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Palmers Lane, Aylsham, NR11 6JA [email protected] www.keysauctions.co.uk | 01263 733195 Image from a valuation day at St.Andrews Church, Deopham From the Editor Contents THE MAGAZINE | WINTER 2019/20 he theme for this edition of Surya from India describes his journey into The Magazine really suggested finding a new faith and church community itself. This is the first quarterly in Thetford (pg 11). An invitation to make 14 COMMENT: Embracing change Winter issue that spans the your New Year’s Resolutions at Norwich change of year. It coincides with Advent as is offered by Andy Bryant 15 PAUSE BUTTON: New shoots the start of the Christian year and we have (pg 14) and James Fawcett shares and fruits aT new of Norwich. A confluence of the new plans for the convent at “new beginnings” Ditchingham to reimagine community, Personally, I’ve taken on a new role in prayer and service, with young people addition to editing The Magazine. My at the heart of them (pg 16). colleague Katherine, who amongst other The main feature, written by Bishop things handles the press and media Graham about his new beginning in the relations for the of Norwich, is Diocese, perhaps sums up the theme on maternity leave and I’m covering most appropriately: that part of her role. I think Katherine As we come, and as we go, Christ is has taken on the more challenging new always slipping in alongside us, beginning that is first-time parenting! She continually inviting us to come and and her beautiful baby, Bertie, grace our follow him, on a journey into the front cover. unknown but to a place full of hope. As a parent now of a young adult and Wherever you are on your journey 6 teenagers, I am experiencing parenting of faith, may this edition bring you FEATURE: as a journey that comprises a series of inspiration and hope. A new chapter in new beginnings and new starts as our a longer story children grow and develop. And so it is Blessings, with our journey of faith. From first turning to Christ to walking with him through all 19 REVIEW: Books on the theme circumstances – this is a theme which you’ll find recurring throughout this edition. 11 Everyday faith: Surya’s story In our Comment article (pg 4), Rosie Sexton 14 Cathedral: Valuing New Year talks of embracing change and Emmanuel – God with us in the good and difficult Resolutions times. Archdeacon Karen highlights the 15 A fresh start at Emmaus often necessary endings before the new can begin (pg 5). 21 CYF: Starting high school A new junior choir has begun at Great Yarmouth (pg 10) which has 22 Photo gallery: Bishop brought fresh experiences for those joining Barbara Bryant Graham’s welcome service and for those already at the Minster. Editor 26 RESOURCES: Extra The Magazine design: Get in touch Adept Design www.adeptdesign.co.uk 32 OUT & ABOUT: 01603 882348 (Editor) Views expressed in this publication are not necessarily those happenings [email protected] of the Diocese and the acceptance of advertising does not indicate editorial endorsement. Diocesan House, 109 Dereham Road, Cover photo: Katherine and her new born baby, Bertie. Easton, Norwich NR9 5ES www.DofN.org/magazine facebook.com/dioceseofnorwich @DioceseNorwich The next issue (deadline 15 January) focuses on “faith in sport & outdoor spirituality”.

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3 Embracing change

hen we came to the UK, arrived in the UK, she had none of the it was the fourth country support I had. No family or friends, she we had moved to as a didn’t speak or look English and her For us, moving here, it was family in seven years. It future was on hold until others decided if the support of family, both was both exciting and daunting, starting they believed her story or not. immediate and wider, it was all over again. There was so much loss, All of us face new beginnings at many people who were open to andW yet it was an adventure, and one that points in our lives, some big and some we had chosen. getting to know us, taking smaller. Some are full of hope of a We had no home of our own, so we fresh start and of positive change, but time to let us join in with their invaded my long-suffering parents’ neat for others, things are not easy. Some already busy lives. and tidy house, looked for schools, a changes we choose and others are forced church, new community, and tried to upon us. understand this place where we should What makes the difference when we face reflecting on God’s faithfulness, guiding have felt at home, as I was supposedly and answered prayers, we can face the English, but where as a family we were change? For us, moving here, it was the support of family, both immediate and uncertain future with confidence and in fact strangers. The children’s accents gratitude. gave them away, but those soon faded. wider, it was people who were open to Were we starting to fit in? Having family getting to know us, taking time to let us As Augustine said, God alone is here eased the process of figuring out join in with their already busy lives. the place of peace that cannot be how life worked, but I did get strange Also, as Christians, it is knowing that disturbed, and he will not withhold himself from your love, unless you looks from the cashier for not knowing God walks through both the joys and withhold your love from him. how to pay for my groceries at the till. pain with us. Even in the darkest valleys, We had chosen our move to the UK, but the loneliest times, prayers are heard, others don’t have this luxury. Many of even if not answered in our way and the refugees I meet through the English timing. We know the truth of Emmanuel, classes I run in Norwich have a very God with us. different story to tell. We can also choose how we respond to Suzan recounted how becoming new beginnings. As John Newton said, a Christian had had catastrophic “His love in times past forbids me to think consequences. She lost her job and he’ll leave me at last in troubles to sink.” Rosie Sexton is the founder and director of her home, her family rejected her, and As so often mentioned in the psalms English+, a Christian charity seeking to help she had to flee her country following and repeated to me by refugees who newcomers to Norfolk feel welcome and integrate, imprisonment and torture. When she have had difficult new beginnings, by helping to make a more positive new beginning.

4 New shoots and fruits

t’s extremely exciting to have our , the shoot and then new at last the fruit, comes out of an act of letting beginning his ministry amongst us. go, of apparent death and ending. Often It feels like a long time in the waiting, when we have a new beginning there’s but all is in God’s good time, of course. been a letting go before it can happen. IPeople often ask about the vacancy Starting a new school, college or job process in , and why there has – there has been a series of goodbyes to be a gap between vicars. Sometimes to what has been left behind. Some there is a longer gap than we would like, who have heard God’s call to plant new but usually a gap is needed in order to churches have had to leave behind a properly let go of the person who has community where they were loved and left, and to be ready to welcome the new secure. It is often a leap of faith – that God beginning. goes with us in that transition and will bless the new beginning. A year ago, many of us were very sad to be Very truly I tell you, unless saying goodbye to the much-loved Bishop In churches we tend to be quite good at a grain of wheat falls into the . And it would have been starting new things, but not so good at very difficult for a new bishop to pitch up letting things die. It is a good discipline earth and dies, it remains just the next week and say, “Here I am!” when taking on something new, whether a single grain; but if it dies it as an individual or as a church, to ask bears much fruit. So, a year’s space has been important for yourself what you will stop doing in order us in the gradual letting go and starting to make time and space for the new John 12:24 to look forward. I think there is now a real beginning. There is no shame in following sense of excitement, of looking forward to the pattern of John 12:24, of having getting to know the unique person that is a proper ending to something as you Bishop , and all that he will release it “into the earth” and pray for the share with us. new shoot to come forth and bear fruit in One verse that often comes to my mind due season. when considering new beginnings is As we enter this winter period where all John 12:24. As Jesus speaks about his around us the natural world appears to coming Passion, he says, “very truly I tell echo the first part of that verse, we look you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the forward to all that the New Year will bring earth and dies, it remains just a single – the new shoots in the earth and in our grain; but if it dies it bears much fruit.” lives. And may we bear much fruit!

5 A new chapter in a longer story Photo: © Paul Clarke/flikr

The new Bishop of Norwich, Graham Usher, shares his thoughts on new beginnings, a few months into his arrival in the Diocese.

