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SECTION I: INTRODUCTION TO ASTROLOGY 7
What is your sign? 8
Understanding Astrology 10
SECTION II: REVEALING THE WOMAN 19
Aries: The Ram 22
Taurus: The Bull 27
Gemini: The Twins 32
Cancer: The Crab 37
Leo: The Lion 41
Virgo: The Virgin 45
Libra: The Scales 50
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Scorpio: The Scorpion 54
Sagittarius: The Centaur 58
Capricorn: The Goat 63
Aquarius: The Water Bearer 68
Pisces: The Fishes 73
SECTION III: ASTROLOGY IN ACTION 77
Popping the Question 78
How to introduce Astrology into a conversation 79
About the author 85
✒ by Patrick Wanis www.patrickwanis.com
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WHAT’S YOUR SIGN? It’s regarded as one of the corniest pick up lines around: Hello, What’s your sign? In response, a woman will usually turn up her nose, scrunch her face, laugh, or walk away in disgust. Yes, asking what is your sign? is probably the worst opening line a guy could use with any female, regardless of her age or background.
So why dedicate an entire book to the study of the Zodiac signs?
At the appropriate time in a conversation, the answer to the question, “What’s your sign?” can give you a lot of information and insight about the woman with whom you are speaking. A clear understanding and knowledge of Astrology can reveal information about the women’s personality, characteristics and behavior. Mastery of the basics of Astrology is a powerful tool for reading a woman and knowing how to behave with her, how to please her, how to win her, and how to turn her on.
Regardless of whether you just met her or you are in a committed relationship, this book will help you to better understand your woman, her personality, her best and worst behavior and what she is like when in love and when in bed. You will learn what to expect from her, and techniques that will help you to better handle her and keep her happy. Of course, if you make her happy,
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In this book, I also teach you the basic Seduction Strategies and Turn Offs for each sign. So even if you are a married man, understanding and applying this book will help improve your marriage. (If you are a woman you may want to give this book as a gift to the man in your life so he can better understand and please you.)
And if you really want to show off, if you master this book, you will be able to meet a woman for the first time and accurately guess her sign within a few minutes of speaking with her.
At the very least, it makes for interesting and fun conversation and, you can impress a woman with your knowledge. And here is one more important revelation: women are very curious. Almost every woman loves to intently listen to a man talking to her about herself. After all, it is a rare occurrence for a man to give a woman such undivided attention!
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UNDERSTANDING ASTROLOGY
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WHAT IS ASTROLOGY? There are two main types of Astrology: Western and Chinese. (There is also Tibetan, Aztecan, Indian and Celtic Astrology.) For the purposes of this book, we will refer simply to Western Astrology. Also, there is a significant difference between Astrology and Daily Horoscopes.
Astrology is interpretation of the influence of heavenly bodies on human affairs. It is the study of the relationship between movements of the Sun, Moon and other planets of the Solar System and events and human behavior on Earth.
Horoscopes, on the other hand, are associated with predicting the future based on the positions of planets and signs of the Zodiac. Horoscopes predict a person's future, based on a diagram of the aspect of the planets and stars at a given moment, thus we have “Daily Horoscopes.”
In this book, I deal only with Astrology as it pertains to human behavior and characteristics.
HISTORY OF ASTROLOGY Entire and conflicting books have been written about the history of Astrology. Almost every ancient people had some system of examining the heavens for the purposes of predicting and foretelling the future. Western astrology has roots that stretch back into Greece, Egypt, Persia,
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Southern Europe and India. It is believed as early as 4000 BC Astrology began in Mesopotamia. The Sumerians built the enormous ziggurats, recognized by some historians as the first astrological observatories. The Sun, Moon and five visible planets were used, and Astrological knowledge was recorded on clay tablets.
Charting and modern Astrology began with the spread of ancient Hellenistic Greek thought and philosophy between 323 and 31 BC. In that time each area of the world practiced its own variation of Astrology. Then in the late Hellenic Greek period around 150 AD Ptolemy wrote The Tetrabiblos, the most comprehensive work on astrology to date. From there the study, development, and widespread acceptance of astrology prospered among the prominent philosophers of the day. Accordingly today’s modern individualized astrology sprung forth.
THE ZODIAC BAND There are twelve signs of the Zodiac Band. The Band is like an imaginary circle around Earth. It is divided into 12 parts, and each part has a name given to a 30-degree arc of the sky as viewed from the earth. As the earth moves around the Sun, the Sun is regarded as passing from one 30-degree arc to the next until it has completed its 360-degree journey in one year. Therefore a person’s birthday is used to determine the position of the Sun and accordingly his or her Zodiac sign. For example a
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ACCURACY The most common reference to Astrology is the position of the Sun at the time of your birth (i.e. your Sun Sign –Aries, Leo, Libra, etc.) The complete and more accurate analysis and reading involves place of birth, day and date of birth and time of birth. This complete birth chart then gives you the positions of the sun, moon and other planets, and thus, a more accurate reading.
YOUR SUN SIGN If you want to be able to use Astrology to your advantage, you first need to learn and memorize the Sun signs.
