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LGBT LEADERS COMMIT to HIV/AIDS p. 3 2 • December 6, 2007 - Jan. 2 , 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Opinions Ann Coulter: Rhetoric with no substance The Controversial Couch Lie back and listen. Then get up and do something By: Nicole C. Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief behalf. Also, according to Coulter, Conservatives By: Suzan Ambrose/TRT Columnist ecently, I was up late channel surf- believe in the defense of the United States, not The holidays. ty, do not feel the warmth of the family fire. ing when I came upon a face well the Liberals because Liberals believe in These words have a way of conjuring up We’re a lot more in sync with the characters known to many—Ann Coulter. R amnesty. I often ponder if those vocal images of going home, being with the ones on the island of misfit toys. There she was in all of her unwarranted, big- Conservatives even know what amnesty is or you love, dreamy Norman Rockwell snap- What happens when Christmas time isn’t all oted glory ranting, as usual, a rhetoric that how it is granted because certainly if they shots of life the way it outta be, Betty Crocker ‘Merry and Bright?’ When having gay appar- was not only difficult to follow based on her understood the concept, they would realize cookies, the singing of carols—and let’s not el isn’t enough? apparent lack of knowledge about the subject that they haven’t a leg to stand on. forget drinking hot buttered rum while chest- Far too many of us are not accepted by the matter, but because of the sheer embarrass- Shamelessly, she bragged as she declared nuts are roasting on the open fire (Although, churches or houses of worship we grew up in ment I felt for her. I was more than baffled by that she was well known for her attacks on I’ve yet to see this tradition enacted!). with open arms. Regardless of the fact that we what was coming out of her mouth. people. Even with an audience of conserva- Yes, it’s the holiday season, and even with- love, revere and cherish the rituals that have I remember back in 2005 when I was watch- tives, she failed to engage many of them. It out the bells, and the trees, and the chubby become us and, indeed, are still us to some ing a similar aired event where she was speak- was like watching a bad 70’s horror film. men in tight fitting red suits, one can’t ignore extent. Many religious institutions leave us ing, and interestingly enough, her rhetoric Praising Bush, degrading Hillary Clinton, the fact that it’s here, even if you wanted to. with an ‘all-or- nothing’ take on the Holy hasn’t expanded at all. Her verbose was as John Edwards, Barack Obama and John Not to mention that most of us feel the need to Days. Not gay? You’re in. Gay? Those flaccid as ever. As usual, she spoke about her Kerry, Coulter had it all figured out. As neo- go home for the ‘holy-days’…by desire or doors are closed—firmly and distinctly. pro-war sentiments, her opposition to abor- conservative as she is, she was quick to admit (alas!) obligation. I’m tired of hearing religious leaders, who tion, her definition of what makes a person a that none of the Republican candidates were Fa La La La La—Merry Christmas, Happy claim to speak about what’s truly spiritual, great conservative, all while she mocked, any good for the presidential running because Hanukkah and all the rest; it’s that most won- dismiss us as unworthy of being good, kind, belittled and degraded everyone else around they were not conservative enough! derful time of the year! virtuous individuals that are incapable of her, including Romney & Giuliani! Perhaps the most shocking statement was Yes, that special time to see the folks who being filled with the spirit of something Coulter attempted in an inartuculate manner that, according to Coulter, journalism should gave birth to you or the siblings you were sacred. Gays and lesbians have the same to clarify many of her beliefs that night. While not be objective. Ok—if it is not objective raised, with who may (or may not) share your needs, fears and desires as all other spiritual emphatically stating them, she was sure to then it is subjective. Wouldn’t that be a great family values. beings. We are not a category unto ourselves mention that Liberals and Democrats lack way to brainwash the nation! Don’t we Oh joy to the world—not necessarily mine, when it comes to cherishing family, or values, intelligence and are “dumb” in her words. already have enough people in powerful posi- nor yours. and what those words represent. Liberals and Democrats are “ungodly” in tions trying to do so? Not surprisingly, she I’m hoping that many of you look forward Family—and family values. nature and believe in harming others. praised FOX! It takes one to know one. to seeing your family during this season of What these words reflect have been stolen Unbelievable! However, according to Coulter, After I watched the disturbing broadcast, I love and togetherness. That the gift giving is by the religious right, and used callously Conservatives are the ones who believe in went to a favorite site of mine—moveon.org. a joyous experience, and driving or flying to against gays and lesbians for decades by those God and Liberals believe they are God. Did I If you have not yet visited this site, please do. see The Parents & Co. is something you antic- who would dare to speak for a creator we miss that lesson because I always remember ipate with the glee of the child in an amuse- know made us exactly the way we are, with a the religious right acting out of hate on God’s See Coulter on p. 4 ment park (“Oh goodie, I’m almost there!”). purpose in mind. But being gay at Christmas, or any other My parents put the family values lessons Love, Rights…and the Rest of It holy day you’d like to interject here, isn’t into action like this (I’ll give you the PG ver- By: JM Sorrell*/TRT Columnist strangers and always an Ave Maria moment. sion): “Please don’t bring home any evidence Far too many of us in the GLBT communi- of your gayness; no partners, hand-holding his is some of the “rest of it.” Twelve people who do days of Christmas. Eight days of not celebrate Letters to the Editor See Couch on Page 3 TChanukah. Let’s split the difference. Christmas. Here are recommended activities for The 10 Everyone Dear Editor, The Rainbow Times Days of Chanumas: knows it is a I am writing this letter in response to an 351 Pleasant St., #322 1. Visit, call, or write to old people in your not-so-clever- editorial recently submitted questioning, or Northampton, MA 01060 life. The holidays can be a difficult time for ly-disguised rather challenging the need for a transgen- www.therainbowtimesnews.com those dealing with loss. If you don’t have “merry christ- der pride march separate from the LGBT [email protected] anyone, go to a nursing home and bring cheer mas” and a pride in Northampton. [email protected] with you. Help with an activity. tossed bone to While the sentiments of that letter come Phone: 413-204-8959 • Fax: 866-310-8512 P.S. You’re a putz if you ignore this man- J.M. the JP Jews, Pagans, with good intention, to pull together as one LGBT community, or even as one FAMILY, Publisher Columnists: date. Muslims, etc. Instead, say “Peace” if you are Dr. Renee Lang they sadly ignore the interactions that real- Gricel M. Ocasio 2. Ask for forgiveness from one or more of compelled to verbalize year-end warmth and Jennifer Dexter good wishes. ly take place in this community. Trans peo- Editor-In-Chief the @!* schmucks you have offended this Nicole Lashomb Jack/ie Kennedy year. 8. Schlep to the schmendrik’s house for the ple, and more broadly gender variant and Suzan Ambrose gender non-conforming people of all identi- Sales & Dist. 3. Let go of your anger for all of the ass- sake of your partner and/or family. Writers: Ben Peterson holes who do not know how to drive, who cut 9. Be a mensch about the goyisha essen that ties, are often excluded from the main- Lindsay Wilson you off, who are self-absorbed and dangerous. abounds in work places and everywhere else stream LGB movement. This occurs Sales Associates: J.M. Sorrell through LGBT conferences that only focus If you are one of these people, stop making this time of the year. Simone Irizarry Webmaster: the rest of us angry! What do you mean, I 10. Do an Oprah thing. Without premedita- on lesbians and gay men, LGBT rights SJ Seymour Jarred Johnson need anger management courses? tion, act kind in a moment you may otherwise organizations without one trans person in a The Rainbow Times is published by The Rainbow Times, 4. Whilst shopping, allow one person to go ignore. Stay present. position of power, or through hateful looks LLC. The articles written by the writers, columnists, and Finally, if you are feeling sad, use humor to and ignorant comments, which perhaps correspondents express their opinion, and do not repre- in front of you in line this month. At the very sent the endorsement or opinion of The Rainbow Times, least, refrain from giving a dirty look to the get you through December. Yiddish expres- leave the deepest scars. 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See More Letters to the Editor on Page 4 reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Dec. 6, 2007 - Jan. 2, 2008 • 3 More Opinions & News National LGBT Leaders Renew Commitment to HIV/AIDS Call for Urgent Response From NIH, CDC and LGBT Community to Devastating Impact on Black Gay Men WASHINGTON—Leaders of the LGBT one has been designed or adapted for black Advocacy Coalition. civil rights movement issued an urgent gay men. Additionally, very little research The National Coalition for Lesbian, Gay, statement five days after gathering in has been conducted to determine the actu- Bisexual and Transgender Helath is com- Washington, DC, amid continuing signs of al reason for the disparity of impact seen mitted to improving the health and well- the unabated impact of the HIV epidemic among black gay men in the United States. being of lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans- across the United States. The leaders are "Our communities cannot accept that our gender individuals and communities calling for a renewed effort to address the lives are not worth the effort to engage in through public education, coalition build- HIV epidemic and its devastating impact, the research, prevention and care neces- ing and advocacy that focus on research, especially in black gay communities. The sary to improve our health and better our policy, education and training gathering was convened by the National lives,” the leaders’ statement reads. The National Black Gay Men’s Advocacy Black Gay Men's Advocacy Coalition and In addition to Cummings and Hopkins, Coalition is committed to improving the the National Coalition for LGBT Health. the LGBT leadership organizations partic- health and well-being of Black Gay Men "When the AIDS crisis began, the LGBT ipating in the meeting and their representa- through advocacy that is focused on community came together with great tives were: Arcus Foundation (Cindy research, policy, education and training. force," said Darrel Cummings, Deputy Rizzo), Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Director of the LA Gay and Lesbian Defamation (Rashad Robinson), Gay and Center, a member of the National Coalition has heightened the concern of the leaders Lesbian Medical Association (Joel for LGBT Health’s executive committee about the epidemic’s continued impact, Ginsberg), Lambda Legal (Kevin Cathcart who led the call for the gathering. “But especially among black gay men. and Bebe Anderson), Log Cabin Don’t forget to with the advent of effective treatments, the “It is shameful that 25 years into the epi- Republicans (Patrick Sammon), National growth of organizations focused just on demic, the National Institutes of Health Black Justice Coalition (Earl Plante), check out the HIV, and as the epidemic has moved into has not done the research and the Centers National Stonewall Democrats (Jon communities of color, HIV has largely fall- for Disease Control and Prevention has not Hoadley) and the Task Force (Matt en off the agenda for the leading LGBT given us the tools to stop the impact of Foreman). Ultimate Guide civil rights groups." HIV in black gay communities,” said Also participating were Hutson Innis, a A 2005 study from the US Centers for Ernest Hopkins, Policy Committee Chair member of the National Coalition for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) in for the National Black Gay Men’s LGBT Health executive committee, Rudy for Gay Gift Giving! five major cities showed that 46% of black Advocacy Coalition and director of federal Carn, chair of the National Black Gay gay men had acquired HIV and that 67% of affairs at the San Francisco AIDS Men’s Advocacy Coalition, and A. them were unaware of their HIV status. Foundation. Cornelius Baker, National Policy Advisor p. 12 & 13 Surveillance data released by the New Of 129 interventions developed to for the National Black Gay Men’s York City Health Department in address HIV in African Americans, only September 2007 and other recent reports

Couch from Page 2 girlfriends or Irish clatter rings. No “so, who Christmas, nor the “ho ho ho” that could be are you seeing now?” conversations, but plen- interpreted as racially explosive, or the ty of “I know a nice lad from church you manger with the baby on the lawn of the town should meet” hints. Ugh. common—it’s a lack of understanding the real And let’s not forget the novenas and prayer reason for the season. cards with masses being said in my name - a So whether you’re celebrating Solstice, prayer for the damned, one might say, since I Hanukkah, Kwanza, Ramadan or Christmas, wasn’t about to reject my god given love of take a moment to reflect on this truth—we are women. all human beings. We are all family. For the ‘Don’t ask, don’t tell’ went into effect way GLBT community, we may be the only fami- before the military started using it. ly some of us have at this point in our lives. But, back to the Christmas Spirit … And it’s time to show the world what kind of This month, men playing Santa in Australia family values we hold for ourselves. are being asked not to say ”ho ho ho!”. Why? So look around you. Open your hearts and Because it might offend someone! And, your homes. These mistletoe moments can be instead, it’s being suggested they say: “ha ha lonely and confusing for many in our commu- ha!” nity. The idea of Santa saying “ha ha ha” con- This is the time for family interaction, jures up in my mind, an image of little kids regardless of whether it’s with a family you running terrified through the mall. “Mommy, were born into, or one of your own making. why is he laughing at me?” If ”ho ho ho” Celebrating all that is dear to us and recogniz- could be considered offensive, ”ha ha ha” ing everything we have to be grateful could be deemed intolerant. for—that is the key to the real Feliz Navidid. It doesn’t feel so Jolly Ole St. Nick in our world sometimes. As of JANUARY 1, 2008, it is What’s offensive isn’t the Christ in LEGAL in 30 states to FIRE someone for being GAY, Remember, LESBIAN OR BISEXUAL. you saw it It is LEGAL In 38 states to FIRE TRT an employee for being here first! TRANSGENDER. 4 • December 6, 2007 - Jan. 2 , 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com In ‘The Name of God’ Priest sex abuse trial headed to jury Christian group sues over student BURLINGTON, Vt. (AP)—Closing argu- in Milton in 1980. ments are expected soon in the case of a man ``The first time I ever heard that term 'sin of discrimination law suing the Roman Catholic Diocese of scandal' was when I was contacted by one of By: Juliet Williams/AP Vermont over his alleged molestation by a the lawyers about this case,'' Keller said. ``I SACRAMENTO (AP)—A Christian priest more than 30 years ago. don't recall ever hearing the term 'sin of scan- group based in Southern California is suing James Turner, 47, of Virginia Beach, Va., dal' before.'' the state over a law that prohibits discrimi- accuses the diocese of covering up and failing Norman Blais, who served as deputy prose- nation against gays in schools. to respond to the sexual misconduct of then- cutor in Keller's office, also said he didn't The group, Murrieta-based Advocates Rev. Alfred Willis. He accuses the now- remember the ``sin of scandal'' comment. for Faith and Freedom, filed the lawsuit defrocked former priest of performing a sex Diocesan lawyers have said the church was Tuesday in U.S. District Court in San act on him in a Latham, N.Y., hotel room in not aware that Willis was a child sex predator Diego. 