LESBIAN 10 NEWS • May 2016 VOL. 41 • NO.
Kesha We R Who We R + Travel Clothing Optional After Dark Melissa Etheridge All Aboard!
LN Contributors
Christin and Ashley Kelly-Brown are owners and wife team of LunaBella Makeup and Hair in Santa Barbara, CA. Originally from Oakland, CA., they met there at 17 years of age and have been together for over 12 years. Legally married in California on October 3, 2008, their company has since taken off. They absolutely love not only what they do but also how uniquely they work together.
Dian Katz works a variety of arenas. With a background in Marriage Counseling and a history as a professional performer, she’s LN’s Entertainment Editor and Self Help columnist. Dian’s also authored a book entitled: Love Hurts - A Spiritual Journey to Wholeness. She sometimes works the motivational speaking circuit. Dian’s an award winning drummer with her own rock band. Out of all the many hats she wears, performing and writing are her biggest passions.
Dina Evan PhD., is a noted speaker and veteran activist for LGBT, Women’s and Human Rights. She is a professional counselor and spiritual coach working with individuals, couples and organizations from coast to coast. She has authored three books, Inspiration Cards, Calendars and Meditation CD’s. She provides tools for creating successful relationships which she believes are the path to consciousness. Dina feels the highest assignment today is simply waking up. (602) 997-1200 - www.DrDinaEvan.com
Gladi Adams, PhD is a native New Englander who was recruited in Boston by the Los Angeles Unifed School District to teach English in L.A. She studied at Boston University, Cal State Northridge, California Western and UCLA. She.retired as a secondary school principal after 35 years in the system. She is married to Ella Matthes, publisher, and they have been working on the LN together since 2005.
John Esther For nearly a dozen years, Movie Editor John Esther has been writing for Lesbian News. Over time, he has written more than 100 articles for LN on flm, music, theater, and culture. His monthlymovie column, Eye C, is currently the longest consecutive- running movie column in LN. John also contributes articles to numerous other publications, plus his own blog. John is currently a Board Member of the Gay and Lesbian Entertainment Critics Association(GALECA) Juno Parreñas, PhD has been a regular monthly columnist at the Lesbian News since 1997, when she was seventeen years old. Since then, she has lived in three continents, fve countries, ten cities, and has three degrees: a Bachelor’s from UC Santa Cruz, a Master’s from the University of Amsterdam, and a PhD from Harvard University. When she’s not writing about sexuality, politics, pleasure, culture, desire, and social relations, she works on her research involving orangutans. Mona de Crinis grew up in a world without Xbox or Netfix, when tweeting was something birds did and “Pinterest” was a bad typo. She relied on her fertile imagination for fun quickly discovering that words threaded together could create a vibrant tapestry of expression. This awareness sparked a passion and subsequent career. For more than 20 years, she has written for and edited regional and niche publications. She has authored over 100 published articles.Mona lives in Palm Springs with partner, Lori, and four furry kids.
Lynda Montgomery was born in Long Beach, a small town in Canada. She loves a pa- rade, so she moved to Long Beach California, a big town, so she didn’t have to be all alone in the Gay Pride parade! She is an activist for animal rights and gay rights, giving priority to gay animals! As a stand-up comic she has survived many dive bars, festivals, and comedy clubs. She is currently trying to get booked onto the “Olivia Cruises” because she heard it’s a great place to meet women!
Mona Elyaf has been writing celebrity magazine profles, entertainment news and lifestyle columns for two decades. She currently writes for the Hufngton Post, and serves as the West Coast correspondent for Diva Magazine (Dubai’s leading Women’s fashion magazine) writing pieces on Kim Kardashian, Kimora Lee Simmons and Denise Richards.Born in Beirut, Lebanon, raised in Paris, France, residing in Los Angeles, Elyaf has spent 20 years working in entertainment publicity, heading her own PR Company, ILDK Media. She holds a Master of Arts in journalism from New York University.
Morag Hillsinger is the Nom de Plume of R.J. Birmingham, a local attorney. Winner of an essay competition in 1993 “Trial by Media,” she also has a published case as co-counsel with Lambda Legal (2008) which beneftted gays and lesbians. She is a monthly contributor of Poetry for the LN. Ms. Birmingham practices Estate Planning and Serious Personal Injury at Long Beach Law, Inc. and is working on a book of essays about the practice.
Nat Burns is a professional writer and editor who retired from an editorial systems career in Virginia to relocate to New Mexico. She is an award-winning author and journalist and a book editor for several publishers. Burns has published eight novels to date and her work has appeared in more than thirty anthologies. She has worked for this magazine for six years and is a proud grandmother.
Carl Matthes is the current president of UGLA, Uptown Gay and Lesbian Alliance, an organization providing a support system for gay men, lesbians and education for individuals and the community He is a columnist on the Lesbian News, owned and published by his sister, Ella and her wife Gladi. He was editor of the GLAAD/newsletter, and a GLAAD/LA representative on the Board.In July, 2008, Carl was legally married to Carl Johnson, his partner of 48 years, by Los Angels City Councilmember Jose Huizar. It was a unique gay/ lesbian double ceremony as Carl’s sister Ella and her partner Gladi were also married by Jose.
Nikki McCauley was born in Pittsburgh, PA. She graduated from Robert Morris University and spent ten years with Warner Bros. Studios in Burbank, CA. Accomplishments: Pilot- Godless- 2010- 2012. CD- Spoken Word 2005. Warner Bros. Writer’s Workshop 2003/2004 .Poetry Book- Inditing Poetry 1999. Scripts- Law & Order, The Practice, Cold Case, CSI Las Vegas. Robin Tyler is a pioneer activist in the LGBT community. In the 1970’s, she became the frst ‘out’ lesbian or gay comic on television, albums and in concert.
In addition to 25 Women’s Music and Comedy Festivals , Robin produced the main stages for 3 od of the LGBT Marches on Washington.. Robin and her wife, Diane Olson, were the frst lesbian plaintiffs to fle the lawsuit that brought marriage equality to California and were the frst to marry in Los Angeles County.
Sally Sheklow came out in 1973 and has been with her Wifey for 25 years. They live in Eugene, Oregon with their two cats. Sally’s “Living Out” column frst appeared in Lesbian News in 1999, and twice won both the Houston Press Club’s Lone Star Award for best magazine column and Best of Eugene’s “Best Writer” award. Sally teaches Queer Studies at Portland State University, performs with the all-lesbian improv troupe WYMPROV! And makes art out of old buttons.
Shawn Ryan is a lot of things. He’s an Actor/Singer/Writer/Director and Camp Director but fancies himself a Dancer/Poet/Lyrical Savant/Brother/Son/and Terrifc Husband. His greatest wish is that someday Barbara Walters will come out of retirement and make him cry on ABC. He lives in a state of adoring bliss with his husband, actor John Ainsworth, and their furry children, Mr Kitty and Gazpacho the Chihuahua. It seems as though things couldn’t get much better, but day by day, they to do. Follow him on www.Shawn-Ryan.com
Sherron Mills, N.P. has been a lesbian health care practitioner and activist for many years. In 1980 she co-founded Lyon-Martin Women’s Health Services, the country’s frst non-proft clinic to serve the lesbian community. She then went on in 1984 to launch Pacifc Reproductive Services to provide sperm bank, fertility and insemination services primarily to lesbians. Knowing that many of her clients would greatly value the opportunity for their children to meet their sperm donors, should they wish to do so, she was an early pioneer in recruiting men who would contractually agree to meet a child at least once after he or she reaches 18. As a result, PRS today has more “willing to be known” sperm donors than any other U.S. sperm bank.
Stephanie Papadakis is originally from southern California. Stephanie knew she wanted to live in San Francisco from the age of 10 (but had no clue she liked women). When she’s not working at a lesbian travel company in SF, she spends her time cooking delicious paleo meals, climbing rugged mountains, exercising daily, researching random trivia knowledge, making “dream lists” on Airbnb and planning day-, weekend- and week- long dates with her partner, Sara.