Aries March 21 - April 19 Taurus April 20 - May 20 Gemini May 21 - June 21 Cancer June 22 - July 22 Leo July 23 - August 22 Virgo August 23 - September 22 Libra September 23 - October 22 Scorpio October 23 - November 21 Sagittarius November 22 – Dec. 21 Capricorn December 22 - January 19
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Aquarius January 20 - February 18 Pisces February 19 - March 20
ASTROLOGY AND HUMAN BEHAVIOR Generally speaking, the description of behavior and characteristics in this book for each of the Sun signs will prove to be accurate. There are some variables though, sex, age, environment, upbringing and, of course, free will. For example, as a Leo, I have spent many years toning down my fiery temperament. Also, if a person is on the Cusp of a sign (at the end of one and beginning of the next) she will have certain characteristics of the next sign.
THE ELEMENTS The twelve signs are broken into four categories known as Elements –Fire, Earth, Air and Water. Each element has its own traits and characteristics. For example, Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces are all water elements. To understand the nature of those signs that belong to water, think of the fluidity and depth of water -receptivity, sensitivity and emotional depth.
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ELEMENT: FIRE Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
QUALITY: Positive -masculine -spontaneous and self- expressive
TRAITS: Think of fiery traits- ardor, spirit and spontaneity.
KEYWORDS: Lively, aggressive, dramatic, theatrical, demonstrative, intense, an initiator
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ELEMENT: EARTH Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn
QUALITY: Negative –feminine -withdrawn and passive
TRAITS: Think of down-to-earth qualities of stability, solidarity and practicality
KEYWORDS: Matter-of-fact, controlled, luxurious, possessive, steady, focused
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ELEMENT: AIR Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
QUALITY: Positive -masculine -spontaneous and self- expressive
TRAITS: Think of the power of wind: Free-flowing expression of communication and intellect
KEYWORDS: Lively mind, thought-oriented, experimental, poetic, intellectual, versatile
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ELEMENT: WATER Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
QUALITY: Negative –Feminine -withdrawn and passive
TRAITS: Think of the fluidity and depth of water - receptivity, sensitivity and emotional depth.
KEYWORDS: Intuitive, emotional, idealistic, sensitive, sentimental, spiritual
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APPLYING THE KNOWLEDGE The key to using Astrology to read a woman, understand her motivations and needs, and ultimately seduce her is to learn as much as possible about Astrology and memorize most of the information in this book. At the very least, you can use it as a reference manual. In this section, I reveal the woman and her behavior according to her sign.
Once you fully understand this information, you will find it easy to apply and to read a woman, even if she is a stranger. Very quickly you will be able to determine if you even want to pursue a relationship with the woman.
Knowledge is power Let’s say you meet a woman and there is a mutual attraction. In fact, she is flirting with you and you quickly learn that she is a Gemini. Knowing about the nature and behavior of Gemini warns you to be prepared that she will always be a flirt, even if she enters a serious relationship with you. If you can’t handle your girlfriend being a flirt with other men, even if it is purely innocent flirting, then you will know to stay away from a Gemini woman.
As mentioned earlier, if you are already in a relationship understanding this section and then
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Please remember that the descriptions below are of women only. The male counterparts of each sign will vary. For example a female Leo is quite different to a male Leo. Although both will share common traits such as enjoying attention and the limelight, the female Leo can be harsher and more extreme than the male Leo. He will also tend to be more eccentric than she, and she more catty than he.
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ARIES –The Ram March 21st –April 19th
I AM
Key Positive Trait: Assertive Key Negative Trait: Impulsive
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ARIES –I am Aries is a fire sign and lives up to the characteristics of the element of fire. Aries, the Ram, is fiery, temperamental, aggressive, assertive, creative, competitive, courageous, honest and open. Aries likes to control everything, talks back quickly, and loves to be the boss. Aries is full of energy, enthusiasm and initiative. An Aries woman is lots of fun and is a great party companion. She is daring, impulsive and embraces challenges. She loves to win and needs a strong confident man otherwise she loses respect for him.
Aries at her best Aries at her worst Energetic Bossy Loyal Intolerant Protective of her friends Jealous Embraces challenges Selfish Open and honest Rebellious Fearless Impulsive Enthusiastic Answers back Optimistic Extreme
ARIES -IN LOVE AND IN BED Aries is a hunter. If she wins you over too easily, she will get bored. To keep an Aries, you must keep her on her toes and excited. Aries likes to chase, and yet wants someone who is very strong.
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Aries will only respect you if you are strong and extremely confident. She wants to be first in the relationship. Aries doesn’t mind arrogance because she too is arrogant. She is jealous and possessive, but will place you on a pedestal and will be ready to give up her life for you if she loves you. Beware though: once Aries makes up its mind that the relationship is over, it is over. She will not back down.
Aries is a highly physical sign. And although she generally loves to be the boss and dominate; in bed, it is the other way around. An Aries woman wants a man that is strong, confident and can take her. She wants the man to lead but, if he continues to be too predictable, she will get bored and move on. Expect passion and lust from an Aries woman.
