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CDecember 23,ommentator 2016 Vol. 54, No. 23 SERVING THE DIOCESE OF BATON ROUGE SINCE 1963 thecatholiccommentator.org Christ’s HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS birth offers Family welcome returns reassurance s Christmas nears, to house for we approach the Amanger at Beth- lehem where our Divine for Christmas Savior was starkly, but lovingly, birthed in an By Debbie Shelley ancient world in need of The Catholic Commentator peace and meaning found reassurance. Ironically, The eyes of the Neal and we in today’s world, find Michele McClearly family of ourselves Denham Springs shine bright- in similar ly and they are as giddy as if need. they had opened a longed-for The in- present on Christmas morn- exhaustible ing. Indeed they received the mystery one gift they wanted most – to of God’s be in their homee for Christ- divinity, Bishop Muench When th O mas. RS R SE infinity and WAfterA Ta Efamily game night eternity brings tranquil- on Aug. 12, the McClearys, ity to the anguished, members of Immaculate Con- The Neal and Michele McCleary family celebrate the fact that they are in their home at Christmas fol- healing to the infirm, ception Church lowing the flood by decorating the Christmas tree. Adorning the tree are, from left, Jacob, Michele, comfort to the grieving, See related in Denham Neal and Tyler McCleary. Not pictured is Kenneth McCleary. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Commentator relief to the burdened, story on Springs, went hope to the despairing, page 5 to bed around water everywhere,” she said. “I They evacuated with the The McCleary’s new home direction to the lost, joy midnight with said, ‘Y’all get up.’ ” help of a neighbor who had a took on more than 3 1/2 feet of to the afflicted and love to no concerns as rains fell. The family scrambled and boat. Michele was taken to the water and the strong water cur- the forsaken. It validates At 6:20 a.m. Aug. 13, Mi- put important documents and home of her brother, who lived rent reeked havoc, overturning the personal worth and chele awoke to the sound of a things that were special to nearby. Neal and sons Tyler, appliances, etc. Upon return- value of each one of us, vehicle’s horn honking. them on their beds. Within 20 Jacob and Kenneth, stayed be- ing home the family was dev- recognizing the gift that “I looked out the window minutes, water came into the hind and helped rescue people astated by the sight. we have already recived. and it was a river. There was house. on their Parham Avenue. SEE HOME PAGE 19 May the angels again glo- riously proclaim: “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to people ST. NICHOLAS ARRIVES – Bishop Robert W. Meunch, of good will” (Lk 2:14). as St. Nicholas, handed out 1,004 presents at the Locally, nationally and annual St. Vincent de Paul gift giveaway on Dec. 18. internationally, trag- With a joyous “Merry Christmas” given to the re- edies of human violence cipients and their parents, Bishop Muench said the and the forces of nature event is one of the first marked on his calendar each continue to beset us. year. With this year’s devastating flood, the bishop Turmoil, tension and, said it is heartwarming to give gifts that may be the unrest have growingly only ones the children receive this year. “It gives the characterized our state children something to be hopeful and excited of being, our equilib- about,” said the bishop. St. Vincent de Paul CEO Mi- rium of spirit. Concerns chael Acaldo said he is thankful for all the volunteer about safety and security, efforts and that SVDP will continue to distribute law enforcement, racial gifts within the community. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The disharmony and divisions Catholic Commentator have reemerged. Highly publicized shootings in our area were followed SEE MESSAGE PAGE 19 2 The Catholic Commentator December 23, 2016 St. Barbara: patron saint of fireworks Trusting God’s Plan: The Revelation to St. Joseph

Thinking about ringing in became a Christian and dedi- By Dina Dow to say that St. Joseph was the first to set the New Year with an elabo- SAINT cated her life to learning about his eyes on “God with us” and carry him rate fireworks display? OF THE MONTH God and spreading his word. …the angel of the Lord appeared to to Mary. His trust in God enabled him to Or perhaps you will be She even took a vow of conse- him in a dream and said, “Joseph, son of be one of the first to believe and see God setting the torch on the family bonfire in crated virginity. David, do not be afraid to take Mary your fully human and fully divine. What an in- the river parishes? Dioscorus began presenting men to wife into your home. For it is through credible encounter! Just If so, pray for the intervention of St. his daughter for marriage but she refused the Holy Spirit that this imagine holding a new- Barbara to assure all goes smoothly. them all. Enraged, Dioscorus allowed St. child has been conceived Life-Giving born in your arms for the Although St. Barbara is the patron Barbara to leave the tower in the hope in her. She will bear a son first time, placing him in saint of fireworks and fire, among other her newfound freedom would change and you are to name him FAI H his mother’s arms: tiny, frag- things, her life was anything but a blast. her mind. But she used that time to meet Jesus, because he will save ile and vulnerable, but at the Also known as the Great Martyr, St. Bar- fellow Christians and learn more about his people from their sins … Behold, the same time giving joy, love and bara was born to a wealthy pagan Dios- Christ, the church and the Holy Trinity. virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and hope. Now imagine the realization seep- corus in the mid-third century in Heliop- She was baptised into the church. they shall name him Emmanuel, which ing in that the baby is God incarnate and olis, Phoenicia. Following the death of his Displaying a courage that should be means “God is with us.” (Mt 1: 20-21, 23) you are entrusted with the role of foster- wife, Dioscorus dedicated his life to his inspirational even in today’s times, upon The Christmas season is upon us! Li- ing him. only daughter. her return, St. Barbara informed her fa- turgical colors change to luminous white The revelation to St. Joseph was an in- His way of “protecting” St. Barbara, ther she had become a Christian, anger- and gold! The Light of the World has credible moment of grace. St. Joseph was who was known for her great beauty, was ing Dioscorus to the point where he drew pierced the darkness through the incar- urgently told by an angel of the Lord in a shielding her from the world. Thus, he a sword and attempted to strike her. She nation, as God comes to us as a baby. dream to maintain his marriage and be- locked up her in a tower and allowed only was eventually beheaded by her father, The night has passed. The new dawn has come the foster-father of the long-await- pagan teachers to visit. who himself died when he was struck by awakened. And the Word became flesh ed Messiah. St. Joseph was very strong in As time went on, St. Barbara began lightning. and made his dwelling among us, and we his Jewish faith, following Mosaic Law. admiring God’s creations and secretly Her feast day is celebrated Dec. 4. saw his glory, the glory as of the Father’s Yet, he was also humble and reverent to only Son, full of grace and truth. (Jn 1:14) the miracles of God. He trusted in the | Who was the first to encounter our Lord message given to him and immediate- CORRECTION and how are we, as followers of Christ, ly obeyed God’s plan without hesitation. In our Dec. 9 story celebrating Father Pat Mascarella’s jubilee year, the date of called to live as he did? Subsequently he embraced Jesus as his his ordination was incorrectly listed. His ordination date was Dec. 17, 1966. As a The revelation to St. Joseph own son, and together with Mary, provid- young man, Father Mascarella entered the seminary at the start of the ninth grade Mary and St. Joseph were the only ed a home filled with faith, security and and earlier had considered joining the Passionists, a missionary order of priests. The people present during Jesus’ birth, as love. Catholic Commentator regrets the error. told in Luke 2:16. Hence, it is reasonable SEE FAITH PAGE 7

from Park City, Utah, where the accident called me to be. If I could not be present happened, to Salt Lake City. I underwent physically then I could pray for people emergency orthopedic surgery about four each day. Each day my mom or my dad hours after the accident. I was blessed helped me to get vested in my room and ...with FATHER MATTHEW GRAHAM, that my surgeon was Catholic. Even more I celebrated Mass in my wheelchair at my pastor, St. Elizabeth Church (Paincourt- interesting is that I had a second cousin desk. I could offer up my daily Mass for ville) and St. Jules Church (Belle Rose) who worked at clinics in the hospital I was a specific intention that came to heart or at who I had not seen in about five years. that I received. What is your favorite liturgical As for my ministry, it was difficult at It was a very interesting Lent for my Qseason and why? first because I could not be present on first year of priesthood. As one of my un- campus at Christ the King at LSU. I was cles told me, “So I see that you gave up My favorite liturgical season is the out of the office for about six weeks as I walking for Lent.” I accepted that. I add- AEaster Triduum (Holy Thursday, recovered at my parents’ house. However, ed that I rose again on Easter Monday. It Good Friday and Good Saturday/Easter I was able to remain connected with peo- was Easter Monday that I was able to put Vigil). Even though it is the shortest, it ple via email and Facebook. Many people weight bearing on my left leg and begin to has the most beautiful celebrations of our into the prayers and readings to enter into dropped by to visit me at my house as walk again. faith. During these three days we remem- this season. well. In terms of my ministry as a priest, ber and enter into the deepest mysteries my recovery period helped to show that What is the craziest story of your of our faith. I look forward to these three You broke your leg during a ski ac- my priesthood was more than just what I Qpriesthood so far? days with great expectation each year. I Qcident. What happened and was it physically do. It became about who God SEE COLLAR PAGE 6 attribute this first to serving at these lit- hard to carry on your ministry after that? urgies as an altar server as a member of St. Jude the Apostle Church. Then while When I was going down a slope I I was in college I became more involved Alost control of my speed and tum- with these liturgies when Father Da- bled when trying to stop. I did this so that vid Allen, pastor of St. Jude at the time, I would not go down a steep slope or run thecatholiccommentator.org | Facebook.com/TheCatholicCommentator asked me serve as the master of ceremo- into trees or to people. Typically when a Bishop Robert W. Muench Publisher Wanda L. Koch Advertising Manager nies for them. In this role, I began to be person falls or tumbles the skis are de- Father Tom Ranzino Associate Publisher Penny G. Saia Production Manager more aware of all the aspects of the lit- signed to unsnap from the boots. The one Richard Meek Editor Lisa Disney Secretary/Circulation urgies from the prayers, to the readings, attached to my left foot did not and this Debbie Shelley Assistant Editor Rachele Smith Staff Writer the symbolism and the music. When I en- caused me to have a compound fracture tered the seminary, I had a chance to see of the tibia and fibula on the left leg. I was The Catholic Commentator (ISSN 07460511; USPS 093-680) the Triduum celebrated by the monastic fortunate that it was contained by the ski Published bi-weekly (every other week) by the Catholic Diocese of Baton Rouge,1800 South Acadian and seminary communities at St. Joseph boot and I had very little pain besides Thruway, Baton Rouge, LA 70808; 225-387-0983 or 225-387-0561. Periodical Postage Paid at Baton Rouge, LA. Copy must reach the above address by Wednesday for use in the next week’s paper. Sub- Abbey which was amazing. Along with them taking the ski boot off. The nurses scription rate: $14.00 per year. POSTMASTER, send address changes to The Catholic Commentator, P.O. this, I began praying the Liturgy of the and doctor at the ski patrol clinic were Box 14746, Baton Rouge, LA 70898-4746. Hours which brought another dimension amazed at that. I was taken by ambulance December 23, 2016 The Catholic Commentator 3 Father Andrus surprises parishioners with surprise Christmas gift

