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Full list of Chanukah Happy Chanukah events on page 10 Chanukah arriving late but public celebrations start early hanukah is traditionally Megan Berry and Gov. Bill Haslam and well before that, including the annual about 500 people last year, begins at 4:30 observed in the home, but other government dignitaries. community-wide Chanukah Festival at p.m. Admission is $10 a person with public celebrations have New this year is “A Country the Gordon Jewish Community Center a $30 limit for families. In addition to become commonplace, Chanukah” on Monday, Dec. 26 hosted on Sunday, Dec. 18. the musical entertainment, the festival and this year is no excep- by Chabad of Nashville at the Gaylord The event is geared especially for includes a full kosher dinner featuring tion. Opryland resort, where former members families and children, and this year will the famous latkes prepared by Bernie CIn Nashville that includes congrega- of the Israeli Defense Force will light a six- feature Mr. Steve the Music Man, a local Pargh and his team of assistant chefs. tional Chanukah parties and other com- foot, 500-pound menorah carved out of children’s musician who does a weekly As in years past, there will also be art munal events like the lighting each eve- ice. The 6 p.m. event will include ice skat- morning radio show on WRLT Lightning projects and games for children, said Jack ning of the big Limor Menorah in front ing, Jewish music and latkes and donuts. 100 and emcees the Kid Zone for the Simon, director of children’s program- of Congregation Sherith Israel and the The Festival of Lights begins this station’s Live on the Green concerts in ming at the GJCC. And this year there annual state and municipal candle-light- year on the evening of Saturday, Dec. 24, Centennial Park. are plans for a service project involving ing ceremonies presided over by Mayor although the celebrations get under way The Chanukah Festival, which drew PJ Library. •

Fundraiser celebrates JFS role Nashville Jewish Federation in assisting LGBT adoptions issues post-election statement

By CHARLES BERNSEN he Jewish Federation of violence targeted at any individual or Nashville and Middle group. We express our willingness to hen he decided to Tennessee is committed, work with those who seek to preserve adopt a child more as noted in its mission and strengthen the Jewish community than 16 years ago, statement, to promoting and the broader community and to pro- Dr. Christopher the cohesiveness of the tect those who are the targets of bigoted Harris, an open- TNashville Jewish community. Jewish acts, hatred and marginalization. ly gay man, spent Federation constituents represent a range We are also concerned with the Walmost two years trying to find an agency of views across the entire political spec- increased number of incidents of in Nashville that would even complete trum and the Jewish Federation con- anti-Semitism over the past several the home study necessary to qualify him tinues, as it always has, to maintain months and through the work of our as a potential adoptive parent. strict neutrality and neither endorses nor Jewish Federation and its Community Then he turned to Jewish Family opposes candidates for elected office. We Relations Committee we reaffirm our Service, whose adoption agency finished seek to work in a productive manner with ongoing commitment to combatting the home study in two months. Not all candidates who are elected to political anti-Semitism and preserving the safety long afterwards, Harris adopted a new office at all levels of government. We will and the security of the Jewish people at born girl, becoming the first openly gay continue to do so. home and abroad. person to become an adoptive parent We acknowledge that as a result As we move through a period of through JFS. of the most recent election and the transition, we express our hope and our Now a pediatric pulmonologist with events leading up to that election have desire that our Jewish community and Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los caused broad divisions across our soci- the broader community will emerge Angeles, Harris flew to Nashville last ety. We are deeply concerned about the stronger and more united as we seek to month to tell his story at the annual incidents of hatred that have occurred work collaboratively with all partners of LGBT fundraiser for Adoption Journeys, in the wake of the election and we good will in these very challenging times. a program of JFS. condemn any act of verbal or physical Please join us in this important work. “If not for Jewish Family Service, my life would be much less full,” said Harris. Lisa Perlen Mark S. Freedman Standing at his side was his daughter, With his adoptive daughter at his side, Maria, now 14. Dr. Christopher Harris, speaks at the President Executive Director About 85 people attended the recent fundraiser for Adoption Journeys, Nov. 3 event at the West Meade hill- where he thanked the JFS program for Ron Galbraith Abbie Wolf stepping up to help him adopt a child Chair, Community Relations Committee Community Relations Director top home of Curtis Shaw and Desmond in 2002 when other agencies wouldn’t. Continued on pages 4 (Photos by Lynne Srebnik)

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By CHARLES BERNSEN organizations, Kutnick said. Kutnick also dispelled some common epresentatives from 13 misconceptions that often make non- local Jewish institutions profit organizations reluctant to active- and agencies were encour- ly promote legacy giving and pursue aged last month to take endowments. For example, she said lega- part in Life & Legacy, a cy giving tends to help rather than hurt program of the Harold an organization’s annual fundraising by RGrinspoon Foundation designed to secure increasing the commitment of donors. endowments and Nor are conversations about legacy giv- raise awareness of ing about death; while endowments are legacy giving within often associated primarily with seniors, Jewish communities. the largest cohort of legacy givers is Jewish Federation President Lisa Perlen speaks to 52 leaders representing 13 local The group – 52 Jewish synagogues, institutions and agencies during last month’s kick off of Life & between the ages of 40 and 49. professional and lay Legacy, a program aimed at boosting endowments and legacy giving in the Nashville And beyond its financial importance, leaders – met for din- Jewish community. Kutnick said, legacy giving also can play ner on Nov. 17 at Last August, the Grinspoon keting assistance and financial incen- a crucial role in building commitment to the Gordon Jewish Foundation invited The Nashville Jewish tives of up to $22,500 each over the and inclusion in the Jewish community, Christine Kutnick Community Center, community to join 35 others participat- course of the four-year program, depend- which is why the Life & Legacy program where they heard a presentation from ing in the Life & Legacy program. The ing on how many legacy commitments goals focus on the number of donors and Christine Kutnick of the Grinspoon Grinspoon Foundation will provide a third they secure. not the size of their gifts. Foundation. Represented at the meeting of the funding, while the Jewish Federation Both Herzog and Kutnick emphasized To illustrate, she began and ended were the city’s five Jewish congregations and Foundation of Nashville and Middle that Life & Legacy is not a competition her talk with the story of woman of along with the Jewish Federation and Tennessee will provide the rest and also but rather a joint effort to secure the com- modest means who decided, after being Foundation, the GJCC, Jewish Family administer the program locally. munity’s future. The financial incentives, approached by her rabbi, to leave her syn- Service, Akiva School, Vanderbilt “I have been overwhelmed by the for instance, depend not only on whether agogue the only thing of value she owned Hillel, BBYO and the local chapters of positive response to this opportunity,” individual organizations meet their com- – a percentage of the value of her home. Hadassah and the National Council of Risa Klein Herzog, director of foundation mitment goals but also on whether togeth- Said Kutnick, “When she told the Jewish Women. development for the Nashville Jewish er they meet a communitywide goal. rabbi about her decision, she said, ‘Thank Kutnick identified two key factors Foundation, told the group. “We will be The program is set up so that donors you rabbi. You have given me the oppor- behind Harold Grinspoon’s decision to a partner and facilitator for you to grow will not be put in the position of choos- tunity to do something meaningful for launch Life & Legacy almost four years ago. your endowments.” ing one organization over others. Instead the organization I care about.’” First, few Jewish communal organizations Kutnick is the Grinspoon Foundation they will be encouraged to make legacy The meeting ended with remarks derive at least 20 percent their annual consultant who will be working with the gifts to several participating if they wish. by Federation President Lisa Perlen and operating budgets from endowments, the Nashville community, and last month’s In other communities participating in Adam Landa, development chair of the level recommended for non-profit organi- meeting was an opportunity for her to Life & Legacy, endowment commitments Jewish Foundation, emphasizing the zations. Second, there is an unprecedented explain the potential benefits of the pro- typically include two or three beneficiary importance of legacy giving. • generational transfer of wealth underway – gram and how it works. $59 trillion, by some estimates – that could Each organization represented at the address the under-endowment problem. meeting has been invited to take part in &KDQXNDKLVDURXQGWKHFRUQHU¨ “What Harold Grinspoon wanted Life & Legacy by establishing a detailed to know was whether communities can plan that includes potential donors, a ZMWMXXLI be motivated to become proactive in marketing strategy and goals for securing encouraging widespread legacy giving,” commitments. They also have been asked Kutnick said. to name a team of at least one staff mem- So far, she said, the answer seems to ber and three lay leaders responsible for THE TEMPLE be “yes.” As of June, Life & Legacy had carrying out the plan. helped almost 400 Jewish organizations The participating organizations will secure legacy commitments valued at receive special training in securing and $421SPTZ-22OB million, ObserverChanukah2016_SPTZ-18OB Kutnick said. managing ObserverChanukah2015 endowments 11/4/16as well 7:43 as AMmar -Page 1

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4 December 2016 The Observer Patti and David Steine will receive President’s Award at the annual Bonim Society Dinner on Jan. 29

atti and David Steine, Jr. are Added Patti, “It’s also significant to and Moshe and Libby Werthan (2016). the recipients of the 2017 us that the Federation’s work encompass- The 2015 award was presented jointly President’s Award, the highest es both our local community and Jews in to Annette Eskind, Jane and Richard honor bestowed by the Jewish Israel and around the world . . . and helps Eskind, Bernice and Joel Gordon and Federation of Nashville and provide opportunities for Jews today and Eugene Pargh and Madeline Pargh z’’l. Middle Tennessee. Jews in future generations.” “The Steines are a very special P Federation President Lisa Perlen The President’s Award was estab- couple,” said Mark S. Freedman, the will present the award to the Steines lished 2012 and is presented annually Federation’s executive director. “They next month at the annual dinner of to individuals who have a distinguished bring a wealth of wisdom to the com- the Federation’s Bonim Society, which record of commitment to the Jewish munal table and I am so very grate- includes individuals and couples who people through their exemplary philan- ful that they continue to be actively make a gift of $1,000 or more to its annu- thropy, dedicated community service and engaged in the important work of the al campaign. betterment of Jewish life in Nashville, Jewish Federation. I am so pleased that The dinner begins at 6:30 p.m. on Israel and around the world. Lisa Perlen has decided to bestow this Sunday, Jan. 29 at the Gordon Jewish Previous winners are Sandy great honor upon them. They have truly Community Center. For more infor- Averbuch z’’l (2012), Bob Eisenstein earned it through their constant devo- mation contact Naomi Limor Sedek (2013), Raymond Zimmerman (2014) tion to our Jewish community.” • at [email protected]. “I cannot think of two individuals who are more worthy due to the enor- The warmth of the candles reflect our appreciation mous collective impact they have had in enriching Jewish life in our Jewish for your friendship and business. community and beyond, over many Happy Chanukah years,” said Federation President Lisa Patti and David Steine, recipients of the Perlin. “Our community is profound- 2017 President’s Award ly grateful to Patti and David for all LORNA M. GRAFF Broker, ABR, CRS, GRI they have accomplished at the Jewish Committee from 2012-2015, helping to Federation and for other Jewish orga- Lifetime Member, Gold Award of Excellence make decisions about how to allocate to nizations and I am very much looking the dozens of agencies and institutions it Office: 615.794.0833 forward to paying a special tribute to each Cell: 615.351.5343 supports. E-mail: [email protected] of them.” The Steines said they were grateful Web: Lornagraff.com David Steine, a member of the and honored for the recognition. Federation board of directors, is a past “Patti and I have always felt that president (1986-88) and campaign chair the Jewish Federation campaign is the (1999) of the Federation and was its rep- most important and powerful vehicle for resentative on the Akiva School Board expressing tzedakah,” David said. “No one of directors from 2013-16. Patti Steine gift touches so many of our fellow Jews in served on the the Federation’s Grants so many ways.”

