The A cademy Journal Lawrence Academ y/Fall 2015 Trustees of Lawrence Academy Bruce MacNeil ’70, President (P ’04) Patrick Cunningham ’91, Vice President Geoffrey P. Clear, Treasurer (P ’98, ’01) Editorial Team Gordon W. Sewall ’67, Secretary John Bishop Director of Communications Lucy Abisalih ’76 Dale Cunningham Jay Ackerman ’85 Assistant Director of Communications Kevin A. Anderson ’85 Bev Rodrigues Ronald M. Ansin (P ’80, ’83, ’85, ’87; GP ’03, ’05) Communications Publicist Timothy M. Armstrong ’89 Layout/Design/Production Deborah Barnes (P ’13) Dale Cunningham Barbara Anderson Brammer ’75 (P ’06) Assistant Director of Communications Jennifer Shapiro Chisholm ’82 Judi N. Cyr ’82 Editorial Council Christopher Davey (P ’10, ’16) Geoff Harlan Greg Foster Director of Annual Giving Catherine J. Frissora (P ’95, ’96) Susan Hughes Assistant to the Head of School Bradford Hobbs ’82 Nancy Lotane (P ’16) Rob Moore Assistant Head of School Peter C. Myette (P ’00, ’03) Dan Scheibe Michael Salm (P ’13, ’15) Head of School David Santeusanio Joseph Sheppard David Stone ’76 College Counselor, retired Rick Tyson ’87 Hellie Swartwood Director of Parent Programs Honorary Trustees Mr. George A. Chamberlain 3rd (P ’79, ’81) Photography Mr. Albert B. Gordon Jr. ’59 John Bishop Mr. Henry S. Russell Jr. (P ’70, ’75) Jon Chase Mr. Albert Stone (P ’74, ’76, GP ’15) Jonathan Gotlib Mr. Benjamin D. Williams (P ’82, ’84) Bev Rodrigues
Trustees with 25 or More Years of Service 1974-present Henry S. Russell Jr. (current honorary) 1978 -present George A. Chamberlain 3rd (current honorary) 1978-present Albert Stone (current honorary) 1980-present Ronald. M. Ansin
1984-present Bruce MacNeil ’70 Front Cover: 2015 graduating class First Word TABLE OF CONTENTS FEATURES 2–21 ost days for the last five years or so, I’ve gotten up Whole Community Mindfulness 2 Ma little bit early and taken a seat somewhere quiet in the house. Sitting Home Sweet Home 4 up tall, alert, relaxed, feet on floor, Laura Moore: The Short Story 6 hands in lap; noticing the way my body rests in place, I bring focus from Sharing Afghanistan 8 my eyes to my breath. For the next minutes I keep with it, moving Dan Scheibe Who’s Driving the College Admissions Bus? 11 thoughts to breath until the timer on Teaching Global Awareness 14 my phone helpfully chimes. Another day begins. This brief mindfulness practice has been particularly helpful Featuring Our Young Alumni 16 and apt during my no-longer-so-brief time at Lawrence Academy. Every high school has a sense of nervous expectation AROUND LA 22 –44 and possibility — it’s just the nature of the age and environment, with that extra surge of energy born of pure NEW on Campus 22 personal growth. In assembling this publication, I want to LA at a Glance 24 communicate that sense of beginning — of awareness, settled presence, poise — as it is in the air these days at Cum Laude Day 28 Lawrence Academy. Visual and Performing Arts 30 Many of the articles in this Journal will capture this excited mix of anticipation and good practice. We have the visible and The Year in Sports 32 literal improvement and change in our facilities — captured in these pages, but even more sensible in a visit to campus. We Spartan Success 34 have the inspirational and highly attuned sensitivity to student Commencement 2015 36 growth of our fine teachers — exemplified in this issue by Laura Moore and Kevin Wiercinski and, of course, felt most Welcome to LA 40 powerfully by our students on a daily basis. Spring Social and Fundraiser 42 In yet broader, deeper dimensions we have a curriculum that responds to the changes and development of both our students Founders’ Day 2014 44 and our world — the curriculum as it is, as well as a more formal and forward-thinking Curriculum Project we are FROM THE ARCHIVES 45 –49 initiating as a school, surely the subject of future focus in this publication. And, of course, there is the everyday miracle of A Way of Life 45 change in school and life, the graduations and reunions captured in these pages telling us that life is moving as it should. Rescued From the Dustbin of History! 47 There is a wonderful sense of fruition in all of this. Schools 75 Years Ago: One Man’s Memories 48 give the great blessing of time and space to encourage healthy, necessary, and natural change. They allow space for LA CIRCLE EVENTS 50 contemplation, but they also promote action. At its best, such change reaches to the very core not only of students, but of ALUMNI 57 –73 every member of a school community, the school in turn inspiring us to bring those qualities into meaningful contact Reunion Weekend 58 with the world. Alumni Notes 66 As we turn to the content of this year’s Journal , it is worth sitting for a moment to think what the school’s training and In Memoriam 72 practice can accomplish: free thought, clear vision, and a fertile setting that prepare for a good day, purposeful work, a meaningful life.
