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8 WHAT’S ON 28 TOY BOX A look at what’s going on this month Toys that teach and amuse

10 HOT OFF THE PRESS 30 BOOKSHELF Hip new shops, services and products Perfect picks for reading together

18 FINGER ON THE PULSE 32 THERE’S AN APP FOR THAT Relevant news from around the world These apps will help everyone in the family build a bit more structure into daily tasks. 20 ECO HERO Ideas and products for greener living 85 STOCKISTS See something you like? We’ll tell you advice where to get it.

Photography 22 BEAUTY 101 Melanie Adamson Top tips for looking your best

Model 24 RATED PG Gaston Building more balance into your life starts with making a list, writes Orla Breeze. Clothes Gaston wears Bobine jacket, $830, TheBabyShop.com. T-shirt is model’s own.

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36  MEET BELINDA GREER 56 BREASTFEEDING AND THE 72 LET’S HEAR IT FOR THE BOYS There’s a new sheriff in town. Playtimes BOARDROOM Sporty, classic, or relaxed, these editor-in-chief Tracey Starr sits down Does going back to work always have to statement pieces are the top choices with ESF’s new CEO to hear what she’s signal the end of a mother and baby’s for outfitting your boys this season. got planned. breastfeeding relationship? 80 PERFECT PASTA 44 CAREER KIDS 62 OPEN (AND CLOSED) FOR Easy for you, delicious for the whole Gone are the days when a paper round BUSINESS family. Lunch is a breeze with these or babysitting gig were the only options Do you have a great idea for a new recipes from celebrity chef Annabel for earning extra pocket money. business? Listening to others who have Karmel. gone before you might just save you 50 STUDENT PARENTS some heartache. 92  LAST WORD If you thought helping your kids with their When it comes to work-life balance, homework was tough, imagine trying to 66 THE HEART OF THINGS some of us are lost causes, says do that while also tackling your own. Peek inside one Hong Kong family’s father-of-three Nury Vittachi. home.

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EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Tracey Starr t: 2201 9710 e: [email protected]

PUBLICATIONS DIRECTOR Jo Allum t: 2201 9719 e: [email protected]

ADVERTISING ACCOUNT MANAGER Florence Choy Wan t: 2201 9721 Katrina Shute e: [email protected] Katrina was born and grew up in Adelaide, South Australia. She spent long, hot summers on the Murray River, often just floating downstream ADVERTISING ACCOUNT MANAGER Narelle Edwards with the current contemplating her future. After e: [email protected] backpacking through Europe, and completing a degree in Journalism, Katrina began a career in television news with a small network in the countryside, where the cameramen would play cricket in the ADVERTISING ACCOUNT MANAGER Nalini Balachandra studio during ad breaks. The big smoke soon beckoned and Katrina returned e: [email protected] to Adelaide as a news reporter and anchor for Network Ten. She met husband Craig and two kids arrived before the family pulled up roots for San Diego, California. This was followed by a two-year stint in Las Vegas, and it was there ADVERTISING ACCOUNT MANAGER Marie Milan in the neon desert where the last of their three daughters was born. Now t: 2201 9724 residing in Hong Kong for the past five years, Katrina continues to write and is e: [email protected] an aspiring author of books for young people.

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GRAPHIC DESIGNER Angelina Draper Eman Lam Angelina was born in the now non-existent country of Yugoslavia to an Irish mother and Yugoslav father. They both worked in the travel

GRAPHIC DESIGNER industry and, soon after Angelina was born, Mike Walshe embarked upon an expat adventure that took them around the world. Living and studying in various countries, Angelina became fluent in three languages and went on to get a degree in International Business. Her love for “all things digital”, however, LAYOUT ARTIST Tania Ho guided her career down the technology path. Working for multinational corporations, she helped them develop their websites, build online sales and social media presence. Her current home in Hong Kong is her 26th, having

CEO previously lived on three continents, in seven countries and in 11 cities. She David Tait knows this will not be the last stop, but is looking forward to settling down… t: 2201 9727 somewhere. e: [email protected]

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welcome Tracey and ESF ’s CEO Belinda Greer

trust you’ve all enjoyed a fabulous holiday season. I’ve said it here before, but it’s always true: I just love that the festive season in our home starts with American Thanksgiving I in late-November and continues all the way through Chinese New Year. As we settle back into post-holiday life, it’s the perfect time to be talking about work-life balance – the theme of this issue. While there doesn’t seem to be any one correct answer for achieving it, there are certainly strategies each one of us can employ to ensure we’re getting the most enjoyment and fulfilment out of our days. For me, that means writing this letter to you from sunny Southern California, just down the road from my parents. We have loved living in Asia for more than a decade, but that doesn’t mean it’s without struggle. As I’m sure is the case for many of you, I’m conflicted between maximising every amazing and unusual opportunity the expat life affords us with spending time with my family in the US. So, for us, we’ve found a balance by renting a home near them for a month, where we work remotely while “playing house”. So far, so good. One woman who has managed the work-life balance gracefully is the new CEO of ESF, Belinda Greer. Belinda, who moved here from Scotland six months ago for this huge and important role, has five grown sons and a recently retired husband. I had the pleasure of sitting down with her to learn all about her vision for ESF and how she managed to move up the career ladder while raising well-adjusted children. I hope you’ll enjoy meeting her as much as I did. We’ve got lots of other stories inside, too. Have you been kicking around the idea of starting a business? Read on for tips from others who have gone before you. Have you ever thought about going back to school? Inside, meet several parents who are doing just that. I do hope that the folks you’ll meet inside inspire you to kick-start your goals. Perhaps this will be the year we all find some balance between our obligations and our aspirations.

Thanks for reading,

Tracey Starr, Editor-in-Chief

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February THE HOTTEST HAPPENINGS AROUND TOWN

Through Baby Development 16/2 Clinics 14 Head to Tiny Footprints from 9am to 11am when Helen Binge from Physiobaby will discuss weight, growth and all round development of your new baby.

KidsFest! 2014 Partner Yoga This annual festival of theatre for young Forget the chocolate and flowers and people includes performances of connect with your Valentine through The Gruffalo, The Snow Dragon and partner yoga at Shakti Healing Circle, many more favourites. Learn more at from 6pm to 8pm. Register at www.kidsfest.com.hk. 12 & 26 www.geckoyoga.com. 14-15 16

Flamenco Show HK Marathon Passion and fire light up the stage Cheer on some of the world’s best as flamenco dancers and the City runners. Last year, 72,000 runners Chamber Orchestra of Hong Kong competed, and this year is expected to present an evening of Spanish music be equally exciting. Visit and dance. Click www.urbtix.hk. www.hkmarathon.com. HK Arts 21/2-2/3 Show Jumping Festival Event Looking for inspiration for your budding Be dazzled by a combination of ballerinas and pianists? Book tickets graceful equestrian sports, world- for Giselle or one of several concerts class cuisine and luxury shopping at during the arts festival. Learn more at AsiaWorld Expo. Learn more at www.hk.artsfestival.org. www.longineshkmasters.com. 18/2-22/3 21-23 Restaurant Week Enjoy a unique dining experience while giving back to the community during this annual week of eating. Reserve your spot at www.restaurantweek.hk.

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Travelling tots The Gro Company’s Travel Grobag for three- to six-year-olds, $529, has all the standard Grobag features, plus a zip and Velcro to comfortably secure your child in a car seat or pushchair. The Gro-clock, $285, helps toddlers understand day and Kick off! night, and learn the time: the stars Coach Jorge, a former professional at night signal sleep-time, and when footballer from Brazil, has set up the suns comes up, it’s wake-up TalentSports’ Show de Bola Brazil time. Both items are available from soccer school. Already extensively stockists including Bumps to Babes, experienced in coaching children Mothercare, and Tiny Footprints. Five in Hong Kong, Jorge loves teaching lucky readers will each win a Travel kids and wants to share his football Grobag and a Gro-clock, worth a experience with them. Classes are held total of $814. Email at The Peak School and at King’s Park. [email protected] by Get the details and kick off with a free 28 February and include “Win Gro” trial class by calling Jorge on 9365 3814. in the subject line. hot off the press Local landscape Local mum and founder of Cupcake Design, Nicola Beckett, has teamed up with UK company Bold & Noble to launch the new Hong Kong Type Map. This stylish map is printed using a traditional silk screen technique on recycled card and Shoe sale comes in a sheer slate colour. The unframed prints Apple & pie is having a fantastic sale on are 50cm x 70cm and fit standard frames. Maps a wide selection of children’s shoes at cost $700, with free delivery in Hong Kong within their Wong Chuk Hang store. Sizes range four days. Contact [email protected] to order from EU 19 (early walkers) to EU 41 (older your map of the local landscape, or view it first at children) with discounts on offer of up www.boldandnoble.com. to 50 per cent. Playtimes readers who take along a copy of this magazine will benefit from an exclusive further 10 per cent off sale prices for a third pair. Shop Monday through Saturday from 10am to 6pm, and Sundays and public holidays from 11am to 6pm, at 206, 2/F Retail Podium, One Island South, 2 Heung Yip Road, Wong Chuk Hang. See the styles at www.appleandpie.com.

