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COVER STORY 7 Government agencies reach out on 10 Fall Worship Guide 28 Happenings 19 Andrew Rannells: Baby Daddy importance of reporting crime 15 Parting Glances 29 Gina Gershon: show girl Photo: NBC 13 Moving from shame to shalom 16 Creep of the Week REAR VIEW 14 US heartland cities debating gay rights measures LIFE 34 Puzzle NEWS 22 Big names headline arts, beats & eats 35 Horoscopes 4 Step up or shut up OPINION 24 Hear Me Out 36 Classifieds 6 Healthy relationships at KICK 8 Viewpoint 27 The 2012 Wilde Awards 38 Cocktail Chatter www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 3 Hungry4Equality: Week 4

www.Hungry4Equality.com Day 25 It was an honor “to join the movement Day 22 During the past for Equality that “17 years I’ve been out, Affirmations helped I have been shunned, to start. 24 hours was a small sacrifice for a rejected, assaulted, Watch the Online Video and experienced huge issue that requires www.pridesource.com many other negative a full commitment from each of us. Let’s issues as a result of keep the momentum going, so that one day me being open about we won’t have to protest for our rights--we my sexuality. Although I know that being will have fought and won them. open and gay is not easily accepted, I feel Step Up or Shut Up: - Charles Pugh that I should be accepted as I am! In no ” way am I trying to force who I am down Pugh on the Hunger Strike and on Detroit Politics anybody’s throat - I just want to enjoy the BY CRYSTAL A. PROXMIRE bullying. Pugh said that two schools have gone same rights as if I were straight. Day 26 through training so far: Communications and Equality isn’t FERNDALE - “Stop complaining if you’re Media Arts High School and Central High School. going to come to us, - Tobias Davis “ not doing anything to change it. Step up or shut He is also working with PFLAG Detroit to ” we have to drag it up.” That’s what Detroit City Council President build their capacity to help families in the city. He’s brought PFLAG together with the Detroit kicking and screaming Charles Pugh has to say about folks who sit on the sidelines in any community. Parent Network, who has committed to monthly into the light. It’s not His new Step Up or Shut Up campaign is his LGBT engagement. He’s taken fliers to various Day 23 I am only one of going to be easy, but we push to recruit citizens, especially minorities, locations through the city to attract parents to to get involved in local politics. “It’s for the the PFLAG meetings and for people to get many who are making already know what the “ Detroit LGBT community to offer themselves as involved with leadership in both organizations. a public statement alternative is, and it’s unacceptable. candidates and to serve on the boards. There are “There are zero GSAs [Gay Straight Alliances] that the persecution so many other ways to serve like block clubs and in Detroit Public Schools,” he said. “We need -D’Anne Witkowski of my entire LGBT neighborhood associations. …We need people these to open minds and open hearts, to cut ” down on drop outs. Kids are being verbally and who are in the mix, with sweat on their brows, family has got to working to improve what’s good and to improve physically abused. Kids are being kicked out of stop. Our state and what’s bad…. I want them at the drawing board. their homes because of it [being gay].” federal government Day 27 I want them at the decision making table. I want In terms of his own experience being a gay Being a striker them at the ballot box. I want them at the pews, public official, Pugh said he’s not had many cannot continue to use and uphold laws allows me to really give in the neighborhoods as business owners, as problems. “We all get judged for lots of reasons, that make an entire population less than “ employers as students.” whether it’s an open judgment or an overt back to my community equal in the whole of humanity. He said that Detroit is “a work in progress,” judgment – race, gender, orientation, how we by supporting that requires everyone to be involved. dress, socio-economic status, our religion or lack thereof. So for me I can’t, if I’m going to - Tom Zerafa equality for all of my ” neighbors. be successful, worry about who is judging me.” The Gay-Ing Of Detroit He added that “Jessie Jackson said excellence is The busy City Council President, who is the the best deterrent to racism. Well [I say] progressive - Shelley Beaudoin action is the best deterrent to homophobia.” Day 24 ” first openly gay elected official in the city, took The ongoing a day to participate in the Hungry 4 Equality 100 oppression both day hunger strike. Strikers, in succession, go 24 Detroit Challenges “ hours without food and they sit on a stage in the active and passive of Day 28 I’ve been in window of Affirmations for the day to showcase The biggest challenges Pugh faces on City LGBT people is morally their support for equal rights. Council are financial. protests and rallys and reprehensible and “ “This effort was creative for collective effort “Dwindling revenues and growing costs have had my voice so that ultimately people could raise their voice is a major challenge for cities across the needs to end. Truth and heard. Now, as a striker, and say that equality is just that, it’s all people’s state of Michigan,” he said. “There’s an justice will win out. aging infrastructure. We have roughly 11,000 I can be seen and heard rights are equal, no more important than the other,” Pugh said. “I think that because we are employees and 20,000 retirees and that is a - Rev. Jim Lynch as an individual. such an advanced society we often forget that heavy responsibility. ” not everybody has the same rights.” “Every single source of revenue is going - Charlie Erikson While much of the focus has been on Pugh’s down. Our major source is income tax. We’ve ” council leadership and the challenges of Detroit’s lost population. We’ve got unemployment, and harsh economy, Pugh has been involved in efforts foreclosures. It’s a prescription for not having in on behalf of his LGBT brothers and sisters. enough resources.” One on-going effort is the Detroit Safe Schools He also said, “The crime rate bothers me and The public can visit the Equality Hall of Shame and the strikers at Affirmations in Ferndale. People who initiative which provides training to public saddens me. It challenges us.” want to strike can sign up by contacting Megh Hollowell at Affirmations at 248-398-7105. school staff on important LGBT issues, including Setting the budget is the top priority of city

4 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Uniroyal site is another development that gives INFO Pugh hope for the city. Hungry 4 Equality The Community Center Network, comprised of Change From Journalist To eight organizations across Michigan has united to bring awareness and urgency to their local Public Figure communities about the assault LGBT people are Pugh was born and raised in Detroit. He left under in the state. from 1989 to 1999 to go to college and to work People can learn more about the project which as a journalist in several other cities across the will run continuously at Affirmations Community country before returning to the hometown he Center in Ferndale, by visiting knew and loved. Up until 2009 when he began >> www.Hungry4Equality.com his campaign for Council, Pugh was a journalist, well known for his seat on the Fox 2 News desk. And while the change from journalist to politician council, a task which has been a huge challenge for has been rewarding, it had some challenges too. Detroit. “When we get to the point we ask ‘what “For the first year and a half I was uncomfortable are the core services,’ it’s a difficult conversation saying what my opinion was and having a vote,” to have. We have to set the police and fire budgets, he said. “As a journalist I was used to keeping but we also have to keep the lights on.” my opinion to myself and not being vocal. I had One way Detroit has saved money is by to un-learn that. But I learned to say very clearly privatizing some services. “It’s a case by case why I am voting the way I was. challenge. Privatizing doesn’t always save “Having journalists do what I think are unfair money,” Pugh said. “I’m not anti-privatization, stories about me is tough. Having personal things but it should be done the right way, not for a short reported on is also tough. As a journalist you’re in term savings. If a credible, data-based case can the public eye but you still have a private life. But be made I’m not opposed to it.” when you’re elected you don’t have a personal life. One big debate in the city has been the threat “Ever since I was 20 years old I’ve been on TV, of having an Emergency Financial Manager but I was always taught to cling closely to your instituted by the state. In the face of such threats, phone number and personal address. Some of my Mayor Dave Bing agreed to a consent decree with colleagues had stalkers, a couple were dangerous. the state that Pugh disagreed with. “We don’t need You protect your private information. But the an intervention. We need assistance, but we don’t exact opposite happens when you run for office. need a take over,” the council president said. “We I went from being guarded tightly to everything can manage our own way through this. being out there, like my address, my phone, my “…Because of bad decision making in the salary being public.” Mayor’s office we were on a collision course… Other than the privacy concerns, the transition He should have had a deficit-elimination plan… has overall been good for Pugh. “I went from If I were Mayor I would have been much more being in the media to politics and it required a lot proactive in working to create a deficit elimination of hard work, but everything does. There’s a lot of plan that was sustainable and worked. There was similarities between both professions. You have not enough focused effort by the Mayor’s office.” to do a lot of writing, a lot of research. You care about facts and look at all sides of the issue… You Detroit Successes have knowledge of the city, knowledge of whose who, who is important and why… A lot of it is Pugh said that city council has taken steps common sense and knowing your community.” towards improved financial solvency, including passing a balanced budget with money set aside towards deficit elimination. They have ordered Future Plans a mid-year financial review to determine if city Now that Pugh has sat in the council president administrators are staying on task. And they seat, he had decided to change direction once have instituted a collective purchasing policy his term is up. “If I run for anything it will be for supplies, where all departments are required for mayor,” he said. “It’s definitely something to purchase things like copiers, office supplies, I’m considering.” cleaning supplies and other necessities with When asked what would be different being bulk pricing unless they can find those items mayor that being council president, Pugh explained, cheaper elsewhere. “The main thing is on council you’re a legislature. Something Pugh hopes will make a big You can’t manage city services, you can only financial impact is a partnership formed with manage your own staff. You pass ordinances, you Compuware to collect unpaid city taxes. “Reverse approve things. As mayor you administer. You hire, commuters and employers are not collecting the disciple and fire officials. Ultimately you are the Detroit tax, and there are businesses in the city main person to make things happen.” not collecting. Individual filers are not paying While he considers running for the top local taxes,” Pugh said. leadership position in the City, Pugh hopes others Increased development is also expected to will get involved in leadership as well. “A lot of raise city revenue. “Development projects we’ve the restrictions are self-imposed. Most people approved and made better, the building of Whole just don’t try out of fear, fear or inadequacy. But Foods Market and being part of that effort,” are the reality is they do have a lot to offer.” Hence things Pugh is proud of. He also serves on the the Step Up or Shut Up campaign. Riverfront Conservancy Board where he is part of the remediation and continued progress of To learn more about Charles Pugh and his Step Up or building up a beautiful shoreline where visitors Shut Up campaign go to Extended feel safe and welcome. And remediation of the briefs are >> www.charlespughandyou.com. www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 5 BRIEFS EAST LANSING Healthy Relationships: MSU Speaker Series to Examine Development of Sexual Orientation Michigan State University will host a speaker series this fall examining the issue of whether sexual orientation is KICK Delves Deeper in Tuesday Night Talk determined before birth. The series is titled “Whom You Love: The Biology of Sexual Orientation.” It will feature a number of national BY CRYSTAL A. PROXMIRE experts who will discuss the scientific evidence that DETROIT - What makes a healthy processes at work before birth influence the development relationship work? of sexual orientation. The folks at KICK, The Agency for LGBT The lectures will be held at 4 p.m. every Monday, starting African Americans, thought this was an Sept. 10 through Dec. 10, in Room 115B Wells Hall. important topic to explore, so for their Aug. Providing funding for the series are the MSU Office for 14 discussion group they invited a gay couple Inclusion and Intercultural Initiatives, the College of Human and a lesbian couple to share their story and Medicine, Lyman Briggs College, the LBGT Resource Center answer questions about how they have a and the Neuroscience Program. healthy relationship. “Scientific findings over the past 15 years or so have Unfortunately the lesbians didn’t show, but built a solid case that events and processes at work before it gave Anthony Boykins and Henry Walker birth have an influence on whether a person will grow up a chance to tell a love story slightly more to be gay or straight,” said Marc Breedlove, director of the realistic than the hetro-normative Cinderella MSU Neuroscience Program and organizer of the series. story that so many Americans base their ideas “We want to bring that information together in a format about love around. that everyone can understand so they can see that nature Walker was visiting from Chicago three has a say in whom you love.” years ago when some friends took him to The For more on the series, including a list of speakers as Woodward. “I was standing at the back of the well as information on a documentary that Breedlove is Woodward, having my first June Bug. There developing on the subject, go to www.whomyoulove.com. was nobody in there so my friends and I started singing. I saw him and I was like ‘who is he?’ ST. LOUIS, MO And I had to go introduce myself,” Walker said. The pair had such a nice time that they ended INFO to mirror successful relationships,” Lipscomb Mr. Midwest Leather Contest is Looking for up going out for Mexican food and sitting in said. For him having a gay uncle made it easier the parking lot talking until the sun came up. Live & Learn to visualize a healthy gay relationship for Good Men “The time we met I was not looking for himself, but he acknowledged that many people This year’s Mr. Midwest Leather Contest hits St. Louis, anything. But I saw him and I knew, like ‘wow, Every Tuesday KICK members and the public are don’t have that. Some even have the additional Missouri the weekend of Oct. 5-7. The Mr. Midwest he’s not from here,’” Boykins said. “He is so invited to take part in a Live & Learn discussion, problem of being estranged from their families. which cover a variety of topics. To find out more Leather title represents 13 Midwestern states and is open great. He’s educated. He likes to help people “I hate when you meet a guy and he wants about KICK and the Live & Learn series at to Leather Men from Illinois, Iowa, Wisconsin, Indiana, – he’d help the whole wide world. It happened to take you to his family and says ‘they don’t Missouri, Minnesota, Michigan, Ohio, North Dakota, South and I ain’t trying to stop it. It just hit me.” >> http://e-kick.org. have a problem with me, but they don’t like Dakota, Kansas, Nebraska, and Kentucky. The producer of Like every relationship they’ve had their the whole gay thing’, so we gotta act a certain the contest is looking for men interested in participating struggles. Early on it was the matter of the want to go across the room,” said one young way. I don’t like that shit,” said someone in and contributing to the community through outreach, commute. Walker would drive from Chicago single person. the group. fundraising and education through the platform of the Mr. until finally he decided to find work in Detroit Someone else later noted that “the younger Fortunately Boykins and Walker have Midwest Leather title. and get a place. He described the moment he generation learns romance from BET,” adding family support and a good network of LGBT “This is not a beauty contest or about the body,” said knew they would have a lasting love. “He’s not that because of the glamorized playa lifestyle, supporters in their life, including close family Charlie Schoenherr, producer of the contest. “This is about always too expressive, but he took me to look “some men are too afraid to be nice.” relationships and a gay uncle in Walker’s you, the community and making a difference in people’s for apartments and we looked at one. Then he KICK founder Curtis Lipscomb recalled family. Being active in KICK and going to lives and your own, through community involvement, says, ‘Why are you looking for a place? I love going to a bar on gentlemen’s night and positive community events helps solidify fundraising and promoting the Leather lifestyle.” you. We can move together,’ and that’s when I enjoying mellow, romantic music like jazz or their bond. The current Mr. Midwest Leather 2011, Mike Prater of knew that this was real.” soul while talking with other men. “When I’m Boykins says there is compromise and Evansville, Indiana, has traveled throughout the Midwest Boykins, clearly the quieter one, had at the club and I hear Little Wayne I don’t feel patience. “Like when he needs something for and participated in the 2012 International Mr. Leather moments of sentimentality that touched the very loving.” his art and wants to go to Lowes, I know to Contest in Chicago, Illinois. crowd and made Walker get sparkles in his Another complication brought up was just be patient and let him get what he needs “This has been a great experience,” Prater said, “I’ve eyes. “I don’t see no end to us really. I mean, the fact that people get to know each other to get, and I try to think of what he might be had a chance to meet some wonderful people, make new you have to die sometime, but no end until differently than in the past. making. I know it makes him happy and I know friends, raise a lot of money for charity, visit a lot of places that,” Boykins said. “There’s no need to court anymore,” he’ll make something beautiful. So I give him and attend Leather events around the country. You make The discussion centered around what makes someone chimed in. “You can go to someone’s his space.” bonds with other Leather Men and Women; bonds that a healthy relationship. Many in the group were Facebookpage and it’s all there. Who they are. Sometimes in relationships people have an will last forever.” single men, still struggling to find the right Where’s their family from? What are their idea of a fairy-tale perfection, but Boykins said For qualifications, go to www.MrMidwestLeather.com. person. When asked what is important in a goals? You don’t have conversations and get being realistic is a better approach. “I didn’t Contestants should be ready to make a contribution to healthy relationship, most said communication to know someone.” have expectations. I just knew what I was not the community and represent the title at International Mr. though others talked about humor, compromise, Others talked about the confusion of how going to do. I just knew I had this good person Leather. The contest will be Oct. 5-7 at Bad Dog Bar & trust and passion. one should be nice and behave appropriately in my life, so I didn’t put too much expectation Grill, St. Louis, Missouri. It is part of the Midwest Leather “Passion is being able to see your boy from in a same-sex relationship. “Sometimes if you on him….This is my friend first. But we are in Weekend, including the Midwest Puppy Contest, the Puppy across the room, and he’s wearing boy shorts, hold a door for a guy he’ll get mad and say love. We get along. We talk to each other. We Mosh Pit Party and the Midwest LeatherBall. For more flip flops…hmmm…ok, I’m speaking for that’s he’s not a girl,” someone said. watch funny programs on TV. We’re in love, information, go to www.MidwestLeatherWeekend.com myself, but it’s when you see him and you “One way we learn about relationships is but we also kick it.”