1977 after the ordination of Turner's older and argue that Turner knew the impact of the It claims the law is unconstitutionally brother. abuse years ago. vague and violates student privacy. Mark Keller, a former Chittenden County The statute of limitations restricts when a State Sen. Sheila Kuehl, a Santa Monica state's sttorney, on Friday challenged claims person can file a civil lawsuit in such cases. Democrat who is openly gay, wrote the that the late Bishop John Marshall pressured Turner said he told his brother and mother bill, which was signed by Governor Arnold him in an effort to prevent potential criminal about the abuse in 1981 but said he did not Schwarzenegger in October. child sex abuse charge against Willis. know the effect it would have on his life until She says it is intended to consolidate Susan Via, former assistant prosecutor in after 2002. Diocesan lawyers say he also told existing state education laws that already Keller's office, told the jury in videotaped tes- a former wife in the 1990s. prohibit discrimination based on sexual timony earlier this week that Marshall told The diocese completed its testimony and orientation. Keller he would commit the ``sin of scandal'' presentation of evidence on recently. Closing Opponents say the law promotes homo- by investigating claims Willis molested boys arguments will take place soon. sexual, bisexual and transgender lifestyles to children. Pope urges more church teaching Coulter from p. 2 Moveon.org seeks to bring truth to the citizens and financially to make their voices heard. VATICAN CITY (AP)—Pope Benedict make the Catholic Church's social teachings Through moveon.org, you can make your XVI on Saturday criticized what he said was better known and accepted. of this country. It puts the genuine interest of voice heard. It is our physcial and fiscal the tendency of debate at international organ- The Vatican spokesman, the Rev. Federico the consumer and the American people first. I attempt to put an end to such mindless blath- izations to ignore “natural moral law”' in their Lombardi, said the pope's remarks were not am tired of people such as Coutler and their efforts to make a an attack on the attempts at tarnishing the names of good peo- er—one Conservative at a time. America is more peaceful United Nations, ple who have good intentions at hand. progressive. It always was until the wrong world. which the pope is Moveon.org is one tool that we can use to people got into power many years ago. He cited what scheduled to visit combat such people. The Conversatives have Now it is our turn. For more informaiton visit: he called a “selec- in April, but been working a long time together, politically www.moveon.org. tive defense of merely reflected human rights” in his long-standing Letters to the Editor from Page 2 discussions at concern over the The author is right to say that the LGBT whether they are racial justice allies, union international failure to have a movement has come a long way, but he is allies, economic justice allies, reproductive organizations—an firm moral basis not right to say that there has been justice allies, sex worker allies, or LGB or apparent reference in political “enough.” And certainly not when state- straight allies. This is an opportunity to to the United debate. ments are being made that trans people show that this is one community! Nations’ provision The Vatican is should be included in the LGB community, The author states that trans people have of family planning not a U.N. mem- as if they are a tack on. In fact, trans peo- been accepting of him, and understand the services to women ber state but is a around the world. permanent ple started this community at Stonewall, pains and joys he has been through. Perhaps The Vatican observer without and if there were going to be gatekeepers, more productive than criticizing the exis- opposes artificial a vote. In 2004, it would be the trans and gender non-con- tence of a trans pride march, is to dialogue contraception and abortion. the U.N. General Assembly voted to give it forming people whose predecessors paved and work with the members of the LGB At an audience with Catholic-inspired non- the right to intervene in debates without seek- these progressive roads. community that are not as accepting of their governmental organizations, Benedict urged ing permission, the right of reply and the right It is true that segregated events might sep- trans family, and those people certainly do groups working with the United Nations and to have its documents circulated. arate the community. Trans pride will not be exist. I don’t doubt that the letter to which other organizations to redouble their efforts to that, however, unless the LGB community I’m responding comes with good intentions, wants it that way. Though it is separate from so I encourage this individual and those the LGBT pride, it is not a closed affair. Just with similar sentiments to get involved and as the mainstream pride welcomes allies see why trans pride is something to be her- that want to celebrate in the diversity of this alded. world, trans pride is open to people from all This letter is not meant to alienate the walks of life. Personally I am not trans, yet author, the LGB community, or anyone else. still working to organize this march. This Rather, it is intended to acknowledge that will be the first trans pride march in New we should all support the desires and needs England, the first visible celebration of its of any part of our population that want to kind. The LGB community in the area stand together and walk for their rights. should be pleased that such an event would Good for them! And even better if their take place in their town. The event is not allies want to celebrate this bravery, because meant to segregate, but rather to acknowl- either way, it is happening! edge that trans and gender non-conforming In solidarity, people are an integral and triumphant part of Alicia Jay, Springfield, MA the LGBT community, and should be hon- Want to send your letter to the Editor? ored as such. All are welcome at this event, therainbowtimesnews.com/contact.html www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Dec. 6, 2007 - Jan. 2, 2008 • 5 Featured Business The Chez Est: Much more than a typical nightclub By: Nicole Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief er female to male ratio. [When] we have providing health services and STD educa- With a variety of themed nights, a long performers such as the American Idol stars tion for the LGBT community, and Out running happy hour, a full menu and a or the National Recording artists, we get a Film, formerly know as the CT Gay and seven-day-a-week operation, The Chez Est range of young and old, gay and straight. Lesbian Film Festival, benefit from contri- Nightclub has been tagged as having A few Star performances of the past butions on behalf of The Chez. The Chez “something for everyone,” according to its include artists such as 80’s Superstar also sponsors the CT Bull Moose Women's General Manager and Booking agent. Tiffany, Expose's Lead Singer Gioia, 70’s Rugby team, the Southern New England “The tag line is that ‘there's something icon Jeanie Tracy, Drag greats such as Softball league of which the Chez has a for everyone at The Chez,’” said Bryan Lady Bunny and Trai La Trash, American team, and the Friendship Bowling League Couzens, General Manager and Booking Idols Kimberley Locke and Frenchie Davis, of which the Chez has two teams. Agent, The Chez Est Nightclub, Hartford, International superstar Kristine W,. The Chez came to existence thanks to a Conn. “This could not be truer. Each night amongst others. straight ally who believed in the LGBT is themed differently. [We have] Latin Aside from its diverse clientele, community explained Couzens. night every third Saturday, which is New acclaimed performance artists and ameni- “The Chez Started in 1975 due to a very England's longest running Latin Dance ties, The Chez has been noted for its contri- supportive and good hearted straight man Party, Club Lucy also New England's bution to the community and surrounding who had a gay stepson with no where to go- longest running ladies party every 2nd services. in the mid 70s—a time when being gay was Saturday, Drag shows, Karaoke, Retro “The Chez has always been a leader in not accepted at all,” said Couzens. night; 70's and 80's, theme parties, guest community support. Long before I started, The Chez Est is opened seven days a performers, etc.” there were always fund-raising events done week and 365 days a year. Check them out Although The Chez is largely patronized for local charities,” said Couzens. at 458 Wethersfield Ave. in Hartford, Conn. by gay men, Couzens claims that the mix of According to Couzens, when he became For more information about The Chez Est, the Nightclub crowd is substantial. responsible for sponsorship and fund-rais- visit www.chezest.com. To view a complete “We are noticing a large influx in college ing, organizations and groups such as the schedule of show dates and times, visit guys and girls,” Couzens said. “The com- Imperial Sovereign Court of CT, a non- their myspace page at ments they all seem to make is that the profit drag organization that raises money http://myspace.com/ChezNightclub. music is better, and the people are friend- for local charities, The Hartford Gay and lier. Latin night and Ladies night get a larg- Lesbian Health Collective, an organization DJ ESCAPE www.therainbowtimesnews.com

RTainbowhe Times Your LGBT News in Western MA, the Capital District of NY, Northern CT, & Southern VT 6 • December 6, 2007 - Jan. 2 , 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Local News Curtain call: Joseph, Elvis, 12 gay men and a Technicolor Dreamcoat By: Nicole Lashomb Dreamcoat was held at the South Hadley TRT Editor-in-Chief High School Auditorium in South Hadley, A packed house and a standing ovation MA . The show was presented by The Black was how the final night curtain call of Cat Theater. Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor About Black Cat Theater Dreamcoat ended. The Black Cat Theater is celebrating its Directed by Matt Meers, this musical per- 22nd year of offering outstanding theater formance was riveting, exciting, comical productions at an affordable cost to the and thought provoking. community. With an all volunteer cas and “I’ve done this show several times,” said under the direction of Matt Meers, BCT's Meers. “It was fun pulling it together and production last of Joseph and the Amazing trying different things. Technicolor Dreamcoat had a great cast of Meers also expressed his sentiments of players with cast members throughout the working with his cast. region. To find out more about BCT or to “I love working with these people,” he Joesph and the Amzaing Technicolor Dreamcoat cast. Joseph is reunited with his brothers. Photo: Black Cat Theater get involved in an upcoming show, visit said. “We are all friends” there was a lot of energy on the stage and in it is over.” www.blackcattheater.com, call 413-563- Set in the biblical days, Joseph’s broth- the audience. Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor 6023 or e-mail [email protected]. ers, jealous of their fathers affection toward “All of the shows went really well,” said him, sold him into slavery to rid him from Thomas Kreek. “It felt good all of the time. their family. I fed off of the audience a lot for my per- Transgender Day of Remembrance: Perhaps the highlight of the show was formance.” Our trans community here at home when Joseph’s father was desperately griev- Joseph’s character furthers. ing what he thought was the loss of his son. “It went wonderful,” said Nick Adams By: Nicole Lashomb/Editor-in-Chief murdered because of anti-transgender hatred Ironically, calling that the highlight was (Joseph). “We had a great cast and we SPRINGFIELD, MA—In lieu of the or prejudice. “This is, as a trans person, the most impor- based upon the manner in which Joseph’s worked so hard. Matt is a good Director and National Transgender Day of Remembrance, tant day of the year,” father grieved as he paraded through the it didn’t even feel like work while we were dozens of family mem- said Keri Stebbins, crowd in mourning and wailing his tears of preparing the show. We are all like a big bers, friends and allies Why TDR is important* Moderator, Pioneer sadness. His acting drew laughter from the family and every time we got together, we gathered at Blue Moon Coffee Roasters, Valley UNITY. audience. had fun.” • Crimes against transgender individuals This event was spon- While Joseph was imprisoned, his natu- Thunderous applause was echoed through Springfield, MA for a often remain invisible to the public, unre- vigil dedicated to honor sored by UNITY, a rally-born prophetic nature was discovered the auditorium as the final curtain call drew. ported, and unsolved. The Transgender those whose lives were transgender support and he was given a beautiful Technicolor The show concluded. Day of Remembrance serves to raise pub- taken just for being them- group, Baystate Health “The closing night was stronger in the lic awareness of hate crimes against trans- Dreamcoat. selves: transgender. Systems, Blue Moon It wasn’t until the end of the show that his sense that there was a different energy,” gender people, an action that media fre- Coffee Roasters, D.J. “This is about UNITY, quently does not perform. father realized that Joseph was still alive said Mark Carmien, a brother of Joseph and but also about people Rockin Reenie, Mass. and finally reunited with his brothers. the owner of Pride & Joy. “For the opening who lost their lives Department of Public • The Day of Remembrance publicly Health, Outreach Van, According to different cast members, night you are full of jitters and then comes because they were who mourns and honors the lives of our brothers whether it was opening or closing night, the closing night and it’s a bittersweet when they were,” said Sandy and The Rainbow and sisters who might otherwise be forgot- Times. Ortega, Program Director ten. Through the vigil, we express love and “It took a lot of guts I-CTR, Baystate respect for our people in the face of nation- and energy to do this Brightwood Health al indifference and hatred. This day with the expectation THE HONORABLE Center, Springfield, MA. reminds non-transgender people that trans- that the [mainstream] J. MARY SORRELL The commemoration gender people are their sons, daughters, media was going to be ] was held to honor Rita parents, friends and lovers. A MEMBER OF OUR TRIBE JM the JP Hester, who was mur- here,” said Ortega. “The fact that they were not dered in San Francisco in • The Day of Remembrance gives allies a here is a disrespect to all Have you met the 1998. Her murder ignited chance to step forward and stand in vigil, of us.” LOVE of YOUR LIFE? the “Remembering Our memorializing those who have died as a Dead” web project and result of anti-transgender violence. Throughout the serv- All couples, odd and beautiful, deserve the first remembrance ice, messages of honor, dedication, and servi- to be recognized. candlelight vigil in 1999. • The Day of Remembrance provides com- Since then, each year, munities with an opportunity to discuss the tude were echoed for people all around the need to protect students against discrimina- the departed. My commitment is to serve each and world have hosted events tion and harassment based on gender iden- “They are not forgot- every couple to meet your unique needs, in honor of Trans victims tity and expression. ten, they are still remembered and we from simple to large weddings (and every- who have gone before us. *www.pflag.org “Vigils as this one, raise will finish their lives for thing in between). public