By Richard Meek ple they had never met. And that made The Catholic Commentator such an impact on their lives and in their churches. Because of where they have Words evaded Theresa Gravious as been they were trying to help others.” she opened an unexpected holiday sur- Father Andrus said that he was able prise, restoring joy to a Christmas that to gather information on the most needy appeared to be washed away by August’s of his parishioners, such as homeown- historic flooding. ers who were without flood insurance or “Oh my God!” Gravious exclaimed as underinsured or renters. From there, the she looked at the dollar amount on her needs of every family were evaluated to gift card. determine the church’s response. Nearby, Martha George and her “My church family means a whole lot 3-year-old granddaughter, Ariana, anx- to me,” said Grevious, a St. Paul parish- iously opened a similar envelope. ioner since 1986 and who is active in the “God is good!,” said Martha, who was church. raising Ariana fulltime until the family George said the unexpected donations was displaced by the rising water. have inspired her to do more. She said she Gravious and George were two of has felt alone at times, especially when nearly 100 people who were delightfully dealing with FEMA. She noted how various surprised with Christmas donations by agencies had promised her assistance but Father Rick Andrus SVD, pastor at St. was then told she was on the waiting list. Paul the Apostle Church in Baton Rouge. Theresa Gravious signs a list to receive a surprise Christmas donation following a dinner “Never happened,” she said, frustra- Father Andrus had invited the parishio- at St. Paul the Apostle Catholic Church in Baton Rouge on Dec. 15. Showing her obvious tion obvious in her voice. “The only thing ners for what was seemingly a fried chick- delight is Gravious’ granddaughter, seven-year-old Cheniya Knighten. Photo by Richard Meek | that has really been happening is through en dinner complete with all of the trim- The Catholic Commentator this church right here. My soul was lifted.” mings, but he had a much bigger surprise “Throughout all of this all I can do is in store. So he took to social media, posting a ing those donations “enormous.” pray and to ask God to give me the faith, Following dinner, parishioners were story about how he was in floodwaters “Some of the same guys that have been and the patience,” she added. “I believe able to vent their frustrations about their offering assistance. He mentioned how so so generous with us went through (Hur- this is what everybody is missing. travails with FEMA and were then direct- many of his parishioners had lost every- ricane) Katrina,” he added. “They were “You can flood (my house) but you can’t ed to two tables to receive a gift card or a thing and petitioned for help. overwhelmed at the generosity of peo- flood my soul.” check. “People from all over the country “This is very important because No. 1, responded,” Father Andrus said. “My I’m thinking about the grandkids, just to friends reposted my story so people from make a Christmas for them,” said Gravi- all over were sending all kinds of things.” ous, who lost her house and is now living He also sent a letter to his provincial in a FEMA trailer parked in her driveway. in Bay St. Louis, Mississippi, to make him “Now I have some funds available for the aware of the circumstances at the parish. grandkids. With the flood, the grandkids “He in turn sent a letter to everyone lost a lot. For them to have a Christmas is in the province (of the Society of Divine important.” Word Missionaries),” Father Andrus said. Father Andrus said because so many of “Through their contributions we raised a his parishioners lost their houses and ev- fairy sizable amount of money.” erything they owned, he “felt compelled He added that the majority of the money to do more than a pat on the back and a distributed at the dinner came from contri- prayer. We had to find a way to meet the butions from fellow Society of Divine Word emotional, physical and financial needs clergy members or from their churches in of folks.” Mississippi, Louisiana and Arkansas, call-

REJOICE IN THE MIRACLE OF BIKE PATROL – Andrew Guzzardo, the warehouse and fleet manager at Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Baton Rouge, looks over the many donated bikes that CHRISTMAS... will go to needy families this Christmas. Guzzardo said through the generosity of The Catholic Commentator staff, others, some 500 bikes, in addition to other toys, have been made available to chil- dren in programs serviced by CCDBR. Photo by Rachele Smith | The Catholic Commentator Richard, Debbie, Rachele, Wanda, Lisa, and Penny 4 The Catholic Commentator December 23, 2016 Holidays can be especially difficult for those grieving By Rachele Smith “Grief comes in waves. When it comes, give ence thoughts, such as disbelief The Catholic Commentator that this has actually happened yourself permission to experience it. ... You will (or shock), confusion, preoc- What to say to There are moments in every- cupation with death or with someone in grief? one’s life when grief just seems go through the emotions when you get home.” the loss, and a sense of the de- to take over. It can happen sud- ceased’s presence. Even hallu- Don’t say: “I know denly, such as with the death Darryl Ducote cinations (such as seeing a re- how you feel.” Say: “I don’t know of a loved one, the loss of a job, Director of the Office of Marriage and Family Life, Diocese of Baton Rouge cently passed loved one sitting the end of a relationship or even in a favorite chair) may occur,” how you feel, but I do care through the washed-out remains behind a putative belief that to those caught in its grip. he said. about you, and I am here of a once beautiful family home. happiness is now unattainable, Yet, there is hope for anyone Based upon his own research for you.” Those who have experienced and the simple pleasures of life, affected by grief or for friends as well as years of working in pri- grief know that it pours into the once so easy to come by, are gone and family members watching vate practice as a licensed clin- Don’t say: “It will get body and soul, filling every open forever. loved ones going through it, ac- ical social worker, Ducote has better.” crevice. Like a wave, it swells Unfortunately, grief knows no cording to Darryl Ducote, direc- identified what he calls five tasks Say: “This must be and engulfs. In some cases, it schedule, and it can happen at tor of the Office of Marriage and or work involved in processing very difficult for you.” can even claw at a person’s very any time of the year, but the hol- Family Life in the Diocese of Ba- grief. He emphasized these are being, suffocating and leaving idays can be particularly painful ton Rouge. not steps, and they may take Don’t say: “Now, now, Ducote said that grief is nor- place at different times, but all don’t cry.” Diocese of Baton Rouge mal and necessary, and while need to be done at some point. Say: “It’s OK to cry, I’m the level of the intensity of grief One task is the acceptance of here.” Catholic Schools Office is different for each person, it the loss. Principal Opening all comes from the same place, “It’s understanding that this Don’t say: “It was meaning that, no matter the really happened. Something God’s will” or “God knows 2016-17 School Year difficulty, it is possible to work significant is gone, and it is irre- best.” St. Thomas Aquinas Regional through the emotions and reach versible,” he said. Say: “I will be praying for you.” Catholic High School “the other side.” Another task is experiencing “As humans, we attach, that’s the pain of the loss, which may Hammond, Louisiana part of our makeup. That attach- mean certain feelings or physi- Founded in 1986 on 48 acres in Hammond, Louisiana, St. ment can be to a person, a place cal symptoms, such as sadness, involves a spouse or child, the Thomas Aquinas High (STA) provides outstanding Catholic ed- or even a dream,” said Ducote, anger, fatigue, etc., may occur. feelings can be very intense. ucation based on the Dominican philosophy of Veritas to fami- explaining when an attachment “Some people try to avoid the “You want to listen to them. lies in Tangipahoa Parish. With a student population of approx- is broken, whether it is through pain or deaden it by drugs or Listen to the memories, their imately 310 students in Grades 9 – 12, STA has expanded and the death of a person, floodwa- getting lost in some activity,” he struggles and their fears. Also, upgraded the physical plant over the years to accommodate ad- ters or with a divorce, where said, emphasizing that the pain reflect back what you hear and vancements in instruction and programming. The one-to-one couples give up the dream of a is hard and uncomfortable, but it validate when you can,” he add- iPAD program is embraced across the curriculum as academic happy marriage, grief must fol- is normal. ed, noting the holidays are often accomplishment continues to rise, and the recent capital cam- low.” Other tasks include adjusting associated with many memories, paign supported establishment of a second school building and “Grief is a powerful emotion. to life without the other person, yet this doesn’t have to be a com- athletic stadiums and tracks. Professional staff and supportive If you don’t deal with the feelings which could entail acquiring a pletely difficult time. Rather, Du- board members engage to fulfill the mission to teach Gospel and process those in a healthy new skill, such as learning how cote said in his own family, they values in an environment of academic excellence that fosters way, they will come back in an to pay the bills if that is what the received much joy and comfort the development of the whole person in a Catholic-Christian unhealthy way,” he said, adding, deceased did, as well as devel- after sharing special memories community. “There is no short cut. oping a healthy connection with of his father the first holiday af- St. Thomas High is a diocesan school within the Diocese of “Grief is the process of let- the lost family member and in- ter he passed. Baton Rouge, which has thirty schools in eight civil parishes. ting go. First, it is a process, so corporating their life lessons or Another way to offer help is to There is a strong Catholic identity focus in all schools, and the it doesn’t happen all at once, and values in the family’s future. just be supportive. Many people district is accredited by the Southern Association of Colleges it’s a struggle to let go. In grief Finally, Ducote explained do this by sending food, running and Schools (AdvancED). All schools work together to I want to hold on to something that it is important to reinvest errands and helping with other Evangelize Hearts, Educate Minds, Encourage Talent that I can’t hold on to.” the emotional energy given to practical needs. and Embrace the Future Ducote observed the way a a lost loved one in other ways, Of course, reminding those Applicants who meet the following criteria will be person grieves is personal and such as honoring that person in grieving of God’s strength and considered: there is no timetable. One per- a way that helps others or in oth- support and offering to pray • Practicing Catholic son may spend months or even er relationships. with them and for them is also • Minimum of five years of experience in education, years working through grief “Mothers Against Drunk powerful, Ducote added. preferably in Catholic high schools while another is able to pro- Drivers is a good example here,” “Grief comes in waves. When • Demonstrated Effective Leadership Ability cess the emotions quicker, he he said. it comes, give yourself permis- • Qualifications to meet the Non-Public certification explained, stating that normal What can friends and family sion to experience it. You can requirements for State of Louisiana grief reactions include an array members do as they watch loved even schedule it just by telling Mail resume’, copies of all college transcript(s) showing of feelings, such as sadness, an- ones go through grief, especial- yourself you will go through the degrees and three letters of recommendation to: ger, guilt, anxiety, loneliness, ly around the holidays? Ducote emotions when you get home. Or St. Thomas Aquinas Principal Search pining and numbness, as well said one of the most important you can go to a park and write Catholic Schools Office as physical sensations and cer- things to do is to just be present about it, maybe even sit by the P.O. Box 2028 tain behaviors, including a hol- and accept their feelings. grave and just feel the grief,” he Baton Rouge, LA 70821-2028 low stomach, tightness in the “Many people don’t allow a said. Deadline: March 1, 2017 chest and throat, hypersensitiv- grieving person to express their During the holidays, Ducote The schools of the Diocese of Baton Rouge, Louisiana, admit students of any race, col- ity, fatigue, changes in sleep or feelings because it makes them recommended prepare in ad- or, national and ethnic origin to all rights, privileges, programs, and activities generally accorded or made available to students at its schools. They do not discriminate on the appetite, absent-mindedness, uncomfortable,” he said, em- vance, especially if this is the basis of race, color, national and ethnic origin in administration of educational policies, withdrawal, dreams, treasuring phasizing again that feelings of first one without your loved one. admissions policies, scholarship and loan programs, and athletic and other school ad- ministered programs. objects and crying. sadness, anxiety and the like “Let grief happen and recog- “A person may also experi- are normal, and when the loss nize that it is okay,” he said. December 23, 2016 The Catholic Commentator 5 Displaced families find unexpected blessings during Christmas