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and local musicians, athletes, and chefs. Students are contributing to the program’s 5777 Digital Torah yearbook project. Confirmation is still a cherished part of Micah’s CHAI Society program, and during their confirmation trip to New York this year students saw the Broadway play “Fiddler on the Roof.” The performance provided a timely, thematic bridge to their Shabbat spent in the Lower East Side, where the American immigrant experience, both historic and ongoing, took on a more tangible meaning. Confirmation is set for May 19. Rev. Dr. Emilie M. Townes Lecture: “The Challenge of Love in the Face of Violence”

Rev. Dr. Emilie M. Townes, dean of Vanderbilt Divinity School, distinguished scholar and leader in theological education, will be speaking in the sanctuary at Congregation Micah following a potluck dinner after Shabbat Service on Friday, Dec. 2 (The main dish is provided; those who attend are asked to bring a non-dairy side dish.) The event is free and open to all. Please RSVP through the EVENTS link on the Micah website. 10-week adult education course will focus on Jewish living and values

Members of the 2017 Confirmation Class ride the subway in New York City, where Members Vicki Estrin and Ron Heady will lead a 10-week course beginning next they saw the play Fiddler on the Roof and spent time on the Lower East Side. month called Conversations about Jewish Living that explores life and values through text and conversation. Topics include spirituality, the synagogue, kashrut, holiness, Jewish rituals, Micah expanding Chai Society holy days, and more. This course is ideal for those who have always wanted to take programming for high schoolers “Introduction to Judaism” and for those who also want to deepen their understanding of Jewish living. After a successful pilot program last school year called CHAI Society, the staff The first session will be from 6-7 p.m. on Wednesday, Jan. 11. at Congregation Micah has expanded its high school programming to include more Wednesday evening seminars as well as monthly gender groups – Sisters@Sinai and Honorable Men-schen. Micah Book Club sets The first session, hosted just a day after the election, found students further explor- reading list through March ing the issues raised by such a contentious political season. Rabbi Flip Rice, Ronnie Steine, Adi Ben Dor and Julie Greenberg facilitated a lively question-and-answer The Micah Book Club has announced its selections through March: Here I Am, session before inviting students to create a video message for President-elect Trump Jonathan Safran Foer (Dec. 9); The Underground Railroad, Colson Whitehead (Jan. 6); underscoring the Jewish values that they expect to see in the White House. The video The Black Widow, Daniel Silva (Feb. 3), and The Aleppo Code, Terry Brennan (March can be viewed on Micah’s YouTube channel. 3). For those unable to commit to a meeting, it is now possible to join in the conversa- Future CHAI Society sessions will include appearances by Rabbis Aaron tions digitally. For questions or assistance in joining the discussion, please contact Ron Finkelstein, Phil Lieberman and Saul Strosberg; Hillel Executive Director Ari Dubin, Heady [email protected] or call/text (615) 293.2946.

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Chabad dedicates the Cardoza Moore Sukkah Plaza

As the sun set and Sukkot was about to begin, Chabad of Nashville dedicated the Cardoza Moore Sukkah Plaza at the Genesis Campus for Jewish Life. Laurie and Stan Moore cut the ribbon cutting as observers from a cross section of the Nashville community took part in the celebration. During the ceremony Laurie Moore noted that her ancestors, the Cardozas, were Marranos, Jewish families in Spain who had to hide their Jewish faith during the Spanish inquisition In public they were Christians and in the privacy of their home they practiced their Jewish religion. Over five hundred years later, she was closing the circle, by dedicating the Sukkah Plaza at Chabad of Nashville, in memory of her family who were not able to practice their faith and sit in a Sukkah openly the way we can do it today. Following the ribbon cutting ceremony all enjoyed a most beautiful holiday dinner in sukkot under the Stars. Class will focus on role of Jewish women and stories of Jewish heroines

Rebbetzin Esther Tiechtel will lead a special Shabbat class for women at 1 p.m. Stan and Laurie Moore cut the ribbon during a ceremony dedicating the new Cardoza on Dec. 24. at Chabad of Nashville. The discussion will focus on the role of Jewish Moore Sukkah Plaze at the Genesis Campus for Jewish Life. With them are family, women in the home, and share the story of Jewish heroines, including the heroine of friends and and Rabbi Yitzchok and Esther Tiechtel. the Chanukah story, Yehudit, who killed the Roman general planning to annihilate the Jewish people. The event is open to the public and reservations are required.

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Jewish Nashville @ West End visits the “real” South West End Synagogue fundraiser next month will honor four of its “stars’

West End Synagogue will light up the night during its annual fundraiser next month when it celebrates the contributions of four of its brightest stars – Charlotte Seloff, Dr. Steve Hecklin, and Dr. Trent and Ellie Rosenbloom. The Jan. 17 event at the Loews Vanderbilt Hotel, dubbed “Under the Stars,” begins at 6:30 p.m. with cocktails followed by a kosher dinner and dancing. Ticket prices start at $150, and there are patron opportunities. Entertainment will be provided by the Craig Duncan Orchestra. For more information or to purchase tickets, contact Marcia Stewart, (615) 269-4592 ext. 13 or [email protected]. “We look forward to celebrating our stars with everyone in the community,” said West End President Barbara Dab. “West End Synagogue is blessed to have these deserv- ing people as part of our congregation and we look forward to fabulous evening.” Seloff is a Nashville native, having been born, raised and educated a stone’s throw Dr. Trent and Ellie Rosenbloom. from where the synagogue now stands. Following college, she returned to Nashville where she met married Leonard Seloff z”l. Together they raised three children, Sharon Paz, Eileen Rosenblum and Herb Seloff – all of whom have been active in the syna- gogue. Seloff has dedicated her life to volunteering in Nashville’s Jewish Community, ris- ing through the leadership ranks at West End to become its first woman president from 1982-84. She has also been active in the Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee and served for 17 years as development director and director of the Jewish Foundation of Middle Tennessee. Hecklin grew up in a small Southern town, where his parents made sure he and his sisters had were involved in Jewish life and learning. Religious school, BBYO and Young Judea were a part of his youth. He attended Memphis State University, where he met his wife, Sandra. After he graduated the Medical University of South Carolina College of Dental Medicine, they moved to Nashville. In addition to his professional involvements, Hecklin has been active in the Jewish Federation, serving on its board A contingent of Nashvillians poses in and as campaign chair. He has been on the Board of West End Synagogue and served front of the famous Obelisk of Buenos as president from 2011-13. Aires during their trip last month to the “West End Synagogue has been a tremendous part of my family’s life,” Hecklin Dr. Steve Hecklin capital of Argentina. Rabbi Joshua Kullock of West End Synagogue led the group said. “My children went to religious school and were bat mitzvah there. My personal on a weeklong tour of his hometown commitment to West End Synagogue and Conservative Judaism has been a very fulfill- in the first trip of its kind organized by ing aspect of my life.” He now enjoys watching the next generation of his family, his West End Synagogue. The group traveled grandchildren, growing up in Nashville with their parents Carolyn and Adam Hyatt. around Jewish and non-Jewish sites of Daughter Stephanie Soskin lives in Minneapolis with her husband, Jorie. one of the world’s capitals, in the country that is home to 200,000 Jews, the seventh Trent Rosenbloom is also a Nashville native. After attending Northwestern largest Jewish population in the world. University, where he met his wife Ellie in Hebrew class, he attended medical school at Highlights included a Kabalat Shabbat Vanderbilt University, where he is now an internist and pediatrician and serves as the service with 900 congregants, a visit to vice chair for biomedical informatics and director of Vanderbilt’s online patient portal, the city’s opera house and Argentina’s first synagogue, conversations with lead- My Health at Vanderbilt. ers of some of the Jewish organizations For nearly 20 years, Rosenbloom has been a Jewish Theological Seminary-trained serving the whole Latin American con- mohel and has performed the bris ritual for many families throughout Tennessee, taking tinent, and – of course – outstanding no fee, but directing donations back to West End Synagogue. kosher steaks. The Jewish Federation of Ellie Weiss Rosenbloom grew up in Lido Beach, NY, a barrier island off the south Nashville and Middle Tennessee is plan- ning a communitywide trip to Argentina shore of Long Island. She attended Northwestern University and then law school at next year. Anyone interested should con- Washington University in St. Louis. For the last 22 years she has been the program tact Naomi Limor Sedek, assistant exec- coordinator for the Tennessee Space Grant Consortium, a statewide NASA educa- utive director, at naomi@jewishnashville. tional program. She has served on the WES Membership Committee, various roles on Charlotte Seloff org or (615) 354-1642. the Sisterhood Board, read Torah at Shabbat Services and is currently a member of the West End board. The Rosenblooms have three children, Shayna, Adena and Max, all of whom have been involved at WES.

