“To Marvin, with Love”: How Do We Process Grief?

“To Marvin, With Love”: How Do We Process Grief?

DEVELOPED BY GENA OPPENHEIM

Guiding Question: How do families deal with battles that occur after a loved one dies in times of war? “To Marvin, With Love”: How Do We Process Grief? 1 Overview Students will form an initial impression of Sergeant First Class Fogulhut based on the information found on his grave marker. After reading letters from his mother and his widow, they will begin to understand that contrasting perspectives can influence even grief.

One key attribute of the Cypress Hills National Objectives Cemetery is how in the heart of New York City are buried nearly 500 members of the At the conclusion of this activity, students will be able Confederate Army. Through the story of to: Sergeant First Class Marvin Fogelhut, I wanted to examine how we cemeteries address conflict • Learn the history of the Cypress Hills National resolution through simple acts of where Cemetery; and someone is buried (i.e. Confederate soldiers in • Contextualize the different ways that families deal the North) to what religious symbol is put on with grief. their grave.

— Gena Oppenheim

Oppenheim teaches at Saint Ann’s School in Brooklyn, New York.

Spotlight: Cypress Hills National Cemetery

Despite the early optimism of both the Union and Confederacy, by summer 1862, it was increasingly evident that the Civil War would be both long and costly. Almost three acres were set aside for the burial of Civil War dead in what became known as Union Grounds. In 1870, the Cypress Hills Cemetery Corporation deeded the property to the United States for a consideration of $9,600. An inspection report of September 1870 indicates that 3,170 Union soldiers and 461 Confederate POWs were already buried there.

Although Cypress Hills was established to honor Civil War veterans, its grounds include the graves of soldiers who fought in the American Revolution, Spanish-American War, Korean and Vietnam wars. Cypress Hills National Cemetery was listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 1997.

VETERANS LEGACY PROGRAM National Cemetery Administration | American Battle Monuments Commission | National History Day | Roy Rosenzweig Center for History and New Media “To Marvin, With Love”: How Do We Process Grief? 2 Standards Connections Connections to Common Core CCSS.ELA-LITERACY.RH.9-10.8 Assess the extent to which the reasoning and evidence in a text support the author's claims.

CCSS.ELA-LITERACY.RH.9-10.6 Compare the point of view of two or more authors for how they treat the same or similar topics, including which details they include and emphasize in their respective accounts. Documents Used

Primary Sources Letter from Mrs. Dorothy Fogelhut to President Dwight D. Eisenhower, July 6, 1953 Individual Deceased Personnel File National Archives and Records Administration - St. Louis

Letter from Mrs. Chanda Fogelhut to Army Effects Agency, January 16, 1954 Individual Deceased Personnel File National Archives and Records Administration - St. Louis

Secondary Sources Historical Information, Cypress Hills National Cemetery National Cemetery Administration https://www.cem.va.gov/cems/nchp/cypresshills.asp

Map, Cypress Hills National Cemetery National Cemetery Administration https://www.cem.va.gov/CEM/cems/maps/cypresshills808.pdf

Veteran Profile, Sergeant First Class Jerome Fogelhut National Cemetery Administration http://cem.va.gov/legacy/

VETERANS LEGACY PROGRAM National Cemetery Administration | American Battle Monuments Commission | National History Day | Roy Rosenzweig Center for History and New Media “To Marvin, With Love”: How Do We Process Grief? 3 Materials • “To Marvin, With Love” Packet • Two blank index cards and one pencil for each student. Activity Preparation • Make one copy of the “To Marvin, With Love” Packet for each student. ◦◦Historical Information, Cypress Hills National Cemetery ◦◦Letter from Mrs. Dorothy Fogelhut to President Dwight D. Eisenhower, July 6, 1953 ◦◦Letter from Mrs. Chanda Fogelhut to Army Effects Agency, January 16, 1954 • Make one copy of the map of Cypress Hills National Cemetery for the teacher. • Gather index cards and pencils. Procedure Activity One: Introduction to Cypress Hills National Cemetery (15 minutes) • Gather students together when you first arrive at the cemetery. Read the Cypress Hills Cemetery Historical Information aloud. • Explain the expectations of research in a cemetery. ◦◦Put all phones on airplane mode. ◦◦Give other visitors their space. This is a space for grieving and/or quiet reflection. • Lead students to the grave of Sergeant First Class Marvin Fogelhut, Section 2-S, Site 602. Allow time for them to view his grave marker. • Pass out two index cards and a pencil to each student.