By Rachele Smith “We love to decorate our home for each Rouge, took on five feet of water from The Catholic Commentator holiday,” said Rudy, explaining how the backwater canal flooding. family always has a wreath outside their “After we evacuated, I knew water was A little humor goes a long way for one door and enjoys setting up festive items getting in. I just prayed it wouldn’t get to the Baton Rouge family this Christmas. in their yard for everyone second story,” said Darlene. Separated from their home following to see. Her prayer was an- the August floodwaters, Darrell and - An “One day, we found a swered, but while the fam- gele Ourso, together with their children, card in the wreath after ily is living upstairs and 22-year-old Amanda and 18-year-old Dan- the flood. It was a gift card able to spend some time on iel, have created some holiday laughs with from a neighbor, someone their first floor thanks to the a Christmas card that not only pokes fun at we really didn’t know,” he When S ROSE Shelter in Place, the flood- their rebuilding ordeal, but also manages added. TER waters have, unfortunately, to make the season a little bit brighter. A hand-written note ex- WA revealed something else. The Christmas card, which features pressed gratitude for the “Foundation issues,” two photos of the family, was taken in family’s decorating, some- said Rudy. their “contractor-ready” home. Each pho- thing they have continued to do despite As expected, this has caused some to shows the Oursos holding various con- their ordeal. And the gift card? additional problems, but with their faith struction tools along with several other “They wanted us to take the kids to get firm, the family is remaining stead- items any flooded resident in the Baton ice-cream,” said Darlene. fast, knowing that this too will pass and Rouge area would recognize. The family has more stories showing normalcy with return, beginning with The photos pit a light-hearted mood the kindness of others, including one Christmas. against what Darrell and Angele described from another neighbor, now a friend, who, In addition to decorating outside and as an “unbelievable” event in their lives, using support she received from readers placing some stockings on the fireplace but it’s the words written on the back of the of her blog, helped the family clean all of downstairs, the family moved a small card that show the family’s determination their salvageable clothing. Dallas Cowboy Christmas tree (taken to “get back into a routine” and their faith Like many families rebuilding their flood- “It was a blessing,” Darlene noted. from Rudy’s “man-cave”) to their upstairs in a Christmas season filled with hope. damaged homes during this season of joy, Now back in their home after spending living area. “We decided why not have some fun the Richards, from left, Joey, Trey, Rudy many weeks living with the “wonderful” “There was a concern about Santa. We with our Christmas card this year,” said and Darlene, find comfort in small ways to family of Rudy’s sister, Darlene said they need to make sure he still finds us,” said Darrell Ourso. celebrate, such as with their Dallas Cow- are doing the best they can. The Richard Darlene as she offers a confirming nod to A quick reading of their first stanza, boy-themed Christmas tree. Photo by Rachele home, which is located in South Baton her youngest son, Joey. written with a little creative license from Smith | The Catholic Commentator a well-known Christmas tune, shows that’s just what they did: decorate for Christmas like before; how- “Chestnuts roasting on a propane fire, ever, she did order a small nativity set. The 2016-17 Introducing the new Insulation up your nose, “I couldn’t even begin to tell you where Medicare Care Choices Model! Sheetrock stacked on the floors to be our Christmas decorations are right now,” A model offered through St. Joseph Non-Hospice Support Services St. Joseph Non-Hospice Support Services allows BaTonyou to manage your pain and other symptomsR ouge hung, she laughed. while undergoing treatment for your disease. There are no required copays or deductibles for And Oursos dressed up in dusty clothes.” “But all we need is a nativity set. That’s Medicare Care Choices Model services. Of course, there’s more. 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Despite that late date, the family is However, the event has helped them planning to move back into their home as appreciate not only what they have in soon as possible. material things but also the connections, Angele Ourso said they are not going to both old and new, they have with others. Number of Diocesan Directories Ordered Name FOLLOW US ON FACEBOOK Address Facebook.com/TheCatholicCommentator City State READ US ONLINE www.thecatholiccommentator.org Zip Phone with area code 6 The Catholic Commentator December 23, 2016 Guidelines on gluten-free/Football commentary at Mass

At our parish weekend Mass, one small inexpensive metal disease is best advised The first rule, I would think, is child comes regularly to the altar container, and most par- to seek medical advice that the Mass should be offered Qat the same time as the eucharis- ishes would have several regarding the consump- Awith the reverence and dignity tic ministers and receives Communion of them.) tion of low-gluten hosts; that the circumstance warrants: Jesus separately from the congregation. My When the person those Catholics unable to Christ is made present on the altar, understanding is that he has celiac dis- with gluten intolerance consume even low-gluten offered to the Lord in sacrifice and then ease and gets a gluten-free host. approaches the priest in hosts may receive under received back as gift to the faithful. But I just realized today that the the Communion line, he the species of wine only, This doesn’t rule out occasional humor, celebrant gives him Communion using or she could simply be even if the cup is not lighthearted commentary or reference the same hand that has just touched the handed the pyx contain- offered to the rest of the to contemporary events, even football “regular” hosts. As a person with a food ing the consecrated host congregation at a partic- games. allergy myself (albeit a different one), and then self-communi- ular Mass. But if the priest you mention regu- doesn’t that risk a cross-contamination cate. larly spends as much time as you say of the host received by the boy? (Lans- You will notice that I A retired priest reviewing the fortunes of the Ohio dale, Pennsylvania) use the term “low-glu- Question Corner says one of the State Buckeyes – “a couple of minutes” ten” rather than “glu- QSunday Masses and then some more – that seems a The Mayo Clinic in 2012 estimat- ten-free.” According to Father Kenneth Doyle each week at our parish. bit excessive. (Your use of the word ed that 1.8 million Americans the Vatican, hosts must During football season, “sacrilege,” though, does sound a tad Asuffer from celiac disease; for be made of wheat since Christ used after the opening hymn, he spends a extreme.) them, eating gluten (a protein contained wheat bread at the Last Supper. couple of minutes commenting on the As to his extemporizing at the dis- in wheat) can cause serious damage to In the parish from which I just football game that our local team played missal rite, why can’t he stick to one of the intestinal lining. This would mean retired, we used low-gluten hosts made the day before. the four formulas offered in the Roman that, in a Sunday congregation of 400 by Benedictine nuns in Clyde, Missouri, This, of course, produces giggles Missal – including “Go in peace, glorify- worshippers, two or three would likely that contain less than 0.01 percent of from the congregation, which urges him ing the Lord by your life,” which is what be afflicted. gluten and that medical research has to continue what I believe borders on he seems to want to say? The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bish- deemed safe for most celiac sufferers. sacrilege. (Also, at the conclusion of the And as regards your leaving church ops has recognized the danger you point Researchers have estimated that most liturgy, instead of saying, “The Mass is during the opening comments, I out of cross-contamination. In their of those afflicted would have to consume ended. Go in peace,” he says, “The Mass wouldn’t call that a good idea: At the pastoral guidelines, they suggest that 270 such wafers a day to reach a danger never ends; it must be lived by each of very least, it can distract other worship- before Mass begins, a low-gluten host be point. us today.”) pers when they watch you return. If it placed in a pyx on the altar. (A pyx is a For safety’s sake, a person with celiac His comments at the beginning of really bothers you that much, why not Mass have irritated me to the extent that do something else: Talk to the priest I now leave church until he has finished himself, which would be the most “up- Look for that part, and then I return to my pew. front” thing to do, or speak with your The CaThoLiC CommenTaTor Your thoughts? 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She then goes on to tell me when I really made my decision to enter ✔ Baton Rouge Winn Dixie in Hammond, New Roads that this would be a problem for people the seminary. ✔ Magnuson Hotel, St. Francisville and Ponchatoula on the other side of the world because the I am also a licensed Ham Radio Oper- ✔ North Ridgely Healthcare, Baker sun rises in the West. ator with the callsign KE5ECH. This was as well as your local church parish sort of a hobby of mine before I entered Do you prefer the beach or moun- the seminary and I hope to delve back THE CATHOLIC Qtains? Why? into it. Finally, I am a person who likes to I definitely prefer the mountains travel and visit new places. I do not mind and the scenery. The outdoors has traveling alone and driving long distanc- CSERVING THE DIOCESE O F BATON ROUGE SINCE 1962 A always been a special place for me. I am a es. December 23, 2016 FAITH JOURNEY The Catholic Commentator 7 FAITH  From page 2 The light of Advent shines through Jesus

Do you believe that God still sends messag- Editor’s Note: This is the final in a follow the liturgical year and see the es? I believe he does. God sends, through the series of articles looking at the journey marvelous traditions that the world Holy Spirit, his word (Jesus), fully alive, ready from darkness to light in the season does not,” she said. to be seen, proclaimed and taught. Quoting a of Advent. The final stage celebrates Advent involves journeying through popular Christmas song, “Do you see what I see God’s coming to dwell with us. darkness before reaching the light. But ... Do you hear what I hear … Do you know what as people pray and read the Scriptures I know?”... Can others see the message of God’s By Debbie Shelley as they wait, they will see the unfold- love radiate from your being; can they hear his The Catholic Commentator ing of salvation history as recorded in message of truth coming from your lips; are you the Old and New Testaments, from the forming those he sends your way to know the The wait is over! first creation of Adam and Eve, the Is- goodness of Jesus? Place baby Jesus on the manger’s through him, and without him nothing raelites journey through the dessert, As Catholic Christians, we are called to bed of hay on Christmas morning and came to be. What came to be through up until Jesus’ life, death and resurrec- “see, hear and know” the message from God celebrate. The light of the world shines him was life, and this life was the light tion. through Jesus. But what is the message? Sim- in the form of a child. Even though of the human race; the light shines in Throughout people’s turbulent faith ply put, God wants us to come back home to you started in the darkness, your Ad- the darkness, and the darkness has not journey of turning toward and away him, made in his image, but tainted by sin. vent preparations help you clearly see overcome it.” from heaven, God never ceases calling St. Athanasius explains, “What then was God and understand the significance of the Traditional Christmas lights are fun people back to the light, stated Dow. to do? What else could he possibly do, being light. and signal a celebration, but they are “God interjected himself into the God, but renew his image in mankind, so that The coming of the light by the birth only a dim reflection of the glorious world and showed us the way home through it men might once more come to know of the Lord is proclaimed in the read- rays of heaven, according to Dow. through the incarnation,” said Dow. him? And how could this be done save by the ings of the Christmas Masses, said Many people following the worldly “The light came into the world and we coming (himself) of our Savior Jesus Christ? Dina Dow, director of the Office of cultural observance of Christmas will can enter into it for eternity.” He had to do away with death and corruption. Evangelization and Catechesis for the take their trees to the curb shortly after In the spirit of evangelization, once Therefore, he assumed a human body, in or- Diocese of Baton Rouge. Christmas day and judge the season’s people’s paths have been lit to the door- der that in it death might once and for all be She pointed to the first reading of success by whether they had a good steps of heaven, they should bring oth- destroyed, and that men might be renewed ac- the Book of Isaiah in the Mass at night time at the parties and events they ers with them by sharing the good news cording to the image ... the Lord came to over- which states, “The people who walked packed into their schedule or the num- of God’s redemption of mankind, Dow throw the devil and to purify the air to make a in darkness have seen a great light; ber of presents they received or gave said. A redemption that began with a way for us up to heaven.” upon those who dwelt in the land of away within their credit card limit. little child bathed in the light of a heav- The greatest gift of Christmas is Jesus who gloom a light has shone.” Those who patiently allowed Advent enly star and seen by shepherds who brings us the gift of eternal life. As you see the The responsorial psalm at the Mass to unfold will receive a heavenly trea- trembled as the glory of the Lord shone infant Jesus laying in the crèche of your church at dawn declares, “A light will shine on sure that doesn’t glitter, but penetrates through the darkness while angels an- reflect on the gift of new life he shares. Trust us this day: the Lord is born for us.” the soul with its light, according to nounced his birth. The shepherds has- in this. Be his light. Know God loves you. Tell St. John’s Gospel in the Mass during Dow. tened to Bethlehem and found the child others. What more is needed? To him be glory the day heralds the fact that the light “Christmas is only the beginning,” and returned glorifying and praising in the Church and in Christ Jesus to all genera- of the world brings new life to believ- beamed Dow. “We as Catholics cele- God and telling all what they had heard tions, forever and ever. Amen. (Eph 3:21) Merry ers: “In the beginning was the Word, brate for 12 days until the Epiphany and seen. Christmas! and the Word was with God, and the when the three magi brought him (the That miraculous moment continues Dow is the Director of Evangelization & Word was God. He was in the begin- Christ Child) gifts that sustained him.” to illuminate and spark hope in the Catechesis for the Diocese of Baton Rouge. ning with God. All things came to be “It’s really a marvelous gift when we darkened heart of humanity, said Dow. Celebrating Christ at Christmas