6 ife has certainly felt very Newton, who was once a slave ship new for me over the last few owner, set a new course for the ship months. A new diocese, new of his life, later writing, “My chains fell colleagues, new home, and a off, my heart was free.” From the sense new sense of place. My inner compass of sorrow for all that lay in his past, has had to get used to living in a new a joyful new hope was found which Lpart of the country. There has also been dwelt more fully in God’s grace. A life much talk of beginnings as I prepared was reoriented; a new direction set; a for the services of welcome and began new beginning. to meet many of you and learn about the Diocese. A letting go The season of Advent is one when we New beginnings can also mark a particularly think of new beginnings. freeing from the past. When thinking It is, of course, the start of the church’s about this, I’m drawn back to the words year, and there is a rhythm to the cycle of Nelson Mandela reflecting on the of the seasons – Advent prepares us for day that he left prison after 27 years Christmas, Christmas leads to Epiphany, in captivity: “As I walked out the door Epiphany’s dark nights to the light of toward the gate that would lead to Candlemas. As we enter anew into my freedom, I knew if I didn’t leave my this cycle, so the story of salvation, bitterness and hatred behind, I’d still be beginning with the expectancy and in prison. … You will achieve more in experience of Emmanuel, God with us, this world through acts of mercy than is unfolded. you will through acts of retribution.” Living in fear makes prisons around A turnaround the us, and we imprison others. Mandela realised that in his new life of freedom common table he could free others as well. It was a brave new beginning. Each Sunday at Taizé, the monastic community in France, children bring The reality is that new beginnings are forward the items to go on the bare part of a long journey into the future, wooden altar in preparation for the inhabited from within the story of the Eucharist. Along with the candles and past with its riches and sorrows, and chalices, a folded altar cloth is carefully lived in the sacrament of the present carried and, with a quick action, moment. We need to trust that this unravelled from its corners with great journey began with God and will end beauty, like reverse origami, and laid on with God. That’s where hope comes in. the altar. The holy table is made ready, Hope is an incredible gift and sets any unfolding before us, as God will be new direction in a positive frame. I love unfolded for us in bread and wine. the way that the Croatian theologian, Miroslav Volf, describes hope as “love The unfolding of the liturgical year stretching itself into the future”. provides a stunning covering to the As we turn the pages of scripture, common table around which we we find countless stories of new are all invited to sit, to return from beginnings within the framework of whatever things we are doing and to a linear narrative. Some people, like turn from whatever ill things we are Abraham, set off on a new journey. doing. Turning around and changing Some people, like Zacchaeus, turn from one’s mind are at the root of the word living unholy lives to walking in new repentance. God constantly calls us to paths. Some people, like Elizabeth, new beginnings, “to turn away from sin become pregnant when they thought and be faithful to Christ”, as the liturgy that they never would. Some people, of Ash Wednesday reminds us. like the unnamed woman who was haemorrhaging, are healed from Those words also echo through Advent, infirmity that is crushing them, and a with John the Baptist’s call to repent host of other people find life in great and begin anew with a change of abundance in a stranger’s conversation, heart and mind. This always shifts in an invitation to “follow me”, and in the direction of our life. Many a new bread being broken and the sharing of beginning has been traced on the a cup of wine. map of life when this call has been heard and lived. The hymn writer, John Each has a new beginning.

7 A rhythm and In recent weeks, I have particularly valued The reality is that new a prayer from the Lutheran Church that continuity sums up much in these reflections: beginnings are part of a Lord God, A new beginning can be both daunting long journey into the future, and exciting. I have certainly felt both in you have called your servants recent months. Lots of other people feel inhabited from within the to ventures of which we cannot see the the same: parents of a newly born child, story of the past with its ending, a couple getting married, a new job or riches and sorrows, and by paths as yet untrodden, the loss of a job, starting a new school, through perils unknown. lived in the sacrament of the being baptised or confirmed. We are Give us faith to go out with good courage, surrounded by new beginnings, they are present moment. not knowing where we go, part of life’s surprises, and yet also part of but only that your hand is leading us its rhythm and continuity. and your love supporting us; I often hear, when licensing a to I am enormously grateful for all the through Jesus Christ our Lord. advice and guidance Bishop Graham a parish, that this is a “new beginning” As we come, and as we go, Christ for a parish, or even, “the start of a James has shared with me, together with colleagues, as well as those who is always slipping in alongside us, new period of ministry”. I tend to draw continually inviting us to come and have taken the time to write to me, or back from such phrases and also from follow him, on a journey into the with whom I’ve had conversations on the word “interregnum”, which literally unknown but to a place full of hope. deanery visits. Thank you. means “between reigns”, for ministry Thank you for allowing me to share that is sustained throughout a vacancy, Please forgive me that I come with no journey with you, and I look forward to often with the help of our dedicated grand plan for the Diocese of Norwich the joyous adventure that lies ahead. Readers, AWAs and retired clergy. Rather other than to be faithful to Christ. I than focusing on individuals, I prefer see the role of a bishop as being to to understand ministry in terms of the prayerfully watch, listen and discern, gifts God gives to the whole church to together with the whole people of exercise care and compassion, healing God, and to create bridges that link a and hope, challenge and cooperation, harvest and hallelujah. diocese together, to our neighbours, and the wider church. Out of that will Likewise, being called to be your bishop come both consistency and change. is not a new beginning but a stepping Perhaps some will have already spotted The Rt Revd Graham Usher is the Bishop of into a linear story of what God has been aspects of both, because I come, like Norwich. He is a member of the Church of doing, is doing, and will do within the us all, with a unique set of experiences England’s Environmental Working Group, a board member of the Human Tissue Authority and a Diocese of Norwich. I am just the tenant and sense of calling – and some unique member of the International Commission for slotting in as number 72 in Norwich! inadequacies and failings! Anglican Orthodox Theological Dialogue.

8 Review

A selection of books on the theme of new beginnings, reviewed by Steve Foyster.

Something Needs If you want to walk Following Jesus: Undivided: Coming to change: A call to on water, consider Finding our way home out, becoming whole make your life count staying in the boat in an age of anxiety and living free from David Platt Jeff Lucas Henri Nouwen (foreword shame by Richard Rohr) Edited Authentic Books (2019) £9.99 CWR (2018) £7.99 Vicky Beeching by Gabrielle Earnshaw Revelation price £8.00 Revelation price £6.00 William Collins Publishing SPCK (2019) £12.99 Hardback (2018 paperback edition) £9.99 Revelation price £10.00 Revelation price £8.00

“Life itself, with all its ups and downs, is the classroom; our What happens when a everyday academy; wisdom well-known pastor has his At one of the lowest points Vicky Beeching began writing deepest convictions rocked takes a lifetime to develop. in his life Henri Nouwen gave songs for the church in her teens by darkness? Fresh from a What matters is that we learn a series of lectures on the and by 30 she was a household trek through some of the from the wrong turns and importance of following Jesus name on both sides of the highest mountains and mistakes to continue to grow,” in an age of anxiety. Drawing Atlantic. However, the poster girl remotest villages in the world, says Jeff Lucas. on those talks, this new book for evangelical Christianity lived with an inner battle; she was David Platt found himself From many years in Christian reveals the deep turmoil and gay. Vicky knew that if she ever overwhelmed with some leadership the author has sometimes chaotic inner life revealed her sexual identity it deep questions: If the gospel learnt a fair few lessons; from of a man who has become is true and God really is good, would cost her everything. the profound to the painful, an icon of compassion and then where is God amid the embarrassing to the vulnerability. Despite losing so much upon extreme poverty and pain? hilarious. Lucas hopes that “coming out” she gained far more; If hell really is a place, does it In his inimitable eloquent the reader will benefit from she was finally able to live from a last forever? Is Jesus really the style Nouwen writes about some of the things he wishes place of wholeness, vulnerability hope for the world? calling and purpose, fear and and authenticity. She found peace he’d known a little earlier on hope. The bestselling author and became a champion for In this compelling account his journey, such as the fact offers a compelling case for of that treacherous trek, the others, fighting for LGBT equality that we are all broken; heroes rediscovering Christianity as in the church and beyond, urging author invites us to eat what often go uncelebrated; and relevant, beautiful, intelligent he ate, drink what he drank, people to celebrate diversity sometimes, in order to look and necessary in the modern see the faces he saw, and and become “undivided”. afresh, our adventure requires world often apparently feel the emotions at every A compelling, moving and us to faithfully stay put! devoid of love. turn. Hopefully you will find profoundly important read. yourself eye to eye with some of life’s most challenging Find more books questions and face to face with the God who desires on Revelation website: to use your life in greater www.revelation-norwich.co.uk ways than you might have or call 01603 619731 imagined.

9 Photo: © Emma Knights Singing a new song

reat Yarmouth Minster’s massive wooden door bursts open and in dash children, with parents and carers in tow. It is a Thursday at 4.45pm and the Choristers’ Club gathers to sign Gin. Volunteers – trained adult choir members – are ticking registers, serving simple refreshments and taking contact details from parents of newcomers. The air is full of excitement and enthusiasm. At 5pm a chord strikes up on the piano, parents leave and the young teams of Cantoris and Decani dash into their places in the stalls to sing. It may be a church anthem or a pop hit from the musicals. Whatever it is – they pick up the music and dive in with enthusiasm, learning as they go. The Choristers’ Club was set up by the Minster’s Director of Music Outreach, an experienced teacher and choirmaster, Martyn Marshall, after a year of ministry in the parish: “We wanted to offer a regular social music club in the Minster for local youngsters – partly based on the existing work of the Minster’s Music Outreach project. I hoped it might bring in new singers for special events and re- invigorate the Minster choir. “I took the plunge and personally visited several local primary schools, explaining what the Minster had to offer their young people in the way of music and community opportunities. I took assemblies at each school and left flyers for them. We had a few keen takers – 10 in the first week, and since then it’s really spread by word of mouth as young people and their families realise what a “The leaders and volunteers work hard volunteers. Rosemarie Brown describes great opportunity it is.” to make this a safe place for children to what it has meant to her: “I’m just amazed at how much my flourish and find their voice,” says Team “After my career as a midwife was cut daughter has grown,” smiles one mum, Vicar, Jemma Sander-Heys. “There is short by a serious back injury many years “She’s really come into her own through only encouragement in the rehearsals, ago, I lost all my confidence; singing singing.” One of the volunteers, Ian Dracup, and the children work hard but also gradually gave me a new lease of life. echoes the sentiment with a grin, “I’m so socialise together regularly, which is And though this was a challenge – being impressed at their growing confidence – really important, and we couldn’t do any brave enough to come and help as a they all volunteer to sing solos now – it’s of it without the support of the young volunteer – it is such a joy to see the an example to the adult choir!” people’s families.” children’s delight in music, their focus, This growth in confidence is due in large Perhaps most important for this new and how they grow in confidence. It’s part to the care and kindness that are beginning has been the support of been lovely, feeling of use again – a new a foundation of all the club activities. the existing Minster choir members as beginning for us all!”