Sisterhood will hold BBQ, Booze and the Bible fundraiser on Dec. 11

The West End Synagogue Sisterhood will hold a fundraiser – BBQ, Booze and the Bible – on Sunday, Dec. 11 at the Vanderbilt Hillel Schulman Center for Jewish Life. The event begins at 6:30 p.m. and will feature a variety of smoked barbecue and sides prepared by West End member Jason Sparks and Goldie Shepard Catering. In addition Rabbi Joshua Barton will tell stories about the use of alcohol in the Bible, and Stuart Wiston will present a tasting menu of various alcoholic beverages and wine. The cost is $36 a person or $54 a couple, and proceeds will benefit benefit the Jewish Theological Seminary (New York), the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies (Los Angeles), the Schechter Institute of Jewish Studies (Jerusalem), the Seminario Rabbinico Latinamericano (Buenos Aires). Donations to WES Sisterhood to support Torah Fund and youth activities and education are also encouraged. Happy Chanukah Those planning to attend are asked to RSVP by Dec. 6 by calling the West End office at (615) 269-4592 or emailing [email protected].

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Religious school will hold open house and concert featuring performer Ellen Allard

Parents are invited to join their children at religious school for an open house from 9:30-11 a.m. on Sunday, Dec. 1l, when they can meet the teachers in class and celebrate with a family concert featuring Ellen Allard. Ellen Allard is an influential composer, performer, and educator in the contempo- rary Jewish music scene. With over 30 years of experience performing and teaching for young children and their parents, she has 12 award-winning CDs in her catalo and is widely recognized for her appeal to audiences of all ages. Ongoing series will look at “compassionate communication”

As part of The Temple’s ongoing Emotional First Aid Kit series, clinical social worker Felice Apolinsky will facilitate a two-part session on compassionate communi- cation on Dec. 4 and 11. The first session will focus on how to communicate clearly and directly with appropri- ate delivery. The second will focus on how to listen fully, without judgment or distraction. Both session will run from 9:30 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. Hike and Havdalah set for Dec. 10

The Temple’s Worship and Music Committee is sponsoring a Hike and Havdalah on Dec. 10 at Percy Warner Park. Those who wish to participate should meet at 3:45 p.m. at the top of the steps at the end of Belle Meade Blvd. the 2.5-mile white trail to begin at 4 p.m. The Havdalah will take place at 5:30 p.m. at stone gate entrance to the park. Simchas & Other events in December • The Temple book club will meet at 10 a.m. on Dec. 4 to discuss Great Reckoning by Louise Penny. Celebrations • Next Dor will hold an informal conversation about interfaith issues and the “December dilemma” on Dec. 1 at 7 p.m. To RSVP, Rabbi Shulman or call The COMING JANUARY 2017 Temple office (615) 352-7620. • Those interested in going to dinner at a casual restaurant following Shabbat ser- vices on Dec 16 should email Rabbi Shulman or call the Temple office at (615) 352-7620.

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Sisterhood consignment sale set for Dec. 4

The Congregation Sherith Israel Sisterhood will hold a consignment clothing sale on Dec. 4 at the synagogue. The sale will include clothing for men, women and juniors (including accessories like handbags, shoes, belts, scarves, ties and hats) as well as maternity clothing. For more information, email [email protected] or call the syna- gogue at (615) 292-6614. We will be highlighting lifecycle events including Weddings, Bar & Bat Mitzvahs, Anniversaries and Births. We know that you will want to be included in this issue. For advertisers who contract a 1/8 page ad or larger we will be happy to contact you for articles pertaining to your business. Deadline for ads is December 15, 2016 Contact: Carrie Mills, Advertising Manager 615-354-1699 e-mail: [email protected] or fax: 615-352-0056

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8 December 2016 The Observer No one will be getting sleepy when hypnotist Ricky Kalmon headlines Big Night Out

By CHARLES BERNSEN ple learn to clear their minds, trust their be more or less distracted and able to own thoughts “and focus on what they focus,” he said. f you go to hypnotist Ricky want to do.” Though fast-paced and funny, Kalmon’s comedy show, you might Nor does he worry that he’ll get a Kalmon’s act is good-natured, not cut- see a dozen audience members stand group of volunteers who aren’t suscepti- ting. He avoids embarrassing the volun- on a stage and, without the slightest ble to hypnosis. Most people can be hyp- teers or making them uncomfortable. In inhibition, shred air guitars as if notized, he said, though an individual’s fact, when he seeks volunteers at the start they were Prince. Or you might see susceptibility may vary depending on his of the show, he often gives the audience a Ian audience member pulling the imagi- or her state of mind. warning: “Your biggest regret will be that nary strings of an imaginary puppet. You “At any one moment, a person may you didn’t volunteer. • might even see a young man assume the persona of his favorite pro football play- Random audience volunteers are the Big Night Out er, Miami Dolphins wide receiver Jarvis stars of Ricky Kalmon’s live comedy hyp- What: Cocktails, dinner, silent auction and comedy show featuring stage Landry, and then do an earnest interview nosis show, which will be featured next month at the Gordon Jewish Community hypnotist Ricky Kalmon with a television reporter – who is really Center’s Big Night Out fundraiser. (Photo When and Where: Jan. 21, 6:45 p.m. at the Gordon Jewish Community the actual Jarvis Landry. courtesy of Ricky Kalmon) Center And here’s the thing – in each case “It doesn’t work like that. It’s more they seem to believe they are rock guitar- Cost: $136 a person ($60 is tax deductible) like daydreaming,” he said. He described ists, a puppeteer or an NFL receiver. Tickets: Go to www.nashvillejcc.org/big-night-out or call Marylyn Rubin at hypnosis as a technique for helping peo- Kalmon, a prolific entertainer who uses (615)-354-1679 stage hypnotism as the basis of an interac- tive comedy show in which “the audience becomes the stars,” will headline Big Night Out on Jan. 21. The annual fundraiser for the Gordon Jewish Community Center begins at 6:45 p.m. with cocktails followed by dinner. In addition to Kalmon’s show, the evening includes a silent auction. “While we certainly hope everyone comes out and enjoys the fabulous auction, dinner, entertainment, and each other’s company, we would hope the community supports us regardless,” said Cindee Gold, volunteer co-chair of Big Night Out along with Leeron Resnick. “It is crucial that we all contribute to the GJCC and its mean- ingful impact on so many people” Kalmon has been doing live shows for 29 years – he’s on the road 150 days a year – and frequently appears as a spe- cial guest on television channels ranging from ESPN to the Disney Channel to Comedy Central. And while his unique show is funny and aimed primarily at entertaining, he describes it as more than just a comedy act. Even in its comedic format, hypno- tism can be a powerful tool for demon- strating “how to empower your subcon- scious to be your friend, not your enemy,” Kalmon said during a telephone inter- view last month. “It’s not about making anybody do anything uncomfortable or embarrassing. You can use hypnosis tech- niques to do things you want to do.” Kalmon appears frequently as a guest entertainer on Disney Cruise Line, at cor- porate conferences and as the headline act for special events like Big Night Out. He has also performed for pro sports teams, such as the Cincinnati Bengals, Arizona Diamondbacks, Anaheim Angels and the St. Louis Cardinals. In addition, he per- forms a mindset motivation program for corporations around the world. “My corporate clients want to engage their employees and offer an experience, not just a comedy show,” he said. “My show has a hidden agenda that teaches people to relax and focus.” Kalmon said he “fell in love with hypnotism” when he was a youth per- forming magic and “was lucky enough to meet and develop a relationship with some stage hypnotists who showed me their techniques.” At the center of each of his comedy acts are 12 audience members who are cho- sen spontaneously and randomly. Forget the trope of an evil manipulator using a swinging watch to put people into a trance, control their minds and make them do embarrassing things they don’t want to. The Observer December 2016 9 Chanukah 2016 in Nashville

Saturday, Dec. 10 Tuesday, Dec. 20 • The Temple will host a special Havdalah and pre-Chanukah program • Mayor Megan Barry will host a pre-Chanukah celebration at 5 p.m. at at 5 p.m. for families with children 5 and younger with award-winning downtown’s Public Square in front of the Court House. The event will composer, performer and educator Ellen Allard. Come in your PJs! include the lighting of a six-foot menorah, Chanukah songs by children from all of the city’s congregations as well as music by a band led by Rabbi Sunday, Dec. 11 Saul Strosberg of Congregation Sherith Israel. Chabad of Nashville will • Chabad of Nashville will partner with Home Depot to offer a free be distributing special Chanukah donuts, gelt and dreidels. pre-Chanukah menorah Workshop from 4:30-5:30 p.m. at the Home Depot at 7665 U.S. 70 S. Participants will receive a free worker’s apron Saturday, Dec. 24-Monday, Dec. 31 and then craft their own menorah from wood and other supplies. To • The large Limor Menorah outside Congregation Sherith Israel will be lit make reservations call (615) 646-5750 or visit chabadnashville.com. at about 5 p.m. each evening during Chanukah.

• Beit Miriam, the religious school at West End Synagogue, will hold “The • Chabad of Nashville’s 17-foot steel menorah, the largest in the state, will Chanukah Games,” a schoolwide Chanukah team challenge, from 9:30 be erected on the State Capitol and lit each evening during Chanukah by a.m.-noon. Parents are invited to come at 11:30 a.m. for zimriyah, Krispy various dignitaries. Kreme sufganiyot and latkes made by the students. • For those who want to fulfill the sages’ edit that “Jews will eat kosher Friday, Dec. 16 Chinese and see a movie on Christmas Eve,” West End Synagogue will • Congregation Micah will hold a special Kabbalat K’tan with Chanukah host a special Chinese dinner catered by the Lucky Bamboo at 6:30 p.m. dinner and Chanukiah contest. The evening begins at 5:30 p.m. with the (A vegetarian, gluten-free option will be available.) The dinner will be weekly WINE-down followed by a special Kabbalat K’tan service with Lisa followed by a screening of the movie “Frisco Kid” at 8 p.m. that will Silver and dinner. The cost is $10 adults and $5 for children ages 3-12. include popcorn and a drink. The cost is $25 a person. RSVP to office@ The dinner will include a main dish, drinks, latkes and dessert. Guests are westendsyn.org or (615) 269-4592. invited to create their own 9-branched Chanukah menorah and bring it to the dinner to be admired, judged, and lit. Votes are cast using quarters Sunday, Dec. 25 and will be donated to tzedakah, with the grand prize winners selecting • Congregation Sherith Israel Sisterhood will hold its annual Latke the Jewish charity that will receive the funds. Detailed information, Supper at 5:30 p.m. in the social hall. The cost is $12 for adults and $8 for Chanukiah contest guidelines, and payment options are available on the children with a family maximum of $36. (No charge for children under 3.) Micah website Events page at congregationmicah.org/events. Please RSVP by calling the shul at (615) 292-6615 by Monday, Dec. 19.

