Serving the Diocese of San Angelo, Texas Volume XXXVI, No. 2 FEBRUARY 2016

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Man on a Mission to focus on healing sacraments at Feb. conference

By Jimmy Patterson Editor / West Texas Angelus

SAN ANGELO — Priests from across the Diocese of San Angelo will come together February 16-17 for their annual Spring Priests Conference at Christ the King Retreat Center. This year’s topic is “Instruments of Mercy in the Year of Mercy: Renewing our Pastoral Practice of the Sacraments of Healing.” Priests attending the conference will review the Church’s guidance for the Sacrament of Reconciliation and Anointing of the Sick and share best practices. “We want our priests to celebrate these sacra- ments in the most effective way possible, in order to contribute to the ongoing growth and holiness of our people,” said San Angelo J. Sis. “The conference will encourage a renewed practice of these sacraments which is meaningful and rewarding to both the and the parishioner.” Priests will discuss both individual Confession and communal penance services, and what is expected when the sacrament is celebrated. “We will also be discussing how we can make the The most good for the most people sacrament more available to our people at times that are more realistically possible for them. Especially in this Jubilee Year of Mercy, we want to foster a Eva Tucker’s caretaker Terry Mikeska profound encounter with the mercy of God through has ensured the legacy of the San these beautiful sacraments.” Angelo philanthropist has continued Important Dates By Denise Morris people,” Mikeska said. 2016 Special to the Angelus "Nothing is more rewarding in February 10 — life.” February 14 — First Sunday of Lent The late philanthropist Eva Mikeska was already sponsor- February 21 — Second Sunday of Lent Camuñez Tucker, known in the ing two students in Kathmandu, February 28 — Third Sunday of Lent San Angelo Diocese as a hum- whom he planned to visit some- March 6 — Fourth Sunday of Lent ble woman who donated mil- day in person. But when the March 13 — Fifth Sunday of Lent lions of dollars for the good of earthquake struck last year, he (Daylight Savings Time Begins) others, is still making an impact wanted to make the trip as soon on the world. as possible to help in any way March 20 — It is her legacy of kindness he could. March 24 — Holy Thursday and generosity, ingrained over "Word got out that I was March 25 — Good Friday the many years Terry Mikeska planning this trip to Nepal after March 26 — Holy Saturday worked as her caregiver, that I announced it on Facebook and moved the San Angelo man then the Standard-Times wrote SEASON toward greater giving – and on about it. Terry Mikeska, center in top photo, and at right above, in the village of Bhairawa, March 27 — Easter Sunday a successful mission trip to “Then the money just poured Nepal, where he hand-delivered rice cook- April 3 — Divine Mercy Sunday Nepal. out from the community, ever ing pots, school books, clothes and toys “Eva Tucker always said to funded by people in the Diocese of San May 5 — Ascension Thursday do the most good for the most (Please See MIKESKA/19) Angelo. May 8 — Mother’s Day May 15 — Sunday The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 3 CALENDARS From The Bishop’s Desk BISHOP SIS’ SCHEDULE CHRIST THE KING FEBRUARY 2016 RETREAT CENTER 10 lessons for the economic downturn FEBRUARY 13 — SAN ANGELO, Holy 12-14 Formation By Bishop Michael J. Sis economic prosperity. mobility. On the contrary, there Angels, Diocesan Pastoral 15 Heart of Mercy Prayer Some contemporary Christians sometimes come moments in our Musicians Event at 9:00 a.m. Group With the plummeting price of oil claim that material prosperity flows lives when being true to our values 13 — SAN ANGELO, Sacred 16-17 DOSA Priests Spring Heart Cathedral, at 5:00 Convocation and the cutbacks of energy compa- from the depth and quality of your and being faithful to Jesus entails p.m. followed by the Annual 18 Bishop’s Staff Lenten Day nies, many in West Texas are expe- faith in God. Their “ of pros- making choices which mean less Section Meeting of the of Reflection riencing losses and financial perity” leads many people to think, money and less comfort for our- Equestrian Order of the Holy 19-21 Engaged Encounter hardship. The “If I am struck by illness or pover- selves. When James and John Sepulchre 21 Natural Family Planning economic ty, then it mean I have very 14 — SAN ANGELO, Sacred 22 Heart of Mercy Prayer asked Jesus for places of glory and Heart Cathedral, Rite of Group downturn has a little faith.” Of course, we must honor, he replied, “You do not Election at 3:00 p.m. 25-28 Small Town ACTS ripple effect that trust in the providence of God at all know what you are asking. Are you 16-17 — SAN ANGELO, 28 CKRC Confirmation is being felt by times, but Jesus never promised us able to drink the cup that I drink?” Christ the King Retreat Center, Retreat local communi- that faith in him would bring eco- (Mark 10:38) Diocesan Spring Priests’ 29-Mar-2 Tex-Mex Border Conference ties, families, nomic prosperity in this world. In times of struggle, it is easy to 18 — SAN ANGELO, Staff and individuals. In fact, Jesus himself did not start blaming God, as if God were Lenten Day of Recollection MARCH Whenever we experience earthly prosperity. He not doing his job right. However, at 9:00 a.m. Feb29-Mar-2 Tex-Mex face hard times, lived a very simple life. He said, God does not owe you material 19 — CORPUS CHRISTI, Border Bishops Bishop Sis Kenedy Foundation Board 3-6 Men’s Walk to Emmaus the way we “Foxes have holes, and birds of the wealth or complete bodily health as Meeting, 10:00 a.m. 7 Heart of Mercy Prayer approach adversity makes a tremen- air have nests, but the Son of Man some kind of reward for your faith 20 — SAN ANGELO, Group dous difference in our lives. Two has nowhere to lay his head.” in him. Diocesan Catholic Schools 11-13 Deacon Formation people can suffer job loss, cancer, (Matthew 8:20) Jesus, the model of 2. Count your blessings. Commission at 9:00 a.m. 14 Heart of Mercy Prayer 21 — MIDLAND, St. Group or divorce. One might become bit- our faith, was not materially rich. When times are rough, we must Stephen, Rite of Election 18-20 Engaged Encounter ter and cynical, while the other When Jesus called people to fol- count our blessings and acknowl- at 2:30 p.m. 20 Natural Family Planning becomes more holy and compas- low him, his invitation did not edge the many ways that God has 22 — HOUSTON, Holy 20 Palm Sunday sionate. We need to equip our- come with any promise of wealth. helped us. Gratitude is a powerful Name Retreat Center, Region X 21 Heart of Mercy Prayer selves and teach our children how In fact, he said, “If any want to Vocation Directors Meeting Group antidote to the spiritual ills of self- 22 — HOUSTON, St. Mary’s 25 Good Friday-Office Closed to deal with adversity in a construc- become my followers, let them pity and despair. Seminary, Mass at 5:00 p.m. 27 Easter Sunday tive way. deny themselves and take up their Even in the midst of our strug- 29-March 2 — SAN ANGE- 28 Heart of Mercy Prayer Here are ten lessons that provide cross daily and follow me.” (Luke gles, God is loving us with an ever- LO, Christ the King Retreat Group a healthy Christian approach to 9:23) lasting love. He still loves and Center, Tex-Mex Border Bishops’ Spring Meeting APRIL adversity: Being faithful to Jesus Christ 1-2 First Central Presbyterian 1. Jesus Christ never promised does not necessarily bring upward (Please See BISHOP/20) MARCH Women’s Retreat 6 — ODESSA, Holy 3 CKRC Confirmation Retreat Redeemer, Diocesan Adult 4 Heart of Mercy Prayer Diez Lecciones de la Recesión Económica Confirmation Mass at 3:00 p.m. Group 10 — WASHINGTON, DC, 8-10 Deacon Formation USCCB Committee Meeting 11-14 Episcopal Diocese of Obispo Michael J. Sis compasivo. Tenemos que dijo: “Los zorros tienen cuevas, y 11-13 — CONCEPTION, MO, NWTX Clergy Conference equiparnos y enseñar a nuestros las aves tienen nidos, pero el Hijo Seminary Board of Regents 14-16 New Life Ladies Meeting Retreat Con la caída del precio del hijos cómo lidiar con la adversidad del Hombre ni siquiera tiene dónde 14 — COLUMBUS, OH, 15-17 Beginning Experience petróleo y los recortes de las empre- de una manera constructiva. recostar la cabeza.” (Mateo 8:20) USCCB Committee Meeting 18 Heart of Mercy Prayer sas de energía, muchos en el Oeste He aquí diez lecciones que pro- Jesús, el modelo de nuestra fe, no 17 — SAN ANGELO, Sacred Group de Texas están porcionan un enfoque Cristiano era rico materialmente. Heart Cathedral, Chrism Mass 21-24 San Angelo Women’s experimentando saludable a la adversidad: Cuando Jesús llamó a la gente a at 11:00 a.m. ACTS Retreat la pérdida de seguirlo, su invitación no venía con 17 — SAN ANGELO, 26 Deacon Quarterly Pastoral Center, Vocation Team 28 DOSA Staff Mass & Lunch empleo y dificul- 1. Jesucristo nunca prometió ninguna promesa de riqueza. De Meeting at 2:00 p.m. 29-30 First United Methodist tades financieras. prosperidad económica. hecho, dijo, “Si alguno quiere 20 — SAN ANGELO, Sacred La crisis Algunos Cristianos contemporá- seguirme, que se niegue a sí mismo, Heart Cathedral, Palm Sunday NECROLOGY económica tiene neos afirman que la prosperidad que cargue con su cruz de cada día Mass MARCH un efecto dominó material fluye según la profundidad y que me siga.” (Lucas 9:23) 20 — SAN ANGELO, Holy 11-Rev. Leopold J. Bujnowski que se siente por y la calidad de su fe en Dios. Su El ser fiel a Jesucristo no nece- Angels, Seder Meal at 5:30 (1976) p.m. 11-Deacon Albert Libertore las comunidades “evangelio de la prosperidad” lleva sariamente trae la movilidad ascen- 24 — SAN ANGELO, Sacred (1977) locales, las famil- Obispo Sis a muchas personas a pensar, “Si me dente. Al contrario, a veces hay Heart Cathedral, Holy Thursday 15-Deacon Cosme Ureta ias, y los individu- pega una enfermedad o la pobreza, momentos en nuestras vidas en que Mass of the Lord’s Supper (2011) os. entonces eso quiere decir que tengo ser fieles a nuestros valores y ser 25 — SAN ANGELO, Sacred 21-Deacon Frank Trudo Cada vez que nos enfrentamos a muy poca fe.” Por supuesto, ten- fieles a Jesús implica tomar deci- Heart Cathedral, Good Friday (1992) Service of the Passion 26-Rev. Serran Braun (1999) tiempos difíciles, la manera en la emos que confiar en la providencia siones que significan menos dinero 26 — SAN ANGELO, Sacred 26-Deacon Audon Saldivar cual abordamos a la adversidad de Dios en todo momento, pero y menos comodidad para nosotros Heart Cathedral, Easter Vigil (2000) hace una tremenda diferencia en Jesús nunca nos prometió que la fe mismos. Cuando Santiago y Juan 27 — EDEN, St. Charles, nuestras vidas. Dos personas en él traería la prosperidad pidieron de Jesús los lugares de la Easter Mass at 11:00 a.m. PRIEST ORDINATION DATES pueden sufrir la pérdida del empleo, económica en este mundo. gloria y el honor, él respondió: 30 — SAN ANGELO, 20 -- Fr. Agoryaswamy el cáncer, o el divorcio. Uno podría De hecho, Jesús mismo no exper- “Ustedes no saben lo que piden. Newman Center, Mass at 12:00 Lakkineni (2000) llegar a ser amargo y cínico, mien- imentó la prosperidad terrenal. noon 25 -- Fr. Anthony Sloan OBISPO (2000) tras que el otro se hace más santo y Vivió una vida muy sencilla. Él (Mira /24) Page 4 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus DIOCESAN BRIEFS SEMINARIAN OF THE MONTH Blessings of Musicians in the Liturgy Monday: “The Blessed Mother as listener” Ryan Lee Ramirez ODESSA – The San Angelo Chapter of the National Tuesday: “Overview of the 7 Sacraments” Association of Pastoral Musicians will hold its first work- Wednesday: “The Sacrament of Reconciliation” shop on February 13 at Holy Angels Parish Hall, in San Thursday: “The ” Birthday: July 3, 1994 Angelo. The workshop will begin at 9 am. Pastoral Each night should conclude by 8:30. All are welcome. Age: 21 musicians from the diocese will come together as we Birth place: Odessa. celebrate the Order of Blessing of Musicians, led by Fr. Jim Ward has been a Vincentian priest for 37 years. Siblings: 2 sisters Bishop Sis. Following the blessing, Bishop Sis will give He has taught in seminaries and universities and has a keynote address on music in the liturgy, and its impor- been involved in parish Ministry, the missions, outreach Seminary: Conception Seminary tance. to the Hispanics, promoting devotion to the Blessed College The agenda for the day includes: Mother and preaching parish missions. Studying: Philosophy, 2nd year 8:30-9:00am – Registration, coffee and doughnuts Home parish: St. Elizabeth Ann 9:00-9:15am – Welcome, introduction of Chapter offi- Seton, Odessa cers Alan Ames to visit Midland, Odessa 9:15-9:30am – Order of the Blessing of Musicians Alan Ames is scheduled to return to West Texas in Favorite : St. , St. Christopher, St. Peter 9:30-10:30am – Keynote by Bishop Sis March as follows: Favorite scripture: John 15:13 10:30-12:00pm - Discussion on NPM Convention in Thurs., March 17 — 7 p.m., St. Ann’s, Midland Favorite color: Blue Houston, Breakout into deanery groups Fri., March 18 — 7 p.m., St. Mary's, Odessa Favorite sports: Baseball, football, basketball 12:00-1:00pm – Lunch Ames’ story and God’s messages that he delivers are Favorite teams: Dallas Cowboys, Texas Rangers, San The cost of the workshop is free, and lunch is $10 a so powerful you won’t want to miss his talk to under- person. Registration deadline is February 8th. For stand how we must live our lives in order to gain eternal Antonio Spurs more information contact Christopher Wilcox, chapter salvation. Alan’s service and God’s messages to us are Favorite restaurant: Buffalo Wild Wings director at 432-367-4657 or music@seton- for everyone …. not just those wanting to be healed. Favorite dessert: Cookies with ice cream parishodessa.org Alan lives a deeply mystical prayer life with a close rela- Hobbies: playing sports, hanging out with friends tionship with the Lord and has been graced with the gift of healing. There have been many documented heal- St. Valentine’s Dance and Fundraiser ings both physical and spiritual. Some healings occur Biography MIDLAND — Saturday, February 13 immediately; others over time. Documented healings Hello, I am Ryan Ramirez and I am a seminarian for St. Stephen’s Ballroom may be found on Alan’s website: alanames.org. Alan the Diocese of San Angelo. Dinner will be served at 7:00 p.m. travels the world to evangelize and heal those in need. There were many reasons why I chose yes to semi- Cocktail Hour Begins at 6:00 p.m. Alan’s service consists of a Mass, followed by a 40- nary, but one of the reasons was from this past year $50 per Ticket minute talk. Alan will then individually pray over people when I made my 2015 New Year’s resolution to pray and Dinner catered by RiverSmith ● Entertainment by who come to the (it seems that everyone wants to discern more about my vocation to the priesthood. Then Boyd Events ● Silent Auction ● Open Bar be prayed over after listening to Alan). Please invite in the summer of 2015 I took a mission trip to Join us on February 13th for great food, music, and your family, friends and neighbors to come and listen to which was the icing on the cake for my YES to seminary. fellowship all for a good cause. The Knights of his experiences. Unable to attend? Anyone unable to I was born and raised in Odessa, and I have attend St. Columbus’ annual Valentine dance and fundraiser attend can have anyone stand in and receive a blessing Elizabeth Ann Seton since I was a child. I graduated from helps raise money for the Knights’ active role in com- on their behalf. Permian High School in 2013 and played football and munity helping the , The Life Center, baseball there. For extracurricular subjects, I did photog- Choose Life Midland, West Texas Food Bank, Helping raphy for the yearbook and was in . Hands, Special Olympics, and many other charitable Rachel’s Vineyard Retreat I then moved to San Angelo, where I attended Angelo If you feel like you are being crushed by the weight of organizations. State University for 2 1/2 years. I majored in pre-dental If you or anyone you know is interested in donation to abortion pain, consider a Rachel’s Vineyard retreat, a safe place to share your story and find healing. The then business during the course of the years. I was also the silent auction or you have any questions or con- involved and helped out at St. Mary’s Catholic Church. cerns about the dance, please contact us at (432)894- next retreat scheduled in the area will be in Lubbock, 2446 or at [email protected] April 15-17, 2016. For more information, call Kathy I like food, sports and hanging out with friends. I am a Krile, 806-577-5912. very chill person, but I’m also very competitive when it comes down to playing sports. I like smiling a lot and Ash Wednesday Special Collection long walks on the beach and having a good time. On Ash Wednesday, February 10, 2016, all the KC Agent Jim Seideman retires parishes of our diocese will take up a collection for Jim Seideman has served the members and their three important causes: the Church in Latin America, families of the Knights of Columbus for 42 years and as Students: New Catholic the Church in Africa, and the Church in Central and of February 1st, 2016 will officially be passing the baton Eastern Europe. Our gifts will be joined with contribu- to the newly appointed General Agent Mike Payne. HS to be named Holy Cross tions from Catholics throughout the United States to Mike has been a field agent with the Knights of provide grants that fund projects to build new churches, Columbus for the last 8 years, serving the members of On January 11, 2016, the Board of Directors for the form priests and religious, and train lay evangelization Lubbock and Midland areas. Permian Basin Catholic High School selected the high leaders for local parish communities. Your support will Jim had one of the most successful careers in school's name. The Naming Committee, chaired by Sr. truly make a difference. Thank you for this expression Knights of Columbus history. He is considered the Elizabeth Swartz and Mary Jaramillo, presented two of solidarity with our Catholic brothers and sisters “Godfather” by many field agents and general agents around the world. around the country, for his dedication and leadership. names for the board to vote on. Over 400 Catholic ele- Jim is a lifetime member of the Million-Dollar Round mentary and middle school students from Midland and Table. Over the years, Jim has earned countless Odessa participated in the naming process. The students 2016 Holy Family-Abilene Parish Mission Supreme Knights Club Status. both derived names and voted on their favorite. The top Holy Family Catholic Church In retirement, Jim is looking forward to spending more two names were St. Michael the and Holy Abilene, Texas time with Cyd, his wife of 36 years, and their six grand- Cross. After discussion, a formal vote showed that Holy Mission Priest – Father Jim Ward, CM children from their three sons. You can email him at Mission Date – February 15-18, 2016 [email protected]. Cross Catholic High School was the name selected by Schedule: Mike, our new agent, is ready to hit the ground run- majority. Our board appreciates the dedication of all 10:00 a.m. – Morning Mass ning, so please reach out to him and offer your congrat- who were instrumental in this process. Visit the group’s 7:00 p.m. – Evening Session followed by questions ulations. Email Mike at [email protected] or call web site at holycrosscatholichigh.org around 7:45 his cell 806-790-5420. -- Wendy Holland, president, Topics: Permian Basin High School Board of Directors The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 5 On developing an Francis Visits Mexico attitude of gratitude