10 Playtimes Go Bananas! Run along to celebrate Hong Kong’s wacky and crazy Beat the Banana Charity Run’s ninth birthday on 2 March – with fun and quirkiness for Chinese everyone. Organised by World Cancer comics Research Fund Hong Mandarin Matrix Limited has launched the Kong, this run has Pangu Chinese Comic Series in an all-new seen more than 9,000 format. Created by acclaimed author Martha participants chase Keswick and illustrated by Elvin Ching, the first a giant banana four titles have been published in collaboration along Hong Kong’s with Cambridge University Press. As increasing waterfront since 2006. numbers of children learn Chinese as a second There’s a new 5km language, reading Chinese books for fun is a route this year, whilst a great motivator to learning. The new Pangu banana lady will lead series comes in an eye-catching comic book the signature 3km Fun format with action-packed stories and detailed Run. Nominate your graphics, enriched with Chinese cultural child as one of the references. These innovative books are written two banana kids to lead young runners in the popular 1km Kids in Chinese characters with extensive Chinese/ Banana Run. Places are limited, so sign up now by calling 2529 Pinyin/English vocabulary lists and are available 5025, or visiting www.beatthebanana-hk.org. at www.mandarinmatrix.org. Travel scheme The UK and Hong Kong have agreed to include Hong Kong in the Youth Mobility Scheme (YMS) to help young people from both countries broaden their horizons. The agreement allows 1,000 local young people annually to live, work or study in the UK for up to two years, with reciprocal arrangements for young people from the UK. The scheme is open to any British or HK citizen possessing a valid passport, aged between 18 and 30. Further information for HK applicants is available from the UK Visas and Immigration website www.ukba.homeoffice.gov. uk/visas-immigration/working/tier5/youthmobilityscheme/. UK applicants should visit the Hong Kong Immigration Department’s website: www.immd.gov.hk.

Curious colours Stokke offers your curious baby a new way to explore the world by introducing new shades – colours that will take your little one’s eyes through a fantastic voyage around the world. The cool Urban Blue gives a glimpse of the Arctic ice and Northern Lights of Scandinavia. The classy-cosy Beige Mélange makes the daily safari even more extraordinary. To show your baby how colourful the world really is, visit www.stokke.com.

February 2014 11 Helping hands We know that we’re living in one of the world’s leading financial centres, Balancing bike but did you also know that one Healthy kids develop essential motor skills early in in five people here live below the life; paediatricians agree that learning balance and poverty line, surviving on $120 a day coordination with exercise jump-starts growth and or less? HandsOn Hong Kong (HOHK) development. The STRIDER Bike teaches is a non-governmental organisation your wee one balance, coordination that addresses the needs of the less and confidence, without having to focus privileged through volunteerism and on learning to pedal. Weighing only 3kg, key local charities. Volunteers need only the STRIDER™ No-Pedal Balance Bike is commit to one event, meaning even super-light for easy handling by young the busiest people can give back to the riders. Ride to www.striderbikes.com. community. HOHK also delivers bespoke One lucky reader will win a shiny volunteer activities for corporate groups, new balance bike, worth $980. tailored to your specific corporate social Email [email protected] responsibility goals. HOHK receives no by 28 February and include government funding and provides its “Win Strider” in the subject line. services for free. Help HOHK at www.handsonhongkong.org. Money Detox matters Enrich is Hong Kong’s delight premier training New Year, new you – organisation for kick-start 2014 with the financial literacy, Clean 9! This aloe vera- entrepreneurship and based nine-day cleanse communications. Working programme gently removes mainly with migrant workers – primarily toxins, with the aim of helping domestic helpers – and low-income families, you become healthier and this organisation helps with financial issues including slimmer. The detox kit comes budgeting, saving and investing. Enrich offers a with aloe vera drinking gel, Forever UltraLite protein powder range of professional workshops especially for and five supplements that contain omega-3, probiotics, bee Filipinos and Indonesians, including their flagship pollen and more. It might just be the perfect way to shed those programme Money Wise Migrants, in the language festive calories. Personalised support is available alongside a of the audience. Their frequent and affordable tailor-made menu. Playtimes readers will receive a 10 per cent programmes cost only $280 for four hours of training, discount on the Clean 9 and a 20 per cent discount on the with vouchers available for employers to buy for their body toning kit (for post-detox) during February. Find details at helpers. Learn more at www.enrichhk.org. foreverlivinghk.weebly.com, or phone Monica on 9211 3322.

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Stride for sight Go step by step towards a brighter future by joining the ORBIS-Bank of America Merrill Lynch Walk for Sight 2014. Put your best foot forward and make giant strides in the fight against global blindness while enjoying nature. The walk will take place at Tai Tam Country Park on Sunday, 9 March, from 9:30am to 2:30pm, beginning and ending at the Hong Kong International School. A 6km route is available for families, along with 10km for keen walkers or 14km for the most adventurous participants. Register online at www.orbis.org/walkforsight.

Designer deco The Room Studio, an interior decoration studio that helps people create unique, stylish and comfortable homes, is giving away a kids’ bedroom or playroom makeover. The lucky winner will receive several consultations to work with the studio in creating a unique and fab look for a fun room. You have to buy the furnishings, but the designer will help find the best prices. The room design will include plans for furniture, window dressings, wall coverings, paper, art work, soft furnishings, upholstery and rugs. Email [email protected] by 28 February and include “Win Room Makeover” in the subject line. See more of their designs at www.theroomstudio.hk. Autism awareness In partnership with ESF, the 2014 Hong Creative Kong Inaugural ASD Conference will be held at Cyberport on 3 and 4 April, play coinciding with Autism Awareness My Kiddy Gym, a place of Month. Clinical psychologists Dr Tony creativity and excitement, provides Attwood, from Australia, and Dr Isabelle gymnastics for kids. Set with colourful Hénault, from Canada, will be keynote equipment – with big and small speakers. The conference aims to items available – and routines increase knowledge and awareness of that change weekly, this venue autism spectrum disorders, including allows kids to learn via fun and Asperger’s syndrome, for educators, creativity, benefiting both physical professionals, families and carers, and and mental development, whilst hopes to aid in the development of tools building confidence and improving to support the lives of individuals with discipline. Classes are suitable for ASD. Learn more at www.esfeducation. children aged six months to four com/asd-conference-2014, and be sure years, and a free trial is available. to register by 14 March. Enquire at 2759 8811, or email [email protected].

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Meaty meals Jett Foods, which has offered top-quality steaks from the US since their launch last year, is now offering grass-fed beef from New Zealand due to high demand. Their USDA Prime and US certified Angus premium marbled steaks are still on offer, and at the best prices on the market. Their top recommendations for achieving your healthy New Year’s resolutions include various cuts of organic free-range chicken and grass-fed New Zealand lamb. Not to be missed, and popular with kids, is their premium Spanish Duroc pork. Order all of it at www.jettfoods.com. Car comfort Have car seat, will travel in the Maxi-Cosi Priori XP Toddler Car Seat, suitable for riders weighing nine to18kg, which covers all your needs for safe car journeys. Great seating and comfort, with added side-impact protection have made the Priori XP a favourite among parents. Kids will enjoy a good view from the car, along with a secure fit. This seat offers four comfortable positions (sitting to sleeping), conforms to the latest European safety standard and comes with a removable cover for easy washing. Find it at Bumps to Babes for $2,490. Happy helping hike

Most of us rely on helpers in our daily lives, but few think about those who experience difficulties, often from employers or unscrupulous agencies. Helpers for Domestic Helpers (HDH) is a local charity that provides advice and assistance to domestic helpers. HDH receives no government funding, relying instead on donations, including money raised during their annual hike. This year’s hike is Sunday, 9 February, with a route that includes starting points from the Discovery Bay Ferry Pier to Stanley. The main hike starts at St. John’s Cathedral at 9am, with walkers joining at various points along the way. Join all or part of the hike or make a donation. Find details at www.hdh-sjc.org. Perfect portraits Mosaic Photography is a place full of joy and laughter, so plan a family portrait with your loved ones during this happy season. While you and your kids run, jump and play at Mosaic’s studio, their photographers will capture photos of your family – photos that will show the natural and real moments that connect your family. Just relax and enjoy having fun with your boys and girls, with hugs and happy smiles, and let Mosaic capture the story. To reserve a family portraiture session, call 2890 5588, or click www.mosaic-studio.com.

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Messy Works Training Cleanliness may be a virtue, but clutter may inspire your next great idea. When researchers at the University of Minnesota in the US had people solve problems in either a clean room or a messy one, they found that those in the untidy space came up with more creative Time solutions. “An orderly room encourages people to do what is Go, weekend warriors! Exercise is just as expected. But a messy room can do the opposite, leading beneficial when you squeeze it into a couple you to brainstorm more innovative ideas,” says Kathleen of sessions per week instead of trying to do Vohs, PhD. So the next time books and papers begin to some on most days. In research from Queen’s pile up, cut yourself – and your kids? – some slack. The University in Ontario, Canada, volunteers who mess could encourage a light bulb moment. logged 150 minutes or more of moderate to source: Good Housekeeping vigorous exercise each week were three to four times less likely to develop metabolic syndrome – that unhealthy combo of high blood pressure, high cholesterol, excess belly fat, and insulin resistance – however they split up those minutes. source: Good Housekeeping finger on the pulse Snooze and lose Healthy adults who stay up late and suffer chronic sleep restriction are likely to gain weight, shows a study in the journal SLEEP. This is largely due to an increase in meals and snacks consumed during the late- night period. The study showed that Wait for it night owls not only tucked into more A study in Clinical Pediatrics investigated two food than those who hit the hay toilet-training methods to see whether one early, the proportion of calories was more likely to lead to accidents later on. consumed from fat was higher In one, you wait until your child shows signs during late-night hours than at that he’s ready, then follow his lead during other times of day. the process. The other approach starts when source: Australian you’re ready; you encourage your kid to go to Women’s Weekly the bathroom at set times. Researchers found that neither method affects the risk of kids having accidents later, but Ari Brown, MD, a paediatrician and co-author of To d d l e r 411, says, “There’s less frustration for both the parent and child when toilet training starts once the child is developmentally ready to succeed.” source: Parents