Sweet Baby J’ai is a writer, singer, composer, arranger, educator, and the Artistic Director of the Palm Springs Women’s Jazz Festival. A creative force on the music scene for over two decades, she tours the world with her genre-defying work, which both embraces and expands jazz tradition. She has worked in various capacities, including talent buyer for major music events throughout the country. She also serves as Creative Managing Director for the Educational Theatre Institute. Toni Hart has had many careers, including her favorite – freelance writing. Early on she was a child actress and after college, became a designer of women’s & children’s fashions. After a pause to have three children, she turned to Mortgage Banking, retiring years later as VP/Administrator of the mortgage Dept. She’s become a hard working volunteer for many venues. To support her wonderful gay daughter, her attention is now zestfully supporting the LGBT cause.
Victoria Bearden has practiced astrology for over 30 years, with clients across the country and abroad. To set up a personal consultation you can call her at 760-634-1028 or visit her web site at www.astrologervic.com May 2016
CONTENTS
LESBIAN NEWS COVER STORY All Aboard Snooze and you may lose a chance to cruise with Melissa Etheridge By John Esther
FEATURES Kesha INSIDE LN We R Who We R By Fernando Lopez HOTSPOTS Look out May… Here we Last Word come!! My friend Pat and I have been best friends for 50 years. POETRY By Robin Tyler Margin Call From Fear FEMASTROLOGY Political Bait & Switch The tide begins to turn this May Churches and Politicians Try to Take-Down Women - Again as Jupiter in Virgo goes direct on By Carl Matthes May 9, 2016 LOL Rainbow Fashion Week 2016 Political Fund Raiser at Who’re wearing? Find out what happens at Rainbow Long Beach Law, The Dinah Fashion Week 2016. Get an exclusive insight into the Entertainers behind the scenes world of Jag - the mastermind behind it all.. By Michel Khordoc LIFESTYLES Follow Us Online Movies Eye C Know justice no peace LESBIANNEWS.COM By John Esther Notes from Nat Let us know what Gwen Stefani croons about love and loss while Walk the you think. Moon takes over her rowdy dance moves. By Nat Burns
Travel Clothing Optional After Dark By Stephanie Papadakis Politically Speaking Women Are Hill-arious. By Beth Shipp
Earth Talk How can I tell if the green certifications and labels on all kinds of products these days are legitimate or just ‘greenwashing’? By Roddy Scheer and Doug Moss Spirituality I Long for Truth By Dr. Dina Evan, Phd COLUMNS Words That Make Sense Know who you are talking to on the other side of your phone. By Toni Hart
Living Out Sometimes your pussycat knows best. By Sally Sheklow
Positive Refections What’s good for business, isn’t always good for us. By Dian Katz, MS
Queerly Questioning This isn’t about who was our friend first, but rather what acts are we willing to have committed in our name? By Juno Parrenas, PhD
Theorhetorically Speaking What do you do when your reflection is a lie. By Nikki McCauley
Gay USA Watch the Gay USA Video.
All Aboard! | By John Esther his October to me. I certainly didn’t think of it lesbians and, yeah, it’s going to passengers aboard myself. It came to me a long time probably be a majority of women. the Melissa Etheridge ago and it’s just taken me this long And the majority of the women and Friends Rock to say, “Okay, I think maybe it’s will probably be lesbians. And the Boat cruise, will, time. This might be a fun thing to there’s going to be men and gays Twell, do exactly that -- get rocked do.” and straights. And the one thing (and rolled) by the award-winning they will have in common is they LN: A “fun thing to do” was it singer-songwriter as she steers love this rock and roll. They love took? everybody into a six-day sojourn this music. They love the feeling through the Caribbean. ME: [Chuckles] The Flying of what I’m about and that really Dutchmen organization came and excites me. It’s going to be a really In this exclusive interview we said, “Look, we want to do what beautiful mix of people. spoke to this LGBT icon about the you want to do.” I didn’t want to cruise, her music and who she is LN: Looking at the website, this turn my thing into a cruise thing. I supporting for US President. cruise does seem to be more wanted it to be really unique to the inclusive than the usual “Lesbian Lesbian News: How did you get Melissa Etheridge band, because Cruise.” involved with the cruise line the Melissa Etheridge band is business? unique. There are a lot of new ME: Yeah. Melissa Etheridge: Well, it came LN: What can passengers expect on the Melissa Etheridge and and that people will be interested to do, really. The company that Friends Rock the Boat Cruise? in participating in. I’m working with, The Flying Dutchmen, said this is probably ME: Passengers can expect top LN: What are the advantages of what’s going to work best for us at of the line entertainment, frst taking a cruise over other modes this time of year. of all. The frst thing I said was, of travel? “Everybody who’s going to play LN: The cruise begins on October ME: One, you are there! It’s not has to have that soul. That music 31. Will there be a Halloween like I have to wait for everybody love has to move people. It has to costume party? to show up at the car. They are be that if you love music you’re right there. You’ve got your ME: Of course! You better bring going to love this cruise. It’s Joan captive audience for fve days. a Halloween outft! My kids are Jett. It’s myself. It’s Delta Rae. It’s super fun! And being on the going to be there. We’ve got to do It’s Crystal Bowersox. It’s Sonia ocean is incredibly healing in the Halloween! Leigh. It’s powerful, powerful frst place. That’s the frst thing -- performers. And then there are ME: [Laughs] We’ll see which you’re going to drop all of your powerful comedians like Kate costume I wear. My stylist has just defenses and leave all your cares Clinton. You just don’t get any kind of over the top about it. behind because you can’t call better than that. I wanted the day anybody! You’ve got to give all of LN: Other than your music, will time activities and events to be your attention to what’s in front of you be playing any cover songs to flled with the things that really you. commemorate the experience? move me -- so workshops on spirituality, managing money, LN: Why did you pick a Caribbean ME: Yeah. I think because I’m going understating it and the other route? to have multiple opportunities to lifestyle things that really thrill me perform for people, they are going ME: Because it ft what I wanted to hear a lot of different stuff and a lot of unique stuff that they would on a cruise? where at the forefront and there never hear in just one concert. will be environmental awareness ME: Probably just the whole on this tour. LN: Joan Jett is also playing. experience! I enjoy the singing. Why did you pick her to perform? I enjoy the performing with LN: What’s the best pickup line everyone. But I think the relaxation you have ever heard on a cruise? ME: Because she comes from part, where I can just enjoy the sun rock and roll and she’s at the top ME: [Laughs] I’ve always been and the waves and nature is my of my list! I worked with her last with someone on a cruise, so I favorite part. year. We did a bunch of shows haven’t been picked up or picking together last year and she’s just so LN: You’ve been known for your up. wonderful. environmental activism. What do LN: Switching gears a bit, where you say to your critics who say LN: Considering all that’s going do you fnd inspiration for your that cruise ships are not the most on, are you going to be able to songs? environmentally friendly? enjoy the cruise, or are you going ME: Inspiration happens all to be working too hard? ME: Ah! I say, “yes, indeed they the time! Inspiration is what have a long way to go.” But let’s ME: Oh, I try not to work too life’s about. Inspiration is what keep the awareness of this open hard in general in life. So I will everything can be. It can be in a and let’s go in and make that defnitely fnd many ways to enjoy fower. It can be a thought. It can change and do as much as we can. the cruise. be a painting or another song I I knew that when we signed up hear, or a person. Inspiration is LN: What is your favorite activity for this that environmental issues everywhere. LN: How has the music business a new record in Memphis. I’m a lot of stuff on the ballot in changed over the last three making a re-imagined Stacks November and really moving this decades or so? Is it any better for album called “Memphis Rock and forward because California needs women now? Soul.” That’ll be out by the time to be a leader in this. the cruise comes. That’ll be fun. ME: Yes, indeed! Three decades LN: Speaking of politics, are there ago I was trying to get my music LN: So people will be able to hear any presidential candidates who on a radio station and they were the new tracks during the tour? you are excited about or appalled telling me, “Oh, we already by, or something in between? ME: Um-hmm. I hope so. played a woman on our station.” ME: I’m not even going to mention It’s defnitely changed since then. LN: What do you like to do during that guy’s name; I don’t even want Women are a big part of the music your down time? to give him any attention. I’m industry and a big part of the ME: Not much at all. [Laughs] My a Hillary believer. I believe it’s music scene. Slowly, but surely it down time I spend with my family. her time. I believe she can lead has leveled out a