awareness of hate crimes against trans them,” said Ann people,” said Deja Nicole Greenlaw, UNITY Stebbins, UNITY member. Secular, spiritual, inter-faith, and couples I have not yet imagined should member. “It gives our allies a chance to step Other vigils to honor the Transgender Day of Remembrance were held at Greenfield call me! Peace, JM forward with us and stand in vigilance. There is violence still today against Trans individu- Community College and the Unitarian Universalist Meetinghouse in Amherst. Also serving heterosexual couples. “Some of my best friends ...” als and it must stop. So, we do this to show the public that there is a need for this to stop.” To view a complete listing of those being Monday, November 20th was the official honored and remembered, visit 413.427.4153 • email: [email protected] National Transgender Day of Remembrance. www.gender.org/remember/index.html#. JUSTICE LGBTQ OF COUPLES THE PEACE SERVING This day aims to honor those who have been www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Dec. 6, 2007 - Jan. 2, 2008 • 7 Entertainment Q’lebrities Melissa Ferrick at IMA: Rocking the barn By: J.M. Sorell was purchased in Western Massachusetts for a TRT Writer/Reviewer permanent facility. The institute has a non- On November 17th, over 150 people attend- TRT’s exclusive interview with Melissa Ferrick* profit status of 501(c)3 with a mission to sup- ed the Melissa Ferrick concert held at the barn port women and girls in music and music- Q: How many CD's have you released? of Joan Armatrading, The Beatles, Crosby stills for The Institute for Musical Arts (IMA) in related businesses. Rooted in the legacy of A: Two on Atlantic; Three on W.A.R. records; Nash and Young, Eric Clapton. Certainly, this Goshen, Massachusetts. progressive equal rights movements, IMA's and Six on my own label, Right On Records was my parents taste in music at the time. I was The audience, mostly comprised of women development is guided by the visions, needs studying classical music so I was exposed to a in their 20’s and 30’s, sat on an eclectic col- Q: When was your first CD released? and concerns of women from a diversity of broad range of music. Now I am inspired by lection of chairs and couches of all kinds A: 1993 on Atlantic it was called "Massive Blur" backgrounds and has grown from the need to younger artists like, Brandi Carlile-who is doing arranged in a shell-shape around the stage as nourish ourselves and each other. so well commercially and totally keeping her they listen to Ferrick perform. Q: How do you define or describe your genre Phoebe Snow, Cris Williamson, and Bonnie wits about her. And to unknown acts like Nicole June Millington, co-founder of the Institute of music? Raitt, amongst others, serve on the Advisory Reynolds.. as well of course are my favorites; I for the Musical Arts, introduced the A: Singer-Songwriter/alternative acoustic Board. always buy their records when they come out: singer/songwriter. Millington spoke to the audience about the Q: Which venues do you prefer for con- Aimee Mann, Elvis Costello, Bruce Springsteen, Melissa Ferrick played two sets with energy Native consideration of thinking ahead for the certs? Ani DiFranco, Dave Matthews, Ben Harper, and an intimacy not encouraged in larger ven- future seven generations of girls and women A: Small theaters like 800 capacity seated ven- Fiona Apple, etc…. ues. She played new and old songs alike, and ues with the intention of turning this space over as she showed patience and humor while sound Q: As you grow, do you find yourself moving time goes on. She clearly pronounced that system problems persisted in the first set. If Q: Describe how you feel when you perform in new directions musically? Or is there a IMA is sacred space. you missed this concert, you can see her with collaboratively v. solo? signature sound that is all your own? For more information about the IMA and Erin McKeown and Alix Olson at the Calvin A: It's different with a full band-more fun on Hmm ... I try to move in new directions—I think the programs they offer, visit www.ima.org. Theater in Northampton, MA on December stage, but less intense. I enjoy playing solo live that is more likely to be heard through the pro- 31 at 8pm or at the WAMC Performing Arts because of the battle within myself to make or duction, rather than my song writing though. I Studio in Albany, NY with Chris Pureka on break the song; the moment. It is a vulnerable, am trying to improve as a writer and as a per- January 26, 2008. For more information passionate, visual and audible experience former but the growth is little by little. It's like Have a about Melissa and her upcoming events, unlike any other that has become my livelihood. when you have a kid; you can't tell how much please visit her website at www.melissafer- Q: You are such a talented artist, and I imag- taller they're getting but then when I see them SAFE and HAPPPY rick.com. ine that people have inspired you along the (my nieces and nephew) after having not seen The Institute for the Musical Arts was way. Would you like to mention anyone in them for only two weeks, it's like ‘Oh my gosh, Holiday Season! founded by Ann Hackler and June Millington particular? your huge!’ I hope my fans can hear my growth in Northern California in 1986. It operated its A: Sure, lots of people inspire me currently, and from album to album. studio and programs from Bodega, CA's his- of course in the past. As a kid I listened to a lot * By: J.m. Sorrell TRT toric Old Creamery until 2001 when property

413-569-0000 8 • December 6, 2007 - Jan. 2 , 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com QueerJustice Divorce, child support, and what to expect from the Court System? By: Jennifer Dexter*/TRT Law Columnist complaint in the county license, a notarized separation agreement as Court, upon a finding of indegency, may pay Dear Readers! where you last lived well as the signed complaint. (Please note for the filing fee as well as the sheriff’s serv- I apologize for my absence. But I am back with your spouse. If the that if you do not file a separation agreement ice fee under 1B. and ready for your questions. divorce is contested, or with the complaint it must be filed within After all the paperwork is completed, I get many questions regarding the divorce the two of you can not ninety days). Be aware that there is required signed and filed, the court will send you cor- process, child support, how to change or mod- agree on anything, you paperwork which the Clerks can assist you respondence letting you know your next court ify an existing Divorce Decree and what to would file a Complaint with in both 1A and 1B cases including but date. expect from the Court system. So this will be under Massachusetts not limited to a financial statement. (In the *Attorney Jennifer L. Dexter earned her JD at the first of four articles discussing and General Laws Chapter Court House you will find many pamphlets The Western New England College of Law in describing the ever elusive Divorce process. 209 section 1B. Should which will explain everything.) Be aware that Springfield, Mass. She is a member of the Most people believe that the first step in you and your partner your financial statement is signed under the Massachusetts Bar and has a Solo General Atty. Jennifer Dexter getting a divorce is coming up with a large find yourselves on com- pains and penalties of perjury. You must hon- Practice in the Pioneer Valley Area. retainer for an attorney; but actually the mon ground you can file a joint complaint for estly disclose all of your assets as well as your The information contained herein is intended Probate and Family Court is very pro se (peo- divorce under section 1A of Chapter 209. debts. for educational purposes only and does not rep- ple who are unrepresented) friendly. Your complaint under section 1A should be Be aware that there is a fee associated with resent legal advice. If you have legal question To begin the process you need to file a accompanied by an “Affidavit of Irretrievable the filing, but should you not be able to afford send it to: [email protected] Complaint for Divorce. You must file your Breakdown”, a certified copy of the marriage it, you can file an Affidavit of Indegency. The Can Oprah help Obama? Celeb endorsements are courted and coveted By: Jocelyn Noveck/AP National Writer after Winfrey held a fundraiser for Obama, by a professor at USC's Annenberg School of Obama, Boyd, the USC professor, suggests NEW YORK (AP)—Call it the “O Factor.” the Pew Research Center found that 69 per- Communications. “This is the game,” Kaplan that she has little to lose with her loyal fan Oprah Winfrey picks a “favorite book” or a cent of respondents, or nearly seven in 10 says. “And on the Republican side you have base. But if Obama were to get elected, he “favorite thing,” and poof, it's a best seller. Americans, would not be influenced by Mike Huckabee saying, 'I'll see your Oprah adds, Winfrey has a lot to gain. And now Winfrey’s “favorite senator,” Winfrey's endorsement of a political candi- and raise you Chuck Norris.”' (Other notable “Oprah is very powerful,” Boyd says. “Like Barack Obama, hopes the O Factor will work date. On the other hand, 60 percent believed endorsements include Robert Duvall for Rudy most powerful people, she wants to demon- for him, too, as the talk-show host and media her support would help Obama, and only 3 Giuliani and, for Edwards, Bonnie Raitt and strate her power. She wants to be a kingmak- icon prepares to campaign for the presidential percent said it would hurt him. Jackson Browne.) er. If she can get a president elected, that's a candidate in the early voting states of Iowa, There's no question that Winfrey's status is Whether or not Winfrey ends up helping big line on an already long resume.” New Hampshire and South Carolina. unique. She's above Hollywood, straddling But can Winfrey's influence, vast as it is, the worlds of entertainment, media and phi- extend to the political realm? But then again, lanthropy. “The Oprah Winfrey Show” reach- how many celebrities have the reach and the es close to 9 million Americans each day and power of Oprah Winfrey? is syndicated to 135 foreign countries. Then “Oprah’s in a category of her own,” says there's “O,” her magazine, and her Web site. Todd Boyd, professor at the University of Winfrey's philanthropy has been well-publi- Southern California's School of Cinematic cized, especially her funding of a school for Arts. “She's not a movie star. She's not a rock girls in South Africa. star. She's a brand. She's one of the few peo- With all that, Winfrey's influence with ple in the world who can be identified only by women viewers, and voters, is surely of con- one name.” cern to the other Democratic candidates, who “And yet, with all that, you can't necessari- might have equal-time concerns. ly extrapolate to politics,” says Boyd. “You But legally, the show would be on solid could argue that she didn't get to be popular ground even if it featured Obama every day by being political. Politics has never been a (he's only been on twice). The equal-time pro- big part of her persona. This is not a slam vision of the Federal Communications Act dunk.” provides exemptions to news interview Buddy G My Two Moms and Me, www.BuddyG.tv Developed and Produced by Us2 LLC, The Home of Courting celebrities generally is a mixed shows, and the FCC has ruled that interview Buddy G My Two Moms and Me. Omaha, NE. The DVD retails for $10. Animation by 3 D Magic Factory bag, say political consultants who've been segments on talk shows get the same exemp- involved in the process. First, there’s the neg- tion. As it is, Winfrey says she will not use her Family cartoon appeals to LG parents ative perception of Hollywood in some parts platform, only her personal voice, to advocate By: Gricel M. Ocasio, Publisher metal detector works, for instance. of the country as a place full of wealthy liber- for Obama. The Rainbow Times Towne-Colley and her partner created als out of touch with real concerns. That's why The Clinton campaign, in an e-mail to The A one-of-a-kind and premiere cartoon series “Buddy G My Two Moms and Me” because George Clooney, for example, has kept his Associated Press, said of Winfrey: “We're of the inspiration that the arrival of their son support for Obama out of the public realm for fans and we think it's great she is participating starring a little boy with same sex parents will be available to everyone soon, directly from gave them six years ago. According to Towne- now. in the process. Everyone has wonderful sup- Colley, they hope that families like theirs can “As far as openly campaigning, he thinks it porters, and we're proud of ours”—such as Omaha, NE. Margaux Towne-Colley, Executive relate to the cartoon through their own life hurts the candidate,” says Clooney Steven Spielberg, Magic Johnson and Barbra experiences. spokesman Stan Rosenfield. “You lose the Streisand, who threw her support behind Producer and one of two writers, said to The Rainbow Times that she hopes that the car- “It already has been a fantastic family heartland.” Clinton on Tuesday. adventure, a great experience for us, we want Then there's the fact that a campaign needs And of course, Clinton has her husband, toon is well-received by gay and lesbian fam- ilies as well as everyone else. him seeing and grow up being a happy to be cautious. Bill, hitting the trail—“arguably as much of a healthy man,” said Towne-Colley. “Our hope A poll conducted in September, not long media rock star as Oprah,” says Kaplan, now “This is a cartoon where he has a sidekick and a lot of adventures,” said Towne-Colley. is that it will help him as well as all of the “It is just another cartoon with the fact that he other kids that have two moms and two dads.” has two moms that love him and support him According to the Towne-Colley, future along the way.” episodes will include other families including Buddy G is the cartoon’s main character, a ones with two dads. 5-year-old boy who loves science and wears a The first DVD episode of “Buddy G” can be mini computer strapped to his arm to solve found online at http://buddyg.tv and its cost is problems. The first episode’s purpose, accord- $10. The site also sells T-shirts and other ing to Towne-Colley, is to teach lessons about “Buddy G” gear. honesty along with the teaching of how a For more information visit: http://buddyg.tv www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Dec. 6, 2007 - Jan. 2, 2008 • 9 Health & Auto News Tips and pointers to surviving the Holidays By: Dr. Renee Lang, N.D./TRT Health Doctor people’s New Year water. Proper hydration includes drinking at likely be impaired from lack of sleep. ost of us indulge ourselves over resolutions. least 64 ounces of water and/or herbal tea Rebounding: Get back on a regular schedule the period known as “the holi- Unfortunately, daily. The recommended amount increases of eight hours nightly, or more if you need to Mdays.” many people begin with consumption of the above due to their catch up from lack of sleep. These days the holidays begin on a resolution only to dehydrating effects. A good idea would be to MODERATION Thanksgiving and end sometime after the quit shortly there- drink a glass of water between each alcoholic When sitting down to a meal, eat your veg- New Year. The indulgences include food, after. sweets, and alcohol. Other problems include This season try not getting enough sleep and dysfunctional doing something One of the best things to do for yourself when behavior with our relatives. For most people different. Prepare the holidays exponentially increase stress. DR. RENEE LANG ahead of time to consuming alcohol, caffeine, sugar, and salty All of these factors combine to undermine prevent some of the self-flagellation. If that health and wellness, causing weight gain, ill- doesn’t work, then follow the rebounding foods in excess is to drink adequate water. ness, insomnia, and fatigue. The television advice below to get yourself back on track. advertisers know people tend to regret their PREVENTATIVE CARE DURING THE HOLIDAYS behavior and suffer the post-holiday blues. HYDRATE: and caffeinated drink. etables first. This