Be Claretian Today – SEMINAR
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“TO BE CLARETIAN FOR TODAY’S WORLD” Our identity And Charismatic belongingness CONGREGATIONAL SEMINAR 2010 1 MOTIVATION The lastly enlighten events such as 200years of birth anniversary of Saint Antony Mary Claret and 125 years of death anniversary of Maria Antonia Paris, and as we near the XVI General Chapter it has all moved us to organize a congregational reflection on the charism. We also consider important the motivations as: The world we live there is an accelerated evolution and complexity. It demands us to deepen our identity for a better response to the challenges of the mission. We are aware that with time we will carry out our mission in a more adverse background and solitude. Many times, the urgency of the mission will leave us alone, each one in her work and responsibility, facing the situations and apostolic activities, for which we need lot of depth and charismatic profoundness. The actual reality of our communities is: Some numerous and with lot of elderly sisters, others small in number; some are formed by very young sisters. Even within the same Entity, because it is formed by various countries, there are big distances: geographically, culturally, in age, of formation, etc. but all are called to respond evangelizing mission. The cultural and geographical expansion of the Congregation needs means to revitalize the sense of unity and belongingness. Especially the new foundations in Asia and Africa where there are more young sisters with less opportunity to have contact with the traditions, the written doctrines and charismatic places, without the presence of the elderly sisters who can be near them. We are sure that the richness of the Seminar will strengthen our identity, the sense of belongingness and the commitment to actualize and inculturate the Charism to our here and now. 2. OBJECTIVES 1. To do an updated reading of some fundamental elements of the Charism. 2. To interiorize this charismatic gift so that it may help us to live it more profoundly. 3. To pray over these fundamental themes for our being, so that we let God shape us according to the specific call we have received. 4. To seek among all how should we live it in our today. 2 5. To prepare together the upcoming XVI General Chapter at the light of these reflections 3. CONTAINS: Be Claretian Sister Today (materials of the prepared themes) What do we understand by identity and belongingness? Jolanta Kafka. María Antonia París and Saint Antony Mary Claret: Founders: Encarnación Velasco and Regina Tutzó. Christological resemblance in our Founders......Margarita Gómez. For the renewal of the Church. … Hortensia Muñoz. Poverty: Foundation of the new Apostles… María Soledad Galerón. Apostles of Jesus Christ ... Ondina Cortés. 3 INTRODUCTORY NOTES ABOUT IDENTITY AND BELONGINGNESS By Jolanta Kafka rmi 1. Entering… We are beginning this workshop - seminar on "Our charismatic identity - to live it out today? " and my task is to do an initial work to create a common perspective in this congregational reflection: - to open some questions and to share about them - to suggest some fundamental criterion for the seminar. But my first question to direct to each one of us it whether we do seriously feel the necessity of the seminar. Do we feel the desire of this reflection work personally? And concretely: Do we question ourselves about our identity? And if the question arises, from which point of view? Is it a sign of regression to ask again who we are or do we have our identity clear? Or maybe the response is theoretically easy but our forms of life are sometimes reflecting lack of coherency, or are full of contradictions? On the other hand the capacity of questioning and finding responses can be a manifestation of the Spirit who is calling us, challenging and opening up to be a seekers of God and of His will! 2. General notions Before entering into the Claretian missionary identity theme, I would like to recall some basic notions about the identity from the psychosocial view. The Identity - says the unique identification with oneself, the no-repeatability, that joining various features, all unified, describe the individual, not only in his or her today but also in her/his potentiality. At the same time the word id-entity: similar to the entity, evokes also a relationship. This relationship occurs inside (within) the person – who identifies her gender, qualities, characteristic features, origin, belongingness on the basis of relationships (origins and family) etc; and outside of the person - what the person goes identifying of herself in interaction with other ones. From the beginnings of the person's growth the identity goes acquiring significance in contact with others - relationship - confrontation: On the level of knowledge: - what the person discovers in herself – in confrontation with what other say about On level of affectivity: - what the other accept of her – in confrontation with what the person goes accepting of herself, (her sex, distinguishing other persons from things…. step by step). Many conflicts arise when these relationships are not well identified and balanced. 4 The process of growth lasts a lifetime, as a path o road where to move forward it is necessary to cross bridges that one has built. Each stage is to cross a new bridge. If the bridge doesn't have good base where it starts up, it will not be stable. That is to say that advancing toward a new stage supposes to have made the previous stage more or less well. The past warrants the future. But the past – in the sense of having the experiences, enlightened by the principal values or faith and interiorized for the personal growth. This has also implications in the formation process: the community offers to the candidates the conditions and means to build up all the dimensions of their developing identity; the formandee harmonically integrates through the personalization process. A definitive, in many aspects, stage for the growth of the identity is the adolescence, peculiar because in this stage the person in the meads of struggles, goes emerging more intensely with the elements of her identity. In this stage the search of the identity crosses a very significant bridge. She or he leaves experiences and elements of identity behind (childhood, depending relationship in the family…). This will be successful when - the corporeity and the sexuality is definitively accepted - the stability is rooted in significant family nucleus - with both autonomy and appropriate dependence; in this time the identification with other groups can appear too and the identification with models as well. - the separation from the affective presence is gradually lived out with serenity - possible initiation in the responsibility and commitments. It is not strange therefore that in this stage the interior movements such like: looking for personal place for the future, self-giving experiences and those we can call vocational, develop and lead to new initiatives. It is true that now the adolescence is extended in years, but the main characteristics that describe it don't change. To integrate with love and acceptance all the dimensions of this list, she/he must continue constructing and developing the basis of identity with constancy and patience until it will be achieved in the mature age. We could consider a person with integrated identity when she or he is: a. capable of self-definition not only in the qualities she/he has yet for the sense of live she/he gives b. able to make decisions and to pursue his/her goals, because they are in accordance with the values - criteria - to judge her/him-self and to asses others c. able to be coherent – there must be consistence between what she/he says of him/herself and what the other ones say about d. able to be flexible but non re-mouldable. e. able to relate to others, and manage differences with respect and reciprocity f. able to give something without gratification; able to give oneself. Only the one who knows (possess) himself, is able to give up himself.. All the features integrated require certain stability in time. It is impossible to speak about identity when behaviours and manifestations are temporary kept in certain rigour or adjustment. If there is not an integration work prolonged in time, we will be not be able to define the personality. As curiosity but quite near to our understanding of the achieved identity I add the definition of a philosopher from India that I found among the thoughts published in a newspaper. He says: the identity is the instance of the relationship among the deep I and the capacity of thinking, 5 judging and acting. This instance is the one that is able to explain itself when thinking precedes the action and when the actions precedes thinking. Is it possible to put on risk or can get lost the identity - even after having being partially achieved? Experiences like - - constant prejudices - that block the free expression - affections that create dependences (to be identified with the other one by the affection or another benefit) - behaviours that can weaken the capacities and even features of the personality (roll, submission…) - dependences (fashions, drugs, alcohol, TV, Internet, games…) … they can alter the balance of the identity. If may happen that we feel sometimes out of the danger, but not all are in the same vital and vocational moment. The process is personal and conditioned by many aspects. In the list of these “dangerous” for the identity experiences are options of everyday life. It may appear simply but in reality every day demands a new option…; every day a decide what I will do with the time, how I spent energies, which relationship I establish, whether I overcame prejudices or maybe I am creating them… The experiences I do every day and how I face them can lead me harmonically in achieving the identity or, on the contrary, can lead me to its "diffusion" or delay the time of its definitions.