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Light up your life

Light up your child’s imagination with Lil Nika’s recently launched pachyderm, a fun and creative multi- functional lamp that kids assemble themselves. This contemporary origami- inspired lamp, made of 100 per cent certified recycled plastic, has a USB-friendly LED light source included. With adjustable headwear for kids and adults, this African safari-themed piece definitely introduces something new and exciting to the market. Buy the “Emi” online at www.lilnika.com and receive free delivery within Hong Kong, or at Biva shops in Famous Stanley and Happy Valley. faces Natuniq proudly announces the Hong Kong launch of Luke & Lilly, eco hero a certified organic personal care line for kids aged five to 13. Growing kids will enjoy these healthy, natural Healthy living cosmetics, certified by NaTrue, a well-known international non-profit Green Gourmet is a one-stop organic shop for people who are striving for association. Products are available healthier living. They offer a comprehensive range of quality food and beverages, online and are shipped within three food supplements, and personal care and household products made from to five business days. Would your natural materials. Some health problems can be solved by avoiding the source child be the perfect local face of of any allergy which is affecting you or your family. Green Gourmet’s products Luke & Lilly? Natuniq is currently may help reduce allergies by allowing you to adopt seeking two beautiful faces to a gluten-free, wheat-free, dairy-free and/ represent Luke & Lilly in Hong Kong. or egg-free diet. They also carry eco- Both winners will become the brand’s friendly products to inspire customers face for six months, participate in an to pursue a green lifestyle. Visit the exclusive photo shoot and win $2,500. store at Shop 507, 5/F Opulent Applications will be accepted until Building, 402-406 Hennessy 30 March. Shop and learn more at Road, Causeway Bay, or go to www.natuniq.com. www.greengourmet.com.hk. Brilliant building blocks

A brick is the basic unit both of most building foundations and of key learning foundations. Simple brick play ignites kids’ creativity, helping them reach developmental milestones and master cognitive and motor skills. Lifelong learning possibilities range from toddlers balancing and stacking bricks to inventive building by older kids. Unit Bricks are non-toxic and made of 100 per cent sustainably grown compressed wood. Only organic water-based colour and non-formaldehyde glue are used. Currently on sale at 2/A Lee Wah Mansions, 171-177 Hollywood Road, Sheung Wan (email [email protected] for hours), or by delivery, the 40-piece set costs $280 and the 72-piece set costs $380. Learn more at www.unitbricks.com.

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Mornings are always a struggle. touch on your brow bone (just under Q By the time I get the kids ready for your eyebrow), down the top of the their day, I’ve only got a few minutes to length of your nose, and on your crow’s get myself together. Do you have any feet. tips for looking good fast? • Next apply black, quick-dry eyeliner. Yes! Here’s your way to a five- • Now apply blusher, which gives you a A minute face: bit of colour. Bronzer, if you have time, • Combine equal parts moisturiser and is also helpful to shade areas you’d like foundation and apply it all over your to downplay (like a double chin, for face. You’ll get perfectly moisturised example). coverage in almost no time. • Finish your look with lips: Anything from • Then grab a highlighter and, using a natural gloss to a bright colour works, your ring finger – because other fingers but the trick is getting good enough to are too strong and can stretch the put it on and reapply throughout the delicate, wrinkle-prone skin – apply a day without a mirror. beauty 101

Award-winning ponytail look sleek. If it seems a bit hair stylist and Quick ’do too oily, but you don’t have time for make-up artist You need to deal with your hair, and a wash, you can add hairspray or Rennie Fensham sometimes “fast” is winning the battle gel to really lean into the sleek look. is well-known for over “stylish”. Here are my tips for Or, opt for a dry shampoo instead, her passion and achieving both. in between washes. Just spray it skills. Her glamorous background • Ease up on the shampooing. There’s in, brush it out, and you’ll get style spans 30 years of working in beauty, no need to wash your hair every day, with volume. Try to train your hair to fashion and TV, in South Africa, the and doing so is likely to strip your hair of go three or four days in between US and, for the last seven years, in its natural oils and cause damage. washes. Hong Kong. Check out her salon, A bit of natural oil in your hair helps your • Vary your ponytail. There are so Hollywood Hair, at 23F, 1 Duddell many ways to make a ponytail: high, Street, Central. low, side – there’s no wrong way to do it and nothing is easier when you’re in a hurry. If we take a cue from Hollywood, your ponytail can even be messy. The secret to a great messy bun or a messy pony is to let the hair fall out a bit on the sides. You can also accessorise your ponytail: clip a bit of bling or a flower next to the elastic you used to make the ponytail. Hair bands are big at the moment, too, thanks to The Great Gatsby trend. Hong Kong must-have MAC Prep + Prime Highlighter recommend heading to any MAC This pen-style highlighter adds a counter and asking their make-up soft sheer wash of colour to the skin. artist to teach you exactly how to Precision application allows you to use it – advice is free! Once you get add radiance just where you want it. the hang of it, application is quick If you’ve never used a highlighter, I and easy.

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(rated PG) Swings and roundabouts

Building more balance into your life starts with making a list, writes Orla Breeze.

hat’s that phrase again? communication, or whatever comes to And now for the best part of any Oh yeah: “What you lose mind. And to be honest, it’s usually the first project – implementation. If it’s something on the swings, you gain thing that pops into your head that needs that can be changed pretty quickly, Won the roundabouts.” I’ve the most balancing. then change it pretty quickly. But if it’s always had a problem with that. Firstly, Now, look back at your list and something that requires a larger shift, I don’t see how there are any gains instead of feeling overwhelmed by the don’t freak out! Just take the first steps. to be had from spinning in perpetual amount of aspects that need attention, If you need to sit down and have a dizzying motion, whereas a go on a swing congratulate yourself on identifying them. conversation with your partner or re-work brings nothing but joy. (Undeniable fact, It’s completely, totally and absolutely both of your schedules, then do it. If you people!) And secondly, because when impossible to make any changes in our need to book yourself in for a massage it comes to parenting, it’s all swings and lives if we don’t first see what needs every Monday for the next 52 weeks, roundabouts. Our kids are our work and to change. So, my heartfelt congrats then do that. The more action you take our life. It’s not like the pre-parenting on completing 50 per cent of the job to create balance, the quicker you will days where there was a clear delineation already. Excellent work, readers, truly feel it. And the more balanced you feel, between the two. Back then, if we had a excellent. the easier it will be to tackle the rest of bad day at the office, there was solace Now for step two. Cast your eyes your list. and peace to be found at home. But back over your list and focus on the part Finding balance as a parent since our parenting days have begun, that says “Me”. Because that’s where doesn’t have to require losing yourself it’s become increasingly difficult to find it begins. As soon as you find balance on the swing in order to gain a happy that point of balance on the work/life within yourself, you’ll find it a whole lot family on the roundabout. Small steps see-saw. It’s as if all those swings and easier to find balance outside of forward are all it takes to ensure that roundabouts have morphed into one yourself. What is it exactly that’s throwing no playground ride ever throws you off giant bewildering playground. No wonder you off balance? Get as specific as balance again. we sometimes feel like our life is spinning you can. If you’ve written down “me out of control! time” then what kind of me time are So, how in the name of all that is you looking for? Are you craving a Orla Breeze offers private Parental good and proper, do we get back onto guaranteed lie-in at the weekend or just Guidance! sessions for expectant, new that roundabout, spin incessantly and some time to finish a coffee before it and even experienced parents who’d yet walk away as solid as a rock? I have goes cold? Or is it bigger than that? Allow like to learn how to keep their cool while a plan, people! And it’s nice and simple. yourself to imagine the most-perfect me nurturing the best in their kids. Contact All you have to do is get yourself a blank time no matter what shape that takes. her at [email protected]. piece of paper and a pen. Go on, chop chop! Got it? Great. Let’s start. Write down the following list: • Me • Relationship • Kids • Career Beside each point, write the one most important thing that is missing from that part of your life. You can choose from things like more me time, romance, fun, laughter, promotion, support,

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1 The Fashion Designer’s Kit horse, and lots more. by Seedling Available from Toys“R”Us $399 Age 8+ years 3 Tool Set by Green Toys Design, sketch and make your own $390 unique fashions. This kit includes fabric, Age 2+ years wooden mannequin, pattern shapes, No job is too big for this tool kit, which and a belt to keep everything at hand. sewing needles, ribbons, instructions and includes a tool box, screwdrivers, Available from ItsImagical more. hammer, saw, wrench and pliers, and Available from Bookazine comes in blue and pink. 5 Melissa and Doug Sushi and other retailers Available from Tiny Footprints Slicing Play Set $199 2 Lego Duplo Big Farm 4 Hairstylist Kit Age 3+ years $599 $399 Become a sushi chef with this 24-piece Age 2-5 years Ages 4+ years wooden set, which comes in a beautiful This set has everything you need to be a Style like the professionals with this kit, box and includes sliceable rolls, shrimp, farmer, including a barn for storing food, which includes a comb, scissors, brush, tuna, and more. a farmhouse with chairs, a stable for the spray, clips, blow dryer (with real sound!) Available from Tiny Footprints

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People In My Neighborhood Learning Cards by Carson-Dellosa $120 This set contains 22 photographic cards of the people children commonly see working in their neighbourhoods – police officers, bakers, doctors and more. Available from Pollux Books

Daredevil: The Daring Life of Betty Skelton by Meghan McCarthy $136 Betty Skelton liked aeroplanes, watching them fly around outside and even flying them herself. She lived for an adventure, and nothing could stop her! Available from Paddyfield

What Do People Do All Day? by Richard Scarry $101 Everybody’s busy in Busytown. Train drivers, doctors, mothers and more, everyone’s bookshelf got somewhere to be and a job to do. Available from Pollux Books Dive In! The Day the Crayons Quit Just the Job: Doris the Doctor by April Jones Prince by Drew Daywalt by Mandy Ross $70 $180 $144 It’s a busy day on the construction site. The Duncan just wants to colour, but when Kids love to think about what they’ll be mice are up to something big, but what he opens his box of crayons, he finds only when they grow up. In this book, they’ll is it? Children will delight in guessing their letters: His crayons have quit! What can learn what it’s like to be a doctor. way to the end. Duncan do? Available from Pollux Books Available from ShopinHK Available from Bookazine

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There's an app for that Craving a bit of balance in your home? These apps will help everyone in the family build a bit more structure into daily tasks, writes Angelina Draper.