By Elizabeth Moore St. Ann’s School Residents who MIDLAND — Thanksgiving is an attitude, a way of are volunteering life, not just a holiday that we celebrate once a year. I to take part in learned about Thanksgiving as a student of St. Ann’s forming a human School. Today, my children and their classmates are chain for crowd learning this same attitude, as they attend St. Ann’s control during Catholic School in Midland. In these current, fast- ' Feb. 12-17 visit paced times, when we seem to be continually beck- to Mexico take oned to buy or acquire the new, next-best shiny thing, part in first aid all of us should slow down and be grateful for the true training Jan. 5 at blessings that come with life. If we slow down, we a church in will find places like the halls of St. Ann’s School, in Ciudad Juarez. which there exists the true blessings in life. There in (CNS photo/Jose those halls, we will find a rich mixture of God, Luis Gonzalez, Church, love and learning. Reuters) When he was recently asked about the attitude of gratitude that thrives in Catholic Schools, Monsignor Larry Droll responded by first reflecting that the word “Eucharist” is the Greek word for Thanksgiving. As a Pope Francis’ border visit expected to former student of St. Joseph’s Catholic School in Rowena, Msgr. Droll shared that “Catholic Schools can make the connection between the holiday of highlight Church’s outreach to poor Thanksgiving and every Mass that we attend.” He CHICAGO (CNS) — With the president of Chicago-based cities, including two in the state of pointed out that “in the dialogue before the of poverty on both sides of the U.S.- Catholic Extension, "we are Chiapas and — across from El Paso the Mass, the priest says, “Let us give thanks to the Mexico border, Pope Francis' visit answering the Gospel call to serve — Ciudad Juarez. Lord, our God,” and the congregation responds, “It is to the region in February will be an 'the least of our brothers and sisters' Following the Vatican's right and just.” important opportunity for the and the Gospel mandate of the announcement, Catholic Extension The students, teachers, staff and parents at St. Ann’s Catholic Church "to emphasize the 'preferential option for the poor,' issued a news release saying it will School gather weekly on Fridays to celebrate the Lord mercy of God that is at the core of which is a cornerstone of Catholic work with the Diocese of El Paso to by attending Mass. Each week, a designated class or the Christian faith." social teaching. plan papal visit events on the U.S. grade prepares for Mass, in Thanksgiving, to be cele- That's how Catholic Extension "During his visit to the border, side of the border. The Chicago- brated with the entire school. By celebrating weekly views the trip, which will take Pope Francis will undoubtedly show based papal society has a long his- Mass, St. Ann’s students are exposed to the Word of place during the church's newly us the way," he said in a statement. tory of providing support to El Paso our Father through the daily readings, which are launched Holy Year of Mercy. He will visit some of the country's and the other Catholic dioceses at always followed with a beautifully-prepared , "In building up the faith among most marginalized communities. the U.S.-Mexico border. tailored for the younger audience. Children learn to the poor," said Father Jack Wall, Pope Francis will stop in six give thanks in these moments for the teachings of our wonderful and intelligent priests who have studied the Word of our Father. It’s quite amazing how the Priests at St. Ann’s are always able to engage our children in El Paso to host simulcast event in Sun Bowl a way that allows every child the opportunity to learn about God, plain and simple. EL PASO (CNS) — El Paso Bishop Mark J. Seitz Schedule for Sun Bowl Stadium Simulcast and El Paso Mayor Oscar Leeser announced plans for St. Ann’s School teaches our children that God is The Diocese of El Paso will help celebrate the Holy Father’s love and all who live in God, live in love. God’s love a local event that will be held Feb. 17 in conjunction with Pope Francis' visit to El Paso's sister city of visit by helping host a Papal Telecast event at Sun Bowl is reinforced continually throughout the day and sets Stadium on February 17, with this schedule: the pace for their everyday learning. Another example Ciudad Juarez in Mexico. 12:00 p.m. Gates to Sun Bowl Stadium open Called "Two Nations, One Faith," the celebration 1:30 p.m. Bilingual music and entertainment program begins of giving thanks at St. Ann’s is the lunch blessing, 4:00 p.m. Telecast of Papal Mass in Juarez begins which is recited daily by all of the students. In this will take place at Sun Bowl Stadium on the campus of the University of Texas at El Paso. 6:00 p.m. Event concludes way, the students at St. Ann’s School are given the The event in El Paso will help allow guests to be united in opportunity to stop, breathe and praise our God for the "In spite of the borders and boundaries that exist, faith and energized in spirit by ’ message of we see ourselves as one great Catholic community, hope in this Extraordinary Jubilee Year of Mercy. It will also bounty of the food he provides. be a tremendous opportunity for the community of the faithful St. Ann’s school children also learn about and we are immensely grateful and honored that our universal pastor, Pope Francis, has chosen to come to to experience together the excitement of Pope Francis’ prox- Thanksgiving in their religion classes, which rein- imity to the border. forces the religious teaching that my husband and I do our area," Bishop Seitz said in a Jan. 18 statement. Find more information on the Papal Telecast event, as well "We celebrate this great day for our brothers and sis- as information on lodging and ticket purchasing by clicking (Please See SCHOOLS/21) ters in Juarez." the image above, or visiting at www.twonationsonefaith.com. Page 6 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus

Diocese of San Angelo 2015 ANNUAL REPORT A Message from Bishop Michael J. Sis year to year. Contributions were down 40% from the previ- ous year. OFFICES IN SUPPORT OF PARISH AND Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ, Retreat Center Fees include registration, meals, lodging DIOCESAN ADMINISTRATION INCLUDE: In order to inform you of the financial condition of the Diocese and other fees collected in connection with the use of Christ Office of the Bishop of San Angelo, our practice is to give you an annual summary of the King Retreat Center. Human Resources, which serves the over 700 employees our financial report. In this section of the February edition of the Insurance Fund includes insurance premiums paid by the of our parishes, schools, and diocesan offices. West Texas Angelus, we present a basic summary and introduc- parishes and other related organizations for insurance cover- Communications, which serves the diocese and parishes tory explanation. If you would like more details, please see our age under diocesan plans. through media relations, the diocesan website, and other com- audited annual financial statements at this website: Grants are financial awards given by private foundations munications support. sanangelodiocese.org/documents/2016/ and other non-government sources. The grants are not Finance Office, which serves as a resource to parishes with 1/2015FinancialStatement.pdf. expected to be repaid by the diocese. The greater part of our regard to financial matters, as well as overseeing parish inter- As your Bishop, I am responsible for administering the mate- grant support comes from the Catholic Extension Society, nal audits, the Parish Savings and Loan Pool, and diocesan rial resources of the Church as a good steward, and this Catholic Home Missions, the Kenedy Foundation, and the administration. This office also provides oversight with includes providing an account of the contributions received and Scanlan Foundation. We are always interested in learning regard to the diocesan property and casualty, workers com- used. The sacrificial giving of our Catholics in West Texas is about new grant sources. pensation, general liability, and umbrella liability programs, what makes possible the ministry of our parishes and our dio- Other Income and Fees include insurance proceeds and assists the parishes and the diocese with related risk-miti- cese. I deeply appreciate the dedicated service of all our received and receipts for a variety of initiatives such as our gating activities. priests, , religious, staff, and volunteers, who pour out diocesan criminal justice ministry, Operation Rice Bowl, the * * * their energies in the mission of the Church. Catholic Campaign for Human Development, our diocesan All of our efforts in the Church depend completely on God’s immigration services, and the annual Diocesan Conference BALANCE STATEMENT help. He has blessed us in so many ways. We seek to respond Day. Amounts received by the Tribunal are also included in to his goodness by developing his gifts and returning them to this category. him with increase. May he continue to bless and protect you. Angelus Support is calculated and paid by parishes as a I am eternally grateful for your prayers and support. function of the number of households within the parish. This In the joy of Christ’s service, income helps cover the cost of publishing and distributing the Most Rev. Michael J. Sis West Texas Angelus. Bishop of San Angelo Interest and Dividends reflects the returns on funds held by the diocese. A group of volunteer experts from around the * * * diocese advises us in the prudent management of these funds. STATEMENT OF ACTIVITIES

CASH AND INVESTMENTS The diocese maintains assets for operations to support current programs, ministries, and future capital needs. Investments also include longer-term funds of the Parish Savings and Loan Pool, which are loaned to parishes for building projects.