creates a sense of fullness So they begin airing weight loss commercials One of the best things to do for yourself REBOUNDING: Drink at least 64-80 ounces and helps to decrease binging on the sugar sometime around the end of December into when consuming alcohol, caffeine, sugar, and of water daily. Even minor dehydration caus- and high-fat items at the table. Eating vegeta- the first weeks of January to take advantage of salty foods in excess is to drink adequate es symptoms in many people including bles also provides a powerhouse of nutrients headaches, fatigue, depressed mood and that help with mood support and energy lev- more. els. Auto Q & A: Outback vs. Forester EXERCISE REBOUNDING: Eat your vegetables, whole By: Stephen M. Lewis and true power train (engine, transmission Exercise increases metabolism, mood, and grains, fruits, and lean meats. Avoid saturat- TRT Auto Columnist and all wheel-drive). If you go online in any immunity. Taking a 20 minute walk daily pro- ed and hydrogenated fats and sugary foods. Ladies & Subaru chat room, you’ll be amazed at the vides both needed exercise and needed space Eating adequate protein will decrease crav- Gentleman: Here's a accolades. if things get tense in the house. To offset the ings and increase mood. Adults need about question right up my Every vehicle that Subaru has made in the extra calories, exercise on an empty stomach .35gm per pound of body weight; a 150 pound alley! last 10 years has been on Consumer Reports’ so that the body uses the stored fat instead of adult needs 51 grams of protein daily. Eating Q: Is the Outback Recommend List. Subaru was just given the the sugar from a recent meal. 15-20 gm before noon (breakfast and a snack) a very durable car? Automatic Recommend status by Consumer REBOUNDING: Remember to exercise on an will help stabilize blood sugar and mood. Stephen M. Lewis Is it better than the Reports. They are 1 of only 2 manufactures OMPASSION President, Steve Lewis empty stomach to burn calories and stored fat C Forester? I've whose vehicles are automatically recom- most efficiently. Eating prior to exercise Remember to have compassion for yourself heard that the mended before testing. increases insulin levels and prevents optimal during the holidays. Excessive indulgence Forester is an all wheel drive and safe, but Somewhere I read: “Airbags save lives, weight loss. Mixing cardio and weight train- pervades most gatherings and little support I'm not sure what else it has that makes it Subarus save airbags” ing provides the ideal program for weight loss. exists for those wishing to be healthy. safe to drive in New England. I'm always on Read that Again! That about sums it up. Sleep Forgive yourself for not sticking to every rule, the road and I buy cars every 2-3 years. Any Which model is better? The one that serves Adequate sleep ensures proper hormone bal- and acknowledge what you did do. Laughter suggestions? your needs best! Let us help you with that ance, mood stability, and blood sugar regula- acts as an excellent stress reliever and some- —Janet Wright, W Hartford decision. You will never have the combination tion. Do your best to continue to get eight times may be the best way to get through a of safety & reliability on a New England hours of sleep per night. Try ear plugs if oth- difficult encounter. A: The Subaru Forester & Outback are both highway more than in a Subaru. No one ers in the household stay up late partying. Try I hope this offers some helpful tidbits on 5 Star Crash Rated vehicles. This is the high- knows the product better than my employees. not to get lured by department stores into how best to traverse the holidays. Good luck est rating there is! If anyone needs to learn more, call me per- shopping at 4am when your judgment will and remember there’s always next year! The “Jaws of Life” is a tool used to extricate sonally for an appointment. people out of their vehicles after an accident. We need your questions! I have been told by several firemen that “Jaws E-mail them to me, at stevelewis@subaru- Queer Cinema You Can’t Miss! of Life” has come out with new instructions mail.com, no matter how insignificant they X's & O's (LESBIAN) Laprade,; Release Date: 00/00/00 for use on Subarus only due to the strength in Notes: Winner of the Best Canadian Feature at may seem! Genre: Comedy, Romance; Rating: Not yet rated the integrated roll cage in every Subaru. the Inside Out Toronto Lesbian and Gay Film Happy Holidays and Happy & Safe Distribution: Limited Release Foresters, Outbacks & Imprezas are all Festival Motoring! Starring: Jill Bennett, Lynn Chen, Judy Marte equally durable. They all have the same tried Status: In production; Release Date: 12/01/07 Synopsis: A young man (Dukic) wakes up naked Synopsis: A group of single friends looking for in a vacant Montreal parking lot, remembering love. One of the friends is a lesbian (Bennett) nothing of who he is, except for the fact that he's who falls for a beautiful girl (Marte). gay. After he is arrested, he begins to understand Finding You the RIGHT One, Not Just Anyone his past. Dirty Laundry (GAY) Almost Myself (TRANS) Genre: Comedy; Rating: Not rated Genre: Documentary; Rating: Not yet rated We understand ... Distribution: Limited Release; Director: Maurice Distribution: Limited Release; Director: Tom • It’s hard to meet the right Jamal; Starring: Rockmond Dunbar, Loretta Murray; Release Date: TBA person. Devine, Jenifer Lewis, Marcus Patrick; Release Notes: Premiered at 2006 Newfest Date: 12/07/07; Synopsis: Patrick (Dunbar) is a Synopsis: Director Tom Murry explores the lives • You are busy and want successful gay magazine writer with a big of a group of diverse MTFs in this documentary. • Personal, Discreet, matches chosen just for you. Southern family he hasn't seen in 10 years. Respectful Lanie & Bud, Company Founders • You might not want to meet When they come for a visit, all the family secrets Beyond Conception (LG) • People are who they say they “We met through a dating service.” someone in a bar or at work. come pouring out. Genre: Documentary; Rating: Not yet rated are ... Distribution: Limited Release • You don’t want your personal • We welcome Singles of all Amnesia—The James Brighton Enigma Director: Johnny Symons info for all to see on the Lifestyles (GAY) Genre: Drama; Rating: Not yet rated Release Date: 00/00/00 Internet. Distribution: Limited Release Synopsis: Director Johnny Symons follows sev- • An affordable service Director: Denis Langlois eral gay and lesbian couples who wish to have Distributor: K Films Amerique children with the help of technology. (413) 665-3218 • massmatch.com • [email protected] Starring: Dusan Dukic, Norman Helms, Louise 10 • December 6, 2007 - Jan. 2 , 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Inglañol Latin Beat Latinos: One “Raza?” Acknowledging our Multiracial Heritage in an LGBTQ Context “Neither black nor white, but multi-racial, brief to both confront these issues and provide diverse one, with members who are, for Latinos fit uneasily in the racial structure that all the answers. I do, however, wish to chal- example: half Puerto Rican/half Italian, half both defines and confines Boston's social and lenge Latinos and non-Latinos alike to exam- Afro-Colombian/half South Asian, Latin political life.” – Miren Uriarte ine our construction of race and sexuality- American adoptee, half Latino/half Turkish, here’s no question that the Latino com- especially within the limits of Boston’s queer and half African/half Caribbean. It is an inspi- Tmunity is diverse. Latinos can have any community. rational group to work with and it certainly skin tone, hair texture, body shape, eye shape, Being of mixed and/or “ambiguous” ances- makes the complexities of my own identity etc., and all are part of the same “raza;” at try is a challenge enough—adding a queer easier to deal with- as well as giving me a least by name and association. Self-identified identity to the mix complicates things further. strong sense of pride. Latinos can be Caucasian Hispanics with no Individuals either view their culture and sexu- Thanks to allies like the staff in The racial Latino ancestry—identified as such by ality as deeply intertwined; or they may Rainbow Times, InNewsweekly, Tish Sterling their geographical location and linguistic and choose to disconnect the two. Valerie Arellano of Fran’s Place in Lynn, Councilman Felix cultural ties; Afro-Latinos, whose ancestry is a Mexican and Salvadorian American bisex- Arroyo, Representative Liz Malia, Boston can be traced to the slave trade’s route ual woman who says that her sexuality is very Police Officer Javier Pagan, and many others, through Latin America; Latinos with Asian simple to her—she is attracted to both men we have been able to build a strong network heritage (such as Japanese communities in the and women, and it has nothing to do with her in the area to help those self-identified GLBT Dominican Republic); Latinos whose ances- skin color or the language of her parents. She Latinos of all colors and ancestries. try comes mainly from the native peoples of confronts both racism and queer phobia; but Please join us to celebrate our diversities Latin America- or a combination of any or all doesn’t necessarily see the two to be connect- during our 5th Annual Latino Pride of New of these things. In the United States in partic- ed. Mary Trotti*, however, sees things differ- England during May 2008 or during our ular, racial mixing between Latinos and other ently. A Salvadorian woman with Palestinian Members of our Community, Ivanna Lee and monthly events. Visit Somos Latin@s LGBT ethnic/racial groups adds additional diversity heritage, she has encountered intense xeno- Friend. Photo by Eric Hess Coalition’s website for further information on to the Latino community. phobia from Salvadorians who view her as these events. knows she can never take back home with her. Why is it that those at the forefront of many racially impure in some way. She knew that In Boston’s GLBT community, Somos Latino movements (including queer ones) tend coming out in El Salvador would be far too *Pseudonym used Latin@s LGBT Coalition is doing its part to to be Hispanics (Spanish speakers) of difficult- her identity as a lesbian would only make a space for Latinos of all ancestries. Written by Raquel Evita Saraswati, a local European ancestry? The majority of Latinos in add to the discrimination she already faced While Boston is often an inhospitable place to writer/poet, dancer, and activist. Find her in the country are in fact not of Caucasian daily. While eventually attending a multiracial be both queer and of color, Somos Latin@s is My Space or at www.raquelevita.com Edited descent, so what can we do to confront and high school helped heal some of the scars of a diverse organization dedicated to helping and Translated by Carmen Oquendo Villar change the racism so prevalent within the her racially charged youth; she has, while in self-identified LGBT Latin@s find a safe and Wilfred W. Labiosa. www.somoslati- Latino community? This column is far too Boston, only begun to confront a sexuality she community. Our Board of Directors is a noslgbt.org ¿Latinos son sólo de una Raza? Reconociendo nuestras Herencias Multi-raciales en el contexto GLBT “Ni negros ni blancos, pero multi-raciales sonas nativas de Latino América se sienten que ven su cultura y sexualidad profunda- sonas que se identifican como GLBT para Latinos caben difícilmente en la estructura conectados a algunas de estas tribus y comu- mente ligadas o hay otr@s que pueden elegir ayudarl@s a encontrar una comunidad segu- racial que define y confina las vidas sociales nidades nativas; y los Latin@s en general se desconectar la una de la otra. Valerie Arellano ra. Nuestra mesa directiva es una diversa y política de Boston”.—Miren Uriarte pueden identificar con alguna combinación de es una mexicana y Salvadoreña-Americana compuesta por miembros de varias culturas e alguna de estas, una sola o con todas. En los Bisexual que dice que su sexualidad es muy identidades. Por ejemplo, tenemos a un o cabe duda alguna de que la comu- Estados Unidos en particular, las mezclas simple ya que está atraída a ambos, mujeres y Puertorriqueño con descendencia Italiana, a Nnidad latina es diversa. Los Latinos raciales entre los latinos y otros grupos étni- hombres y no tiene que ver nada con su color otra mitad Afro-colombiana y mitad Sur pueden tener cualquier tez de piel, textura de cos añaden a la diversidad que se encuentra en de piel, cultura o el lenguaje de sus padres. Asiática, otra adoptada de Latino América, a pelo, forma corporal, u ojos, y tod@s somos nuestras comunidades. Ella confronta el racismo y la homofobia pero otra mitad Latina y mitad Turca, y a una parte de la misma raza, por lo menos por nom- ¿Por qué es que las personas que guían los no ve la conexión entre ambos temas. Mary africana-caribeña. Es un grupo de partici- bre y asociación. Los Latinos pueden identi- movimientos latinos (incluyendo los Trotti*, lo ve diferente. Ella es una mujer de El pación con personas variadas, que me ayudan ficarse como anglosajones Hispanos con movimientos GLBT) son Hispanos que Salvador con antepasados de Palestina, quien a trabajar con las complejidades de mi propia ninguna historia racial latina en sus hablan español con antecedentes europeos? confronta xenofobia de los salvadoreños ya identidad más fácilmente y me dan un sentido antecedentes pero envés se pueden identificar La mayoría de los latinos en este país son que la ven como una persona de raza impura. fuerte de orgullo. por su localización, geografía, lenguaje, y individuos que no tienen lazos anglosajones, Ella sabía que salir del “closet” en El Salvador Gracias a nuestr@s aliad@s como el per- lazos culturales. Esto es diferente de los Afro- ¿qué podemos hacer para confrontar y cam- como lesbiana iba a ser más difícil ya que iba sonal de este periódico, The Rainbow Times, Latinos quienes se pueden identificar y trazar biar el racismo prevaleciente entre la comu- a confrontar más discriminación de la que ya Inn Newsweekly, Tish Sterling de Fran’s sus raíces a través de Latino América por las nidad Latina? Esta columna es muy corta para ella confronta diariamente. Cuando fue a una Place en Lynn, el Concejal Felix Arroyo, la rutas de esclavos traídos en los intercambios dialogar y confrontar estos temas de lleno y escuela secundaria multirracial en el área de Representante Liz Malia, el Oficial Policíaco durante la época de esclavitud. Los Latinos poder proveer respuestas, pero sí quiero poder Boston, ella notó la diferencia y comenzó a de Boston Javier Pagan, y a much@s otr@s también se pueden identificar con lazos asiáti- comenzar un diálogo para motivar la mente de aliviar los golpes que sufrió en su juventud. personas que nos han ayudado a construir una cos, como las comunidades de japoneses tod@s los lectores. Si quiero retar a los Fue entonces que comenzó a confrontar su red de apoyo en esta área para la comunidad estableciéndose en la Republica Dominicana; Latin@s y a otr@s que no son Latin@s a identificación sexual con los demás, la cual Latin@ GLBT de color con multiplicidad de los Latinos con lazos trinchitos con las per- examinar su construcción ella sabía que nunca iba a poder expresar en su raíces ancestrales. racial y sexual en especial a casa natal. Esperamos que se unan a nosotr@s para esos que viven entre los límites En la comunidad GLBTQ de Boston, la celebrar nuestra diversidad durante el 5to Jennifer L. Dexter de la comunidad GLBT local. coalición de Somos Latin@s LGBT está Festival de Orgullo Latin@ GLBT en el próx- Attorney at Law & Notary Public Siendo yo una persona de haciendo su parte para construir un espacio imo Mayo, 2008 y en nuestras actividades. historial ancestral mixta y para Latinos de todos los linajes. Mientras Esperamos verl@s! Para detalles visiten nues- Specializing in: Real Estate, Family ambigua es un reto, además que Boston es a menudo un lugar inhospita- tra página electrónica. Law, Wills, Education Law & siendo una persona que se lario para aquell@s personas de color y Criminal Law identifica como gay complica GLBT, Somos Latin@s es una organización *Seudónimo usado 95 State St., Suite 724 la situación. Hay individuos diversa dedicada al hallazgo de aquell@s per- Escrito por Raquel Evita Saraswati, una activista, Springfield, MA 01103 poeta, y bailarina local. Visita su página en “My [email protected] Check out the ad, and the HELP WANTED sections (p.17 & 24). Space” o www.raquelevita.com; Traducido y edita- They care ... Tell them you saw it in The Rainbow Times. do por Carmen Oquendo y Wilfred Labiosa. 413-214-7626 www.somoslatinoslgbt.org www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Dec. 6, 2007 - Jan. 2, 2008 • 11 QueerWood

