July 20, 2018 | Volume XVI, Issue 6

By Bill Redmond-Palmer Last month, computer engineer and busi- First Trans Candidate vention floor vote to nominate and then ness executive Sharon Brackett became elect the first black governor of Boys State the first to be elected to an New York. Since then I was hooked. Elec- official office in a contested election in to Win Contested MD Race Reflects tion night with my kids was always like a Maryland. Brackett prevailed in a prima- tween Buffalo and Rochester. I had a good since 1990! This is home. I can’t think of holiday. We would color in maps, ry against 14 other candidates. She was middle-class childhood. Mom was a nurse, another place to be. á la Tim Russert, in front of elected to the District 46 Democratic Cen- and dad was a haberdasher. We did not How did you get interested the TV for presidential tral Committee, representing the Baltimore have a lot but we never really “wanted” for in politics? elections. Later when neighborhoods of Canton, Locust Point, anything either. I went to college In 1978, while it came time to get Federal Hill, Brooklyn, Curtis Bay, and at Syracuse University where I still in high school, some non-discrim- Cherry Hill. She placed third out of 15 can- studied computer engineering. Af- An I attended the ination legislation didates in her very first run for office. ter college I had a number of jobs interview American Le- passed in Mary- I’ve known and respected Sharon for in various companies but almost gion’s Boys State land my interest many years and appreciated the opportu- always found myself in charge of with Sharon of New York. We was renewed. nity to ask her questions about her election the project or department at each had a mock gov- You’ve just victory. within six months. Eventually I Brackett ernment complete been elected to the Bill Redmond-Palmer: Have you started forming my own compa- with political parties, Democratic Central been in the Baltimore area all your life? nies and building businesses. We moved conventions, elections, and then Committee for Dis- Tell me a little about your life growing to Maryland in 1989 and raised a family we governed (for a week). I was the trict 46. What are some Sharon Brackett up. here but have always been Baltimore cen- party chair for my county and was credit: Tom Hausman / of your goals and priorities? Sharon Brackett: My mom was born in tric. I mean, I’ve had O’s season tickets wheeling and dealing on the con- Washington Blade —continued on page 3 Baltimore in 1937 but later moved away. I like to think Baltimore is in the blood. I grew up in Batavia, New York – a small town be-

five. I was hoping to get the al- Addiction & His Muse bum all done before I got to By Gregg Shapiro less, Grand knows his fan-base well enough Provincetown (in the summer of 2017). I was When it comes to al- to also include the kinds of songs his devot- going to do a shorter version of an album. bum titles, singer / ed followers will appreciate, as in the case But it’s such a time commitment being out songwriter Steve Grand of “You or the Music.” We here and promoting the show. I came up with a good spoke about the new album Gay singer / was flying out on the weekends, one for his second al- and his newfound clarity in so I didn’t have any time to record. bum. Not the End of Me July 2018, while Grand was songwriter One of the first things I no- (Stevegrand.com), on doing his Provincetown res- ticed about the songs on Not which Grand deals with idency. Steve Grand on The End of Me is that you are his pre-sobriety down- Gregg Shapiro: When his whole new doing different things with your ward spiral, is definitely we spoke in late spring voice, for example the gor- fitting. Facing his de- 2017, I asked you about beginning geous vulnerability of “Can’t mons head on, Grand being “laser-focused” on Go Back.” Can you please say has written some of his your second album and you mentioned something about that? most visceral songs for having just written and recorded a cho- I wanted the sentiment of the song to this album (check out rus, as well as the production work you be reflected in the way I was singing it. With “Disciple”). Neverthe- were doing. How much of what you were this album I was more focused on being truly creating at that time ended up on what is honest and vulnerable instead of just mak- Steve Grand – Touring now Not The End of Me? ing something that was as mass-appealing with the release of his Steve Grand: At that time I think I was as possible. I allowed my voice to do what second album really refining my song “Safe and Sound” it was going to do. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve credit: William Dick which is on the new record, track number —continued on page 17 Co-Publishers Jim Becker • Jim Williams [email protected]

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2 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com news // local First Trans Candidate to Win Contested MD Race Reflects ● Elder Law —continued from page 1 pretty quickly in matters of interest. ● Estate Planning At the time of this interview I am run- What are some of the achievements ning to be the first vice chair of the citywide or work you have done in the communi- ● Family Law delegation. Who knows if I will win that ty that you are most proud of? ● Guardianship or not – I guess we will know by the time I founded Gender Rights Maryland and this is published. My key goals are get the have served as its board chair since 2011. ● Mediation committee’s communications up to stan- We were a driving organization in the pas- ● Medicaid Planning & dards to get voters engaged. This includes sage of gender-identity protections in How- Qualification a reworked website and social media pres- ard (2011) and Baltimore (2012) counties ence. Being a “techie” I can bring my engi- and Maryland’s Bill (2014). ● Personal Injury neer expertise to bear there. Beyond that In 2009, I co-founded TransParent Day, held ● Probate we need to make some structural changes on the first Sunday in November, as a hol- to the by-laws on the committee – things iday for trans parents and parents of trans ● Veteran's Benefits like not holding two offices at once and kids as an alternative to Mother’s Day or Fa- ● LGBTQIA Matters voting for yourself when applying to fill a ther’s Day. In 2012 I was one of the four co- vacancy. Between now and November, I chairs of the Creating Change Conference Call ERA Law Group Today am hoping we make the governor a private Host Committee held in Baltimore. In 2014 (410) 919-1790, or visit us at citizen and say the same in 2020 for the I was named Baltimore Pride Activist of the occupant of the White House. Democrats Year. Since 2013 I have served on the board 1997 Annapolis Exchange Pkwy, need to show up to vote and we need to of the Point Foundation, the national LGBTQ Suite 300, Annapolis, MD 21401 get them excited about doing so! scholarship organization. I also serve on the You are the first person OutServe-SLDN board of directors, the lead- Valerie E. Anias, Esq. to be elected to an official office in the ing national advocacy and legal organization [email protected] state in a contested election. How will for LGBTQ servicemembers, veterans, and this impact your work? Or the political their families, the group currently suing Don- landscape in Maryland? ald Trump related to his actions against trans I’d like to believe that being trans is people in the military. the least interesting thing about me, but I What is one thing you’ve learned recognize the significance and the impor- that you think people should know? tance that this moment brings especially to I’ve learned that if you do not ask the thousands of trans individuals like myself question the answer is already no, so ask who may have previously thought public anyway. I’ve learned that the people of office was unattainable. This victory is a Maryland, for the most part, are support- testament that with hard work, dedication, ive of our community, even if they do not and an infectious optimism that regardless yet understand us. I’ve also learned that if of your gender identity one can serve the you meet one trans person, you have met public in any capacity. one trans person. Our community is not How and when did you get actively monolithic and we have diversity within the involved in the LGBTQ community? diversity. Lastly there is a lot of work to be It was pretty coincident with my transi- done, especially if we want to be a part of Boosting empowerment and breaking the bonds

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area of the Howard County executive staff. president. “While we understand everyone Andrew Howard “I am proud to be the first LGBTQ liai- is busy serving the needs of our communi- July Lunch Patrol: son for Howard County,” says Howard. “I’m ty, waiting until the last couple hours of our Named LGBTQ excited to combine my work for the com- cycle to hit that send button can jeopardize South Baltimore munity on the county executive’s LGBTQ your application’s being accepted, partic- Liaison in Howard Roundtable, the HoCo Pride Committee, ularly if the application is not complete or On July 29th, join B & Dee’s Baltimore and the One Howard initiative.” needs clarification, or if technical issues Love for their July edition of Lunch Patrol, Andrew Howard can be reached by arise. We look forward to receiving and re- focused on South Baltimore. The group County calling 410-313-2042 or by email at ahow- viewing the many great programs and ser- will distribute brown-bag lunches to area t By Steve Charing [email protected]. vices that our grantees always present.” homeless, a staple of Lunch Patrol. The Andrew Howard has been designated by BHT has awarded 1,098 grants to- County Executive Allan H. Kittleman as the taling some $3 million since 1978 to 194 non-profits. For more info visit Brother- first LGBTQ Liaison in the county. The pur- Ziascoz Hosts Trevor t pose of this position is to ensure the coun- helpthyself.org/grant-application. ty government is accessible to the LGBTQ Project Benefit Show community by having a direct person to call. A benefit for the Trevor Project – a nation- “Andrew brings a great depth of empa- al group providing crisis intervention and Maryland LGBT thy and understanding to his work with my suicide prevention services to LGBTQ friends in the LGBTQ community,” Kittle- youth – is set for July 29th from 9:30 pm Candidate Follow-up man told Baltimore OUTloud. “As I have to 2 am at Ziascoz Bar-Lounge (1313 East seen with his leadership in coordinating Pratt Street, Baltimore). Doors open at Baltimore OUTloud’s July 6th article “LGBT the County Executive’s LGBTQ Roundta- 8:30. The show will be hosted by Helena Candidates Contend, Sometimes Prevail, Hologram. The show will feature Mr. and in MD Dem Primaries” invited any LGBTQ Miss Ziascoz, Inferno Sephora, and Tania candidates who had been mentioned to Lashay. Admission is $5. For more info, it’s get in touch. What follows is the story of a Bit.ly/2JtBt0Z. t groundbreaking candidate we missed. meeting point will be announced. Dona- Byron E. Macfarlane has been an out tions and volunteers are needed. All are welcome. For info and the gathering lo- cation, stay tuned to the Facebook event Brother Help page atBit.ly/2uN2h7l. t Thyself’s 2018 Grant Applications Open Crowning of Miss

Brother Help Thyself (BHT) awards grants Gay Maryland annually in the HIV and LGBT / same-gen- der-loving area, and applications will be The crowning of the first-ever Miss Gay accepted online until 11:59 pm on August Maryland Icon is set for July 23rd at 8 pm 31st. Groups need to have annual budgets at The Nest (2022 North Charles Street, under $2 million. In the past, BHT support Baltimore). Admission is $5. Doors open at 7 pm. The event will be hosted by Erika Andrew Howard – Let’s liase! has been directed to athletic, cultural, edu- cational, health, history-related, and social Chloe Adams. It will feature performances ble, he helps put into practice my goals programs. by Faleasha Savage, Stephanie Michaels, of making certain that every individual in New this year, BHT will also award two Gabrielle Remsen Ruby, Sir Charles, and Howard County is treated with respect and Billy McCoy Thompson, Jr. Memorial non- Prynce Sephora. For more info it’s Bit. t appreciation.” grant awards of $2,500 each to groups ly/2zKwWI5. Kittleman adds, “I am proud of the serving youth – more details coming by the Byron E. Macfarlane – Where there’s a will, progress we are making, and I’m fortunate end of July. he’s the way to have Andrew working with all of us as Apply early, says Andrew McCarty, BHT we move forward together.” Howard grew up in the Valley Mede candidate since his first race in 2010. He neighborhood of Ellicott City. He began just won the Democratic nomination in the his involvement in helping the community primary election for register of wills for through the Boy Scouts. He studied politics Howard County. Macfarlane was first elect- and Spanish at New York University, where ed in 2010 as the first openly LGBTQ can- he developed a passion for helping others didate in Howard County and was re-elect- succeed by working with America Reads ed in 2014. and the Boys Club of New York. He will face a Republican challenger Howard was a high school Spanish in the November general election, but has teacher before joining County Executive the advantage of being a twice-elected in- Allan Kittleman’s team working in the con- cumbent. t stituent service and community outreach – Bill Redmond-Palmer

