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2 BTL | January 10, 2013 www.PrideSource.com I apologize to Ambassador“ Hormel and any “I apologize to Ambassador Hormel and Amway Boycott LGBT Americans who may any LGBT Americans who may question” Growing World Wide question my commitment my commitment to their civil rights. to their civil rights. – Defense Secretary nominee l’s apology for Chuck Hage e Best Of 2012 In anti-gay remarks mad 14 years ago ” Music & Hollywood For me, as a Christian … I would

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www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 3 Newest Tigers Player ‘Uncomfortable’ With An Out Teammate BY CRYSTAL A. PROXMIRE comment Hunter has made. In 2010 he did an interview with USA Today DETROIT - Detroit Tiger’s where he complained about Dominican right fielder Torii Hunter joined players being categorized as black. other professional sports players in “People see dark faces out there, and reinforcing the stereotype that gays are the perception is that they’re African not welcome in the hyper-masculine American. They’re not us. They’re world of baseball and football. impostors,” Hunter told USA Today. In a Dec. 29th story for the LA “Even people I know come up and say, Times, reporter Kevin Baxter asked ‘Hey, what color is Vladimir Guerrero? Hunter about what his reaction would Is he a black player?’ I say, ‘Come on, be to learning he’s Dominican. He’s not black.’ that someone “As African-American players, we on his team have a theory that baseball can go get was gay. Hunter an imitator and pass them off as us,” The Burchett Family. Photo courtesy of Terry Johnston Photography Watch the Online Video told him that an Hunter says. “It’s like they had to get www.pridesource.com “out” teammate some kind of dark faces, so they go to could divide a the Dominican or Venezuela because team. you can get them cheaper. It’s like, “For me, ‘Why should I get this kid from the as a Christian South Side of Chicago and have Scott Family Support Offers … I will be Boras represent him and pay him $5 Torii Hunter uncomfortable million when you can get a Dominican because in all guy for a bag of chips?’ my teachings and all my learning, “I’m telling you, it’s sad.” The LA Times article also pointed Brighter Future For Son biblically, it’s not right,” Hunter said. “It will be difficult and uncomfortable.” out that while a scant number of former The LA Times article also included players have come out of the closet the Twitter remark by New England after their careers were over, not one Message: ‘I Am Still Good And Loveable’ Patriots’ linebacker Brandon Spikes player in the NBA, NHL, NFL or Major claiming to be homophobic, “just like League Baseball has come forward my mentor John is a professional be more vulnerable to you.” I’m arachnophobic. I have nothing while still on the job. Although some BY MEGAN ANDERSON and in love, I have learned that I Her best advice: Be the parent against homosexuals or spiders but have come out after, including: David It all started with a web search. will have a good future too. I hope your child deserves. I’d still scream if I found one in my Kopay (Redskins running back), Billy When Lisa Burchett’s son Nick to marry and have a family. He The Burchetts believe in getting bathtub.” Bean (Dodgers and Padres outfielder) came out to her and her husband shows it can happen,” said Nick. involved. Nick participates in the Hunter later Tweeted about backlash and John Amaechi (NBA center- John, she conducted a web search The process hasn’t always been KGLRC Triangle Mentorship to the article and released a statement forward). to find resources to assist, and easy. Nick was initially anxious to Program and the youth group. saying, “I’m very disappointed in Kevin Earlier in 2012 former NFL Player the Kalamazoo Gay Lesbian talk to his parents about his sexual He has also attended Kalamazoo Baxter’s article in which my quotes and Wade Davis did an interview with Out Resource Center was one of them. orientation. “It is safe. Do it,” he Pride and the dog walk with his feelings have been misrepresented. He Sports, where he revealed having to “The KGLRC has helped us says. “I was scared, but I think I dog Freckles. Says Nick, “I like took two completely separate quotes hide his homosexual side, going so far get facts and resources to support knew my parents would love me to be with and help people who and made them into one quote that does as to spend large amounts in a straight Nick,” said Lisa, 44. “It has no matter what. My parents are share what I go through.” not express how I feel as a Christian or strip club just to avoid suspicion. But helped us open conversations the most understanding I know. Encouraged by Lisa and John, a human being. I have love and respect he also told Between The Lines, in an and given Nick a safe place to be Most parents will love you no Nick joined the mentorship for all human beings regardless of race, Oct. 2012 interview, that he got more himself.” matter what.” program. “Basically, neither color or sexual orientation. I am not support after doing the Out Sports And Nick, now 15, agrees. For Lisa and John, who have John or I have been a 14 year old perfect and try hard to live the best life article than he’d expected. “When I He first participated in a youth been married for 19 years, gay boy. We can love, support and I can and treat all people with respect. initially agreed to do the interview, I group bowling outing. “I can be educating themselves is important advocate, but there are aspects If you know me you know that I am didn’t expect the reaction and feedback me without judgment, and no one to them to be strong advocates and feelings and concerns that not anti anything and to be portrayed to be so massive. Many of my friends cares I am gay,” he said. “They for Nick. we will never have firsthand as anti-gay in this article is hurtful and and ex-teammates were actually mad understand what I go through. “Laws are changing fast and knowledge of,” Lisa said. “His just not true.” at me. Not because I announced my Youth group lets me be with outside institutions will not seek mentor gives Nick a perspective Hunter was recently signed to a sexuality, as a gay man, but I didn’t people like me.” to implement changes without we never could.” two-year $26 million contract with the give them the opportunity to show me But Nick has learned being your encouragement,” Lisa Lisa and John participate in Detroit Tigers. He is a four time All they’d still love me,” Davis said. different is fine too. said. “Parents have to be open. many volunteer activities through Star who has played with the Minnesota After leaving the NFL, Davis played “I have learned it’s okay to be Children are essentially the same the KGLRC such as the Triangle Twins and the LA Angels. in a gay football league, then moved on different than most people. I am child as before they came out; Mentorship Program, fundraisers This isn’t the first controversial to work with LGBT youth in New York. still good and lovable. Seeing that they just have to let themselves See Family Support, page 11

4 BTL | January 10, 2013 www.PrideSource.com Amway Boycott Growing World Wide DeVos Monies Continued Source For Antigay Marriage Campaigns