s we rejoice in the Lord’s others; especially by the way we the suffering, and then dedi- must not lose sight of the true birth this Christmas, it love our families, friends and cated his life to God. He rose meaning of Christmas: our Ais important to remem- neighbors. Christmas gift-giv- to become the bishop of Myra celebration of Christ’s birth. ber that faith in the incarnation ing and generosity is a sign of and was imprisoned during the Jesus said that he came to of Jesus Christ is an essential Christ living in us. Roman persecutions. bring joy. Christmas is a season part of the Catholic Church’s So, how did Santa Claus The legend of St. Nicholas of great joy, light and new life. teachings: “The Word became become the dominant symbol grew steadily over the centu- I wish you a Merry Christmas, flesh and made his dwelling of Christmas? The name Santa ries and eventually came to be with all my heart. among us” (Jn 1:14). Jesus came Claus morphed from legends associated with gift-giving, and as a light into the world, to of the great St. Nicholas of transformed into the fictional, FATHER CATOIR writes on issues of dispel the darkness and to give Myra, who was well-known secular character named Santa spirituality for today’s Catholic us new life (Jn 8:12). He gave up for his extraordinary charity. Claus. While we all enjoy the for Catholic News Service. his life to bring salvation, love When Dutch settlers came to spirit behind Santa Claus, we and joy to the human race. America, they brought with The doctrine of the Incar- them their great love of “Sint Spirituality nation, for Catholics, is the very Niklass,” which later became basis of our Christmas celebra- “Santa Claus.” For Today RESTHAVEN tion. It teaches us that each day St. Nicholas was born in GARDENS OF MEMORY & FUNERAL HOME we grow from darkness into the the fourth century, in Lycia, a Father John Catoir wonderful light of Christ. province in Asia Minor, which ® As we carry his light within was then part of Greece. Today, drawn to the words of Jesus, We make it personal. us, we show it by our love. We Lycia is on the southern coast “Sell what you own and give to for a better farewell demonstrate how our beliefs in- of Turkey. St. Nicholas’ parents to the poor” (Mt 19:21). fluence our lives. We witness to died while he was young, leav- For he was so moved that he 11817 Jefferson Highway 225-753-1440 Christ by our joys, our generosi- ing him a vast fortune. Nicho- donated his entire inheritance www.resthavenbatonrouge.com ty and by the kindness we show las might very well have been to assist the needy, the sick and 2x2” Rest.small.honor.those.cc’16 8 The Catholic Commentator December 23, 2016 FMOLU announces December graduates

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Mail to: The Catholic Commentator, P. O. Box 3316, Baton Rouge, LA 70821-3316 December 23, 2016 The Catholic Commentator 9 Preserving the past: RHS alumni organization salvages keepsakes

By Richard Meek She said the RHS alumni association Kennedy said the monthly meet- The Catholic Commentator was in the midst of planning a Redemptor- ings are open to the public and all ist RoundUP that was originally scheduled RHS alumni and friends are invited to at- Under threatening skies and biting for this past fall but was canceled because tend. Alumni or friends interested in be- temperatures, history was saved, the final of the floods. She is hoping a similar event coming involved or attending the meetings chapter to be determined. will be held in 2017 as a kickoff for the can contact any of the board members or Workers and volunteers pitched in on fledgling association. email [email protected]. Dec. 6 to help transport pieces of the gym floor and other keepsakes from the former Redemptorist High School to Redemptor- ist St. Gerard Elementary School in Baton Rouge. Among the items moved were the iconic wolf head and the distinct “R,” both of which played prominent roles in the old gym floor. Other items included a statue of the Blessed Mother, which appeared to be WALK IN TUBS BATH CONVERSIONS TILE SHOWERS standing guard over the artifacts as they were being transported on a flatbed trailer, and a trophy case that once proudly herald- 0% $1000 ed the Wolves’ many athletics accomplish- The Blessed Virgin is shown being trans- 18 ments but on this day sat empty, seemingly ported from the gym at the old Redempto- MONTHS OFF stripped of its past glory. rist High School to a temporary location at “It meant a lot that we were able to (pre- Redempotrist St. Gerard. Also transported CALL TODAY! $25 serve the items),” said Ronnie Deaton, a were portions of the old gym floor, includ- 1962 graduate of Redemptorist who spent ing the icon Wolfpack logo, crosses and a (225) 400-5444 23 years working in maintenance at Re- trophy case. Photos by Richard Meek | The Catholic VISIT OUR demptorist and RHS. Commentator SHOWROOM LOOK ! Citing dwindling enrollment numbers, 12504 S CHOCTAW DR With Every Estimate the Diocese of Baton Rouge in December Marie Kennedy, one of the founding BATON ROUGE, LA 70815 2014 announced the closing of Redemptor- members of RHS Alumni and Friends, said ist. The school was shuttered the following she worked with diocesan chief financial July, ending a storied 48-year-run in the officer Joe Ingraham and maintenance north Baton Rouge neighborhood. director Craig Michelet to coordinate the After the school closed, many of the move. trophies and other items were either pre- “A lot of people are excited about it,” served or sold to alumni, but the gym floor Deaton said, adding that the items will remained intact. likely be stored at Redemptorist until the Cristo Rey Baton Rouge Franciscan alumni organization can determine a suit- High School leased the school buildings able location. “It preserves our history and and gym from the diocese and after signifi- that’s important.” cant renovations, opened its doors to nearly Kennedy, who expressed gratitude to 80 students in August. However, two weeks the diocese for being able to preserve a later, the complex took on up to four feet of portion of Redemptorist’s heritage, said the water in the August floods. Consequently, efforts to organize an alumni association Cristo Rey was forced to relocate for the began in 2012 and came to fruition in Feb- current school year. Additionally the build- ruary when the Articles of Incorporation ings were severely damaged and are slated were filed with the state. Since the filing, for demolition in the coming weeks. the organization has elected a 12-member Hoping to salvage some of the remain- board of directors and established a com- ing artifacts, the recently formed Redemp- mittee that meets on the third Monday of torist High School Alumni and Friends each month. organization petitioned diocesan officials She said the association was formed “for to preserve portions of the gym floor and the purpose of keeping the vast network of other artifacts before the demolition began. relationships alive and active.” Be Merciful Support the

To discover the impact of your gift or to donate, Workers carefully lift a portion of the old gym floor display “R” on top of other keeps sakes taken from the gym. The items will stay at Redemptorist St. Gerard until the Redemptorist visit www.baabr.org. High School Alumni and Friends are able to secure a suitable permanent home. 10 The Catholic Commentator | December 23, 2016 December 23, 2016 | The Catholic Commentator 11

Hispanic community celebrates Our Lady’s feast day with festive Mass

By Richard Meek security and well-being,” the bishop said. The Catholic Commentator “God, our blessed mother and our church will never abandon you. he mood was festive, the music up- “Don’t be troubled.” lifting as a tradition that originated He added there are many situations Tnearly 500 years ago was celebrat- that can test one’s faith and “leave us ed Dec. 12 in Baton Rouge. hopeless.” A standing room only crowd filled the “Mary tells us, ‘Am I not your mother? St. Pius X Church to celebrate the feast Am I not here for you?’” the bishop said, day of Our Lady of Guadalupe, which is “Do not let your troubles overwhelm you.” one of the largest annual celebrations in “I salute you, I affirm you, I support the Hispanic community, the other being you, I praise you and I pray for you,” con- Ash Wednesday. cluded Bishop Muench. The crowd then Despite a persistent applauded the bishop, light mist, the crowd, Father Elicer acknowledging their which included a large gratitude for his words. number of young chil- Montanez-Grimaldos, Scarnato said the dren, joined the proces- bishop’s homily was an sion, led by a group of chaplain of the inspiration to her per- volunteers carrying sonally as well as in her Volunteers stretched their muscles to bring in a platform holding a large statue of Our Hispanic Apostolate, mission at the Hispanic Following the Mass, children, some accompanied by adults, brought flowers to the altar. According to Julia Lady of Guadalupe that Apostolate. a beautiful statue of Our Lady of Guadalupe. The statue was the centerpiece of a procession that paraded around the grounds at Scarnato, director of the Hispanic Apostolate, the tradition comes from the roses that St. Juan Diego picked was adorned with flow- celebrated the Mass “The message of up at the Hill of El Tepeyac, Mexico in 1531. Photos by Richard Meek | The Catholic Commentator ers, around the St. Pius awareness and hope St. Piux X Church in Baton Rouge. grounds. Fiesta-like in Spanish. But it that the bishop gave religious songs, sung reassures the com- in Spanish, provided a was Bishop Muench’s munity that in spite of welcoming atmosphere the problems that they as the procession en- homily of hope and might encounter due to tered the church. the immigrant posi- Many of those in support that resonated tion of (President-elect Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe attendance brought Trump), the church and statues, paintings of with the crowd. Our Lady will be giving Many of the Our Lady or crucifixes, the necessary sup- young children which were blessed during the course of port,” she said. “I have read (the bishop’s were all smiles as the Mass or after Mass by Bishop Robert words) over and over, and I feel as if God they presented W. Muench. Some clutched their statues is making a renewed call to place my life, the roses at the of Our Lady throughout the Mass, even my projects and my tribulations in his altar. After the receiving Communion while holding them. hands. (The bishop’s) message makes me roses were col- “Sometimes, people build a small niche want to stand with our Holy Mother in lected, they were and have a burning candle to venerate the silence and prayer at the foot of the cross moved to the image,” said Julia Scarnato, director of and serve all my brothers and sisters with base of the statue the Hispanic Apostolate which hosted the love, fraternity and mercy to promote the of Our Lady Mass. “That gives a sense of protection of beautiful values we all hold dear.” of Guadalupe. the home and the family and is a remind- At the conclusion of Mass, another Several people, er that God is in every place.” long-standing tradition was observed individuals and Father Elicer Montanez-Grimaldos, when roses were brought to the altar, families alike, chaplain of the Hispanic Apostolate, placed in three large baskets and placed spent time pray- celebrated the Mass in Spanish. But it was at the feet of Our Lady of Guadalupe. ing at the statue Bishop Muench’s homily of hope and sup- Scarnato said the tradition comes from long after the port that resonated with the crowd. the roses that St. Juan Diego picked up at Mass had ended. Delivered in English and translated to the Hill of El Tepeyac, Mexico in 1531. At Spanish by Scarnato, the bishop told the the time, the local bishop asked St. Juan congregation, “You are a blessing to God, Diego for a sign that whoever was appear- to the church, to the diocese and to me. ing to him was Our Lady. For that I thank you.” The hill where Our Lady appeared to He mentioned the strong faith of the St. Juan Diego was rocky and difficult to Hispanic community, especially their find any flowers. commitment to Our Lady of Guadalupe. “People offer roses to Our Lady on her Then, the bishop offered soothing words day and bring the children dressed as Following Mass, many members of the Hispanic com- to a community facing increased uncer- Indians to teach them that tradition to munity asked Bishop Muench to bless statues, cruci- tainty, especially after the election of offer the flowers,” Scarnato said. “The fixes or other religious articles. It is a tradition for His- President-elect Donald Trump. sense of protection and comforts that Our Father Elicer Montanez-Grimaldos (shown at the altar) chaplain of the Hispanic Apostolate, celebrated Mass in Spanish. panics to bring religious articles to the Mass so they “I am aware of the concern and anxiety Lady of Guadalupe brings to all Latinos, Bishop Robert W. Muench, right, delivered a homily of encouragement and support in English, which Julia Scarnato trans- can be blessed. about recent developments regarding your especially Mexicans, is amazing.” lated to the congregation in Spanish. 12 The Catholic Commentator December 23, 2016