bit. It’s family time or work time, this country exactly how it needs LN: Also looking back, how do that’s pretty much my life. The to be. These are important times you feel about the initial hostility two things that I love the most. I in the world and Hillary has got that you encountered when you love my wife and kids. And I take the experience, and she’s got the frst came out in January 1993 care of myself. heart and soul for this. I’m a huge and also about the support at that Hillary supporter. LN: We touched on the time? environment, but are there any LN: You frst came out at the ME: Well, the LGBT movement causes that you are currently Triangle Ball. has been one of steady, slow invested in? ME: I did! Me and the Clintons go movement forward. In getting ME: Oh, I’m all about the back a long way! [Laughs] used to being confdent in our own legalization of cannabis. I have gayness, us being comfortable as LN: Lastly, is there a question my own strains and dispensaries homosexual human beings and that you wish the press would and I believe whole heartedly in coming out, being neighbors always ask you, but haven’t yet the medicinal value of cannabis and in the work place and being done so? and how it can really help change family -- that’s what’s changed society. That’s probably the biggest ME: I’ve been asked everything the world and changed hearts and thing that charges me right now. you can possibly imagine, so I minds. People know gay people can’t think anything that I haven’t now because we, as gay people, LN: Coincidentally, as I am been asked! have said, “Yeah, this is what I am talking to you I am sitting in a and I’m not going to hide this and medicinal marijuana dispensary LN: So I didn’t ask you any I’m a good person.” So, 30 years that was shut down in 2012. original questions? Darn it! It is now a political campaign ago there were less of us feeling ME: Oh, well, you did in a way, offce that’s working to bring that way and we are part of this sure! beautiful fabric of humanity. back the medicinal marijuana dispensaries in the City of Long For more information: www. LN: Other than preparing for Beach by collecting signatures melissaetheridgecruise.com/ this cruise, what have you been and getting in on the ballot in up to lately? I see you’re touring November. this summer. ME: Yeah. Good! We are working ME: I’m touring with Pat Banatar with a lot of people about getting and that will be fun. I’m making
Kesha Coming Out To Support San Diego Pride | By Fernando Lopez
Billboard Music Award for Top certifed old, latinum or multi- Rap Song, an MTV Video Music Platinum in 16 markets (including Award for Best Collaboration, and Platinum in the United States and won the 2014 iHeartRadio Music Double Platinum in Australia Award for Best Collaboration. This & Canada) and was the biggest single has sold over 4.5 million selling debut album from an copies in the US and over 3.7 international female in 2010 in million copies internationally the UK. In the Fall of 2012 Kesha reaching #1 on iTunes in over released an illustrated photo 66 countries. Kesha has more journal and scrapbook entitled than 30 million Facebook likes, “My Crazy Beautiful Life” with more than 3.6 million Twitter Touchstone. The book was a huge esha has taken the followers, and over a billion fan hit and was a precursor to her world by storm since views on YouTube. Between her wildly successful MTV Show the release of her debut album Animal and her last “Kesha: My Crazy Beautiful Life” debut album Animal in release Warrior, Kesha has sold which was the #1 series across all 2010. That year she over 4 million units worldwide. TV in the time period with P12- Kwas declared Billboard’s Hot 100 Kesha has toured the world, playing 34. Kesha joined artists Ludacris, Artist and her smash debut single over 250 live shows in support of Brad aisley, and osh roban “TiK ToK” was named Billboard’s Animal and its companion album as an expert on ABC’s singing #1 Hot 100 Song, was the most Cannibal and an additional 47 competition series “Rising Star,” played song of that year, and was shows in support of her latest which premiered summer 2014. the biggest-selling digital track release, Warrior. She took home The premiere of “Rising Star” in the world. Kesha has had eight the MTV EMA for Best New opened as ABC’s highest-rated consecutive Top 10 hits including Act in November 2010 and was summer series debut in 2 years in four #1 singles: “TiK ToK”, “Your nominated for 2 American Music Adults 18-49 and was the No. 1 Love Is My Drug”, “We R Who Awards, 4 MTV VMA Awards and most-social broadcast series of the We R” and “Timber”. “Timber,” a 6 Billboard Awards. She has sold night. This series averaged 4.6 collaboration with Pitbull, peaked over 35 million combined tracks million viewers and ranked as the at #1 on the Billboard Hot 100 and ringtones in the U.S alone No. 1 broadcast program in its singles charts, Top 40 charts, UK and over 59 million worldwide Sunday time period with Adults charts, European singles charts, to date. Kesha is an international 18-49. and Spotify, was nominated for a powerhouse, Animal has been
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Reasons Why Denver May Be the Best City in the U.S | By Stephanie Papadakis
he secret is out! the best city in the country. biking meetups, rock climbing Denver may be masters, people walking or running 1. Year-round outdoor activities landlocked, but the every day on their lunch breaks. It for the hard-core athlete. The mile-high city has a sure is inspiring! Rocky Mountains hold the secret lot going in its favor. to having an active lifestyle. In the 2. A food scene that can stand up As one of the fastest growing cities T winter, you’re close enough to ski to New York and San Francisco. in the nation, it has the breath- resorts that you’ll be on the slopes With a focus on fresh and local taking backdrop of the Rockies at in an hour (and if you aren’t a skier, ingredients (i.e. grown in the its core, as well as the energetic snowshoeing is even closer). Avid Colorado sunshine) and making pull that draws people from all hikers (there are 53 fourteeners everything from scratch, Denver walks of life to explore its unique in the state) and mountain bikers, chefs know how to create inspiring place as a center for arts, food, you are sure to fnd a trail that will and original dishes. From Boulder culture and adrenaline-inducing (or many) that you can call home. to Denver proper, and everywhere activities. Though the legalization And that’s just the beginning! In in between, the food is prepared of marijuana is just one of the the enver metro area, you’ll fnd with a thoughtfulness you things it’s known for, here are 7 CrossFit and yoga studios, road think you would only see in the reasons why Denver may just be aforementioned cities. Not only is the cuisine creative, so are the good soak. Not many cities have smooth. And if you fancy a road cocktails. Walk into any upscale hot springs within a 45-minute trip? Check out Strawberry Park cocktail bar and you’ll fnd drive that will rejuvenate your Hot Springs in Steamboat Springs, balanced, innovative cocktails body and soul every time. The where the pools become clothing shaken (or stirred) to perfection. geo-thermal caves at Indian Hot optional after dark. Springs are said to clear sickness, 3. Natural hot springs. I don’t 4. Jobs. Denver is growing fast and the mineral water swimming know about you, but after a long because companies are moving pool leaves your body silky and day hiking (or a long week at work, their headquarters there. Although for that matter), I like to have a rents have gone up, jobs are plentiful. If you’re looking for 6. Art and culture. With the amphitheater and smaller venues something in the outdoor feld or revitalization of downtown and playing local acts throughout the the tech sector, Denver is the place Union Station (which, trust me, city. to be. you’ll want to check it out for 7. 300 days of sun a year. After the architecture alone), many art 5. Beer. Enough said. Colorado all, Denver is called the mile- galleries and festivals have popped is teeming with killer breweries, high city because it is 5,280 feet up in the last few years showcasing and some say Denver has the above sea level, which means, local artists using everything from best beer in the country. There you’re closer to the sun. Even oil on canvas to astrography, are 75 breweries in Denver alone though you always have to wear the art of shining the Colorado so you know there is some great sunscreen, that not always a bad sunshine through a magnifying beer coming out of there. With thing. The sun is warmer, so even glass on wood. Tedx Denver even places the German-inspired in 30-degree weather it feels 15- hosts art components in addition Prost Brewing, award-winning 20 degrees warmer. Chances are to their talks. The music scene is Great Divide Brewing Co., and highly likely that if it snows one also phenomenal, with Red Rocks my personal favorite, the all- day, it will be sunny and warm the hosting outdoor concerts at the sour Crooked Stave Artisan Beer next. Your gardens last longer, you Project, can exercise outside, and, heck, you can even have a winter BBQ if you want. There you have it. It’s a great place to visit in May, when the fowers are in bloom and the days will likely be in the 70s (except for that occasional snowstorm). Next time you want to take a long weekend getaway, Denver is your spot. The artist who does astrography is my brother, Michael Papadakis. You can view more of his work here.
