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Autumn: Survivor Stories Table of Contents Sept 21 Fall Equinox - Peace and Gratitude 1986: Melody Joy Riegel, 21, body found 2005: Tamara Chipman, 22, disappeared 2010: Georgina Papin memorial service Sept 22 HeForShe 1986: Florence Whitford shot by husband (2010: MV accident) Sept 23 Ducks Fly Moon 2002: Edna Bernard, 28, body found 2016: Marjorie Auger, 44, killed by husband Sept 24 STOP - Sex Trade Offender Program 2013: Roxanne Isadore, 30, listed missing Sept 25 National Day of Remembrance Sept 26 Triumph over tragedy - Coco’s Story Sept 27 “Hope changes everything” 1997: Kelly S, 18, killed in accident 2014: Serenity, 4, died of neglect Sept 28 “Every day is a gift” 1991: Marlene Morawski, 35, body found Rinelle Harper Sept 29 Orange Shirt Day – Every child matters Sept 30 Zone of tolerance? 1984: Patsy Favel, 18, disappeared in Regina Oct 1 A lingering tendency to blame? 2006: Jarita Naistus, 20, strangled Our Voice, spare change magazine Oct 2 The only son we had 1994: Tim Orydzuk shot Guest writer Jane Orydzuk 2014: Colleen Sillito, 46, shot Oct 3 Conditions for a Miracle Oct 4 Truth and Reconciliation – Red Dress Day Oct 5 World Teachers Day – 2002: Four new Pickton charges Educating the heart 2005: Rose Decouteau, 43, strangled Oct 6 Awareness of inequalities 1999: Kate Quinn honoured 2008: Ana, 7, abducted & returned Oct 7 Finding your sister Oct 8 New wave of revolution? 2009: Michelle Hadwen, 37, died 2010: Cynthia Maas, 35, body found Oct 9 Men of Honour 2011: Dana Turner, 31, body found 2015: Gloria Gladue, 44, last seen Seasons of Life ~ Autumn Page 1 of 137 Oct 10 World Mental Health Day Oct 11 International Day of the Girl 2011: Missing Women Inquiry, B.C. 2014: Malala Peace Prize winner Oct 12 SWAT – Sex Workers Addressing Treatment Oct 13 Sisters in Spirit – We are the Women 2007: Lorilee Francis, 24, last seen Oct 14 Peace is every step 2012: Faith Jackson, 18, killed accidently Oct 15 Sympathy for a killer Oct 16 Victor Malarek – a voice of clarity Oct 17 Touched by Murder – the Journey Oct 18 Canadian Heroes: 2003: Carmen L’Hirondelle, 23, shot David Wynn and Gord Downie Oct 19 Okisikow Angel Way 1997: Joyce Hewitt, 22, body found Oct 20 Edmonton activist - 2005: Delores Brower, 33, listed missing Founder of Memorial March Oct 21 Mrs. Universe - Ashley Callingbull Oct 22 False confessions 2005: Sara Easton, 18, randomly shot Oct 23 Joy Smith, an exemplary politician Oct 24 Freeze Up Moon 1989: Bernadette Ahenakew, 22, body found Oct 25 Dr. Gabor Mate and Trauma 1990: Mavis Mason, 29, body found Oct 26 Highway of Tears review 1969-2006: 18 women missing from the Highway Oct 27 Miscarriage of justice Oct 28 Conference highlights 1985: Kathleen Whiteman, 26, stabbed Oct 29 Reflections on grief Oct 30 REDress Project Oct 31 Hallowe’en 2004: Glynnis Hall (Cardinal), 40, stabbed 2015: Leona Neapetung-Stevens, 17, stabbed Seasons of Life ~ Autumn Page 2 of 137 Nov 1 All Saints Day – Sacred bundles Nov 2 Celebrate diversity Seven Weeks with Spirit – Week One Nov 3 Standing Together 2011: Amber O’Hare, archivist, 59, died Nov 4 “Nobody sees her” Betty Nordin Nov 5 Mentally ill warehoused in prisons 2010: Annette Holywhiteman, 41, skull found Nov 6 New age of protection? 1999: Ruby McDonald, 49, found dead 2014: Official assent to Bill C-32 Nov 7 MMIWG Inquiry in Edmonton Nov 8 More dynamics to consider 2014: Rinelle Harper, 15, left for dead 2015: Vicki Cardinal, 35, killed Nov 9 World Freedom Day – Kendra’s story Nov 10 Life on the other side 2007: Angel Carlick, 19, body found Seven Weeks with Spirit – Week Two Nov 11 Remembrance Day “In Flanders Fields” Nov 12 Grief comes in waves Nov 13 World Kindness Day – Provocative plays Nov 14 International trafficking – 2015: Karina Wolfe, 20, remains found Where does it end? Nov 15 Philanthropy Day Nov 16 When children die Seven Weeks with Spirit – Week Three Nov 17 Creating options, fostering hope Nov 18 Without a trace 1995: Michelle Harmer, 29, disappeared Nov 19 Residential schools Nov 20 National Child Day 2003: Alexandra Jacko-Peche, 15, body found Nov 21 Many ways of connecting 2015: Crystal Bruce, 36, stabbed Seven Weeks with Spirit – Week Four Nov 22 Long Snow Moon (1987: Olympic torch run) Seasons of Life ~ Autumn Page 3 of 137 Nov 23 Serial killers prey on Indigenous 1981–2013: 18 victims of serial killers women Nov 24 Reciprocal rights Nov 25 Elimination of violence against women Nov 26 National Addictions Awareness 2016: Cheyenne Partridge, 25, last seen Nov 27 Redressing the wrongs of history – 2010: Angela Meyer, 22, last seen in NWT Salute to excellence 2017: Marlene Bird, 50, died in Saskatchewan Nov 28 Lives in review 1993: Joyce Cardinal, 36, set on fire Seven Weeks with Spirit – Week Five 2002: Four names added to 67 