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STEVE DECELL By Richard Meek Walk-in Showers Aging-In-Place Consultant Walk-in Tubs loud. Then I have to adjust them.” (correctly).” The Catholic Commentator He spends each morning hov- Chauvin, who came to STA ering over the complex board after spending several years in As a member of the ESPN while also monitoring a nearby television news production at generation, Kade Bleakley has screen where color bars indicate Channel WBRZ in Baton Rouge, long fantasized about anchor- if adjustments are required. said the skills students are learn- Buon Natale & Buon Anno! ing the cable network’s popular “I think it’s kind of fun,” he ing transcends all professions. from the Saia and Cedotal families! SportsCenter. added. “It makes you pay more She said by exposing the stu- Although not quite on the attention to movies (and other dents to all elements of broad- same level and more than 1,000 programming.) When you don’t casting, they are able to narrow Baton Rouge’s only miles removed from ESPN’s notice problems with the sound, down a field of study for college. DELI TRUE ITALIAN Bristol, Connecticut headquar- it makes you think someone is do- “They are learning writing Since 1978 ters, the St. Thomas Aquinas ing a good job behind the scenes.” skills that are a bit different than High School junior will soon Junior Brandon Tallo said he English class,” she said. “In fact, Anthony’s have the opportunity to hone his “personally likes” spending the they are loving not having to broadcast skills from the comfort semester as a cameraman. care about commas and such as Italian Deli of STA’s studio. Bleakley, and his “You really don’t know how it with Modern Language Associa- 5575 Government St., classmates in broadcasting I and works until you do it yourself,” tion style. It’s taking me a long just west of Jefferson Hwy. Phone orders welcome! 225-272-6817 II taught by Josh Wittie and Mi- he said. “Then you notice all time to get them to realize that Open Mon. - Sat. 9:30 - 6 chelle Chauvin, will soon launch kinds of little things.” writing for something to be read an in-house news cast that will The stakes will be higher next and writing for something to be include news, sports and even semester when the class embarks spoken are really very different. weather. Students will be rotated on what is intended to be a weekly What looks good on paper may from anchors to manning a cam- show. As it evolves, students will not sound good, or may be dif- era. Bleakley is eagerly anticipat- be sent out of the studio to cover ficult to say.” ing his time in the anchor’s chair. stories and events, whether it’s on She said the on-air portions of “I wanted to be a SportsCen- the school grounds or perhaps at the class will allow the students ter anchor ever since I was little,” a Falcons’ sporting event. to practice their public speaking he said. “Once (Wittie) said there “It’s a goal,” Tallo said. “We skills, which could benefit them is an opportunity of (being an will be broadcasting any kind of in not only broadcasting, if they anchor) they let me try it out.” events, anything to do with the choose to pursue that career Since the start of the school school. ” path, but also public relations, year, the class has been perfect- Junior Jordan Creek’s training marketing or any kind of media ing a more modest undertak- has already begun, learning how relations. ing, producing and airing a brief to deliver the weather in front of “This is the generation that morning spot where student a green screen while viewing her- doesn’t speak,” Chauvin said. Joe Skibinski council leaders read the morn- self on a nearby computer screen “They text, they Snapchat, they Agent ing announcements, breath- to guide her. She and Wittie Tweet, but they don’t speak. 1953 Perkins Rd. ing life into what is normally a have taken weather info off of a “So it takes a lot of courage to Baton Rouge, LA 70808 mundane part of the school day. weather app and plugged it into a sit in front of a camera and put Bus: 225-387-0201 Behind the scenes students are graphics screen that is displayed yourself out there, knowing your Toll Free: 888-387-0201 learning what it takes to produce on the computer screen. peers are going to jump on any [email protected] a live show. From there she is able to mistake you make.” “I think it’s really interesting,” learn the nuances of doing a live Chauvin said this is the first said senior Samuel Drummond, weather broadcast. year she and Wittie have taught who is spending the semester “It’s not really that hard, but the class, and decided to use the learning the soundboard, one of you have to move opposite of opportunity to broaden the class the more critical roles in televi- what you see on the screen,” she and provide the students with sion production. “Voices have to said. “If you move right, you will more hands-on experience. be even. Sometimes a voice will move left on the screen. “You have to start some- be fuzzy, or a voice will be too “I could not get the movement where,” Tallo said. December 23, 2016 The Catholic Commentator 13 Legendary Catholic High coach Weiner retires By Rachele Smith Gabe Fertitta, the offensive coordina- Weiner will remain at The Catholic Commentator tor at CHS since 2014, will succeed Wein- er. Catholic High as a full-time After serving three decades as head Fertitta, who played and coached col- football coach at Catholic High School in lege football, also served as a coach for faculty member and will Baton Rouge, Dale Weiner is retiring from Catholic’s wide receivers the game. Weiner, who led the Bears to and offensive linemen continue to teach classes. their first LHSAA Division I state cham- from 2007-2009. pionship in 2015, leaves the field as one of “I am so humbled to Lisa Harvey only eight Louisiana high school football become the next head Principal of CHS coaches to reach 300 career wins. football coach at Catholic “After much prayer and thought, I have High School. Dale Weiner During the course of his 41-year coach- decided that after 30 years as the head Gabe Fertitta built this program into ing career, Weiner, who was inducted football coach at Catholic High, it is time what it is today and made into Catholic High’s Grizzly Greats Ath- to serve the school in a different role. I it his life’s work for 30 years. Aside from letic Hall of Fame, was selected Louisiana owe so much to our school administra- my own father, Coach Weiner has influ- Coach of the Year three times and District tion for their support with my decision,” enced my development as a coach and as Coach of the Year 15 times. In addition, he Weiner said. a man of faith more than anyone I’ve ever has coached four high school All-Amer- Lisa Harvey, principal of CHS, said come in contact with,” Fertitta said. icans, watched 140 athletes continue to Weiner will remain at Catholic High as a Weiner’s teams achieved an overall re- play at the collegiate level with 16 going on full-time faculty member and continue to cord of 282-82, which included 18 district to play professional football. His coaching teach classes. championships, 15 state quarter finals, career record is 317-109. “Dale has been an outstanding football eight state semifinals and two state cham- “Coach Weiner has achieved all there coach at CHS for the past 30 years. More pionship appearances. His 2015 cham- is to accomplish as a coach and has been importantly, he is an outstanding man of pionship title was the school’s first in its an excellent educator for the Brothers of character,” she added. 122-year history. the Sacred Heart,” said J.P. Kelly, athletic director at Catholic High. Coach Dale Weiner “His humor, dedication, humility and, SPREADING LITERACY most importantly, his faith are the lasting less students and athletes through the – St. Aloysius Brownie characteristics he has modeled to count- years,” Kelly added. Troop 10029 held a book drive for local families in need. Third-graders col- lected donated books, Coming January 20, 2017 and once collected, the Brownies sorted the books by age, created sets of books by tying them together and at- tached a decorated writ- ten note. More than 250 books were collected, sorted and stacked. The • The most current schedules for thesets churches were delivered in the to Diocese of Baton Rouge. the Sweet Dreams Shel- ter for Women and Chil- dren and to the St. Aloy- sius St. Vincent de Paul • Lists Masses both alphabeticallyoffice. by townsPhoto provided and byby Mela - • Lists timeSpanish of day and signed Masses fornie Hearing Forstall | St. Aloysius School Impaired Masses. CatholiC SChoolS Week 2017 Of special interest to parents, The Catholic Schools Week section will feature information about the Catholic schools in the Diocese of Baton Rouge, current registration for the next school year, distinguished graduates and more. Deadline for advertising is January 10, 2017. Call Wanda Koch at 225-387-0983. COLORS OF THE SEASON – In the spirit of the Advent season, Jenny Brown’s kin- THE CATHOLIC dergarten art class at Holy Ghost School in Hammond created Nativity scene il- lustrations. Displaying their art, from left, Andrew Pellichino, Brantley Hines, Lelia Jones and Wesley Hastings. Photo provided by Cindy Wagner | Holy Ghost School C   14 The Catholic Commentator ENTERTAINMENT December 23, 2016

(Joel Edgerton and Ruth Negga) whose written, and mailed, angry letters. The Motion Picture Association of America legal crusade led to a landmark 1967 Su- occasional humor that leavens the dia- MOVIE ratings: G – General audiences; all ages admitted preme Court decision demolishing race- logue in screenwriter Allan Loeb’s script PG – Parental guidance suggested; some based legal restrictions on marriage in fails to save director David Frankel’s film REVIEWS material may not be suitable for children the United States is so restrained and from its credibility-straining premise and USCCB Office for Film & Broadcasting PG-13 – Parents are strongly cautioned decorous that it nearly obscures the the fortune-cookie sentiments that far classifications: to give special guidance for attendance historical significance of the events it outnumber the jokes and that the audi- A-I – General patronage of children under 13; some material may recounts. Drawing contempt from local ence is clearly meant to receive as nuggets A-II – Adults and adolescents be inappropriate for young children police – embodied by the sheriff (Mar- of wisdom. The talented cast, which also A-III – Adults R – Restricted; under 17 requires accom- ton Csokas) who initially arrests them includes Naomie Harris as a bereaved A-IV – Adults, with reservations panying parent or adult guardian – but eventually supported by lawyers mother who leads a therapy group, is L – Limited adult audience NC-17 – No one under 17 admitted O – Morally offensive from the American Civil Liberties Union equally powerless to redeem this quirky (most prominently Nick Kroll), the duo is mess. Those willing to endure the bliz- forced to stay on the move as they seek to zard of cliches will, however, find a warm Miss Sloane harbors a long-hidden secret. Despite its avoid harassment. The original circum- endorsement of marital fidelity waiting Europacorp obvious and, for Hollywood, predictable stances must have been extraordinarily for them at the wrap. An adultery theme, A striking performance from Jessica partisan bias, and its preference for dra- stressful for the pair since they had no at least one use of profanity, several crude Chastain as the ruthless Washington matic effect over ethical seriousness, as way of knowing whether any given night- and a couple of crass terms. A-III; PG-13 lobbyist of the title propels director John penned by Jonathan Perera, the film is fall would be the cue for a hate crime. Yet Madden’s forceful study of political cor- fundamentally moral. Yet its exploration Nichols keeps his film free from the his- Rogue One: A Star Wars Story ruption. The win-at-all-costs wheeler- of the protagonist’s unhealthy personal trionics that surely must have occurred. Disney dealer shocks her colleagues when, driv- life, in which she uses a male prostitute Valuable viewing for mature teens based Interstellar derring-do is the order of en by personal conviction, she abruptly (Jake Lacy) as a partner for emotionally on the cultural impact of the real-life the day in this rousing prequel to the 1977 changes sides in the fight over a pending empty, commitment-free sex, will be off- story. A premarital pregnancy, a couple kickoff of the “Star Wars” saga. With the gun control bill, abandoning her cushy putting even for some mature viewers. of crass terms, fleeting racial slurs and evil Empire served, most prominently, by position with a topflight firm (led by Sam Semi-graphic nonmarital sexual activity, two scenes of childbirth. A-II; PG-13 a computer-generated projection of the Waterston) and signing on with a fledg- a prostitution theme, several uses of pro- late Peter Cushing and Ben Mendelsohn ling outfit (headed by Mark Strong) for fanity, a tasteless religious joke, frequent Office Christmas Party on the verge of deploying a weapon so what she realizes will be an uphill battle rough and crude language. A-III; R Paramount powerful that it would doom the gallant against the National Rifle Association To impress a potential client (Court- Rebel Alliance (headed by Genevieve and its allies. Potential casualties in the Loving ney B. Vance) who thinks their company O’Reilly), the daughter (Felicity Jones) of high-stakes conflict include one of the Focus suffers from low employee morale, the the brilliant scientist (Mads Mikkelsen) staff members (Gugu Mbatha-Raw) who Writer-director Jeff Nichols’ fact- laid-back branch manager (T.J. Miller) who unwillingly developed the technol- switched companies with her, and who based drama about the Virginia couple and chief tech officer (Jason Bateman) ogy while being held captive joins forces of a family-owned internet firm defy the with an Alliance officer (Diego Luna) and orders of their uptight CEO (Jennifer An- an amusingly straight-talking android iston), who is also the manager’s sister, (Alan Tudyk) in an effort to sabotage by going ahead with the office Christmas the armament. In crafting an exciting party she had ordered them to cancel. epic, director Gareth Edwards keeps the Predictably, things get out of hand with mayhem inherent in his story of armed destruction and debauchery running conflict virtually bloodless. And the rampant. Directors Will Speck and Josh script, penned by Chris Weitz and Tony Gordon’s sleazy soiree is a regrets-only Gilroy, celebrates altruism while also affair that aims to amuse viewers with briefly tackling the morality of obeying gags about unwitting narcotics use, a some military orders. But the ambigu- call girl (Abbey Lee) posing as a geek’s ous nature of the spiritual “Force” culti- (Karan Soni) girlfriend and group sex in vated principally, in this installment of a bathroom stall. Brief sacrilegious hu- the franchise, by a blind, Buddhist-style mor, strong sexual content, including full monk (Donnie Yen), may be a source of nudity and implied aberrant behavior, concern for the parents of some teens. drug use, a prostitution theme, several Frequent but thoroughly stylized combat uses of profanity, pervasive rough and violence, religious elements requiring crude language. O; R mature discernment, some frightening images including a scene leading up to Collateral Beauty mental torture. A-II; PG-13 Warner Bros. Strange, pretentious drama about The Bounce Back overcoming grief. Emotionally paralyzed Viva by the death of his young daughter, a for- Pleasantly compact romance in which merly successful advertising executive the author of a best-selling self-help book (Will Smith) endangers the future of his (Shemar Moore) and a therapist (Nadine firm by his neglect of clients. In response, Velazquez) clash over what she considers his three principal colleagues (Edward his pat answers to life’s complicated di- Norton, Kate Winslet and Michael Pena) lemmas, their snappy exchange goes viral hire a trio of actors (Helen Mirren, Keira and they’re launched on a nationwide me- Knightley and Jacob Latimore) to prove dia tour as well as a relationship. Direc- that their partner’s distress has rendered tor and co-writer Youssef Delara avoids him incompetent by impersonating the life’s uglier aspects, making this enjoyable three abstractions death, love and time escapist fare for grownups. Implied non- to which, as it has been discovered by a marital sexual activity, light banter, fleet- private detective (Ann Dowd), he has ing rough language. A-III; PG-13 Visit thecatholiccommentator.org for more movie reviews. December 23, 2016 ENTERTAINMENT The Catholic Commentator 15

