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Letters & Announcements Law Students Invited law.Last year, over 30 teams from “Bring in the Harvest” groups, or other times by will use to continue our mission of ABA-accredited law schools across appointment. Contact the Center at supporting the LGBTQ community to Compete in Moot the country registered to compete. Food Drive 916-442-0185. Don’t forget the and educating the public. The final round will take place The Sacramento Gay and Second Saturday Art Show at the Thank-you again for this Court Lesbian Center’s 20 Somethings The Williams Institute Moot on Friday, April 8, 2011 during Center, November 13, 6-9 p.m. wonderful opportunity and your and Friday Night Youth Groups Court Competition is the only the Williams Institute’s 10th Thank-you for your support of continued support! went Trick or Canning on national competition dedicated Annual Update & Anniversary this deserving community service Lori Ennis, President Halloween, and collected over 200 exclusively to the areas of sexual Celebration. organization located only eight PFLAG of Greater Placer County pounds of food! orientation and gender identity December 1, 2010 is the last day blocks from the Gay & Lesbian With the recent devastating fire law. to register for the competition. For Center. at the River City Food Bank, the Military/Veteran The competition is designed to more information and plan is to donate the food there. promote and recognize the finest competition entry guidelines, visit Thanks from PFLAG Suicide Prevention The two groups, and the Center, oral and written advocacy on a www.law.ucla.edu/ Dear Outword, are challenging the community to PFLAG of Greater Placer County Seminar significant problem in sexual WilliamsInstitute/programs/ The Sacramento Valley Veterans match and exceed their Halloween would like to thank-you for orientation and gender identity SeventhAnnualWIMootCourt.html (SVV) will host a seminar focused collections with a goal of 500 allowing us to be the recipient of on veterans and suicide prevention. pounds of food for their “Bring in the donations from Drag Queen The night’s speaker will be Janet the Harvest!” campaign. Bingo held at Hamburger Patties Lial, the local VA’s Suicide Please bring non-perishable food on Wednesday, September 22. Prevention Coordinator, who will items and grocery bags to the Thank-you Fred, Hamburger discuss this topic with the purpose Center, 1927 L Street, in Midtown Patties for hosting and of course, of informing veterans and their Sacramento between now and the Drag Queen Bingo crew and loved ones. Thanksgiving. The Center is open the star of the evening, Rusty Nails! All veterans from all eras and all for donations Monday through Everyone had such a fun evening orientations are welcome to attend Friday, noon to 6 p.m. Group and PFLAG of Greater Placer this seminar, and it is open to all meeting times for those attending County received $1,069 that we veteran organizations in the area. The seminar will be held Wednesday, Nov. 17, at 6:30 to 9 p.m. at Trinity Episcopal Cathedral, 2620 Capitol Ave. For more information, call 916-436-7676 or visit SacLGBTVeterans.org

4 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Dept. of Education Issues Guidance on Bullying Outword he Department of Education has issued hold technical assistance “Students cannot learn if they feel threatened or harassed,” said guidance to support educators in combating workshops around the country in Staff early 2011 to help educators better Assistant Secretary for Civil Rights, bullying in schools by clarifying when understand their obligations and Russlynn Ali. “We want to keep T students safe and learning, and student bullying may violate federal education anti- the resources available to take PUBLISHER today’s guidance will help us do Fred Palmer prompt and effective steps that will discrimination laws. end harassment and bullying in that.” ART DIRECTOR/PRODUCTION The guidance, issued Oct. 26, also will host a conference to raise schools and on college campuses. Ron Tackitt makes clear that while current laws awareness and equip young people, enforced by the department do not parents, educators, coaches and protect against harassment based other community leaders with tools EDITOR/OFFICE on religion or sexual orientation, to prevent bullying and MANAGER Charles Peer they do include protection against harassment. harassment of members of The conference goal is to build religious groups based on shared upon efforts led by the U.S. ARTS EDITOR ethnic characteristics as well as Department of Education and other Chris Narloch “We have an obligation to ensure that our CALENDAR EDITOR Charles Peer schools are safe for all of our kids. Every single young person deserves the opportunity to learn CONTRIBUTING WRITERS and grow and achieve their potential, without Boyce Hinman Chris Narloch having to worry about the constant threat Bonnie Osborn Charles Peer of harassment.” Ron Tackitt gender and sexual harassment of federal agencies to spark a dialogue LGBT individuals. on the ways in which communities PHOTOGRAPHY The guidance, which comes in can come together to prevent Larry Lauszus Charles Peer the form of a “Dear Colleague” bullying and harassment. Ron Tackitt letter sent to schools, colleges and “We’ve got to dispel the myth universities, explains educators’ that bullying is just a normal rite legal obligations to protect students of passage, or an inevitable part of from student-on-student racial and growing up. It’s not,” said President ADVERTISING SALES national origin harassment, sexual Obama in a released statement. and gender-based harassment and “We have an obligation to ensure Northern California disability harassment. that our schools are safe for all of (916) 329-9280 Fred Palmer The letter provides examples of our kids. Every single young person Charles Peer harassment and illustrates how a deserves the opportunity to learn school should respond in each case. and grow and achieve their National Advertising Representative The White House and potential, without having to worry Rivendell Media (212) 242-6863 Department of Education also about the constant threat of announced next steps to address harassment.” bullying and harassment in schools. Following the release of the Early next year, the White House guidance, the Department plans to

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Nat. Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce Sacramento Rainbow Chamber of Commerce Nat. Lesbian & Gay Journalist Association Midtown Business Association Golden Gate Business Alliance outwordmagazine.com November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 Outword Magazine 5 Tax Guide for Domestic Partners ambda Legal has released a short guide aimed at tax professionals and California’s registered Ldomestic partners explaining the consequences of a significant shift in federal tax policy as they file their tax returns for 2010. The change, announced earlier treating same-sex couples who this year by the Internal Revenue have formalized their relationship Service, applies to California’s under state law the same as registered domestic partners married different-sex couples are (RDPs) and also may apply to the treated,” said Jennifer C. Pizer, state’s estimated 18,000 legally National Marriage Project Director married same-sex couples, as well for Lambda Legal. “The problem as registered domestic partners in addressed by this new policy Community Property Treatment to Nevada and Washington. highlights what marriage California’s Registered Domestic In a change from the approach discrimination means – an endless Partners: Preliminary Answers to taken by the Bush Administration, stream of sometimes small Some Frequently Asked Questions.” the IRS will now recognize the inequalities that often end up It was prepared by Pizer, Lambda jointly owned community property costing same-sex couples real Legal Staff Attorney Peter C. Renn income earned by California RDPs, dollars as well as their dignity. But and tax attorneys at the prestigious the same way it long has done for let’s be clear – while this is Irell & Manella law firm in Los different-sex married couples who welcome progress towards our Angeles, with consultation by file separate federal income tax community’s goal of full legal Wendy E. Hartmann of the Bennett returns. equality for same-sex couples, the & Erdman law firm, also in Los Recognition of “community IRS still won’t allow us to file a Angeles, who specializes in estate income” means couples each will joint tax return or otherwise planning for same-sex couples. report half of their combined respect our family relationships, To download Lambda Legal’s income on their separate returns and federal law as a whole still FAQ explaining the new IRS -- called “income-splitting” -- which discriminates against us in position about registered domestic can mean big savings for couples countless serious ways. This is a partners’ community property with wide disparities in income. small step, but it’s a good one.” rights, please go to: www. “This change represents one The document is entitled “The lambdalegal.org/ttp-community- more good step in the direction of IRS Applies ‘Income-Splitting’ property.