10 A new-found faith and community

Surya Teja Reddy Vajrala shares his everyday faith story of a move from a village in India to a new community in Thetford, discovering his faith as part of that journey through embracing new experiences.

lthough I grew up in a to church, no matter what. I managed upset me, I just kept praying and praying nominally Hindu family, my to get a bike and cycle the 13 miles to to God that he would provide for me – grandmother introduced me get to church. It took about an hour and not lots of money or anything, just what to Christianity at an early age. a quarter to make the trip. Once I was I needed. She got me to read the Bible and was there, I started making friends, getting Then I met Helen Jary (then Team Vicar the one who first suggested that I go to into the community and enjoying being in Thetford) and she introduced me to churchA – and my family were happy for at church. It was great! church community and to Nigel and me to do that. From then on, I was praying My boss still wasn’t happy with me Glenda who then agreed to take me in and reading the Bible every day, not in taking off the Sundays and asked me for two weeks while I got sorted. After six a Christian sense, almost in a rhythmic to leave. My attitude was; fine, I’ll find days staying with them, they came to me sense. I was interested in it but had not something else. I left Bury St Edmund’s and said, “stay with us until you find your really met with Jesus at that point. and came to Thetford, but I didn’t stop feet – however long that is.” They treated When I was older, I left India and came going to church. I didn’t let my situation me as a family member. Glenda now to study (Master’s Degree) in the UK introduces me as her adopted nephew. and started my part-time work. One I now go to Hope Church with Nigel and day, I met Sol and Anna who had Glenda and have met many new friends visited my home village on holiday. The my own age. I have been welcomed into conversation moved to talking about the family of the church and it is great. Jesus and I explained to them that I read People smile at me as I walk around my the Bible and then they invited me to neighbourhood and are friendly – I feel their church. part of a community. At the time, I had no car and my boss Recently, I got a phone call from a local was not happy with me taking Sundays delivery company in Thetford, offering off to go to church. But I had me a job. I now have my own car and a decided that I needed to get job, and I’ve nearly finished studying. Even so, I would rather stay in Thetford than get a “better job” somewhere else because I love the community and the church so much. I am looking forward to my family coming over from India soon to see me.

I didn’t stop going to church. I didn’t let my situation upset me, I just kept praying and praying to God that he would provide for me – not lots of money or anything, just what I needed.

11 Beginning in Reader ministry

n September, four new Readers me the confidence to take a first step were Licensed and five who have on my vocational journey. Or better Fiona Tibbitt recently transferred to this Diocese still, a letter in the post from God simply were welcomed in a Readers’ Day saying ‘yes, I do mean you’! But when Eucharist that highlights the importance I attended a ‘LifeCalling’ day (which I of this essential ministry. The new four highly recommend, by the way) it was Ishare some of their journey. suggested to me that all those voices around me had the same discernment Gus Woodcock and affirmation as getting a Saul-like thunderbolt from above. “Training has been a challenge, both in terms of volume of work and the challenging of some of my own views and beliefs, but the teaching staff have been tremendous. Working alongside “About eight years before I started training, other students also makes the whole a Reader at my church asked if I had learning and formational experience more enjoyable and rewarding. With considered it. I thought it was a ridiculous every Reader ministry being unique to suggestion; there was no way I could stand itself, I am both excited and nervous up in front of people and speak! about what God has in store for me as I “Over the next few years I became more take this new step. involved with worship. I found this an “Whilst, over a number of years, friends “Although Forrest Gump might say that incredible privilege, feeling so tangibly both inside and outside church had life (and maybe Reader ministry) is like a close to God. I could feel his Holy Spirit observed that I’d ‘make a good vicar’, box of chocolates and ‘you never know leading me, strengthening me. The and I had certainly felt a pull toward what you’re gonna get’, I know I can be stronger my faith became the more I some form of church ministry, I guess confident that, whatever direction my wanted to share it with others. How could I my uncertainty had found me waiting Reader ministry takes me in, God will be help people to understand my faith, to feel for that ‘voice of God’ moment to give right there beside me.” God’s love for themselves?

12 “I became an Authorised Worship “I have found a new confidence in sharing Diocese about recommending people for Assistant (AWA) for our church and my faith. Now, rather than seeing my job reader ministry. Praying together about while I enjoyed the training, I didn’t as getting in the way of my serving God, this, we both felt that the letter described feel it was enough for what I was being I see my job as very much part of my some of the ways in which I might be called to do by God. Through many ministry in which I can live out my faith called to serve, so I contacted a vocations hours of prayer and discussion with my and provide pastoral support for children, adviser and was recommended for Vocations Advisor, my path became their families and staff. After all God’s love training. is everywhere. I very much look forward very clear: Reader ministry. “Having completed my training during to continuing to serve the community in our subsequent vacancy, I have had many “I work as a Business Manager in a Rackheath, Salhouse, The Plumsteads and practical opportunities for beginning to Primary School Witton and to whatever other doors God develop ministry here, in particular leading which has strong links with my church. may open for me.” I was where God wanted me to be and café church. It is difficult to summarise all through Reader ministry, I would be the ways in which my spiritual awareness, better equipped to share my faith with Lesley Cox academic understanding and personal those I work with. formation have been promoted through training with ERMC but suffice to say “Reader training has been a wonderful it has certainly been a journey worth journey; hard work but so fulfilling. It undertaking. I look forward to serving in has given me a better understanding the Tas Valley Team Ministry more fully of Scripture and built my confidence so alongside my fellow pilgrims on this life- that through the grace of God I can now changing journey.” stand and preach. I have met so many amazing people along the way and made lifelong friends. I look forward to Might God be calling finding out what the next steps of my you to Reader journey with Christ will be.” ministry? Helen Grogutt “As I approached retirement from full- If you think you may be interested in time teaching, I arranged a meeting finding out more about Reader ministry, with my incumbent to consider how I take a look at the Diocese of Norwich might become more involved in serving website on how to become a Reader and my local church. A few days prior to our talk to others in your church community, meeting she received a letter from the including your vicar.

“When I wrote my review at the end of my first three years as an AWA, Bishop Alan replied to thank me for thoroughly embracing the role and to ask if I had considered further ministry. I was quite excited by this prospect. Urged on by close friends who told me that I would make a good Reader, I began the process leading to application and selection. “It hasn’t been easy, fitting in training Newly Licensed Readers: with a full-time job and care of my elderly parents, but I have thoroughly Lesley Cox, serving in the Tas Valley Team Ministry Benefice; Helen Grogutt, enjoyed the experience especially the serving in the Great & Little Plumstead, Rackheath with Salhouse & Witton opportunities to learn and worship Benefice; Fiona Tibbitt, serving in the Aylsham & District Team Ministry Benefice; with the ERMC community, forming Gus Woodcock, serving in the Lakenham Group (St John & Tuckswood) Benefice close friendships with both Ordinands Readers Welcomed: and Trainee Readers. I have learnt an Janice Cruse, serving in the Diss Team Ministry Benefice; Joy Fernando, serving in enormous amount and gathered a huge The Fountain of Life Benefice; Martin Purnell, serving in the Gaywood Benefice; collection of books still to be read, but Emma Sivyer, serving in the Flegg Group (Martham) Benefice; Veronica Mowat, then initial training is really just the serving in the Wroxham Benefice beginning of the journey.