SEX DRIVE She’s hot -often: Expect an Aries woman to have a high sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of an Aries woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Mild to high -Be Careful • Possessiveness level: Mild to high -Be Careful
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• Caring Level: Low –Expect her to potentially be cold, hardhearted or selfish
SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce an Aries woman:
1. Be bold and daring 2. Tell her how wonderful you are and then let her chase you 3. Be spontaneous, creative and adventurous 4. Be aloof occasionally (play hard to get)
How to turn off an Aries woman:
1. Be clingy or too critical 2. Make her jealous 3. Make yourself too available 4. Be negative or a party pooper
COMPATIBILITY Aries is best suited to being friends or lovers with Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER ARIES’ TRAITS Think of the Aries animal symbol of a Ram – strong-headed, impatient, energetic and fearless. She is also impulsive and has a fiery temper. She
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TAURUS –The Bull April 20th- May 20th
I OWN
Key Positive Trait: Stable Key Negative Trait: Stubborn
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TAURUS –I Own Taurus is an earth sign, and accordingly, practical and down-to-earth. Taurus, the Bull, is the most sensual of all the signs. Although, she can enrage and charge like a bull, she generally is about gentleness, beauty and sentimentality. She is attracted to music, flowers, art and nature. Taurus is introverted, loyal, materialistic, tenacious, kind, organized, trustworthy, dependable, and loves all living things. It takes Taurus a long time to open up but once she does, she will establish a lifelong bond.
Taurus at her best Taurus at her worst Dependable Stubborn Artistic Self-indulgent Attentive Materialistic Gentle and calm Boring Patient Insensitive Loving and sensual Introverted Emotional courage Poor judge of character Mysterious Jealous
TAURUS -IN LOVE AND IN BED Taurus is the most sensual of all the signs. Her senses are heightened and she is sensitive to all stimuli. A Taurus woman will express her love
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Taurus is an earth sign and as such, she loves nature and will enjoy exploring the combination of sex and nature: she is open to nudity and lovemaking in open spaces. Beauty stimulates and excites her. A Taurus woman is very free sexually, comfortable in expressing herself with passion and sensuality. She enjoys kissing for hours, deliberately and with heart.
SEX DRIVE She’s hot -often: Expect a Taurus woman to have a high sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of a Taurus woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Extreme –Brace Yourself • Possessiveness: Extreme –Brace Yourself
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SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Taurus woman:
1. Boost her confidence with sincere and subtle compliments 2. Kiss and caress her for hours 3. Be patient, supportive and encouraging particularly of everyday things 4. Romance her with music, candles and dinner –your cooking
How to turn off Taurus woman:
1. Be flaky, unreliable, undependable or unpredictable 2. Be impatient or stubborn 3. Rush or push her into making a decision 4. Be a spendthrift
COMPATIBILITY Taurus is best suited to being friends or lovers with Virgo, Cancer, Capricorn and Pisces.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER TAURUS’ TRAITS Think of the Taurus symbol of the Bull –steady, strong, and calm while left on its own but when challenged and angered will charge at you without fear. She is also reliable and brings stability to her friends. She is sensual and loves beauty and
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GEMINI –The Twins May 21st –June 21st
I THINK
Key Positive Trait: Adaptable Key Negative Trait: Careless
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GEMINI –I think Gemini is referred to as the Twins, an air sign. She is mutable and flexible. Gemini is ruled by her head, by thought. She is articulate, a great communicator, expressive, witty, curious, intellectual, poetic, and intuitive. She is graceful, persuasive and highly flirtatious. You will never be bored being around a Gemini woman, but, be careful, she may get easily bored with you. Geminis get easily distracted because they are curious and often don’t always finish every project.
Gemini at her best Gemini at her worst Inquisitive Easily bored Charming Easily distracted Vibrant Restless Witty Impatient Great conversationalist Gossipy Open minded Fickle Deep thinker Manipulative Optimistic Never reveals her true self
GEMINI -IN LOVE AND IN BED Gemini women are very heady and find it hard to express their true emotions; they repress strong emotions and are confused by their own feelings.
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Love is a romantic ideal and yet Gemini women are highly flirtatious and very sensitive. They expect you to understand them, which is a huge challenge because they do not understand themselves. They also expect freedom, which they gladly give you in return.
A Gemini woman is not recognized by her passion but by her wit and sense of humor. To turn on a Gemini requires appealing to her mind and imagination. She views sex as an expression of love and a deep connection. To keep a Gemini woman interested you must offer her variety and surprises. Expect her to giggle and be funny even in bed.
SEX DRIVE Expect a Gemini woman to have a medium sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of a Gemini woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Low –Nothing to worry about • Possessiveness: Low –Nothing to worry about • Devoted level: Low -She is easily distracted by other things in her life
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SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Gemini woman:
1. Stimulate her mind 2. Flirt with her (even if she is yours) 3. Give her freedom 4. Be elusive (let her chase occasionally)
How to turn off a Gemini woman:
1. Bore her 2. Curtail her freedom (tie her down) 3. Stop her from flirting (with everyone) 4. Question everything about her (mind and actions)
COMPATIBILITY Gemini is best suited to being friends or lovers with Libra, Leo, Aquarius and Aries.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER GEMINI’S TRAITS Think of the Gemini symbol of the Twins – almost two personalities –full of surprises and easily distracted. She is lively, friendly and vibrant. She enjoys being in the middle of exciting things and makes a great writer, teacher or public speaker. She loves stimulating conversation –communication and the exchange
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CANCER –The Crab June 22nd -July 22nd
I FEEL
Key Positive Trait: Protective Key Negative Trait: Jealous
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CANCER –I feel Cancer is a water sign and is ruled by her heart and emotions. Known as the Crab, a Cancer woman has a hard outer shell, but is soft, warm, and sensitive inside. Also, just like the Crab, although fearful at first, once she has her claws on you, she won’t let go. Cancer is the maternal sign, the nurturing protective mother. A cancer woman is a homebody. She is domestic, defensive, sentimental, intuitive and very affectionate.