– Dan Scheibe, head of school
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by Dan Scheibe introduced and practiced at Lawrence The Practice Academy. Current students, parents, and Next year the Lawrence Academy The Background faculty are already familiar with the beginnings of this program, an approach community will be sitting down for a few While this Journal’ s opening “First Word” that is based in a research project organized minutes at the beginning of each of our may provide a glimpse into my own by the Department of Psychological and days together to breathe and ground our personal practice of mindfulness, let me Brain Sciences at The University of thoughts and actions. The faculty (through share a few definitions of mindfulness as a California Santa Barbara. Those unfamiliar advisory, for the most part) will be the concept. In general, and with credit to with the origins of this work will find some primary means by which this practice is Jon Kabat-Zinn, mindfulness is: “Paying background here, as well as a look ahead at guided and developed, and we will be as attention, in a particular way, on purpose, what will unfold. Lawrence Academy is nimble and responsive as possible in order in the present moment, without very fortunate to be involved in this to deliver mindfulness training and judgement.” Specifically, and referencing partnership and thankful for the lead practice as effectively as possible. a definition used by Dawa Phillips, a funding it has received from the stalwart This initiative, a collaboration between research and education specialist at the support of The Boston Foundation, as well Lawrence Academy and The University of University of California Santa Barbara and as UCSB’s own grants supporting this area California Santa Barbara, began in the expert facilitator for LA’s mindfulness of research 2014 –2015 with a year of faculty training program: “Mindfulness is the practice along with baseline assessment initiating whereby a person is intentionally aware of the research process. The 2015 –2016 year his or her thoughts and actions…applied will be a pilot year for developing effective to both bodily actions and the mind’s own Mindfulness is “Paying mindfulness practice community-wide. thoughts and feelings.” attention, in a particular way, Subsequent years will hone practice while Interestingly, such descriptions may on purpose, in the present continuing the research process of tracking describe both an individual mindfulness mood, attention, and mindset in order to practice and a community mindset or moment, without judgment.” measure the impact of the training on the ethos. Starting in the fall of 2015, a secular community. Lawrence Academy will, in mindfulness program will be fully 2 I FALL 2015 F E A T U R Mindfulness E
fact, be the first school in the country to of a mindfulness orientation might become The Outcome bring such a program to all of its teachers to a whole community. and students in this way. The ability to manage, understand, and Even with the self in the middle of all of harness one’s own thoughts and actions is The opportunity to be able to introduce this, however, the point is not self-obses - perhaps the master-aptitude, the skill of and measure the effects of mindfulness in a sion — a characteristic that does not need skills, the factor that controls the essential whole community (and that is what the particular enhancement in the adolescent nature of experience. Mood and experience of a total community like years. Rather, the point is bringing the self performance are massively impacted by Lawrence offers) was what attracted UCSB into effective, authentic relationship with the attention we bring to our efforts. to us in the first place. It is one thing to the world around it. Mindfulness begins Mindfulness focuses on fundamental offer mindfulness sporadically as a stress- with a single point of focus, a single, methods of developing the basic quality of reliever or an interesting resource for future individual breath, but its intention always attention so as to be able to function, to use. It is another thing for the entire projects outwards through the development perform, to manage, to develop, to thrive. community to ground its experience for of a conscientious, responsible self in The goal of this initiative is to enhance the the day in a practice of mindfulness and relationship with others, and with flourishing of LA students and the LA for a school to commit to a mindset that the world. community. explicitly develops self-awareness, a key All of this is interesting, provocative component of both emotional intelligence It is this set of qualities and possibilities ground, but it is worth stating strongly and peak performance, in this practical way. that seems to have people in education, that a mindfulness approach is culturally industry, health, and research so interested and mission-appropriate for a place like and excited about