BY CRYSTAL PROXMIRE marriage campaigns throughout the country since California’s Proposition 8 in 2008. It isn’t enough to spend one’s life making • In 2012, Dick DeVos contributed $2 million millions off the backs of the gullible in a dollars to help push for the controversial Right giant multi-level marketing business. One to Work legislation that was passed during must also then use their wealth and influence the lame duck session of the legislature, and to fight fervently against the rights of others, signed by Gov. Rick Snyder. The legislation protecting one’s righteous and superior way strikes a direct blow to unions’ ability to fund of life from those pesky LGBT people and their worker-representation functions by victims of HIV and AIDS. eliminating the requirement to join a union, At least that seems to be the outlook of yet still requiring unions to serve workers who those in charge of the Amway fortunes. Rather declined to join. than enjoying his success and wealth, Richard In a 2009 interview with Chris Knape of the DeVos and his sons are using their downline- Grand Rapids Press, Richard DeVos addressed acquired gains to fund campaigns against gay his issues with the gay community, ironically marriage, as well as investing record amounts concluding with, “You live your life the way in conservative campaigns in Michigan and you want to live and I’ll live mine and I won’t nationwide. stick my nose in yours, but don’t keep trying A boycott of Amway is growing as people to change things, that’s all.” recognize what their purchases are supporting. He explained that he had been “hung in effigy by the gay community for a long time, from when I was first on President Regan’s Profits Into Power first AIDS Commission…I listened to 300 Amway was founded in Ada, Michigan in witnesses tell us that it was everyone else’s 1959 by Richard DeVos and Jay Van Andel. fault but their own. Nothing to do with their Van Andel died in 2004 of Parkinson’s Disease, conduct. It was just the government ‘fix this leaving behind a legacy of involvement with disease.’ At the end of that I put into the conservative causes, his name on many document that, it’s the conclusion document buildings in Grand Rapids, and a phenomenally from that commission, that actions have profitable corporation for his business partner consequences and you are responsible for and high school friend DeVos, and his own yours.” children. Both families still share control of He blamed gay animosity on the fact that the multinational private corporation. he “wasn’t sympathetic for their requests for Here is a partial list of the campaigns and special treatment,” during the AIDS epidemic. causes championed by the DeVos dynasty: When asked about his funding against gay • In 2004 Betsy and Dick DeVos led the marriage, DeVos said, “Don’t ask for a effort to put the anti-gay marriage amendment concession to a marriage issue which is not on the ballot and contributed over $200,000 vital to them in my opinion. They’ve made it to the campaign to enshine discrimination into a vital issue because they want to.” the Michigan constitution. • In 2005 and 2006, Richard DeVos’s son Dick DeVos launched the most expensive The Boycott Is On campaign for Governor of Michigan, spending Because Amway’s founding families have $41 million. Despite the funding, he lost to dedicated so much of their resources to incumbent Jennifer Granholm. fighting equality, a California-based nonprofit • In 2008, Richard DeVos gave $100,000 called Rights Equal Rights has begun a to Florida4Marriage, which successfully boycott of the corporation and other DeVos- campaigned to add a state constitutional owned businesses. Since August they’ve been amendment to ban gay marriage. spreading the word about DeVos’s political • In 2009 Richard DeVos’s other son, Doug involvement, encouraging people not to DeVos, through the Douglas and Maria DeVos support Amway or any of the other DeVos- Foundation, donated $500,000 to the National tied businesses. Organization for Marriage to help in the fight Led by former Presidential candidate against marriage equality for same-gender couples. NOM has funded and run anti-gay See Amway, page 11 www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 5 BRIEFS Non Discrimination Ordinances DETROIT Feb. 23 Education and Advocacy Exhibition Announced By KICK KICK The Agency for Lesbian, Gay, Bi and Spread Equality City By City Transgender African Americans will engage colleges, universities and other training BY CRYSTAL A. PROXMIRE In addition to the protections implemented, percent include gender identity. A Williams institutions that value LGBT culture from across the process of passing non-discrimination, or Institute study shows that large companies Michigan at The Education & Advocacy Exhibition Michigan’s legislators in Lansing may not human rights, ordinances has other benefits. report that they adopt these policies to on Feb. 23 from 8:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. at Hannan be ready to step up and declare equality for “These start by local efforts, with people in improve employee retention, recruitment, and House located at 4750 Woodward Ave. the LGBT community, but across the state the communities coming together to create productivity, as well as to generate the best Admission officers, counselors, as well as individual cities have been creating local change. First, the passages themselves start ideas and a stronger customer base. financial and career planning professionals ordinances that prevent discrimination and conversations that let people know about the The biggest argument against inclusive from colleges and universities, technical and publicize that anti-gay bias is something they lack of protection LGBT people face. There’s non-discrimination polices is that it may bring vocational schools, training agencies and won’t tolerate. a fuller sense of community, and it gets people lawsuits or cause strain on administrators financial aid/scholarship information will be The past year has seen more advances than involved in the political process. After it’s to implement or enforce. Yet the Williams on hand to provide information on returning setbacks according to Jon Hoadley, director of passed, it’s not done. There are conversations Institute research shows that LGBT lawsuits and attending institutions of higher learning. Unity Michigan, a statewide organization that with businesses and governments to make sure happen at about the same rate as discrimination There will also be a variety of short workshops, aims to advance equality one city at a time. we’re treating people fairly.” cases involving race or gender. lectures, activities and information sessions that Working with groups like Equality Michigan, The Williams Institute in California offers Royal Oak, Holland, Rochester Hills and will focus on a variety of topics specific to LGBT the ACLU, KICK, Affirmations, the Ruth multiple studies and other research to show the Jackson are among the cities where a human participants throughout the day. The event will Ellis Center and the Michigan Roundtable need for listing sexual orientation and gender rights ordinance is being discussed, and there’s allow students and their families the opportunity for Diversity and Inclusion, Unity Michigan expression as protected classes. For example, no telling how many other cities will move to interact with LGBT and ally friendly colleges, provides data and support to groups that want universities and training institutions. to create change in their communities. For more information on how you or your In 2012, four Michigan cities passed non- organization can participate in “The Education discrimination ordinances. Elected officials One reason Lansing won’t & Advocacy Exhibition,” please contact in Mt. Pleasant approved theirs on July 9, Victoria B. Edwards at 313-285-9733 or Muskegon approved theirs on Aug. 14, and take action is they don’t think [email protected]. Union Township approved theirs Sept. 26. “ Flint also passed an ordinance expanding there is local support, but that FERNDALE their current non-discrimination ordinance, is not true. Polling shows that Affirmations Gets New Floor however when the Emergency Financial Affirmations Community Center will close Manager law was voted down statewide, all the majority of people support Jan. 12 - 20 while new flooring is installed. The ordinances enacted in Flint by the EMF were equal rights. This is where center will reopen on Jan. 21. removed, including the non-discrimination ordinance. Their previous non-discrimination America is moving, and these DEARBORN ordinance is still in effect, but the gender UM-Dearborn To Host Queer-Identified expression component is not. ordinances show that. Muslim Activist, Faisal Alam So overall, Michigan gained three. Progress has also been made toward enacting one in - Jon Hoadley, director of Unity Michigan, University of Michigan-Dearborn will host a a statewide organization that aims to Royal Oak, with city commissioners voting to advance equality one city at a time. presentation by speaker, writer, organizer and have the city attorney draft an ordinance that ” activist Fail Alam. will be voted on in 2013. Alam is a queer-identified Muslim activist of The total statewide is now 21. But what does Pakistani descent. He began the first internet that mean for the communities that have them, 37 percent of gay and lesbian respondents to a forward in the coming year. In general all it based email discussion group for LGBT Muslims and for the state as a whole? 2008 General Social Survey had experienced takes is a vote of the city’s elected officials, at age 19 in Nov. 1997, which marked the first Hoadley explained that ordinances may vary workplace harassment in the last five years, though sometimes petitioning for a public vote time that LGBT Muslims could discuss issues of from city to city. Some may include “gender and 12 percent had lost a job because of their can work when officials are unresponsive. common concern in a safe environment. expression,” while some just include “sexual sexual orientation. As recently as 2010, 78 Unity Michigan has worked with members This listserv eventually led to the First orientation.” The most inclusive ones protect percent of respondents to the largest survey of several communities that have passed International Retreat for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual individuals from discrimination in housing, of transgender people to date reported having the ordinances. They offer model ordinance and Transgender Muslims. jobs and accommodations, but not every city experienced harassment or mistreatment at wording, best practice advice, and information Alam’s presentation “Hidden Voices: The Lives has all those provisions. The penalties for work. about messaging and the political process. of LGBT Muslims” has been featured at over 100 violating the ordinance may also vary. Cities with inclusive protections attract They can help identify supporters and donors, universities and colleges. He has spoken and But what they all do is demonstrate the LGBT residents and workers, as well as allies and can connect interested advocates with presented at numerous events across the country growing trend toward LGBT acceptance. who see the treatment of LGBT people as a others who have passed ordinances in their including LGBT interfaith services, inter-religious “Michigan has a rich tradition of local litmus test for progressive values and overall hometowns. They also have ties to community LGBT panel discussions, at synagogues, churches, governance,” Hoadley said. “This is something care and respect. Where inclusive polices centers and other organizations involved in the PFLAG meetings and other community events. we are empowered to do. They (cities) can can be an economic draw for communities, fight for equality. Alam presents “Hidden Voices” at 6:30 p.m., protect their resources when Lansing won’t. it’s proven to be a successful way for private Jan. 24 in Kochoff Hall, 4901 Evergreen Road, One reason Lansing won’t take action is they business to grow. According to the Human Dearborn. For more information on his presentation, don’t think there is local support, but that is not To learn more about Unity Michigan and the push Rights Campaign, 86 percent of the Fortune visit http://www.hiddenvoices.info. For more true. Polling shows that the majority of people 500 companies include sexual orientation for nondiscrimination ordinances, check out their information about this event, call 313-593-5390 support equal rights. This is where America in their nondiscrimination policies, and 50 website at www.unitymichigan.org/. or go to http://Sao.umd.umich.edu/faisalalam. is moving, and these ordinances show that.”