Sunday, Dec. 18 Monday, Dec. 26 • The Gordon Jewish Community Center’s annual Chanukah Festival • Chabad of Nashville will be host A Country Chanukah at the Gaylord begins at 4:30 p.m. Admission is $10 a person with a $30 limit for fam- Opryland resort beginning at 6 p.m. with the lighting of a 6-foot, 500- ilies. In addition to the musical entertainment by Mr. Steve the Music pound menorah carved out of ice by former members of the Israeli Man, the event includes a full kosher dinner featuring the famous latkes Defense Forces The event will also feature ice skating, Jewish music, of Bernie Pargh and his team of assistant chefs, plus games and art proj- latkes and donuts. For more information about the event and ticketing, ects for kids. go to www.chabadnashville.com or call (615) 646-5750.

Tuesday, Dec. 27 • The Nashville Predators’ annual Jewish Heritage Night at downtown’s Bridgestone Arena will include the lighting of a giant “Menorah of Freedom” followed by Chanukah songs played on the arena’s Jumbotron. The ceremony will be at 6:40 p.m. and the game against the Minnesota Wild begins 7 p.m.

Thursday, Dec. 29 • Congregation Sherith Israel will host a Chanukah party for kids at 5 p.m. at the Krispy Kreme Donut Shop on Thompson Lane. For details call the shul at (615) 292-6614.

Friday, Dec. 30 • The Temple will hold a special Chanukah Shabbat service at 6 p.m. followed by a latke oneg.

10 December 2016 The Observer Learning to lead at the General Assembly By ARON KARABEL also a good bit of kibitzing – see contagious! The conference ended with a t is not about dollars; it is about thoughtful and encouraging televised development. It is not about giv- message of hope, courage, and coopera- ing; it is about investing. It is not tion from the Prime Minister of Israel, about me; it is about us, Jews with Benjamin Netanyahu. a diverse voice and shared purpose I am more energized, hopeful and and mission. anxious to share what I’ve learned from IThese are the central themes that the GA, what I’ve learned from my permeated the Annual General Assembly chevre, and what the Nashville Jewish (GA) for the Jewish Federations of North community can do to strengthen our America held last month in Washington. internal bonds, help those in need, and The content and programming was welcome newcomers who want to start or unmatched. From donor engagement to continue their Jewish journey. • diversity training to civil rights conversa- tions to relationship building to political Aron Karabel is a board member of the discourse – the GA had it all. Every pro- Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle gram was designed to tap into the needs of Tennessee. He and his wife, Batia, received the varied communities represented and the Federation’s 2016 Young Leadership Members of the Nashville contingent to last month’s JFNA General Assembly got engage everyone, to help us explore our Award, and both also were selected for the the opportunity meet and talk with Benny Kashriel, the mayor of the West Bank collective and individual Jewish journeys. Young Leadership Cabinet of the Jewish settlement of Maale Adummim. From left are JFNA Trustee and Nashville Jewish Federation board member Fred Zimmerman, Kashriel’s assistant Rachely Vassal, I was particularly impressed with the panels Federations of North America. Karabel Federation President Lisa Perlen, Kashriel, Federation Executive Director Mark S. on young leadership and how they focused joined other local Federation leaders at last Freedman, and Aron Karabel, Federation board member and 2016 Young Leadership on the power and generosity of millennials. month’s JFNA General Assembly. Award recipient. Each panel made it a point to deconstruct the belief that millennials are from Mars and everyone else is from Venus. On the networking side, the oppor- tunities for sharing ideas between and among cities, professionals and board <01;+0)6=3)041/0<<0-?)A members was limitless. 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It hit home for me when the speaker ended with “engagement takes practice, practice, practice.” We had the pleasure of learning from Andy Cohen, of BravoTV fame, who highlighted the importance of getting active early on and committing to making Jewish issues a central component of your life. His Yiddish is perfect, by the way. We also had the pleasure of spending time with Chuck Todd who started the morning with Meet the Press and ended the day with Federation. He and his 07??144A7=);;=:- distinguished guests shared their insights on the recent election and how it will 2-?1;0<7557::7?;' impact Jewish issues locally and abroad, 7KH-HZLVK)HGHUDWLRQDQG)RXQGDWLRQRI1DVKYLOOHDQG0LGGOH7HQQHVVHHKDV and in Israel. 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Akiva 5th and 6th graders named outstanding partner by Nashville Food Project he fifth and sixth grade of our school’s interest and commitment students at Akiva School to reach out and serve as a partner in the – along with those who greater Nashville community.” graduated last spring – Two years ago, the fifth and sixth have been presented the grade students designed and built their Outstanding Community own garden. In addition to learning TPartner Award by the Nashville Food about gardening, food and nutrition, Project for their ongoing work growing they have been visiting the food proj- food and helping to prepare meals for ect kitchen and garden each month needy families. and helping to prepare meals for needy “A school with 75 students being families. named outstanding community part- The Nashville Food Project is an ner … Awesome and humbling.” said independent non-profit whose mission Akiva Principal Daniella Pressner in is to bring people together to grow, cook congratulating the students and the lead and share nourishing food, with the goals faculty member on the project, Rena of cultivating community and alleviating Malkofsky-Berger. “This is a reflection hunger in the city. •

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Many of us remember those summers at camp that inspired our connection to Judaism – the singing after dinner or Havdalah on the edge of the lake at sunset. The Jewish summer camp experience creates community for life, not just for a summer. Year after year our children return from camp with stories, memories and friendships. For many of them it is the first time they’re surrounded by all things Jewish. Overnight Jewish camping is wonderful way to introduce children to the joy and celebration of Jewish traditions. The Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee realizes the importance of building Jewish life and makes financial assistance available on a need basis for students to attend Jewish summer camps. If you know someone who could benefit from this information, please share it. To request information on summer camp opportunities or for a scholarship application, please contact Tania Bukengolts at the Jewish Federation at [email protected] or 615-354-1668 and send completed applications to [email protected] . All inquiries are confidential. The deadline for submitting applications is March 15, 2017.

12 December 2016 The Observer Vanderbilt Hillel will celebrate Ben Schulman next month as he turns 100 By DEBBY WISTON The Hillel celebration, “Thanks may do so for a $36 tax deductible contri- to Ben!”, will take place at 11:30 a.m. bution to Vanderbilt Hillel. anderbilt Hillel will host on Sunday, Jan. 22 at the Student Life In addition to the Sunday luncheon, a 100th birthday celebra- Center. The event will feature tributes to Schulman, his family and friends will tion the weekend of Jan. Schulman and recollections of Jewish life at be honored at a number of other events 19-22 for Ben Schulman, Vanderbilt before and after construction of throughout the weekend, including a Hillel the benefactor who spear- the Schulman Center. A kosher luncheon Shabbat dinner and a celebration hosted by headed the development catered by Goldie Shepard will be served. Vanderbilt Chancellor Nick Zeppos at his Vof the university building that bears his Tickets can be purchased from Vanderbilt residence. name and is the center of Jewish life on the Hillel and are available at three different For more details, check the Hillel Vanderbilt campus. levels, beginning at $100 and include list- website at www.vuhillel.org. • Schulman, who lives now in San ing in the commemorative birthday book. Diego, CA, grew up in Nashville and Those who are unable to attend and wish Debby Wiston is director of operations at graduated from Vanderbilt’s School of to place their names in the birthday book Vanderbilt Hillel. Ben Schulman Engineering in 1938. An unstinting sup- porter of Vanderbilt Hillel, he provided both the funds and leadership that led to the construction in 2002 of the Ben Shulman Center for Jewish Life across the street from Memorial Gymnasium. More recently he has underwritten the cost of the new Dor L’Dore Donor Wall that honors contributors to Vanderbilt Hillel. “By providing the initial funding for our building, Ben forever changed the Jewish experience on campus,” said Hillel Executive Director Ari Dubin. “The com- munity of Jewish students grew from just a few dozen to thousands in just over a decade, which meant not only was there an exponential increase in the number of students but also an incredible expansion in programming as well.” Said Barbara Mayden, president of the Hillel board, “The Schulman Center is the heart of everything we do at Hillel. It is Hillel’s home, our foundation, and has been the catalyst for the remarkable transformation and growth of the Jewish community at Vanderbilt. We are thrilled to honor Ben on his 100th birthday and to celebrate with him just how far we have come since 2002.” ((%*#ƫ((ƫ !3%/$ƫāĀ0$ƫĒƫāā0$ƫ. !./ēƫ

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By CHARLES BERNSEN Federation’s young adult group). There were a dozen volunteer judges eva and Gene Heller decid- – after all, you can only eat so much hot ed to err on the side of cau- chicken – including Good Ol’ Boy Mike, tion when choosing which the producer and host of the podcast samples to taste during the Sips, Suds & Smokes. second annual Nashville The grand prize – a new $150 deep Kosher Hot Chicken fryer – went AZchArif (Hebrew for “how RFestival last month at the Gordon Jewish hot”), a team representing AZA Athens Community Center. Good thing. of the South, the local BBYO youth group “I’m eating the mild but it tastes for boys. Holy Flock, a team representing very hot,” said Gene. “Maybe when I was Congregation Sherith Israel, won the top younger it might have been mild.” prize for the best mild version of hot “We’re too old to eat the hot,” chicken, and 613 Degrees won the award chimed in Reva. for the best hot version (and for most cre- Mild or hot, the competitors in the fes- ative name). The People’s Choice Award tival’s hot chicken-cooking contest handed went to the Hebrenero Peppers. out north of 70 pounds of the deep-fried, For Michael Wolf, head chef for mouth-scorching, sweat-inducing treat that Holy Flock, the win validated what has has become Nashville’s culinary trademark. become a culinary obsession. And that doesn’t count the meals sold “I love hot chicken, and I’ve been by the two pro vendors from Bolton’s working on a hot chicken recipe for a Spicy Chicken & Fish and Slow Burn Hot year a half,” he said. “So this is a dream Chicken who didn’t compete. come true for me.” Organized last year by a group of four In order to ensure that the food was friends, the hot chicken event is part of kosher, organizers provided the teams the burgeoning phenomenon of kosher – as well as the two non-competing food festivals and cooking competitions vendors – with all of the ingredients and that have become a way for American utensils, including the fryers. Jews to express their Jewish identities The weather was sunny and unusual- while participating in a distinctively ly warm for early November, and Stuart American cultural form. Wiston, one of the founding organizers, This year’s festival, sponsored by the estimated attendance over the course of GJCC and underwritten by the Jewish the three-hour festival at 500, almost Federation of Nashville and Middle double last year’s inaugural festival. Tennessee, added live music and, more “It’s been a great event,” Wiston important, an actual cooking competi- said. “We went from no competition last tion featuring seven teams with names year to seven teams this year. Next year I like 613 Degrees (representing West End expect we’ll have 15 or 20. Others cities Synagogue) and the Hebrenero Peppers have already said they want to come to Robert Kashani was one of the chefs for the Hebrenero Peppers, which took the prize (representing NowGen Nashville, the for best booth at the second annual Kosher Hot Chicken Festival. (Photos by Charles Bernsen) the next one.” •

Judges Jason Sparks (center) and Good Ol’ Boy Mike (right) of the Sips, Suds & Smokes podcast sample some of the hot hot chicken under the watchful eye of Stuart Wiston, one of the festivals founders and organizers.