13 Valuing New Year’s Resolutions

By Andy Bryant

© Paul Hurst

ou have a glass in your hand altar rail and, with hands out-stretched idea and if, appropriate, talk with them and the chimes for midnight receiving the Body and Blood of our Lord about their reflections on the year that is have begun. At the first strike and Saviour, is the opportunity to begin passing and the year that is arriving, and of midnight you all raise your anew. Each rising from the altar rail can maybe pray with them. Candles are also glasses and silently make your New Year’s be a renewal of our desire to walk the available for those who wish to light a Resolutions. This year it will be different; path differently. candle before the manger scene. thisY year you will change. By the end of For those less schooled in the rhythms We also offer the option of posting their the first day of January your new year of the church, New Year’s Resolutions resolution back to them three months resolve is looking a little fragile and by the can be their own sacramental moment. into the new year to remind and re-affirm end of the first week you know it is not We need to find ways to give value and them in what they have pledged. We also going to happen. Ah well, you reassure significance to this widely shared desire tell them that all the resolutions will be yourself, there is always next year. to both reflect on the old year and to offered up at our Midday Eucharist on New Year’s Resolutions: so easily become make a commitment to do it differently New Year’s Day, asking God to help them the thing of jokes but they can be in the new year. keep their pledge. something precious, even life changing. At we encourage It is clear that people value this They represent our desire to turn things those wanting to make New Year’s opportunity to make more of their New around, to be able to begin again, to Resolutions to come into the building Year’s Resolution. In a gentle way it takes make this new year different, better than on New Year’s Eve. We provide cards for seriously their desire to change, to do the year we are leaving behind. people to write their resolutions, and things differently, to make a fresh start. Beginning again is an essential part an envelope to seal the card in so that it It is our witness to the wonderful grace remains confidential to them. Then they of the Christian journey. The dawn of of God. are invited to place the envelope in the each new day is a chance to start afresh. crib, in a basket beside the image of the Each time we join in the words of the infant Christ. Confession in church, and hear the Absolution spoken, it is the gift of being A member of our mission team is present allowed to start again. Kneeling at the to encourage visitors to engage with this

14 A fresh start at Emmaus: Janine’s story

have struggled with alcohol talking to customers. It makes me feel for over 30 years. I first started like I have a purpose, keeps me busy, The best part is knowing drinking at 17 but that was just and makes the day go quick. The best socially and at weekends. At 21, part is knowing that working isn’t that working isn’t just I got into a relationship that became just helping me – it helps the other helping me – it helps the violent and I started to rely on alcohol for companions and the community too, other companions and the Iconfidence to see him. I got out of that which is what makes it meaningful. relationship after nine months, but the community too, which is what The environment of Emmaus is amazing drinking continued. too. The staff and other companions are makes it meaningful. At 25, I had my first child, and went on extremely supportive. It is more than to have two more children. Two of them just a place to live. We all eat together, are now in their 20s and my youngest is both staff and companions, and Eamon, 14. I found it easy to stay clean and sober who is another companion at Emmaus, while pregnant and breast-feeding, I cooks amazing food which really brings didn’t even think of drinking at all, but I everyone together. always went back to it. Since being here, Emmaus has I was a single mother for 19-odd years, helped me get on a drug and alcohol drinking and doing a lot of drugs programme in Norwich and I’m over throughout that time. From 2012, I did three months sober. I have also been a diploma in counselling, completed a meeting with Stacey from Heart of the two-year Foundation Degree, and won a Matter who visits the community to trophy for the most outstanding student have sessions with companions. on an access to higher education course. She helps me feel valued. I was doing well considering I was in a bad place emotionally and mentally, but Now that I am settled in I became homeless and couldn’t finish at Emmaus, I want to the final year. continue rebuilding trust with my children who Eventually I moved into a supported put up with a lot over housing project in the countryside and the years. There was got help. My support worker there was never a big argument, amazing, and after she had seen how but they were frustrated, much I enjoyed a project to restore an upset and disappointed old greenhouse and how it had helped in what I was doing, and me to not drink, she suggested I think I understand that. I now about finding work. have two grandchildren I was terrified: I have a history of being too and was so excited to bullied in workplace environments, as buy them each a present well as in social situations and within instead of spending my my family. I wasn’t sure I could cope and money on alcohol. didn’t have the confidence. Then I found I know at Emmaus out about Emmaus Norfolk & Waveney, I will have the stability and moved here in March 2019. and the time to I mainly work in Emmaus House sorting re-establish myself clothing and bric-a-brac donations and as a new person.

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15 : a new youth prayer community at the convent

James Fawcett is part of a group of Christians who work with young people that have a “crazy story” about taking over a convent in Norfolk. He shares this exciting new beginning at a venue familiar to many Magazine readers.

was born in the Norfolk and Norwich half All Hallows has been home to a life working with homeless people. What and have spent over 20 years of my of prayer, community and service. The remained was a big, 30-bedroom life in Norfolk, with family roots and work of the sisters over the last 150 years convent house, the massive chapel and history and obviously a deep love for started work programmes, a school, a three other detached houses. the county. hospital and much more. Interestingly, And so, the remaining sisters came to an working with young people has always All over the UK there are these beautiful, incredibly brave and generous decision I been central to what’s gone on there. historical, prayer-soaked buildings that – to give the rest of the site away and have housed religious communities Over the last 15 or so years, due to the continue the life of the community for years. One such site, called All dwindling number of the sisters, the site together offsite. They launched what Hallows, is in the tiny Norfolk village just became too big for them and parts was basically a competition, searching of Ditchingham. The place has this of it have been given away to house a for a vision for the future of this site and amazing heritage. For a century and a Christian conference centre and a project invited ideas.

16 Everything that happens on site at All Hallows is going to be done “with” young people.

We, a group of youth workers, applied with create a retreat centre for young people We have no desire to reinvent the wheel a simple idea, to carry on the work of All to come away to and pray, to engage in – this whole project is testament to that Hallows, to reimagine community, prayer spiritual practices, for digital detoxes, – we will be looking to work with many and service, with young people at the for time with nature, for time with each others who work with young people heart of it. We had to outline our vision, other, for time with God. in complementary ways across the create business plans, risk assessments; all whole area to create the best possible And we want to create a way for young the things we hate about youth work! opportunities for young people. people to continue that journey with Eventually we ended up in what can only Jesus after they leave. That word ‘With’ It will take time. A lot of work needs to be described as a ‘Dragon’s Den’ style has become really important to us. It be done to the site to make it a safe, room, pitching our idea to a bishop, two encapsulates a lot of what we’re about. welcoming space for young people. We nuns and various other interested parties, We’re done with doing stuff “to” young need to figure out the dynamics of the missing only the giant stacks of cash by people, or creating things “for” young community and rule of life that we’re everyone’s seats. people. Everything that happens on site inviting people into. With these things in mind, we’re welcoming the community on On the way home we got a phone call at All Hallows is going to be done “with” young people. So that’s who we are. We site from September 2020 and opening the saying we’d won. There was screaming, doors for young people from January 2021. tears were almost shed. And then along are With. Here’s what we’re going to do: came a realisation; this fun project we’ve c WITH: Community, a body of Here’s the thing – we want you involved. We’re not an existing youth work charity. been doing in our spare time with no real Christians living on site and beyond, We’re just a few mates who know each thought that it could amount to anything dedicated to a rule of life and prayer, other through the world of youth was about to take over our lives. with a shared commitment to serving ministry, and our vision for With is that it’s young people. Twelve months later, and it has, but reflective of that community. Please: in all the right ways. In fact, it’s been c WITH: Retreat. A retreat centre c Pray for us – we really need it. Sign- quite an odd year. We’ve quit jobs, had facilitated by the community, where up to our newsletter for latest prayer endorsements from Archbishops, found young people, and those who work points. www.bewith.community priceless bits of church history and with them, will come for single and abandoned mobility scooters around the multi-day retreats to receive spiritual c Pray with us – we’re looking for people site, laughed at jokes with a monk and nourishment, explore their relationship to join our community and pray with us taken ownership of a tractor known as with God in engaging and creative for young people, on site or beyond. Get “Big Red”. ways, and improve their physical and in touch at [email protected] We want to create a space for young mental wellbeing, learning new skills c If you’re excited by the idea of bringing people to pray. A space for those who and reclaiming old ones that will young people on site for a retreat, get work with and care about young people enable them continue in their life of in touch now and we can pencil you in! to pray for and with them. We want to faith for years to come. c create a community of people committed And the awkward bit – we need money. c WITH: Online. An online reflection We’ve been hugely blessed to be to living a life of prayer for young people, of the rule of life in the form of an given this site rent free, but the place some of them living in this mad convent app, which will connect the physical needs quite a bit of love to get it up to we’ve been given, but others dispersed With community with a wider digital scratch. That’s why we’ve launched a around the country. community, enabling those who have crowdfunding campaign. Whatever you, We want to create a retreat space that is been on retreats or aren’t able to be your friends, your parents, your PCCs specifically for and tailored to those who present at the site to follow the With can give, would be hugely appreciated. work with young people. We want to prayer rhythms remotely. bewith.community/donate

17 CAP – the art of Budget. Save. Spend.

New beginnings; sometimes they are a total and liberating fresh start, sometimes they are about re-evaluation, changing tack and heading in a new direction. Anna Main looks at a Christian scheme enabling young people to take control of their finances and avoid falling into the debt trap.