mindfulness. Again, it is The Intention Lawrence. Valuing as it does the one thing to read about these developments. Back in the last decade and in my last job, experiential over the merely conceptual It is another thing to practice them, I was doing the normal business of and placing emphasis on skill (not just experience them, internalize them, and mission-driven high schools — seeking to practical skills, but personal ones: benefit from them. Put simply, we are find the ways in which the inner worlds of “metaskills”) over disembodied content, committed to this work because we feel it teenagers might be improved. By inner, I Lawrence already cares deeply about how will be good for us and it will do good. refer loosely to that collection of spiritual, the quality of intent and attention affects The University of California Santa Barbara ethical, and imaginative impulses that you in the process of taking “responsibility is committed to the work at Lawrence assembles into a self somewhere around the for who you want to become.” Academy because it feels it can be of great ages of 14 to 18. By improved, I mean benefit in educational settings and to giving those same teenagers a sense of society in general. What could be more autonomy, understanding, and empower - worthy of our attention? ment that might become a force of self-consciousness, self-governance, self- awareness — just call it a maturing and strengthening sense of self. Mindfulness presents itself just at this intersection of self-regulation and development. By exercising and training the essential quality of attention, of full presence and awareness as a person and in the moment, mindfulness helps to assemble and govern the developing self. If it is true for a person generally, it is even more true for an adolescent person, embodying that period in which self- identification is most vigorously and definitively formed. What will be fascinating to see is how true the benefits
Head of School Dan Scheibe with Dr. Jonathan Schooler, Professor of Psychological and Brain Sciences at the University of California Santa Barbara, and Dawa Phillips, who collaborates with Schooler as a research specialist at UCSB and who will facilitate the mindfulness program at Lawrence Academy.
3 I FALL 2015 E R U T A E F Home Sweet Home
The Mastrangelo family: AJ, Cailey, Donna, and Frank
by John Bishop Buoyed by family connections and longtime faculty members with numerous incredible memories and friendships, as achievements, now ply the roles of Spanish Sometime this fall, Cailey Mastrangelo ’15 well as a genuine desire to give back to her teacher/basketball coach and Assistant will wake up at Hobart and William Smith home away from home, Mastrangelo says Director of Athletics/Head Athletic Colleges and realize that, for the first time that she’ll be back — often. Her classmates Trainer, respectively. Brother AJ in her life, she’s no longer officially name her “most likely to work at LA” in Mastrangelo ’18 joined the club last fall. connected to the Lawrence Academy the superlative pages of the 2015 campus. “Cailey’s first LA graduation was in 1997, Lawrencian. when she was three months old,” explained “I would actually consider LA more of a “I grew up on campus, I pictured myself Donna. “She grew up in the gym and on home than the physical place I reside,” said going to high school here during middle the soccer fields, no doubt about it…and counselor Cailey this past June, between school, I spent high school here, and I having such a strong LA connection, sessions of LA’s Summer Programs. “I have could never really leave LA,” said Cailey. starting so young, helped her find the been at LA for 18 out of my 18 years Spartan path with ease.” of life.” The name “Mastrangelo” is ubiquitous, as her mother Donna and father Frank, both
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many facets of her education, for Cailey R that path as an LA student was quite E unique and probably not that easy. “It was definitely a bit intimidating at first, but I think I was able to adjust to their reputations on campus pretty quickly, and it was something to be extremely proud of,” said Cailey. “I did go through a few time periods where I was known as ‘Donna’s Daughter’ or ‘Little Frank’, but I never minded it. Adding AJ in simply completed the Mastrangelo family picture on campus, a picture I am going to miss extremely moving on next year at college.” Cailey made no small name for herself at LA, earning several awards that acknowledged her character and dedication. Two of those accolades hold a very special place in her heart. At graduation, she received the Faculty Award. “It speaks about the recipient making LA a place where one would wish to send a son or daughter, and hearing those words before my name gave me the Cailey, on the court at TD Garden, with mom in background. shivers,” said the talented athlete, who also received soccer’s Donna Bibbo Mastrangelo Award. between mother and