6 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Appeals Court Hearing Date Announced For Prop 8 Appeal by Boyce Hinman he 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals has in support of the Judge’s submitted briefs in opposition to html. The most recent links to announced that it will hear oral arguments decision, and about 30 groups Proposition 8, as did many law the documents begin with the have submitted briefs on the groups and organizations in the date “10-26-10.” regarding Proposition 8 on Monday, December T issue. health professions. Boyce Hinman is the 6 starting at 10:00 a.m. These include a diverse group California Communities founder of the California of supporters of marriage The court will be considering violates the U.S. constitution? United Institute has put copies Communities United Institute. equality from within the LGBTI of these briefs on their Web site, at least two issues: do the The hearing will be held at community, such as; Equality He can be reached at b. proponents of Proposition 8, and The James R. Browning U.S. California, National Center For and you can read them at www. [email protected] or the County of Imperial among Court House, 95 7th St. in San Lesbian Rights, National Gay calcomui.org/prop8courtdocs. calcomui.org others, have standing to be Francisco. and Lesbian Task Force and heard in the appeals court? Also, October 18 was the deadline Lambda Legal, among others. did Judge Vaughn Walker err for all groups supporting Judge Many advocacy groups from when he decided that Walker’s decision (overturning outside th e LGBTI community Proposition 8 is void because it Proposition 8) to submit briefs submitted briefs also have Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell to End Next Year? by Boyce Hinman three Judge panel of the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of 2011. The answering brief, from Log Cabin Republicans, who sued Appeals has issued a stay of U.S. District Court to overturn DADT, is due February AJudge Virginia Phillips’ order to immediately 22, 2011. The government can terminate “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” effectively allowing reply to the Log Cabin Republicans’ brief, if it does so, that reply must the government to continue enforcing DADT and be delivered to the appeals court no to continue proceedings against any current service later than 14 days after the Log members who have violated DADT. Cabin Republicans’ answering On October 12, Phillips ordered do not mean, of course, that the brief. the Pentagon to immediately individual rights guaranteed by our “The Ninth Circuit’s decision to terminate DADT, which it has been Constitution have no place in this extend the stay is disappointing,” using to discharge openly lesbian calculus, but they do counsel said Sacramento Valley Veterans or gay members of the U.S. Armed careful consideration before final President Tyson Redhouse. “We Services. judgment.” cannot let this sway our In her final order on the issue, In addition, the three judge panel determination to see this costly Judge Phillips refused the said that this deference to acts of policy repealed, though. If anything, government’s request to stay her Congress is at its highest level in this development emphasizes the order pending any appeal that the Congressional acts under its need to begin contacting our government might make to a authority to raise and support leaders to start taking more higher court. Among other things, armies. The panel asserted that assertive steps in taking out this Judge Phillips said it was unlikely “Courts are ill-suited to second- policy.” that her opinion would be guess military judgments that bear It is worth noting, however, that overturned by the appeals court. upon military capability and now that the Republican Party has However, the appeals court readiness.” taken control of the U.S. House of decision on Nov. 1 contradicted The panel said it tended to agree Representatives, it is highly Judge Phillips’ assumption that the unlikely that the House of government was unlikely to win on The panel asserted Representatives will enact appeal. It noted that “the district legislation overturning DADT. court’s analysis and conclusions are that “Courts are ill- The Democratic controlled House arguably at odds with the decisions suited to second-guess did pass such a bill earlier this year, of at least four other Circuit Courts but that bill was never approved by of Appeal.” military judgments... the U.S. Senate. All legislation, of In other words, the appeals court the current session of Congress, not was claiming that four other U.S. with the government’s assertion passed by both houses of Congress, Courts of Appeal have ruled in that the district court’s injunction and signed by the President, dies at favor of DADT. does not permit sufficient time for the end of this year. So, an entirely The 9th U.S. Court of Appeals appropriate training about ending new bill would have to be gave two other primary reasons for the ban to occur, especially for approved by both houses of putting Judge Phillips’ order on commanders and servicemen Congress. hold until the appeals court has serving in active combat. You may read a full copy of the had time to fully consider the issue. However, the government’s appeals court’s stay of Judge First of all, it said the courts have appeal will be considered at greater Phillips’ order at www.calcomui. traditionally assumed that acts of length by the 9th U.S. Circuit Court org/nwsflsh110210.html, then click Congress are constitutional. When of Appeals in the near future. The on the link at the bottom of the considering requests to stay orders following schedule has been set for web based version of this article. that overturn an act of Congress, that process. Boyce Hinman is the founder of appeals courts have traditionally The government’s full brief, the California Communities United “accorded great weight to the explaining why it thinks Judge Institute. He can be reached at b. decisions of Congress.” Phillips’ order should be [email protected] or They add that, “These principles overturned is due by January 24, calcomui.org outwordmagazine.com November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 Outword Magazine 7 Team Faces Captures First SVG&L Softball Title With some great hitting and strong fielding, Team Faces defeated The Bolt in a preliminary faceoff, and then went on to defeat Badlands in the finals, winning the first ever Sacramento Valley Gay & Lesbian Softball Championship. The games were played Saturday Nov. 6, at Roosevelt Park. Plans for the 2011 season are already in progress and you can meet and congratulate many of the players on Dec. 6, when they will be the Out & About beneficiaries of Drag Queen Bingo at hamburger patties.

8 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Election 2010: The Winners and the Losers... by Charles Peer here is no denying or sugarcoating the fact that Democrats did well with Roger Moore led a strong effort to elect Sacramento City Council, Patrick Dickinson easily being elected to Pan and defeat Andy Pugno, the Kennedy and Ryan Chin, lost. Democrats, the party most in tune with LGBT the 9th Assembly District and chief architect of Prop. 8 who also However, Jay Schenirer, winner in Tvoters, took a shellacking this Election Day. Of Darrel Steinberg handily winning co-led the legal team defending the District 5 and Darrel Fong, winner course, many LGBTs are Republicans, so for them, it reelection to the 6th Senate District. measure in federal court. Pugno in District 7, are both strong LGBT The most lost an Assembly seat held by his rights supporters and both is mostly smiles. celebrated win for party for decades. narrowly missed winning As you probably know by now, as a marriage equality leader, has Stonewall, West Sacramento’s openly gay Stonewalls endorsements. the Republican Party has been elected Lt. Governor, however, was mayor, Christopher Cabaldon, recaptured the House, and returning the state’s top offices to for Dr. Richard easily won reelection. Both of ELECTION 2010 Democrats have barely held onto democrats. Pan for the 5th Stonewall’s endorsed candidates for continues on page 26 the Senate. Democrats also did well in other Assembly In California, and in Sacramento, state offices, handily winning all, District. Stonewall there is much to cheer for though, although as we go to press, Kamala president as candidates who support LGBT D. Harris has not been officially Chris issues have been highly successful. called the winner in the Attorney Barbara Boxer, a longtime LGBT General’s race. Of particular note is Our next Governor, rights supporter has been returned the election of staunch LGBT rights Jerry Brown to the Senate, and Jerry Brown has supporter, and former Sacramento been elected Governor, defeating Assemblymember and City Council Meg Whitman who vowed to member Dave Jones as Insurance appeal the federal court decision Commissioner. overturning Prop. 8. SF Mayor Many candidates supported by Gavin Newsom, who is best known the Sacramento Stonewall CCAF’s Love Lab Rolls Into UCD

The Capital City AIDS Fund (CCAF) recently delivered a rolling condom dispenser cart to the Health Education and Promotion division of the UC Davis Student Health Services Department. The cart, dubbed the “Love Lab,” will be taken to various locations on the UC Davis campus on a weekly basis to distribute free condoms and lube to students, and will be staffed by students wearing white lab coats to go along with the “college lab” theme. Pictured above with the “Love Lab” are (l to r) Jason Spitzer, MPH and Polly Paulson, MPH, MA with the UC Davis Health Education and Promotion division; as well as Joyce Mitchell, Chair; and Ted Ross, Board Member; with the CCAF. Ross, along with project team members Ivan Islas and Eric Jensen designed and built the “Love Lab.” CCAF’s Prevention and Education Program donated the cart, valued at $3,500, to UC Davis. The “Love Lab” will distribute approximately 125,000 free condoms to students annually, in an attempt reduce HIV and STI infections as well as unwanted pregnancies.