ational charity Christians Liz says, “It’s effective because Against Poverty (CAP) the Cubs had to do all the witnesses the whole thinking; discovering what a spectrum of new beginnings budget is and how to create from working to support households one. How can we generate to become debt-free, to partnering income for ourselves and Nwith churches to train CAP Money then balance that with our Coaches who can deliver courses to expenditure? All of this was educate people in the practical skills for explored in two 90-minute budgeting, saving and spending. sessions using games, quizzes In Autumn 2017 over 30 individuals and visual clues. trained as coaches with the specific aim “The overall effect was that of delivering the CAP Money Kids course, the Cubs started to realise that and steadily over the past 20 months there’s a connection between income, And that was the inspiration of one courses have been run by volunteers in a expenditure and avoiding debt. Following headteacher after hearing about CAP variety of locations and contexts across the course one of the Cubs, Leeland, Money Kids at a headteachers’ induction the Diocese. told me, ‘I got £50 for my birthday and day. Suzanne Halliwell, Headteacher at Cub Scouts is all about equipping instead of spending it all on sweets I am Garboldisham Church Primary School, children with life skills as well as having going to save some of it instead’. It’s a felt it would be invaluable for her Year fun. That’s one reason Liz Dawes, Akela great course and perfect for a group of 8 6 children to experience the course in of 1st Aylsham Cubs, invited Jonathan to 10-year-olds. One of my Cub leaders, preparation for going up to high school and Anna from the Children, Youth & Sarah, expressed appreciation too: ‘The and the new challenges of having to self- Families team to deliver the CAP Money course has been so good, it should really manage lunch money, bus fares or other Kids course with her pack. be taught in schools.’” expenses.

18 looks at how to manage student finance based on receiving lump sums at the beginning of term”, explains Steph. Many parents have stated “Completing the budget spreadsheets, they hear their children it dawned on the pupils that the retelling the stories at home student maintenance loan really is just a maintenance loan. Having paid rent and talk about how they love and food it leaves no slack for extras Godly Play. which must be gained through sourcing additional income. A former pupil just finishing her third year at university came in and was interviewed, sharing insights such as, ‘If I had known before uni what I know now, I would never have had the overdraft facility. I could have managed my money differently and avoided putting myself under additional stress.’” It is positive to see these young people engaging in the important subject of money management and recognising its value, together with learning life skills to help them successfully manage their own finances as they begin to step out into greater independence.

Peter Smith, PCC Governor at the school of the Christian Values of the school and (and retired railwayman!) sat in on one to another project some of the pupils It was nice to be able to of the sessions in June. “This was the had done looking at issues of poverty in first of two Fridays during which Steph developing countries.” talk about generosity and from Integrate Youth For Christ (YFC) and Alice Rickatson was one of the pupils compassion as part of the course Jonathan from the Diocese of Norwich who participated: “The activities were and see that linked to some led the children through many aspects of very entertaining! We had to put of the Christian Values of the money – why you need it, how you earn together a budget holiday with a set it, how you spend it and importantly, amount of things you could do, and the school and to another project how you can avoid debt and what to do aim was to try and not go over budget. some of the pupils had done if you are in debt. We thought about what was important looking at issues of poverty in “The class was split in to three teams and not so important to spend money with points awarded for participation on. Overall it was a brilliant experience developing countries. and answers. I feel that this was an and taught me a good lesson for the important topic, covered sympathetically future.” and with enthusiasm by the team. My Learning to take positive control of your only personal regret being that, when finances is a key element of successful going through the possible areas of independent living and yet something employment (income), nobody wants that many people find hard, which was to be a train driver anymore. How the why Integrate YFC – who also work in generations change!” Diss Sixth Form running an informal Steph Richardson, Director of Integrate mentoring programme – decided to YFC, delivered the course and observed, offer a CAP Money Students course. “The responses from the pupils were Steph and Daniel, Integrate YFC thought-provoking. It was interesting workers, had noticed the amount seeing how different pupils came to the of stress young people face around fore, and how their enjoyment of the exam results and their feelings about activities evoked responses in them. how they will manage going to One pupil who experiences difficulties university, so they offered to run the at school was able to grasp the idea of course. The school agreed to promote being in work and how he would have to it and 12 pupils optionally signed up and manage his money in the future. paid a nominal cost of £10 to attend. For further information, contact CYF Administrator Liz Dawes on “It was nice to be able to talk about “Alongside the CAP principles of income, [email protected] generosity and compassion as part of expenditure and budgeting, the student 01603 882335 the course and see that linked to some course is particularly good because it

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all teachers do it so don’t Joel Capron (pictured below) expect this to happen! There’s began high school in September more variety of lessons than at primary school and the and in his own words he describes lessons get better the more the experience of his first weeks as you have them. a new pupil in year 7. “I really enjoy being part of my church youth group. I was able to talk to others, t first, starting a new school including some who are older with new friends, you’re than me, about going to my bound to have a few worries; high school and those who are first, you leave Year 6 at the going to different high schools top of the chain and before you know it, and their experiences. They you’re back at the bottom in Year 7. have given me advice and it is good to A know I can talk to so many people.” “Making friends may be a concern, and is on the first day; however after a week or For many young people like Joel, they two you start to find that you have more can find ways to successfully manage friends than you first came with. The best this transition to high school, but for way to make friends on the first day is to others it can be more challenging and make a good impression of yourself or as churches there are ways we can who you think you want to be. support young people during this critical changeover period. “Also joining clubs is a great way to make friends. School clubs provide Matt Schwarzenberger, Transition enjoyment and new friendships, some Worker at Fountain of Life Church, of them unexpected, with people that Ashill, says, “Many churches are you know you have at least one thing in asking young people to start a new common with. youth group at the same time as they begin high school. One important way “Finding your way around school isn’t in which we help reduce any undue too hard, although it depends on the size I really enjoy being part pressure on our young people when of the school. Some students can help if of my church youth group. they move up to high school is by you see them, though don’t go running transitioning them from kids’ groups into I was able to talk to others, around the school trying to find them. our youth provision during Year 6.” Or ask a teacher – just knock on the including some who are older door of a classroom and ask for Captain James Hawksworth than me, about going to my directions. At the end of class follow works for the Centre of Mission high school and those who are a classmate to the next lesson. in King’s Lynn and provides At break time try and find your some student pastoral going to different high schools friends so you can agree on a support in Springwood and their experiences. meeting point for lunch and High School. James says, the following break. “Moving from a small primary school to a very “Be polite, it’ll make a teacher’s place of peer to peer support and a large high school can be a day if you show respect. It way for individuals to find friendship monumental challenge for makes a teacher feel their effort through play. I can see the positive some pupils. By setting up was worth it and if you say “hi” effect on pupils. Because they know we a weekly lunchtime group in the corridor, most teachers will are championing them, these young called The Games Club we be kinder to you in lesson if people feel a sense of empowerment have a safe place for you have that class that which is enabling them to take those struggling day, however, not ownership for the group and, in turn, to to fit in; a support other pupils.”

21 Welcome Bishop Graham

On Saturday 9 November, in a cathedral packed with 1,800 people the Rt Revd Graham Usher was enthroned as the seventy-second Bishop of Norwich in a service rich with symbolism. Entering into a history that stretches back another four centuries beyond the foundation of this Diocese of Norwich, Bishop Graham was welcomed, placed into the Bishop’s seat and anointed for ministry.

“I pray that finding such life in all its abundance in Jesus Christ will be what is ‘normal for Norfolk’. Seeking to tell others how Christ has surprised and heartened us on the way will be ‘normal for Norfolk’. As it will be to hear him saying, ‘This is my body, broken for you,’ every time bread is shared; ‘This is my blood, shed for you’ every time we raise a glass; ‘normal for Norfolk’ that every dining table, every kitchen table serves as Christ’s altar.” from Bishop Graham’s sermon

22 “Vision and gladness and hope are what this ancient place of prayer and all 650 churches in our Diocese stand for; treasure troves of their communities’ memory and imagination, marking the making and breaking points of human existence. Fonts of living water stirring new life. Holy ground hallowing vows of marriage. Resting places where the mournful are held in God’s gentle hands. Palaces of prayer and hospitals of healing, libraries of learning and cafés of chatter. Crucibles where salt is made, light is generated, and the prayer of silence meets the silence of prayer – all more than we can ever dare imagine.” from Bishop Graham’s sermon

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A Peter’s Cat collection is available as an eBook from Amazon. Cartoon resources for Sunday schools can be found at www.deadseacomics.co.uk The Good Vyker – Richard of Caister