For babies and toddlers For kids For mums and dads Interactive Telling Time ChoreMonster Cozi Family Organizer Ever feel that life would be easier if your Teaching little ones to do chores is Imagine having your own personal toddler could grasp the concept of never going to be an easy task, but assistant, who would send appointment time? Phrases like, “You can watch TV with a little help from technology, it can reminders, keep you from forgetting for 20 minutes”, “Snack time is at 4pm” be fun. birthdays, maintain multiple shopping or, “Daddy will be home in one hour”, Parents and children access their lists, share family contacts and even would make a bit more sense. unique accounts from desktops or keep track of photos and memories This app helps children learn to mobile devices. Kids can use the family through a journal. tell the time, as well as count down, desktop, while parents can keep track A real-life PA might not be differentiate between night and day of each child’s accomplishments accessible to everyone, but the Cozi and recognise elements of a clock, all remotely and schedule or modify tasks Family Organizer app is, and it does in an engaging way with drag-and- and rewards as needed. Children use all of the above and more. A single drop features and games. Children earned points to “purchase” pre- account gives access to the mobile collect stars for every right answer and defined rewards. app and website, where additional use them to buy fish for the app’s virtual An image-uploading feature features, such as meal planners and a fish tank. allows both sides to use pictures in recipe box, can be found. The free version offers these conjunction with words to convey Almost all features are free but, as features plus a choice of two clocks either what they expect done, or usual, there is also a paid membership and background sounds. Upgrading showcase what they have achieved option that adds a few more tools. to the paid version unlocks a variety (“Look how well I made the bed, This app is available for Apple, of games, quizzes, puzzles, clock faces Mummy!”). Android, Amazon, Windows and and more. Basic membership is free, and an BlackBerry devices. This app is available for Apple, option to upgrade to a monthly plan Android and Amazon devices. gives children access to the Monster Carnival. This app is available for Apple devices, and an Android version is coming soon.

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We need to understand that there is no formula for how women should lead their lives. That is why we must respect the choices that each woman makes for herself and her family. Every woman deserves the chance to realise her God-given potential. Hillary Rodham Clinton, It Takes a Village

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36 Playtimes Meet Belinda Greer There’s a new sheriff in town. Playtimes editor-in-chief Tracey Starr sat down with ESF’s new CEO to hear what she’s got planned.

Tracey: Thanks for taking the time high level. I’d been in Stirling for to sit down with me today. You’ve four years and had to consider either been in your new role since September moving to a bigger authority, with and I’m sure you’re still busy getting more children but doing the same job, up to speed on your new job and or here was an ideal opportunity to home. How are you finding things? go back overseas and do a similar job, How does life in Hong Kong compare but different, with different challenges, to your previous posts in Scotland and which suits my personality. I like to Abu Dhabi? feel challenged. Belinda: Scotland and Hong Kong couldn’t be farther apart. It’s more T: The big ESF issue that everyone’s than just the 6,000 miles; the Hong talking about is the phasing out of the Kong pace of life is faster, spaces seem government subvention. ESF has won to be smaller, with more people. But favour for being a more cost-effective I’m loving the city and what it has to alternative for both expatriate and offer. local parents whose children are best suited for an English-language T: You’ve been an educator for more education. When the fees inevitably than 30 years. I understand that your rise, how will ESF be different from kids are grown and your husband – other international schools? also an educator – has just retired. B: ESF has a very proud tradition that This seems like a huge, challenging we don’t want to lose, and, therefore, position to take on when you’ve we don’t want to become just a group certainly earned the right to slow of international schools. I think the down. What compelled you to take on strength of Hong Kong is having the this job? variety and choice. I’m interested in B: Well, I suppose I’m not the kind of looking at the international schools, person who slows down – apart from local schools and ESF almost as three my marathon running! I’ve run five different pillars. ESF doesn’t fit into marathons and I’m managing to get the international schools and I don’t slower each time. (Laughs.) But, I like want it to. I think we are unique, from to be busy, and I came into education our past, but more importantly, for genuinely to make a difference, what we can contribute to the future. especially for children. The work I So I will be looking to work in closer was doing in Scotland was at a very partnership with the local system and

February 2014 37 the international system to provide all abilities, where our philosophy in partnership with the EDB (the that variety. It’s in all of our interests is one of inclusion, where we see Education Bureau). I think ESF is part to ensure that Hong Kong is seen as a the importance of the integrity of of the solution for the future of Hong place that you can move to, be part of childhood – that children should be Kong. The education system is looking and [where] your children will get the nurtured and that every child should to change. I know that there have highest possible education. have the best, most positive learning been changes within the local system; The vision is to grow from where experience. I understand that there are some we are, in terms of the quality of the If English medium education is concerns – it’s not with what they’re learning and the education that we only going to be available to the learning, it’s how they’re learning. I provide. I want ESF to be seen as highest attainers, then what kind of think that ESF could be part of that one of the leaders in education, to be society are we going to end up with in solution of working with local schools, globally renowned for providing the Hong Kong? Our whole philosophy sharing different approaches, so that very best for our children. and our set-up – the pedagogy and the we can strengthen the local system as curriculum that we offer through the well as strengthen our own system. T: What’s different from the IB – is one that can be inclusive. Our We can learn from the local system – international system to what you success comes in ensuring that every there are things that are happening envision for ESF? Is it a philosophy, a child has positive outcomes, but that in local schools that we should be specific programme? they’re also nurtured, growing in the looking at and considering, ‘Is that B: The international system schools skills and talents that they have – a something we could use?’ or, ‘Is that select children to come into schools, strong focus on creativity, a strong an approach that we can consider?’ So and ESF, whilst we have to obviously focus on wider achievements, but not I think working in partnership across select from a large number – we at the cost of academic excellence. the three different pillars is going have about ten children per space to strengthen education for all the on a waiting list, wanting to get into T: ESF provides more services for children in Hong Kong. ESF schools – we’re not selective students with special needs than most, Which brings us to children with in terms of ability. So I think what if not all, English medium schools in additional support needs, because if ESF can provide is the support that’s Asia. Will that continue and grow? we just write children off, what cost required to work with children of B: Absolutely. We have to work will that be to society in the future?

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We do have the Jockey Club Sara more than the traditional approach educationalists who are talking about Rose School, we do have learning to teaching. It’s also changing with creativity, about the importance of support centres in our schools, where technology. Technology in itself isn’t nurturing the whole child, and they we do meet the needs of children with education, but technology in itself are looking beyond academic results. additional support needs. We still have shouldn’t get in the way of education. Of course it’s important that children the subvention for that area of our Let’s not be frightened to see how we can achieve high standards, but people work: that hasn’t been removed and use it to improve education. But, as are looking for more. I know that the EDB are conducting well as that, we need to look at what a review of SEF (special education) are the jobs of the future. What are T: Have you been surprised by, funding across Hong Kong. That’s the skills that children will need? not only the focus on test scores, certainly an area where I’d want to We have to look at nurturing the but also the focus on the number of work closely across the three pillars. whole child. Yes, of course, they’ve extracurricular activities for what are How can we ensure that every child got to be literate and numerate, and probably considered to be some of the who lives in or comes to Hong Kong is they’ve got to have good core skills, most overscheduled children in the going to get a chance? but as well as that, we’ve got to help world? children develop entrepreneurial B: (Laughs) Yes. I suppose what T: When I hear you describe it, it’s skills, we have to be creative, we have surprised me was the explanation that hard to imagine the other side of to nurture that so that children can people live in such small spaces that the argument that some people are be passionate about whatever it is they they have to keep their children busy. making, which is that ESF is an out- want to embody and do in their lives. But, we’ve been talking with dated colonial holdover. We don’t know the future, and the the principals about what the core B: I think that’s gone. With the pace of everything is moving so fast values and purpose of ESF are. Part subvention going, we need to look that, to keep ahead of the curve and of the discussion has been around forward. Of course we’re inward- to ensure that our children can face the integrity of childhood – this is looking: we need to look at what the future confident, without fear, the an organisation where our senior we’re doing and make sure that education system has to change. people recognise the importance of we’re improving. But we also need And what’s really interesting is the integrity of childhood: that we to be outward-looking. A number the PISA results. (The Programme should be enjoying and celebrating of people have asked me about the for International Student Assessment the time; we should be nurturing increase in competition with new – PISA – is a worldwide study of children during their childhood and schools moving in. I welcome that! If 15-year-old students’ performance not rushing them ahead. we have children desperately looking in maths, science and reading. The I can understand from a parent’s for school places, then we need to be results were announced the day of this perspective that you want to ensure embracing whoever wants to come interview.) Countries in Asia do very that your child gets every possible and work in Hong Kong, and all work well, and yet we’re not celebrating. chance. I understand the pressure in partnership and strengthen what’s And we’re not celebrating, I think, on parents to send their children to there. because we know we’ve not quite got it extracurricular tuition, lessons, sports And we need to be forward-looking, right – it’s high academic achievement, or instrumental instruction, because because education across the world but at what cost? I think countries they want to ensure their child is going is changing. Parents are looking for in Asia are starting to look towards to excel at either one thing or more

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see the parents’ perspectives because I’ve been there myself as a working parent and I can understand the pressures, or the aspirations, or the concerns that they might have.