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you saw their ad here! Members of Holy Flock cheer the announcement that they won the prize for best mild hot chicken.

14 December 2016 The Observer Global Day lesson: Studying Torah together “gets everyone involved in the game” By CHARLES BERNSEN End Rabbi Joshua Kullock joined by Rabbis Epstein, Rice and Finkelstein. isiting scholar Rabba The moderator was West End President Yaffa Epstein began the Barbara Dab. lunch-and-learn ses- Rabba Epstein’s visit to Nashville sion during last month’s was underwritten by Libby and Moshe Global Day of Jewish Werthan. Global Day partners includ- Learning event in ed Akiva School, the Gordon Jewish VNashville by asking everyone to engage Community Center and the GJCC in 12 minutes of chavruta, the tradi- Early Childhood Learning Center, tional rabbinic mode of Talmudic study Jewish Family Service, NowGen in which a pair of students read and Nashville, Get Connected, PJ Library, discuss a particular text together. Vanderbilt Hillel, Congregation Beit In this case she wanted them to Tefilah Chabad, Congregation Micah consider a passage from the Babylonian and the Micah Children’s Academy, Talmud in which the rabbinic sages Congregation Sherith Israel, The consider the question: Which is great- Temple-Congregation Ohabai Sholom er, learning or action, Torah study or and The Temple Preschool, West righteous action? The passage con- End Synagogue, B’nai B’rith Youth cludes, “Everyone answered that learn- Organization (BBYO), Chabad Jewish ing is greater because learning brings Student Center at Vanderbilt University, you to action.” Hadassah Nashville Chapter, National The word “everyone” is the key, said Visiting scholar Rabba Yaffa Epstein speaks to about 140 people during the plenary Council of Jewish Women Nashville Rabba Epstein, director of education in session of the Global Day of Jewish Learning event at West End Synagogue. Her pre- sentation focused on Talmudic passages exploring the moral implications of the Biblical Chapter, B’nai B’rith Social Unit and North America for the Pardes Institute concept that each human being is created in the image of God. (Photos by Charles Bernsen) B’nai B’rith Maimonides Lodge #46. • of Jewish Learning in Jerusalem. “Torah study gets everyone involved to nature – ruler, steward and servant in the game,” she said “One of the ways – while another led by Rabbi Aaron it brings us to action is through the cre- Finkelstein of Congregation Sherith ation of community.” Israel examined the implications of shmi- She might have been talking spe- ta, the “Sabbath year” during which Jews cifically about the annual Global Day are to let their land to lie fallow. of Jewish Learning itself, which Dr. Frank Boehm, vice chair brought together thousands of of obstetrics and gynecology at Jews in hundreds of places Vanderbilt Medical School, around the world on Nov. 20 led a discussion about what to study the same sacred texts. the rabbinic view about Among them were 140 people whether the source of med- who gathered at West End ical healing is human or Synagogue for Nashville’s divine. Risa Klein Herzog, Global Day event, which was development director for the sponsored for the fifth year in row Jewish Foundation of Nashville by The Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee, moderated a and Middle Tennessee. discussion about “planting seeds” for The local event began with a ple- the Jewish community’s future, and nary presentation led by Rabba Epstein Federation Executive Director Mark S. that picked up on the Global Day theme Freedman led a session that examined – Under the Same Sky: “The Earth is the role of rain, both positive and nega- Rabbi Phil Lieberman leads a discussion about “Green Torah Wisdom,” one of six Full of Your Creations – by focusing on tive, on human existence. breakout sessions on the Global Day theme: Under the Same Sky: “The Earth is Full of the ethical implications of the Biblical After the kosher lunch session led by Your Creations.” pronouncement that every human being Rabba Epstein came a new feature for the is created in the image of God. local Global Day lineup – a series of five- That was followed by six breakout to seven-minute “TextTalks” by Jack discussion led by local moderators, each Simon, director of children’s program- focusing on a topic related to the Global ming at the Gordon Jewish Community Day theme. Rabbi Phil Lieberman, also Center; Dorie Bolze of the Harpeth River a professor of Jewish studies and law at Watershed Association; Diana Sullivan Vanderbilt University, moderated a ses- of the U.S. National Co-Housing Board; sion that looked at the “green wisdom” Abbie Wolf, Federation director of com- in the Torah. A group led by Shlomo munity relations, and Rabbi Laurie Rice Rothstein, director of the Chabad House of Congregation Micah. at Vanderbilt, discussed humankind’s The day ended with a roundtable sometimes contradictory roles in regard discussion – Meet the Rebs – with West Dine-In, Carry Out Catering Remember We Have Potato Latkes and Many Other Delicious Menu Items of Hanukkah...

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About 140 people attended the Global Day event in Nashville. Here they participate in chavruta, the traditional rabbinic mode of Torah study, during a lunch-and-learn session led by Rabba Epstein. The Observer December 2016 15 Theh New York Times

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Linda and JJ Amsel Take this Opportunity to Wish the Entire Nashville Community Hag Hanukkah Sameach. As we light the candles together may it hasten the coming of the Messiah to Israel.

16 December 2016 The Observer Coming back from broken leg, Info meeting set for Dec. 4 Nashville teen will run for Team USA on 2017 at the 2017 Maccabiah Games in Israel Maccabi Games

By ANDREW SCHULMAN next July. Among them is at least one n information session for other Nashville area resident, 25-year-old Nashville area teenagers wo years ago, Tyler Jacobs Maren Angus of Henderson, who will be interested in competing of Nashville was getting playing first base on the U.S. women’s in the JCC Maccabi ready to drive from his softball team. Games next year in summer camp in Northern For Jacobs, whose family are mem- Birmingham will be at Wisconsin to the bers of The Temple, it has been a long A1 p.m. Sunday, Dec. 4 at the Gordon Milwaukee, where he was road back from the devastating leg injury Jewish Community Center. Tto compete in the JCC Maccabi Games, that sidelined him two years ago. Sitting Those who attend will hear from the national Olympics-style competition in wheelchair and wearing a big smile, he Andrew Schulman, the GJCC sports for Jewish youth. was at the airport to greet his teammates and recreation director, as well as past Then heartbreak struck. Well, actu- when they returned from Milwaukee. Maccabi participants and their families. ally, something broke – his leg – during Then he spent months in rehab. The annual Olympic-style event a water skiing accident just three days His patience and determination paid allows thousands of North American before the opening ceremonies. Jacobs off. This year Jacobs was a member of Jewish youth between the ages of 13 was devastated at losing the chance to USN’s city champion track team. In the and 16 to compete in dozens of team help his team win the gold in flag football state championships, he placed third in and individual sports. Next year’s games that had eluded them a few years earlier his division in the long jump and also ran will be from Sunday, July 30 through when they settled for silver. the anchor leg the school’s 4x100-meter Friday, Aug. 4. The teenagers are hosted Jacobs will get a shot to compete in relay team, which holds the Nashville by local Jewish families and, aside from an even bigger Jewish sports arena next record in that event. athletic completion, participate in a year as a member of the U.S. track team Being familiar with the international morning of local community service, that will be taking part in the 20th qua- Maccabiah Games through his participa- “JCC Cares,” as well as planned social drennial Maccabiah Games in Israel. tion in the JCC national sports competi- events. They also spend one night with “This is such a special experience. tion, Tyler applied to be part of the U.S. their host families checking out the sites It will be my first time in Israel, so track team. He waited six months for of the host city. that’s exciting,” said Jacobs, a 17-year-old an answer after the committee extended For more information contact junior at University School of Nashville the application process to cast a larger Schulman at [email protected]. • who is active in the local BBYO chapter web for other applicants. He received and serves on the regional BBYO council. the letter last month welcoming his to Tyler Jacobs of Nashville competes in Competing in the long jump – and the team. the long jump for University School of Learn more about the Jewish possibly some sprint events – Jacobs will “Just being able to compete is great Nashville. The 17-year-old junior will be Federation of Nashville join more than 75,000 Jewish athletes because a year ago I wasn’t sure I would a member of the U.S. men’s track team and Middle Tennessee at the 2017 Maccabiah Games in Israel, at www.jewishnashville.org from 75 countries will be taking part in be able to walk again, much less compete competing in the long jump and possibly 42 sports over the course of three weeks in track,” Jacobs said. • some sprint events.