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10 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Author/Activist Marc Adams To Discuss LGBT Youth Suicides ver so lightly, I ran the edge of the blade across my left wrist. This one, I thought to “Emyself, would be for my failures. Switching hands, I ran the blade across my right wrist. This one would be for being gay.” Marc Adams’ autobiography, The reach GLBT students from religious Preacher’s Son, begins with this educational institutions. Adams is riveting journey through the an award-winning author of nine darkest moments of his life, books including, Do’s and Dont’s of moments that he will share at an Dealing with the Religious Right upcoming presentation in and It’s Not About You: Sacramento. Understanding Coming Out & Adams has made recent Self-Acceptance. presentations at Harvard University “Hope is everything,” Adams and Rutgers University amidst a says. “I will spend the rest of my national surge in reported suicides life offering that hope to GLBT of LGBT youth. For Adams, the persons so maybe one day we Author/Activist Marc Adams to Jayne Ryan, attorney and CEO of SacPrenup.com. stories of LGBT young people won’t have to hear stories like the discuss LGBT youth suicide on taking their own lives is a common Nov. 16. occurrence. “. . . I believe hope “Gay, lesbian, bisexual and Hope Needs Only Hands & Hearts, transgender youth are four times and human kindness on Monday, November 15, at 7 p.m. more likely to consider suicide than at the Trinity Episcopal Cathedral their heterosexual counterparts,” can change everything.” at 2620 Capitol Ave. The Adams says. “I was almost one of presentation is open to the public those statistics. When you are in story of Tyler Clementi. When Tyler and is free. that place of darkness where you and the others died, someone lost a The presentation is being hosted cannot see your heart in your own son, someone lost a best friend and by the Sacramento chapter of hand, it seems the only escape is to someone lost their future. I have set Integrity, the Sacramento G&L disappear.” the pattern of my life to inspire Center, CGNIE, FACES, the After a lengthy journey to others to offer hope, too. I believe Sacramento chapter of PFLAG and self-acceptance, Adams founded a hope and human kindness can Atheist and Other Freethinkers. For nonprofit social justice organization change everything.” more information about appropriately named HeartStrong Adams will bring that hope to Heartstrong, visit www.heartstrong. to make every possible effort to Sacramento at a presentation titled org

outwordmagazine.com November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 Outword Magazine 11 Big Changes in Store for Oscar Night Sacramento he Capitol City AIDS Fund, the host of & Co. who is returning this year as emcee. Sacramento’s annual Oscar Night Sacramento, Guests will then take one of the Tis making some big changes to this year’s three elevators up to the twelfth event, including a spectacular new site, a new floor where they will be treated to several innovative changes. Hollywood Walk Area with passed appetizers as well Once upstairs, guest will find a as the traditional sit-down dinner, a theatre seating VIP Reception Area, The area and live entertainment. Hollywood Walk Area, which will Outword sat down with Michael “We’re going to change it up feature passed appetizers to guests, Sestak, who is chairing the event quite a bit,” Sestak said. “Were not a more formal dining area, the with honorary co-chair Chevo going to go back to the hotels silent auction area, and several bar Ramirez of Wells Fargo Bank, to where we have traditionally been. stations. New this year, there will find out more. We are going to be at the 2020 be a Theatre Area, where guests can get away from the crowds and watch their favorite nominated songs in a little more of Gateway Oaks Building in a quiet area. Natomas, a brand new 12 story “We’re trying to have office tower, and we will have something for complete use of the twelfth floor everybody,” Sestak said. for the event.” The Hollywood Walk The new space will give the Area will help do that. It event over 24,000 square feet of will feature passed space to use, about 10,000 square appetizers, convenient feet more than they have had in bar stations, and plenty the past. of screens to watch the “So, we’ve got a lot of room, and rooms are not finished and will be Oscar’s – and will be a people will love the view from bare concrete floors with open great area for mingling. twelfth floor, it’s beautiful,” Sestak ceilings showing the air and There will also be a sit down said. “And no parking problems – heating elements, giving an dining area as in years past, that there will be plenty of free parking industrial air to the event. will feature a full dinner and also on site.” The first floor lobby is finished have screens to watch the action The twelfth floor is completely however, and plans are for the from Hollywood. enclosed in glass, offering majestic traditional Red Carpet entrance to The cost of the sit down dinner views of downtown, north to the be there, with all the fanfare that will be $125 with sponsored tables airport and Sutter Buttes, and on a has made the event a special treat, of 10 going for $1,250. The clear day, east to the Sierras. The including be greeted by Guy Farris, the popular emcee from past years OSCAR and host of News10’s Sacramento continues on page 27

12 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Le Beaujolais Nouveau est Arrivé! Faith Is on Our Side he party to celebrate the release of the 2010 by Tania Torres Beaujolais Nouveau is a global phenomenon, and the good news is you don’t have to be n August 4, U.S. District Court Judge Vaughn T Walker issued a landmark ruling when he French to join the party and celebrate the release of this famous wine! Ooverturned Proposition 8 and lifted the ban Officially released for sale on the Historically, Beaujolais was a on marriage equality in California in the case Perry third Thursday of November each simple regional harvest wine vs. Schwarzenegger. year amid much fanfare and produced for local consumption. In Celebrations and wedding ceremonies, however, were quickly put on excitement, the race is literally on 1951, The French Union hold when the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals stepped in and temporarily to get the first bottles of the vintage Interprofessionelle des Vins du invalidated Walker’s ruling until they, too, could review the case and to Paris and other markets. And Beaujolais formalized the official determine whether or not Proposition 8 was constitutional. then the party starts all around the release date as the 15th of Now, Californians must wait until December 6, 2010, when the court world! November and the name Beaujolais will hear the appeal before marriage equality in California will be Beaujolais Nouveau (Boe-zho- Nouveau was made official. Marc Feldman, Executive Director of revisited by the legal system. LAY new-VO) is a young fun and French vintner, and entrepreneur the Sacramento Philharmonic, at the Fête du Beaujolais Nouveau 2009. Knowing that much too often faith is used as an argument to deprive not-too-complex wine. Fermented Georges Duboeuf, saw the potential Photo by Pico van Houtryve equality, faith leaders throughout California rallied together to actively for marketing Beaujolais Nouveau advocate for equal justice under the law. and profitably reducing his d’oeuvres and meet several local Last month, more than 700 clergy and congregations added their inventory of ordinary wine. His celebrities. A silent auction names as supporters of California Faith for Equality’s amicus brief which idea was to create a race to Paris featuring items with French flair states that the principles of religious liberty and human dignity support carrying the first bottles of just will benefit the Alliance Française Chief Judge Vaughn Walker’s order released Beaujolais Nouveau. de Sacramento and its building invalidating Proposition 8. Last month, more This attracted growing media fund. California Faith for Equality’s brief coverage and by the 1970s the race Hosting the event, the Alliance urges the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals than 700 clergy and had become a national event. In Française de Sacramento is a to affirm Judge Wallker’s landmark congregations added the 1980s more races gained nonprofit organization that ruling which extends marriage to popularity in countries throughout their names as promotes the French language and everyone. Europe. culture. The first Alliance Française In 2007, California Faith for Equality supporters... Next to join the fun, the United was established in Paris in 1883. filed a similar interfaith amicus brief States and Asia jumped in. In 1985, Currently there are more than Annabel Lee at the Fête du Beaujolais which was the only brief cited in the landmark decision that granted Nouveau 2009. Photo by Pico van the date was changed to the third 1,100 branches worldwide. The same-sex couples the right to marry. Houtryve Thursday in November. In the U.S. Sacramento chapter has over 600 Just as they did in 2007, faith leaders are speaking up in support of for just a few weeks, this wine is this release provides perfect timing members and offers more than 20 to promote Beaujolais Nouveau for French classes for all levels as well marriage equality and asking that all families be valued and protected made from the gamay grape, and under the law. by law, these grapes must be Thanksgiving. Everywhere around as cultural and social events. the world, from Singapore to Cost for the Fête du Beaujolais The fight isn’t over. But, we have faith on our side. California Faith for harvested by hand and grown in Equality along with its 700 faith leaders and congregations will continue the Beaujolais region of France. Sacramento, the November release Nouveau gala fundraiser is $25 for of Beaujolais Nouveau provides an Alliance Française members; $30 to speak out until there is an end to discrimination and LGBT families Fruity and without tannins, have their rights upheld. Beaujolais Nouveau is meant for excuse to party in fun French style non-members; and $35 at the door. Tania Torres is Sacramento Region Organizer for California drinking six to eight weeks after Right here in Midtown A complimentary glass of harvest and generally should not Sacramento and open to the public, Beaujolais Nouveau is included. Faith for Equality be kept for more than a year. the Fête du Beaujolais Nouveau For further information, or to About half of all Beaujolais will be celebrated Saturday, purchase tickets or provide Silent Nouveau produced is exported; November 20 at the unique Auction donations please contact Germany and Japan are the midtown venue Antiquité Maison the office of the Alliance Française primary markets, followed by the Privée from 6 to 9:30 p.m. Guests de Sacramento at 916-453-1723 or U.S.A. will enjoy music, wine, hors visit afdesacramento.org

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14 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Outword braved the goblins and ghosties and headed out to the The Merc, FACES, The Depot, Badlands and The Bolt on Saturday, Oct. 30, to capture you in your Halloween finest — and you didn’t let us down. Want to see more pictures, or download your favorites? Visit outwordoutabout.shutterfly.com/2711. You should be able to drag & drop photos directly from this site, but Halloween 2010 - Soldiers, and Damsels & Cons - Oh My! if that doesn’t work, just email [email protected] and we’ll be happy to send you the ones you want in Hi-res.

outwordmagazine.com November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 Outword Magazine 15 Out & About DQB For SG&L Center Was All Treats! There were pirates and cowboys, damsels and ladies of the night, and convicts and cops, but they all came together to help Rusty Nails and Hamburger Patties raise $1,033 at Outword’s Drag Queen Bingo on Wednesday, Oct. 27. Thanks to the continued generosity of you bingo- players DQB has now raised $23,683 for local charities and non-profits. And these folks know how to party, so join in on the fun at the next DQB on Wednesday, Nov. 10, the day before Veterans Day, to benefit the Sacramento Valley Veterans!