T: Back to a few academic questions: You’ve said that Mandarin learning is a priority. What can we expect to see in the coming years? B: I think that it’s looking at not just the amount of time we spend on Mandarin, but looking at how we ensure good progression. In primary schools, it has been an area of priority and children have had increased time. So the challenge for us is, ‘What’s the progression to secondary, and how do we ensure that children are making good progress, continue to be interested and want to continue studying Mandarin into the than one thing. But I think we have that a parent doesn’t engage with the future?’ It is something that we are to help parents understand that for school or turn up at things during looking at, sharing what’s working children to really achieve well, you the day, I understand why they can’t well in different schools and looking can’t overload them by keeping them because I wasn’t doing that! You do at different approaches. I think busy and focusing purely on excelling need to balance and make sure your we should be embracing Chinese in whatever they do. And if they do, children are getting enough of your language and culture; it should be it’s at the cost of what? We have to give time and attention, along with the an integral part of what we do in our parents that confidence to stop and demands of your career. My children schools. reflect about the experience for their haven’t even noticed that I’ve left the child. country, (laughs) which, on the one T: Is there anything else you were In saying all of that, I am a parent hand, is quite hurtful, but, on the hoping we’d discuss today? of five boys, and I wanted my boys to other hand, means that they’ve grown B: For me, what I would want to be be able to go to university, whether up to be independent and resilient, to known for, and for ESF to be known they wanted to or not, to be honest! lead very full lives, and therefore we for, is being child-focused – that it’s I think education is important, so enjoy our time together. child first. I want ESF to be known I’m not suggesting that we shouldn’t When I was a teacher and then as an organisation that cares about be ambitious for our children. It’s a principal and had very young children, and cares beyond just the not about filling children’s time or children, I enjoyed the time I spent children who come into our schools excelling in everything they do; it’s with them and made that quality time. – that we have a responsibility to the about just respecting that integrity of And the times that I was working, they wider Hong Kong education system. childhood. were with their grandparents, who As well as that, there are exciting also gave them quality time. It’s not things ahead for us: embracing the T: Since you brought it up, I’d like to always about being with them all the changes in education, because it’s talk about your role as a parent. Both time, but it is about making sure that going to come fast and furious. I think you and your husband have had to you are spending good, quality time for the changes that we’re going to see, juggle a demanding career and trying with them. in terms of how children learn and to raise well-adjusted kids. So, how even what they’re learning, I would has parenting your kids affected your T: And were there things about like us to be ahead of the curve and career? your parenting that changed your leading the way for Asia. B: I was fortunate in that I lived quite perspective as an educator? close to my parents, who were both B: Yes, I’m aware of the pressures – T: Thanks so much for taking the retired and happy to support me. particularly on working mothers. It’s time to chat. We’re all wishing you What’s helped me most over the years perspective – I didn’t ever see things great success in your new position is that I have an acute awareness of as someone without children. I do and look forward to hearing more what it feels like to be a parent. So if I believe, even in my new role, that about the upcoming changes and have a school principal complaining some of the issues we’re facing, I can initiatives.

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Gone are the days when a paper round or babysitting gig kidswere the only options for earning extra pocket money. Katrina Shute finds a growing number of kids are developing real careers and discovering the pros and cons of being on the payroll.

orking parents are He is also appearing in the HBO Asia sets during school days, so you also all too familiar with drama series Serangoon Road. go to school while working. It’s great the precarious juggle When filming, Julian is required because it’s really flexible and allows between family and to be on set for at least eight hours a me to do my schoolwork and act,” he Wjob, but what about the increasing day. “Sometimes you can have a call says. number of young people combining time very early in the morning, and schoolwork and family life with other times you don’t have to go to set The stage diva gainful employment? From acting and until night-time; it really depends on As with any paying job, the hours can modelling to photography, there are the scenes you are filming that day,” be tough. Pok Fu Lam pre-teen Sophie kids taking on some serious grown-up he says. Connell was ten years old when she roles, and discovering hard work and “It is also important to be scored a coveted role as an orphan dedication can lead to big rewards. prepared and make sure you know in Annie, when the popular West End your lines and how your character musical came to Hong Kong. Three The movie star would react to things… but I don’t months of rehearsals, including one Nine-year-old Julian Feder started really think of it as hard work because week when she clocked 40 hours, modelling as a baby, but made the I love to act.” culminated in 15 shows in four weeks. personal decision at five that he A shoot can last anywhere “They were late nights and I was wanted to be an actor. After playing from a couple of weeks to a couple really exhausted, but I still kept going several small roles and taking classes of months. Despite being very to school. It was hard to manage, but with top acting coaches, Hollywood supportive of his career, Julian’s going to school tired is better than not came knocking. parents insist that he place education going at all,” she says. The Singapore-based son of first. He is homeschooled with K12 Since Annie, the 12-year-old has American parents is now set to star International’s programme, allowing starred in commercials, worked on in the upcoming family movie Wiener him to keep up with his schoolwork. television shows and music videos Dog Nationals with Morgan Fairchild. “There is a set teacher on most and performed voiceover work for

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In the past year, the 14-year- old has turned her passion into a potential career path, establishing Emmeline Primrose Photography. She charges minimal rates compared to the professionals, as she is more She is also moving in a programmes that need to be dubbed interested in building her portfolio. new direction with her work, into English. “It’s great to have the extra experimenting with advanced Now at West Island School, spending money, but I just love the techniques such as layering one Sophie has little time for anything thrill of producing beautiful pictures picture over the other, and enhancing except school, homework and classes for people. When someone sees their photographs with pixelated paint and to help her continue building her photos and they’re just so happy and other forward-thinking artistry. already impressive CV. She takes excited with the result, it’s the biggest But having now entered high various dancing, singing and acting confidence booster,” she says. school at Hong Kong International classes every night of the week, Emma is now being booked for School, Emma’s homework load has and leaves Friday night aside for “photo shoot parties” where guests increased, reducing the time she can homework. have their make-up done, participate devote to her camera. She spends “I don’t really have time for play in a shoot, and then take home some her limited spare time editing her dates; I just see my friends at school. fabulous shots of themselves and their photographs and planning future I’m willing to give up things like that friends. shoots. “It’s the best stress relief from because I have a dream and I know what I want to do with my life,” she says. The future is promising for this determined young lady, who underwent a liver transplant at just 11 months old. “My goal is to move to New York and attend a university dedicated to acting and musical theatre. I want to be on the stage and under the bright lights in a big way!”

The photographer with flair Not all kids want to be in the spotlight though – some young people are making a crust honing their skills behind the camera. As a child, Emma Vermylen became fascinated with photography. When she discovered pictures could be altered using special effects, her interest grew, and she began snapping photos of her friends. The shots went on Emma’s Facebook page and soon there were others queuing up to book their own photo sessions.

Photo: Michal Garcia

for a minimum two-hour booking. The agent takes out a 20 per cent commission. Overtime is paid when a job runs over eight hours. As well as having big dreams, Kukka says there are several character traits of children with successful careers. Confidence in themselves and their own ability is at the top of the list. They need to be able to interact well with adults and kids alike, and being able to go with the flow is also important. Good manners help, as does patience, because long hours, overtime and lots of waiting around can often take their toll. “Kids who melt down easily generally don’t do well in the working world,” Kukka says. “They need to

Photo: Galaxy Hair by Emma Vermylen be able to adapt when circumstances change or things don’t go as planned.” homework,” she says. “It’s great to get hot demand on a regular basis for School plays an important part in away from everyone so that I can have work in advertising, television, radio, all of this, too. Many schools promote the time to think creatively.” film and print. and support children taking on roles And just like all of these kids who “When the children are younger, in the adult world in the belief that it is are working in a field they love, her the motivation to work comes from the good preparation for the future – some goals are lofty. “It would be amazing parents. But as the kids get older, their supportive teachers will encourage to have my pictures hung in a gallery motivation often comes from earning the “working” kids to share their one day. Having people come to see extra pocket money,” she says. experiences in front of the class. my work would be the ultimate.” “They often tell me they are Hong Kong International School saving up for the latest iPad or guidance counsellor Sam Fleischmann Finding their motivation iPhone, and it gives them a sense believes students who take on some Kukka Hopson, the director of Hong of satisfaction being able to buy it kind of employment expand their Kong-based model and talent agency themselves.” In some cases, the pay is minds, develop crucial critical Peanut Butter ’n Jelly, has more than substantial. The average hourly rate thinking skills and improve their 50 kids on her books, ranging from for kids in the industry is between ability to work in a team environment. babies to 18-year-olds. Some are in HK$600 and HK$1,000 per hour, “If they couple this out-of-school work with excellent in-school theoretical Photo: Layered self-portrait by Emma Vermylen and practical training, they will enter higher education and their career aspirations with experience, confidence and problem-solving skills,” he says. While entering the workplace may not be appropriate for every child, many seem to thrive on the expectations and challenges and gain confidence from their success. We can all relate to the warm fuzzy feeling on being told we’ve done a job well, children and adults alike. Above all, kids who are successful at work don’t actually view it as work at all; rather, they all seem somewhat surprised to be getting paid for doing something they love. And any career coach will tell you that’s the secret to a happy work/life balance for anyone.

February 2014 49 Studentparents If you thought helping your kids with their homework was tough, imagine trying to do that while also tackling your own, writes Angelina Draper.

alking quietly into my first class in more than a decade, I was giddy with excitement, until WI sunk in my seat – a difficult move with my eight-month pregnant belly in the way. I might have been quiet, but I was anything but inconspicuous. Seven months earlier, I boarded an emotional rollercoaster when news of my pregnancy arrived just days after enrolling in a full-time master’s course at the University of Hong Kong. Torn between the joy of another child and the thought of postponing my studies, yet again, I doubted there would ever be a right time to go back to school. As weeks went by and the initial shock subsided, I began to question why one event had to preclude the other. Just as there is no right time to be a parent, there is hardly ever a right time to be a student when you have children. Oprah Winfrey’s words, “You can have it all. Just not all at once,” rang in my head, but surely the woman could sometimes be wrong? I finally decided to do both, and the more people told me I was crazy, the more I knew I was doing the right thing. My husband was on board, and I discussed the situation with the programme’s director. Both said it would be challenging, but were supportive. That’s all I needed to hear.