Deep Inside Hollywood By: *Romeo San Vicente Guinevere Turner TV Project Gets a Go Katherine Heigl Speaks If Romeo ran Hollywood, his first official The Ugly Truth act - even before paying writers what they're “Ugly” isn't a word that worth - would be to give writer-actress describes Emmy-winning Guinevere Turner (Go Fish, The Notorious Grey's Anatomy and Bettie Page, American Psycho) all the work Knocked Up star she can handle. So it's exciting to hear that Katherine Heigl, but T.R. Turner will be putting on her actress cap again Knight's BFF is about to go before the cam- for Don't Go, an upcoming TV pilot about the eras for gay director Robert Luketic in a lives and loves of the residents of an L.A. romantic comedy called The Ugly Truth. The fourplex that sounds like Melrose Place meets story centers on successful TV producer Heigl The L Word. The racially mixed cast includes hiring one of those harsh, tell-it-like-it-is rela- several African-American up-and-coming tionship advice professionals for her show. actors as well as South Asian Chutney His brash style conflicts with her views on the Popcorn star Nisha Ganatra, so it sounds world, naturally, until she begins to find that more like the real L.A. than the TV version his “ugly truth” style of dating tips really do we so often get. Romeo—who's still not run- help her find the guy she's always wanted. In ning Hollywood, alas - can't wait. other words, another film to confirm that Van Sant, Campion, Penn All Have 8 straight people really are an odd bunch, made When directors aren't busy dealing with the all the more subversive - one hopes - by hav- stress of helming a feature-length film, some- ing a gay director at the controls. No word on times they like to unwind by popping off a lit- a male lead yet, but a start date of April 15 is tle short film. Witness this year's art-house hit set, so audiences will probably see how ugly Paris, Je t’aime for the proof on that. And it all gets sometime in early 2009. now, a less winsome, more activist-minded Rogen and Banks Join Smith's Porno anthology film is in the works, titled simply 8. Kevin Smith loves the gays, and we love The project involves eight directors focusing him right back. The Clerks and Chasing Amy on various international crises, including writer-director always includes queer ele- hunger, poverty, education, child mortality, ments in his literately raunchy comedies, and and the shortage of adequate drinking water in he even graced the cover of gay lifestyle mag- developing nations. Gay director Gus Van azine A Bear's Life. So there's bound to be Sant, acclaimed filmmaker Jane Campion some same-sex action included in his upcom- (The Piano), Oscar-winning actor and some- ing Zack and Miri Make a Porno. Romeo has times director Sean Penn, and controversial mentioned this film before, but now some French director Gaspar Noe (Irreversible) recasting of the leads (Rosario Dawson was will all participate, with Noe tackling AIDS in Smith's muse on this at first) is on deck: Seth a short called SIDA. It might not sound like a Rogen and Elizabeth Banks (he of Knocked lot of laughs, but with these directors on Up, she of Fred Claus, both of The 40-Year- board, you know it's going to be compelling Old Virgin) will play the title characters, a pla- viewing. Look for 8 in art-houses sometime in tonic pair of best friends who enter the world 2008. of amateur porn to help pay the bills. But will *Romeo San Vicente wonders if "8" will be the experience make them discover they're a real eight or an Internet eight. He can be not so platonic? Find out when Zack and Miri reached care of this publication or at opens in 2008. 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Rickety tables are set atmosphere. The effect is that the mood AWest has always and intimate, the larger better for groups of with plastic tablecloths and paper napkins. around the pool and hot tub tends to be less stood out for its sheer friends. The straight forward cooking draws Try such Havana specialties as conch chow- cruisy than at single-gender resorts. Aromatic embrace of total relaxation. high praise for such tasty creations as local der, garlic chicken, stuffed shrimp and crabs, tropical flowers, sundecks, rattan and wicker This laid-back tropical shrimp sauteed with garlic, fresh tomatoes, platanos (plantains), and a sweet flan to top it furnishings, and sparkling tiled bathrooms island in the Caribbean, closer to Cuba than to and herbes de Provence in a white wine, off. As for traditional Cuban sandwiches, tiny impart Alexander's with a classy but casual mainland Florida, is without pretensions. lemon, and butter sauce. One of Duval Street's 5 Brothers Grocery - on a side street in the look. Also welcoming of both women and People rarely worry about what time it is, true places to be seen, Mangoes brims with historic district - serves the best around. men but drawing a predominantly male dress is casual and colorful, and the party colorful sorts. The composed salads, pastas, Much of the gay social activity in Key West crowd, Big Ruby's is less than a block from scene is friendly and easygoing. Key West is and grills - all with nouvelle Florida touches - takes place at resorts, some of which provide Duval Street, hidden behind high walls from neither fancy nor especially urbane—it's just are commendable. Consider rib eye steak refreshments and snacks to guests during the noise and street traffic. The grounds feature a great place to laze in a deck chair on a Caribe (pan-charred with tamarind steak afternoon and early evening. A handful of towering palm trees and fragrant flowers, and bougainvillea-choked lanai, browse for sauce and yucca). properties have bars open to the public, an abundance of sundecks. Rooms are warm, beachwear and souvenirs along the main drag, Seven Fish, which occupies an old lunch- among them Pearl's Rainbow, the town's only contemporary, spotless, and full of light—all Duval Street, or relax on a restaurant patio eonette and has a sleek, sophisticated interior, guest house exclusively for women, and the have TV/VCRs, mini-refrigerators, A/C, and noshing on raw oysters and sipping mango serves seafood-oriented bistro fare, such as ultra-cruisy, all-male Island House, which ceiling fans. A complimentary full breakfast is iced tea or mojitos. crab and shiitake mushroom ravioli. The slo- also has an excellent restaurant. included. As for the staff, you won't find a For a seasonal tourist town, Key West has gan at Mangia Mangia is "pasta to the peo- Most the town's gay bars are along Duval more professional bunch of guys in Key West. plenty to offer when it comes to dining and ple," a philosophy reflected by the many vari- Street. Here, the La-Te-Da guest house has a Most of the town's men's resorts are along nightlife. Few places draw more raves for out- eties of heavenly homemade pasta, all fairly poolside bar, an intimate piano bar, and the Fleming Street, the Historic District's main standing food than Alice's Key West, where priced. The painstakingly preserved building Treetop Cabaret Lounge upstairs. Down a few drag. Here you'll find Equator, which has chef Alice Weingarten serves some of the has a lovely, quiet garden and redbrick patio blocks, the New Orleans-inspired Bourbon plush rooms with contemporary Caribbean most inventive food in town, including deli- in back. You'll need luck and persistence most Street Pub is a cheery place with a small bar influenced furniture. Designer fabrics, feather cious smoked salmon Benedict at breakfast. A nights to get a seat at Camille's, a small store- up front with cocktail tables, a larger outdoor pillows with comforters, Mediterranean-tile departure from Key West's predominant laid- front bistro, but the friendly vibe and down- bar in back (along with a lively pool area and floors, large closets, and excellent sound insu- back tropical look, Square One is a sophisti- home comfort food are worth the trouble. hot tub), and video screens galore. Many lation add to the comfort of each unit. The cated restaurant with white table linen and Expect good salads and sandwiches, such as nights you can catch awful (but still entertain- tradeoff is that the Equator's grounds, fine china. The regionally inspired Philly cheese steak, and delicious pancakes ing) drag shows on the stage in back. The although nicely landscaped, are smaller than Continental cuisine includes escargot baked for breakfast. same owners run the lovably raffish 801 Bar, at some of its competitors; there's a compact in a crepe with fresh spinach, garlic, feta, and For arguably the best sandwiches and wraps Key West's definitive neighborhood hangout pool and an oversize Jacuzzi tub. a tomato beurre blanc. It's a top choice for a on the island, try Lobo's - the oyster roll with since the 1970s. There's almost always a For years the sprawling Island House—a crowd of gossipy locals around the bar. The former cigar factory on the eastern edge of the adjacent One Saloon caters mostly to leather- Historic District—was synonymous with sex, and-Levi's types and is reached through 801's sleaze, and shabbiness. It's still synonymous back door. Aqua Nightclub is best known for with sex. But, happily, new owners have com- its raucous drag shows, which are headlined pletely rebuilt the place, hired friendly and by the in-house drag troupe, the Aquanettes. competent staff, and created lovely rooms This lively place also has strippers some with high-quality furnishings (all have nights, an impressive dance floor with high- VCR/TVs, refrigerators, safes, and plush tech laser-and-sound shows, and a cozy video linens). If you're seeking a steamy ambience bar. but also first-rate accommodations and a safe, www.seriosmarket.com Key West has a number of inns that cater friendly environment, the Island House is either exclusively or predominantly to the gay your dream come true. Amenities, all of them “Where customers are friends & friends are customers.” market. One available 24 hours, include heated pool, of the best is indoor and outdoor Jacuzzis, gym, sauna, Family Owned & Operated since 1950! 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(MA) UNITY is a Transgender support group from newly ended relationships, struggling with transgender pride march in New England. The TER Center Series Cherish the Ladies - A which meets at 7 p.m. on the 2nd Thursday of depression or just women needing the support of planning meeting is open to all people who sup- Celtic Christmas Celebration; 7:30 p.m.; Fine each month at Baystate Hospital, 3300 Main their peers. Meet at CDGLCC at 332 Hudson port gender diversity and the gender-variant com- Arts Center Concert Hall, UMASS Amherst; FMI: Street in Springfield, Ma.; and on the 4th Avenue in Albany. FMI: Q Diamond at (518) 462- munity. FMI: [email protected]. 1-800-999-UMAS or 545-2511 for tickets or 6138. www.fineartscenter.com/tickets Thursday at the Blue Moon Coffee Roaster locat- (MA) Free Breast Cancer Services; Cooley ed at 715 Sumner Avenue, Springfield, MA. FMI: (NY) Youth Group; Friday nights; 7 p.m.; 332 Dickinson; Women can select therapy services (VT) Third Sunday of Every Month; in Brattleboro, Deja 860-604-6343 or Keri 413-364-1749. Hudson Ave. in Albany; Group offers peer support such as acupuncture, aromatherapy, therapeutic Open to anyone whose identity or expression to LGBT& questioning individuals ages 13-19. A touch, healing music, healing touch, Reiki, Reiki, doesn't fit neatly into the gender binary, (MA) SOCIAL GROUP FOR LESBIANS; We supportive environment for LGBTQ youth and Peggy Huddleston’s Prepare for Surgery, Heal including transpeople of all genders and sexual always meet on the first and third Friday's of the their straight allies to discuss issues of coming Faster™, self-hypnosis/guided imagery and ther- orientations: transgender(ed), transsexuals, month. For information call 413-687-2065 out, family, school, work, and relationships among apeutic massage by CD employees that hold cer- FTMs, MTFs, non-op, pre-op, post-op, cross- tifications in these therapy techniques. FMI” 413- dressers, bi-gendered, genderqueer, genderfluid, (MA) EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION (EC) is their peers. Another group meets in Saratoga Springs at 624 Broadway every other 582-2424. questioning, etc.; Confidentiality guaranteed. The NOW available without a prescription at all November meeting will be on Sunday, November Wednesday, a group in Hudson at 742 Warren St. (MA) Dec. 7; Dan Kennedy CD Release Tapestry Health Services sites. (413) 586-2539. 18 from 5:30 to 8:30 pm. FMI: Benjamin Robin: every other Wednesday, and a group in Concert featuring Dan Kennedy (piano), Juan [email protected] (MA) MATURE LESBIAN SUPPORT GROUP; Schoharie County that meets twice per month. Carlos Carpio (guitar & bass) and John Hughes Group for women 55+ meets monthly at the FMI: Q Diamond (518) 462-6138. (African drums & kora); 7:30 p.m.; Unitarian (NY) December 13; FREE Financial Planning Northampton Council on Aging at 240 Main St., at (NY) Confidential HIV Testing; first Wednesday Universalist Meeting House; 121 N. Pleasant St., Workshop with Thomas J. Walling; 6 p.m.; 6 p.m.; second Monday of each month. of each month; 6-8:30 p.m.; Provided by Project Amherst, MA; $9; FMI; 413-253-2848; CDGLCC - 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. A workshop H.O.P.E., a program of the AIDS Council of www.dankennedy.us Produced by 3-time exploring financial issues regarding the GLBT (MA) DISCUSSION GROUP FOR LESBIANS Northeastern New York. Testing offered at the Grammy Award winner Will Ackerman, co- community including: partner planning issues, 40+ meets every Wednesday from 6 p.m. to 8 CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: 518- founder of Windham Hill Records, the new age protection issues, documentation to have, invest- p.m. at the Stonewall Center at UMass. Topics 462-6138. EP Lantern by Dan Kennedy is being released, ment planning, utilization of Domestic Partner chosen by group consensus the previous week. LGBTQ TEA DANCE AT DANCE NORTHAMPTON. and you’re invited. Each CD Release Concert will benefits, Retirement Planning, Estate Planning, This is a warm and welcoming group of intelligent Second Sunday of every month; 3-6 PM; feature piano, guitar, bass, plus African drumming as well as financial issues affecting singles in women. Information email to: $8 (includes lesson at 3:00) and kora playing, with video projections. today's environment. RSVP,via email: qdia- [email protected] [email protected] FMI: www.dancenorthampton.com . (CT) Dec. 8; Women’s Health Screening Day; in The December 09 lesson will be Two Step. collaboration with Hartford Hospital, HGLHC will (MA) Dec. 14; TRT & NOHO PRIDE OPEN (MA) OLDER LESBIAN DISCUSSION GROUPS; CONTRADANCE be offering FREE mammograms. Appointments HOUSE; 5-9 p.m.; Beer tasting, appetizers, Amherst/NoHo Area. New members accepted on are required to receive a free mammogram music, and lots of mingling. LGBTQ and allies space-available basis. If enough interest, new Saturday, December 08, Montague Grange, 34 Main Street, Montague, MA, Caller: Brendan (please arrive 15 minutes prior to your scheduled invited, please 21+. groups may form. FMI: 413-247-3257 or 413-253- appointment to complete necessary paperwork). Taaffe, Music by: The Flying Garbanzos .Time: (NY) December 14; Movie Night showing: "The 3049. All other services are provided on a walk-in basis 7:00-10:00 PM, Cost: $10-$7 ($5 with student Mostly Unfabulous Social Life of Ethan from 9:00a.m. – 2:00p.m. We urge all lesbian, (VT) MEN'S SUPPORT GROUP; Any male 18 or ID), FMI: Call 413-247-9604 or 413-586-9610 or Green;" CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany, NY; bisexual and trans women to “Take the Time” for http://www.lcfd.org/westma 7:00 pm, FREE! Ethan (Daniel Letterle) is an older; an opportunity for men to share their expe- these important preventative measures. FMI or to adorable 26-year year old professional assistant, riences, thoughts, and feelings about life's jour- (NY) Out Dancing (for the LGBTQ community); make an appointment: Kathey Fowler at self-proclaimed serial monogamist, and all ney. Support group not a therapy group. Free. every Wednesday evening; 7 to 8 p.m.; Saratoga (860)278-4163 ext. 16 or Donna Shubrooks ext. around nice regular guy, who is looking for love in Every Tuesday, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Brattleboro, VT. SAVOY, 7 Wells St, Saratoga Springs, NY. 518- 13. all the wrong places. 