16 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Entertainment Harvest Festival Offers Handmade American Arts and Crafts ach fall, residents from the greater Sacramento year to experience a full weekend information, call 415-447-3205 or of shopping, entertainment, food visit www.harvestfestival.com area get the chance to support individual and fun at the Sacramento Harvest EAmerican artists and find one-of-a-kind Festival. handcrafted gifts, often at bargain prices at the The Sacramento Harvest Festival Original Art and Craft Show runs Sacramento Harvest Festival. November 19-21 at Cal Expo, 1600 This year’s Sacramento Harvest handcrafted items. Today, the Exposition Dr. It opens each day at Festival will be held November 19 shows still celebrates the creative, 10 a.m. and closes at 6 p.m. Friday through 21 at Cal Expo. The entrepreneurial spirit and its and Saturday and 5 p.m. on Harvest Festivals are the largest unique shopping and entertainment Sunday. Tickets are $9 for adults indoor art and craft shows on the atmosphere continues to thrill ($7 for 62+); $4 for youth 13-17; West Coast featuring over 24,000 customers from all over California Hand turned wood gifts from Art Majerus, the Sawdust man, are and kids 12 and under are free. American handmade items. and beyond. always popular. For tickets and additional Hundreds of vendors from across Each exhibitor is subject to a the United States will join together stringent jury process to be selected Festival also offers live music and to exhibit and sell jewelry, pottery, as a featured artisan, assuring that entertainment throughout the original art, toys, photography, only the highest quality products entire day. Cash Tribute will be appearing in several sets each day, covering the hits of “The Man in Black” with conviction and accuracy. Crowd favorites Tom Rigney and Flambeau will break out their fiery fiddling, as well several songs off their new album, Serious Fun. There also will be strolling entertainers that roam the aisles and treat guests to songs and performances. For the second year in a row, the Sacramento Harvest Festival has joined forces with the Elk Grove James Garner (in black) and the Cash Tribute Band are one of the many groups Community Food Bank to assist the that will be providing non-stop entertainment at this year’s Harvest Festival. non-profit with obtaining food donations. Anyone who brings a textiles, bath and body products, will be offered at the show, and non-perishable food donation to the clothing, home décor and more. only items that are made in the event will receive a $2 off Plus, select specialty food vendors USA are allowed entry. admission coupon. will be providing food samples of Many attendees love interacting Don’t miss your only chance this delicious dips, fudges, olive oils, with the renowned artists who scones, marinades, jams and more, create each individual item, right in time for Thanksgiving. watching live crafting The Harvest Festivals began 38 demonstrations and getting their years ago in San Francisco and purchases personalized. originated as a marketplace for In addition to the extensive artists to congregate and sell their shopping, the Sacramento Harvest

outwordmagazine.com November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 Outword Magazine 17 Community Profile by Bonnie Osborn added — a chicken coop and pens for the farm animals that are Billy’s Tree Farm brought in for the holidays, a small barn for wreath-making and a A Fun Holiday Experience larger barn that houses ornament- making, face-painting, kids crafts, n December 1999, shortly after the death of and the cider and cocoa bar. his father, Billy, Paul Weubbe made a visit to “Most of my nieces and nephews have worked on the farm,” Weubbe neighboring Davis Ranch to buy a Christmas tree sborn I O says. “Their grandmother definitely for his mom. Much to his surprise, the drive-through