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11 Blocks 41 51 61 Eleven blocks from my door to I know that you’re home I should be going home 187 1 91 your doorstep Fourteen blocks from your Somebody stop me Three years later and it feels door to this party Well, I met someone 02 12 22 too close I caught myself counting on the And I think I’m in love 32 254 2 I thought I broke the last of that way breakdown And right when I stepped in the (Repeat refrain.) 276 28292 03 The morning I sold your winter door to the party coat I stepped outside to grab a And I met someone and I swear 13 3323354 3 It doesn’t feel right when I’m smoke I’m in love 63 73 83 grabbing a coffee You know how I get when I’m But I’m two blocks away and The same old spot, but I’m on alone, no you’re just like a drug 309 4 14 my own My mind won’t stop, it’s just 11 I feel ok in the day, but at night (Repeat refrain.) blocks 24 34 time I know that you’re home 454 464 74 You know how I get when I’m Someone stop me, please, from alone hurting myself I got somebody, waiting for me 84 94 510 525 Cause I’m two blocks away and at home Refrain: you’re hurting my health I got somebody 35 554 556 Cause my mind won’t stop, it’s And it’s Friday night, you’re not 75 85 95 just 11 blocks that type Eleven blocks from my door to I know that you’re home I know that you’re home your doorstep 06 16 26 Cause it’s Friday night, you’re Three years later and it feels not that type Somebody stop me too close drow.www g moc.scilohtacrofsema ACROSS 4 Jr. and sr. Sung by Wrabel | Copyright © 2016, Epic 1 Adjective for “Reverend” 5 He asked for a double portion 5 Wipe out of Elijah’s spirit (2 Kings 2:9) 10 Temperate 6 Witherspoon of “Legally 14 Road to the Colosseum Blonde” 15 Russian revolutionary leader 7 Prophet in Luke (Lk 2:36) When memories refuse to fade 16 Garfield’s pal 8 Command to Fido 17 You should examine it 9 Vane reading 19 “…hallowed be thy ___.” 10 Receptacle for the host ne thing that can be counted acts with integrity. 20 “…world without ___. Amen” 11 The Diocese of Boise is here on in today’s pop/rock is that His responsibility is to safeguard 21 Tasmanian peak 12 Citrus fruit new artists will keep emerg- the emotional vulnerability of the 22 Tribe of Israel 13 Big name in farm equipment O 23 Cuban revolutionary 18 Conceited ing. One of those new names is Los individual he now dates. Doing so 24 Milk sugar 22 Vinegar (comb.) Angeles-based singer-songwriter means avoiding any behavior that is 26 The Diocese of Fairbanks is 24 British sailor Stephen Wrabel, who goes by the deceptive. The future of his current here 25 Brother of Cain 30 Slender filament 26 Diocese opening stage name Wrabel. His music began relationship deserves to be deter- 31 Race 27 Where Samson slew the Phi- getting recognized with his song mined by the goodness within it. 32 Schedule listines (Jdg 15:9) “Ten Feet Tall.” Out now is his latest To make sure this occurs, he 36 Ice cream flavor (abbr.) 28 Burn soother release, the piano-driven “11 Blocks.” needs professional guidance to ex- 37 Doughnut-shaped roll 29 Diocese in California 38 French Christmas 30 Combat If you have ever lived through plore and resolve his feelings about 39 Church leaders 32 Implied a romantic breakup that you didn’t the past romance. 41 Go away 33 “…in the city of David a Savior want (and that would be most of us!), Part of the process of living in 42 Look for has been ___…” (Lk 2:11) 43 Recompense 34 “…and ___ us not into tempta- “11 Blocks” will bring up familiar feel- the present is to avoid comparing 44 Nutriment tion…” ings. The song’s character has tried his current romantic partner with 47 “Without further ___…” (2 35 Certain trees to move on from his former romance, On The Record the individual in his past. Each Macc 6:17) 37 Ground husk of wheat even stating that he has “met some- person manifests the image of God 48 Worked on the docks 40 Impressed Charlie Martin 49 Breach of secrecy 41 White for a pope, black for no one new and I think I’m in love.” Yet, but in different and unique ways. A 50 Grassland pope his thoughts remain obsessive about his previous healthy relationship is not one where we match in 53 “…those who ___ wide their 43 Sayings partner. He often thinks about how it is just “11 every way with a partner. lips bring ruin.” (Prv 13:3) 44 Diocese of Honolulu greeting 54 Catholic university in Washing- 45 Carnation site blocks from my door to your doorstep.” God made us very diverse, with different ton, DC 46 Standard of perfection Even when he’s out at a party with friends, he needs and interests; no one person, no matter how 57 Gun, in gangster talk 47 Lofty nest still keeps count about how far this person lives much we love them, can connect with us in every 58 Creepy 49 “___ have mercy” from where he currently is. He realizes that it is area of life. Undoubtedly, his previous partner 59 Applied 50 “For whoever would save his 60 Hello, from Jacques life will ___ it” (Mk 8:35) Friday night and “I know that you’re home,” and brought significant connection in some areas, but 61 Methods 51 Pitcher that he’s on the verge of going to see this indi- if he can be honest, not with all his needs. As he 62 St. Philip’s surname 52 “___ repeat…” vidual. So he pleads, “someone stop me, please, refocuses on his current partner, he can learn to 54 Valued mineral DOWN 55 US government agency from hurting myself.” Apparently, three years has value the ways that she brings her own special 1 Bad habit 56 Large cask not been long enough to move beyond his painful ways of building their relationship. 2 English public school memories and active longing for the relationship. Besides finding a guide for the process of heal- 3 Tear apart Solution on page 18 I often suggest to those that I meet in pastoral ing, the song’s character will need patience. The counseling that good mental or spiritual health is power of God can heal all hurt. If the song’s charac- seeing reality as it is. For the song’s character, this ter can commit to live with integrity and be open to means accepting that he needs help getting past how God can heal this hurt, then his awareness of the grief that still triggers his obsessive thoughts. “11 blocks” will diminish. Then, he will become free Unless he resolves the grief, it will sabotage his to give and receive love in the present. current relationship. He needs to slow down his life, tell the truth to himself and realize that there MARTIN is an Indiana pastoral counselor who is a better way. reviews current music for Catholic News Service. Since his current relationship seems to add Write to [email protected], or at: 7125 West meaning to his life, his work to heal the grief does CR, 200 South, Rockport, IN 47635, or like this not necessarily mean that he needs to end this column on Facebook at “Charlie Martin’s Today’s romance. However, he does need to make sure he Music Columns.” 16 The Catholic Commentator VIEWPOINT December 23, 2016 Is Christmas just for children?

am a Christmas lover, and I am sure the Apostles, according to St. Mark, had (28:19). Tracing Jesus’ lineage all the way St. Luke’s Gospel begins with a liter- that many of you readers are too. a hard time believing the witnesses who back to Abraham whom God promised ary prologue addressing its writing to a II love the music, the liturgies, the saw him alive, Mary Magdalen and the would be the “father of many nations” “most excellent Theophilus” (Latin for Christmas trees, the gift giving, the two disciples on the road to Emmaus. is a way of saying that this baby will be lover of God). He may have been a real family parties and meals, and of course, Finally, after Jesus appears to the eleven the savior of all those nations. He is the person or not. Then St. Luke begins a all the excited children. I know that at the table and commissions them to promised Messiah. Furthermore, the dual infancy account, first of John the some Catholics would like to make the “proclaim the Gospel to every creature,” Old Testament prophets wrote that the Baptist and then of Jesus. St. Luke’s only Christmas tree before Christmas they believe. Mark ends his Gospel by Messiah would be a descendent of King infancy account is very different from St. Eve in our churches and noting that Jesus, after David who was from Bethlehem. So was Matthew’s, giving us portraits of St. John even in our homes a Jesse speaking to them, “was St. Joseph, Jesus’ foster father. the Baptist and the Virgin Mary in two tree (it looks like Charlie taken up into heaven and St. Matthew’s infancy account also annunciation scenes by the same angel, Brown’s tree without a took his seat at the right shows us the growth in the early church’s St. Gabriel, to first, Zechariah, the father single Christmas orna- hand of God.” (16:19) recognition of when Jesus became Mes- of John and then to Mary, the cousin ment or even a leaf). So, in St. Mark’s Gospel siah and Son of God. The resurrection of of Zechariah’s wife, Elizabeth, who had But I prefer to anticipate Jesus is recognized as the Jesus proved to the Apostles and all of been barren. St. Luke’s purpose is to con- Christmas with a more Messiah only at his bap- his other followers that Jesus was both. trast St. John and Jesus. St. John is the joyful preparation. Be- tism and recognized as But as years went on, early Christians greatest of Old Testament prophets, call- sides nostalgic sentiment, the Son of God only at his recognized that what Jesus was after the ing the Jews to repentance in prepara- there is a biblical argu- death and resurrection. resurrection he must have been from his tion for the Messiah. Jesus is something ment for the joyful prepa- St. Matthew and St. conception. St. Matthew captures this entirely new. ration. The evangelists Luke wrote their Gospels growing awareness when he writes about St. Luke expresses this new creation St. Matthew and St. Luke 10 years later, sometime the angel appearing to St. Joseph in a beautifully in the annunciation scenes would seem to agree. Another in the 80s. Like the moth- dream and saying, “Joseph, son of David, and then through responses which are Only two of the four er of Jesus, they and the do not be afraid to take Mary your wife poetically expressed in canticles by Gospels have Christmas communities for whom into your home. For it is through the Holy Zechariah, Mary, the heavenly hosts stories, the Gospels of St. Perspective they wrote had more time Spirit that this child has been conceived and by the elderly Simeon in the temple Matthew and St. Luke. Father John Carville to ponder in their hearts in her. She will bear a son and you are to (Benedictus – Blessed be the Lord, the The first Gospel written, all that had happened. name him Jesus, because he will save his God of Israel ..., Magnificat – My soul by St. Mark somewhere in the decade And, the Holy Spirit, no doubt, continued people from their sins.” proclaims the greatness of the Lord ..., of 70 A.D. begins with the baptism of to work in them, too. Apparently, neither St. Matthew alone has the story of the Gloria – Glory to God in the highest ..., Jesus by St. John the Baptist. Jesus is read the Gospel of the other before he Magi. It is another way of implying that and Nunc Dimitis – Lord, now let your already 30-something years old. But St. wrote. Their sources, other than St. Jesus will be the savior of all humankind. servant go in peace ...). The theme of each Mark gives us a hint of why the next two Mark, are mostly different, and if they They come from afar and are pagans. is joy at what God is doing. evangelists, St. Matthew and St. Luke, shared any, they used them differently. However, the event of their coming alerts In the annunciation scenes Jesus is chose to begin with accounts of Jesus as St. Matthew was writing for a mostly and alarms the evil Herod the Great who the Messiah and the Son of God, a new a baby. After Jesus’ baptism, the heav- Jewish community. This is evident from orders the massacre of the children in creation at the moment of conception ens open, a dove representing the Holy the fact that he begins with the genealogy Bethlehem. This recalls Pharaoh’s killing through the power of the Holy Spirit Spirit descends upon him and the voice of Jesus and includes names of people of male children in Egypt. The Holy Fam- which overshadows Mary. St. Luke has of God is heard proclaiming, “This is my whom no one unfamiliar with the Old ily escapes and flees into Egypt. They the angel Gabriel make this explicit. beloved Son in whom I am well pleased.” Testament writings would have known. become the first missionaries bringing Jesus comes from Mary’s humanity and It is a type of anointing, a designation of He also refers to many Jewish feasts and the baby Jesus to a pagan nation. Jesus from God. Jesus as the long awaited Messiah. Right customs without explaining them. On the will become a new Moses coming out The reflection of the early church on at the beginning of St. Mark’s Gospel other hand, St. Luke, himself a gentile of Egypt to form a world-wide people all that the birth of Christ means reached we get a statement of what the Gospel convert probably of St. Paul, wrote for of God. And St. Matthew returns him its climax in the fourth Gospel by St. will proclaim – Jesus is the Messiah. a gentile community. He takes pains to to Nazareth. About 30 years later Pilate John the Evangelist written in the 90s. Further in the Gospel, in chapter 14:62, explain Jewish customs and the geogra- will nail a new title onto his cross: “Jesus St. John in his prologue goes back to the Jesus will testify before the Sanhedrin phy of Palestine. And, his Greek is much Nazarenus Rex Judaeorum (Jesus of creation of the universe. “In the begin- that he is the Messiah and the Son of better than St. Matthew’s. Nazareth, King of the Jews). “ ning was the Word, and the Word was God whom he refers to as the “Blessed St. Matthew’s genealogy with all those St. Matthew demonstrates very art- with God, and the Word was God ... And One” and “the Power,” surrogates for the begats right before his infancy account fully how Jesus is the Messiah, the son the Word became flesh ...” Jesus who divine name which Jews never pro- has a purpose. It begins with “the geneal- of David, the son of Abraham, the Son of came into this world as a baby pre-ex- nounced – Jahweh. As Christ dies on the ogy of Jesus Christ, the son of David, the God and another Moses. He is the fulfill- isted from all eternity. He was the Word cross, the centurion becomes the only son of Abraham.” In St. Matthew, Jesus’ ment of Jewish prophecy and history. All or, as Richard Rohr says, the blueprint human witness in St. Mark’s Gospel to ministry is mostly to Jews. But at the are called to respond to Jesus. St. Mat- through whom God created everything. proclaim, “Truly this man was the Son end of the Gospel he sends his disciples thew’s prologue of genealogy and infancy Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus, of God.” Even after Jesus’ resurrection, out to peach the Gospel to “all nations” account is his Gospel in miniature. but Christmas isn’t only for children.

