Letter from the Rectory by the Reverend Brendan Martin Church
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ISSUE 129 MAY / JUNE 2020 FREE SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF FRANT, ERIDGE & BELLS YEW GREEN Frant Church IN THIS ISSUE… 3 4 7 8 9 14 Letter from Church Services, An update from Round up of Catherine Hamlin What’s on in the the Rectory by features & News the Frant Parish our parish in obituary Parish: events, the Reverend from the Pews Friendship Group lockdown. What’s useful contacts Brendan Martin on, and what’s not & dates ADVERTISEMENTS PARISH NEWS From the Rectory Our car hasn’t been used in so long now, the hedge spirit will only be enhanced as lockdown eventually is literally growing into it. It seems we have run out comes to an end. of words to explain how extraordinary the situation A number of people have asked me where God is we are in is and how it is affecting us… so I won’t in this. The reality is these problems of loss, illness try. Sadly, for so many this moment in history is a and death are a constant problem. I call it a problem, horrific trauma of loss, for others deep depression of because it is a problem that needs to be resolved. As loneliness, for others like a prison, for others a drag, a Christian I believe that it should not be like this, for others a chance for some quiet time to try some people shouldn’t be lonely, get ill, and die. The only new hobby or inventive communication. way we can say that it shouldn’t be like this, is if we Everything changed, and yet nothing changed. believe that this is not how the world should be, that We still need food, medicine, friends, family, our creator God has a better plan for us. education, community, joy and hope. The daily We just had Easter, where we celebrated that suffering of people has been brought to the forefront Jesus rose from the dead. Death is not the end, there of our news and minds; loneliness, illness and death is life and hope on offer. God has done something - and yet at the same time these problems didn’t about the problems of this world, to save us from it. start a few weeks ago, we are more aware of these The hope is that people will come together in problems now because it is so awfully affecting so solidarity and purpose to ease the suffering of many people. many. The hope is that God will help us and save us We are working out new ways of living and doing out of the problem of death itself to bring us eternal what we do. The church is closed so our services life and glory in Jesus. are online (search Frant Church on Facebook or YouTube). We can’t meet together so we meet over If you need any help through this, do get in touch video, email chat, or WhatsApp. We are all having with us. For practical needs there are teams of to learn how to live in this new way (I had to look people in our villages to help as best we can. If you up YouTube videos about how to put up YouTube would like us to pray for you through this, let us videos!). know. If you have a good news story about how The way in which people have stepped up to help through this, you have been helped or encouraged, in the community, to support neighbours, to thank send your stories to us so we can encourage others! our NHS every Thursday night, have been amazing in such a dark time. My prayer is that community —Rev Brendan — 2 — — 3 — PARISH NEWS PARISH NEWS News From The Pews She was also a fluent French speaker, March and April have been very strange in later life she learned to speak Italian St Alban’s, Frant & Holy Trinity, Eridge months in the life of our Church. There and enjoyed her keep fit classes. Hazel have been Christian services held in moved to Down Lane in Frant in 2017 Rector this community for many hundreds to be near her family. When she started The Reverend Brendan Martin — 01892 752003; [email protected] of years, I wonder how many Sundays coming regularly to St Albans we were there have been throughout those years all amazed when we learned that she when no public gathering of Christians would soon be celebrating her 100th has been held. It has been a strange time birthday, as she was one of the few for everyone, with children being home ‘senior citizens’ in the congregation who schooled and exams being cancelled. could negotiate the chancel steps safely For some people every day has been the and unaided! She had 5 children, 15 same with no house groups, no coffee grandchildren 16 great grandchildren, morning, no Friendship club no toddler and many friends. group, no Youth clubs no prayer groups Another member of our congregation, www.frantchurch.org www.eridgechurch.org and no outing to church on Sunday. For Barbara Greenwood died in February. Churchwardens Services for Churchwardens some of us the highlight of the week has Barbara was a well known figure in the Jane Emler—532233 Jonathan Lynn—864304 been joining the long queue of ‘wrinklies’ village for many years. She moved to her Crawford Burden—07789 170275 May/June 2020 Stephen Barnes—861302 (I’m allowed to say that because I am house on the green in 1979. ‘Melling’, one!) at 8am outside Sainsbury’s. But the which was bought by the family in the wonderful thing is, what thoughtfulness, early 1900s, remained as the family kindness and generosity has been shown home until 2018 when Barbara and her by so many to ensure that everyone in sister Peggy, due to failing health, moved the community is cared for. to a Care Home on the coast. Her uncle So let’s focus on what is happening Robert Woods was the headmaster of rather than what isn’t. The Alpha course Frant School and lived in the old School continued throughout February and the House in Church Lane, where Barbara beginning of March. The course which and Peggy as children spent much of began in January, consisted of a weekly their school holidays. When she moved meeting where a group of about 30 of us to the village, Barbara embraced village shared a meal and watched a Christian life and quickly made many friends. video which we then discussed. She will always be remembered for her The course maintained the initial cheerful disposition, her faithful service enthusiasm shown, and attendance to the church and for her afternoon teas throughout was good, the meals were at Melling, served on the best china with delicious, the videos were excellent pretty napkins. Barbara loved walking, and the discussions were revealing. on 22nd March was conducted by the and for many years she and Peggy The course should have run for 7 weeks Rector, on his own in Church, but was organised the Footpath Society, leading plus an ‘away day’ which, thanks to the watched by a large number of people on and later planning regular rambles generous hospitality of Audrey and Roy Youtube. After that service the Church through the footpaths in the Parish and Dicker, was held at their home in Mark remained locked and Brendan has further afield. Barbara died on February Cross. Sadly the 7th and last session had continued to conducted Sunday services 3rd aged 93 years. to be cancelled, but I think everyone who using various locations including from In March another well known attended found that following the course the top of the tower and the Rectory member of the Church, Tony Pybus died was a positive and thought provoking Paddock. a few days before his 90th birthday. experience. On a sad note, we have said goodbye Tony joined the Church in 1985 when At the end of February, the PCC to 3 members of our church family who he and Anne moved to Rose Cottage in Despite the restrictions during this present time, things are still happening behind the scenes. made the decision to move the Church have died since the last edition of Parish the High Street. He became involved We want to let you know about these and keep in touch with you. office from the first floor of the Stables News. in Church life very quickly and served building into a purpose built studio in Hazel Bentley died in January in many roles including that of Church Please see our websites for the list of articles and to get up-to-date news and information. the grounds. This will give both regular following a fall. Hazel was married in warden for many years. Tony was a Videos of Services and Sermons on YouTube are also available via the websites. users and visitors better access to the 1944 to Harry who was in the Royal keen sailor and experienced some very office and allow the flat on the first floor Army Medical Corps. She lived in hairy moments on the high seas. He of the building to be separate and self Bedford for 70 years where she attended also shared many memorable sailing contained. the Parish Church of St Peter de Merton trips with local friends. Tony loved A Service of Holy Communion on Ash and sang in the Church choir. Among the Church and He loved the Lord, to WORSHIP AT BELLS YEW GREEN Wednesday morning was attended by her many interests and activities she the very end of his life he faithfully set about 20 people.