daughter were as just having the opportunity to present her memorable, but both say they brought with her diploma,” said Frank. “Cailey them closer together. earned her awards on her own, because she’s kind, caring, respectful, and “It was great having my mom coach me. I understanding. She makes us proud as wouldn’t want anyone else in that position, parents. Cailey made us feel like we but it was certainly a ride with its ups and actually knew what we were doing.” downs,” admitted Cailey. “It certainly trained me at a higher level, both physically Looking ahead to Geneva, New York, and mentally, and pushed me to be a better Cailey said, “Leaving something so special athlete and person overall.” and personal to me is going to be the hardest thing I have done and probably “My standards are high for all of my will ever do. But, I still have my mom, athletes alike, and I think it’s sometimes my dad, AJ, my LA family, and too many hard when your mother is always the one connections — so, even if I tried to leave a being tough on you like that,” said Donna. little bit, LA will always be a major part of “On the flip side, I will treasure this my life and who I am.” experience for all of my life. How many Cailey reciting a poem as one of the finalists in the people can say they had this experience, 2014 Judith French Poetry Recitation Competition share these similar stories, and can look back at how unique and special this was?” “That award has to do with dedication to the game beyond the field, and I certainly “My senior year was like the ending scene adopted that characteristic from my in a very happy movie,” added Cailey. mother always supporting me,” she said. “Overall, we just made sure that every little “Also, nothing can make you feel more piece of the season was spent together proud of yourself than receiving your own because, though it was an unsaid topic all mother’s award — a legend’s award — in season, this would be our final season your final season as a high school player.” together. Wow, that just made me cry.” Given her mom’s intensity on the Tears were shed by many when mother, basketball court and in the classroom, it daughter, and father last met on the Quad stood to reason that not all interactions in May. “To me, the most special thing was Cailey and classmate Margaret Davey with awards at graduation 2014
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“Laura Moore”
The Short Story Laura and her dog Bonnie
by Bev Rodrigues grow up immersed in the independent Reading and Writing school world and all of its possibilities, The unveiling of Laura Rogerson Moore Laura considered herself a tomboy and did not go quite as expected. Seeking her while enjoying the freedoms that the rural life offered — and where exploration and recalled not liking to read very much. But, secret yearnings and hidden ambitions was when her family traveled around the a total loss. Laura herself said, “When independence were encouraged. “We had to come home from wherever we were country in a VW bus, “with a mattress in students turn the tables and ask me what I the back with all four kids on it, I felt the want to be when I grow up, I say, ‘This is it. when the 5:00 whistle blew at the fire station,” she remembers. need to escape my siblings and found I I am that person.’” Laura’s aging dog Bonnie could do that in a book.” While attending seemed content with that assessment, too, Laura attended elementary school in Groton School, she wrote a 350-page novel sitting in on the conversation on the patio Groton, middle school at nearby Applewild, for an English teacher, “who actually read behind the teacher’s home. and then Concord Academy for a year, it” and provided encouragement. while she awaited the Groton School’s As she pursued an English major at Growing Up in Groton decision to go coed during her sophomore year. “I had grown up at Groton. I was like Harvard University, her creative writing Until the age of 7, Laura lived in Dedham, any fac brat,” she said. “When you grow teacher suggested: “You can write. Now Mass., where her father was a teacher at up at the place, you picture yourself there.” you just need to go live some life in order Noble and Greenough. As the suburbs And, because her mother was the dance to have something to write about!” encroached, he opted to move further out instructor, she had been involved in school Lawrence Academy Headmaster Ben into the country, becoming the director of productions since the age of 10. Williams agreed that she needed some admissions at Groton School. Laura would experience, too, and did not hire her when
6 I FALL 2015 F E she applied right out of school. “He didn’t A think I was ready,” she said, “which I see T U as a blessing, because I wasn’t!” After R
interning with some inspirational teachers E at Applewild, she happened to meet up with Williams again, who reported that he was losing a dance instructor and invited her to fill that position and teach English.