Cancer at her best Cancer at her worst Compassionate Moody Caring Crabby Nurturing Highly sensitive Protective Manipulative Intuitive Stubborn Determined Loner Patient Emotional Resourceful
CANCER -IN LOVE AND IN BED A Cancer woman loves with all her heart -until she has children and then loves them above all else. She is romantic, warm and affectionate. She openly displays her love and devotion, and is very touchy feely. She is very sensitive and easily hurt. If hurt or threatened she will become clingier.
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Most Cancer women still speak of their first love and are often still secretly in love with their first love. Although not materialistic, a cancer woman still longs and needs financial security.
A Cancer woman expresses her love through sex and affection. Her lovemaking is more about warmth, sensuality and affection than it is about primal sex. She will kiss with tenderness and is very open about her body.
SEX DRIVE Expect a Cancer woman to have a medium sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of a Cancer woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Extreme -Alarming –Brace yourself • Possessiveness: Mild to high -Be Careful
SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Cancer woman:
1. Open your heart to her 2. Give her lots of attention and affection
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3. Treat to her a wonderful evening at home –cook for her 4. Commemorate anniversaries, birthdays
How to turn off a Cancer woman:
1. Tease her 2. Be pushy, bossy or rough with her 3. Be cold or unaffectionate towards her 4. Be indifferent to family (yours or hers)
COMPATIBILITY Cancer is best suited to being friends or lovers with Scorpio, Virgo, Pisces and Taurus.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER CANCER’S TRAITS Think of the Cancer symbol of the Crab –hard shell but soft and sensitive inside –ruled by her heart. She can be moody and crabby, and like the Crab she can be very clingy. She is highly reactive and emotional and loves to spend time cuddled up at home. She gives off a warm motherly vibe and in a group setting she may stand out because she is shy, sensitive and well endowed.
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LEO –The Lion July 23rd –August 22nd
I WILL
Key Positive Trait: Authoritative Key Negative Trait: Domineering
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LEO -I Will Leo is a fire sign –dramatic, fiery and over the top. Leo loves the limelight and will almost do whatever is necessary to command attention. Leo is about fun, pleasure, playing, entertainment, creativity, romance and theatrics. A Leo woman needs to be complimented and appreciated but not smothered. She loves the best of everything believes she is the best. She makes a great leader: she is charismatic and tends to draw many followers. Most of all, Leo does everything to the extreme.
Leo at her best Leo at her worst Loyal Arrogant Noble Stubborn Courageous Selfish Generous Sulky Optimistic Insensitive Playful and childlike Condescending Exciting Show off Emotionally committed
LEO -IN LOVE AND IN BED A Leo woman will love you almost more than life itself. For her, love is an ideal. It is dramatic and highly significant. She takes it seriously and will take you seriously. She is romantic, generous and
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Leo believes she is the best –even in bed. She is dramatic and passionate and intense. Pleasing her partner is very important to her. Her kisses are wild and uninhibited. Expect sexual gymnastics and unrestrained sex from a Leo woman.
SEX DRIVE She’s hot -often: Expect a Leo woman to have a high sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of a Leo woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Extreme –Brace Yourself • Possessiveness: Extreme –Brace Yourself
SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Leo woman:
1. Shower her with compliments 2. Give in and let her lead occasionally 3. Give her the spotlight 4. Reassure her and open your heart to her
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How to turn off a Leo woman:
1. Break your word or promise 2. Ignore her or be indifferent to her 3. Get more attention than she does 4. Criticize her in front of others or hurt her pride
COMPATIBILITY Leo is best suited to being friends or lovers with Sagittarius, Aries, Libra and Aquarius.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER LEO’S TRAITS Think of the Leo symbol of the Lion –King of the jungle –proud & dignified, to be adored and worshipped. She loves to play and have fun and often says via her actions, “follow me.” She loves attention and being noticed. She can also be very catty. She is dramatic and a romantic. In a group setting she will most likely be the woman surrounded by a group of men applauding her and giving her lots of attention.
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VIRGO –The Virgin August 23rd –September 22nd
I ANALYZE
Key Positive Trait: Detailed Key Negative Trait: Critical
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VIRGO – I analyze Virgo is down-to-earth. She is hardworking, honest, passive and modest. The conflict for a Virgo woman is to balance her practical side with her perfectionist nature for she is highly critical of those around her and even more critical of herself. She is highly analytical and especially loathes lazy people. However, a Virgo woman is highly sympathetic, humane and particularly kind and gentle to helpless people. Although a Virgo woman communicates clearly and precisely, she hides her deepest feelings.
Virgo at her best Virgo at her worst Practical Highly critical Down-to-earth Perfectionist Sensual Undemonstrative Witty Anal retentive Devoted Highly stressed Charming Cranky Determined Old-fashioned (stuffy) Seeks self- improvement
VIRGO -IN LOVE AND IN BED A Virgo woman approaches romance in a very straightforward manner. In love, she is devoted, sympathetic and loyal. Unlike the fire signs that
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A Virgo woman is not prone to passion in bed. She is subtle and charming and demands a connection with her partner beyond just physical attraction. She views lovemaking as natural but not highly emotional.