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n my gloved hand, I held a lead medallion that was around six hundred years old. It looked strange. A man with a halo in medieval robes, raising aloft an oversized hand and standing in a pulpit with a Idove hovering above. This medallion was one of many that had been found in south-east England, depicting the priest Richard Caister, vicar at St Stephen’s Church in Norwich from 1402 to his death in 1420. The medallion was a pilgrim badge, signifying that its past owner had made the pilgrimage to his shrine in St Stephen’s. I was at the Museum of London and one of the curators had brought several up from their archives. Together with the late Catherine Tye, I was keen to see more of these artefacts. As the story of the “Good Vyker” unfolded, the church decided that his life and works should be commemorated and made known to a Caister prayer wider public. He was a man of and for the people. This As well as an Richard Caister was a younger is made clear from the only other piece exhibition in the contemporary of Mother Julian and he of writing that remains, his metrical church, there will also acted as confessor for Margery Kempe, prayer of 14 stanzas. The first eight are be the inauguration the prophetic, peripatetic woman to Jesus in the language of penitence, of a medieval from King’s Lynn, whom Richard also asking for forgiveness of sins. What is pilgrimage path defended from a charge of heresy. exciting is that the following six show around the city; a booklet of meditations based on a What marked Richard out from most of him directing his readers to pray to Jesus re-working of his prayer; workshops for his contemporaries is that he preached for themselves, without the need for children in conjunction with the Castle in English rather than Latin. His their priest to intercede. Museum; and a special evening with the concern was that the In order to commemorate Revd Dr Malcolm Guite, himself a poet good news of Jesus this godly man, St and priest, like Richard. should be understood Stephen’s have by his parishioners in planned to celebrate To wind everything up, there will be an their vernacular rather him in 2020. As part evening service in October featuring than in a language of which of “Grant me Grace”: his metrical prayer together with songs they had little knowledge. The Richard Caister and music written by present and past Project, there will members of St Stephen’s at which the Not only that, but we be nine lectures Bishop of Norwich will preach. can also see from his will on topics about that although he left Come and join us at St Stephen’s to medieval Norwich and money for the purchase find out more about this amazing its spirituality, lasting from of liturgical resources, the medieval priest. February to October. bulk was left for the poor www.ststephensnorwich.org/ of his parish. Richard of Caistor Pilgrimage Badge the-caister-project

25 Resources General and seasonal resources and ideas to inform, inspire and enable.

New Mission Hub Forest Church: Earthed area helps signpost Perspectives on the Gospel This new study from the Grove Books publishing resources stable explores the missional potential for Forest Church to speak to those who find their most The Diocese of Norwich’s refreshed website profoundly spiritual moments outside, in nature. It will contain an area dedicated to highlighting examines the theology of connecting with nature, practical resources, organisations, websites and more which support and enable shares insights from practising groups and sets out churches in their mission. practical advice on running a Forest Church. Supported by the Celebrate stream of the “Our evangelistic language can often fail to do Diocesan Mission Strategy 2021, the aim of justice to the breadth of the good news of Christ, this new website area is to make knowledge in particular humanity’s care and stewardship of the natural world and the of existing mission resources and experiences acknowledgment that we are part of a far wider created order.” of them easily accessible. The booklet is authored by Cate Williams, Mission and Evangelism Officer for You can search and filter resources by the . She co-facilitates Robinswood Forest Church and is a theme, audience, age groups and type. Fresh Expressions Associate. Price £3.95, available from www.grovebooks.co.uk So, for example, look for “dyslexic-friendly 01223 464748. Bibles” or “Bibles for young people aged 12–18”, or choose from categories such as mental health, poverty, the environment, Journey into spiritual evangelism, discipleship and worship. You will also be able to find seasonal spaciousness recommendations such as resources for A new book by local author Malcolm Nicholas Christmas, Lent, Easter and Pentecost. explores our relationship with the divine, our “We would love to hear recommendations neighbour and the world using everyday starting of good resources either you or your parish points. “It’s an invitation to risk setting aside the or benefice have used and found helpful,” barriers that limit our spiritual vision,” he explains. “It says Gordon Darley, Director of Marketing is for any who may find their religion constraining, and Communications, “Please visit the who long for the space to be self with integrity, website and let us know via the buttons on to question without condemnation, to journey in the page what resources you’d recommend exploration rather than mere compliance, and to be to others. You can also leave comments excited by God’s love.” against resources such as how you’ve found a Bishop Anthony Foottit, Honorary Assistant Bishop in the Diocese of Norwich, particular resource helpful.” says, “Malcolm writes in a direct and refreshing way. I thoroughly recommend this Visit www.DofN.org/missionhub book as much for a seeker looking for signposts to the way, as for surer wayfarers needing some fresh insight in their journey.” Price £10, available online and at local Christian bookshops.

Youth-focused lectionary card deck A youth worker in the Diocese of Bristol has designed a pack of cards to encourage young people to learn about the lectionary. The “LecDeck” is a deck of 52 cards, each printed with a Bible reading selected from the principal service that week. Dan Jones, Youth and Children’s Adviser said: “I am incredibly excited about the LecDeck. The deck of cards can be used at youth clubs, home groups, Christian Unions, families at home, personal study or given to young people to flick through in a pew. LecDeck costs £8 (free P&P). www.bristol.anglican.org 01749 685134.

26 Finding God in everyday life New mental health workshop Everyday Faith is a Church of England discipleship campaign starting on Sunday 13 January 2020 (Plough for churches Sunday). Reflections and prayers to help you find and follow The charity Livability has launched a new mental health God in everyday life will be available through campaign workshop, Live Well Together, to help churches building a emails, an app, social media, audio and a booklet from “community of well-being” for people living with mental illness. Church House Publishing. A spokesperson explained: “Live Well Together offers a whole- Journey with Victoria, a hairdresser, Mike, a police officer, church approach, to build communities that can go beyond and, on the buses, a couple called the Trenemans. These crisis support to flourish together day in and day out.” stories feature in a new booklet from LICC: The one about... www.livability.org.uk/resources/live-well-together 8 stories about God in our everyday. 020 7452 2000 Read about each story and watch the short animations to gain insight into how Victoria, Mike and the Trenemans have discovered more of God in their everyday lives. Through the stories and reflections, and by starting and ending each day with prayers of invitation and reflection, learn to find and share your own ‘One about…’ – to consider where God is in your everyday life. www.churchofengland.org/everyday-faith

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27 FOCUS N Dersingham Benefice

A regular feature focusing on a benefice or parish in the Diocese of Norwich, written by someone from that community.

estled between the Ingoldisthorpe has a beautiful church; The Gathering contemporary worship Sandringham Estate and the Church of England school next door also offers children’s teaching in different the RSPB bird reserve at has great pride in being associated with groups. Full immersion baptism has now Snettisham is the Benefice of it, holding full church school services taken place for the first time in church Dersingham, Anmer, Ingoldisthorpe and and being involved in the community. following on from an Alpha course, with more to follow. It is a team effort in the Shernborne. In the winter thousands of Dersingham is blessed with many benefice and so many people offer their Npink footed geese set off daily over the talented musicians and singers who gifts and skills in a huge variety of ways villages looking for food, returning at dusk: offer their gifts in worship. The choir sustained by invaluable prayer support. a truly wonderful spectacle and a delight has been joined by other members of of the locals. All four of our parish churches the community and congregation and are open daily (or access available). sung at three “Big Sings”; at the one Children and young Although it’s a beautiful area, there are last Christmas they sang part of the people challenges for many in the communities Hallelujah Chorus. Little Nippers, a Baby and Toddler group through which we serve; the Dersingham We had two “new beginnings” last was started three years ago, initially from PCC are seeking to respond to some of year, as both a junior choir and a youth an initiative called “Tea and Tissues”. these challenges as an expression of our worship band called Blaze were started. Working with the schools, we invited faith in Jesus Christ. They both offer opportunities for the parents who were dropping off their young people of the worshipping little ones to school for the first day an Worship variety community to grow in leading worship, opportunity to come and talk to parents and we pray for an exciting future. and grandparents who had been there Across the benefice there is a great before over a cup of tea and cake where breadth of worship styles. Anmer offers The desire to encourage growth tissues were in large supply! Prayer Book and, in summer months through worship bore fruit in the evensong – culminating with choral introduction of the accessible This was the springboard for the group, harvest evensong led by the Dersingham contemporary worship, “The Gathering”, which quickly reached capacity and church adult choir. which offers another string to the continues to have a waiting list. The bow of the worship styles available. group meets in the warm St Nicholas Shernborne, a farming community, has Combined services during the year Church, with action Bible stories and a rich and long Christian heritage with include Harvest, Mothering Sunday prayers. There are lots of toys to play with, a claim to fame as one of the original and special celebration occasions that and during the popular snack time all the locations where the missionary, Saint blend organ, choral, contemporary and children sit together at a long table to Felix, shared the Gospel in 630AD. accessible worship. eat, the youngest in a row of high chairs.

28 In the winter thousands of pink footed geese set off daily over the villages looking for food, returning at dusk: a truly wonderful spectacle and a delight of the locals.