PROPERTY AND EQUIPMENT Parish Assessments accounted for over 62% of operating The diocese is required to report the real property, land and income of the diocese for the fiscal year 2014-2015. This * * * equipment that it holds for diocesan uses. This includes the income is calculated and paid by parishes as a function of reg- Operating Expenses land surrounding the pastoral center, Christ the King Retreat ular parish income. Sixteen percent of the annual parish Pastoral Programs include the formation and coordination Center, the pastoral center offices, the bishop’s residence, and income is calculated at the end of each fiscal year on June 30. of those involved in evangelization and catechesis, youth min- the Newman Center in San Angelo. Then, over the course of the subsequent year, it is paid istry, young adult ministry, campus ministry, criminal justice, monthly from the parish to the diocese. This income supports family life, mission awareness, pro-life, the permanent dia- Questions: If you would like more information or clarifica- the operation of the diocesan offices, which coordinate the conate, and the Tribunal. tion about this report, or if you would like to make a contribu- functions of the Church that reach beyond the local parish. Seminarians and Vocations includes seminarian education tion, please contact Steve McKay, Diocesan Finance Officer, This source of income was up 17% over the prior year. and other religious personnel development programs. at [email protected] or at 325-651-7500. Contributions are a source of funds given by individual Social Services include our diocesan efforts in immigration Please consider including your local parish or the Diocese of donors. This type of income is not highly predictable from services, victim assistance, and other charitable causes. San Angelo in your will. The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 7

Speaking of Saints Oswald: The monk who brought music, monasteries and more to the Church

By Mary Lou Gibson

St. Oswald is often described as a major reformer of the Church of England in the 10th century. So what exactly did this scholarly monk do that made him such a renowned figure during his priestly career and for years thereafter? Oswald was of Danish descent, born into a Danish military family and was the nephew of the of Canterbury and York. He received his early education in England. His early association with the Church Southwest Liturgical Conference began when he became a of Fr. Lorenzo Hatch (standing at right), parochial vicar of Sacred Heart Cathedral in San Angelo, dines with a Winchester cathedral. After several group from San Angelo that attended the Southwest Liturgical Conference, January 13-16, 2016, in San Gibson years, he began to think about Antonio. A total of 18 from the diocese attended the conference. The SWLC is a liturgical organization com- becoming a monk. Editor Basil prising the 28 Roman Catholic dioceses of Region X and Region XIII of the Federation of Diocesan Liturgical Watkins writes in “The Book of Saints” that Oswald had Commissions (FDLC) in the states of Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, New Mexico, Oklahoma, Texas, Utah, and to go to France to study because the monastic life did not Wyoming. exist in England. He studied at Fleury-sur-Loire, the monastery that claims to have the relics of St. Benedict. Paul Burns Greg Popcak on Families writes in “Butler’s Lives of the Saints” that when Oswald returned to England, he was a Benedictine monk and ordained priest. King Edgar appointed him bishop of Worcester in 961 on the recommendation of Dunstan, the Overcoming bitterness in 5 easy steps of Canterbury. With Dunstan’s help, Oswald By Gregory K. Popcak grow. It does nothing to heal the tending everything is “OK.” It began his work to reform the Church by bringing reli- wound caused by the injustice. In doesn’t mean forgetting the hurt gious communities such as the Benedictines into many No one wants to be bitter. It fact, it causes the wound to become either. According to St. Augustine, parishes and re-establishing Ripon as a diocese. sneaks up on us. Bitterness is infected with anger. forgiveness is simply the act of sur- Oswald turned his attention to founding new monaster- unforgiveness fermented. The rendering our desire for revenge; ies such as the monastery at Westbury. Burns writes that more we hold onto Bitterness: Wrath’s Little Sister that is, our desire to hurt someone he built a church next to the cathedral there and replaced past hurts the Bitterness is wrath’s little sister. for having hurt us. Forgiveness is the secular canons with monks. Their services became so more we become Where anger can be just and moral if the gift we give ourselves that popular that the faithful came to that church and not to drunk on our pain it propels us to seek solutions for the enables us to stop picking at the the cathedral. Eventually, the new church, St. Mary’s, and the experience wrongs we have experienced or wit- scab and start making a plan for became the cathedral. can rob us of ness, wrath is a deadly sin because healing. My book, Broken Gods: At Worcester, Oswald established a great musical tradi- the joy we can it becomes anger that feeds on itself Hope Healing and the Seven tion, which continues today as the Three Festival, find in anything. and adds to wreckage caused by the Longings of the Human Heart, can drawing on the talents of Worcester, Gloucester and Bitterness occurs original wound. Bitterness does this help you identify the steps you need Hereford Cathedrals and held annually at the end of July. when we feel Popcak too, but instead of burning down the to heal the hurt, and find authentic (www.3choirs.org) someone has taken something from house with everything we value still peace. In addition to music, Oswald encouraged learning of us that we are powerless to get inside, bitterness is quieter, slowly all sorts. According to Burns, he brought learned masters back. We hold on to the hurt in an poisoning our life until we lose it a Make a plan over from the continent, including Abbo of Fleury, a attempt to remind ourselves and one joy at a time. Forgiveness allows you to free up noted mathematician and astronomer. He introduced others of the injustice we’ve experi- Here are some things you can do the energy you need to begin heal- these scholars to his largest and most famous Benedictine enced in the hopes that someone to begin to overcome bitterness: ing the wound. If the person who monastery at Ramsey which he founded in 971. will save us and restore what we’ve hurt you is willing to work with In 972, Oswald was promoted as archbishop of York. At lost. Unfortunately, bitterness only a Forgive makes our sense of the injustice Forgiveness does not mean pre- (Please See POPCAK/21) Please See SAINTS/23) Page 8 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus

W.E. and Sandie Knickerbocker Growing older in years, yet bolder in Christ

By Fr. Knick and Sandie Knickerbocker

We're all aging!! From the time we're born until we die, we're growing older in years. Some of us, however, can be classified as "older adults." There are a rapidly increasing number of us in the U.S., as well as many other coun- tries. This population is called var- iously seniors, retirees, older adults, the elderly, older people, Clergy Appreciation Dinner the third age, the aging. In fact, Priests, women religious and deacons from the Midland-Odessa-Stanton area gathered January 28, 2016 for the we older adults are not a homoge- annual clergy appreciation dinner, sponsored by Knights of Columbus Council 3071. Bishop Michael J. Sis, front nous group. Depending on the row, 6th from right, was one of many clergy members who attended the dinner, at the St. Stephen’s Church source you consult, three general Ballroom in Midland. (Photo by Karen J. Patterson) age groups can be identified: young-older adults, 60-70 years, mid-older adults, 70-85 years, and oldest-older adults or elderly, 85 and over. Within these age groups Annual Knights District Banquet in Ballinger there is enormous diversity in terms of health of body, mind, and spirit; social situation; economic status; and many other factors. Can we make any general statements that apply to all of us older adults? Clark Tibbits, a gerontologist, describes five needs that should be met if we are to grow old gracefully: 4the need for relationships and association with others; 4the need for creativity; 4the need for security; 4the need for individuality and recognition, 4and the need for an intellectual frame of reference. Deacon Dr. Bob McDonald adds an essential sixth need, “the deepest need of the human heart ... faith in something higher and more reliable than oneself”— the need to believe there is meaning in this life regardless of ones condition or situation and that life continues after death (The Catholic Family, vol. 1, "Growing Older in Years: Growing Bolder in Christ). In Catholic Christian terms, this is the need for faith in and a relationship with the Holy Trinity, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit — a per- sonal relationship with Jesus Christ in the community of the Church. God created each of us with this sixth need: "You have made us for yourself and our hearts are rest- less until they can find rest in you," as we read in St. Augustine's Confessions. Actually, all persons regardless of age have these six needs, but they become more press- ing and, perhaps, more problematic in us older adults. At right, Grand Knight Max Long, of St. Mary’s Star of the Sea council in Ballinger, host of the banquet, welcomes As Catholic Christians we are concerned about being those in attendance to the Knights’ District Banquet in Ballinger, January 23. The KC banquet is celebrated annual- ly in January by the four KC districts in the Southern half of the diocese. Each district is made up of 4 to 5 councils fully who God created us to be through the graces of our which use the occasion to announce their ‘Family’ and ‘Knight’ of the year. (Photos by Don Piwonka) , regardless of age. What are the calls God has placed on each of us? The USCCB, in its document (Please See KNICKEROCKER/22) The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 9

Fr. Sam Matthiesen, seen here after blessing a house belonging to a family member, has been named a Missionary of Mercy by the Vatican for the Extraordinary Jubilee Year of Mercy. (Courtesy photo) Abilene’s Fr. Matthiesen one of more than 1,000 Missionaries of Mercy

Staff and Wire Reports CSA Members celebrate wedding Past and present members of the Catholic Student Association at the University of Texas of the Permian Basin in (CNS) — More than 1,000 Odessa celebrate the wedding of Karen Lopez and Jerel Navarrette. The two grew their relationship through their Missionaries of Mercy from all over the world will involvement with the CSA at the Odessa university. The wedding took place November 14, 2015 at St. Anthony Parish receive a special mandate from Pope Francis to preach in Odessa. (Courtesy Photo) and teach about God's mercy. About 700 of the missionaries who were chosen by Pope Francis will be in Rome to receive their special mandate in person during an Ash Wednesday ceremony in St. Peter's Basilica Feb. 10, said the president of the for Promoting New Evangelization, the office organizing events for the Year of Mercy. Representing the Diocese of San Angelo is Fr. Sam Matthiesen, who was ordained in 2013. For the holy year, which runs until Nov. 20, Pope Francis said he would designate Missionaries of Mercy to be unique signs of God's mercy. “My general focus will of course be on mercy, and I will be available for retreats or talks at different parishes about mercy, with a special focus on reconciliation,” said Fr. Matthiesen. Some priests will be called to do mission work outside of their diocese. It is unknown if Fr. Matthiesen will be among those called upon for that type of mission work. Pope Francis is also giving these Missionaries of Mercy special authority during the Jubilee Year of Mercy to sins that carry penalties that only the can lift. “These (sins) occur in very rare situations such as the intentional sacrilegious violation of the Eucharist, the violation of the sacred seal of Confession, or physically attacking certain persons,” noted Most Rev. Michael J. Sis, Bishop of San Angelo. Pro-Life During a news conference at the Vatican January 29, Bishop Michael J Sis, third from left, with Deacon Steve Zimmerman, left, and Deacon Frankie Aguirre, process in Archbishop Fisichella said there had been a huge with Pro-Life supporters at the annual Pro-LIfe Mass marking the anniversary of the Roe v. Wade decision, January response from priests and religious men who — with per 22, 2016. The Supreme Court decision was handed down 43 years ago, January 22, 1973. (Photo by Don Piwonka) (Please See MERCY/19) Page 10 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus Nation / Pope Speakers: Religious freedom is being challenged in fundamental ways WASHINGTON (CNS) — Religious ("Of Human Dignity"). Some of those image and endowed with free will, made Threat: The Attack on Religious Liberty freedom is being challenged in funda- debating the document wanted it to focus for the search for truth. in America," moderated the panel. mental ways, according to speakers at a only on the freedom from coercion, Archbishop Lori, chairman of the U.S. The discussion was sponsored by the panel discussion on "Religious Liberty which is important. Conference of Catholic Bishops' Ad Hoc foundation, a conservative research and and the Future: Faith, Skepticism, Culture "Indeed," he said, "no government and Committee on Religious Liberty, was education think tank. Wyoming Catholic and Hope" at the Heritage Foundation in no social force should coerce individuals joined on the panel by Kevin D. Roberts, College co-hosted the event. Washington Jan. 21. or groups in religious matters, and that president of Wyoming Catholic College The archbishop said the decoupling of Archbishop William E. Lori of made its way into the document." in Lander, Wyoming; and Roger freedom to choose from responsibility Baltimore said the fundamental problems However, the archbishop added, other Severino, director of the DeVos Center also is a problem, because choice does include "the decoupling of our basic free- Vatican II fathers, including then- for Religion and Civil Society at the not mean the ability to do anything. The doms from the search for truth." He noted Cardinal Karol Wojtyla, later Pope John Heritage Foundation. current state of our society de-emphasizes that 50 years ago, the Second Vatican Paul II, argued that religious freedom is James W. Tonkowich, director of dis- that this freedom must be properly linked Council issued a document on religious linked to the search for truth — truth tance learning for Wyoming Catholic freedom known as "Dignitatis Humanae" about the human person made in God's College and author of "The Liberty (Please See FREEDOM/23) ‘Simple, not silly’: Kids’ questions become book by Pope Francis

VATICAN CITY (CNS) -- Children may say the darnedest things, but when it comes to ques- Circus members greet tions about faith they can make even the most Pope Francis after their learned parents and priests pause. performance during the pope's general audi- "These are tough," Pope Francis said when pre- ence in St. Peter's sented with questions from 30 children from Square at the Vatican around the world. Jan. 27. (CNS Jesuit Father Antonio Spadaro, who went photo/Paul Haring) through the questions with the pope, said half the time he personally was stumped when thinking about how he would have responded. But the pope wasn't. Pope: Patch up feuds, forgive, let go of painful past The questions, illustrated with the drawings of the children aged 6-13, and the pope's answers VATICAN CITY (CNS) -- Let the been faithful and merciful toward his demned to die," he said. will be published March 1 as the book "Dear Year of Mercy be the time to end all people. Such suffering has existed through- Pope Francis." family feuds, to forgive each other and God never ignored the Israelites' cry out history, including in today's world, "What did God do before the world was made?" let bygones be bygones, Pope Francis of suffering and he sent as a he said, and that can often make peo- one child asked. "Do bad people have a guardian said. "mediator" on his behalf to free his ple feel "helpless, tempted to harden angel, too?" asked another. "I think about so many brothers and people and lead them to salvation, the their hearts and think about other In the book, coordinated and published by the sisters who are estranged from their pope said. things." U.S.-based Loyola Press, Pope Francis responds families; they don't speak to each "We can do this work, too, during God, however, is never indifferent, to those and 28 other queries; some of the ques- other," he said during his weekly gen- this Year of Mercy, of being mediators as he always fixes his gaze upon those tions are theological, others are practical and a eral audience in St. Peter's Square Jan. of mercy with works of mercy" that in pain and intervenes by helping peo- few are about the pope personally, including what 27. bring people together, foster unity and ple become aware of and involved in he wanted to be when he grew up. "This Year of Mercy is a good occa- offer people comfort and relief, he the lives of those who suffer and are To the question about what God was doing sion to meet up again, to embrace said. There are "so many good things oppressed, he said. before creation, the heart of the pope's answer is, each other and forgive each other, to people can do." In remarks to pilgrims from Iraq and "Think of it this way: Before creating anything, leave bad things behind," he said. "Mercy can never remain indifferent other nations in the Middle East, Pope God loved. That's what God was doing: God was The pope continued a series of talks before the suffering of the oppressed, Francis again highlighted that God is loving." dedicated to divine mercy, looking the cry of those who are exposed to not deaf to the plight of those facing Questions about Jesus, war and peace and about specifically at how God has always violence, reduced to slavery, con- "injustice and persecution." (Please See BOOK/21) The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 11 ‘A little bit of mercy makes the world less cold and more just’