4 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com beyond the beltway compiled by Jim Becker ery aspect of American life,” Griffin added. knew everything about him.” She had pho- Director David Greene wrote. “Although “The 2018 midterm elections just became tos, knew where he lived, where he worked the law was passed by Congress for the Trump court the most consequential elections of our and the names of two of his three sisters worthy purpose of fighting sex trafficking, lifetime, and we must seize the opportuni- and where they lived. She threatened to its broad language makes criminals of pick likely ty to pull the emergency brake on this re- show the nude photos and the Grindr con- those who advocate for and provide re- gime. We need to vote this November like versations to his family and his boss. “I sources to adult, consensual sex workers dangerous to our lives depend on it – because they do.” thought I was talking to a 20-year-old guy. and actually hinders efforts to prosecute (Seattle Gay News – Mike Andrew at Sgn. I had no reason to think I was dealing with sex traffickers and aid victims.” FOSTA LGBTQ rights org/sgnnews46_28/page2.cfm) some underage kid.” “is the most comprehensive censorship of Grindr’s terms of use require users to Internet speech in America in the last 20 Washington, DC – US Supreme Court be at least 18 years old. years,” Greene said. nominee Brett Kavanaugh has one friend Swartz said he warned the scammers The law conflates trafficking with all and many enemies. Fortunately for his ca- Scammers on that they were guilty of fraud trying to scam sex work. Despite Congress’s stated pur- reer, that one friend is the president, Don- money from his client. But the woman was pose of stopping sex trafficking, FOSTA ald Trump. But his nomination has brought Grindr target persistent, and when she didn’t stop call- barely distinguishes between trafficking together a host of critics from both sides of ing or texting, he started asking very direct and consensual sex work. the political spectrum. Kavanaugh’s main for questions, such as what school her son The 1996 Communications Decency virtue in Trump’s eyes is no doubt his 2009 had attended. At that point the calls and Act provides website operators with broad Minnesota Law Review article, in which he money the texts stopped, but the scammers had immunity for hosting third-party content, argues that US presidents should be ex- one more trick. A very tall young man who but FOSTA eliminates that immunity for Dallas – It shouldn’t be news to any- appeared to be in his 20s approached him content that promotes or facilitates pros- one that Grindr and similar apps can be outside of his job and said, “[m]y mom and titution. dangerous with men being attacked and I have come to collect the extra $400 you Operators of websites that let sex robbed. But the app is being used to tar- owe us.” The client told him he could con- workers interact with clients could thus get gay men in other, perhaps less violent tact his lawyer but he wasn’t paying him any face 25 years in prison under the new but no less damaging ways as well. Dal- more money. Swartz said, the first thing to law. The complaint asks the court to de- las attorney Adam Swartz has warned of do, he continued, is to “call your attorney.... clare that FOSTA is unconstitutional and scammers using Grindr to target gay men and completely disengage with those folks. to permanently enjoin the US from enforc- and extort money by later claiming to be Ignore them, and under no circumstances ing it. (Arstechnica.com – Jon Brodkin at underage and threatening to turn the men should you hand over any money. (Dallas Arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2018/06/an- into police. Swartz said a client had con- Voice – Tammye Nash at Dallasvoice.com/ ti-sex-trafficking-law-illegally-censors-in- You scratch my back... Trump and Kavanaugh tacted him “in an absolute panic. He told its-a-trap-10255032.html) ternet-lawsuit-says/) me, ‘I don’t know what to do. I just gave empt from “time-consuming and distract- these people $800. I think I made a huge ing” lawsuits and investigations. Others mistake.’” who don’t share Trump’s fixation on his Swartz’s client had communicated EFF: net own fortunes are less enthusiastic. The fu- through Grindr with someone who said riously anti-LGBT American Family Associ- he was 20 years old and had a girlfriend, censorship law ation was supporting Christian cult mem- ber Amy Coney Barrett, and denounced invalid Kavanaugh. But the anti-LGBT marriage group the National Organization for Mar- Washington, DC – Arstechnica.com riage supports it. reports that the Electronic Frontier Foun- HRC President Chad Griffin warned dation has asked a court to invalidate a that Kavanaugh was bad news for the new anti-prostitution law, saying that it More talking, less rutting LGBT community. “In nominating Brett amounts to unconstitutional censorship Kavanaugh, Donald Trump has followed of the Internet. The Fight Online Sex Traf- through on his threat to nominate a jus- ficking Act (FOSTA) was approved by Con- tice who would undermine LGBTQ equality, gress and signed by President Trump in Australian state women’s reproductive rights, and afford- so he had to be “discreet.” After the two April. Websites responded to the new law able health care,” Griffin said in a state- had exchanged photos, however, the cli- by shutting down sex-work forums, poten- passes verbal ment. “Now, the Senate has a responsi- ent was quickly contacted via text and tially endangering sex workers who used bility to fulfill its constitutional duty, serve by phone by a woman claiming to be the the sites to screen clients and avoid dan- consent law as a check on this reckless president, and young man’s mother, who told the client gerous situations. reject Brett Kavanaugh’s nomination.” that her son was in fact a 15-year-old high The EFF filed the lawsuit in US District Sydney, Australia – Yahoo.com and “This nominee was hand-picked by an- school student who had just gotten caught Court for the District of Columbia on behalf the New York Post write that the nuances ti-LGBTQ, anti-choice groups in an explic- showing friends at school the nude photos of several plaintiffs. “In our lawsuit, two of sexual consent have been on the table it effort to undermine equality – and the the client had sent him on Grindr. “He sent human rights organizations, an individ- recently thanks to the #MeToo movement, prospect of a Justice Kavanaugh threat- me a nude photo supposedly of himself. I ual advocate for sex workers, a certified and one state in Australia is trying to clar- ens to erode our nation’s civil rights laws, stupidly sent him two nude photos of me, non-sexual massage therapist, and the ify what consent should actually look like. block transgender troops from bravely one that showed my face,” the client told Internet Archive, are challenging the law The new law states, in effect, that if you serving this nation, and allow a license to Dallas Voice. Even more frightening, the as an unconstitutional violation of the First want to have sex you must ask for it clearly, discriminate against LGBTQ people in ev- client said, was the fact that the woman and Fifth Amendments,” EFF Civil Liberties —continued on page 8

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 5 VoiceVoice ofof thethe CenterCenter this city and area we call home. I am GLCCB Volunteer of the Dear Community: your brother, your friend, and your comrade in times of joy and struggle, We are living in a time of tremendous trial and triumph. My vow to this com- Month Award - June 2018 confusion coupled with the efforts of munity today is that the GLCCB Board The Volunteer of the Month Award some to return to an era of outright is here to respond to your needs and was created to honor volunteers hate toward our community. And your wishes for the Center. In the who are reliable, helpful, and ded- while we have marriage equality and days to come, we hope to create, icated to helping the Gay, , the Fairness for All Marylanders Act, strengthen, restore, and rebuild your Bisexual, and Transgender Commu- trust in the Center as well as making there are still times when we must nity Center of Baltimore and Central sure your Center responds to your re- not only fight for our rights but indeed Maryland (GLCCB) achieve its mis- quests and is a place that addresses demonstrate our own humanity, repel- sion. ling bigotry and violence. These are your essential desires. Each month, a “Volunteer of the indeed perilous times featuring dai- It is not lost on me that this is Month” is selected by the GLCCB ly headlines of harassment, assault, a history making moment for Balti- Staff. The winner will be highlighted and violence against LGBTQ people. more’s LGBTQ community. To knowl- Our own Center, the GLCCB, edge, I am the first transgender per- in Baltimore OutLOUD Newspaper which should be an oasis of com- son to be elected Board President. and on our Facebook page as the passion and calm for us, has been With Emma Mays being Vice Presi- GLCCB’s Volunteer of the Month in turmoil. Although this state of tur- dent and Kayla Tullis being Secretary and presented with a $25 Gift Card. moil isn’t new, it is vitally important in of the Board, this is the first time in these times that we truly have a place the 40 year history of the Center that Criteria of safety, stability, and peace. With the top 3 positions of its board are • All who have served in a vol- this in mind, the Board of the GLCCB occupied by transgender and gender unteer capacity within the calendar elected me as Board President. non-conforming people. It is a sign of month are eligible for the award. Karen Remaley I humbly accept this position be- promise and hope that the most mar- • The volunteer upholds the val- cause I believe in us. I believe in our ginalized members of our community ues and mission of the GLCCB. in a warm, loving way. community. I honor the history of our are visible and in leadership. • The volunteer displays con- How long have you been volun- LGBTQ ancestors who sacrificed so With that said, this is not just a sin- sistent adherence to their chosen teering? much so that we could live in a world gular effort by a few people. We need schedule: volunteers should arrive I have been volunteering at the where our humanity is respected. I the whole community to be involved in on time and check in with a GLC- GLCCB for about a year. revitalizing the Center. This is an “us” honor our youth who continue to rad- CB staff member to receive instruc- What inspires your work with project. The Board needs the commu- ically be themselves in the midst of tions. the GLCCB? nity’s help. We cannot help the Center these turbulent times. And I honor our • The volunteer has a cooper- As a Black bisexual woman, I know by ourselves. We humbly ask you to elders who stalwart resistance to hate ative attitude & contributes to the that there are many different faces, has given us the foundation to live life volunteer at the Center, donate your Center’s success. presentations, and gender identities in dignity. time and resources to the Center, • The volunteer has demonstrat- represented in the LGBTQ+ communi- My vision for the Center is that we and to work with the Board in creat- ed outstanding contributions to the ty, and I seek to demonstrate my sup- are zeroed in on the health, life, and ing a Center for us and by us. Unity Center & went above and beyond well-being of our entire community. At is the way to move forward. To quote port for all of them. the heart of our mission, we seek to the motto on the coat of arms on the expectations. What is your favorite thing about empower all the members of our com- Haitian flag: L’Union Fait La Force • The volunteer has helped build volunteering for the GLCCB? munity to live their best lives, brim- (“Unity Makes Strength”). And with community capacity by encouraging I enjoy seeing and getting to know ming with the drive to cultivate our that, I look forward to working side by others, in helping them to achieve members of the community who aren’t humanity to its highest potential. We side with you to make the Center a their potential. the mainstream face of the LGBTQ+ are striving to develop programming place for each and every one of us. The GLCCB is proud to acknowl- community due to race, age, socio- that aims to do just that. And we are Pa’lante (Forward). edge Karen Remaley as our GLCCB economic status, or gender identity or working with our existing programs in Volunteer of the Month for June. expression. I’ve had an opportunity to support of this mission. In community, Karen has been a friendly and wel- have thought-provoking conversations I consider myself, first and fore- Br. Merrick Moses+, NOSB coming presence at our front desk with amazing and interesting people I most, a servant of the people. I am Board President for the past year. She has embraced might not otherwise meet. I also enjoy another laborer in the vineyards of GLCCB our staff and community members assisting the staff as much as I can.

6 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com THE LATEST UPDATES FROM THE GAY, LESBIAN, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY CENTER OF BALTIMORE AND CENTRAL MARYLAND

Events Calendar: July - August 2018 Sundays Mondays Tuesdays Wednesdays Thursdays Fridays Saturdays 07/24 07/25 07/26 07/20 07/21 07/22 07/23 New Volunteer Orientation Vogue Practice with Sistahs of Pride The Vagina Dialogues Alcoholics Anonymous Narcotics Anonymous Helping Hands STAR TRACK 6:30pm-8:30pm Lobby/ 6:30pm-9:30pm 7:00pm-9:00pm 6:00pm – 9:00pm Room 5:00pm-8:00pm 11:00am-1:00pm Clothing Closet Lounge Crystal Meth Anonymous 1:00pm – 5:00pm Room 3 Free & Confidential Gentle Mindful Yoga HIV Testing [CMA] 07/28 07/31 08/02 3:30pm-4:45pm ($10) 6:30pm-8:30pm 6:30pm-8:30pm Alcoholics Anonymous Stanley Black and Drop-In Resource 07/30 The Mankind Project 07/27 5:00pm-8:00pm 07/29 Decker Career Fair 6:30pm-8:30pm Referrals Drop-In Resource 10:00am-10:00pm Crystal Meth Anonymous Narcotics Anonymous 6:00pm-8:00pm Rooms 1, Sexual Compulsives 08/04 Anonymous [CMA] 11:00am-1:00pm Referrals 2, & 3 10:00am-10:00pm 7:00p-8:00pm 6:30pm-8:30pm Alcoholics Anonymous 5:00pm-8:00pm Gentle Mindful Yoga Breaking Bread Project 3:30pm-4:45pm ($10) 08/01 6:30pm-10:00pm Room 3 Free & Confidential HIV Testing 08/03 6:30pm-8:30pm Crystal Meth Anonymous The Mankind Project [CMA] 6:30pm-8:30pm 6:30pm-8:30pm Sexual Compulsives Anon- ymous Giovanni’s Room Open 7:00p-8:00pm Mic feat. Nakia Jade Trans Baltimore 7:00pm-10:00pm 7:00pm-9:00pm Room 3 Room 3 ($5)

The GLCCB is partnering with Stanley Black and Decker for a unique opportunity to bring employment re- sources right to our community! On Tuesday July 31, 2018 we will be hosting a career fair with SBD represen- tatives on-site offering resume building, workforce readiness coaching, and on-the-spot interviews. We’ll also have interview attire available, so don’t be discouraged if you don’t have a suit – come get one from us! Come with a resume if you have one and be ready to see what career opportunities Stanley Black and Decker may have for you. Please contact Jennifer Eden at [email protected] with any questions.