| PRAY FOR THOSE WHO PRAY FOR US Please pray for the priests, deacons and religious women and men in the Baton Rouge Diocese. Dec. 28 Rev. Gerald M. Lefebvre Sr. Frances Landry CSJ Dcn. Frank E. Bains Jan. 8 Rev. Paul A. McDuffie Dcn. J. Thomas Traylor Jan. 1 Rev. Cayet N. Mangiaracina OP Sr. Joan Laplace CSJ Dcn. William B. Blair Jr. Br. Paul Montero SC Dcn. P. Chauvin Wilkinson Jr. Jan. 5 Rev. Gerard R. Martin Sr. Betty Lyons FMOL Dec. 29 Rev. C. Todd Lloyd Br. Marcus Turcotte SC Dcn. Thomas D. Benoit Jan. 9 Rev. Roberto Merced OP Dcn. John W. Veron Jan. 2 Rev. Samuel C. Maranto CSsR Br. Renzo Alvarado MCM Dcn. Daniel S. Borné Sr. Rita M. Lambert CSJ Dcn. Alfred Adams Sr. Jan. 6 Rev. Patrick J. Mascarella Br. James Burns SC Dec. 30 Rev. Matthew P. Lorrain Sr. Rita Lanie FMOL Dcn. Mark T. Berard Jan. 10 Rev. Andrew J. Merrick Dcn. J. Peter Walsh Jan. 3 Rev. Robert G. Marcell Sr. Lilian Lynch FMOL Dcn. Claude H. Bourgeois Jr. Br. Marcel Riviere SC Dcn. Michael A. Agnello Jan. 7 Rev. Matthew E. McCaughey Sr. Vernola Lyons FMOL Dec. 31 Rev. P. Brent Maher Br. Xavier Werneth SC Dcn. Willie M. Berthelot Sr. Dcn. James E. Wax Jan. 4 Rev. Edwin J. Martin Br. Cesar A. Munoz Arias MCM December 23, 2016 VIEWPOINT The Catholic Commentator 17 Priests Formation Days spiritually enriching for clergy members

Dear People of by the priests is mandatory. However, on occasion, scheduled Annual Formation days. If this is com- God of the Diocese of ministry needs arise at the same time preventing the pletely impossible, one of the deacons from the diocese Baton Rouge, priests from participating in these Annual Formation can provide the needed funeral rites, namely the vigil days. wake, funeral without Mass and rite of committal. If The Continuing With the guidance of the Diocesan Presbyteral the local parish staff is unable to secure a deacon for Formation of the Council, the Continuing Formation for Clergy Commit- this special funeral need, the parish staff may call the Clergy Committee is tee has secured a site for this year’s Annual Formation Office of the Vicar General at 225-387-0561 for further hosting the Annual in Metairie. The committee and I are aware that the assistance. Priests’ Formation distance from Metairie to many of our diocesan par- Over the years attendance at our Annual Formation Days on January 9-12, ishes would be significant and that pastoral ministry and Priest Retreat has been remarkably consistent. 2017. These forma- can and will occur during these days. Nonetheless at Pressing ministry could compromise and jeopardize tion days are one of the express request of the Continuing Formation Com- our commitment to these special opportunities. I the important ways mittee and the Presbyteral Council, I am expecting hope this letter helps you understand and support our in which the priests priests to attend the entire formation days’ schedule. I priests with their commitment to their formation for From The Bishop of our diocese are know this may affect certain regular ministries, such ministry. I ask that you pray for our priests and our formed for ministry. as daily Mass and funerals. The daily Mass schedule diocese during these days. Bishop Robert W. Muench They offer the priests in your parish can be adjusted as determined by your In summary, every priest of the diocese is expected opportunities for parish priest to meet the needs of your parish during to be present and take part in Annual Formation days growth in intellectual and spiritual formation, emo- Annual Formation. While this is a sacrifice, I consider in Metairie. I appreciate your affirmation and encour- tional maturity and physical well-being. Since these this sacrifice worth making. Regarding funerals, I agement of our clergy who give so much of their lives days are offered once a year, and is a commitment by would ask that funerals be scheduled either before for our diocese. May God be generous in leading us the diocese for their on-going formation, participation Annual Formation begins or after, but not during, the into the future with hope. Our churches as sanctuaries

henever we have been That was hardly the situation We need to stop the evil of abor- culture. Why aren’t we being at our best, as Chris- within Jesus’ own ministry. He tion! All of these suggestions perceived more as “a field hos- Wtians, we have opened was a safe sanctuary for every- are good and important. But pital” for the wounded, as is the our churches as sanctuaries to one, religious and non-religious none of the groups dared say: ideal of Pope Francis? the poor and the endangered. alike. While he didn’t ignore the We need to comfort the world! Why are we not flinging our We have a long, proud history committed religious persons Handel’s Messiah begins churches doors open much wherein refugees, homeless around him, the scribes and with that wonderful line from more widely? What lies at the persons, immigrants facing pharisees, his ministry always Isaiah 40: “Comfort, comfort root of our reticence? Fear of deportation and others who are reached out and included those my people, says your God.” being too generous with God’s endangered, take shelter inside whose religious practice was That, I believe, is first task of grace? Fear of contamination? our churches. If we believe what weak or non-existent. Moreover, religion. Challenge follows after Of scandal? Jesus tells us about the last he reached out especially to that, but may not precede it. A One wonders whether more judgment in the 25th chapter of those whose moral lives where mother first comforts her child people, especially the young Matthew’s Gospel, this should not in formal harmony with the by assuring it of her love and and the estranged, would grace serve us well when we stand religious practices of the time, stilling its chaos. Only after our churches today if we were before God at the end. those deemed as sinners. Sig- In Exile that, in the safe shelter pro- perceived in the popular mind Unfortunately our churches nificantly too he did not ask for Father Ron Rolheiser duced by that comfort, can she precisely as being sanctuaries have not always provided that repentance from those deemed begin to offer it some hard chal- for searchers, for the confused, same kind of sanctuary (safety as sinners before he sat down at These are not fanciful ide- lenges to grow beyond its own the wounded, the broken and and shelter) to those who are table with them. He set out no als. This is the Gospel which instinctual struggles. the non-religious, rather than refugees, immigrants and moral or ecclesial conditions as we can easily lose sight of, for People are swayed a lot by as places only for those who homeless in their relationship a prerequisite to meet or dine seemingly all the right reasons. the perception they have of are already religiously solid to God and our churches. There with him. Many repented after I remember a diocesan synod things. Within our churches and whose religious search is are millions of persons, today meeting and dining with him, within which I participated today we can protest that we already completed. perhaps the majority within our but that repentance was never some 20 years ago. At one stage are being perceived unfairly by nations, who are looking for a a pre-condition. In his person in the process we were divided our culture, that is, as narrow, OBLATE FATHER ROLHEISER, theo- safe harbor in terms of sorting and in his ministry, Jesus did in small groups and each group judgmental, hypocritical and logian, teacher, and award- out their faith and their rela- not discriminate. He offered a was given the question: What, hateful. No doubt this is unfair, winning author, is president of tionship to the church. Sadly, safe sanctuary for everyone. before all else, should the but we must have the courage to the Oblate School of Theology too often our rigid paradigms We need today in our church be saying to the world ask ourselves why this percep- in San Antonio, Texas. He can of orthodoxy, ecclesiology, ecu- churches to challenge ourselves today? tion abounds, in the academy, be at ronrolheiser.com or on menism, liturgy, sacramental on this. From pastors, to parish The groups returned with in the media and in the popular facebook.com/ronrolheiser. practice and canon law, howev- councils, to pastoral teams, to their answers and everyone, er well-intentioned have made diocesan regulators, to bishops’ every single group, proposed as our churches places where conferences, to those respon- its first priority opposite what Mission Statement no such sanctuary is offered sible for applying canon and the church should be saying and where the wide embrace church law, to our own personal to the world some moral or The mission of The Catholic Commentator is to provide news, practiced by Jesus is not mir- attitudes, we all need to ask: ecclesial challenge: We need to information and commentary to the people of the Diocese rored. Instead, our churches are Are our churches places of sanc- challenge the world in terms of of Baton Rouge, Catholics and their neighbors alike. In doing often harbors only for persons tuary for those who are refu- justice! We need to challenge so, The Catholic Commentator strives to further the wider who are already safe, already gees, homeless and poor ecclesi- people to pray more! We need mission of the Church: to evangelize, to communicate, to comforted, already church-ob- ally? Do our pastoral practices to speak again of sin! We need educate and to give the Catholic viewpoint on important serving, already solid ecclesial mirror Jesus? Is our embrace as to challenge people about the issues of the present day. citizens. wide as that of Jesus? importance of going to church! 18 The Catholic Commentator COMING EVENTS December 23, 2016