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BY LISA KEEN and money on repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell Senator Hagel is one of them. and, just as we would with anyone, we are –a bipartisan effort,” said Angelo. “Now is not "The next Defense Secretary should get communicating to him and to the White House U.S. Senator Tammy Baldwin said Monday the time to roll the dice on a nominee who may off to a fast start and ensure LGBT military things we believe need to happen.” that she wants to see whether Defense or may not smoothly implement” that repeal. families have access to every possible benefit Specifically, said Stokes, SLDN wants Secretary nominee Chuck Hagel’s apology “He’s not the right nominee.” under the law,” said Griffin. “Every day these to hear from the nominee whether he will for anti-gay remarks 14 years ago is “sincere A spokesperson for the National Gay families continue to face unfair treatment and “take a serious look at the inequities” for and sufficient.” and Lesbian Task Force expressed “grave the Secretary can take meaningful action to gay servicemembers serving today “and Baldwin made her remarks just minutes concerns” last month about Hagel’s potential remedy this discrimination." make an immediate commitment to remedy after President Obama officially nominated nomination and this week said NGLTF This week, HRC added, “We look forward those inequities that he can (through…) own the former Republican Senator from Nebraska “continues to have concerns.” to Senator Hagel's testimony on how he authority.” to the top Pentagon post. During an interview “Though Chuck Hagel has recently intends to ensure equal benefits for gay and In a press release Jan. 4, SLDN Executive with MSNBC, Baldwin said she did not know apologized for past anti-gay remarks, we lesbian service members and their families.” Director Allyson Robinson said Hagel Hagel, but that she plans to ask him “some expect him to fully explain his views during Zeke Stokes, spokesman for the “clearly has the military credentials and tough questions.” the confirmation process and what steps Servicemembers Legal Defense Network experience” for the Secretary’s job but Baldwin does not sit on the Senate Armed he intends to take as defense secretary to (SLDN), said his organization never opposed that it is “incumbent upon him during the Services Committee but, as a member of demonstrate his support for LGBT members Hagel’s nomination and believes the apology nomination and confirmation process to lay the U.S. Senate she will vote on Hagel’s of the military and their families,” said NGLTF was worth consideration. out demonstrable actions he will take” to confirmation. Executive Director Rea Carey. “We recognize Hagel issued a statement shortly after support his words. The press release said She told MSNBC she plans to give Hagel’s that people do evolve on these issues and we reports surface that he was a leading candidate SLDN wants the nominee, if confirmed, to nomination a “thorough review” and will “be hold out hope that, if confirmed, Hagel will for Secretary of Defense, apologizing for his add “sexual orientation” to the language of fair.” “But I do want to speak with him particularly about his comments 14 years ago to ... see if his apology is sincere and sufficient,” said Baldwin. “I want to see how he’s evolved on Senator Hagel’s apology this issue in last 14 years” and how he will and his statement of support contribute to the successful implementation “ of the repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell. for LGBT equality is appreciated The Human Rights Campaign has backed and shows just how far as a off from its initial opposition to Hagel as Secretary of Defense, but the National Gay country we have come when a and Lesbian Task Force continues to express “concern” and Log Cabin Republicans says conservative former Senator from he’s “not the right nominee.” Nebraska can have a change of The national LGBT Republican group ran a full-page ad in the Washington Post heart on LGBT issues. Monday, saying Hagel’s apology for past anti- gay remarks is “too little, too late.” The ad - HRC Executive Director Chad Griffin highlights his previous opposition to repealing the military ban on gay servicemembers and Pres.Obama nominated former Nebraska Senator Chuck Hagel for Secretary of Defense Monday. ” his opposition to allowing equal marriage AP photo. rights for gay couples. military’s non-discrimination policies and "Until his name surfaced as a potential meet the bar set by other cabinet secretaries remarks against the nomination of James extend “all benefits” possible to married same- nominee for Secretary of Defense, he has and the administration when it comes to Hormel to become ambassador to Luxemburg sex couples, while DOMA is still in force. stood firmly and aggressively against not only ensuring fairness for all LGBT military under President Bill Clinton. At that time, in The Human Rights Campaign’s scoring of gay marriage, but also against gay people in families and for women in the military.” 1998, Hagel characterized Hormel’s openness Hagel’s voting record while the Republican general,” said Gregory Angelo, who took over Human Rights Campaign President Chad about his sexual orientation as an “aggressive” represented Nebraska in the U.S. Senate as interim executive director of Log Cabin less Griffin issued a statement last month when act that could inhibit his ability to represent earned him the lowest grade possible on than two weeks ago. “Log Cabin Republicans Hagel’s name was floated as a likely nominee, the United States in a foreign post. LGBT-related issues - zero in two of his last helped lead the charge to repeal Don't Ask, saying Hagel’s past comments on gays and his “My comments 14 years ago in 1998 were three congressional sessions, and a 20 out Don't Tell and is extremely invested in seeing Congressional voting on gay-related issues insensitive. They do not reflect my views of 100 in the last session he served. Hagel that we don't lose any ground due to a lack of “unacceptable.” But after Hagel issued his or the totality of my public record, and I opposed an effort to ban same-sex marriage sincere commitment to gay people and their apology for his 1996 hostile remarks over apologize to Ambassador Hormel and any nationally through an amendment to the families on the part of the incoming Defense openly gay ambassadorial nominee James LGBT Americans who may question my federal constitution. Secretary." Hormel, HRC softened its opposition to the commitment to their civil rights. I am fully Former U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, who is both In a phone interview Monday afternoon, nomination. supportive of ‘open service’ and committed gay and Jewish, said last month that he thinks Angelo said he thinks people should “pause "Senator Hagel's apology and his statement to LGBT military families,” said Hagel in his Hagel would be “very good” with respect to and question” the timing of Hagel’s “so-called of support for LGBT equality is appreciated statement. Israel and the Defense budget but that Hagel’s apology.” and shows just how far as a country we have “Senator Hagel pretty quickly addressed anti-gay comments were a “disqualification “I’m not about to hypothesize what was in come when a conservative former Senator those remarks and apologized for what he from being appointed.” his head, but the timing of the apology does from Nebraska can have a change of heart said 14 years ago, so we certainly want to give Neither the president nor Hagel referred to seem rather suspect – that his evolution (on on LGBT issues,” said Griffin, in a statement him the same space we would give anyone any opposition to the Hagel nomination during gay issues) came days after his name floated” issued Monday. “Our community continues to evolve over 14 years on this issue,” said a White House press conference Monday as a nominee said Angelo. to add allies to our ranks and we're proud that Stokes. “He’s indicated he has (evolved) “Log Cabin Republicans spent a lot of time afternoon. www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 7 BRIEFS Django Unchained WASHINGTON, D.C. Viewpoint Supreme Court Announces Dates And Argument Parameters For Lost in Translation DOMA, Prop. 8 Cases OPINION BY MICHELLE BROWN The U.S. Supreme Court announced Monday Jan. 7 that it will hear arguments on Proposition 8, California’s same-sex marriage ban, on March 26 and United States v. Windsor, challenging the constitutionality of the federal irst and foremost, let me say I am no This is a story of human evolution as King’s words that “Injustice anywhere, is a Defense of Marriage Act (signed in 1996), on movie critic. pertinent then as it is today when we as a threat to justice everywhere.” March 27. F My tastes in film are as varied as nation struggle with equality for the “other” “Unchained” was Schultz’s apathy, his In Hollingsworth v. Perry, the Proposition my tastes in music, books and just about (LGBT, immigrants, etc.) and interestingly the complicity in the perpetuation in the system 8 hearing, the justices are asking parties to everything else. My personal favorites include spark for his evolution is marriage. that denied others their humanity. One might argue on the question of whether the U.S. the 1933 film “42nd Street,” “Raise the Red This may have jumped out at me because say that in the end Schultz had evolved Constitution allows California to limit marriage Lantern,” “Bound,” “Y Tu Mama Tambien,” in writing and speaking on marriage equality, and might have shared President Obama’s to unions of one man and one woman. “Blade Runner,” “Alien Resurrection,” “The particularly in reference to opposition by thoughts “… that is that, in the end the values In United States v. Windsor, the justices Red Violin” and “Bodyguards & Assassins” members of the African-American clergy, that I care most deeply about…is how we treat are asking parties to argue whether DOMA just to name a few. Then there are the I have noted that marriage has been a other people.” (from President Obama’s May violates the U.S. Constitution. Furthermore, documentaries, but I think you get my point. cornerstone in the fight for human and civil 2012 remarks on marriage equality.) parties are to argue whether the U.S. House I don’t go to the movies often and when rights. In a letter to the editor in 1895 French of Representatives can legally defend DOMA I do go it’s purely for entertainment. This Despite attempts during slavery to break novelist, critic and essayist Marcel Proust despite the Obama Administration’s support holiday season has been no exception. In the spirit and strength of African Americans wrote, great art/artists “initiate us into a for a federal appeals court decision that the the past six weeks, I’ve seen three films: by destroying familial bonds, we African knowledge and love of the external world… law is unconstitutional. “Lincoln” because I’d read the book; “Life Americans found ways to acknowledge our they are the ones by whom our eyes are Currently nine states have legalized gay of Pi” because of a great NPR interview; and kinship, our families, our love – even forming opened.” Therein lays the beauty of the arts; marriage - Maine, Maryland, Washington “Django Unchained” as an in-person meet-up our own ceremonies and traditions to celebrate music, art, books, cinema are not just to state, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New with Facebook friends. our humanity, our relationships, often with entertain us, but to engage, outrage and make Hampshire, New York and Vermont - and the More than either “Lincoln” or “Life of Pi,” full knowledge that the next day our families us think. nation’s capital, the District of Columbia. “Django Unchained” seems to be one of those could be ripped apart, sold the very next day. l will leave you with these words from that movies everyone has a strong opinion about. Initially seeing “Django” as a means Saturday morning philosopher Fat Albert this So let’s do the controversial stuff and just get solely to his ends, we witness Dr. Schultz movie is “… coming out with music and fun. NEW HAMPSHIRE it out of the way. transformation, beginning with his ah-ha If you’re not careful, you may learn something First, it’s a Quentin Tarantino movie. If moment while relating the story of Broomhilda before it’s done! Hey, Hey, Hey!” 10th Episcopal Bishop Of New you’ve seen any of his movies you had to go in and Siegfried, perhaps for the first time truly “Django Unchained” – love it, hate it? I’ll Hampshire To Take Over to the theater knowing there would be blood. understanding the fable in human terms – but let you decide. “Hey, hey, hey!” Come on. “Reservoir Dogs,” “Pulp Fiction,” not just the love story. New Hampshire will soon have a new Kill Bill” – there’s going to blood, violence As Dr. Schultz acknowledges and respects Michelle E. Brown is a Public Speaker, Activist and Episcopal bishop with the investiture of A. Robert and some crazy twists and turns. “Django’s” humanity he begins his own Hirschfeld to succeed Gene Robinson. Next, it is set in the south during slavery. journey of reclaiming his own. To the point Author follow her at www.mychangeiam.com and Hirschfeld will be invested Saturday at 11 a.m. Slavery was brutal, ugly, horrific and violent where one can almost see him haunted by www.twitter.com/mychangeiam in an elaborate ceremony at St. Paul’s Episcopal by any account even if you threw in a love Church in Concord. story. Hirschfeld was Rector of Grace Episcopal Finally, they use the “n” word – a lot. Church in Amherst, Mass., when he was elected But that’s what they called black slaves in May to be New Hampshire’s 10th Episcopal during slavery. No one said take the African bishop. American out back and beat them for trying Robinson’s election in 2003 as the first to escape. They used n*gger. They used it openly-gay Episcopal bishop created a tempest a lot, but quite frankly I found the use of the in the Anglican Church worldwide. “n” word in a period piece about slavery far After handing his pastoral staff over to less offensive than its casual use in today’s Hirschfeld, Robinson will become a part-time culture. senior fellow at the Center for American If you still want to go there on any of these Progress, a liberal think tank in Washington, D.C. issues, there are plenty of blogs, Facebook The 51-year-old Hirschfeld will lead a posts and op-eds where you can continue that congregation founded in 1802. discussion. I’ll catch you there but that’s not The investiture ceremony is open to the public my point here. but closed to the media. Amidst all the hype about the blood, the violence, the “N” word, the depiction of slavery, the love story, Kerry Washington and, yes, Spike Lee there was another story, a sub-plot some might say, could get lost Extended briefs are available online at: in the fray. >> www.PrideSource.com I’m talking about the evolution of the German born bounty hunter, Dr. King Schultz.