RAINBOW FASHION WEEK … C’EST CHIC! | By Michel Khordoc
eet Jaguard Each year she - under the RFW The answer is simple … she listened (Jag) Beckford umbrella - takes on the task of to her mother’s advice: live the life the founder and launching a social responsibility Ad you want. producer of campaign. And this year Jag decided Hence in 2013, Jag decided to Rainbow Fashion to do something revolutionary by pursue her passion and launched MWeek. hosting the very frst carbon neutral Jaguar and Company Clothier Rainbow Fashion Week. Now in its third year, Rainbow where she presently designs “male Fashion Week (RFW) is set to take How does one go from providing identifed clothing for women. place June 17 through the 26, 2016 contract administration for SONY, Realizing that what makes each in New York City. producing music festivals for fashion event a success, is not just Rachelle Farrell, Stan Getz, Stevie A former entertainment attorney, the designer, but all the behind the Ray Vaughn, Etta James, BB King, Jag is an amazingly inspirational scenes hands from make-up, hair, to producing Rainbow Fashion woman and business entrepreneur styling and beyond, she used her Week? who, going from ordinary to own funds to give birth to Rainbow extraordinary, continues make a Fashion Week and give these talent difference within the community. a platform to present and produce. the rt of ashion show that brings the spotlight on them – and that was the birth of Rainbow Fashion Week. The fashion industry is already known to be extremely gay friendly. In fact, an overwhelmingly percentage of fashion designers and employees are gay. So why the need for a “rainbow” fashion week? I went out and found an awesome team who all wanted to do a Fashion Week that highlighted who we are and what we do, the way we’d like to do it. So imagine events where all members of our community see themselves on display as non- gender or gender specifc models, MUA’s, Stylist, performers in a venue that allows us to change the manner in which we present fashion. How would you say your event differs from the regular Fashion Week events taking place in NY, LA and Paris every year? What makes RFW special and unique and a M T- TTE event My team and I wanted to fnd a time in NYC that did not compete with It brought to New York City and a company called Jaguar and the other Fashion Week Brands, introduced to the United States the Company Clothier, INC., or during a time that is very much frst Inaugural ays of ueer agand o for the gender fuid recognized by the fashion industry Pride Fashion Shows. Over the last women all around me. I thought to add legitimacy to what we are 2 years, Rainbow Fashion Week because I had produced many shows doing. June/July is known as Pre- has attracted over 25,000 queer and around the world, this would be a Resort/Fall when fashion houses gay friendly attendees and over 5 breeze. Not so much! I realized such as Ralph Lauren, Givenchy, million impressions. when taking my bows, that actually Yves Saint Laurent etc., show there were so many different talent lines that don’t actually ualify The Lesbian News got a chance to acting behind the scenes. These for the formalities of the regular chat with Jag to get an exclusive individuals who always stay behind fashion weeks globally. We also behind the scenes look into Rainbow the curtain are all the key players wanted to fnd the best time during Fashion Week 2016. making the magic happen. I thought those months when we are the How did the idea of Rainbow to myself “wouldn’t it be great to most festive and anxious to have Fashion Week come to life? have fashion shows that featured inviting programming as part of our BT celebration. Hence On April 27, 2013, I launched ays of ueer ashion. ainbow how much energy we consume better environment? Fashion Week’s tagline is “Not when we are utilizing a venue My team and I attended an event our verage ashion how. and how little attention we give to sponsored by the Hudson Institute, transportation our guests in more This year you are putting the which honed in on water quality energy friendly vehicles. So our social responsibility emphasis on issues that impact the health and well objective this year is to reduce our producing a “carbon Neutral” being of our local and international energy consumption by at least 25% event. Can you elaborate a bit water body. This summit addressed by the utilization of specially built more on what it means; Why is it the destruction of the Himalayan 12,000-kilowatt solar generators. relevant; and, concretely speaking, glaciers and speaking with Sharon We will reduce the usage of how you’re achieving that “green” Kahn of Water Keeper Alliance, bottled water by by utili ing endeavor? we re-wrote our mission statement hot and cold-water dispensers. We and it is now our global pledge The team worked hard in creating are working on an Initiative for to educate new designers and the social responsibility campaigns. the ity to do mandatory oggie fashion industry as a whole of the Our green objective however is oop omposting through our responsibilities they bare when very endearing to us. We see how ainbow ets Event, whose ordering, utilizing and disposing much we do during the putting on social responsibility message is textiles to consider bio safe vendors an event. We saw when certain biodegradable doggie poop bags, as well as considering several “re- fashion week brands used out door which should be placed in “City purposing ideals. o this year, we tenting, we said why would you rent Installed ompost Bins. These will work hard to accomplish these almost ten 9,000 Kilowatt diesel are just some of our objectives to objectives. So we can get on it very fuel generators to power up, when create more awareness within the loudly and proclaim to others their the sun is right there to assist you. fashion Industry and world abroad. responsibility or we can shut up or We watched how much food we #RFWNYgoescarbonneutral put up. So we’ve decided to do the consume at our events that is wasted Speaking about going green, later putting up our best efforts. and people are hungry in the City. in your opinion overall what is We noticed how we dispose of our Tell us more about yourself - how do the fashion industry’s duty and waste and possible recycled goods you go from being an entertainment responsibility in contributing to a in black garbage bags and just asked lawyer, to launching your own to take the bags with us. We noticed clothing line and producing this massive fashion event in New York pages all across the world. So last How do you juggle running your City? year we brought in designers from own Clothing line all year long Australia. This year we have some and producing a fashion show I did entertainment law for 15 coming from London. I also solicit once a year? years, worked for SONY, Festival models, designers, and creative Productions producing festivals My line does suffer attention. I talent through Instagram and over the globe as well as represented have not picked up my sketchbook, Twitter. But the real credit goes and worked with clients such as or sewing machine for 3 months… to the entire production team who Chrisette Michelle, Eric B and but I’ve got my plans in place with reaches into their networks and Rakim, Amy Winehouse and Stevie our Production Manager Patricia brings us talent from within the very Wonder to name a few. Funny thing ai u uiterre who is helping same fashion industry. I’m amazed is I designed clothing to get me to us organi e the very frst ainbow at who is friend’s with whom, who law school and had a table in the ashion eek ream cademy is doing whomever a favor, who community room everyday and our c arm. created a can’t wait to be in what show. supported myself making things for Women’s Economic Empowerment That is what’s amazing about the people to wear. It wasn’t a strange Micro Loan Program in Roatan RFWNY family and their personal transition at all. A few years ago, Honduras. We are setting up 10 and professional networks. That is my mom got very sick and said, women with 3,ooo watt solar how we fnd fabulous designers. you did all the Mom and ad are generators, 100-watt panels and a proud of you thing life is very Does the event inspire you on a heavy duty Singer sewing Machine short so do what you love. ne creative level for your own new and will rollout production for year later I launched JagandCo. collections? JagandCo in May 2016. So I’ll have more hands than I need to be ready What are some of the biggest E actly. I have my day called The for Haus of agand o on une . challenges you face every year Haus of agand o. My concept putting it all together? is welcome to my house , where Overall what do you hope to unlike the regular fashion week, One accomplish with Rainbow Fashion Hierarchical EGO’s. I try to keep designer presents his/her collection Week? What do you hope attendees egos out of the scenario. to their audience. I’m not afraid to leave with? This is your third year producing have a competing designer present What I want our attendees to leave the event, what are you most to my audience, so I welcome them with message wise is that we can excited about this year? into my house. My inspiration all make a difference, if each of us comes from my ideas