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FERNDALE - “We, as a community, haven’t had the best relationships with government agencies,” said Equality Michigan Director of Victim Services Nusrat Ventimiglia as she introduced a panel of representatives from State and Federal departments in town to discuss the issue of crime reporting. “But times have changed and we have tremendous allies in the FBI and law enforcement.” Representatives from the U.S. Attorney’s Office, the Federal Bureau of Investigation, the Department of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms, hate crimes law to include sexual orientation, and the U.S. Department of Education joined expression and identity. …From a law enforcement Equality Michigan and Affirmations on Aug. perspective, this is a law enforcement issue. This 22 for the Federal Hate Crimes Dialogue about is a community safety issue. It’s not a gay rights LGBT Bullying and Harassment and Hate issue. It’s not about lifestyles. It’s about people Crimes in Our Communities. The event was at being protected from crimes.” Affirmations in Ferndale. Under the current Michigan hate crimes law, Ventimiglia explained that the LGBT community if someone does property damage or makes has historically underreported crime, noting that at threats towards someone with elements of ethnic Equality Michigan only 52 percent of the cases intimidation or religious hate, or hate against they hear about are reported to law enforcement. people because of their age, gender or disability Brenda Jeanetta, Corruption and Civil they could be charged with a hate crime. This Rights Coordinator for the FBI, said, “There means that their action was not just intended is a reluctance to report a crime because of to harm the victim, but also to spread fear in reluctance to admit affiliation with the LGBT that victim’s community. However, if someone community. Maybe someone doesn’t want to commits a crime meant to spread fear in the gay come to law enforcement, but they may come community, there is no legal recognition of this to Equality Michigan or Affirmations.” broader impact. Levy said that sometimes local law The importance of reporting isn’t just so that enforcement may not take it seriously if someone the victim can get help. It can help stop someone has a gay slur graffittied on their garage or if other from going on to victimize others. And the numbers threats are made, because there is no good law in of crimes are used when lobbying for legislation, place defining those as bias motivated. applying for grants, and showing society in general Ted Wammers of the U.S. Dept. of Education how crimes of bias hurt an entire class of people. explained that students need not fear reporting Dan Levy of the Michigan Department of Civil bullying or harassment, because even though the Rights said, “It’s too easy when things aren’t anti-bullying laws are not enumerated to protect being reported for people to say it’s no big deal.” LGBT youth, they do have protection for every He said that crime reporting data helps student from the acts of bullying. demonstrate the need for inclusive hate crimes U.S. District Attorney Ann Thompson also protections and programming to address the assured the public that they work within the needs of the LGBT community. He added an confines of the law to get justice for people in the example of where one incident report can have LGBT community, explaining that sometimes an un-told chain effect. harassment can be given harsher penalties if it “People don’t always see the way their falls into the realm of other laws. For example, reporting makes a difference,” Levy said. there are federal laws that can be used if threats He gave an example of a police officer being are made over a computer or using U.S. Mail and unprofessional on a traffic stop. “A person there are sentencing enhancements that can be tells the police supervisor about an action. The made if other forms of bias are used. supervisor talks to the officer, or maybe even The overall message of the day was that people the whole department, and from then on people who are victims of crimes should report them, are treated differently, but they [the person who if not to law enforcement, at least to an agency made the report] may never know about it.” like Affirmations or Equality Michigan so they Levy also bridged the gap between federal can track the number of reported incidents and hate crimes and state hate crimes. The Matthew let victims know about what support may be Sheppard and James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes available to them. Affirmations refers victims Prevention Act of 2009 only covers crimes that to Equality Michigan for reporting. the Federal government is able to prosecute and is limited to violent acts. “Personal property For more information on Affirmations go to crimes…need to be covered by a state hate crimes >> www.goaffrmations.org law. In Michigan the State Police, the Sheriffs To report a crime or for more information on Equality Association, the Chiefs of Police Association Michigan go to and the Prosecuting Attorneys Association have www.equalitymichigan.org. all come out in support of amending the state >> www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 7 Conventions Provide a Stark Vol. 2035 • Issue 779 August 30, 2012 PUBLISHERS Difference on A Better Future Susan Horowitz & Jan Stevenson EDITORIAL conservative “American” values has become the equivalent of a murder weapon. Editor in Chief tie that binds together supporters of this candidacy. While staunchly supporting the rights of Susan Horowitz Viewpoint Despite committee chairman Priebus’s the unborn, the party platform stands in its [email protected] disclaimer that, “This is the platform of the denial of rights for the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Entertainment Editor Republican Party. It’s not the platform of Mitt Transgender and Queer Americans. Which begs Chris Azzopardi Romney,” the party platform provides a window the question how do you staunchly support the [email protected] to the soul of the party Romney/Ryan hope to rights of a child to be born, even if its conception Associate Editor lead into power. is the result of rape, yet strip the same child of Benjamin Jenkins OPINION BY MICHELLE E. BROWN This is the cornerstone of the beliefs held its rights if it is born gay? [email protected] dear by party faithful so how can we ignore One might also wonder since these same Arts & Theater Editor its influence on this “Better Future” on display individuals dare to define the legitimacy of Donald V. Calamia, o a Mormon, a Catholic and Atlas walk in Tampa? rape while delegitimizing the rights of LGBT [email protected] into a bar..... Much has been said about Todd Akins Americans, would rapists get a free pass if the rape The beginning of a bad joke? No, CREATIVE S comments on rape – legitimate or forcible – was part of “conversion” attempt against a gay, it’s the beginning of the Republican National as it relates to abortion. This, rightly, set off lesbian, transgender, bisexual or queer American? Art Director Convention. But if you’re a woman, poor, a a firestorm of condemnation among not only While this year’s Democratic Party Platform David Ano, [email protected] person of color or gay, YES it is the beginning women, but even Republicans from Mitt Romney is the most pro-LGBT in history, the Republican Webmaster & MIS Director of a bad joke. down, with a message that’s clear “RAPE is Party Platform seems to want to pull the country Kevin Bryant, [email protected] Now that the Olympics are over and Rape.” But there was less substantive discussion backwards when it comes to LGBT equality. It Production Assistant vacations are winding down, it’s time to get of the reality that, although Akin’s remarks were includes language that implies that for the GOP, Benjamin Jenkins, [email protected] focused on November and nothing will get outrageous, they were not outside the realm of LGBT people are not among the Americans who folks focused in, on what’s at stake more than Contributing Writers the far right views on abortion and women’s deserve “dignity and respect.” Charles Alexander, Michelle E. Brown, the upcoming conventions. reproductive rights. “A Better Future,” - only for some. While Dana Casadei, Abby Dees, Jack Fertig, The intention of past conventions was to In 2011, Rep. Akin co-sponsored a bill which talking about creating jobs, rebuilding the Todd Heywood, Howard Israel, Lisa Keen, educate attendees about the party’s platform was supported by Paul Ryan that would have economy and supporting American families, Richard Labonte, Michael H. Margolin, and to nominate a candidate, but this year’s banned federal funding for abortions except the Republican Party Platform says to LGBT Jenn McKee, Jason Michael, Kate Opalewski, Anthony Paull, Andrea Poteet, Crystal Proxmire, Republican National Convention is more like in cases of so-called forcible rape. It was later Americans – but not for you. John Quinn, Eric W. Rader, Bridgette M. Redman, an infomercial rolling out a GOP agenda that reintroduced with the word “forcible” removed The Republican Party platform opposes Leslie Robinson, Romeo San Vincente, has been building steam, culminating with a from the bill’s language. marriage equality and supports a federal Gwendolyn Ann Smith, Jody Valley, coronation of the party’s standard bearers. Besides the “Forcible Rape” legislation, constitutional amendment defining marriage D’Anne Witkowski, Dan Woog Mitt Romney’s nomination has been a Ryan and Akins also cosponsored a federal as the “union of one man and one woman” Cartoonists foregone conclusion for several months after personhood bill, the “Sanctity of Human Life referring to recent court decisions as “more than Paul Berg, Dave Brousseau, Joan Hilty the Mormon business man basically out lasted Act of 2009,” which declares that a fertilized a matter of warring legal concepts and ideals. It Contributing Photographers a field of candidates that fell off, dropped out egg is entitled to the exact same legal rights is an assault on the foundations of our society, Andrew Potter or self-destructed. The only suspense was the as a human being. One interpretation of this challenging the institution which, for thousands ADVERTISING & SALES selection of the vice-presidential running mate act would not simply ban abortion; it would of years….has been entrusted with the rearing which we now know is Tea Party poster child turn many forms of birth control into the legal Director of Sales Paul Ryan. See VP: Michelle Brown, page 17 Jan Stevenson, [email protected] Although he’s not talking about it that Sales Representatives much these days, Ryan has in the past credited Ed Bohach, [email protected] atheist philosopher Ayn Rand for inspiring Ann Cox, [email protected] his interest in public service and entry into National Advertising Representative the political arena, even giving copies of her Rivendell Media, 212.242.6863 “Atlas Shrugged” as Christmas gifts. More Business Office recently the focus has been on his budget plan, Diane Smith, [email protected] anti-abortion stance, “faithful” Catholicism, Nancy Blankenship dedication to the P90X workout plan and of Circulation & Distribution course his 8 percent body fat. Diane Smith At the RNC in Tampa, Mitt and Paul plan to Pride Source Media Group energize the base and convert the undecided 11920 Farmington Road that “A better future” is possible if given the Livonia, Michigan 48150 reins of leadership. Phone 734.293.7200 • Fax 734.293.7201 They’re banking that any voters still sitting www.pridesource.com on the fence will be moved by the glitz, glamour Our rate cards are available online and overlook the basic contradictions of their All material appearing in Between The Lines is protected by federal ideology with today’s diverse America. copyright law and may not be reproduced in whole or part without Who’d have thought that the party which in the permission of the publishers. 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Viewpoint Fall Worship Guide Welcoming! (Including) Affirming?