Fresh Faculty Faces When she did walk into the classroom as a 23-year-old, and one of few female faculty members, she said to herself, “I don’t have all the answers, and I’m not going to stand up here in front of kids and lecture…we’re going to have conversations, I’m going to get them to write, and we’re going to do L–R: Laura, Grace ’04, Katherine ’06, Elibet ’09, and Rob Moore (taken in 2001) this as a workshop.” Creating three new elective courses, she became very much a up in the house all day — I took to poetry Beginning with her early curriculum work part of that period’s exciting and innovative as a change in time constraints only with the likes of Ned Mitchell and Terry move toward student-centered education. allowed for shorter pieces.” In an effort to Murbach, she has contributed in a It was 1983 and “poetic,” said Laura, that balance her work schedule with her young multitude of ways toward the well-being of it was the same year Rob Moore came family’s needs, she established a daycare the school, its mission, and its programs. program that also served other faculty onboard as a Spanish teacher and soccer The longtime head of the Intervention families with similar challenges. coach. While coaching dance daily and Team, Laura has been involved with the I establishing electives in Creative Writing, During nine years in the dance program, Team since its inception the year she was Black American Authors, and 19th and Laura expanded it to be available as both a hired. She takes great satisfaction in offering 20th Century Women Authors, Laura sport and an art, a new concept for the a system that, she says, “provides a found herself immersed in a new personal school and a time-consuming commitment. confidential response to at-risk behavior in relationship. “Being together at a school She left that role to focus on work in the an effort to keep students safe, healthy, and makes a relationship work in ‘dog years,’” English Department and introduced in school.” She started and oversees the she explained. “You are working together, Honors Writing and helped develop Senior student literary magazine, Consortium. eating together, and attending meetings Seminar, both of which she teaches to this Her own work has been published in together ALL the time. Time passes day, and where she strives to “inspire and magazines, a chapbook, and online by much more quickly than in ‘normal’ allow.” Laura loves Honors Writing because NAIS, and an article about LA teaching relationships.” students report “how the class makes them and the latest research about the brain more aware of themselves, more confident will appear this fall in Independent School about being who they are and saying what Magazine. She has successfully driven they think without fear of judgement.” She Lawrence Academy’s complex reaccreditation loves Senior Seminar, which is required of process. Currently, she is excited about — all students who are not in an honors class, and serving as co-chair of — LA’s “because that is where the epiphanies occur.” Curriculum Project, a comprehensive review and revision of the school’s programs. The Departmental Chair for Excellence in Teaching went to Laura in 1992. That year, when she and her growing family The Goals moved out of the dormitories, she chaired With 32 years of service already behind a committee which created the residential her, Laura continues to enjoy working to affiliate program that is in use today, which deliver what she thinks is the most Rob and Laura shortly after marrying in 1985 requires that other faculty members important result, and something that provide scheduled relief to those serving as colleges, she believes, now find to be most Cherishing Family and Work dorm parents. crucial: “They want us to send them people who can think and communicate and They married the following year and collaborate; that’s what the future demands.” enjoyed their role as dorm parents and, Beyond the Classroom eventually, parents of three girls, Grace ’04, While ‘English teacher’ — and now chair “Growing up, I wanted to be a mother, a Katherine ’06, and Elibet ’09. Laura, who of the department — has been her main teacher, and a writer,” Laura Moore said, has published both short stories and role, the moment Laura set foot on smiling. “And I guess it’s no secret that poetry, joked, “Where I used to write campus, she was part of LA’s ongoing that’s what I’ve become.” longer pieces when the kids were little — efforts to make the school education because they are easy, when they play dress- experience as effective as possible.