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—continued from page 5 and then hear a verbal “yes” back, under believe many people do understand and July 16th is But unless somebody steps up to lead the new reforms announced by the New South accept our choice. Love is love, after all.” charge, and soon, the stage lights will dim Wales (NSW) government in Australia, the Art, from Chiang Mai province, met International permanently on the experiment that was In- New York Post reports. Joke, from Uthai Thani, through business ternational Day. (Q Notes Online – Torie The state, which is on the east coast of and they developed feelings for each oth- Drag Day. What Dominguez at https://goqnotes.com/60565/ Australia (Sydney is its capital), has placed er while working closely in 2010. Bell, who international-drag-day-may-be-waning) sexual consent at the core of a strategy happened to it? to battle sexual assault after a high-pro- file rape case seemed to show that the Sydney, Australia – Despite the famed existing laws did not protect victims. A passion of drag devotees, signs that it may Neo-Nazis man named Luke Lazarus was acquitted soon be curtains for of rape after a five-year criminal legal bat- are not difficult to find. All sources agree that protest Pride tle, despite a jury and two judges finding the annual commemoration was the brain- the woman, then 18, had not consented to child of one Adam Stewart, and that its inau- in Hungary and sex with him behind his father’s nightclub gural celebration was held on July 16, 2009. in 2013. While the jury found the woman He teamed up with Australian GLBTI travel Poland had not consented, the legal issue was and lifestyle brand Guidetogay.com to get if Lazarus knew she was not consenting. the word out, telling them: “International Drag Budapest, Hungary – Neo-Nazi thugs Both conditions are required to prosecute Trigamists unite! Thai male threesome first Day is a day where all around the world on disrupted Pride marches in Budapest, Hun- trio to same-sex marry successfully under the current laws. every gay scene we take this opportunity to gary, and Czestochowa, Poland. Police in- Under the package, which also seeks celebrate and thank the drag artists that add tervened on the side of the LGBT marchers to expand the definition of workplace sex- was studying management at Phitsanuloke so much to gay life and culture.” He met with in Budapest but on the side of the Nazis in ual harassment, a $1 million advertising University, ran into the couple often at par- some success in the Anglophone world, from Czestochowa. campaign will teach people how to “ob- ties and it was not long before the three the Stonewall Hotel in Sydney to festivities at On July 9th, more than 10,000 people tain a clear yes.” The campaign will target men realized they all had feelings for each The Village Inn, in Birmingham, U.K., taking attended the 23rd annual Pride event in the young adults in bars and clubs and via so- other. The trio became inseparable, and Joke center stage on the holiday’s official social Hungarian capital, but they soon found their cial media, with messages like “no means and Art proposed to Bell while he was in hos- media accounts last year. Recognition in the path blocked by a group of black-clad men no” and “silence is not a yes.” ABC News pital with a congenital disease. “When Bell U.S. was limited in comparison, with the nota- holding banners. The men, apparently mem- reports that the Minister for the Prevention was in hospital, it became clear that we all ble exception of Stewart’s guest appearance bers of the Betyársereg, or “Army of Outlaws,” of Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault, had a lot of feelings for each other,” Art said. (so to speak) on -based LGBTQ pod- is a paramilitary group associated with the Pru Goward, wants the campaign to shift We thought what better way to show our love cast . far-right political group Sixty-Four Counties to cultural attitudes around what consti- for each other by getting married.” The only For any nascent movement to survive Youth Movement. Its name refers to the fact tutes sexual assault and make it “second condition was that Joke and Art ask Bell’s and thrive, though, it has to break through that the pre-World War I Kingdom of Hunga- nature” to request verbal consent. (Yahoo. parents for their blessing. a certain barrier. It has to become visible to ry had 64 counties and extended into mod- com – Tanya Edwards at Yahoo.com/life- The three men were married under Bud- those who aren’t looking for it. And that’s how ern Romania, Slovenia, Croatia, and Serbia. style/new-australian-law-requires-part- dhist Law as Thailand does not recognize Owain Wyn Evans stole the show. In July People in the parade peacefully chanted at ners-must-say-yes-loud-135901576.html) gay relationships. But Joke said he believed 2017, the Welsh BBC 3 presenter decided the men, and riot police deployed between same-sex weddings were just as valid as that his regular Sunday weather report could the Pride marchers and the neo-Nazis and any legally sanctioned ceremony. “Now Thai stand to be a whole lot more festive. Evans removed the neo-Nazi group, accompanied society has a better understanding of sexu- took to Twitter to share video of his peer- by cheers from the Pride marchers. Three Thai al orientation as many same-sex weddings less presentation, where it quickly racked In Poland, however, things went much appear on TV, newspapers and social media, up thousands of likes and retweets, includ- differently. About 1,000 people with rainbow men married we feel more accepted and able to come out,” ing a glowing review from none other than flags and umbrellas marched on the Catholic he said. “We love each other and live togeth- RuPaul, reigning queen of . To date, Jasna Gora shrine in the city of Czestochowa, in Buddhist er like brothers; hopefully this is something the clip has been viewed more than a quarter where the country’s notoriously anti-LGBT the world can understand in the 21st century.” of a million times. International Drag Day, it prime minister was giving a speech. A few doz- ceremony (Gay Star News – Darren We at Gaystarnews. seemed, was closer than ever to claiming a en neo-Nazis blocked the route, carrying ban- com/article/meet-men-worlds-first-three-way- place in the wider public consciousness. ners with homophobic messages. They were Uthai Thani Province, Thailand – same-sex-marriage090315/#gs.3sQ_=_Y) Unfortunately for fans of Stewart — who, joined by police, who prevented the LGBT Meet the three men who are believed by the way, has dropped out of sight, his dis- march from going forward. After the march, to have been the world’s first gay mar- These news notes have been compiled, appearance an ill omen in itself — no one Poland’s internal affairs minister instructed ried “throuple” three years ago. Joke, 29; with permission, from the online version appears to have capitalized on that burst of the police to prosecute the LGBT marchers, Bell, 21; and Art, 26, exchanged vows of various newspapers and other web momentum. Call up International Drag Day’s accusing them of “desecrating” the White Ea- in a traditional water-pouring ceremony sites. We thank these publications for official website and you’ll think you’ve arrived gle, Poland’s national symbol, by placing it on on Valentine’s Day, 2015 at their home allowing us to bring you their news sto- at a home page that leads somewhere, but a rainbow shield instead of the traditional red in Uthai Thani province, Thailand, and ries. Usually the reports have been sig- you haven’t, because it doesn’t. None of its one. Government Minister Joachim Brudz- became internet sensations in the south- nificantly edited and you can read the social media pages have been updated for inski also charged the LGBT marchers with east Asian country after photos from their full story by going to the web site men- months, in most cases since last year or provoking the neo-Nazis, whom he char- wedding shoot went viral. “I think we are tioned following the item. Comments even earlier. Even its promotional images re- acterized as innocent pilgrims on their way [the] first three-way same-sex males to are strictly the opinions of Jim Becker fer to International Drag Day 2017. In short, to the Jasna Gora shrine. t (Seattle Gay have a wedding possibly in the world,” Bell and not of Baltimore OUTloud or Pride by all indications, practically nobody is do- News – Mike Andrew at http://www.sgn.org/ said. “Some people may not agree and are Media. ing anything to mark this occasion. It was a sgnnews46_28/page11.cfm) probably amazed by our decision, but we promising idea, and hope isn’t lost quite yet. 8 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com thinking outloud

And even now, having healthy t-cells or an could have simply sold it at a health- undetectable viral load food store or GNC, but they opted for is the grand goal of the much more stringent FDA approval clinical care. It makes process. Mytesi also doesn’t dry you My Fabulous patients like me who out like over-the-counter diarrhea pills. suffer from diarrhea feel It works when you need it, “normaliz- Disease embarrassed to mention ing” the gut, according to Napo. By Mark S. King it, if not feel downright And hey, my doctor might think ungrateful. I’m lactose intolerant or want to go in Diarrhea also means some other direction. I’m teachable We Must Talk losing electrolytes and and I’m willing. But this will end with getting dehydrated. Help my having a healthier gut if I have “You’re also not absorb- causing at hand? anything to do with it. About Having ing nutrients or your medica- my diarrhea. So there. That’s my diarrhea story. If tions properly,” Lisa warned. That last fact Just this morn- you’re having similar problems, please Diarrhea made an impact on me. We worked too ing, after a week don’t be afraid to bring it up very directly hard to advocate for effective meds, and of putting it off, I took care of the sample with your clinician. You’ll probably have to vials. It was as unpleasant as I had imag- do the vial thing before anything else. Deal I am the least likely person to be writing for people like me to have access to them, ined. But I’m a big boy, a grown man in with it. about diarrhea. Just typing the word is then for them to simply get flushed down fact, and these are the things we do for our And, I want to thank the creators of mortifying. I needed spell check just to get the drain. health. Yes, I was grossed out. But now I Merce for being more courageous about it right. It’s the double “r” that trips me up. Before I knew it, I was confessing to feel triumphant, dammit! I return the vials this topic than I have been. They are still My discomfort discussing anything Lisa about my own tummy troubles. I was to the clinic today. Wish me luck. raising funds to complete Season Two. butt-related is well documented, but even saying the word. “I have di- Should everything check out normally If I get my “stomach problems” in order, this is important. Here’s why. arrhea, like, all the time!” I con- I’ll go first – I will keep you updated – then I’m asking they’re getting a big fat donation of 20 One in five people living with fided. I wonder if this sort of out- my doctor for the Mytesi and I will let you bucks from me. HIV suffers from chronic diarrhea. burst happens to her a lot. Does know if it works. What I have learned about Thanks for reading, my friends. And That’s too many, and I happen to be she get asked back to cocktail it, I like. Mytesi is the first natural botani- please, be well. That includes your poop- one of them. Many of us figure that if the parties? cal oral drug approved by the FDA. Napo ing. t meds are working and we’re healthy, then Unfortunately, if you want to address gastrointestinal problems simply come your diarrhea with your doctor, you will with the territory. Remember the HIV drug probably have to be the one to bring it up. Kaletra? What a nightmare. When my doc- “Addressing diarrhea is still mostly ini- tor prescribed it, he helpfully suggested I tiated by the patient,” reported Dr. Ronald carry a plastic baggie and an extra pair of Grossman, an infectious disease doctor underwear with me at all times. Horrifying- in private practice in New York City. Dr. ly, he was absolutely right. Grossman has been at this since the HIV I managed to find a better med for me, crisis began, and he’s frustrated with how but it’s the ongoing, not-quite-emergen- many doctors won’t bring up diarrhea. cy-level diarrhea that has been plaguing “Some young doctors are so sharp me in recent months. And, if it wasn’t for about the latest drugs,” Dr. Grossman told the musical comedy “Merce” me, “but this topic almost never comes up. (and its hilarious production number about There’s a whole lot of physician education our reluctance to discuss diarrhea with that needs to go on here. After a patient our physician, below), I wouldn’t have the talk I did recently, a young well-built guy nerve to bring this up at all. came up to tell me he can’t hardly leave Season two of “Merce” has been fund- the house. He can’t predict his bowel ed in part by Napo Pharmaceuticals, the movements. He didn’t have knowledge makers of Mytesi, a new drug approved about a drug like Mytesi.” by the FDA for the treatment of diarrhea Yes, Dr. Grossman is a fan and among people living with HIV. I don’t do spokesperson for Mytesi, and damn if I commercial endorsements on my , at didn’t blather on with Dr. Grossman about least not for products I haven’t tried, but my own gastrointestinal maladies, and the topic attracted me because I know it’s then promise him I would make a doctor something I need to address. appointment. And I did just that. “If you don’t identify a problem, how It actually felt great to commit to a doc- can you find a solution?” asked Lisa Con- tor appointment just to discuss this. I even te, CEO of Napo, during our phone inter- said the word diarrhea without lowering my view. Lisa has no problem saying diarrhea. voice. Much. I’ve never heard the word spoken so many My doctor did exactly what Dr. Gross- times in one sitting. Ahem. man suggested be done. She handed me In the early years of HIV/AIDS, Lisa a kit with two vials to take home to collect explained, side effects like diarrhea were samples, so they could be tested in order to pushed aside in a battle for life and death. rule out any other conditions that might be

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their job or not hired for being straight. mophobic base and liberated them to em- states that half of LGBT employees remain • No straight person has been kicked ploy social media and right wing outlets closeted at work. out of an apartment or disapproved of a to vent what they have truly believed for When you combine these develop- lease because he or she is straight. a long time: that LGBTQ individuals are ments with the recent baker decision from OUT • No straight person has been assault- “less than,” “perverted,” and “inferior” to the Supreme Court, the “bathroom bills” Spoken ed or killed for being straight. the straight elements of society. popping up in jurisdictions around the US, • No straight person has to hide their Many have said the issue is a gener- and the very genuine prospect of the Su- Steve Charing sexuality to family members, classmates, ational matter in that young people will preme Court becoming a solid anti-LGBTQ clergy, co-workers, bosses, friends and eventually take over the world, and ho- majority that could roll back hard-fought neighbors. mophobia and will ultimately gains, there is substantial cause for alarm. • No straight athlete has been harassed disappear. This is wishful thinking. I used to laugh at my husband for say- Pride is Needed in the locker room or denied an endorse- Evidence is mounting that much of the ing the right wing zealots “Will put us gays ment deal because he or she is straight. vitriol expressed by the homophobes are in camps.” How outrageous is that? Well, More than I can go on. from millennials, and that is not encouraging. if Trump can put babies in cages, anything To be clear, this opposition and anger We’re finding no indication that anti-LGBTQ now seems possible. It’s not a joke any- Ever directed towards the LGBTQ communities bullying in schools and online have dissi- more. has manifested itself long before the era of pated. There is a disappointing report by We need Pride now more than ever to With most of the larger Pride celebrations Donald Trump. He cannot and should not GLAAD (Glaad.org/publications/accelerat- unify and stick together and join with other in the rear-view mirror, it is clear that de- be blamed for the vitriol that occurred prior ing-acceptance-2018) that discloses a re- groups who have been targets of Trump’s spite progress in the recent past, Pride is to November 2016. Afterwards – that’s an- versal in the trend for acceptance. venom and actions. Oppression is real – needed more than ever. We continue to other matter with his transgender ban in the Moreover, despite the political gains right here and right now, and we need to see rants on social media decrying the military, his clear intention to erase LGBT achieved and increased visibility, findings fight back at the ballot box, in the streets need for Pride and others clamoring for citizens and history, and his persistent re- (Hrc.org/blog/hrc-report-startling-data-re- demonstrating, and holding massive pro- “straight pride” celebrations to counter the fusal to recognize June as LGBTQ Pride veals-half-of-lgbtq-employees-in-us-re- tests at congressional offices to dominate rainbow-hued parades and festivals that Month. As with everything else he does, he main-clos) by the the news cycles. take place in much of the free world. is only president of his base. Show our pride. Our lives are on the Let’s remind our heterosexual friends Trump can also be charged with the line now. t that they don’t need a straight pride cele- racism and bigotry he has displayed for bration. Consider: many years, even before the inauguration. // mark my words • No straight person has been fired from This has given cover to his racist and ho- The Best Gay American History MIXERS-REMIXEDMIXERS-REMIXED Character Ever! By Mark Segal Readers here know my passion for LGBT history and my almost-decade-long re- search and writing on my favorite gay historical character – and I do believe he was a character. He is Baron Friedrich von Steuben. And there’s a longer version of his name, but that will do. It took years, but the research many of us have done is finally being acknowl- Baron edged by most reputable historians, The Friedrich Museum of the American Revolution and would be no United States von Steuben the Steuben Society of America itself, that of America. – In trouble von Steuben was a gay man. That’s very I thought about all that with youths in important – maybe the most important research of almost a de- Prussia, but LGBT American-history fact there is. Let cade now as I watched this welcomed in me explain why. segment from “The Rachel early America Von Steuben, a Prussian military ge- Maddow Show” on July nius, was brought to the US to assist 6th, which has once again made Van Steu- General George Washington, who, with ben the go-to guy, this time on the issue his ragtag revolutionary Continental Army, of immigration, since, as you can guess, was losing the revolution. Von Steuben he was an immigrant – a gay immigrant, t UNDER NEW OWNERSHIP/MANAGEMENT brought order, sanitation and discipline without whom there would be no USA. to Valley Forge and wrote a book, which Mark Segal is publisher of Philadelphia Visit our Facebook page for upcoming events, would become the US code of military con- Gay News. His new memoir And Then I Danced specials, and much more: @mixersbar duct until the War of 1812. is out now. This was first published in the Here’s the point that should be shout- Philadelphia Inquirer. ed: Without von Steuben, a gay man, there