for shows. ur - ay line up is going to be puts our efforts forward. Over the last 3 years I have watched bananas. We are developing our 9 of my models transition and I What is the one question I haven’t very own ueer ids icks wanted to salute and support their asked, which you wish I had, and App for the Sneaker Competition. decisions. I wanted them to still why? Also, I’m very excited that we feel a place of acceptance. I wanted have 2 powerhouses repping us: Jag, what haven’t you done? I to create a place where they could ream House MB as our brand wish you’d asked me this question call home, my Haus. So this year’s manager to get us sponsorship, and because I would like people to know show is dedicated to them and I Media a great company that we should all produce the best called Tran’sitions. focusing, presenting and facilitating of our greater selves and the best our presence to the perfect media What does fashion mean to you? way to do that is to be passionate outlets. about what we call “work. Fashion means commitment to my How do you select the designers community to produce wearable For more information go to: www. you showcase during Rainbow products that allows one to express rainbowfashionweek.com Fashion Week? them without claiming gender norms. That’s what fashion means I am a social media whore, and I to me. love the people I meet on my Twitter Notes From Nat From Talking is Hard to “Don’t Speak”, it’s all “Hella Good” for Spring | By Nat Burns
wen Stefani, of has lost that critical connection to I loved this award-nominated, No Doubt fame, hip hop and R&B. She has also 80s-sounding song so I got a copy of certainly still lost all of the ska elements that their album called Talking is Hard. knows how to stir were made her a star with No This is their third studio album things up. She was Doubt and I kind of miss that. I’m and features a newly reconfgured Gmarried to Bush lead singer, Gavin a huge reggae and ska fan and she band and a somewhat new sound. Rossdale, for thirteen years and was really good at it. The rest of the album, beyond that has three children with him. They song that caught my attention, is The album’s not bad. It’s just more divorced in 2015 and then, while more mellow than expected. It was schmaltzy than anything she has serving as a judge on The Voice, good but nothing else much stood done before. she ends up falling in love with co- out. Here’s a few fun videos from judge and country music star Blake A live version of “Misery”: that album. Shelton. This breakup and new Many of these tracks are sad “Work this Body” relationship, according to Stefani, because of the divorce but also “Different Colors” inspired a new album. She calls it moony as she croons about new
Is This What Truth Feels Like? love and missing her love (Blake, This Ohio based band formed in Here’s one of the more popular no doubt). She states that this 2006 and have been part of the tracks, “Make Me Like you”: endeavor was an effort to be more live music circuit for some time. honest and real and to help her heal I’ve long been a Gwen Stefani fan Walk the Moon is currently made and deal with issues after a long, but actually, if I’m honest, more a up of front man Nicholas Petricca spotlighted marriage dissolved. I fan of No Doubt than of her solo plus Kevin Ray, Sean Waugaman, guess we can cut her some slack career. Her frst solo album, ’s and Eli Maiman. Now, with their but I do hope her high energy ska Love.Angel.Music.Baby. still had ever-rising popularity, I predict and R&B comes back soon. many of the elements that carried we’ll hear a lot more from these her in that earlier band, featuring Here’s one more (strange) bonus entertaining guys. electropop, dance-rock and new video, “Used to Love You”: Here’s one more fun video— wave. Even her 2006 album, The © 2016 Interscope Records an oldie that ushered in their Sweet Escape, sounded like her www.gwenstefani.com popularity—“Anna Sun”: feet were still steadily enclosed in No Doubt bedrock with a more Now on to some alternative retro © 2014 RCA Records urban, modern feel. Then this new music. Walk the Moon (named for www.walkthemoonband.com one came along. the song “Walking on the Moon” by The Police) is an American new I feel that Is This What Truth Feels wave band that recently released ‘Til next month— Like? shows an almost too mature, a huge hit single “Shut Up and Nat thoughtful Stefani. More than any Dance”. of her other solo albums. Listening to this work, I fully believe she is “Shut Up and Dance”: a settled mother of three, one who
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s sustainability and that companies are trying tropical agricultural goods, becomes more to meet that need,” says Jessica the Forest Stewardship mainstream, more Rich, director of the FTC’s Council for timber and more products Bureau of onsumer rotection. and wood producers, and today advertise But companies that don’t the . . reen Building Atheir green credentials—with have evidence to support the Council’s LEED program for many displaying third-party environmental claims they construction and building. certifcations on their labels. But make about their products Perhaps the granddaddy of all how can consumers know which erode consumer confdence and third-party eco-certifcations certifcations are legit undermine those companies that is reen eal, which has certifed are playing by the rules. thousands of businesses, mericans’ confdence in green government agencies and labels reached a low in 2011 when The FTC also hopes to stem nonprofts since its inception in the Federal Trade Commission the rising tide of greenwashing 1989 and essentially started the (FTC) busted “Tested Green” for through publication of its free green labeling movement. selling unverifed environmental Green Guides, which help certifcations backed up by companies understand the While some regional, industry un ualifed e perts at general principles that apply and proprietary labels may be supposedly independent frms that to all environmental marketing valid as well, buyers should be were actually owned by the same claims, how consumers are likely wary of any certifcations they person. Tested reen used its to interpret particular claims and haven’t heard of or can’t verify website and mass e-mails to drum how to substantiate such claims, via a uick check online. ne up more than 100 customers— and how to back up claims to way to fnd out if an eco label and si fgure revenues falsely avoid deceiving consumers. irst is legit is by checking it out on claiming to be the “nation’s released in 1992 and revised most the Ecolabel Inde , the largest leading certifcation program recently in 2012, the latest version global directory of sustainability with over , certifcations incorporates guidance on the use oriented certifcation labels, in the nited tates. ccording of third-party certifcation seals currently tracking 463 ecolabels to the FTC, the company never and claims about carbon offsets in 199 countries across 25 tested any of the companies it and “renewable” materials and industry sectors. certifed and instead awarded energy sources. CONTACTS: FTC Green use of its label and a link to a For their part, consumers should Guides, www.ftc.gov/news- certifcation verifcation page investigate any green certifcation events/media-resources/ on its website for any customer labels they see on products to truth-advertising/green- willing to spend . on a ascertain whether or not they are guides Ecolabel Inde , www. apid certifcation, or . valid. ome of the certifcations ecolabelindex.com. for a ro certifcation. we know we can all trust include EarthTalk® is produced by Roddy Tested Green is far from the only the federal government’s USDA Scheer and Doug Moss and is a such case the T has pursued. Organic label for organically registered trademark of Earth The agency has investigated produced food, the ENERGY Action Network, a 501(c)3 non- thousands of cases of misleading T label for energy effcient proft. or more information, or to green labeling and works hard electronics and appliances; make a donation, check out www. to ferret out and shut down independent agency certifcations earthtalk.org. end uestions offenders. It’s no secret that from Cradle to Cradle for to: uestion earthtalk.org. consumers want products that manufacturers, the Rainforest are environmentally friendly, Alliance for coffee and other © Neculai Iulian Dorin | Dreamstime.com - Set of stamp Bride Pride Sets Out To Grab Guinness World Record For Largest Lesbian Wedding On Planet