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OPINION BY ERIC RADER n the closing days of the Michigan the workplace. Unions and labor The entire Michigan Legislature and OPINION BY CHARLES ALEXANDER Legislature’s lame-duck session, federations such as the AFL-CIO, the Gov. Snyder will be on the statewide IRepublicans hastily passed bills United Auto Workers (UAW), and ballot in 2014. A key reason for the federally funded study by People & Friends of Cats and to fulfill the right-wing wishes of a the American Federation of Teachers Republican sweep of our state in 2010 Dogs (P-FCD) says that “persons of rainbow personality small minority of people in our state. (AFT), have worked to negotiate labor was the decision by many progressive A make the best dog owners, but have little influence on Unfortunately, Gov. Rick Snyder didn’t contracts that protect against LGBT voters to stay home on Election Day. cats - although this should not be misconstrued as homophobia have the backbone to stand up to the discrimination in the workplace and If the LGBT community and our on the part of America’s feline population.” Tea Party-inspired agenda of legislative extend domestic partner benefits to allies are to ever enjoy equality and The P-FCD Study - “Are American Pets at Risk with Gay/ Republicans, and despite his supposed employees when not prohibited by law. fairness in this state, we need new Lesbian Owners?” - finds that “dogs owned by lgbts are happier, moderate credentials, signed much of better mannered, more likely to heel and fetch than dogs reared by this awful legislation. In passing these The entire Michigan Legislature and Gov. Snyder will straights. They shed less - the dogs not the heterosexuals - during bills, legislative Republicans denied summer months and do their gender sniffing and hydrant marking opponents any chance to really debate be on the statewide ballot in 2014. A key reason in a covert, more decorous manner.” the pros and cons of the legislation, Interestingly too is the Study finding that most breeds - with ramming it through the legislature for the Republican sweep of our state in 2010 was the exception of Pekingese, Chihuahuas, dachshunds - show without any real hearings or discussion. the decision by many progressive voters to stay marked sporting instincts: catching Frisbees, treeing squirrels, The process by which the Republicans chasing unmarked police cars, when raised by lesbians. passed their agenda can hardly be home on Election Day. If the LGBT community and “Rottweilers, when dyke raised, tend to be one-owner breed. described as “democratic” and was They are loyal to a fault. (The dogs, not the dykes.) Curiously, Pitt profoundly flawed. our allies are to ever enjoy equality and fairness in bulls become remarkably docile when trained by lipstick lesbian Included within the package of this state, we need new leadership in Michigan. owners in suburban settings. bills were two pieces of legislation “Breeds raised by gay men seldom bark or if they do it’s in that now make Michigan a so-called quieter tones, and are less likely to eat ill-prepared dinner scraps “Right-to-work” (RTW) state, meaning or TV frozen dinner leftovers. They also show a preference for Labor groups have been at the forefront leadership in Michigan. We must that unions can no longer require the dog houses that are painted in warmer tones and edged with white in the fight for LGBT equality, opposing support candidates for governor and for workers they are legally required to lattice work. Collars preferred are with sequins and, in leather statewide ballot measures (such as the state legislative seats who will fight for cover to pay their fair share for the outings, studs or spikes.” one here in Michigan) that enshrine all Michiganders, not just the wealthy services the union provides for them. The old saying, You can’t teach an old dog new tricks, has anti-gay bigotry in state constitutions, and well-connected. This means that With RTW in effect, workers are been proven “to be utterly false and denigrating to aging canine and supporting efforts to protect LGBT we cannot rest over the next two years, no longer allowed to vote for such populations. Old dogs -- with gay owners as role models -- are rights and extend marriage protection especially since we know that the other requirements, limiting their ability actually remarkably adept at doing new tricks.” and workplace nondiscrimination laws. side most certainly won’t rest. The last to negotiate in good faith with their A big disappointment of the Study is with the finicky cat Gov. Rick Snyder has been a huge few weeks have not been good ones employers and silencing their voices. population. It was determined that cats raised by lgbts were just disappointment to a lot of people in for equality and fairness in Michigan, The Republican legislative agenda as likely to be as independent as cats raised by straights. “The our state, though many of us were but it’s time to move on and fight for in Michigan flew in the face of the will truth is, that cats just don’t give a rat’s winkie if you’re straight suspicious of his policy intentions when our values in the coming weeks and of Michigan voters, as expressed in or gay. If you feed them on time, they just couldn’t care less. And he first ran for governor two years ago. months. If we stay committed to our the statewide results of the November whatever you do, don’t smoke their catnip.” A majority of Michigan voters cast beliefs, we can outlast the forces of 2012 election. Michigan citizens There is a note of progress, however. For some reason “alley cats ballots for the “tough nerd” in 2010, greed and intolerance, and Michigan’s recently voted to re-elect Barack seem to live longer when kept by gay, single males. This applies with many voters believing that he future will be bright. Obama and Debbie Stabenow by whether neutered or unneutered.” (The cats, not the single males.) would govern in the style of the last significant margins, and reduced the Not everyone is pleased with the P-FCD findings. In The truly moderate Republican governor of Republican margin in the Michigan Family Way, a right-wing vigilante organization headquartered Michigan, William Milliken. Learn More: LGBT Rights House from eighteen seats to eight. in Free-Fall, Montana, expresses outrage at the P-FCD in its Though Snyder has publicly & Labor While it is true that the voters defeated monthly newsletter, “The Litter Box.” Editorial correction: That proclaimed his desire to tamp down the pro-labor Proposal 2 by a large AFL-CIO Pride At Work group: should be Letter. “divisive” agendas in the state, he has majority, they actually defeated all of “The Gay Agenda stops at nothing,” opines the editorial. “Not signed numerous bills that actually www.prideatwork.org the statewide proposals by similar or only do they want special rights, the right to marry and adopt serve to widen the political divide in even greater margins. In any event, children, now they want to raise America’s wagtail majority: our Michigan. One example of this divisive voting against an amendment to the UAW President’s statement on President innocent dogs and cats, as same-sex household pets. Maybe a agenda was a bill the governor signed Michigan Constitution is not the same Obama’s support for equal marriage rights: poodle or two, but not a born-again boxer. Never!” during his first year in office that denies thing as endorsing RTW legislation, www.uaw.org/taxonomy/term/2288/0 The editorial ends with the usual request for money in the domestic partner benefits to public something that polls show a majority “cultural war to save our four-footed friends from a life of pampering employees in Michigan. At a time of Michigan citizens oppose. and eternal perdition. Heaven loves a cheerful benefactor.” when a majority of Michiganders now AFT 2004 Proclamation in favor of equal While not everyone in the LGBT How true. Give a pup or kitten a loving home in 2013. Call say they approve of legal same-sex marriage rights: community is a member of a labor the Michigan Humane Society today. Happy Arf! Mary Meow! marriage, Snyder has joined the most union, it’s important to recognize the www.aft.org/about/resolution_detail. And a Perverted Purr! critical work unions have performed intolerant elements in our state to divide cfm?articleid=1344 in advancing LGBT equality in gay people from straight people. [email protected] www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 9 Creep of the Week OPINION BY D’ANNE WITKOWSKI Gay Marriage Remains John Boehner don’t know if you’ve noticed, but A Tough Sell In Illinois national approval of Congress is I down. Like, way down. You know BY SARA BURNETT the gay community and where we are.” gay U.S. senator, and an Iowa Supreme what’s more popular than Congress right While President Barack Obama’s Court justice who participated in the now? BP during the oil spill in the Gulf. SPRINGFIELD, Ill. (AP) – The home state is known for its liberal court’s unanimous ruling in favor of That’s right. People hate Congress more stalling of Illinois’ gay-marriage push policies, its Democratic leadership gay marriage kept his seat. Two years than they hate oil soaked pelicans and – at least for now – shows the difficulty hails mostly from Chicago while the earlier, voters ousted three of his sea turtles. of approving legislation to legalize it, rest of the state – including fellow colleagues. You know what is up? Like, way up? even with a nudge from the home-state Democrats – are far more conservative. Coming just months after Obama Support for marriage equality. president, steadily rising support in the One Republican from downstate Illinois announced his support for same-sex So if you were John Boehner, Speaker polls and national momentum from the said what happened last week was a marriage, Illinois advocates decided to of the U.S. House, what would you want November elections. reflection of that. grab the momentum and press the issue to focus on in light of these numbers? Where would tax-payer Democrats control both chambers “I think the Legislature is a before the Legislature as soon as they money be best spent? of the General Assembly and the microcosm of the state’s society, and believed they could get it through. That Why, on defending the Defense of Marriage Act, of course! governor’s office in the meant the January On Jan. 3 Boehner authorized the continued use of your solidly blue state. Yet lame-duck session, money to the losing battle of defending DOMA, the 1996 law the margin of support One supporter said votes could which had the added that defines marriage as between one woman and one man, and Senate Democrats were benefit of letting which President Bill Clinton signed (boo). able to pull together for occur as early as February. Until dozens of lawmakers The Obama administration has called DOMA unconstitutional a bill last week was so who wouldn’t have to and is no longer defending challenges to the law. This has driven thin that a death in one then, they will continue to meet with stand for re-election Boehner and Co. absolutely nuts and so, using taxpayer money, lawmaker’s family and vote their conscience. they decided the House would take over the job of defending another senator’s extended legislators and tell their stories. “You really had this unconstitutional law. trip to Israel were enough a sense that it’s our This is a very crazy time for DOMA seeing as the Supreme to push the issue into the it proves once again that the state of time.” Bennett said. Court is going to hear a case about it in March. next legislative session. Illinois is not ready for gay marriage,” “We moved when the iron was hot.” Granted, it isn’t surprising that Boehner and his fellow Supporters downplayed the delay, Sen. Sam McCann said. Some observers questioned whether Republicans are freaking out about this. Anti-gay hysteria has saying a Senate committee’s vote to But Edwin Yohnka, director of advocates rushed too much, not taking long been a staple for them. But for a guy who would rather advance the measure was history itself public policy for the American Civil time to iron out details that might have your grandma eat cat food than a billionaire pay another dime and insisting same-sex marriage here is Liberties Union of Illinois, which is helped pick up some votes. But the bill’s in taxes, it does call into question how sincere Republicans are inevitable. But there’s no denying that part of a coalition pushing the bill, sponsor and other supporters said they about their garment wrenching over fiscal issues. We don’t have even as the nation’s feelings about the characterized the committee vote as “a had done their due diligence and the money for Social Security, but for beating up on gays? Oh, sure. issue appear to be shifting, lawmakers great accomplishment.” only glitch was the absence of three Here’s a blank check. Gotta have priorities. have been more reluctant to do so – “That was something a year ago or lawmakers whose backing was critical. Many people are, unsurprisingly, calling Boehner out on this. particularly in the nation’s heartland. two years ago people would not have One suburban Chicago Republican, According to ABC News, Drew Hammill, a spokesperson for No legislature in the middle of the conceived,” Yohnka said. “We are a Sen. Suzi Schmidt, was absent because Democratic Leader Nancy Pelosi said, “House Republicans will country has approved gay marriage. day closer today to having the freedom her mother died, while Democratic Sen. send a clear message to LGBT families: their fiscal responsibility Of the nine states that allow it, Iowa is to marry for all couples in Illinois than Jeffrey Schoenberg was overseas for his mantra does not extend to their efforts to stand firmly on the the only one not located on the nation’s we were yesterday, and we will be a day daughter’s bat mitzvah and Democratic wrong side of the future.” coasts, and it adopted same-sex unions closer tomorrow. Marriage is coming Sen. James Clayborne had a family Hammill continued, “As House Democrats have time and through the courts, not the Legislature. to Illinois.” emergency. time again made clear, the BLAG (the House’s Bipartisan As it became clear last week Lawmakers note it’s not unusual for Legal Advisory Group, which is defending the law) does not that Illinois didn’t have a deal and an issue – especially one as controversial speak for all Members of the House of Representatives and we would have to push back a vote until Parallel Court Push as same-sex marriage – to take several will continue to oppose this wasteful use of taxpayer funds to possibly February, Senate President Supporters have a parallel effort hearings before getting a floor vote. defend DOMA.” John Cullerton, a Chicago Democrat, underway in the Illinois courts, where 25 Cullerton and the bill’s sponsor, Sen. Other Democrats criticized the Republicans as well. “You mentioned same-sex marriage along gay and lesbian couples are challenging Heather Steans, said they will spend know, they are like flamingos — no, ostriches — with their with gun control as measures that are the state law that prohibits marriage the next few weeks of the new session, heads in the ground,” Rep. Jim McDermott, D-Wash. told the “always going to be very, very tough” between people of the same sex, but which begins Jan. 9, trying to tweak the Seattle Post Intelligencer. “They cannot see what is going on in to pass. the legal process could take years. And bill to allay Republican concerns about the country around them. They just keep doing this crazy stuff. That makes a potential victory in unlike some other states, Illinois doesn’t violations of religious freedom. This crazy stuff is taking over the Republican Party. The tide of Illinois even sweeter, advocates say. have a process for citizens to change One supporter said votes could occur history has turned against them. They just refuse to recognize it.” The Iowa Supreme Court’s decision state statutes at the ballot box. So the as early as February. Until then, they McDermott continued, “(House Republicans) are the people to void the state’s gay marriage ban in Legislature is seen as the quickest, less will continue to meet with legislators who made a big deal about opposing earmarks, yet they keep 2009 shocked people on both coasts and expensive route for marriage-equality and tell their stories - an approach that spending money on this stupid lawsuit. Spending $1.7 million sent ripples across the nation, said Jim advocates. has seemed to work well so far. And on a lawsuit doesn’t bother them.” Bennett, director of the Midwest office A gay marriage bill was introduced they say this week’s events ignited their DOMA has been struck down in Federal appeals court of Lambda Legal. in the Legislature early last year but coalition in a way they haven’t seen in and with the current administration refusing to defend it, this “I think Illinois is the same way,” was going nowhere until last fall. In nearly a decade. decades-long anti-gay chapter in history may well be coming Bennett said. “There’s a sense that if it November, voters in four states either “At the end of the day, I feel to an end. DOMA is a sinking ship. Let’s hope it takes Boehner happens in the middle of the country, it’s approved gay marriage or voted down momentum is still behind us, and it’s along with it. not a trend. It’s a new understanding of bans on it. Wisconsin elected an openly strong,” Bennett said. 10 BTL | January 10, 2013 www.PrideSource.com ® Amway Boycott Continued from p. 5