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18 December 2016 The Observer Pareve Nutella, Passover s’mores among new foods at Kosherfest By JOSEFIN DOLSTEN product, are made with imported Alaskan pollock. Berlin said they taste very close SECAUCUS, N.J. (JTA) — At to the real deal. Kosherfest, the world’s largest kosher “It has such a beautiful, rich, seafood trade show, Yiddish and Hebrew is heard flavor and a texture, a mouthfeel, that alongside English. Some 6,000 kosher- really simulates the real thing,” he said. food insiders packed the massive hall, chatting, networking and tasting samples. Pareve Nutella The annual two-day expo, held last Kosher-keeping chocoholics know month at the Meadowlands Exposition the pain of overly sweet pareve (non- Center here, is a food mecca for those who dairy) chocolate-hazelnut spreads that observe Jewish dietary laws. Among the lack the richness of Nutella — and never more than 325 exhibitors were vendors quite hit the spot. touting everything from the kosher staples But this new Italian-produced — beef salami, latkes and Israeli wines spread — tapped the best new product at — to new and unexpected foods, such as Kosherfest — is a game changer. Parvella a line of Korean products. CEO Gabriele Zarrugh worked for two Here are some exciting and unique years to develop the spread, saying he was kosher products that are new to the mar- motivated by the desire to make a delicious ket or will be hitting stores soon. kosher product that was accessible to those Parvella, a non-dairy form version of Nutella, was named best new produce at with dietary restrictions. Parvella is gluten, Kosherfest Passover s’mores and pizza kits dairy, egg, peanut and palm-oil free. Manischewitz is launching a line do-it-yourself food kits: matzah s’mores sat around and thought about what fun of matzah-themed treats that will make and matzah pizza. items can we come up with for Passover Marzipan rugelach from Israel Passover a bit more fun for kids — and “This year at Manischewitz, it’s all that would get kids engaged in Passover.” The Marzipan shop in Jerusalem’s maybe adults, too. Before Passover begins about kids,” the company’s president and The s’mores kit, which won Mahane Yehuda market has been for in April, the company will introduce two CEO, David Sugarman, told JTA. “We Kosherfest’s award for best new kosher- decades nearly as much of a tourist desti- for-Passover product, comes with all the nation as the Western Wall. necessary ingredients — mini matzahs, Once you’re in the shuk, the bakery chocolate and marshmallows. The pizza isn’t hard to locate. The rugelach’s sweet, kit contains just triangle-shaped matzah chocolatey scent wafts its way through the and sauce; moms and dads must provide market, enticing visitors to pay a visit and the cheese and any other toppings. buy a pastry — or maybe 10. “We think there’s going to be a lot Now the rugelach is available for of adults with kids that are going to be purchase in the United States The chief sneaking these items while their kids are marketing officer for M Bakeries, its dis- off at school,” Sugarman said. tributor in America, said the company was inspired to get on board after learn- Faux-crab cakes ing that Americans would bring home Dyna Sea is a pro in the world of suitcases full of the pastry from Israel. imitation shellfish — “surimi,” as it is “[T]hey got so addicted to this called in Japanese — having been in particular rugelach that is consid- business for nearly 20 years. The kosher ered the best in the world,” Milton food company even has Japanese con- Weinstock said. sumers buying its products, according to The rugelach, which is made accord- owner Daniel Berlin. ing to a secret family recipe, is best served These imitation crab cakes, which warm, according to the person working won Kosherfest’s best new frozen-food the Marzipan booth. • Warm Welcome for Jewish Newcomers

More than 50 people were on hand for a recent reception for Jewish newcomers Among those at the reception were newcomer Matt Stein (from left), Sophie to Nashville at the home of Linda and Lenny Sisselman. The event was part of the Rapoport, newcomers Caroline Voisine and Dana Heyman, newcomer-turned-Wel- ongoing Welcoming Ambassadors program of the Jewish Federation of Nashville coming Ambassador Marissa Wertheimer, and Rabbi Joshua Barton of West End and Middle Tennessee, which pairs newcomers with community members who Synagogue. have volunteered to help them ease into Jewish life in Nashville. (Photos by Barbara Schwarcz) The Observer December 2016 19 Happy Holidays and A Big Thank You To All Our Advertisers Who Support Us Throughout The Year! The Observer Publisher ...... Mark S . Freedman Editor...... Charles Bernsen Advertising Manager...... Carrie Mills Graphic Design/Production...... Tim Gregory

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20 December 2016 The Observer 5 of Leonard Cohen’s most Jewish songs

By BEN SALES Now I’ve heard there was a secret chord The Story of Isaac That David played, and it pleased the One of Cohen’s more obscure songs (JTA) – Leonard Cohen, who died Lord is a retelling of the sacrifice of Isaac. last month at the age of 82, was one of But you don’t really care for music, do Speaking from Isaac’s perspective, the the most explicitly Jewish popular song- you? song questions the morality of the story: writers since King David, whose Psalms Cohen’s compositions emulated over a The second verse melds two Biblical You who stand above them now five-decade career. stories. It opens with the story of David Your hatchets blunt and bloody Cohen was the grandson of two seeing Batsheva, his future wife, bathing You were not there before distinguished Canadian rabbis, one of on a rooftop, and ends with imagery of When I lay upon a mountain whom helped found many of Montreal’s her tying him down and cutting his hair And my father’s hand was trembling central Jewish and Zionist institutions. — an allusion to Samson and Delilah. With the beauty of the word. The other, who wrote a thesaurus of the And if you call me brother now Talmud, was known as “Sar HaDikdukim,” Who by Fire Forgive me if I inquire the Prince of Grammarians. Another of Cohen’s most well- Just according to whose plan Even after becoming a practicing known songs, “Who by Fire” is an adap- When it all comes down to dust Buddhist, Cohen never stopped thinking tation of “Unetaneh Tokef,” the central I will kill you if I must of himself as a Jew, telling an inter- High Holiday prayer. The prayer’s verses I will help you if I can. viewer, “I’m not looking for new reli- narrate the Day of Judgment, describing Leonard Cohen performs at a 2009 con- gion. I’m quite happy with the old one, the various ways people will live, die, cert in Ramat Gan, Israel. (Photo courtesy of If It Be Your Will with Judaism.” But he was ecumenical in succeed and suffer over the coming year. Marko/Flash90) This song’s title is a translation of his range of subjects and references. Cohen adapts the language almost word- “Ken Yehi Ratzon,” a Hebrew liturgical Cohen’s first hit, “Suzanne,” speaks for-word: Isaac, as well as the name of a prayer phrase directed to God. The song is also of a famous Jew, Jesus, saying, “he himself of preparation and humility, addressed addressed to God, and includes lyrics was broken, long before the sky would And who by fire, who by water to God, chanted by the cantor on Rosh evoking imagery of nature from Kabbalat open. Forsaken, almost human, he sank who in the sunshine, who in the night time Hashanah. And a recurring verse echoes Shabbat, the Friday evening prayer ser- beneath your wisdom like a stone.” who by high ordeal, who by common trial the language of the Kaddish, the mourn- vice welcoming Shabbat: Cohen, a master of language, saturat- who in your merry, merry month of May er’s prayer. ed his lyrics with the Biblical imagery and who by very slow decay If it be your will Jewish liturgy he knew intimately. His and who shall I say is calling? Magnified, sanctified be thy holy name If there is a choice songs adapted well known Jewish prayers Vilified, crucified in the human frame Let the rivers fill and retold Judaism’s central stories. Here You Want It Darker A million candles burning for a help that Let the hills rejoice. are five of his most Jewish songs: One of Cohen’s last songs, “You Want never came It Darker,” was released in September, You want it darker, we kill the flame. We’ll miss you, Leonard. • Hallelujah and in it, Cohen talks about preparing Covered dozens of times, Cohen’s for death. The very Jewish lyrics include most famous song is an explicit allusion a chorus in which Cohen says, “Hineni, to the Psalms and stories from the Jewish I’m ready my Lord.” Hineni, Hebrew for prophets, from King David to Samson. “here I am,” is the word Abraham uses to The song opens: respond to God when called to sacrifice