Jesus’ instruction, “Let the children come wonderful display of flowers in our church progressing well at improving the facilities to me”, has been a big encouragement. concluded by a new favourite, a “Hymns for worship and welcome: accessibility and Pimms” service. and flexibility for people of differing ages, In early teen years young people have and facing physical or mental challenges. many pressures to live through and identity issues to face in a challenging Baby basics environment where to be Christian is A local expression of a national Christian St Felix Festival not easy. A youth group was started as charity, Baby Basics West Norfolk, a response to the numbers of young works out of the church in Dersingham. May 2020 people coming to church for worship. Volunteers help vulnerable mothers in This youth group has the Bible at its poverty; those who may be homeless The four churches of the Dersingham centre, and also offers an opportunity or in financial difficulties, even if only Benefice launch the festival on to meet with others of their own age. temporarily; asylum seekers; and those Saturday 16 May with a talk The group enjoy visual Bible study, often fleeing domestic violence and trafficking. and discussion by Dr Rebecca using Christian bands and their music Lovely Moses baskets, given to provide Pinner, exploring the history and videos (‘Unspoken’ and ‘For King and a safe bed to sleep in, are packed full achievements of St Felix and the Country’) which have become an integral of essentials such as nappies, wipes, historical context of his mission part of the weekly times together. The maternity pads, as well as blankets, towels and ministry. There will also be a group chose the name “Elevation” which and baby clothes from newborn to three lecture by Aidan Heart, an artist works on many levels! months. For some, these are the only who paints sacred subjects and items they may have for their baby. Baby creates iconography, and who has Festivals Basics shows God’s love in action and all recently completed a bespoke the baskets are prayed over. The team screen painting in Anmer church. We will have our sixteenth Christmas work with, and support, midwives, health Paper raft racing will be held on the Tree Festival this year from 6 to 8 visitors, social workers and family support River Babingley and a prayer walk December. The real trees are decorated workers. to the ruins of St Felix church in by various groups and societies within Babingley. The Bishop of Norwich the village. Another delight of the will be leading a special thanksgiving festival is the firm favourite; the annual Looking ahead service for one of his missionary concert by the Bilton Silver Band, a We are seeking to respond actively to predecessors – the first Bishop of the show band from Rugby. Flower Festivals the increasing impact of dementia in our East Angles! More information at: happen each year in July: members of communities and are hoping to become a www.stnicholasdersingham.org.uk local flower groups join us to enable a Dementia Friendly Church. Plans are also

29 Out & About happenings across the Diocese

A round-up of some of the parish activities over the past few months. Do send in your photos to [email protected] @dioceseofnorwich or @DioceseNorwich tag @dioceseofnorwich

Mautby footpath launch As part of the Paston600 project, Dr Rob Knee launched the Paston Pathways walk from Mautby Church to Caister Castle in August. Margaret Paston lived the early and latter years of her life at Mautby and is buried at the Church. Visitors will find maps and information on the Paston family are available at the Church.

From ASHS to anywhere A previous student of Archbishop Sancroft Highschool has been posted to The Band of the Coldstream Guards in London. Her first engagement was the state opening of Mag with Mag up high parliament, a big step up from performing at After attending the Mothers’ Union national AGM in the Diocese of Norwich Portsmouth, members from Diocese of Norwich took tent at the Royal Show The Magazine up 110 m to read in the Spinnaker Tower some years previously! Sky Garden. Thanks to Marguerite for posing with her Congratulations copy. Do share your far-flung Magazine-reading pics! Georgia!

30 Little Barningham Pop-up Pub The last pub closed its doors decades ago, but the drinks were flowing in Little Barningham once again as the hosted a Pop-Up Pub evening for the whole community. “It was fantastic to see everyone here enjoying a night out, a great pint, and a real laugh. We can’t wait to do it again in the future,” said Revd Jack Branford.

Gorleston Church Earth chapel celebrates ten years at St Peter of drop-in lunch St Mary Magdalene celebrated ten Mancroft years of its weekly drop-in lunch, “We were delighted that the The Bridge, serving up to 70 people Bishop of Norwich dedicated a free three-course meal each week. our new Earth Chapel,” said Carl says, “I first came to The Bridge The Revd Edward Carter. for food and support with my “Our hope is that it will housing a year ago. I come every enable local people to focus week for food and some company.” quietly on the part they can play in caring for the earth: taking responsibility to live creatively and sustainably in a world of finite resources.”

Mothers’ Union festival service “What a wonderful morning at Norwich Cathedral as we gathered for the Mothers’ Union Diocese of Norwich annual festival service!” exclaimed their Chaplain, the Revd Andrew Whitehead. “We made and then broke paper chains to symbolise our resolve to break the sin of modern slavery.”

All Saints Chedgrave eco-warriors Over 70 people came to an eco-café at the regular Xpressions Café with exhibitions and prayer prompts; give-and-take clothing exchange; human resource library; discussion and debate. This was followed by vegan and vegetarian food to taste, which spilled into an impromptu fun lunch. The event enabled the local church and its community to engage on environmental issues.

31 News in brief Updates from across the Diocese

Week of Prayer for Diocese to launch refreshed website Christian Unity: 18–25 Jan The Diocese of Norwich will soon Using the story from scripture of the be launchinga new website aimed shipwreck of St Paul on the island of Malta, at parishes and those who hold key the materials for this year’s week of prayer roles in the church. “At six years old focus on “Unusual Kindness” – showing (technically that’s old!) the previous hospitality. The full set of resources can be site was creaking with the weight found at www.ctbi.org.uk/weekofprayer of documents and pages, and it had become particularly hard to Locally, Norwich Cathedral will be hosting the quickly and easily find information annual service on Thursday 23 January from given the poor search functionality,” 10am to 4pm in St Luke’s Chapel. Fifteen-minute explains Gordon Darley, Director of slots are shared by churches in Greater Norwich Marketing & Communications. from across the denominations and traditions and supported by the Ecumenical Canons. “The new site changes that with Everyone is welcome to join in praying for an excellent search function at its Christian Unity at any time during the day. heart and clearer and simplified resources for mission: everything If you are a church and would like to take navigation. New content has from evangelism, discipleship and one of the slots, please get in contact with been added and existing content worship to topical resources on Catherine Howe, County Ecumenical Officer: reviewed, rewritten and refreshed. mental health, poverty and the [email protected] “As well as highlighting training and environment. learning opportunities across the “Please take a look at Diocese, it features a new area called www.dioceseofnorwich.org and the Mission Hub, which signposts let us know what you think!”

Lay Ministry Course highly praised Church of England reviewers have The Director of the Reader training praised the Diocese of Norwich course course, the Revd Charles Read, said: which trains Readers. “This glowing commendation of the New PlayVan worker Four reviewers visited the Diocese in course reflects the hard work put in May to see the Reader training course by our volunteer staff who help our Bethany Whitnall is the and meet students. They also reviewed students through their studies. It also new worker for PlayVan, the Eastern Region Ministry Course reflects the high value we place in the Diocese of Norwich which provides most of the academic this Diocese on well-resourced lay project that supports and content for Reader training and the ministry.” encourages sustainable Reader training course in the Diocese playgroups in rural areas. of Ely. All three courses were rated “I am really enjoying being out and about all highly. over rural Norfolk in the PlayVan, meeting little The reviewers were impressed by ones and their parents and carers in churches, the high standards of teaching and the Cathedral, schools, village halls and even on learning and especially by the sense the beach!” says Bethany. “Being able to chat to of community and support on all people out in the community about Christianity three courses. They singled out the is a real highlight for me. I am very excited for the Reader training course in Norwich launch of several new PlayVan groups over the for the way in which it gives students coming months – especially our collaboration opportunities to attend a summer with Norfolk Wildlife Trust in Cley. When I’m not school and for the support given to at work, you will find me exploring Norfolk with students in training. my husband and our dog, Betty the Beagle!”