Fred Krager, who is a gay Republican, Rights Equal Rights has led four other boycotts. Bolthouse Farms was the first to settle, contributing $110,000 to LGBT organizations to offset its founder’s $100,000 donation to Yes on Proposition 8 in California. They’ve also posted the names of 800 donors on the “Dishonor Roll” of their website www.rightsequalrights. com. Actress Jane Lynch and Equality Pennsylvania have joined in the boycott against Amway and the other DeVos Companies. Amway responded to the boycott Readers can call Amway owner and President Doug DeVos and ask him why he gave so much money to NOM (National Organization for Marriage) to take away LGBT rights. If you don’t get in a statement to ABC News stating, through leave a voice mail. Please be respectful and courteous to Mr. DeVos and his associates. “As private citizens, the DeVos family supports causes and organizations that advocate for policies aligned to their personal beliefs… one of the highest Call Doug DeVos: 616-676-6000 callings of any individual is to express their own personal beliefs as a participant in the democratic process.” Amway A Business of False Hope The list of businesses owned by the Amway is one of the grandest multi-level marketing businesses in the world. Profits are DeVos family is extensive, but it includes not just made on the products directly sold (usually to friends and family of the independent Amway products like iCook, Nutrillite business operator), but on recruiting other salespeople and getting a percentage of their Health Products, and XS Energy Drinks, sales. Other countries have banned this practice, which looks like a pyramid when diagramed JW Marriott and Courtyard by Marriott out, with the people at the top making the most money. in Grand Rapids, MVP Sports Clubs in The company touts wealth, independence and financial freedom, giving sample incomes of Michigan and Florida, the Grand Rapids people at the very top of the “upline,” while only putting the more realistic income potentials Griffins, the Orlando Magic, and Fox in fine print. Their 2012 brochure, for example, says that the average gross monthly income Automotive Group with dealerships in for active IBOs in the U.S. was $202. In even smaller print it further clarifies that only 46 Grand Rapids, Cadillac, Traverse City, percent of registered IBOs are considered to be “active,” meaning that over half of the Negaunee, Marquette and Charlevoix. business operators aren’t even included in that average. To become an IBO, people invest in a welcome packet and are encouraged to purchase For more information visit www. products themselves so they can know what they are selling. The “gross” income does not boycottamway.com. even take into consideration these expenses. Those who have made it to the “Q12 Platinum Level,” where the average annual compensation is $51,437, make up just 0.25 percent of active IBOs in the U.S. In short, making a living off of Amway is statistically improbable,