• Discuss the surroundings: ◦◦What do we see, hear, smell, etc.? ◦◦What is the tone of this site? ◦◦What are the significance of the religious symbols on top of each grave marker? ◦◦What are your initial reactions upon seeing Fogelhut’s marker? ◦◦What is the significance of the Star of David on his marker? • Direct students to write a sentence of their initial reactions on their first index card. • Allow students to share what they have written with the group.

Activity Two: Letters from Fogelhut’s Mother and Widow (30 minutes) • Ask students to follow along as you read aloud the letter written in 1953 by Sergeant First Class Marvin Fogelhut’s mother, Mrs. Dorothy Fogelhut, to President Dwight D. Eisenhower. • Ask students to write their reactions to the letter on the back of the index card. ◦◦Does this letter change how you view this grave? If so, why? ◦◦Do you think Mrs. Fogelhut makes a convincing case? • Allow students to share what the have written with the group. • Ask students to follow along as you read aloud the letter written in 1954 by Sergeant First Class Marvin Fogelhut’s widow, Mrs. Chanda Fogelhut, to the Department of Army Effects. • Ask students to write their initial response to this letter on second index card. ◦◦Does this letter change how you view this grave? If so, why? ◦◦What is your reaction to the news that Marvin and his wife had a daughter, especially considering that his mother never mentioned their daughter in her letter?

Activity Three: Visit to Cypress Hills National Cemetery (30 minutes) • Engage the students in a discussion about the contrasting perspectives offered by the two letters. ◦◦How do these letters display the different ways that family members deal with grief? ◦◦If you were working for the Department of Army Effects, where would you have sent Marvin Fogelhut’s belongings?

VETERANS LEGACY PROGRAM National Cemetery Administration | American Battle Monuments Commission | National History Day | Roy Rosenzweig Center for History and New Media “To Marvin, With Love”: How Do We Process Grief? 5 Assessment • Ask students to use the information from their notecards to write a response essay about their reactions to the two letters. Essays should utilize text from the letters and observations written on their index cards. Methods for Extension • Students can visit the Union Plot, Sections 1A-1F, where the graves of 461 Confederate prisoners of war are intermingled with the Union dead. Tell the students to look for headstones that include CSA, which identifies members of the Confederate States Army. The Confederate grave that is easiest to find is that of Murdock Jones, located in Section 1D, plot 1216. Ask students to examine the notion of finding common bonds in grief when examining the Confederate marker.

National Cemetery Administration “Despite the early optimism of both the Union and Confederacy, by summer 1862, it was increasingly evident that the Civil War would be both long and costly. It was also apparent that additional burial grounds would be needed to accommodate the growing number of Union soldiers who died from battle injuries and disease.

“While New York City and its outskirts were outside the area of military conflict, numerous hospitals were set up here to care for wounded Union troops. Cypress Hills began as a zone of the Interior Military Cemetery and was located within the boundaries of the large and private Cypress Hills Cemetery in Brooklyn. Almost three acres were set aside for the burial of Civil War dead in what became known as Union Grounds. In 1870, the Cypress Hills Cemetery Corporation deeded the property to the United States for a consideration of $9,600. An inspection report of September 1870 indicates that 3,170 Union soldiers and 461 Confederate POWs were already buried there. Most of the interments came from military hospitals in the area. There were also a number of reinterments from cemeteries on Long Island Sound and in Rhode Island.

“Prior to 1873, eligibility for burial in a national cemetery was restricted to U.S. soldiers who died as a result of injury or disease during the Civil War. In 1873, however, Congress approved legislation extending burial rights to honorably discharged soldiers, sailors and Marines who served during the war. To accommodate the growing number of burials requested at Cypress Hills, more than 15 acres were purchased in 1884. In addition, in 1941, a small tract within the old Cypress Hills Cemetery, known as the Mount of Victory Plot, was donated by the State of New York. Today the cemetery consists of three parcels totaling a little over 18 acres: the Union grounds, a larger area on Jamaica Avenue, and the Mount of Victory. Although Cypress Hills was established to honor Civil War veterans, its grounds include the graves of soldiers who fought in the American Revolution, Spanish- American War, Korean and Vietnam wars. Cypress Hills National Cemetery was listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 1997.”

Letter from Mrs. Dorothy Fogelhut to President Dwight D. Eisenhower, July 6, 1953 (Page 1)

Letter from Mrs. Dorothy Fogelhut to President Dwight D. Eisenhower, July 6, 1953 (Page 2)

Letter from Mrs. Chanda Fogelhut to Army Effects Agency, January 16, 1954

VETERANS LEGACY PROGRAM National Cemetery Administration | American Battle Monuments Commission | National History Day | Roy Rosenzweig Center for History and New Media