CRS Lebanon project manag- er Soha Menassa talks with Syrian refugees from Raqqa at the Bachir informal tent- settlement in Deir al Ahmar in Lebanon's Bekaa Valley. Photo by Sam Tarling for CRS

Headline: From a quote by Pope Francis

Rachel Hermes, CRS A Letter from Amman to West Texas ... Catholic Relief Services provides love, support for refugees By Rachel Hermes how a snowy day for Syrian refugees here in Jordan attend parent-teacher meetings and take their children to Catholic Relief Services-Jordan doesn’t translate into a carefree play day. Even condi- health centers and child-friendly spaces. There is a pur- tions like heavy rains – which I understand have recent- suit for survival, of protecting the ones they love the February 3, 2016 ly occurred in Texas – can wreak havoc on a family’s most, and of dreaming about — and planning for — the wellbeing. day they can safely return home. Dear Friends in West Texas and the San Angelo Here in Jordan, a majority of Syrian refugees are fam- Equally inspiring are those serving them with utmost Diocese, ilies – in fact, 76 percent of the refugee population reg- grace and dignity: Caritas Jordan, the social service istered in Jordan are women and children. On top of agency of the Catholic Church in Jordan. Caritas is a AMMAN, Jordan — Greetings from Amman! It’s that, most families are not living in the large camps you critical partner of Catholic Relief Services in its wide cold and snowy here — not unusual for Jordan in win- might associate with a refugee crisis. Nearly 82 percent range of humanitarian assistance for Syrian and Iraqi ter, but unusual enough that the government issued an of the 635,035 Syrian refugees registered in Jordan are refugees — from children’s trauma counseling and edu- announcement encouraging people to be home and off urban refugees—living in shared rooms or in unfinished cation, to medical care and shelter support. the roads by 6 p.m. apartment buildings. Still, for many families, they pro- You can’t escape the youthful energy and unwavering In the past week, I have seen the news and footage of vide what is most essential: a safe place, far from the commitment of Caritas Jordan staff — most of whom the winter storm along the East Coast. While the condi- fighting, in which they can shelter their children. began as volunteers with the organization – some more tions looked incredibly difficult for travel and work, I It can be disheartening to look at the living condi- than a decade ago. Signs decorate the walls at all of the also received dozens of fun-loving photos of friends tions, and to see the numbers and news of this crisis Caritas Jordan offices, community centers, and health romping around in the snow. from a distance. But I constantly witness the spirit, centers declaring: “Caritas: it’s not a job. It’s a mission.” Given my current perch, I can’t help but think about strength and vigor of Syrian refugee families as they (Please See LETTER/14) Page 12 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 13

At left, Through the generous support of private donors through- out Texas, CRS / Caritas Jordan is able to provide a handful of educational opportuni- ties for Syrian refugee children. Such support includes kindergarten; remedial and catch-up classes; and child- friendly spaces. (Photo by Murad Saldawi / Caritas Jordan).

7 questions answered on Above, CRS/Caritas provides kinder- garten classes to Syrian refugee chil- dren aged 4-5. These classes emphasize socialization and early education, and Syrian Refugee Crisis make it more likely that they will be ready to enter formal schools. (Photo by (Editor’s Note: As senior communications officer for the emergency response team at Kim Pozniak/Catholic Relief Services) Catholic Relief Services (CRS), Caroline Brennan has witnessed what life is like for the millions of people who have been displaced by the Syrian civil war. Nearly 5 years of At right, these children represent the civil war in Syria has led to the greatest humanitarian crisis since World War II. Millions next generation of children in Syria. of displaced Syrians, many of them children, are in critical need of the most basic With their displaced families, they will be the ones to hopefully return when essentials: food, a roof over their heads, a safe place to sleep, medical assistance – peace comes to rebuild their country. sometimes urgent — and education and counseling for their children. Since the war They didn’t start this fight, but they started in 2011, Catholic Relief Services (CRS) has provided humanitarian aid to need our support more than ever. A displaced Yazidi woman sits outside her tent at the approximately 800,000 war-affected Syrians. Brennan recently visited the front lines of (Photo by Nikki Gamer/Catholic Relief Nowrouz refugee camp in the town of Derik in Hassake the crisis in Europe and the Middle East, where she met with dozens of Syrian refugees Services) province in Rojave, the autonomous Kurdish region of who shared with her their stories of hope and survival. Here, she talks about some of northern Syria. The camp, originally set up for displaced their greatest needs, and what you can do to help. Syrians, became overwhelmed as Iraqis were increasingly Violence hurting children throughout Middle East displaced by ISIS. Bottom right also shows Yazidi women displaced. Photos by Sam Tarling for Caritas. Q: What have you seen – in your recent visit with refugees in Europe, and also with Syria is at the center of one the world’s most devastating humanitarian emergencies those in the Middle East? today. Once a vibrant hub of Middle Eastern culture and history, Syria is besieged by A: The refugees I’ve met in Serbia, Macedonia and Greece are exhausted. They have been internal conflict that has uprooted millions of innocent families. Since the start of the traveling such a long way and—on top of that—have endured years of oppressive fear and conflict in March 2011, an estimated 4 million Syrians have fled across the border into 5-year-old Rawan and hardship. Thousands of families are resting in parks or makeshift camps until they move on primarily Jordan, Lebanon, Turkey and Egypt. her brother Ahmad Al to northern Europe. You see people limping because they have done so much walking. More Kurdi fled to Jordan than anything, people talk about being so relieved to have made it. These are the same peo- More than 70 percent of Syrian refugees in the Middle East are women and children. from Syria with their ple who--when you ask what is the most important item they have with them (apart from mother in 2012. their families)—show you their university degrees. How much their lives have changed in a These images from Jordan focus on those who are paying the heaviest price: children. Rawan's mother says few years. One mother said to me, "You wouldn't put your child on one of these boats unless Many Syrian children have lost family members, witnessed atrocities, fled the destruc- she's completely it was safer than your home." changed thanks to tion of their homes and cities, and now live in fear in a foreign place. Education and Caritas In Jordan and Lebanon, I found a surprising, humbling, level of hospitality and generosity CRS/ Jordan among Syrian refugees in their tents or squalid rooms where they are living. I was welcomed care for children in times of crisis is critical to providing stability, normalcy and routine. educational activities. After arriving in with such warmth. I quickly realized how important it was to ensure people that you see them Through the generous funding from private donors throughout Texas, Catholic Relief Jordan, Rawan wasn't beyond this madness, and that they aren’t lost in it. Services/Caritas Jordan is able to provide hundreds of Syrian children with vital educa- socializing and very tion, trauma counseling and support. With these activities, children can better adjust to shy. "She became Q: What are some ways the Catholic community is responding to this crisis? their new environment, continue their development, heal their trauma, and be ready to stronger," her mother A: It is remarkable to see the presence of Catholic social services agencies at the front-lines return home when safety and security allow. Ultimately, they can start to regain some said. Photo by Kim of this crisis, and the comprehensive, dignified support they offer to people who have diverse Pozniak/Catholic Relief needs. The assistance ranges from people’s immediate needs—living supplies, soap, blankets, semblance of childhood. Services (Please See QUESTIONS/14) Page 14 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus In Jordan, keeping Syrian refugee children in school

By NIkki Gamer Syrian families trying to enroll their children in school. lic school waiting list, takes catch-up classes intended Catholic Relief Services It’s estimated that fewer than half of the Syrian children for primary school-age children who have missed signif- in Jordan are receiving formal education. icant years of formal education. The classes help stu- Ashaa’s frail frame and weary gaze suggest someone “Education is critical for Syrian refugee children who dents with basic education to pass government-recog- who is accustomed to hardship. She lives in a small are increasingly facing child labor, underage marriage, nized exams and, prepare them for formal schooling apartment in the town of Zarqa in Jordan, with her hus- and other child protection concerns,” says CRS Jordan should the opportunity arise. Given the duration of the band, who is sick, and five children. The family fled program manager Michelle Ryan. conflict, many children have been out of school for their native Syria, and now relies mostly on aid to sur- To address this dire need, CRS, through our partner years. Others have missed out on formal schooling vive. Caritas Jordan, provides Syrian children with four dis- entirely. But something changes in Ashaa’s demeanor when tinct educational opportunities: kindergarten classes, “Before Caritas, my daughter didn’t know the alpha- she starts talking about the educational support her fam- catch-up classes, remedial classes and child-friendly bet. Now she can read,” Ashaa says. “When the news ily receives through Caritas Jordan with Catholic Relief spaces. All four include psychosocial activities, counsel- comes on, she reads me what’s on TV.” Services and other partners. She comes to life. ing, and interventions to address refugee children’s It’s not just Ashaa’s children who are benefiting from “Before coming to Caritas classes, my children used emotional and mental health needs. the educational programming. Daylong workshops for to be down and depressed. They didn’t have anything to Since the crisis began, the educational programming parents help them with issues like handling bullying, do. They didn’t have routine,” Ashaa, 31, says. “Now has grown exponentially, from a few partner schools and supporting children at home and school.“I’ve I’ve noticed a change in their behaviors. They’ve with a few hundred students to nearly 7,000 students in learned that I should insist that all of my children go to become more relieved, more excited.” 21 schools. Support comes from CRS donors, Caritas school so that when they grow up, they can help them- Jordan, a Mideastern country bordering Syria, is home Austria, the U.S. State Department’s Bureau of selves have a better future,” Ashaa says. to more than 600,000 refugees, more than half of whom Population, Refugees and Migration, and the Catholic Ryan explains the importance of supporting parents as are children. Agency for Overseas Development. well as students: With the Syrian war well into its fifth year, govern- “With more resources, we have the potential to double “Navigating the education system in host countries and ment resources in neighboring countries like Jordan are this number in the coming years,” Ryan says. stretched thin. That has resulted in long waiting lists for Ashaa’s 10-year-old daughter Waed, who is on a pub- (Please See CLASS/23) QUESTIONS

(From 13) food, clothing, and translation and infor- wouldn't put a child on this boat unless crisis. More than 90 percent of money mation services at key transit sites. The it's safer than your home.” donated to CRS goes directly to people in hygiene kits, a safe place to stay, etc. But translation and information support is a Q: What are some of the ways that need. (See box for info on West Texas you also have people who have been game-changer. Just think about it: people in the Diocese of San Angelo can Emergency Fund, “What Can You Do to refugees for two, three or four years. Refugee families are having to make help? Help,” Pg. 23) Their needs are different, and the church decisions every step of the way—where A: One of the most powerful ways you Q: Any last words? has responded accordingly by providing: to go, who to trust, what direction to go, can help those affected by the Syrian war Please keep refugee families in your education for their children, trauma coun- how to get there safely—with each deci- is through learning more about it. The thoughts and prayers. Know that they are seling, income opportunities, medical sion potentially changing the trajectory of more you learn, the more you’ll under- hopeful — in fact, that's the thread that support and other care. their lives. And, they are making these stand its underlying causes and can spread links so many people of different origins Q: What are your biggest concerns decisions in a foreign country and in a the word. Yet another way you can help is to walking this same path, with the shared for those who have fled Syria? foreign language, with misinformation through donating to accredited nonprofit destination of a better life. As one man A: As long as there is the conflict, peo- swirling around them. So, when we are organizations that are responding to the described his hope to me, “With every ple are going to be forced to flee in order able to provide clear information, in their step, my future is so much closer here.” to live in safety. We have to ramp up the language, about what the options are and humanitarian assistance in the refugee how they can travel safely and legally, it LETTER hosting countries in the Middle East, provides them control in the swirl of (From 11) the impact of the generosity of West which are at the breaking point. We have upheaval. Texans for those families who are urgent- to make sure we are supporting countries Q: What do you think is one of the ly in need. I wish you could be here to like Jordan and Lebanon in their infra- biggest misperceptions that people in And, they mean it. When I recently vis- ited a Caritas health center, one man who see it, too. It is a privilege to witness the structure so that people who are there the United States have about Syrian comfort that a warm blanket, shelter, or don’t overstress and overtax those soci- refugees? is living as a refugee told me how kind he had been treated by a Caritas staffer. living supplies can offer a family in the eties. And we need the U.S. to take lead- A: Although millions of Syrians have cold; the normalcy that a classroom ership on a diplomatic solution to the been displaced by the conflict, inside and He didn’t mention the types of assistance he had received, and only expressed offers a child yearning for a semblance of problem. While we’re waiting, we are outside Syria, most would rather stay in childhood; and the relief a counselor doing everything we can to help the their homeland than flee. Since the Syrian delight with the Caritas staff who had served him with kindness and dignity. offers a child or a parent who is strug- Church and others to meet the needs of Civil War began in 2011, it’s estimated gling to heal from trauma. Iraqis and Syrians who have been forced that hundreds of thousands of people This commitment to dignity is one we take to heart. And, for the Jordanian I offer my thanks to West Texas from to flee. have died. Countless homes and places of so many of us here in Amman. Yours is a Q: What’s one of the ways CRS is work have been destroyed. Refugees social service workers who work tireless- ly to help ease the burdens of those fac- gift of the highest value: to know that responding to the refugee crisis in arriving in the Middle East and Europe these refugees are not being forgotten, Europe? have recounted in horrific detail the ing such hardship, it is an answer to a higher calling. and there are people throughout the world A: CRS is providing medical care, atrocities they witnessed within their in solidarity with them. hygiene supplies, temporary shelter, hot homeland. As one mother told me, “You I write to you now because I have seen The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 15 Family Life With open doors, let us encounter our Muslim neighbors By Carolyn Woo In a society with a strong sense of decorum, we've Despite the mass shootings and bombings in Oklahoma Catholic News Service heard reports of people spitting on Muslims; feces have City, Columbine, Virginia Tech, Aurora, Sandy Hook, been smeared at their places of worship; and the routine Charleston, Colorado Springs, Roseburg, Washington's A few months ago, I wrote a column about the word act of boarding a flight has been challenged by a fellow Navy Yard, and many more unnamed shootings here in "they" and how it can be a dangerous word. Since then passenger because of prejudice. Where could this lead? the U.S., we do not label all American males as threats and after the tragedies in Paris and Violence is a reality in the United States and globally. to society. We do not segregate nor banish them from San Bernardino, California, the point It is a daily concern for Catholic Relief Service col- our families and communities. is driven home by the consequences leagues, partners and beneficiaries from different faith We are able to distinguish an aberrant fringe that we when some segments of global soci- traditions who work in countries torn asunder by acts of do not allow to define our conception of males at large. eties label Muslims as "they." annihilation. Why would we not do this for our Muslim neighbors? In the U.S., some political candi- I deplore that mass shootings have invaded our socie- If we get to know Muslims better, we will have an dates have called for banning all ty. I grieve the poverty in spirits that bleeds hearts of all image rather different from the one that dominates Muslim immigrants and the establish- love and fills them with the desire to kill. I fear most Western media and that shapes our perception. Muslims ment of a registry to track their what fear can do to us as people: how it can rob us of are part of U.S. history from the early days with whereabouts — both are antithetical compassion, harden us, hijack our ability to think ration- Bampett Muhammad, Yusuf Ben Ali and Peter to the U.S. Constitution, which pro- Woo ally, diminish our openness to different cultures, and dull Buckminster serving in battles under George vides for religious freedom and forbids our sense of optimism. discrimination on the basis of religion. Fear, however, does not always have the upper hand. (Please See WOO/23) And the Oscar for the Cartoon Corner best homily goes to ...