onnie wants to be able to offer that up to tree farm was completely sold out — and it was only : B the kids. Everyone’s got a little different role. It’s given us as a credit the second week of December. family a nice opportunity to come hoto Later that day, as Weubbe and entire holiday experience. Every P back together a couple of times a his seven siblings sat talking weekend, from opening day on year, but it’s not an overtaxing around the kitchen table at the Friday after Thanksgiving, through Billy’s Farm owner Paul Weubbe under the big oak tree that has watched over four generations of Weubbe family members. business.” family home, the idea for Billy’s Dec. 19, visitors to Billy’s Farm can Billy’s Farm also serves as a Farm was born. “We said obviously take a hayride; see goats, sheep, features,” Weubbe says. “We are livestock to keep us kids out of community gathering place and an there’s more demand out here than chickens, rabbits and horses; shop really about the destination.” trouble,” Weubbe says. “It worked affordable venue for non-profit our neighbor (Davis Ranch) can for handmade ornaments, wreaths William “Billy” and Star Weubbe, for me.” organizations or special events. In keep up with. What can we do that and garland; and enjoy Paul’s parents, bought the 40-acre The rolling 17-acre field where summer, a parklike open area won’t duplicate what they are complimentary hot cocoa and cider. property in eastern Sacramento some 18,000 Christmas trees grow provides an idyllic space for doing, that is different and “We shake every tree, net every County 45 years ago. The family today was originally a hay field, weddings or picnics. unique?” Weubbe recalls. tree, load it and tie it onto the car raised sheep and cattle until the devoid of trees save a 350-year-old Each year, Weubbe, a Rainbow The answer was to create an for you. We do all the extra early 1990s. “My parents had the valley oak that marks the entrance. Chamber of Commerce board “It’s kind of the grand oak of this member, donates a portion of tree forest,” Weubbe says of the sales to local charities such as the massive, gnarled old tree. “We Sacramento Gay & Lesbian Center wanted to celebrate this tree’s life.” and has hosted several events at the Weubbe spent a year attending farm for Capital City AIDS workshops and doing research Challenge and CGNIE. Special before the first seedlings were needs children, 4H groups and planted in December 2000. The school groups work or volunteer at farm uses drip irrigation and no the tree farm and participate in chemical fertilizers or herbicides. special events there. “We are the only certified organic Weubbe hopes Billy’s Farm will Christmas tree grower west of the become a cherished holiday Mississippi,” Weubbe says. Billy’s tradition for the Sacramento Farm also is one of only five community, just as it has been for growers in Northern California that the Weubbe family. cultivate the hypoallergenic Leland Billy’s Farm’s Organic Cut and Cypress, a tree developed in Florida Choose Trees are $5.50 per foot, all that does not drop needles and is varieties. They are open weekends, dust- and allergen-free. from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. through Dec. The farm features a generous 19, and they are having a free kids variety of trees, including Monterey day on Dec. 13, from 10 a.m. to 2 Pine, Monterey Cypress, Arizona p.m. The Farm is located at Cypress, Bishop Pine, Scotch Pine, 8430 Dillard Road, in Wilton, Sierra Redwood and Incense Cedar. CA 95693 and can be Several additional cut varieties, reached at 916-687- including Fraser Fir, Nobel Fir, 8354 or visit them Douglas Fir and Nordmann Fir, are online at www. trucked in from Oregon just before billysfarm.com. Thanksgiving. Weubbe tries a few new varieties each year. “Now that we are on growing year ten, there is a good mix,” he says. Although the sales season is only a month long, work on the tree- farm is year-round. The wet and cold of January and February are ideal for planting — “ideal for the trees, not so great for the guy who’s out there planting,” Weubbe says. Each tree is hand-sheared with a machete blade to perfect its cone shape in April, mid-summer and fall. Billy’s Farm opened to the public in 2003. Several structures were 18 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Entertainment by Chris Narloch with haven’t had a chance to see their production yet, but I will definitely be attending a performance Iof The Wiz, the soulful reworking of the beloved story The Wonderful Wizard of Oz by L. Frank Baum, currently at the 24th Street Theatre courtesy of Runaway Stage. The 1975 musical took Baum’s The Wiz features a book by classic story and gave it a William F. Brown and music and contemporary, urban spin, complete lyrics by Charlie Smalls, including Jackson, The Wiz is a musical treat with pop, soul, and disco elements, the songs “Ease on Down the that deserves to be seen and heard and an all-black cast. The result Road,” “Home,” and “Everybody live on stage. was surprisingly successful and Rejoice (Brand New Day).” The Wiz plays through won seven , including Rarely produced since a November 21 at the 24th Street Best Musical, Best Score and Best disastrous 1978 film version that Theatre. For more information, visit Choreography. starred and Michael www.runawaystage.com. The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest Plus New Movies at the Tower & IMAX by Chris Narloch acramento is lucky to still have Sseveral area movie theaters showing less commercial titles that don’t necessarily make it to the multiplex — films such as I Am Love and Winter’s Bone, two of the year’s best and both now out on DVD. The Varsity Theatre in Davis, along with the Crest and the Tower here in Sacramento, continue to offer many of the more intriguing A scene from “The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest.” cinematic efforts on local screens. In addition to detailing upcoming November 12 at the Tower. revenge fantasy. movies at those locations, I also Inside Job As the final film of the review the new Robert Downey, Jr. Academy Award nominee Millenium Trilogy opens, Lisbeth is comedy, Due Date, and let you Charles Ferguson (No End In Sight) recovering in a hospital and know about the latest animated directs and Academy Award winner awaiting trial for three murders. release getting the IMAX treatment. Matt Damon narrates this shocking After she is released, Mikael must exposé about the worldwide prove her innocence. Meanwhile, Fair Game financial meltdown of 2008. Lisbeth is plotting her own revenge Already generating Oscar buzz Through interviews with major against the people who framed her. and one of the year’s most highly financial insiders, politicians and The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s anticipated films, Academy Award journalists, Inside Job traces the Nest is now playing at the Crest in winners Naomi Watts and Sean rise of a rogue industry and unveils Sacramento and is currently Penn star in this suspense-filled the corrosive relationships that scheduled to open at the Varsity in political thriller. Based on the corrupted politics, regulation and Davis on November 12. notorious Bush-era scandal that the global economy. exposed the identity of covert CIA Megamind Inside Job opens November 12 at agent Valerie Plame and adapted Dreamworks animation presents the Tower. from her best-selling memoir, Fair this satirical take on the superhero Game centers on the controversial The Girl Who Kicked the genre focusing on a down-and-out motivation behind her dismissal Hornet’s Nest supervillain (voiced by Will Ferrell) and the subsequent fallout that Fans of Stieg Larsson’s hugely who has to learn how to get his threatened to destroy her family popular trio of books have been groove back when he’s left without and jeopardized the lives of her waiting patiently for their latest fix of goth-girl kink and feminist NEW MOVIES contacts overseas. Fair Game opens continues on page 22 outwordmagazine.com November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 Outword Magazine 19 Entertainment Something Wicked This Way Comes lthough not everyone can come and go Valour! Compassion!, The Vagina Monologues) and features musical by bubble, Wicked, is finally floating into staging by Tony Award winner ASacramento and will soon be casting its Wayne Cilento (Aida, The Who’s spell over long waiting fans. Tommy, How To Succeed…). Wicked has “cast quite a spell” Wicked is set to make its Oz. One — born with emerald green (Washington Post) throughout Sacramento premiere starting May skin — is smart, fiery and North America, breaking box office 23, 2012 for a four week run misunderstood. The other is records in every city that it has ending June 17, 2012, as part of the beautiful, ambitious and very played, including Toronto, Chicago, 2011-12 Broadway Sacramento popular. Wicked tells the story of Los Angeles, San Francisco, season presented by California their remarkable odyssey, how Washington, D.C., Philadelphia and Musical Theatre at the Community these two unlikely friends grow to Center Theatre. The complete become the Wicked Witch of the Boston to name a few. 2011-12 Broadway Sacramento West and Glinda the Good. Called “a cultural phenomenon” season will be announced in April Music and lyrics are by Stephen by Variety and named “the defining 2011. Schwartz (Godspell, Pippin, musical of the decade” by The New The winner of 35 major awards, Academy Award winner for York Times, Wicked continues to including a Grammy Award and Pocahontas and The Prince of thrill audiences around the world. three Tony Awards, Wicked is the Egypt) and the book is by Winnie There are currently seven untold story of the witches of Oz, Holzman (My So Called Life, Once productions of Wicked worldwide, based on the best-selling 1995 And Again and thirtysomething). including two North American language production and Australian For more information about novel by Gregory Maguire. The musical is directed by tours, a Broadway production, production. A Dutch-language Wicked log on to www. Long before Dorothy drops in, two-time Tony Award winner Joe London production, a Japanese- production of Wicked will open in wickedthemusical.com or two other girls meet in the land of Mantello (Take Me Out, Love! language production, a German- 2011. calmt.com B Street Theatre Premieres Three Shows for the Holidays he B Street Theatre is presenting three new shows for the holidays, two for Northport Cottage member Elisabeth Nunziato as the For the 15th time in B Street’s storyteller Lisa, and New York-based adult audiences and the return of Junie B in an all new treat for the young 19-year history, an original play will be actress Polly Adams as Lisa’s mother, at heart. presented for the holidays. This year’s Ann and will be directed by B Street T offering is entitled Northport Cottage, Associate Producer Jerry Montoya. written by B Street Producing Artistic Well opens Nov. 20 and plays Director, Buck Busfield. through Dec. 4. Northport Cottage follows the journey of desperate Kellin Delahanty Jingle Bells, Batman Smells! as she careens towards her past to The kids will also have their turn, as better understand her present. Her the B Street Theatre’s Family Series literal destination is the small Lake opens its seventh season with Junie B. Michigan cottage she visited summers Jones in Jingle Bells, Batman Smells!, and winters as a child. Her figurative based on the popular children’s book destination stretches beyond the series Junie B. Jones, by Barbara Park. confines of time. In this adventure, the precocious and Northport Cottage will feature three persistent Junie, in her efforts to create B Street Acting Company members all familiar to B Street audiences. Dana a perfect holiday celebration, is Brooke will play the role of Kellin challenged by her nemesis: the equally Delahanty. Kurt Johnson as her travel mischievous and willful Tattletale May. mate. Venerable Mitch Agruss will Junie B. Jones in Jingle Bells, appear as numerous characters Batman Smells! is adapted for the throughout the play. Buck Busfield will stage by veteran children’s playwright direct. Allison Gregory, whose adaptation of Northport Cottage opens Nov. 14 Dr. Seuss’s Go Dog Go! was produced and runs through January 2. as part of B Street’s 2008-2009 Family Series Season. The B Street Family Series previously produced Junie B. Well Jones and a Little Monkey Business to Also playing for the holidays is Well overwhelming box office success in by Lisa Kron, a metatheatrical 2007. exploration of health and illness, both Junie B. Jones in Jingle Bells, in the individual and in a community. Batman Smells! will feature Stephanie The play is driven forward by the Altoltz Megan O’Neill, and company narrator, Lisa, whose plan to present a member David Pierini. Michael performance piece about sickness and Stevenson directs. healing instead goes off the rails as the Junie B. Jones in Jingle Bells, other performers question her version Batman Smells opens Nov. 20 and of events. The more things fall apart, plays through Dec. 26. the more they come together. For show dates and times, visit Well will feature B Street company www.bstreettheatre.org. 20 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Theatre by Chris Narloch Plays for Days in the Big Apple recently spent a week Busch plays a Mother Superior through January 2, 2011 at the who will do just about anything to Soho Playhouse, 15 Vandam Street. checking out the latest keep her convent afloat, is a return theatrical offerings in I to form for the multi-talented La Bête Manhattan. Next issue, I’ll performer, who hit it big in 1984 An actor’s showcase, La Bête have my reviews of the with the wonderfully wacky provides three talented performers Vampire Lesbians of Sodom. musicals I saw, including the opportunity to sink their teeth The Divine Sister has the same into an uneven but entertaining Million Dollar Quartet gleefully irreverent tone and charm couple of hours of theater. The with Levi Kreis as Jerry of that celebrated show, and Busch beast of the title is an unbelievably Lee Lewis, Sean Hayes has assembled a first-rate cast, obnoxious street including Julie Halston and Alison performer and Kristin Chenoweth in Fraser, who have a field-day with named Promises, Promises, Fela! his loony characters and plot. Valere who featuring Patti LaBelle, The main reason to see this is a thorn in delightful, off-Broadway the side of and a new revival of La show, however, is for the more Cage aux Folles starring Joanna Lumley (The Princess), Mark Rylance (Valere) and David Hyde Pierce talented (Elomire) in La Bête. Busch himself. The actor’s expressive face playwright, Kelsey Grammer. relationship between the main York theater circles, where he has can morph from a Elomire. This article covers the plays I saw couple played by Linney and honed his acting and writing skills beatific smile to a Mark while in New York, including a new James, Time Stands Still is riveting for the last 25 years. Rylance mask of horror in a drama starring and theater. You might know Busch from his stars in the nanosecond, and his , the latest laugh-fest Time Stands Still is currently role as the cross-dressing inmate plum role of from drag artist Charles Busch, and selling tickets through January 23, during the third and fourth seasons crazy comic spirit is Valere, who a queer comedy with the timely 2011 at the on West of Oz, and he has also appeared on allowed to run free enters title, My Big Gay Italian Wedding. 