BY REV. JIM LYNCH, INTERIM PASTOR, MCC-DETROIT

Like so many, I read is happening is amazing. BUT – just how much with interest these days progress has been made toward the full inclusion about all of the religious of LGBT folks? bodies struggling with As interim pastor of Metropolitan Community the issues of sexuality in Church of Detroit, I’m a ministering part -- 20- general, homosexuality plus years -- of a denomination founded 44 years specifically. ago (one year before the Stonewall Riots) to meet I see denominational the spiritual and religious needs of our rainbow assemblies simply community. Our congregations often include deny inclusion to our LGBT folks, straight folks, people of all makes, community; and that shapes, ethnicities, colors, backgrounds, models. breaks my heart. I see churches who allow LGBT We have been through the discussions in folks to be “welcomed” into congregations – as which our mainline counterparts just now find long as they don’t try to preach, teach Sunday themselves, and we have moved on. I share School, or pass the collection plate with their that piece of information only to establish my “gay agenda.” perspective. I see churches that ordain LGBT folks, but My question to those who have included then make it difficult for them to find a pulpit. LGBT people is this: Are we welcomed and The combinations, policies, terminologies, and included and affirmed in all areas of church theologies are seemingly limitless. Don’t get me life or are we merely tolerated and kept on wrong: I definitely applaud the fact that nearly the fringes? Churches need to strive to move every mainline religious organization has dealt beyond merely welcoming and on to including, or is dealing with the LGBT inclusion issue on affirming, perhaps even to celebrating the some level. uniqueness of these “newcomers.” Fifty years ago, homosexuals inclusion, It’s difficult for an LGBT person to sit in a if raised, was for most a no-brainer. “Those mainline congregation that lifts up the traditional people” cannot be a part of the body of believers. family as the model to live by. We feel left out, Period. End of discussion. So, the progress that out of place. Many of these churches celebrate

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10 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com ® Welcoming Continued from p. 10 life events like marriages, births, and such, with little thought to including the anniversary of that “gay couple” or “that lesbian sitting in the last pew.” In many cases, LGBT people, welcomed as we may or may not be, are often still invisible in terms of full inclusion. Why be part of a church that tells me that I may attend, join, and participate, but where people like me cannot be in leadership? Why attend a church that allows for the ordination of people like me, but where local congregations can still exhibit homophobia in the selection of leadership, leaving gay clergy hanging in the wind -- voices crying in the wilderness for fair inclusion -- unable to secure meaningful ministry positions in which they are allowed to exercise their gifts, training and experience?

To the bodies who are moving in the right direction, I say “Praise God!” “Thank you!” But I also encourage you to develop systems to properly disseminate the good news and to educate local judicatories and congregations, empowering them, perhaps pushing them forward to find the truth of God’s love for and inclusion of all peoples. There are too many negative voices in the religious community. If you are going to take a stand for full inclusion, then you need to follow through to make sure that your new found awareness works its way down to the people in the pews. This means new curriculums, new liturgies, new definitions of family, and often an entirely new paradigm for inclusion. To do less is to simply give lip service to an entire ministry field; and while seen as well meaning, is often seen as a halfway measure and continuing hypocrisy. Churches are moving in the right direction, but I encourage you to “launch out into the deep”. Become the loving inclusive people that God has called you to be.

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Moving From Shame to Shalom Rev. Jim Lucas looks back on 20 Years of LGBT Ministry