By Fr. William Byron dards and select judges for this holy compe- Catholic News Service tition. All parishes would have to be visited over the course of any year by judges who It would be interesting if every diocesan are there only to help, not to police or punish. office of liturgy were to take a page each Dramatic improvement in the quality of year from the book of the Academy of worship is likely to result. And it is also a Motion Picture Arts and good probability that positive playback would Sciences and award an be felt in the seminaries where future con- Oscar to high-performing tenders for this recognition are in formation. parishes in the areas of If, say, the Sunday morning 11 a.m. liturgy preaching, presiding, par- at a given parish were so honored, it is proba- ticipation and music. ble that visitors would be attracted, regular Best preacher, best attendees would be retained and the disaffect- presider, best participating ed young might be prompted to take a look to congregation and best litur- see what's going on. And isn't this exactly gical music in any given what any parish wants to see happen? diocese deserve recogni- Byron If anything close to this is going to occur, tion, and by recognizing the however, pastor and parish staff will have to best, the diocesan office could encourage pay more attention to what is actually taking other parishes to improve. place on weekends in the parishes where the improvement across the board in faith community looks to them for leadership. any diocese would make weekend worship They might see this as an opportunity to more attractive to former parishioners who engage young people in the planning and have drifted away. There should be no diffi- preparation of liturgies. They might invite culty finding or designing an appropriate experienced professionals in the parish to statuette to accompany the recognition. And help evaluate the quality of preaching, presid- instead of calling it an Oscar, the award in ing, participation and music in parish litur- this case might be named in honor of a saint gies. or familiar liturgical gesture, item or event Nothing but good can come from an ini- that all would recognize. Something like a tiative like this. It won't happen, however, "" or "prie dieu" might work. without diocesan leadership and widespread If any creativity at all resides in a diocesan cooperation from the people in the pews office charged with the promotion of good who, I suspect, are just waiting for some- liturgy, it should not be difficult to set stan- thing like this to happen. Page 16 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus Making Sense of Bioethics Valuing the friendships At the heart of the tragedy of addiction that help shape us

By Fr. Tad Pacholczyk the tragedy of addiction. Because we are crea- By Eric Rommel tures of habit, the choices we make, either for Catholic News Service Addiction can be extremely harmful, and in good or for evil, form us in one direction or the some cases, fatal for those individuals ensnared other, so we become individuals who are either In life, we are continually on the move. Sometimes the move by it. It can be seriously disruptive and damaging capable or incapable of choosing the good freely. involves a new home or new town. Sometimes it means gradua- to those around them. Who is to blame when it Virtue is a habit of good, while vice is a habit of tion or a new job. comes to addiction? Family and friends may evil. Early choices leading down the road Regardless of the type of change, every time think to themselves, “Why can’t towards addiction, freely made, can quickly we make a move, we naturally assess where we Jane just stop drinking?” Or, snowball into vice, addiction and a loss of free- were, where we're going and what we need for “Doesn’t Joe understand that his dom. As one recovered addict graphically the next part of our journey. gambling addiction is bankrupting described it: We evaluate what we own, eliminate what we the family?” Or, “Can’t Bob see “My beef is with those who claim that they no longer need and plan for new additions that how his pornography habit is never chose to become an addict or never chose match our new lifestyle. Leaving college may destroying his marriage and his to hurt their families…. While we likely didn’t mean an end to trendy posters of movies and Rommel relationships?” For those facing intend to end up helpless, dysfunctional people musicians, but also the start of a professional addiction, it seems they ought to who [hurt] our loved ones, the choices we made clothing collection to make us look like successful adults. be able to recognize their behav- put us at risk of ending up in a sorry state where We also take a similar assessment of the people in our lives, ior as harmful, and turn away Pacholczyk we were capable of doing things we would have often without realizing it. In high school, we see the same people from it by a resolute decision. never dreamed of. Unless you were raised on every day for four years. There's an undeniable connection. Then, Family and friends, however, can Mars, we all deep down knew the risk of our when our four years are over, we toss our graduation caps into the face years of frustration when they see their choices, especially if you’re talking about coke, air and never see some of those people again. loved ones fall into a slow motion “crash and crack, meth, or heroin but we chose to roll the After they meant so much, for so long, those people are gone. burn,” spiraling downwards as they remain dice anyways. At a certain point, when I was It's not because we're forgetful, but the bond we had no longer unwilling or unable to step away from their starting to do coke almost every weekend, I exists. Our relationship is reduced to nothing more than a bro- addiction. knew that it would be wise to stop, but I chose ken connection. The individual caught in the web of addiction not to because I was having fun and I told myself This occurs often as we grow older. People we thought we objectively falls prey to a loss of personal free- it will never happen to me. By the end, I was could never live without become less prominent as others enter dom. His will becomes weakened, and he going on solo three day benders with alcohol and our lives. Sometimes, some of those people disappear from our becomes enslaved in a way that limits his ability cocaine, and I landed in treatment.… my point is lives, and sometimes they don't. to recognize the right order of goods in his life. that I made the choice to try the substance, the Sometimes the bonds we make are more than where we went to By repetitively choosing the addictive behavior, choice to begin to use the substance more regu- school, where we worked or the neighborhood where we lived. it becomes ingrained, and the ability to choose larly, and the choice not to quit when I could Sometimes our connections are much deeper and refuse to fade, better, alternative behaviors becomes enfeebled, have.” while others are easily forgotten. if not seemingly impossible. For these reasons, While there may have been significant moral I have friends from high school and college whom I rarely have there is almost always diminished personal culpability at the beginning of an individual’s seen since graduation. We're separated in many ways, but I know responsibility in situations of addiction. To be descent into addiction, it is still critical for us to a connection still exists. I feel it. If we randomly meet, it feels as accountable for our acts, we must freely choose never stigmatize, patronize or abandon those who if no time has passed. If they needed help, I'd give it. those acts, but the internal pressure and down- are in the throes of addiction. They may feel they Those are the people with whom our bond is the strongest, ward spiral of the addiction may have already are defined entirely by their addiction, unlovable those we refuse to forget. co-opted the individual’s ability freely to choose and wretched, rather than seeing that they are, in Sometimes the effect on each others' lives is mutual. Sometimes otherwise. Eventually this bondage can appear to fact, human beings who are precious to God and the connection only goes in one direction. What if what they mean be permanent, and addicted individuals can those around them, and even now endowed with to us is far greater than what we mean to them? Should that matter? imagine themselves pathetic and hopeless to such some tiny space of remaining freedom. That tiny Relationships are rarely equal. Think back to the days when you a degree that they almost give up. In the words space will become key to determining whether and your friends discussed the person who was your best friend of a formerly-addicted individual: they ultimately choose the behavioral changes and the one who was your third-best friend. We all wanted to be “I believe that I did not have a choice to needed to improve their situation and recover the number one on every list. As a child, those determinations meant stop…. It never became clear to me that I could human freedom that is rightfully theirs. We something. As an adult, what's important is to be true to oneself. live another way until a medical intervention should support, encourage and love them in ways Every time we make a move, we naturally assess where we from my physician and friends took place. that will help lead them toward those good were, where we're going and what we need for the next part of Willpower plays a small role here, but it too can- choices and successful outcomes. our journey. Through that process, we continually create the per- not work if one has a malfunctioning brain. I son we want to become. speak for myself here… I could not stop. Period. Rev. Tadeusz Pacholczyk, Ph.D. earned his It's important, however, to remember those who made us the Now, I have stopped. Not just because of the doctorate in neuroscience from Yale and did person we are presently. Their role in creating our identity should intervention, but because I have turned my life post-doctoral work at Harvard. He is a priest of never be overlooked. and my will over to the God of my understand- the diocese of Fall River, MA, and serves as the Fortunately, it's easy to know who those people are. Even when ing. That is something 12-step programs have Director of Education at The National Catholic they're gone, they're the ones we can never forget. In our hearts, taught me.” Bioethics Center in Philadelphia. See www.ncb- we know we will see them again. If we remember the lessons This radical loss of freedom lies at the heart of center.org they taught us, we'll be precisely where we need to be, no matter where life takes us. The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 17 Catholic Voices If you can’t get out ... get in even more deeply By Fr. Ron Rolheiser What we see in these people and in our- Many resurrections, for us, lie in imitat- Again, not to die to our daydreams selves since we all have our own particu- ing Christ in this matter. Thus, for exam- here, not to enter more deeply into celiba- Leo Tolstoy once commented that lar experiences of this is a perpetual kick- ple . . . cy, is to perpetuate a living death within “each unhappy family is unhappy in its ing against the goad, a cancer of spirit, a If we find ourselves restless in a mar- our sexuality. own way.” I like to think that restlessness refusal to accept one’s lot in life, an inca- riage which is far from what we would The same dynamic is likewise operative is like that, it takes pacity to make peace with what one is in now choose, but which we know we can in our relationship to our church. Today many forms but each of fact living. never leave then we have no other choice there are many people who are very us is restless in his or Theologically this can be described as a but to get more deeply into it. We are so unhappy with their churches but, for all her own way. blockage of pentecost, an unwillingness restless because we are no longer drawing kinds of reasons, can never leave those One form of restless- to receive the Holy Spirit for one’s own life from the relationship. churches. ness that many of us life. Only by entering that marriage more As some put it: “Even if you leave the share in , how- How do we move beyond this kind of deeply can that restlessness be turned to church, it never leaves you!” If that is the ever, is a sense of feel- restlessness? There is an old adage, now restfulness and can that seeming death be case, then the prescription is clear: If you ing trapped in certain the motto for Outward Bound programs turned to life. Not to enter it more deeply can’t get out of it, get more deeply into it. marriages, families, in the U.S., that reads: If you can’t get is to condemn ourselves to the living Enter your church more deeply, see and vocations, careers, Fr. Rolheiser out of something . . . get more deeply into death we are now experiencing—our rela- experience in the tensions, petti ness, divi- churches, jobs and loca- it. tionship is neither alive nor dead. sions and angers of this particular com- tions which frustrate us, but which, for all There is more than a little wisdom in The same holds true for those of us who munity the basic and universal struggle of kinds of reasons, we feel powerless to that line, despite its rather glib sound. struggle restlessly with the single life and all people to come together around one ever leave. Taken seriously, it is a paschal prescrip- celibacy. If we cannot get out of it, we table, to have one heart. Hence, we live in a state of dissatisfac- tion, a challenge to die so that we might will avoid a cancerous restlessness only The struggle for one community is, sin- tion and restlessness, unable really to live. by getting more deeply into it. gularly, the most difficult and demanding make peace with our lot in life and yet If you can’t get out of something . . . If we do enter more deeply into it and of all human endeavors. Your local unable to leave it either. get more deeply into it. Christ illustrated grieve properly our inconsummation we church offers you the laboratory to work Thus, we all know people who feel that what that means in his prayer in can turn that frustrated longing into a at the project. their marriages are really not good, but Gethsemane. wider hunger that creates space, All of us are unhappy in our own way, who cannot ever leave those marriages, First he prayed that he might get out of that helps us enter into a deeper mysti- be it with our marriage, our family, our just as we know people who cannot make it: “Father, let this cup pass from me.” cism within the of saints, and celibacy, our church, our career, our peace with the fact that they are not mar- Then, when he couldn’t get out of it, he which drives us outward to try to create neighborhood, our temperament, or even ried, but who themselves know that, real- got deeply into it. The result was the res- and enter human union beyond the indi- our physical appearance. If we can’t get istically, they will never be married. urrection. vidual and romantic level. out of these—get more deeply into them! : Saint of light, saint of darkness By Bishop Robert Barron exceptionally thick darkness. virtues, both natural and theological, love chapel, in the attitude she customarily Auxiliary Bishop of Los Angeles Mother’s life reveals so many aspects has no limit. Justice, limitlessly assumed when she prayed: legs folded and profiles of holiness, but I would like expressed, excludes all mercy; too much under her, palms facing upward, head Like so many others around the world, I to focus on three of them. First, she shows temperance becomes a fussy puritanism; bowed. From the very beginning of her was overjoyed to hear of the recent deci- something remarkable about love, which exaggerated courage is rashness; unlimit- community, Mother insisted that her sis- sion of the Vatican to is not a sentiment but rather willing the ed faith is credulity; infinite hope ters should engage in substantial amounts canonize Mother good of the other. I think it is fair to say devolves into presumption. But there can of prayer every day; and in time, she Teresa, a woman gen- that Mother Teresa went to extremes in never be too much love; there is never a established a branch of her order dedicat- erally recognized, dur- demonstrating love in this sense. time when love is inappropriate, for love ed exclusively to contemplative prayer. ing her lifetime, to be She renounced practically everything that, is what God is, and love constitutes the She understood something that is essential a “living saint.” in the opinion of the world, makes life very life of heaven. Mind you, in heaven to the Christian spiritual life, namely, that Mother Teresa first pleasant—wealth, material goods, power, there is no need for faith and hope fades the kind of love she and her sisters came to my attention comforts, luxuries—in order to be of serv- away. But in that supremely holy place, endeavored to practice could come only through Malcolm ice to those in need. Further, for decades, love remains in all of its infinite intensity through the grace of God, only as a sheer Muggeridge’s film and she personally reached out to the most and radicality. Mother Teresa’s way of gift. To get that gift, it was necessary to attendant book vulnerable in one of the worst slums in life, accordingly, is an icon of the love ask, to ask again, to beg one’s whole life Something Beautiful Bishop Barron the world and sent her sisters to some of that will obtain in heaven, when we are long. Without this explicit connection to for God. Of course the most disagreeable places on the plan- drawn utterly into the very life of God. God and his purposes, their work, she Muggeridge showed Mother’s work with et. Most of us, I imagine, manage to love A second feature of Mother’s holiness is knew, would turn into mere do-goodism, the dying and the poorest of the poor on to a degree, but few ever express this the- her dedication to prayer. When I visited and the egos of her sisters would the streets of Kolkata, but what moved me ological virtue more dramatically and rad- the Mother House of the Missionaries of inevitably assert themselves. Saints, those the most were the images of the saint’s ically than she did. This is not simply Charity in Kolkata some years ago, what who embody the love that God is, are smile amidst so much squalor and suffer- admirable, it constitutes a crucial witness impressed me most was a life-size statue ing. She was a very bright light shining in to the nature of love. Unlike the other of Mother Teresa in the very back of the (Please See BARRON/23) Page 18 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus Saints in the Mass / How to handle distractions in Mass By Fr. Kenneth Doyle Clement, Sixtus and Cornelius, for example, were mar- issued a letter determining that the sign of peace should Catholic News Service tyred .) My experience is that Eucharistic Prayer 1 is remain in the Mass where it had traditionally been placed. It not used often and, when it is, the priest celebrant rarely had been thought by some that this exchange might better Q. In the , we honor the saints opts to name the saints on the longer list. be placed earlier in the Mass, prior to the presentation of the Linus, Cletus, Clement, Sixtus, Cornelius, , Only the third eucharistic prayer specifically gives to the gifts, and that possibility was given serious consideration. Lawrence, Chrysogonus, John and priest the option of adding other saints -- the saint whose But the letter, issued by the Congregation for Divine Paul, Cosmas and Damian. feast is being celebrated, perhaps, or the patron saint of the Worship, explained that the present positioning highlights The church recognizes more than parish -- but my sense is that celebrants sometimes choose the unity of the congregation as it prepares to receive the 8,000 saints, many of whom are to do this regardless of which of the eucharistic prayers body and . Interestingly though, the letter much better-known than that list in they have chosen. did advert to the danger you discussed: that the motion and the Canon. Couldn't we draw more I agree with you that greater attention should be given to conversation during sign of peace could prove distracting. inspiration from saints whom we saints, particularly the more contemporary ones. In our To minimize that concern, the letter notes among other know a bit about -- perhaps St. parish, I typically give a 90-second talk at the beginning of cautions that the faithful should not move about while , St. Patrick, St. weekday Mass about the particular saint whose feast we exchanging the sign and that the priest should not leave the , St. Therese of are marking. They are our heroes in the faith, and we ought altar to greet members of the congregation. In addition, Lisieux, St. Teresa of Avila, St. Joan Doyle to keep their example in front of us. during ceremonies such as weddings and funerals, the of Arc, St. Clare, St. Augustine, St. Bernadette, St. greeting should not become the occasion for congratula- , St. , St. Benedict or Q. Why do we permit and even encourage distrac- tions and condolences, the letter said. St. Padre Pio? (Woodbridge, Virginia) tions at the most solemn times in the Mass? Soon after When it comes to singing during the distribution of the consecration, we invite people to converse with one Communion, the General Instruction of the Roman A. The Canon of the Mass to which you refer is the first another at the sign of peace, which I believe should does say (in No. 86) that the Communion chant is "to express of four general eucharistic prayers in the come much earlier in the eucharistic celebration. the spiritual union of the communicants by means of the from which the priest may select. More commonly called Then we ask them to sing during the distribution of unity of their voices" as they process to receive the Eucharist. Eucharistic Prayer 1, it is also known by its former , holy Communion. (What could be more distracting than I would think that the chant should be a familiar one, "the Roman Canon," and it served as the only eucharistic having to carry a song book up the Communion aisle -- simply sung, so that hymn books would not have to be car- prayer in the for more than a thousand years. or hearing the fellow behind you singing wildly out of ried to the altar. Also to your point, the General Instruction It mentions, first, several of our best-known saints (Mary tune?) Why not keep this period a "quiet time," as a sign of the Roman Missal, in No. 88, notes that "when the dis- and Joseph, Peter, Paul and Andrew) before listing in of our deep reverence for the presence of Jesus in the tribution of Communion is over, if appropriate, the priest parentheses a list of 21 saints that the priest may add if he sacrament? (Following Communion, after the Eucharist and the faithful pray quietly for some time." so chooses. That longer list includes the saints you men- has been returned to the tabernacle, we could then sing a Questions may be sent to Father Kenneth Doyle at askfa- tion, who -- naturally, given the prayer's early origin -- celebratory hymn of thanksgiving.) (The Bahamas) [email protected] and 40 Hopewell St. Albany, N.Y. come from the church's first few centuries. (Linus, Cletus, A. In June 2014, following lengthy discussion, the Vatican 12208. Making resolutions that extend beyond the new year