® Family Support Continued from p. 4 I wish there were stronger laws to protect gays at work and in school. I think the way we are heading politically is good and Kalamazoo Pride. They were also “ the recipients of the 2011 Ally of the but slow. I will get married and have kids. I am hopeful. Year Award from the KGLRC. “We participate because the work done by the KGLRC is vital,” says Lisa. “Our -Nick Burchett son’s future depends on the real changes ” the KGLRC affects. We believe in the Nick also turns to his Sam, his other of the most wonderful people we have mission of equality.” best friend, for support. “We have been been ever been blessed to know,” Lisa Family is very important to the together since we were three. I came said. “We never would have chosen Burchetts, and they share a love of out to him within two weeks of telling such a difficult path that our son is on. watching scary movies. Nick likes to my parents. He never reacted. He never But now that we are here, we know it’s spend time with family, including his changed how he treats me. We love each where we belong.” brother Jacob, whom he considers his other like brothers.” Most importantly, Nick has positive Visit our website! best friend. While things may not always be thoughts about the future. http://www.pridesource.com “I feel I can talk to my parents about easy, the Burchetts are grateful for the love of their family and the support anything,” Nick shares. “Sometimes Editor’s note: This is an ongoing series of Add our fan page! and friendship they have received from my mom wants to talk too much about articles featuring KGLRC staff, volunteers Search: “Between The Lines Newspaper” things, but she is always open to my people at the KGLRC. and community members. Follow us! questions.” “Because Nick is who he is, we have been given an opportunity to know some @YourBTL www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 11 Café Muse Owners Break Outside Of The Brunch Box

BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI

eople don’t talk about Royal Oak’s Café Muse without mentioning the grilled cheese: the way the three-cheese Pblend – havarti, fontina and mozzarella – melts into a savory mix of basil, tomatoes and organic bread, and what the dash of honey does to the taste buds. You know it’s good when it’s got Oprah’s approval. “That’s gonna be my epitaph,” deadpans Greg Reyner, who co-owns the restaurant with his business and life partner David Smith. Responding to Reyner’s sarcastic eye-roll at a table situated in the new expansion of their restaurant, Smith reassures, “It’s good to be known for something.” But nearly five years after the grilled cheese became Café Muse’s claim to fame, Reyner wants more than a signature sandwich to their name. They do dinner now, with a smorgasbord of sea scallops, duck, filet and the grapefruit-marinated tofu. The new menu was introduced two years ago, as the restaurateurs expanded their breakfast and lunch success into the evening with 15 rotating small plates, bar snacks and hearty entrees (all served 5-10 p.m. Tuesday through Saturday). The bar they always wanted also became a reality when the space next door – formerly If the Shoe Fits – closed and they moved in. Now, Café Muse isn’t just egg scrambles and dino pancakes – they’ve got a happy hour. “I want to see us known for dinner,” Reyner says. “That’s what we’re really pushing right now.” Which is why they’re doing things a little differently. They offer unique bites like rabbit and mussels, and even their sides stand out: an asparagus foam – a whipped puree – accompanies the filet. “From the beginning, we’ve always wanted to be more of a farm-to-table restaurant, something that wasn’t really a thing in this area back when we opened,” says Smith. They outsource as much local food as possible. The rabbit, for instance, is raised specifically for them up in the Irish Hills, located on the border of Jackson and Lenawee counties. Not a foodie? Have a drink. Café Muse’s selection of wines recently earned them their second Award of Excellence from Wine Spectator, which picks the recipient based on the kinds of wines it serves and how well they complement the menu items. “We have, I think, the best beverage program in Royal Oak and probably one of the top in southeast Michigan,” says Reyner. “We have a phenomenal program. And what we’re doing dinner side is very creative – no one else is doing it.”

hen Smith and Reyner opened Café Muse seven years ago, its location a block north of its current Wspot on Washington Avenue was so small that only one person could fit in the kitchen. The dish-washing space wasn’t any bigger. Even Reyner was too tall to fit back there. “That was the prerequisite,” Smith says about the hiring process. “You had to be short.” Now their kitchen storage alone is about 2,000 square feet, while the kitchen itself is larger than their entire original space. No height restrictions anymore, either. “That being said, most of our staff is short,” Reyner laughs, David Smith and Greg Reyner, owners of Café Muse. Photos: Andrew Potter before his partner quips, “Well, you’re 6 feet 4. Come on!”

12 BTL | January 10, 2013 www.PrideSource.com From the beginning, we’ve “always wanted to be more of a farm-to-table restaurant, something that wasn’t really a thing in this area back when we opened. ”– David Smith

Why the need to expand? One word: we’ll take anyone.” He laughs. “Anybody that Oprah. After the talk show tycoon endorsed wants to buy food, please come.” Café Muse’s now-legendary grilled cheese But they are also gay, so of course they sandwich in 2008, business boomed. understand the need for a queer hangout Smith recalls being so slammed on the that’s not just a bar or nightclub. Hence their day he received a call from her production reason for launching Gay Centric Tuesdays, company that he didn’t take the call from a new night dedicated to the gays who want Harpo seriously. “Take a message,” he to have an after-work cocktail in a relaxed remembers telling the server who answered environment. the phone. “Typically bars in Detroit are either pickup Later that day, he returned the message. bars or just dance clubs,” Reyner says. “There’s And it wasn’t a hoax. Oprah’s show was no place where you can just go and hang out.” curious about this grilled cheese that Esquire Magazine called one of “the best sandwiches hough food is a priority at Café Muse, in America.” Her trusty sidekick, Gayle King, for Smith and Reyner that’s not always flew out to their first location – it had just 23 Tthe case. Even they eat fast food. “It’s seats, and half the equipment in the kitchen had all relative,” Reyner says. “I love Taco Bell.” to be hauled out to fit in Oprah’s production And with lots of long days, sometimes crew – and put it to the test. King loved the they only have time for a Double Decker. grilled cheese so much it got top honors. “Work doesn’t stop,” says Reyner, who After the episode aired, hundreds of runs the kitchen. “I just want to go to bed at people swarmed the cafe just for that sandwich. 10 o’clock and he’s like, ‘Oh, I have another “We thought we had bought enough question’ and it’s just like, ‘Leave me alone.’” cheese for the week,” Smith recalls, “but we Smith deals with logistics and catering, went through all that in the weekend after it but only part-time because he also runs a video aired. It was insane.” production company in Auburn Hills that does Ever since, Café Muse has been a Royal work for Volkswagen, so when restaurant Oak hot spot – and not just with the locals. questions come up, Reyner’s his go-to – even Oprah’s endorsement boosted the restaurant’s if it’s bedtime. “It’s just always like, ‘OK, one notoriety so much that even celebrities stop question – that’s all!’” Smith says. in between film shoots. Mila Kunis, Michelle “That’s probably the hardest thing about Williams, Jason Segel and, most recently, owning a business with your partner,” says Tilda Swinton have all come in for a bite while Reyner. “They also sit next to you on the working on movies in the area. couch.” Swinton, of course, had the vegan burger, The two met 20 years ago at an after-hours but didn’t leave before telling Smith how much club called Red Door at Wayne State University, it tickled her taste buds. “She stopped me and back when the only way in was with a secret said, ‘I wanna let you know everything was word. Reyner was studying pre-law, political great and I’m going to really try to come back science and history. But he hated college. before I leave.’” “I wanted to get to a place where I could When they’re not serving the Hollywood actually make money as quickly as possible,” elite, they say their clientele is mixed and he says, “so I went to culinary art school.” pretty gay despite not being a “gay restaurant.” It made sense: He grew up around food. “We’ve never really promoted ourselves His mother had dinner promptly on the table as being a gay-owned, gay-run restaurant,” every day. Sunday was reserved for a big feast. says Smith, who mentions that they also “Food wasn’t the driving force in the believe in giving back to the community. family, but it was something that was always They’ve partnered with both Ruth Ellis Center there,” Reyner says. “Food’s a part of life. It and AIDS Partnership Michigan. should be enjoyed and savored.” “We don’t fly a flag out front – no. Because Even if it’s a grilled cheese sandwich. www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 13 Hear Me Out: Best of 2012

BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI pantheon, but somehow she hoisted her – about boys; what else? – is a surprising drunk ass up and came back a “Warrior.” sound evolution for T-Swift, who gets in Her follow-up to the one-note “Animal,” touch with her inner U2 and disco-dance 10. Cat Power, first of all, makes her likable: There’s diva. Even her love stories – the best ‘Sun’ not just debauchery; there’s actual being “All Too Well,” where even fridge Clocking in at love, feelings and all that stuff that real light sounds romantic – aren’t all Romeo- just under 11 singers sing about. Stripped of gimmicky save-me, but complicated observations minutes, “Nothin’ studio tricks, the album takes an organic that don’t end so happily ever after. But Time” starts approach that pays off on “Only Wanna simple enough, Dance With You” and “Love into the with just piano and fuzzy static – then Light,” a Ke$ha song disguising itself 5. Regina there’s some man chants, and Iggy Pop. as an ’80s hit. There’s still talk of Spektor, ‘What On paper it’s a hot mess, but the heartfelt excessive drinking, but it’s nice to know We Saw from the coming-of-age mantra – during which that Ke$ha’s only working organ isn’t Cheap Seats’ all things seem infinite and possible a booze-beaten liver. There’s a beating A song about a – beautifully builds into a euphoric heart in there, too. serial killer? A mind-release that breezes on by. For painting? There’s the musical oxymoron “Ruin,” Chan nothing too out-there for Regina Spektor. Marshall’s a world traveler singing 7. Kathleen After diluting her oddball peculiarities on over a bouncy drum beat, chiding Edwards, “Far,” she returned with an awesomely fussy Americans. The hallucinatory ‘Voyageur’ schizophrenic palette: a twisted museum “Manhattan” drops you in the bustle of The feelings on alt- observation that’s as beautiful as it a big city, where you’re just a speck of rocker Kathleen is bizarre (“All the Rowboats”), a broken dreams and memories. On “3, Edwards’ open- celebration of the dearly departed and 6, 9” she’s so drunk that her looseness diary disc are so everything else ever (“The Party”) and translates to the song’s rhythmic punch. raw and exposed that every listen the adorkable “Don’t Leave Me (Ne Me And to your ears. Forever and ever. sounds like her heart’s bleeding out. Quitte Pas) ” – a song so infectiously Recorded after the initial breakdown and happy it could be the all-natural answer to the eventual breakup of her marriage, antidepressants. It was the piano-piloted 9. Frank Ocean, “Voyageur” is the bad, the worse and the to-be-a-kid-again lament “Firewood,” ‘Channel ugly. It’s the seemingly happy wedding though, that wrapped me in a blanket ORANGE’ (exposed on “Pink Champagne”), and made me happy and sad and all those Can men who the devastating fallout (“House Full other emotions you feel when you’re told love men make of Empty Rooms” cuts deep) and “there’s still no cure for crying.” it in the supposed the healing process (aka finding a anti-gay realm of replacement, who just so happens to hip-hop? Frank Ocean answered that be new beau/”Voyageur” producer Bon 4. Bruce question when he came out via Tumblr Iver) – reflections written with more Springsteen, and topped the charts with his solo debut, emotional honesty than an Adele song. ‘Wrecking Ball’ rightfully earning him kudos, a rabid fan I mean, who knocks their own wedding No album this base and Grammy nominations. And day? That alone makes this the breakup year reflected it’s not just hype. “Channel ORANGE” album of the year. the plight of renders his poeticism – about sex, drugs, Americans – a love and longing – into progressive hip- war, a recession, social injustice – better art beats. The music, though, is only the 6. Taylor Swift, than Bruce Springsteen’s “Wrecking half of it: Frank’s voice rolls over your ‘Red’ Ball.” “We Take Care of Our Own” sound holes like the “buttercream silk Taylor Swift ain’t blasts the self-righteous and asks, shirt” he sings about on “Lost,” an acid fooling anyone “Where’s the promise, from sea to trip that will have you trying to find your by throwing in shining sea?” The title track, a rip- way out. This is the gem, though, that’ll the tiniest bits roaring anthem, goes even further: His go down in the books: “Bad Religion,” of banjo and anger turns into rage as he dares anyone so painfully pointed it hurts. mandolin; she’s about as “country” as to mess with him. It’s a triumph – and Honey Boo Boo is classy. “Red” further this political zeitgeist is filled with removes her from the singing-about- them: the glorious gospel-touched 8. Ke$ha, Tim-McGraw-in-a-pickup-truck teen “Rocky Ground” and “Land of Hope ‘Warrior’ years and transforms the 23-year-old and Dreams” both illustrate hard times Well, this wasn’t into a pop star who means business: “We and The Boss’ great ear for melody. supposed to Are Never Ever Getting Back Together” When he rounds out the set with “We happen. Ke$ha is so bubblegum that she makes Britney Are Alive,” it’s like he’s handing you was destined to sound like Doublemint. Her fourth album another chance to dance under the stars. fall off the pop Rufus Wainwright. Photo: Decca Records

14 BTL | January 10, 2013 www.PrideSource.com 3. Santigold, ‘Master of My Make-Believe’ The songs on Santigold’s defiant diatribe of hard times and hoes – the one where she poses as a drag king on the cover – wormed into my head like a stupid pop hook, but without any of the nagging guilt. “Disparate Youth” is a skittish dance jam about beating the odds – but really, it just makes me want to stand tall on a mountain top and sing it out – and the island-ish “This Isn’t Our Parade” seems like a nod to the gay movement. Themes of unity, self-love and liberation from the world gone awry especially beget the inescapable “The Riot’s Gone,” but all of “Master of My Make-Believe” is Santigold’s emancipation proclamation.

2. Lana Del Rey, ‘Born to Die’ YouTube-spawned puffy- lipped Lana Del Rey made a splash with “Video Games” in late 2011 – both the hauntingly hypnotic song and the MacBook-made clip accompanying it – and immediately became one of the most hated, compelling and confusing pop-culture geneses of the year. Her major label debut – a sonically pretty pop-trash masterpiece that, with cohesiveness among its 12 songs, made you feel dangerous and sexy, lonely and sad – deserved a longer ride at the top of the charts. And the seductive songs should have taken it there, from could-be-single “Dark Paradise” to her beautiful tragedy “Summertime Sadness.”

1. Rufus Wainwright, ‘Out of the Game’ Rufus Wainwright’s power- croon can sing anything – and it has, from baroque to acoustic and Judy Garland. And when he disappoints, how can you fault him? His uncharacteristically snoozy last album, “All Days are Nights: Songs for Lulu,” grieved the death of his mother. The troubadour made “Out of the Game,” then, as a throwback to the days when he wouldn’t let an ounce of flamboyancy and grandeur slip through his fingers. With producer Mark Ronson, the two let most of these classic-sounding ol’-timers soar and pomp, even tapping some lady gospel voices for max gayness. The result? Moments of melodic bliss so rich and moving that “Out of the Game” put Rufus back in it.

Chris Azzopardi is the editor of Q Syndicate, the international LGBT wire service. Reach him via his website at www.chris-azzopardi.com. www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 15 13 15 2 Cool Cities 11 Ferndale 105 3 9 1 12 4 7 8 YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD • YOUR MARKET 6 Pinpoint your ad dollars where they will do the most good . . . Advertise in the next Cool Cities TO PLACE AN AD CALL 734.293.7200

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16 BTL | January 10, 2013 www.PrideSource.com www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 17 The Ringwald Gets A Little New Year’s ‘Rain’ FERNDALE – A sweeping portrait manager and assistant director, Alexander spanning 80 years, “When the Rain Stops Carr is scenic and media design, Barton Bund Falling” is a story of fathers and sons, lovers is sound design, Michelle LeRoy is lighting and friends, husbands and wives – a grippingly design, original music and score is provided intimate tale of a young man courageously by Travis Reiff. Costume design is provided defying the legacies of his ancestors. At times by Miekyle Turner, dialect coaching is Karen surreal and hauntingly close to the heart, “When Sheridan, and property design provided by the Rain Stops Falling” will play Jan. 11-28 at Jamie Warrow. The Ringwald Theatre in downtown Ferndale. “When the Rain Stops Falling” opens “When the Rain Stops Falling,” written Friday, Jan. 11 and plays through Monday, by Australian playwright Andrew Bovell, had Jan. 28. Performances are at 8 p.m. on Friday, its U.S. premiere at Lincoln Center in 2010 Saturday and Monday nights, with 3 p.m. and was subsequently named “Best Play of Sunday matinees. the Year” by Time magazine. Ticket prices are $20 for Friday and It’s raining. Gabriel York is awaiting the Saturday performances, $15 for Sunday arrival of his grown son whom he hasn’t seen shows, and Monday nights are half-off the since he was 7. “I know what he wants. He original ticket price at only $10 each. All wants what all young men want from their students can now receive a $5 discount off fathers. He wants to know who he is. Where normal ticket price on Friday, Saturday he comes from. Where he belongs. And for and Sunday performances (available at the the life of me I don’t know what to tell him.” box office the day of the show with valid That’s the beginning of this compelling student ID). Tickets can be purchased at “When the Rain Stops Falling” opens Jan. 11 at The Ringwald. Photo courtesy of The Ringwald family saga that takes us back and forth in www.TheRingwald.com or at the theater box time from one generation to another, from exquisitely beautiful. (Gabriel Law), Ashley Shamoon (Gabrielle office. The Ringwald box office opens 45 1959 to 2039, from London to Australia. With The cast for “When the Rain Stops York – Younger), Cara Trautman (Gabrielle minutes before performances and tickets can four generations of fathers and sons, their Falling” features Travis Reiff (Gabriel York), York – Older), Joel Mitchell (Joe Ryan), and be purchased with cash or Visa/Mastercard. mothers, lovers and wives, “When the Rain Bryan Lark (Henry Law), Annabelle Young Bailey Boudreau (Andrew Price). The Ringwald Theatre is located at Stops Falling” is epic in its scope, yet at the (Elizabeth Law – Younger), Connie Cowper “When the Rain Stops Falling” is directed 22742 Woodward Avenue in the Times same time extraordinarily intimate and always (Elizabeth Law – Older), Michael Lopetrone by Jamie Warrow. Bethany Hedden is the stage Square of Ferndale.