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deep breath and ask yourself: What is making Love Your Liver me anxious? Rather than trying to suppress Ask it, give yourself a bit of time to get to the root By Aaron Cahall Get tested for hep C on of it. It is only by identifying the reason that Chase Brexton Health Care Dr. J we can deal with the discomfort. In the short Millions of people worldwide are World Hepatitis Day, Janan Broadbent, Ph.D. run, it helps to take deep breaths to calm affected by hepatitis, a viral dis- down. But in the long run, if you can zero in ease spread through blood con- July 28th on the source, and accept what that is, then tact which attacks the liver. Each you will be able to diminish the frequency. It year, the Centers for Disease Anxiety in a is not much fun to be anxious. Often, it is a Control and Prevention observes July 28th out using protection. Other activities that sense of losing control that brings it on, con- as World Hepatitis Day, an opportunity to can lead to someone becoming infected trol of what is going on around you and our recognize those impacted by the disease are getting tattoos and piercings that are Relationship resources to master it. We have learned that and spread awareness of the availability of not done in a proper shop, becoming in- Every human being – and animals, too – ex- we can’t change the weather, so it does not a cure. carcerated, long-term hemodialysis, and perience anxiety. It is the physiology’s method make us nervous. Using the same principle, Here in Baltimore, Chase Brexton coming into contact with infected blood or of notifying that there is some perceived dan- can you look at what is going on and see if it Health Care is leading the efforts against blood products. ger to the survival. While centuries ago it may is something under your control? I find that if hepatitis C, a common form of the disease How is hepatitis C treated? Can it be have been seeing a wild beast that evoked I am stuck in traffic and will be late to an ap- often found in baby boomers. Chase Brex- cured? this response, in today’s world, it is usually pointment, I do get anxious. And then I have ton’s Infectious Disease Center of Excel- Hepatitis C is treated with oral tablets, some kind of threat that we see to our psychic to tell myself that I can’t direct the traffic, but lence has developed a comprehensive and usually taken for two to three months. The self. A critical remark, a can face what the effective treatment program which success- medications are very tolerable with little challenging response, consequences fully cured 98 percent of hepatitis C pa- to no side effects. They are highly effec- or a disapproving look of my being late tients in 2016. tive, with success rates above 90 percent. can touch that nerve. might be. Lose an We asked Dr. Christine Meehan, These medications can cure a patient of Then there are dif- opportunity? Dis- PharmD, Chase Brexton’s Hepatitis C their hepatitis C. It is possible for the per- ferences in tempera- appoint a friend? Program Coordinator, to share some facts son to become re-infected after successful ment that bring anxiety Miss the reser- about hepatitis C, and how those affected cure if the person continues the activities into the world of the two vation? Do any can get tested, treated, and cured. which initially caused him or her to be- people. John is always of those mean I What is hepatitis C? What are some come infected, or on time or even early. am incompetent of its symptoms, and comes in contact long-term effects? Ted is typically 30 min- or a bad person? with contaminated Hepatitis C is a utes late to every event. Often, the end re- blood. virus that is spread John starts to feel anx- sults are less se- Where can I through contact with an ious as they get ready vere than I imag- go for more infor- infected person’s blood. to meet because he will ine them to be. mation and to get Chronic, or long-last- have to deal with the Even if they are tested? ing, hepatitis C can live tardiness. Such conflicts devolve into more significant, then I better use that learning for Visit Chase- in the body without the significant issues as in whether one’s partner the next time I might deal with it and thereby Brexton.org/hepC person knowing they are cares to accept the differences and be sensi- bring in a sense of control. for more informa- sick for many years. The tive to the other’s wishes. What John’s anx- In the relationship, open and honest com- tion about hepa- most common symptom iety signals is possibly his doubts about his munication is the key to understand each titis C screening, of a chronic infection is Dr. Christine ability to handle the conflict, and maybe the other’s soft spots, to accept them and work treatment, and transmis- long-lasting fatigue or tiredness. Hepatitis Meehan – fear of losing the relationship. together to make each other feel better and sion. Other resources are C affects the way our liver functions in the Liver health is Whenever you feel that churning in your make life more joyful. t body. The liver is important for breaking within reach! the Centers for Disease stomach, or the out-of-sorts feeling, take a down alcohol, medication, and food. It also Control and Prevention acts to get rid of toxins in the body. Having (CDC.gov) and Mayo Clin- hepatitis C can cause your liver to become ic (Mayoclinic.org). 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and may shift over time back towards the person’s baseline behavior. As your part- ner is accepted publicly as a man, he may start acting in ways that are more typically Open Wide male. This is likely to be at work and other ask Dr Eva public situations more than in private with Dr Eva Hersh you, but you still may find it alienating. He may become more confident, happy, and comfortable with himself. Transitioning Will we be able to stay a couple? What usually happens? Many couples do as a Couple stay together successfully after one part- ner transitions. It is easier for this to work if the partner is bisexual or feminine-iden- Dear Dr. Eva, tified, which will usually make it easier for My partner of several years is transi- her to make the transition from being in a tioning ( to male) and started hor- lesbian relationship to being in a straight mones a few months ago. I am trying to relationship. be understanding, but it seems like such He wants discretion, you need to a self-centered process! It’s like being in talk – This is his transition and his body. a threesome: him, me, and “The He does have the right to Transition.” Sometimes it feels Sex change ask you not to share his like he is so involved with The private information. How- Transition that I could drop out affects a ever, your need to talk of the threesome and he might is understandable and not even miss me. partner, too normal. The best way to He wants privacy, even se- deal with this is to find a crecy as much as possible. He doesn’t good therapist, preferably one knowledge- want anyone to know he is transitioning – able about trans issues. This gives you a although everyone will eventually have to safe opportunity to talk to someone you know when he changes his name. I want and your partner can trust not to share to discuss the situation with my friends. He his information. Also, you will be talking to doesn’t understand why, and says, “It’s me someone qualified to help you talk through that’s transitioning, not you – you shouldn’t your own concerns and decide what’s best need to talk about it!” But this feels like for you. something that is happening to me. I feel His increased libido – This happens like I’m losing the person I fell in love with, to just about all transmen. Most of the time and I’m not sure how much I’ll like the new it can be handled by honest discussion and him when his transition is finished. keeping your communication open. Re- Since he started testosterone, his sex mind him that 1) although he has had a big drive has gone way up. We are in our 40s surge in libido, you have not, and 2) most and before this neither one of us had much adolescent males (which is what he now interest in sex. Now he has lots of inter- is, hormonally) rely on masturbation and est, but since I am not taking testosterone, he should too. If this problem is causing I still don’t! I am concerned this may cause stress in the relationship, consider a joint conflict between us. visit to a trans-knowledgeable therapist. How long does this process take? How long does this last? Puberty Thanks for listening. lasts three to five years in males Femme and two to three years in trans males. As time goes on, most males learn to deal Dear Femme, with pubertal changes on their own, with Your concerns are shared by many oth- less stress on others. t er partners of transitioning transmen. Let’s Eva Hersh, MD, is a family physician. address them one by one. Please send questions and comments to her by What will he be like post-transition? email at [email protected]. After transition, everyone is essentially the same person that they were pre-tran- sition. Personality does not change. What changes is mainly the person’s style: for example, their way of dressing, speaking, gesturing, and walking. Even these chang- es are most visible soon after transition

12 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com thinking outloud & Here vironment that I felt as a student.” nior and senior proms. When I asked, ad- ers about this. Several said that students Many students have heard teachers ministration was unable to provide me with have confided in them that they were Even in a Catholic make homophobic comments, which can a policy in writing, but it has been com- struggling with their identity and being make for a discriminatory and detrimental mon knowledge that a CHC student can- bullied for it. Veteran religion teacher Ms. Boys’ High School learning environment. Earlier this year, I not bring a date of the same gender, nor Jones shared: “There are so many things witnessed a teacher in a heated argument can they come alone. This prevents many you have to deal with in coming to terms by Ryan James Ritzes with junior Michael Fenlon in the school young men from inviting their significant with who you are. Not just someone being I just graduated from Calvert Hall College commons, insisting that gay marriage is other, and many are unable to find a date homosexual ... anyone! If CHC is a broth- High School, a private, Catholic, “unnatural.” This instance of tension of either gender. In both cases, students erhood, if CHC is a welcoming community, all-boys school in Towson, Mary- Part 2 was not the only one of its kind, and are prevented from enjoying the experi- if CHC not only recognizes but appreciates land. The institution is renowned even if it were, this kind of thing hap- ence of prom with their friends. Perhaps diversity, why are some people not wel- across the country for its excellent of 2 pening just once would be too much. CHC will consider changing this policy to comed for who they are?” academics and athletics, but an “People say things like ‘gay’ to say make it more inclusive as well. So how do we instill a true sense of area I feel they could improve in is that something’s bad ... [the teach- Calvert Hall is a member of the Asso- brotherhood within our community? Well, inclusivity and acceptance. While attend- er] is not helping the problem.” says Mi- ciation of Independent Maryland Schools, for one, we can stop pretending like ho- ing the school, I noticed an environment chael. “He is very vocal about how he which has been taking steps towards in- mophobia, as well as other forms of dis- of homophobia which at times made stu- feels about gay people in general and clusivity and acceptance. AIMS’s state- crimination, is not happening every day in dents, including myself, feel unwelcome. voices his opinions to his students on how ment on diversity concludes: “AIMS calls our school. We as students need to take This past year I wrote an article address- gay marriage is wrong, they shouldn’t be on its schools to focus their considerable more responsibility for our actions and for ing this for the school paper, and thanks to allowed to get tax benefits from it, and ar- resources of energy, talent, and money in each other. That is as simple as paying the support of many teachers and friends gues that by letting gay people get mar- this critical area, as they have in so many attention and participating when we have it was at long last published. ried, they open it up to marrying dogs and others in the past. On behalf of this genera- guest speakers, or even standing up for Unfortunately I dropped parts for ap- siblings because to him that’s the obvious tion and all future generations of students, others, stepping up to the plate and being peasement’s sake, and several parts were next step.” it is now time for AIMS schools to have the a leader. censored, so I decided to publish it else- I myself have been on the receiving courage, the determination, and the vision Some steps administration may ex- where – not only to maintain the integrity end of homophobic interactions. I have to take whatever steps necessary to great- plore range from promoting positive cul- of my writing, but to serve as inspiration been made fun of, cursed at, and on one ly strengthen diversity practice and to en- ture to introducing stricter discipline. They for other private schools struggling with in- occasion even shoved in the hallway, in sure thereby not only institutional success, could establish a group which celebrates clusivity. I hope members of school com- addition to some of the things our alums but more importantly, a better world.” and supports diversity, allow students to munities everywhere, not just Calvert Hall, mentioned. Feeling unwanted, even hat- The full statement, which can be bring male dates to school dances, update can use this article as a springboard to be- ed, is awful, and I know I’m not the only found online, clearly sets a goal of making the and harassment policies coming more diverse and inclusive. one that feels it. Unfortunately there are schools more accepting environments, yet to include , and imple- Several other alums have spoken to other people experiencing the same thing CHC has not succeeded in implementing ment discipline for students and teachers me about their experiences with homopho- almost every day. strong initiatives to promote acceptance that violate those updated policies. bia at the Hall as well. Michael Ehart (’16) One would think that administration and diversity as other schools have. Just Ms. Sharon Broomall, mother of Mi- says: “A lot of the homophobia at CHC has the prerogative to take action, but if one example of another school’s inclu- chael Ehart (’16), shared her own interac- comes from male chauvinism and the idea you look in the student handbook you will sivity: Loyola Blakefield, another all-boys tions with CHC administration regarding of shaping boys into a particular kind – see that Calvert Hall defines harassment Catholic school in Baltimore, allows their their lack of inclusivity: “A few days after brand, even – of man. was as: “verbal or physical conduct that den- students to bring a male date to school Michael graduated, I wrote a passionate absolutely taboo when I was there, and I igrates or shows hostility or aversion to- dances, and has a SAID Club that cele- email to the administration with the goal wish people would acknowledge that there ward an individual because of his/her race, brates the diversity of their students. of changing things. I wanted them to ac- are gays at CHC and they haven’t failed as color, national origin, religion, age, disabil- Additionally, Calvert Hall has a re- knowledge that there’s a segment of the CHC prep school students.” ity, or handicap.” There is nothing about sponsibility to be inclusive as a Lasallian student population that they are ignor- An even more recent alum, Robbie sexual orientation – perceived or authen- school; one of the five core Lasallian val- ing … Mr. Stembler’s [the principal’s] re- Spratt (’17), shares: “While at Calvert tic. Just as there are openly homosexual ues is to foster an “inclusive community.” sponse felt like lip service, and I was not Hall, I had been called ‘faggot’ by other students, there are those who keep it se- Not only are we called to serve the poor, hopeful that anything would happen. Mr. students a number of times. Oftentimes cret out of fear, and also those who but we are called to serve one another, as Blake [the assistant principal] and I had a true brothers. 45-minute phone conversation; I felt like Calvert Hall recently released a com- he really wanted to understand, but after mercial themed “Something for Everyone.” I hung up the phone I still didn’t think any- It was very well scripted, beautifully filmed thing would change, based on Mr. Stem- and edited, and a joy to watch. The sheer bler’s response.” number of clubs and activities CHC offers What she told me next was extremely is evidence enough that there is “some- disheartening. “I knew that some people thing for everyone,” but a more important tried to start a gay-straight alliance, but I are not homo- issue is that students seek a sense of be- heard from several people that there was I caught other guys giving me dirty looks sexual but are teased as if they are. The longing in those activities because they concern about it among alumni who were or friends would tell me about other guys policy we follow is that of the archdiocese, cannot find it in the average school day. a large source of endowment revenue for making homophobic comments about me. but CHC should consider adding to it to be The school day is the centerpiece of the the school. Some teachers expressed that Other times faculty members would make more inclusive. high school experience, so why do stu- they felt the school had become ruled by derogatory comments towards the LGBT There has been controversy surround- dents need to look elsewhere to feel that the financial end of it, that the administra- community without thinking twice, and this ing bringing a male date to a school dance, they belong, or at least aren’t picked on? —continued on page 16 only furthered the overall homophobic en- such as Junior Ring, Harvest, and the ju- I had the chance to talk to a few teach-