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(JTA) — Ewan McGregor has spent the past two decades building a consid- erable reputation as an actor. Starting with his brilliant portrayal of heroin addict Mark Renton in “Trainspotting,” he has starred in well-received indepen- dent films such as “Salmon Fishing in Yemen” as well as blockbusters like the three “Star Wars” prequels, where he portrayed the young Obi-Wan Kenobi. Now McGregor is proving the old Hollywood adage that every actor really just wants to direct. And for his move behind the camera, he has picked a project that might daunt even the most Ewen McGregory on the set of the film “American Pastoral,” experienced director: He’s adapting a which is based on the Philip Roth novel. (Photos by Richard Foreman) Ewen McGregor stars as Swede Levov in “American Pastoral.” Philip Roth novel for the screen. “American Pastoral,” based on the But it wasn’t to be. His daughter, another interview] that the Swede is not which includes four daughters ranging in Pulitzer-Prize winning novel of the same Merry (played as a teenager by Dakota my first Jewish character,” McGregor age from 5 to 20. Each of the older three name, will be the eighth movie made of Fanning), is a stutterer with emotion- said. “I played Jesus in “Last Days in the have had a bat mitzvah. Roth’s work — nearly all of which have al problems. She becomes radicalized, Desert.’” Perhaps because he himself is not been critically panned and commer- plants bombs that kill three people and It raises the issue of how comfort- Jewish, McGregor took extra care with cial failures. “Goodbye Columbus” was is forced to go underground. The Levov able he was playing a Jewish character. Jewish tradition in the film, a touch he the exception, achieving both critical family disintegrates just as the nation Very comfortable, it turns out. added at the movie’s denouement. and commercial success on its release around it erupts into riots, violent “I’m married to a Jewish woman,” “I wanted the Mourner’s Kaddish at in 1969. More recently, “Indignation” demonstrations and domestic terrorism. he said of wife Eve Mavrakis. “My chil- the end of the film [at Swede’s burial],” received positive notices, but failed to McGregor said he was familiar with dren are Jewish and we brought them he said. “It was not of great importance gain traction with audiences. several other Roth novels but did not up as such. It is sort of the only religious to him, but I think it’s part of what Roth And if that wasn’t tough enough, read “American Pastoral” until after he experience I’ve ever had, so I was very was exploring, if we can turn our backs in addition to directing, McGregor also had been offered the script. He agreed proud to be telling this story since half on who we are.” plays the lead role of Seymour Levov to the role, but as often happens in my family is Jewish.” “American Pastoral” opened in 15 — a handsome, goyish-looking Jewish Hollywood, years went by and nothing McGregor said he attends syna- cities across the country on Oct. 21 and athlete-turned-successful businessman happened. gogue from time to time with his family, nationally in the following weeks. • known as the Swede. “We got close to the film disappear- Yet none of this deterred the ing, so I threw myself into the mix and 45-year-old Scottish-born actor. offered to direct,” he said. “I didn’t think it was dangerous at McGregor threw himself into the Opinion the time,” McGregor said. “I thought book, reading and rereading portions John Romano’s script was beautifully every day. He listened to Ron Silver’s written and got right to the heart of the audio recording while driving. “My goal story … And if you’re going to start was to sop it up and sear the book into your directing career based on a novel, my soul,” he said. why not make it an amazing novel?” And he largely succeeded. While letters to the editor “American Pastoral” is considered some might disagree with what he put Dear editor, at JFS for several reasons. The first is among the best of Roth’s works. In addi- in and what he left out, McGregor cap- When I passed my 15 year anniver- because it warms my heart when people tion to winning the Pulitzer, it made tured the book’s essence — that nothing sary at Jewish Family Service, I began make a contribution to JFS in my honor Time magazine’s list of the 100 greatest is what it seems, that beneath the seem- to reflect on what my experience has so I wanted to give people a way to do novels of all time. ing tranquility of postwar American life been like working as a non-Jewish social just that. The second is that I wanted Like some other novels by Roth, simmered anger, subterfuge and lies. worker in a Jewish community. to set an example for my daughter and the book is narrated by his alter ego, He also elicits extraordinary per- The Jewish community has been give her something to be proud of. I Nathan Zuckerman, and is centered formances from his cast, particularly good to me in many ways. They accept- hope that one day my grandchildren will on American and Jewish identity. Fanning, whose emotional turmoil and its ed me as an “honorary tribe member” contribute to my fund and remember the Zuckerman returns to Newark, New impact on her family is heartbreaking. right away. As a single person in a good work I have been able to do at JFS. Jersey for his 45th high school reunion But not everyone is impressed — town without any family, I gained many The third reason is that I care about the to discover that the Swede, his best recent reviews have ranged from tepid Jewish mothers looking after me and services that JFS provides and I want it friend’s larger-than-life big brother, has to damning. The response from critics giving me advice along the way. And to continue for many years. just died. following the premiere at the Toronto when I adopted my daughter, Anna I named my fund the Toni The Swede had seemed destined International Film Festival in September Kate, she inherited many bubies to love Jacobsen, Psalm 103.2, Greatest Need for greatness: He was a multi-sport star, was decidedly mixed, most often suggest- and care for her. She has grown up sur- Fund. Psalm 103.2 reminds us to “never a Marine Corps officer and heir to the ing his direction was uninspired. rounded by this community and the love forget a single blessing.” My family will family’s Newark glove factory. Over The reviews may be part of the rea- it has to share with us. contribute to the fund to honor the the objections of his father, he marries son McGregor so actively promoted the Jewish Family Service is behind blessings we have received from this Dawn (Jennifer Connelly), a former film before its opening in October — the good work I do. It is has given me community. Anna Kate and I would beauty queen who was not Jewish. he made the rounds these days on TV the flexibility and creativity to meet like to say thank you to the entire com- “Perfect wife, perfect house, perfect with appearances on “The Today Show,” the needs of my clients and the greater munity for embracing both of us and for baby,” Zuckerman (David Strathairn) “Jimmy Kimmel Live!” and the like. community in a way that I would not be sharing your love with us. narrates. “Something was smiling down He’s been talking to the press, too able to if I was at another social service on him. This is the way I always thought — sometimes with unexpected results. agency. I love that I can go the extra Toni Jacobsen it would be for him. He was the Swede.” “I was reminded this morning [in mile for my clients. It is important to me that the work of the agency contin- Toni Jacobsen has been a clinical To access the Community Calendar, ues for many years to come. social worker with Jewish Family Service of I decided to create a named fund Nashville since 2000. go to www.jewishnashville.org and click on “Calendar.” Submisson Policy The Observer accepts original opinion pieces and letters from Nashville area resi- dents on topics of interest to the Jewish community as long as they have not been published or submitted for publication elsewhere. Submissions should be sent by The Observer is online at the 15th of the month prior to publication to Editor Charles Bernsen at charles@ jewishnashville.org or 801 Percy Warner, Suite 102, Nashville 37205. The Observer www.jewishobservernashville.org reserves the right edit all submissions for clarity, length and style.

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He plans to The family would like to acknowl- faith, and was consistently involved in Jaden Kaufman Levin will be called partner with The Temple preschool to edge and thank Martha Morrow, Frances local Jewish activities and causes. to the Torah as a bar collect gently worn Halloween costumes Phillips, Mary Neely, Julia Jones, and The funeral was on Nov. 11 at West mitzvah at 9:30 a.m. to donate “dress up” clothes to the chil- Deborah Armstrong, the dedicated caregiv- End Synagogue will burial in KKAI ceme- Saturday, Dec. 10 at dren’s classrooms. ers during the last two years of Gerald’s life. tery. Those who wish to make a donation West End Synagogue. in his memory are asked to consider three Jaden is the son of … to the family and friends of worthy causes that touched his life: The Daniel and Kristine Sympathy Sandra ‘Sandy’ Rosenblum Averbuch, Tennessee Holocaust Commission, Safe Levin. His grandpar- 72, who died on Nov. 3. Haven Museum, and West End Synagogue … to the family and friends of ents are Alan Levin and She was preceded in death by a son, Gerald Averbuch, 94, who died Oct. 19 Marilyn Levin, both of Jaden Jonathan, and her parents, Sidney and …to the family and friends of Judith at Richland Place in Nashville. Hollywood FL; Richard Kaufman Elizabeth Rosenblum. She is survived by ‘Judy’ Margaret Cram who died in Levin Gerald was preceded in death by and Pat Kimberley of Larry Averbuch, her beloved husband of 50 Nashville, Nov. 11 at the age of 66. his daughter, Helaine ‘Laine’ Fuldauer; Scottsbluff, NE, and the late Lois H. years; son, Sam Averbuch (Jessica); daugh- Judy is survived by her husband, Ronald son-in-law, Paul Michael, M.D.; broth- Kimberley, may her memory be a blessing. ter, Cynthia Albin (Seth) of St. Louis; four Soltman, and children, Daniel Soltman, er, Sydney Averbuch, and sister-in-law, Jaden, an Akiva School graduate, grandchildren, Toby and Dustin Averbuch Sarah Soltman and Joel Soltman. Juliet Averbuch. is a seventh grader at Grassland Middle and Sydney and Ethan Albin; brother, Jerry Judy was born in 1950 in Minneapolis His survivors include Blossom School, where he is a straight-A student, Rosenblum (Ellen Sherberg) of St. Louis; to Yetta and Leo Cram as the fourth of Averbuch, his beloved wife of 70 years; and enjoys the coding club. In his spare brother-in-law, Jerry Averbuch (Arlene), five siblings. She graduated from the son, Mark Averbuch (Shelley); daughter, time, Jaden enjoys being an active mem- and sister-in-law, Shirley Zeitlin. University of Michigan in 1972 with a Susan Michael; son-in-law, Larry Fuldauer; ber of Boy Scout Troop 135 and spending Sandy was born on Aug. 7, 1944 degree in mathematics and from New six grandchildren, Adam Michael, Brooke time with his family and friends. Jaden in Nashville and remained a resident York University in 1976 with a law Michael Kain (Will), Jared Averbuch has relished his time preparing for his bar here throughout her life. She graduat- degree. As a lawyer, Judy worked for (Mackenzie), Jeff Fuldauer, Kacey mitzvah with Rabbi Joshua Kullock, Rabbi ed from Peabody Demonstration School the firm Reid and Priest in New York Fuldauer Millard (Tony), and Cutler Josh Barton, and Sharon Paz, director of and received a bachelor’s degree from City, where she met Ron, and then she Averbuch (Liza); six great-grandchildren; lifelong learning. the University of Michigan. She later joined Chase Manhattan Bank in 1978. niece, Shirley Zeitlin, and nephews, Jerry For his mitzvah project, Jaden drew received a master’s in social work from Judy married Ron in 1980, and then she Averbuch and Larry Averbuch. on his passion for reading and spent Tennessee State University. moved to Nashville to join him to start A lifelong resident of Nashville, 12 weeks working in partnership with Sandy married Larry Averbuch in a family. In Nashville, she worked for Gerald graduated from West End High Gigi’s Playhouse in Brentwood. Gigi’s 1966 and joined him while he prac- Commerce Union Bank and its successor School and Vanderbilt University, where is an achievement center where kids ticed as a dentist in the U.S. Army in banks, including Bank of America. he served as president of his college fresh- and young adults with Down syndrome Savannah, TN and then Panama. She Judy had a passion for helping others. man class and fraternity. After graduation, take part in educational and therapeu- raised her children, Cynthia, Samuel and Whether volunteering for the foster care he enlisted in the U.S. Naval Reserve tic programs that help them maximize Jonathan, then pursued a career in social review board, tutoring math at Nashville during World War II, serving on sea duty self-confidence and achieve their greatest work at Family and Children Services of State Community College or teaching in both the Atlantic and Pacific theaters potential. Jaden spent his time helping a Tennessee and Gilda’s Club. English to recent immigrants, Judy always and attaining the rank of lieutenant. 10-year-old learn to read. Sandy was deeply committed to Jewish tried to make the world a better place. After the war, Gerald became a lead- life. She immersed herself in Jewish edu- In keeping with Judy’s wishes, there er in the Nashville real estate commu- Asher Stephen Rice will be called to cation and dedicated herself to service was no funeral or memorial service. nity. His projects included subdivisions, the Torah a bar mitzvah at and leadership in Jewish organizations Donations in her honor can be made to motels and apartments in Nashville, Congregation Micah on including West End Synagogue, the Jewish the ALS Association. Knoxville, and Huntsville, AL. Gerald Dec. 10 at Congregation Federation and Foundation of Nashville was a founder and chief financial offi- Micah. Asher is the and Middle Tennessee, and Akiva School. … to the family and friends of Sylvia cer of General Care Corporation, an son of Rabbis Philip She served as president of Jewish Federation Norma Ostrow, 97, who died on Oct. acute care hospital company listed on “Flip” and Laurie Rice, and Akiva School and chaired the Jewish 30. Born and raised in Nashville, she the New York Stock Exchange. General the grandson of Dr. Foundation committee. In 2012, she was later lived in Englewood, NJ and Fort Care merged with Hospital Corporation Thomas and Audrey the first recipient of the Jewish Federation’s Lauderdale, FL. She was preceded in of America in 1980. Rice, Larry and Sue Asher Stephen highest honor, the President’s Award. death by her parents, Walter and Goldye Rice After the merger, Gerald enjoyed Hochberg, and Stephen Sandy will be missed by her family Goldstein, and her husband, Norman a long retirement in Ft. Lauderdale, FL Neuman (z’;l), and the brother of Shai and many friends. They will lovingly Ostrow (deceased). She is survived by two and subsequently Amelia Island, FL. He (14) and Eden (10). remember her love of shopping, painting, children, Andrew Ostrow of Miami Beach pursued his many hobbies, including golf, A former Akiva School student, reading, volunteering and spending time and Sally Kolitz Russell of South Miami; lap swimming, fishing and playing master Asher is currently a seventh grader at the with her grandchildren. The community her sister, Joyce Faye of Nashville; three bridge. Gerald was a member of Coral University School of Nashville. He loves will remember Sandy’s strong values and grandchildren, Brent Kolitz, Meredith Ridge Country Club in Ft. Lauderdale sports of all kinds, especially basketball, commitment to living a Jewish life. Kristall and David Ostrow; four great and Hillwood Country Club in Nashville. football, soccer, lacrosse, and golf. He Services were on Nov. 6 at The grandchildren, and three nephews. Gerald was active in the Nashville enjoys spending time with his family and Temple followed by burial at West End Sylvia was a realtor and a travel civic and philanthropic community. He looks forward to the summer months Cemetery. Pallbearers were her nieces agent, who worked in the travel field was vice president of the Metropolitan when he reunites with his buddies from and nephews. well into her 80s. She traveled the world, Nashville YMCA Foundation and received Camp Barney Medintz in Georgia. A Donations in Sandy’s memory may be from Siberia to Easter Island, and these the YMCA Member of the Year award. natural mensch, he is excited to read made to Jonathan Averbuch’s fund at the travels were truly her passion. He played an integral role in the estab- from the Torah, lead his community in Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Sylvia recently celebrated her 97th lishment of the Owen Graduate School Shabbat prayer, and revel in being sur- Tennessee, 801 Percy Warner Blvd., birthday with her family. Contributions of Management at Vanderbilt University, rounded by loved ones. Nashville, 37205, or to Gilda’s Club, 1707 in her memory can be made to the where he served on the initial steering The Rice family invites everyone to Division Street, Nashville, TN, 37203. Elephant Sanctuary in Hohenwald, committee and was fundraising co-chair for share in this simcha. Tennessee (www.elephants.com). • the Owen building. He was awarded the … to the family and friends of Eric Associates Chair for outstanding service Joseph Dattilo will be called to the (Yosef ben Chaim) Rosenfeld, who to Vanderbilt. He also co-founded the Crossword solution Torah as a bar mitzvah escaped Nazi Germany in 1941 and died        
   endowment fund of the Jewish Federation          at 11 a.m. on Dec. 3 peacefully of natural causes on Nov. 7 at    of Nashville and Middle Tennessee and       at The Temple. Joseph the age of 91.    later served as its chairman.       was born in Nashville Eric is survived by his wife, Eva 
   Gerald was a member of the boards       on Dec. 8, 2003. His Ruth, his four children, David Rosenfeld       
 and executive committees of the Jewish          parents are Jeffery (Anne), Vera Feldman (Jess), Emily     Federation and the Gordon Jewish    and Karen Dattilo. Collier (Craig) and Ken Rosenfeld      Community Center. He was a found-   
   His grandparents are (Debby), as well as seven grandchildren:       Joseph Dattilo ing member of Congregation Micah     Richard and Rosalyn Tamara Rosenfeld, Julie Feldman Algiere       and served on its board. Gerald also   
   Slifka of Boston. (Steve), Will Feldman, Nathan Collier       served on the boards of The Temple and    Joseph is in the seventh grade at (Amy), Eli Collier, Ryan Rosenfeld and      Woodmont Country Club. He chaired    
 Montgomery Bell Academy in Nashville. Zack Rosenfeld. His only brother, Herbert,      the tourist and visitation committee of       He enjoys playing drums in a rock band, died in Chicago in 2011, at age 89.        the Nashville Chamber of Commerce.   
rock climbing, swimming for fun and com- Eric was born in Seeheim, Germany.        Gerald will be remembered by his    petitively, biking, technology, hanging out After escaping from Nazi Germany, he
     