SEX DRIVE Expect a Virgo woman to have a low sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of a Virgo woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Extreme –Brace yourself • Possessiveness level: Mild to high -Be Careful • Daring level: Low –She doesn’t take risks and is potentially boring
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SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Virgo woman:
1. Convince her you are perfect 2. Welcome her perfectionist and analytical nature 3. Be witty, intellectual and a good friend 4. Compliment her for her desire to improve everything
How to turn off a Virgo woman:
1. Criticize her 2. Be disorganized, messy or sloppy 3. Demand constant attention from her 4. Make her do things against her will
COMPATIBILITY Virgo is best suited to being friends or lovers with Taurus, Leo, Capricorn and Scorpio.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER VIRGO’S TRAITS Think of the Virgo symbol of The Virgin –she tends to be chaste and even standoffish. She never rushes into things, is highly analytical, gentle and quiet. She enjoys serving and helping others. In a group setting she will most likely be sitting off in a corner either alone or with one other person or she is standing alone watching
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LIBRA –The Scales September 23rd –October 23rd
I BALANCE
Key Positive Trait: Diplomatic Key Negative Trait: Indecisive
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LIBRA –I balance Librans can be delightful and keep you on your toes. They love to debate and they love to love. Libra is the most romantic of all the 12 signs. A Libran woman brings harmony and balance to those around her. Because she likes to see and weigh up both sides of an argument, she almost always finds it hard to make a decision. She is diplomatic, refined and sophisticated. She is also hard to win because she expects her man to be romantic, witty, and intellectual.
Libra at her best Libra at her worst Romantic Manipulative Charming Self-absorbed Calm & confident Self-indulgent Easygoing Indecisive Diplomatic Withdrawn Mediator Gloomy Excellent Domineering communicator Sophisticated
LIBRA -IN LOVE AND IN BED A Libran woman expects to be placed on a pedestal. She is very romantic and likes to wined and dined in class. But above all, love is extremely important to her, and when she is in love, her
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Because a Libran woman is highly aware of her looks, she can be very insecure about her sexual attractiveness. Consistent compliments and reassurance are critical but do not expect her to be passionate in bed - just romantic.
SEX DRIVE Expect a Libra woman to have a medium sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS
• Jealousy level: Mild to high -Be Careful • Possessiveness: Mild to high -Be Careful
SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Libra woman:
1. Engage her in lively debates and explore new topics 2. Show your appreciation for the arts
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3. Romance her with small gifts and compliments 4. Be exciting but make life harmonious
How to turn off a Libra woman:
1. Demand quick decisions 2. Be rigid or stubborn 3. Be close-minded 4. Criticize her laziness or self-indulgence
COMPATIBILITY Libra is best suited to being friends or lovers with Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini and Aquarius.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER LIBRA’S TRAITS Think of the Libra symbol of the Scales –justice, harmony and the desire to weigh up both sides of an argument or topic. (She finds it a challenge to make a decision.) She loves to please others and is highly vulnerable to flattery. She is the most romantic of all the signs and is in love with love. She seeks stability, marriage and romance. In a group setting you will notice her because she has a light step and she is probably debating.
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SCORPIO –The Scorpion October 24th –November 21st
I DESIRE
Key Positive Trait: Resurgent Key Negative Trait: Ruthless
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SCORPIO – I desire Scorpio is the most sexual, sensual and passionate of all the signs. She is also the most feminine and often has a beautifully soft and sensual voice, particularly noticeable over the phone. She is also very private and ambitious. Scorpio seeks her equal. Although she is recognized by the symbol of the Scorpion, her sting is quick; she will have an outburst and then let it go. She does not hold grudges or seek revenge.
Scorpio at her best Scorpio at her worst Compassionate Jealous Sensual Possessive Emotional Secretive Magnetic Domineering Feminine Temperamental Self-aware Stubborn Loyal and protective Narrow-minded Sincere
SCORPIO -IN LOVE AND IN BED A Scorpio woman is intensely passionate, faithful and possessive in love. She also dominates her partner and can, at times, be selfish unless brought into rein. Although sensual, sincere and feminine, she will not openly and overtly express her emotions in public but will be unwaveringly
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Scorpio is the magnetic seductress. Sex is important to a Scorpio. She is highly sexual and passionate in bed, releasing her repressed emotions and using sex as a means to express her love.
SEX DRIVE She’s hot -often: Expect a Scorpio woman to have a high sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of a Scorpio woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Extreme –Brace Yourself • Possessiveness: Extreme –Brace Yourself
SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Scorpio woman:
1. Be and look sexy 2. Talk dirty to her 3. Trust her with your deepest desires and fantasies 4. Let go and become vulnerable on all levels
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How to turn off a Scorpio woman:
1. Make her jealous 2. Criticize her sexual performance or abilities 3. Discuss private affairs in front of others 4. Accuse her of being unfaithful or non- devoted
COMPATIBILITY Scorpio is best suited to being friends or lovers with Pisces, Virgo and Cancer.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER SCORPIO’S TRAITS Think of the Scorpio symbol of the Scorpion – hides under rocks and only attacks when disturbed. She is mysterious, intense, courageous, and has a strong sting. She is extremely jealous and possessive. She is the most seductive and feminine of all the signs. She has a beautiful soft voice, is a loyal friend, and needs plenty of alone time. If you wrong her, she will lash out at you. In a group setting she will most likely be the magnetic seductress.