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Sharing Afghanistan
by Susan Hughes As the youngest of five children, already, it was a logical place for him We are seated at The Helmand, an Afghan Mukhtaruddin Amiry knew that the to consider. resources available for his education were restaurant in Boston. Mukhtar has invited Unlike many Afghans, Mukhtar didn’t scarce. His older siblings, two brothers and me to sample authentic Afghan food, as judge Americans by what was happening two sisters, all left home to pursue better authentic as it gets in the U.S. Mukhtar is in their country. In fact, his first image of opportunities. And then there was the animated and happy, flashing his bright Americans was a good one. It was an instability of Afghanistan. His family smile as he identifies each dish. I can see experience his father had while working as witnessed the destruction of their home - his delight as he remembers a taste or smell a driver for the U.S. military in Bagram. land by the Taliban, not only of cities and from his mother’s kitchen in Kabul. While “My father had a ganglion cyst growing on villages, but also of the economy. He knew many things here are familiar to him, in the back of his right hand. It became so he had to seek out his future, to make it just three years he has come very far from painful that he drove his truck with his left everything he knows. happen. With two brothers in the U.S.
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hand on the steering wheel,” Mukhtar Mukhtar’s transition was not easy. While A explains. “The next day, doctors at the he was a bit older and more mature than T U Military Health Center performed surgery his classmates, he struggled with his second R
to remove it, even though that service was language. He also struggled with time. As E supposed to be limited to only American Andrew noted, Mukhtar was often late to soldiers. I remember him telling us that the class, with homework, and even for meals. nurses were so kind and the way they “There wasn’t the emphasis on timeliness treated him was unforgettable.” or studies back home that we have here. Mukhtar operated on ‘Afghan time’.” Mukhtar says he added the word “starve” “What you seek is to his dictionary after missing one too seeking you.” many meals. Mukhtar vividly remembers meeting – Rumi Andrew Brescia for the first time. “I walked into the dining hall my first day So Mukhtar began his journey by enrolling here, and there he was wearing a pakol in the Afghan Scholars Initiative (ASI, (a traditional Afghan hat). I know he wore www.afghanscholars.org), an organization it out of respect and, while I was surprised, connecting young Afghan students with it made me feel good.” progressive educational institutions. ASI’s co-founder and executive director Qiam Amiry, Mukhtar’s oldest brother, began the “Wear gratitude like a scholarship program in 2006 while still at Colby College. Even with his brother as cloak and it will feed every the executive director, Mukhtar had to demonstrate the intelligence, drive, and corner of your life.” desire to create lasting change that are – Rumi required to participate in the program. Tony Hawgood, Lawrence’s director of While language came slowly, his artwork admissions at the time, remembers ASI flowed. One art exhibit early in his first and meeting Qiam. “I had heard of ASI year got the attention of the entire from colleagues and was immediately community, and it didn’t take long for his excited at the thought of being a part of artwork to become popular on campus. It educating Afghan youth,” says Tony. One made Mukhtar happy that people enjoyed of those recommending ASI was from his art. He began painting portraits of right inside LA: Andrew Brescia. Qiam classmates, campus pets, sunflowers, and had attended one of Andrew’s ESL classes scenes from his home. It was a way to share after hearing an NPR broadcast about his homeland with others and honor where the teacher’s experiences growing up in he came from. His largest canvas to date Afghanistan, and he thought he had found (see picture at left) will hang in the lobby of the right school for his new candidate — a the Richardson-Mees Performing Arts place where he could share a bit of himself Center as a lasting gift to LA. and his culture with others. One painting — Buzkashi, a game played Upon hearing of Mukhtar’s acceptance in on horseback in Afghanistan — was given 2012 as a sophomore, Andrew requested to to the Development Office as an auction be his advisor. “By the 1990s, America’s item. This year, he donated a custom relationship with Afghanistan was vastly portrait. Such generosity has been Mukhtar’s different than when I was there as a child. way of expressing his gratitude for what Mukhtar’s largest canvas to date is a view of the Any cultural connection the U.S. had with cliffs into which were carved the Buddhas of was given him. Afghanistan was broken,” says Andrew. “I Bamiyan, two monumental 6th-century statues If art served as a window into his world, which stood for nearly 1,500 years until the Taliban hoped that working with ASI and hosting destroyed them in 2001. The artist was born just 20 Afghan students would help reconnect our the Sufi poet Rumi served as Mukhtar’s minutes from this historic landmark in central countries.” With brothers ahead of him spiritual guide. He often painted images of Afghanistan, and his painting will hang in the lobby studying in the U.S., Mukhtar knew what Rumi and the whirling dervishes that of the Richardson-Mees Performing Arts Center as became a hallmark of Rumi’s followers. He a lasting gift to LA. to expect as an international student, and yet having Andrew as an advisor gave him used Rumi’s peaceful quotes in the wood a much-needed connection to his home pieces he carved. He read “Only Breath,” a and culture. poem about our common humanity, at an assembly celebrating MLK Jr. Day. It was Rumi’s words that helped Mukhtar make sense of how his future was unfolding.
