8 A — DAILY COURIER, Grants Pass, Oregon • THURSDAY, MARCH 25, 2010

Look sharp: Finding the right tuxedo is all in the details

By Edith Decker of the Daily Courier What’s in a lapel? ■ ack in the day, the suit NOTCH LAPEL: This a groom and grooms- lapel has a sideways V-shape men wore would be where the collar connects to the prescribed by tradition lower lapel. This style accentu- B ates the horizontal, so isn’t a — a gray morning coat with ascot and striped trousers for a good choice for a broad-shoul- morning wedding, a set of tails dered or heavy man. ■ with white tie for a formal PEAKED LAPEL: A evening wedding, a white din- lapel that has two points of fab- ner jacket with black tuxedo ric on either side that project pants and black bow tie for a upward. It’s similar to the notch less formal affair. lapel, but slimmer. ■ Today it’s up to the grooms SHAWL LAPEL: A and brides as they plan their rounded lapel that runs from the big day. The rule is: There are back of the neck to the bottom no rules. EDITH DECKER/Daily Courier in a continuous, tapering line. Typically, though, the Double-shawl collars reveal a groomsmen match the brides- A sampler and book show the many colors for ties and satin lining. This shape makes a maids, often with a color vests, as well as different patterns available. more vertical line, so is choice of a vest (called a slimming. waistcoat in formalwear par- or cooler option. by having a top quality suit for lance) or tie to match the color What will the bride and the groom, while getting the of the gowns or dresses the bridesmaids be wearing — for- lower-end rentals for the women in the bridal party will mal gowns or shorter dresses? groomsmen. Beautiful & Romantic wear. The groom may match What is the couple’s vision ❏ ❏ ❏ his groomsmen, or wear some- for the wedding day? How does Reach reporter Edith Decker thing slightly different or com- the groom want to look? Ask at 541-474-3724 or pletely different to match his the groomsmen their opinions, [email protected]. bride. too. The entire male wedding “Every year our warehouse party will probably be in a comes up with a dozen new col- tuxedo, so be sure everyone is Formal Gowns ors,” says Katrina Cunha of comfortable with, or at least Tuxedo Rentals Your Wedding Connection. willing to compromise on, the Teals and greens have been look. Keep in mind that the popular this year, she notes, groom, father of the bride and but nearly any color can be even father of the groom may found. For the groom with a be dressed slightly differently ™ sense of humor, there’s even from the groomsmen — per- Applegate the “mossy oak” hunting haps with a slightly different “Boop Boop” Boutique, LLC camoflage for a vest and tie. Katrina Cunha of Your Wedding Connection fits Nick tie or waistcoat in the same 1439 N.E. 6th Street Valley Ranch More men are choosing a Stine in his tuxedo for his role as a groomsman at his color scheme, but the same Weddings & Events regular necktie over a bow tie tuxedo design. 541-479-8820 these days, Cunha says, and friend’s wedding held last weekend. The silver vest Take a gander through a Become an Avon Independent 541-846-0353 most are going for a classic and matching “euro” style tie are extremely popular for store or two to get some ideas Rep & Support Breast Cancer applegatevalleyranch.com tuxedo jacket and pants, grooms and groomsmen now. before committing. rather than the more formal Rental fees vary, depending tails or morning coat with Cunha says that most peo- Rules are out, but you on quality and how much is The Wolf Creek Inn ascot or cravat. ple rent, rather than buy a should take a few things into included in the package, so if Cummerbunds are out. tuxedo in this area. After all, account when choosing the you’re shopping around, be “Your One Stop Wedding Shop” sure to take careful notes on Waistcoats are in. Not only do other than weddings, there are right suit: Call for a tour, the waistcoats add some color, practically no formal events in Will the wedding be out- what’s included. they are slimming compared to the Rogue Valley that a man doors or indoors? If your event One way several wedding consultation and a a cummerbund, which draws can’t wear a basic suit to and will be outdoors in the sum- parties are saving money this complementary attention to the mid-section. feel comfortable. mer, you’ll want a lightweight year and last, says Cunha, is lunch for the Bride and a guest (541) 866-2474