587-5132 FMI: 802-258-3914. (MA) December 8. ALPHABET SOUP SHOP- http://saratogasavoy.homestead.com/files/out- (NY) Dec. 15; Progressions Concert Series: (MA) JOIN EMAIL GROUP FOR LGBT PAR- PING TRIP TO NORTHAMPTON (St. Stephen's dancing.html Nervous But Excited; CDGLCC, 332 Hudson ENTS in the Pioneer Valley area at group). Meet at St. Stephen's at 10:00 am for car Ave., Albany, NY; 8:00 PM, Doors 7:30 PM, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lgbt_parents_pio- (NY) Dec. 3; PrideWorks for LGBT Youth pool OR in front of Thorne's at 11:30. Followed by $10/$8 students - All ages! FMI: Carrie at neer_valley/ for exchanging information, chatting Conference; 8:00a - 3:30p; Westchester County a Holiday Open House at Beth's in Hinsdale at 518.462.6138, x.11. about our families, and organizing get-togethers Center, White Plains, NY ; 9th annual full-day 7:00. FMI: email: [email protected]. and play-dates. conference addressing issues of lgbtq youth and (NY) December 18; CDGLCC Book Club; 7pm; (MA) Dec. 8 - Jolgorio de Navidad en el World their allies in our schools and communities. Cost CDGLCC – 332 Hudson Ave, Albany, NY; (MA, NY, CT & VT) DISCRIMINATION Trade Center (Xmas Partying and Carrolling at is $85 for adults, $50 for college students and $30 Reading: Confession by Jim McGreevey; FMI: BECAUSE YOU ARE QUEER? Call The the World Trade Center for the LGBT Latin com- for high school and middle school students. contact Q at qdiamond@cdglcc. Org Rainbow Times, 413-204-8959; 518-391-2617. munity and allies). Para detalles o comprar tu (NY) Bisexual Brunch; First and third Sundays (CT) Every Sunday; ALL LGBT YOUTH to the boleto visita (for details or to buy a ticket): (NY) Dec. 18; Albany Pride Planning of the month, 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. at the Rainbow Rainbow Room; at the Hartford Gay & Lesbian www.eljolgorio.org. Evento abierto a nuestra Committee Meeting; CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Cafe, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: Viktoria Health Collective; from 3-6 p.m.; 1841 Broad comunidad Latina GLBT....gózalo! Ave., Albany, NY; 6:00 p.m.; FMI: Street, Hartford, CT; for LGBT youth and allies. [email protected] 518-438-6315. (MA) December 9. “TRANSCEND” MEETING. The Rainbow Room is a drop-in space for LGBT (NY) Bagel Bunch; Tuesdays; 10:30 a.m.; Older 7:00-8:30 pm, South Congregational Church, 110 (MA) Dec. 23; LESBIAN HOLIDAY POTLUCK youth up to 21 years old … Come hang out at gay men’s social and discussion group. South St., Pittsfield, MA. Monthly social/support PARTY; 4:30 p.m.; Socialize, Mingle Dance in Rainbow Room. Bruegger’s, Hannaford Plaza, Central Ave., meeting for the Trans community. Sponsored by the Company Of Wonderful Women; 2 King St. Albany. (MA) TransForming Families – Transgender BSCC. FMI call Judy: 413-243-2382. Hatfield; FMI: Marylou 413 687- 1225 Support Group; Parents, partners, children and (NY) Capital Pride Singers; Mondays @ 7 p.m.; (MA) East Coast Female to Male Group (NY) December 24th and held monthly thereafter their transgender loved ones. LGBT/LGBTaffirming; mixed chorus; St. Meeting; 3-6 p.m.; 146 Riverbank Rd., Ask-A-Lawyer Legal Clinic: Serving the LGBT Topic/discussion/support group meets twice a Andrew’s, Episcopal Church, 10 No. Main St., Northampton; Topic: "Your Gender Identity and community Geri Pomerantz, Esq. and Anne month; Wednesdays, 7:30 – 9 p.m. in Hadley, Albany, 12203; FMI: 435-4636. Sexual Relationships" How do you experience Reynolds Copps, Esq.; 5:00 - 7:00 p.m.; beginning December 5. FMI: www.transforming- and express your gender identity in your intimate Consultations will be held by appointment only. (NY) Capital District Prime Timers; Provides families.org or 413-522-0522 relationship? Can you ask for and receive what FMI: 518.432.4188 to schedule an appointment social, cultural, and recreational opportunities for (MA) December 5. BSCC POTLUCK DINNER. you want and need? Come explore a hot topic in or speak with a lawyer. mature gay and bisexual men. Open to men age 7:00 pm, Unitarian-Universalist church, 175 a cold month! This particular meeting is OPEN TO 21+. FMI: [email protected] or CDPT 595 (NY) January 15; Pride Planning Committee Wendell Avenue, Pittsfield, MA. Open to the FTMS ONLY (that includes the full spectrum of New Loudon Rd #202 Latham NY 12110 Meeting; CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany, GLBTQI community and friends. Bring a main female-born, masculine-identified persons). NY; 6:00 p.m. (NY) Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Men dish, salad, veggie or dessert to share. (MA) December 11; Tapestry Health Training Support Group; Mondays; 7 p.m.; Support group Beverages provided. PLEASE NOTE: We now (NY) January 19; Progressions Concert Series; about Transgender issues Entitled for GBT men to talk about coming out, sex, reli- have a sign-up sheet for volunteers to help set CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany, NY; 8:00 “Transgender People, HIV and Access to gion, dating, relationships, and other issues up, host (welcome newcomers) and clean up at p.m. Doors 7:30 p.m.; $10/$8 students - All ages! Care: a Training for Service Providers”; 10 affecting men in the GBT Community; CDGLCC each potluck. Please help us lighten the work by FMI: Carrie at 518.462.6138, x.11. a.m. – 2 p.m. at the Lord Jefferey Inn in Amherst. @ 332 Hudson Avenue in Albany. FMI: Q taking a turn. We'll email or call you to remind The workshop will provide basic information Diamond at (518) 462-6138 or you. Thank you! Mark your calendar: Dec 14th about transgender issues and present strategies, [email protected]. (MA) Dec. 6; New England Transgender Pride standards of care, and resources for incorporat- TRT’s Holiday Open House Party (NY) Lesbian and Bisexual Women's Support March and Rally Planning Meeting; 7-9 p.m. ing appropriate, effective support in the clinical, This is a 5-9 p.m. Group; every other Tuesday; 7 p.m.; Designed Tapestry Health, 365 Bay Street, Springfield, MA. therapeutic or advocate relationship. 21+ 221 Pine Street, Ste. 358 for multi-cultural lesbian and bisexual women The New England Transgender Pride March and (MA) December 12; UMASS FINE ARTS CEN- event who are questioning their sexuality, recovering Rally is the first Florence, MA

Submit your non-profit calendar event/s* to [email protected] or [email protected] *Certain restrictions apply. Small for-profit events/groups, 35 words or less, are considered for a small fee. Large/for-profit events are not considered. All submissions appear online. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Dec. 6, 2007 - Jan. 2, 2008 • 17 Connecticut Connection The next step in the fight for CT marriage equality Women’s Health Screening By: Anne Stanback/TRT Guest Columnist If we lose the marriage case in the Supreme Day for lesbian, bi & trans Anne Stanback, Executive Director of Love Court, our only remaining recourse will be the women in Connecticut Legislature. The good news is that Love Makes a Family, talks about how a decision in Makes a Family has been building support in The Hartford Gay & Lesbian Health the Kerrigan marriage equality case before the Connecticut General Assembly for seven Collective (HGLHC) will hold its next the Connecticut Supreme Court may lead years. And while the full legislature has not Women’s Health Screening Day on same-sex couples down the aisle, or to the been ready to vote on marriage thus far, the December 8, 2007 in collaboration with Legislature. momentum to pass a marriage bill if we are Hartford Hospital , the Hartford region’s rebuffed by the Supreme Court will be largest and most comprehensive breast care y the time you read this, Connecticut provider. The HGLHC will be offering could either be the second state in stronger in 2008 than it has ever been or ever will be again. FREE mammograms. Appointments are Bthe country to allow same-sex cou- required to receive a free mammogram The way we will win in the legislature is ples to legally marry…OR…we could be (please arrive 15 minutes prior to your gearing up for a huge push in the 2008 legisla- very straightforward. We need 76 members of the House and 19 members of the Senate to scheduled appointment to complete neces- tive session to win marriage in the General sary paperwork). All other services are pro- Assembly. vote with us. And we need Governor Rell to GLAD and their cooperating attorneys. And sign the marriage bill once it reaches her desk. vided on a walk-in basis from 9:00 a.m. - As I write this, we are still waiting for the 2:00 p.m. Connecticut Supreme Court to issue its ruling based on everything we have seen and heard, The support for marriage equality in the there is no reason to believe we cannot win in legislature has grown significantly since civil According to Kathey Fowler, Women’s in the Kerrigan case (Kerrigan & Mock v. Services Coordinator, a day like this Connecticut Department of Public Health, our court. unions became law in 2005. We are close to If we win, same-sex couples will finally our magic numbers, but we still have work to enables lesbian, bisexual and trans women state’s marriage lawsuit). This case, brought to obtain the vital health screenings and by our partners at GLAD, seeks to end the have access to full equality under Connecticut do. law. Couples will be able to legally marry and Our focus right now is on convincing exams they may otherwise not receive. exclusion of same-sex couples from marriage, “Lesbian, bisexual, and trans women have arguing that the Connecticut civil union will be afforded the dignity, respect and legal enough undecided legislators (and Governor protection that marriage provides. Rell) that supporting marriage equality is not a greater concentration of risk factors for statute constitutes a discriminatory separate breast cancer and that breast cancer is most and unequal status for same-sex couples. But as we saw in Massachusetts, a just the right thing to do…it is the politically Connecticut Supreme Court win will not smart thing to do. At the same time, we are curable when detected early,” said Fowler. But as we wait on the court, Love Makes a In addition HGLHC will also provide Pap Family is not just waiting around! cause our opponents to just throw in the working to turn pro-marriage legislators into towel. Anti-gay organizations like the Family marriage leaders. testing, breast and cervical exams, STD We are hoping for a win, but we are prepar- diagnosis and treatment, vaccination ing for a possible loss. That means organizing Institute of Connecticut are already talking Winning the freedom to marry here in about attempts to amend our state Connecticut is critically important, not just to against hepatitis A & B, screening for hepa- and mobilizing grassroots supporters like you titis C and HIV counseling and testing. All across the state to urge state legislators to sup- Constitution to permanently ban marriage for families in our state, but to the marriage same-sex couples. movement nationally. screening services are free. Donations are port a marriage equality bill if the Supreme always welcome. Court sends the decision back to the General It is imperative that Love Makes a Family Visit www.lmfct.org and learn how to organize effectively on the front end so that donate and get involved! Within minutes of We urge all lesbian, bisexual and trans Assembly. women to “Take the Time” for these impor- Love Makes a Family’s strategy has not we avoid the costly, divisive referendum bat- the decision in the Kerrigan case, the LMF tle that we have seen in other states. We are website will have ALL the information on tant preventative measures. To make an shifted since we began this fight for marriage appointment, call Kathey Fowler at 860- seven years ago. Our efforts to identify and prepared to fight that fight if we must, but it Decision Day plans, including a press confer- will be far better to prevent a vote to amend ence, rally, and (in the event of a positive 278-4163 extension 16, or Donna build new support for marriage equality and Shubrooks at extension 13. to mobilize that support in the form of con- the Constitution in the first place. decision) a party on the evening of the deci- stituent contact with legislators has only Protecting a win and avoiding a fight to sion. increased and intensified. amend the Constitution means continuing to IF WE WIN IN THE COURT… expand our base of support and keeping those We could not have better legal minds work- supporters vocal and organized. HELP WANTED IN HARTFORD, CONNECTICUT ing on the Kerrigan case than our partners at BUT IF WE LOSE IN COURT…

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Connecticut’s children need you more than ever. Looking for a job in MA in the healthcare industry? Turn to page 24 The Professional Parenting Program CT Neighborhood Organizations provides comprehensive supports to foster families. AIDS Testing: www.guardinhealth.org Runaway Switchboard: (773) 880-9860Connecticut Together, we can make a difference in the lives of children with Gay Father’s Group: (203) 938-2881Hartford Women's Education and Legal Fund (CWEALF): 135 Community Center: (860) 724-5542CT Freedom to Marry Broad Street, Hartford, CT 06105 - 860.247.6090 Info. and special needs. Coalition: (203) 791-9553Love Makes a Family: www.lmf- Referral program: (800) 479-2949 or Greater Hartford ct.org (860) 525-7777Married Lesbian Support Group: 524-0601 - Statewide women's rights organization working Connecticut residents only. [email protected] (203) 430-9227 to end discrimination and hate crimes; provides free legal Married Men’s Bisexual Support Group of Hartford: information and referral to the LGBT community. (860)264-5605Metropolitan Community Church of New XX Club (Twenty Club): Rev. Cannon Jones - 45 Church Please call us today (888) 968-4489 x134 Haven: (203) 397-2312New Haven Gay & Lesbian Street Hartford , CT 06141-0387 - (860)646-8651 - Povides Center: www.nhglcc.org; (203) 387-2252 knowledgeable info., and ongoing peer support to trans- PFLAG Danburry: www.pflag.org; (203) 797- sexuals. 