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painting by Mukhtar Rumi
Jalal ad-Din Muhammad Rumi was a 13th-century Persian poet and Sufi mystic, born in what is now Afghanistan. His poems have been translated into many languages. He believed the use of music, poetry, and dance was a path to God, and today his poetry forms the basis for much of Afghan and Iranian music.
Buzkashi, donated to the LA Auction for Winterim Scholarships, won Mukhtar the Gold Key from the Boston Globe /MFA student art competition in March 2015.
By graduation, Mukhtar had earned a place much better image of Americans now. on the honor roll and received five college From the kindnesses shown to his father acceptance letters, which underscores just to the growing number of friends he has how far he has come academically. found here in Groton, his view of Americans is one shaped by love. As he described in a speech delivered to his ESL class as part of his final exam, his “As we say in Persian, ‘Ham dil e better as feelings for America have come a long way ham zabani ast,’” he tells us. “In English, too. “Before I began my journey to the it means love doesn’t need a common States, I didn’t have a clear image of language or culture — wherever you go, Americans in my mind,” Mukhtar said. seek love and make that place home.” “My people, I’m sure you can understand, have different thoughts about Americans; some are happy and some are not. Some Afghans see Americans as saviors, some as infidels. Some Afghans judge Americans only by seeing their soldiers on the streets Mukhtar graduated in the spring, with his brothers and sister attending. Pictured are, L –R: Qiam, in Kabul.” He is quick to add that he has a Mukhtar, Zulaikha Ahmady, and Jamall.
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Jess Niemann ’16 conferring with college counselor Jamie Sheff
College admissions offices, therefore, are you. And they want you to send it in early six percent, similar to that at many Ivy under pressure to get applicant numbers so that you’ll be counted in their applicant League and other top-tier schools. On the up: the more applications, the better the statistics for the next edition of someone’s other end of the spectrum, students can potential bond rating. Admissions “Top American Colleges.” find comfort in knowing that, at colleges committees have come up with creative with modest endowments, they will get Some institutions fill half their freshman ways to get seniors to apply — and apply in if they can pay, often with a merit classes with Early Decision applicants — early. Think of Caitlyn, a tenth-grader who scholarship as an enticement to enroll. students whose dollars they are guaranteed gets emails from twenty colleges, all A tuition-driven institution would rather to get. The “regular” decision applicants screaming, “You’re just the kind of have a student on campus at a discount therefore face significantly slimmer chances applicant we want at Podunk U.!” Podunk than not have him or her at all. of admission at many institutions. But they knows nothing about poor Caitlyn; they keep applying, increasing that all-important Because paying for college is a major bought her name from the College Board applicant pool, and colleges keep recruiting concern for many families, the college or the ACT because she fits some students using aggressive marketing counselors urge parents to have an early currently-hot criterion at the college: techniques, knowing full well that most of talk with their children about financial geographical or ethnic diversity, musical them won’t get in. But each application is a realities, making sure the students talent, having a dad who’s a CEO, etc. But tiny upward tic in a bond rating. Acceptance understand the need for a “financial safety” Caitlyn thinks they love her, and will very rates, particularly, again, at the “most or two on their final college lists. One possibly apply two years hence even wanted” institutions, have plummeted. bright spot in the financial picture, however, though her grades and test scores are well One example is Columbia University: In is the significant increase in the merit below Podunk’s average. “But they must 1986 they accepted 68 percent of their scholarships just mentioned — essentially, want me — they’ve emailed me six times!” applicants; last year the acceptance rate was tuition discounts not based on need — Sorry, kid. They want your application, not
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which many colleges hand out as recruiting A notable addition to the college office’s T
tools to students at all levels of ability. program is an annual visit by Peter Van U