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MESSAGE  bus (national and local), the United States the Feast of the Holy Family. In 1921, the Body of Christ, and the temple of From page 1 Conference of Catholic Bishops, countless under Pope Benedict XV, the Vatican the Holy Spirit, we are called to enflesh, dioceses and church parishes in our coun- Congregation of Rites established this enshrine, live, witness and radiate God’s by disastrous flooding affecting more try and beyond, governmental, non-profit as a feast day in the Latin Rite Church holy presence. Thank you for the consci- than 100,000 people, many of whom still and civic groups, alongside generous general calendar. It did this to offset the entious and uplifting way you exercise await better interim housing and future volunteers from near and far represent growing societal breakdown of fam- this powerful identity. re-settlement. In the midst of this severe just a partial list of caring fellow humans ily life. This year, with Christmas and Please know the cherished place you disruption of life and property to so many, who sacrificially reached out. Even with New Year’s Day falling on a Sunday and have in my heart, mind, spirt and prayer, the response of our community has been all that help, so many still await a return Epiphany observed the following Sunday, especially around the altar during these so magnificently inspirational. We have to some normalcy in their lives. And yet the Feast of the Holy Family will be most blessed days. witnessed neighbor helping neighbor deeper, longer-range issues of universal observed on Friday, Dec. 30. Clearly the through donations of food, supplies, human respect and wider spiritual com- family, “the domestic church,” must be Eternally yours in the Word-Made- money and immeasurable personal help. mitments, here as elsewhere, challenge embraced, supported, strengthened and Flesh, These actions provide powerful testimo- us to acknowledge, soul-search, pray and promoted. nials of who as a community we are and work to resolve. This sacred time calls us to recognize where our heart is. Entities as Catholic Appropriately connected with the what God does for us and commissions Charities, St. Vincent de Paul Society (di- liturgies of Christmas, Mary, Mother of us to do for others. As the children/fami- Robert W. Muench, ocesan and local), the Knights of Colum- God (New Year’s Day) and Epiphany is ly/people/community and church of God, Bishop of Baton Rouge

HOME  the contractors were suppose to was complete. A dedicated elec- decorating the tree, drinking hot From page 1 come and then we just waited all “We got our couch trician was checking out elec- chocolate and singing Christmas day,” said Michele. trical outlets and made minor carols, also have a new mean- MSNBC came to their neighbor- Supplies were also extreme- on Friday and repairs around the home as the ing because the family’s heart is hood to capture footage of the ly difficult to get. It took two McClearys shared their story. filled with gratitude. flood damage during those first months to get doors. we just sat (and As the home shapes up, the “It’s crazy that people are painful, blurry days after the Tiring of contractors fall- McClearys became more excit- still living in tents four months flood. ing through on promises, Neal, breathed a sigh of ed about being home for Christ- after the flood,” said Michele. “I “We were actually on the skilled in carpentry himself, mas. thought I was going to have a ga- nightly news. We were on the taught his sons the skills to fin- relief ).” “We got our couch on Friday rage sale, but I’m giving clothes, Weather Channel,” said Neal, ish some of the work themselves. and we just sat (and breathed a dishes and other things to St. who often talked to the reporters “They were with me hanging Michele McCleary sigh of relief),” said Michele. Vincent de Paul.” on their hourly updates. “They up doors, shooting nails and put- She added, “I thought, ‘Oh, As they looked on the mound sent satellite trucks and did live ting base boards in,” said Neal. munity College. my gosh, we’ve got walls, we’ve of possessions taken to the curb feeds from our house.” This gives the Jacob, a junior at Live Oak got floors that aren’t concrete, after cleaning out the home af- While the Mc- family a sense of High School, also had a shift in we’ve got doors.’ ” ter the flood, Neal said the fam- Clearys made the pride as they look at school schedule as the school The ability to stretch out on a ily realized, “you don’t need all national news, with- the finished work. took in students from Denham bed is also a perk for Jacob and that,” which freed them to focus he When t S ROSE out television, radio, ER Balancing school Springs High School. He also Tyler, who plan to catch up on on the important things. newspaper or other WAT and working on the had a change in his schedule for some TV in their room. Which is faith and family. media and cellular home, which re- confirmation, which will take Their Christmas wish list “My brother asked, ‘Have you service they were in a cocoon quired giving up weekend plans, place in January. is simple – socks, clothes, new moved in yet? Are we still on with no idea of what was going was admittedly tough for the But the light shone at the end tooth brushes, etc. for Christmas?’ smiled Michele on around them. boys. But they did not complain. of the tunnel. When the Mc- “Shoes,” said Tyler when he broadly. “I said, ‘We’re good.’ Ev- “We had to sit and enjoy each “This was more important Clearys told a group of painters, asked what he wanted most for erything may not be perfect, but other’s company because we than weekend plans,” said Tyler, “We have to get in,” they stayed Christmas. as long as we have a place to sit didn’t have the distraction of a student at Baton Rouge Com- until 8 p.m. daily until the work Simple traditions, such as that’s all we need.” television and computers,” said Neal. Five family members living in a camper trailer was challeng- Hospice is not about giving up ing, especially when it came to sleeping schedules. … it’s about taking control The strengthened bond of the tight-knit family proved to • We rely upon the intercession of our Blessed Mother to assist us in imitating the healing ministry of Jesus be helpful in the tough work of Christ as we care for terminally ill patients and their families. cleaning up the debris in the • We call forth the compassion and kindness of our staff, who serve in this health care ministry, to respond to home. the physical, spiritual and emotional needs of our patients and their families. “It smelled,” said Michele. “You didn’t want to be in there • We believe in the sacredness of life from conception to natural death, and we devote ourselves to because it was so nasty.” supporting patients and families through the dying process at the end of life’s journey on this earth and new life in eternity. News crews recorded the family working on the home. Extended family members came and helped gut and pull up floor- ing as well. Then came the familiar frus- tration of the start and stop The right people, progress of repairing the home doing the right thing as contractors wouldn’t show up for the right reason. as promised. SERVING PEOPLE OF ALL FAITHS “We were in the camper, we www.NotreDameHospice-NO.org • (225) 243-7358 had to get up, get dressed, get Notre Dame Hospice does not discriminate against any person on the basis of race, color, religion, national origin, disability or age in admission, treatment, ability to pay, or participation in its programs, services and activities, or in employment. things out of the house before 20 The Catholic Commentator December 23, 2016 Chris Porche becomes interim principal at OLOM

By Rachele Smith to be a loving and compassion- prepared to do. addition, the new complex will The Catholic Commentator ate person,” he said, adding that “I see myself as holding the house a media center featur- when people realize they are reigns and keeping it straight,” he ing a library built especially for Chris Porche is at ease as he called to be Jesus Christ to every- said, noting many high-achiev- younger children. takes over the helm at Our Lady one, it calls them to a “different ing features of the school are al- “It will have smaller shelves, of Mercy School in Baton Rouge. level” of work and action. ready in place, such as its strong so they can see over it,” Porche A long-time educator, he brings “We (Catholic school faculty focus on Catholic identify and its said. more than 30 years of experi- and staff) play such an impor- after-school resource program, For the older students on ence as a teacher, coach and ad- tant role in the development of which includes STEAM, classes campus, a new gym is being con- ministrator to his role as interim each child, not just in the com- especially designed for gifted ceptualized. Porche said it will principal. munity, but in the kingdom of students. not replace the old gym, rather, Porche succeeds Brian God on Earth,” he explained. “I want to support our teach- both with help provide addition- Moscona, who tendered his res- A product of Catholic schools, ers and help them with the re- al practice spaces for the many ignation as principal in Novem- Porche also brings a student’s Chris Porche sources they need,” he said. basketball and volleyball teams ber. perspective to his new role. Grad- “I am ready to work hard and at OLOM. The old gym will also Porche, who most recently uating from St. Pius X Elementa- and development director. Dur- keep this school a happy place. be renovated to provide more served as vice principal of stu- ry and Redemptorist High (both ing that time, he received his ad- There is so much joy here.” space for the school’s music and dent life at OLOM, said his years have since closed), Porche earned vanced catechist certification and With the school’s capital cam- drama programs. in administration have prepared a bachelor’s degree in manage- a master’s degree in education paign finishing, Porche is also As these plans focus on the him for his new role, helping ment and administration from administration and supervision. ready to move ahead with school school’s future, Porche said he is him to continue building on the LSU in 1984. He then returned In 2012, on his 50th birthday, expansion plans. He said OLOM also looking at his own and sees school’s vision for the future. to his high school alma mater to Porche joined the administration is planning a new building that his time as the interim principal “I have always been passion- work as a substitute teacher. team at OLOM. Since that time, will help increase the number as a job interview of sorts. ate about Catholic schools. I be- Porche explained he thought he has been actively engaged in of preschool classes the school “I hope that what I do from lieve they are wonderful in that his time as a teacher would be all aspects of the school, from can provide. Right now, only one here to then will speak well they don’t just give kids math, short, but he quickly discovered budgetary needs and hiring de- three-year-old class is offered, enough,” he said, noting that the science, social studies and Eng- his own calling as an educator. cisions to student life and the but the demand is high, and the opportunity as principal is ex- lish (lessons), but they also give Ultimately, he stayed at RHS, school’s nearly completed capital new building, which will feature actly what he wants. kids the things they need to suc- working there for several decades campaign. So, taking over the 18 rooms, will expand that num- “This a wonderful commu- ceed in life, such as how to live as a teacher and coach while also top spot, while he admits is “very ber as well as provide more space nity. My wife and I have become out God’s call, to witness and filling roles as alumni director exciting,” is also something he is for older preschool students. In entrenched here. We love it.”

This Christmas Remember Ella and All Those We Serve For thousands of people in our community, this will be a Christmas they will always remember. Home may be a trailer, a friend’s guest room, or a damaged residence that is still unfinished. For some, like Ella – the little girl in the photo – home is our Sweet Dreams Shelter. Even though they may have little else in common, they all share one emotion this Christmas: heartfelt gratitude for home, no matter how humble or temporary it may be. At our Bishop Ott Shelters, we provide a home to thousands of men, women, and children each year (over 26,000 guest nights in 2016). Through your support, you are reaching out to strangers in need, and we are so grateful that people like you. We never forget that it was through the kindness of others that Mary and Joseph were given shelter when they had nowhere else to turn.

As our community continues its long journey toward recovery from the floods, we know that there will be a growing need to provide shelter to the most vulnerable. We are seeing more men, single women, families, and elderly who need basic necessities like food, clothing, shelter and medicine. The lines have been long at our St. Vincent de Paul Dining Room, and we expect to serve over 240,000 meals this year. Almost as critical as food is the medicine provided by our St. Vincent de Paul Community Pharmacy. We are on pace to fill well over 20,000 prescriptions in 2016. Many of the patients we serve are older individuals suffering from chronic illnesses, but we serve people of all ages, including children like Ella, the little girl in the photo. For many people, Christmas wish lists will include necessities, not luxuries. They all need a helping hand-up.

People are fighting a daily battle to survive in a complicated world, and they need your help. We have included our Christmas Prayer, and that’s our first request to you – to use this prayer and join us in praying for the poor and homeless during this holy season. If you are able to help financially, we also ask you to consider making a gift. Give online at: www.svdpbr.org or A Christmas Prayer mail your gift to the Society of St. Vincent de Paul, P.O. Box 127, Baton On this day, joy was reborn into the world, Rouge, LA 70821 -may we share the joy of Christ with everyone. On this day, hope was reborn into the world, Cut out and send in with your financial gift. -may we bring the hope of Christ to those most in need. I have enclosed a Christmas gift of $______to St. Vincent de Paul. On this day, peace was reborn into the world, Name: ______Address: ______-may we bring the peace of Christ to our family City, State, Zip: ______and our world. Amen