BY CAROL TANIS Growing up as the oldest of four children in a loving home in Wyoming, Michigan, Jim GRAND RAPIDS - Quick to smile and attended Christian schools and felt a call to the Nobody talked about slow to criticize, Rev. Jim Lucas is one of the ministry while a student at Calvin Christian last people you’d expect to stir up controversy High. Always the model Christian young man, being gay then, except for he received A’s in school, was president of his “ and encourage what some would term “radical” the occasional snide remark. change. Yet, he’s done just that, making our church high school youth group and active in society more accepting in the process. Bible study and prayer groups. Along with a There was no context in which This year Jim is celebrating his 20 years deepening of his faith, he also recalls he felt of ministry to the LGBT community in West drawn to a male high school classmate, but didn’t to think of the possibility Michigan. But to reach this point he’s traveled think much of it at the time. that I might be gay. worlds of change within himself and at times “I just adored this guy who was in most of wondered if life was worth the trip. my classes, but I didn’t think of the attraction in Recently, he recounted highlights from these romantic terms,” he said. “Nobody talked about on sexuality at Calvin College in February 1992. years in a presentation at First United Methodist being gay then, except for the occasional snide Advertised on posters around campus, Jim’s remark. There was no context in which to think ” Church in Grand Rapids titled, “From Shame presentation was titled, “What Would You Say to Shalom.” The word “shalom” means peace of the possibility that I might be gay.” If You Knew I Was Gay?” While there were in Hebrew. While studying at Calvin College, however, only about 70 people in the room, among them Since 1992 Jim has provided individual and Jim began to acknowledge to himself that he felt were a reporter from the student newspaper and group pastoral care for hundreds of LGBT attracted to other guys, and after three lonely, a reporter from a conservative religious news tortured years he began to tell supportive friends persons, as well as their family members and traditional interpretations that condemn gay service. Word about Jim’s radical testimony about his sexual orientation. Upon completion friends. Speaking extensively in churches, people are wrong. “I’d read volumes of books, spread, and two months later The Grand Rapids of his Bachelor of Arts degree, he followed college classes, and other community venues, and within my mind I had come to believe that Press and the CRC’s national magazine The his calling and enrolled in Calvin Theological he’s helped audiences understand what it’s like God honors faithful committed life partnerships Banner ran stories about Jim’s proclamation that Seminary, where he graduated in 1985 with a to be a gay Christian in West Michigan. for people who are gay, but I still hadn’t totally he’s gay and believes it’s okay with God. Master of Divinity degree. Later that year he was In 2001, he, together with a team of dedicated resolved it,” he says. This publicity helped to launch a new ordained and began to serve as a pastor of a small, volunteers, organized the gay-Christian-affirming During this time Jim returned to the therapist ministry for Jim that included individual struggling inner city church in Grand Rapids. Gays in Faith Together, known as GIFT. This he had begun seeing seven years earlier. He pastoral counseling, leadership of groups for But after four years that congregation, Christ’s spring, GIFT launched the “Gay Christian? Yes!” credits his therapist for helping him to realize LGBT Christians, and education in churches Community CRC, disbanded. Another blow Campaign, featuring a large billboard along that he needed to feel good about who he was as and colleges. A number of volunteers helped came when Jim interviewed for a job opening U.S. 131 and signs on city buses proclaiming a gay man “created in the image of God.” Jim create a formal nonprofit organization as a for a youth pastor position at a CRC in Ontario, “Gay Christian? Yes!” Also featuring a website “Eventually I understood that I was such an foundation for this emerging ministry, and for a Canada. He wanted the job but also knew that (GayChristianYes.org) with videos, essays and emotional wreck because I was still swallowing period of time this ministry was Jim’s full-time he needed, for the sake of his own integrity photos, the campaign has sparked a new dialogue the poison that people were feeding me, telling job. and health, to tell church leaders that he was a in West Michigan and beyond. me that being gay is wrong in God’s eyes,” he In 1998 Jim’s public affirmation of gay unions gay. He initially told only the pastors. When the Based on his experience speaking to classes at said. “I continued to ‘play the hiding game’ a led the Christian Reformed Church to release him church council received the search committee’s Calvin College, Hope College, Kuyper College way of agreeing with the message of society from the ordained ministry. Jim still bears the unanimous recommendation to hire Jim, some and Grand Valley State University, Jim has that I was sick and should hide. In order to say to scars of this rejection by the church that he loved on the council asked if Jim might be gay since noticed a new trend in attitudes reflected in his myself and to the world that I no longer believed and served. That same year he began working he was unmarried at age 36. In order to avoid a presentation-opening question asking, “How this message, I needed to come out openly as a part-time as a chaplain at Spectrum Health in controversy, the pastors asked Jim to withdraw many of you know someone who is gay?” gay man who also happened to be a Christian addition to his LGBT ministry. He continues to himself from consideration for the job. Jim “When I first started speaking to college Reformed minister.” find both ministries immensely fulfilling — and agreed to do so but wrote a letter to the entire classes 20 years ago, one or two hands might “Also, I decided I had nothing to lose if I challenging. council telling them that he was gay. go up,” he said. “Now, when I ask, nearly every came out,” he says. “Because of my internalized In May 2001, the Triangle Foundation granted Although Jim pointed out in his letter that hand goes up. It’s a dramatic reversal, one homophobia, I was almost non-functional with Jim a Catalyst Award for outstanding service to he was living by the church’s requirement of that demonstrates a very encouraging change depression and a stomach that almost always the LGBT community. Later that year Jim worked celibacy for those who are gay in orientation, in our society right here in conservative West felt upset.” with volunteers to form GIFT as a new, improved this revelation did not satisfy the council. They Michigan.” Jim had been wondering for years if God platform for ministry. In 2005, Plymouth United wrote a letter back saying that while some council While he’s now proud and happy to reflect might call him to a ministry focused on the Church of Christ granted Jim ministerial standing members were in favor hiring him, others were on his years of LGBT ministry, there was a time needs and concerns of those who are gay. Now in the UCC, a historic mainline Christian “sickened” by the prospect. Jim still winces when he saw no possible way to serve openly as the time seemed right. In Jim’s typical cautious denomination that affirms marriage rights for telling the story. a gay minister in the Christian Reformed Church. way, he first talked privately with a number of gay couples. And in 2008, after several years of During this time, to pay the bills Jim took a For years he battled depression and stomach- pastors and other leaders in the CRC. “Their part-time professional coursework, Jim became job driving a van for Hope Network in Grand churning anxiety because he knew that he, like encouragement,” Jim remembers, “really a Board Certified Chaplain with the Association Rapids. While the job provided an income, it others who are gay, was not accepted by much pushed me to pursue my dream to help the of Professional Chaplains. wasn’t where he expected to be at that stage in of the church and society. church become more welcoming of gay people. When asked about one of his most memorable life. “I felt trapped and sick all the time with an Since then through prayer, reflection, I received a lot support from church leaders who experiences in LGBT ministry, he recalled upset stomach,” recalls Jim. “It was all I could counseling and reading many books about what said ‘yes, the church has been neglecting this visiting a suicidal young man in a local psychiatric do to drive the van 40 hours a week. I could the Bible says about homosexuality, he’s come issue for too long.’” hospital. Jim addressed his concerns about being barely function.” to embrace his sexual orientation and discard One of those leaders was the director of the a gay Christian, and later the man attended Starting in seminary Jim had read many the notion that LGBT individuals are inferior counseling center at Calvin College. He invited monthly programs led by Jim. in God’s eyes. books, examining the Bible and concluding that Jim to give a lecture as part of an annual series See Rev. Jim Lucas, page 17 www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 13 BRIEFS ANN ARBOR US heartland cities debating Ann Arbor Democrats to Vote on Marriage Equality Resolution gay rights measures The Ann Arbor Democratic Party will vote Sept. 15 on a resolution thanking President Barack Obama for publicly stating his support for marriage equality for BY ALAN SCHER ZAGIER April 2013 – are hearing rumblings that their measure is unnecessary. same-gender couples. support could have political consequences, said “What this ordinance does in reality is force “Gay and lesbian couples should be able to get SPRINGFIELD, Mo. (AP) - Randy council member Doug Burlison, who favors upon businesses a regulation in favor of a tiny state-issued marriage licenses in Michigan and Doenning organizes a charity gala for gay teens the change. fraction of the population when (there is) almost everywhere else in the United States,” AADP Co-Chair and AIDS patients and isn’t afraid to hold his To force a vote, opponents in Springfield no documented evidence of discrimination,” Anne Bannister said. “The Ann Arbor Democrats want male partner’s hand in public in the Bible Belt would need to collect just 2,101 valid signatures he said. to show President Obama our appreciation for his city where he lives. in 30 days. One council member has said he Perkins, 27, said she and her partner – who leadership on this issue.” The small business owner also remembers already plans to call for a public vote. plan to marry next year in Iowa, where gay The resolution reads “The Ann Arbor Democratic when white supremacists bombed a gay church In 1994, city voters handily rejected a marriage is legal - do encounter discrimination, Party expresses its gratitude to President Barack in Springfield, bomb-sniffing dogs and metal hate crimes law that had been passed by the such as when looking for a house. Obama for supporting marriage equality for same- detectors were used at the local university for a City Council and was brought to voters in a “We haven’t been told, `We aren’t going gender couples.” play about a gay Jewish activist and the school’s petition drive. Groups opposed to the ordinance to rent to lesbians,”’ she said. “But we have “When we first read the proposed resolution at president refused to add sexual orientation subsequently targeted council members who had absolutely been made to feel unwelcome.” our July meeting everyone there wanted to vote on it to Southwest Missouri State University’s supported the law. Doenning, a Monett native who moved to immediately because local Democrats care so much nondiscrimination policy. Nearly two decades later, organizers say Springfield in 1989, said the city “has been very about equality,” AADP Co-Chair Mike Henry said. “Our As the elected leaders in the city of 160,000 Springfield is overdue for basic legal protections good to my partner and me. “ by-laws require at least a month’s notice before a vote, debate whether to prohibit discrimination for gays and lesbians. They point to the Missouri “We’ve never been treated poorly in public. but I’m glad to see so much support already.” in housing, employment and public college town of Columbia, which has had such We’ve never been called out, or had an act of accommodations based on sexual orientation enhanced protection in its nondiscrimination violence committed against us. We’ve never had ATLANTA and gender identity, Doenning and other ordinance for years; as well as other cities of a bad experience. In a lot of ways, we blend in.” activists are optimistic. They also know legal That wasn’t always the case. Ga. eliminates waiting list for HIV/AIDS protections are anything but assured in a city In 1985, the leader of the Arkansas-based drugs that’s home to the national headquarters of the Covenant, the Sword and the Arm of the Lord Assemblies of God Church and three Bible was convicted of federal racketeering charges Poor and uninsured people in Georgia who need colleges. If we had the majority in connection with a firebombing of the medication to treat HIV and AIDS will no longer need Across the heartland, from regional economic Metropolitan Community Church in Springfield to be placed on a waiting list. voting on minority issues (all hubs in southwest Missouri such as Springfield two years earlier. Four years later, the Southwest Public Health Commissioner Brenda Fitzgerald “ to the Kansas plains and Nebraska college Missouri State theater department’s presentation said Friday that the state has eliminated a waiting list the time), we still would not towns, the battle for gay rights is playing out of Larry Kramer’s “The Normal Heart,” which that had grown as a poor economy caused people to in city halls and town squares, often with see women with the right to portrayed the early days of the AIDS epidemic, lose their jobs and health insurance and because of opponents of expanded nondiscrimination led to public protests by thousands and an more aggressive HIV testing. Created in July 2010, the vote, we would not have African- laws trying to reverse decisions by government unsolved arson at a gay student’s home on waiting list for the AIDS Drug Assistance Program grew officials. opening night. to more than 1,600 people, at one point becoming the Americans voting.. “Places like Springfield, Missouri, are As recently as a decade ago, the university’s largest such list in the country. the trenches of this battle right now,” said governing board rejected adding sexual “The reduction of our wait list to zero is a Doenning. - Stephanie Perkins, deputy director of orientation to its nondiscrimination policy. The remarkable accomplishment, especially considering PROMO, a Missouri gay advocacy group In Lincoln, Neb., the groups Family First and change was made in 2006. where we were in 2011,” Fitzgerald said. ” the Nebraska Family Council quickly collected While the exact size of Springfield’s gay The Atlanta Journal-Constitution reports that the more than 10,000 signatures challenging a community is difficult to determine, activists state erased the list in part by using $8.4 million in “fairness amendment” approved by the City comparable size and characteristics, including such as Doenning and Perkins said its members federal emergency funding. More than 350 patients Council in May, forcing the city to either let the Evansville, Ind.; Columbus, Ohio; Columbia, are more visible - and more vocal. previously enrolled in the program were placed into an ordinance die or submit it for voter approval. No S.C.; and Grand Rapids, Mich. “The fact that we’re having this conversation insurance pool for people with pre-existing conditions, decision was reached before the deadline for the “If we had the majority voting on minority shows there’s progress,” Perkins said. “We have part of the new federal health care overhaul. That shift November ballot. issues (all the time), we still would not see moved a long way in 10 years. But there’s no freed up more resources in the AIDS Drug Assistance Omaha, the state’s largest city, narrowly women with the right to vote, we would not shortage of homophobia and bullying.” Program. passed an ordinance in March extending legal have African-Americans voting,” said Stephanie Virginia now has the largest waiting list with 275 protections to gay and transgender residents Perkins, deputy director of PROMO, a statewide people, according to a report from the National Alliance after a tie vote scuttled a similar attempt in gay advocacy group. of State and Territorial AIDS Directors. MICHIGAN INFO October 2010. The Assemblies of God church, the world’s Jeff Graham, executive director of Georgia Equality, In the Kansas towns of Salina and Hutchinson, largest Pentecostal denomination, is among an advocacy group for lesbian, gay, bisexual and opponents of expanded nondiscrimination laws opponents of the proposed ordinance. In an Michigan Cities with Protective Ordinances Are transgender people, said state and federal officials in the Kansas towns of Salina and Hutchinson Aug. 14 letter to Springfield’s mayor, the Under Attack By a Bill Introduced by Rep. Tom deserve recognition for eliminating Georgia’s waiting McMillin of Rochester Hills have collected enough signatures to force public group’s general superintendent, George Wood, list. But he worried that if Congress makes big budget votes after similar recent decisions by their city said the proposal doesn’t adequately cover an You can learn more online cuts, Georgia could lose money for its program and the leaders. exemption for religious organizations to give >> http://www.pridesource.com/article. waiting list could return. Waiting lists for the program Something similar could happen in hiring preferences to members of their own html?article=51228 have been used three times in recent decades. Springfield, where the City Council is meeting faith. Wood encouraged Stephens to allow “I really hope it doesn’t come back a fourth time,” Monday. voters to make the final determination. A church Graham said. Also Search Pridesource.com for more coverage of A public hearing earlier this month drew spokeswoman said Wood and other top officials cities in Michigan that have recently passed inclusive hundreds of residents, with most speakers were traveling overseas and unavailable for ordinances and learn more about how you can help. approving of the change. But the eight council further comment. Extended briefs are available online at: members and Mayor Bob Stephens – five of Dave Myers, a member of the political group >> www.PrideSource.com whom, including the mayor, face re-election in Live Free Springfield, told the council the

14 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Parting Glances

OPINION BY CHARLES ALEXANDER Ah! There’s the rub ...