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sing “Political Bait & evident in ortheast os ngeles component is stepping up to stop Switch,” conservative E . eligious demonstrators this hateful religious activity: right-wing politicians, were at the corner of Townsend and other religious folk! supported by olorado in Eagle ock. There, The Disciples of Christ, for frightened religious about elderly women, some e ample, was one of the frst Ufolk, are trying to deny women and with their eyes closed and moaning religious groups to speak the LGBT community freedom and prayers, were standing in front out against Indiana’s equality under the law. They want of signs which read bortion is threatening to move its national to confate womens’ healthcare not Healthcare and bortion is convention from Indianapolis if and LGBT rights with their right to Murder.” Others were reading out was not vetoed. Episcopal religious liberty, i.e., their religious loud from Bibles. Graphic photos bishop atherine aynick, of the views trump freedom and equality. of supposed aborted fetuses were Diocese of Indianapolis, issued a The issues of womens’ health and also present. pastoral letter saying the LGBT equality is switched to the Personally, I believe these women is “an embarrassment to Hoosier issue of religious freedom. are devoted, true believers. I don’t Hospitality.” Bishop Gene Using a strategized doctrine of believe, for instance, that they are obinson, the frst openly-gay tates’ ights, where individual political operatives or dupes of Episcopal bishop, has repeatedly states are protected by the U.S. such! I was impressed with their denounced such laws. In addition, Constitution from interference devotion and willingness to stand the United Church of Christ and by the federal government, a outside on a drizzly cold morning the resbyterian hurch , bevy of laws have been passed practicing their religious rights which recently voted to embrace by state legislatures to stop the while assembling and speaking. same-se marriage, decried implementation of marriage . B players were refusing However, religious doctrine and other Federal rights legally to appear in Indiana and North cannot be used as Federal laws! available to all. This strategy is arolina for games if those tates’ called The eligious reedom On the other side, lawmakers adopted punitive laws. estoration ct . across the country are facing The fght for gender and BT staunch criticism for introducing or too many years, similar tates’ equality under the law is not over. “religious liberty” bills. Some of ights strategy has allowed right- Here in E , where we live in our nation’s best known athletes, to-life groups to effectively chip the bluest congressional district in businesses and celebrities have away at the upreme ourt’s the bluest state in the nation, we called lawmakers and placed ads oe vs ade decision. woman’s enjoy the freedom of inclusion and calling on state legislatures to f right to privacy to choose services e uality. et’s not stop until all their state s to ensure they from her doctor is switched to people in our country, regardless of cannot be used to deny services to murder by anti-abortion folk. race, ethnicity, gender and se ual LGBT people. orientation, enjoy these freedoms. ecently this murder tactic was Further, a most important societal © Msdogan | Dreamstime.com - Supreme Court Visit Us Online or Use Our FREE Mobile App For a Complete Version of The Essential Gay & Lesbian Directory www.GayAndLesbianPages.com
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f you have not had a chance (in form and in theory) by Kerry seeing any retribution against her to see the HBO movie, Washington, Confrmation picks accuser, but merely speaking the Confrmation, please, make up with the immediate US Supreme truth because she was asked to do time to do so. Sure, this Court history and the denial of so. story about a courageous obert Bork’s confrmation. Along these sexual politics along Iwoman who stands up to sexual We are moving to the 1990s, but race lines, there is interesting harassment ends in a tragedy all the illness of the US President subplot involving the justice’s wife, of us our still enduring, but it is Ronald Reagan Administration’s Virginia Thomas (Alison Wright), quite a lesson on how very little assault on Americans has received and her attitudes, suspicions and has changed for American women a third term in the form of the support during the hearings. The over the past 25 years. Although it elder Bush (whose pernicious flm seems to suggest that both tends toward to the melodramatic presidency actually looks husband and his white wife have at times, it is also quite well done. benevolent compared to both both a strong distaste and a strong In 1991 President George H.W. his predecessor’s and his son’s desire for beautiful black women. Bush nominated Federal Judge presidencies) and as 1991 ends, A further exploration into the Clarence Thomas for the United Bush nominates Thomas (Wendell psychology of these two could States Supreme Court. A staunch Pierce) to the US Supreme Court. prove to be very interesting. opponent of civil rights (and When an investigation into onfrmation also reminds us how humanity) the African-American Thomas’ background leads to Hill, current US Vice President Joe Thomas was an extremely cynical she is thrown into the spotlight of Biden (played with panache by choice to replace Supreme Justice millions as the dynamics of sex, Greg Kinnear) and his Democrat Thurgood Marshall, the only power and race play out. cohorts really dropped the ball (to African American to sit on the put it politely). highest court in the land prior to Written by Susannah Grant (Erin Thomas, and a true civil rights Brokovich) and directed by Rick Naturally, the naysayers have been icon (once he got over that death amuyiwa ope , onfrmation deriding the HB special flm, penalty thing). succinctly recaptures those picking out irrelevant points or tumultuous times when women just making up stuff up about the t frst, it seemed the un ualifed dared not speak out against flm or the actual history or both. Thomas would receive their sexual harasser. Thomas’s confrmation by the . . enate. But, of course, there will always confrmation and hearings led to Then came Anita Hill and judicial be men (and women) who dismiss a national dialogue about sexual hearings were never the same. the idea that women remain harassment in the work place. oppressed in their workplace. Played with the utmost respect Grant’s screenplay makes repeated and understanding of Anita Hill efforts to show how Hill was not
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Why I’m Voting for Bernie | By Juno Parreñas, PhD
ow much can a Eight years ago, I overlooked Under the Obama presidency, president of the how instrumental she and her the US has launched 400% more United States of husband were in welfare reform drone strikes than under George America actually that stripped away benefts and W. Bush. President Obama has do? Some voters paved a way for Draconian also issued the least number of Hemphasize the president’s power measures such as having federal pardons by any president in the to appoint people to the Supreme assistance stop after a mere two history of the United States. The Court as one of the longest lasting years. Eight years ago, I lived by presidential candidate Obama legacies a president can have. the idiom that the devil you know promised to close Guantanamo. Others see that the power to sign is better than the devil you don’t Not only does it continue to or veto laws as the most important know. This was before Honduras, function as a detention center, duty of the president. For me, Berta Caseras, and Libya. the strategy for its closure has one the most important issue been to merely continue its Hilary Clinton stands for the is the responsibility of being a indefnite detention elsewhere. Democrat Party of the New commander in chief of the largest With American taxpayer support, Left, the party that welcomed military force in the world. Will Israel wages a brutal occupation neoliberalism as a way to redefne we have a president that continues of Palestine, with Gaza still left the party following Republican drone warfare? What kind of in rubbles from the siege against successes of the 1980s. The foreign policy will our tax money it in 2014. legacies of this move toward the support? Will our future president right of the political spectrum We cannot continue this status see Henry Kissinger as a hero to meant NAFTA, the demise of quo. Are we not tired of the emulate instead of a war criminal social welfare, and the idea of violence that we condone to admonish? With these kinds of being tough on crime. In the through our silence and inaction? questions in mind, the prospect years following Bill Clinton’s This is why I voted for Bernie. I of either a Republican or Hillary presidency, the Clintons have could add that he was one of the linton in offce compels me to amassed billions of dollars earliest proponents of legislation do all that I can to support Bernie through their philanthropic protecting LGBT folks from Sanders. organization the Clinton housing discrimination and Eight years ago, I voted for Foundation. Their purpose is that he advocated for same-sex Hillary in the California primary. to “strengthen the capacity of marriage while Hillary Clinton What changed for me in the eight people throughout the world to was stumping for the Defense of years is precisely the very thing meet the challenges of global Marriage Act. This isn’t about that her supporters laud as her interdependence” and continues who was our friend frst, but experience. I don’t blame her for their political infuence. rather what acts are we willing to her support of the crime bill that have committed in our name? The War on Terror of the her husband signed, although I get Bush years further pushed the it now that her words and actions Democrat Party towards the right. in the 1990s were race baiting.