50 Playtimes It takes a village children are less likely to notice the Family support is a decisive factor for studying parent’s absence – even if it is almost all student parents. Without it, just to another room. most admit they would not have even “My family is very supportive,” entertained the idea of going back to says Tammie Hook, a mother of two school. Support can come in many and Management student at online forms, but in most cases it boils down Athabasca University. “My husband to time. When partners will take time off from work so that I manage to come can write my exams and will also take home early or do the girls out on the weekends if I have more hands- a deadline.” on family Encouraging someone to pursue activities, a dream or ambition is another way of supporting them. Many women find the idea of going back to school daunting, especially if they have been completely ensconced in family life. For some, a simple nudge to get started is the best form of support. “My husband helped me complete my application and told me what a good idea he thought it was,” says Christine O’Donnell, who is expecting her second child while getting a master’s degree in Education Administration and Management at the University of Hong Kong. As my school semester got into full swing and “deadline” became my word du jour, I sometimes doubted the sanity of what I was doing (our first child was only 16 months old when my classes began). In those moments, I kept reminding myself I was neither the first nor the last student with family obligations. In fact, I am part of a growing trend. Globally, the exact number of student parents is unknown because institutions are not required to collect

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Most institutions offer full-time, she says. “You have a plan, but you part-time and online programmes, cannot [always] follow it, so some days with the option to switch as family you have to make up for others.” Self- needs evolve. When choosing the motivation was challenging at times, programme that suits you best, she adds, but she knew this was the you’ll need to consider which option best format for her and her family. best satisfies your family needs and When trying to juggle course this data. But according to the US time constraints, along with any assignments, children and sometimes Department of Education, about one other personal requirements and even a job, planning ahead and quarter of all undergraduate students preferences. delegation are two coping mechanisms in the US have a child, and research “I really like the interaction with these mothers consider vital. in the UK indicates over a third of other people. I love the social aspect Sometimes however, this is easier said all part-time students in England are of my classes,” says part-time master’s than done. Ramapriya Rajagopalan, parents. degree student at the University a mother of two and online of Hong Kong and mother of one, postgraduate student at Swinburne Finding the right fit Chantal Hebert. “My class is very University, recalls the difficulty of For anyone thinking about continuing social; we organise dinners and all delegating certain tasks so she could their education, Hong Kong, with its kinds of fun things. I think I hadn’t have more study time. “I’m OK to affordable childcare, variety of English been out of the house for two years give all the cleaning jobs to my helper, language degrees and easy commutes, [before enrolling].” but I feel cooking is my area. I want to is a great city for this. I sat down with Self-study, where a student do it with my hands for my children. a group of Hong Kong mothers to interacts only with an institution to That is one of my guilt trips I have to share our stories and thoughts about complete exams, is another option get through.” becoming student parents. Over available for some degrees. Li Lian Mothers are famous for self- laughs and cupcakes, we discovered Toh, who recently completed the imposing one form of guilt or another, that irrespective of the degree, Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA) but it can hit particularly hard when institution or programme style, the programme as a self-study student, a project deadline or important exam challenges we faced were similar. liked the flexibility of this format. is looming and your toddler wants Student parents now have “The schedule is really unpredictable Mummy – and no one else will do. For a variety of enrolment options with kids. One day they can be angels some student parents, the age of their available when pursuing a degree. and the next they can be total rascals,” children plays an important part in

February 2014 53 their academic experience. “The nice TIPS FOR PROSPECTIVE PARENT STUDENTS thing about them being older is that you can have a discussion with them about it,” says Amber Quick, a mother • Discuss the programme schedule in • Think ahead. Ask if there is a reading of four boys and online student at detail with your family. list before the course starts and get Hong Kong Institute of Education. • Explain to your children why this is a head start. Children are not the only ones important to you and how the entire • Understand all class requirements, who can tug the guilt cords. The same family will benefit. such as out-of-class or group husbands that cheered their partners • Chose a subject you are passionate assignments, and plan for them. on at the beginning often struggle about and enjoy. • Expect difficult moments and the to maintain the same enthusiasm • Select an enrolment plan that works temptation to quit. throughout the course. Li Lian recalls for your schedule and personality. • Plan an end-of-course reward. the challenges of juggling family time with her need to study. “We spend a lot of time individually with the kids, but to get family time is quite Are there many group projects, and other parents who are considering difficult,” she says. how many out-of-class assignments going back to school to go for it, but One way to bridge the gap can be expected? also caution that choosing the right between school demands and time subject matters, especially during the with loved ones is to involve them Are you up to the challenge? difficult times. “You really have to whenever possible. Ramapriya once Faced with so many challenges, you have a passion for that specific subject. used her children in a teaching project might wonder why so many mums and It’s easy to get lost along the way and also talks to her daughters about dads go back to school at all. Most and say I don’t need this,” says Li Lian. what she is studying. Their reaction commonly, they aspire to change Also, concentrate on what you have has been very positive, even if they careers, make more money and widen achieved, rather than dwell on the now demand to know how much she their career opportunities. Other work ahead. Take one week at a time scores on her tests and “are you the reasons include keeping up with new and don’t fret over every single grade. first in class?” technologies, personal development Finally, think of a way to reward To avoid unexpected surprises, and even pride. yourself at the end of it all. Some speak to a programme coordinator “A little bit of pride might be look forward to spending more time and understand what is expected of part of the reason,” says Amber. “My with friends and family, while others students before enrolling. Are classes husband went and got his Master’s a can’t wait to get back to a hobby. “I theory- or practice-oriented? How few years ago, and I really didn’t want just want to book myself into a hotel demanding are specific teachers, are to be under shown.” for one night, go to the spa the whole class attendance and participation Overburdened and challenged, day and read a crappy novel,” says mandatory and part of your grade? the mums I talked to still encourage Chantal, with a big grin on her face.

February 2014 55 56 Playtimes Breastfeeding AND THE boardroom Does going back to work always have to signal the end of a mother and baby’s breastfeeding relationship? Rachel Kenney finds out.

he benefits of breastfeeding difficult – or even impossible – to are well known. Not only achieve. Some workplaces are just does it have a protective not suitable for babies to visit, and effect for babies against many roles do not allow employees certainT illnesses and allergies, it the flexibility and autonomy to work is also beneficial for the mother’s their day around their need to express. health and it helps with bonding. So In these cases, formula may seem clear are the benefits that the World like the only practical option. Add Health Organisation recommends to this Hong Kong’s culture of long that women exclusively breastfeed – hours, lack of work flexibility (such as with no supplementation of formula job sharing or part-time hours), and, or water – for the first six months of often, regional or long-haul business a baby’s life. So when a new mum trips, and breastfeeding might seem has worked hard to establish a one complication too many. breastfeeding relationship, it can seem But despite the very real and a cruel blow when Hong Kong’s paltry obvious challenges, some mums do ten-week maternity leave comes to an manage to continue breastfeeding abrupt end and, all too soon, a mother once they are back at work. So what is faced with the decision of how she sort of help or support can they expect will feed her baby, once she can no from their employers? And how do longer be at home, breastfeeding they make it a success? whenever necessary. Although many mothers might Breastfeeding basics want to continue feeding their child Despite the general consensus with breast milk on their return to from health organisations and work, for many, the challenges may governments that breastfeeding seem insurmountable. To make it should be encouraged, there is no work, a mother will either have to legal obligation in Hong Kong for have her baby close at hand, so she companies to help facilitate it. Some can feed when necessary, or find a companies do provide a breastfeeding private place and be able to allocate room with a comfy chair where some time to expressing milk, which mothers can express and store milk, she can refrigerate and use for her and some companies even have a baby’s bottle feeds in her absence. breastfeeding policy, covering issues In some roles and workplaces, either such as flexible schedules to facilitate of these options can be extremely lactation breaks, and the provision

February 2014 57 of a suitable room for expressing or what she needs to do, and that she can times per day, so I arranged my diary feeding. But these companies are the take time out to express milk.” around this. Other than the toilet, exception, rather than the rule. there was only one room in our office Providing a feeding or expressing Making it work that had a lock on the door – this was space sounds simple enough, but this One mum who did manage to a fabric/meeting room, and although can come low down on a company’s continue breastfeeding while back at not ideal, at least it was free most of list of priorities. According to Maggie work is Emma Carr, a merchandising the time, and was a place I could Holmes, breastfeeding counsellor with director for a UK ladies’ fashion store the hospital-grade pump I had La Leche League, “Many mothers brand. Emma, from Mid-Levels, hired. Travelling was more difficult end up expressing milk in the toilets. says, “In the weeks before going back to negotiate, but I ended up not Space is at a premium here, so in to work, I trialled pumping and my travelling until my daughter was seven smaller companies, the toilet space daughter’s carer bottle-feeding her so months old.” is really very, very small. One of our everyone involved was as prepared as Since then, Emma has gone on to mothers had to run an electrical lead possible. I had been pumping extra have twin boys, and has achieved a from her office round the corner into milk and storing it in the freezer. At similar routine second time around. the bathroom for her pump.” first, it had been difficult to express Although, inevitably, there have been But although important, suitable anywhere close to what I needed, but hurdles to overcome (such as the facilities are just a part of the picture over time my body got used to it and I early difficulties she experienced with for a woman who is seeking to was able to get much closer. pumping) Emma was not deterred. continue breastfeeding. According “When I started back at work, I She says, “Determination is essential to Maggie, “When a mother returns arranged to be home for both the and knowledge is key. Surround to work and wants to breastfeed her morning and evening feed, which was yourself with other breastfeeding baby, she really doesn’t need much in at 5pm, and my daughter was having mamas who can support what you are the way of special facilities. What is two feeds while I was away. When my trying to do. Joining La Leche League more important is the attitude of her daughter was in bed, I finished off before my daughter was born was boss and colleagues. It’s really crucial anything outstanding or made calls to invaluable – the sharing of stories and that she can talk to them frankly about the UK. At work, I had to express four knowledge imparted by the leaders at