nce upon a time there was a Genie just let out of a confining lamp. How long he had been trapped inside he couldn’t Osay. The Lamp had lain wedged between a smooth rock, a hard place, on a far distant hill. The Genie had been released – as all genies must be released – by a persistent rub on the sides of the lamp. But because this Genie never dreamed of being released, he was fast asleep. It took awhile to wake up. But once out in the open he looked about and marveled at the sunshine. He stood still. Listening. Loved the birds singing. “My, my, oh my! What have I been missing!” he said, glad to have a big scenery change. (He hadn’t a clue how he got into the lamp, who or what put and kept him there.) As day turned into night, the Genie lay back on the warm ground, looking heavenward. He counted many pinpoints of light; and after a thousand or so, he tired. “I can’t spend all my time counting stars, even though it’s a very pleasant thing to do. My adventure in being a free spirit is certainly off to a heavenly start”. On day two of freedom, the Genie “You’re a queer looking had a curious urging. creature, if ever I saw Slight at first, but as the day wore on, stronger one. I want nothing to and stronger. Finally he realized what it do with queerness.” was – for the lamp rub that awakened him. “Wow!” he said. “If only I could feel that marvelous vibration again.” And so his search to experience that first electrifying, awakening touch began. He walked expectantly down a nearby path, following footprints before him. Soon he met a man in a somber black suit. A very tight collar. “Good day, sir,” said the hopeful Genie. “Did you by chance rub my lamp and set me free? And as a favor would you touch my heart and make me really real? I’d know that freeing touch, one in a million.” Said the man in the somber black suit and very tight – spot- free – white collar, “You’re a queer looking creature, if ever I saw one. I want nothing to do with queerness. No doubt you’re a genie. Genies should stay closeted. Besides, any wish you might grant would be evil I’m sure!” So the Genie reluctantly (but nonetheless hopefully) moved on. Soon he met a young maiden, asking her the same question. “No, no,” she answered, shaking her head sweetly. “While you’re OK to look at, it’s not right for mere mortals to importune genies. I’m afraid I’d ask for all the wrong wishes. Goodbye. Good luck.” As the road was ending (really just beginning), the Genie met a lamp collector. Once more he asked his troubling question. “Yes,” said the collector. “I rubbed your small, confining lamp. Apparently you hesitated too long in appearing, perhaps through no fault of your own. Go now and be your genial self! Enjoy. Share your magic gifts with others.” Answered the Genie overjoyed, “You’ve indeed touched my heart. I’ll travel on my merry way. My gifts to gayly give one and all.” And so he did. (Make a wish.) [email protected] www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 15 Creep of the Week OPINION BY D’ANNE WITKOWSKI Errol Naidoo Election 2012 arlier this month in South Africa, Groups to push marriage equality during DNC workers were on strike at a Marikana Eplatinum mine demanding better BY MITCH WEISS Voters approved the amendment wages. Police shot their guns into the declaring that marriage between a man crowd. Dozens were injured and 34 CHARLOTTE, N.C. (AP) - The and woman is the only legal domestic people are dead. That’s in addition to the constitutional ban on same-sex marriage union, prompting angry supporters of 10 people previously killed at the mine. in the host state of the Democratic This convention is a same-sex marriage to urge Democrats to It’s like a folk tale created to tell National Convention has stirred anger and way to highlight some of move the convention. President Barack around the campfires at the Republican resentment among advocates for marriage “ Obama stated his support for gay marriage National Convention: unions (the enemy), equality, many of whom are converging these contentious issues a day after the North Carolina vote. capitalism (King), race (Lonmin is a on Charlotte this weekend for the city’s Democrats have been trying to address British company), money (platinum = gay pride festival. because North Carolina helps the issue. The national Democratic Party’s major bling), guns (sacred), and homosexuality (wait, what?) all Organizers say they hope the festival illustrates what’s going on. platform committee recently endorsed rolled into one. will draw attention to the issue and gay marriage for the first time and Now, if you’re finding yourself singing the Sesame Street “one create momentum that lasts through It’s good to remind people called for the repeal of a federal law that of these things doesn’t belong” song, that’s understandable. But the political convention that starts the recognizes marriage as between a man it also means that you just aren’t thinking like a self-professed following week. Some of the thousands what’s going on here. and a woman. man of God. of protesters expected at the convention The platform is a broad statement of the Enter Errol Naidoo, the director for Family Policy Institute will be demonstrating for gay marriage. - Rev. Jasmine Beach-Ferrar, executive director party’s priorities on the economy, social South Africa, to explain the Marikana mine tragedy to all of you “We’re excited that the convention is in of the Campaign for Southern Equality. Her issues and national defense that’s up for blind to the obvious. group has been organizing the “We Do” approval at the convention. Charlotte,” said David Webb, one of the campaign which advocates” for lesbian, In an Aug. 22 Family Policy Institute newsletter, Naidoo pride festival’s organizers. “But we also gay, bisexual and transgender people Scott Dibble, a committee member wrote, “The murder of more than a million unborn citizens has want to show that we’re united and will and a state senator from Minnesota, said perpetuated a culture of death in SA. Life has become cheap continue to push for change.” support for gay marriage can attract new and has lost its dignity and sanctity in a culture that glorifies When North Carolina voters passed voters. self-gratification. There has been much hand wringing and the constitutional amendment in May, in numbers. “ “Young people are looking for a recrimination about the Marikana Massacre. But when human supporters of gay marriage first demanded “It was just uncalled for,” she said of political home right now. This has become life is diminished in the womb, that callousness will find its way that Democrats rethink Charlotte as the amendment. “We’re just trying to have a defining moral question of our time,” into the national psyche.” the location of their convention. But the same rights as married couples. It said Dibble, who is gay. Got that? Because of abortion, police officers gunned down advocates have since seized on the party seems that even today there is still hatred The platform says Democrats support workers striking so that they might earn a slightly more decent gathering as a high-profile chance to out there. It’s just wrong.” “marriage equality” and the “movement wage mining platinum, which has only increased in value pushing make their message heard - with support Foster has been dating the same woman to secure equal treatment under law for up profits for the mining companies (although Naidoo doesn’t from the party itself. The national party for two years. They want to get married same-sex couples.” bother to address the greed and oppression and brutality at the is expected to approve marriage equality – but can’t. She also plans to attend the J. Michael Bitzer, a political science heart of the strike because that doesn’t mesh with his “abortionists as part of its national platform during the Sept. 2 protest called the March on Wall and history professor at Catawba College, are the enemy” message). convention being held from Sept. 4-6. Street South. The demonstration includes said Democrats can use the North Carolina But what does this have to do with homosexuals? According to For the first two days, the Time Warner a coalition of more than 70 groups. The vote as “rallying cry for their platform.” Naidoo, “Abortion-on-demand, driven by radical feminist activists Cable Arena in Charlotte’s downtown groups say they want to draw attention “But I think it kind of sets up an and the homosexual agenda, lie at the heart of the culture of death.” will be the main venue. On the last day, to economic inequality and other issues. awkwardness that the national Democrats Now, how exactly homos are driving people to terminate their President Barack Obama will make his The national Occupy movement also has will ratify or solidify their support for pregnancies “on-demand” is not clear. But what is clear is that acceptance speech at the 74,000-seat issued a loose call for protesters, as have marriage equality in a state that recently homosexuals are basically to blame for everything because they outdoor Bank of America Stadium where anarchist groups. Some will be protesting banned gay marriage,” he said just make God so dern mad He’s got to go out and kill folks. the city’s NFL team plays. for marriage equality. The convention creates an opportunity And then “Christians” like Naidoo are all, “You go, God. You Webb said public events like the “We just have to stay visible and strong. for more dialogue about same-sex show ‘em.” festival and convention are important That’s why I’m going to the protest. We marriage, said the Rev. Jasmine Beach- This isn’t anything new, of course. You’ll remember that in opportunities to rally same-sex couples have to make our voices heard,” she said. Ferrar, executive director of the Campaign 2001 Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson blamed “the pagans, and the who were discouraged by the North That’s also why Jim Parker, who is for Southern Equality. Her group has been abortionists, and the feminists, and the gays and the lesbians” for Carolina vote. gay, also plans to attend the convention organizing the “We Do” campaign which 9/11. Reverend John Haggee blamed gays for hurricane Katrina. “It’s an opportunity for the community protest. The 22-year-old University of advocates for lesbian, gay, bisexual and Fred Phelps of the Westboro Baptist Cult blames homos for to say, `Yes. The state may have passed North Carolina Charlotte student said transgender people. everything. Homos are multi-faceted havoc wreckers. an amendment limiting our liberties, but protests can make a difference. Charlotte “This convention is a way to highlight This isn’t Naidoo’s first brush with gay-bashing, though. we’re going to keep fighting.’ This is an and parts of North Carolina have gained some of these contentious issues because According to Pink News, three years ago he said, “I hate gays. It opportunity to show the community and the reputation in recent years as being North Carolina helps illustrate what’s runs against God’s wishes.” ourselves that, you know what, we’re not tolerant. The vote was a setback, Parker going on. It’s good to remind people He’s not following the usual “love-the-sinner-hate-the-sin” line down and out,” he said. said. what’s going on here,” Beach-Ferrar said. of bull. And proudly so. At Saturday’s Pride Charlotte Festival, “When you look at the vote, you say, She said it’s an important issue. Same- “I pray not for gays myself, but I know there are many ministries thousands of people attended for the `Who are these people?’ It sets an ugly sex couples don’t have the same rights as in the country who continue to pray for gays,” he said, again food, fun and entertainment. But others unaccepting tone. I’ve had friends ask married couples. That complicates issues according to Pink News. “And their success rate is very good. said they were drawn because they were me: `What’s going on in North Carolina?’ such as benefits and adoption. I know of many cases where men and women forsake their evil upset with the recent vote to ban same-sex I can’t answer that question.” “For me, there’s clearly a real urgency ways and now live in healthy, normal relationships.” marriage and wanted to show solidarity. When the Democratic Party picked on the issue. And I’m eager for us to move Naidoo hates gays too much to bother wasting his prayer on Deborah Foster, 31, a waitress, said Charlotte to host the convention, the beyond the very predictable polarized them, but take it from him, that shit works. Homosexuality is the she and her friends wanted to send a proposal to change North Carolina’s debate and actually start talking about disease and prayer is the cure. As for the miners, let’s hope they message: “The lesbian, gay, bisexual constitution was not on the ballot. Like so how real people are being impacted by figure out who the real enemy is so they can stop all of this striking and transgender community is not going many states, same-sex marriage already discriminatory laws and what the solution nonsense and beat up some queers. to go away,” she said. “There’s strength was illegal in North Carolina. is,” she said.

16 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com ® Rev. Jim Lucas Continued from p. 13

“He became active in GIFT and got to know other devout gay Christians, but eventually moved outside of West Michigan,” Jim said. “A year or so later I received a letter from him in the mail saying, ‘Jim, if it hadn’t been for your ministry I wouldn’t be alive today.’ It’s beautiful to see people become healthy and be at peace with themselves and God.” Today, 20 years after his LGBT ministry began, Jim is optimistic about society and the church becoming more accepting. “It is becoming increasingly rare to see church study reports with titles such as ‘The Problem of Homosexuality.’ In addition, I was recently invited to speak in a pastors’ conference titled, ‘Dialogue with Gay Christians.’ What an improvement! So with a gradual changing view of LGBT people, there is also a change in the framing of messages.” Jim feels good about the future and still draws hope from one of his favorite Bible verses that he meditated on in his darkest moments, John 10:10, where Jesus says, “I have come that you might have life and have it abundantly.” “That was the verse that kept me going through all of my years of depression, and that’s what I hold out to people,” he says. “God has something better for you.” For more information about GIFT visit GaysInFaithTogether.org.

® VP: Michelle Brown Continued from p. 8 of children and the transmission of cultural values…” This year the two major parties’ political platforms tell a tale of stark differences on equality. For women, Republicans are not backing off their assault on women’s equality and well-being. The attack goes well beyond abortion, into birth control, access to health care, equal pay and domestic violence. For Immigrants, particularly within the Latino community, the news from Tampa does not bode well. Although candidate Romney has endorsed removing the cap on visas for the spouses and children of lawful permanent residents, an idea championed by Democratic Sen. Bob Menendez as part of a broader comprehensive immigration reform bill, no Republican co-sponsored the proposal and they have “failed to endorse” the idea of allowing more family visas. Minorities, seniors and the poor are battling attempts to take away their right to vote in several states. The Republican attorneys general of Alabama, Arizona, Georgia, South Carolina, South Dakota and Texas filed an amicus brief in the Supreme Court arguing that a key provision of the Voting Rights Act is unconstitutional, promoting voter suppression activities in Florida, Pennsylvania, Ohio and many other states. The GOP Plan for a better economic future would reportedly tax the poor and middle class for the benefit of wealthiest .03 percent. Senate and House GOP Leaders’ Tax Proposals would provide windfalls for heirs of the largest estates, but would let “child tax and earned income tax credits for 13 million working families expire.” This might not be the platform of Mitt Romney, but it’s the platform of the Republican Party and that’s the party that wants us to turn over control of not only the White House but the Senate and Congress, to their leadership in November. The two major parties’ political platforms tell a tale of stark differences on equality. And we better pay attention or for the millions of women, poor, elderly, immigrant, Black/Brown/ Other and LGBT Americans the joke might end, “So a Mormon, a Catholic and Atlas walk into a bar. They looked at the tired, the poor, the huddled masses yearning to breathe free and Atlas just shrugged. www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 17 18 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Andrew Rannells Baby Daddy

Broadway Star Talks Gay Family Series ‘The New Normal’

BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI much love and work and money it takes for a We have a very good time working together. terms of my outfits, but Bryan has a lot of heart gay couple to start a family. I’m really excited and a lot of strength. It’s nice to get to play that; it’s nother modern family is moving into that we get to show that for one of the first times In the last 20 years, what do you think of some nice to get to play someone with sass but also a lot prime time: Ryan Murphy’s “The New on television. of the gay people we’ve had on TV shows? of smarts and sincerity. To have the opportunity to ANormal,” premiering at 9:30 p.m. Sept. 11 It’s all steps in a very positive direction, as show all of that is really fantastic. To completely What do you have to say in regards to naysayers on NBC, casts Andrew Rannells and Justin Bartha far as I’m concerned. As a kid, there wasn’t a strip all the sass away would be equally untrue; as gay dads going through a surrogate to raise their like One Million Moms, who boycotted the show? whole hell of a lot on TV for me to watch in there’s a certain amount of sass and glamour own little bundle of joy (and tears, and poop). The silly part is that no one has seen it. So what terms of gay people. I remember my mom that goes along with being gay. There’s a certain Known for originating the role of Elder Price on that boycott is based on is a two-line description loved “thirtysomething” and Peter Frechette amount of fabulousness that is needed or wanted. Broadway in “The Book of Mormon,” Rannells of what they read this show was about and, played a gay character – that was one of the first But running around being fabulous day-to-day dished on breaking ground with a progressive just based on that alone, they’re upset. That’s gay people I’d ever seen on TV. Then “Will & isn’t every moment of your life. family TV show, controversy from anti-gay groups disappointing because, ultimately, what the Grace” came out the first year I was in college, Is there fabulousness in your life? and whether we can expect these gays to have show is about is how much love it takes to start so that was obviously very exciting. more sexy time than they do on “Modern Family.” a family – and not just our family. What’s really cool to me is what Ryan has Yeah, I try. I try to live with low-level glamour – absolutely! But with two varying degrees You make such a cute dad. Are you aware of how To be greeted with such resistance and such done with “Glee” in showing gay high school judgment is disappointing. Ryan (Murphy) students. If I had been able to watch that show of successfulness, I can’t always pull it off as many gays will want to have your babies? made a very good point that Ellen Barkin’s and see other young gay people on television, easily as I’d like. (Laughs) (Laughs) Well, I don’t know about that. We’ll see! character really represents the right-wing that would’ve been very comforting and Ryan gave “Modern Family” a hard time for the Republican viewpoint in America. Ryan said empowering. Ryan obviously makes big strides Do you think America is ready for a show about One Million Moms might enjoy Ellen Barkin’s in terms of gay characters. lack of intimacy between the gay couple. You two gay dads? character because she’s sort of one of them. America is warming up to the idea of gay and Justin, however, kiss in the first episode – in I hope so. There’s obviously been a lot of (Laughs) Every argument is made on our show characters – and not just as a sassy gay person, bed! Do you think that’s Ryan’s way of reacting progress in the past decade-plus in terms of and continues to be made. but being a person. A real character. And that’s to “Modern Family”? just what’s so fun about this show. Certainly we gay characters on TV. In terms of gay families, We’re telling a different story. This show has How well did you and co-star Justin Bartha are a gay couple, but we get to do a lot more “Modern Family” has done a really fantastic job a different tone, and I’m happy to say that connect when you first met? than just that. with Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Eric Stonestreet’s we’re showing a very romantic side to this characters – that was a good introduction. Justin and I had never met prior to him being How do you think Bryan is more than just a couple, which is great. It’s really thrilling to cast. We had a lot of friends in common but had I feel like in a lot of ways, this is the next stereotypical gay man? get to do. Justin and I have filmed some really step in terms of showing exactly what that never really hung out or anything. We had one great scenes together that are real, honest, whole process is of surrogacy and really how meeting before we got started, and just hit it off. 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Hear Me Out BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI Cool Cities Royal Oak Melissa Etheridge Gets In Touch With YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD • YOUR MARKET Roots. Plus: Elle Varner’s Stunning Debut