By Effie Caldarola whom lower their rates for longer-term merely sound like a good idea at the The second thing I wrote down was Catholic News Service contracts. And here's the kicker: They time? "prayer." Sometimes in January, after the count on us not showing up. The Post vis- We have to know what we really desire. mayhem of the holidays, I slide in my By now, many people have given up ited a gym that had signed up 6,000 Pope Francis recently quoted St. John of prayer routine. I'm recommitting. their resolutions. members but had a capacity to hold 300 the Cross: "In the evening of life, we will Margaret Silf, in her book "Inner A couple of articles I saw in January people at any one time. be judged on love alone." Compass," says this about prayer: "Prayer confirmed this. In one, This would be a recipe for chaos, Maybe that's what I really want: to love is time taken out of the linear journey of a local writer who except most of those paying customers better. How to get there? I'd recommend our days, and it is also our most profound exercises regularly stay home. I found those articles depress- buying a journal, a nice one on which reality." and writes for a fit- ing, because I sense the feelings of failure you'll never be tempted to write a grocery Prayer has to come first, even though it ness blog reports that many people must experience when list. came second on my list. she dreads the gym in January ends along with their commit- Pray first and ask what God wants of The third thing I noted was "healthy January. Finding a ment. I can identify. I've sometimes been you. Then write down some goals. Don't lifestyle." This is a constant challenge for parking spot is frus- on the losing end of good intentions. get too specific because as you pray your me, and I didn't put down any specifics. I trating, and the gym is That's the human condition. way through the year, God may help you hope daily abdicction will help me with so packed that you Pope Francis has announced an extraor- define or refine your goals. specifics. must wait in line for a Caldarola dinary Jubilee of Mercy extending from I found myself writing down just three Pope Francis' new book is entitled "The machine. Dec. 8, 2015, to Nov. 20, 2016. Ash things. One was simply "mercy." I want Name of God Is Mercy." It's important to But not to worry, she reports. In a few Wednesday is right around the corner on to grow in mercy. I'm starting by reread- understand that God's mercy extends to short weeks, all of those folks with good Feb. 10. The timing of these momentous ing Kerry Weber's great little book, us lavishly and returns to us over and intentions slack off and the treadmills free events offers great opportunities to "Mercy in the City -- How to Feed the over again. Don't judge yourself harshly up. explore what we really want to "resolve" Hungry, Give Drink to the Thirsty, Visit in 2016. Just keep going back to the A Washington Post article explains this and how we want to get there. the Imprisoned, and Keep Your Day Job." source of mercy, again and again, and phenomenon in economic terms. January Did all of those folks avoiding the gym I hope that at the end of 2016, my journal write down what you've learned. is money-making time for gyms, many of really want those great abs, or did it will reflect my own acts of mercy. The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 19 MERCY Encuentro (From 9) The Vatican stated that it desired to have “good preachers and compassion- mission from their bishops or superiors ate confessors” as Missionaries of — requested to serve as these special Mercy, Fr. Matthiesen said. missionaries. Missionaries were chosen from all The original plan was to have just 800 over the world, including China, the missionaries, however, the number of United Arab Emirates and East Timor. requests was so great, 1071 men ended There were to be 125 missionaries up being chosen, Archbishop Fisichella from the United States and 10 mission- said. The missionaries will serve in their aries from Canada, the council said. own dioceses, but they may be invited "It is only the pope who nominates by other bishops to visit other dioceses these missionaries, not the bishops, as well. and it is he who entrusts them with the The pontifical council will send out mandate to announce the beauty of the to all the world's bishops a list of the mercy of God while being humble and names and personal contact informa- wise confessors who possess a great tion of all the missionaries appointed capacity to forgive those who approach by the pope, the archbishop said. the confessional," the archbishop said. It will then be up to an individual Those who wanted to serve as spe- bishop to reach out to a missionary on cial missionaries, but were not chosen, the list to invite him to his diocese, as are encouraged to "work as witnesses well as cover expenses and provide of mercy in their own daily missions, what may be needed for his stay, the in the parishes, institutes, and other archbishop said. communities where they offer their “I really like the way Pope Francis is service with love," the council said on San Angelo carrying out the Year of Mercy and I’d its website, www.im.va. From left, Eddie Noriega, Tereza Rico, San Angelo Bishop Michael J. Sis, Dcn. Hector Mendez, like to promote it as much as I can,” Fr. The Catholic News Service’s Carol and Joanne and Antonio Herrera. The members are the diocesan representatives of Encuentro Matthiesen said. “I think people need to Glatz contributed to this story. V, an initiative of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Encuentro's purpose is to understand we’re not going to be judged identify and address issues and challenges faced by Hispanic Catholics. as soon as we walk into church.” MIKESKA