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18 BTL | January 10, 2013 www.PrideSource.com Dreams At Heart Of ‘Billy Elliot The Musical’ Tony Award-Winning Musical At Wharton Center Jan. 15

We don’t get much opportunity to discuss the “impact the show has on people, but I assume the story has helped people be a little more confident in themselves. Whether that’s a career choice or coming out, this story makes that path a little easier. –Christopher” Howard

BY SUE MERRELL the miners were treated and how they felt, Howard said. “Billy Elliot the Musical” is set in 1980s “It makes Billy’s struggle England amid a violent coal miners’ strike. more beautiful, more One miner’s son has a dream to dance, and magnificent, because he is early in the second act he imagines what doing something outside his his life could be as a ballet dancer. community. The resolution “It’s such a contrast. Everybody’s like is more moving. Everything ‘Who’s that guy in the tights?’” said is very different. Ultimately, ensemble member Christopher Howard. his whole life changes. It’s a During the show, which opens Jan. 15 great message. Whatever you Christopher Howard plays Older Billy in “Billy Elliot the Musical,” at East Lansing’s Wharton Center, Howard do, whether that’s dancing coming Jan. 15-20 to Wharton Center in East Lansing. portrays both a miner and a cop, but people or mining, whatever career remember him as the grown up Billy in the path you choose, you have to dream scene. The guy in tights. express yourself.” grow up wanting to dance. He didn’t start “It’s a visually stunning scene,” Howard The show also confronts the question dancing until he was in college. His dream said. “There are so many special effects: of sexual orientation, making it clear in is to sing. dim lights, fog, a flying sequence. It is the one scene that Billy’s love of dance does “Of course, everybody in the ensemble climax of Billy’s story. This is when he sees not mean he is homosexual. But Howard, sings along. But I’m usually seen as a what he could be. It’s my favorite moment who is openly gay, believes the story’s dancer. Before ‘Billy Elliot,’ I just finished in the show.” message of being true to oneself applies doing ‘A Chorus Line.’ I played Larry, the Based on the 2000 British film, the in both cases. dance captain who demonstrates every Tony Award-winning musical features a “Whether you are struggling with what step. A lot of people don’t even know I score by Elton John and non-stop energetic you want to be or struggling with your can sing. I want to dance as long as I can, choreography. sexual orientation, it’s important to do what but someday I would like to do a play as a “The show is very well rounded, with you need to do,” Howard said. “We don’t singer and save my body.” many strong points and great messages,” get much opportunity to discuss the impact “Billy Elliot” is Howard’s first national said Howard, 26. “There are many different the show has on people, but I assume the tour. kinds of dance: ballet, tap, partnering. story has helped people be a little more “The touring life isn’t for everybody,” Everyone has something they can connect confident in themselves. Whether that’s he said. “We’re flying somewhere when with.” a career choice or coming out, this story we’re not on stage so we don’t get a day Even a confrontation between the miners makes that path a little easier.” off. But it’s a great way to see the country and the cops is told in a dance. Howard grew up in upstate New while doing something you love. Isn’t that “In the choreography, we link arms and York, singing and acting in high school everybody’s dream?” exchange hats at one point,” Howard said. productions. “It’s about fighting but also about coming “I encountered a little teasing in high together. It has a bit of a message. It shows school because I was not playing sports, but PREVIEW that we’re all the same.” I got support from the drama community. At times the dance is aesthetically And my family was supportive. I knew it Billy Elliot shocking, Howard said, because hefty was the right path for me.” the Musical ensemble members in dirty miners’ overalls A musical theater graduate of the Cobb Great Hall at Wharton Center, on the or police uniforms are doing ballet moves. State University of New York at Buffalo, campus of Michigan State University, East “You see big burly guys doing pirouettes Howard also studied with the Joffrey Ballet Lansing. Jan. 15-20: 7:30 p.m. Tuesday- and you can’t believe it,” Howard said. School. Thursday; 8 p.m. Friday; 2 and 8 p.m. Saturday; 1 and 6:30 p.m. Sunday. $32-$72. The strike is based on a 1984 situation “I have a deep appreciation of classical 1-800-WHARTON in County Durham. Historically accurate ballet,” he said. www.whartoncenter.com details help the audience understand how But unlike Billy Elliot, Howard didn’t www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 19 Wild Wednesday 6 p.m. A group Conversation Station 5 p.m. Discussion The Ark “Simon & Garfunkel for youth ages 12-18 interested in Group with facilitator for LGBTQI (and Retrospective” By AJ Swearingen & J hanging out with other kind and allies) 35 and over. Food, fun and Beedle. Tickets: $22.50 The Ark, 316 S. supportive youth in a safe environment. discussions. Topic: What is something Main, Ann Arbor. 8 p.m. Jan. 19. 734- Happenings Dedicated to Make a Change, 319 you will stand for even if it means you 761-1800. TheArk.org Braun Ct., Ann Arbor. 734-657-1792. will stand-alone? 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BY ROMEO SAN VICENTE ‘Magic Mike’ sizzles, ‘The Paperboy’ does whatever the opposite of sizzle is It was a year of male nudity at the movies, but it came with some strings attached. It turns out that sometimes what you think is going to happen… well, it just doesn’t. Steven Soderbergh’s hit summer stripper movie opened with a lot of buzz about a lot of naked men. And it more or less Rachel Maddow. Photo: MSNBC delivered, especially where “True Blood”’s Joe Manganiello was concerned. But what Rachel Maddow is the boss the unsuspecting gays-and-their-straight- girls audience didn’t know was how the of election night 2012 film would turn out to really be about the economic crisis and how much of a drag How great is it to have a brilliantly smart, it is to be stuck in Tampa, Fla., in a go- rational, funny lesbian leading the pack of TV nowhere job. Not quite the lap dance we political pundits? That’s a rhetorical question, were promised. Meanwhile, after a storm of of course. Sure, Rachel Maddow fumbles the press for its Cannes Film Festival premiere, ball every now and then, like any human being Lee Daniel’s much-outraged-about “The hosting a news program will, but overall she Paperboy” (the one where Nicole Kidman couldn’t be any better if she were dreamed up by urinates on Zac Efron’s face) barely made a a team of thoughtful lesbian marketing wizards. noise at the box office. And it can be argued And the MSNBC host cemented her place as a that Efron – mostly appearing in the film in leader in the world of talking heads on election a variety of dampened pairs of underpants night, as one run-of-the-mill, middle-of-the-road – and co-star Matthew McConaughey both male pundit after another seemed to be courting show much more skin than anyone in “Magic her favor while results poured. And because Mike” (McConaughey included, since he she is a recently installed queen, she was still was in both films). It’s just that nobody gracious to them all. Long may she reign. seemed to care. The Beekman Boys ‘Race’ Gay shows get cancelled, amazingly audiences refuse to freak OK, to be honest, we were actually rooting out too much about it for Natalie and Nadiya, the Sri Lankan identical twins who never stopped shouting, “The New Normal” is still buzzing along, “GO TWINNIE!” to win this season of “The thanks to juggernaut-master Ryan Murphy Amazing Race.” But when they were ousted grabbing hold of the TV zeitgeist and close to the end, our second favorites, the turning every show he creates into miniature bickering married gay goat farmers from tempests of one-liners and plot continuity upstate New York (making a sideline visit frustrations. But “Partners” is already done, to competition game shows from their own out of here, erased. From the creators of reality program about what it’s like to be, “Will & Grace,” it came and went without well, gay goat farmers), were still waiting in audiences making much online outcry (the the wings. 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See Deep Inside Hollywood, page 26 www.PrideSource.com January 10, 2013 | BTL 25 ® Deep Inside Hollywood Continued from p. 25 ‘The Times of Harvey Milk’ makes The National Film Registry “The Times of Harvey Milk,” the Oscar- winning 1984 documentary from Rob Epstein and Jeffrey Friedman, which also helped lay the cinematic foundation for Gus Van Sant’s later fictionalized biopic, “Milk,” was recently selected for The National Film Registry, which archives historically important movies for preservation. The story of the 1970s San Francisco City Councilman and gay rights activist marks a first for the Registry, which was previously without any films by or about gay Americans. And if you’re wondering if this is going to open some kind of floodgate, rest assured that “I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry” and “Boat Trip” are probably not on anyone’s short list. Gay indie film ‘Keep The Ellen DeGeneres. Photo: DFree where two characters are a lesbian couple with Lights On’ makes critics’ children. Obviously, this is also an outrage year-end best lists because “One Million Moms” hate other moms almost as much as they hate Ellen. It’s an explicitly sexual indie film about When the J. Lo tempest went nowhere, OMM a gay couple dealing with drug addiction. decided to return to the scene of the crime and But Ira Sachs’s “Keep The Lights On,” an get angry about JC Penney again for putting autobiographical account of his relationship Ellen in their Christmas-themed commercials. with a partner caught in a spiral of substance Or maybe they’re mad about elves and little abuse (a character based on Bill Clegg, gingerbread cakes. It’s hard to keep track. whose own memoir “Portrait of An Addict More from them in 2013, we’re sure. Hope As a Young Man” tells his version of events) it’s just as entertaining. crossed over from the usual gay-indie-cinema world of film festivals and low-key DVD release schedules to win acclaim across the Frank Ocean (and some more board and a wider release than this sort of thing usual suspects) come out usually receives. It was sensitive, intimate, harrowing and maddening, intelligently Yes, Anderson Cooper. Yes, Matt Bomer. written and directed, and acted with quiet Yes, Jillian Michaels. Yes, Kristy McNichol. intensity by Danish star Thure Lindhardt and We’re glad each and every one of them decided Zachary Booth (“Damages”). Just because you to go public with the information that pretty watched an episode of “Intervention” once, much everybody already knew. It’s welcome don’t think you know everything. This movie information, yes, and we can always use more will take a bite out of you. people with public voices coming out and committing themselves to the cause of LGBT rights. 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