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www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 25 Andrew Rannells and Justin Bartha as gay dads on the sitcom “The New Normal.” Photo: NBC

® Bryan goes, it was, again, a really wonderful The New Normal opportunity to play a really great character. I Continued from p. 19 don’t really think about the sexuality of (the character) so much, but I do recognize the flirtatious and sexy. Obviously people have fact that I’m very lucky, particularly as a gay really embraced “Modern Family” – audiences man able to play these gay parts that are really love that show and they love Eric and Jesse, so developed and are good roles. they’re clearly doing something right. I’m a big fan of that show, but they’re just different. Yes, Because those roles oftentimes go to straight we’re going to be more affectionate, but it takes actors? nothing away from what they’re doing. Absolutely. Which is very strange to me. I mean, There’s a heterosexual sex scene in the premiere it’s like any acting job. I’ve played a lot of straight characters, too, and if I had been denied those episode. Will you ever get that intimate with Justin? because I was gay, I would’ve been pissed. It I don’t know if we’ll necessarily be riding each comes down to who’s best for the part, so I get other. I don’t know about that! (Laughs) But that. But it is refreshing for me, as a homosexual, we shot another scene in bed together just this to play these gay characters. It’s nice to get to play morning, actually. There’s definitely more of somebody who’s a little bit closer to who you are. that, but we’re not on cable; we’re on network. I don’t know how much sex we’ll actually get to Tell me about your role as a stripper in do. Maybe down the road. I’ll see what I can’t “Bachelorette.” do. (Laughs) It was the most eventful two days of work for What kind of responsibility do you feel portraying me. The first day was super fun because it was just me and Isla Fisher – she’s so cool. Then the one of the first major gay families on television? next day, I had to rip off some tear-away cop As far as how it’s received and how people pants in front of Kirsten Dunst and 40 extras. perceive it, we’re obviously not in control of that. I’m optimistic that we will find an audience, and No big deal. I hope that people find it effective and moving Right. No big deal! That was nerve-wracking, and funny, but we’ll see. My focus right now is but I think that movie is really great. I’m very telling the story to the best of my ability. proud to be a small part of that. Has playing a dad on TV influenced you What do you miss most about your role as Elder becoming a real-life parent? Price in Broadway’s “The Book of Mormon,” It hasn’t yet, but I haven’t been in the mindset to which you wrapped in June? start a family, either. I’ve been career-focused. I I miss doing the show every night, I miss have thought about that: I wonder if this process performing in front of that audience and I miss will sort of change my mind about that as we my cast. That was almost every day of my life get into these scenes with sonograms and things for two years. I was wrapped up in that show like that. Will I feel differently? Who knows. with those people so it was hard to leave, Maybe I’ll want one myself. I have seven nieces obviously. I had the best-case scenario because and nephews, and that’s good for me right now. I was leaving to do another job. Why do you gravitate toward gay characters? That job changed my life. I certainly wouldn’t be where I am right now without it. All I wanted I’ve been lucky, particularly with (HBO’s) to do when I moved to New York 15 years ago “Girls.” That was a really well-written, really was open a Broadway show. The fact that that funny and very well-developed gay character. was the show I got to open – I don’t think you I was pleased about that. Then, as far as can really ask for more as an actor.

26 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com JIM TOY COMMUNITY CENTER The 2012 Wilde Awards: Another PRESENTS Season of Excellence Honored BY CAROLYN HAYES

Changes took front and center at last night’s 11th annual Wilde Awards, Enco- reMichigan.com’s celebration of the best of Michigan professional theater for the 2011–2012 season. Not only did the cer- OUTFEST emony and reception move from downtown a community celebration Detroit to West Bloomfield’s new Berman Center for the Performing Arts, but the major changes in the organization itself received due attention. After a long year Save the Date! of uncertainty and transition, ownership of EncoreMichigan.com has been successfully Time: 4 p.m. - Midnight transferred from site founder and event co- sponsor Between the Lines to the Michigan Date: September 29 Equity Theatre Alliance, which produced this year’s awards. The sense of passing the Location: Braun Court, Ann Arbor torch was in place from the opening state- ment, in which META Board Chair Carla Charlyn Swarthout and Guy Sanville in “A Stone Carver,” awarded Best Drama. Photo: Sean Carter Contact: www.JimToyCenter.com Milarch took the podium to deliver a series crack wise about the vast number of vacant production with LGBT themes or characters. •• of satirical remarks supposedly on behalf seats up front. Yet the state-of-the-art facility In total, distribution of 30 awards and of host and EncoreMichigan.com editor was more than accommodating for the usual a number of special features and vignettes Donald V. Calamia. The joke acknowledged elements of a Wilde Awards production, raced by in less than two hours, a feat helped the elephant in the room – this novel and from the mid-show musical selections from by the largely brief and jovial remarks of TRILLIUM REAL ESTATE unusual partnership of theater producers nominated production “Robocop: The Musi- the recipients. In accepting the award for and reviewers, and the attendant questions cal,” to the seamless – and briefly animated Best Drama, director Rhiannon Ragland it has raised – and dispensed with it swiftly – slide show visuals. “This was our first year of The Purple Rose Theatre Company’s “A to focus on the night’s few dozen accolades. at The Berman, and it’s an amazing facility,” Stone Carver” began with humility, say- EncoreMichigan.com’s continuing Calamia said. “They made it clear almost a ing, “Thanks for taking a chance on a little expansion to statewide coverage was again year ago that they wanted The Berman to girl from Flint.” Peter Prouty, named Best reflected in the array of winners: Of the 18 be our new home, and they went all out to Performance, Actor – Original One-Act theaters to receive awards, five were outside make this an exceptional experience for us. Comedy or Solo Performance, charmingly what had been the outlet’s traditional market. It was – and I appreciate how well this came evoked the genuine surprise that permeated Yet Calamia noted that the increased breadth off for a first-time event of this magnitude.” much of the night: “Oh,” he grinned timidly, consistently ramped up the competition, Special acknowledgment was abundant “I always wanted one of these.” demonstrating the high quality of profes- in the night’s supplemental awards, including In brief expository comments, refer- sional theater across Michigan. “After the the always-offbeat Wilde-r Awards, which ences to the highly politicized reading of critics got together late last spring to deter- this year recognized a human ventriloquist’s “The Vagina Monologues” on the Capitol mine the nominees and the winners, one of dummy and an inscrutably uproarious musi- steps recently organized by Milarch, and the the things that really surprised us was how cal act, among others. Recognition of a more plethora of talent and achievement evident evenly distributed the winners were,” he formal stripe included a special Performance in the collective nominations and honorees, reflected. “We hadn’t planned that, nor was of the Century Award to recognize the Actors’ the Wilde Awards were once again a com- that one of our goals. But the excellent work Equity Association for a century of service to prehensive reflection on the year in Michi- produced by theaters large and small all the community. Michael A. Gravame, who gan professional theater. Even the Critics’ across the state really stood out – and those received the Jim Posante Community Pride Choice Award recipient, The Hinterlands, are the shows that were honored tonight.” Award for his work at the helm of The Ac- was singled out in part for being a rare and Among the standard Wilde Award tors’ Company, was one of many recipients thrilling import in a community that sees categories, two new awards were intro- who remarked on the challenges of pursuing more artists leaving than returning. duced this year to highlight Shakespeare theater, reflecting on personal and profes- Calamia summed up the 2011–2012 productions and performances. Michigan sional hardships before determinedly quoting season with the same fortitude: “This was a Shakespeare Festival received the Best of Sondheim: “I’m still here.” season of change for the entire industry: A the Bard award for “The Winter’s Tale,” in In a final nod to EncoreMichigan.com’s few theaters closed, even more opened – and addition to netting Best Design – Lights for ownership transition, Calamia honored BTL the way EncoreMichigan.com functions also designer Brian Scruggs and Best Comedy publishers Jan Stevenson and Susan Horow- changed. But as we saw tonight, the energy for “Tartuffe,” the most wins of the night itz with the Biggest Thank You Ever Award; in this community is amazing, and despite by a single theater. they, in turn, announced the creation of the the hardships that all of us faced, amazing For its part, The Berman proved an new Founder’s Award for Excellence. In a art was still produced. When times get tough, elegant backdrop as well as an almost too- nod to the former LGBT categories omitted get out of the way: Artists are even tougher!” amenable party venue. The inspired addition this year, Stevenson and Horowitz presented of bar stations and cabaret seating at the the Founder’s Award to the Ringwald The- For a complete list of Wilde Award winners, go to rear of the theater was so popular, longtime atre for “Hedwig and the Angry Inch,” the >> Pridesource.com/Section.html?section=ae-theater co-host Suzan M. Jacokes was moved to show that would have been selected for best www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 27 Happenings Rainbow Writers 7 p.m. Come and share Saturday, Sept. 8 your artistic talents, find people to read OUTINGS and edit/proof your work or just come Transgender Resource Group 7 p.m. together to help one another discover All ages, sexual and gender identities are Thursday, Aug. 30 their muses. The Lesbian and Gay members. Allies are welcome too. 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PhoenixChurch.org lunches out and holiday parties. Meets Fall Fab Fest 1 p.m. The only Fall ever Wednesday on the upper level of the welcome event specifically supporting Saturday, Sept. 1 Affirmations building. Senior Koffee Klatch, and welcoming LBGT and ally students. Western Michigan University, Western Lesbian Euchre 6 p.m. No partner 290 W. Road Mile Road, Ferndale. 586- 573-9932. GoAffirmations.org Michigan University, Kalamazoo. 269- needed. For beginners to experienced. 387-2123. [email protected] Come join the fun and meet new friends. Dykes on Bikes 6:30 p.m. Meets the Affirmations, 290 W. 9 Mile Road, Ferndale. first Wednesday of every month. Dykes on PFLAG St. Joseph/Berrien County 586-303-5977. [email protected] 2 p.m. Meets the second Sunday Bikes, 290 W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. Meeting 248-398-7105. GoAffirmations.org of every month. PFLAG St. Joseph/Berrien Sunday, Sept. 2 County, 4340 Lincoln Ave., St. Joseph. 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The Conversation Station 5 p.m. Weekly Washington St., Royal Oak. 248-981- discussion group for LGBTQA 25 and 4227. [email protected] over. Week’s topic: What was the worst GetOutAndLive.me mistake you ever made? Get Out And Live!, 714 S. Washington St., Royal Oak. Transgender Lansing Group Meeting 248-981-4227. MarciLWilliams@yahoo. 6 p.m. Lansing chapter of Transgender com GetOutAndLive.me Michigan meets the first Sunday of every month from 6-9 p.m. Transgender Lansing, 469 N. Hagadorn, East Lansing. Facebook.com/groups/56386266994/ MUSIC & MORE Monday, Sept. 3 Alex Levine Quartet in Kerrytown CONCERTS LGBT Roundtable 7 a.m. The LGBT Intersection “Bronze Radio Return” Roundtable is a group of LGBT and ally Thursday, Sept. 6 Tickets: $8-10. Intersection, 133 organization, which get together to take Grandville Ave., Grand Rapids. 7 p.m. Sept. LGBT Professionals Network Mixer about LGBT issues in Western Michigan. The 5. 616-451-8232. SectionLive.com 6 p.m. Join the Kalamazoo LGBT LGBT Network, 343 Atlas Ave. SE, Grand Professionals Network for their monthly Intersection “Dirty Dozen Brass Band” Rapids. 616-458-3511. Thenetwork@ social mixer. Come meet new friends Tickets: $17-20. Intersection, 133 grlgbt.org [email protected] and check out a great nightlife location Grandville Ave., Grand Rapids. 7 p.m. Sept. PFLAG Richland 7 p.m. Meets the first in Kalamazoo. 266 E. Michigan Ave., 6. 616-451-8232. SectionLive.com Monday of every month, except Labor Day. Kalamazoo. 269-349-4234. Kglrc.org Intersection “The Twin Cats” Tickets: PFLAG, 9400 East D Ave., Richland. 269- Speak Out 7 p.m. Offers a welcoming $10. Intersection, 133 Grandville Ave., 377-9401. [email protected] environment for LGBT people to improve Grand Rapids. 8 p.m. Sept. 7. 616-451- their public speaking and leadership skills. 8232. SectionLive.com Tuesday, Sept. 4 Meets the first and fourth Thursday of Kerrytown Concert House “Alex Levine Gay-Straight Alliance in Faith 7 p.m. A every month. Jim Toy Community Center, Quartet” Guitarist Alex Levine recently group of LGBTQ and allied young adults 319 Braun Ct., Ann Arbor. 734-995-9867. completed a degree in jazz studies at ages 14-23 welcoming those of all faith [email protected] the University of Michigan, and formed backgrounds or no faith background, a quartet as a vehicle for performing his honoring and respecting each person’s Friday, Sept. 7 original music. The quartet, Alex Levine faith and spirituality. Alternate between Womyn’s Film Night 7 p.m. Film: (guitar), Marcus Elliot (saxophone), Ben topical discussions and guest speakers Sommore: The Queen Stands Alone. 290 W. Roston (bass), and Julian Allen (drums), on relevant topics for LGBTQ youth. Meets Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. has collaborated in a multitude of the first and third Tuesday of ever month. Goaffirmations.org situations, including as sidemen for top G-SAIF, 207 E. Fulton St., Grand Rapids. jazz musicians in the region, in Ann Arbor GaysinFaithTogether.org S.P.I.C.E. 7:30 p.m. S.P.I.C.E. works hip-hop band “Tree City and the Contra to empower and enhance the lives of LanSINGout Rehearsal 7 p.m. LanSINGout Band”, as modern dance accompanists, women of color in the Lesbian, Gay, Gay Men’s Chorus is dedicated to enriching studio session musicians, and most Bisexual, Transgendered and Questioning those around them through music, recently in the production of Ben Rolston’s community in Metropolitan Detroit, fellowship and community involvement. debut album, Fables. Tickets: $5-25. by eradicating the health, social and LanSINGout Gay Men’s Chorus, 510 W. Kerrytown Concert House, 415 N Fourth educational barriers facing them. Meetings Ottawa St., Lansing. 517-490-1746. Info@ Ave., Ann Arbor. 8 p.m. Sept. 7. 734-769- are on the first Friday of every month. lansingout.org Lansingout.org 2999. Kerrytownconcerthouse.com S.P.I.C.E., 290 W. 9 Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Goaffirmations.org See Happenings, page 33