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Bad Business Is Big Business | By Dian Katz, MS
as a professional you because it pays more than the better if the professionals have known and seen HMO. A Financial professional came to us and explained the for years, ever passed might want to give up his less situation informing us that they you over to his/her money making clients for a more appreciated our business but due colleague, assistant, elite demographic. However, this to circumstances, we need to see Hintern without any notice? does not feel good to the one their associates. Unfortunately, Sometimes, turning a loyal client being handed over. We might this doesn’t always happen and over to someone else’s caseload wonder what is wrong with us we frst discover we have been without letting you know, shows that they don’t want to work with passed on when we show up for poor customer service and a lack us any longer. We might also feel our appointment. Surprise! On the of caring about the individual. the loyalty we have given to this other hand, it’s not really a personal professional seems to have fown thing or that we aren’t good clients These things happen more often out the window. or patients. Another emotion we than we’d like to think. It’s big might feel is anger. Here we were business. A surgeon might want We’d probably feel somewhat their clients and patients while to take the patient with the PPO they were climbing the ladder and building their practice. Now view of the city. Needless to say, disappointed and somewhat mad. that they are so great at what they you knew that Jeff was probably Why didn’t they call and tell me do, they no longer need us. It is working with big money making this? And why did they wait until defnitely not a good feeling to be clients. He even mentioned that he practically the last minute so it on our end. has clients who are millionaires would be diffcult to fnd another and billionaires. As always, once decent tax person? Also, I felt like What inspired me for this column my taxes were completed by Jeff, Jeff didn’t care at all because he was an experience I had with my I felt very satisfed. His fee is not couldn’t even give me a call back tax guy. I was seeing the same cheap. It has steadily gone up into to explain. CPA for several years. I met him the hundreds. Fortunately, Jeff after my previous tax guy retired Since I was unable to talk to Jeff, I gives me a decent fee I can afford. and referred me to him. When I decided to email him. I expressed frst met the new guy, he was so This year, I booked an appointment my disappointment on how it was welcoming and gracious and was with Jeff far in advance. Usually, handled. I also said that if I was working out of a tiny offce on only the ta frm calls me to confrm my informed that he was unavailable, one foor and across the street from appointment. Although I called far I would have made an appointment a residential area. You’d walk in in advance, my appointment was with someone closer to home and and sign in. The one woman staff scheduled a week before the tax less of a drive. He answered a was the receptionist, secretary and deadline. Since I had not heard short time later. (Would have been greeter. After having Jeff (not his from anyone, I called myself the nice if he just called) He explained real name) do my taxes, I realized day before my appointment just to how he had to let some clients go he was brilliant in fnding ways to make sure I was good to go. When I and he is sorry. He also said he help me get a decent refund with called, I was informed that I didn’t would understand if I went to see all of the positions I held. have an appointment with Jeff but someone else and if I stayed, I I had one with his assistant. I said, would be in good hands with his The following year, he moved to “whoa, wait a minute. I made an assistant. Wow! That didn’t make a much more prestigious area. It appointment with Jeff.” Which me feel much better. I decided to was no longer near a residential was followed by, “we’re sorry but just keep the appointment. It was area and you even had to take a Jeff is completely booked up until far too late to fnd someone else. parking ticket to pay for when you after tax season. It is written down The next day, I saw the guy. He left. The new high rise building that you have an appointment with was a very nice guy but seemed was amongst many other upscale so and so.” I was stunned that no less experienced than Jeff. He businesses. There were little one called me so I thought there seemed like he just got out of waterfalls and long glass windows must be some mistake. I told the college. Maybe he was an intern. with huge elevator towers receptionist, “I’m sorry, there I don’t know. My refund? Far less throughout the main lobby. It was must be some mistake. I called than the previous years. so beautiful when you walked in, way in advance and was told I had it looked like an upscale mall. I So what is the lesson here? Many an appointment with Jeff.” Again I had to take one of the many fancy businesses are about... MONEY. It was told that I had an appointment elevators to the rd foor. nce I really isn’t personal. On the other with Jeff’s assistant and Jeff had got there, he now had a staff in hand, there are good professionals to hand over some of his clients a lobby of his new offce. The in the business world who care to one of his partners.Then I was third year I went to see him, his about their clients. If you get in a put on hold. When the receptionist frm was moved to several fights situation like I did, or are passed got back on the phone, he said higher. 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Women Are Hill-arious | By Beth Shipp, Executive Director of LPAC
olitics provides us Clinton, Rosie O’Donnell, Lea of the ticket, was the frst with our comedic DeLaria, Cameron Esposito, Judy national LGBT organization to punchlines; when Gold, Karen Williams, Marga endorse Hillary Clinton for U.S. politics angers us, ome , es Tom, Marsha arfeld, president. LPAC’s goals are to comedy provides an and Rhea Butcher will deliver elect Hillary Clinton, elect U.S. Pavenue to vent our frustration; a night of outstanding comedy. Senate candidates who will work and, comedy raises our voices Special musical guest BETTY will with President Clinton when she’s – in the form of a joke – to perform. Our honorary co-chair for elected, and to elect LGBTQ challenge our social and political the evening is the amazing Billie women in key races up and down marginalization. Political satire, Jean King. And award-winning the ballot in 2016. parody, and old-fashioned stand-up graphic-novelist Alison Bechdel While 2016 seems like a political have long provided opportunities (author of Fun Home) designed parody, the stakes in this election to turn the serious struggles we the event poster. are high for LGBTQ women and face into a relatable and unifying The event’s goal is to inspire our families. With three states human emotion: laughter. And, lesbian and queer women, along enacting anti-LGBT laws in March within these comedic genres, with our allies, to actively and and April alone, and court cases lesbian and queer women are vocally participate in the 2016 that threaten to further erode our true headliners. We have been election. Funds raised will be used constitutional rights and access visible and out as leaders, using for political education, organizing, to healthcare at the U.S. Supreme jokes and stand-up to challenge and mobilization efforts to support Court, this election could be one the traditional heteronormative LPAC endorsed candidates. LPAC of the most critical of our lifetime. patriarchy. only supports pro-LGBTQ and Each of these endorsements Born from this mix of laughter and pro-choice champion and this matters. But beyond that, our activism comes a historic night of year’s endorsements currently community must engage if we comedy to support LPAC’s work include candidates who go above want to win. We must register and to elect LGBT and women’s rights and beyond in their support for turnout to vote; we must donate champions this election year. issues that matter most to us. and volunteer for our candidates. Thursday, June 16th at New York The 2016 slate currently includes LPAC’s Levity & Justice for All is City’s historic Town Hall, the U.S. Senate candidates Tammy a ridiculously fun and empowering nation’s only super PAC for lesbian Duckworth (D-IL), Donna opportunity for LGBTQ women and queer women is hosting Levity Edwards (D-MD), Russ Feingold and our allies to join together & Justice for All. This one-evening (D-WI) and Patrick Murphy (D- and claim our collective political performance features top lesbian FL); out Congressional candidates power. and queer comics and women’s Angie Craig (D-MN) and Denise Tickets for the event start at $60 rights champions celebrating uneau -MT our nation’s frst at www.teamlpac.com/levity; the political voices, humor, and out bi-sexual governor, Kate Brown sponsorships start at $500. For activism of LGBTQ women. of Oregon; and our own LPAC more information, you can email board member Tina Podlodowski The line-up includes a diverse [email protected]. (D-WA), running for Washington cast of all-star headliners: Kate Secretary of State. And, at the top © Beriliu | Dreamstime.com - Rainbow flag
It’s Never Too Late to Matter | By Dr. Dina Evan, Phd