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baby, and trying to maintain a breastfeeding relationship can make It is useful to remember that the first it even trickier. Depending on the weeks and months are the hardest. nature of the mother’s work, Maggie advises exploring any possible options for flexible working – such meetings, plus the mamas I have met, care of her during the day. I converted as a delayed return, working from have got me through the tough times one of the bedrooms in the dorm home or exemption from travel – with when I thought I might give up.” building into a nursery so Nina was employers. never far away from me. I would go Communication with other mums Have baby, will travel over to her room to feed her whenever is also vital. “We encourage mothers A determination to make she was hungry. I also had blinds to attend a La Leche League meeting breastfeeding and work compatible installed in my office in case I needed where they can meet other working was also an overriding aim for to nurse in there. The only difficulty mothers,” says Maggie (www.lll-hk. shoe designer Cher Skelling. While was when I had customer visits as I org). “Hearing how other mothers pregnant with her daughter, Nina, used to have to leave meetings for a cope is probably the most useful thing. Cher thought long and hard about short while to go and feed Nina, but Working mothers can pick up practical how she would manage her return my colleagues always covered for me tips and they may also feel inspired to work. She says, “After looking at and, luckily, Nina was a fast feeder.” and encouraged to continue once they all the options, I realised the only For other women hoping to carry realise it can be done. We also have solution was to take my baby with on breastfeeding, Cher’s advice is to a Yahoo group for working mothers me. I’m lucky that my colleagues are seek support. “I would say you need where they can share tips on how to supportive, so I knew ultimately it to make a decision to breastfeed, then cope and chat about the challenges would work out somehow.” look for ways to make it work, rather they face.” Cher works two days per week at than obstacles to make it difficult. Despite the challenges of returning home in Hong Kong, and three days Think outside the box and don’t be to work and breastfeeding, there can per week in a sample room in China. afraid to ask employers and colleagues be light at the end of the tunnel. “It She says, “I usually stay two nights for support.” is useful to remember that the first per week in China in a company weeks and months are the hardest,” apartment. When I knew I would take Keep talking says Maggie. “Like most aspects of Nina with me, I asked my Chinese Returning to work is a challenge parenting, with time and practice it all colleagues to look for a nanny to take for any mum with a ten-week-old gets easier.”

February 2014 61 OPEN (AND CLOSED) FOR BUSINESS Do you have a great idea for a new business? Listening to others who have gone before you might just save you some heartache, writes Tracey Starr. ong Kong is the easiest continue? They were already working and management, but after she had place in the world to start from 7am to 8pm most days, and they her first child, she was looking for a a business. All you need weren’t yet making enough money to way to earn money while still spending is a good idea and some draw any salary for themselves. time with her baby. ambition,H and in no time, you’ll be “To take it to the next level, we Her first venture was to launch raking in the big bucks while having would have to sacrifice [more time her own line of bamboo baby- plenty of free time to spend with your with] our families,” Kirsten says. “If wear and nursery items, which kids. Then, when you get bored, you’ll you’re bringing in money, you can she manufactured in China. She simply sell your little company to a justify that.” She thinks it probably found a factory and sourced her bigger company and collect millions. would have taken them three years own materials, with no prior Right? to start to turn a decent profit. But, manufacturing experience. It was not That’s what we’ve all heard. And she says, “Three years in the life of a an easy path, and one she eventually part of the story is true: Hong Kong child? That’s an eternity.” left behind. Instead, she looked at is an incredibly easy place to start a “We also knew we needed to raise distributing products. This proved business. There’s very little red tape more money to take it to the next level. a much more successful model, with and the registration fees are relatively We would’ve needed to borrow from significantly lower overheads. low. There are even piles of companies friends and work twice as hard. We While an accountant helped ready to hold your hand and walk you had to ask ourselves, Are we ready to with the start-up process, she did through the process – with just a few do that? The answer was no.” everything else herself. She created thousand dollars and a name, you can But why just shutter it; why her own website. She rented a be up and running in a few hours. not sell? They tried, but unlike the storeroom near her home; when she However, the part of the story that mythology, where everyone seems got an order, she’d pack the boxes often gets left out is that, while it’s easy to sell their start-ups for millions, herself and do her own deliveries. to start up, it’s just as easy to shut down. acceptable offers did not pour in. It took two years to get to the point of hiring a logistics company to do The best-laid plans Instant success? that work for her. And it took nearly Long-time Playtimes readers will “You expect, I’ve got a website and two years before she started paying surely remember the online shop these great products and it’ll make herself a salary. Most of the money she Hocusadabra. When they launched in millions! Nope, that’s not really how it makes still goes back into building the 2010, they brought toys and other kids’ works,” says Chrissy Denton, director business. products to Hong Kong shoppers that of Bebe2be Ltd, a distributor of baby were new and cutting-edge. Everyone and maternity products. Do your homework who knew about them loved them Today, Chrissy distributes ten If you remain undaunted and still and their success seemed guaranteed. brands from the US, UK, Australia think you’re game for starting your But look for them today and you’ll be and New Zealand, and has a own business, there are a few things to disappointed: they closed their virtual partnership with another distributor consider before taking the plunge. doors in 2012, two years after they in Singapore. “In the beginning, Kirsten advises, “Ask yourself, Do opened. I was a bit eager and didn’t know I want to dedicate every single cell of Kirsten Zaki, one of the two the market well,” she says. Chrissy’s my body to this, because that’s what founders, and her business partner background was in fitness, nutrition it takes [to be financially successful]. were self-funded, and had been committed to making the business work. They did their homework, researching the market thoroughly; they wrote a detailed business plan; they conducted focus groups; and they selected items that shoppers seemed to adore. But starting a business took loads of time – time away from their families. Kirsten found out she was pregnant with her second child the day after they registered the new business, and her partner also had two children. After about two years, when Kirsten’s partner was having her third child, they had to re-evaluate. Where were they going? Could they commit to doing what would be required to

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Or, can you just enjoy it as a hobby?” You’ll need to keep your excitement and energy up after the fun launch party and congratulatory emails and Facebook posts have stopped pouring in. Chrissy is equally pragmatic. When you look at your start-up idea, ask yourself: “Does this make money? Is it enough money?” Jo Allum is the publisher of this magazine. In addition to seeing a fair number of businesses start up and shut down during her eight years in this market, Jo’s husband also runs a successful start-up. Her advice? “First, ask yourself why you are starting a business. Is it to keep yourself occupied and bring in some holiday money whilst still being able to be there when your children need you? That is a very different proposition from starting and running a sustainable business to provide for your family. The basic premise, however, in both cases is the same: you need a business plan that stands up to scrutiny and shows how the business will succeed.” Kirsten adds, “What’s your point of difference? Research is so imperative. So many people [who are starting businesses] aren’t thinking Ask yourself beyond their own social circle.” Before you strike out on your own, ask yourself these questions from The expat community is small and management consultant Val Grubb. – perhaps surprisingly – quite price- sensitive; what are you going to do to • What are you good at? reach the local and mainland markets? • What do you like to do? And how will you pay for it? Jo • How much money do you need to survive and thrive? says, “You may think you will be able • How much working capital do you need? to manage the start-up costs within • Who are your competitors? your normal household budget, but be • Who are your customers and why is your product/service essential to them? very sure you can afford to do this.” • How are potential customers going to find you, and how are you going to Jo and her husband used their savings reach out to them? to fund their business. For them, • Who can offer mentoring advice? that meant downsizing their flat and Learn more at www.valgrubbandassociates.com. cutting back on wine and holidays. She adds, “There will be other sacrifices – whether it be the loss of still be disappointing and expensive.” bars started by investment bankers… a couple of bedrooms or no overseas Kirsten says, “I wouldn’t start a However, having children doesn’t trips for a while, or not being able to business as a vanity project. There are necessarily make you an expert at always pick up the children or tuck very small rewards in the first three running a business that deals with them in at night. A business comes to five years. If someone is looking children. But, if you genuinely love with a lot of new responsibility and to fill time and boost their ‘worth’, what you are doing, the sacrifices are takes a lot of your time. The impact volunteer!” easier. So use the skills that you have on the family has certainly been “When it comes to the type of acquired, ask advice, plan carefully, be the reason a few companies I know business you should start,” Jo says, meticulous in financial planning and have shut. That’s not a failure, just a “stick with what you know and what cash flow projections, and be realistic reassessment of what’s right for your you are good at – Hong Kong is about the impact it will have on your family at a particular time, but it can littered with failed restaurants and family life and free time.”

February 2014 65 The heart of things Apartment-living that incorporates beach-house style makes for a relaxed family home in the pulsing urban centre of Mid-Levels.

Words & styling Ingrid Keneally Photography Melanie Adamson

66 Playtimes February 2014 67 he Mid-Levels home of Australian expatriates Tamara and Andrew Toon and their two boys, Coby, aged seven, and Ayden, aged four, is bright and cheery, the T central living space making it feel lit from within. Floor-to-ceiling windows send light everywhere, calming everyone, Tamara says. “We’re fortunate to have a great view of the harbour and, as both my husband and I grew up living near the ocean – he sailed before he could walk – it was really important to us to be able to see the water. We feel claustrophobic if we can’t.” The living room is their most-loved area in the home. Airy and white with minimalist furniture and objects, the room is a design lesson in uncluttered, yet relaxed, neutrality. “Our house in Australia is near the beach, with white walls and floors, and has that real beach-house feel and that’s what I tried to capture here,” Tamara says. She and her husband sometimes feel that they might have the only beach house in Hong Kong. A neutral palette with natural wood plays a large part in providing this holiday-at-home backdrop. “We had the dining room table custom-made based on one I’d seen in an interiors magazine. I love the plank look as it keeps to our beach-house theme,” she says. And though the couple are very much driven by the lack of artifice in the coastal vibe, modernity and antiques are interesting to them, too. An Eames lounge chair sits in the living area and eight Barcelona chairs cast an air of sophisticated precision around the dining table. “I also love my stunning antique silver-plated tray, and fiddle-back soup ladle and serving spoon, originally from London but sourced here from a great new fine antiques store called Authentiques in Sheung Wan,” Tamara says.