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 13 In His Own Words: Club Hippo THE STORY OF US By Erik J. Akelaitis

“Where everyone is welcome...” That was their motto for over 40 years before the disco ball spun around one last time and dance floor closed in October 2015. It was the end of an era, but the Hip- po was so much more than a bar or dance club. It was a safe ha- ven where me and other Baltimore LGBT men and women could be ourselves, feel accepted and come together as a community. It was the summer of 1999 when I first walked through the Hippo’s mirrored doorways. I was 22 and had just moved home to Baltimore after college. Being from the area, I had always known about the Hippo (or the “Pink Hippo” as it was described to me growing up in suburban Baltimore County.) Struggling with my sexuality and , I was terrified to run into anyone I knew and be found “out.” This was before smartphones and social media, so things were less conspicuous then. I was very shy but wanted to connect with other people like me and knew this was the place to go in Baltimore if you were gay (or wanted to hear good dance music!) The bouncer at the door greeted me with a warm smile and asked if it was my first time there... I guess he could tell I was nervous! After checking my ID, he winked and told me not to worry and have a good time. As I walked into the bar side of the club, I quickly felt accepted and relieved at how many people there were “just like me.” It was like a whole new world opened for me. I felt a freedom like I had never experienced before. I spent most of my weekends at the Hippo during my 20s and early 30s. It was a big part of my social life and where I came out to several close friends, made new lasting friendships, and recon- nected with childhood friends who come to find out were also gay. Besides having the best dance floor in Baltimore, the Hippo was the place to go in Baltimore for Pride, charity events, drag shows, and of course, BINGO on Wednesday nights! The last dance on October 17, 2015 was bittersweet with a final farewell from Chuck Bowers, owner of the Hippo since 1978, who dedicated most of his life to make the club the success that it was. Although I had a blast dancing and reminiscing with friends one last time, it was sad to see a long-standing Baltimore institu- tion, landmark, and vital part of Baltimore’s LGBT history come to an end. The dance floor was packed one last time with a playlist of songs they had played over the years. It felt like old times, and the way things should be... where everyone is welcome!

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 15 Lively Arts // OUT ON STAGE Here & Queer Take a Chance on Mamma Mia! at Toby’s Even in a Catholic this information before). Dransfield just by Chuck Duncan Minnick has found the real heart and soul brings a sweetness to the role that really I grew up with the music of ABBA, and it’s of the story. This production is just packed Boys’ High School helps the audience follow Sophie’s dream. safe to say most people are familiar with with emotion that will make you laugh and Heather Marie Beck is also terrific as their multitude of hits. And of course, most cry as it draws you in right from the begin- —continued from page 13 Donna, a woman who loves her daughter people also know those songs were folded ning. Minnick has a long list of terrific work and her single life deeply and we feel that into a Broadway musical that ran for more at Toby’s but I have to say that his inter- tion saw dollar signs instead of students.” love and the conflict within her as she is than 5,700 performances. I was fortunate pretation of Mamma Mia! is simply terrific. She concluded: “This isn’t just about suddenly and unexpectedly confronted enough to see the final tour of Mamma He’s drawn out great performances from gay students – it’s about anyone who feels by the three men in her life she thought Mia! when it came to Baltimore in Janu- his cast, he’s kept David A. Hopkins’ light- marginalized. They need a voice, and ad- she’d never see again. Coby Kay Callah- ary of 2017. I enjoyed the show, the cast ing restrained (compared to the blinding ministrators need to hear that voice. They an and Tess Rohan are also wonderful as and, most of all, the music which actually whiteness of the touring show), he’s staged just need to minister to these kids. It’s Donna’s old pals Tanya and Rosie. Darren seemed a bit more important than the sto- the musical numbers in a way that allows hard enough being a teenager, with the McDonnell and Russell Sunday are great ry. It has to be difficult to construct a story the ensemble to sing background from the hormones and peer pressure and social as Harry and Bill, and Toby’s newcomer around already established songs instead various entrances to the stage without ac- media, and then when you’re ‘different,’ Paul Roeckell turns in a nice performance of having the songs grow out of the story tually intruding into the number, he’s come it’s very harmful to the kids to sweep it un- as Sophie’s fiancé Sky. The other poten- so I have to give credit to Catherine John- up with some creative choreography that is der the rug and marginalize them. That’s tial father, Sam, is played by Toby’s regu- son for managing just such a feat. The carried out flawlessly by the cast, and he’s what I think hurts the most, that the admin- lar Jeffrey Shankle. Shankle usually has a problem with the touring version was that made sure the orchestra never over-pow- istration wants to marginalize these kids. role in a Toby’s show, big or small but gen- it was more about the songs than the story ers the singing. Mark Smedley’s sound de- They’re wonderful, talented, smart, and erally in a more comedic capacity (he was and in the end it felt a bit hollow. So I had sign for this show is probably the best I’ve such an important part of the community, terrific as the lead in Young Frankenstein). some trepidation about seeing the show experienced at Toby’s. yet they feel that they need to hide who Here he gets to play a more serious char- again – even though I love the songs. The cast is fabu- they are, and that just hurts them.” acter and I was just so impressed by this If you’re not up to speed with the story lous. In the If you know someone who feels unwel- performance. Not only that, but the songs of Mamma Mia!, it’s fairly simple – young come at Calvert Hall, or if you yourself feel Sam gets to sing really showcased Sophie Sheridan is about to get married. out of place: reach out! If you are at a loss Shankle’s amazing Her mother has been running a taverna on for where to start, a good place would be voice. a Greek island for the last 21 years, but the guidance office or campus ministry. If you’re al- Sophie knows nothing about her father. So Even when you feel alone, plenty of peo- ready a fan of she “borrows” her mother Donna’s old di- ple here care about you and want the best the show, there’s ary and discovers her father could be one for you. no way you won’t of three men: Harry Bright, Bill Austen, There are many in the Calvert Hall enjoy it. If you’ve or Sam Carmichael. Wanting to know community that feel alone for any number assumed the show who she is and where she came from of reasons. I myself find it difficult to pub- is just a showcase before her wedding, she invites all lish this article, because I know that once it for the classic songs three men to the wedding but posing is in circulation, there will be many who re- with a trifle of a sto- as Donna. They arrive, Donna freaks act negatively, or go as far as to make fun ry, I think you will be out, and it takes the men a while to of me for having written it. I don’t presume impressed with what catch on as to why they’re there but to speak for everyone, but it was definite- director Minnick and his all three of them decide separately ly important to bring this conversation to cast have been able to that they want to walk their “daugh- light. Hopefully it allows those who feel draw out of the script, ter” down the aisle. But the ques- that they are without a voice to be able to giving audiences a truly tion remains, which one is the fa- speak for themselves, and in doing so be- emotional and uplifting t ther and does Sophie really need come accepted by their community. evening (or afternoon for that information to figure out who you matinee-goers) of en- she is? tertainment. If I was uneasy about seeing And don’t forget, with Mamma Mia! for a second time before go- your ticket comes a delicious ing in, I was ready to see it a third time by tour- meal from the Toby’s buffet. the end of the show. Toby’s Dinner Theatre ing production, I The dinner includes garlic and worry, it’s not overly boozy), topped with production is a revelation. There’s quite a found Sophie and her friends ABBAlicious buttered green beans, cinna- thick whipped cream and a lemon jelly can- difference between seeing what is really to be just a little too over-the-top at mon-glazed carrots, red po- dy. It is yummy ... and you get to keep the an intimate show on a big stage and in a the start of the show. Here, Maggie tatoes, mac and cheese, baked souvenir Mamma Mia! glass! small, in-the-round setting. You feel as if Dransfield (making her Toby’s debut) chicken, ribs, baked fish, a carving station, Mamma Mia! runs about 150 minutes you’re part of the story as you sit just a plays Sophie not as an entitled brat but as salad bar, ice cream sundae bar, and more! with a 20-minute intermission. Note that few feet away from the actors. You can see a charming young woman in the throes of And as always, there is a special drink tied fog, haze, and strobe effects are used in the emotion on the their faces and you be- love. Her dream to find her father doesn’t to the show. This time it’s “The Dynamo” this production. The show runs through come invested in their story. seem so much as selfishness, rather just (named for Donna’s 1970s girl group with September 9th. Toby’s next production is And where that story seemed, on the something to help her feel complete (even Tanya and Rosie), a frozen lemony con- Ain’t Misbehavin’ opens September 14th. t big stage, contrived to fit an established if others around her think it is a selfish coction that comes in an “adult” version For more info on Mamma Mia!! at Toby’s, musical narrative, here director Mark thing to do, especially since her mother obviously had reasons for never sharing as well with a little added vodka (but don’t visit: Tobysdinnertheatre.com. 16 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com Lively Arts // personalities