never thought of myself as special has a deeper, more themselves, a tool for dealing with special. My kids get after spiritual meaning. It’s a character their own negative voices or just me when clients or seminar issue that asks, Have I done what a genuine adoring look of love attendees credit me with I came here to do, what is still which they can’t avoid or deny. their quantum leaping and I unfnished If I am to push my Can I share my own brokenness Irespond, “No, you did the work,” soul farther before I leave, what so they can better accept theirs instead of, “thank you.” I don’t is left Each developmental stage I am grateful, not just for the believe I get the credit. I also in life offers us the opportunity to answers but more for the questions know that when people put you embrace a new calling. If we miss because life is an opportunity for on a pedestal, they will ultimately the calling, we miss the gift. honing our character and pushing need to knock you off to feel My gate code in my community our souls forward. As long as we equal. So feeling special is not is thirty-two-seventy-three. I are asking the questions we remain a characteristic for which I have remember it by saying, I wish alive and vital. Life has meaning longed. I long for truth. I was thirty-two but I am past and we are still relevant. We get So, it is weird that in the twilight seventy-three. So what can to start our next life with a higher of my life, I am fghting with an the calling of a seventy-three level of consciousness than the unfamiliar need to feel special. plus-some be I have identifed level we began with in this one. Clearly in this quandary, is the one major challenge, which is Without a spoken word we add righteous indignation coming embracing my body as it falls to the vibrational frequency in from my activist spirit as I watch apart in increments and degrees. I the universe that offers hope and the elderly in our country become watch as my kids’ add grandkids compassion. There is no time when more expendable and invisible. do the fun, exciting things we did our existence is meaningless, not We have become less relevant; as together in their youth and I try for a minute. Every minute is an has our wisdom and experience to remember it’s their season, not opportunity for us to be better and in the struggle between selfes mine. I am thrilled as they make for those whose lives we touch to and self. each new memory. I ask my wise be blessed. Don’t miss a minute, mind what gift of spirit do I still no matter how old you are. Until However, having been blessed need to give my family and my your last breath, and beyond, you with a family that cares deeply, clients Is it a greater belief in matter. the issue of wanting to feel
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e can’t save was. She didn’t want to tell me, York. I heard that there were them all. but finally said 79. I am 74. other people who were ‘out’ and I needed to find them. When I came She said she was coming to LA out in 1959, this weekend to spend time with But I never forgot these women W the first her friends in Beverly Hills. and the fear they lived with. lesbian I met was a woman Who I asked? The silence This memory drove me into only 5 years older then me. was deafening. And then I activism. I went from being But she seemed much wiser. remembered she had a younger Arlene Chernick to Robin Tyler. She introduced me to the friend who is still in the closet But yesterday’s conversation gay women’s community in so she would not name her. Not with my old friend brought Winnipeg. (We weren’t lesbians even a first name. After all, everything back…the mistrust, then.) Although I never slept the closet needs to be protected the fear, the paramount goal of with her, she was my ‘guide at all times, and why, after 50 protecting the closet no matter into the community, and I years, should she trust me? what. really looked up to her. Several (Like, whom would I tell? I years ago we got in touch with don’t even out famous people And I was sad all day, like I had each other as both of us live in unless they go to harm us.) been punched in the stomach. Southern California. We got Last night Diane and I went It was like a punch in the together a few times. to an event ‘BrosforHillary’ stomach, not just because she in WEHO and ran into several She called me yesterday to tell didn’t trust me, but because she activists I knew, and new ones. me that her partner (I am not brought back all the memories Their age range was from very sure if they got married) of 49 of coming out in the 50’s with young, to my age and older. And years died of colon cancer last women who were so frightened we laughed and planned and December. I felt terrible and of loosing everything, that committed to continue our fight kept the conversation going. She the number of alcoholics was for Hillary. The cloud lifted. I has a sister here, and a few good unbelievable. (So was the was with my peers and we were friends who were taking care of suicide rate.) There was such all out and proud. I felt such a her. I asked her to come over shame! And when I insisted sigh of relief. swimming and for a weekend, that I would not be in a closet, I and she said she hated pools. was shunned by many, and felt OK, well, we could barbecue so isolated. This is why I left then. I asked her how old she Winnipeg and moved to New Preview: © Ruslan Huzau | Dreamstime.com - Senior sad woman
THEORHETICALLY SPEAKING In the End | By Nikki McCauley
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I should have known! We would not last.
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he tide begins to turn better news! Mark your calendars for May 9, this may as Jupiter in 2016, as Mercury will cross in Mercury Retrograde continues Virgo goes direct on front of the Sun! This is a unique to be a pest for most of month, May 9, 2016. It will event that only happens 13-14 but turns direct on May 22, take a little while to times a century. The next one 2016. This is good news, but be noticeable, but rest assured, it won’t occur until 2019. This may T to be honest, we will not likely is a step in the right direction in trigger solar fares, weather shifts, really notice things straightening terms of economic momentum and earthquake activity. Look for out until the end of the month. and growth. Some feel that auspicious events around the time Mercury rules communication Jupiter in Virgo is a bit of a buzz of the Mercury Occultation. and can wreck all kinds of kill, but this isn’t necessarily the havoc in many areas, including There’s a New Moon in Taurus case. Virgo is an Earth Sign and correspondence, contracts, on May 6, 2016 and a Full Moon is strongly linked to service and technology, appointments, and in Sagittarius on May 21, 2016. work. With Jupiter moving at a travel. Things tend to break faster pace, the benefts from the Opportunity Days: May 3, 8, down or go sideways. It’s best Virgo energy will be much more 15, 19, 20, and 30 to slow down and take a “time apparent, particularly regarding out” whenever possible during Femastrology Horoscopes for employment statistics. There are Mercury Retrograde periods, but May 2016 positive planetary connections that isn’t always practical. If you between Jupiter in Virgo, Venus For all the Sun Signs: Although must forge ahead with new plans, in Taurus, and Pluto in Capricorn May is a bit of a mixed bag, the major purchases, or elective that signal potential gain and general trend is positive. It’s a surgeries, try to be patient and increase this month. In the Fall good month to get your ducks in good-natured if any setbacks Jupiter will move into Venus a row fnancially to pave the way occur. ruled Libra, which should be even for success in the months to come.
Aries (March 21-April 19) It’s time to take stock Libra (September 23-October 22) There is of your fnancial reality and responsibilities. a great deal of focus on your Inner World at Make sure your true values are being refected in your this time. Relationships and shared resources are economic choices. For some this may mean working highlighted. You may need to make plans to “end” harder and planning for expansion. For others it may or fnish up some old business. Much can be gained indicate cutting back on work in favor of having by fnding the courage and inner resolve to face more time of other pursuits and obligations. This is a problems and fnd solutions to things that have been good time for restructuring your schedule and use of holding you back. resources. Financial gain is possible. Scorpio (October 23-November 21) There is Taurus (April 20-May 20) Happy Birthday enormous energy highlighting your relationship Taurus! It should be a good one, with an area. This is favorable for love, but also any other abundance of planetary energy in Earth Signs. It’s a important connections, including teacher/student, or great time to be you! Enjoy some rest and relaxation business partnerships. Share your feelings with others with friends and loved ones. But don’t forget to take you trust. A conservative but progressive approach to advantage of the immense productive potential of fnances will insure success. this period. This is good for business and fnance as well as creative endeavors. Health and Love are also Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) favorable. Concentrate on establishing a solid sense of routine that supports your body, mind, and spirit. Gemini (May 21-June 20) Seek inner wisdom This is a time for inner growth. Resist the urge to race and serenity. Let go of impatience and develop ahead. Instead, take a step back from hectic activities a sense of inner calm. Your intuitive side will be your and simplify your life. Right now, less is more. best asset now, as many things will become clear if you “tune in.” Some Geminis may need to look Capricorn (December 22-January 19) You into a residential move or change in the household. have a great opportunity to get your creative Relationships hold challenges but can be improved. groove back on! ingle aps could fnd romance. Resist the urge to make snap decisions. Slow and There are many great opportunities for growth and steady wins the race now. learning. People may become much more interested in your services, and your company. Enjoy! Cancer (June 21-July 21) Social networking, parties, and good times with colleagues are all Aquarius (January 20-February 18) Home is in the offng. ccept offers of support from others. where the heart is, and now is a good time to Your ideas are abundant and potent. Speak and others get things in order in your inner world. Take care of will listen. This is a favorable time, both emotionally any unresolved issues with your domestic and family and on the practical front. Pay attention to any health concerns. And consider purging any unwanted needs you may have let fall to the wayside. connections, both in business, and personally. Be patient, June holds much promise. eo uly - ugust There is defnitely a system of checks and balances at work now. Pisces (February 19-March 20) Lots of ideas Your opportunities to expand may be somewhat are surfacing. What will you do with them? curtailed. Nevertheless, abundance and prosperity are elationships could fourish. ingle isces could fnd well within reach, but through conservative means. love. Enjoy creative moments, but don’t forget your You will be looked up as an authority at work and in work obligations! Pay attention to health concerns. the family.
Virgo (August 23-September 22) It’s time to turn over a new leaf. Look at the big picture of your life. Sign up for things that will help you expand your horizons. Clear up doubts and misgivings surrounding relationships. Better yet, take some time off from your concerns with others and focus on your own needs. This is a good time invest in your SELF.
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