in Vancouver Nov 29 Giving day – Christmas decorations Nov 30 Resilience 1984: Candace Derksen, 13, disappeared Dec 1 Working the streets - 1997 Our Voice 2007: Chantelle Bushie, 16, last seen Dec 2 Day of People with Disabilities Dec 3 Women Against Violence and Exploitation Dec 4 Sacred Lives – Lighting a candle Dec 5 International Volunteer Day Seven Weeks with Spirit – Week Six Dec 6 National Day of Remembrance 1989: Montreal massacre – 14 names 2015: Christy Crane, 25, found on road Dec 7 A Promise of Salt 1995: Sheila Salter abducted 2002: Breann Voth, 19, body found Dec 8 Time to Listen 2001: Vivian Paddy, 33, body found 2014: Brandy Vittrekwa, 17, body found Dec 9 Somebody somewhere knows 2004: Maggie Burke, 21, last seen something 2007: Renee Gunning, 19, and Krystal Knott, 16, added to KARE list Dec 10 Universal Human Rights Day – Rachel Moran in Edmonton Dec 11 Making a difference one person at a time 1995: Becky Charles, 15, found frozen Seven Weeks of Spirit – Week Seven 2015: Murder charges re Tina Fontaine Dec 12 Report rubs the wrong way 2008: Shannon Collins skull identified 2015: Yvette Morin, 28, shot accidentally Dec 13 Letter campaign Seasons of Life ~ Autumn Page 4 of 137 Dec 14 Real men don’t exploit women and children Dec 15 Dangerous dancing Dec 16 The Impact of Trauma – REdress Photography Project Dec 17 Tears of recognition 1995: Sheila Salter, 42, frozen body found Dec 18 So many connections 1983: Charlotte Bass, 18, found dead 2015: Peacha Atkinson, 64, died of cancer Dec 19 Hurt people hurt people Dec 20 Summary comments 1993: Joyce Cardinal, 36, died from burns Dec 21 Longest night of the year – 1990: Lorraine Wray, 46, body found Elephants in the Room Dec 22 Earth Renewal Moon – Winter Solstice begins Dec 23 Blue Christmas 2007: Shannon Collins, 29, last seen Dec 24 Celebrating Constable Daniel Woodall - 2006: Marilyn Badger, 52, found dead Poet Laureate Mary Pinkoski Dec 25 Christmas memories 1996: Joanne Ghostkeeper, 24, strangled Dec 26 Overwhelming tragedies 2004: Massive tsunami in Asia 2005: Jessie Foster, 22, last seen by family Dec 27 Winding down Allen Sapp (1928–2015) Dec 28 Together forever – Happy Birthday in heaven Memories of love will be of you Seasons of Life ~ Autumn Page 5 of 137 SEASONS OF LIFE The Medicine Wheel, symbol of peaceful interaction and connection among all living beings on Earth, lends itself to limitless interpretations and teachings. In Medicine Wheel tradition, time and space are circular, Sacred and Life are one. All power comes from Creator at the center of the unbroken circle. As days and seasons mark changes of time, there is an endless connection to past, present and future. Four directions reach to embrace all people of Mother Earth, supported and united nurtured by healing energy. Dimensions of body, mind, heart, and spirit balance the journey of creation and the seasons of life. My story ends with Autumn, “letting go” time. Survivor Voices Autumn is the season of MIND, thought, mental and communal development. In the evening of our life, we celebrate understanding. The integrity and maturity of our collective wisdom is symbolized by the essential flow of water and tears of healing. This is a time for gratitude and discernment, reflection and release, for exploring ideas and learning to connect. We claim the vision of unity under one Creator. Seasons of Life ~ Autumn Page 6 of 137 Autumn in Canada offers bright leaves, changing colors, harvest, new school terms, shorter days, and the beginning of frost in the air. It is a time when people hope for the generously sunny days of so-called “Indian summer.” The first holiday, Thanksgiving, is traditionally a celebration for the bounty that would provide sustenance through the cold months ahead. As provisions are prepared for storage, attention also turns to shoring up shelters and ensuring adequate fuel for winter warmth. The brilliant panorama of autumn colours is caused by trees adapting to survive the cold months of winter. They become dormant, alive without actively growing, to maintain their water balance and store energy. As the leaves prepare to fall, different coloured pigments appear. Birch trees and aspens are yellow, poplars orange, and Canadian maples bright red. Weather plays a role in how long the colours last. On the prairies, cold wintery gusts often strip the trees quickly. In eastern provinces, the pigments last longer, mellowing into metallic shades of copper, gold, bronze and rust rather than dispersing in the wind. The spiritual animal for the West is the bear, the element, water. The bear symbolizes reflection and introspection, hibernating for half the year after nourishing itself. Water is essential for continual refreshment. In autumn we seek the ability to go deep within ourselves to heal what is necessary.