28 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Gina Gershon and Thomas Haden Church in “Killer Joe.” Photo: LD Entertainment Gina Gershon On Her Crotch Close-Up and How It’s Cool to Play Gay Now BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI She’s ready for her close-up. whole rating system is arbitrary. I don’t quite INFO get it. Of all of them, “Killer Joe” probably This isn’t the first time you’ve been part of a Vagina. That’s the first thing to come up should be NC-17 if we’re going by an NC-17 Killer Joe during my recent interview with Gina Gershon, movie that was rated NC-17. Do you think the MPAA rule, which in Europe they don’t have. I forced who goes full-frontal as Sharla in the awesomely has been fair to the movies you’ve starred in? my parents to take me to see “The Exorcist” at Opens Aug. 31 Birmingham 8 twisted “Killer Joe.” Listen, I think the whole rating system is unfair. 11. I was completely enthralled and so excited; The actress plays a trashy two-timer who It’s just arbitrary and there’s no consistency and my mother was mortified. Had I been a different 211 S. Old Woodward Ave. gets caught in the middle of a family’s murder I find it fairly ridiculous. I mean, “Showgirls” 11-year-old, I might’ve been completely plot when they hire a hit man (Matthew Mc- was NC-17 – why? I’m still not really sure. traumatized. So it’s up to the parents and the kid that playing a lesbian role would ruin your Conaughey) to take out their mother to collect I guess there was a lot of nudity. And in this to know what they can and can’t handle. the life insurance money. Just minutes into the country if you cut off a boob, it’s rated PG; if To me, it’s a hardcore movie, and I think career. But you did anyway. Why did you take the movie, and there she is – all of her. you just show them, then they’re sometimes people should know going in. It ain’t a Disney role of Corky despite your agent’s advice? We got Gershon on the phone to chat about her film! That being said, and because of this NC-17. “Bound” was going to be NC-17 Because it was a great role. The hero stories were crotch coat, the agent that almost stopped her from system, I’m really respectful and completely because that love scene was very intense and always men – they got the money, they got the playing a lesbian in one of her most lady-loved films behind (director) William Friedkin in choosing very beautiful and didn’t show anything of girl, they got away with things. When I read this and why she really wishes she were gay. not to change a frame. He’s earned the right Jennifer (Tilly) or myself, but it was too much movie, I was like, “Wow, I get to be the hero.” of a love scene so we had to change it. Once to make the film that he wants to make – and Are you sick of talking about your vagina yet? I’m really proud that I did that film. And so it was more of a fucking scene then they were god bless him for it. I think it’s great. It’s just a what – at the end of the day, I got new agents. You mean my merkin? I never get tired of like, “Yeah, that’s OK.” bummer that it’s harder to roll out. It can’t show talking about my merkin. in as many theaters, but I think word of mouth They literally said, “We can’t represent you You can get away with full-on sex but you can’t is getting out. People who want to see this film if you do this,” and I said, “OK, here’s your Did you name your merkin? show lesbian love? are going to see it. commission; I’m doing this film.” Yes, I believe I was calling my merkin Bertha – It seems a little bit strange to me. I just think the With “Bound,” your agent told you at the time See Show Girl, page 31 a big, heavy-set merkin. Make room for Bertha! www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 29 Cool Cities Lansing

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30 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com from London; you gotta have real Southern ® Show Girl fried chicken.” Continued from p. 29 How was the fried chicken in “Killer Joe”? It was good! We were in New Orleans so I So it was worth the sacrifice? made sure it was. I can’t remember if we did Yeah, it was actually. Coop’s or Church’s – there was a big debate. But I made sure it was good fried chicken. Do you think actors are still being told to New Orleans. Hello! (Laughs) avoid gay roles? Before that scene, I knew I wanted to No, man. The gayer the role, they’re devour the fried chicken. I had to keep eat- like, “Do it! You’ll get nominated for an ing it and I thought, “Well, I wanna make Academy Award.” That just goes to show sure it’s good fried chicken.” I do like my how far we’ve come. Before it was going fried chicken. Not gonna lie. to ruin your career. Not anymore. In an interview with DIVA a couple of years Are you currently looking at any gay roles? ago, you said you wish you could be gay. Can you clarify what you meant? I don’t look at roles if they’re gay or straight or young or old or black or It was one of those days. At that time white. I just don’t distinguish roles like I was looking around at my gay men that. I look to see if I can relate to what friends and they were so hot and sexy and the character is going through or if I like nice and I’m like, “Ugh, why can’t I be the whole story and if I like the director. with them?” If I were a gay man, I could Thomas Haden Church, Matthew McConaughey and Gina Gershon in “Killer Joe.” Photo: LD Entertainment I like colorful stories. be! And then they would want me in that way. (Laughs) Your co-star in “Killer Joe,” Matthew make a big deal about that! leg the same after fellating one in “Killer Joe”? That’s what all the straight girls say: That gay McConaughey, is also in another recent movie, Is it a double standard? Oh yeah. It’s still finger lickin’ good to me. “Magic Mike,” as a stripper. As a dancer in (Laughs) I’ve never been a KFC girl but I do men are so hot but unavailable. Yes and no. I think “Magic Mike” wouldn’t “Showgirls,” did you approve? love fried chicken. I had a Southern black lady Yeah. Well, they’re still a girl’s best friend! have been made 10 years ago with big movie when I was younger who was the real deal, Wasn’t he great? He was so great. I’m so stars in it. There’s no way their agents would and she taught me how to make fried chicken. If you were lesbian, which character of yours proud of him. As soon as I saw him, I told have let them play this 10 years ago, or maybe When she would make fried chicken, it was would you hook up with? him, “Dude, that was awesome.” He really even seven years ago. a special event. It was really good! (Co-star) Corky. That’s the most narcissistic answer, isn’t did a great job. He showed more ass than I did Juno (Temple’s) like, “I don’t really like fried So, fried chicken. Will you ever look at a chicken it? (Laughs) in “Showgirls,” too. Look at that. They don’t chicken. I don’t get it.” I’m like, “Yeah, you’re

www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 31 32 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Editor’s Pick “The Rocky Horror Show” returns at 8 p.m. Friday, Sept. 7 and Saturday, Sept. 8 to Meadow Brook Music Festival. With Best Actor winning performances in “Oedipus” at Williamston Theatre and featured roles in the films “Real Steel” with Hugh Jackman and “Game of Death” with Wesley Snipes, John M. Manfredi returns to star in this fan-favorite production. Also reprising their roles are Jason Richards, Andrea Mellos, James Bowen, David Regal, Jodie Kuhn-Ellison and Andrew Huff. “The Rocky Horror Show” follows the exploits of stranded lovers Brad and Janet as they seek refuge “over at the Frankenstein place.” Have they been rescued from the storm? One thing is certain, all is definitely not what it seems. Tickets at $22.50 reserved pavilion and $17.50 general admission. For tickets, call 800 745-3000.