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Artwork found in the Defan art village in China shows this family are serious travellers. The beautiful bed in the master bedroom was discovered in Indonesia; the children’s bedrooms benefit, too, from the artwork from their journeys. Both rooms are balanced with limited toys and books, and it is the striking boldness of the features on the canvas works, one of a dragon attacking Hong Kong and the other a spaceship construction, that speaks volumes about the couple’s love of art. “These were originally hand-drawn by my talented friend Karyn Moffet of MKU designs in Soho,” Tamara explains. A lover of interiors magazines, Tamara searches for the unexpected and loves planning and plotting for the apartment. She finds Pinterest a wonderful guide, particularly the home décor section, and she says she can be found pinning away until late into the night. For special pieces she heads to Shambala, Tequila Kola and Indigo Living in Hong Kong. The Toons are enjoying living in Hong Kong; they love the international lifestyle, and thrive on their close proximity to the urban heart of things. Tamara explains the role she sees Hong Kong playing in her children’s lives: It is a place that has opened up a lifetime of opportunities for them, she says. “I truly think living here will give them [the children] such an open-minded and worldly outlook on life when they’re older.”

February 2014 71 Below: Christelle Lavier blue velvet slippers, $540, Harvey Nichols. Right: Grey cotton bow tie jumper, $430, Chickeeduck; S2 black leather loafers, $515, Harvey Nichols.

Let’s hear it for the boys Sporty, classic, or relaxed, these statement pieces are the top choices for outfitting your boys this season.

Words & styling Ingrid Keneally I Photography Melanie Adamson I Model Heath

Left: Primigi blue and tan leather lace-ups, $680, Apple & Pie. Right page: Heath wears La Blue Gingham Marcel Kurta long-sleeved shirt, $450, Velveteen; straight leg jeans, $260, Gap; Christelle Lavier blue velvet slippers, $540, Harvey Nichols.

72 Playtimes February 2014 73 74 Playtimes Left: Richter brown leather shoes, $850, Apple & Pie. Below: Bisgaard brown leather boots, $970, Apple & Pie; Ours blue jumper, $1,150, Les Enfantines.

Left page: Heath wears check hooded jacket, $490, Chickeeduck; straight leg jeans, $260, Gap; and Richter brown leather shoes, $850, Apple & Pie.

S2 dark navy and tan lace-ups, $556, Harvey Nichols; and Clarys leather shoes, $650, Apple & Pie.

February 2014 75 Above: Puma bright electric yellow and green trainers, $359, Harvey Nichols. Left: Stella McCartney blue lace-ups, $700, Harvey Nichols.

Right: Melania lace-up boots with skull detail, $650, Apple & Pie.

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Left: Adidas blue and red trainers, $329, Harvey Nichols. Below: Richter grey boots, $880, Apple & Pie.

Below: Renard burgundy jumper, $830, and Leon collar, $400, both from Les Enfantines; Paul Smith lace-ups, $940, Harvey Nichols.

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Perfect Pasta Easy for you, delicious for the whole family. Lunch is a breeze with these recipes from celebrity chef Annabel Karmel.

Chicken, Broccoli, Pea • 1 clove garlic, crushed before the end of the cooking time, and Tomato Pasta • 200ml chicken stock then drain when cooked. Makes 3 servings • 1 Tbsp cornflour • Heat the oil in a large frying pan. Fry • 100g cherry tomatoes, quartered the chicken until golden and cooked Ingredients • 50g Parmesan through. Add the chilli and garlic and • 150g fusilli pasta • 2 Tbsp fresh basil, chopped season. Add the chicken stock. Mix • 50g frozen peas the cornflour with 3 Tbsp of cold water. • 100g broccoli florets Method Add to the pan, stir until thickened. • 1 Tbsp olive oil • Cook the pasta in boiling water Add the pasta and vegetables, • 100g chicken breast, sliced according to the packet instructions. tomatoes, Parmesan and basil, and • ¼ red chilli, diced Add the peas and broccoli 4 minutes toss together.

Macaroni and Cheese with Broccoli and Sun-blush Tomatoes Makes 4 servings

Ingredients • 150g dried macaroni • 100g broccoli florets • 150g cauliflower florets • 40g butter • 40g plain flour • 450ml milk • 100g strong mature Cheddar cheese • 10 sun-blush tomatoes, roughly chopped

Method • Cook the macaroni in boiling water according to the packet instructions. Add the broccoli and cauliflower 4 minutes before the end of the cooking time. • Whilst the pasta is cooking, make the cheese sauce. Melt the butter in a saucepan. Add the flour and stir over the heat. Whisk in the milk, whisking until smooth and thickened. Season and add the cheese. Drain the pasta and add to the sauce with the tomatoes. Serve at once, or you can pop under a hot grill for 3 to 4 minutes to brown the top.

80 Playtimes February 2014 81 Roasted Red Pepper and • 1 tsp caster sugar Tomato Pasta • 175g dried pasta Makes 3 servings • 2 Tbsp basil, chopped • Parmesan, for topping

“Take a short cut. Use a jar of roasted Method red peppers and combine with the • Heat the oil in a saucepan. Add tomato sauce.” the onion and fry for 5 minutes. Add the garlic and fry for 30 seconds. Add peppers, tomatoes, tomato Ingredients paste, balsamic vinegar and sugar, • 1 Tbsp olive oil and season with salt and pepper. • 1 onion, finely chopped Bring to a boil, cover and simmer for • 1 clove garlic or 1 tsp garlic pur ´ee 5 minutes. Blend using a hand • 75g roasted skinned red peppers from blender. a jar, chopped • While you are making the sauce, Find these recipes and many more • 1 x 400g tin chopped tomatoes cook the pasta in boiling water, drain in Annabel’s book: Quick & Easy • 2 tsp sundried tomato paste and add to the sauce with the basil. Toddler Recipes, on sale now. • 1 tsp balsamic vinegar Serve with Parmesan.

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86 Playtimes February 2014 87 88 Playtimes February 2014 89 90 Playtimes February 2014 91 Help for the terminally lazy When it comes to work-life balance, some of us are lost causes, says father-of-three Nury Vittachi.

scientist has invented angle-changing glasses So I told Hiroto, a Buddhist, that there were other ways for people suffering from a terrifying modern he could achieve the same goal: 1) Commit some horrible disease: terminal laziness. As a long-term sin so he will be reincarnated as a lower form of life, such as sufferer, I would shed tears of happiness but it’s a Westerner or South Asian; 2) If having massive eyelids is Ajust too much effort, as indeed is everything else. really important, he could commit LOADS of horrible sins Say you’re lying in bed and something worth looking and get reincarnated as a chameleon. at appears in your room. Perhaps your favourite TV show Talking of eyelids, I once did a newspaper contest to starts, or Megan Fox wanders into your bedroom and asks find the strangest pop song lyric in this part of the world, you if you think she looks good in her new string micro- and the winner was “Single-Eyelid Girl” by the China bikini (you wouldn’t BELIEVE how often this happens to Dolls, a group from Thailand. me). The lyrics were about a girl who falls in love with In the past, you would have had to lift your head a boy who only likes “double-eyelid girls”: “The boy at several centimetres to take a look. What a royal pain! No the table opposite us is here again today; look at his eyes, longer. Now you simply slip on your Gorodey Two angle- what amazing confidence. But I’ve heard that he only likes changing glasses from Sanco online store in Japan. They double-eyelid girls! With my single eyelid, I have no contain tiny periscopes so that your head stays completely choice.” flat on the pillow but at the same time you can see down past your feet in perfect focus. “Looks OK, Megan, but let me see you in two dozen similar outfits before I give my final verdict,” I would reply. “We don’t want to rush this.” I would shed tears of Incidentally, there seems to be a whole industry making innovative eyewear in Japan. Consider the glasses happiness, but it’s just too that claim to give East Asians eyes like those of Westerners and South Asians. much effort. “It’s a glasses frame with two wire loops sticking up,” said a reader named Hiroto, who sent me a link to it. The loop gently presses into the skin, giving Chinese, Japanese The song conjures up a vision of a Cyclops-like girl and Korean people a curved eyelid fold above the eyeball sitting in a restaurant with one huge eye in the middle of and below the eyebrow. her forehead. I’ve never actually seen the lead singer of the Does it work? Volunteers who tested it for Japanese China Dolls, so perhaps that IS what she looks like. website Rocketnews24 say that: a) You look really stupid Whatever. Anyway, I am almost reaching the end of wearing the glasses, and b) As soon as you take the glasses this column, so with regard to maintaining a good work-life off, the crease disappears. Any other options? balance, I now have two choices. I could just lazily grind I phoned a doctor friend who told me all humans had to a halt. Or, I could put some effort into thinking of some the same eyelids, but changes in size and shape make them devastatingly funny closing line. I think I’ll… never mind. appear different: East Asian eyelids start at the crease Bye. Wake me up if Megan Fox pops round. about three millimetres above the eyelashes, while Western and South Asian eyelids are seven to 11 millimetres above Nury Vittachi welcomes ideas and comments via the eyelashes. www.mrjam.org.

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