Chapter 4– School Days Copyright, 2016, by Samuel C.P
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Chapter 4– School Days Copyright, 2016, by Samuel C.P. Baldwin, Jr. Table of Contents CLICKING ON EACH TITLE IN THE TABLE OF CONTENTS WILL TAKE YOU DIRECTLY TO THE SUBCHAPTER. INTRODUCTION ................................................................................................................................................................ 2 DR. BRISCOE AND HIS EPISCOPALIAN FAITH ................................................................................................................... 3 DR. BRISCOE’S SCHOOL AT SOTTERLEY PLANTATION ..................................................................................................... 5 CHARLOTTE HALL SCHOOL ............................................................................................................................................... 8 ROADS CONNECTING SOTTERLEY PLANTATION TO CHARLOTTE HALL SCHOOL ............................................................ 19 ST. MARY’S HALL, BURLINGTON, NJ ............................................................................................................................... 23 STEAMBOAT TRAVEL UP NORTH .................................................................................................................................... 56 SICKNESS AT SOTTERLEY PLANTATION .......................................................................................................................... 69 SHOPPING FOR CLOTHES UP NORTH ............................................................................................................................. 88 POST SCRIPT .................................................................................................................................................................. 91 FAMILY TREES AND RELATIONS ..................................................................................................................................... 95 FINAL WORDS & REFERENCES AND ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS ...................................................................................... 102 ORIGINAL LETTERS AND TRANSCRIPTIONS .................................................................................................................. 104 1 NTRODUCTION I In the previous chapter, I was able to share with you what was known about the Sotterley school run by Dr. Briscoe for his children and the children of other Southern Maryland families. There was in that chapter a single sentence making reference to the fact that Dr. Briscoe’s oldest daughter, Margaret, “attended the prestigious Doane Academy”. A direct descendent of Dr. Briscoe, Ms. Dolly Buswell knew that she had a stack of letters that were connected with Sotterley and Dr. Briscoe. The substance of those letters is essentially this- guidance provided by Dr. Briscoe to his daughter, Margaret, who was in the 1840s attending an Episcopalian girls boarding school, St. Mary’s Hall, located in Burlington, New Jersey. (St. Mary’s Hall continues today as a coeducational day school known as the Doane Academy.) To give contrast, and thereby give greater meaning, to the letters written by Dr Briscoe to his daughter, I have included letters written home to St. Mary’s County by Kate Dent, a boarder in 1850’s at the Episcopalian Hannah More Academy located north of Baltimore. Having read these letters, some questions came to mind which I will explore in this chapter. How did the educational opportunities for boys differ from the educational opportunities for girls? How did children travel from their homes in Southern Maryland to the boarding schools they would be attending? What was on the minds of the parents of these students who were away from home? What was on the minds of the students themselves who were away from home for perhaps the first significant length of time in their lives? These questions, and others, will be explored in this chapter “School Days.” I probably don’t have the best answers to these questions; but perhaps by showing what I do know or suspect, someone will come forward with additional clarifying material. Samuel C.P. Baldwin, Jr. Summer, 2016 2 R. BRISCOE AND HIS EPISCOPALIAN FAITH D Maria Briscoe Crocker, the granddaughter of Philip Briscoe (who was, in 1840, headmaster at Charlotte Hall Academy) said this about her relative: “Dr. Briscoe was a very religious man, hospitable and scholarly. A strict keeper of the sabbath and all biblical precepts. He lived in a manner befitting the traditions of Sotterley but with greater simplicity”. The letters that Dr. Briscoe wrote to his 15 year old daughter Margaret, who was at the time attending St. Mary’s Hall in Burlington, New Jersey, demonstrate the constant attention that Dr. Briscoe paid to matters of religious guidance. These letters are but a few examples: . Sotterley, May 19, 1845 My anxious care and earnest prayers for you and all with whom I have to do, are that you and they may ever be able, (?) sound judgement; sober reflection, and above all a constant looking unto God as the only sure foundation of wisdom and strength, so to subdue, arrange, and order all your affections, desires, and actions as, not only to escape the unhappy consequences of a similar act of parental ingratitude, but also the more pungent corroding of the here and hereafter of the 1. Dr. Walter Hanson hapless soul that lives but to die. Stone Briscoe And now allow me prayerfully to commit Courtesy of Historic you to the safe keeping of the Lord; particularly Sotterley during your absence from home. May His blessing rest upon you. May the Holy Spirit draw near around you and draw you near unto him… and by His sanctifying influence upon your heart make you thoroughly His through time and Eternity. Walter Hanson Stone Briscoe to Maggy Briscoe Sotterley, February 17, 1846 I will now take up the last item of your last letter, as the subject of the greatest importance and therefore demanding our first attention toward (?) your Confirmation and although I do not know that I can add anything new to the instructions given you and the opinions expressed to you before you left home, yet as you have opened your mind to me and asked me for the advice upon this 3 yet as you have opened your mind to me and asked me for the advice upon this subject I will endeavor to renew to you some of the reasons why spiritual matters should not be neglected or deferred longer than the period at which our age brings us individually and personally responsible; and more particularly after we become sensible of our responsibility. First then, our everlasting salvation is at stake; and as our spiritual interests are as much above our temporal as the heavens are above the earth so ought our care for that interest to be above all other considerations; and as in the midst of life we are in death (and this we see verified around us every day) we know not when, where, or how soon we may be cut off, so ought we to look only to the present time of each day allowed us as the only time of prosperation (?) for the great change that is to take us from time to eternity. And how can this preparation (?) be affected in us but by following the commands of our Lord. Through what may be then has He commanded us to do that we may be saved. Has He not commanded us to observe His Sacraments under (?) of his displeasure. How then can any neglect or discard them with safety. Look to it my Dear Daughter and be easily persuaded and satisfied in your own mind. You know our anxiety for your safety in this respect, yet do not I pray you suffer yourself to be influenced in so important a matter by the fears, wishes, or anxiety of us your best earthly friends, or all the world combined. You are now at an age to know right from wrong in spiritual things, and are consequently alone responsible to your heavenly father for the disposition and improvement of the time and opportunity He may grant you here to prepare for the hereafter. To Him and Him alone you must stand or fall. To render you a fit subject for the Holy Communion you should in the first place be fully persuaded in your own mind of the necessity of obeying the injunction of the Lord in relation thereto, and in the second that you really and today desire to become a faithful disciple of the Lord Jesus. You should also feel and believe in (?) until unworthiness; but in the sufficiency and willingness of the Almighty to assist and sustain you in your Christian walk. You should look at your Lord in His (?) and sufferings for you with the rest of mankind and love him for these sufferings. These and such like feelings and affections toward yourself and your Lord are the fundamental (?) my Dear child of a Christian life, and if you can realize this to be your stall (?) of heart and mind I think you need not fear but go boldly to your God, throw yourself upon Him and continually beg in prayer to Him that assistance for your support that all who have a conscience feel themselves in need of and you will not be disappointed. Nothing that I have said do I wish you to constrain into the belief that I wish you to be Confirmed except upon the thorough conviction of your own mind of its propriety in your case, and from a conscious belief that it is your duty; and after all should you feel timid about it in consequence of not having such friends to counsel you as you confide in, you had better perhaps defer it until you return home, should it please the Lord to spare you so long. I sincerely hope however should you do this that you will return with your mind fully made up to examine (?) subject (?)