wedding a normal not to feel an instant loving family family affair. connection, it can take as long as four years There really are no rules for including for stepchildren and stepparents to feel children from previous relationships in the comfortable with one another, according to wedding. Instead go with what works for the National Stepfamily Resource Center. your family depending on the ages of the “As parents, you’re the anchor in their children and how much they want to be lives,” Stiffelman said. “Don’t push too hard. involved. You can say, ‘I want you to be a part of it as “It can be a good idea to include children” much or as little as you want to be involved.’ in the wedding ceremony and a good step Understand children might be dealing with toward a happy future, “as long as you can different feelings in the days before and do it without imposing your expectations” after the wedding. Be conscious that kids on them, said Susan Stiffelman (Susan may have hard feelings that are difficult to Stiffelman.com) a and family reconcile,” Stiffelman said. therapist and author of “Parenting with Don’t make them feel guilty if they don’t BRIDE | 2017 | 21 feel a certain way about the wedding, and people getting married, it’s the blending of a don’t push your expectations on them, family,” Stiffelman said. Stiffelman said. Some children will welcome the oppor- Instead, “ in with them frequently. tunity to be a part of the wedding party as a Ask them how they’re feeling,” she said. flower girl or ring bearer, maid of honor or Kids may be filled with emotions but lack best man, but not all kids will, Stiffelman the words to articulate them. Instead, speak said. the words for them: “Grandma and grandpa “Be aware that children may be grappling are coming in town and isn’t that exciting? with the issue of loyalties” and others would How are you feeling about everything that’s rather not take on such a significant role, going on?” Stiffelman suggested. she said. Within the ceremony, parents can make Keep them involved vows of love and support to each other’s There are so many ways children can be children and children can respond, “We do, involved in the wedding, starting with the too.” planning stages. Since it’s going to be a long day, it would “Ask their opinion and listen to their be a “kind gesture” to allow children to input” on things such as what flowers to invite a friend to attend the wedding with order, what songs to play at the reception them, Stiffelman said. A friend can provide or what colors to go with, Stiffelman said. support and help keep a child entertained. It will give them ownership of the day and And when it’s all over, some brides and help them feel excited about it. grooms will turn the honeymoon into a “Make them feel that they are part of family vacation. the day and the wedding. It’s not just two

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