JK
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SAGITTARIUS –The Centaur/Archer November 22nd –December 21st
I PERCEIVE
Key Positive Trait: Perceptive Key Negative Trait: Moralistic
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SAGITTARIUS –I Perceive Sagittarius is the most mysterious and complex of all the signs. She loves freedom and travel but needs to be challenged. She is extremely impatient and dives head first into all that she does. She avoids responsibility if it gets in the way of her freedom. A Sagittarius woman can become extreme in everything she does. She is witty, idealistic, philosophical, honest, moralistic, positive, and seeks to learn and grow. She loves to teach and preach to others, and often speaks without thinking.
Sagittarius at her best Sagittarius at her worst Optimistic Unforgiving Enthusiastic Extreme Spiritual Impatient Playful Argumentative Honest Preachy Straightforward Tactless Inspiring Reckless Open-minded
SAGITTARIUS -IN LOVE AND IN BED When a Sagittarius woman likes you she will attempt to make the relationship move at a hundred miles an hour –for her it’s all or nothing. However, she also views love as an
www.patrickwanis.com 59 adventure and challenge. She needs to be stimulated on all levels, physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual. She also needs her freedom. Don’t try to tie her down or tell her what to do. She will rebel. Sagittarius speaks her mind and is honest (often tactless as well.) Beware of hurting or slighting a Sagittarius woman; she will forgive but never forget.
Sagittarius wants it all: She wants her lovemaking to be creative, adventurous, exciting and full of surprises, but she also wants her man to be able to stimulate her intellectually. She is passionate and intense yet can laugh even in bed.
SEX DRIVE She’s hot -often: Expect a Sagittarius woman to have a high sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of a Sagittarius woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy Level: Low –Nothing to worry about • Possessiveness Level: Low –Nothing to worry about • Caring Level: Low –Expect her to be cold, hardhearted or selfish
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SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Sagittarius woman:
1. Entertain her, make her laugh 2. Give her plenty of space 3. Take her on trips 4. Show her your enthusiasm and passion for life
How to turn off a Sagittarius woman:
1. Show her your dark side 2. Consistently correct her 3. Become a pushover 4. Curtail her freedom and independence
COMPATIBILITY Sagittarius is best suited to being friends or lovers with Leo, Aries, Libra and Aquarius.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER SAGITTARIUS’ TRAITS Think of the Sagittarius symbol of the Centaur – an adventurous hunter, free, independent, restless, and loves to travel. She is the ultimate optimist but is also impulsive and reckless at times. She loves to have a good time, is witty and self-deprecating. She is an idealist and extremely philosophical. She desperately needs her freedom.
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In a group setting she will at first appear shy but will then most likely be the first to speak without thinking and offend someone.
JK
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CAPRICORN –The Goat December 22nd –January 19th
I USE
Key Positive Trait: Principled Key Negative Trait: Vindictive
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CAPRICORN – I Use The Capricorn woman is well grounded and practical. She is hardworking, ambitious and motivated by a drive for success, money, wealth and accomplishments. She tends to be very serious, responsible, and disciplined.
A Capricorn woman sets high but attainable standards for herself and those around her. She can be a loner and strives to achieve her goals – she hates failure. On the softer side, she is loyal and generous to her friends and appreciates true beauty.
Capricorn at her best Capricorn at her worst Conscientious Overly serious Fearless Moody Loyal Egotistical Caring Perfectionist Considerate Condescending Kind Highly stressed Well-organized Self-conscious Ambitious Lonely
CAPRICORN -IN LOVE AND IN BED A Capricorn woman is serious about everything, particularly love. She is loyal, private, warm- hearted and sentimental, but she only says “I love
www.patrickwanis.com 64 you” when she truly means it. It is hard to reach her emotionally –it takes a lot for her to open up. To succeed with a Capricorn woman, you must be patient, strong and self-willed. Because she is serious, she needs long-term commitment; she doesn’t like to flirt needlessly. Her deepest insecurities about failure and poverty cause her to gravitate towards financial security in love.
When a Capricorn woman feels secure in her love relationship, she will give all of herself in bed and will aim to please her partner. She will express her love sexually and intensely but not overtly passionately. Sex also serves as a release for the stiff-upper lipped Capricorn.
SEX DRIVE Expect a Capricorn woman to have a medium sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of a Capricorn woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Mild to high -Be Careful • Possessiveness level: Mild to high -Be Careful • Daring level: Low –She doesn’t take risks and is potentially boring
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SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Capricorn woman:
1. Be patient and understanding 2. Support her goals, ambitions and desire to succeed 3. Be persistent, faithful and devoted 4. Appeal to her vanity of image and appearances
How to turn off a Capricorn woman:
1. Publicly humiliate her 2. Criticize her devotion to her goals or family 3. Rush her to open up and lighten up 4. Become a spendthrift
COMPATIBILITY Capricorn is best suited to being friends or lovers with Taurus, Virgo, Pisces, and Scorpio.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER CAPRICORN’S TRAITS Think of the Capricorn symbol of the Goat (with a fish’s tail) –always climbing higher and higher, stubborn, persevering, extremely determined. She doesn’t budge easily if at all. She is serious, a hard worker, and can be ruthless in striving to achieve
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AQUARIUS –The Water Bearer January 20th –February 18th
I KNOW
Key Positive Trait: Liberal Key Negative Trait: Eccentric
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AQUARIUS – I Know Aquarius is the most independent and rebellious of all of the signs. She enjoys shocking others - sometimes just for the sake of it. She is eccentric, original, highly creative, and often an intellectual genius. The greatest challenge for Aquarius is that she wants to save the world. She is caring, humane and will crusade for all of mankind. She is into social reform. She is kind, caring and thoughtful –when she can fit you into her busy schedule. Remember, an Aquarius woman needs no one, although she is a wonderfully loyal friend.