(From 2) with only a tarp over them to shelter pots in several villages. “Disasters like the earthquake in Nepal from the constant rains. They were hun- While Mikeska is not officially remind us that we are first members of ything from $10 donations to checks. So gry and frightened." Catholic, he said he “feels Catholic” due the human family all over planet earth many people, individuals, churches, busi- Mikeska wound up becoming an emis- to working for 23 years with Tucker – and that God is our Father and Father of nesses and foundations contributed, even sary from San Angelo, carrying $16,000 who donated millions to Catholic chari- all people wherever they might be on military from overseas, many I've never in donations that made a difference to ties and was a member of St. Joseph in earth which is our common home. In my met," the San Angelo entrepreneur said. 3,000 fragile lives, their world crumbled San Angelo. Already well known in the some 29 years in San Angelo, I often Mikeska already was well-traveled, and by an explosive 7.8-magnitude earth- Diocese, Mikeska received a lot of finan- made ecumenical appeals to help our sis- a few years ago he was looking for a way quake and ensuing mudslides in April. cial support for the Nepal mission from ters and brothers in other parts of the to make a difference. Searching online, An estimated 9,000 people had died and churches. world who were suffering because of dis- he found two young men, brothers in 3 million were displaced from their One person most familiar with asters and devastations. I pray many peo- Kathmandu, and started contributing to homes, family members and their most Mikeska, and the work of Eva Tucker, is ple will support Terry’s good efforts and help them through school. important worldly possession: the rice- retired Bishop Michael Pfeifer. to bless him and those serving with him. When the earthquake happened, cooking pot. “I admire and appreciate very much The sacred Scriptures and the teachings Mikeska was worried about his young He made the trip in late October and Terry Mikeska and what he and his com- and encouragement of all recent popes, charges, their families and countrymen. experienced not only a vastly different panions are doing to bring vital basic especially Pope Francis, remind us to see "The kids managed to Skype me after culture but also unimaginable poverty. human assistance to our sisters and broth- in each suffering person the face of five days, and I was so excited to hear His three-day flights, each way, were ers in Nepal, who have suffered much Christ.” from them, but then so sad because I funded through frequent flier miles, and because of the terrible earthquake,” said Mikeska is planning another trip later couldn't send them anything to help he usually stayed in the homes of vil- the former bishop of the San Angelo this year, this time focusing on solar because all the systems were down for lagers in the remote destinations where Diocese. “Terry has a very generous heart energy and education. quite awhile." help was most needed. His hosts and and is always concerned about helping “I would like to take a group of educa- Nightmares and sleeplessness drove guides on the mission journey were Sujan God’s people who are needy and lack the tors from Kathmandu, to improve him to make the journey to Nepal as soon and Rajan Kafle, the 19- and 23-year-old very basic necessities of life. His efforts hygiene, farming, clean water and educa- as it was accessible – despite U.S. State brothers he sponsors, and their extended are ecumenical as he is crossing religious tion for the poor kids -- and hope for a Department warnings against the trip family. lines and inviting all of God’s people to better tomorrow.” because of continuing earthquake poten- The three-week "Fill the Rice Pot" mis- share in such a worthy and necessary Donations for the Nepal mission can be sent tial and political unrest. sion managed to restock a school, library project. 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Please include less, to find joy in simple things, and to let faith, our eternal salvation, our character, world are temporary. name, address and phone number go of our inordinate attachment to material our moral integrity, and our human dignity. Sometimes we panic when everything when submitting letters. things. It is also a chance to exercise our 8. The dignity of work. seems to be going wrong. However, with God-given creativity and resourcefulness. When we lose a job in today’s economy, it our limited human capacity to understand, Maybe there will be a miracle and you is often difficult to find another job at the we are only able to see a small slice of the will win the lottery, or maybe the miracle same level of salary or prestige. Even so, pie of reality. God sees the big picture, with will be that you find the humility to live our faith tells us that, regardless of salary an eternal perspective. God is in charge, and joyfully within new limits, accepting the level, all honest work has dignity. he has our eternal best interest at heart, far loving support of family and friends. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., said, “If a beyond the passing splendors — and chal- man is called to be a street sweeper, he lenges — of this world. The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 21 POPCAK BOOK (From 7) a Seek Grace (From 10) and with enthusiasm," Father It can be next to impossible to heal some Spadaro said. you, begin mapping out exactly what changes wounds without God’s grace. Bitterness caus- heaven also are included, though Loyola Press then reached out to or effort you would need to see from that per- es us to shun God’s grace in favor of obsess- Father Spadaro was keeping those dozens of Jesuits and collaborators son to let you know that it is safe to reconcile. ing over the wound. If you are holding on to exact questions and answers under around the globe, asking them to If you are on your own, focus your energy on bitterness I encourage you to take it to confes- wraps during a late January inter- solicit questions and drawings from making a plan for how will you strive to sion. Please don’t be insulted by the sugges- view. children. Sometimes Loyola had to regain as much of what was lost/taken from tion. I know that you are the victim and you Some of the personal questions ship off crayons, markers and paper you as possible. The more you strive to find have a right to your pain. Still, holding on to made Pope Francis laugh and the because the children had none. alternative ways to recoup your losses, the less anything except God’s love, mercy and heal- pope's answers to those questions In the end, 259 children in 26 bitter you will feel even if the hurt persists. It ing grace separates from God and the life he made Father Spadaro laugh, the countries submitted questions. The can be tempting to give into feelings that wants us to have. Confession can open your Jesuit said. The pope admits in the big batch of letters are in 14 lan- “there’s nothing I can do” but resist the temp- heart to receive the healing that God wants to book that when he was small he guages and come from children in tation. In fact, if you feel this way and can’t give you. It can help you surrender the pain wanted to be a butcher because the wealthy cities, poor rural areas and think of solutions, talk to a professional to and powerlessness and begin to discover new butcher his grandmother bought meat even refugee centers. check your math before deciding that you just options. Stop hoarding your hurt. Make your from had an apron with a big pocket Choosing which letters the pope need to grieve your loss. If, after consultation, desire for healing official by taking your ten- that seemed to be full of money. would answer in the book was done you find that there really is nothing you can dency to dwell in the powerlessness to the The children's questions are "sim- with input from the children, parents, do to reclaim what was lost or taken from you, confessional and seek the grace to leave it ple, but not silly," said Father grandparents, teachers and Jesuits, focus your energy on developing new goals there. Spadaro, who discussed them with Father Spadaro said. But he went that will help you reconstruct a compelling Pope Francis and recorded his into the reserve pile and pulled out a future. The book, The Life God Wants You to a Seek Professional Help answers. few more as well. Have: Discovering the Divine Plan When If the bitterness won’t let go even after Father Spadaro heads La Civilta In August, Father Spadaro read the Human Plans Fail can be a tremendous help you’ve tried all of the above, it’s time to seek Cattolica, a Jesuit journal filled with letters out loud to the pope in Italian, for figuring out what God is calling you to professional help. Working with a professional articles on philosophy, theology, lit- but the pope also scrutinized the work toward in the next chapter of your life. can help you see possibilities that your pain erary criticism and political theory. drawings, the Jesuit said. He com- has blinded you to and give you new tools to He has never worked with young mented on the scenes and colors and a Stop Dwelling and Retelling heal the wounds that are holding you back. If children and said he was in awe of often had a good laugh over the way When we are hurt, we have a tendency to you have a faithful professional in your area how the pope handled the questions - the kids drew the pope. turn the painful events over and over in our that you have worked with before, it may be - taking them seriously and respond- For the answers, "I was not just head or tell anyone who will listen about our time to reconnect. If not, I would invite you ing to them honestly and clearly. taking dictation," Father Spadaro pain–even over and over again. It is fine to to contact us through the Pastoral Solutions Some of the pope's answers, he said. The pope enjoys a conversation; talk to people we think can help us heal the Institute to learn more about our telephone said, are "inspired." for the book, that meant the pope hurt, facilitate reconciliation or help us rebuild counseling practice. Healing is possible with "This is important," Father Spadaro would sometimes discuss the ques- our lives, but other than that, we should do the right resources. said. "It says a lot about the magis- tions and potential answers with the what we can to stop dwelling on the story of Hebrews 12:5 says, “See to it that no one terium of Pope Francis; he knows his Jesuit scribe and, often, would return our injury ourselves and stop speaking of it so falls short of the grace of God and that no bit- ministry can reach children." to add something to an answer after freely to others. When we are tempted to ter root grows up to cause trouble and defile At the request of Loyola Press, they had already moved on to other “dwell or retell” the best course of action is to many.” You don’t have to be bitter or con- Father Spadaro asked Pope Francis letters. refocus on what we can do — today — to take sumed by feelings of powerlessness and sad- last May if he would be willing to do "He's a volcano," Father Spadaro at least some small step toward refining or ness. Take action today to cooperate with the the book. The Jesuit publishing said. actualizing the plan we’ve developed in Step grace God is giving you to break free of the house had asked Father Spadaro to The pope would look off into space 2. The more you are focused on solutions, the bonds of bitterness. You can discover that approach the pope since he had con- as if picturing the children and less you will experience the sense of power- with God’s help, there is so much more to life ducted the first big interview with responding to them in person, usually lessness that comes from ruminating on the than pain. Pope Francis in 2013. in Spanish, but sometimes in Italian, hurt. "The pope said yes immediately the Jesuit said. SCHOOLS (From 5) God. conscientiousness and an eager spirit. Be porting Catholic schools, we will perpetu- Among the many other opportunities to joyful in hope, persevere in hardship; ate this “Attitude of Gratitude” for future with our children in our daily family life. show thanks, St. Ann’s students are fre- keep praying regularly; share with any of generations. Whether it be through send- I love that in a secular world, which has quently encouraged to provide service to God's holy people who are in need; look ing your children to Catholic schools, become consumed with being politically others through service projects. These for opportunities to be hospitable. donating to scholarships, or contributing correct, our children are allowed to learn projects are vital in serving the needs of (Romans 12:11-13) to the School’s Endowment Fund, it is and express their faith at St. Ann’s our community and are designed to edu- As Catholics, we have an opportunity to imperative that we support these vital School. Children who attend St. Ann’s cate children about the importance of bring love and peace to this world. We institutions. With support, Catholic School praise God every day for the gift serving the Lord and his people. must first begin by possessing an “Attitude Schools can continue to impart to our of life, love and learning. This is price- St. Ann’s students will learn the value of Gratitude.” For Thanksgiving is not a children the value of Thanksgiving and less. In this loving, thankful and safe of volunteering at a young age and will day or a season, but an attitude. As a can draw the connection between our life environment, our children can express gave thanks to the Lord for the opportuni- Diocese, in this year of Mercy, we must and the Eucharist. their love of the Lord and share that gift ty to serve others: “For In the service of always support our Catholic Schools and with their friends who share their faith in the Lord, work not halfheartedly but with the children who attend daily. By sup- Page 22 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus KNICKERBOCKER

(From 8) wisdom...a sign of Christian maturity"? (USCCB) To 20:12). Because of the brokenness in many families, grow in union with Christ, our task is to avail ourselves older adults may be called upon to provide care and sta- "Pastoral Message on Growing Older Within the Faith of the means of grace within the Church: Mass, the bility for adult children and grandchildren, as well as Community," has identified these as calls to holiness, heart of the spiritual life; regular Confession; a deeper other older adult family members in the community of community, service, and Christian maturity. The differ- prayer life--Rosary, intercession leading to contempla- the home. The older adult caregiver should reach out to ence for us older adults is our living these calls in the tion; Bible study; retreats; and other means of forma- their parish family and community agencies to get the context of major life changes: retirement from active tion. The homebound and those in residential care can help they need to carry out their labor of love and to work life and the need for meaning and purpose; illness grow in holiness through an apostolate of prayer in deal with stress, mixed emotions, and difficult deci- or disability; financial insecurity; loss of loved ones and union with Christ and Mary. Growing in holiness also sions. Sadly, many older adults have no living family or loss of independence; caring for adult children, grand- involves reflecting on our past: recognizing the good are separated from family by distance, broken relation- children, spouse and/or family members older than we; and letting go of mistakes and failures; and seeking rec- ships, or are in institutional care. They are without dealing with our past and fear of the future; facing death onciliation through forgiveness of others and ourselves. community and feel isolated and lonely. It is the parish as part of life. We are called to reflect on who we are Everyone in this life suffers because we and all cre- community that should minister to them by providing and how we relate to God and others in the face of these ation fell from God's original goodness and harmony the Sacraments, companionship, and prayer or providing and other challenges. into sin. Although most of the time we do not choose transportation to Mass, Confession, and parish activi- From the Biblical perspective, life is a continuum-- our suffering, we do choose how we respond to it. Our ties--and, when needed, by meeting material needs. the perspective of eternity for which life at every stage natural response is negative; we don't want to suffer, Finally, it is the calling, the task, of older adults--yes, is a meaningful preparation. "We need to accept old age and when it is thrust upon us, we fight it. It is only by even our responsibility--to be in service to others. As we as a stage in the journey by which Christ leads us to the the grace of God that we can begin to accept suffering grow bolder in Christ, we can make significant contri- Father's house (cf.Jn 14:2). Only in the light of faith, and offer it up to Him to be used for our eternal good butions to our family, our parish, and the larger commu- strengthened by the hope which does not deceive and the good of others. We can unite our suffering with nity by using our talents, gifts, experience, and wisdom, (cf.Rom 5:5), shall we be able to accept old age in a Christ's suffering on the cross to participate in His as our health and circumstances allow. We express our truly Christian way both as a gift and a task. That is the redemption of souls — offering our suffering for partic- gratitude to God for these gifts through the generosity of the youthfulness of spirit which we can contin- ular persons and intentions. As we grow in union with of self. We can use our expertise from our life's work in ue to cultivate in spite of the passing of years" ("The Christ, we can begin to embrace suffering, with our a variety of volunteer opportunities to effect change; we Dignity of Older People and their Mission in the Church Blessed Mother Mary. "We rejoice in our sufferings, can teach; we can speak out on pertinent issues facing and in the World," Pontifical Council for the Laity). knowing that sufferings produce endurance, and our society, especially sanctity of life and its violations With all of its difficulties, how can we think of older endurance produces character, and character produces in abortion, euthanasia, and human trafficking; we can adulthood in terms of gift? St. John Paul II in his hope, and hope does not disappoint us, because God's minister to other older adults, or we can work with chil- "Letter to the Elderly" tells us, "It remains true that the love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy dren and young people in some capacity; we can lead a years pass quickly, and the gift of life, for all the effort Spirit who has been given to us" (Rom 5:3-5). Rosary prayer group or study group. The possibilities and pain it involves, is too beautiful and precious for us Growth in holiness leads to wisdom. Wisdom does are as varied as our talents, gifts, and experience. ever to grow tired of it." We are gifted with life — not come automatically with age. It is our task to culti- A sense of humor, especially the ability to laugh at made in the image of God (Gen 1:26). We have hope vate it through prayer and reflection and an intentional ourselves, is essential for us older adults -- when we because "God is not God of the dead, but of the living" life of faith and service. Wisdom is the outgrowth of a can't recall someone's name, when we walk into a room (Lk 20:38). "I came so that they might have life and life lived in faithfulness to Christ and the Church. It is in our home and can't remember why we're there, when have it more abundantly" (Jn 10:10). Our hope is in our task to continue to grow, learn, and share our faith our "train of thought gets derailed" in the middle of a Jesus Christ through His passion, cross, resurrection, journey with others, especially younger generations-- conversation, when we can't find our car keys or cell and ascension into heaven. The human spirit remains hopefully, with our own grandchildren. phone. You fill in the blanks. (Remember to ask the vital and young if it sees itself in a continuity of life to Dealing with losses can draw us closer to Christ or prayers and assistance of St. Anthony, who is known as life as gifted by God. The ordinate response to gift is put up barriers in our relationship with Him and others. the intercessor for lost souls and lost things. We find gratitude. It is only in a spirit of gratitude that we can Two major losses are decline of our own or our spouse's ourselves carrying on a daily dialogue with him!). live through the exigencies of aging without bitterness, health — leading to loss of health, independence, and Either we can laugh at our older adult foibles or anger, resentment, or despair; there is no space for these purposefulness — and death of a spouse or late-in-life become discouraged, disgruntled, and hard to live with. in gratitude. St. said that divorce. In these and other losses we are faced with the Among the many benefits of laughter, it enhances diges- "Tribulations not only do not destroy hope; they are its need for assistance in some form. As highly as we prize tion and healing. Laughter truly is the best medicine! foundation." independence, we need to be reminded that interdepend- Not taking ourselves too seriously helps us focus In gratitude for the gift of life, we consider the tasks ence, not independence, is the true Gospel value. We are upward and outward with an attitude of gratitude, God is giving us as older adults. "The service of the called to community. We need each other and should instead of an attitude of complaining or self-pity. So be Gospel has nothing to do with age!" according to St. not fear or resist asking for and accepting help--from kind to yourself and those around you by "lightening John Paul II. Scripture gives witness to this truth family, friends, and parish, including our priest, deacon, up" as you grow older in years and bolder in Christ! through the obedience of older adults whom God called or Christian counselor. Interdependence requires that we In all of the circumstances of older adulthood, we for specific tasks: , Moses, Tobit, Elizabeth grow in humility as we relinquish some self-sufficiency. draw strength from the Sacraments, Scripture, prayer, and Zechariah, and Anna, Nicodemus, St. John, Interdependence is a means of growing in holiness. It is reaching out to others in need, and from the community and the Apostles and Church Fathers who bore witness a grace for others and ourselves. We are blessed if we of saints and angels who pray for, assist, and inspire us to their faith by martyrdom. We can think of our tasks-- are part of a family circle where we are appreciated and on our journey. We humbly ask your grace, prayers, and to be undertaken as fully as our circumstances allow--in respected for our age and wisdom and are allowed to assistance, Mother Mary, and your prayers, St. Joseph, terms of our "calls" mentioned at the beginning of this pass on our faith and family heritage. We do this by the for holy aging and holy dying. article: holiness, community, service, Christian maturity. example of our lives — in the midst of our losses and Jesus says, "Follow me" (Mt 9:9). How do we experi- suffering. Look for part 2 on older adult issues in the March ence and respond to these calls "especially the call to Increasingly, older adults are caring for their elderly Angelus. holiness which embraces all other calls and leads to parents, in their home or in residential care (cf. Ex The Angelus FEBRUARY 2016 Page 23 WOO FREEDOM CLASS {From 10) (From 14) (From 16) university. And in the sporting culture of America, who would to "the freedom to choose what is good and true." the continuously changing requirements and Washington. not know Muhammad Ali? The third fundamental cultural problem is the view opportunities can be challenging,” she says. Muslims continue to be part Shaquille O'Neal? Kareem that our freedoms are given to us by the state and not “The program ensures that parents are well of the U.S. military. They con- Abdul-Jabbar? God, he said. aware of all the existing opportunities and are tributed innovations that built Extremism is a scourge, but "I think the challenges we see to religious freedom provided support in accessing them.” America: Fazlur Rahman Khan let us fight this by reaching out today stem from roots like these, whether it's Ashaa describes how the educational support devised the structural system of to and encountering Muslims. Christians being beheaded in the Middle East or the has improved her family’s overall outlook: frame tubes that enabled sky- Isn't this the point that Pope tendencies of so-called liberal democracies to manage “On Caritas school days, my kids wake up scrapers including the Sears Francis made at a mosque dur- religion, such as we see in the HHS mandate or the early and wait outside for the bus,” she says. Tower and Trump International ing his trip to the Central Africa difficulties that individuals, institutions and religious “Even me. When Caritas calls about an event, Hotel and Tower in Chicago; Republic, "Together, we must groups experience. … If you challenge one fundamen- I get really excited because I usually have Ayub Ommaya invented the say no to hatred, to revenge and tal freedom, you challenge them all," he said. nothing to do. But after I attend a session at intraventricular catheter system to violence, particularly that Archbishop Lori added, "The defense of religious Caritas, I go home with a lot of energy.” for relieving cerebrospinal fluid; violence that is perpetrated in liberty is, at the same time, the defense of human dig- Ashaa and her family face an uncertain Ernest Hamwi concocted the the name of a religion or of God nity and the common good of society. It is fundamen- future. But Ryan warns that there is great dan- first edible waffle cone that himself" In the Gospel, fear is tal to the task of building a civilization of love. It is ger in leaving such families behind. makes ice cream street vending not countered by security, but fundamental toward … rebuilding the fabric of our “Without the academic rigor and sense of something we all enjoy; Ahmed by love. society." He noted that the defense of religious liberty normalcy and structure that attending school Zewail, Nobel Laureate in --- is essential to the outward-reaching ministries of faith provides, these children risk suffering from chemistry, situates his research Woo is president and CEO of organizations. "It is these ministries precisely that are unhealed emotional wounds, and they lose out and teaching at a leading U.S. Catholic Relief Services. in the crosshairs of our society today." on educational development,” Ryan says. “This could have a profound impact on Syria’s BARRON long-term resiliency and recovery.” What can you do to help? 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How do I make sure my gift is going to the West Texas Emergency Fund? saintly foundress, which read, to his me?” To allow Christ to live his life in By Check: If you would like to support this effort, infinite surprise, “Where is Jesus?” That you is, therefore, necessarily to experi- please write West Texas Emergency Fund on the memo line of your SAINTS checks and send to: Catholic Relief Services P.O. Box 17526 Baltimore, MD 21298-8180 (From 7) By Phone: Call 877-435-7277 from 8 a.m. to 11 but relied instead on prayer, fasting, ing of the great Benedictine abbey at p.m. Eastern Time.(Please indicate West Texas dialogue and fatherly admonitions. He Ramsey. Emergency Fund) the king’s request, and with Pope John gained a great reputation for his love of He died on Leap Year Day, February Online: Donate.crs.org/emergencies XIII’s permission, he became archbish- the poor. Sean Kelly and Rosemary 29, 992 while washing the feet of the Under special request at the end of the form, op while remaining bishop of Rogers describe him in “Saints Preserve 12 poor men near his monastery. please write West Texas Emergency Fund. Worcester. Burns explains that this Us!” as a man of political savvy as well According to Burns, this was his daily Finally, if you would like to be put in touch with a representative with CRS to learn more about our arrangement may have been done to as personal piety. custom every day throughout Lent. work, please send your request to Jimmy Patterson share the resources between the rich Farmer writes in the “Oxford Prior to the 1930s, his feast day was at [email protected]. and powerful see of Worcester and the Dictionary of Saints” that he remained celebrated only in leap years. His feast You can also visit www.crs.org to learn more poorer see of York. It was abolished in an influential diocesan bishop until his is not on the . about the impact Catholics are making throughout 1061. death, administering his two dioceses, His relics are in the priory Church of the world. Many biographers agree that Oswald building churches and acting as judge. St. Mary in Worcester. Thank you for your careful consideration around supporting the West Texas Emergency Fund. was not heavy handed in his reforms, His lasting achievement was the found- Page 24 FEBRUARY 2016 The Angelus OBISPO

