My BF doesn't want me buying a dildo as he feels like it might replace part of him. 30 upvotes | 18 May, 2020 | by thr0w4w4y39 bit more info here, he said he thinks that i might start losing my sex drive and as im looking at something thats more out there (dont want to get into details but its not your stranded style), he said he knows that there are other parts to the relationship but im not sure if he is putting him and his before me and my needs, does anyone else have any experience with this type of thing? edit: my comments are not posting and i dont know why, so message me with some help if you know whats going on?

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AutoModerator[M] [score hidden] 19 May, 2020 08:23 AM stickied comment [1] - Please read the FDS Handbook and Wiki before commenting. Repeated comments demonstrating lack of basic sub knowledge will result in a temporary or permanent ban. [2] - Please REPORT any comments that do not follow the sub rules. If you do not report it, the mods will not see it. [3] - This sub is FEMALE ONLY. All comments from men will be removed and you will be banned. So if you’ve got an XY, don’t reply. DO NOT REPLY TO MALE TROLLS!! Please DOWNVOTE and REPORT immediately. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. passionatevirtuoso • 46 points • 19 May, 2020 01:42 AM Yes. He is putting his needs above your own. His fears are unfounded and not true. I'm sure you have explained this to him which means he also doesn't agree, which then means he thinks he knows better than you. If so, he needs to change his mind or end up single. Finally, he likely is very PENIS IN oriented in bed if he has this belief. Very pornsick and uncreative, and in my experience, guys who think sex is mainly about PIV are bad at pleasuring women. Not good.

BellaStayFly • 21 points • 19 May, 2020 03:37 AM Red flag

Illustrious_Drive • 42 points • 18 May, 2020 11:36 PM I’m just curious, does he watch porn? I think women’s toys are more acceptable than men’s toys because sometimes toys are the only way to reach for women during sex. I am not a fan in general of sex toys or porn though in a relationship. However, if he uses porn he is 10000% being hypocritical and I would never stand for that. gitepor • 53 points • 18 May, 2020 11:39 PM It sounds like he's projecting his habits onto you. Dump the man and get the dildo.

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ny-lady • 7 points • 19 May, 2020 09:24 AM Ive never dated a man that had issue with sex toys. Never dated a man that wasnt out to give me pleasure either. My pleasure turned them on. Its sad this younger generation of men are not turned on by pleasing and getting their lady off.

www.TheRedArchive.com Page 2 of 3 jackrusselterror1 • 32 points • 19 May, 2020 01:11 AM Replace him, not the dildo. Add a to your cart too: apparently the comes cordless. Honestly though, be wary of men that get jealous and insecure over silicone, especially if he watches porn.

ModernDayOracle • 12 points • 19 May, 2020 04:56 AM Buy it. Display it on the night stand. Tell him he's on notice.

DazzlingMolasses7 • 25 points • 19 May, 2020 12:51 AM Tell him when he stops looking at porn and stops masturbating you will throw out the dildo. He won’t agree lol then dump. genben55 • 7 points • 20 May, 2020 01:32 AM To be fair I dont want my partner using porn/a pussypocket (I hate that name but) so i’d respect that and not use one, but thats just me. plutunic • 10 points • 19 May, 2020 07:39 AM vibrators are so much better sis, and they have them in a bunch of sizes. but lemme guess, he's insecure and controlling and also watches porn but doesn't want you exploring your own sexuality because then you might realize he's not pleasing you? dump him.

DaeYeNoKen • 1 point • 21 May, 2020 12:53 PM Sounds like the dildo should replace him in his entirety.

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