Like today, I went to the Ptown Inn pool and fans…. I’ve already had a lot of people mes- I was flyering. It makes me anxious to walk sage me about it, wanting to know what it’s Addiction & His Muse up to strangers and say, “Hi! Come to see my about. People are sending me their different show,” because not everyone is going to react interpretations. I like that. I was super-unset- —continued from page 1 has an audience that wants to hear that and positively to you. You know some people just tled when I wrote that song. I was at my wit’s gotten more comfortable with some parts of take strength from it, I’m for that. want you to get lost. I don’t necessarily like it end. There’s a quote that goes something my voice that I wasn’t always comfortable You included two versions of “Walk- when people get up in my face and are trying like, “It’s an artist’s job to comfort those who with. Which is also a metaphor for the way ing” – an “original cut” and a “radio cut” to sell me something or get me to go some- need comforting and to make those who are we go through life, I guess. I’m more comfort- – on the album. Was this because you where. I know I don’t like it, so I understand comfortable feel uncomfortable.” If people able with it and I’m more than okay with parts couldn’t decide which you liked better? how other people feel. Still, it takes courage walk away from that song feeling uncomfort- of my voice that used to bother me. I’ve come That was part of it. Also, the original ver- to do that when I’m inclined to want to stay able, that’s not a bad thing. Not everything to appreciate them more. It’s my voice and sion is the one that came first. At some point home and spend time with one person or a wraps up neatly in life. I want people to feel I know what’s behind that voice, what that after that, I wasn’t sure how much I wanted group of close friends. It forces me out a little what I was feeling at the time. That push for- voice has been through. There’s an authen- to try and make a fun pop record. I was ex- bit. To answer your question, the guys I like ward. The anxiety of life changing around ticity there that’s been earned. When I was perimenting with making it sound more fun are generally the ones I feel a genuine sense you, forcing you on, even if you’re not ready. younger I didn’t always feel that way. I’m con- and lighter than more commercially viable. of home with. I don’t need all the hustle and At the time this interview is taking fident I’ve earned whatever authenticity and That was version that I released and made a bustle of all those other things in my life. place, you are performing in Provincetown vulnerability is there in my voice. video for last year. I always kept going back I know that you come from a religious throughout the summer of 2018. Is there If there is a prominent theme on Not to the original version. It was one background and the song “Disciple” is full an autumn and winter concert tour in the The End of Me, it would be of the first songs I recorded for this of religious imagery. Would you mind say- works? the issue of indulgence and album. I wanted to put it on the ing a few words about that song? I’m going to go wherever this album takes recovery, something listen- album because it was the initial I want to leave that song open to inter- me. You can follow me on Bandsintown.com/ ers can hear on “Pink Cham- intention that I had for the song. pretation. It was a cathartic experience writing stevegrand and that notifies people when pagne,” “Don’t Let The Light I thought it would be a great way that song. their favorite artists, and hopefully that in- In,” and “Ain’t it Somethin’,” to start the album – also because I can imagine. cludes me, come to a town near them. That’s to mention a few. Please say of the lyrical content. I really love I wrote it in a dark place, at the very end the best way to know when I’ll be in your area. something about addressing books and songs that start right of my drinking days. I threw it all out there on Slowly but surely my dates are filling in. We’re these subjects in song. in. I love when, with the first line the table. The song’s about a lot of things. starting to get more offers, especially with my Because I’m lucky enough or two, the writer throws you There are things that have double meanings. new album coming out. We’re getting a lot of to have a lot of loving and car- into it. I sing, “Caught up in the There are things that have taken on additional great press and my fans are excited about it. t ing people in my life, they were lights / Cameras in my face / meaning over time. I want to leave it up to my All of that is helping. able to catch me before things Where did we go wrong / Why’d got too bad. But I was definite- you walk away.” It gives you the ly on a road to self-destruction. right amount of information with I’ll say that. I was able to catch the minimal amount of words to COCKPIT IN COURT myself before it got too bad. It take you to exactly where I’m at. Summer Theatre did get to the point where I was That’s where I wanted the album drinking every single day. I would to start; in the chaos and confu- drink in the morning and I start- sion of having a viral hit and ed to rationalize drinking for just Steve Grand being overwhelmed by trying Come Back to the Five about every situation. It became my way of credit: William Dick to keep my life together as self-medicating. I wanted to numb myself things in my personal life are & Dime, Jimmy Dean out when I was feeling too stressed, anx- spiraling out of control. How Saturday, July 21 thru ious or overwhelmed, which is something I that fed into whatever I was doing profession- Sunday, August 5 was feeling all the time those first couple of ally at the time. years. I always want to talk about this in a “You or the Music” is also reflective of Theatre, Arts, Cabaret nuanced way and it’s hard to communicate the kind of pure pop elation that your fans that nuance in a headline. I feel like there’s have come to expect from you. Have you an understandable tendency for writers and ever had to choose between your music Disney’s bloggers to sensationalize the experience of and a boyfriend? addiction of whatever you want to call what It sometimes has felt that way. I was in The Little Mermaid I went through. Like everything, it’s complex a very tumultuous relationship, my first rela- Saturday, July 20 thru and it’s different for everybody. tionship ever that lasted quite a long time. Of I’m glad you said that because, in ad- course, it’s not that simple. In order to make Sunday, August 5 dition to your record, recent albums by Ni- a cool song about it, you have to drastically Mainstage, Arts, Cabaret cole Atkins (Goodnight Rhonda Lee), Girl oversimplify things. In a Coma’s Nina Diaz (The Beat is Dead), Exaggerate a little bit. and fellow Chicago musician Michael Mc- Yes. There were times when it felt that 7201 Rossville Blvd. Dermott (Out From Under), are indicators way. Because of the life I live and the guys I Call the box office at that recovery music has become its own tend to go for – they really want no part of all 443-840-ARTS(2787), or visit genre. What do you think about that? the flying around and social stuff and social I think we can continue to break every- media. The guys I like are generally very re- www.ccbcmd.edu/arts thing down into infinitely smaller sub-genres served and keep to themselves. Which I think For further details [laughs]. But if that’s a way for people to clas- makes a nice yin and yang. I’m very much an or to purchase tickets sify music, then so be it. If it’s something that introvert who is forced to put myself out there. BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com t 17 Lively Arts // out on screen

to open, he finds himself double-crossed but any rational person would have gotten by his friend who is actually working for out of there at the first sign of trouble. To Getting Really High Kores Botha (Roland Møller), an “as- have a character make a bad decision just sociate” of Zhao who had helped get to serve a plot point is just lazy writing. It by Chuck Duncan and he’s apparently the only star a disas- the tower financed through very shady was also aggravating to have the police I was a kid during the “Golden Age of Di- ter movie needs. He saved his family from means and was shaking him down until constantly questioning Sawyer’s integrity saster Movies” in the 1970s. Airport real- “the big one” in San Andreas (while con- it go to the point where Zhao stopped as he attempts to get back into the build- ly launched the all-star disaster epic, but veniently over- paying him off. So, of ing. Even after it’s made clear to them that it was The Poseidon Adventure that took looking the mil- course, the only way to he didn’t set the fire and shut down disaster movies to the next level. That lions of others Skyscraper get him back is to burn the systems, they still have was followed by The Towering Inferno and who apparently down his billion dollar their doubts. Earthquake, but a succession of cheap- perished during isn’t a terrible building, all in an ef- ly-made disaster movies with B-level stars the quakes and fort to get his hands (or badly slumming A-listers, such as Paul floods), and he movie at all on Zhao’s flash drive Newman and Sean Connery) helped the probably should have been on hand for that contains all of genre quickly peter out. There wasn’t an- Geostorm. But he’s back in a new disaster the names of the other really good disaster movie until Day- film – of sorts – with Skyscraper. Johnson shady investors. light in 1996 (a very underrated film with plays Will Sawyer, a former SWAT team The only problem a great cast that captures the spirit of the member whose leg was blown off during is Will’s family best of the 70s epics). Of course, in the a hostage situation. Another survivor, Ben was supposed 70s they had to create disaster effects on (Pablo Schreiber), puts in a good word for to be at the zoo set and with models. No CGI then, but the Will with his employer to check out a new to see the pan- rise of CGI effects that allows filmmakers skyscraper’s safety systems to confirm it das (the movie to create just about anything has helped is safe to open. Will and his family are the takes place in revive the disaster movie genre (and mov- only occupants on the 97th floor, actually Hong Kong) but ies that feature intense scenes of disas- the only occupants of the residential level his young son ate some- ter). But putting together a disaster movie at all. The building’s owner, Zhao Long Ji thing and got sick so they came home with eight or more of today’s biggest stars (Chin Han), lives in the penthouse above early and found themselves caught in the A reminder to would probably be a budget buster. the 200th floor. inferno. But with the bad guys using Will’s test the smoke detectors ... So we have Dwayne Johnson now, After Will confirms the building is safe log in information to turn off the safety That measures, he becomes the prime suspect aside, Johnson does what ... even though he’s going to great heights he does best as far as the to save his family. But some bad planning physicality of the role. He and a not very well thought out escape doesn’t have any snappy route traps not only Will’s family, but Zhao, one-liners here, he’s more a straightfor- a few of his associates and the bad guys ward action hero. Neve Campbell plays his all above the fire line. The question is who wife Sarah and she also does a nice job will make it out alive? of being the loving wife and mother, but Skyscraper isn’t a terrible movie at all. she’s never a damsel in distress. When the It’s ridiculous at times because Johnson is going gets rough and the bad guys come an Energizer bunny that never stops and calling, the tiger mom comes out and she’s can seemingly defy gravity. But you don’t not someone you want to mess with (and go to see a movie like this for scientific ac- it helps that her character is given a mil- curacy. Do you? I go to turn off my brain for itary background). Everyone else is fine, a little while and marvel at the effects and they do their jobs, but Møller is more a stunts. On that count, the movie scores henchman than a criminal mastermind. an A-plus. You know that it’s all done with When your character immediately makes sets, green screens and CGI, but there audiences think of Hans Gruber, you have are still some moments that will have your a lot to live up to and Møller just isn’t given heart leap out of your chest. It is a bit like that much to work with. The Towering Inferno, just with far fewer But, Johnson and the effects team are people. the real stars of Skyscraper and they deliv- Of course the movie also has a Die er enough action to help you forgive some Hard aspect to it as well with Johnson in the of the movie’s more implausible moments. Bruce Willis role and Møller a less sophis- It’s definitely worth a look if you’re into this ticated criminal than Alan Rickman’s Hans kind of movie, and I have to add that it re- Gruber. The whole plot to steal Zhao’s flash ally feels like a movie that should be seen drive seemed really far-fetched, especially in 3D. Unfortunately the press screening knowing that he did have an escape plan. was not, but I could tell that the effect The real head-scratching part of all this is would have added so much more to the why Zhao doesn’t use that escape plan tension as Johnson is dangling high above when it becomes very clear the building’s the streets of Hong Kong. t fire suppression system is not working. He doesn’t believe the fire will climb 100 floors

18 t BALTIMORE OUTLOUD jUly 20, 2018 • baltimoreoutloud.com Lively Arts // screen savor NEW GROWTH ON What’s So Funny? TH By Gregg Shapiro Michael, and Irene Tu – bring a fresh perspec- WEST 40 STREET. Great comedians make you laugh and think. tive to topics ranging from dating and relation- Great comedy stays with you long after the ships to stereotypes and body image. One of laughs have subsided. If you’ve seen Hannah the biggest problems is comedian “host” Zach Gadsby’s Netflix comedy special “Nanette,” Noe Towers, who simply isn’t funny. The inter- you’ll understand what this means. Gadsby view scenes, of which there are far too many, singlehandedly raises the bar for com- bring things to a screeching halt. Also, a edy, putting it out of reach for many segment of HIV jokes is more than other stand-up comics. a little questionable. Another issue “Out On Stage” (Fathom is that director Samuel Brown- Events / Comedy Dynamics), field’s theatrical version of “Out which is being shown in the- on Stage” is supposedly meant aters for one night only on July to whet our appetites for a forth- Roland Park Place – Baltimore City’s only certifi ed Continuing 24th, shortly after “Nanette” be- coming TV series of the same Care Retirement Community – will soon be transformed, gan airing, will suffer by compar- name. ison. True, it features a multitude Unfortunately, none of the adding 8 new stories and 58 spacious new residences, of comics, not just one. But the main comedians in “Out on Stage,” rep- to create the perfect setting for your Baltimore story. similarity is that “Out On Stage” touch- resenting a broad swath of ages and es on several of the same themes as Julian backgrounds, is on the same level as “Nanette.” There are jokes about straight Michael say, gay comic Matteo Lane. Lane is people, transgender people, , ho- not only funny and smart but can also mophobia, and coming out. However, not a sing opera and is sexy AF. Even sadder is the READY FOR MOVEIN 443.338.6212 single one of the comedians featured in “Out early 2018 loss of groundbreaking gay comic FALL 2020 RolandParkPlace.org on Stage” can match what Gadsby accom- Bob Smith, to whom every LGBTQ comic, in- plishes and in the same way she achieves it. cluding those in “Out on Stage,” owes a debt To be fair, a few of them – including Raneir of gratitude for his TV appearances in the Pending final approval from Maryland Department of Aging Pollard, Kyle Shire, Jonathan Rowell, Julian early 1990s. Rating: C. t