24 December 2016 The Observer Life in Israel around the town BBYO alumni happy Parents are invited to come and stay Anglos and Arabs while their child is participating in the hour set for Dec. 28 class. Please RSVP to Sheri Rosenberg at By LIBBY WERTHAN about 6:30 a.m. Why so early? She want- [email protected]. ed to get to the checkpoint before the The Nashville BBYO chapter will s I have written previous- crowd and because she cleaned the house hold happy hour for alumni of all ages ly, it is difficult to find of one of our friends after ours. from 6-8 p.m. on Dec. 28 at Crow’s Nest Panel on inflamma- a more diverse country Christian Arabs face religious dis- in Green Hills. tory bowel diseases than little Israel; Eastern crimination, and the Christian Palestinian The cost is $18, which includes free Europeans, Yemenites, population in Bethlehem has dwindled. appetizers and a drink. set for Dec. 12 at Ethiopians, and many When there was violence or a sus- “This is a great way for alumni to the GJCC Amore. Presently, there pected threat, the checkpoints were come together and socialize with one is an increase in immi- closed and Norma could not come to another,” said Sheri Rosenberg, local The Gordon Jewish Community gration from Western work. Norma was a lovely woman and and regional BBYO director. “This is the Center will host a panel on inflammatory Europe, especially a good friend. She spoke four languages first time in many years that the local bowel diseases (IBD) next month as part France, as anti-Semitism – Arabic, Hebrew, English and French. community is bringing together past par- of a series on health and wellness. and violence escalates When we traveled and were away, some- ticipants of the program.” “IBD: What Everyone Needs to there. There are so many times more than a month, she had a key Those planning to attend are asked Know,” will be from 6-7:30 p.m. on Dec. different people, so many Libby and our alarm code and would look after to RSVP by Dec. 20 to Rosenberg at 12 and is free and open to the public. different languages and Werthan our home for us. Norma and I might [email protected]. The panel will include Dr. David A. cultures. I am devoting this article to two discuss the best way to cook a turkey, but Schwartz, a gastroenteroligist and pro- more: the Anglos and the Arabs. we never discussed politics. During tough fessor at Vanderbilt University Medical We were part of the Anglo (English- times, we would just shake our heads. GJCC will hold Center and director of its Inflammatory speaking) community. Most of our close When we were leaving the last time and Zumba sessions for Bowel Disease Center, and social worker friends were from America, Canada, had to say a final goodbye, neither of us Caitlin McGinnis. Australia, Great Britain and South could hold back the tears. special needs kids Known collectively as inflammatory Africa. Even within the Anglos, there The one population I have left out bowel diseases (IBD), Crohn’s disease are differences in accents and cultures. is that of the sabra, a Jew born in Israel. and teens and ulcerative colitis are painful, medi- I learned the proper way to prepare tea, That is a subject far too vast and complex The Gordon Jewish Community cally incurable conditions that attack the how to appreciate “football,” how to pal to tackle in an article. So in broad gener- Center will hold free Zumba classes from digestive system. around with lords and ladies, the best way alizations, I will say that over the 25 years 3-4 p.m. on Sunday, Dec. 4 for special They afflict about 1 in every 200 to protect yourself from the cold, miscel- that we lived there, I saw many chang- needs kids and teens ages 11-18. people, and American Jews of European laneous facts about kangaroos, the proper es in Israeli social behavior. When we This sessions is open to those of all descent (Ashkenazi) are four to five dress for the Ascot races and many others. first moved there, the behavior of clerks, abilities. Music City BBG, the local girls’ times more likely to develop IBD than We lived in what the locals call salespeople, even doctors, was sometimes chapter of BBYO, will be participating. the general population. “the Anglo Bubble,” an area in South abrupt, unpolished and off-putting. One Jerusalem where you can hear as much example was when we went to buy our English as Hebrew. The menus are writ- first car. The salesman sat behind a desk. ten in both languages (sometimes the We said we would like to buy a car. He To access the Community Calendar, English is written phonetically and is remained seated and asked which one we go to www.jewishnashville.org humorous). The clerks and waiters all wanted. We said we did not know and speak English. You can buy books in asked if we could test drive one and he and click on “Calendar.” English in the bookstore. There is even a looked at us like we were crazy. clinic with all English-speaking doctors. What we did not understand is that Most of the movies are in English. The for an Israeli to buy a car (or almost I lik e to come here, F ranz. As I ha ve for nearl Jerusalem Post is in English, the street anything, for that matter,) was a very big y twenty y ears no w. signs are in English, and there is an deal. Before they had walked into that And the rose bush Israeli news broadcast in English once showroom, they would know everything has tur ned into a lov ely little tree. a day (in addition to CNN, Star News, about every car on the market and they and BBC). There are even Fourth of would know exactly what they wanted. July parties and Thanksgiving dinners. What we took as rudeness was really the Nevertheless, the Anglos are a very way the way things were done. small part of the population. But all that has changed. Western A much larger part of the population culture has taken over. The salespeo- of Jerusalem are Israel’s Arabs. Many are ple are as smooth as car salesmen in Israeli citizens and live in Israel prop- American (maybe even smoother). The er; others come in each day from the society has become more sophisticated, areas under the control of the Palestinian more customer-friendly. A government Authority. There are many Arab doctors worker or bank teller might still argue I never had suc h a g reen thumb as you did, F ranz. Probabl y you helped me there a and nurses in the two major hospitals, and with you over a detail, but if you look like there are Arab members of the Knesset you are tearing up, she (usually) will come little bit, don’t you think? And if one of the roots reac hes do wn to you, (Israel’s parliament). And while a minori- out from behind her desk and give you a then that means a little bit of you is in the blossoms and you can ty are professionals, most work in restau- hug. That trick got me through a lot of rants, factories, and the building industry, bureaucracy. see the summer every year. Most are Muslim; a few are Christian. Next time: Spirituality. • Our house cleaner, Norma, of bless- The people who r un the cemeter y said that the ros e bush can ed memory, was a Christian Arab from Libby Werthan and her husband, Bethlehem. I say of blessed memory Moshe, lived in Israel for 25 years before stay when the lease on the plot r uns out. because our memory of her is blessed, but returning in 2014 to their native Nashville. also we heard a few weeks ago that she “Life in Israel” is a regular column about had died suddenly. Norma worked for us what it was like living in the Jewish homeland. for about 20 years. She came every Friday Hebrew lettering included. 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