48th Street. the big screen in the film in this campy, belching, adaptations of his plays, Die, funny spoof of nun Time Stands Still The Divine Sister Mommie, Die! and Psycho Beach movies. THEATRE Charles Busch is renowned for Party. The Divine Sister is continues I first fell in love with Laura My Big Gay Linney when she played Mary Ann his drag artistry, especially in New The Divine Sister, in which Mr. currently selling tickets Italian Wedding on page 22 Singleton in the 1994 television adaptation of Armistead Maupin’s Tales of the City. Linney has been doing stellar work ever since, on Escape from Happiness Makes Sacramento Debut television, in films and on stage, he Quinns are a familiar but eccentric, right up to her excellent work on working-class family trying to protect each the current Showtime series, The Big C. Tother from drugs, alcohol, random acts of I don’t know how the actress violence, police corruption and (semi) organized finds time to squeeze theater into her busy cable television and film crime in their impoverished neighborhood. Your careers, but she shows up about typical family. once a season on Broadway, and I Their plight is captured in George F. Walker’s corrosively had the opportunity to see her in Escape From Happiness, a raucous satirical viewpoint on modern this play, an intriguing drama dark comedy by celebrated urban culture has produced a about a news photographer playwright George F. Walker, that prolific, and successful body of (Linney) who returns home from Iraq with physical and emotional will be presented by Sacramento’s work, with many critics describing scars. Elly Award-winning theatre his plays as “spoken opera.” Linney’s excellent performance company, KOLT Run Creations this The New York Times raved, “Mr. isn’t the only reason to see the play. holiday season. Walker takes once radical Brian d’Arcy James is equally Hopeful mother Nora (stage techniques right to the edge, to the compelling as her lover, a writer veteran Martha Kight) and her very risky brink, but stops short of who feels overshadowed by her mysterious husband Tom (Patrick despair. If Escape From Happiness success. and Murphy, Elly winner for KOLTs — telling, terrific title — does not Christina Ricci also impress as the Crime and Punishment) depend on care about how the truth can ruin May-December couple whose the help of their three daughters your day, it’s because the play is glue that holds us together.” admission and $12 for seniors/ happier romance provides a (Jessicah Neufeld and Elly Award concerned with more important Escape From Happiness will be students/SARTA members. Tickets contrast to the troubled central winners Kellie Raines and Kelley things, like changing our lives.” performed at 8 p.m. on Friday can be purchased through the relationship between the characters Ogden) to save the family from “There is as much catharsis and and Saturday evenings from company Web site, www. played by Linney and James. collapse. Rounding out the stellar power to be found in great comedy November 19 through December KOLTRunCreations.com. This The divide between the jaded cast are local favorites Andrea as there is in great drama,” said 19, and at 2 p.m. on Sundays on production is made possible perspective of Linney’s character Guidry, Jeffrey Lloyd Heatherly, director Lisa Thew. “It felt very Dec. 5, 12 and 19, at the Ooley through the generous support of and the wide-eyed innocence of Ben Moroski, Justin Muñoz and Jeff right to explore that territory Theater, 2007 28th St. in midtown Uptown Studios, Outword Ricci’s feels at times rigged, but Webster. during the holidays with a show Sacramento. Magazine, and the Sacramento when playwright A former taxi driver, playwright about a family and that mysterious Tickets are $15 general Metropolitan Arts Commission. sticks to the painful reality of the outwordmagazine.com November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 Outword Magazine 21 New Movies The Secret of Sweet continued from page 19 by Chris Narloch wasn’t able to review an arch nemesis. Funny lady Tina Fey and Jonah it before we went Hill fill out the rest of the voice cast to press, but I will in this comedy from directors I Cameron Hood and Kyle Arthur definitely be driving Jefferson. over to San Francisco’s Megamind is now playing in American Conservatory IMAX 3D at the IMAX on K Street Theater (A.C.T.) to see in Sacramento. Due Date Megamind the highly anticipated If you’ve longed to see a dog new play by Tarell Alvin masturbate on the big screen, your the odd couple road movie from jockstrap in The Hangover, he has McCraney, Marcus; or prayers are answered, and the new 1987 that starred Steve Martin and been an acquired taste that I have odd couple road movie Due Date, the late John Candy. not yet acquired. Many people find The Secret of Sweet. starring Robert Downey, Jr. and Downey, Jr. (slumming) plays an him hilarious, however, and he Described as a “poetic and Zach Galifianakis, is definitely the uptight businessman who is kicked appears to be having a gay old moving exploration of identity and film for you. off a plane — thanks to Galifianakis time playing an oddly swishy slob. acceptance,” the play is set in a I didn’t know dogs could use — and then joins the obnoxious Downey, Jr. nearly saves the film housing project days before between A.C.T., Magic Theatre and their paws for that purpose, so would-be actor on a cross-country with his amusingly cranky verbal Hurricane Katrina strikes. Marcus Marin Theater Company. perhaps Due Date is really an drive so that he can attend the riffs and disgusted double takes, centers on a young black man, The New York Times calls instructional film. What it isn’t, is a birth of his child and Galifianakis’ but the entire venture is so passionately seeking out his sexual McCraney’s work “a new, good movie, unless you desire to character can knock on predictably familiar that all I could and personal identity on a cultural authentically original vision … It’s see a sentimental, inferior and Hollywood’s door. think as this 95-minute road movie landscape infused with mysterious what people must have felt during unofficial remake (rip-off?) of Ever since I first saw the doughy dragged on and on was how badly family creeds. productions of the early works of Planes, Trains and Automobiles, Galifianakis spilling out of his I wanted to take a detour. Directed by A.C.T. Associate Eugene O’Neill in the 1920s or of Artistic Director Mark Rucker, the Sam Shepard in the 1960s.” production is a West Coast Marcus plays through November Theatre premiere and provides the final 21 at the American Conservatory continued from page 21 installment of McCraney’s Theater in San Francisco. Tickets, acclaimed trilogy, The Brother/ starting at $10, are available by farting, spitting and suffering from Italian Wedding, I wasn’t Sister Plays, which launched the calling the A.C.T. Box Office at ‘diarrhea of the mouth’, much to the expecting Shakespeare, first-time, three-theater partnership 415-749-2228 or at www.act-sf.org. dismay of his rival, the quietly although this hit off- seething Elomire, played to Broadway comedy does perfection by David Hyde Pierce. aim for the same low-comic The great Joanna Lumley (Patsy zeal that is a part of many from Absolutely Fabulous) of the Bard’s best comedies. provides regal support as the If it does not succeed in princess who comes between the getting there, that is partly two men, and director Matthew the fault of the play’s Warchus leads the cast through director, Teresa A. Cicala, their comic paces. who directs with a David Hirson’s play falls apart in jackhammer when a the last half when it tries to get sledgehammer would have serious about the battle between sufficed. low-brow and high-brow art. Before The plot involves a “nice that happens, however, this through February 13, 2011 at the Music Box Theatre on West 45th Italian boy” named Anthony who Broadway revival is a very funny decides to marry the man of his battle of wits between Rylance Street. dreams. Comic chaos ensues after (who gives a tour de force Anthony breaks the news to his performance) and Hyde Pierce. My Big Gay Italian Wedding parents, who want a traditional La Bête is currently selling tickets With a title like My Big Gay wedding with a Catholic priest (good luck). Artistically-speaking, MBGIW is not exactly a breakthrough in the American theater. The script is a rather sorry soufflé of clichés and stereotypes about gays and Italians, and the quality of the acting ranges from surprisingly good to “well, at least they remembered their lines.” On the plus side, the show does have an unrelentingly gay-positive heart and a hardworking cast, who are willing to do anything for a laugh. My Big Gay Italian Wedding is currently playing an open-ended run at St. Luke’s Theatre on West 46th Street. 22 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Calendar compiled by Charles Peer Six Flags Discovery Kingdom WEST SIDE CABARET Jeanine De Bique, soprano with live entertainment including Members of the touring cast of The native of Trinidad served Jessica & Hunter & DJ sensations West Side Story, and special as Artist-in-Residence with the the Perry Twins. Plus all the rides guests Erich Bergin and Wesla Basel Opera in Switzerland, and fun. 6 - 11 p.m. Vallejo & Whitfield, in a special cabaret where she performed as Kate Nov. I-80. Info: SixFlags.com/ performance to benefit SF AIDS Pinkerton in Madame Butterfly DiscoveryKingdom services. 7:30 p.m. Marines and Barberina in Le nozze di Thursday, 11 Memorial Theatre, 609 Sutter St. Figaro. 8 p.m. Sat. 11/20 & 20 SOMETHING CLUB SAPPHO SF. Info: 415-273-1620 www. 2 p.m. Sun. 11/21. Mondavi A night for women with DJ Join this group for 20 Somethings HelpIsOnTheWay.org Center, UCD. Info: 866-754-2787 for friendship, discussions and dancing -door proceeds MondaviArts.org. events. 8 - 9 p.m. Main room, Sac benefitting local LGBT groups. G&L Center, 1927 L St. Info: 7 p.m. - 1 a.m. Club 21, 1119 21st Tuesday, 16 RCC MIXER FASHION GIVES BACK THE TITANS 916-442-0185 SacCenter.org St. Info: 916-806-6117 Join Sacramento’s LGBT business Christopher Collins from Project The Camellia Symphony presents community for their monthly Runway hosts a fashion show works by Bach, Beethoven and Friday, 12 Sunday, 14 mixer, socializing and featuring designs by Armani, Mahler, plus a free wine tasting OUTWORD HAPPY HOUR COLD CANYON HIKE networking. 6 - 8 p.m. Hosted by Derek lam, Haute Hippie, Collins and holiday silent auction (6 and more, to benefit Capital City p.m.), Camellia Junior Orchestra It’s time to get all Fabulous And Explore UCD’s Stebbins Cold Lumens Light + Living, 2028 K AIDS Fund. 8 p.m. - midnight. performance (6:30 p.m.) and a Gay at the Depot, with drink Canyon Nature Preserve, plus St. Info: RainbowChamber.com $45. Lounge on 20, 20th & K. pre-concert talk by Maestro Allan specials, good friends, fun and a breathtaking views along Blue Info: SisterBrotherStyle.com Pollack (7:15 p.m.) 8 p.m. chance to win tickets to see Cher’s Ridge. Be in shape for this rather PFLAG SACRAMENTO strenuous 1200 ft. elevation gain Memorial Auditorium. Info: and Christina’s new movie, Support group for parents and and rough up-and-down trail Q-DEAF 916-929-6655 Burlesque. 5:30 - 7 p.m. The friends of LGBT. 7:30 p.m. St. along the ridge top. Hiking boots An LGBT Deaf social and peer CamelliaSymphony.org Depot, 2001 K St. Info: 916-441- Marks UMC, 2391 St. Marks Way. 6823 www.The Depot.net required. G&L Sierrans. Info: led support group that provides 916-379-0724 Info: pflagsacramento.org social and emotional support, Sunday, 21 LGBT VETERANS NIGHT OUT safe-sex education, information and referrals for LGBT Deaf. 5 Round off Veteran’s Day week SACRAMENTO PRIME TIMERS Wednesday, 17 AMERICAN RIVER BIKING - 7:30 p.m. Sac G&L Center, 1927 with dinner and dancing as the Men 50+ (and their friends/ VETERANS SUICIDE PREVENT Meet at the middle of the bridge L St. Info: 916-442-0185 Sac Valley Veterans rally at the admirers) are invited for brunch The Sacramento Valley Veterans at William Pond Recreation Area. SacCenter.org Depot for happy hour (5 p.m.), and conversation. Noon. Head host a seminar focused on Dress for the cold, wear a helmet, followed by dinner at Head Hunters, 20th & K St. Info: Ray, veterans and suicide prevention, and bring money for brunch in Fair Oaks Village. 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Celebrate the release of this year’s Saturday, 13 HARVEST FESTIVAL Then join your friends for a BEARS’ THANKSGIVING harvest with music, wine, hors delicious, complimentary HANDS & HEARTS American handmade and original d’oeuvres and a Silent Auction Join the Sacramento Valley Bears Thanksgiving Dinner with all the Author and activist Marc Adams art, crafts, ceramics, jewelry and to benefit the “Maison de la for a special Thanksgiving dinner. trimmings! Doors open at 5 p.m. looks at youth suicide because of more from over 200 artists, plus France” Building Fund. 6 - 9:30 Bring a dish to share. 4 - 7 p.m. The Bolt, 2560 Boxwood St. Info: bullying in his presentation Hope non-stop entertainment. 10 a.m. p.m. Antiquité Maison Privée, Info & Location: SacBears.org 916-649-8420 SacBolt.com Needs Only Hands & Hearts. Free. - 6 p.m. 11/19 - 11/21 Cal Expo. 2114 P St. Info: 916-453-1723 7 p.m. Trinity Episcopal Info: 800-346-1212 afdesacramento.org J.U.N.G.L.E. 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DINING/BEVERAGES Directory of Advertiser listings are free for ERNESTO’S all advertisers - or $15 per issue 1901 16th St., 916-441-5850 24 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com A 21st Century “Soul Sister” on CD Plus Two “Soul Brothers” Reviewed by Chris Narloch usic lovers title and similarly sterling covers, of ’s “Little Ghetto old enough to Boy,” Gaye’s “Wholy Holy,” and Bill Mremember the Withers’ epic, anti-war song, “I ‘60s and ‘70s often look Can’t Write Left Handed.” back with nostalgia on Leela James the period when Motown, My Soul, Stax Philly soul and Stax Volt singles filled the radio with sweet . Leela James After that era of classic rhythm- Bruno Mars and-, hip-hop and rap music Doo-Wops & Hooligans, Elektra became the dominant modes of The day after I caught this gifted, musical expression. Lately, things 25-year old singer/songwriter’s have begun to swing back to sizzling appearance on SNL, I yesteryear, when artists such as purchased his debut disc, and I Aretha Franklin and have listened to it about a dozen defined and did it times since then. “Doo-Wops and with soul. Hooligans” is one of the best pop-soul CDs of the year. I was unfamiliar with this Mars, who was raised in Hawaii powerful, young soul singer, who and is of Puerto Rican and Filipino has a wonderfully throaty voice descent, had already made a name that reminds me of for himself as a guest vocalist and and . My Soul is co-writer on the hits “Nothin’ on Leela James’ third CD and her first You” by B.o.B. and “Billionaire” by for the revived , a Travie McCoy. label that all but invented modern His new material on Doo-Wops, soul music. including the smash hit “Just the James’ beautiful, husky vocals Way You Are,” the incredibly catchy are a perfect fit for fabulously “Grenade,” and a funny track funky tracks such as “Supa Luva,” entitled “The Lazy Song,” is even “I Ain’t New to This,” “So Cold,” better. and “It’s Over,” as well as a sexy In fact, almost every cut on this duet with Raheem DeVaughn on CD sounds like a hit, which is a “Mr. Incredible - Ms. Unforgettable.” rare achievement these days.