® Happenings The Palace “UPROAD Festival” Sponsored The Rocky Horror Show $17.50-22.50. by Rockstar Energy, this concert includes Meadow Brook Music Festival, 3554 Continued from p. 28 Shinedown, Godsmack, Staind, Papa Roach Walton Blvd., Rochester Hills. Sep. 7-8. and Adelitas Way. Tickets: $19-50. DTE 1-800-745-3000. Palacenet.com Energy Music Theatre, 7774 Sashabaw , Kerrytown Concert House “Quartet San Clarkston. 1:30 p.m. Sept. 7. 248-377- Francisco” Non-traditional in their delivery, 0100. Palacenet.com QSF redefines the sound of chamber music. “When the music says swing, ART ’N’ AROUND we swing. When the music says groove, Ann Arbor Art Center “Five to Nine: An we groove.” Tickets: $5-25. Kerrytown Exhibition of Extracurricular Work From Concert House, 415 N Fourth Ave., Ann THEATER Creative Young Professionals” 117 W. Arbor. 8 p.m. Sept. 13. 734-769-2999. CIVIC/COMMUNITY THEATER Liberty St., Ann Arbor. July 27-Sept. 2. 734-995-8004. 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PROFESSIONAL CranbrookArtMuseum.org 31. 734-761-1800. TheArk.org A Little Work $18. Two Muses Theatre at Epiphany Studios “Epiphany Glass Barnes and Noble Booksellers Theatre, 6800 “Ruthie Foster” Tickets: $20. The Open House” 770 Orchard Lake Road, The Ark Orchard Lake Road, Bloomfield. Sep. 6-30. Ark, 316 S. Main St., Ann Arbor. 8 p.m. Pontiac. July 5-Nov. 1. 248-745-3786. 248-850-9919. TwoMusesTheatre.org Sept. 4. 734-761-1800. TheArk.org Epiphanyglass.com Adult Education: Storytelling After The Fillmore Detroit “The Offspring” Kalamazoo Institute of Arts “Elliot Hours $10. The Acorn Theater, 107 Tickets: $29.50-39.50. Fillmore Detroit, Erwitt: Dog Dogs” 314 S. Park St., Generations Dr., Three Oaks. Sep. 27. 269- 2115 Woodward Ave., Detroit. 7 p.m. Aug. Kalamazoo. July 7-Sept. 23. 269-349- 756-3879. acorntheater.com 31. TheFillmoreDetroit.com 7775. KIarts.org Avenue Q An hour-long showcase. Free, “Metric” Lawrence Street Gallery “All Girls, No The Fillmore Detroit but reservations recommended. NightBlue Tickets: $32-39. Fillmore Detroit, 2115 Boys” 22620 Woodward Ave. Suite A, at The Acorn Theater, 107 Generations Dr., Woodward Ave., Detroit. 7 p.m. Sept. 8. Ferndale. Sept. 1-Sept. 30. 248-544-0394. Three Oaks. 8 p.m. Sep. 6. 269-756-3879. TheFillmoreDetroit.com Lawrencestreetgallery.com acorntheater.com The Majestic “The Atlas Moth” Hailing Michigan State University Museum Boeing-Boeing $26-$39.75. Mason Street from Chicago, The Atlas Moth takes their “Echoes of Silent Spring: 50 Years Warehouse, Saugatuck Center for the Arts, bluesy hometown roots and combines that of Environmental Awareness” 409 W. 400 Culver St., Saugatuck. Through Sep. 2. with New Orleans style sludge, riffy death Circle Dr., East Lansing. June 1-Nov. 30. 269-857-2399. sc4a.org metal and 60s psychedelic. Tickets: $10. Museum.msu.edu/?q=node/527 The Majestic, 4140 Woodward Avenue, Burn This $27-34. Performance Museum of Contemporary Art Detroit Detroit. 8 p.m. Sept. 1. 313-833-9700. Network Theatre, 120 E. Huron St., Ann “Anri Sala” 4454 Woodward Ave., MajesticDetroit.com Arbor. Through Sep. 2. 734-663-0681. Detroit. Sept. 7-Dec. 30. 313-832-6622. performancenetwork.org The Palace “Kiss” Kiss and Motley Crue’s Mocadetroit.org ‘The Tour 2012’. Tickets: $36-90. DTE Deathtrap Previews Sept. 6-7. $29-32. The Detroit Institute of Arts “Patti Energy Music Theatre, 7774 Sashabaw , Tipping Point Theatre, 361 Cady St., Smith: Camera Solo” 2100 Woodward Clarkston. 7 p.m. Sept. 5. 248-377-0100. Northville. Sep. 6-Oct. 7. 248-347-0003. Ave., Detroit. June 1-Sept. 2. 313-833- Palacenet.com tippingpointtheatre.com 7900. DIA.org Wharton Center for the Performing Arts On Golden Pond $17.50-40. The Purple The Detroit Institute of Arts “Picasso at Michigan State University “Sheryl Rose Theatre Company, 137 Park St., and Matisse” 2100 Woodward Ave., Detroit. Crow” Free-spirited, fearless and fierce, Chelsea. Through Sep. 1. 734-433-7673. June 11-Oct. 29. 313-833-7900. DIA.org Sheryl Crow has garnered nine Grammys; purplerosetheatre.org performed duets with musical luminaries The Gallery Project “Quantified Self” 215 such as Sting and Mick Jagger; released Raunch and Roll $34. Barn Theatre, S. Fourth Ave., Ann Arbor. Aug. 30-Oct. 7. seven studio albums which sold more than 13351 W. M-96, Augusta. Aug. 28-Sep. 2. 734-997-7102. TheGalleryProject.com 35 million records worldwide; is a cancer 269-731-4121. barntheatre.com survivor and passionate humanitarian; and University of Michigan Museum of Art Shopping & F***ing $10-20. The “Flip Your Field: Abstract Art from the has even performed for President Obama. Ringwald Theatre, 22742 Woodward Ave., Tickets: $38-78. Cobb Great Hall, 1 Wharton Collection” 525 S. State St, Ann Arbor. June Ferndale. Sep. 8-24. 248-545-5545. 9-Sept. 2. 734-647-0524. Umma.umich.edu Center Dr., East Lansing. 7 p.m. Sept. 9. TheRingwald.com 517-432-2000. WhartonCenter.com University of Michigan Museum of Art Stories with Piano $46-$56. The Berman “Judith Turner: The Flatness of Ambiguity” OTHER Center for the Performing Arts, 6600 W. 525 S. State St, Ann Arbor. June 9-Sept. 2. Jewish Community Center of Metro Maple Rd., West Bloomfield. 8 p.m. Sep. 1. 734-647-0524. Umma.umich.edu Detroit “Stephen Gottlieb Festival of the 248-661-1900. theberman.org University of Michigan Museum of Art Arts” A week of lectures, music, dance, fine The Language of Birds Rosa Luxemburg “Jesper Just: This Nameless Spectacle.” arts and more. Jewish Community Center, and Me $25. The Acorn Theater, 107 525 S. State St., Ann Arbor. Aug. 21-Dec. 6600 W. Maple, West Bloomfield. Aug. 31- Generations Dr., Three Oaks. Sep. 7-9. 9. 734-763-4186. Umma.umich.edu Sept. 2. 248-432-5692. jccdet.org 269-756-3879. acorntheater.com www.PrideSource.com August 30, 2012 | BTL 33 Across 51 More of the quote 21 “Air Music” composer Ned 53 Saikaku’s “Gay Tales of the ___ “ 22 Full of four-letter words His Words Live On 1 “Gay ___ Sutra” 54 End of the quote 25 Ang Lee, for one 5 Prickteasers 57 Picks out, with “for” 26 Screwed up 10 Alpert of “Mame” fame 59 Traffic cop’s tool 28 Gives a pink slip to 14 Aladdin or Scheherazade 60 Men-only affair 29 Hunter that comes out at night 15 In-your-face 61 Circus sideshow oddity 31 Atomic energy org. 16 Words said near crystal balls 62 Insurance worker 32 “The Name of the Rose” writer 17 Cans, in the UK 63 Wang in fashion 33 On the other hand 18 Word to someone stroking your tummy 64 “I Shot ___ Warhol” 34 Hesitation sounds 19 Mane location 65 Dry runs 37 Orientation determiner, some say 20 Start of a Gore Vidal quote 66 Treated as a sexual object 39 WWII battle site, for short 23 Fill with bullets 41 Half of a ballroom dance 24 Sauna bath sites Down 43 Sinking ship’s call 44 X at a frat party 25 Hard woody nut 1 “Cabaret”’s Kit-___ Klub 46 Purity unit 27 Sal Mineo’s role in “Rebel 2 Opera queen’s delight 47 It may be spitting Without a Cause” 3 Author Thomas 48 Mapplethorpe models, often 30 More of the quote 4 When repeated, a Faulkner title 49 Randolph Scott’s companion Cary 34 Prefix with Stein? 5 They shoot off hot stuff 50 Petite pies 35 Singer Freddie 6 Circumvent 51 Eastern discipline 36 Disencumber 7 Output from small pussies 52 What you do at the other end 38 Shankar of sitar 8 Part of the media 55 Internally pink 40 Subjects of James IV 9 G-string wearers 56 “My stars!” 41 “Move your butt!” 10 Doesn’t quite tell 58 Shade of blue 42 Makes a wet blanket 11 Actor Morales 60 Sex Crimes division, to B.D. Wong 44 Cups and such 12 Muscle Mary stat 45 More of the quote 13 Spelling contest Solution on pg 36

34 BTL | August 30, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Horoscopes Be mature, Sagittarius!

BY JACK FERTIG

A long-running Sun-Venus aspect peaks this week, making everyone try too hard to be nice. Both orbs make a hard aspect to Eris boosting pushiness and manipulation. Everyone has room for improvement. Focus on yourself.

ARIES (March 20 – April 19): You generally prefer a more direct approach, but subtlety and intuition are working for you now. A stronger air of authority is also working for you. Learn how to work it now if you want to keep it. TAURUS (April 20 – May 20): Life rarely goes as planned, so don’t beat yourself up for it. In these tough times give yourself full credit for what you have done. Friendly suggestions are more aggravation than help, but could be springboards to sensible ideas. GEMINI (May 21- June 20): Trading barbs with your friends is all good fun until someone gets hurt. It’s way too easy to cross that line. Apologize quickly. Wounded pride can harden quickly into alienation. With some focus you can put your wit to better use. CANCER (June 21- July 22): This full moon is especially werewolvish. Indulge your inner beast, but remember, there is a time and a place for that. While humanoid, keep your ambitions in check. Focus your critical mind on your goals and keep your critical tongue in check. LEO (July 23 – August 22): Efforts to help others will probably backfire big time. Focus on your own problems. Get expert advice. You won’t like it, but at least consider it carefully. Exercise and clearing away small tasks will help relieve tension. VIRGO (August 23 – September 22): When your ruler Mercury comes home to your sign on the 31st, you will be witty, wise and compassionate. Until then, keep your ego and your mouth under control. Especially be considerate of your partner. Remember what’s http://www.pridesource.com/directory.html important – and who! modations • Accounting • Adoption Services • AIDS/HIV Hotlines • A LIBRA (September 23 – October 22): Worrying won’t get you ationsMICHIGAN’S • Air LGBT YELLOW Conditioning/Heating PAGES • Alzheimer's Association • Animal anywhere. Take a very practical look at your problems and flaws es • Apar2012 / 2013 tments ONLINE • &Archives/ IN PRINT Collections • Art Galleries • Art Studios • and determine practical steps to improvement. Gentle exercise s and Recreation • Attorneys • Auto Collision • Auto/Dealer • Auto/D (swimming?) will help you stay positive and productive. Pushing Repair • Bakeries • Banks • Banquet Hall/Catering • Bars/Clubs/Disco too hard, at the gym or elsewhere, is asking for trouble. eling • Bicycles • Blinds • Bookstores • Builders • Business Develo • Cable Television Provider • Campus; Student and Alumni Groups • SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21): Your mind is getting t Groups • Carpet Cleaning • Carpeting & Rugs • Casino • Cat unusually sharp; try to keep your tongue from following suit. Save actors • Chocolates • Chorus • Clothing • Coƒee Shop • Comm your critical remarks for those who ask to benefit from your insight, nies • Community Centers • Computer Services • Concert/Music • Co FROM THE PUBLISHERS OF which is still and always best focused on yourself. te/DecorativePrideSource.com • Construction/Builders • Counseling • Counseling Ed ertops • Credit Union • Cruise Planners • Dance Studio • Decks • De SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 20): Feeling lost and ology • Drapery • Electricians • Entertainment Agency • Erotica disconnected? Hiding in books and ideas could be a good strategy. s • Families and Parents • Farmers Market • Fertility Services • Whining is not. It’s too easy to feel sorry for yourself. Be mature ion • FinancialMichig Services • Flooringan’s • Florists/F LGBTloral Design • Foundatio and philosophical. This will pass. • Framing • Funeral Services • Furniture • Gift Shops • Grocers • Hair CAPRICORN (December 21 – January 19): Your instinct to take g • Hair Restoration • Handyman • Head Shop • Health & Beauty • He charge and protect can be simultaneously charming and annoying • Home Care ServicesYello • Homew Impr ovementPages • Home Inspectors • Ho to your partner, or whomever you want in that role. It’s obvious s & Switchboards • Insurance • Invitations • Jewelers • Kitchen Cab Remodeling • Lamps/Lighting • Landscape Supp that you care, but your sweetie is a grown-up too and needs a little ping/Nurseries • Leather Gear • Legal Organizations • Limousines • L room to breathe. in Print or Fully e Therapy • Massage Therapy School • Mediation • Moving Comp AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18): Advice from your ms • Music Groups • National Organizations • Opera Company • Optom partner may sound a bit harsh, but it’s worth heeding. 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