2nd and 4th Saturdays of the month, 2 -5 p.m. 4743Connecticut ’s Kids: (203) 256-8414 connecticuT View (cTView): A Transgender social and Senior Lesbians Happily at Play (SLAPHAPS): Kathy support club, for the TV, TG, TS, CD, both male and (203) 929-8113 female. Monthly meeting in New Haven as well as e-mem- True Colors CT: www.ourtruecolors.org; (888) 565- bership, and more. A no dues club, with all the frills; 1764 Litchfield Turnpike • Woodbridge, CT 06525 • www.ippi.org 5551National www.transgender.org/ctv/ 18 • December 6, 2007 - Jan. 2 , 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com QPolitics GOP gay advocacy group slams Romney in new ad WASHINGTON (AP)—A Republican gay ad in Iowa and on national cable that sought rights advocacy group accuses Mitt Romney to undercut his support among social conser- of “Mitt-flops” in a new radio ad that criti- The race for the vatives. cizes the former Massachusetts governor on Romney spokesman Kevin Madden said it his tax record. White House was no surprise that a gay rights group would The ad by the Log Cabin Republicans notes oppose Romney because he has supported a that Romney signed legislation in 2003 that federal amendment that would declare mar- increased taxes on New Hampshire residents riage to be between a man and a woman. who worked in Massachusetts. It also says “This negative attack and gross distortion of Romney raised taxes on businesses, a point the governor's record was launched and paid Romney disputes by saying he was merely for by a group recognized as having Mayor closing tax loopholes. (Rudy) Giuliani as their 'favorite' candidate,” “Mitt Flops—sounds like something you'd Madden said. Giuliani has had the support of wear to the beach, but they could cost you,'' some gay rights groups in the past and has the ad states. “Let's see. Running for gover- backed limited legal recognition for same-sex nor, Mitt Romney said he'd balance the budg- couples. et without rais- “Governor Romney has a stellar record of fis- ing taxes. So cal responsibility, having cut wasteful spend- Gay Best Sellers* what'd he real- ing and worked to lower taxes as a chief exec- ly do? He utive focused on pro-growth economic poli- 1. A Very Serious Person raised taxes on cies,” Madden said. 2. East Side Story some New The criticism from the Log Cabin 3. Outing Riley Hampshire res- Republicans is similar to criticism of Romney 4. Naked Boys Singing! idents who contained in Giuliani's Web site, and in some 5. AMNESIA: The James worked in cases the two camps cite the same sources. Brighton Enigma Massachusetts, But Log Cabin President Patrick Sammon 6. Bam Bam & Celeste taxing their said there was no coordination between his er anti-Romney campaign by an independent abortion rights, is running television and 7. Boy Culture income and group and the Giuliani camp. political group that is hitting the airwaves newspaper ads in New Hampshire and Iowa 8. Glue their pen- “We are not endorsing any candidates in this with six weeks before the New Hampshire accusing Romney of flip-flopping on abor- 9. Boy Crush sions.” race,” he said. “We have members who are primary. This weekend, the Republican tion. The ad repre- working and supporting different candidates. * By wolfevideo.com Majority for Choice, a group that advocates The radio ad represents the second effort by sents yet anoth- Gov. Romney is, as usual, trying to attack the the Log Cabin Republicans to cast Romney as messenger instead of responding to the mes- a flip-flopper. Last month, the group aired an sage.” An alternate twist to a bed time story By: Suzan Ambrose/TRT Writer I know that there are ennifer Bryan’s book, The Different lots of different ways to Dragon, adds an alternative twist to be a dragon, and being Jevery family’s treasured version of the fierce isn’t the only one bedtime story. way you have to be. In the book, as the two Mom’s help their lit- You can be however tle ones get ready for bed, Noah and one of his you want. If you want moms, Go-Ma, together begin to create a to crush my sailboat story. They embark on a magical adventure and set it on fire and eat where Noah meets a new friend – the dragon. me up you can. Or we He quickly finds out that this dragon isn’t can play badminton and then have some ice your typical scary, ferocious dragon that you cream instead.” find in the otherwise traditional fairy tale. What I enjoyed so much about this book is Noah helps his new friend the dragon real- that although the story clearly brings up Noah ize that he doesn’t have to be what others having two moms, that aspect does not expect him to be. He can be any kind of drag- become the focus of the book. They are just a on. This is an endearing tale that will give typical, average, everyday family. I fancy a children and parents the opportunity to dis- time in the future when it can be like that for cuss that it’s OK to be different and to be all GLBT families. proud of who you are. The essence of this is This children’s book is brilliantly written captured when Noah says kindly but firmly to and illustrated ( I love the cat being involved the dragon: in all the adventures!). It is perfect for all “I’m a smart boy and I know some things. types of families. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Dec. 6, 2007 - Jan. 2, 2008 • 19 National News New Military Generals and Admirals Call for Repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Military Leaders Say Repealing Policy not be ready to allow openly gay service until Republicans, Servicemembers Legal Defense defending the rights of our citizens to believe Banning Gays and Lesbians from Military society and the military had developed a more Network and Liberty Education Forum to rec- whatever they wish. As General Colin Powell, Service Would Be Beneficial tolerant attitude toward homosexu- ognize the 12,000 men and former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs said WASHINGTON—On the 14th anniversary ality. The statement of these women discharged from the when the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy was of the signing of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, 28 28 Generals and Admirals military since the sign- enacted, it is not the place of the military or retired, high-ranking military leaders have is evidence that these ing of "Don’t Ask, those in senior leadership to make moral judg- signed onto a letter calling for the policy’s changes are occur- Don’t Tell." The ments. repeal. In the years since Don’t Ask, Don’t ring or have groups will Scholarly data show that there are approxi- Tell was enacted, over 12,000 men and occurred mark the mately one million gay and lesbian veterans women have been discharged from the mili- already. anniversary in the United States today, as well as 65,000 tary under the policy. This sign-on letter Additionally, a of the poli- gays and lesbians currently serving in our marks the single largest number of Generals December cy’s signing armed forces. They have served our nation and Admirals from the U.S. Armed Forces to 2006 Zogby by unveiling honorably. come out against the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell poll of sol- the "12,000 We support the recent comments of another policy at one time. diers returning Flags for former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs, General We support the recent comments of former from Iraq and 12,000 John Shalikashvili, who has concluded that Chairman of the Joint Chiefs, General John Afghanistan Patriots" dis- repealing the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy Shalikashvili, who has concluded that repeal- found that 73 play on the would not harm, and would indeed help, our ing the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy would percent of soldiers National Mall. armed forces. As is the case in Britain, Israel, not harm, and would indeed help, our armed reported being com- The tribute will and other nations which allow gays and les- forces, the letter states. fortable in the pres- begin on Friday, bians to serve openly, our service members The opinions of Flag Officers have played a ence of gays, and only 37 November 30 and con- are professionals who are able to work togeth- critical role in shaping the policy on gay serv- percent oppose repealing the tinue through Sunday, er effectively despite differences in race, gen- ice. President Bill Clinton chose not to fully policy. A May 2007 CNN/Opinion December 2. der, religion, and sexuality. Such collabora- lift the gay ban because key military leaders Research Corporation poll showed that 79 The New York Times has published a story tion reflects the strength and the best tradi- opposed ending the ban. But now a significant percent of Americans believe that gays and about the letter. To read the story, go to tions of our democracy. number of General Officers are coming for- lesbians should be allowed to serve openly in http://www.nytimes.com/2007/11/30/us/30mi The Human Rights Campaign is America’s ward to acknowledge their opposition to the the military. litary.html?hp. largest civil rights organization working to achieve gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender equality. By ban on open service by gay and lesbian mem- The letter will be read by two of the gener- Below is the full text of the letter. als who will represent a group of 28 at a joint We respectfully urge Congress to repeal the inspiring and engaging all Americans, HRC strives bers of the Armed Forces. to end discrimination against GLBT citizens and Some political leaders and academic event sponsored by the Human Rights "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy. Those of us realize a nation that achieves fundamental fairness experts said in 1993 that the military would Campaign, Servicemembers United Cabin signing this letter have dedicated our lives to and equality for all. 20 • December 6, 2007 - Jan. 2 , 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Featured Review NIFF: Northampton Independent Film Festival Review By J.M. Sorrell lesbian poet, Renee Vivien, and her relation- TRT Reviewer ship with an Islamic woman in Paris 1906. It t would be impossible to write reviews was artfully presented, and it raised more for all of the films I saw over the course questions about Vivien’s depression and Iof two November weekends for health issues near the end of her life. Northampton Independent Film Festival’s There have been more LGBT films in previ- 13th year. An entire newspaper could be ded- ous years at NIFF. I advise going to icated to comments, articles, interviews, and www.niff.org to find a way to express what reviews for the many extraordinary films cho- you would like to see at next year’s festival. sen for this year’s screening. Also, sign up to volunteer and be prepared to Behind the scenes, a seriously, hard-work- work hard and have fun. Seriously, this is one ing volunteer crew make this happen every of the best independent film festivals in the year. A review committee chose 125 films country. Let’s not lose it. from over 2,000 submissions. The coordina- THE DISAPPOINTING STUFF tion of the use of venues in downtown People seemed to flock for the opening Northampton and at Smith College with the night screenings, The Future We Will Create: schedules of filmmakers, actors, and other Inside the World of TED, and the John Sayles film crew who come to talk with audiences movie, Honeydripper—both shown at the and area film students is a feat in and of itself. Academy of Music. These films were the My greatest disappointment and surprise least interesting films I saw at the festival. (this year and last year) is the low attendance TED is the inside world of mostly privi- for the most incredible films—some of which him back. Sound weird? It was 14 minutes of Body/Antibody is a fictional story about a leged people who get together to create may not make it to Netflix anytime soon. brilliance, was very touching, and stayed with man with OCD who has not left his change every year. The documentary would Attend the short films, everyone. The com- me. Manhattan apartment in 10 months. When he have drawn me in more effectively, I suspect, edy shorts, five-college shorts, documentary Also attend the documentaries and obscure falls in love, the twists and turns that abound if it had been presented in a way that truly shorts, drama shorts, mixed bag shorts—you films that you may not see again. will keep you on the edge of your seat. The honors the intellect and work of those thinkers name it, brilliant. As audience members, you The Water Front is a 53 minute long docu- writing is skilled and unique, and the two and artists who attended the conference. must take the leap to attend these films you mentary about environmental racism, govern- principle (and very talented) actors were on I have long been a fan of John Sayles (ever may not see otherwise. Descriptions do not ment bias, and the exploitation of poor, hand with the filmmaker to discuss the film. since Lianna). I loved The Brother from begin to address the talent. African-American people in a once-thriving Stay Away … A Little Closer is a 41 minute Another Planet. Honeydripper was set simi- Memories of My Melancholy Copy Machine community in Michigan. Its messages are painful and poignant look at the life of John lar to a Tennessee Williams play, and it por- tells the story of a lonely office worker who implicit, and the filmmaking is far better than Ford Noonan, a Pulitzer Prize-nominated, trayed an Alabama town in the 1950’s. It was falls in love with a copy machine, who loves your average Michael Moore movie. Obie and Emmy award-winning playwright too trite, and much of the dialogue was as who struggles with addiction and mental ill- pedantic as a poor Terrance McNally script. ness. The filmmaker brought him to The stereotype of the bad-ass African- Northampton for a Q&A with the audience. American woman who whoops the man gar- Freeheld—the story of New Jersey Police nered laughs from the audience, and I found it Lieutenant Laurel Hester and her campaign to rather boring and overdone, not to mention obtain pension benefits for her partner, was offensive. shown at Smith. Cynthia Wade, the filmmak- Finally, a heartfelt congratulations and a tip er, is alum of Smith College, and she was on of the hat goes to Jeffrey Dreisbach, the NIFF hand for two days to talk with students in Director. Despite the demands and stresses of class and at the film showing. This is the the festival, he was kind and warm and avail- fourth time I have seen the 38 minute film, able every time I saw him. He seemed to be and I was as moved and teary-eyed as the first everywhere and to defy the law of Physics time I saw it. Let’s hope this one gets an that would say you could only be at one Oscar nomination. movie at a time. Rather than draw attention to On the final night of the festival, Jane himself, he continually praised his team. Get Clark’s The Touch was shown at Smith involved and call NIFF at (413) 582-1832. College. It is an 8 minute accounting of the www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Dec. 6, 2007 - Jan. 2, 2008 • 21 Sex Talk & More Dr. Lola: Sexpert & more Q Puzzle: “C’est Moi” Dear Dr. Lola: tionship. Good pets crave this attention. I am a bisexual man in a long- Mine do. term (six years) polyamorous rela- This is my advice; first of all, tionship. You’d think I wouldn’t have I wouldn’t issue any ultima- many, if any, real sexual hang-ups. tums. I love my chichi more The thing is one of my lovers than any lover I have ever met. adopted a greyhound from the local My dog would win without ques- shelter. Nice thing to do. Nice dog, tion. I suggest a compromise. Jo-Jo is Great dog. He just doesn’t belong in our probably bored and since he sees you all bedroom watching us have sex. That is too having fun he just wants to be part of the bizarre – even for me. I know he’s watching pack and have fun too. Granted this is not a – not just hanging out. Last week Jo-Jo party he is invited to—so let him have his actually jumped up on bed and started own fun. When you know you are going to humping a guest. Luckily she laughed it off get busy toss him a Kong toy filled with his but still this cannot continue. What do I do favorite treats or a little peanut butter with about this situation? Any help you could some biscuits inside it and quickly close the offer would be appreciated. Thanks. door. Kong’s are excellent chew toys and Bob greyhounds have notoriously bad teeth so Schenectady, NY this could be fun and healthy. In addition to daily play and good Dear Bob, amounts of exercise, having several toys Have I got a bone(r) to pick with you! around the house that make it fun and inter- Okay —no seriously—your situation is not esting to get at what is inside is a great way that unusual. With so many households hav- to minimize separation anxiety. Just to be on ing all manners of pets (animal and other), the safe side ask your veterinarian for advice boundaries are essential. Setting limits and on what sort of treats are best for keeping adhering to loving discipline is a require- Jo-Jo busy, healthy and satisfied. Bone ment for a satisfying master and pet rela- appetite! Across Down 1 What guns shoot off 1 Start of a Shakespearean title Marking World AIDS day, Mandela calls for more 5 Big tops 2 Sexual partners, to the insensitive 10 Sweaty guys get pinned to them 3 What a knight takes to go clubbing? cooperation on stopping new HIV infections 14 Maude producer 4 Juicy fruit JOHANNESBURG, South Africa that for every 15 Gladys Kravitz, for one 5 Cats inspirer's monogram 16 Star quality 6 Pass, as human rights laws (AP)—The world must not grow complacent person 17 27/30-Across played Georges in this Broadway musi- 7 We, to "Fifty Million Frenchmen" about AIDS because the number of new HIV receiving cal 8 Like carbon monoxide infections still outpaces the number of those treatment, 20 Pool party? 