Including tots was a must for them 100 Front Street, Wolf Creek www.historicwolfcreekinn.com One couple with whom help out when friends or family The Associated Press Castillo worked invited guests need it most. Being asked to be to go with them on a post-wed- a sponsor is considered an As a babysitter and church ding Caribbean cruise. Another honor. school teacher, Liliana Galicia client, an avid runner, invited “It’s with people that you had no qualms about having friends to take part in a chari- feel close to and comfortable,” children attend her September ty run leading up to her wed- Ulloa said. wedding. ding day. “It makes me feel special. I Traditional or Hawaiian Theme Ceremonies In fact, Galicia, a 23-year- The stress of planning a know I will be able to count on old from New Rochelle, N.Y., wedding can easily bring out them, and they know that I will Wynnis Grow embraced the idea, incorporat- primadonna behavior, Castillo be there for them anytime.” Minister ing about 40 young guests, said; sharing or doling out For Tami Mount, of Larch- mostly relatives, in the festivi- responsibilities to friends and mont, N.Y., being included in 541.660.6908 ties. Kids — who ranged from family can help, emotionally her cousin’s North Carolina 2 weeks old to 15 — got pizza, and also financially. post-wedding weekend felt spe- Web: weddingsbywyn.com crayons and crafts, and many One Mexican-American cial too. Email: [email protected] of them got a spot in the wed- community in Los Angeles, for The cousins grew up shar- ding party to boot. example, keeps alive a long- ing vacations on the Outer “I told German (her hus- standing Mexican tradition by Banks, so Mount’s cousin and HUGE HUGE Discounts!Discounts! band) that it’s going to be a lit- pitching in to cover wedding his bride asked the extended tle chaotic but it’s worth it,” costs. family to stay with them for a Weekly Specials Galicia said, adding that she Acting as “padrino” or weekend at the beach after was not concerned about the “madrina” — Spanish for god- their wedding. • Wedding Gowns • Rentals kids’ behavior “as long as they father and godmother, or spon- Rekindling those family • Tuxedos • Silk Florals didn’t destroy anything that sor — family or friends take on beach vacations — with a new was not mine.” a range of responsibilities, pro- member to boot — gave special • Garters • Jewelry Getting married was a viding and paying for parts of meaning to the wedding for • Decorations • Event Planning chance for “a family moment,” AP the festivities including food, Mount. she said. “I really think that photos and the couple’s cloth- “We were honored and my family deserved to be there Liliana and German Gali- ing, said Araceli Ulloa, 19, of thrilled to get called back to 3,750 sq. ft. and that I deserved to have my cia married in September Los Angeles, whose family our playground for a week Showroom family.” often helps couples in such together,” said Mount, whose Although modern brides are and incorporated 40 ways. husband and daughter also sometimes caricatured as self- young guests, mostly rel- The custom, which also joined. Vine Street Plaza 541-956-9250 ish “bridezillas,” there are atives, into the festivities. applies to other big events, can “Our parents still got the 2900 NW Vine St. • www.yourweddingGP.com many who believe that wed- take different forms depending best rooms in the house, but at dings are about celebrating sons. They might hope to turn on the people involved, Ulloa least the newlyweds didn’t family and community rather the focus of the day toward a said. In one case, a bride or have to sleep in bunk beds,” than simply being the belle of cause or charity, or reach out groom’s family may ask close she said. “They didn’t care the ball. to relatives, even including friends or relatives for help. In that we brought along our It’s an idea that is both tra- them on the honeymoon. another, people offer first. babies — it was the making of ditional and, in some cases, “There are so many ways Either way, the idea is that new memories to mix with the Create and trendy. For Galicia, who for brides to involve their fam- communities pool resources to old that they wanted.” moved here from Guatemala, ilies or communities in their giving extended family a voice wedding day,” said Karry Preserve Your in the wedding has roots in her Castillo, a Central Florida wed- home country and culture. ding planner. “We really Other couples come to the encourage our clients to think Wedding same conclusion for personal, outside the traditional wedding Beautiful Bride! as opposed to traditional, rea- box.” Beautiful Bride! Memories A Truly Beautiful Enjoy a fun Personalized invitations, Wedding Awaits You! and relaxed romantic wedding albums, guest books and frames are atmosphere as just some of the ways you get ready Hallmark can help you to walk down remember your special day the aisle! forever. Come in soon.

• Tanning • Up-Do Hair Styles • Airbrush Makeup • Mineral Makeup Application •Manicures & Pedicures Make Your Appointment Today! Cherie’s River Rendezvous Jan’s Hallmark Shop Riverfront Weddings & Special Events Avenue Salon & Tanning Grants Pass Shopping Center • 541-476-7880 in a Private Outdoor Setting 541-955-5956 Roseburg Valley Mall, Garden Valley Blvd. • 541-672-5038 Call Donette at 541-761-0819 # www.cheriesriverrendezvous.com 1867 Redwood Ave. 2, www.avenuesalon.com