32 WHAT’S ON Highlights of events and learning opportunities across the Diocese December 2019 – February 2020

For more head to www.DofN.org/events

DECEMBER Christmas Evening Christmas Alive Fri 6 Dec | 6.30pm Sat 14 Dec - Sun 15 Dec | 3pm - 6pm Address: St Peter & St Paul’s, Main Road / Address: The Well Christian Centre, Advent Carol Service Mill Road, Mautby NR29 3JA Swaffham Road, Ashill, Thetford IP25 7BT Sun 1 Dec | 6pm Seasonal evening of rhymes, readings Enjoy the sights, aromas and flavours of Address: All Saints, Lime Kiln Lane, Upper and carols. Commence your Christmas ancient Bethlehem! Wander through our Sheringham NR26 8AE celebrations by joining us for our popular atmospheric living nativity village. Then, Don’t miss this ever-popular start to the Advent event. Admission includes glass of wine or come inside for an interactive musical Season with the Kelling Consort, led by the fruit juice and festive fare. performance of SCROOGE ‘re-worked.’ Revd Angela Dugdale, MBE. Admission: £5 Adults, £2 Children. Admission: Free. Contact: Karen Gower, Admission: Free. Contact: Sue Morton, Contact: Shirley Travis, 01493 732746 [email protected], 01760 441902 01263 826078, [email protected] [email protected] For tickets, email: [email protected] In Dulci Jubilo - A Christmas Trimingham Christmas Tree Festival Christmas Concerts Celebration Sat 14 Dec – Fri 3 Jan | 10am - 3pm each day Wed 4 Dec & Thur 5 Dec | 7pm each day Sat 7 Dec | 7.30pm Address: St John the Baptist, Church Street, Address: St John’s, Horning Road, Hoveton, Address: The Central Baptist Church, Trimingham NR11 8EG Norwich, NR12 8NY Duke Street, Norwich NR3 3AP Come to see our delightful Christmas trees Hayley Moss (Soprano) and Benjamin A Christmas Celebration by the Framingham bedecking the church. On Saturday only Lake (Tenor) come to delight us with show Earl Singers which will include audience carols. there will be a chocolate tombola, mince pies, and mulled wine in the church and songs and classical songs this Christmas. Admission: £10 in advance, £12 on the door, refreshments will be served in the Pilgrim Admission: £12.50. Contact: under 16s free. Contact: Sheila Spelman, Shelter nearby. Sarah Tomkins, 01692 630892, 01603 663983, [email protected] [email protected] Admission: Free. Contact: Dot Bradley Write for Rights Amnesty (after 6pm), 01263 833249 International Sat 14 Dec | 10am - 3pm Bawdeswell Christmas Address: , Hay Hill, Wreath Fair Norwich NR2 1RD Sat 14 Dec | 10am - 1pm Write a letter. Change a life. The Norwich Amnesty Group invites you to write a message Address: All Saints, The Street, Bawdeswell, of hope to people detained and ill-treated Dereham NR20 4UX St Nicholas Church Christmas around the world. We will be selling Christmas wreaths Tree Festival Admission: Free. Contact: Joanna Kinnaird, made by the local Flower Club, and Christmas cakes and puddings made by Fri 6 Dec - Sun 8 Dec | 10am - 5pm Fri and Sat, [email protected] one of the local farmer’s wives. There are 12 - 5pm on Sun also local produce and craft stalls. Address: St Nicholas Church, Manor Road, Cinderella – Walk Through the Story Admission: Free. Contact: Robin Taylor, Dersingham, PE31 6LN Sat 14 Dec - Sun 15 Dec | 11am - 4pm Sat, [email protected], A family-fun weekend of Christmas trees, 11am - 5pm Sun 01362 688268 festive food, and music filling St Nicholas Church. Address: St Peter’s, Wolferton, PE31 6HA Find highlights of the Cinderella Story Admission: Free. Contact: Pauline Martin, amongst the Christmas decorations as we 01485 544561, [email protected] invite you to walk round and follow the fairytale. Candles make the church quite magical once it gets dark! Admission: Free. Contact: Mrs Jacqueline Candy, 01485 542625

33 St. Mary’s Singers Christmas Carol Concerts NCCL: How are we saved? Helping Churches in Times of Sat 18 Jan | 10am - 12.30pm Tragedy and Trauma Wed 18 Dec - Thu 19 Dec | 7.30pm Address: Norwich Cathedral, The Close, Tue 25 Feb | 9.30am - 4pm Address: St Mary the Virgin, The Street, Norwich NR1 4DD Hemsby NR29 4EU Address: Norwich Cathedral, The Close, This session will consider various Christian Choral and popular Christmas songs in a Norwich NR1 4DD doctrines of Atonement, including a look candle-lit church, with surprise special guests. This workshop will explore the nature at the Eucharist and sacrifice. Tickets include mulled wine and mince pies. of trauma and its effect on lives and Admission: £10. Contact: NCCL Admin communities. It will also point to good Admission: £6. Contact: Donna, 07860 136099, Team, [email protected], practice, pastorally, practically and [email protected]; or Maureen, 01603 218443 liturgically and deepen understanding of 01493 732493 longer-term responses to shock-events, and the importance of ministerial support. Admission: Free. Contact: Lesley Lofts, [email protected], 01603 882338

‘The Twelve Days of Christmas’ Ecumenical Chain of Prayer for Flower Festival Christian Unity Wed 25 Dec - Mon 6 Jan | 11am - 3pm Thur 23 Jan | 10am - 4pm Address: St Mary’s, Church Road, Yelverton Address: Norwich Cathedral, The Close, NR14 7PB Norwich NR1 4DD Over the 12 days of Christmas this small country Please join the Ecumenical Chain of Prayer church will be filled with flowers and themed for Christian Unity in St Luke’s chapel. The arrangements in a riot of colour and joy. theme this year is ‘Unusual Kindness’ and Admission: Free. Contact: Mary Fewster, all denominations and traditions are very 01508 492059, [email protected] welcome. Admission: Free. Contact: Catherine Howe, [email protected], 01603 270360 FEBRUARY

NCCL: Open faith SAVE THE DATE! Sat 1 Feb, Sat 8 Feb & Sat 15 Feb | 10am - 12.30pm Saturday 16 May from 10am - 4pm each day All are called! Address: Norwich Cathedral, The Close, Norwich NR1 4DD Bishop Graham invites you to join JANUARY The belief of the Church: These three sessions him at Norwich Cathedral for a day will provide an introduction to the Nicene- of worship, reflection, workshops, Constantinopolitan Creed (AD381), unpacking and activities for all age groups as Presence in Ministry the content of the Creed and setting it in its we think together about our call as Wed 8 Jan | 9.30am - 3.30pm historical and theological context. Christians in God’s world. Address: Norwich Cathedral, The Close, Admission: £10 for one session, or £25 for all More details to follow. Norwich NR1 4DD three booked together. Contact: NCCL Admin Join Stuart Reid and Keith James for Team, 01603 218443, [email protected] this one-day workshop, to deepen your At the Heart on the Edge understanding and practice of presence Wed 12 Feb | 10am in ministry using lessons from theatrical improvisation. Address: St Peter Mancroft, Hay Hill, Norwich NR2 1RD Admission: Free. Contact: Lesley Lofts, Exploring mission, sharing ideas, uncovering [email protected], solutions and finding support; a day with 01603 882338 Revd Dr Sam Wells and guests. Discussions on congregation, commerce, compassion, and culture. Admission: Free. Contact: Keith James, [email protected], 01603 882339

34 Lent Appeal 2020 Driving forward mission in Papua New Guinea

By Joanna Fisher

he year is 1891; two the plateau to a boat ride across missionaries land in Milne Bay the sea, then up to a two-hour Province, Papua New Guinea. wait for the “bus” – a truck from Through their unique message Awaiama – which may not arrive of peace and love in Christ, the local at all. This situation makes it warriors convert to Christianity, and then difficult to reach people or get giftT the plateau 1,000 feet above the sea supplies and is rapidly becoming where they have traditionally done battle. untenable. Without a more On this ground, the missionaries build a reliable means of transportation, chapel made of bush materials and mark the Anglican mission in Dogura the start of the Anglican mission in Papua may have little choice but to uproot New Guinea. It is not easy; the nearest and move to a more accessible location town is miles away across the sea, but – leaving the history, cathedral, and they do not give up. Modawa tree behind. One morning, they awake to discover Through the Bishop’s Lent Appeal 2020, that one of the corner-posts of their we want to enable the community bush chapel has sprouted. Quickly, they of Dogura to remain on the site of dismantle the chapel and begin to tend their heritage and grow stronger; to the post; which sends out roots and grows continue their good work throughout branches. The missionaries name it the their Diocese; and to reach essential Modawa Tree, so it becomes the symbol supplies for themselves and those they for growth and hope for the Church of serve. The Rt Revd Tennyson Bogar, Bishop of Dogura, has asked us to fund England in Papua New Guinea. treats a range of needs, from young a car, a Landcruiser or similar, for use by mothers and paediatric illnesses to those Almost 130 years later, the mission in the many vital staff who populate the suffering with tuberculosis. the Diocese of Dogura is now a thriving plateau. “It is one of our most urgent community of 1,000 people working needs,” he told Bishop Jonathan, on his Your generosity is vital to nurture the work together to further the message of recent visit. of these places and make them flourish. the gospel. The sapling work of the With a car, the people of Dogura will be Dogura is home to many public-serving missionaries has grown vigorously. They able to let their light shine before others, institutions run by the church, including do, however, still face some of the same that they may see the good happening two schools, a hospital and most of problems as their predecessors; particularly on the plateau and glorify God. They will the Diocese’s central administration. that of the distance to the nearest major spread roots across their Diocese and draw The high school there is one of only town, Alotau. others into the life and light of Christ. two church secondary schools in the Transport from the Dogura plateau to country, and it attracts students from See over the page for website Alotau currently involves descending from across Papua New Guinea. The hospital link and resources.

35 Support from your church is needed for the Bishop’s Lent Appeal 2020

Your gifts will help provide a car so the church in Dogura can serve their local community

Request free resources for your church at www.dioceseofnorwich.org/lent or call 01603 880853

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