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KY FEATURES | courier-journal.com/features THE COURIER-JOURNAL | MONDAY,APRIL 9, 2012 | D5 Guilt casts pall overengagement DAILYCROSSWORD Across 48 “Dog the Bounty 13 Garaged for the 41 1450, in old Rome 1Info in afolder Hunter” channel night, gearwise 42 Get an “A” on Dear Annie: Irecently girlfriend for forgiveness, and 5Mystical secrets 49 __ Pieces 18 Heidi of “Project 43 Rhinoplasty became engaged to my wonder- ask her to go with you for pre- 11 Polynesian paste 51 H.S. class with Runway” 44 Wooden shoes ANNIE’S microscopes ful girlfriend of four years. The marital counseling. If she dumps 14 Prayer ender 22 Light rope 45 Got an “A” on wedding is scheduled to take MAILBOX you, so be it, but at least you 53 Jenna, to Jeb 15 Mazda roadsters 24 Jeremy Lin or 46 Battery terminals place in September,and Ijust both will know why. 56 Ancient Kathy Mitchell Kobe Bryant, e.g. 47 Estate beneficiary made the worst mistake of my Dear Annie: My brother 16 Landers with Marcy Sugar advice 57 Expert 25 __ de Cologne life. recently passed away.Weare a 50 Three-time 17 Donald Duck’s 62 Casual shirt 26 Imitate Masters winner My fiancee’sgrandfather well-known family in the com- title adventures, 63 Like some Coast Sam recently was diagnosed with munity and received many 28 “Casablanca” in a’90s Disney Guard rescues pianist 52 Soft French cancer.Myfiancee andher cards, memorials and flowers. It don’tthink Ican marry her after series 64 Native Nebraskan cheese brother left town for two weeks was such atribute, and we were 29 Chicken __ king what I’ve done, but Idon’tknow 19 Vigor 65 Disruptive ’60s 54 “Elder” or to spend time with him. Istayed very grateful. It was quite atask 30 Southern Cal. how to break it off, either.What 20 Ten campus gp. “Younger” Roman home, and so did “Angie,” my thanking everyone, but it would airport are my options? Commandments 66 “__: rewind”: VCR statesman future brother-in-law’swife. have been so much easier if you 32 Popular sneakers —Worst Fiance Ever verb rental reminder 55 Financial subj. Angie has three difficult chil- could tell your readers to: 34 Barbershop sound in Toronto 21 The house, to José 67 Skinny 58 Noah’srefuge dren, including adaughter with Sign the card with your first 36 Eschew the Dear Fiance:One option is to 23 __ pig: experi- 59 CBS forensic special needs. It is very stress- and last names. If sending agift subway and bus tell the truth, possibly wrecking ment subject Down series ful for her. or flowers, please also list your 38 Owns your engagement and Angie’s 27 Hallway 1Website info 60 Barbie’sboyfriend The day before my fiancee address. We called the florist, marriage. Another option is to 28 West Coast capital source 39 N.Y.clock setting 61 Phi Beta Kappa returned, Angie completely col- but they didn’talways have say nothing, although both you 31 Retrace one’s 2Don of talk radio 40 Used to be symbol lapsed. Ihelped her get her kids addresses. It is especially hard and Angie would have to be able steps SATURDAY’S SOLUTION in bed, and we talked for hours when there are multiple friends 3Jacob’sfirst wife to live with the guilt, and it would 33 Lament for Yorick about the pressure she’sunder. or families listed on one card 4Confines, as apet take time before your relation- 34 Pan-cooked in oil, bird We had acouple of glasses of and some live out of town. ship with her could normalize. say wine to relax. Honestly,Annie, I —Barbara in Nebraska 5Violin maker (And there’snoguarantee the 35 Reach one’slimit Nicolò never imagined things would go Dear Barbara:Please, folks, truth wouldn’tcome out later.) on, as acredit the way they did, but we slept your kindness is much appreci- 6Slowing, in mus. Youalso could simply walk away card, with “out” together and are now tormented ated, so allow the recipients to 7Siamese or from the engagement, devastat- 36 Heavy wts. Burmese with guilt. We promised it would thank you properly. ing your fiancee. Or you could 37 Pres. or gov. never happen again and that 8__loss for words tell aversion of the truth: that 38 Fell with an axe we’d take it to our graves. Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar are long- 9Most common while she was out of town, you time editors of the Ann Landers column. 41 Luau cocktails food additive, to The problem now is that I Email questions to got drunk and slept with another 43 Galileo launcher: achemist can’tlook at my fiancee without [email protected], or write to: woman. Youdon’thave to name 10 Inquire about thinking what aterrible person I Annie’sMailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Abbr. the woman or give the impres- am. How could Idothis to her? 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