(Para 3) “Un amigo fiel es una protección segura; los demás. Siempre hay algunos que lo 9. El significado Cristiano el que lo encuentra ha encontrado un tienen peor que nosotros. Debemos bus- del sufrimiento. ¿Acaso pueden beber este trago amargo tesoro.” (Eclesiástico 6:14) car la manera de llegar y ayudar, hasta de Para el Cristiano, el sufrimiento no es que voy a beber yo, y recibir el bautismo nuestra propia pobreza. sin significado. Dios está con nosotros en que yo voy a recibir? (Marcos 10:38) 4. La oportunidad de crecer en San Francisco de Asís oró: “Oh, nuestro sufrimiento. Jesucristo se permi- En tiempos de lucha, es fácil empezar a las virtudes. Divino Maestro, concédeme que no tió a sí mismo a pasar por sufrimiento, y culpar a Dios, como si Dios no estuviera Cuando practicamos buenos hábitos y busque ser consolado sino consolar.” él está con nosotros cuando sufrimos. Él haciendo bien su trabajo. Sin embargo, actitudes, con el tiempo se convierten en Cuando hemos sido heridos por la nos ayuda a cargar nuestra cruz, y Dios no nos debe la riqueza material o la una parte permanente de nuestro carácter. vida, y tratamos de ayudar a sanar a abrazamos nuestra cruz en unión amorosa salud completa como un tipo de recom- Pasando por tiempos difíciles nos presen- otros, nos convertimos en lo que el Padre con él cuando decidimos conectar nuestro pensa por nuestra fe en él. ta la oportunidad especial de practicar Henri Nouwen llama “sanadores heri- sufrimiento con el sufrimiento de él. virtudes particulares que nos ayudan a dos,” capaces de la verdadera compasión Cuando San Pablo reflexionó sobre su 2. Cuente sus bendiciones. seguir a Cristo con mayor fidelidad en los y el amor de Cristo. propia experiencia de la debilidad, de las Cuando los tiempos son difíciles, debe- altibajos. Estas virtudes incluyen la dificultades y calamidades, dijo, “Tres mos contar nuestras bendiciones y humildad, la sencillez, la paciencia, la 7. Su verdadero valor. veces le he pedido al Señor que me quite reconocer las muchas maneras en que moderación, el autocontrol, la fortaleza, Con demasiada frecuencia nos senti- ese sufrimiento; pero el Señor me ha Dios nos ha ayudado. La gratitud es un la generosidad, el ahorro, la laboriosidad, mos tentados a evaluarnos a nosotros dicho: ‘Mi amor es todo lo que necesitas; antídoto poderoso contra los males espiri- la solidaridad, y vivir dentro de nuestros mismos según los recursos financieros y pues mi poder se muestra mejor en los tuales de tener lástima por uno mismo y límites. las cosas materiales. Sin embargo, no es débiles.’ Así que me alegro de ser débil, la desesperación. Una recesión económica es una gran el tamaño de nuestra casa o nuestra cuen- para que en mí se muestre el poder de Hasta en medio de nuestras luchas, oportunidad para todos nosotros para ta bancaria que nos da valor. Nuestro ver- Cristo.” (II Cor. 12:8-9) Si fuéramos per- Dios nos está amando con un amor eter- aprender el estar contentos con menos, de dadero valor como seres humanos se basa fectos, no necesitaríamos un Salvador. no. Él todavía nos ama y nos cuida, inclu- encontrar alegría en las cosas sencillas, y en el hecho de que hemos sido creados a San Pedro también estaba familiariza- so cuando él no nos hace ricos. de dejar a lado nuestro apego excesivo a la imagen y semejanza de Dios. do con el sufrimiento, y él consideró que Deberíamos de darle gracias todos los las cosas materiales. También es una Esto es lo que conduce al salmista a días, hasta por las cosas más básicas, oportunidad de ejercer nuestra creatividad orar a Dios, “Tú fuiste quien formó todo tiene un efecto purificador en nosotros. Él como el aire, el agua y la vida. e ingenio que Dios nos ha dado. mi cuerpo; tú me formaste en el vientre escribió: “Por esta razón están ustedes Deberíamos hasta darle gracias a Dios Tal vez habrá un milagro y usted de mi madre. Te alabo porque estoy mar- llenos de alegría, aunque quizá sea nece- por la roca que se encuentra en medio de ganará la lotería, o tal vez el milagro será avillado, porque es maravilloso lo que sario que durante en poco de tiempo nuestro camino, ya que ofrece una opor- el de encontrar la humildad para vivir con has hecho.” (Salmo 139: 13-14) pasen por muchas pruebas. Porque la fe tunidad para crecer más fuerte al subir alegría dentro de los nuevos límites, acep- Hay algunas cosas que son más impor- de ustedes es como el oro: su calidad sobre ella. tando el apoyo amoroso de familiares y tantes que el dinero. Estos incluyen nues- debe ser probada por medio del fuego – amigos. tra fe, nuestra salvación eterna, nuestro al ser así probada, merecerá aprobación, 3. Considere donde se encuentra su carácter, nuestra integridad moral, y nues- gloria y honor cuando Jesucristo aparez- verdadero tesoro. 5. Todos nos turnamos. tra dignidad humana. ca.” (I Pedro 1:6-7) Jesucristo dijo: “No amontonen Muchos de nosotros hemos sido entre- riquezas aquí en la tierra, donde la polilla nados a tener un espíritu feroz de inde- 8. La dignidad del trabajo. 10. Mantener una perspectiva eterna. destruye y las cosas se echan a perder, y pendencia individual, para poder levan- Cuando perdemos un trabajo en la Este mundo no es todo lo que hay. No donde los ladrones entran a robar. Más tarnos por nuestros propios medios. Por economía de hoy, a menudo es difícil importa la cantidad de dinero que bien amontonen riquezas en el cielo, lo tanto, resulta difícil aceptar la ayuda de encontrar otro trabajo al mismo nivel de podríamos tener en la tierra, no podemos donde la polilla no destruye ni las cosas otros, o el pedir ayuda cuando la necesita- salario o prestigio. Aun así, nuestra fe nos llevarlo con nosotros cuando morimos. se echan a perder ni los ladrones entran a mos. Algunas personas lo consideran dice que, independientemente del nivel de Jesús nos enseña en las robar. Pues donde está tu riqueza, allí como una señal de debilidad el dejar que salario, todo trabajo honesto tiene dig- Bienaventuranzas: “Dichosos ustedes los estará también tu corazón.” (Mateo 6:19- otros nos ayuden. nidad. pobres, pues el reino de Dios les 21) Sin embargo, la realidad es que todos El Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., dijo: pertenece.” (Lucas 6:20) El Reino de Jesús nos enseña a no poner nuestra fe hacemos turnos en ayudar a los demás y “Si un hombre está llamado a ser barren- Dios permanece por toda la eternidad, en las cosas materiales, sino más bien de ser ayudados, dependiendo de las circun- dero, debería barrer las calles, tal como mientras que toda la riqueza y los reinos apoyarnos en Dios. Esta actitud ha sido stancias. Este es el ritmo normal de la Michelangelo pintó, o Beethoven compu- de este mundo son temporales. actualmente impreso como un recordato- vida. En un matrimonio, en la familia, y so música o como Shakespeare compuso A veces nos entra el pánico cuando rio en cada moneda estadounidense: “En en todas las comunidades humanas, hay poesía. Debería barrer tan bien que todos todo parece ir mal. Sin embargo, con Dios confiamos.” momentos en que damos ayuda, y otros los ejércitos de los cielos y la tierra nuestra capacidad humana limitada de Siempre debemos orar, pidiendo a momentos en que la recibimos. Hasta tomarán una pausa para decir: “Aquí entender, sólo podemos ver una pequeña Dios por lo que necesitamos. Luego, Jesús mismo en ocasiones pidió ayuda y vivió un gran barrendero que hizo su tra- parte de la realidad. Dios ve el panorama debemos orar para ser capaces de confiar apoyo. Necesitamos abrazar humilde- bajo muy bien.” general, a lo largo plazo, con una per- en las respuestas de Dios, que podrían o mente este hecho básico de la vida. Sea que tenemos que barrer las calles o spectiva eterna. Dios está a cargo, y él no ser exactamente lo que teníamos en escarbar zanjas, cada uno de nosotros tiene nuestro mejor interés eterno en el mente. 6. Tenga en cuenta la situación puede hacer algo. Con la fuerza de Dios, fondo, más allá de los esplendores – o En tiempos de adversidad, también de los demás. nos levantamos, ponemos un pie delante dificultades – pasajeros de este mundo. llegamos a realizar la importancia de No importa lo difícil de nuestra del otro, y damos un paso en la dirección nuestra familia y de los amigos ver- situación, siempre debemos mirar a nue- correcta. daderos. El libro del Eclesiástico dice, stro alrededor y considerar la situación de