Aquarius at her best Aquarius at her worst Original Lacks self-confidence Independent Eccentric Individualistic Disobedient Tolerant Cruel Loyal friend Thoughtless Humanitarian Neurotic Creative and artistic Rebellious Communicative
AQUARIUS -IN LOVE AND IN BED Being in love with an Aquarius woman is a lesson in patience and understanding. She is in love with humanity, has a wide circle of friends from all walks of life and guards her independence. She
www.patrickwanis.com 69 needs plenty of space. In return, she is tender, faithful and caring. She doesn’t place too many demands on her partner, other than to share the responsibilities of running a home. It’s critical to her that her partner be her trusting friend who also accepts her oddities, eccentricities, and unpredictability. She is afraid of deep emotional involvement because it may tie her down and cut her freedom.
Lovemaking is an experience and experiment to an Aquarius. She is sensitive, intuitive and intellectual but not good at dealing with her feelings. She is more in her head than in bed. Her kisses, though, will be wet and messy.
SEX DRIVE Expect an Aquarius woman to have a low sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of an Aquarius woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Low –Nothing to worry about • Possessiveness Level: Low –Nothing to worry about • Caring level: Low –Expect her to potentially be cold, hardhearted or selfish
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in a relationship (but not towards humanity) • Devoted level: Low -She is easily distracted by other things in her life
SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce an Aquarius woman:
1. Appreciate her mind first 2. Be open-minded and knowledgeable about life 3. Give her freedom and independence 4. Surprise her with odd and unique gifts
How to turn off an Aquarius woman:
1. Try to control her eccentric fashion sense 2. Place too many demands on her 3. Try to change the way she thinks 4. Rush her, tie her down or pry into her life
COMPATIBILITY Aquarius is best suited to being friends or lovers with Gemini, Libra, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius.
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HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER AQUARIUS’ TRAITS Think of the Aquarius symbol of the Water Bearer (but an Air sign not Water) –she walks independently and loves to serve and help others. She is an idealist, keen on freedom and justice. She wants to save the world. She is highly intuitive and often has a deep interest in the occult and alternative therapies. She is very friendly, makes up her own rules and her own fate. In a group setting she will most likely be the one who is dressed eccentrically.
JK
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PISCES –The Fishes February 19th –March 20th
I BELIEVE
Key Positive Trait: Charitable Key Negative Trait: Anxious
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PISCES – I Believe Pisces is the fish and similar to man’s association with the dolphin, she is mystical and spiritual. She is intuitive, perceptive and trusting. However, she is a follower and can easily be misled. Pisces is highly sensitive, humble and modest about her achievements. She is attracted by all things artistic and tends to be skilled with her hands in the arts and crafts. She is happy, confident, warmly sympathetic and romantic. She has personal integrity but she also has self-doubt, which can lead to depression, escapism and self-pity.
Pisces at her best Pisces at her worst Spiritual Indecisive Creative Smug Perceptive Self-pitying Happy Fearful Confident Escapist Optimistic Fits of anger Compassionate Gullible –easily influenced Understanding
PISCES -IN LOVE AND IN BED A Pisces woman needs reassurance that she is loved and deeply fears rejection. She protects and hides her emotional vulnerability by using humor
www.patrickwanis.com 74 and a positive outlook. She also needs to belong and needs a deep emotional connection. When in love, she is romantic, affectionate, loving and eager to please. Because a Pisces woman is so sensitive and delicate, criticism can be intensely damaging; humor and constant reassurance are vital. Love rejuvenates her: it gives her emotional strength to handle life’s everyday challenges. A Pisces woman often longs for and feels fulfilled when she has children.
Pisces uses the bed as a means of expressing love and romance on a deep emotional level. She is more about tenderness than gymnastics. Her kisses are loving, affectionate and long lasting.
SEX DRIVE Expect a Pisces woman to have a medium sex drive.
FEAR FACTORS Aspects of a Pisces woman you should be aware of:
• Jealousy level: Extreme -Alarming –Brace yourself • Possessiveness: Mild to high -Be Careful
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SEDUCTION STRATEGIES How to seduce a Pisces woman:
1. Show your sensitive caring and spiritual side 2. Express compassion and love for all living things 3. Gently support, guide and ground her 4. Express love to her in endless ways
How to turn off a Pisces woman:
1. Crush her artistic or creative desires 2. Expect her to handle the finances 3. Deny her spiritual beliefs or be overly materialistic 4. Offer her a casual affair or deny her the opportunity for fairytale love
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND REMEMBER PISCES’ TRAITS Think of the Pisces symbol of the Fishes – happy, free-spirited but easily swayed by the current– swims here and there and tends to follow. She is the most emotional of all the signs, and she sits on the fence a lot and finds it hard to make up her mind. She is gentle, shy and has a sense of inferiority. She is very spiritual and often artistically gifted. In a group setting she will most likely be the first to take off her shoes. JK
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POPPING THE QUESTION
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HOW TO INTRODUCE ASTROLOGY INTO A CONVERSATION Assuming by now you have learned most of the information in this book, you are most likely eager to apply it and are wondering how to ask that embarrassing question, “What’s your sign?” The key is you never ask that question in those words because a negative response is almost assured if you do. So what do you say and do?