9 Lotion letters at South Beach being treated for the disease, former South four others 21 CBS show in which semen may be evidence 10 California home of Streisand 22 Makes oneself hard to find 11 Barrie's getting on in years African President Nelson Mandela said at a are newly 23 Nature's blow job? 12 It can bear fruit benefit concert Saturday. infected.” 25 Ty, who waved a big stick 13 Femme character in Mango Kiss Since stepping down as South Africa's first “If we are 27 With 30-Across, "C'est Moi" singer 18 Out of one's ___ (ready for the rubber room) black president in 1999, Mandela, whose son to stop the 30 See 27-Across 19 "Hot dog!" 34 Cheer for Lorca 24 Prick died from the disease, has championed the AIDS epi- 35 Flower for Doris? 26 Enjoy the scenery at a gay bar cause of people with AIDS. On Saturday, he demic from 39 Oddball comedian Philips 27 Goes to seed drew a crowd of about 15,000 to his fifth expanding 40 Period of service for Christine Quinn 28 It slicks Feniger's pan international awareness concert, held this year we need to 42 Drag queen's hosiery hue, perhaps 29 Swiss town with a bear mascot 43 Bit of gay advice? 31 Do-overs for Amelie Mauresmo to coincide with World AIDS Day. break the 44 Whale finder 32 Give out Recent U.N. figures estimate that the num- cycle of new HIV infections. All of us work- 46 Bloom of The Producers 33 Like The Best Little Boy in the World ber of AIDS cases fell from almost 40 million ing together with government, communities 47 Fantasizes about a hottie 36 Cry of one in bondage last year to 33.2 million in 2007. and civil society can make the difference that 48 Movie with voice roles by 27/30-Across and Judy 37 Place for Proust Garland 38 Firebird composer Stravinsky “This lower figure suggests that prevention is needed. Together we have the power to 51 Q, in a theater 41 Ian McKellen character holding a generator? programs have been successful in bringing change the course of destiny,” he said to rap- 54 No zip 43 Gay to the max down infection rates,'' Mandela said. ``That turous applause. 58 Broadway musical in which 27/30-Across played 45 Male actor named Julia trend is encouraging but it is still alarming Lancelot 47 Give for a while 60 Costar Julie in 58-Across 49 Beefeater, for example LGBT STATS - WHY ADVERTISING IS SO IMPORTANT! 61 Tight group 50 Foamed at the mouth 62 Wet 51 Capital of Ghana 64 Sappho's H's 52 Balls in battle 65 Prefix with gravure, in "Easter Parade" 53 Be a ham in Hamlet? 78% OF GAY AND LESBIAN ADULTS & 77% OF 66 Material for nice stones 55 “Let’s make it a threesome!” 67 Cub slugger 56 Michael Landon's ___ Teenage Werewolf HETEROSEXUALS are likely to consider a BRAND that is 68 Deity on Xena 57 Former leader of Syria known to PROVIDE EQUAL WORKPLACE BENEFITS for all 69 Rootless rover 59 Take-out on a cheap date? 70 One that attacks a fly 60 Nick was his master 63 Norma McCorvey's memoir of their employees, including GAYS & LESBIANS. ___ Roe Source: Witeck-Combs Communications/Harris Interactive, Feb. 2007 Solution of Puzzle on Page 22 22 • December 6, 2007 - Jan. 2 , 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer News in NY Lesbian Notions: Changing Family Values By: Libby Post * The courts did, in a case called Gallucio v. Nevada, New York, Connecticut, Illinois, those children are awaiting adoption, making e were in New Jersey. Indiana, Pennsylvania, Vermont, and the foster parenting and adoption available to les- WProvincetown Ten years later, lesbian and gay families in District of Columbia also have policies or bians, gay men, and bisexuals who want chil- for a much-needed New Jersey - some from adoption or foster laws on the books that implicitly or explicitly dren could solve this national problem vacation this year the care, some biological in nature - now also state that sexual orientation cannot be a basis overnight. week after “Family have a civil unions law that is supposed to for preventing gay and lesbian people from Right now, there are approximately 65,000 Week.” There wasn't extend all the right and responsibilities of adopting. adopted children living with a lesbian or gay much evidence of the familydom on them as well. Given how diffi- Given the number of children in need in this parent, accounting for 4 percent of all the thousands of kids and parents who made the cult it has been for lesbian and gay couples country, it is time for many of the country's adopted children in the country. An additional pilgrimage. No broken strollers strewn about who have been civil-unionized in the Garden adoption agencies and county departments of 14,000 foster kids are living with us as well— like urban detritus. No echoes of children cry- State to exact benefits from their employers, social services to take their heads out of their we're already raising 3 percent of those kids. ing. All that was left were the contents of cash Despite the histrionics of groups like Focus registers of local merchants and talk about on the Family and the American Family how difficult it was to maneuver past all the Gay or straight, some of us make good parents, and some of us Association, we make perfectly good parents. strollers in tight store aisles. Reputable, professional organizations such as The national LGBT family advocacy group, don’t. Who we sleep with has absolutely nothing to do the American Academy of Child and Family Pride, sponsors Family Week each with our ability to raise children. While many straight Adolescent Psychiatry, the American Medical year. This year, R Family Vacations got into Association, the Child Welfare League of the act as well. R Family is run by Kelli people don't necessarily plan to have children, it is a America, and the North American Council on O'Donnell, Rosie's wife, and produced all the Adoptable Children all agree that sexual ori- large-scale events in P-town that week—din- deliberate decision that lesbian and gay couples do not enter entation has absolutely no bearing on one's ners, cabarets, etc. into lightly. But we do enter it with a lot of love. ability to raise a child. Oh, how things have changed! I remember Gay or straight, some of us make good par- when we were quite tentative talking about ents, and some of us don’t. Who we sleep with our families. We didn't want to draw too much I'm not convinced that those families will be collective butts and start recruiting lesbian has absolutely nothing to do with our ability attention out of fear of legal retribution. Many fully covered by the law either. and gay foster and adoptive parents. to raise children. While many straight people of us in the community weren't looking to But at least lesbian and gay couples can According to a recent report by The don't necessarily plan to have children, it is a have families in the traditional sense of kids adopt and be foster parents in New Jersey. Williams Institute of the UCLA School of deliberate decision that lesbian and gay cou- and parents. I, for one, fell into parenthood, Florida still has an outright ban, as do Utah Law entitled “Adoption and Foster Care by ples do not enter into lightly. since my partner had a child from a previous, and Mississippi, only theirs is more like equal Gay and Lesbian Parents in the United But we do enter it with a lot of love. straight marriage. My biological clock was opportunity discrimination—only married States,” there are plenty of us to go around. never wound, let alone ticking, so having kids couples are allowed to adopt, period. Using the 2000 U.S. Census, the National * Libby Post is the founding chair of the was never on my radar. Utah also forbids unmarried couples from Survey of Family Growth (2002), and the Empire State Pride Agenda and a political It's only been in the last decade or so that becoming foster parents, while Nebraska has Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and commentator on public radio, on the Web, our families have really gotten onto anyone a policy that explicitly prohibits us from being Reporting System (2004), the report estimates and in print media. She can be reached care else's radar other than our own. It took until foster parents. that there are two million or so gay, lesbian, of this publication or at 1997 for the first state - New Jersey - to Thankfully, many more states do not take and bisexual people interested in adopting. [email protected]. expressly authorize adoptions by lesbian or such a draconian view regarding our families. Given that half a million children currently gay couples. No, the legislature didn't do it. California, Maryland, Massachusetts, live in foster care and more than 100,000 of Ithaca’s Ben Nichols, professor and former mayor of Ithaca, dies at 87 ITHACA, N.Y. (AP)—Ben Nichols, a pro- War in the 1930s, protested segregation in the Nichols said at the time. “It goes without say- law, and that right extended to gay and lesbian fessor emeritus at Cornell University and a deep South, marched against the Vietnam ing Ithaca wouldn't be anything like it is with- marriages. member of the Democratic Socialists of War, and supported Jesse Jackson for presi- out Cornell. Cornell as an institution does not After leaving office, Nichols remained America who served three terms as mayor of dent in the 1980s. feel quite the same way about Ithaca.” active in public affairs in Ithaca. Ithaca, has died. When Nichols was elected to the Ithaca Nichols served as mayor from 1989-95 and A private burial ceremony was held Nichols, a professor of electrical engineer- Common Council in 1987, he said affordable narrowly lost his bid for a fourth term. While Monday at Lakeside Cemetery. A public cele- ing at Cornell for 40 years, died Saturday of bration of Nichols' life was expected to be natural causes after being admitted to Cayuga scheduled for the week between Christmas Medical Center, according to Bangs Funeral In 1995, Nichols supported the city council when it voted unani- and New Year's, according to the funeral Home, which is handling the arrangements. mously to endorse same-sex marriages. He said the U.S. home. He was 87. Nichols, who served in the Army during Constitution guaranteed all citizens equal protection under law, and that World War II, was rooted in the American left right extended to gay and lesbian marriages. and spent much of his life in politics. He was born on Staten Island in 1920 to parents who housing and new jobs would be high on his campaigning, he frequently discussed sensi- were Communist Party members. He helped agenda, as well as having Cornell pay for its tive issues most candidates avoided, such as his parents organize a union, supported the share of services. taxing developers to pay for affordable hous- Spanish Loyalists during the Spanish Civil “Cornell and Ithaca are intertwined,” ing. In 1995, Nichols supported the city council when it voted unanimously to endorse same- Jo Bunny, Licensed Massage Therapist sex marriages. He said the U.S. Constitution guaranteed all citizens equal protection under Swedish & Deep Tissue Therapy Relaxation Give the Gift of Massage Pregnancy Massage Detoxify the Body & Enhance Health Lymphatic Drainage Therapy Improve Circulation & Boost Energy for the Holidays! Clubs to go to in NY? 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Accepted by their teammates, these pioneers aren't the only folks who understand that "gay attractiveness, and who are winners on more Pausing to look back are altering their coaches' perceptions of sports" is not an oxymoron; our straight allies than the scoreboard. Who needs the _Sports and consider our bless- them, while advancing their sports and all of get it, too. Illustrated_ swimsuit issue when we've got ings is a time-honored American society. We don't know their Thankfully, amateur sports are alive and well. Outsports.com? tradition, as much a names, but then again, we don't have to. Neon I'm thrilled to see so many gay sports teams - Finally, "The OutField" is grateful for you. If part of the holidays as lights are not the only way to shine. even entire leagues - providing healthy, safe, you're reading this, you're part of a vibrant, re-gifting fruitcakes Let's not forget the out coaches among us - and fun recreational opportunities for runners, exciting community. You understand the and smirking at carols that command us to myself included. We know that while our sex- rowers, ruggers, flag footballers, cyclists, importance of sports as part of our broader "don our gay apparel." As "The OutField" uality is only a small part of who we are, it is skiers, Ultimate Frisbee fanatics, and proba- gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender com- nears the end of its first year, let's look back at important. Our impact on all the athletes we bly even Ultimate Fighting fools. Ball fields munity. You know the value of competition, the men and women who make the gay sports work with - straight, gay, and questioning; on are the new bars - and you don't have to wait the thrill of victory, and the agony of de feet world such an exciting, alluring, and fun place and off the field, today and for the rest of their until midnight to go. after a hard day on the court, field, or dia- to be. lives - is profound. The word "coach" has Every sport has its own governing body. I'm mond. You don't care whether your teammate, We'll start with out professional athletes. The many meanings, and teaching young people in awe of the time and effort so many gay men opponent, referee, favorite athlete, or most list of big names, while still woefully short, is how to block, kick, and dribble is a far less and lesbians put toward planning tournaments hated rival is gay, straight, polyamorous, or studded with men and women we can admire: important one than helping them learn how to and events for the rest of us. It's reached the asexual. All you want is to run, jump, swim, Dave Kopay, Billie Jean King, Martina think, act, and contribute to the big, wide point that an umbrella organization - the Gay throw or catch, or cheer for those who do. Navratilova, Greg Louganis, Esera Tuaolo, world. and Lesbian Athletes Association - can spon- You can have a seat at my holiday table any Sheryl Swoopes, John Amaechi. Let's hope, a We definitely appreciate our straight allies. In sor conferences, respond to media queries, day of the year. year from now, that we can rejoice in the first the sports world they take many forms: ath- and act as a clearinghouse for all the rest of * Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer openly gay American male athlete currently letes who speak up in outrage over bigoted our disparate groups. Sure, we're not always coach, gay activist, and author of the "Jocks" playing on a professional sports team. And statements by ignorant teammates; readers happy about the competing Gay Games and series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his then the second, third, and fourth. who wrote encouraging e-mails to _Los OutGames. But it's a lot better than having no website at www.danwoog.com. He can be We honor, too, the hundreds - probably thou- Angeles Times_ sportswriter Christine games at all. reached care of this publication or at sands - of less renowned, but equally impor- Daniels when she transitioned from male to One thing that is very cool is that athletes are [email protected]. tant, young women and men who are quietly female; former National Football League hot. Male swimmers, female bodybuilders, and courageously openly gay on their college president Paul Tagliabue, who is not just the football players sweating in the hot sun, hock- and high school sports teams. Cross-country father of a gay son, but a passionate PFLAG ey players sweating on the ice - they're all eye HELP WANTED

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