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A former president of the Highlandtown how she developed her gallery. “I spoke with Merchant’s Association, Zannino-Baker says several gallery owners and artists in the com- Highlandtown Goes the gallery’s format was always going to be munity before I developed my format. I came multifaceted, like the neighborhood, with art, up with my programming based on what I class when I was around gifts, and design services. “We have High- learned from them. I examined what worked Highlandtown ten. I’ve always been in- landtown and Baltimore-centric gifts and and what didn’t.” It was always Zannino-Bak- volved in the visual and accessories with a focus on fine art of local er’s vision to have a series of galleries on the Artsy was a gritty hood artists. All the books are of Maryland or of first floor. “My vision came to fruition aswe performing arts for as long By Frankie Kujawa as I can remember. I took Maryland artists. All the CDs are musicians have the Highlandtown Gallery, Zwiebach Growing up in Baltimore’s known for its dance all of my life, and from Maryland. The coffees and candies that Creations Gallery, and Night Owl Gallery all Highlandtown, Felicia Zan- was always the lead singer we offer are from small local kitchens in Mary- housed in one location. We have three visu- ninio-Baker’s love for her vibrant pick-up in high school plays. I even land. We also conduct ‘History of Highland- al art expressions bringing something very neighborhood began very scene. Now it’s studied voice at the Pea- town’ talks and features on the community. unique to the public, and I guess the icing on young. Today her creative body for a few years.” This is in addition to having the artists come the cake is all three of the gallery owners hap- talents are helping positive gentrying. Felicia The female role mod- into the gallery, in a more intimate setting on pen to be MICA graduates of three different change in her community. els in her family encour- Saturday, and talk about their work and their generations.” As the owner and propri- Zanninio-Baker’s aged her to pursue her processes. One of my most important goals is Looking forward, Zannino-Baker envi- etress of the Highlandtown passions. “One of my to serve both the first-time and the seasoned sions the future of the Highlandtown Arts Dis- Gallery, as well as Magno- greatest inspirations was art buyer.” trict as a beacon for those who are passion- gallery has helped t lia Designs, the interior de- my father’s sister, Marga- Zannino-Baker was very conscientious in ate about the arts and community. signer has long been a sup- drive the transition ret Rose Mastellone. She porter of local artists within graduated from MICA in the community. fashion design. She, as “I was brought to Highlandtown when I was well as my mother’s example of running my just three months old,” Zannino-Baker began. father’s business while also running a house- Three Galleries in One “From a very young age, I was very involved hold, inspired me. First and foremost, though, The Highlandtown Gallery opened in prints on paper and canvas. with the Italian culture. We sang, danced, and they were both mothers. From their example, September 2013 and is a crown jewel The Highlandtown Gallery is also performed in Italian costume from the age of I felt empowered to make my dreams both in the Highlandtown Arts District. “What part of the Highlandtown First Friday seven.” Zannino-Baker, whose father founded personally and professionally.” makes this gallery unique,” says owner Art Walks, which will continue on Fri- Zannino Funeral Homes in 1958 in Highland- While at MICA, Zannino-Baker eventual- Felicia Zannino-Baker, “is the combina- day, August 3rd, Sep- town, lived atop the family business through ly changed majors to interior design and has tion of three galleries tember 7th, October high school. “I went to a very strict parochial been working in that field ever since. “Right in one building. 5th, November 2nd, Catholic school, and then from there I went after I graduated, I managed a showroom at It’s a tremendous and December 7th. to MICA (Maryland Institute College of Art). the Washington Design Cen- dose of eye candy. These walks, from 5 This was a ter, which introduced me to ev- You can find many to 9 pm, are part of a ery aspect of interior designs: forms of art in one self-guided walking textiles, furnishings, lighting, place – we have tour of the Highland- etc. Then, I worked in a high- paintings, encaus- town neighborhood end interior design firm until I tics, photography, shops, galleries, opened my own firm in 2000.” jewelry, originals landmarks, and Zannino-Baker’s Magnolia on paper or canvas, murals. Neigh- Designs is the parent compa- mosaics, sculpture, bors and visitors ny to Highlandtown Gallery glass.” are encouraged and has offices above the gal- A recent group ex- to visit multiple lery, and also has a branch in hibition was “The Mo- sites and venues, Washington, DC. saic Show,” and cur- many of which will The gallery is just across rently there’s a group feature light re- the street from her family’s nude show, “Nudes / freshments, spe- home and funeral business. Erotica / Exotic Wom- cial discounts, The earthquake of 2011, en,” running through demonstrations, however, left the building August. and events. t in ruins. “I had to Housed within the For more From growing up make a choice: Highlandtown Gallery information on above her family’s huge culture Do I let it go or location is also Zwie- the Highland- Highlandtown funeral develop the loca- shock for me! It was the 80s and I went from home to running the bach Creations, run by town Gallery, a Peter Pan-collared uniform to people with neighborhood’s key tion? My choice artist Debbie Lynn Zwie- Debbie Lynn visit Magno- purple hair that was sticking up in the air, gallery, Felicia Zanninio- was to develop it,” bach. “Debbie Lynn’s Zwiebach liadesignsllc. punk rockers, and students from all over the Baker has surfed the she relates. Since work is just incredible,” com/HG. For country and the world.” wave of the area’s Highlandtown is says Zannino-Baker. Zwiebach Cre- transformation Zannino-Baker had originally wanted to a designated arts Zwiebach’s art is avail- ations, it’s Zwiebachcreations. study clothing design, and went to MICA with and entertain- able in the form of color- ing books, com. For Night Owl Gallery, it’s Nigh- that intention. “From my young days of per- ment district, it made perfect sense to open a cardboard and wooden puzzles, textile towl.gallery forming, I wound up designing and sewing second interior design studio here and couple printing, handbags, jewelry, as well as – Frankie Kujawa Italian costumes. I went to my first sewing it with an art gallery.

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I don’t want you to think we were intentionally trying to eaves- Parenting drop. We weren’t. They were loud. OUTloud There was a little Rev. Kelly Crenshaw boy, about three, who had obvious- ly had enough of his day. He was Kids Are whiny and complaining. Mom and Grand- what was wrong. He’s a little kid. Little kids how young, goes a whole lot further than ma were with him. And, instead of trying don’t do well after bedtime. Little kids don’t yelling and punishing. In fact, I was talking to distract or entertain him, Grandma like waiting in lines. Little kids don’t want with a young mom the other day, who People, Too chose to wander off and Mom began her to look at a cart full of yummy food and openly admitted she spanks her children. threats. She threatened to put be told they can’t have any. And, in case She then looked to me for support saying, We took the kids on vacation last week him straight to bed you haven’t figured it out by now, grown “It’s the only way to keep them in line.” I and had a blast. We vacation at our fam- adults don’t like listening to moms make smiled and said, “I’ve never felt the need ily’s Ocean City beach condo that the same threats over and over and over to spank my kids.” She had no idea how to we’ve had since I was in college. It’s There’s again. respond. She saw my children being much an easy, inexpensive trip for us. The a human All I wanted to do was school that more polite than her children and now kids enjoyed taking walks around the being lurking woman on how to talk to her child. I want- knew that my kids achieved that goal with- town, where there are millions of things somewhere ed to talk to him myself. I wanted to sit out the benefit of having been spanked. inside to see. We all enjoyed the beach and down on the floor with that little boy and If the mom in the store had taken the playing in the sand. Cassandra espe- talk to him like he’s a human being – time to talk to her son instead of yelling cially enjoyed the water and finding sand because he is a human being. at him, I’m sure their shopping experience crabs. We had good seafood and a lot of Why do parents seem to forget would have been a lot smoother. I’m not family time. It was great. that kids are people, too? I’ll bet that saying it will work every time. But, it will But, the trip didn’t start off as magically mom wouldn’t want to be yelled at work more often than not. Teach your kids as it could’ve. if she was having a bad day. I’ll bet how to respond without anger, threats, or The first day, several of us headed off that mom wouldn’t want other adults yelling by demonstrating those skills your- to the local grocery store to stock up. We speaking to her the way she was self. You’ll both be better for it. t usually bring most of our food with us but speaking to her child. And, I’ll bet Rev. Kelly Crenshaw is the mom of 16 need to go to the store to get perishables, if she realized how horrible she adopted kids, two biological kids, guardian like milk. We don’t usually go to Ocean sounded to the rest of us standing of one baby girl and foster mom of dozens. City in the middle of rental season, but this there, she would have been embarrassed. Some are lesbian, some gay, some straight, year was different. So unfortunately, when when they go At least, I hope she’d have been embar- and some bisexual. Kelly founded a K-12 we hit the local grocery, so did a million back. She threatened to beat rassed. day school where kids could have a safe, other people. All the registers were open. his bottom with her hand (an interesting bit If I’ve learned nothing else about par- bully-free environment for learning. She is And, all the lines were long. of specificity, I thought). She ordered him enting over the last couple of decades, I’ve co-owner of a counselling agency that works We were all in a good mood as we did to be quiet. She ordered him to stand up, learned that talking with my kids, no matter with children and their families. our shopping. We soon found everything sit down, and get in the cart. we needed and headed to wait in line. We All this time, all I could think was that it took advantage of the time to chat about was late. I was tired, too. And, how would what we wanted to do with our week. We people react if I started to whine like that. commented on the tabloids on display. And then, I got angry. I got angry at a mom And, we listened to the conversation im- who thought it was more important to yell mediately behind us. at her child than to see if she could fix

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teering for the event was obviously having a great time doing so. Hagerstown Pride was a family-friendly event, complete with a kids’ area. Nicole James, Brian’s Miss Gay Maryland America, led storytime and read books to children. She even posed with Brain Mary and Jodi Plitman, who chose Hagerstown Brian George Hose Pride as the backdrop for their maternity pho- to shoot. In fact, everyone commented on how many children and families were present at this Pride Brings year’s Pride, which is a heartwarming affirma- tion that things are getting better for youth in Hope to our community, and that our community itself is getting stronger. Hagerstown I think it’s important to acknowledge the val- ue of working together. Recently a local mag- When Hagerstown Hopes was finalizing plans azine published an article about Hagerstown for Hagerstown Pride (held on Saturday, July and the heroin and opioid crisis sweeping the 14th) members were optimistic that it would nation. The article questioned if Hagerstown, be a success. What they didn’t count on was once a thriving city that has now fallen by the how much of a success it would be. Thao Ta wayside, would be able to sustain itself. While of local news outlet WDVM reported that this Hagerstown certainly has its problems, it’s re- year’s Pride, themed “This is Me” was expected freshing and heartwarming to see that it’s also to draw up to 3,000 people. After interviewing filled with people who care, like the thousands the organizers of this year’s Pride, Thao and I who attended Pride and the dozens of people discussed what Hopes will be bringing to the who have volunteered their time to serve their community. She was gracious, kind, and even community. This shows me that there is still posed for a selfie with me (after teaching me hope because, when I look back at the region’s how to use my new phone). attitudes toward the LGBTQ community, I can I mention Thao because the kind of inter- see a clear societal shift towards acceptance action we shared was experienced by nearly and inclusion. We’re doing the work together, everyone in attendance. With approximately 60 and we’re seeing progress. vendors serving the LGBTQ community, doz- Pride was a reflection of that hard work. ens of performers, headliner Kennedy Daven- Thanks go out to the board and committees of port of “Rupaul’s Drag Race” fame, and even Hagerstown an appearance Hopes for from the Maryland sponsoring Symphony Orches- and organizing tra, Hagerstown Hagerstown Pride brought to- Pride. Jeff gether people from Rohrer, presi- across the region dent of Hopes, for a common pur- and Brian Al- pose: to celebrate exander, chair our community and of events, all the diversity it en- oversaw the compasses. planning for Throughout the Pride but day I saw people were quick making connections to say that they couldn’t take credit for the – catching up with Having a ball(oon)! – old friends, making new ones, and Lolli Cox, Mary and Jodi event’s success. Instead, they sharing information and resources Plitman, and Chasity Vain each listed name after name of that are available to our community. credit: Alysha Yoder Photography Hopes members, vendors, and There’s something about Pride that volunteers who helped make seems to encourage people to be friendly Pride as special as it was. and, when people are friendly, they tend to There’s still work to do, though, and I’m be happy. What I saw and experienced was happy to say that I’m working with Hopes to a community coming together, enjoying each bring LGBTQ services and programs to Hag- other’s company and a safe place to be them- erstown and the surrounding areas. Please like selves. Even the city of Hagerstown said that and follow Hagerstown Hopes on Facebook Pride is a model for how community events to keep up with news – there are good things should be organized, not just because of at- coming very soon. We’re working together, and tention to detail, but because everyone volun- things are getting better. t