Bruno Mars John Legend has a righteous, retro-soul collaboration with just out, and the pop-soul sensation Bruno Mars recently released a dynamite debut disc. Also reviewed, the latest CD from soul queen Leela James. John Legend & The Roots Wake Up!, Columbia Records Aside from the occasional and effective use of rap on a few of its songs, Wake Up! sounds like it could have been recorded during the fertile period in the early ‘70s that spawned such classic soul albums as Marvin Gaye’s What’s Going On. An inspired collaboration between the hip-hop collective (and house band for Jimmy Fallon’s talk show) The Roots and the smooth soul crooner John Legend, this CD features 11 stellar cuts. Stand-outs include the nicely updated remake of the call to action from Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes that gives the CD its outwordmagazine.com November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 Outword Magazine 25 Prenup continued from page 10 Pink Wigged Transsexual Wins U.K. Scrabble Crown misperception that prenuptial ou won’t find the word “transsexual” in the agreements are only for the rich official onlineScrabble Dictionary, but you and famous, but, to Ryan, the opposite is true. Ywill find the word “obeisant,” and that is all “Having a prenup is actually that Mikki Nicholson needed to win this year’s U.K more important for the average Scrabble Championship. person,” Ryan says. “It hurts a lot more to give away half of a little Nicholson earned her gesture Nicholson said that he has been than half of a lot — or having half expressing deferential respect, such playing Scrabble for only about five of your retirement taken away, for as a bow or curtsy, along with years, learning the game on the example. Here you were thinking, £1,500 ($2,405) in prize money by internet. She won the ‘Oh boy, I can retire in five years,’ outplaying Mark Nyman who has championship in a best of five and then a divorce comes along, won more than 20 major Scrabble game series played Oct. 31 in and you find out you can’t quit for contests, including the World London. another 10 years or more. I’ve seen Championship. “A good Scrabble player is it happen, and it’s heartbreaking. I The 32-year-old from Cumbria in intuitive. They also need to be good think having a prenup should northwestern England won the title with numbers,” Nicholson told the become common practice for all in style, competing in a pink wig BBC. “People think Scrabble is just couples — pick out your ring, pick and matching ensemble (it was about words, but it’s the numbers up your prenup.” Halloween, after all) and said she that win the game so a sound Nicholson said that she will the Causeway Scrabble Challenge. When it comes to same-sex was described by a psychologist as mathematical brain is an spend the prize money on a trip to “I’m thrilled to have won, and I couples, community property law a woman trapped in a man’s body. advantage.” Malaysia next month to compete in can’t wait to celebrate.” makes no distinction between gay and straight, Ryan says. “A judge is higher-earner partner will be agreements; otherwise, you run the going to look at how long the ordered to pay spousal support to risk of having extremely important Election 2010 couple has been together, who the lower-earner partner. How long matters overlooked, Ryan says. continued from page 9 makes the most money, how are and how much depends on several Ryan recounts having recently factors, including the length of the reviewed a prenup for a doctor Stonewall also supported David General. marriage.” who was soon to be married. The Larson and Neil Pople for the In Rhode Island, Lincoln Chafee, Before entering a Couples should also be aware prenup had been prepared by a Roseville City Council and Mary the independent candidate for prenup, it’s important that they cannot include child corporate attorney where her fiancé Hernandez for School Board Governor who pledged to lead the custody or child support issues in worked. District 2, who were unable to charge in bringing the freedom to that each party their prenup. Those situations are “What jumped out at me capture wins. Stonewall marry to Rhode Island, won his decided by a judge on a case-by- immediately was that the aggressively campaigned for race. In Maryland, Martin O’Malley, have his or her own case basis, focusing on what is in agreement did not make any Hernandez, hoping to elect the only who pledged to sign a bill bringing the best interest of the child at the mention of her professional openly gay candidate in the freedom to marry to the state, attorney review the time. practice. She was so excited about Sacramento County. won his bid for reelection and document... Before entering a prenup, it’s getting married that it never Nationally, the National Center voters also reelected Attorney important that each party have his occurred to her that her husband- for Transgender Equality is General Douglas F. Gansler, who or her own attorney review the to-be would begin to acquire an celebrating the elections of Victoria penned the important Attorney General’s opinion concluding that document, preferably an attorney ownership interest in her medical Kolakowski, who has become the they going to split things up. There Maryland should honor out-of-state who is experienced not only in practice beginning on the day of nation’s first elected openly is a high likelihood that the transgender judge, and Kim Coco marriages celebrated by same-sex family law, but with prenuptial their marriage. When I brought this couples, including those from next to her attention, she looked like a Iwamoto, who has won reelection to her seat on Hawaii’s Board of door in the District of Columbia. deer caught in the headlights. In Minnesota, Democrat Mark That’s the kind of thing that comes Education. LGBT candidates also won many Dayton, who campaigned in with having experience with these races and David Cicilline of Rhode support of the freedom to marry, is matters.” Island has been elected as the leading against Republican Tom What if you already got married fourth openly gay member of the Emmer, but a recount is in without a prenup and now regret House of Representatives, joining progress. Dayton’s lead comes after it? “It’s not too late,” Ryan says. “It’s Reps. Barney Frank (MA), Tammy a flood of funding for Emmer from just called a post-nup instead of a Baldwin (WI) and Jared Polis (CO) anti-gay groups across the country, prenup, but it can accomplish the on the Hill. including NOM, which ran a series same objectives.” Even though no state had voters of ads in the state, and corporate For more information about weighing in on a same-sex funding from companies like prenuptial and post-nuptial marriage ballot issue in the Target. In New Hampshire, Governor agreements and Ryan’s services, elections, in Iowa, whose State John Lynch, who signed a freedom visit www.SacPreNup.com or call Supreme Court overturned anti to marry bill last year, won his bid 916-213-6182. same-sex marriage laws, Justices David Baker, Michael Streit and for reelection. And in D.C., all of Marsha Ternus lost their bids the city council members for retention to the court. who voted for marriage In New York, Democrat equality last year were Andrew Cuomo won an reelected. overwhelming victory against Gavin Newsom has Republican Carl Paladino, who been elected Lt. came under fire in October for Governor, making anti-gay comments. Additionally, Eric Schneiderman, a longtime supporter of the freedom to marry, was elected as New York’s next Attorney 26 Outword Magazine November 11, 2010 - November 25, 2010 • Volume 23 • Issue 21 • No. 420 outwordmagazine.com Oscar continued from page 12