Let’s assume you have just met the lady. You are chatting in a friendly manner. She seems most comfortable with you because you have been applying the instant rapport building techniques I outlined in my book, “What a woman wants –And how to give it to her.” You have also been looking for telling signs and behaviors that give you some idea or guess that she might be a specific Zodiac Sign or that she might fit into the category of one of the elements of the Zodiac –Water, Fire, Earth and Air. At this point you can proceed by saying, “Wow, you are so much fun, I bet you are an Aries. They love to party.” Now wait for her response. Even if your guess was wrong it doesn’t matter because you have just given her a compliment.
If she responds with “Oh, I don’t believe in Astrology or that weird stuff”, then you reply with, “That’s funny because I know Astrology does sound weird but you have all the wonderful qualities of an Aries. So are you?”
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“No. I am a Leo.”
“Just as I thought –a Fire sign. I love Leos…They are lots of fun and make great leaders.”
Now you have turned the discussion around to your advantage. You have expressed acceptance and given her two compliments. You have shown acceptance by saying, “I love Leos”, and you have indirectly told her again that she is a lot of fun and that she is a great leader. She will open up, and it’s almost guaranteed that she will ask you to tell her more about what Leos are like. If she doesn’t open up or warm up to you, then she isn’t a true Leo. Run for your life because she isn’t any fun at all.
Here are some suggested introductory lines.
• If you think she is an Aries:
You are so much fun. I bet you are an Aries.
• If you think she is a Taurus:
You have a wonderful air of sensuality about you. I bet you are a Taurus.
• If you think she is a Gemini:
You are such a flirt. I bet you are a Gemini.
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• If you think she is a Cancer:
You seem so warm and nurturing, I bet you are a Cancer.
• If you think she is a Leo:
You are so creative and talented. I bet you are a Leo.
• If you think she is a Virgo:
You seem quite analytical and intelligent. I bet you are a Virgo.
• If you think she is a Libra:
You seem so romantic. I bet you are a Libra.
• If you think she is a Scorpio:
You seem so feminine. I bet you are a Scorpio.
• If you think she is a Sagittarius:
You seem to freely speak your mind. I bet you are a Sagittarius.
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• If you think she is a Capricorn:
You seem quite ambitious. I bet you are a Capricorn.
• If you think she is an Aquarius:
You have your own fashion style. I like that. I bet you are an Aquarius.
• If you think she is a Pisces:
You seem very sensitive. I bet you are a Pisces.
By using the above lines, you are introducing the topic of Astrology in a fun, complimentary and non-threatening manner. Regardless of whether you guessed her Sign accurately or not, she will not be mad at you because you have given her a compliment and you indirectly set her up to respond by telling you her Sign. Remember, when you do speak any of the above sentences, do so with confidence and in a manner that appears almost like a simple observation or throw away line.
Also the adjectives I have mentioned above should also help you to further identify a woman Sign’s by her actions and behavior. For example a highly analytical woman is almost always a Virgo.
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Thus, “You seem quite analytical. I bet you are a Virgo.”
Lines for any situation Here are a few generic terms you can use with almost any woman. Even if you do not know her Sign, it won’t matter because you are giving her a compliment.
• You are so much fun, I bet you are a …(Leo, Capricorn, etc) • You are so intelligent, I bet you are a … • You seem to have so much personality, I bet you are a …
Every woman wants to think she is fun, intelligent and has personality. You can also substitute other complimentary adjectives such as confident, witty, happy, charming, kind, warm, positive, and so forth.
Remember only to use them if she is displaying something close to that quality. Do not say, “Wow, you seem so optimistic I bet you must be a Sagittarius” if she is telling you that she thinks she is going to fail her exams and is worried about what she will do next. If she does say that, you might respond with, “You seem so ambitious I bet you are a Capricorn.”
She says, “No. I am a Virgo.”
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“Just as I thought, you are an Earth sign with high standards…” (Virgos are perfectionists.)
Let me stress once more that confidence and matter- of-fact approach is key to your success.
By speaking as if you are making a simple, non- emotional observation, you will appear as an authority on the subject or at least knowledgeable and, you will not come off as a player or corny sleaze who resorts to Astrology to pick up women --If you know what I mean…
JK
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Originally from Australia, Patrick Wanis is a life-coach and an expert in human behavior and relationships. He is an international speaker, clinical hypnotherapist, and Neuro-Linguistic Programming practitioner with degrees in communication, human behavior and journalism. He has appeared on television and radio and teaches around the world. Wanis has coached and worked with various celebrities such as Hulk Hogan. Wanis’ books have been read by more than four million people in English and Spanish . Click here. Visit him at www.patrickwanis.com
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