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Getting the about location? City? Country? Sit down house duck fat fries and the sweet potato with your sweetie and write down as many fries. The duck fat created a crispy layer Wedding thoughts and feelings about your wedding Munch around meaty cuts of shoestring potatoes, as you can. seasoned with sea salt and a house herb You Want • Study each venue’s website – Some On This blend. The savory blend deserves some David Egan venues have a very basic web presence, Michael Ritmiller sort of comfort food award. The sweet po- with not much information or photographs, tato fries were a different combo of house and some are extensive. You don’t need cut sweet potatoes with a spiced brown Venue Tour to have it all memorized, but you – both Annabel Lee Tavern sugar coating. It was like Thanksgiving, of you – should give the venue’s website 601 South Clinton Street, Baltimore but without the drama. Checklist a good look before your tour. It should an- 410-522-2929 The baked brie was encased in a per- swer some if not all of your questions and Annabelleetavern.com fect ratio of puff pastry to cheese without Some of the best fun you’ll have in plan- tell you what else you’ll want to ask when being too oozy. The sweetness of the pe- ning your wedding is visiting venues! You you visit in person. cans enhanced this appetizer even further. get to see interesting and unique spaces, • Write your questions down – Use Tucked in the edge of Highlandtown is a The blend of sweet and savory flavors some of which you’d never see otherwise. your list of what’s important to create your quaint little tavern that pays homage to Ed- continued with the seafood. The shrimp Choosing a venue takes time. There is questions for the venue staff. When you’ve gar Allen Poe and his final poem, “Annabel and grits truly stood apart from the many information to gather, places to visit, and taken the time to think about what you Lee.” Walking in felt like entering a scene versions I’ve had before. The chef enhanc- time to spend talking and reflecting with want, they can focus on what’s important from a period movie. The elegantly maca- es the rich gravy with his secret sauce your partner. Give yourself the gift of time. to you. bre atmosphere was filled with blend used for the Here are some things to know and • Experience the venue togeth- sounds of fiddlers sweet potato fries do: er – There is no substitute for in-person fiddling tunes to to create some- • Know when you want to get married impressions. Unless you’re fully and to- which Poe himself thing that is both – You don’t have to have an exact date – tally committed to having only one of you might drunkenly unique and famil- although some couples do – but have a choose the venue, both of you need to see have stumbled. iar. range in mind, whether it’s any Saturday every venue on your list, in person. Stand- The bartender was While I’m in October of 2020, for instance, or simply ing in the space, feeling it, is often the only quick to introduce not into curry or sometime between May and November. If way to know if it’s right for you. us to a variety of vegetarian dish- there are particularly important guests who • Take notes – The pros and cons of the latest offerings es, their Mango must be present for your wedding, check each venue will very quickly get scram- on the brew market. Vegetable Curry in with them before your tour to find out if bled in your brain after you’ve seen three After a long day, I maintained the there are dates when they cannot come. or four. Make sure that one of you takes quickly became dis- sweet and sa- I enjoy helping couples work out their notes. And sit down with your sweetie right tracted by the drinks vory flow with a final date when they are here for their tour, after each visit and record your impres- and live music. variety of veg- and often bring insight that’s useful. sions. Keeping good notes will make all To compliment gies, cranber- • Know your budget – Your budget the difference later on. the performers, ev- ries and shrimp represents the total amount of money • Be open and honest – ery Tuesday night, over couscous you have to spend for ab- The more of your needs the chef pairs rec- – tasty when solutely everything. That and desires you share ipes from a mid- you’re hanker- includes your venue, cater- with the venue staff, the 1800s cookbook to ing for some- ing, photography, entertain- better they can help you further enhance this thing different. ment, decorating, officiant, with your wedding. trip back in time. The crab ceremony music, and cake. Finally… Set an Owner Kurt Bragunier cake had a An experienced venue own- intention to make your had us try the Vichys- mild flavor. I er or manager can tell you wedding planning pro- soise, a chilled, lightly imagine it was what you’re likely to spend cess fun, easy for each creamy summer soup Dine like the standard Chesapeake on each, and if their venue is other, and full of love. of potato and leek – heavy on the fla- it’s 1859 recipe before Old Bay was in- within your means. Be patient with each vor, light on the stomach. Kurt also vented. If you aren’t a true Bal- • Know how many peo- other. Look for com- brought us bacon-wrapped asparagus timorean who demands the red ple you plan to invite – Your mon ground, and explore the “heart” and with an orange-ginger sauce drizzled spice, this version is designed for guest list determines how large or small a “head” aspects of each decision. Holding atop. Over a hundred years later and ba- you. But even for being mild, the greens venue you’ll need. Try to narrow it down good space for each other and being in a con is still the king of the food pyramid. sautéed with pepper and lots of bacon en- to within ten guests. Guest lists go up and mindset of discovery and wonder will serve Trying to imagine what the typical fare was hanced the main dish in the old Southern down during wedding planning, but the you well in keeping the planning process like back then, I was surprised how simi- ways of Maryland. closer you can get to a final count before centered around a celebration of love and lar these two items are to those found on Annabel Lee is a charming stop with you start to shop for venues, the more unity. menus today. great food, perfect for that first date or easily you’ll be able to chose just the right Next time: Let’s talk dessert! t The regular menu listed some of the just a casual night out with good friends. venue. David L. Egan is the proprietor and stew- usual standards, so we made our own sea- You even have the option of asking for • Consider what’s important to you ard of Chase Court, a wedding and event food buffet of crab cakes, shrimp dishes the “sweethearts’ table,” complete with an – What kind of space do you want? How venue in downtown Baltimore. Visit Cha- and baked brie, along with duck fat fries engraving kit to memorialize you and your should it feel? Do you want lots of light? secourt.com, and follow ChaseCourtWed- that may leave you ruined for any other special lover’s initials. t Is an outside ceremony important? What dingVenue on Instagram and Facebook. kind. Kurt shared two versions with us: the

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passed the Homeland Security Act of 2002, which divided the responsibilities of handling This is because there is shared responsi- UAC between ICE and the Department of The More you bility between leadership and management, Health and Human Services’ (“HHS”) Office of Know About and the ultimate change, the most import- The Law Refugee Resettlement (“ORR”). The ORR was ant, needs to come from the individual em- & You the agency under the 2002 law assigned re- ployees themselves. An employee is the sponsibility for coordinating and implementing Business Linda A. Dominguez Richard Finger & Lauren Lynch only one who can significantly change the the care and placement of UAC in appropri- way he or she handles these new situations ate custody, reunifying UAC with their parents and personally adapt to new roles or envi- abroad if appropriate, maintaining and pub- ronments. The Loss of 1,500 lishing a list of legal services available to UAC, Change So, how is change management per- and collecting statistical information on UAC, formed? There are roughly two major steps Kids in ICE among other responsibilities. Management to successful change management. The Congress passed the William Wilberforce first step is to identify the groups of people Custody in 2017 Trafficking Victims Protection Reauthorization Think of a time when you had to manage who will need to change as a result of these Act of 2008 to address continuing complaints someone’s expectations on something that needs; those who play a role within the al- In 1997, the administration of former Presi- about treatment of UAC and failures to ensure was changing. It can be something from teration. These are the people whose job dent George W. Bush entered into a settle- that those UAC who would not be safe if re- work – a change in process or a change is to perform the process that is changing, ment agreement to address the problems turned to their native country were placed in in staff, perhaps. It can also be something who uses the technology that is changing, that caused a lawsuit against Immigration and removal proceedings so that a claim for pro- on a smaller scale – a change in logistics or who takes on different roles or tasks to fit Customs Enforcement (“ICE”). The “Flores tection under the law could be heard by the for a family gathering or community fund- Agreement” of 1997 became law when most of Immigration Court. This law also demands raiser. In either element, that the UAC be placed in the least restrictive change management al- “ICE is tearing setting that is in the best interests of the UAC. ways plays a part. Orga- Often, it was deemed that a UAC should be nizations will always see families apart in order released to the care of a family member or a ebbs and flows in their to enforce a ‘zero friend of the family who resided in the US. methods and processes. Currently, ICE is tearing families apart at Change is tough for most tolerance’ policy on the border with Mexico in order to enforce a people – it can be chal- “zero tolerance” policy on illegal entrance into lenging, worrisome, and illegal entrance into the US, as well as criminally prosecuting the intimidating. How do we the US, as well as parents of any children as if they were smug- face change in our organi- glers. There is nothing to indicate that the zation, manage all shifting criminally prosecuting parents of children who flee from their native processes, quell miscom- countries to the US are intent on criminal ac- munications, and meet ex- the parents of any tivity once they enter the US nor that they are pectations of all staff and children as if they were smuggling their children into the US for ne- stakeholders? farious purposes such as slave labor or sex Here comes in the fluid smugglers.” trafficking. However, since early 2017, ICE concept of change manage- Mismanaging change costs into the a has put parents into federal prisons awaiting ment. This concept is a process used to pin- more than nickels and new struc- the provisions were included in Federal regula- criminal prosecution and sent their children point and execute required developments dimes! ture. tions. The “Flores Agreement” and regulations (including infants who are still being breastfed) or changes within an organization. It’s fluid Once required that ICE officials detaining unaccom- to detention facilities closer to the US border because its boundaries depend on what is those affect- panied children (“UAC”) who entered the US with Canada. There is no effort being made changing, along with when, how, and who is ed individual employees and/or teams are without a parent or guardian provide 1) food to locate family members or friends who re- involved and affected by the changes. identified the next step is to create a cus- and drinking water, 2) medical assistance in side in the US to care for these children who Let’s take a quick look at why change tomized plan of action. This plan should en- emergencies, 3) toilets and sinks, 4) adequate have been designated as UAC because their management is necessary. Change comes sure the impacted employees receive the temperature control and ventilation, 5) ade- parents are in ICE criminal detention. In May from many different organizational needs. pertinent information, guidance, instruction, quate supervision to protect minors from oth- 2018, several reports have surfaced indicating Those necessities can be things such as preparation, and training they need in order ers, and 6) separation from unrelated adults that there are approximately 1,500 children undertaking new projects, improving perfor- to be successful in their changing atmo- whenever possible. who were detained in 2017 and cannot be lo- mance, taking on presented opportunities, sphere. One needs to make sure that this An UAC is defined as anyone under the cated. The tone of the current administration is or addressing key issues. Those needs step is completed at the individual level as age of 18 years at time of arrest by ICE who that these children, who are all under the age lead to modifications such as different flow well as at the team level. This is the lon- 1) does not have lawful status (either entered of 18 years and some of whom are infants, are of processes, job roles, organizational gest part of the two-step process as mul- illegally or remained in the US longer than their potential criminals. Who cares about locating structure, or types of technology utilized. It tiple rounds of communication are essen- visa permitted), 2) who did not have a parent potential criminals until after they have com- involves multiple teams and a customized tial. This should be the central focus of the or guardian with them at the time of arrest, 3) mitted a crime? plan to deliver change effectively. project. who did not have a parent or guardian in close This decrease in moral authority is an Change management is a systematic How can leadership influence an ef- proximity to place of arrest to provide immedi- abomination and should be addressed public- approach to implementing new processes fective change management plan? In this ate care, and 4) who does not have a parent ly, with strident calls for action to locate these and methodologies. It is an essential tool case, leaders are defined as those who or guardian in the US who can care for them missing children and a plan of action to pre- in a leader’s arsenal. Managing change oversee the team spearheading the pro- immediately after the arrest. vent such losses in the future. Ripping families is difficult. The success of change does cess as well as those additional stakehold- In 2002, when ICE was facing claims that apart is not the act of a nation steeped in de- not completely rely on the person or team —continued on next page they were not treating UAC properly, Congress mocracy and the rule of law. t spearheading the management process.

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the opportunity to meet like-minded individ- now reads: “A contestant must identify as leather clubs. To accommodate members of uals from all over the country. He remained male regardless of gender presentation other clubs coming from out of town, COM- a member of AUA until 1990 when the club or government identification.” COMMAND MAND MC selected a larger hotel this year. disbanded. For Sir Mike, the 1980s were a MC continues to grow its membership with The Lord Baltimore Hotel will be the Leather roller-coaster of highs and lows. He thrilled meetings on the first Monday of each month host hotel with the Baltimore Eagle host- in exploring his many interests while nav- at 7 pm at the Baltimore Eagle and bar ing the contest and most of the other cel- Line igating Chicago’s thriving leather scene. nights at the Baltimore Eagle on the third ebrations. For a full schedule of events, Rodney Burger But the 1980s also brought the AIDS epi- Saturday of the month. tickets, and a contestant application, visit demic and Sir Mike lost so many friends to The 30th anniversary of COMMAND MC Commandmc.org. Who will be Mr. Maryland the disease that Chicago soon became an and the Mr. Maryland Leather 2019 Contest Leather 2019? It could be you! An Interview with the unbearable city filled with ghosts. He felt will be held in Baltimore on November 1st to COMMAND MC welcomes you to join in compelled to start over elsewhere. 4th. The weekend will also include a meet- its event filled 30th Anniversary Maryland Having met a friend through AUA who ing of the Atlantic Motorcycle Coordinating Leather Weekend. I’m sure the president lived in Arlington, Virginia, he moved to Counsel, an umbrella organization for area will approve. t President northern Virginia in 1989. In 1990, he was offered a job in Baltimore. Just after moving to Bal- They say that if you want to get all … Not that timore for his new job he the facts you should go right to the heard about a leather club in source. With the 30th anniversary president! Baltimore called COMMAND of COMMAND MC in November MC (an acronym for a Corps quickly approaching, I went right to the top. of Men Making a Noticeable Difference Mo- That top in question is the president of COM- torcycle Club). In 1991, he pledged the club MAND MC, Sir Mike. Recently Sir Mike was and became a member. kind enough to invite me to his Mount Vernon The year 1991 was a big year for COM- townhouse for an interview. His home was not MAND MC. It was the year that the club de- only tastefully decorated but was also filled cided to produce a leather contest and to with framed posters from past International send the winner to represent Maryland in Mr. Leather Contests and other historic docu- the International Mr. Leather Contest. Mr. ments from his leather journey. Maryland Leather 1991 was Troy Leonhart For Sir Mike, the International Mr. and Sir Mike and COMMAND MC founding Leather Contest is not just some leather member Dan Noel accompanied Troy to event that he attends while visiting Chicago Chicago. The weekend was a huge suc- in May, it is a contest that he competed in cess with Troy selected first runner-up at while representing Chicago’s iconic Touché International Mr. Leather. bar in 1982, back when he was a Chicago Sir Mike spent many years with COM- resident. In fact, he discovered IML quite by MAND MC holding various positions on accident in 1979 when he was living in Ohio the board. After more than a and traveled to Chicago during decade, he stepped back and the Memorial Day Weekend for became an alumni member. his sister’s wedding. While in With a busy job including town, he stopped in at the Gold lots of overtime and having Coast Bar, which was packed moved out to Harford Coun- with leather guys. It wasn’t long ty with a partner, he had little before he was planning to move time to devote to the club. Af- to the Windy City. ter moving back to Baltimore Sir Mike traces his attrac- City, Sir Mike was asked by tion to leather back to seeing his the outgoing COMMAND MC grandfather’s leather jacket when President, Kris DeBlase, to his was little. When his grandfa- come back and run for pres- ther wasn’t around he would try it ident. As Kris was moving to on. The scent of leather engulfed Sir Mike Florida, it made for a great him. Years later he would wear that very – Hail opportunity. leather jacket on stage at IML. During my to the Sir Mike has seen a lot of visit he proudly went to his coat closet and chief! changes in the leather community removed the jacket to show it to me. His over the years. grandfather may be gone, but that leather As COMMAND MC begins to celebrate jacket that stirred a young boy’s fetish so 30 years, the club has recently made some many years ago is still with him. As time changes too. To encourage diversity and in- went on, Sir Mike became very involved in clusion in the club, the acronym now stands Chicago’s leather community. With his ap- for: A Corp of Marylanders Making a Notice- preciation of uniforms, he joined the Amer- able Difference Motorcycle Club. A change ican Uniform Association. At that time, it has also been made to the contestant ap- was a national organization giving Sir Mike plication for Mr. Maryland Leather 2019. It

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