Hollywood Walk Area will be $75. seamless so that the party “We’re really trying to capture a atmosphere of watching the new, younger crowd, and we think telecast is essentially that will allow a nice option for uninterrupted.” people to come in and stroll and Live entertainment for this visit without having to sit down at year’s Oscar Night will feature a table, it will feel more like a Debora Iyall, the front women for lounge area.” the 1980s band Romeo Void. Iyall is All of the food service will be known for her passionate vocals catered, with the food preparation and provocative lyrics, alternating being done on a lower floor and between a good time party girl one brought up in an express elevator. moment and a woman bravely There will also be an Ultra baring the most intimate details of Lounge for the $10,000 and up her soul the next. sponsors that will feature a One of the evening’s most premium bar and food that will popular attractions has always accommodate 20 people, and be been the silent auction, and that divided up into five areas for each will return this year with tables group. spread out throughout the room. “Local designers will come in “The great news is that we have and trick out those spaces, as well this building for one week prior to many of the other areas,” Sestak the event,” Sestak said. “That will said. give us plenty of time to make it a Another big change this year will beautiful evening. It will also allow be the way the Oscars are shown us to control costs more and to on the televisions. In past years, return more of the money raised to when the Oscars broke away for the AIDS agencies and service commercials, emcees would rush to providers who so need the the stage and fill the breaks. funding.” “We think that has been a little Oscar Night Sacramento will be distracting in the way that it held on Sunday, Feb. 27, with the Benefitting: Sacramento Valley Gay & Lesbian occurs,” said Sestak. “So instead, Red Carpet beginning at 4 p.m. and Softball League this year we are going to pre- the actual telecast starting at produce video segments that will 5 p.m. be “thank-yous” for sponsors, Volunteers to help with the educational moments from CARES evening are more than welcome, as and other AIDS charities letting are donations for the Silent everyone know what they do for Auction. For more information, visit the community. It’s all going to be www.capcityaidsfund.org Service Honors Those Lost Through Violence and Suicide Nearly 300 people attended a Service of Remembrance on Sunday, Nov. 4, at St. John’s Episcopal Church to remember and honor the victims of violent crimes and those lost to suicide. The twelfth annual event was sponsored by a coalition of community groups and featured a variety of spiritual expressions. Impassioned presentations were given by members of the clergy and Senate President pro Tempore Darrel Steinberg, and Wendy Rae Hill and Jovi Radtke recounted their own struggles with suicide in moving presentations.

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